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STOP FREAKING FALLING FOR EVERY GUY YOU SEE 😫

Okay, there's this woman, who is literally strong, captivatingly beautiful, bad-ass as well I might add, and many other things. It is just, I think I am too out of her league, you know? I mean, she is beautiful, and am not handsome enough. But here is what I wanted to do, I told myself that if I want her into my life, I should have something to prove first. Like go work, earn enough money, creating fortune too. Because really at this point, I am just barely a nobody. I mean yeah, I have work but not good enough. I really like her. I am also thinking, I wanted to confess my feelings through music. Writing a song for her. Come what may, whatever happens, that is it. She will have a job soon too. So I figured, if we ever got the chance to see again after the first meet up, it will not happen most likely. What should I do on the first meeting? I am nervous. And I really think I do not have the chance to be with her too. What do you guys think?

she and her bandmate ask me to make a video of there performance.

And yah i accepted it.

So i was infront of them standing and recording them. She even look at the camera. I saw that cuz im staring at her using the camera.

And when they finshed she ask me if i recorded it.

Any thoughts? Should i take it as a sign. Cuz i was really looking for signs.

He is really shy and I know he hates school but today I had a volunteer activity after school and he stayed. He also made eye contact with me 😁😁😁

For some context, we're extremely close, but not in a romantic way. We tell each other everything, see us almost everyday, often call or hang out, and are in the same friend group, so whenever there's a party, we both are there.

She first had initiated it on a party when we were both sitting on a couch, she put her head on my shoulder and I reciprocated. After that she wanted to sleep for a bit and we both laid down on the couch holding each other. I eventually got up later to grab some water, and sat on a chair on the other side of the room not wanting to wake her up. She was not sleeping and opened her eyes, and invited me to go back with her on a couch (being a dumbass, I refused because I thought she would sleep better without me)

The same thing happened at one or two other parties, and we both fell asleep holding each other during new year's eve.

I precise that she does not drink alcohol, and had never cuddled with other people than her formers boyfriends, her female best-friend, and her family

So how do you guys see cuddling ? Is it something you can do with anyone you're close with or just with people you like romantically ?

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Hello this is my first time posting on reddit

So i have a friend that doesnt go to my school anymore, and this friend that i still talk to has a female friend in school...well i like this girl, i find her attractive.

And i dont know what to do here, i have never talked to her ever in my life and shes a grade below me in school so the chances of contact are low but i really want to talk to her and scale things up. Should i tell my friend? Should i attempt to talk to her? what should i do, any suggestions would help

So it’s the end of the semester and I was thinking about messaging him, letting him know I that I am happy we met this semester and that I appreciate our little conversations, and how they brighten my day and in the end wishing him well for the summer. Should I do it?

Side note: I would tell him in person given the chance, but I don’t see him often enough and we don’t share any classes.

So its been a week since we are practicing for songs that we will perform. Im a drummer and shes a singer.

I like her. I always trying to be nice with her without showing signs. Im trying to limit my self cuz shes currently dating someone or i think she likes him. But they are not in a relationship yet. So im just trying my best with limits for now. I will do what i can do. Mehh.

Im the one who volunteer. To bring her home.

I have a bike so. Yah. I,ve added her on social media . But i dont want to talk to her. Cuz i know shes busy. She got alot of scheduled performance so i think its not the right time.

Ive been practicing alot btw just to impress her.

I just intended to be friend with her as of now. I need to respect the other guy aswell.

Reposting here because my last post got no responses in another community.

I (28F) have a newly developed crush on a coworker (M27). With this development, I've had to re-evaluate my sexuality because I adopted a lesbian identity during the duration of my last relationship with a woman. This isn't necessarily relevant, but I guess is good background info to set the stage. I have been single since February 2021 after a six year on/off relationship and I figured I'd take years to move on, but I actually feel in a space where I feel good about the relationship ending and I am open to see who is out there.

He is new to the office, maybe like two or three weeks. But I actually went to high school with him and he was two grades below me in my younger brothers class. I realized I knew him and we chatted a little bit about it. At that point, I thought he was cute, but that was it.

Fast forward a week or so, and I have somehow formed a full-blown crush on the guy. We have had a few conversations here and there, nothing deep or crazy, but I really like his laid-back energy and gentle demeanor. I find it really attractive and would really like to get to know him more.

However, I typically stray away from office/workplace romances. We have a small office - maybe 15ish people - so we do occasionally cross each other's paths.

That being said, I am extremely cautious about approaching the topic with him of my attraction and interest in him. I don't want to make it weird or awkward for either of us. I would accept rejection if that were to happen. I just feel so weighted down with this secret. I always pursue things when I'm interested, so I am incredibly on the fence about whether to pursue my interest or just lay low and let it eventually pass.

I want to get to know him more and set the scene as friends, but I also don't want to ignore the attraction I have for him and pretend like it's not there.

What should I do?

Hope the crush passes over time?

Tell him that I'm interested in him?

Any advice appreciated 😊

So i was at my friends place with his girlfriend and her best friend for whome i have a crush. So we were just drinking and having fun now comes the question. So besides this one time she always engages with me wants to play thumb wars or something. We are sitting not like drunk but relaxed and she starts brushing my hair and says i look like a creator from my country afterwards she asked me if i want to make her a braid and i do it some time passes she asks me if i want to make her a bun i do that too. So our two friends leave prob to leave us alone and she puts her head in my lap and i start scratching her head and resting my other hand on her side. This will happen like three more times throughout the night. Afterwards we start watching a horror movie and we all lay in a bed. But only two pillows so me and her lay on that one and my friend and his gf on the other. I wanted to let her head rest on my arm so i ask her to sit up so i can get it under but instead of laying on my hand she puts her head on my chest and we cuddle btw we still didn't confess anything so we are supposed to be just friends. So time passes my friend and his gf fall asleep me and her stay to watch a movie a little longer. We go to sleep kinda spooning but like really awkwardly like ( ( really far apart idk why. So i wake up and my friend told his parents only him and his gf are going to be home so i wake up the girl and we go to the other room but in this one there was no heating it was broken or sum so its cold af. We lay down facing eachother like we are really cold btw we are sober at this point and she just turns after a few minutes spoons me like mi torso is on her back but i dont want to turn it sexual so i keep my hips away from hers and she picks up my hand and puts it around her waist and says cmon hug me. We sleep a little longer but now two days later we are kinda uncomfortable with eachother idk why and i hate it. Can anyone help me i feel like it was only due to alcohol but it cant be because she wrapped my hand around her while sober. If there are any girls would u do this without like it meaning nothing? Thank you dudes and dudeses

I've actually been rejected so many times in my life, and I decided to never catch feelings again or think about love and relationships again. But it's always the same, I easily catch feelings and start loving the person passionately. Same experience over and over and over. And this year at college, I met this girl Carlie, she's really nice and She has the same interests I have, things started with a healthy friendship and good chats and researches and projects and now I feel like I love her. I don't want get my expectations high and I Don't want to suffer thinking about her. It's really sad I don't know what to do anymore.

I’ve known this girl for years and ever since I met her I know she’s the love of my life. We’re really close with eachother and we used to have sex a few years back she even did have a crush on me at one point but this was years ago. How do I get her to develop these feelings back for me. I know if we get together rn we’re gonna stay together for life

I’ve started hardcore falling for my boss. He’s become one of my good friends throughout the time I’ve known him, but the more I see him, spend time with him, joke with him, or even just be near him I catch myself staring. I can’t get him out of my head most of the time and worst part. I think it’s mutual. There’s many reasons why I can’t and wouldn’t want to make an advance his way and from what I notice (if it is a mutual interest) it seems like it’s the same reasons he wouldn’t either. I’m not sure how to deal, I want to at least know if he’s feeling the same as I am but that would require bringing up THAT conversation which would lead to so many complications in the work place and the friendship. Help.

I’ve been in denial with this one guy for a few months now ever since he started working. I’m usually the shy type and he is one too so it’s hard having a conversation together alone.

Coming back from a rough break from work, he asked me to go to Seattle with him— of course I said yes, and it was with another coworker so it wasn’t just us two. I guess that’s when my feelings started sprouting.

I figured out my feelings a few weeks ago and I do like him.

Fast forward a few months later, I asked him to carpool with me on a 3 hour drive somewhere and he gladly said yes. I was so happy— not to mention we’ve been getting closer each shift.

…

Today, I wasn’t working with him but I overheard my managers in the back talking about someone quitting. Another person said my crush’s name and the manager said “he already quit”

I felt numb, I never felt numb in my life for someone. I was torn throughout the shift. Although I kind of knew why, my workplace is pretty much toxic. I am going to quit in 3 months because of college and I thought he would too… guess not.

I am so sad, but it’s reality.

I am planning to confess when I drop him off home from the vacation spot we planned. I have a feeling he likes me too, but who knows. I’ll miss working with him for sure. Nothing to lose right? :(

if i get rejected, then I move on. If not, then who knows.

I’m 18 and I never really had noticed guys before 2 months ago. I went to a hockey game and I found the players really cute. Ever since then, it’s like there’s really cute guys everywhere. I guess I’ve just noticed it now. I even have a crush on a guy the gym. I never felt like this at 16 or anything. Apparently I’m a late bloomer. Because of the guys I’ve seen, I gained a lot of motivation to lose weight and really take care of myself in order to look good. So far, I’ve lost 10 lbs and feel better. I’m just super aware of these things now. I’m not good with eye contact but I hope I can work on that.

I got the balls to ask for her number and I got it. Now what? What should I text her (keep in mind I have never talked to this girl ever expect when I went up to her and asked for it.)

i’ve liked this guy for a year now and it started off as a pointless crush and we were practically strangers. We saw each other around and we said hey here and there and talked but as time progressed, we’ve developed into friends and we’re sort of in the same friend group, i see him three times a week for work (we don’t hang out outside of work unless it’s in a group setting) we don’t really text unless it’s for something. i don’t actually know if the feelings are reciprocated, i think it’s just my wishful thinking.

there was a party and i asked in our friend group gc if anyone was going, he then texted the morning of and asked me if i was going and suggested we go together? we also left together. theres no flirting but sometimes we exchange glances (may be just that)