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my other friends know i like him and they make it pretty obvious so i’m pretttyyyyy sure he knows (not too sure, he can be oblivious but he’s smart). i was heading out and wanted to say bye and they told him i was looking for him to say bye and apparently he had this “huge smile” on his face but he called them liars? i said bye to him and he had the ‘i know you like me’ smile (my two friends and dad were also standing from afar watching like creeps with creepy smiles) |
last i saw him, he took my phone and spammed my camera roll with photos of his friends and photos of me looking for my phone. |
there’s been indication that he doesn’t see me as more than a friend so i don’t know where my heads at. |
anyways, it’s been a dreadful long year, should i move on? my friends want me to tell him but i wouldn’t know how to approach that and it would ruin the dynamic of our friendship. |
Picture this : I’m in first year university , awkward, chubby, un-cute. I never felt good enough, I was never the girl that anyone paid any mind to, the DUFF if you will. I met this dude and we became friends. He comes to residence all the time , hangs out with me, watches anime with me. As a surprise to no one, I fell for him. Tall, blond hair, blue eyes, such a fucking pretty smile. And of course I had to open my big mouth and confess, told him I liked him, and of course he tells me he doesn’t feel that way towards me. Why would he? I decided to wallow in my self pity and tell him I can’t be his friend because it’s too painful for my feelings and he honestly didn’t even object. |
Fast forward 3 and a half years and here I am. Got out of a two year relationship , Finishing my degree, I go to the gym , grew my hair out, learned how to dress better and I have my dream job lined up. And then I get the stupid Instagram message reply to my story about my classes. Mister is now two years bellow me in the same program and wants to hang out to chat about how I got into my specialty field so quickly. And of course I’m quick to say yea sure!!!!!1!1!!! |
I’m thrilled. Excited to dress up and basically show off how much I’ve changed, how much better I am, how hot and cool and successful I am now. I’ve HAD a Boyfriend, I’ve played the field, hell, this week ALONE 2 guys from my gym asked for my number. |
And yet, we meet for coffee and I’m right back in first year. Combing my fluffy hair, looking dumpy and awkward, caught up in his blue eyes and stupid humour. I just want him to like me so freaking badly. It’s humiliating. I’m all awkward, we worked out together and I’m just following him around oo-ing and ah-ing at his form, asking him to teach me how to squat. (I know the fuck how). God. Then I get this Fucking feeling of being not good enough, insignificant , unattractive. Just like in first year. As hard as I tried to distance myself, I guess I’m always going to be that un-likeable girl I was. |
So I finally got the courage to ask this girl, who I’ve had a crush on for years, for her number. She said yes and we started texting really well for like four days. I asked her if she wanted to grab food and she said she’d love to. We setup a day and then I waited for her to text first. When the day came around she said she just found out she was leaving on vacation a day early (was originally leaving the day after we were gonna go out). When she got back form vacation things just weren’t the same. She wasn’t really texting and even after I walked with her to class a few times nothing happened. |
Anyway she said she was too busy to date right now. |
It’s been about a month and schools about to end, and I definitely still have a massive crush on her. She never got to know me so I think I still have a real shot with her |
Sooo, do I ask her to grab food now that school is over and she’ll have time? Or is there something else I should do? Either way I wanna do somthing. Any advice?? |
To start off, I’m in high school, and I’ve never had a girlfriend before. There’s been this girl I’ve been interested in lately, but I’m not sure if I have a crush on her or not (probably a very small crush). I got to start talking to her through orchestra relations and being in the same club. What I know is I want to get to know her more, and see where it takes my feelings. I texted her saying I wanted to get to know her more, and she was cool with it and told me we could maybe hangout sometime. I don’t know how to take it from here tho. I don’t really want to make it a date yet, or make it awkward. I just want to have some fun time with her and get to know her more. Any ideas or advice on what I can do? Where would be a good place to “hangout”? My house? Her house? Some place? I would appreciate if someone with experience can help me out! |
Not sure if age is helpful but just in case: |
Me: 13 y/o Boy |
Crush: 13 y/o Girl |
I apologize in advance for the super long post. |
Not to long ago I asked my crush if I could tell her something at lunch in private (so I could tell her how I feel) . She says yes and we agree on a spot to meet up. She isn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I wait for her by our the place we agreed to meet at (I chose this place cause I needed to sit down and thought she would say something to me). She just walked by me and didn’t say anything. The next day I thought “ from her perspective I wasn’t exactly where we agreed to meet and maybe she got to nervous to say anything because I was with my friend” so I apologized about not being exactly where I agreed to be and asked if she wanted to meet up at the beginning of lunch and she said yes. Again she wasn’t there at the beginning of lunch so I actually waited exactly at the spot without any friends. She didn’t say anything though and I think she was avoiding me. However she has and is still showing signs of liking me. Here’s a list |
1: I catch her looking at me a lot. She still does it after everything I talked about above. She did it 3 times today alone. |
2: One time I got her checking me out. |
3: One time she was walking to her class and stopped in the doorway with her turned toward me. She smiled when she saw me looking at her. |
There are some other things that might be good but going into those would double the size of the post. But I will tell anyone that’s curious in the comments. |
Any ideas on what she be could be doing? |
Let me introduce myself a bit before this story starts. My name is Ace and I'm a transgender guy. And I have a crush on a much older girl. Alright so I'm talking with this girl online, Let's call her Ivy. Ivy and I have been talking since the end of december 2021. In february I started to develop a little crush on Ivy. I struggled to accept my feelings for her but I kinda accepted it by now. We both agreed that we would meet each other in real life this year, while summer vacation or something. I started to give little hidden hints to Ivy since the end of January and till now she still hasn't found one, hopefully. But here's the thing why I'm thinking about waiting 3 yrs to confess my crush to her, I'm still a minor for 3 years. I'm 15 and she's 20. So I'm hoping that if I wait, the friendship will fade out or I'll lose feelings. I'm scared to confess my feelings to someone again because my last 3 crushes rejected me and that put me in a depressive state for 4 months. If I get in that depressive state again at the end of the year it will fuck up a big part of my life. I might be refused for transgender care because I'm not mentally stable at that moment or I'll need to stay back in 9th grade again like this year. So waiting seems like the best option for me but I could be wrong. Has anyone some advice for me? Or a reason for me to confess at the end of the year? I'm so fucking lost.. |
Let's look back at some memorable moments and interesting insights from last year. |
**Your top 10 posts:** |
* "[25 Upvotes and I will ask her out](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/reefw0)" by [u/South\_Original8872](https://www.reddit.com/user/South_Original8872) |
* "[Based on a real story](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/r08wgw)" by [u/Exp1osiv3](https://www.reddit.com/user/Exp1osiv3) |
* "[Im gonna send her this, what do y'all think?](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/t8goe6)" by [u/justjay9507](https://www.reddit.com/user/justjay9507) |
* "[my crush is an asshole.](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugr8y3)" by [u/Groundbreaking\_Bid51](https://www.reddit.com/user/Groundbreaking_Bid51) |
* "[Can I get a few upvotes for my new gf](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qe11m0)" by [u/IOKDUCKY](https://www.reddit.com/user/IOKDUCKY) |
* "[It feels weird but I'll allow it](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/rl796j)" by [u/sohamdutta1710](https://www.reddit.com/user/sohamdutta1710) |
* "[finally told him i like him via meme and i hope he responds](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/qtvv59)" by [u/Creepy\_Rub2882](https://www.reddit.com/user/Creepy_Rub2882) |
* "[Emotional damage](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/tuvn7o)" by [u/moonmeetings](https://www.reddit.com/user/moonmeetings) |
* "[I don't know what to say](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/scmglz)" by [u/fakescenarios](https://www.reddit.com/user/fakescenarios) |
* "[I just told my crush that I like him](https://www.reddit.com/r/Crush/comments/ugelzt)" by [u/Toast\_Oven](https://www.reddit.com/user/Toast_Oven) |
I guess I'm just looking to actually voice this and not necessarily looking for advice. Any support or tips appreciated too! |
I (28F) have a crush on a coworker (27M) that's about a week and a half in the making. Initially I was on the fence about what to do because our office is pretty close knit, BUT I have decided for numerous reasons that I will tell him. |
1. Worst case scenario is it might be a little awkward for a bit if he is not receptive, but he seems like a genuinely good guy so I don't expect it to be incredibly awkward at all. And I won't be hurt by the rejection if that's what does happen. |
2. Best case scenario is we get to know each other more and maybe it develops into something more meaningful. |
3. If somebody had a crush on me, I would want to know. |
4. I am a very bold and straightforward person and I do not like carrying this secret around with me. Maybe that is selfish, but it is what it is. |
So this Friday I want to tell him because we don't work weekends and this would give both of us some breathing room and less room for awkwardness. I am hoping maybe we run into each other on the way out of the office. Obviously this exact circumstance may not happen, so this is more a tentative plan pending a window of opportunity presents itself. |
I'm nervous but also really excited. I am a pretty peppy positive person so I treat everybody with the same happy attitude so I do not think he will expect this necessarily and I hope it doesn't take him aback too much. |
He's just so fucking cute and even the minimal potential that something could come of it is a really nice feeling. |
My crush is too shy to admit he likes me so he's an asshole to me. This is a grown man, btw. |
Anyway, I adore him but he's stupid. |
Guys shes nice and touchy with everyone but me 💀 ans also is mean to only me💀 but we are close friends and i liked her since we’ve met and thing is today we had a test ans one of our classmates told me to sit in front of him which also required me to sit next to my crush so i could cover him while he cheats in test i was about to sit down but my crush prevented me to sit in jokingly way and then i got on my old seat but she’s very nice and touchy with everyone but me to me shes jokingly mean and subtly touchy and she also started copying my slang couple of weeks ago and calls me nerd sometimes probably cuz one of our friend started to call me “nerd” sometimes. HELP YA BOI OUT 😈be ruthlessly realistic what you think |
Is it ok to leave someone on read if the conversation seems like it’s run it’s course? and I don’t wanna respond with an average “lol” or something like that. I don’t mean it to be toxic or ignoring her I just don’t know what to say or keep dragging it on. |
I just confessed to my crush and I’m absolutely terrified |
The place that I live in, has holidays. My family decided to go for a staycation of one night at a resort a bit away from home. Only to find my childhood crush and family there too, on the exact same days. We’re now adults (me just graduating in one year and he graduated one year ago). We don’t speak, but when we bumped into each other in the resort, his face lit up and we had a brief convo. I just loved living the time again, and he still gives me butterflies. And I know his family very well because me and his sibling are childhood friends 🙈 |
The coincidence was extremely weird… I am guessing its a hint 🙊 |
we met a few days ago and she invited me to a local concert last night with some of her friends. she's very flirty but she has so many friends it's hard to tell if that's just her personality or if she likes me. but we hung out like the whole time and it seemed like she was focusing much more on me than anyone else..i just don't know |
I have a long time crush on one of my college mate from college. I never had conversation with him as he is from different department. He started to notice me and got to know that I like through our mutual friend. My feelings for him didnt change for years. So I confessed to him on my 7th semester through text. He politely apologized and said that he had no such feelings towards me. I was heartbroken and took a step back. We were awkward around each other after that and to add more to it I was put along with him in a group interview. Sat next to each other. 😑 I bluffed like anything as dont know what to say in the interview as he is sitting so close to me. I failed that interview. But still that moment was something I remember till I die. 😁 I tried making convo after college days, but he ignored. After 3 years....... |
I saw him on instagram, and gave request. He accepted and followed me back. I was on cloud nine. But I dont want to go again start convo again and get ignored. So he texted me back after a week or so 😬 We had a formal conversation of Hi, how are you doing, what you are to, career..etc. and thats all. After that no texts from him. He checks out my story and posts. I used to post stories that he can start conversaion with. But he didnt. I wanted to get to know him very badly. He just woke up all my shutdown emotions and I wanted him to be part of my life badly. I just cant move on from him. I cant get him out of my head. I want to know more about him and if it clicks i want to take it forever. I dont how to start a convo with him gain...its been 8 moths since his text on insta. I want to know what he feels towards me now. Is he ready for relationship or does he have any changed feelings towards me???? What should I do now? I just want to have frequent convo with him and get to know about him first before making any confession to him again. Help me out. |
PS: Im 25 he is 26, both working in different places. |
I need help. I have always been the loser in school who gets made fun of until this school year (11th grade). During quarantine, I grew to 6'1, lost a lot of weight, and I'm a completely new person. This school year, IDK if I am delusional or not but it just seems like everybody likes me. I don't have any experience with girls so it just frustrates me trying to figure it out, it is like 10+ girls. Whenever I ask my friend to ask if they know me, they always say they don't know who I am which confuses me too, and all my friends call me delusional. |