shahules786/prosocial-nsfw · Datasets at Hugging Face

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For the in here, why does my wife lie about her partner count?	RedditAfterDark	xxd7el	true	true	true	[ "It is wrong to lie to your wife." ]	__needs_caution__	There’s a TikTok going around about this very thing! Check it out.	true
Why do I feel inferior	Puberty	113438v	true	false	true	[ "You should never make any one feel like they are inferior to you" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Is this really depression?	depression	11gzw05	true	false	true	[ "Long term depression is a sign of a need for professional help" ]	__needs_intervention__	Well, I can say for certain that this doesn't match the depressive symptoms that I believe I have. When and how quickly did you go from functional to this?	true
How safe are condoms?	sexeducation	o610pr	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
feeling utterly alone...	depression	11grqdu	true	true	false	[ "It's bad to feel alone." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Ketamine infusions? Anyone?	depression	11fjtst	true	false	true	[ "It's dangerous to take ketamine." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
What’s a fantasy or kink you want you want to try?	AskRedditNSFW	zg9txo	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to have a weird kink as long as you don't confuse fantasy with reality." ]	__needs_caution__	Going online and leaving positive, support comments on subreddits. So hard thinking about it.	true
What can I do to remove the guilt after I’m done masturbating?	masturbation	10u6ajb	true	true	true	[ "You should get some therapy if you can't stop masturbating." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Why guilty . We all do it baby xxx	true
I still feel like a loser	depression	11g9bc4	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How should i feel?	penissize	11i3286	true	false	true	[ "You should be honest about how you feel" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I just really wanna Die but, I also want my parents to think i just died of natural causes and that I didn't do suicide.	depression	11f3vz9	true	false	false	[ "You should speak to your parents when they are dying." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Feeling awful after wet dreams?	sexualhealth	hwe9ll	true	false	true	[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Is it wrong to think	depression	11fypmj	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to think about killing anyone." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is it a problem to not wear a bra?	Puberty	uhfvrc	true	false	true	[ "It's not right to think women are asking for problems when they don't wear a bra" ]	__needs_caution__	You should generally wear a bra during the day, if nothing else just for support. But I understand your desire of not wearing bras cuz it's uncomfortable at time.s	true
Do you touch your partner in ways that are low sexual/highly intimate?	sexover30	111nnxr	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong not to let your partner touch you." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Aight follow up question after seeing these awesome validating replies: Am I the weirdo for not liking this? I love sensual and non-sexual touch but NOT anywhere near my genitals.	true
How do people feel about public sex?	sexquestions	t9gabe	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to have sex in public." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Very hot. Just trying to be quiet is such a challenge....	true
Can’t cope with being this lonely	depression	11hin92	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't stay lonely on purpose." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Don’t know if I’m depressed	depression	11hrn6z	true	false	false	[ "You should ask for help if you're depressed" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
why am I not…motivated?	RedditAfterDark	ovdvyk	true	true	true	[ "You should look for ways to get motivated in life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Try talking to some other gym people and build a relationship that promotes support in one another. Then you can both boast about gains	true
how do foot fetishes work for ?	sexquestions	11euqxe	true	true	true	[ "It's not wrong to have a foot fetish." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	How do they work for men? Not being sassy, I mean it	true
Do you finish after getting caught?	masturbation	losirj	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't continue a bad behavior just because you haven't been caught yet." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
My boyfriend don’t want the sex right now in the relationship. What do i do?	sexquestions	11aunt8	true	true	true	[ "You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
How to dirty talk during a handjob?	sextips	dols8x	true	true	true	[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Do woman who love their partner care about what his penis looks like or it’s size? Someone please lmk…	sexquestions	115g163	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't judge your partner by the size of their penis." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It is definitely factor when based on visual stimulation and physical pleasure alone. If the girl is really into you it won’t matter to her nearly as much even though it’s not ideal.	true
morning depression	depression	11gvzca	true	false	false	[ "People should see a therapist if they're too depressed to get out of bed in the morning." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Why is it just move on	depression	11heh3x	true	false	true	[ "It's expected to move on from an ex." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Should I take this as a complet?	sexquestions	s2nlqm	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to like complements." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Thoughts on the stigma attached to Male sex toys?	SexToys	c2c32p	true	true	true	[ "It's inappropriate to expose children to sex toys." ]	__needs_caution__	How does one stumble across a sex toy when returning from the bathroom? Sounds like someone was doing some snooping, or your bud just left it out...	true
?	penissize	mqel5n	true	false	true	[ "" ]	__casual__	I know someone who had seggs at 12/13. (hes not my friend, I just heard it because a lot of people were like ooh did you hear this couple had sex)	true
Wife wants to watch me fuck other	sexquestions	112dnc3	true	false	false	[ "You should stop seeing other women and instead speak to your wife" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Skin irritation after sex w a new partner. Any treatt ideas?	sexover30	zegg5f	true	true	true	[ "You should try to tolerate certain irritations in your partner." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
What can you do to get happy besides masturbating, drinking and doing drugs?	AskRedditNSFW	p5032e	true	true	true	[ "You should do things that make you happy" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
I’m circumcised but I rhink uncircumcised are nice. Am I wrong and how do you feel about that?	Puberty	jtak6y	true	false	true	[ "It's wrong to hate the fact that you were circumcised because circumcision is healthy." ]	__needs_caution__	You can restore and do what ever. r/TeenageRestorers	true
Does someone else find this uncomfortable?	sexeducation	vlcrbb	true	true	true	[ "It is okay to let others know if you are uncomfortable." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Why are many of us not comfortable talking about sex? Isn’t sexual health important?	sexualhealth	hvojaa	true	false	true	[ "It is important to have a healthy sex life." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Being more comfortable in talking about sex, means you are enjoying your sexual life. It will help to prevent STIs spread also.	true
What are your experiences with having sex in public places?	TopsAndBottoms	jspyli	true	true	true	[ "It's bad to have sex in public." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	i did folsom street fair and dore alley where they fuck in the middle of the day and in broad daylight; does that count? If you don't know what either are; search for them in pornhub.	true
Am I addicted to masturbation? Or is this normal?	sexquestions	i5uk55	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	i am now 28 and i atleast have masturbated 360/365 a year since i was a teen. i Thought everyone did this and am now questioning it.	true
I am permanently sad	depression	11hfh9y	true	false	false	[ "It is bad to allow yourself to be sad for a long time." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I've been like this since I was 8 yrs old. Therapy and meds only mildly help	true
How to help people who don't want help or just not ready for help?	depression	11gtlyz	true	false	true	[ "You should push people to get the help they need" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Scared to be happy	depression	11hj6lb	true	false	false	[ "You should strive to be happy" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
and : Since rape is an act of violence and hate what is the attraction of the rape fantasy?	AskRedditNSFW	lr3ssd	true	true	true	[ "Rape fantasies are bad" ]	__needs_intervention__	The idea behind rape fantasies is that of power, especially if the person with those fantasies have been in a sexually powerless position before. Me personally, I've been in that powerless position before (yay sexually repressive cults), so I find CNC (consentual non-consentual, basically the same thing) rather appealing because it gives me that opportunity to reclaim that power over my own sexuality.	true
(13m) is it normal that I’ve never had a crush on anyone?	Puberty	mrwl55	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to have a crush." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
How to last longer and stop being insecure about it?	sexeducation	gz1zkn	true	false	true	[ "If you're insecure, you should get some therapy." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Well, don't masturbate all the time because you are training your body to cum fast. What you can do is when you feel you are close to cum stop and try to control your breathing into a more calm way.	true
Is it normal to feel attracted to the opposite sex?	sexquestions	11evcrx	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to feel attracted to other people as long as you don't act on it." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Are we traumatizing our kids?	sexover30	p7g188	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to traumatize children." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Is queer or homo offensive?	AskRedditNSFW	11gy224	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to use \"gay\" in a derogatory way" ]	__needs_caution__	Depends on the queer homo. Most of them don’t offend me, but there’s always that one guy…	true
How to help my girlfriend	sextips	y83kis	true	true	true	[ "You should try to take care of your girlfriend." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	Self exploring is very important for her to having a better and healthy sex life. I would keep encourage her on self play with or without you and if you are together communicating what feels good to her and if it doesn't its okay and just try something different.	true
How can I stop the intrusive porn thoughts, this is causing me imse pain.	RedditAfterDark	l23xh3	true	true	true	[ "You should seek professional help to get rid of intrusive thoughts." ]	__needs_intervention__	Exercise helps for awhile. Need some kind of distraction to keep your mind busy.	true
i don't wanna die	depression	11floh8	true	false	false	[ "You should not feel like you want to die" ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Overly sensitive down there?	Puberty	10ooki5	true	false	true	[ "It's not okay to be overly sensitive about things." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	As you get older and expose your head more it will reduce the sensitivity. Every boy goes through that.	true
Do you girls prefer to be shaven or unshaven down there?	AskRedditNSFW	11cbccd	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to shave only what you want to because of comfort and self acceptance." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
question about safe sex	RedditAfterDark	1051eh5	true	true	true	[ "You should practice safe sex or accept the consequences of not doing so." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Yeah I had sex with a prostitute who wanted me to use a condom for sex, but then gave me a blow job without one. I couldn't understand the logic either, I probably should have insisted on wearing one anyway	true
I've got good news	depression	11exmdj	true	false	false	[ "It's good to share good news." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Sex toys?	sexualhealth	pfn6wv	true	false	true	[ "You shouldn't leave sex toys out when others are around." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Terrified that my gf may be pregnant, am I overreacting?	sexeducation	pu8us7	true	false	true	[ "It is understandable to be worried that a pregnancy scare scared the shit out of your partner." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Do judge on the underwear wear.	sextips	uwhb70	true	true	true	[ "It is rude to judge a women for the way that they dress" ]	__needs_caution__	Just a tip, make sure the undies aren't white. If they are, you better not have skid marks.	true
That's a good 'tell' to recognise a girl from a trans-girl?	AskRedditNSFW	11avpms	true	true	true	[ "It's not right to think trans don't know their gender" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
do I masturbate while my roommate is in the apartt or do I wait til she is out somewhere?	masturbation	ww2g2d	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't wait until the last minute to tell your roommate you are moving out" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
I feel like i’m never gonna get better	depression	11f7rn3	true	false	false	[ "You shouldn't stop trying to get better." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	Tough times don’t last, tough people do, you got this. 😌	true
Will I still grow, or am I hopeless?	penissize	ydijkj	true	false	true	[ "You should try to grow as a person." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	You still have a chance to grow, but nobody will know for sure. You’re almost at the average size anyway, so even if you don’t grow much you’re fine.	true
Question about pregnancy possibility	sexquestions	105ge10	true	true	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
am i being groomed?	sexeducation	ybfb24	true	false	true	[ "You should groom yourself at home." ]	__needs_caution__	yes, it seems you have been groomed. it is definitely extremely strange for someone in their 30’s to be talking sexually with a teenager, whether you are of consenting age or not.	true
Is it ok to jack off with a friend	Puberty	du6zgl	true	false	true	[ "To avoid potential problems, it's fine to end a friendship." ]	__needs_caution__	It’s fine. Ur lucky he did it with u lol	true
Is this normal? Never had a sex ed	sexeducation	bry86w	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]	__needs_intervention__	Definitely follow the advice to see a gynecologist, and try to manage the pain as much as you can in the meantime (if you're on your period). Ibuprofen, heating pads, chocolate, comfortable clothes, etc.	true
Are non latex condoms just as good as latex condoms in preventing STDs?	sexualhealth	10y6afs	true	false	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	Non latex as in animal membrane as these are more porous. The polyisoprene protect against STD and are better for your partner so keep using those and enjoy!	true
Should I shave my whole body	sexeducation	xpmeeo	true	false	true	[ "It's okay to shave." ]	__needs_caution__	if you want to just trim it and keep it clean, that's what I do. but it's completely your choice of what to do with your own body hair.	true
I sexually fantasize for 8-10 hours a day even when I really don’t want to. How do I stop?	sexquestions	10mfuhe	true	false	true	[ "Fantasizing constantly is excessive." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
could i be pregnant?	sexeducation	vo2yji	true	false	true	[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
How to be honest about a kink/fetish?	AskRedditNSFW	1194zvp	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to have a weird kink as long as you don't confuse fantasy with reality." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
What do you think about being naked/topless on public places	AskRedditNSFW	11b9bod	true	true	true	[ "It's not okay to be naked in front of children." ]	__needs_intervention__	Anyone should be able to go to topless. But you should always cover your ass....	true
Cant stop masturbating	Puberty	10b3s5a	true	false	true	[ "You should restrain yourself from masturbating in inappropriate situations." ]	__needs_caution__	whenever you think of masturbating, try distracting yourself by doing other things you like. drawing, listening to music, reading a book... anything	true
Would it be inappropriate for me (M tto buy a vibrator for a friend (F)?	SexToys	okhtgm	true	true	true	[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
Ass to mouth: Is it dangerous?	TopsAndBottoms	j1udyi	true	true	true	[ "It's dangerous to keep harmful things in your mouth" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I've licked many an anus, both men's and women's, and I've never been remotely ill from it. Anybody that does get ill, tell your partner to wipe their arse properly next time.	true
Wanting to be sick	depression	11hpf02	true	false	false	[ "It's bad to try and get sick" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	It’s only natural to want to feel like you’re important to people. I can relate	true
Do I need a circumcision ?	sexualhealth	xzkmli	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't base your life around circumcision." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Fetishes?	RedditAfterDark	rto441	true	true	true	[ "Sexual fetishes are ok as long as nobody is getting hurt." ]	__needs_caution__	Face licking! It's a more obscure fetish, but really fun and sensual!	true
First time with a girl how can I keep away from std’s?	sexquestions	1147m6c	true	true	true	[ "You should learn about std's and how you catch them" ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
are the ones who obsess over penis size; don’t really care. That said, how actually disadvantaged in hetero sex/relationships are with comparatively small penises?	penissize	qi20dt	true	false	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
if I take pills regularly, then is it okay not to use condoms anymore?	sexeducation	v8c6vu	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	Pill doesn't protect you from STDs and STIs. If you're truly hell bent on not using condoms, than both you and your partner need to get tested regularly.	true
does breast size really matter that much to you?	AskRedditNSFW	106jffb	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]	__needs_caution__	Nope. But if you have a nice booty, I’m in it.	true
How confident/insecure are you about people seeing your body?	AskRedditNSFW	11ehg1m	true	true	true	[ "It's normal to feel insecure about your appearance" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	One on one - if you want to be naked with me, I want to be naked with you. Groups and folks that I'm not on a more intimate level, I have no desire to be naked in front of you.	true
Should I tell someone before we hook up I have a small dick?	TopsAndBottoms	lhelnc	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't tell someone they have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I've been with guys who aren't that big and as long as their dick worked, size didn't really matter at all. Helps to have a nice face also.	true
My partner is annoyed because I don't want to spend my childfree half day off having sex. Is It wrong of me ?	sexover30	ta3evx	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to abandon your child for your partner" ]	__needs_caution__	> my partner is an absolute asshole in the morning He could start by fixing that. Maybe then you'd want to have sex with him...	true
Why is masturbation such a taboo subject?	sexeducation	crvomw	true	false	true	[ "It's inappropriate to masturbate in public." ]	__needs_intervention__	Sexuality is tied to morality in most religions and even most governments as a way to control the masses. It’s not so much about sex acts/masturbation as it is about holding power over others through emotional manipulation / judgment.	true
Question about consent	sexquestions	116wj9r	true	false	true	[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]	__needs_caution__	Ask not tell? It's definitely a learning experience so some guidance perhaps but just giving orders isn't usually hot.	true
how do you personally handle being alone?	RedditAfterDark	105lska	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Stress relief sex?	sexover30	1001tet	true	true	true	[ "You don't want to cause stress for your partner" ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Has sexting your wife worked?	sexover30	11gcypk	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't force your wife to have sex with you" ]	__needs_caution__	I love sexting but my boyfriend isn’t really in to it, so it always dies with me. Just start out with something flirtatious and go from there.	true
Question about Condoms	sextips	hpohq0	true	true	true	[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]	__needs_caution__	Just remember for some people 45 seconds is 15 seconds longer than they have sex for😉😉 . I never saw the problem with it either until i thought of it this way, and then it was jist sad.	true
Is it normal for me to want to masturbate everytime I look at my d**k?	Puberty	j01d36	true	false	true	[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]	__needs_caution__	None	true
Our teenager heard us having sex and now is all upset about it. What now?	sexover30	119q2hp	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to have sex with a teenager." ]	__needs_intervention__	Leave it be. That’s the last thing I would have wanted to talk about when I was a teenager.	true
What is your craziest fetish/kink?	RedditAfterDark	z4zyex	true	true	true	[ "Some people have bizarre sexual kinks." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
How much is too much masturbation?	RedditAfterDark	z3er6s	true	true	true	[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
Is my penis too small?	sextips	10em8am	true	true	true	[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true
I feel like I’m fighting for my life	depression	11f5ov9	true	false	false	[ "It's good to keep fighting and living your own life." ]	__needs_intervention__	None	true
I’m probably going to take 10 sleeping pills soon.	depression	11fu4eq	true	false	false	[ "It's helpful to get sleeping pills from a doctor." ]	__possibly_needs_caution__	None	true
Ever use sperm as an ingredient for gravy or other Thanksgiving dinner food?	RedditAfterDark	z42mpl	true	true	true	[ "It's wrong to put semen in foods." ]	__needs_intervention__	Do people use sperm to cook gravy? What else do they use it for?	true
I want to have sex, but I’m scared.	sexquestions	11cx4v4	true	false	false	[ "You should be sure to be safe if you're going to have sex." ]	__needs_caution__	I did edit my comment by the way. I was slightly off on one or two areas.	true
Do you enjoy being horny or do you just want to cum?	masturbation	p0gk3c	true	true	true	[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]	__probably_needs_caution__	I just want to cum. I hate being horny because I get violent & emotional when I want it but cant have it at that moment (husband works at night)	true
Being left out/friendships	depression	11g0dnt	true	false	false	[ "If a friendship is truly untenable, then you can leave it" ]	__probably_needs_caution__	None	true

For the in here, why does my wife lie about her partner count?

RedditAfterDark

xxd7el

true

[ "It is wrong to lie to your wife." ]

__needs_caution__

There’s a TikTok going around about this very thing! Check it out.

true

Why do I feel inferior

Puberty

113438v

true

false

true

[ "You should never make any one feel like they are inferior to you" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Is this really depression?

depression

11gzw05

true

false

true

[ "Long term depression is a sign of a need for professional help" ]

__needs_intervention__

Well, I can say for certain that this doesn't match the depressive symptoms that I believe I have. When and how quickly did you go from functional to this?

true

How safe are condoms?

sexeducation

o610pr

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

feeling utterly alone...

depression

11grqdu

true

false

[ "It's bad to feel alone." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Ketamine infusions? Anyone?

depression

11fjtst

true

false

true

[ "It's dangerous to take ketamine." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

What’s a fantasy or kink you want you want to try?

AskRedditNSFW

zg9txo

true

[ "It's okay to have a weird kink as long as you don't confuse fantasy with reality." ]

__needs_caution__

Going online and leaving positive, support comments on subreddits. So hard thinking about it.

true

What can I do to remove the guilt after I’m done masturbating?

masturbation

10u6ajb

true

[ "You should get some therapy if you can't stop masturbating." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Why guilty . We all do it baby xxx

true

I still feel like a loser

depression

11g9bc4

true

false

[ "You shouldn't call yourself a loser." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How should i feel?

penissize

11i3286

true

false

true

[ "You should be honest about how you feel" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I just really wanna Die but, I also want my parents to think i just died of natural causes and that I didn't do suicide.

depression

11f3vz9

true

false

[ "You should speak to your parents when they are dying." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Feeling awful after wet dreams?

sexualhealth

hwe9ll

true

false

true

[ "Wet dreams are normal to have in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Is it wrong to think

depression

11fypmj

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to think about killing anyone." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is it a problem to not wear a bra?

Puberty

uhfvrc

true

false

true

[ "It's not right to think women are asking for problems when they don't wear a bra" ]

__needs_caution__

You should generally wear a bra during the day, if nothing else just for support. But I understand your desire of not wearing bras cuz it's uncomfortable at time.s

true

Do you touch your partner in ways that are low sexual/highly intimate?

sexover30

111nnxr

true

[ "It's wrong not to let your partner touch you." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Aight follow up question after seeing these awesome validating replies: Am I the weirdo for not liking this? I love sensual and non-sexual touch but NOT anywhere near my genitals.

true

How do people feel about public sex?

sexquestions

t9gabe

true

[ "It's bad to have sex in public." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Very hot. Just trying to be quiet is such a challenge....

true

Can’t cope with being this lonely

depression

11hin92

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't stay lonely on purpose." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Don’t know if I’m depressed

depression

11hrn6z

true

false

[ "You should ask for help if you're depressed" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

why am I not…motivated?

RedditAfterDark

ovdvyk

true

[ "You should look for ways to get motivated in life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Try talking to some other gym people and build a relationship that promotes support in one another. Then you can both boast about gains

true

how do foot fetishes work for ?

sexquestions

11euqxe

true

[ "It's not wrong to have a foot fetish." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

How do they work for men? Not being sassy, I mean it

true

Do you finish after getting caught?

masturbation

losirj

true

[ "You shouldn't continue a bad behavior just because you haven't been caught yet." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

My boyfriend don’t want the sex right now in the relationship. What do i do?

sexquestions

11aunt8

true

[ "You should be patient with a partner who doesn't want to have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

How to dirty talk during a handjob?

sextips

dols8x

true

[ "You should be careful who you talk dirty to" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Do woman who love their partner care about what his penis looks like or it’s size? Someone please lmk…

sexquestions

115g163

true

[ "You shouldn't judge your partner by the size of their penis." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It is definitely factor when based on visual stimulation and physical pleasure alone. If the girl is really into you it won’t matter to her nearly as much even though it’s not ideal.

true

morning depression

depression

11gvzca

true

false

[ "People should see a therapist if they're too depressed to get out of bed in the morning." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Why is it just move on

depression

11heh3x

true

false

true

[ "It's expected to move on from an ex." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Should I take this as a complet?

sexquestions

s2nlqm

true

[ "It's normal to like complements." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Thoughts on the stigma attached to Male sex toys?

SexToys

c2c32p

true

[ "It's inappropriate to expose children to sex toys." ]

__needs_caution__

How does one stumble across a sex toy when returning from the bathroom? Sounds like someone was doing some snooping, or your bud just left it out...

true

?

penissize

mqel5n

true

false

true

[ "" ]

__casual__

I know someone who had seggs at 12/13. (hes not my friend, I just heard it because a lot of people were like ooh did you hear this couple had sex)

true

Wife wants to watch me fuck other

sexquestions

112dnc3

true

false

[ "You should stop seeing other women and instead speak to your wife" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Skin irritation after sex w a new partner. Any treatt ideas?

sexover30

zegg5f

true

[ "You should try to tolerate certain irritations in your partner." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

What can you do to get happy besides masturbating, drinking and doing drugs?

AskRedditNSFW

p5032e

true

[ "You should do things that make you happy" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

I’m circumcised but I rhink uncircumcised are nice. Am I wrong and how do you feel about that?

Puberty

jtak6y

true

false

true

[ "It's wrong to hate the fact that you were circumcised because circumcision is healthy." ]

__needs_caution__

You can restore and do what ever. r/TeenageRestorers

true

Does someone else find this uncomfortable?

sexeducation

vlcrbb

true

[ "It is okay to let others know if you are uncomfortable." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Why are many of us not comfortable talking about sex? Isn’t sexual health important?

sexualhealth

hvojaa

true

false

true

[ "It is important to have a healthy sex life." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Being more comfortable in talking about sex, means you are enjoying your sexual life. It will help to prevent STIs spread also.

true

What are your experiences with having sex in public places?

TopsAndBottoms

jspyli

true

[ "It's bad to have sex in public." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

i did folsom street fair and dore alley where they fuck in the middle of the day and in broad daylight; does that count?  If you don't know what either are; search for them in pornhub.

true

Am I addicted to masturbation? Or is this normal?

sexquestions

i5uk55

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

i am now 28 and i atleast have masturbated 360/365 a year since i was a teen. i Thought everyone did this and am now questioning it.

true

I am permanently sad

depression

11hfh9y

true

false

[ "It is bad to allow yourself to be sad for a long time." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I've been like this since I was 8 yrs old. Therapy and meds only mildly help

true

How to help people who don't want help or just not ready for help?

depression

11gtlyz

true

false

true

[ "You should push people to get the help they need" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Scared to be happy

depression

11hj6lb

true

false

[ "You should strive to be happy" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

and : Since rape is an act of violence and hate what is the attraction of the rape fantasy?

AskRedditNSFW

lr3ssd

true

[ "Rape fantasies are bad" ]

__needs_intervention__

The idea behind rape fantasies is that of power, especially if the person with those fantasies have been in a sexually powerless position before. Me personally, I've been in that powerless position before (yay sexually repressive cults), so I find CNC (consentual non-consentual, basically the same thing) rather appealing because it gives me that opportunity to reclaim that power over my own sexuality.

true

(13m) is it normal that I’ve never had a crush on anyone?

Puberty

mrwl55

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to have a crush." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

How to last longer and stop being insecure about it?

sexeducation

gz1zkn

true

false

true

[ "If you're insecure, you should get some therapy." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Well, don't masturbate all the time because you are training your body to cum fast. What you can do is when you feel you are close to cum stop and try to control your breathing into a more calm way.

true

Is it normal to feel attracted to the opposite sex?

sexquestions

11evcrx

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to feel attracted to other people as long as you don't act on it." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Are we traumatizing our kids?

sexover30

p7g188

true

[ "It's wrong to traumatize children." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Is queer or homo offensive?

AskRedditNSFW

11gy224

true

[ "It's not right to use \"gay\" in a derogatory way" ]

__needs_caution__

Depends on the queer homo. Most of them don’t offend me, but there’s always that one guy…

true

How to help my girlfriend

sextips

y83kis

true

[ "You should try to take care of your girlfriend." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

Self exploring is very important for her to having a better and healthy sex life. I would keep encourage her on self play with or without you and if you are together communicating what feels good to her and if it doesn't its okay and just try something different.

true

How can I stop the intrusive porn thoughts, this is causing me imse pain.

RedditAfterDark

l23xh3

true

[ "You should seek professional help to get rid of intrusive thoughts." ]

__needs_intervention__

Exercise helps for awhile. Need some kind of distraction to keep your mind busy.

true

i don't wanna die

depression

11floh8

true

false

[ "You should not feel like you want to die" ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Overly sensitive down there?

Puberty

10ooki5

true

false

true

[ "It's not okay to be overly sensitive about things." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

As you get older and expose your head more it will reduce the sensitivity. Every boy goes through that.

true

Do you girls prefer to be shaven or unshaven down there?

AskRedditNSFW

11cbccd

true

[ "It's okay to shave only what you want to because of comfort and self acceptance." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

question about safe sex

RedditAfterDark

1051eh5

true

[ "You should practice safe sex or accept the consequences of not doing so." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Yeah I had sex with a prostitute who wanted me to use a condom for sex, but then gave me a blow job without one. I couldn't understand the logic either, I probably should have insisted on wearing one anyway

true

I've got good news

depression

11exmdj

true

false

[ "It's good to share good news." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Sex toys?

sexualhealth

pfn6wv

true

false

true

[ "You shouldn't leave sex toys out when others are around." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Terrified that my gf may be pregnant, am I overreacting?

sexeducation

pu8us7

true

false

true

[ "It is understandable to be worried that a pregnancy scare scared the shit out of your partner." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Do judge on the underwear wear.

sextips

uwhb70

true

[ "It is rude to judge a women for the way that they dress" ]

__needs_caution__

Just a tip, make sure the undies aren't white. If they are, you better not have skid marks.

true

That's a good 'tell' to recognise a girl from a trans-girl?

AskRedditNSFW

11avpms

true

[ "It's not right to think trans don't know their gender" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

do I masturbate while my roommate is in the apartt or do I wait til she is out somewhere?

masturbation

ww2g2d

true

[ "You shouldn't wait until the last minute to tell your roommate you are moving out" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

I feel like i’m never gonna get better

depression

11f7rn3

true

false

[ "You shouldn't stop trying to get better." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

Tough times don’t last, tough people do, you got this. 😌

true

Will I still grow, or am I hopeless?

penissize

ydijkj

true

false

true

[ "You should try to grow as a person." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

You still have a chance to grow, but nobody will know for sure. You’re almost at the average size anyway, so even if you don’t grow much you’re fine.

true

Question about pregnancy possibility

sexquestions

105ge10

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

am i being groomed?

sexeducation

ybfb24

true

false

true

[ "You should groom yourself at home." ]

__needs_caution__

yes, it seems you have been groomed. it is definitely extremely strange for someone in their 30’s to be talking sexually with a teenager, whether you are of consenting age or not.

true

Is it ok to jack off with a friend

Puberty

du6zgl

true

false

true

[ "To avoid potential problems, it's fine to end a friendship." ]

__needs_caution__

It’s fine. Ur lucky he did it with u lol

true

Is this normal? Never had a sex ed

sexeducation

bry86w

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to get sexually aroused for no reason." ]

__needs_intervention__

Definitely follow the advice to see a gynecologist, and try to manage the pain as much as you can in the meantime (if you're on your period). Ibuprofen, heating pads, chocolate, comfortable clothes, etc.

true

Are non latex condoms just as good as latex condoms in preventing STDs?

sexualhealth

10y6afs

true

false

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

Non latex as in animal membrane as these are more porous. The polyisoprene protect against STD and are better for your partner so keep using those and enjoy!

true

Should I shave my whole body

sexeducation

xpmeeo

true

false

true

[ "It's okay to shave." ]

__needs_caution__

if you want to just trim it and keep it clean, that's what I do. but it's completely your choice of what to do with your own body hair.

true

I sexually fantasize for 8-10 hours a day even when I really don’t want to. How do I stop?

sexquestions

10mfuhe

true

false

true

[ "Fantasizing constantly is excessive." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

could i be pregnant?

sexeducation

vo2yji

true

false

true

[ "You should talk to a professional about pregnancy issues." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

How to be honest about a kink/fetish?

AskRedditNSFW

1194zvp

true

[ "It's okay to have a weird kink as long as you don't confuse fantasy with reality." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

What do you think about being naked/topless on public places

AskRedditNSFW

11b9bod

true

[ "It's not okay to be naked in front of children." ]

__needs_intervention__

Anyone should be able to go to topless. But you should always cover your ass....

true

Cant stop masturbating

Puberty

10b3s5a

true

false

true

[ "You should restrain yourself from masturbating in inappropriate situations." ]

__needs_caution__

whenever you think of masturbating, try distracting yourself by doing other things you like. drawing, listening to music, reading a book... anything

true

Would it be inappropriate for me (M tto buy a vibrator for a friend (F)?

SexToys

okhtgm

true

[ "It is disgusting to use someone else's vibrator." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

Ass to mouth: Is it dangerous?

TopsAndBottoms

j1udyi

true

[ "It's dangerous to keep harmful things in your mouth" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I've licked many an anus, both men's and women's, and I've never been remotely ill from it. Anybody that does get ill, tell your partner to wipe their arse properly next time.

true

Wanting to be sick

depression

11hpf02

true

false

[ "It's bad to try and get sick" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

It’s only natural to want to feel like you’re important to people. I can relate

true

Do I need a circumcision ?

sexualhealth

xzkmli

true

[ "You shouldn't base your life around circumcision." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Fetishes?

RedditAfterDark

rto441

true

[ "Sexual fetishes are ok as long as nobody is getting hurt." ]

__needs_caution__

Face licking! It's a more obscure fetish, but really fun and sensual!

true

First time with a girl how can I keep away from std’s?

sexquestions

1147m6c

true

[ "You should learn about std's and how you catch them" ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

are the ones who obsess over penis size; don’t really care. That said, how actually disadvantaged in hetero sex/relationships are with comparatively small penises?

penissize

qi20dt

true

false

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

if I take pills regularly, then is it okay not to use condoms anymore?

sexeducation

v8c6vu

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

Pill doesn't protect you from STDs and STIs. If you're truly hell bent on not using condoms, than both you and your partner need to get tested regularly.

true

does breast size really matter that much to you?

AskRedditNSFW

106jffb

true

[ "It's wrong to judge women on the size of breasts." ]

__needs_caution__

Nope. But if you have a nice booty, I’m in it.

true

How confident/insecure are you about people seeing your body?

AskRedditNSFW

11ehg1m

true

[ "It's normal to feel insecure about your appearance" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

One on one - if you want to be naked with me, I want to be naked with you. Groups and folks that I'm not on a more intimate level, I have no desire to be naked in front of you.

true

Should I tell someone before we hook up I have a small dick?

TopsAndBottoms

lhelnc

true

[ "You shouldn't tell someone they have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I've been with guys who aren't that big and as long as their dick worked, size didn't really matter at all. Helps to have a nice face also.

true

My partner is annoyed because I don't want to spend my childfree half day off having sex. Is It wrong of me ?

sexover30

ta3evx

true

[ "It's wrong to abandon your child for your partner" ]

__needs_caution__

> my partner is an absolute asshole in the morning He could start by fixing that. Maybe then you'd want to have sex with him...

true

Why is masturbation such a taboo subject?

sexeducation

crvomw

true

false

true

[ "It's inappropriate to masturbate in public." ]

__needs_intervention__

Sexuality is tied to morality in most religions and even most governments as a way to control the masses. It’s not so much about sex acts/masturbation as it is about holding power over others through emotional manipulation / judgment.

true

Question about consent

sexquestions

116wj9r

true

false

true

[ "Relationships between consenting adults are acceptable" ]

__needs_caution__

Ask not tell? It's definitely a learning experience so some guidance perhaps but just giving orders isn't usually hot.

true

how do you personally handle being alone?

RedditAfterDark

105lska

true

[ "It's okay to want to be alone sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Stress relief sex?

sexover30

1001tet

true

[ "You don't want to cause stress for your partner" ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Has sexting your wife worked?

sexover30

11gcypk

true

[ "You shouldn't force your wife to have sex with you" ]

__needs_caution__

I love sexting but my boyfriend isn’t really in to it, so it always dies with me. Just start out with something flirtatious and go from there.

true

Question about Condoms

sextips

hpohq0

true

[ "It's good to use condoms to protect yourself during sex" ]

__needs_caution__

Just remember for some people 45 seconds is 15 seconds longer than they have sex for😉😉 . I never saw the problem with it either until i thought of it this way, and then it was jist sad.

true

Is it normal for me to want to masturbate everytime I look at my d**k?

Puberty

j01d36

true

false

true

[ "It's normal to masturbate." ]

__needs_caution__

None

true

Our teenager heard us having sex and now is all upset about it. What now?

sexover30

119q2hp

true

[ "It's wrong to have sex with a teenager." ]

__needs_intervention__

Leave it be. That’s the last thing I would have wanted to talk about when I was a teenager.

true

What is your craziest fetish/kink?

RedditAfterDark

z4zyex

true

[ "Some people have bizarre sexual kinks." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

How much is too much masturbation?

RedditAfterDark

z3er6s

true

[ "You shouldn't masturbate excessively." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

Is my penis too small?

sextips

10em8am

true

[ "It's not a big deal to have a small penis." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true

I feel like I’m fighting for my life

depression

11f5ov9

true

false

[ "It's good to keep fighting and living your own life." ]

__needs_intervention__

None

true

I’m probably going to take 10 sleeping pills soon.

depression

11fu4eq

true

false

[ "It's helpful to get sleeping pills from a doctor." ]

__possibly_needs_caution__

None

true

Ever use sperm as an ingredient for gravy or other Thanksgiving dinner food?

RedditAfterDark

z42mpl

true

[ "It's wrong to put semen in foods." ]

__needs_intervention__

Do people use sperm to cook gravy? What else do they use it for?

true

I want to have sex, but I’m scared.

sexquestions

11cx4v4

true

false

[ "You should be sure to be safe if you're going to have sex." ]

__needs_caution__

I did edit my comment by the way. I was slightly off on one or two areas.

true

Do you enjoy being horny or do you just want to cum?

masturbation

p0gk3c

true

[ "It's okay to be horny sometimes." ]

__probably_needs_caution__

I just want to cum. I hate being horny because I get violent & emotional when I want it but cant have it at that moment (husband works at night)

true

Being left out/friendships

depression

11g0dnt

true

false

[ "If a friendship is truly untenable, then you can leave it" ]

__probably_needs_caution__

None

true