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### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. Okay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home country, and I totally fell in love with her. I'm now living in Spain and I really thought we could make it work, but for no reason at all she just started ignoring me. She went from all happy, glee and lovely to ignoring me all of a sudden. She didn't give me a response for two days now, which sounds like a short time, but it's killing me on the inside. I like to think that a healthy relationship is about mutual respect and trust and to be honest, I don't really trust her and she doesn't show me any respect as of late. I really liked it with her in England, but now I'm just making myself crazy. Should I break-up with or, or should I wait till she responds? Thank you in advance for the advice. ### Response:

girlfriend from another country suddenly stopped responding to me and I don't know if I should break up with her or wait till she responds. Should I break up with her? Help please.!?!?!?!

I'm in love with a girl who is not from my home country, but we live in another country. She started ignoring me, but I don't think it's the right thing to do. She's been

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity. Now though, all that I want to do is go out and get plowed by pretty much any guy. I don't want a relationship, I just want to go out and have revenge sex. Why is that? I think I'm just so upset, and angry. I don't know what to do, or really how to handle this. ### Response:

I'm an idiot and I'm trying to get back into a relationship. Why? I think I'm just so upset and angry. Am I wrong? What do I do?!?!?!?!

Mandatory summary/question! Why do I want revenge sex so badly? What should I do?! Help! :x EDIT: Thanks for all the advice! I'll definitely keep this in mind! :) I'll

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not. I was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that "1 account has gone into collections". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I had a $277 balance in collections by an agency called "Enhanced Recovery Company". Around the same time my mom let me know that the company had been leaving messages for me on her home phone. I didn't see any way that this could be a legit debt, as my only debts are my car loan and one credit card. Also, I don't know how they got my mom's phone number, as I haven't used that number as my own in well over a decade. Every lease and agreement I've signed has been using my personal cell phone number. About two months ago I sent the company a debt validation letter via certified mail, and once they received it the phone calls stopped and I haven't heard back from them since. I'm just wondering what my next step should be in getting this removed from my credit report. Thanks for any help you can give me! ### Response:

Debt collector got my mom's phone number and never responded to my debt validation letter. Am I being targeted by a scammer? Should I file a lawsuit? How can I get this removed from my credit

a collection agency is trying to get me for a debt I don't owe and I've already sent them a debt validation letter. What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getting serious and their relationship started falling apart. Being college students on winter break, we began hanging out every day for the past month. I could tell she was finally accepting that she could leave him. We make each other very happy and often discussed our own relationship and the future. Just as I thought she was finally mustering up the strength to end it with him, his mother was diagnosed with cancer. Being together with him for 3 years, she is very close with his family and thinks leaving him would be too much for him to handle. She told me she doesn't want to lose me but can't risk hurting him right now. Obviously it's a difficult situation and I'm understanding, but I can't help being upset knowing that she isn't happy. I want to make her happy and I know I can but I'm not sure what to do at this point. And no, I don't want to hear that I shouldn't have gotten involved with her in the first place. ### Response:

girl has been in a relationship for 3 years, has been showing signs of leaving, but can't because of his mother's cancer. She's not happy and I want to make her happy but I don't know

Mandatory summary/question! What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems. This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time 3 days ago, but I just introduced myself. 2 days ago I messaged her on facebook and we talked for a little while, it was mostly me asking her questions about herself. Then yesterday we said like 2 sentences to each other! That's all we've talked together! What should I do about this now? When should I message her again, or when should I talk to her in person. She seems really shy in person so I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated! ### Response:

found girl of dreams, talked for 3 days, need advice on next steps! Please help! :) [16M] Need advice on how to approach a girl who is very shy and possibly has social anxiety.

fell in love with a shy girl, don't know how to communicate or when to message her, need advice. Advice is appreciated! Don't know what to do! Help!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. I really, really want kids someday, so seeing this, especially since we have both exchanged "I love you"s, was quite discouraging. Now, there's no saying that we'll even be together when the time comes to start having children. I think, though it might be disastrous to avoid talking about this for too long. So how do I bring this up to him? I don't want to scare him off by bringing it up, but it's imperative to me to have kids. If it becomes clear that he doesn't want children under any circumstances, should we break up, or just acknowledge that we have an expiration date? ### Response:

I want kids, he doesn't, but we're both very much in love. How do I bring this up to him? Or should I just let it go? EDIT: I'm not sure if I should

I want kids, he doesn't. How do I bring it up to him? Or is it too late? We've been dating for 6 months. I'm 22, he's 2

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back and forth exchanges via email, and seeing proof that he does have the tickets, I decide to send him the money via Amazon gift card. The card's been redeemed, but the tickets that he promised to transfer to me via Ticketmaster never came. I had talked to Amazon, and they can't seem to do anything. The bank's investigating in the meantime as well. ### Response:

I sent money to a guy for tickets, he never sent them to me. He has my money, and he's not giving it back. I'm not sure what to do. I'm not even sure if

How do I get my money back? Is there anything I can do to get my money back? What is the best way to proceed? What is the next step? What is the most likely cause of this situation? What is the most

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, and to wish him a good night (if he's going to be out all night and I'm going to bed). We don't live together and usually see each other on the weekends. He hates texting and so do I, so we don't text each other on the regular anyways. However, when he leaves the country for work I text him way more. I'm curious to know how often you guys text your SO when they are out with their friends partying and getting hammered. Does it vary if they are local or out of the country/state? ### Response:

How often do you text your SO when they are out with their friends partying? Does it vary if they are local or out of the country/state? Why? How often do you text your SO when they are out with their friend

do you text your SO when they are out with their friends or do you let them get drunk and text you? How often do you text? Why? What's your experience? What do you think? What's your experience

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A little backstory from a post about a month ago So here is what's going on now. About a week ago, she took a break from her boyfriend. She came to my house and we fooled around for about 6 hours. It was amazing, but I feel like a horrible person for doing it. She says she loves me more than anything and wishes we were together, but she's too afraid to leave the position she's in now because it's "too risky". Now she's done with her break and she wants to stay with her boyfriend. I love her so much, I just don't know what to do anymore. I told her that it would be difficult being friends because at the end of the day, she'll be going home to her boyfriend and that's going to break my heart. Sorry guys, I feel like a total bitch looking for advice because I usually stray from this kind of drama that I somehow got sucked into. I just don't know what to do anymore. I guess I'm just hoping that thing don't work out for them, and that makes me feel incredibly selfish. Anyways, thanks for anything. ### Response:

ex and I fooled around a week ago, she's now back with her boyfriend. Want to stay friends, but don't know what to do. Any advice would be great. Thanks. Help!?!?

My best friend is in a relationship and I want to be with her, but she's too scared to leave the relationship she's in. She's taking a break, but I don't know what to do.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been "together" for over a year, and about 6 months ago went through a really rough patch. Both of us did things we regret, and he went a little wild with some girls at parties (nothing beyond nudity). Now we're pretty much back on track, though he's not really ready to make any promises or commitments. Tomorrow night he's going to be at a party at the same house and I think with some of the same people.. it just makes me kinda icky inside and feel a little of the self loathe I did in the past. Any suggestions on how I can enjoy my weekend knowing and trusting he's enjoying his? I really love and care deeply for him, I just have a lot of preservation for my own happiness and health. And I want to make sure these fleeting worries don't get in the way of the immense progress we've made together and individually. ### Response:

my boyfriend is going to a party at the same house as some of the girls he was wild with. He's not ready to make any commitments, and I'm worried about him. How do I make sure I

how to cope with a rocky past with a trusted partner? We're making progress. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! :) Any advice on how to cope with a rocky past with a trusted partner?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I was talking about Napoleon with my students and of course this leads to a talk\rant about personal budgeting\etc. I've had a few students talk to me afterwards, them being curious about budgeting and person finance. I saw the post about the cue card and thought... man, I should have a poster or something up in my room as a quick reference or something. But with the cue card there are two issues - 1) they won't know what many of those things are - I do teach some lower stream kids 2) I teach in Canada, so we have different systems and such. ### Response:

Would you guys make a poster/card with the most important things on it? Like the stuff on the cue card? What would you call it? Why? What would you put on it? etc etc. Advice and suggestions are

talk about personal finance with students, thought about having a quick reference poster up in my room, two issues with the cue card - won't know what many of those things are, teach lower stream kids in Canada.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Birthdays have always been hard on my girlfriend. She's had a few parties as a child where no one showed up, and since moving states in the middle of high school she hasn't made close friends. Here at college, she tries hard to make friends. She talks well to people on a superficial basis but doesn't have any real friends. She's never been invited to a college party and has often missed out on many typical activities. We've been together for 3 years, since freshman orientation. I don't have friends but I'm happy that way. I like keeping to myself if I'm not spending time with her. Since she's naturally extroverted, she spends her free time with me, or at club meetings trying to connect to people. She's asked if I could put together a small party so I invited some acquaintances, my roommates, etc. everyone said no. I gave the invites well in advance too. I don't know how to break the news to my girlfriend, she's been so excited. She thought providing free food and drink would be a great way to make friends. But people don't want to come for even that. What can I do? ### Response:

I'm a social pariah, my girlfriend is a social pariah. We've been together for 3 years. She's excited about a party I've planned for her. What can I do

My girlfriend's birthday party plans have failed again. What should we do? Is there any hope for her? What can I do? What can I do? What can I do? What can

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I go to college and I work on the school paper. I get some money from it, which is why I called it my job, but I don't really need it. I met her while working there, and we're both supposed to go back to the paper next year to work on it for the school year then. The problem is that we just broke up a couple of weeks ago, and I don't feel like seeing her again. She dumped me, and for some strange reason, I really hate her right now, and I don't think I would be able to stand seeing her. The problem is I don't really have many friends outside of the people I know on the school paper. So if I left the newspaper because of her, I feel like I could be alienated by the others for quitting before the school year start. Do you think I should still quit though? Am I being immature for not wanting to see her and work with her for an entire year? We were together for a year, by the way. ### Response:

broke up with girlfriend, don't feel like seeing her anymore, but don't have many friends outside of school paper. Do I still quit? Am I being immature for not wanting to see her? Should I? What

I don't want to see my ex, but I don't have many friends. I don't want to be alienated from them, but I don't want to see her. Do I quit? I don

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to "marginalize his friendships." When I am in a relationship, I want a Tabula Rasa -- a complete clean slate. I don't want my significant other to be facebook friends or have any contact whatsoever with previous ex-girlfriends and/or people he has slept with. I provide the same respect. I am accepting of friends of the opposite sex as long as there is not a sexual or romantic past. It would make me uncomfortable if they were to hang out independently though, and I would prefer a group setting. It's as if my ideals are from another planet. All of the men I have met seem to think my relationship expectations are absolutely ludicrous. I, on the other hand, do not think it is expecting too much of a person. I am feeling lonely and as if there is something wrong with me. Am I being overbearing? I would really appreciate some objective opinions. ### Response:

recently ended fling due to significant other not wanting to marginalize his friendships, feeling odd about relationship expectations/desires. Am I being overbearing? Would like objective opinions. please help! :) I hope

Is it unreasonable to expect a relationship to be completely free of any prior sexual contacts whatsoever? Am I being overbearing? What is wrong with me? Should I just get over it? What is wrong with me

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Towards the end of our relationship it just seemed like she was always mad at me. It got to the point where we would argue about literally everything. Her birthday just passed and I spent close to $400 on it, and yet she still had an attitude and gave me the hardest time and that when I realized that maybe we just are not on the same page anymore. Its been about 2-3 weeks since we split and at first I was okay but now I don't know anymore. The past 2 years of our relationship have been long distance since we both have gone away to college and I'm sure that has some affect on everything. Part of me desperately wants to get back with her but the other part of me knows how she acts and idk...there's more fish in the sea...but i love this fish. ### Response:

Broke up with girlfriend due to long distance, need advice on how to get back with her. EDIT: I'm not sure if I should have said this but I think I know what the problem is. I think I

long distance relationship with girlfriend of 3 years ended due to constant arguing and hard time giving/taking feedback. Want to get back with her but not sure if I should. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: So I am living with 3 girl roommates and in the summer me and their best friend had sex and hooked up a bunch. I loved her but she did not feel the same way back. I kind of ended our friendship because it was not fair to me. The problem is that they are her best friends and she comes over all the time and I dont want to stop her from seeing her best friends but I hate seeing her. It makes me miss her so much and I want to be with her so bad and I know I need to get over her for good. Also me and her are ont he same sports team in university and we see each to her everyday at practice so there is no getting away from her. How do I get over someone who I see everyday and have to be around at practice and even at my home. I need help because I do not want to feel this way anymore. help am miserabl ### Response:

I am a girl who is in love with her best friend. She did not feel the same way back. I ended our friendship but she still comes over all the time and I miss her. I need help getting over her. Help.

I hooked up with my best friends best friend and we had a relationship. She did not feel the same way and I broke up with her. I need help getting over her because I see her everyday. Help me am miserable

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Last weekend, my ex was in town for a party i was at as well. I spent the whole night helping him because he drank too much, and he ended up passing out at my house. We hooked up in the morning, completely sober, and acting like we were dating again. We talked yesterday, but just trivial conversation. I know he's avoiding talking to me because we didn't speak for so long and this is so sudden. I know it brought up old feelings for me, but i'm not sure about him. The way he acted, i figured it was a possibility and that's why he is so awkward. He's a naturally awkward person though, i was thinking, should i wait for exams to be finished and to see him in person to bring it up and see where it goes? There will be a party next month we will both be at. or should i just leave it to him to bring up? i know he avoids "feelings" discussions, so idk what to do. I really do want to continue things with him, but honestly this is driving me insane. ### Response:

ex and I hooked up last weekend, we're talking again, but he's avoiding talking about "feelings"... should i wait for exams to be finished and see him in person to bring it up

I want to continue dating my ex, but he's avoiding talking to me because we didn't speak for so long. He's a naturally awkward person though, i was thinking, should i wait for exam

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: The past couple of years have revealed a pattern I'm finding a little concerning - I date a guy for a while and hold myself back from gestures or being too forward, then I get a little relaxed (which can be anything from a few weeks to a few months) and within days of me being nicer (texting him first, planning a date, settling for going round to his apartment if he's feeling tired, etc.) then suddenly he loses interest. I once baked cookies on Valentine's Day when we'd been together a few months and the guy freaked out. So now I have been dating a guy for a month and he's lovely, but I'm just waiting for it to end - and I feel as soon as I relax or, heaven forbid give him a compliment or say I like him, he's going to bolt. The big problem is that he's picking me up from the airport after the Christmas break, and I can't be so ungrateful as to just say thank you, but I'm afraid if I do anything nice he'll run. So how can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest? ### Response:

have been dating a guy for a month, afraid to be affectionate because he'll bolt, how can I be affectionate without him losing interest? Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?

I'm afraid to be nice to a guy because he'll run, but I want to be nice to him. How can I be affectionate and kind to a guy without him losing interest? EDIT: I'

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My boyfriend and I are both 19. My boyfriend's mother is the only draw back to my relationship with him and I'm not sure how to handle her. She claims to be fond of me, but I know she's lying. She never even gave me a chance, even after a year of being together. My boyfriend got me a promise ring because we know we want to be together forever. While pretty much everyone else was happy for us, his mom lost her shit and said nasty things about our relationship. She then got her current husband involved. His dad wasn't exactly nice about it either, but regardless, respected the decision. I understand them being concerned since we are young and they married young only to end up unhappy and divorced. However, this woman is one of the biggest hypocrites I have ever met and is essentially a 40-something child. I can't stand her and am not prepared to deal with her for the rest of my life. I have never followed the "respect your elders" thing simply because of you give me no respect and are rude to me, I won't respect you, regardless of age. Any advice on how to handle this monster of a woman? I can give examples if need be, it's just a lot to type out a year's worth of hypocrisy. ### Response:

Boyfriend's mother is the only negative thing about our relationship and I'm not sure how to handle her. Am I being unreasonable? How do I deal with her? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

My boyfriend's mom is a horrible, controlling woman who is a 40-something year old child. She's not only controlling, but also a hypocrite. I'm not prepared to deal

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My girlfriends dog, who I used to love, has seemingly forgotten that he can't poop in the house. He was completely housebroken and then started to have really runny poops in the house so we just figured he was sick (we accidentally bought the wrong food) and didn't yell at or scold him because it wasn't really his fault. After he has gotten better he just thinks he can poop in the house now. For instance, not 20 minutes ago my girlfriend took him for a walk and he did not poop because there was other dogs outside and he gets distracted amazingly easily, then she brought him inside, left him in the bedroom where I was sleeping and he pooped. I noticed about 5 minutes after she left when I rolled out of bed. He was so excited when I got out of bed too; he didn't even act guilty like he knew he did something wrong. This is just frustrating me so much because he used to go to the door and everything when he had to go and now it's just a free for all. Help. Please. ### Response:

My dog has forgotten that he can't poop in the house and he does it all the time. He used to go to the door and now he just does it in the house and doesn't even act guilty. He used

girlfriend's dog started pooping in the house because he is so excited all the time. How do I make him stop? Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help. Help.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Not dating anyone right now, but a hypothetical future person as I'm getting back into the dating game. A little more about me: I'm bisexual and very sexually fluid. Sometimes I even feel asexual. I'm also a virgin, but I'm really ready to not be. My only problem is I reeeeaalllly hate kissing. I hate the way my mouth feels and tastes. I hate the sounds, the smells, everything pretty much. I *might* like kissing someone I'm in love or infatuated with, but I have yet to experience that. (Most people like to kiss to eventually experience those feelings.) I've had some dating experience, and I even really liked a guy once who I was seeing. But once we became intimate and made out, I got really weird and I think I scared him off a bit. (I also divulged that I was a virgin, oh well.) He stopped talking to me after that, obviously he was not someone I would've wanted to be with anyway. So what do I do? When do I bring this up? And don't tell me I'll eventually like it when I find a good kisser, because I've kissed good kissers and I still hated it. ### Response:

25 bisexual female wants to know when to bring up her issues with kissing. Says she might like it when she finds someone she's infatuated with. Am I crazy? What do I do?

I'm a virgin, but I'm ready to not be. I hate kissing, but I might like it when I'm in love. I've tried to find someone I like to kiss me, but I

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short -- We dated for about a year and 1/2 I moved for my job we couldn't handle the distance and we end our relationship. Months go by, I see him Friday night and he is very poliet and nice and after we started drinking he started pouring his heart out to me. The next day he calls me twice in the morning and I missed the calls, try to call him back. Doesnt answer, wait a few days, send him a long message, and it said he read it, and has still said nothing. Should I pretend like it never happen? ### Response:

I slept with my ex, he is acting like nothing happened, should I pretend like it never happened? What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

ex bf confessed his love for me after we broke up, should I pretend like it never happened? Should I even bother? What should I do? Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm in my early 20s and live in the southern United States. I've had the same friends for forever and have had lots of great experiences with them in the past. In the last 2-3 years though they've become increasingly negative towards me. I'll often see a few of them individually and things will be fine, but in a group setting I'm often excluded, the only one chided, etc. Some of the things they say go out of bounds or they're things that apply to more than just me but I'm the only one who gets shit on for it. In the past I've said things, but I'm told I'm just too sensitive or they're joking. When I decide not to participate when everyone is chatting online or in-person, they'll use that as an excuse to exclude me. When I make fun of someone, I'm either ignored or basically told to shut it. I'm not sure what to do. It's become increasingly stressful and these are my only 'friends'. Other people I know don't have friends like mine. We still have good times, but I feel like everything I do I'm being judged. ### Response:

My friends are becoming increasingly negative towards me, but I'm the only one who gets shit on for it. I'm not sure what to do. I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or what

group of friends have become increasingly negative towards me over past few years, excluded/made fun of for most things, not sure what to do to improve situation, feel like I'm being judged/not liked. am lon

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My friend moved across the country 5 months ago for work, leaving his other friends and family, and I'm the only person he knows here. We met on a forum online and have been friends for about 3 years. He's a very sensitive person and very shy, which means he hasn't made new friends here and gets offended when I say I'd rather hang out with other people over him. He is my best friend, but I'm starting to feel suffocated. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells around him and constantly make excuses and explain myself. I don't like making plans because I'd rather just do a thing when I feel like it, but he needs things to be very planned and gets upset if something falls through or doesn't turn out the way he expected. I end up apologizing for things I don't believe warrant an apology, and just give in because I don't like to argue. I really like the guy, but I'm starting to wish he'd move away again so I could stop feeling so responsible for his happiness. Because it's stressing me out very much. Besides friend breaking up with him, what can I do? ### Response:

very sensitive friend moved across country leaving other friends and family, feel suffocated by his need for constant planning and approval, what can I do to stop feeling responsible for his happiness? Any ideas or suggestions are appreciated. Thanks!

my friend is very sensitive and shy, which means he doesn't make new friends and gets upset when I want to hang out with other people. He's my best friend, but I'm starting to feel suffoc

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Mine is simple, my kids. I will always remember the one day my daughter made me feel like the best dad in the world. I sometimes have to go back to work late at night to attend meetings (I work for a place with offices around the world) and one day I was home before my family was done with school. I decided to make some dinner and leave it for them and while I was making it I spotted some cookie dough in the fridge. I thought it would be nice to leave them cookies. So when my wife picks the kids up from daycare she said my daughter seemed to have a rough day (as rough as a 5 year old can have, I guess) and was very grumpy/sad. When they got home my son smelled the curry I had made and got very excited and then my daughter found the cookies. I had left a little note saying to enjoy the cookies and sorry for having to work late. My daughter started to cry and said she was so happy. My wife took a short video and sent it to me at work. I have never felt more needed and counted upon, then that. I know that these kids will cause me all kinds of worry throughout our lives, but I wouldn't trade that feeling of unconditional love for anything. ### Response:

left cookies for kids, daughter was very happy and appreciated them, wife captured moment on video and sent to me at work. Never felt so loved before. Words can't describe. Need some advice on how to make sure thi

left notes for kids instead of cookies, made daughter incredibly happy and realized the love a parent feels. Worth any sacrifice. Need advice on how to make the world a better place. Please help. Help!?!?!

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hello redditers, First topic post on Reddit. So, I went to study abroad in the United States for 5 months. My GF is coming after 4 months of us being separated(we met in the same town and spent a lot of time together, before I left). Today I spoke with her over the phone, and she told me she was very excited, but also nervous and afraid. She was afraid that maybe one of us didn't feel the same after such a long time. We haven't had any major fights while we've been apart, and we've talked every day and tried to do everything to let the other one feel loved. Am I overreacting when I think she might leave me? I must admit I'm afraid too. It feels like a vague memory, since I haven't seen her for so long. ### Response:

I've been separated from my GF for 5 months, she is coming to visit me today. She told me she was excited, but also nervous and afraid. She is afraid that maybe one of us doesn't feel

I'm afraid my long-distance gf might leave me after we've been apart for so long. What should I do? Are my feelings justified? What should I do? What would you do? What should I do

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I'm the type that usually goes from long-term relationship to long-term relationship without much dating in between. I'm trying out the casual dating thing for a while. I am 26f, above average attractiveness (in my opinion, but i still have pretty low confidence). So, someone told this guy (pretty much a stranger to me, we only met in passing), that i thought he was cute and he gave my friend his phone number to give to me. So the next day I texted him, and we have texted a couple of times for a few days. Seems like we have some things in common. After the 3rd day, I asked him if he wanted to grab a drink sometime...no response. I find it hard to believe that in 24 hours he hadn't used his phone. Why would he give me his number, have good back and forth texts, then leave me hanging when I ask to chat in person? Just not that into me? ### Response:

I have been casually dating a guy for a few days, then I asked him to hang out, he said yes, but then he never showed up. Why would he give me his number if he wasn't that into

Guy gives me his number, then leaves me hanging when asked to chat in person. Not that into me? What's up? Anyone have any ideas? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We've been FWB for over a year, and we have started to develop feelings. I eventually said this wasn't going to work anymore, because one of us is going to get really hurt (probably me). He agreed, but a week later he said we should "try dating" because he doesn't "want to lose me." My thoughts are this--don't you start a relationship based on what you WANT as opposed to what you DON'T want? Like, I enter a relationship hoping to build a future with someone, not because I am afraid of the alternative (no longer getting to sleep with them/losing the intimacy/seeing them date someone else). I know he cares about me, but the fact that I haven't seen this side of him at all until I said we had to stop is a little irritating/confusing. ### Response:

I am in a relationship with a guy I don't want to be in a relationship with, but he wants to "try dating" because he doesn't want to lose me. Is this normal? Am I being cra

I am a girl who has been in a relationship with a guy who has been a FWB for a while. He said we should try dating because he doesn't want to lose me. He said we should "try

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Today I woke up late and home alone so I decided to make homemade bagels for the upcoming week. They took awhile to make and I was wanting to do something else, but they turned out really hard and horribly stuck on the pan. dammit. So being me I grab a butter knife to pry them off. I spent the next couple minutes stabbing the bottom on the pan and cursing aloud, and eating the leftover bits stuck on the pan. Then the door leading into my house (which is right next to the kitchen) opens and my roommate comes in and finds me yelling and frantically tearing the leftovers off the pan and shoving them into my mouth. He hasn't come out of his room yet, I don't know what to d ### Response:

made bagels, roommate found me eating leftovers, yelling and tearing the leftovers off the pan and shoving them into my mouth. huh?!?!?!?!?

I was making bagels, they turned out hard and stuck on the pan, I grabbed a butter knife and started stabbing the bottom, roommate walked in and found me yelling and tearing the le

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Been together 3 years, living together for 1.5 years. I'm Persian, he's white. My family will invite me (and him by extension) to family events such as birthdays, Shabbat, etc. My boyfriend (let's call him Z) has been treated disrespectfully by them in the past. Examples include them speaking in Farsi in front of him, turning away when Z was going to shake their hand, etc. Z feels that it is a cultural issue that will resolve itself if we give it time. I want to take action but don't know what action to take. We could not attend any events in silent protest but it's not guaranteed that anyone will ask why we continuously don't attend (my family seems to not care a lot about what I have to say). We could attend most events so that the issue eventually resolves itself but I don't want Z to feel uncomfortable while at the events. So... What's the best option here? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? So far we have been attending some events but not all. ### Response:

My family won't invite me to family events. I'm not sure what to do. I want to take action but don't know what action to take. Am I being unreasonable? What's the best

family disrespects boyfriend in front of me, what's the best option? Speak up, do nothing, something else entirely? Any other ideas? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks! :) I'm Persian

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: My wife went to a pokemon conference thing with a friend while I was away for work for a long amount time, about a month. She told me she was out to dinner. I asked later on if she was with her friend. She said she was and with two other guys. I freaked out a little and called her. She said one was gay and the other was ugly, asian, and nerdy. I still said going out like that felt inappropriately. I admit, I was upset and was a little rude to her. She said I blindsided her and she did not expect me to be upset. I told her I felt uncomfortable with date type situations. She says the atmosphere was not like a date at all. I trust everything she is saying. I still think it was inappropriate. I could just be immature and I am open to what you guys' think. ### Response:

wife went to dinner with two guys, one gay and nerdy, feel uncomfortable with it. Am I being immature or right? Should I just get over it? What do you guys think?!?!?

I was out with my wife and she went to a pokemon conference thing with two guys. She said it was not a date. She said it was inappropriate. I am open to other opinions. What do you think?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Every time I try to give a chance at communicating, he shuts everything out and gets all random with me or he will just make it out to be like I "just want to argue" as if it's a hobby of mine. I believe that some arguments are necessary and there's nothing wrong with having them. It's not like I start yelling and get violent or anything crazy...He considers a calm, assertive discussion as "irrational arguing" and immediately goes into avoidance and victim mode and starts ignoring me. I don't know what to do with him anymore. I'm just trying to make some effort here, but he doesn't seem to look at it that way. :( He makes me out to feel like just some sadistic, argumentative person when I'm just trying to figure things out and work through them. A little background on us: He is diagnosed as severe ADHD. I am diagnosed with anxiety and OCD. I know, that doesn't help the situation at all, but it's our quirks that bring us together (after all, isn't that what brings us all together?). :P ### Response:

How can I communicate with my boyfriend when he shuts everything out? I'm at a loss. What do you do in this situation? Any advice is appreciated. Thanks! :) How can I communicate with my boyfriend when

my boyfriend shuts everything out and gets all random with me when I try to communicate, what can I do? Please help! :( Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance! :) Update: I tried to communicate with

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, excuse my English, because I'm pretty drunk right now and English is not my native language. Okay, so, I'm originally not from England, but I've lived there for a couple of months and I met a girl there, who is not from my home country, and I totally fell in love with her. I'm now living in Spain and I really thought we could make it work, but for no reason at all she just started ignoring me. She went from all happy, glee and lovely to ignoring me all of a sudden. She didn't give me a response for two days now, which sounds like a short time, but it's killing me on the inside. I like to think that a healthy relationship is about mutual respect and trust and to be honest, I don't really trust her and she doesn't show me any respect as of late. I really liked it with her in England, but now I'm just making myself crazy. Should I break-up with or, or should I wait till she responds? Thank you in advance for the advice. ### Response:

My girlfriend started ignoring me and I don't know what to do. Should I break-up with her or wait till she responds? Help!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

girlfriend suddenly ignoring me for no reason, should I break-up or wait till she responds? Any advice would be appreciated. Help! :( Should I break-up with my girlfriend of 1.5 years because

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: I dated this guy last year. He impregnated a 20f pretty quickly after we broke up and when I found out, I got extremely sad and jealous, because I wish I was on my way to having a family. We broke up because of infidelity. Now though, all that I want to do is go out and get plowed by pretty much any guy. I don't want a relationship, I just want to go out and have revenge sex. Why is that? I think I'm just so upset, and angry. I don't know what to do, or really how to handle this. ### Response:

I'm still angry at my ex for impregnating another girl, and now I want to have revenge sex with other guys. I don't want a relationship, I just want to go out and have fun. What

broke up with ex, now want revenge sex and don't know how to handle it. Am I being irrational? What should I do? Help please!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Hi, hoping this is the right sub for my question, apologies if not. I was browsing my account on Credit Karma recently and saw the message that "1 account has gone into collections". I thought this couldn't be right, so I looked and it said I had a $277 balance in collections by an agency called "Enhanced Recovery Company". Around the same time my mom let me know that the company had been leaving messages for me on her home phone. I didn't see any way that this could be a legit debt, as my only debts are my car loan and one credit card. Also, I don't know how they got my mom's phone number, as I haven't used that number as my own in well over a decade. Every lease and agreement I've signed has been using my personal cell phone number. About two months ago I sent the company a debt validation letter via certified mail, and once they received it the phone calls stopped and I haven't heard back from them since. I'm just wondering what my next step should be in getting this removed from my credit report. Thanks for any help you can give me! ### Response:

I was never in collections and someone is trying to get my personal information. What do I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

I have a collection account that says I have a $277 balance in collections, but I don't owe that amount and I don't have any other debts. I've sent them a debt validation letter

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: A couple of months ago a friend and I started developing feelings for each other. She had been in a relationship of 3 years and often told me how unhappy she was with the relationship and how poorly he treats her. Things between us started getting serious and their relationship started falling apart. Being college students on winter break, we began hanging out every day for the past month. I could tell she was finally accepting that she could leave him. We make each other very happy and often discussed our own relationship and the future. Just as I thought she was finally mustering up the strength to end it with him, his mother was diagnosed with cancer. Being together with him for 3 years, she is very close with his family and thinks leaving him would be too much for him to handle. She told me she doesn't want to lose me but can't risk hurting him right now. Obviously it's a difficult situation and I'm understanding, but I can't help being upset knowing that she isn't happy. I want to make her happy and I know I can but I'm not sure what to do at this point. And no, I don't want to hear that I shouldn't have gotten involved with her in the first place. ### Response:

friend has cancer and can't leave boyfriend due to family. Not sure what to do. Am I overreacting? Should I try to make her happy? What should I do? Help please!?!?!?!

I've been hanging out with a friend for the past month and a half, we've been developing feelings for each other. She is in a relationship and can't leave him because his mother has cancer. She told me

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: First of all, I would like to thank everyone who opened it even if they knew it was only a teen with girl problems. This new girl came to school one week ago and I was in love since the first time I saw here. I talked to her for the first time 3 days ago, but I just introduced myself. 2 days ago I messaged her on facebook and we talked for a little while, it was mostly me asking her questions about herself. Then yesterday we said like 2 sentences to each other! That's all we've talked together! What should I do about this now? When should I message her again, or when should I talk to her in person. She seems really shy in person so I don't know what to do. Any advice is appreciated! ### Response:

I need some advice on how to approach a girl who is shy in person. What should I do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

15 seconds of actual conversation with the girl I like and 1 facebook message. What should I do? When should I message her again? Any advice is appreciated! What should I do if I like a girl but she doesn

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: We met via okcupid (10/10 would recommend), and I didn't even think to look then about his 'children' preferences. Recently I revisited his page and saw that he had put 'doesn't want kids' on his profile summary. I really, really want kids someday, so seeing this, especially since we have both exchanged "I love you"s, was quite discouraging. Now, there's no saying that we'll even be together when the time comes to start having children. I think, though it might be disastrous to avoid talking about this for too long. So how do I bring this up to him? I don't want to scare him off by bringing it up, but it's imperative to me to have kids. If it becomes clear that he doesn't want children under any circumstances, should we break up, or just acknowledge that we have an expiration date? ### Response:

met a guy on okcupid, didn't check children preference, and now I want kids. We're not even together now, but I want to talk to him about it. How do I bring it up?

met a guy on okcupid, we've been seeing each other for 2 months, he doesn't want kids, how do I bring this up to him? Or should we just break up? I really want

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Long story short...u/andyootoo posted a submission, telling people that he has tickets to a show in SF for sale, but he has to sell them online since he's in NY. The tickets for this show are sold out, so I decide to trust him. After a few back and forth exchanges via email, and seeing proof that he does have the tickets, I decide to send him the money via Amazon gift card. The card's been redeemed, but the tickets that he promised to transfer to me via Ticketmaster never came. I had talked to Amazon, and they can't seem to do anything. The bank's investigating in the meantime as well. ### Response:

I sent money to a guy for tickets, he didn't give me the tickets, and now I'm being investigated by the bank. I'm pissed off because I trusted him, and he

I sent money to a stranger because I trusted him. He didn't have the tickets, so he didn't transfer them to me. I lost money and the tickets. I'm not sure what to do.

### Instruction: Generate a one-sentence summary of this post. ### Input: Usually when my bf goes out locally, whether it's drinks after work with colleagues or a night out with the guys, I refrain from blowing up his phone. I think I text about 3 to 4 times that night, just to see how he's doing, if he's having fun, and to wish him a good night (if he's going to be out all night and I'm going to bed). We don't live together and usually see each other on the weekends. He hates texting and so do I, so we don't text each other on the regular anyways. However, when he leaves the country for work I text him way more. I'm curious to know how often you guys text your SO when they are out with their friends partying and getting hammered. Does it vary if they are local or out of the country/state? ### Response:

bf goes out with friends, I text him a lot more when he's out of the country/state than when he's local. Wondering why this is and if other people do the same?!?!?!

my bf goes out with his friends and I don't text him as much as I do when he's out of the country. He's not a big texter and I'm curious to know how often you guy