shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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Does anyone masturbate together	masturbation	11fg7v8	true	true	true	[ "You should only masturbate with people when it's mutual." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
May I be Bisexual, but just with the sexual things?	AskRedditNSFW	j43b1m	true	true	true	[ "You should let bisexuality be what it is" ]	__needs_caution__	I feel the same with but I'm a girl. I've done stuff with them but would never date one.	true
I feel depressed because I don't feel appreciated.	depression	11g04r4	true	false	false	[ "It's normal to feel frustrated when you don't feel appreciated." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Coping methods?	depression	11foobb	true	false	true	[ "It's good to learn coping techniques through therapy." ]	__needs_caution__	I use a digital coloring game on Facebook called Cross Stitch Masters. For some reason, that simple game relaxes me more than anything else.	true
Buying remote control vibrator as a gift for my girlfriend who has never used any sex toy?	SexToys	onj11l	true	true	true	[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]	__needs_intervention__	if you want something that does clit and g spot stimulation, the we vibe chorus is pretty good. It can also be used together at the same time	true
Article: "Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex?"	sexover30	9y3ris	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to encourage young people to have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	I think kids and work play far more into it than we'd like. Especially if both parties are the "go getter" types, they're going to be putting family and career in front of personal pleasure.	true
Is it okay to have really bad kinks?	sexeducation	i8oftq	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to keep weird kinks a secret." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	If you have netflix I highly recommend you “explained, sex” the first episode iirc, the one about kinks. That show is so good.	true
Can my partner pass their Kink/Fetish to me?	sexquestions	prxwc4	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to have sexual kinks as long as the acts are consensual." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I temporarily developed a panty fetish with an ex that pretty much wanted me to have one. So I say yes	true
Too Needy	depression	11g6rjy	true	false	false	[ "It is okay to be overwhelmed by needy people." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Have you ever peed outside? Where is the weirdest place you’ve ever peed?	RedditAfterDark	s53tft	true	true	true	[ "It's gross to pee in places other than the toilet." ]	__needs_caution__	Weirdest place was on a couch in an abandoned apt building while the girlfriend at the time used my member like a joystick and pointed the stream every which way as it arched almost across the room. She did things like that often	true
is prep necessary when you always use a condom?	sexualhealth	zdbinf	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	Never had any side effects from prep, it's free (UK), and you don't have to take it continuously (effective if you take 2 pills a couple hours beforehand iirc, max effectiveness after a week of consumption but not necessary) So far as I know, there is no reason to not get prep. Why wouldn't you want to be basically immunised against HIV?	true
Which position do you “park” it?	Puberty	owji1s	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't park in someone else's spot." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I've kept track of all of my sexual encounters (married) for three years. Here's the data!	sexover30	elezht	true	true	true	[ "It is good to keep track of your sex life" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Your 2020 statistics suck, man (I wouldn’t have ever imagined anyone tracking this, let alone sharing it. I clearly haven’t lived enough 😂)	true
Should i bring condoms or should i not be worried at all?	sexquestions	s4zm1j	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	If you're not sure, you had better be safe. Even if she doesn't intend to go that far that night, I'm sure she would appreciate that you were thoughtful enough to cover all bases.	true
I’ve done everything that I can, and I’m still not feeling better? It’s getting worse???	depression	11f8b5n	true	false	false	[ "You should look to more positive ways to feel better." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
What is wrong with porn??	Puberty	gblx9s	true	false	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Anyone else have a preference for older ?	AskRedditNSFW	11drlbf	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to like older women." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I want to want friends, but I just don't	depression	11h52e0	true	false	false	[ "It's good to want to make friends." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Finding a reason to get out of bed	depression	11gpr9m	true	false	false	[ "It is good to get out of bed" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How many have masturbated together with a sibling?	masturbation	11h09o8	true	true	true	[ "It isn't normal to masturbate in the same room as your sibling." ]	__needs_caution__	Sure when we were kids before we knew it was masturbating. As an adult my sister and I had drunk sex with our guys in the same room and high fived during lol.	true
Anyone else sick of being addicted to porn?	RedditAfterDark	rds5m4	true	true	true	[ "It's good to stop being addicted to things." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
is shower sex good?	sextips	rkzk9w	true	true	true	[ "It's harmful to your health to not shower." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Don't know about lubes, never needed any, but the best position, the one that affords least contact with cold tiles on hot asses is she's in a patdown position facing the wall or screen, he's behind and holding her hips. Oral can be very difficult, with all that water cascading, but it can be seriously dangerous also, slipping in the shower is no fun at all.	true
Shave or not?	sextips	yjporf	true	true	true	[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How do I be less attracted to my crush	Puberty	emojrx	true	false	true	[ "Don't date someone you are not attracted to." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	You can’t control what you are attracted to, you have to just accept it. Usually when boys ask out girls, and the girl rejects him the boy loses the attraction towards her unless they are a clingy one.	true
Is it normal for hormonal teens to masturbate to things like even though there straight	sexquestions	11e6a2n	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
what's your oppinion on romanticising tall illness?(tourretes among other things in my case) like saying "aww your tics are so cute (or hot)" in a clearly flirty way	AskRedditNSFW	11h9hpq	true	true	false	[ "You shouldn't romanticize mental health issues." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Can we stop the lies	Puberty	mp4dh8	true	false	true	[ "Lies will eventually be discovered and will have consequences" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
My pussy makes my partner uncomfortable	sexquestions	11eal2d	true	true	false	[ "You should communicate with your partner when you feel uncomfortable about something." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Can masturbating too much make problems if your a girl?	Puberty	z5i5q7	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Nope never. It’s ok	true
Do ever think about having sex with their coworkers?	AskRedditNSFW	ve2g2s	true	true	true	[ "It's wise not to get sexually involved with coworkers." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Guys think about having sex everybody. Coworkers are nothing special.	true
will I grow	penissize	y72xcn	true	false	true	[ "You should try to grow as a person." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Me and my best friend like to masturbate together… but I have a girlfriend… is it wrong?	sexquestions	vqgl5j	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to masturbate with others around" ]	__needs_caution__	This is something you need to speak to your girlfriend about. She deserves to know.	true
I don't know how much more I can take	depression	11hpkb9	true	false	false	[ "It's wrong to take more than you need." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How do I get motivated when I dint want to do anything and everything seems pointless	depression	11gcp5g	true	false	true	[ "You should find some hobbies to motivate and discipline yourself." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Could I be Pregnant?	sexeducation	10v02lx	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I want to kill myself	depression	11fcxm8	true	false	false	[ "You should go see a doctor if you want to kill yourself." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it okay to fantasize about all your friends gangbang you?	SexFantasies	11h0wkb	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to fantasize as long as you don't act on it" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Enjoyable Sex With A Condom?	sexquestions	10d5j4j	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Using toys and cleaning up afterwards? in a shared apartt	SexToys	11an3mg	true	true	true	[ "It's good to clean up when you're done playing with your toys." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	You can clean them in the bathroom sink and carry them through the common spaces wrapped in a towel. I bought a small dish drying rack to let clean toys air dry	true
Is it illegal if you’re underage and your underage girlfriend sends you nude pictures? Isn’t it considered like distributing child pornography or something?	AskRedditNSFW	11gsl2f	true	true	true	[ "It's illegal to blackmail someone with nude pictures." ]	__needs_intervention__	Yes. Possession of CP is illegal FOR ALL PERSONS, EVEN IF OF YOURSELF.	true
Losing virginity as a woman?	sexquestions	yxvxd2	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to think about losing your virginity." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Mine didn’t hurt or bleed at all, felt very natural and fun. It was also with a partner I trusted and felt relaxed around	true
Pubic lice?	sexualhealth	v3ydud	true	false	true	[ "You should get rid of your lice" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Any input on why I am the way I am?	penissize	v20amf	true	false	true	[ "It's wise to understand why you are the way you are." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
NOT SUICIDAL BUT I WISH ID DIE	depression	11grl63	true	true	false	[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
cant get hard because im nervous	sexeducation	uzwzdk	true	false	true	[ "You should try to calm down when you're nervous." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Sex in public primer?	sexover30	zelh4b	true	true	true	[ "You should not have sex in public." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	We tend to prefer places that have very few passers by but not zero. A secluded part of a park, top of a mountain, etc.	true
What is this kink exactly	RedditAfterDark	x9lp17	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	She wants to have a battle with you, get armor and swords and defeat her. But you should just ask her	true
i got out of a toxic relationship	depression	11fhc3t	true	false	false	[ "It's wise to leave a toxic relationship." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Setbacks make me want to give up. Help?	depression	11fou0n	true	false	true	[ "Try to encourage yourself after a setback" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Why does everyone think big breasts are better?	RedditAfterDark	zbu06n	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]	__needs_caution__	Size makes no difference. Big, small, real, or fake, I still want to see them!	true
Would you ever buy your daughter a vibrator?	SexToys	93qko1	true	true	true	[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]	__needs_intervention__	Yes! Sexual frustration can lead to poor judgment (like in sexual partners or using potentially harmful household objects), so I would absolutely buy any future children of mine vibrators.	true
What do you think about being naked/topless on public places	AskRedditNSFW	11b9bod	true	true	true	[ "It's not okay to be naked in front of children." ]	__needs_intervention__	Anyone should be able to go to topless. But you should always cover your ass....	true
question about male anal sex	sexeducation	f7spcr	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think gay men are only about anal sex" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Do you ask your partners before sending nudes?	RedditAfterDark	te5luz	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to see your partner's nudes." ]	__needs_caution__	Yes. But we are so far along, I don't need to ask everytime	true
How do I help my friend?	depression	11gq63w	true	false	true	[ "If your friend is in a difficult situation, you need to help them" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
what clothes won’t you steal?	AskRedditNSFW	i43vi7	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't steal someone's clothes." ]	__needs_caution__	Stuff that is uncomfortable or too ugly. Also clothes that display brand names or logos prominently, but that's just a personal pet peeve.	true
Is it possible to increase sex drive?	sextips	10di5i6	true	true	true	[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Ahh I would say increase your hormones and change your diet, get testosterone and estrogen boosters, as well as eating things like oysters, mussels, clams, asparagus, salmon, avocado, take supplements like multivitamins as well, I hope it helps. I find when I eat certain foods I get really horny	true
Best way to masturbate without people hearing?	masturbation	ixpwx4	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate where others can see or hear you." ]	__needs_caution__	I taught myself to do it silent. it took a few tries but I can do it now	true
Being narcissistic	depression	11htgth	true	false	false	[ "It's narcissistic to expect to be the most important person to everyone around you." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Surges in affection?	sexover30	ew1ltu	true	true	true	[ "It is good to be affectionate" ]	__needs_intervention__	(M) we go through similar. As much as we're compatible it can feel like sex dictates the relationship, if we have sex then it'll lead to a amazing time that will continue to build and bringing us closer together yet if there's a week where it hasn't happened we'll be on a come down from the high.	true
Whats your opinion on threesomes?	AskRedditNSFW	11d1rch	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Anyone else shave for masturbatory reasons?	masturbation	nzaydf	true	true	true	[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I trim pubic hairs so not completely bald and I shave the hair off my shaft. Sometimes shave balls too but that's the extent of it.	true
When and how would you approach your partner about porn habits as your sex life changes?	sexover30	yqrp7u	true	true	true	[ "You should communicate your partner about your habits." ]	__needs_caution__	We're going to nominally approve this but as a reminder, anti-porn ideologies ("no fap" for example) run counter to our sub's rules and posts espousing those ideologies will be removed as such. To be clear, there are plenty of other ways to discuss the pros/cons of porn use.	true
What do you regret buying?	SexToys	rop0sp	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't regret purchases that satisfy your needs." ]	__needs_intervention__	My rabbit vibe😅 the little rabbit ears for my clit do nothing for me and while internal vibrations are okay it also does nothing for me. I want a classic wand vibe, i feel like I could have a lot of fun with that	true
Relationships	depression	11frlev	true	false	false	[ "Each relationship is it's own individual." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I get like this too. I feel I only click with a certain amount of people.	true
I am 26 years old dealing with social anxiety	depression	11g09yz	true	false	false	[ "It's good to overcome social anxiety" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
question about porn	sexeducation	11fk88s	true	false	true	[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Its normal to be horny all the time right? 16f	sexeducation	x3gmk7	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	While it is a lot more intense during puberty, once you reach adulthood it does ease off a little bit for most people. It's not really that the horniness 'stops,' though, you just sort of learn to live with it and control it somewhat over time.	true
How fluid is your submissive and dominant desires?	AskRedditNSFW	119r270	true	true	true	[ "It is okay to want to be submissive." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Feel so much guilt and shame...	depression	11hogz5	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to carry around guilt and shame" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	It says there's a comment but it also says there isn't one. What the fuck?	true
I started dating recently and porn just doesn’t do it for me anymore. I have no urge unless I’m with him. Is this normal or am I losing my sex drive ?	RedditAfterDark	1057lgb	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to watch porn." ]	__needs_intervention__	You’re getting it naturally and assumed regularly so you don’t need so much anymore. Plus you SO it’s occupying your time more.	true
How to explore sex in marriage with my wife?	sexover30	rm8cgv	true	true	true	[ "You should talk to your wife about what the both of you need sexually." ]	__needs_caution__	Some consider porn cheating and some do not. It would allow you to explore your fantasies without anyone else.	true
Does alcohol help?	depression	11hmvuh	true	false	true	[ "If you have a constant need for alcohol, you should get help" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is it normal that I don't feel any pleasure while masturbating?	sexeducation	hek9hj	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Why do some girls call daddy?	sexquestions	j6qszb	true	true	true	[ "It's ok to like being called 'daddy' in a sexual realtionship." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	I liked girls with daddy issues. And I guess it was like a personal chip on my shoulder to have someone’s daughter call me daddy.	true
when a guy gives you his thumb to suck, how are you supposed to do it?	sexquestions	11fb8tc	true	false	true	[ "You should wean yourself away from thumb sucking" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it high sex drive or is it normal?	sexquestions	kk5pfl	true	true	true	[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I think it crosses the lines into nympho when you’re letting an orgasm get in the way of you doing productive things. Don’t start doing it at work.	true
(17m) is it normal for sex drive to be this high?	Puberty	117vymx	true	false	true	[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	You are at the climax of your sexual peak. You'll be fine	true
Is porn actually that bad (tally and physically)?	sexualhealth	iltsb9	true	false	true	[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it normal to be 19 and hook up with a 51 year old?	TopsAndBottoms	iowj65	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to date someone a few years younger than you." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How did you find out you were cheated on?	AskRedditNSFW	11go3a5	true	true	true	[ "It's hurtful for a partner to find out you have been cheated on." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I feel like it's Reddit telling you all relationships end from cheating. You hear more bad than good.	true
How do you tone down your urges?	RedditAfterDark	10sdzqi	true	true	true	[ "You should get help if you cannot control your urges" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	We send each other sexy reddit posts of random sexual questions and answer them for each other. 🤷‍♀️	true
My conservative parents are against me starting medication	depression	11gckbn	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to take medication from your parents." ]	__needs_caution__	I don't think their opinions really have anything to do with being conservative. I'm very conservative and I have no problem taking my anti depressant medicine.	true
Quitting college for the third time and ready to admit im a irredeemable failure.	depression	11fatl4	true	false	false	[ "It is natural to be embarrassed about failing at college." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Questions about realistic risks	sexquestions	112idx2	true	false	false	[ "You should not take unnecessary risks" ]	__needs_intervention__	If she doesn't want an IUD or the pill other options include - Nexplanon implant - The injection - Nuva ring - sponge - female condom It would be best for Her to speak to a doctor about what would be best for her, and what her concerns or worries are. Not all BC pill cause the same side effects in the same people, some people get little to no side effects in one thing, despite having side effects with another option....it's all a bit trial and error to find what works for her, and what she is comfortable trying...but the best person to discuss that with is someone from a doctor surgery, pharmacy or planned Parenthood or similar	true
Weird question, but is a ’s private part supposed to smell like fish?	sexualhealth	10rjhcm	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think women smell bad" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How does one deal with depression resulting from extreme stress?	depression	11gbcay	true	false	true	[ "You should look into medication that treats depression" ]	__needs_intervention__	I recommend talking about it to someone, maybe by calling a warm line. You can also call a hotline and talk even if you’re not imminently suicidal	true
People who get cum inside: How do you clean up without making a mess?	AskRedditNSFW	wc2qxm	true	true	true	[ "You should clean up after yourself after ejaculating" ]	__needs_caution__	We use blankets designed for pets on furniture. Found them on Amazon.	true
Body hair. Yay or nay?	sexualhealth	xbx7il	true	false	true	[ "You're allowed to have preferences regarding your body hair" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It's all a matter of personal preference and your partner's preference. I (F30) prefer short to none but having a hairy member wouldn't hinder the decision to get busy.	true
How do you feel about masturbating in front of pets?	masturbation	10uv2uu	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't be naked in front of your pets." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I don't have any pets, but if I did, I could never do it in front of them. I'd just feel awkward.	true
How to get better at dirty talk? What to even say?	sexquestions	118ul4u	true	false	true	[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	"Are you feeling it now Mr. Krabs" "Whoopsie-doo here comes the goo" "It's Taco'clock and here come the beans!" "You're so much tighter than your dad" "15 minutes could save you 15 minutes or more on car insurance, but I'm not going to take 15 minutes"	true
[Serious] of Reddit, what do you think of having a sugar daddy or moneyslave ? Why do you feel that way ?	sexquestions	oht1o7	true	true	true	[ "It's understandable to consider a sugar daddy when you need money." ]	__needs_caution__	I’d love to have a sugar daddy but there are so many scams out there that it makes a lot of women not interested in risking that. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that kink and I’d gladly be a sugar baby if the terms and conditions were right for me :)	true
Sabotaged myself again	depression	11hdwqn	true	false	false	[ "You should never sabotage someone else's efforts" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
money worries	depression	11h9emd	true	false	false	[ "It's troublesome to care primarily about money." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Does getting aroused feel like...	sexeducation	j67el4	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
How the hell do you feel good with a partner?	sexover30	ap2vf9	true	true	true	[ "It's good to discuss how you feel with your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
(13F) Why does it hurt to masturbate?	Puberty	10e42dn	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to masturbate too hard because you might hurt yourself." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Why is body shaming for a small penis so acceptable?	RedditAfterDark	wbcuh0	true	true	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Am I wrong for wanting my sister in law to suck me off?	AskRedditNSFW	11dpa33	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to be attracted to your future sister-in-law." ]	__needs_caution__	Alittle? Depends the reasons they’re an in law really	true
Why doesn't using my vibrator feel good? Is it possible my vagina is defective?	SexToys	mcd9ry	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	Are you stressing lately? Most orgasms are mental >physical	true

Does anyone masturbate together

masturbation

11fg7v8

true

[ "You should only masturbate with people when it's mutual." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

May I be Bisexual, but just with the sexual things?

AskRedditNSFW

j43b1m

true

[ "You should let bisexuality be what it is" ]

__needs_caution__

I feel the same with but I'm a girl. I've done stuff with them but would never date one.

true

I feel depressed because I don't feel appreciated.

depression

11g04r4

true

false

[ "It's normal to feel frustrated when you don't feel appreciated." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Coping methods?

depression

11foobb

true

false

true

[ "It's good to learn coping techniques through therapy." ]

__needs_caution__

I use a digital coloring game on Facebook called Cross Stitch Masters. For some reason, that simple game relaxes me more than anything else.

true

Buying remote control vibrator as a gift for my girlfriend who has never used any sex toy?

SexToys

onj11l

true

[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]

__needs_intervention__

if you want something that does clit and g spot stimulation, the we vibe chorus is pretty good. It can also be used together at the same time

true

Article: "Why Are Young People Having So Little Sex?"

sexover30

9y3ris

true

[ "It's wrong to encourage young people to have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

I think kids and work play far more into it than we'd like. Especially if both parties are the "go getter" types, they're going to be putting family and career in front of personal pleasure.

true

Is it okay to have really bad kinks?

sexeducation

i8oftq

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to keep weird kinks a secret." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

If you have netflix I highly recommend you “explained, sex” the first episode iirc, the one about kinks. That show is so good.

true

Can my partner pass their Kink/Fetish to me?

sexquestions

prxwc4

true

[ "It's okay to have sexual kinks as long as the acts are consensual." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I temporarily developed a panty fetish with an ex that pretty much wanted me to have one. So I say yes

true

Too Needy

depression

11g6rjy

true

false

[ "It is okay to be overwhelmed by needy people." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Have you ever peed outside? Where is the weirdest place you’ve ever peed?

RedditAfterDark

s53tft

true

[ "It's gross to pee in places other than the toilet." ]

__needs_caution__

Weirdest place was on a couch in an abandoned apt building while the girlfriend at the time used my member like a joystick and pointed the stream every which way as it arched almost across the room. She did things like that often

true

is prep necessary when you always use a condom?

sexualhealth

zdbinf

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

Never had any side effects from prep, it's free (UK), and you don't have to take it continuously (effective if you take 2 pills a couple hours beforehand iirc, max effectiveness after a week of consumption but not necessary) So far as I know, there is no reason to not get prep. Why wouldn't you want to be basically immunised against HIV?

true

Which position do you “park” it?

Puberty

owji1s

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't park in someone else's spot." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I've kept track of all of my sexual encounters (married) for three years. Here's the data!

sexover30

elezht

true

[ "It is good to keep track of your sex life" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Your 2020 statistics suck, man (I wouldn’t have ever imagined anyone tracking this, let alone sharing it. I clearly haven’t lived enough 😂)

true

Should i bring condoms or should i not be worried at all?

sexquestions

s4zm1j

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

If you're not sure, you had better be safe. Even if she doesn't intend to go that far that night, I'm sure she would appreciate that you were thoughtful enough to cover all bases.

true

I’ve done everything that I can, and I’m still not feeling better? It’s getting worse???

depression

11f8b5n

true

false

[ "You should look to more positive ways to feel better." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

What is wrong with porn??

Puberty

gblx9s

true

false

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Anyone else have a preference for older ?

AskRedditNSFW

11drlbf

true

[ "It's okay to like older women." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I want to want friends, but I just don't

depression

11h52e0

true

false

[ "It's good to want to make friends." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Finding a reason to get out of bed

depression

11gpr9m

true

false

[ "It is good to get out of bed" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How many have masturbated together with a sibling?

masturbation

11h09o8

true

[ "It isn't normal to masturbate in the same room as your sibling." ]

__needs_caution__

Sure when we were kids before we knew it was masturbating. As an adult my sister and I had drunk sex with our guys in the same room and high fived during lol.

true

Anyone else sick of being addicted to porn?

RedditAfterDark

rds5m4

true

[ "It's good to stop being addicted to things." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

is shower sex good?

sextips

rkzk9w

true

[ "It's harmful to your health to not shower." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Don't know about lubes, never needed any, but the best position, the one that affords least contact with cold tiles on hot asses is she's in a patdown position facing the wall or screen, he's behind and holding her hips. Oral can be very difficult, with all that water cascading, but it can be seriously dangerous also, slipping in the shower is no fun at all.

true

Shave or not?

sextips

yjporf

true

[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How do I be less attracted to my crush

Puberty

emojrx

true

false

true

[ "Don't date someone you are not attracted to." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

You can’t control what you are attracted to, you have to just accept it. Usually when boys ask out girls, and the girl rejects him the boy loses the attraction towards her unless they are a clingy one.

true

Is it normal for hormonal teens to masturbate to things like even though there straight

sexquestions

11e6a2n

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

what's your oppinion on romanticising tall illness?(tourretes among other things in my case) like saying "aww your tics are so cute (or hot)" in a clearly flirty way

AskRedditNSFW

11h9hpq

true

false

[ "You shouldn't romanticize mental health issues." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Can we stop the lies

Puberty

mp4dh8

true

false

true

[ "Lies will eventually be discovered and will have consequences" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

My pussy makes my partner uncomfortable

sexquestions

11eal2d

true

false

[ "You should communicate with your partner when you feel uncomfortable about something." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Can masturbating too much make problems if your a girl?

Puberty

z5i5q7

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Nope never. It’s ok

true

Do ever think about having sex with their coworkers?

AskRedditNSFW

ve2g2s

true

[ "It's wise not to get sexually involved with coworkers." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Guys think about having sex everybody. Coworkers are nothing special.

true

will I grow

penissize

y72xcn

true

false

true

[ "You should try to grow as a person." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Me and my best friend like to masturbate together… but I have a girlfriend… is it wrong?

sexquestions

vqgl5j

true

[ "It's wrong to masturbate with others around" ]

__needs_caution__

This is something you need to speak to your girlfriend about. She deserves to know.

true

I don't know how much more I can take

depression

11hpkb9

true

false

[ "It's wrong to take more than you need." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How do I get motivated when I dint want to do anything and everything seems pointless

depression

11gcp5g

true

false

true

[ "You should find some hobbies to motivate and discipline yourself." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Could I be Pregnant?

sexeducation

10v02lx

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I want to kill myself

depression

11fcxm8

true

false

[ "You should go see a doctor if you want to kill yourself." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it okay to fantasize about all your friends gangbang you?

SexFantasies

11h0wkb

true

[ "It's ok to fantasize as long as you don't act on it" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Enjoyable Sex With A Condom?

sexquestions

10d5j4j

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Using toys and cleaning up afterwards? in a shared apartt

SexToys

11an3mg

true

[ "It's good to clean up when you're done playing with your toys." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

You can clean them in the bathroom sink and carry them through the common spaces wrapped in a towel. I bought a small dish drying rack to let clean toys air dry

true

Is it illegal if you’re underage and your underage girlfriend sends you nude pictures? Isn’t it considered like distributing child pornography or something?

AskRedditNSFW

11gsl2f

true

[ "It's illegal to blackmail someone with nude pictures." ]

__needs_intervention__

Yes. Possession of CP is illegal FOR ALL PERSONS, EVEN IF OF YOURSELF.

true

Losing virginity as a woman?

sexquestions

yxvxd2

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to think about losing your virginity." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Mine didn’t hurt or bleed at all, felt very natural and fun. It was also with a partner I trusted and felt relaxed around

true

Pubic lice?

sexualhealth

v3ydud

true

false

true

[ "You should get rid of your lice" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Any input on why I am the way I am?

penissize

v20amf

true

false

true

[ "It's wise to understand why you are the way you are." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

NOT SUICIDAL BUT I WISH ID DIE

depression

11grl63

true

false

[ "You should get help if you're thinking of suicide." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

cant get hard because im nervous

sexeducation

uzwzdk

true

false

true

[ "You should try to calm down when you're nervous." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Sex in public primer?

sexover30

zelh4b

true

[ "You should not have sex in public." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

We tend to prefer places that have very few passers by but not zero. A secluded part of a park, top of a mountain, etc.

true

What is this kink exactly

RedditAfterDark

x9lp17

true

[ "It's normal to have kinks." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

She wants to have a battle with you, get armor and swords and defeat her. But you should just ask her

true

i got out of a toxic relationship

depression

11fhc3t

true

false

[ "It's wise to leave a toxic relationship." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Setbacks make me want to give up. Help?

depression

11fou0n

true

false

true

[ "Try to encourage yourself after a setback" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Why does everyone think big breasts are better?

RedditAfterDark

zbu06n

true

[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]

__needs_caution__

Size makes no difference. Big, small, real, or fake, I still want to see them!

true

Would you ever buy your daughter a vibrator?

SexToys

93qko1

true

[ "It is expected that you would buy your own vibrator to use." ]

__needs_intervention__

Yes! Sexual frustration can lead to poor judgment (like in sexual partners or using potentially harmful household objects), so I would absolutely buy any future children of mine vibrators.

true

What do you think about being naked/topless on public places

AskRedditNSFW

11b9bod

true

[ "It's not okay to be naked in front of children." ]

__needs_intervention__

Anyone should be able to go to topless. But you should always cover your ass....

true

question about male anal sex

sexeducation

f7spcr

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think gay men are only about anal sex" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Do you ask your partners before sending nudes?

RedditAfterDark

te5luz

true

[ "It's okay to see your partner's nudes." ]

__needs_caution__

Yes. But we are so far along, I don't need to ask everytime

true

How do I help my friend?

depression

11gq63w

true

false

true

[ "If your friend is in a difficult situation, you need to help them" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

what clothes won’t you steal?

AskRedditNSFW

i43vi7

true

[ "You shouldn't steal someone's clothes." ]

__needs_caution__

Stuff that is uncomfortable or too ugly. Also clothes that display brand names or logos prominently, but that's just a personal pet peeve.

true

Is it possible to increase sex drive?

sextips

10di5i6

true

[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Ahh I would say increase your hormones and change your diet, get testosterone and estrogen boosters, as well as eating things like oysters, mussels, clams, asparagus, salmon, avocado, take supplements like multivitamins as well, I hope it helps. I find when I eat certain foods I get really horny

true

Best way to masturbate without people hearing?

masturbation

ixpwx4

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate where others can see or hear you." ]

__needs_caution__

I taught myself to do it silent. it took a few tries but I can do it now

true

Being narcissistic

depression

11htgth

true

false

[ "It's narcissistic to expect to be the most important person to everyone around you." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Surges in affection?

sexover30

ew1ltu

true

[ "It is good to be affectionate" ]

__needs_intervention__

(M) we go through similar. As much as we're compatible it can feel like sex dictates the relationship, if we have sex then it'll lead to a amazing time that will continue to build and bringing us closer together yet if there's a week where it hasn't happened we'll be on a come down from the high.

true

Whats your opinion on threesomes?

AskRedditNSFW

11d1rch

true

[ "It's ok to have a threesome if all involved are consenting adults." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Anyone else shave for masturbatory reasons?

masturbation

nzaydf

true

[ "It's perfectly normal to skip shaving" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I trim pubic hairs so not completely bald and I shave the hair off my shaft. Sometimes shave balls too but that's the extent of it.

true

When and how would you approach your partner about porn habits as your sex life changes?

sexover30

yqrp7u

true

[ "You should communicate your partner about your habits." ]

__needs_caution__

We're going to nominally approve this but as a reminder, anti-porn ideologies ("no fap" for example) run counter to our sub's rules and posts espousing those ideologies will be removed as such. To be clear, there are plenty of other ways to discuss the pros/cons of porn use.

true

What do you regret buying?

SexToys

rop0sp

true

[ "You shouldn't regret purchases that satisfy your needs." ]

__needs_intervention__

My rabbit vibe😅 the little rabbit ears for my clit do nothing for me and while internal vibrations are okay it also does nothing for me. I want a classic wand vibe, i feel like I could have a lot of fun with that

true

Relationships

depression

11frlev

true

false

[ "Each relationship is it's own individual." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I get like this too. I feel I only click with a certain amount of people.

true

I am 26 years old dealing with social anxiety

depression

11g09yz

true

false

[ "It's good to overcome social anxiety" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

question about porn

sexeducation

11fk88s

true

false

true

[ "Looking at porn is perfectly normal" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Its normal to be horny all the time right? 16f

sexeducation

x3gmk7

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

While it is a lot more intense during puberty, once you reach adulthood it does ease off a little bit for most people. It's not really that the horniness 'stops,' though, you just sort of learn to live with it and control it somewhat over time.

true

How fluid is your submissive and dominant desires?

AskRedditNSFW

119r270

true

[ "It is okay to want to be submissive." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Feel so much guilt and shame...

depression

11hogz5

true

false

[ "It's bad to carry around guilt and shame" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

It says there's a comment but it also says there isn't one. What the fuck?

true

I started dating recently and porn just doesn’t do it for me anymore. I have no urge unless I’m with him. Is this normal or am I losing my sex drive ?

RedditAfterDark

1057lgb

true

[ "It's normal to watch porn." ]

__needs_intervention__

You’re getting it naturally and assumed regularly so you don’t need so much anymore. Plus you SO it’s occupying your time more.

true

How to explore sex in marriage with my wife?

sexover30

rm8cgv

true

[ "You should talk to your wife about what the both of you need sexually." ]

__needs_caution__

Some consider porn cheating and some do not. It would allow you to explore your fantasies without anyone else.

true

Does alcohol help?

depression

11hmvuh

true

false

true

[ "If you have a constant need for alcohol, you should get help" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is it normal that I don't feel any pleasure while masturbating?

sexeducation

hek9hj

true

[ "It's normal to pleasure yourself from time to time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Why do some girls call daddy?

sexquestions

j6qszb

true

[ "It's ok to like being called 'daddy' in a sexual realtionship." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

I liked girls with daddy issues. And I guess it was like a personal chip on my shoulder to have someone’s daughter call me daddy.

true

when a guy gives you his thumb to suck, how are you supposed to do it?

sexquestions

11fb8tc

true

false

true

[ "You should wean yourself away from thumb sucking" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it high sex drive or is it normal?

sexquestions

kk5pfl

true

[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I think it crosses the lines into nympho when you’re letting an orgasm get in the way of you doing productive things. Don’t start doing it at work.

true

(17m) is it normal for sex drive to be this high?

Puberty

117vymx

true

false

true

[ "It's acceptable to have a high sex drive." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

You are at the climax of your sexual peak. You'll be fine

true

Is porn actually that bad (tally and physically)?

sexualhealth

iltsb9

true

false

true

[ "It is okay to watch porn" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it normal to be 19 and hook up with a 51 year old?

TopsAndBottoms

iowj65

true

[ "It's normal to date someone a few years younger than you." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How did you find out you were cheated on?

AskRedditNSFW

11go3a5

true

[ "It's hurtful for a partner to find out you have been cheated on." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I feel like it's Reddit telling you all relationships end from cheating. You hear more bad than good.

true

How do you tone down your urges?

RedditAfterDark

10sdzqi

true

[ "You should get help if you cannot control your urges" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

We send each other sexy reddit posts of random sexual questions and answer them for each other. 🤷‍♀️

true

My conservative parents are against me starting medication

depression

11gckbn

true

false

[ "It's bad to take medication from your parents." ]

__needs_caution__

I don't think their opinions really have anything to do with being conservative. I'm very conservative and I have no problem taking my anti depressant medicine.

true

Quitting college for the third time and ready to admit im a irredeemable failure.

depression

11fatl4

true

false

[ "It is natural to be embarrassed about failing at college." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Questions about realistic risks

sexquestions

112idx2

true

false

[ "You should not take unnecessary risks" ]

__needs_intervention__

If she doesn't want an IUD or the pill other options include - Nexplanon implant - The injection - Nuva ring - sponge - female condom It would be best for Her to speak to a doctor about what would be best for her, and what her concerns or worries are. Not all BC pill cause the same side effects in the same people, some people get little to no side effects in one thing, despite having side effects with another option....it's all a bit trial and error to find what works for her, and what she is comfortable trying...but the best person to discuss that with is someone from a doctor surgery, pharmacy or planned Parenthood or similar

true

Weird question, but is a ’s private part supposed to smell like fish?

sexualhealth

10rjhcm

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think women smell bad" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How does one deal with depression resulting from extreme stress?

depression

11gbcay

true

false

true

[ "You should look into medication that treats depression" ]

__needs_intervention__

I recommend talking about it to someone, maybe by calling a warm line. You can also call a hotline and talk even if you’re not imminently suicidal

true

People who get cum inside: How do you clean up without making a mess?

AskRedditNSFW

wc2qxm

true

[ "You should clean up after yourself after ejaculating" ]

__needs_caution__

We use blankets designed for pets on furniture. Found them on Amazon.

true

Body hair. Yay or nay?

sexualhealth

xbx7il

true

false

true

[ "You're allowed to have preferences regarding your body hair" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It's all a matter of personal preference and your partner's preference. I (F30) prefer short to none but having a hairy member wouldn't hinder the decision to get busy.

true

How do you feel about masturbating in front of pets?

masturbation

10uv2uu

true

[ "You shouldn't be naked in front of your pets." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I don't have any pets, but if I did, I could never do it in front of them. I'd just feel awkward.

true

How to get better at dirty talk? What to even say?

sexquestions

118ul4u

true

false

true

[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

"Are you feeling it now Mr. Krabs" "Whoopsie-doo here comes the goo" "It's Taco'clock and here come the beans!" "You're so much tighter than your dad" "15 minutes could save you 15 minutes or more on car insurance, but I'm not going to take 15 minutes"

true

[Serious] of Reddit, what do you think of having a sugar daddy or moneyslave ? Why do you feel that way ?

sexquestions

oht1o7

true

[ "It's understandable to consider a sugar daddy when you need money." ]

__needs_caution__

I’d love to have a sugar daddy but there are so many scams out there that it makes a lot of women not interested in risking that. But I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that kink and I’d gladly be a sugar baby if the terms and conditions were right for me :)

true

Sabotaged myself again

depression

11hdwqn

true

false

[ "You should never sabotage someone else's efforts" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

money worries

depression

11h9emd

true

false

[ "It's troublesome to care primarily about money." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Does getting aroused feel like...

sexeducation

j67el4

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

How the hell do you feel good with a partner?

sexover30

ap2vf9

true

[ "It's good to discuss how you feel with your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

(13F) Why does it hurt to masturbate?

Puberty

10e42dn

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to masturbate too hard because you might hurt yourself." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Why is body shaming for a small penis so acceptable?

RedditAfterDark

wbcuh0

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Am I wrong for wanting my sister in law to suck me off?

AskRedditNSFW

11dpa33

true

[ "It's wrong to be attracted to your future sister-in-law." ]

__needs_caution__

Alittle? Depends the reasons they’re an in law really

true

Why doesn't using my vibrator feel good? Is it possible my vagina is defective?

SexToys

mcd9ry

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

Are you stressing lately? Most orgasms are mental >physical

true