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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster- this may be a stupid question, but haven't seen it addressed before (maybe because I'm making up things to worry about that aren't real issues?)\n\nI'm getting married in March 2016 in the northeast US, and have a lot of friends and family who will be flying in or driving ~3.5 hours. The hotel where we're holding our reception encouraged me to send out STD's right away so people will book their rooms early, since they fill up pretty quickly (we do get to reserve blocks of rooms, but only in groups of 10, and can only reserve another group of 10 when the original 10 are filled). Our reception is from noon-5pm, and the ceremony will be at my old church literally right across the street from the hotel (so I would think it would start ~11am, but haven't sat down with the pastor yet to hammer out details). In light of that, should I put the time of our wedding in the STD, or mention that it will be an a.m. wedding?\n\nIf I were a guest and just got a general STD card, I might only think to book a hotel room for the night of the wedding, not the night before, assuming it is likely an afternoon wedding and I'd have time to travel (especially if I were one of the many guests who have a 3.5 hour drive). Is it okay to say something on the STD like \"late morning wedding?\" Is it also horrible etiquette to write on the STD something like, \"This hotel is really popular this time of year, so book your rooms early.\"\n \nWe're also planning to invite a bunch of friends/family to our rehearsal dinner the night before, so maybe I could circumvent adding the time of the ceremony when that's not yet set in stone, but instead handing writing on the STD's of those guests who will be traveling far, something like, \"We would love to have you present for both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding- more details to follow!\" which might let them know to book a room for the night before. Is that overkill? Wait to send out the STDs until I know for sure the ceremony time? Would love any feedback!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster- this may be a stupid question, but haven't seen it addressed before (maybe because I'm making up things to worry about that aren't real issues?)\n\nI'm getting married in March 2016 in the northeast US, and have a lot of friends and family who will be flying in or driving ~3.5 hours. The hotel where we're holding our reception encouraged me to send out STD's right away so people will book their rooms early, since they fill up pretty quickly (we do get to reserve blocks of rooms, but only in groups of 10, and can only reserve another group of 10 when the original 10 are filled). Our reception is from noon-5pm, and the ceremony will be at my old church literally right across the street from the hotel (so I would think it would start ~11am, but haven't sat down with the pastor yet to hammer out details). In light of that, should I put the time of our wedding in the STD, or mention that it will be an a.m. wedding?\n\nIf I were a guest and just got a general STD card, I might only think to book a hotel room for the night of the wedding, not the night before, assuming it is likely an afternoon wedding and I'd have time to travel (especially if I were one of the many guests who have a 3.5 hour drive). Is it okay to say something on the STD like \"late morning wedding?\" Is it also horrible etiquette to write on the STD something like, \"This hotel is really popular this time of year, so book your rooms early.\"\n \nWe're also planning to invite a bunch of friends/family to our rehearsal dinner the night before, so maybe I could circumvent adding the time of the ceremony when that's not yet set in stone, but instead handing writing on the STD's of those guests who will be traveling far, something like, \"We would love to have you present for both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding- more details to follow!\" which might let them know to book a room for the night before. Is that overkill? Wait to send out the STDs until I know for sure the ceremony time? Would love any feedback!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster- this may be a stupid question, but haven't seen it addressed before (maybe because I'm making up things to worry about that aren't real issues?)\n\nI'm getting married in March 2016 in the northeast US, and have a lot of friends and family who will be flying in or driving ~3.5 hours. The hotel where we're holding our reception encouraged me to send out STD's right away so people will book their rooms early, since they fill up pretty quickly (we do get to reserve blocks of rooms, but only in groups of 10, and can only reserve another group of 10 when the original 10 are filled). Our reception is from noon-5pm, and the ceremony will be at my old church literally right across the street from the hotel (so I would think it would start ~11am, but haven't sat down with the pastor yet to hammer out details). In light of that, should I put the time of our wedding in the STD, or mention that it will be an a.m. wedding?\n\nIf I were a guest and just got a general STD card, I might only think to book a hotel room for the night of the wedding, not the night before, assuming it is likely an afternoon wedding and I'd have time to travel (especially if I were one of the many guests who have a 3.5 hour drive). Is it okay to say something on the STD like \"late morning wedding?\" Is it also horrible etiquette to write on the STD something like, \"This hotel is really popular this time of year, so book your rooms early.\"\n \nWe're also planning to invite a bunch of friends/family to our rehearsal dinner the night before, so maybe I could circumvent adding the time of the ceremony when that's not yet set in stone, but instead handing writing on the STD's of those guests who will be traveling far, something like, \"We would love to have you present for both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding- more details to follow!\" which might let them know to book a room for the night before. Is that overkill? Wait to send out the STDs until I know for sure the ceremony time? Would love any feedback!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: First time poster- this may be a stupid question, but haven't seen it addressed before (maybe because I'm making up things to worry about that aren't real issues?)\n\nI'm getting married in March 2016 in the northeast US, and have a lot of friends and family who will be flying in or driving ~3.5 hours. The hotel where we're holding our reception encouraged me to send out STD's right away so people will book their rooms early, since they fill up pretty quickly (we do get to reserve blocks of rooms, but only in groups of 10, and can only reserve another group of 10 when the original 10 are filled). Our reception is from noon-5pm, and the ceremony will be at my old church literally right across the street from the hotel (so I would think it would start ~11am, but haven't sat down with the pastor yet to hammer out details). In light of that, should I put the time of our wedding in the STD, or mention that it will be an a.m. wedding?\n\nIf I were a guest and just got a general STD card, I might only think to book a hotel room for the night of the wedding, not the night before, assuming it is likely an afternoon wedding and I'd have time to travel (especially if I were one of the many guests who have a 3.5 hour drive). Is it okay to say something on the STD like \"late morning wedding?\" Is it also horrible etiquette to write on the STD something like, \"This hotel is really popular this time of year, so book your rooms early.\"\n \nWe're also planning to invite a bunch of friends/family to our rehearsal dinner the night before, so maybe I could circumvent adding the time of the ceremony when that's not yet set in stone, but instead handing writing on the STD's of those guests who will be traveling far, something like, \"We would love to have you present for both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding- more details to follow!\" which might let them know to book a room for the night before. Is that overkill? Wait to send out the STDs until I know for sure the ceremony time? Would love any feedback!"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I have been together for 3 years now and from the beginning we have been honest with sex. We have an amazing sex life and we roleplay things that most people would find weird/odd/different, but it's way more satisfying for us.\n\n Anyways, for the past few months we have been more and more open with our sexual exploration fantasies,I asked her to have a 3 way and/or watch her be sexual involved with another woman while i watch.(she's ok with, but shy about it). We have even discussed our attraction for other people. Although I feel we are a strong couple I'm just scared to think of how \"normal\" this is.\n\nI mean I have never heard of people actually discussing with their partners their sexual desires for other people. I guess its just that voice in the back of my head telling me how wrong this is even though we enjoy it and we have been way happier, loving and sexually involved then ever. My question is,Is this normal? Should I be worried? Or should I just go with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I have been together for 3 years now and from the beginning we have been honest with sex. We have an amazing sex life and we roleplay things that most people would find weird/odd/different, but it's way more satisfying for us.\n\n Anyways, for the past few months we have been more and more open with our sexual exploration fantasies,I asked her to have a 3 way and/or watch her be sexual involved with another woman while i watch.(she's ok with, but shy about it). We have even discussed our attraction for other people. Although I feel we are a strong couple I'm just scared to think of how \"normal\" this is.\n\nI mean I have never heard of people actually discussing with their partners their sexual desires for other people. I guess its just that voice in the back of my head telling me how wrong this is even though we enjoy it and we have been way happier, loving and sexually involved then ever. My question is,Is this normal? Should I be worried? Or should I just go with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I have been together for 3 years now and from the beginning we have been honest with sex. We have an amazing sex life and we roleplay things that most people would find weird/odd/different, but it's way more satisfying for us.\n\n Anyways, for the past few months we have been more and more open with our sexual exploration fantasies,I asked her to have a 3 way and/or watch her be sexual involved with another woman while i watch.(she's ok with, but shy about it). We have even discussed our attraction for other people. Although I feel we are a strong couple I'm just scared to think of how \"normal\" this is.\n\nI mean I have never heard of people actually discussing with their partners their sexual desires for other people. I guess its just that voice in the back of my head telling me how wrong this is even though we enjoy it and we have been way happier, loving and sexually involved then ever. My question is,Is this normal? Should I be worried? Or should I just go with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My wife and I have been together for 3 years now and from the beginning we have been honest with sex. We have an amazing sex life and we roleplay things that most people would find weird/odd/different, but it's way more satisfying for us.\n\n Anyways, for the past few months we have been more and more open with our sexual exploration fantasies,I asked her to have a 3 way and/or watch her be sexual involved with another woman while i watch.(she's ok with, but shy about it). We have even discussed our attraction for other people. Although I feel we are a strong couple I'm just scared to think of how \"normal\" this is.\n\nI mean I have never heard of people actually discussing with their partners their sexual desires for other people. I guess its just that voice in the back of my head telling me how wrong this is even though we enjoy it and we have been way happier, loving and sexually involved then ever. My question is,Is this normal? Should I be worried? Or should I just go with this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, he's 25 and I'm 22. This was after a two year relationship. We didn't have any issues, in fact we never fought and had a wonderful relationship, definitely the best I've ever experienced. When we first met it was certainly one of those, \"love (lust) at first sight\" moments, and we were super close from that point on, and built a very light, fun, and supportive connection. We had planned on getting married in the future, and both felt we had never had such a great and close friendship with anyone before. Since his reason for the breakup was that things, \"didn't feel the same\" and two years sounded about right to become desensitized to a person, I always assumed he broke up with me because the honeymoon phase had ended. From what I understand, I was his first serious relationship. I was devastated. \n\nI'm not emotional over him anymore, but it's probably safe to say I never really got over him. A few weeks ago he started texting me with long conversations three or four times a week, saying things that could be taken as flirtatious (I had a dream about you, we have a weird connection, etc), and complimenting me, calling me by name, liking many things I put on facebook, and trying to relate to my interests. He wants to hang out over thanksgiving break. \n\nHe's a very shy guy, so I have entertained the idea that this could be an indication we may have a reconciliation sometime in the future. I'm not ready to bring up the topic in conversation with him, or open myself up to him in any romantic way at this point.\n\nStill I'm wondering: Have you ever broken up with someone/ have been broken up with by someone you had a great relationship with because the honeymoon phase had ended? Did either or both of your perceptions of the relationship change after experiencing other relationships? Was there ever a reconciliation? How did things ultimately turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, he's 25 and I'm 22. This was after a two year relationship. We didn't have any issues, in fact we never fought and had a wonderful relationship, definitely the best I've ever experienced. When we first met it was certainly one of those, \"love (lust) at first sight\" moments, and we were super close from that point on, and built a very light, fun, and supportive connection. We had planned on getting married in the future, and both felt we had never had such a great and close friendship with anyone before. Since his reason for the breakup was that things, \"didn't feel the same\" and two years sounded about right to become desensitized to a person, I always assumed he broke up with me because the honeymoon phase had ended. From what I understand, I was his first serious relationship. I was devastated. \n\nI'm not emotional over him anymore, but it's probably safe to say I never really got over him. A few weeks ago he started texting me with long conversations three or four times a week, saying things that could be taken as flirtatious (I had a dream about you, we have a weird connection, etc), and complimenting me, calling me by name, liking many things I put on facebook, and trying to relate to my interests. He wants to hang out over thanksgiving break. \n\nHe's a very shy guy, so I have entertained the idea that this could be an indication we may have a reconciliation sometime in the future. I'm not ready to bring up the topic in conversation with him, or open myself up to him in any romantic way at this point.\n\nStill I'm wondering: Have you ever broken up with someone/ have been broken up with by someone you had a great relationship with because the honeymoon phase had ended? Did either or both of your perceptions of the relationship change after experiencing other relationships? Was there ever a reconciliation? How did things ultimately turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, he's 25 and I'm 22. This was after a two year relationship. We didn't have any issues, in fact we never fought and had a wonderful relationship, definitely the best I've ever experienced. When we first met it was certainly one of those, \"love (lust) at first sight\" moments, and we were super close from that point on, and built a very light, fun, and supportive connection. We had planned on getting married in the future, and both felt we had never had such a great and close friendship with anyone before. Since his reason for the breakup was that things, \"didn't feel the same\" and two years sounded about right to become desensitized to a person, I always assumed he broke up with me because the honeymoon phase had ended. From what I understand, I was his first serious relationship. I was devastated. \n\nI'm not emotional over him anymore, but it's probably safe to say I never really got over him. A few weeks ago he started texting me with long conversations three or four times a week, saying things that could be taken as flirtatious (I had a dream about you, we have a weird connection, etc), and complimenting me, calling me by name, liking many things I put on facebook, and trying to relate to my interests. He wants to hang out over thanksgiving break. \n\nHe's a very shy guy, so I have entertained the idea that this could be an indication we may have a reconciliation sometime in the future. I'm not ready to bring up the topic in conversation with him, or open myself up to him in any romantic way at this point.\n\nStill I'm wondering: Have you ever broken up with someone/ have been broken up with by someone you had a great relationship with because the honeymoon phase had ended? Did either or both of your perceptions of the relationship change after experiencing other relationships? Was there ever a reconciliation? How did things ultimately turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My ex-boyfriend broke up with me a year ago, he's 25 and I'm 22. This was after a two year relationship. We didn't have any issues, in fact we never fought and had a wonderful relationship, definitely the best I've ever experienced. When we first met it was certainly one of those, \"love (lust) at first sight\" moments, and we were super close from that point on, and built a very light, fun, and supportive connection. We had planned on getting married in the future, and both felt we had never had such a great and close friendship with anyone before. Since his reason for the breakup was that things, \"didn't feel the same\" and two years sounded about right to become desensitized to a person, I always assumed he broke up with me because the honeymoon phase had ended. From what I understand, I was his first serious relationship. I was devastated. \n\nI'm not emotional over him anymore, but it's probably safe to say I never really got over him. A few weeks ago he started texting me with long conversations three or four times a week, saying things that could be taken as flirtatious (I had a dream about you, we have a weird connection, etc), and complimenting me, calling me by name, liking many things I put on facebook, and trying to relate to my interests. He wants to hang out over thanksgiving break. \n\nHe's a very shy guy, so I have entertained the idea that this could be an indication we may have a reconciliation sometime in the future. I'm not ready to bring up the topic in conversation with him, or open myself up to him in any romantic way at this point.\n\nStill I'm wondering: Have you ever broken up with someone/ have been broken up with by someone you had a great relationship with because the honeymoon phase had ended? Did either or both of your perceptions of the relationship change after experiencing other relationships? Was there ever a reconciliation? How did things ultimately turn out?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ya we're dating a couple of months, we go to 2 different colleges about 2 hours apart, so we don't see each other during the week, but usually at weekends we go out and stay at each others'.\n\nIt's all going really good but just she never really texts asking how I am, how my day was, starting a conversation. If I text she could take an hour or two to write back \"Really good college was fun :) X\". I know she isn't overworked or superbusy, and she's a kind of girl that always has her phone on her so I just don't know.\n\nI've got a great bunch or friends and I play soccer and regularly go out with my guy friends during the week so it's not that I'm desperatly dependent on her. It'd just be nice if I felt she was thinking about me during the day. \n\nIt's leaving me annoyed and irritated a lot of the time, I know it isn't a massive deal but it feels like she doesn't think about me at all when we're not together.\n\nAnyone has any similar experiences, advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ya we're dating a couple of months, we go to 2 different colleges about 2 hours apart, so we don't see each other during the week, but usually at weekends we go out and stay at each others'.\n\nIt's all going really good but just she never really texts asking how I am, how my day was, starting a conversation. If I text she could take an hour or two to write back \"Really good college was fun :) X\". I know she isn't overworked or superbusy, and she's a kind of girl that always has her phone on her so I just don't know.\n\nI've got a great bunch or friends and I play soccer and regularly go out with my guy friends during the week so it's not that I'm desperatly dependent on her. It'd just be nice if I felt she was thinking about me during the day. \n\nIt's leaving me annoyed and irritated a lot of the time, I know it isn't a massive deal but it feels like she doesn't think about me at all when we're not together.\n\nAnyone has any similar experiences, advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ya we're dating a couple of months, we go to 2 different colleges about 2 hours apart, so we don't see each other during the week, but usually at weekends we go out and stay at each others'.\n\nIt's all going really good but just she never really texts asking how I am, how my day was, starting a conversation. If I text she could take an hour or two to write back \"Really good college was fun :) X\". I know she isn't overworked or superbusy, and she's a kind of girl that always has her phone on her so I just don't know.\n\nI've got a great bunch or friends and I play soccer and regularly go out with my guy friends during the week so it's not that I'm desperatly dependent on her. It'd just be nice if I felt she was thinking about me during the day. \n\nIt's leaving me annoyed and irritated a lot of the time, I know it isn't a massive deal but it feels like she doesn't think about me at all when we're not together.\n\nAnyone has any similar experiences, advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So ya we're dating a couple of months, we go to 2 different colleges about 2 hours apart, so we don't see each other during the week, but usually at weekends we go out and stay at each others'.\n\nIt's all going really good but just she never really texts asking how I am, how my day was, starting a conversation. If I text she could take an hour or two to write back \"Really good college was fun :) X\". I know she isn't overworked or superbusy, and she's a kind of girl that always has her phone on her so I just don't know.\n\nI've got a great bunch or friends and I play soccer and regularly go out with my guy friends during the week so it's not that I'm desperatly dependent on her. It'd just be nice if I felt she was thinking about me during the day. \n\nIt's leaving me annoyed and irritated a lot of the time, I know it isn't a massive deal but it feels like she doesn't think about me at all when we're not together.\n\nAnyone has any similar experiences, advice?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24M) broke up with my girlfriend (23F) about two months ago, maybe three (the last few months have been a blur) and every night before I fell asleep I would always think about her, think about what I would say, think if I should say something or not. It bothered me for months and now that I have finally accepted moving on (it still hurts) I realized I really needed closure. I sent her a message not too long ago because I truly felt I needed there to be no bad blood between us and I just needed to let her know that I did care about her and not that I was some cold heartless monster. I know some of you may be against this but I have to say it felt great.\n\nI cried when I wrote the letter and poured my heart out and feelings into it and hovered above the \"send\" button for what seemed an eternity before I finally sent the message. After that I felt something amazing, some sort of cleansing came over me like as if all the weight being carried by my shoulders was finally removed. To be honest I'm a bit scared about the response but I did scroll through some of our old messages and realized why we had to break up. Thinking back upon our relationship it always seems a lot more happier than it actually was and reading these old messages made me realize how unhappy we both were. Anyways, I might update if you're interested if I hear a response and see how well I handle it - I hope I made the right choice, but I think I did. I feel a lot happier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24M) broke up with my girlfriend (23F) about two months ago, maybe three (the last few months have been a blur) and every night before I fell asleep I would always think about her, think about what I would say, think if I should say something or not. It bothered me for months and now that I have finally accepted moving on (it still hurts) I realized I really needed closure. I sent her a message not too long ago because I truly felt I needed there to be no bad blood between us and I just needed to let her know that I did care about her and not that I was some cold heartless monster. I know some of you may be against this but I have to say it felt great.\n\nI cried when I wrote the letter and poured my heart out and feelings into it and hovered above the \"send\" button for what seemed an eternity before I finally sent the message. After that I felt something amazing, some sort of cleansing came over me like as if all the weight being carried by my shoulders was finally removed. To be honest I'm a bit scared about the response but I did scroll through some of our old messages and realized why we had to break up. Thinking back upon our relationship it always seems a lot more happier than it actually was and reading these old messages made me realize how unhappy we both were. Anyways, I might update if you're interested if I hear a response and see how well I handle it - I hope I made the right choice, but I think I did. I feel a lot happier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24M) broke up with my girlfriend (23F) about two months ago, maybe three (the last few months have been a blur) and every night before I fell asleep I would always think about her, think about what I would say, think if I should say something or not. It bothered me for months and now that I have finally accepted moving on (it still hurts) I realized I really needed closure. I sent her a message not too long ago because I truly felt I needed there to be no bad blood between us and I just needed to let her know that I did care about her and not that I was some cold heartless monster. I know some of you may be against this but I have to say it felt great.\n\nI cried when I wrote the letter and poured my heart out and feelings into it and hovered above the \"send\" button for what seemed an eternity before I finally sent the message. After that I felt something amazing, some sort of cleansing came over me like as if all the weight being carried by my shoulders was finally removed. To be honest I'm a bit scared about the response but I did scroll through some of our old messages and realized why we had to break up. Thinking back upon our relationship it always seems a lot more happier than it actually was and reading these old messages made me realize how unhappy we both were. Anyways, I might update if you're interested if I hear a response and see how well I handle it - I hope I made the right choice, but I think I did. I feel a lot happier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I (24M) broke up with my girlfriend (23F) about two months ago, maybe three (the last few months have been a blur) and every night before I fell asleep I would always think about her, think about what I would say, think if I should say something or not. It bothered me for months and now that I have finally accepted moving on (it still hurts) I realized I really needed closure. I sent her a message not too long ago because I truly felt I needed there to be no bad blood between us and I just needed to let her know that I did care about her and not that I was some cold heartless monster. I know some of you may be against this but I have to say it felt great.\n\nI cried when I wrote the letter and poured my heart out and feelings into it and hovered above the \"send\" button for what seemed an eternity before I finally sent the message. After that I felt something amazing, some sort of cleansing came over me like as if all the weight being carried by my shoulders was finally removed. To be honest I'm a bit scared about the response but I did scroll through some of our old messages and realized why we had to break up. Thinking back upon our relationship it always seems a lot more happier than it actually was and reading these old messages made me realize how unhappy we both were. Anyways, I might update if you're interested if I hear a response and see how well I handle it - I hope I made the right choice, but I think I did. I feel a lot happier."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently deposited a large check into my bank account, and unfortunately, the funds will not be available to me until 4/18. I would like to contribute the maximum (5k) into a Roth IRA, unfortunately I only have around $1000 in my checking at the moment. \n\nI was wondering if there was anyway I could delay my deposit for my roth IRA by a few days? Or should I just bite the bullet and deposit the $1000 that i have in checking? I have my credit card in case any sudden expenses come up\n\nALSO: Should i deposit money for the 2013 year ASAP as well?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently deposited a large check into my bank account, and unfortunately, the funds will not be available to me until 4/18. I would like to contribute the maximum (5k) into a Roth IRA, unfortunately I only have around $1000 in my checking at the moment. \n\nI was wondering if there was anyway I could delay my deposit for my roth IRA by a few days? Or should I just bite the bullet and deposit the $1000 that i have in checking? I have my credit card in case any sudden expenses come up\n\nALSO: Should i deposit money for the 2013 year ASAP as well?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently deposited a large check into my bank account, and unfortunately, the funds will not be available to me until 4/18. I would like to contribute the maximum (5k) into a Roth IRA, unfortunately I only have around $1000 in my checking at the moment. \n\nI was wondering if there was anyway I could delay my deposit for my roth IRA by a few days? Or should I just bite the bullet and deposit the $1000 that i have in checking? I have my credit card in case any sudden expenses come up\n\nALSO: Should i deposit money for the 2013 year ASAP as well?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I recently deposited a large check into my bank account, and unfortunately, the funds will not be available to me until 4/18. I would like to contribute the maximum (5k) into a Roth IRA, unfortunately I only have around $1000 in my checking at the moment. \n\nI was wondering if there was anyway I could delay my deposit for my roth IRA by a few days? Or should I just bite the bullet and deposit the $1000 that i have in checking? I have my credit card in case any sudden expenses come up\n\nALSO: Should i deposit money for the 2013 year ASAP as well?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says my boyfriend is in an abusive work situation. I know this because we work together and I watch daily as his boss gaslights, berates, and is just all around absurd to him. It became so bad a few weeks ago that I felt compelled to report it to my supervisor(she works remotely from home) because I could not concentrate on my own work due to the overly hostile work environment. The desks are one of those collaborative environments which is why I am unwillingly all up in his business during the work day, there is not another option. \n\nThe only saving grace is that his contract will be up in 2 months and will no longer have to deal with his supervisor. On the flipside as his end date approaches, his supervisor becomes increasingly abusive taking him into conference rooms to 'coach' him and also asking my bf to 'explain what he(the supervisor) is doing' which devolves into the supe trying to explain and gaslight like his life depends on it. I suspect he(supe) does this because he's realizing that he's losing his scapegoat and the brains behind their operation in our city. I feel so bad for my boyfriend because he's really great at his job and a joy to be around, everyone else in the workplace feels the same and I know he will be missed. But how do I support him until it's over? \n\nHe dreads *every* work day and is emotionally drained from dealing with everything that I know he doesn't get in as much job hunting and general life enjoyment as he wants and needs. (Additionally I sense a self-worth issue creeping up but he hasn't disclosed to me) Oh and his boss and their overall dept head keep torturing him with the possibility of keeping him on longer it's just a mess. I've been trying to find positive affirmations to help him(which he really seems to like) and leave notes in his car and lunches. *Beyond that how do I help and support him without adding to his stress?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says my boyfriend is in an abusive work situation. I know this because we work together and I watch daily as his boss gaslights, berates, and is just all around absurd to him. It became so bad a few weeks ago that I felt compelled to report it to my supervisor(she works remotely from home) because I could not concentrate on my own work due to the overly hostile work environment. The desks are one of those collaborative environments which is why I am unwillingly all up in his business during the work day, there is not another option. \n\nThe only saving grace is that his contract will be up in 2 months and will no longer have to deal with his supervisor. On the flipside as his end date approaches, his supervisor becomes increasingly abusive taking him into conference rooms to 'coach' him and also asking my bf to 'explain what he(the supervisor) is doing' which devolves into the supe trying to explain and gaslight like his life depends on it. I suspect he(supe) does this because he's realizing that he's losing his scapegoat and the brains behind their operation in our city. I feel so bad for my boyfriend because he's really great at his job and a joy to be around, everyone else in the workplace feels the same and I know he will be missed. But how do I support him until it's over? \n\nHe dreads *every* work day and is emotionally drained from dealing with everything that I know he doesn't get in as much job hunting and general life enjoyment as he wants and needs. (Additionally I sense a self-worth issue creeping up but he hasn't disclosed to me) Oh and his boss and their overall dept head keep torturing him with the possibility of keeping him on longer it's just a mess. I've been trying to find positive affirmations to help him(which he really seems to like) and leave notes in his car and lunches. *Beyond that how do I help and support him without adding to his stress?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says my boyfriend is in an abusive work situation. I know this because we work together and I watch daily as his boss gaslights, berates, and is just all around absurd to him. It became so bad a few weeks ago that I felt compelled to report it to my supervisor(she works remotely from home) because I could not concentrate on my own work due to the overly hostile work environment. The desks are one of those collaborative environments which is why I am unwillingly all up in his business during the work day, there is not another option. \n\nThe only saving grace is that his contract will be up in 2 months and will no longer have to deal with his supervisor. On the flipside as his end date approaches, his supervisor becomes increasingly abusive taking him into conference rooms to 'coach' him and also asking my bf to 'explain what he(the supervisor) is doing' which devolves into the supe trying to explain and gaslight like his life depends on it. I suspect he(supe) does this because he's realizing that he's losing his scapegoat and the brains behind their operation in our city. I feel so bad for my boyfriend because he's really great at his job and a joy to be around, everyone else in the workplace feels the same and I know he will be missed. But how do I support him until it's over? \n\nHe dreads *every* work day and is emotionally drained from dealing with everything that I know he doesn't get in as much job hunting and general life enjoyment as he wants and needs. (Additionally I sense a self-worth issue creeping up but he hasn't disclosed to me) Oh and his boss and their overall dept head keep torturing him with the possibility of keeping him on longer it's just a mess. I've been trying to find positive affirmations to help him(which he really seems to like) and leave notes in his car and lunches. *Beyond that how do I help and support him without adding to his stress?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says my boyfriend is in an abusive work situation. I know this because we work together and I watch daily as his boss gaslights, berates, and is just all around absurd to him. It became so bad a few weeks ago that I felt compelled to report it to my supervisor(she works remotely from home) because I could not concentrate on my own work due to the overly hostile work environment. The desks are one of those collaborative environments which is why I am unwillingly all up in his business during the work day, there is not another option. \n\nThe only saving grace is that his contract will be up in 2 months and will no longer have to deal with his supervisor. On the flipside as his end date approaches, his supervisor becomes increasingly abusive taking him into conference rooms to 'coach' him and also asking my bf to 'explain what he(the supervisor) is doing' which devolves into the supe trying to explain and gaslight like his life depends on it. I suspect he(supe) does this because he's realizing that he's losing his scapegoat and the brains behind their operation in our city. I feel so bad for my boyfriend because he's really great at his job and a joy to be around, everyone else in the workplace feels the same and I know he will be missed. But how do I support him until it's over? \n\nHe dreads *every* work day and is emotionally drained from dealing with everything that I know he doesn't get in as much job hunting and general life enjoyment as he wants and needs. (Additionally I sense a self-worth issue creeping up but he hasn't disclosed to me) Oh and his boss and their overall dept head keep torturing him with the possibility of keeping him on longer it's just a mess. I've been trying to find positive affirmations to help him(which he really seems to like) and leave notes in his car and lunches. *Beyond that how do I help and support him without adding to his stress?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we moved in together a couple months ago. They're good people and are fun to be around most of the time. We don't want to start any trouble or cause problems. We like living with them.\n\nAn issue with the female roomie, she hacks or hocks loogies(?). As I type this, she just did a really loud one. It is disgusting. My boyfriend and I have let this go for some time now but we are getting really fed up with this. I've been talking to him about asking her to stop. I am unsure of how to do this or how to approach this. I've been thinking of talking to her bf and asking him to talk to her. \n\nPlaying games, in associated with Diablo 3, we used to play a lot like a couple of days every week. Now it's once every 2 weeks to who knows when. My boyfriend and I would like to play often. We are frequent gamers and would like to level up our characters! What I am wondering is that.is there a solution to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we moved in together a couple months ago. They're good people and are fun to be around most of the time. We don't want to start any trouble or cause problems. We like living with them.\n\nAn issue with the female roomie, she hacks or hocks loogies(?). As I type this, she just did a really loud one. It is disgusting. My boyfriend and I have let this go for some time now but we are getting really fed up with this. I've been talking to him about asking her to stop. I am unsure of how to do this or how to approach this. I've been thinking of talking to her bf and asking him to talk to her. \n\nPlaying games, in associated with Diablo 3, we used to play a lot like a couple of days every week. Now it's once every 2 weeks to who knows when. My boyfriend and I would like to play often. We are frequent gamers and would like to level up our characters! What I am wondering is that.is there a solution to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we moved in together a couple months ago. They're good people and are fun to be around most of the time. We don't want to start any trouble or cause problems. We like living with them.\n\nAn issue with the female roomie, she hacks or hocks loogies(?). As I type this, she just did a really loud one. It is disgusting. My boyfriend and I have let this go for some time now but we are getting really fed up with this. I've been talking to him about asking her to stop. I am unsure of how to do this or how to approach this. I've been thinking of talking to her bf and asking him to talk to her. \n\nPlaying games, in associated with Diablo 3, we used to play a lot like a couple of days every week. Now it's once every 2 weeks to who knows when. My boyfriend and I would like to play often. We are frequent gamers and would like to level up our characters! What I am wondering is that.is there a solution to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So we moved in together a couple months ago. They're good people and are fun to be around most of the time. We don't want to start any trouble or cause problems. We like living with them.\n\nAn issue with the female roomie, she hacks or hocks loogies(?). As I type this, she just did a really loud one. It is disgusting. My boyfriend and I have let this go for some time now but we are getting really fed up with this. I've been talking to him about asking her to stop. I am unsure of how to do this or how to approach this. I've been thinking of talking to her bf and asking him to talk to her. \n\nPlaying games, in associated with Diablo 3, we used to play a lot like a couple of days every week. Now it's once every 2 weeks to who knows when. My boyfriend and I would like to play often. We are frequent gamers and would like to level up our characters! What I am wondering is that.is there a solution to this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now.\n\n I have been through some very interesting feelings over the past few days, how I imagine the mind of a rock and roll star is, and I have somehow pulled myself out of it. I have also been doing some writing. I really want someone to read it, but I need to trust this person. I am after someone very specific and I think that Reddit may be able to help. I need someone who is a psychologist because they feel the weird urge to help people. They don't know why they are interested in psychology, but they just feel that it works for them and are very happy with their life choice. If this is you, then please contact me. I also need to be able to trust you so don't be offended if I ask to see credentials n shit, ya know.I'm backing up my sources now that I have learned things about life from Reddit! (p.s. cheers Reddit, I think you were part of this emotional enlightenment. I really hope that if there is any sense in what I have experienced, that it can help a lot of people.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now.\n\n I have been through some very interesting feelings over the past few days, how I imagine the mind of a rock and roll star is, and I have somehow pulled myself out of it. I have also been doing some writing. I really want someone to read it, but I need to trust this person. I am after someone very specific and I think that Reddit may be able to help. I need someone who is a psychologist because they feel the weird urge to help people. They don't know why they are interested in psychology, but they just feel that it works for them and are very happy with their life choice. If this is you, then please contact me. I also need to be able to trust you so don't be offended if I ask to see credentials n shit, ya know.I'm backing up my sources now that I have learned things about life from Reddit! (p.s. cheers Reddit, I think you were part of this emotional enlightenment. I really hope that if there is any sense in what I have experienced, that it can help a lot of people.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now.\n\n I have been through some very interesting feelings over the past few days, how I imagine the mind of a rock and roll star is, and I have somehow pulled myself out of it. I have also been doing some writing. I really want someone to read it, but I need to trust this person. I am after someone very specific and I think that Reddit may be able to help. I need someone who is a psychologist because they feel the weird urge to help people. They don't know why they are interested in psychology, but they just feel that it works for them and are very happy with their life choice. If this is you, then please contact me. I also need to be able to trust you so don't be offended if I ask to see credentials n shit, ya know.I'm backing up my sources now that I have learned things about life from Reddit! (p.s. cheers Reddit, I think you were part of this emotional enlightenment. I really hope that if there is any sense in what I have experienced, that it can help a lot of people.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Now.\n\n I have been through some very interesting feelings over the past few days, how I imagine the mind of a rock and roll star is, and I have somehow pulled myself out of it. I have also been doing some writing. I really want someone to read it, but I need to trust this person. I am after someone very specific and I think that Reddit may be able to help. I need someone who is a psychologist because they feel the weird urge to help people. They don't know why they are interested in psychology, but they just feel that it works for them and are very happy with their life choice. If this is you, then please contact me. I also need to be able to trust you so don't be offended if I ask to see credentials n shit, ya know.I'm backing up my sources now that I have learned things about life from Reddit! (p.s. cheers Reddit, I think you were part of this emotional enlightenment. I really hope that if there is any sense in what I have experienced, that it can help a lot of people.)"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Preface: I know the default advice for dating superiors is just to not do it, however although she is technically my superior, she's more like a coworker than a manager, and I don't care about this job much anyways.\n\nBoth of us started working at a casual sandwich shop as equal coworkers when the store opened last summer. We got along well, but never made any advances. Wasn't looking to date anyone at the time. A few months passed, and I quit to focus on the upcoming college semester I would be attending that fall. When fall and summer semesters ended, summer rolled around again and I reapplied to the sand place and they hired me back. To my surprise, most of my coworkers were actually still there, and many had been promoted to supervisor, including this girl I am currently interested in. I've been working back there about a month. She doesn't treat me like an employee, but rather just a coworker, and we're cool on everything. I'm wondering \n\n1. if I should even be pursuing\nand \n2. if so, in what manner. I don't have much relationship experience, but I'm looking to branch out. I would consider myself fine in social situations once I get into them, but getting into them is hard for me. \n\nShe's recently broken up with a long term boyfriend (maybe a month ago), if that matters.\n\nAnother important thing: I don't really care much about the job itself. It's a nice fall back part time job, but I could do better elsewhere. I say this because I'm not afraid of risking my job for this, even if it turns out to not work out.\n\nThanks guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Preface: I know the default advice for dating superiors is just to not do it, however although she is technically my superior, she's more like a coworker than a manager, and I don't care about this job much anyways.\n\nBoth of us started working at a casual sandwich shop as equal coworkers when the store opened last summer. We got along well, but never made any advances. Wasn't looking to date anyone at the time. A few months passed, and I quit to focus on the upcoming college semester I would be attending that fall. When fall and summer semesters ended, summer rolled around again and I reapplied to the sand place and they hired me back. To my surprise, most of my coworkers were actually still there, and many had been promoted to supervisor, including this girl I am currently interested in. I've been working back there about a month. She doesn't treat me like an employee, but rather just a coworker, and we're cool on everything. I'm wondering \n\n1. if I should even be pursuing\nand \n2. if so, in what manner. I don't have much relationship experience, but I'm looking to branch out. I would consider myself fine in social situations once I get into them, but getting into them is hard for me. \n\nShe's recently broken up with a long term boyfriend (maybe a month ago), if that matters.\n\nAnother important thing: I don't really care much about the job itself. It's a nice fall back part time job, but I could do better elsewhere. I say this because I'm not afraid of risking my job for this, even if it turns out to not work out.\n\nThanks guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Preface: I know the default advice for dating superiors is just to not do it, however although she is technically my superior, she's more like a coworker than a manager, and I don't care about this job much anyways.\n\nBoth of us started working at a casual sandwich shop as equal coworkers when the store opened last summer. We got along well, but never made any advances. Wasn't looking to date anyone at the time. A few months passed, and I quit to focus on the upcoming college semester I would be attending that fall. When fall and summer semesters ended, summer rolled around again and I reapplied to the sand place and they hired me back. To my surprise, most of my coworkers were actually still there, and many had been promoted to supervisor, including this girl I am currently interested in. I've been working back there about a month. She doesn't treat me like an employee, but rather just a coworker, and we're cool on everything. I'm wondering \n\n1. if I should even be pursuing\nand \n2. if so, in what manner. I don't have much relationship experience, but I'm looking to branch out. I would consider myself fine in social situations once I get into them, but getting into them is hard for me. \n\nShe's recently broken up with a long term boyfriend (maybe a month ago), if that matters.\n\nAnother important thing: I don't really care much about the job itself. It's a nice fall back part time job, but I could do better elsewhere. I say this because I'm not afraid of risking my job for this, even if it turns out to not work out.\n\nThanks guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Preface: I know the default advice for dating superiors is just to not do it, however although she is technically my superior, she's more like a coworker than a manager, and I don't care about this job much anyways.\n\nBoth of us started working at a casual sandwich shop as equal coworkers when the store opened last summer. We got along well, but never made any advances. Wasn't looking to date anyone at the time. A few months passed, and I quit to focus on the upcoming college semester I would be attending that fall. When fall and summer semesters ended, summer rolled around again and I reapplied to the sand place and they hired me back. To my surprise, most of my coworkers were actually still there, and many had been promoted to supervisor, including this girl I am currently interested in. I've been working back there about a month. She doesn't treat me like an employee, but rather just a coworker, and we're cool on everything. I'm wondering \n\n1. if I should even be pursuing\nand \n2. if so, in what manner. I don't have much relationship experience, but I'm looking to branch out. I would consider myself fine in social situations once I get into them, but getting into them is hard for me. \n\nShe's recently broken up with a long term boyfriend (maybe a month ago), if that matters.\n\nAnother important thing: I don't really care much about the job itself. It's a nice fall back part time job, but I could do better elsewhere. I say this because I'm not afraid of risking my job for this, even if it turns out to not work out.\n\nThanks guys."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at the beginning of last school year while I was in grade 11 and he was in grade 12, had instant chemistry, and started dating within a month or two. We've had a lot of ups and downs but we both really love each other. \n\nOver the summer we talked a lot about what we would do when he went away for college (his school is too far too drive for visits) and after breaking up for a day and not being able to handle it we decided to give an LDR a chance. \n\nAt first, it was bearable and I got a chance to fly out on a long weekend to see him, and he came home for a few days, but now I can't stand it. He has always been an awful texter and only calls me past midnight (we live in different timezones now) when he's on his way somewhere with his new friends. \n\nWhen we do occasionally talk, we get in big arguments about how much we don't talk (it's always his fault) and then he'll call back in a couple hours and say he's sorry and he loves me and he misses me. I do really love him and can't imagine what I would do without him and he tells me he feels the same way\n\nHe'll be home in about two weeks for a short Thanksgiving break and then right back again for a full month for winter break, but is it worth it to try and keep this going? Even if we somehow struggle through the year until summer we'll both be at separate colleges the next year and could possibly be even farther apart than we are now. \n\nTo make things a little more complicated, since he's been gone his parents have been very lonely and have invited me over once a week just to hang out. I've gotten pretty close with both of them, especially his mom, and I don't know what I should do if my boyfriend and I do break up. And to make it even more complicated, his childhood dog is dying and I'm not sure how to deal with that situation either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at the beginning of last school year while I was in grade 11 and he was in grade 12, had instant chemistry, and started dating within a month or two. We've had a lot of ups and downs but we both really love each other. \n\nOver the summer we talked a lot about what we would do when he went away for college (his school is too far too drive for visits) and after breaking up for a day and not being able to handle it we decided to give an LDR a chance. \n\nAt first, it was bearable and I got a chance to fly out on a long weekend to see him, and he came home for a few days, but now I can't stand it. He has always been an awful texter and only calls me past midnight (we live in different timezones now) when he's on his way somewhere with his new friends. \n\nWhen we do occasionally talk, we get in big arguments about how much we don't talk (it's always his fault) and then he'll call back in a couple hours and say he's sorry and he loves me and he misses me. I do really love him and can't imagine what I would do without him and he tells me he feels the same way\n\nHe'll be home in about two weeks for a short Thanksgiving break and then right back again for a full month for winter break, but is it worth it to try and keep this going? Even if we somehow struggle through the year until summer we'll both be at separate colleges the next year and could possibly be even farther apart than we are now. \n\nTo make things a little more complicated, since he's been gone his parents have been very lonely and have invited me over once a week just to hang out. I've gotten pretty close with both of them, especially his mom, and I don't know what I should do if my boyfriend and I do break up. And to make it even more complicated, his childhood dog is dying and I'm not sure how to deal with that situation either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at the beginning of last school year while I was in grade 11 and he was in grade 12, had instant chemistry, and started dating within a month or two. We've had a lot of ups and downs but we both really love each other. \n\nOver the summer we talked a lot about what we would do when he went away for college (his school is too far too drive for visits) and after breaking up for a day and not being able to handle it we decided to give an LDR a chance. \n\nAt first, it was bearable and I got a chance to fly out on a long weekend to see him, and he came home for a few days, but now I can't stand it. He has always been an awful texter and only calls me past midnight (we live in different timezones now) when he's on his way somewhere with his new friends. \n\nWhen we do occasionally talk, we get in big arguments about how much we don't talk (it's always his fault) and then he'll call back in a couple hours and say he's sorry and he loves me and he misses me. I do really love him and can't imagine what I would do without him and he tells me he feels the same way\n\nHe'll be home in about two weeks for a short Thanksgiving break and then right back again for a full month for winter break, but is it worth it to try and keep this going? Even if we somehow struggle through the year until summer we'll both be at separate colleges the next year and could possibly be even farther apart than we are now. \n\nTo make things a little more complicated, since he's been gone his parents have been very lonely and have invited me over once a week just to hang out. I've gotten pretty close with both of them, especially his mom, and I don't know what I should do if my boyfriend and I do break up. And to make it even more complicated, his childhood dog is dying and I'm not sure how to deal with that situation either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met at the beginning of last school year while I was in grade 11 and he was in grade 12, had instant chemistry, and started dating within a month or two. We've had a lot of ups and downs but we both really love each other. \n\nOver the summer we talked a lot about what we would do when he went away for college (his school is too far too drive for visits) and after breaking up for a day and not being able to handle it we decided to give an LDR a chance. \n\nAt first, it was bearable and I got a chance to fly out on a long weekend to see him, and he came home for a few days, but now I can't stand it. He has always been an awful texter and only calls me past midnight (we live in different timezones now) when he's on his way somewhere with his new friends. \n\nWhen we do occasionally talk, we get in big arguments about how much we don't talk (it's always his fault) and then he'll call back in a couple hours and say he's sorry and he loves me and he misses me. I do really love him and can't imagine what I would do without him and he tells me he feels the same way\n\nHe'll be home in about two weeks for a short Thanksgiving break and then right back again for a full month for winter break, but is it worth it to try and keep this going? Even if we somehow struggle through the year until summer we'll both be at separate colleges the next year and could possibly be even farther apart than we are now. \n\nTo make things a little more complicated, since he's been gone his parents have been very lonely and have invited me over once a week just to hang out. I've gotten pretty close with both of them, especially his mom, and I don't know what I should do if my boyfriend and I do break up. And to make it even more complicated, his childhood dog is dying and I'm not sure how to deal with that situation either."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on public dates all the time. Since we are both getting a break from university at the moment we try to spend more time together between work and our personal hobbies. The main problem here is we have spent so much time talking about what we should do before summer that we now have this huge backlog of shows/movies to watch and books/comics to read.\n\nThere is also the issue of the difference in content we want to show each other. She grew up with a very conservative family and was not allowed to experience a lot of the media (Harry Potter is one of the more significant examples) that I was able to. Consequentially, my log of things to check out outweighs hers by a wide margin. This is somewhat frustrating because I want to show her so much that I sometimes forget to let her show me her shows or books. \n\nWhile this isn't usually a problem since we typically share the same interests and she hasn't really brought the subject up, I still feel that I am being selfish in some way for not taking it into account. However, I don't know how to address this without over-analyzing our date nights and ruining the spontaneity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on public dates all the time. Since we are both getting a break from university at the moment we try to spend more time together between work and our personal hobbies. The main problem here is we have spent so much time talking about what we should do before summer that we now have this huge backlog of shows/movies to watch and books/comics to read.\n\nThere is also the issue of the difference in content we want to show each other. She grew up with a very conservative family and was not allowed to experience a lot of the media (Harry Potter is one of the more significant examples) that I was able to. Consequentially, my log of things to check out outweighs hers by a wide margin. This is somewhat frustrating because I want to show her so much that I sometimes forget to let her show me her shows or books. \n\nWhile this isn't usually a problem since we typically share the same interests and she hasn't really brought the subject up, I still feel that I am being selfish in some way for not taking it into account. However, I don't know how to address this without over-analyzing our date nights and ruining the spontaneity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on public dates all the time. Since we are both getting a break from university at the moment we try to spend more time together between work and our personal hobbies. The main problem here is we have spent so much time talking about what we should do before summer that we now have this huge backlog of shows/movies to watch and books/comics to read.\n\nThere is also the issue of the difference in content we want to show each other. She grew up with a very conservative family and was not allowed to experience a lot of the media (Harry Potter is one of the more significant examples) that I was able to. Consequentially, my log of things to check out outweighs hers by a wide margin. This is somewhat frustrating because I want to show her so much that I sometimes forget to let her show me her shows or books. \n\nWhile this isn't usually a problem since we typically share the same interests and she hasn't really brought the subject up, I still feel that I am being selfish in some way for not taking it into account. However, I don't know how to address this without over-analyzing our date nights and ruining the spontaneity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: My girlfriend and I are beginning our 2nd summer break together. We've spent enough time together that at this point we are both comfortable just hanging out at either of our houses and not going out on public dates all the time. Since we are both getting a break from university at the moment we try to spend more time together between work and our personal hobbies. The main problem here is we have spent so much time talking about what we should do before summer that we now have this huge backlog of shows/movies to watch and books/comics to read.\n\nThere is also the issue of the difference in content we want to show each other. She grew up with a very conservative family and was not allowed to experience a lot of the media (Harry Potter is one of the more significant examples) that I was able to. Consequentially, my log of things to check out outweighs hers by a wide margin. This is somewhat frustrating because I want to show her so much that I sometimes forget to let her show me her shows or books. \n\nWhile this isn't usually a problem since we typically share the same interests and she hasn't really brought the subject up, I still feel that I am being selfish in some way for not taking it into account. However, I don't know how to address this without over-analyzing our date nights and ruining the spontaneity."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am at the age (26) where buying a home is important to me now but so is enjoying life and having toys to enjoy (UTV's, ATV's, Fifth Wheel Trailer, etc). I am into camping, partying with friends, etc. I want to have fun things for us to do like camping in a nice new fifth wheel, offroad toys, etc. instead of going to the bars and each other's homes. I'm starting to feel that buying a home is of little/less importance to me and I think enjoying my time here on earth IS. A home would mean I cannot afford the toys (thank you Orange County, CA). I am also trying to decide whether a relationship is for me or not, can I see myself enjoying life and having children with her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am at the age (26) where buying a home is important to me now but so is enjoying life and having toys to enjoy (UTV's, ATV's, Fifth Wheel Trailer, etc). I am into camping, partying with friends, etc. I want to have fun things for us to do like camping in a nice new fifth wheel, offroad toys, etc. instead of going to the bars and each other's homes. I'm starting to feel that buying a home is of little/less importance to me and I think enjoying my time here on earth IS. A home would mean I cannot afford the toys (thank you Orange County, CA). I am also trying to decide whether a relationship is for me or not, can I see myself enjoying life and having children with her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am at the age (26) where buying a home is important to me now but so is enjoying life and having toys to enjoy (UTV's, ATV's, Fifth Wheel Trailer, etc). I am into camping, partying with friends, etc. I want to have fun things for us to do like camping in a nice new fifth wheel, offroad toys, etc. instead of going to the bars and each other's homes. I'm starting to feel that buying a home is of little/less importance to me and I think enjoying my time here on earth IS. A home would mean I cannot afford the toys (thank you Orange County, CA). I am also trying to decide whether a relationship is for me or not, can I see myself enjoying life and having children with her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I am at the age (26) where buying a home is important to me now but so is enjoying life and having toys to enjoy (UTV's, ATV's, Fifth Wheel Trailer, etc). I am into camping, partying with friends, etc. I want to have fun things for us to do like camping in a nice new fifth wheel, offroad toys, etc. instead of going to the bars and each other's homes. I'm starting to feel that buying a home is of little/less importance to me and I think enjoying my time here on earth IS. A home would mean I cannot afford the toys (thank you Orange County, CA). I am also trying to decide whether a relationship is for me or not, can I see myself enjoying life and having children with her?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'd like to preface this with this girl means the world to me. I've been in 3 serious relationships and I know that she is somebody I'd do anything for.\n\nAbout one or two months ago I lied to her about going out and smoking with my friends, but about 5 minutes after I lied I immediately fessed up and felt terrible. It just popped out of my mouth and I had no premeditation to do it. She's never given me a reason to think she'd ever frown on my smoking, she's said several times she's cool with it. I can just tell she'd prefer it if I didn't. Which is why I've since quit smoking weed. Since we worked it out we've been having a wonderful time together, no problems. But this morning she was distant after a great night. At first in the morning we were all smiles and she was fine but she told me she was scared I'd lie to her again.\n\nWhen she told me that, I broke down crying my ass off. I haven't cried like that in years but the thought of her not being able to trust me or possibly breaking up with me because of it is terrifying. We talked through it and she said she'd trust me again. We went to work and things were normal.\n\nI picked up some headphones she asked me to grab for her at work and then when I went to drop off the headphones at her work she started commenting on how I was dressed nicer than usual in \"date\" clothes. I had picked up some new shoes the day before and wore a dress shirt I got a little earlier because I've been talking about changing up my dated wardrobe- I honestly wanted to look good for her but she thinks I have ulterior motives because I usually wear PJ's around her- reason for that is we always just hang out in her apt or at my parents house and play video games. No reason to dress up. \n\nSo now I'm sitting here with a pit in my stomach and at a total loss of what to do to make things right."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'd like to preface this with this girl means the world to me. I've been in 3 serious relationships and I know that she is somebody I'd do anything for.\n\nAbout one or two months ago I lied to her about going out and smoking with my friends, but about 5 minutes after I lied I immediately fessed up and felt terrible. It just popped out of my mouth and I had no premeditation to do it. She's never given me a reason to think she'd ever frown on my smoking, she's said several times she's cool with it. I can just tell she'd prefer it if I didn't. Which is why I've since quit smoking weed. Since we worked it out we've been having a wonderful time together, no problems. But this morning she was distant after a great night. At first in the morning we were all smiles and she was fine but she told me she was scared I'd lie to her again.\n\nWhen she told me that, I broke down crying my ass off. I haven't cried like that in years but the thought of her not being able to trust me or possibly breaking up with me because of it is terrifying. We talked through it and she said she'd trust me again. We went to work and things were normal.\n\nI picked up some headphones she asked me to grab for her at work and then when I went to drop off the headphones at her work she started commenting on how I was dressed nicer than usual in \"date\" clothes. I had picked up some new shoes the day before and wore a dress shirt I got a little earlier because I've been talking about changing up my dated wardrobe- I honestly wanted to look good for her but she thinks I have ulterior motives because I usually wear PJ's around her- reason for that is we always just hang out in her apt or at my parents house and play video games. No reason to dress up. \n\nSo now I'm sitting here with a pit in my stomach and at a total loss of what to do to make things right."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'd like to preface this with this girl means the world to me. I've been in 3 serious relationships and I know that she is somebody I'd do anything for.\n\nAbout one or two months ago I lied to her about going out and smoking with my friends, but about 5 minutes after I lied I immediately fessed up and felt terrible. It just popped out of my mouth and I had no premeditation to do it. She's never given me a reason to think she'd ever frown on my smoking, she's said several times she's cool with it. I can just tell she'd prefer it if I didn't. Which is why I've since quit smoking weed. Since we worked it out we've been having a wonderful time together, no problems. But this morning she was distant after a great night. At first in the morning we were all smiles and she was fine but she told me she was scared I'd lie to her again.\n\nWhen she told me that, I broke down crying my ass off. I haven't cried like that in years but the thought of her not being able to trust me or possibly breaking up with me because of it is terrifying. We talked through it and she said she'd trust me again. We went to work and things were normal.\n\nI picked up some headphones she asked me to grab for her at work and then when I went to drop off the headphones at her work she started commenting on how I was dressed nicer than usual in \"date\" clothes. I had picked up some new shoes the day before and wore a dress shirt I got a little earlier because I've been talking about changing up my dated wardrobe- I honestly wanted to look good for her but she thinks I have ulterior motives because I usually wear PJ's around her- reason for that is we always just hang out in her apt or at my parents house and play video games. No reason to dress up. \n\nSo now I'm sitting here with a pit in my stomach and at a total loss of what to do to make things right."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So I'd like to preface this with this girl means the world to me. I've been in 3 serious relationships and I know that she is somebody I'd do anything for.\n\nAbout one or two months ago I lied to her about going out and smoking with my friends, but about 5 minutes after I lied I immediately fessed up and felt terrible. It just popped out of my mouth and I had no premeditation to do it. She's never given me a reason to think she'd ever frown on my smoking, she's said several times she's cool with it. I can just tell she'd prefer it if I didn't. Which is why I've since quit smoking weed. Since we worked it out we've been having a wonderful time together, no problems. But this morning she was distant after a great night. At first in the morning we were all smiles and she was fine but she told me she was scared I'd lie to her again.\n\nWhen she told me that, I broke down crying my ass off. I haven't cried like that in years but the thought of her not being able to trust me or possibly breaking up with me because of it is terrifying. We talked through it and she said she'd trust me again. We went to work and things were normal.\n\nI picked up some headphones she asked me to grab for her at work and then when I went to drop off the headphones at her work she started commenting on how I was dressed nicer than usual in \"date\" clothes. I had picked up some new shoes the day before and wore a dress shirt I got a little earlier because I've been talking about changing up my dated wardrobe- I honestly wanted to look good for her but she thinks I have ulterior motives because I usually wear PJ's around her- reason for that is we always just hang out in her apt or at my parents house and play video games. No reason to dress up. \n\nSo now I'm sitting here with a pit in my stomach and at a total loss of what to do to make things right."
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently she has been very snappy, and very emotional. We've really never fought, nothing more than teasing each other,though last night she yelled at me in front of my friends. \n\nShe's a very sweet, beautiful shy girl. I was really confused on what I did wrong. We just adopted a kitten, she took care of it when I went to work, and when I got home to see them she told me to go hang out with my friends. \n\nI explained that I rather lay down with her, play with the kitten and watch Netflix. Then she had an emotional breakdown telling me that she's not good for me, that she the worst thing for me. It honestly made me pretty upset. I hugged her and told her that were going to work through it. Though, after that she yelled telling me to get out and hang out with my friends. \n\nI figure she needs to cool off so I grab a beer and watch the end of the Dallas Saints game with my friends.\n\nAbout 20 mins later I hear something strange in my room and she's cuddled up in a ball just bawling in my closet. I finally convince her to let me in, I grab a few blankets and pillows and put them down and lay next to her. I ask her what's wrong, and she tells me that maybe we're not doing the right thing. I told her as much as that hurts you need to do what makes you happy. She grabs me and starts crying, saying she didn't mean to say that and we fall asleep there. \n\nWe wake up and she pretends like nothing is happening. \n\nThis isn't the first that this has happen. \nShe's had a few nights where she says she is going to take a Uber home because she's ruining my life. \n\nHow do I fix this, how do I make her happy when she's down like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently she has been very snappy, and very emotional. We've really never fought, nothing more than teasing each other,though last night she yelled at me in front of my friends. \n\nShe's a very sweet, beautiful shy girl. I was really confused on what I did wrong. We just adopted a kitten, she took care of it when I went to work, and when I got home to see them she told me to go hang out with my friends. \n\nI explained that I rather lay down with her, play with the kitten and watch Netflix. Then she had an emotional breakdown telling me that she's not good for me, that she the worst thing for me. It honestly made me pretty upset. I hugged her and told her that were going to work through it. Though, after that she yelled telling me to get out and hang out with my friends. \n\nI figure she needs to cool off so I grab a beer and watch the end of the Dallas Saints game with my friends.\n\nAbout 20 mins later I hear something strange in my room and she's cuddled up in a ball just bawling in my closet. I finally convince her to let me in, I grab a few blankets and pillows and put them down and lay next to her. I ask her what's wrong, and she tells me that maybe we're not doing the right thing. I told her as much as that hurts you need to do what makes you happy. She grabs me and starts crying, saying she didn't mean to say that and we fall asleep there. \n\nWe wake up and she pretends like nothing is happening. \n\nThis isn't the first that this has happen. \nShe's had a few nights where she says she is going to take a Uber home because she's ruining my life. \n\nHow do I fix this, how do I make her happy when she's down like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently she has been very snappy, and very emotional. We've really never fought, nothing more than teasing each other,though last night she yelled at me in front of my friends. \n\nShe's a very sweet, beautiful shy girl. I was really confused on what I did wrong. We just adopted a kitten, she took care of it when I went to work, and when I got home to see them she told me to go hang out with my friends. \n\nI explained that I rather lay down with her, play with the kitten and watch Netflix. Then she had an emotional breakdown telling me that she's not good for me, that she the worst thing for me. It honestly made me pretty upset. I hugged her and told her that were going to work through it. Though, after that she yelled telling me to get out and hang out with my friends. \n\nI figure she needs to cool off so I grab a beer and watch the end of the Dallas Saints game with my friends.\n\nAbout 20 mins later I hear something strange in my room and she's cuddled up in a ball just bawling in my closet. I finally convince her to let me in, I grab a few blankets and pillows and put them down and lay next to her. I ask her what's wrong, and she tells me that maybe we're not doing the right thing. I told her as much as that hurts you need to do what makes you happy. She grabs me and starts crying, saying she didn't mean to say that and we fall asleep there. \n\nWe wake up and she pretends like nothing is happening. \n\nThis isn't the first that this has happen. \nShe's had a few nights where she says she is going to take a Uber home because she's ruining my life. \n\nHow do I fix this, how do I make her happy when she's down like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Recently she has been very snappy, and very emotional. We've really never fought, nothing more than teasing each other,though last night she yelled at me in front of my friends. \n\nShe's a very sweet, beautiful shy girl. I was really confused on what I did wrong. We just adopted a kitten, she took care of it when I went to work, and when I got home to see them she told me to go hang out with my friends. \n\nI explained that I rather lay down with her, play with the kitten and watch Netflix. Then she had an emotional breakdown telling me that she's not good for me, that she the worst thing for me. It honestly made me pretty upset. I hugged her and told her that were going to work through it. Though, after that she yelled telling me to get out and hang out with my friends. \n\nI figure she needs to cool off so I grab a beer and watch the end of the Dallas Saints game with my friends.\n\nAbout 20 mins later I hear something strange in my room and she's cuddled up in a ball just bawling in my closet. I finally convince her to let me in, I grab a few blankets and pillows and put them down and lay next to her. I ask her what's wrong, and she tells me that maybe we're not doing the right thing. I told her as much as that hurts you need to do what makes you happy. She grabs me and starts crying, saying she didn't mean to say that and we fall asleep there. \n\nWe wake up and she pretends like nothing is happening. \n\nThis isn't the first that this has happen. \nShe's had a few nights where she says she is going to take a Uber home because she's ruining my life. \n\nHow do I fix this, how do I make her happy when she's down like this?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So my boyfriend and I have been together for six months. Awesome relationship overall, he consistently says that I'm the best thing that ever happened to him, etc. Recently, he's been really distant via text. I saw him on Sunday and he was exhausted from work so I only stayed for a little bit and left (we were definitely on good terms that day).\n\nWe typically text regularly throughout the day, but yesterday (Monday) he barely texted me at all. We had plans to hang out today (Tuesday) and he cancelled on me this afternoon because his friend was \"going through some sh*t\". I said okay and good luck with his friend, and I haven't heard from him since. The past few weeks have had the same type of thing, with very inconsistent communication and two other occasions of cancelled plans in the last month and a half.\n\nThis probably makes me sound like a crazy girlfriend, which is why I'm asking Reddit - should I proceed as normal (because I guess he hasn't really done anything wrong)? My pride and instinct tells me to cancel on him for our plans on Saturday just so I won't be the one getting treated badly, but that also seems immature.\n\nI know the standard Reddit answer (which I know and love) is to talk to him. But because this is kind of not a tangible thing, I don't want to seem controlling or obsessive. My worst case scenario here is to appear like I'm freaking out over nothing. Is my best move to just forget about it and keep going as usual, or to start distancing myself from the relationship?"
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