prompt
dict |
|---|
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with him for 3 months and he's a pretty social person, has a lot of friends both male and female. I'm very introverted and I feel upset by him having female friends, and when he hangs out with or talks to them I feel really jealous. How can I manage these feelings? I don't want to be that gf who doesn't let my bf have friends who are girls, but I get really jealous to the point of like stalking those girls IG's and reading my bf's texts. I'm very shy and my family are immigrants, my English isn't that great either. So I feel embarassed meeting his female friends even though he said I should come along some time. I worry they won't like me and that they'll tell him to break up with me or something. What should I do?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with him for 3 months and he's a pretty social person, has a lot of friends both male and female. I'm very introverted and I feel upset by him having female friends, and when he hangs out with or talks to them I feel really jealous. How can I manage these feelings? I don't want to be that gf who doesn't let my bf have friends who are girls, but I get really jealous to the point of like stalking those girls IG's and reading my bf's texts. I'm very shy and my family are immigrants, my English isn't that great either. So I feel embarassed meeting his female friends even though he said I should come along some time. I worry they won't like me and that they'll tell him to break up with me or something. What should I do?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with him for 3 months and he's a pretty social person, has a lot of friends both male and female. I'm very introverted and I feel upset by him having female friends, and when he hangs out with or talks to them I feel really jealous. How can I manage these feelings? I don't want to be that gf who doesn't let my bf have friends who are girls, but I get really jealous to the point of like stalking those girls IG's and reading my bf's texts. I'm very shy and my family are immigrants, my English isn't that great either. So I feel embarassed meeting his female friends even though he said I should come along some time. I worry they won't like me and that they'll tell him to break up with me or something. What should I do?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been with him for 3 months and he's a pretty social person, has a lot of friends both male and female. I'm very introverted and I feel upset by him having female friends, and when he hangs out with or talks to them I feel really jealous. How can I manage these feelings? I don't want to be that gf who doesn't let my bf have friends who are girls, but I get really jealous to the point of like stalking those girls IG's and reading my bf's texts. I'm very shy and my family are immigrants, my English isn't that great either. So I feel embarassed meeting his female friends even though he said I should come along some time. I worry they won't like me and that they'll tell him to break up with me or something. What should I do?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this to r/dating_advice, but didn't get anything helpful.\n\nI (23F) have been seeing a (26M) for about 4 months now. We've talked about how we weren't dating anyone else (about 3 months ago) and we act like a couple. I want things to be official, but I don't know how to ask. I want to leave the question open ended so he doesn't have to flat out reject me if he doesn't want the boyfriend/girlfriend title.\n\nNo, this is not for Facebook. I don't have a Facebook. It's sort of long distance relationship and I want to clarify where this is headed. (We live about 3 hours apart. If I am lucky I get to see him a few weekends in a row, but it is more like every other weekend). Just because he isn't currently dating anyone else doesn't mean he wouldn't. I've been asked out numerous times, have given my phone number away. I've even gone on a date or two, but I don't WANT to be with anyone else (if things ever escalated with someone I would have told my current guy, but I never let them get to that point). Until we make it official, I'm not going to turn away other men to whom I'm attracted, i.e. I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket. I guess it's my way of asking if he wants to take me off the market or not."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this to r/dating_advice, but didn't get anything helpful.\n\nI (23F) have been seeing a (26M) for about 4 months now. We've talked about how we weren't dating anyone else (about 3 months ago) and we act like a couple. I want things to be official, but I don't know how to ask. I want to leave the question open ended so he doesn't have to flat out reject me if he doesn't want the boyfriend/girlfriend title.\n\nNo, this is not for Facebook. I don't have a Facebook. It's sort of long distance relationship and I want to clarify where this is headed. (We live about 3 hours apart. If I am lucky I get to see him a few weekends in a row, but it is more like every other weekend). Just because he isn't currently dating anyone else doesn't mean he wouldn't. I've been asked out numerous times, have given my phone number away. I've even gone on a date or two, but I don't WANT to be with anyone else (if things ever escalated with someone I would have told my current guy, but I never let them get to that point). Until we make it official, I'm not going to turn away other men to whom I'm attracted, i.e. I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket. I guess it's my way of asking if he wants to take me off the market or not."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this to r/dating_advice, but didn't get anything helpful.\n\nI (23F) have been seeing a (26M) for about 4 months now. We've talked about how we weren't dating anyone else (about 3 months ago) and we act like a couple. I want things to be official, but I don't know how to ask. I want to leave the question open ended so he doesn't have to flat out reject me if he doesn't want the boyfriend/girlfriend title.\n\nNo, this is not for Facebook. I don't have a Facebook. It's sort of long distance relationship and I want to clarify where this is headed. (We live about 3 hours apart. If I am lucky I get to see him a few weekends in a row, but it is more like every other weekend). Just because he isn't currently dating anyone else doesn't mean he wouldn't. I've been asked out numerous times, have given my phone number away. I've even gone on a date or two, but I don't WANT to be with anyone else (if things ever escalated with someone I would have told my current guy, but I never let them get to that point). Until we make it official, I'm not going to turn away other men to whom I'm attracted, i.e. I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket. I guess it's my way of asking if he wants to take me off the market or not."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I posted this to r/dating_advice, but didn't get anything helpful.\n\nI (23F) have been seeing a (26M) for about 4 months now. We've talked about how we weren't dating anyone else (about 3 months ago) and we act like a couple. I want things to be official, but I don't know how to ask. I want to leave the question open ended so he doesn't have to flat out reject me if he doesn't want the boyfriend/girlfriend title.\n\nNo, this is not for Facebook. I don't have a Facebook. It's sort of long distance relationship and I want to clarify where this is headed. (We live about 3 hours apart. If I am lucky I get to see him a few weekends in a row, but it is more like every other weekend). Just because he isn't currently dating anyone else doesn't mean he wouldn't. I've been asked out numerous times, have given my phone number away. I've even gone on a date or two, but I don't WANT to be with anyone else (if things ever escalated with someone I would have told my current guy, but I never let them get to that point). Until we make it official, I'm not going to turn away other men to whom I'm attracted, i.e. I don't want to put all my eggs in one basket. I guess it's my way of asking if he wants to take me off the market or not."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/loseit.\n\nI'm going to apologise for yet another stupid question but I'm going to lose weight and I'm going to keep at it this time, and prove myself and everyone else wrong.\n\nHere's my issue -\nMost Sunday afternoons, me and my SO go to his mum's house for a roast dinner. Now, I'm tracking my calories, and trying to lose weight solely on a calorie deficit until I can get my hands on a bicycle (our flat is TINY and I'm too much of a wimp to go for walks solo when it's dark) - how would I track what I was being served for dinner? It's my boyfriend's mum - I can't chime in and dictate how dinner should be served, so how would I track this? Pick something from MFP and up the calories to be sure? Try to eat as little as possible during the day?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/loseit.\n\nI'm going to apologise for yet another stupid question but I'm going to lose weight and I'm going to keep at it this time, and prove myself and everyone else wrong.\n\nHere's my issue -\nMost Sunday afternoons, me and my SO go to his mum's house for a roast dinner. Now, I'm tracking my calories, and trying to lose weight solely on a calorie deficit until I can get my hands on a bicycle (our flat is TINY and I'm too much of a wimp to go for walks solo when it's dark) - how would I track what I was being served for dinner? It's my boyfriend's mum - I can't chime in and dictate how dinner should be served, so how would I track this? Pick something from MFP and up the calories to be sure? Try to eat as little as possible during the day?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/loseit.\n\nI'm going to apologise for yet another stupid question but I'm going to lose weight and I'm going to keep at it this time, and prove myself and everyone else wrong.\n\nHere's my issue -\nMost Sunday afternoons, me and my SO go to his mum's house for a roast dinner. Now, I'm tracking my calories, and trying to lose weight solely on a calorie deficit until I can get my hands on a bicycle (our flat is TINY and I'm too much of a wimp to go for walks solo when it's dark) - how would I track what I was being served for dinner? It's my boyfriend's mum - I can't chime in and dictate how dinner should be served, so how would I track this? Pick something from MFP and up the calories to be sure? Try to eat as little as possible during the day?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey /r/loseit.\n\nI'm going to apologise for yet another stupid question but I'm going to lose weight and I'm going to keep at it this time, and prove myself and everyone else wrong.\n\nHere's my issue -\nMost Sunday afternoons, me and my SO go to his mum's house for a roast dinner. Now, I'm tracking my calories, and trying to lose weight solely on a calorie deficit until I can get my hands on a bicycle (our flat is TINY and I'm too much of a wimp to go for walks solo when it's dark) - how would I track what I was being served for dinner? It's my boyfriend's mum - I can't chime in and dictate how dinner should be served, so how would I track this? Pick something from MFP and up the calories to be sure? Try to eat as little as possible during the day?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all.\n\nI've got something on my mind that is killing me. I've been together with my girl for almost 2 years and I feel there is nothing left to gain. \n\nWe met while we both were in college and now we live together and bought a car a few months ago(stupid I know, but we both needed it). \n\nThe thing is, I can't say that I love her anymore. We fight like crazy for weeks on end, only to have about a week of peace and quiet before you can feel the tension slowly building up again. I feel as she is trying to change who I am and I'm too much of a coward to stand up for myself. \n\nThe girl is hell-bent on me, and is almost suffocating me with love, when she crazy-aggresive about thing she thinks I'm suppose to do. All my friends and family loves her and think she is the best thing that ever happened to me. \nThough she is a freaking werewolf, only to shift and turn bat-shit-crazy when we are alone."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all.\n\nI've got something on my mind that is killing me. I've been together with my girl for almost 2 years and I feel there is nothing left to gain. \n\nWe met while we both were in college and now we live together and bought a car a few months ago(stupid I know, but we both needed it). \n\nThe thing is, I can't say that I love her anymore. We fight like crazy for weeks on end, only to have about a week of peace and quiet before you can feel the tension slowly building up again. I feel as she is trying to change who I am and I'm too much of a coward to stand up for myself. \n\nThe girl is hell-bent on me, and is almost suffocating me with love, when she crazy-aggresive about thing she thinks I'm suppose to do. All my friends and family loves her and think she is the best thing that ever happened to me. \nThough she is a freaking werewolf, only to shift and turn bat-shit-crazy when we are alone."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all.\n\nI've got something on my mind that is killing me. I've been together with my girl for almost 2 years and I feel there is nothing left to gain. \n\nWe met while we both were in college and now we live together and bought a car a few months ago(stupid I know, but we both needed it). \n\nThe thing is, I can't say that I love her anymore. We fight like crazy for weeks on end, only to have about a week of peace and quiet before you can feel the tension slowly building up again. I feel as she is trying to change who I am and I'm too much of a coward to stand up for myself. \n\nThe girl is hell-bent on me, and is almost suffocating me with love, when she crazy-aggresive about thing she thinks I'm suppose to do. All my friends and family loves her and think she is the best thing that ever happened to me. \nThough she is a freaking werewolf, only to shift and turn bat-shit-crazy when we are alone."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Hey all.\n\nI've got something on my mind that is killing me. I've been together with my girl for almost 2 years and I feel there is nothing left to gain. \n\nWe met while we both were in college and now we live together and bought a car a few months ago(stupid I know, but we both needed it). \n\nThe thing is, I can't say that I love her anymore. We fight like crazy for weeks on end, only to have about a week of peace and quiet before you can feel the tension slowly building up again. I feel as she is trying to change who I am and I'm too much of a coward to stand up for myself. \n\nThe girl is hell-bent on me, and is almost suffocating me with love, when she crazy-aggresive about thing she thinks I'm suppose to do. All my friends and family loves her and think she is the best thing that ever happened to me. \nThough she is a freaking werewolf, only to shift and turn bat-shit-crazy when we are alone."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I met a girl at a bar outing with mutual friends. Went out with her once about a week later and it went great. Great conversation, helds hands, kissed on cheek. We talk on the phone and text often. I was out of town for work for 2 weeks after that and I get a text from one of the mutual friends that she has been talking/seeing another guy for about 3 months before me. Says theres no label on it, but spends plenty of time with him. Although pretty angry, I didn't overreact as I just met her and don't really know the situation. Supposed to go out with her in a few days again, but not sure if I should call her out or not? Why would she not reveal this?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I met a girl at a bar outing with mutual friends. Went out with her once about a week later and it went great. Great conversation, helds hands, kissed on cheek. We talk on the phone and text often. I was out of town for work for 2 weeks after that and I get a text from one of the mutual friends that she has been talking/seeing another guy for about 3 months before me. Says theres no label on it, but spends plenty of time with him. Although pretty angry, I didn't overreact as I just met her and don't really know the situation. Supposed to go out with her in a few days again, but not sure if I should call her out or not? Why would she not reveal this?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I met a girl at a bar outing with mutual friends. Went out with her once about a week later and it went great. Great conversation, helds hands, kissed on cheek. We talk on the phone and text often. I was out of town for work for 2 weeks after that and I get a text from one of the mutual friends that she has been talking/seeing another guy for about 3 months before me. Says theres no label on it, but spends plenty of time with him. Although pretty angry, I didn't overreact as I just met her and don't really know the situation. Supposed to go out with her in a few days again, but not sure if I should call her out or not? Why would she not reveal this?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: About a month ago I met a girl at a bar outing with mutual friends. Went out with her once about a week later and it went great. Great conversation, helds hands, kissed on cheek. We talk on the phone and text often. I was out of town for work for 2 weeks after that and I get a text from one of the mutual friends that she has been talking/seeing another guy for about 3 months before me. Says theres no label on it, but spends plenty of time with him. Although pretty angry, I didn't overreact as I just met her and don't really know the situation. Supposed to go out with her in a few days again, but not sure if I should call her out or not? Why would she not reveal this?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. I met this guy in March (a friend introduced me to him) and at first I just thought he seemed nice (attractive and a sort of magnetic charm) and very particular. \n\nIn the month of April I chatted with him on some friday/saturday nights (like we met three times in April) and one night, the 25th, he took the initiative and kissed me (we made out too) and when everybody was about to leave (my friend and his group of friends) he asked me if I wanted to go to his home. So, normally, I wouldn't have done it 'cause I'm a introvert (not timid, but I don't do the first move), but I had to many beers and wasn't able to think straight. I went with him and I had one of the best sex experiences of my whole life. \n\nThe next week he invites me to dinner (obliviously there's the after, yeah, sex). We talk, get to know each other and I discover that he's sincere, doesn't lie, just speaks what's in his mind. We had a nice dinner and then went to his grandma's home (she doesn't live there anymore) and had, as usual, amazing sex. \n\nEvery time we met, there was sex. \nEven after one date at the cinema, in the car.\n\nSo. my question is. does he want to have more than sex or it's just a sex relationship? \n\nI need some advice. because I'm starting to fall hard for this guy.\nWe do have some things in common that we like to share like movies, music, books and writing. and. beer and smoking weed.\n\nIdk. Should I just live the moment and see afterwards or. ask him what our relationship is?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. I met this guy in March (a friend introduced me to him) and at first I just thought he seemed nice (attractive and a sort of magnetic charm) and very particular. \n\nIn the month of April I chatted with him on some friday/saturday nights (like we met three times in April) and one night, the 25th, he took the initiative and kissed me (we made out too) and when everybody was about to leave (my friend and his group of friends) he asked me if I wanted to go to his home. So, normally, I wouldn't have done it 'cause I'm a introvert (not timid, but I don't do the first move), but I had to many beers and wasn't able to think straight. I went with him and I had one of the best sex experiences of my whole life. \n\nThe next week he invites me to dinner (obliviously there's the after, yeah, sex). We talk, get to know each other and I discover that he's sincere, doesn't lie, just speaks what's in his mind. We had a nice dinner and then went to his grandma's home (she doesn't live there anymore) and had, as usual, amazing sex. \n\nEvery time we met, there was sex. \nEven after one date at the cinema, in the car.\n\nSo. my question is. does he want to have more than sex or it's just a sex relationship? \n\nI need some advice. because I'm starting to fall hard for this guy.\nWe do have some things in common that we like to share like movies, music, books and writing. and. beer and smoking weed.\n\nIdk. Should I just live the moment and see afterwards or. ask him what our relationship is?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. I met this guy in March (a friend introduced me to him) and at first I just thought he seemed nice (attractive and a sort of magnetic charm) and very particular. \n\nIn the month of April I chatted with him on some friday/saturday nights (like we met three times in April) and one night, the 25th, he took the initiative and kissed me (we made out too) and when everybody was about to leave (my friend and his group of friends) he asked me if I wanted to go to his home. So, normally, I wouldn't have done it 'cause I'm a introvert (not timid, but I don't do the first move), but I had to many beers and wasn't able to think straight. I went with him and I had one of the best sex experiences of my whole life. \n\nThe next week he invites me to dinner (obliviously there's the after, yeah, sex). We talk, get to know each other and I discover that he's sincere, doesn't lie, just speaks what's in his mind. We had a nice dinner and then went to his grandma's home (she doesn't live there anymore) and had, as usual, amazing sex. \n\nEvery time we met, there was sex. \nEven after one date at the cinema, in the car.\n\nSo. my question is. does he want to have more than sex or it's just a sex relationship? \n\nI need some advice. because I'm starting to fall hard for this guy.\nWe do have some things in common that we like to share like movies, music, books and writing. and. beer and smoking weed.\n\nIdk. Should I just live the moment and see afterwards or. ask him what our relationship is?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So. I met this guy in March (a friend introduced me to him) and at first I just thought he seemed nice (attractive and a sort of magnetic charm) and very particular. \n\nIn the month of April I chatted with him on some friday/saturday nights (like we met three times in April) and one night, the 25th, he took the initiative and kissed me (we made out too) and when everybody was about to leave (my friend and his group of friends) he asked me if I wanted to go to his home. So, normally, I wouldn't have done it 'cause I'm a introvert (not timid, but I don't do the first move), but I had to many beers and wasn't able to think straight. I went with him and I had one of the best sex experiences of my whole life. \n\nThe next week he invites me to dinner (obliviously there's the after, yeah, sex). We talk, get to know each other and I discover that he's sincere, doesn't lie, just speaks what's in his mind. We had a nice dinner and then went to his grandma's home (she doesn't live there anymore) and had, as usual, amazing sex. \n\nEvery time we met, there was sex. \nEven after one date at the cinema, in the car.\n\nSo. my question is. does he want to have more than sex or it's just a sex relationship? \n\nI need some advice. because I'm starting to fall hard for this guy.\nWe do have some things in common that we like to share like movies, music, books and writing. and. beer and smoking weed.\n\nIdk. Should I just live the moment and see afterwards or. ask him what our relationship is?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a little back story her. Me (19M) and my girlfriend have been dating since early high school and the relationship we have is really good and I love her. I am straight and she is bisexual (plays a part in the story). Lately though we haven't really talked to one another like we usually would. Its been different. We are both going through some separate things right now.\n\nOkay on wards to the problem. So she has left for a conference with 4 of her friends (all women) and I thought this would be good and helpful for the both of us since this gives us sometime apart from each other. To cut the costs of a hotel, they had decided to all stay in one room together. This is perfectly fine with me because I trust my girlfriend 100%.\n\nThe problem that comes into play is the sleeping arrangements. I believe that she is sleeping in the same bed as one of her close friends. The thing is that the close friend is in love with her. I know this because this friend had confessed that she loved her and me and my girlfriend talked about it. She doesn't feel the same way. They still hang out and do stuff with each other because they are still close friends, which is also fine with me because I know that this friend does mean a lot to my girlfriend. I would only have a problem if this friend tried to make a move on her.\n\nBut yeah, I dont know how to feel about this sleeping arrangement. It makes me uncomfortable that she is sleeping in the same bed as her but I don't want seem to be controlling and tell her she can't do something. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting because there is also other people in the room. I have overreacted before. So I came her for some outside help."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a little back story her. Me (19M) and my girlfriend have been dating since early high school and the relationship we have is really good and I love her. I am straight and she is bisexual (plays a part in the story). Lately though we haven't really talked to one another like we usually would. Its been different. We are both going through some separate things right now.\n\nOkay on wards to the problem. So she has left for a conference with 4 of her friends (all women) and I thought this would be good and helpful for the both of us since this gives us sometime apart from each other. To cut the costs of a hotel, they had decided to all stay in one room together. This is perfectly fine with me because I trust my girlfriend 100%.\n\nThe problem that comes into play is the sleeping arrangements. I believe that she is sleeping in the same bed as one of her close friends. The thing is that the close friend is in love with her. I know this because this friend had confessed that she loved her and me and my girlfriend talked about it. She doesn't feel the same way. They still hang out and do stuff with each other because they are still close friends, which is also fine with me because I know that this friend does mean a lot to my girlfriend. I would only have a problem if this friend tried to make a move on her.\n\nBut yeah, I dont know how to feel about this sleeping arrangement. It makes me uncomfortable that she is sleeping in the same bed as her but I don't want seem to be controlling and tell her she can't do something. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting because there is also other people in the room. I have overreacted before. So I came her for some outside help."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a little back story her. Me (19M) and my girlfriend have been dating since early high school and the relationship we have is really good and I love her. I am straight and she is bisexual (plays a part in the story). Lately though we haven't really talked to one another like we usually would. Its been different. We are both going through some separate things right now.\n\nOkay on wards to the problem. So she has left for a conference with 4 of her friends (all women) and I thought this would be good and helpful for the both of us since this gives us sometime apart from each other. To cut the costs of a hotel, they had decided to all stay in one room together. This is perfectly fine with me because I trust my girlfriend 100%.\n\nThe problem that comes into play is the sleeping arrangements. I believe that she is sleeping in the same bed as one of her close friends. The thing is that the close friend is in love with her. I know this because this friend had confessed that she loved her and me and my girlfriend talked about it. She doesn't feel the same way. They still hang out and do stuff with each other because they are still close friends, which is also fine with me because I know that this friend does mean a lot to my girlfriend. I would only have a problem if this friend tried to make a move on her.\n\nBut yeah, I dont know how to feel about this sleeping arrangement. It makes me uncomfortable that she is sleeping in the same bed as her but I don't want seem to be controlling and tell her she can't do something. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting because there is also other people in the room. I have overreacted before. So I came her for some outside help."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Okay so a little back story her. Me (19M) and my girlfriend have been dating since early high school and the relationship we have is really good and I love her. I am straight and she is bisexual (plays a part in the story). Lately though we haven't really talked to one another like we usually would. Its been different. We are both going through some separate things right now.\n\nOkay on wards to the problem. So she has left for a conference with 4 of her friends (all women) and I thought this would be good and helpful for the both of us since this gives us sometime apart from each other. To cut the costs of a hotel, they had decided to all stay in one room together. This is perfectly fine with me because I trust my girlfriend 100%.\n\nThe problem that comes into play is the sleeping arrangements. I believe that she is sleeping in the same bed as one of her close friends. The thing is that the close friend is in love with her. I know this because this friend had confessed that she loved her and me and my girlfriend talked about it. She doesn't feel the same way. They still hang out and do stuff with each other because they are still close friends, which is also fine with me because I know that this friend does mean a lot to my girlfriend. I would only have a problem if this friend tried to make a move on her.\n\nBut yeah, I dont know how to feel about this sleeping arrangement. It makes me uncomfortable that she is sleeping in the same bed as her but I don't want seem to be controlling and tell her she can't do something. I don't know, maybe I'm overreacting because there is also other people in the room. I have overreacted before. So I came her for some outside help."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just spent what started off as a very nice Christmas Eve with my family. At one point in the evening, someone referred to Brazil nuts as \"nigger toes\", several times, which is what they apparently used to be called. I've been with the same guy for a while now, and he's black. \n\nLuckily, he wasn't there, but I was deeply offended at my family's nonchalant attitude toward the use of the word, especially in my presence. It's no secret that the man I'm seeing is black, and I don't feel like that's okay at all. \n\nI excused myself from the room. I was too angry to express my feelings maturely. After all, this is still family and I still wanted to maintain civility. \n\nWhat really upset me was my mom's reaction: she said nothing, just stood there and smiled nervously, and being in a state where I needed to excuse myself, because I didn't feel I could have conducted myself maturely as an adult, I think she should have said something.\n\nShe disagrees and is calling my reaction \"dramatic and irrational\". But come on, that's the man I love. It takes a lot to offend me, really my sense of humor is pretty vulgar. But this wasn't a joke, and I feel as though I'm justified."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just spent what started off as a very nice Christmas Eve with my family. At one point in the evening, someone referred to Brazil nuts as \"nigger toes\", several times, which is what they apparently used to be called. I've been with the same guy for a while now, and he's black. \n\nLuckily, he wasn't there, but I was deeply offended at my family's nonchalant attitude toward the use of the word, especially in my presence. It's no secret that the man I'm seeing is black, and I don't feel like that's okay at all. \n\nI excused myself from the room. I was too angry to express my feelings maturely. After all, this is still family and I still wanted to maintain civility. \n\nWhat really upset me was my mom's reaction: she said nothing, just stood there and smiled nervously, and being in a state where I needed to excuse myself, because I didn't feel I could have conducted myself maturely as an adult, I think she should have said something.\n\nShe disagrees and is calling my reaction \"dramatic and irrational\". But come on, that's the man I love. It takes a lot to offend me, really my sense of humor is pretty vulgar. But this wasn't a joke, and I feel as though I'm justified."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just spent what started off as a very nice Christmas Eve with my family. At one point in the evening, someone referred to Brazil nuts as \"nigger toes\", several times, which is what they apparently used to be called. I've been with the same guy for a while now, and he's black. \n\nLuckily, he wasn't there, but I was deeply offended at my family's nonchalant attitude toward the use of the word, especially in my presence. It's no secret that the man I'm seeing is black, and I don't feel like that's okay at all. \n\nI excused myself from the room. I was too angry to express my feelings maturely. After all, this is still family and I still wanted to maintain civility. \n\nWhat really upset me was my mom's reaction: she said nothing, just stood there and smiled nervously, and being in a state where I needed to excuse myself, because I didn't feel I could have conducted myself maturely as an adult, I think she should have said something.\n\nShe disagrees and is calling my reaction \"dramatic and irrational\". But come on, that's the man I love. It takes a lot to offend me, really my sense of humor is pretty vulgar. But this wasn't a joke, and I feel as though I'm justified."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I just spent what started off as a very nice Christmas Eve with my family. At one point in the evening, someone referred to Brazil nuts as \"nigger toes\", several times, which is what they apparently used to be called. I've been with the same guy for a while now, and he's black. \n\nLuckily, he wasn't there, but I was deeply offended at my family's nonchalant attitude toward the use of the word, especially in my presence. It's no secret that the man I'm seeing is black, and I don't feel like that's okay at all. \n\nI excused myself from the room. I was too angry to express my feelings maturely. After all, this is still family and I still wanted to maintain civility. \n\nWhat really upset me was my mom's reaction: she said nothing, just stood there and smiled nervously, and being in a state where I needed to excuse myself, because I didn't feel I could have conducted myself maturely as an adult, I think she should have said something.\n\nShe disagrees and is calling my reaction \"dramatic and irrational\". But come on, that's the man I love. It takes a lot to offend me, really my sense of humor is pretty vulgar. But this wasn't a joke, and I feel as though I'm justified."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: As the title says I need some help. Here's some of my history, I was physically abused from ages 4-6 by a baby sitter, my father died at 9, and I was molested by a family friend at 13. When I tried to come out to my mom about the abuse and molestation all she said was \"Well about 3/4 of girls get molested.\" She's never offered any kind of comfort for me or anything, and it really does hurt me. As a result of the things that happened to me as a child, sometimes I have flashbacks, anxiety attacks, and I have problems controlling my emotions no matter how hard I try. I've asked for help so many times and received nothing but \" Oh my God, you're so overdramatic.\" Recently, the anxiety and flashbacks have increased. Today I was trying to tell her about my most recent meltdown (crying hysterically, shaking, had to leave school early) and she looks at me and says \"Well who cares? Do you really want people to get in the middle of it?\" When I tried to tell her to let me finish my story, she said \"Don't be a fucking bitch!\" Which stunned me. She says its not an insult or belittling me because she says not to be one, not that I am one. She says these things to me all the time, talks horrible shit about my deceased father who I was extremely close with , and makes me feel like the most worthless person in the world. I've been so depressed lately that I thought about walking in front of a car the other day, but then stopped myself because I know how much it would kill my friends and my boyfriend. How do I deal with this? I really can't take it any more and I don't know what to do, I'm being pushed beyond my limits. Please give me some advice. Thank you."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [23F] broke up with him [33] about a week about and have not been able to get him off my mind since. He is the best boyfriend I have ever had but I knew that I still had my ex on my mind and couldn't be fair to him. Now, all I can do is think about him and wonder if I did the right thing. After we broke up, I moved out of his house and went back home so thankfully we're not in the same city. We had a little bit of email contact the few days after but nothing since last weekend. I have been waking up every morning checking my email and my phone and crying when I have nothing from him. I know that break ups are hard, but I thought I was doing the right thing. I can't help but come up with elaborate plans to pour my heart out to him and tell him that I made a mistake but I just don't know if that's the right thing to do. I'm trying to stay occupied but I spend all my free time thinking of him. How on earth do you convince yourself to forget at him and move on?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [23F] broke up with him [33] about a week about and have not been able to get him off my mind since. He is the best boyfriend I have ever had but I knew that I still had my ex on my mind and couldn't be fair to him. Now, all I can do is think about him and wonder if I did the right thing. After we broke up, I moved out of his house and went back home so thankfully we're not in the same city. We had a little bit of email contact the few days after but nothing since last weekend. I have been waking up every morning checking my email and my phone and crying when I have nothing from him. I know that break ups are hard, but I thought I was doing the right thing. I can't help but come up with elaborate plans to pour my heart out to him and tell him that I made a mistake but I just don't know if that's the right thing to do. I'm trying to stay occupied but I spend all my free time thinking of him. How on earth do you convince yourself to forget at him and move on?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [23F] broke up with him [33] about a week about and have not been able to get him off my mind since. He is the best boyfriend I have ever had but I knew that I still had my ex on my mind and couldn't be fair to him. Now, all I can do is think about him and wonder if I did the right thing. After we broke up, I moved out of his house and went back home so thankfully we're not in the same city. We had a little bit of email contact the few days after but nothing since last weekend. I have been waking up every morning checking my email and my phone and crying when I have nothing from him. I know that break ups are hard, but I thought I was doing the right thing. I can't help but come up with elaborate plans to pour my heart out to him and tell him that I made a mistake but I just don't know if that's the right thing to do. I'm trying to stay occupied but I spend all my free time thinking of him. How on earth do you convince yourself to forget at him and move on?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I [23F] broke up with him [33] about a week about and have not been able to get him off my mind since. He is the best boyfriend I have ever had but I knew that I still had my ex on my mind and couldn't be fair to him. Now, all I can do is think about him and wonder if I did the right thing. After we broke up, I moved out of his house and went back home so thankfully we're not in the same city. We had a little bit of email contact the few days after but nothing since last weekend. I have been waking up every morning checking my email and my phone and crying when I have nothing from him. I know that break ups are hard, but I thought I was doing the right thing. I can't help but come up with elaborate plans to pour my heart out to him and tell him that I made a mistake but I just don't know if that's the right thing to do. I'm trying to stay occupied but I spend all my free time thinking of him. How on earth do you convince yourself to forget at him and move on?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with Danny for probably more than 3 years now. I was friends with his brother Joe for a while before I even met Danny, and in a lot of ways, I'm still better friends with Joe than I am Danny. There's been a couple times over the past year or so when Danny said or did something that made me think he was questioning his sexuality, but I let it be. Recently, though, it's been very prominent, and directed toward me. \n\nTo be perfectly honest, I kinda like it. I mean, I've thought about him like that too. I'm not entirely sure I'm gay or bi or whatever, but I know how I feel about him. \n\nI'm pretty sure he doesn't know I know how he feels, and I'm even more sure he doesn't know I feel the same. He's a little awkward about it, but that's just because he's really nervous. \n\nI'm not here to talk about how I feel about him or anything. I don't need to be reassured I'm doing the right thing. I know I am. I'd just like to know what you think I should do about his brother Joe.\n\nNow Joe's not homophobic or intolerant or anything, but he definitely doesn't feel too good about his brother feeling this way about a male. I'm sure he wouldn't give a fuck whether or not I wanted to, but with his brother it's different. He's my best friend and his trust and respect are important to me, but I don't know how to go about this without hurting him."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with Danny for probably more than 3 years now. I was friends with his brother Joe for a while before I even met Danny, and in a lot of ways, I'm still better friends with Joe than I am Danny. There's been a couple times over the past year or so when Danny said or did something that made me think he was questioning his sexuality, but I let it be. Recently, though, it's been very prominent, and directed toward me. \n\nTo be perfectly honest, I kinda like it. I mean, I've thought about him like that too. I'm not entirely sure I'm gay or bi or whatever, but I know how I feel about him. \n\nI'm pretty sure he doesn't know I know how he feels, and I'm even more sure he doesn't know I feel the same. He's a little awkward about it, but that's just because he's really nervous. \n\nI'm not here to talk about how I feel about him or anything. I don't need to be reassured I'm doing the right thing. I know I am. I'd just like to know what you think I should do about his brother Joe.\n\nNow Joe's not homophobic or intolerant or anything, but he definitely doesn't feel too good about his brother feeling this way about a male. I'm sure he wouldn't give a fuck whether or not I wanted to, but with his brother it's different. He's my best friend and his trust and respect are important to me, but I don't know how to go about this without hurting him."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with Danny for probably more than 3 years now. I was friends with his brother Joe for a while before I even met Danny, and in a lot of ways, I'm still better friends with Joe than I am Danny. There's been a couple times over the past year or so when Danny said or did something that made me think he was questioning his sexuality, but I let it be. Recently, though, it's been very prominent, and directed toward me. \n\nTo be perfectly honest, I kinda like it. I mean, I've thought about him like that too. I'm not entirely sure I'm gay or bi or whatever, but I know how I feel about him. \n\nI'm pretty sure he doesn't know I know how he feels, and I'm even more sure he doesn't know I feel the same. He's a little awkward about it, but that's just because he's really nervous. \n\nI'm not here to talk about how I feel about him or anything. I don't need to be reassured I'm doing the right thing. I know I am. I'd just like to know what you think I should do about his brother Joe.\n\nNow Joe's not homophobic or intolerant or anything, but he definitely doesn't feel too good about his brother feeling this way about a male. I'm sure he wouldn't give a fuck whether or not I wanted to, but with his brother it's different. He's my best friend and his trust and respect are important to me, but I don't know how to go about this without hurting him."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been friends with Danny for probably more than 3 years now. I was friends with his brother Joe for a while before I even met Danny, and in a lot of ways, I'm still better friends with Joe than I am Danny. There's been a couple times over the past year or so when Danny said or did something that made me think he was questioning his sexuality, but I let it be. Recently, though, it's been very prominent, and directed toward me. \n\nTo be perfectly honest, I kinda like it. I mean, I've thought about him like that too. I'm not entirely sure I'm gay or bi or whatever, but I know how I feel about him. \n\nI'm pretty sure he doesn't know I know how he feels, and I'm even more sure he doesn't know I feel the same. He's a little awkward about it, but that's just because he's really nervous. \n\nI'm not here to talk about how I feel about him or anything. I don't need to be reassured I'm doing the right thing. I know I am. I'd just like to know what you think I should do about his brother Joe.\n\nNow Joe's not homophobic or intolerant or anything, but he definitely doesn't feel too good about his brother feeling this way about a male. I'm sure he wouldn't give a fuck whether or not I wanted to, but with his brother it's different. He's my best friend and his trust and respect are important to me, but I don't know how to go about this without hurting him."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been accumulating ESPP shares for about five years and made some considerable gains. I don't have any immediate need to sell them, but I know i'll eventually have to (and I'm getting pretty undiversified by keeping so much). When I do sell them, I'll owe regular tax on the ESPP discount amount (15% discount) as well as capital gains (they made between 30%-60%). I make around $100k/yr, so my marginal tax is 28% with 15% capital gains. That's a lot going to the IRS.\n\nNow, my girlfriend, on the other hand, is a grad student and will make around $10k this year (negative income if accounting for tuition). She'll graduate at the end of the year and we're planning to get married the following summer. If she had stock to sell, she would have 0% capital gains rate and a much lower tax bracket. You can see where I'm going with this.\n\nSince the gift tax is waived for the first $1Million (and doesn't need to be reported under $13k), I was considering gifting her some of my stock. I would avoid tax due to gifting, she would pay much lower tax on the sale due to her current income level. Next year, when we get married, we would be perhaps 30% better off from a tax stand point. In the meantime it could be sitting in an index fund or something, continuing to accumulate (but now with a much better cost basis).\n\nSo, I'd like to ask /r/personalfinance, is there a problem here? Is this a valid \"loophole\"? Is this tax fraud? What am I not taking into account?\n\nAlso, any difference in doing this with ESPP shares as opposed to options? RSUs? I have a lot of different securities I'm sitting on. Any reason to go in under $13k tax reporting limit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been accumulating ESPP shares for about five years and made some considerable gains. I don't have any immediate need to sell them, but I know i'll eventually have to (and I'm getting pretty undiversified by keeping so much). When I do sell them, I'll owe regular tax on the ESPP discount amount (15% discount) as well as capital gains (they made between 30%-60%). I make around $100k/yr, so my marginal tax is 28% with 15% capital gains. That's a lot going to the IRS.\n\nNow, my girlfriend, on the other hand, is a grad student and will make around $10k this year (negative income if accounting for tuition). She'll graduate at the end of the year and we're planning to get married the following summer. If she had stock to sell, she would have 0% capital gains rate and a much lower tax bracket. You can see where I'm going with this.\n\nSince the gift tax is waived for the first $1Million (and doesn't need to be reported under $13k), I was considering gifting her some of my stock. I would avoid tax due to gifting, she would pay much lower tax on the sale due to her current income level. Next year, when we get married, we would be perhaps 30% better off from a tax stand point. In the meantime it could be sitting in an index fund or something, continuing to accumulate (but now with a much better cost basis).\n\nSo, I'd like to ask /r/personalfinance, is there a problem here? Is this a valid \"loophole\"? Is this tax fraud? What am I not taking into account?\n\nAlso, any difference in doing this with ESPP shares as opposed to options? RSUs? I have a lot of different securities I'm sitting on. Any reason to go in under $13k tax reporting limit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been accumulating ESPP shares for about five years and made some considerable gains. I don't have any immediate need to sell them, but I know i'll eventually have to (and I'm getting pretty undiversified by keeping so much). When I do sell them, I'll owe regular tax on the ESPP discount amount (15% discount) as well as capital gains (they made between 30%-60%). I make around $100k/yr, so my marginal tax is 28% with 15% capital gains. That's a lot going to the IRS.\n\nNow, my girlfriend, on the other hand, is a grad student and will make around $10k this year (negative income if accounting for tuition). She'll graduate at the end of the year and we're planning to get married the following summer. If she had stock to sell, she would have 0% capital gains rate and a much lower tax bracket. You can see where I'm going with this.\n\nSince the gift tax is waived for the first $1Million (and doesn't need to be reported under $13k), I was considering gifting her some of my stock. I would avoid tax due to gifting, she would pay much lower tax on the sale due to her current income level. Next year, when we get married, we would be perhaps 30% better off from a tax stand point. In the meantime it could be sitting in an index fund or something, continuing to accumulate (but now with a much better cost basis).\n\nSo, I'd like to ask /r/personalfinance, is there a problem here? Is this a valid \"loophole\"? Is this tax fraud? What am I not taking into account?\n\nAlso, any difference in doing this with ESPP shares as opposed to options? RSUs? I have a lot of different securities I'm sitting on. Any reason to go in under $13k tax reporting limit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I've been accumulating ESPP shares for about five years and made some considerable gains. I don't have any immediate need to sell them, but I know i'll eventually have to (and I'm getting pretty undiversified by keeping so much). When I do sell them, I'll owe regular tax on the ESPP discount amount (15% discount) as well as capital gains (they made between 30%-60%). I make around $100k/yr, so my marginal tax is 28% with 15% capital gains. That's a lot going to the IRS.\n\nNow, my girlfriend, on the other hand, is a grad student and will make around $10k this year (negative income if accounting for tuition). She'll graduate at the end of the year and we're planning to get married the following summer. If she had stock to sell, she would have 0% capital gains rate and a much lower tax bracket. You can see where I'm going with this.\n\nSince the gift tax is waived for the first $1Million (and doesn't need to be reported under $13k), I was considering gifting her some of my stock. I would avoid tax due to gifting, she would pay much lower tax on the sale due to her current income level. Next year, when we get married, we would be perhaps 30% better off from a tax stand point. In the meantime it could be sitting in an index fund or something, continuing to accumulate (but now with a much better cost basis).\n\nSo, I'd like to ask /r/personalfinance, is there a problem here? Is this a valid \"loophole\"? Is this tax fraud? What am I not taking into account?\n\nAlso, any difference in doing this with ESPP shares as opposed to options? RSUs? I have a lot of different securities I'm sitting on. Any reason to go in under $13k tax reporting limit?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It didn't last very long. We only met in person briefly a few times (it was mostly long distance), but it was intense for me. Broke it off about 5 months ago and no contact since then. I've been doing all the normal things to try to get over it (focusing on work, going out more, continuing to exercise, etc.). It does help, but one thing has been pestering me lately. I've noticed that I think about women in a physical way much more than I used to. I'm not an \"experienced\" guy, she was gorgeous, and the brief time we had together did get sexual. Now I find myself looking at women more just for physical beauty, and think about them a lot only because they look good.\n\nI feel ashamed about this because it's shallow, and also, practically, I'm closing myself off to more average looking women who would be attractive to me in other ways. What can I do about this? Just keep meeting people and keep telling myself to not be so picky about looks?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It didn't last very long. We only met in person briefly a few times (it was mostly long distance), but it was intense for me. Broke it off about 5 months ago and no contact since then. I've been doing all the normal things to try to get over it (focusing on work, going out more, continuing to exercise, etc.). It does help, but one thing has been pestering me lately. I've noticed that I think about women in a physical way much more than I used to. I'm not an \"experienced\" guy, she was gorgeous, and the brief time we had together did get sexual. Now I find myself looking at women more just for physical beauty, and think about them a lot only because they look good.\n\nI feel ashamed about this because it's shallow, and also, practically, I'm closing myself off to more average looking women who would be attractive to me in other ways. What can I do about this? Just keep meeting people and keep telling myself to not be so picky about looks?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It didn't last very long. We only met in person briefly a few times (it was mostly long distance), but it was intense for me. Broke it off about 5 months ago and no contact since then. I've been doing all the normal things to try to get over it (focusing on work, going out more, continuing to exercise, etc.). It does help, but one thing has been pestering me lately. I've noticed that I think about women in a physical way much more than I used to. I'm not an \"experienced\" guy, she was gorgeous, and the brief time we had together did get sexual. Now I find myself looking at women more just for physical beauty, and think about them a lot only because they look good.\n\nI feel ashamed about this because it's shallow, and also, practically, I'm closing myself off to more average looking women who would be attractive to me in other ways. What can I do about this? Just keep meeting people and keep telling myself to not be so picky about looks?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: It didn't last very long. We only met in person briefly a few times (it was mostly long distance), but it was intense for me. Broke it off about 5 months ago and no contact since then. I've been doing all the normal things to try to get over it (focusing on work, going out more, continuing to exercise, etc.). It does help, but one thing has been pestering me lately. I've noticed that I think about women in a physical way much more than I used to. I'm not an \"experienced\" guy, she was gorgeous, and the brief time we had together did get sexual. Now I find myself looking at women more just for physical beauty, and think about them a lot only because they look good.\n\nI feel ashamed about this because it's shallow, and also, practically, I'm closing myself off to more average looking women who would be attractive to me in other ways. What can I do about this? Just keep meeting people and keep telling myself to not be so picky about looks?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 10 years and lived together for 8. Hit it off good in the beginning because we seemed like a good match. Similar interests, not wanting children, not wanting to be married, similar long term goals.\n\nAbout 2 years ago after a long hiking trip and a big promotion at work for him things went downhill. Both of us have lowish libidos so 1 or 2 times a month was average. He became disinterested in sex all together and we eventually stopped about a year ago. Even little things like cooking, going out to breakfast, walking together has stopped on his wanting. During this time certain hard life events happened but we were there for eachother and things were okay. Ive known something was wrong between us for a while but I didn't want to push him since he is the silent type anyway.\n\nThis weekend he told me that since we got back from our trip(2 years ago) things started to fizzle but he thought that if he focused on his job things would get better. He says that now and recently he cannot stand to be around me. He says he cares about and respects me but he thinks he doesnt love me anymore and he doesnt know why. He has called a therapy place to at least try and salvage something. Im crushed because we have really built a life together(also share a dog) and if I am forced to leave I literally lose everything. His family is like my family, the dog is like our bratty child, and I quit my career 4 years ago for other reasons but we agreed that me staying unemployed would be good to help lessen the burden his job creates so he has time to relax. So yea, Im fucked and he really should have said something a long time ago and he knows this.\n\nAnyway, is there any coming back from this after therapy together. Its like he wants to love me again but it has been so long since he just ignored everything and pretended things were fine."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 10 years and lived together for 8. Hit it off good in the beginning because we seemed like a good match. Similar interests, not wanting children, not wanting to be married, similar long term goals.\n\nAbout 2 years ago after a long hiking trip and a big promotion at work for him things went downhill. Both of us have lowish libidos so 1 or 2 times a month was average. He became disinterested in sex all together and we eventually stopped about a year ago. Even little things like cooking, going out to breakfast, walking together has stopped on his wanting. During this time certain hard life events happened but we were there for eachother and things were okay. Ive known something was wrong between us for a while but I didn't want to push him since he is the silent type anyway.\n\nThis weekend he told me that since we got back from our trip(2 years ago) things started to fizzle but he thought that if he focused on his job things would get better. He says that now and recently he cannot stand to be around me. He says he cares about and respects me but he thinks he doesnt love me anymore and he doesnt know why. He has called a therapy place to at least try and salvage something. Im crushed because we have really built a life together(also share a dog) and if I am forced to leave I literally lose everything. His family is like my family, the dog is like our bratty child, and I quit my career 4 years ago for other reasons but we agreed that me staying unemployed would be good to help lessen the burden his job creates so he has time to relax. So yea, Im fucked and he really should have said something a long time ago and he knows this.\n\nAnyway, is there any coming back from this after therapy together. Its like he wants to love me again but it has been so long since he just ignored everything and pretended things were fine."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 10 years and lived together for 8. Hit it off good in the beginning because we seemed like a good match. Similar interests, not wanting children, not wanting to be married, similar long term goals.\n\nAbout 2 years ago after a long hiking trip and a big promotion at work for him things went downhill. Both of us have lowish libidos so 1 or 2 times a month was average. He became disinterested in sex all together and we eventually stopped about a year ago. Even little things like cooking, going out to breakfast, walking together has stopped on his wanting. During this time certain hard life events happened but we were there for eachother and things were okay. Ive known something was wrong between us for a while but I didn't want to push him since he is the silent type anyway.\n\nThis weekend he told me that since we got back from our trip(2 years ago) things started to fizzle but he thought that if he focused on his job things would get better. He says that now and recently he cannot stand to be around me. He says he cares about and respects me but he thinks he doesnt love me anymore and he doesnt know why. He has called a therapy place to at least try and salvage something. Im crushed because we have really built a life together(also share a dog) and if I am forced to leave I literally lose everything. His family is like my family, the dog is like our bratty child, and I quit my career 4 years ago for other reasons but we agreed that me staying unemployed would be good to help lessen the burden his job creates so he has time to relax. So yea, Im fucked and he really should have said something a long time ago and he knows this.\n\nAnyway, is there any coming back from this after therapy together. Its like he wants to love me again but it has been so long since he just ignored everything and pretended things were fine."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We have been together for 10 years and lived together for 8. Hit it off good in the beginning because we seemed like a good match. Similar interests, not wanting children, not wanting to be married, similar long term goals.\n\nAbout 2 years ago after a long hiking trip and a big promotion at work for him things went downhill. Both of us have lowish libidos so 1 or 2 times a month was average. He became disinterested in sex all together and we eventually stopped about a year ago. Even little things like cooking, going out to breakfast, walking together has stopped on his wanting. During this time certain hard life events happened but we were there for eachother and things were okay. Ive known something was wrong between us for a while but I didn't want to push him since he is the silent type anyway.\n\nThis weekend he told me that since we got back from our trip(2 years ago) things started to fizzle but he thought that if he focused on his job things would get better. He says that now and recently he cannot stand to be around me. He says he cares about and respects me but he thinks he doesnt love me anymore and he doesnt know why. He has called a therapy place to at least try and salvage something. Im crushed because we have really built a life together(also share a dog) and if I am forced to leave I literally lose everything. His family is like my family, the dog is like our bratty child, and I quit my career 4 years ago for other reasons but we agreed that me staying unemployed would be good to help lessen the burden his job creates so he has time to relax. So yea, Im fucked and he really should have said something a long time ago and he knows this.\n\nAnyway, is there any coming back from this after therapy together. Its like he wants to love me again but it has been so long since he just ignored everything and pretended things were fine."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last friday I went to a party. There was a girl there, and we just instantly connected. She was giving me sweet looks, inviting me downstairs for drinking games (she actually came back up to ask me if I wanted to) hugging me, etc. I burned my hands on a ciggarette and she instantly saw and helped me take care of it (Im really dumb when it comes to anything medical). I really like her alot. We've been talking alot since then, and we're going to do something this weekend.\n\nOnly thing is, shes got a boyfriend. Hes a complete asshole to her. (If some of you are reading this, its the same girl from my last emo post). \n\nAnyway, should I go for it? Or should I wait to see if they break up?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last friday I went to a party. There was a girl there, and we just instantly connected. She was giving me sweet looks, inviting me downstairs for drinking games (she actually came back up to ask me if I wanted to) hugging me, etc. I burned my hands on a ciggarette and she instantly saw and helped me take care of it (Im really dumb when it comes to anything medical). I really like her alot. We've been talking alot since then, and we're going to do something this weekend.\n\nOnly thing is, shes got a boyfriend. Hes a complete asshole to her. (If some of you are reading this, its the same girl from my last emo post). \n\nAnyway, should I go for it? Or should I wait to see if they break up?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last friday I went to a party. There was a girl there, and we just instantly connected. She was giving me sweet looks, inviting me downstairs for drinking games (she actually came back up to ask me if I wanted to) hugging me, etc. I burned my hands on a ciggarette and she instantly saw and helped me take care of it (Im really dumb when it comes to anything medical). I really like her alot. We've been talking alot since then, and we're going to do something this weekend.\n\nOnly thing is, shes got a boyfriend. Hes a complete asshole to her. (If some of you are reading this, its the same girl from my last emo post). \n\nAnyway, should I go for it? Or should I wait to see if they break up?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So last friday I went to a party. There was a girl there, and we just instantly connected. She was giving me sweet looks, inviting me downstairs for drinking games (she actually came back up to ask me if I wanted to) hugging me, etc. I burned my hands on a ciggarette and she instantly saw and helped me take care of it (Im really dumb when it comes to anything medical). I really like her alot. We've been talking alot since then, and we're going to do something this weekend.\n\nOnly thing is, shes got a boyfriend. Hes a complete asshole to her. (If some of you are reading this, its the same girl from my last emo post). \n\nAnyway, should I go for it? Or should I wait to see if they break up?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (obvious new account is obvious)\n\nSo I am an 22-year old male. I have some legitimate struggles with a fairly serious mental illness (very strongly bipolar) but, in spite of that, I'm a pretty popular guy. I guess I'm handsome and I am in really good shape from running cross country and lifting my entire adult life. As far as previous relations go, I've had four \"serious\" (i.e. 6 months+ ) and a bevy of short term flings. Lately though, I've been derailed by one girl. She is 23, home permanently from school in Cali and is a regular fixture in my life these last 6 or 7 months. I feel like a relationship is out of the question (serious love triangle hooboy situation developing) but I desire her *incredibly* strongly. Not just in the shallow physical sense but in that immense way where you just have to be around that person. I flirt like friends do sometimes, she reciprocates. Nothing goes further than that until this morning. Nothing *actually* happened but we had a conversation where it finally clicked that I really like her and that, as it works out, she views me as a friend.\nI've friend zoned myself for the first time in my adult life and I don't know what to do. I'm so fucking confused by what to do with myself. This feels like junior high all over again"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (obvious new account is obvious)\n\nSo I am an 22-year old male. I have some legitimate struggles with a fairly serious mental illness (very strongly bipolar) but, in spite of that, I'm a pretty popular guy. I guess I'm handsome and I am in really good shape from running cross country and lifting my entire adult life. As far as previous relations go, I've had four \"serious\" (i.e. 6 months+ ) and a bevy of short term flings. Lately though, I've been derailed by one girl. She is 23, home permanently from school in Cali and is a regular fixture in my life these last 6 or 7 months. I feel like a relationship is out of the question (serious love triangle hooboy situation developing) but I desire her *incredibly* strongly. Not just in the shallow physical sense but in that immense way where you just have to be around that person. I flirt like friends do sometimes, she reciprocates. Nothing goes further than that until this morning. Nothing *actually* happened but we had a conversation where it finally clicked that I really like her and that, as it works out, she views me as a friend.\nI've friend zoned myself for the first time in my adult life and I don't know what to do. I'm so fucking confused by what to do with myself. This feels like junior high all over again"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (obvious new account is obvious)\n\nSo I am an 22-year old male. I have some legitimate struggles with a fairly serious mental illness (very strongly bipolar) but, in spite of that, I'm a pretty popular guy. I guess I'm handsome and I am in really good shape from running cross country and lifting my entire adult life. As far as previous relations go, I've had four \"serious\" (i.e. 6 months+ ) and a bevy of short term flings. Lately though, I've been derailed by one girl. She is 23, home permanently from school in Cali and is a regular fixture in my life these last 6 or 7 months. I feel like a relationship is out of the question (serious love triangle hooboy situation developing) but I desire her *incredibly* strongly. Not just in the shallow physical sense but in that immense way where you just have to be around that person. I flirt like friends do sometimes, she reciprocates. Nothing goes further than that until this morning. Nothing *actually* happened but we had a conversation where it finally clicked that I really like her and that, as it works out, she views me as a friend.\nI've friend zoned myself for the first time in my adult life and I don't know what to do. I'm so fucking confused by what to do with myself. This feels like junior high all over again"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: (obvious new account is obvious)\n\nSo I am an 22-year old male. I have some legitimate struggles with a fairly serious mental illness (very strongly bipolar) but, in spite of that, I'm a pretty popular guy. I guess I'm handsome and I am in really good shape from running cross country and lifting my entire adult life. As far as previous relations go, I've had four \"serious\" (i.e. 6 months+ ) and a bevy of short term flings. Lately though, I've been derailed by one girl. She is 23, home permanently from school in Cali and is a regular fixture in my life these last 6 or 7 months. I feel like a relationship is out of the question (serious love triangle hooboy situation developing) but I desire her *incredibly* strongly. Not just in the shallow physical sense but in that immense way where you just have to be around that person. I flirt like friends do sometimes, she reciprocates. Nothing goes further than that until this morning. Nothing *actually* happened but we had a conversation where it finally clicked that I really like her and that, as it works out, she views me as a friend.\nI've friend zoned myself for the first time in my adult life and I don't know what to do. I'm so fucking confused by what to do with myself. This feels like junior high all over again"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in college, but we didn't really know each other. \n\nI walked into her one day and turns out we ended up moving miles away to the same street in Seattle, after graduation. That's pretty crazy. Anyway, and we became pretty close friends. She was already dating someone. \n\nFast forward 8 months, we had become really close, she came over all the time and just hung out. We saw each other almost 3-4x a week. And she pretty much met and hung out with all my friends. We clicked and I started having feelings for her. I told her this. She said she was already in a relationship, so no. \n\nI said ok, that's fine, but she needed to stop coming over so much because it would just not work for me. She was fine with that.\nSo all is good and well. I decided to pursue other relationships, and made a lot of plans with my other friends because I needed to get moving away from spending all that time with her. \n\nI planned several things over the next couple weekends that did not include her (though we do have a lunch next week. because we agreed to still be friends) and she got really annoyed with me. \n\nI don't get it. These are my friends. She doesn't want to pursue anything further with me, so I don't want to include her in my life too much and she said she understood now she's mad that I'm not including her in all my plans? \n\nWhat the hell do I tell her? I don't understand what she wants from me.\n\n*I don't know the proper flair."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in college, but we didn't really know each other. \n\nI walked into her one day and turns out we ended up moving miles away to the same street in Seattle, after graduation. That's pretty crazy. Anyway, and we became pretty close friends. She was already dating someone. \n\nFast forward 8 months, we had become really close, she came over all the time and just hung out. We saw each other almost 3-4x a week. And she pretty much met and hung out with all my friends. We clicked and I started having feelings for her. I told her this. She said she was already in a relationship, so no. \n\nI said ok, that's fine, but she needed to stop coming over so much because it would just not work for me. She was fine with that.\nSo all is good and well. I decided to pursue other relationships, and made a lot of plans with my other friends because I needed to get moving away from spending all that time with her. \n\nI planned several things over the next couple weekends that did not include her (though we do have a lunch next week. because we agreed to still be friends) and she got really annoyed with me. \n\nI don't get it. These are my friends. She doesn't want to pursue anything further with me, so I don't want to include her in my life too much and she said she understood now she's mad that I'm not including her in all my plans? \n\nWhat the hell do I tell her? I don't understand what she wants from me.\n\n*I don't know the proper flair."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in college, but we didn't really know each other. \n\nI walked into her one day and turns out we ended up moving miles away to the same street in Seattle, after graduation. That's pretty crazy. Anyway, and we became pretty close friends. She was already dating someone. \n\nFast forward 8 months, we had become really close, she came over all the time and just hung out. We saw each other almost 3-4x a week. And she pretty much met and hung out with all my friends. We clicked and I started having feelings for her. I told her this. She said she was already in a relationship, so no. \n\nI said ok, that's fine, but she needed to stop coming over so much because it would just not work for me. She was fine with that.\nSo all is good and well. I decided to pursue other relationships, and made a lot of plans with my other friends because I needed to get moving away from spending all that time with her. \n\nI planned several things over the next couple weekends that did not include her (though we do have a lunch next week. because we agreed to still be friends) and she got really annoyed with me. \n\nI don't get it. These are my friends. She doesn't want to pursue anything further with me, so I don't want to include her in my life too much and she said she understood now she's mad that I'm not including her in all my plans? \n\nWhat the hell do I tell her? I don't understand what she wants from me.\n\n*I don't know the proper flair."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: We met in college, but we didn't really know each other. \n\nI walked into her one day and turns out we ended up moving miles away to the same street in Seattle, after graduation. That's pretty crazy. Anyway, and we became pretty close friends. She was already dating someone. \n\nFast forward 8 months, we had become really close, she came over all the time and just hung out. We saw each other almost 3-4x a week. And she pretty much met and hung out with all my friends. We clicked and I started having feelings for her. I told her this. She said she was already in a relationship, so no. \n\nI said ok, that's fine, but she needed to stop coming over so much because it would just not work for me. She was fine with that.\nSo all is good and well. I decided to pursue other relationships, and made a lot of plans with my other friends because I needed to get moving away from spending all that time with her. \n\nI planned several things over the next couple weekends that did not include her (though we do have a lunch next week. because we agreed to still be friends) and she got really annoyed with me. \n\nI don't get it. These are my friends. She doesn't want to pursue anything further with me, so I don't want to include her in my life too much and she said she understood now she's mad that I'm not including her in all my plans? \n\nWhat the hell do I tell her? I don't understand what she wants from me.\n\n*I don't know the proper flair."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hate it but I have severe anxiety in relationships (probably stemming from past events in my life that I don't want to go on about here).\n\nI guess I'm very non-confrontational and hate when strife arises and then I completely disengage and think of breaking up whenever a problem comes up. For example, my bf was stressed out today and it was a good day for me (we're long distance atm). I texted him earlier and he said \"I was stressed and so lost in class but I'm better now.\" So when I called him I began talking about my good day. I noticed though that he was pretty quiet/bored sounding so I asked if he was busy. Then he said \"no, I just had a stressful day.\" I THEN asked him about his day and so on and what stressed him etc. Then we ended the convo. on a kind of stressed out note/he didn't want to talk much.\n\nHe then texted me and called me to apologize. I said it was okay. Then he said \"well, you know. it's just I don't like to volunteer information and I guess I just expect the person I'm with to ask me more about how I am. You're the type to just talk, talk, talk, and that's great but I'm not like that and I just don't volunteer stuff but I do want to be asked.\"\n\nIt made me very uncomfortable. I said I would try to be more attentive but I'm not good at picking up on cues. :( Now I'm very stressed. I think he was inadvertently asking me to try and coax more out of him, ask more questions etc. but in a very passive aggressive kind of way. \n\nAnd now I feel so anxious. I feel like I'm always missing something or not doing something right. I haven't complained to him about much of anything. He doesn't do everything perfectly but I appreciate what he does. It seems like he is unsatisfied with me. I said I'd try harder but idk :("
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hate it but I have severe anxiety in relationships (probably stemming from past events in my life that I don't want to go on about here).\n\nI guess I'm very non-confrontational and hate when strife arises and then I completely disengage and think of breaking up whenever a problem comes up. For example, my bf was stressed out today and it was a good day for me (we're long distance atm). I texted him earlier and he said \"I was stressed and so lost in class but I'm better now.\" So when I called him I began talking about my good day. I noticed though that he was pretty quiet/bored sounding so I asked if he was busy. Then he said \"no, I just had a stressful day.\" I THEN asked him about his day and so on and what stressed him etc. Then we ended the convo. on a kind of stressed out note/he didn't want to talk much.\n\nHe then texted me and called me to apologize. I said it was okay. Then he said \"well, you know. it's just I don't like to volunteer information and I guess I just expect the person I'm with to ask me more about how I am. You're the type to just talk, talk, talk, and that's great but I'm not like that and I just don't volunteer stuff but I do want to be asked.\"\n\nIt made me very uncomfortable. I said I would try to be more attentive but I'm not good at picking up on cues. :( Now I'm very stressed. I think he was inadvertently asking me to try and coax more out of him, ask more questions etc. but in a very passive aggressive kind of way. \n\nAnd now I feel so anxious. I feel like I'm always missing something or not doing something right. I haven't complained to him about much of anything. He doesn't do everything perfectly but I appreciate what he does. It seems like he is unsatisfied with me. I said I'd try harder but idk :("
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hate it but I have severe anxiety in relationships (probably stemming from past events in my life that I don't want to go on about here).\n\nI guess I'm very non-confrontational and hate when strife arises and then I completely disengage and think of breaking up whenever a problem comes up. For example, my bf was stressed out today and it was a good day for me (we're long distance atm). I texted him earlier and he said \"I was stressed and so lost in class but I'm better now.\" So when I called him I began talking about my good day. I noticed though that he was pretty quiet/bored sounding so I asked if he was busy. Then he said \"no, I just had a stressful day.\" I THEN asked him about his day and so on and what stressed him etc. Then we ended the convo. on a kind of stressed out note/he didn't want to talk much.\n\nHe then texted me and called me to apologize. I said it was okay. Then he said \"well, you know. it's just I don't like to volunteer information and I guess I just expect the person I'm with to ask me more about how I am. You're the type to just talk, talk, talk, and that's great but I'm not like that and I just don't volunteer stuff but I do want to be asked.\"\n\nIt made me very uncomfortable. I said I would try to be more attentive but I'm not good at picking up on cues. :( Now I'm very stressed. I think he was inadvertently asking me to try and coax more out of him, ask more questions etc. but in a very passive aggressive kind of way. \n\nAnd now I feel so anxious. I feel like I'm always missing something or not doing something right. I haven't complained to him about much of anything. He doesn't do everything perfectly but I appreciate what he does. It seems like he is unsatisfied with me. I said I'd try harder but idk :("
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I hate it but I have severe anxiety in relationships (probably stemming from past events in my life that I don't want to go on about here).\n\nI guess I'm very non-confrontational and hate when strife arises and then I completely disengage and think of breaking up whenever a problem comes up. For example, my bf was stressed out today and it was a good day for me (we're long distance atm). I texted him earlier and he said \"I was stressed and so lost in class but I'm better now.\" So when I called him I began talking about my good day. I noticed though that he was pretty quiet/bored sounding so I asked if he was busy. Then he said \"no, I just had a stressful day.\" I THEN asked him about his day and so on and what stressed him etc. Then we ended the convo. on a kind of stressed out note/he didn't want to talk much.\n\nHe then texted me and called me to apologize. I said it was okay. Then he said \"well, you know. it's just I don't like to volunteer information and I guess I just expect the person I'm with to ask me more about how I am. You're the type to just talk, talk, talk, and that's great but I'm not like that and I just don't volunteer stuff but I do want to be asked.\"\n\nIt made me very uncomfortable. I said I would try to be more attentive but I'm not good at picking up on cues. :( Now I'm very stressed. I think he was inadvertently asking me to try and coax more out of him, ask more questions etc. but in a very passive aggressive kind of way. \n\nAnd now I feel so anxious. I feel like I'm always missing something or not doing something right. I haven't complained to him about much of anything. He doesn't do everything perfectly but I appreciate what he does. It seems like he is unsatisfied with me. I said I'd try harder but idk :("
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of nowhere a girl I really, really liked for a long time called me up to hang out. We went out, had a great time and went back to my place. It started getting more apparent that she was not interested in leaving at any time soon, so I (rightly) assumed that she wanted sex.\n\nNow, for reasons I can't fully understand, I'm still a virgin. My parents are really traditional and I'm still trying to get used to the culture here, etc. Also many opportunities presented themselves, but I was never confident enough to take them. However I really wanted to take a big step in my life that night, but I couldn't get it done.\n\nNo matter what I did, I couldn't do it. I tried to masturbate - nothing. She gave me a hand - nothing. She gave me a blowjob - nothing. This girl is a hot as hell and I couldn't do anything to satisfy her. I just licked her vagina for a while.\n\nShe told me it was fine, that these things happen and that I probably had something on my mind or I was stressed, so I had to come up with a story how I was really stressed about something or other.\n\nWhen she comes over next, I want to be ready and I want to fuck her brains out. What do I do in the meantime?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of nowhere a girl I really, really liked for a long time called me up to hang out. We went out, had a great time and went back to my place. It started getting more apparent that she was not interested in leaving at any time soon, so I (rightly) assumed that she wanted sex.\n\nNow, for reasons I can't fully understand, I'm still a virgin. My parents are really traditional and I'm still trying to get used to the culture here, etc. Also many opportunities presented themselves, but I was never confident enough to take them. However I really wanted to take a big step in my life that night, but I couldn't get it done.\n\nNo matter what I did, I couldn't do it. I tried to masturbate - nothing. She gave me a hand - nothing. She gave me a blowjob - nothing. This girl is a hot as hell and I couldn't do anything to satisfy her. I just licked her vagina for a while.\n\nShe told me it was fine, that these things happen and that I probably had something on my mind or I was stressed, so I had to come up with a story how I was really stressed about something or other.\n\nWhen she comes over next, I want to be ready and I want to fuck her brains out. What do I do in the meantime?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of nowhere a girl I really, really liked for a long time called me up to hang out. We went out, had a great time and went back to my place. It started getting more apparent that she was not interested in leaving at any time soon, so I (rightly) assumed that she wanted sex.\n\nNow, for reasons I can't fully understand, I'm still a virgin. My parents are really traditional and I'm still trying to get used to the culture here, etc. Also many opportunities presented themselves, but I was never confident enough to take them. However I really wanted to take a big step in my life that night, but I couldn't get it done.\n\nNo matter what I did, I couldn't do it. I tried to masturbate - nothing. She gave me a hand - nothing. She gave me a blowjob - nothing. This girl is a hot as hell and I couldn't do anything to satisfy her. I just licked her vagina for a while.\n\nShe told me it was fine, that these things happen and that I probably had something on my mind or I was stressed, so I had to come up with a story how I was really stressed about something or other.\n\nWhen she comes over next, I want to be ready and I want to fuck her brains out. What do I do in the meantime?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: Out of nowhere a girl I really, really liked for a long time called me up to hang out. We went out, had a great time and went back to my place. It started getting more apparent that she was not interested in leaving at any time soon, so I (rightly) assumed that she wanted sex.\n\nNow, for reasons I can't fully understand, I'm still a virgin. My parents are really traditional and I'm still trying to get used to the culture here, etc. Also many opportunities presented themselves, but I was never confident enough to take them. However I really wanted to take a big step in my life that night, but I couldn't get it done.\n\nNo matter what I did, I couldn't do it. I tried to masturbate - nothing. She gave me a hand - nothing. She gave me a blowjob - nothing. This girl is a hot as hell and I couldn't do anything to satisfy her. I just licked her vagina for a while.\n\nShe told me it was fine, that these things happen and that I probably had something on my mind or I was stressed, so I had to come up with a story how I was really stressed about something or other.\n\nWhen she comes over next, I want to be ready and I want to fuck her brains out. What do I do in the meantime?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the first like 6 months or so of our relationship we basically lived together because college. But then I moved back home for work while he was finishing up his last semester so we were semi long distance (like 4 hour drive). We're perfectly fine when we're actually together. Like I don't doubt that he loves me or anything. But he's just so bad at communication via text it drives me insane. And I've brought it up before that communicating in text means you can't tell my tone of voice and I can't tell his and it's a breeding pool for miscommunication. And thus we get into arguments really often where he says something and I get upset because he's saying it too harshly. And then I tell him it's mean because of how he said it and he just says that's just his opinion. \n\nBut basically it's gotten to the point where he says he no longer can talk to me how he used to and be himself basically because he's afraid he'll say something wrong and make me upset. And like I get upset easily because it keeps happening. And it's like a downward spiral. And that makes me feel so bad. I don't want him to feel like that. Like I understand it's all my fault for getting upset so you really don't need to tell me that. But regardless of what has happened, I don't know where to go from here. How do I make it so he doesn't feel afraid of being himself and speaking his mind? Like he probably doesn't say a lot of things now because he's afraid. How do I let him know it's ok?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the first like 6 months or so of our relationship we basically lived together because college. But then I moved back home for work while he was finishing up his last semester so we were semi long distance (like 4 hour drive). We're perfectly fine when we're actually together. Like I don't doubt that he loves me or anything. But he's just so bad at communication via text it drives me insane. And I've brought it up before that communicating in text means you can't tell my tone of voice and I can't tell his and it's a breeding pool for miscommunication. And thus we get into arguments really often where he says something and I get upset because he's saying it too harshly. And then I tell him it's mean because of how he said it and he just says that's just his opinion. \n\nBut basically it's gotten to the point where he says he no longer can talk to me how he used to and be himself basically because he's afraid he'll say something wrong and make me upset. And like I get upset easily because it keeps happening. And it's like a downward spiral. And that makes me feel so bad. I don't want him to feel like that. Like I understand it's all my fault for getting upset so you really don't need to tell me that. But regardless of what has happened, I don't know where to go from here. How do I make it so he doesn't feel afraid of being himself and speaking his mind? Like he probably doesn't say a lot of things now because he's afraid. How do I let him know it's ok?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the first like 6 months or so of our relationship we basically lived together because college. But then I moved back home for work while he was finishing up his last semester so we were semi long distance (like 4 hour drive). We're perfectly fine when we're actually together. Like I don't doubt that he loves me or anything. But he's just so bad at communication via text it drives me insane. And I've brought it up before that communicating in text means you can't tell my tone of voice and I can't tell his and it's a breeding pool for miscommunication. And thus we get into arguments really often where he says something and I get upset because he's saying it too harshly. And then I tell him it's mean because of how he said it and he just says that's just his opinion. \n\nBut basically it's gotten to the point where he says he no longer can talk to me how he used to and be himself basically because he's afraid he'll say something wrong and make me upset. And like I get upset easily because it keeps happening. And it's like a downward spiral. And that makes me feel so bad. I don't want him to feel like that. Like I understand it's all my fault for getting upset so you really don't need to tell me that. But regardless of what has happened, I don't know where to go from here. How do I make it so he doesn't feel afraid of being himself and speaking his mind? Like he probably doesn't say a lot of things now because he's afraid. How do I let him know it's ok?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: So for the first like 6 months or so of our relationship we basically lived together because college. But then I moved back home for work while he was finishing up his last semester so we were semi long distance (like 4 hour drive). We're perfectly fine when we're actually together. Like I don't doubt that he loves me or anything. But he's just so bad at communication via text it drives me insane. And I've brought it up before that communicating in text means you can't tell my tone of voice and I can't tell his and it's a breeding pool for miscommunication. And thus we get into arguments really often where he says something and I get upset because he's saying it too harshly. And then I tell him it's mean because of how he said it and he just says that's just his opinion. \n\nBut basically it's gotten to the point where he says he no longer can talk to me how he used to and be himself basically because he's afraid he'll say something wrong and make me upset. And like I get upset easily because it keeps happening. And it's like a downward spiral. And that makes me feel so bad. I don't want him to feel like that. Like I understand it's all my fault for getting upset so you really don't need to tell me that. But regardless of what has happened, I don't know where to go from here. How do I make it so he doesn't feel afraid of being himself and speaking his mind? Like he probably doesn't say a lot of things now because he's afraid. How do I let him know it's ok?"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love her, but i get extremely clingy and depressed and whiny and shes had the same conversation a million times. shes sick of me. \n\nI've never met any girl whose ever loved me. Now its maybe over and she doesn't care anymore. This is long distance. I just visited her and we had fun together, just got back three weeks ago. \n\ndid a lot of drugs and drinking to cope with how much i miss her. havent done any drugs for three days for her and i am ready to quit doing anything for good if it means we can be together.\n\nA lot of work and my fall semester of college starts this week. I cant even get a hold of her today. Lots of work starts tomorrow.\n\ni have nobody to talk to about this. and i cant imagine having to date other people. i just want to be with her. if i told her anything i said in this post shed probably leave me. im going insane"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love her, but i get extremely clingy and depressed and whiny and shes had the same conversation a million times. shes sick of me. \n\nI've never met any girl whose ever loved me. Now its maybe over and she doesn't care anymore. This is long distance. I just visited her and we had fun together, just got back three weeks ago. \n\ndid a lot of drugs and drinking to cope with how much i miss her. havent done any drugs for three days for her and i am ready to quit doing anything for good if it means we can be together.\n\nA lot of work and my fall semester of college starts this week. I cant even get a hold of her today. Lots of work starts tomorrow.\n\ni have nobody to talk to about this. and i cant imagine having to date other people. i just want to be with her. if i told her anything i said in this post shed probably leave me. im going insane"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love her, but i get extremely clingy and depressed and whiny and shes had the same conversation a million times. shes sick of me. \n\nI've never met any girl whose ever loved me. Now its maybe over and she doesn't care anymore. This is long distance. I just visited her and we had fun together, just got back three weeks ago. \n\ndid a lot of drugs and drinking to cope with how much i miss her. havent done any drugs for three days for her and i am ready to quit doing anything for good if it means we can be together.\n\nA lot of work and my fall semester of college starts this week. I cant even get a hold of her today. Lots of work starts tomorrow.\n\ni have nobody to talk to about this. and i cant imagine having to date other people. i just want to be with her. if i told her anything i said in this post shed probably leave me. im going insane"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: I love her, but i get extremely clingy and depressed and whiny and shes had the same conversation a million times. shes sick of me. \n\nI've never met any girl whose ever loved me. Now its maybe over and she doesn't care anymore. This is long distance. I just visited her and we had fun together, just got back three weeks ago. \n\ndid a lot of drugs and drinking to cope with how much i miss her. havent done any drugs for three days for her and i am ready to quit doing anything for good if it means we can be together.\n\nA lot of work and my fall semester of college starts this week. I cant even get a hold of her today. Lots of work starts tomorrow.\n\ni have nobody to talk to about this. and i cant imagine having to date other people. i just want to be with her. if i told her anything i said in this post shed probably leave me. im going insane"
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal."
} |
{
"text": "System: I want you to summarize this text\nDocument: There's this girl in my class at my university that I have a crush on. We both talk to each other in class and since the professor is pretty damn boring, we started to get to know each other by talking often. I want to ask her for her number, but I don't know if she has a boyfriend and just asking her if she has a boyfriend out of the blue is most likely going to come on as a tad bit weird. \n\nAlso, I see her texting on the phone as well from time to time and sometimes she's smiling while she's texting. I just can't help shake the feeling that she does have a boyfriend and I don't want to feel like an idiot and ruin the possibility of even being friends by asking her when I still don't know her very well to ask questions this personal."
} |