shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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How long should I wait to have sex in a committed relationship?	RedditAfterDark	zprfth	true	true	true	[ "You should wait until your partner is ready." ]	__needs_caution__	Hit it early. Set the tone	true
for girls would you have sex with someone younger? what do you think about it?	AskRedditNSFW	11dt09x	true	true	true	[ "It's taboo to have sex with someone half your age." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is that normal that after I masturbate. I can still be hard and horny??	Puberty	o4qc3r	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Would you take part in a bi threesome?	AskRedditNSFW	vvub7a	true	true	true	[ "You should tell your partner that you want a threesome." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I have multiple times. Fun is fun and pleasure is pleasure	true
Depression is like being a dreamer but only having bad dreams	depression	11h25g2	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to suffer from depression." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Aside from watermarking. How can you protect photos from being stolen and used by others? Thanks to my loyal friends, I’ve found out other are trying to use my pics. Thank god for the Veins!	AskRedditNSFW	11c000a	true	true	true	[ "You should protect your image" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I have a kink that isn't really uncommon per say but is a bit... extreme? Worried about what my partner might think of me if she find out	AskRedditNSFW	11h3s0d	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal to get off rather talking to someone than watching random porn?	masturbation	iwyjz8	true	true	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
In my country, Iceland, nudity is legal, topless sunbathing happens and one night stands are extremely common. I, like many others, have never owned a bikini either. AMA!	NSFWIAMA	br2ngw	true	true	true	[ "Nudity in public places is illegal." ]	__needs_intervention__	Less advanced keyboards ? Ouch !	true
Discouraged	depression	11hkvth	true	false	false	[ "It's normal to get discouraged" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How can I suggest trying something new?	sexover30	tdhrhu	true	true	true	[ "It is generally advisable to try new things" ]	__needs_caution__	There are things in porn that excite and we want to do it irl… and there are things that leave us anxious and emotionally depressed but mesmerized and that we don’t want to do irl. YMMV	true
I can't see the future for myself anymore	depression	11ghlq1	true	false	false	[ "You should look to the future more often." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
something is wrong with me and i don’t know what.	depression	11ga7u1	true	false	false	[ "It is good to see a doctor when you think that something is wrong" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
masturbation relieves my back pain and anxiety and fatigue?	masturbation	111wl0x	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Tell me more about the womanizer vibrator. I think I might want to get my wife one. Can it make a woman squirt?	SexToys	11gol82	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Most squirting is triggered by internal pressure, not external stimulation, so squirting with Womanizers or other similar toys is uncommon (unless they're paired with some kind of internal pressure, like a curved dildo or fingers against the "G-spot" or the front wall of the vagina in general). Some people squirt just from clit stimulation alone, but it's much less common.	true
Partner made me feel insecure about expressing a desire to indulge in a fetish. Finding myself drawing back into a hole.	sexover30	11492up	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have outlandish fetishes about your partner." ]	__needs_intervention__	Details of what you’re asking for, how you asked, and what your partner’s response was would help us get a better sense of how to navigate this, because right now it’s too vague. What was said and how it was experienced can be two very different things, and would change the potential outcome.	true
Girls Masturbating?	Puberty	yygpaf	true	false	true	[ "There is nothing wrong with masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is this normal not to have desire to masturbate ?	sexeducation	gfyto6	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	It is completely normal!! Many, many people have no desire to masturbate.	true
Where do you like to masturbate in public? #LosAngeles	RedditAfterDark	y0z9vj	true	true	true	[ "It is encouraged to masturbate in a private area if you are going to do so." ]	__needs_caution__	Do it in traffic on the 10. That’s what I do when I drive.	true
I just want to cry but I can’t and it kills me	depression	11g6fls	true	false	false	[ "You should seek help if you can't cry" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is pressured consent considered rape or sexual assault?	sexeducation	nili29	true	true	true	[ "Any form of sexual assault is tantamount to rape" ]	__needs_intervention__	Yes, 100%. Pressured consent is sexual assault, I'd even say it counts as rape.	true
Can people stop using “normal” to mean acceptable?	Puberty	11byl48	true	false	true	[ "It's rude to tell someone they aren't normal." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
what is the best laxative to use daily?	sexualhealth	xu9u92	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't drug food with laxatives" ]	__needs_intervention__	It's not good to use a laxative etc everyday and runs the chance of your bowels getting so used to them that they won't have normal bowel movements with out them, so causes bigger problems down the road. Make sure to keep on top of fibre intake can even supplement it if you want (fybogel, lactulose liquid for example), and that will keep you regular every day.	true
Help, I want to kill my father	depression	11gbqeg	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't want to die at the cost of your father." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Does Anyone Know A Good 100% Hands-Free Male Vibrator?	SexToys	112dcdu	true	true	true	[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
I don’t quite understand what I need to do anymore to be happy, or feel Less depressed. Nothing seems to work. It’s been years. Yet I still feel like shit all the time and everyday.	depression	11giqkd	true	true	false	[ "You should try to get some help if you feel depressed." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Am I wrong for wanting my sister in law to suck me off?	AskRedditNSFW	11dpa33	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to be attracted to your future sister-in-law." ]	__needs_caution__	A little fantasy never hurt anyone. Actually pursuing her would be wrong.	true
giving up on life....	depression	11h485j	true	false	false	[ "It's not okay to give up on life." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Would it be ok to ask a new partner for proof of their birth control, if they say that they are on it?	sexeducation	wz4v3o	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to stop using birth control without informing your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	Define proof? I’m on the IUD and there’s no real way to prove that	true
What noises during sex do you find irritating? Seeking advice	AskRedditNSFW	118nfn0	true	true	true	[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How to use a vibrator for external masturbation?	sexquestions	rvgcta	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Can I ask what vibrator you have? Different models are better than others for clitoral stimulation.	true
Question for the people in relationships	sexquestions	qzcwkq	true	true	true	[ "Not everything is made to last when it comes to relationships" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Married, two kids, so yeah I masturbate. Kids go to bed, wife’s not in the mood, gotta get a good night sleep somehow	true
Ever felt horny but didn't want to look at porn?	RedditAfterDark	b9yta9	true	true	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Std??	sexualhealth	wbq2o9	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to want to get an std" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Does the shame ever really go away?	depression	11fla5q	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to feel some shame in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I feel my trust and the premises my family made are betrayed and are disrespected by my parents. Nothing fucking matters anymore. I start to need opinions from you people for that dipshit instead of keeping it to myself.	depression	11evy4y	true	false	false	[ "It is bad to betray your parents trust" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Shaving.	sexquestions	1136sio	true	false	false	[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It’s an unusual choice if you’re shaving yourself bald, generally people who do remove all pubic hair. But it’s your body and if you want a bald vulva and hair around your anus that’s completely your call!	true
i have always found masturbating in public to be such a turn on. But too afraid to do it. Is it really that hot? Is it worth the risk to jerking it in a public place?	AskRedditNSFW	11fyuwl	true	true	true	[ "It's inappropriate to masturbate in public." ]	__needs_intervention__	Sure it’s exciting. But the consequences of someone seeing who doesn’t want to really are not very fun at all.	true
What’s the WRONG response to “I love you”?	AskRedditNSFW	vu25t3	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to have issues saying \"i love you.\"" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Dirty talk??	sextips	hgw88d	true	true	true	[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	That's hot and most of the guys LOVE IT! I think he'd have liked it too.	true
Birthday love	AskRedditNSFW	11aym6h	true	true	false	[ "It is good to celebrate birthdays" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
.	sexquestions	1143cd1	true	false	false	[ "" ]	__casual__	I find riding on top works best. You can ease it in	true
SEEKING HELP FOR FRIEND	depression	11fiqmb	true	false	false	[ "It is understandable to want to help out a friend." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Alternatives to talk therapy? Any ideas?	depression	11fwhqw	true	false	true	[ "It is good to talk to a therapist if you do not want to be around people." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Am I weird for not being into porn?(M14)	Puberty	10to376	true	false	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	You're not weird. Lots of people don't watch it.	true
Would anyone send a virgin straight male thier nudes?	AskRedditNSFW	11bbe41	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to send nudes to other people." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Wet dreams or pee?	Puberty	11genhf	true	false	true	[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I mean normally you smell pee more then cum. So if it is very much and smelly it might be pee	true
Can't Get My Husband to Understand Depression	depression	11evee0	true	false	true	[ "You should seek professional help for your partner to deal with depression." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
For those who do, why do you like showering with your significant other?	RedditAfterDark	q0m0of	true	true	true	[ "It's unhygienic to avoid showering" ]	__needs_intervention__	I love washing him and feeling him up but it's also nurturing and not just sex related. Taking care of him is my love language.	true
Tiny penis problem?	sexquestions	p4bq7i	true	true	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Also to add with the penis extension allow him to and figure out with him his best position and stroke to get you off with just his penis. Keep all options open and help him help you enjoy more.	true
no, i don’t have autism or adhd… just terminal depression.	depression	11hucxq	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't diagnose anyone of autism unless you are a qualified doctor" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I need tips for more variety in the bedroom that’s centred around pleasuring my wife?	sextips	zxn281	true	true	true	[ "It's good to try new things in the bedroom to please your partner." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Question about Masturbation	Puberty	et85jh	true	false	true	[ "There is nothing wrong with masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
What is your secret kink?	AskRedditNSFW	1118csh	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to keep weird kinks a secret." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Exhibitionist, I think is the best, fucking my wife in places we know someone might see us. An Hope they do.	true
What Causes Depression? What 90% Of People Don’t Realize About Their Depression Issue	depression	11gwi1j	true	false	true	[ "It's understood that their other other factors that can cause depression besides money." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is this considered rape?	sexeducation	f68v0l	true	true	true	[ "It's illegal to rape someone" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Question for male roommates?	masturbation	yrwl8t	true	true	true	[ "It's good to discuss any issues you have with a roommate" ]	__needs_caution__	You are announcing to your roommate that you’re going to masturbate, and you’re asking it he might be bi. Maybe start by analyzing that.	true
How to ask parents for a therapist	depression	11hevoe	true	false	true	[ "You should get therapy if you're attracted to your parent." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
High Sex Drive	sexquestions	11dqfj5	true	true	false	[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
am i pregnant?	sexeducation	y7en6z	true	true	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	The sperm would have been killed by the hand sanitizer and drying, so I think you are ok. By the way, useful tip: make sure to pee within an hour of having sex, or sooner. It flushes away any bacteria that can get into your urethra (your pee tube) during sex and reduces your risk of urinary tract infections.	true
Fantasies during sex question?	sexover30	zd3kcx	true	true	true	[ "You should seek professional help if you have fantasies of harm" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
A random dream put some things in perspective	depression	11gzszt	true	false	false	[ "Dreams don't mean anything other than a random collection of thoughts." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Am I being hypercritical or is my partner not respecting my boundaries?	sexover30	zt9ye4	true	true	true	[ "You should set reasonable boundaries with your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Getting divorced at 28	depression	11excnr	true	false	false	[ "You should get divorced if you're unhappy." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Getting caught?	masturbation	zazj7z	true	true	true	[ "You'll mess up along the way and get caught." ]	__needs_intervention__	With your family, if you have your own room then you should be fairly safe when you've gone to bed, at other times, as long as not naked you could cover up. With friends, presumably they are also doing similar to you lol.	true
Universal Boredom	depression	11fv5xu	true	false	false	[ "You should find healthy ways to cope with boredom" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How are people able to have casual sex and not catch feelings?	sexquestions	1048vcv	true	false	true	[ "The trouble with casual sex is that one of you may fall in love." ]	__needs_caution__	I've had a lot of casual sex with a couple of FWB, never thought twice about feelings. It's known between us, that it can't happen.	true
Please help me in figuring out how to deal with my ridiculous insecurities	penissize	z8eo8m	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to somebody if insecurities are affecting your life" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I would try meditation as it can help you realize your negative emotions and make you be able to manage them. Also it will help you realize that you shouldn't be insecure about things you can't control.	true
Too many blowjobs?	sexstories	sgh3ur	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to think women give a lot of blow jobs" ]	__needs_caution__	Marry this woman. Never ever let her go and cherish these moments while you still can	true
Is clean up afterwards ever a deterrent to you for sex?	AskRedditNSFW	11difmk	true	true	true	[ "You should clean up after your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Question about buying condoms?	penissize	rcg8r8	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	There is no age requirements. From your other post opt for the largest one they sell.	true
What are some of your unrealistic fantasies	SexFantasies	z1fkke	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to have fantasies if you can separate them from reality." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do woman who love their partner care about what his penis looks like or it’s size? Someone please lmk…	sexquestions	115g163	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't judge your partner by the size of their penis." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Well if she loves you, I don't think that's going to be that much of a big deal.. Sex is far from all there is in relationships although it's a nice aspect	true
Does anyone else just stay in bed on their day off	masturbation	y6ks2m	true	true	true	[ "It's not healthy to stay in bed all day." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Send the wife on errands for half a day, pop a coupla gummies, put on a pair of panties, edge for a bit, on cam, blow a load, then do it again! So relaxing!	true
God, I really don't want to go back to the hospital	depression	11h4eoj	true	false	false	[ "You should take care of your health to avoid a trip to the hospital." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How do I get over my insecurity	penissize	nn596h	true	false	true	[ "You should try to figure out where your insecurities come from" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Should i stop masturbating?	sexeducation	xoryhe	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Masturbating is normal and healthy. Quitting doesn't have any benefits, so as long as you're having fun and not hurting yourself, there's no actual reason to quit.	true
What’s a fantasy/kink you have that you believe is odd/strange?	AskRedditNSFW	yudjpt	true	true	true	[ "Some people have bizarre sexual kinks." ]	__needs_intervention__	Probably my cnc fantasy. There's a couple iterations and if you want I can be specific but the fact that I have them at all is strange.	true
Masturbation - how does it help or hurt, your tal health?	AskRedditNSFW	11cgfzz	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Do you think the average penis size is bigger than we're told?	AskRedditNSFW	11cwd76	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think black men have a large penis" ]	__needs_caution__	I'm pretty sure it's the opposite, the average length was found by a study that physically measured a sample group of penis' and worked out the average size The majority of guys seem to claim their penis is bigger than it actually is, or in some cases smaller, so they fit better into what's considered average. I've had conversations with women where they thought 4 inches was more like 6, and thought 6 was actually 8 and so on, because they were working on what they were told, not the actual measurement, mainly because most women couldn't give a damn what measurement it is	true
What do I do about small Penis?	penissize	10uvh1o	true	false	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	you didnt damage anything from smoking weed or masturbating, the alcohol could have very very very very slightly impacted your genital growth but not in a noticeable way at all. if you want your penis to appear longer/bigger then work out and become as lean as possible so it looks more clear and less fat around it.	true
Is it ok to get 6hrs of sleep?	Puberty	fge49s	true	false	true	[ "You should make sure you get more than 4 and a half hours of sleep at night." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It won't effect your height much, but it will hurt your learning, ability to control your emotions, and your overall mood. Pretty much all the science says that people in puberty need 9 hours (well, technically 9 hours and 15 minutes) of sleep each night.	true
I am not gonna go alone.	depression	11fhzgr	true	false	false	[ "You should get comfortable with being alone" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I know what you mean when you feel no one cares, this feeling of hopeless is terrible. I am in the same situation, i hope you're going to be ok ❤️♥️ sending you my love	true
Tired of being a loser	depression	11g8wnq	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do most people like receiving AND giving pleasure?	sexquestions	10mf97b	true	false	true	[ "It is good to know what brings you pleasure" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Do you get an urge to masturbate	Puberty	gh08f4	true	false	true	[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]	__needs_caution__	I got the urge suddenly when I was 13. It may be at a different year for you.	true
Do you feel dumb?	depression	11gh2rs	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't feel dumb for not knowing something." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it ok normal that im pretty much horny 24/7 and watch porn to masterbate	Puberty	n0dqmv	true	false	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
can't stop crying lately	depression	11eyq50	true	false	true	[ "You should seek help if you can't cry" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I went to counsellor first time ever in my life today	depression	11graju	true	false	false	[ "Seeking counselling is always encouraged!" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Do I even matter?	depression	11fj98i	true	false	true	[ "You should believe that you matter." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it rude to masturbate when housemates are home?	sexquestions	zm0kf9	true	false	true	[ "It's rude to try to control your housemates guests." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
toy cleanliness?	SexToys	11i8ijo	true	true	true	[ "It's good to clean up when you're done playing with your toys." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	As long as it is a truly body safe toy it can be cleaned sufficiently it can be dual use. Silicone, glass, and metal can all be boiled or sprayed with 70% isopropyl alcohol.	true
Spit or swallow ?	AskRedditNSFW	11dzjpr	true	true	true	[ "You should spit in someone's food" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Ways to improve safe sex?	Puberty	qmvefx	true	false	true	[ "It is good to practice safe sex" ]	__needs_caution__	Just wear a condom. If she insists that you don't then break it off with her.	true
Uncircumcised	sexquestions	118z0w4	true	true	false	[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How to make my parents stop forcing me to spend time with my friends?	Puberty	jlqett	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to your parents if you feel like they are too controlling" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Then find friends that like coding or like doing whatever u like doing, like I did majority of my friends are chads then I went too subreddits like r/hacking or r/gaming I found some really dope people and I think u can too on r/coding or r/CodingContests just make sure people know ur age and be safe about DONT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFO, ADRESS, REALNAME, ETC. Also just explain too her how u feel if she's really pissed if she's a reasonably good parent she'll listen	true
Is it normal to masturbate as a whole?	sexquestions	x9cdu6	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I'm a virgin and lately all I can think about is sex	sexquestions	11cqghy	true	false	false	[ "It's normal to think about losing your virginity." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Wish I could go through one day without the thought of suicide	depression	11h3ux0	true	true	false	[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true

How long should I wait to have sex in a committed relationship?

RedditAfterDark

zprfth

true

[ "You should wait until your partner is ready." ]

__needs_caution__

Hit it early. Set the tone

true

for girls would you have sex with someone younger? what do you think about it?

AskRedditNSFW

11dt09x

true

[ "It's taboo to have sex with someone half your age." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is that normal that after I masturbate. I can still be hard and horny??

Puberty

o4qc3r

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Would you take part in a bi threesome?

AskRedditNSFW

vvub7a

true

[ "You should tell your partner that you want a threesome." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I have multiple times. Fun is fun and pleasure is pleasure

true

Depression is like being a dreamer but only having bad dreams

depression

11h25g2

true

false

[ "It's bad to suffer from depression." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Aside from watermarking. How can you protect photos from being stolen and used by others? Thanks to my loyal friends, I’ve found out other are trying to use my pics. Thank god for the Veins!

AskRedditNSFW

11c000a

true

[ "You should protect your image" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I have a kink that isn't really uncommon per say but is a bit... extreme? Worried about what my partner might think of me if she find out

AskRedditNSFW

11h3s0d

true

[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal to get off rather talking to someone than watching random porn?

masturbation

iwyjz8

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

In my country, Iceland, nudity is legal, topless sunbathing happens and one night stands are extremely common. I, like many others, have never owned a bikini either. AMA!

NSFWIAMA

br2ngw

true

[ "Nudity in public places is illegal." ]

__needs_intervention__

Less advanced keyboards ? Ouch !

true

Discouraged

depression

11hkvth

true

false

[ "It's normal to get discouraged" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How can I suggest trying something new?

sexover30

tdhrhu

true

[ "It is generally advisable to try new things" ]

__needs_caution__

There are things in porn that excite and we want to do it irl… and there are things that leave us anxious and emotionally depressed but mesmerized and that we don’t want to do irl. YMMV

true

I can't see the future for myself anymore

depression

11ghlq1

true

false

[ "You should look to the future more often." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

something is wrong with me and i don’t know what.

depression

11ga7u1

true

false

[ "It is good to see a doctor when you think that something is wrong" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

masturbation relieves my back pain and anxiety and fatigue?

masturbation

111wl0x

true

[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Tell me more about the womanizer vibrator. I think I might want to get my wife one. Can it make a woman squirt?

SexToys

11gol82

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Most squirting is triggered by internal pressure, not external stimulation, so squirting with Womanizers or other similar toys is uncommon (unless they're paired with some kind of internal pressure, like a curved dildo or fingers against the "G-spot" or the front wall of the vagina in general). Some people squirt just from clit stimulation alone, but it's much less common.

true

Partner made me feel insecure about expressing a desire to indulge in a fetish. Finding myself drawing back into a hole.

sexover30

11492up

true

[ "It's normal to have outlandish fetishes about your partner." ]

__needs_intervention__

Details of what you’re asking for, how you asked, and what your partner’s response was would help us get a better sense of how to navigate this, because right now it’s too vague. What was said and how it was experienced can be two very different things, and would change the potential outcome.

true

Girls Masturbating?

Puberty

yygpaf

true

false

true

[ "There is nothing wrong with masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is this normal not to have desire to masturbate ?

sexeducation

gfyto6

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

It is completely normal!! Many, many people have no desire to masturbate.

true

Where do you like to masturbate in public? #LosAngeles

RedditAfterDark

y0z9vj

true

[ "It is encouraged to masturbate in a private area if you are going to do so." ]

__needs_caution__

Do it in traffic on the 10. That’s what I do when I drive.

true

I just want to cry but I can’t and it kills me

depression

11g6fls

true

false

[ "You should seek help if you can't cry" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is pressured consent considered rape or sexual assault?

sexeducation

nili29

true

[ "Any form of sexual assault is tantamount to rape" ]

__needs_intervention__

Yes, 100%. Pressured consent is sexual assault, I'd even say it counts as rape.

true

Can people stop using “normal” to mean acceptable?

Puberty

11byl48

true

false

true

[ "It's rude to tell someone they aren't normal." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

what is the best laxative to use daily?

sexualhealth

xu9u92

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't drug food with laxatives" ]

__needs_intervention__

It's not good to use a laxative etc everyday and runs the chance of your bowels getting so used to them that they won't have normal bowel movements with out them, so causes bigger problems down the road. Make sure to keep on top of fibre intake can even supplement it if you want (fybogel, lactulose liquid for example), and that will keep you regular every day.

true

Help, I want to kill my father

depression

11gbqeg

true

false

[ "You shouldn't want to die at the cost of your father." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Does Anyone Know A Good 100% Hands-Free Male Vibrator?

SexToys

112dcdu

true

[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

I don’t quite understand what I need to do anymore to be happy, or feel Less depressed. Nothing seems to work. It’s been years. Yet I still feel like shit all the time and everyday.

depression

11giqkd

true

false

[ "You should try to get some help if you feel depressed." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Am I wrong for wanting my sister in law to suck me off?

AskRedditNSFW

11dpa33

true

[ "It's wrong to be attracted to your future sister-in-law." ]

__needs_caution__

A little fantasy never hurt anyone. Actually pursuing her would be wrong.

true

giving up on life....

depression

11h485j

true

false

[ "It's not okay to give up on life." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Would it be ok to ask a new partner for proof of their birth control, if they say that they are on it?

sexeducation

wz4v3o

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to stop using birth control without informing your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

Define proof? I’m on the IUD and there’s no real way to prove that

true

What noises during sex do you find irritating? Seeking advice

AskRedditNSFW

118nfn0

true

[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How to use a vibrator for external masturbation?

sexquestions

rvgcta

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Can I ask what vibrator you have? Different models are better than others for clitoral stimulation.

true

Question for the people in relationships

sexquestions

qzcwkq

true

[ "Not everything is made to last when it comes to relationships" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Married, two kids, so yeah I masturbate. Kids go to bed, wife’s not in the mood, gotta get a good night sleep somehow

true

Ever felt horny but didn't want to look at porn?

RedditAfterDark

b9yta9

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Std??

sexualhealth

wbq2o9

true

[ "It's wrong to want to get an std" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Does the shame ever really go away?

depression

11fla5q

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to feel some shame in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I feel my trust and the premises my family made are betrayed and are disrespected by my parents. Nothing fucking matters anymore. I start to need opinions from you people for that dipshit instead of keeping it to myself.

depression

11evy4y

true

false

[ "It is bad to betray your parents trust" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Shaving.

sexquestions

1136sio

true

false

[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It’s an unusual choice if you’re shaving yourself bald, generally people who do remove all pubic hair. But it’s your body and if you want a bald vulva and hair around your anus that’s completely your call!

true

i have always found masturbating in public to be such a turn on. But too afraid to do it. Is it really that hot? Is it worth the risk to jerking it in a public place?

AskRedditNSFW

11fyuwl

true

[ "It's inappropriate to masturbate in public." ]

__needs_intervention__

Sure it’s exciting. But the consequences of someone seeing who doesn’t want to really are not very fun at all.

true

What’s the WRONG response to “I love you”?

AskRedditNSFW

vu25t3

true

[ "It's okay to have issues saying \"i love you.\"" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Dirty talk??

sextips

hgw88d

true

[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

That's hot and most of the guys LOVE IT! I think he'd have liked it too.

true

Birthday love

AskRedditNSFW

11aym6h

true

false

[ "It is good to celebrate birthdays" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

.

sexquestions

1143cd1

true

false

[ "" ]

__casual__

I find riding on top works best. You can ease it in

true

SEEKING HELP FOR FRIEND

depression

11fiqmb

true

false

[ "It is understandable to want to help out a friend." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Alternatives to talk therapy? Any ideas?

depression

11fwhqw

true

false

true

[ "It is good to talk to a therapist if you do not want to be around people." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Am I weird for not being into porn?(M14)

Puberty

10to376

true

false

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

You're not weird. Lots of people don't watch it.

true

Would anyone send a virgin straight male thier nudes?

AskRedditNSFW

11bbe41

true

[ "It's bad to send nudes to other people." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Wet dreams or pee?

Puberty

11genhf

true

false

true

[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I mean normally you smell pee more then cum. So if it is very much and smelly it might be pee

true

Can't Get My Husband to Understand Depression

depression

11evee0

true

false

true

[ "You should seek professional help for your partner to deal with depression." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

For those who do, why do you like showering with your significant other?

RedditAfterDark

q0m0of

true

[ "It's unhygienic to avoid showering" ]

__needs_intervention__

I love washing him and feeling him up but it's also nurturing and not just sex related. Taking care of him is my love language.

true

Tiny penis problem?

sexquestions

p4bq7i

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Also to add with the penis extension allow him to and figure out with him his best position and stroke to get you off with just his penis. Keep all options open and help him help you enjoy more.

true

no, i don’t have autism or adhd… just terminal depression.

depression

11hucxq

true

false

[ "You shouldn't diagnose anyone of autism unless you are a qualified doctor" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I need tips for more variety in the bedroom that’s centred around pleasuring my wife?

sextips

zxn281

true

[ "It's good to try new things in the bedroom to please your partner." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Question about Masturbation

Puberty

et85jh

true

false

true

[ "There is nothing wrong with masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

What is your secret kink?

AskRedditNSFW

1118csh

true

[ "It's okay to keep weird kinks a secret." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Exhibitionist, I think is the best, fucking my wife in places we know someone might see us. An Hope they do.

true

What Causes Depression? What 90% Of People Don’t Realize About Their Depression Issue

depression

11gwi1j

true

false

true

[ "It's understood that their other other factors that can cause depression besides money." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is this considered rape?

sexeducation

f68v0l

true

[ "It's illegal to rape someone" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Question for male roommates?

masturbation

yrwl8t

true

[ "It's good to discuss any issues you have with a roommate" ]

__needs_caution__

*You* are announcing to your roommate that you’re going to masturbate, and you’re asking it *he* might be bi. Maybe start by analyzing that.

true

How to ask parents for a therapist

depression

11hevoe

true

false

true

[ "You should get therapy if you're attracted to your parent." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

High Sex Drive

sexquestions

11dqfj5

true

false

[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

am i pregnant?

sexeducation

y7en6z

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

The sperm would have been killed by the hand sanitizer and drying, so I think you are ok. By the way, useful tip: make sure to pee within an hour of having sex, or sooner. It flushes away any bacteria that can get into your urethra (your pee tube) during sex and reduces your risk of urinary tract infections.

true

Fantasies during sex question?

sexover30

zd3kcx

true

[ "You should seek professional help if you have fantasies of harm" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

A random dream put some things in perspective

depression

11gzszt

true

false

[ "Dreams don't mean anything other than a random collection of thoughts." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Am I being hypercritical or is my partner not respecting my boundaries?

sexover30

zt9ye4

true

[ "You should set reasonable boundaries with your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Getting divorced at 28

depression

11excnr

true

false

[ "You should get divorced if you're unhappy." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Getting caught?

masturbation

zazj7z

true

[ "You'll mess up along the way and get caught." ]

__needs_intervention__

With your family, if you have your own room then you should be fairly safe when you've gone to bed, at other times, as long as not naked you could cover up. With friends, presumably they are also doing similar to you lol.

true

Universal Boredom

depression

11fv5xu

true

false

[ "You should find healthy ways to cope with boredom" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How are people able to have casual sex and not catch feelings?

sexquestions

1048vcv

true

false

true

[ "The trouble with casual sex is that one of you may fall in love." ]

__needs_caution__

I've had a lot of casual sex with a couple of FWB, never thought twice about feelings. It's known between us, that it can't happen.

true

Please help me in figuring out how to deal with my ridiculous insecurities

penissize

z8eo8m

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to somebody if insecurities are affecting your life" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I would try meditation as it can help you realize your negative emotions and make you be able to manage them. Also it will help you realize that you shouldn't be insecure about things you can't control.

true

Too many blowjobs?

sexstories

sgh3ur

true

[ "It's wrong to think women give a lot of blow jobs" ]

__needs_caution__

Marry this woman. Never ever let her go and cherish these moments while you still can

true

Is clean up afterwards ever a deterrent to you for sex?

AskRedditNSFW

11difmk

true

[ "You should clean up after your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Question about buying condoms?

penissize

rcg8r8

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

There is no age requirements. From your other post opt for the largest one they sell.

true

What are some of your unrealistic fantasies

SexFantasies

z1fkke

true

[ "It's ok to have fantasies if you can separate them from reality." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do woman who love their partner care about what his penis looks like or it’s size? Someone please lmk…

sexquestions

115g163

true

[ "You shouldn't judge your partner by the size of their penis." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Well if she loves you, I don't think that's going to be that much of a big deal.. Sex is far from all there is in relationships although it's a nice aspect

true

Does anyone else just stay in bed on their day off

masturbation

y6ks2m

true

[ "It's not healthy to stay in bed all day." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Send the wife on errands for half a day, pop a coupla gummies, put on a pair of panties, edge for a bit, on cam, blow a load, then do it again! So relaxing!

true

God, I really don't want to go back to the hospital

depression

11h4eoj

true

false

[ "You should take care of your health to avoid a trip to the hospital." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How do I get over my insecurity

penissize

nn596h

true

false

true

[ "You should try to figure out where your insecurities come from" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Should i stop masturbating?

sexeducation

xoryhe

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Masturbating is normal and healthy. Quitting doesn't have any benefits, so as long as you're having fun and not hurting yourself, there's no actual reason to quit.

true

What’s a fantasy/kink you have that you believe is odd/strange?

AskRedditNSFW

yudjpt

true

[ "Some people have bizarre sexual kinks." ]

__needs_intervention__

Probably my cnc fantasy. There's a couple iterations and if you want I can be specific but the fact that I have them at all is strange.

true

Masturbation - how does it help or hurt, your tal health?

AskRedditNSFW

11cgfzz

true

[ "It's bad to rely on masturbation for pain." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Do you think the average penis size is bigger than we're told?

AskRedditNSFW

11cwd76

true

[ "It's not right to think black men have a large penis" ]

__needs_caution__

I'm pretty sure it's the opposite, the average length was found by a study that physically measured a sample group of penis' and worked out the average size The majority of guys seem to claim their penis is bigger than it actually is, or in some cases smaller, so they fit better into what's considered average. I've had conversations with women where they thought 4 inches was more like 6, and thought 6 was actually 8 and so on, because they were working on what they were told, not the actual measurement, mainly because most women couldn't give a damn what measurement it is

true

What do I do about small Penis?

penissize

10uvh1o

true

false

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

you didnt damage anything from smoking weed or masturbating, the alcohol could have very very very very slightly impacted your genital growth but not in a noticeable way at all. if you want your penis to appear longer/bigger then work out and become as lean as possible so it looks more clear and less fat around it.

true

Is it ok to get 6hrs of sleep?

Puberty

fge49s

true

false

true

[ "You should make sure you get more than 4 and a half hours of sleep at night." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It won't effect your height much, but it will hurt your learning, ability to control your emotions, and your overall mood. Pretty much all the science says that people in puberty need 9 hours (well, technically 9 hours and 15 minutes) of sleep each night.

true

I am not gonna go alone.

depression

11fhzgr

true

false

[ "You should get comfortable with being alone" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I know what you mean when you feel no one cares, this feeling of hopeless is terrible. I am in the same situation, i hope you're going to be ok ❤️♥️ sending you my love

true

Tired of being a loser

depression

11g8wnq

true

false

[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do most people like receiving AND giving pleasure?

sexquestions

10mf97b

true

false

true

[ "It is good to know what brings you pleasure" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Do you get an urge to masturbate

Puberty

gh08f4

true

false

true

[ "If you feel like masturbating, you should do it and let the frustration out." ]

__needs_caution__

I got the urge suddenly when I was 13. It may be at a different year for you.

true

Do you feel dumb?

depression

11gh2rs

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't feel dumb for not knowing something." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it ok normal that im pretty much horny 24/7 and watch porn to masterbate

Puberty

n0dqmv

true

false

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

can't stop crying lately

depression

11eyq50

true

false

true

[ "You should seek help if you can't cry" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I went to counsellor first time ever in my life today

depression

11graju

true

false

[ "Seeking counselling is always encouraged!" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Do I even matter?

depression

11fj98i

true

false

true

[ "You should believe that you matter." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it rude to masturbate when housemates are home?

sexquestions

zm0kf9

true

false

true

[ "It's rude to try to control your housemates guests." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

toy cleanliness?

SexToys

11i8ijo

true

[ "It's good to clean up when you're done playing with your toys." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

As long as it is a truly body safe toy it can be cleaned sufficiently it can be dual use. Silicone, glass, and metal can all be boiled or sprayed with 70% isopropyl alcohol.

true

Spit or swallow ?

AskRedditNSFW

11dzjpr

true

[ "You should spit in someone's food" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Ways to improve safe sex?

Puberty

qmvefx

true

false

true

[ "It is good to practice safe sex" ]

__needs_caution__

Just wear a condom. If she insists that you don't then break it off with her.

true

Uncircumcised

sexquestions

118z0w4

true

false

[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How to make my parents stop forcing me to spend time with my friends?

Puberty

jlqett

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to your parents if you feel like they are too controlling" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Then find friends that like coding or like doing whatever u like doing, like I did majority of my friends are chads then I went too subreddits like r/hacking or r/gaming I found some really dope people and I think u can too on r/coding or r/CodingContests just make sure people know ur age and be safe about DONT GIVE OUT PERSONAL INFO, ADRESS, REALNAME, ETC. Also just explain too her how u feel if she's really pissed if she's a reasonably good parent she'll listen

true

Is it normal to masturbate as a whole?

sexquestions

x9cdu6

true

[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I'm a virgin and lately all I can think about is sex

sexquestions

11cqghy

true

false

[ "It's normal to think about losing your virginity." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Wish I could go through one day without the thought of suicide

depression

11h3ux0

true

false

[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true