shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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Is sex really that addicting?	RedditAfterDark	112rcqo	true	true	true	[ "It's dangerous to foster sexual addictions." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Should i get circumcised?	sexeducation	ye8mta	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't base your life around circumcision." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Genital mutilation without medical reasons makes zero sense... Just like many other things in the usa (which i assume you live in). If this would make you feel better and that's the only reason i would do some therapy to figure out why you got these confidence problems and maybe work on that before cutting your pp	true
Is masturbating every day going to make me not feel pleasure anymore?	sexeducation	hz6hm6	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I think in my experience as a guy too much can effect some aspects. Physically anyway.	true
Should I be honest about fantasies that don't include my husband?	sexover30	czzg5i	true	true	true	[ "It's best to keep fantasies private." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I just came out of my Depression	depression	11ge2wk	true	true	false	[ "You should talk to a therapist when you have depression" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Should I be worried	sexeducation	ynilxl	true	false	true	[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]	__needs_caution__	And what about next time? Are you both going to use birth control or go through this worry again?	true
(Please help!) I feel my trust and the premises my family made are betrayed and are disrespected by my parents. Nothing fucking matters anymore. I start to need opinions from you people for that dipshit instead of keeping it to myself.	depression	11h96ho	true	false	false	[ "It is bad to betray the trust of your parents" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Cultural Comparisons, thoughts?	sexquestions	10iun50	true	false	true	[ "You should recognize cultural differences." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
i cant feel happy naturally	depression	11h66ba	true	false	false	[ "You should take the steps necessary to feel happy about yourself." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I was talking to someone and asked if they ever self harmed and they said im too young to have this convo	depression	11f2vwd	true	false	false	[ "It's good to talk to someone if you want to self harm" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is the pain normal?	sexeducation	i727g8	true	false	true	[ "It's not normal to enjoy feeling pain." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
my depression keeps circling back	depression	11hsynh	true	false	false	[ "If your depression is out of control, you should get some help." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Advice on how to spice things up in the bedroom	sextips	y45ky8	true	true	true	[ "You should talk to your spouse, if you want to experiment with new ideas in the bedroom." ]	__needs_intervention__	Role play. Can be hilarious which adds massively to sex imo.	true
Why is "people of color" ok to say but everyone loses their shit over "colored people"?	AskRedditNSFW	11buckh	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think people of colors are inferior to whites" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is it bad that I’m hooking up with my ex later?	sextips	102ar8w	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to hang out with an ex." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Am I weird for liking/wanting distracted sex?	sexover30	du391m	true	true	true	[ "You should find a way to distract yourself from unusual desires" ]	__needs_caution__	Yes, you are weird. Also, everyone is weird.	true
Is it normal not to cum	sextips	ur8ui3	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	sex is about the journey, not the destination! if you both still had a good time then there's nothing to worry about.	true
14 (M) is it normal for me to masturbate almost everyday?	Puberty	zjm8p8	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	Daily ye like 2 times a day is normal. Girls to thst too	true
Why is a female doing one act of prostitution universally considered a far worse a girl than having multiple partners? Even if done only out of desperation to put feed on the table to feed family? Why do even atheist or secular societies with loose sexuality and very liberal morals frown upon it?	sexeducation	rqg3s4	true	false	true	[ "Prostitution is wrong" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
General advice on one-sided non-monogamy?	sexover30	v8d780	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship if you want to be with more than one person" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I give up completely	depression	11fxobp	true	false	false	[ "You should not give up on yourself." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Have you ever cheated for revenge?	AskRedditNSFW	1181imw	true	true	true	[ "Getting revenge never improves your own situation" ]	__needs_caution__	No but if I ever got cheated on and I felt I needed to stay in the relationship I would at least make it clear that I’d need to fuck someone else to put us on the same level. It might not work out in the end but at least we tried and there’s no way I could go on just being someone who got cheated on without sleeping with someone else myself.	true
It's selfish for you to kill yourself because it might hurt other people so the solution is you are forced to suffer?	depression	11g5cda	true	false	false	[ "You should seek help if you want to kill yourself" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
I have begun the process of cutting out all my friends.	depression	11hojly	true	false	false	[ "It's painful to be cut off from your friends." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Where can i have sex other than my house or outside?	AskRedditNSFW	11fmikq	true	true	true	[ "You should find somewhere private to have sex." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Cars are fun if you have access to one! Even smaller cars the cramped backseat can make for a fun challenge to find positions that work	true
Is it cheating?	AskRedditNSFW	11fazwk	true	true	true	[ "Cheating is wrong, for any reason" ]	__needs_caution__	Would your SO be upset? If so, you may want to reconsider	true
Roulette anyone?	masturbation	11cg2aj	true	true	true	[ "It is not okay to play russian roulette" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it healthy to douche or not?	TopsAndBottoms	l019mu	true	true	true	[ "It's not healthy to think all women like douche-bags." ]	__needs_caution__	As with all things, it's not an either or. *How* to do it safely is what's important.	true
Do Care	sexquestions	y4offc	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to think women only care about themselves" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
why the fuck are 's bathrooms so nasty?	AskRedditNSFW	11btrco	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to not use normal bathrooms." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Looking for a resource to discuss sexual interests with partner?	sexover30	106wl0n	true	true	true	[ "You should be open with your partner about sexual conversations." ]	__needs_caution__	Mojo upgrade is one. Goes from the gentle to the more kinky side and you can both do it.	true
I am a failure	depression	11h25b8	true	false	false	[ "If you feel like a failure, you should get some help." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Should i give up on losing my virginity?	sexualhealth	kzy3o0	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't lose your virginity when you're not ready to do so." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Pregnancy possibility?	sexquestions	zl9i34	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How are people genuinely happy with life? It baffles me	depression	11gtb68	true	false	true	[ "It's great to be happy for others." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I wish my life was done. I can't hold on anymore	true
How to tell if circumcised?	Puberty	hag667	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Well it turns out this gave me negative karma. Weird.	true
Mostly a curious question: HOW do people stay quiet during sex.	sexquestions	1073brx	true	false	true	[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]	__needs_caution__	I’m the same way… I cannot be quiet. The pleasure just takes over and I sometimes don’t even realize it…	true
Do people actually care about body hair as much as i think they do?	sextips	11ey1gr	true	true	true	[ "It's ok for people to decide for themselves what to do with their body hair." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Depends, some do and some don’t. Just like anything, there is no one universal answer.	true
Ive never had a wet dream but i dont dream normally, is it still possible to have wet dreams?	Puberty	10mtrln	true	false	true	[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Some guys have wet dreams and some guys don't. Yes it is still possible for you to have one.	true
Is This Safe?	SexToys	119ojpk	true	true	true	[ "It is important to be safe" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Naked self pleasure?	masturbation	ygysr0	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	always, i have to completely nude no socks or nothing. all the girls i like to look at are naked so i might as well be too lol	true
Do you ever wonder what makes relationships work?	sexpositions	nps4hy	true	true	true	[ "It takes effort to make new relationships work." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is my sexual taste ever gonna change?	Puberty	kifjw3	true	false	true	[ "It's ok for your sexual tastes to change over time." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	it can change. maybe try something new?	true
How common is being into chubby/ fat ?	sexquestions	111tm75	true	false	true	[ "It's common to find fat unattractive." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I think as a general rule men try to find women who look and are shaped like them. Unless they are rich then it doesn't matter they will get a supermodel girl	true
Should you take wank breaks?	sexquestions	k3legh	true	true	true	[ "You should take breaks when needed." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Will Condoms Work?	penissize	p1e8xx	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Should I jerk about my crush	RedditAfterDark	y10ggk	true	true	true	[ "You should not act on your crush" ]	__needs_caution__	Why not? Jerking it is good.	true
High School and Uni make me feel like a complete failure	depression	11gxptj	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to fail out of school." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do I get more pleasure being uncircumcised?	penissize	ysbaqr	true	false	true	[ "It's healthy to be circumcised" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Definitely YES. The part that is cut off is the part with the most nerve endings.	true
Showing off when masturbating?	masturbation	108y67j	true	true	true	[ "You should show off only at appropriate times" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I joined a masturbation group just for this pleasure. I love watching and being watched.	true
I lost all my friends and the person I love doesn't love me back	depression	11fhy52	true	false	false	[ "You should move on when someone doesn't love you back." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
[13f] Is it normal to be extremely horny all the time? Even after masturbating?	Puberty	l2y1m6	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Am I the only one that feels uncomfortable when there is a pet in the room during sex?	sexquestions	112ck3d	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to get frustrated with a pet." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Pets will openly maintain eye-contact while pooping. I don't know if there's much point to having shame around them.	true
When should i lose my virginity?	Puberty	ef3dg7	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't not lose your virginity at 5" ]	__needs_intervention__	Bruh you’re fuckin 13. Wait for two years.	true
I feel like a burden on others.	depression	11gwofj	true	false	false	[ "You should try to ease others burdens." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Cuddling in bed?	sexover30	jkysr4	true	true	true	[ "It is good to cuddle someone when they feel that they need it" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
taste your own cum?	masturbation	z9ciah	true	true	true	[ "It's gross to cum in your own mouth." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Don’t like my cum and by the time I do cum I’m not horny enough to do it anymore. But my precum is delicious	true
Should I kill myself?	depression	11fvcx4	true	true	true	[ "You should go see a doctor if you want to kill yourself." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
am i pregnant ?	sexualhealth	yzey0j	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	if it was just outside your undies, you're fine. you're not pregnant.	true
Is it ok to have sex with my sister if she wants it	sexeducation	x8h1he	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to have a relationship with your sister." ]	__needs_caution__	No. That’s you guys will regret as you guys get older and if pregnancy happens, baby will come out sick and you’ll also have to deal with family…not worth it IMO	true
Using exercise for depression	depression	11hj50q	true	false	false	[ "It's good to use therapy and medication in order to combat depression" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Do in their 20s prefer younger or older ?	sexquestions	117fy1h	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to like older women." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal for girls to watch porn and masturbate?	Puberty	e1aytq	true	false	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Girls watch porn (especially male porn) and masturbate too. So yeah it is common.	true
uncircumcised issue?	sexeducation	10k8u8t	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Does anyone else use a vibrator while they do other things?	masturbation	118u7sy	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Today I went for a walk around my neighbourhood with a vibrating cock ring on the head of my dick. Fucking awesome!	true
I hate being alone.	depression	11gr0gn	true	false	false	[ "It's good to know you're not alone in your struggles" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I feel you, I wish I had someone to love and love me back but I can’t imagine anyone finding me attractive. Sorry you’re hurting too 💜	true
Does anybody ever find themselves attracted to people who aren’t typically their ‘type’	RedditAfterDark	104r1fs	true	true	true	[ "It's rude to worry about who someone is attracted to." ]	__needs_caution__	Yes I don’t believe in types. Sexy is sexy.	true
I've been alone for a couple years	depression	11hssko	true	false	false	[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How to get better at dirty talk? What to even say?	sexquestions	118ul4u	true	false	true	[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	"Are you feeling it now Mr. Krabs" "Whoopsie-doo here comes the goo" "It's Taco'clock and here come the beans!" "You're so much tighter than your dad" "15 minutes could save you 15 minutes or more on car insurance, but I'm not going to take 15 minutes"	true
Sex on the first date? Yes or No?	sexover30	wd2ei9	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't assume you'll have sex on a first date." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it "illegal" or subject to termination if you masturbate at work?	AskRedditNSFW	hg8w67	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to masturbate at work." ]	__needs_caution__	What's the context here, because masturbating in the restroom stall is WAAAY different from masturbating in your office cubicle or elevator. ~~(and I'm assuming the "Working from home" part is just a slight joke)~~	true
Do like giving blowjobs	sextips	z25cxx	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to think women give a lot of blow jobs" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Best friends?	RedditAfterDark	wh6ggb	true	true	true	[ "You should always put your best friend ahead of your new friends." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Are you comfortable naked in public showers	Puberty	s1mmsy	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to be naked in public" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
why do i have no appetite at all?	Puberty	10ox7qm	true	false	true	[ "You should find ways to have a healthy appetite." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
help for anxiety	depression	11hc6b2	true	false	false	[ "You should get help if you're feeling anxious." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
What shape do prefer?	sextips	10y6jdx	true	true	true	[ "Having personal preference on women's body shapes is ok." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Only the first few inches of the vagina can feel. Don't sweat it	true
(15m) why do I masturbate so much	Puberty	116go55	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How do I become ok with being alone for life?	depression	11hhhd6	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I’m trying to accept the same. Sucks and hurts to know that I will probably never have that :(	true
Surprise rubbing from your partner?	AskRedditNSFW	gqydsi	true	true	true	[ "It is acceptable to surprise your significant other." ]	__needs_intervention__	My partner has magic fingers and he knows it. I'm basically orgasming all day long here in quarantine and I fucking love it	true
Not sure if this is the place but i have fantasies of my Lady cheating on me on top of that i also have fantasies of sharing her tagteaming and such. whats wrong with me i feel no guilt about it. Are these feelings normal	SexFantasies	ride0j	true	true	true	[ "You should not have fantasies about other people while married" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Very normal! This is a common cuckold/hot wife fantasy.	true
Is it normal to feel like you haven't eaten for weeks every single time you're hungry?	Puberty	jb4wpe	true	false	true	[ "It's expected you feed yourself when you stomach pangs of hunger" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Risk of pregnancy?	sexeducation	ydh6id	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to risk the health of someone that's pregnant." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Am I pregnant	Puberty	gk30n7	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Not a very smart thing to do. Aren’t y’all supposed to be social distancing anyways?	true
Am I to be huge?	penissize	yfvl8a	true	false	true	[ "You should strive to be the bigger person." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	There really is no way to know; your size now does not infer what your size may be in the future. Only time will tell.	true
What do you think about the public nudity? Some anecdotes?	AskRedditNSFW	117tu0j	true	true	true	[ "It is understandable to be prudent with your nudity." ]	__needs_caution__	Fine if skinny dipping with friends in an expected or less public area where random people could show up. Otherwise not really a good idea.	true
do you pee in the shower?	AskRedditNSFW	w1ecxb	true	true	true	[ "It's good to pee in the toilet before taking a shower." ]	__needs_caution__	Doesnt everyone? Yes i'm a girl, yes most of us do it as far as i know	true
...how do i finger myself?	sexquestions	mi54ga	true	true	true	[ "You should seek a therapist when you have the urge to cut off your own fingers." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
i feel worthless and i feel like i have no one to talk to	depression	11ht8i6	true	false	false	[ "You should talk to somebody if you feel hopeless." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
How do I clean after cumming	Puberty	q7j7uy	true	false	true	[ "You should clean up after yourself after ejaculating" ]	__needs_caution__	Sower, toilet, cum in your socks, use any clothes that would be washed anyway, tissues, etc. just in general stuff that will washed anyway.	true
Question about STDs	sexeducation	ehhwfa	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't hide STDs from your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Should I be worried	penissize	11acuro	true	false	true	[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]	__needs_caution__	Absolutely nothing to worry about. You're a very good size and probably your friends are lying.	true
Is this a consent issue?	sexeducation	exad0p	true	false	true	[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Why do Black have bigger buttocks than White girls?	AskRedditNSFW	11a3dfj	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think black men have large anatomy" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Can never tell if I'm just being paranoid or not when depressed	depression	11exmu3	true	false	false	[ "It's understandable to wonder if you're depressed." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Was I assaulted?	sexualhealth	gv3axv	true	false	true	[ "You should call the police if you are assaulted." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Not getting “wet” like i used to. Should I be concerned?	sexualhealth	110frws	true	false	true	[ "You should be careful around water." ]	__needs_caution__	This can definitely happen with age. Ask your obgyn..	true
Tired	depression	11gekts	true	false	false	[ "It's okay to be tired" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
masturbating to onlyfans considered part of cheating?	AskRedditNSFW	j162vm	true	true	true	[ "Masturbating with someone is still cheating." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is there such a thing as being 'too tight'	sexquestions	w7pfjy	true	true	true	[ "It's unhealthy to wear things that are too tight." ]	__needs_caution__	You could look up vaginismus and see if that fits with what you're experiencing. Getting comfortable with your own penetrative masturbation first, might be useful before bringing a partner in.	true

Is sex really that addicting?

RedditAfterDark

112rcqo

true

[ "It's dangerous to foster sexual addictions." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Should i get circumcised?

sexeducation

ye8mta

true

[ "You shouldn't base your life around circumcision." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Genital mutilation without medical reasons makes zero sense... Just like many other things in the usa (which i assume you live in). If this would make you feel better and that's the only reason i would do some therapy to figure out why you got these confidence problems and maybe work on that before cutting your pp

true

Is masturbating every day going to make me not feel pleasure anymore?

sexeducation

hz6hm6

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't spend all day masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I think in my experience as a guy too much can effect some aspects. Physically anyway.

true

Should I be honest about fantasies that don't include my husband?

sexover30

czzg5i

true

[ "It's best to keep fantasies private." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I just came out of my Depression

depression

11ge2wk

true

false

[ "You should talk to a therapist when you have depression" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Should I be worried

sexeducation

ynilxl

true

false

true

[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]

__needs_caution__

And what about next time? Are you both going to use birth control or go through this worry again?

true

(Please help!) I feel my trust and the premises my family made are betrayed and are disrespected by my parents. Nothing fucking matters anymore. I start to need opinions from you people for that dipshit instead of keeping it to myself.

depression

11h96ho

true

false

[ "It is bad to betray the trust of your parents" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Cultural Comparisons, thoughts?

sexquestions

10iun50

true

false

true

[ "You should recognize cultural differences." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

i cant feel happy naturally

depression

11h66ba

true

false

[ "You should take the steps necessary to feel happy about yourself." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I was talking to someone and asked if they ever self harmed and they said im too young to have this convo

depression

11f2vwd

true

false

[ "It's good to talk to someone if you want to self harm" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is the pain normal?

sexeducation

i727g8

true

false

true

[ "It's not normal to enjoy feeling pain." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

my depression keeps circling back

depression

11hsynh

true

false

[ "If your depression is out of control, you should get some help." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Advice on how to spice things up in the bedroom

sextips

y45ky8

true

[ "You should talk to your spouse, if you want to experiment with new ideas in the bedroom." ]

__needs_intervention__

Role play. Can be hilarious which adds massively to sex imo.

true

Why is "people of color" ok to say but everyone loses their shit over "colored people"?

AskRedditNSFW

11buckh

true

[ "It's not right to think people of colors are inferior to whites" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is it bad that I’m hooking up with my ex later?

sextips

102ar8w

true

[ "It's okay to hang out with an ex." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Am I weird for liking/wanting distracted sex?

sexover30

du391m

true

[ "You should find a way to distract yourself from unusual desires" ]

__needs_caution__

Yes, you are weird. Also, everyone is weird.

true

Is it normal not to cum

sextips

ur8ui3

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

sex is about the journey, not the destination! if you both still had a good time then there's nothing to worry about.

true

14 (M) is it normal for me to masturbate almost everyday?

Puberty

zjm8p8

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

Daily ye like 2 times a day is normal. Girls to thst too

true

Why is a female doing one act of prostitution universally considered a far worse a girl than having multiple partners? Even if done only out of desperation to put feed on the table to feed family? Why do even atheist or secular societies with loose sexuality and very liberal morals frown upon it?

sexeducation

rqg3s4

true

false

true

[ "Prostitution is wrong" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

General advice on one-sided non-monogamy?

sexover30

v8d780

true

[ "You shouldn't be in a monogamous relationship if you want to be with more than one person" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I give up completely

depression

11fxobp

true

false

[ "You should not give up on yourself." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Have you ever cheated for revenge?

AskRedditNSFW

1181imw

true

[ "Getting revenge never improves your own situation" ]

__needs_caution__

No but if I ever got cheated on and I felt I needed to stay in the relationship I would at least make it clear that I’d need to fuck someone else to put us on the same level. It might not work out in the end but at least we tried and there’s no way I could go on just being someone who got cheated on without sleeping with someone else myself.

true

It's selfish for you to kill yourself because it might hurt other people so the solution is you are forced to suffer?

depression

11g5cda

true

false

[ "You should seek help if you want to kill yourself" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

I have begun the process of cutting out all my friends.

depression

11hojly

true

false

[ "It's painful to be cut off from your friends." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Where can i have sex other than my house or outside?

AskRedditNSFW

11fmikq

true

[ "You should find somewhere private to have sex." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Cars are fun if you have access to one! Even smaller cars the cramped backseat can make for a fun challenge to find positions that work

true

Is it cheating?

AskRedditNSFW

11fazwk

true

[ "Cheating is wrong, for any reason" ]

__needs_caution__

Would your SO be upset? If so, you may want to reconsider

true

Roulette anyone?

masturbation

11cg2aj

true

[ "It is not okay to play russian roulette" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it healthy to douche or not?

TopsAndBottoms

l019mu

true

[ "It's not healthy to think all women like douche-bags." ]

__needs_caution__

As with all things, it's not an either or. ***How*** to do it safely is what's important.

true

Do Care

sexquestions

y4offc

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to think women only care about themselves" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

why the fuck are 's bathrooms so nasty?

AskRedditNSFW

11btrco

true

[ "It is disgusting to not use normal bathrooms." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Looking for a resource to discuss sexual interests with partner?

sexover30

106wl0n

true

[ "You should be open with your partner about sexual conversations." ]

__needs_caution__

Mojo upgrade is one. Goes from the gentle to the more kinky side and you can both do it.

true

I am a failure

depression

11h25b8

true

false

[ "If you feel like a failure, you should get some help." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Should i give up on losing my virginity?

sexualhealth

kzy3o0

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't lose your virginity when you're not ready to do so." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Pregnancy possibility?

sexquestions

zl9i34

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How are people genuinely happy with life? It baffles me

depression

11gtb68

true

false

true

[ "It's great to be happy for others." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I wish my life was done. I can't hold on anymore

true

How to tell if circumcised?

Puberty

hag667

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Well it turns out this gave me negative karma. Weird.

true

Mostly a curious question: HOW do people stay quiet during sex.

sexquestions

1073brx

true

false

true

[ "It's annoying when people are loud during sex." ]

__needs_caution__

I’m the same way… I cannot be quiet. The pleasure just takes over and I sometimes don’t even realize it…

true

Do people actually care about body hair as much as i think they do?

sextips

11ey1gr

true

[ "It's ok for people to decide for themselves what to do with their body hair." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Depends, some do and some don’t. Just like anything, there is no one universal answer.

true

Ive never had a wet dream but i dont dream normally, is it still possible to have wet dreams?

Puberty

10mtrln

true

false

true

[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Some guys have wet dreams and some guys don't. Yes it is still possible for you to have one.

true

Is This Safe?

SexToys

119ojpk

true

[ "It is important to be safe" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Naked self pleasure?

masturbation

ygysr0

true

[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

always, i have to completely nude no socks or nothing. all the girls i like to look at are naked so i might as well be too lol

true

Do you ever wonder what makes relationships work?

sexpositions

nps4hy

true

[ "It takes effort to make new relationships work." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is my sexual taste ever gonna change?

Puberty

kifjw3

true

false

true

[ "It's ok for your sexual tastes to change over time." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

it can change. maybe try something new?

true

How common is being into chubby/ fat ?

sexquestions

111tm75

true

false

true

[ "It's common to find fat unattractive." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I think as a general rule men try to find women who look and are shaped like them. Unless they are rich then it doesn't matter they will get a supermodel girl

true

Should you take wank breaks?

sexquestions

k3legh

true

[ "You should take breaks when needed." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Will Condoms Work?

penissize

p1e8xx

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Should I jerk about my crush

RedditAfterDark

y10ggk

true

[ "You should not act on your crush" ]

__needs_caution__

Why not? Jerking it is good.

true

High School and Uni make me feel like a complete failure

depression

11gxptj

true

false

[ "It's bad to fail out of school." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do I get more pleasure being uncircumcised?

penissize

ysbaqr

true

false

true

[ "It's healthy to be circumcised" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Definitely YES. The part that is cut off is the part with the most nerve endings.

true

Showing off when masturbating?

masturbation

108y67j

true

[ "You should show off only at appropriate times" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I joined a masturbation group just for this pleasure. I love watching and being watched.

true

I lost all my friends and the person I love doesn't love me back

depression

11fhy52

true

false

[ "You should move on when someone doesn't love you back." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

[13f] Is it normal to be extremely horny all the time? Even after masturbating?

Puberty

l2y1m6

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Am I the only one that feels uncomfortable when there is a pet in the room during sex?

sexquestions

112ck3d

true

[ "It's normal to get frustrated with a pet." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Pets will openly maintain eye-contact while pooping. I don't know if there's much point to having shame around them.

true

When should i lose my virginity?

Puberty

ef3dg7

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't not lose your virginity at 5" ]

__needs_intervention__

Bruh you’re fuckin 13. Wait for two years.

true

I feel like a burden on others.

depression

11gwofj

true

false

[ "You should try to ease others burdens." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Cuddling in bed?

sexover30

jkysr4

true

[ "It is good to cuddle someone when they feel that they need it" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

taste your own cum?

masturbation

z9ciah

true

[ "It's gross to cum in your own mouth." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Don’t like my cum and by the time I do cum I’m not horny enough to do it anymore. But my precum is delicious

true

Should I kill myself?

depression

11fvcx4

true

[ "You should go see a doctor if you want to kill yourself." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

am i pregnant ?

sexualhealth

yzey0j

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

if it was just outside your undies, you're fine. you're not pregnant.

true

Is it ok to have sex with my sister if she wants it

sexeducation

x8h1he

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to have a relationship with your sister." ]

__needs_caution__

No. That’s you guys will regret as you guys get older and if pregnancy happens, baby will come out sick and you’ll also have to deal with family…not worth it IMO

true

Using exercise for depression

depression

11hj50q

true

false

[ "It's good to use therapy and medication in order to combat depression" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Do in their 20s prefer younger or older ?

sexquestions

117fy1h

true

[ "It's okay to like older women." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal for girls to watch porn and masturbate?

Puberty

e1aytq

true

false

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Girls watch porn (especially male porn) and masturbate too. So yeah it is common.

true

uncircumcised issue?

sexeducation

10k8u8t

true

[ "It's okay to be circumcised" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Does anyone else use a vibrator while they do other things?

masturbation

118u7sy

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Today I went for a walk around my neighbourhood with a vibrating cock ring on the head of my dick. Fucking awesome!

true

I hate being alone.

depression

11gr0gn

true

false

[ "It's good to know you're not alone in your struggles" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I feel you, I wish I had someone to love and love me back but I can’t imagine anyone finding me attractive. Sorry you’re hurting too 💜

true

Does anybody ever find themselves attracted to people who aren’t typically their ‘type’

RedditAfterDark

104r1fs

true

[ "It's rude to worry about who someone is attracted to." ]

__needs_caution__

Yes I don’t believe in types. Sexy is sexy.

true

I've been alone for a couple years

depression

11hssko

true

false

[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How to get better at dirty talk? What to even say?

sexquestions

118ul4u

true

false

true

[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

"Are you feeling it now Mr. Krabs" "Whoopsie-doo here comes the goo" "It's Taco'clock and here come the beans!" "You're so much tighter than your dad" "15 minutes could save you 15 minutes or more on car insurance, but I'm not going to take 15 minutes"

true

Sex on the first date? Yes or No?

sexover30

wd2ei9

true

[ "You shouldn't assume you'll have sex on a first date." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it "illegal" or subject to termination if you masturbate at work?

AskRedditNSFW

hg8w67

true

[ "It's wrong to masturbate at work." ]

__needs_caution__

What's the context here, because masturbating in the restroom stall is WAAAY different from masturbating in your office cubicle or elevator. *~~(and I'm assuming the "Working from home" part is just a slight joke)~~*

true

Do like giving blowjobs

sextips

z25cxx

true

[ "It's wrong to think women give a lot of blow jobs" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Best friends?

RedditAfterDark

wh6ggb

true

[ "You should always put your best friend ahead of your new friends." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Are you comfortable naked in public showers

Puberty

s1mmsy

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to be naked in public" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

why do i have no appetite at all?

Puberty

10ox7qm

true

false

true

[ "You should find ways to have a healthy appetite." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

help for anxiety

depression

11hc6b2

true

false

[ "You should get help if you're feeling anxious." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

What shape do prefer?

sextips

10y6jdx

true

[ "Having personal preference on women's body shapes is ok." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Only the first few inches of the vagina can feel. Don't sweat it

true

(15m) why do I masturbate so much

Puberty

116go55

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How do I become ok with being alone for life?

depression

11hhhd6

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I’m trying to accept the same. Sucks and hurts to know that I will probably never have that :(

true

Surprise rubbing from your partner?

AskRedditNSFW

gqydsi

true

[ "It is acceptable to surprise your significant other." ]

__needs_intervention__

My partner has magic fingers and he knows it. I'm basically orgasming all day long here in quarantine and I fucking love it

true

Not sure if this is the place but i have fantasies of my Lady cheating on me on top of that i also have fantasies of sharing her tagteaming and such. whats wrong with me i feel no guilt about it. Are these feelings normal

SexFantasies

ride0j

true

[ "You should not have fantasies about other people while married" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Very normal! This is a common cuckold/hot wife fantasy.

true

Is it normal to feel like you haven't eaten for weeks every single time you're hungry?

Puberty

jb4wpe

true

false

true

[ "It's expected you feed yourself when you stomach pangs of hunger" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Risk of pregnancy?

sexeducation

ydh6id

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to risk the health of someone that's pregnant." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Am I pregnant

Puberty

gk30n7

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Not a very smart thing to do. Aren’t y’all supposed to be social distancing anyways?

true

Am I to be huge?

penissize

yfvl8a

true

false

true

[ "You should strive to be the bigger person." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

There really is no way to know; your size now does not infer what your size may be in the future. Only time will tell.

true

What do you think about the public nudity? Some anecdotes?

AskRedditNSFW

117tu0j

true

[ "It is understandable to be prudent with your nudity." ]

__needs_caution__

Fine if skinny dipping with friends in an expected or less public area where random people could show up. Otherwise not really a good idea.

true

do you pee in the shower?

AskRedditNSFW

w1ecxb

true

[ "It's good to pee in the toilet before taking a shower." ]

__needs_caution__

Doesnt everyone? Yes i'm a girl, yes most of us do it as far as i know

true

...how do i finger myself?

sexquestions

mi54ga

true

[ "You should seek a therapist when you have the urge to cut off your own fingers." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

i feel worthless and i feel like i have no one to talk to

depression

11ht8i6

true

false

[ "You should talk to somebody if you feel hopeless." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

How do I clean after cumming

Puberty

q7j7uy

true

false

true

[ "You should clean up after yourself after ejaculating" ]

__needs_caution__

Sower, toilet, cum in your socks, use any clothes that would be washed anyway, tissues, etc. just in general stuff that will washed anyway.

true

Question about STDs

sexeducation

ehhwfa

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't hide STDs from your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Should I be worried

penissize

11acuro

true

false

true

[ "You should be concerned about your own health" ]

__needs_caution__

Absolutely nothing to worry about. You're a very good size and probably your friends are lying.

true

Is this a consent issue?

sexeducation

exad0p

true

false

true

[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Why do Black have bigger buttocks than White girls?

AskRedditNSFW

11a3dfj

true

[ "It's not right to think black men have large anatomy" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Can never tell if I'm just being paranoid or not when depressed

depression

11exmu3

true

false

[ "It's understandable to wonder if you're depressed." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Was I assaulted?

sexualhealth

gv3axv

true

false

true

[ "You should call the police if you are assaulted." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Not getting “wet” like i used to. Should I be concerned?

sexualhealth

110frws

true

false

true

[ "You should be careful around water." ]

__needs_caution__

This can definitely happen with age. Ask your obgyn..

true

Tired

depression

11gekts

true

false

[ "It's okay to be tired" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

masturbating to onlyfans considered part of cheating?

AskRedditNSFW

j162vm

true

[ "Masturbating with someone is still cheating." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is there such a thing as being 'too tight'

sexquestions

w7pfjy

true

[ "It's unhealthy to wear things that are too tight." ]

__needs_caution__

You could look up vaginismus and see if that fits with what you're experiencing. Getting comfortable with your own penetrative masturbation first, might be useful before bringing a partner in.

true