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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Any redditors go from being high strung to being relaxed or chill? POST: I'm currently a pretty high strung person. I work hard and go hard at school. I'm top ranked in my class, but I don't get as much sleep as I can. I always do my homework, and I'm thorough as hell on my work (not a person that just blazes through my homework). I fear sometimes that if I don't do all of my homework, I won't grasp the concept. But, i've never tried not doing my work and still grasping a class. I just haven't bothered trying. Recently, people have told me that i'm pretty high strung and I stress myself out. I am happy with my hard work and proud of what I do, but still, I need to learn how to chill a bit and not take things to seriously. Any redditors here start out like me, as a motivated, but somewhat high strung person who learned to chill out a bit. I do pretty well socially and get along well with others. I joke and make jokes, so it's not so much serious in that regard. My hopes are that in college (this fall) i'll learn to know how much I need to do and how much I don't. Any help reddit? TL;DR: TL;DR: A pretty high strung redditor trying to find a way to tone it down without becoming a bum. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Suggestions of interesting general knowledge topics that you must/should know? POST: **BACKGROUND**: My girlfriend came to the States from China five years ago (she was 18). She never really paid attention to school work when she was in China and couldn't speak English until she got here. Since then, she's worked hard and now she's in nursing school (final year), speaks English well (7 out of 10 proficiency), and very focused in her goals. But she lacks general knowledge outside of her area of study (biology, medicine, etc.). A few examples... * She knows that bad things happened to Jews during the Holocaust but doesn't know who exactly Hitler is. * She doesn't know much about our solar system beyond the earth, the moon, and the sun. * She's an atheist out of convenience and not because of reason. (I'm agnostic myself.) You get the idea. Don't get me wrong though--she's smart. She's just not very well-exposed because of her childhood. And the other day she said, "I want to be a more complete person. I wanna know about the things you laugh about and I don't get them. I want to have some insides." (Those are her exact words.) I promised her that during this winter break, we'd spend an hour a day googling around on a topic. I think that'd be a really nice thing to do for her. Now, I myself came to the States six years ago as an international student, albeit with a better educational background than hers, and I'm sure I can also benefit from the experience. So I'm turning to you Reddit, for things that you think we both should know/learn about. It doesn't have to be an intense learning experience. Just random facts/history/science. TL;DR: TL;DR: My girlfriend is a high school student who's not well-exposed to the basics of science, history, and math, and wants to know about things you enjoy. What are some of the things you think she should know? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 24F with my Ex-Boyfriend 24M, dated for few months 4 years ago, he has Leukemia. POST: Hey. I'll try to keep this short. I'm having a hard time seeing the situation objectively, and would like some advice. We'll call him Richard, and I broke up about 4 and a half years ago. We hadn't dated very long when he moved away for school. We decided to call it off. It was amicable. After this I started dating my current boyfriend, We'll call him Chandler. We'll have been dating for 4 years this fall. We're very happy. Through out this time, Richard has made it very clear that he still has strong feelings for me. Because of this I've kept him at a distance as not to put any strain on my relationship with Chandler. Recently, Last July, Richard contacted me saying he was sick and wanted to hang out. He didn't know what was ailing him yet, but was nervous. He promised he just needed a friend. His engagement just fell through as well, so he was feeling extra vulnerable. Chandler, not being the jealous type, agreed that being a shoulder for Richard was the right thing to do. This arrangement quickly went south as his feelings towards me were not well hidden and I felt like I was being sneaky, even though I was keeping Chandler well informed. It ended with Richard leaving me a message confessing his love and asking me to leave Chandler. We hadn't talked since.. Until today. Richard found out he has Leukemia, he wants to talk. TL;DR: TL;DR: ex-bf of 4 years has Leukemia. wants to talk via text. need advise on how to proceed with it without putting strain on current relationship. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20M] Gf[20] told me that she still wants to be together, but wants to experience college life [LDR] POST: So I drove about 2 hours to see her yesterday. We've been fighting a lot here and there and she's been spending the night over at this guys house that she just met. We've had some problems with her cheating in the past, but we've gotten through them. Now, she tells me that she loves me, and wants to be with me, but also wants to experience the "college life." She graduates in a year, and expects us to be able to pick this up when she moves back. I told her that I can't just have her spending the night at other guys houses by herself. When we talk about it in the phone, she tells me thing like "I love you baby I was running errands with Chris. I listened to your message and I really want to make this work. Baby" She says that she wants our relationship to work, but isn't willing to actually make changes. Reddit, how do I start seeing the bad side of people, and stop trying to be the only one to make any effort? 95% of me says to break it off because she doesn't care, but that last 5% seems to think that people can change and things will go back to how they were a year ago. TL;DR: TL;DR: Gf still wants to be with me, but wants to experience college life. I'm not sure how to go about this. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26M] have been dating a girl [24F] for one month, she recently broke off an engagement with her ex of 4 years. Am I a rebound? POST: I have been dating this girl for one month now and it has been perfect. We always have fun together, she seems super into me and often tells me how attracted she is to me. The sex is great and our chemistry is very strong. With that said, I am concerned I am being used as a rebound, or as a temporary means to comfort her. She ended her engagement a few months ago with her ex of 4 years (they were engaged for 1 year). Here's the first red flag I noticed: For the first 3 weeks of dating her, she never told me she was engaged to this guy, she only referred to him as her "ex boyfriend". I didn't find out they were engaged until I looked at her Facebook page and where she still has dozens of photos of them together and all her friends congratulating her on the engagement. I found this odd because she had talked about him alot but intentionally hid the fact that they were engaged, only ever referring to him as her "ex boyfriend". I asked her why she never told me and her response was that "she didn't want to scare me away". Her ex bought a dog with her, so they take turns sharing the dog for a week. So they are still in touch with each other and she still talks to his parents about logistical things as well. I have no problem with her talking to her ex fiance about logistics, because we aren't in an exclusive relationship. However, this girl keeps telling me how much she likes me, but when I asked her what she thought "about us" she sounded confused and responded "well... I like hanging out with you" which was strange considering how much she professes her feelings for me. I like this girl alot. My concern is that I'm a rebound and she will ditch me when she gets bored or finds someone better. Should I be concerned about anything here or am I overthinking? TL;DR: TL;DR: Been dating this girl for 1 month, she is just broke off an engagement to her ex which she didn't tell me about for the first 3 weeks. She says she likes me alot, yet won't commit to anything. Should I be concerned or am I just overthinking? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My Ex GF [21] broke up with Me [23 M] after a 1 year long relationship. She thinks she might be gay. Any advice? POST: My ex girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago after cheating on me with another woman. She avoided the truth about the cheating for a couple of weeks and when she finally told me she said she wanted to "figure things out for herself" and has since been with the same woman multiple times since. Tonight she said that she thinks she might be gay and might have been for awhile. When I asked her how long, she said she didn't know. I was really hoping for another chance with her after some time had passed. I know that I have no control over who she is attracted to or the way she feels, but I am still bummed and I still have all of these feelings of love for her. There are even things she does like asking me to tell her how beautiful she is, telling me she is lonely at night. Any advice? TL;DR: TL;DR: Ex Girlfriend broke up with me after a year long relationship. She recently told me she thinks she might be gay and I still love her to pieces. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/weddingplanning TITLE: Ideas for K1 (fiancé visa) small destination wedding POST: Dear people on Reddit, My husband is American and I'm a foreigner so we applied for a K1 visa which is basically " a visa issued to the fiancé or fiancée of a United States citizen to enter the United States. A K-1 visa requires a foreigner to marry his or her U.S. citizen petitioner within 90 days of entry, or depart the United States." With this visa I need to get married in the USA and I cannot leave USA until I adjust my status, which can takes several months. This means I can't leave USA to go to a honeymoon or to do a second wedding in my home country. The thing is that I have lived in several countries and have friends and family all around the world so I don't even know how to start planning something. I had several ideas of weddings in the USA but either my fiancé didn't like or it was too expensive. I wanted to get married in a cruise (to Alaska), fiancé agreed but there is something called Jones act that says that every cruise must pass through foreigner ports so even if we go to Alaska, the cruise would go through Canadian waters. I really do not want a background wedding, although this would be a reasonable choice. I would like to have some ideas of really small destination wedding because if we get married only with our parents (and fiance's closest friends/family) present, it would be the best option because I wouldn't be happy having huge a wedding where my best friends and family couldn't attend. Fiancé lives in Mississippi and I would like to go to somewhere snowy (we are planning to get married during xmas holiday) I feel like I'm going crazy trying to plan something in those circumstances. I always wanted to get married in a lake in Slovenia, in a cruise in Alaska, in a ice chapel in Finland or have an elopement wedding in Icelandic but unfortunately US immigration broke my heart haha TL;DR: TL;DR: I need some ideas of how to plan a really small destination wedding (with only closest family) in the USA. Visa says I need to get married in the US and cannot leave the US for honeymoon. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my [18 F] of 2 years ,I need suggestions on how to be less insecure in my relationship POST: Me and Girlfriend have been involved for 2 years now, and have been very involved and for the majority very happy spending our time together. In March however, with stress from university and confusion about what i truly could cope with i broke up with her. For me this was the biggest mistake i ever made, and she knows that and so do i. To cut a long story short, after 3 months we finally got back together and have been great. Apart from one thing, I read her messages and I dont seem to be able to stop.. I know i shouldnt yet i do, and it genuinely isnt that i dont trust her! because i whole heartedly do, i can swear on that. However, i still find myself taking the opportunity occasuionally. Nearly every time i have done i have been caught (as i am very sloppy with covering my tracks and she is too clever for me). She has said that she isnt going to break up with me, and she is just going to change her passwords (which i think is a great idea). Basically, I'm a very insecure person on the interior and I KNOW that this cant carry on as it is causing me to check her messages.i need to be proactive. Any suggestions on how to feel better about myself and not doubt that im enough anymore? TL;DR: TL;DR: I need help being less insecure after almost 2 years of being together with my girlfriend and im a very insecure person Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: A girl who I'd love to know. POST: I'm a little hung up. There was a cute girl whom I've seen around my university's campus and my work a few different times (pretty much only in passing). She was my waitress at a restaurant/bar I went to the other day and I was feeling a connection. Like a legitimate one. Smiles and shining eyes, giddiness on my part. I didn't really have an opportunity to make anything of it other than the simple flirting and joke making. I had a few drinks, she complimented my choice of beer. We locked eyes a couple times across the room while I ate. She's also a friend of a friend but I didn't know that at the time. I don't know, I felt a connection, and she totally seems like my type. So I tipped well, and left my number with "We should get a drink" scribbled on the small piece of paper that holds the silverware. Granted I'm sure she gets this all the time working in a sports bar so I can't really expect anything. [I'm just up in the wee small hours of the morning thinking about a girl.]( She's extremely cute. Has a nice sense of humor. Gorgeous eyes that could light up a small town. Havin' a crush can be crushing. Hell it's only been a few days but the feeling in the pit of my stomach isn't fleeting. I played my cool while I was there as I didn't want to make it too clear that I was interested. Maybe she didn't get the note. Maybe she did and is waiting, unsure. Maybe I'm absolutely (obviously) overthinking it haha. I just want nothing more than to get a text and find out more about her. Or at least that she's thought of me. TL;DR: TL;DR: A girl may have brushed me off. I'm feeling slightly over-analytical. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Do you have to decide whether or not to answer calls or text from your SO? POST: **30 year old guy looking for a reality check here:** When the girl I'm seeing (also 30) calls me, I answer without hesitation (unless I'm in the gym, in the shower, or at a movie). When she leaves me a voicemail, I always call her back. When she texts, I respond as soon as it's convenient, even if just to say I'm busy or I don't feel like talking. We've been on-and-off for a year but things have gotten serious in the last three months (saying we love each other, discussing living together, etc.). When we were "off" I didn't contact her often, but always answered when she called or sent a text since we've been friends for years. Last week she stopped answering my calls and texts. At first I assumed she was busy with work, but she was still posting and commenting on Facebook regularly. I was worried enough by Sunday that I asked one of her friends if she knew what was going on. Her friend said she didn't think anything was wrong, but told my SO I'd asked which caused her to finally talk to me again. Her explanation was that she always has to think about whether or not to answer when I call or reply when I text, and that (for no specific reason) she had just been deciding not to answer recently. I was flabbergasted because (unless I'm incredibly busy or upset) it would never occur to me to not answer her calls or texts. TL;DR: TL;DR: I answer every call or text from my SO without hesitation. She says she has to decide to answer, even when she's not busy or upset. What do you do? Could you be with someone who does the opposite? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: How to pickup girls at college parties? How to keep her interested? POST: I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers! TL;DR: TL;DR: how to keep a conversation going with a girl at a party when you have no common interests? something to say to keep the convo going? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me and my friend (16F/M). Am I being cruel/leading him on? POST: I have this good friend, we'll call him Steve. I really like him. But for various reasons (namely that I'm not allowed to, but also because I'm somewhat busy with school, volunteering, scholarship essays, etc) I don't want us to go out. I've told him this. I've said I like him and would like to date if we were older (and not about to leave for college in the next year), but right now I just want to be friends. I've told him this multiple times, also that he should date whomever because I won't want to date for at least several years (this part was just something I told him, I don't have some hard and fast dating rule, besides 'not now.') (For the record, he did date someone after I said this, but they broke up like a week ago and he asked if I still just wanted to be friends.) In retrospect, should I have lied about liking him? I don't wang to lead him on. I guess I am and I hate myself for that. But I didn't want to lie and pretend I don't like him. Sometimes we hug and hold hands, which I know is a relationship thing, but I really like it! Should I stop? Am I being mean and cruel here? Should I pretend to not like him so that he isn't possibly holding onto some hope that I'll change my mind? I think I've communicated it but I think in the back of his mind he might be holding out for 'us' even though I've said not to. TL;DR: TL;DR: I told him I like him but I don't want to date him while I'm in college. He dated someone else, I felt bad for him, he asked if I still just wanted to be friends, I said I did. Am I being mean/cruel here? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How do I trust him again? POST: My boyfriend and I are in our early 20’s. We’ve been dating for 2 months now. A month ago I found out he had been sexting and being generally flirtatious with a girl he had just met. At that point I did not break up with him. A few days ago I found out he had lied to me again. At that point I immediately broke up with him without giving it too much thought. Anyway, I got back together with him shortly after (my decision completely) I want it to work out, Reddit, I really do. But I still can’t shake the bad feelings of betrayal. Its really done a number on my self esteem. I’m very paranoid that anytime a girl flirts with him he will just do the same thing again. Girls will be inevitably flirting with him again because it happens often even when I’m there. When we go out to eat, waitresses openly flirt with him infront of me and then practically ignore me. Obviously he handles it well and doesn’t reciprocate, I cant just help but be really bothered by it. And cant even imagine what its like when im NOT around. Basically im paranoid about his behaviour with other women. Since getting back together, things have been normal. We have a good time together. But we haven’t figured out how to fix the situation. Hes been really good about it because hes been saying he’ll do whatever I ask of him. The problem is, I don’t KNOW what he can do to earn my trust back, because obviously everything he says I have a hard time believing it. What do Reddit? What can we do to fix this? TL;DR: TL;DR: boyfriend lied a few times about his relationship and its too complicated to trust him. I dont know what to do. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19F] was told by my supervisor [30M] that I had to work overtime POST: On mobile sorry. I have been working inventory for a warehouse for about 8 months. My supervisor is a lot of an asshole. Recently I have been picking up hours and working weekends on for my normally 8-4:30 Monday to Friday job because we have been moving places. This past week has been busy for me, we've been working on the move to the new warehouse and I've been busy outside of work since my mom was recently admitted to the hospital and I've been planning my best friends birthday party. Yesterday I had stayed late and I worked today (saturday) from 8-2:30. When I went to tell my supervisor that I was leaving at 2:30 he got mad at me. I wanted to go home because it was hot and I was exhausted carrying around heavy ass boxes all day. I'm heat sensitive and my job is usually counting so I wasn't used to the physical labour. When I told him I was leaving he started saying that the bosses said everyone had to be on hand and everyone was exhausted and hot so I should stop complaining (we were talking is his very cool office and half my co-workers weren't there, neither were the bosses) and that I had to stay. I stood my ground and said I was doing him a favour by sticking around and that I had already over my 40 hours. After a few minutes of arguing he just told me to go home and asked if I would work Sunday and since I already had plans to visit my mom I said I couldn't and he just gave me a look and told me to come in at 8 Monday. He's never gotten so upset with me before, should I have stayed late? TL;DR: TL;DR: my boss tried to chew me out for not working another two hours after I had gotten my 40 hours and I'm not sure I'll get in trouble for refusing to stay Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [now 21M] Forced to break up with my gf [now 20F] because of my parents 2 years ago, remained best friends, now I feel like starting all over. Should I and how? POST: Might as well give you the full story. I was 19 at the time and she was 18. We were good friends in high school and once we graduated, we didn't see each other much. 2 months after graduation we both get invited to a party, Hooked up, and then after we started to talk to each other. We found out that we have a lot in common and we started dating for two months. Her parents were really nice to me but my parents didn't like her because according to them **"she was not good enough for me".** Basically they told me to break up with her or else I would get disowned and I would lose my only family and means of support. So I broke up with her after a month of being in a relationship. Luckily this was on good terms so we stayed best friends for the last 2 years, since we would spend it talking well into the night, playing multiplayer games together and hanging out behind my parents back. Now I currently am on my 3rd year of college and recently turned 21. I have been dating other women but its been not going so well. She has tried dating but her shyness keeps her from meeting new men. Just yesterday, she came over to my dorm to spend a night with me on spring break. We had a lot of fun and surprisingly had sex in the morning. Basically its been on my mind all day, I feel that I should start all over. Since now I am older and more independant that I do not need my parents support to survive, except that they are buying me a car this summer, the last thing they will do for me. I know that I should wait till summer if I ask her to start all over. I do like her and I am not sure if she has the same feelings for me two years later. She has told me about an ex that has tried to get back with her and that she was extremely annoyed by the situation. But is this the right thing to do? TL;DR: TL;DR: I [now 21M] and her [now 20F] forced to break up a short relationship by my parents 2 years ago, remained best friends, got to know her very well. Now thinking of starting all over. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is it selfish to have kids, if you have a history of auto-immune and bi-polar disorders in your family? POST: I've always thought I wanted to have kids, when I get to the right age and find the right woman. Recently my mother admitted to being bi-polar at the age of 55 and has begun to seek treatment. Her mom (diagnosed in her 30s) and her brother (diagnosed in his 20s) were both severely bi-polar. The majority of my paternal family is medicated for much less severe mood disorders (lots of prozac). My sister has Crohn's disease, an autoimmune disorder that causes inflammation in the entire gastrointestinal tract. My paternal grandmother had similar gastrointestinal issues, but went undiagnosed. My paternal aunt either has Crohn's Disease or Ulcerative colitis (a very similar disorder). All three had acid-reflux at young ages. I know this may not make a difference, but I am ethically an 100% ashkenazi jew. All my relatives are from eastern europe, and ashkenazi's are particularly prone to these physical and emotional ailments. I am an atheist so faith will not play a role in who I marry or whether or not to have kids. Is it selfish for me to want to have kids? Am I subjecting them to live an extremely painful life whether physically or emotionally? They would have elevated probabilities of having a hereditary disorder and as you can see my genes aren't great. I still have a while to decide, but I want to see what people thought about my situation. TL;DR: TL;DR: Is it selfish to have kids if you have a history of auto-immune and bi-polar disorders in your family? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [26F] am having trouble getting over him [27M] POST: So without going into great detail about this guy, we met online, and we had been talking for a while. It was great, there was a mutual attraction we had a LOT in common. I had great hopes of meeting the guy, and all of a sudden things changed. He distanced himself a little, but then slowly came back and we resumed talking. We talked about everything and I was always happy to hear from him. Up until he told me that he started seeing another girl. He apologized and said he had no intent on hurting me, and he really did like me but he had to be realistic in that we were too far apart and it may never have worked out. I couldn't deal with it, so I told him I needed some space. The thing about it is that I want to get over him, and move on, but I want to stay friends with him. Despite the fact that I'm left heartbroken, he was honest with me from the beginning, and I respect that a lot. This is a guy I could talk to all day and not get tired of him, and he feels the same about me. He's a really great guy and I want to keep him in my life but I'm having difficulty letting go of him in the romantic sense. It's been a week now since we've spoken and I miss him every day. And I get so close to messaging him, but then back out because I know I'm not ready. Does anyone have any advice for dealing with this sort of situation? TL;DR: TL;DR: Met a guy online, we hit it off, things changed, he started seeing another girl, I want to get over him but I don't want to lose him as a friend. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [32F] is still close to her ex [26M] and it is very hard for me [22M] to deal with POST: We have been dating for just over 3 years now, and from day one her ex has been in her life. I'm normally not a jealous person and she's free to talk to whoever she wants, but her ex makes me so uncomfortable. Sometimes he'll call her up to go out to dinner and they won't get back home until late, and 90% of the time he's rude to me. My gf says he's just fooling around. He calls her all the time and when they hang out at our place they always talk about ''old times'' and are very touchy feely. Their closeness is making me paranoid. I don't want to be that annoying jealous boyfriend, but I do want to confront her about the situation since it does upset me. Any advice on how I can approach her without looking like a dick? TL;DR: TL;DR: my girlfriend is still very close to her ex and it upsets me, how can I discuss this with her without being an asshole? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I'm hooking up with a girl who is leading on her ex,it doesn't feel good, what should I do? POST: Backstory: I met a girl while studying abroad, and we started hooking up in the first couple weeks. I like her for a lot of reasons, she's smart, cute, and apparently was into me, but I don't think I'd ever want to date this girl for other reasons that make us incompatible, and on top of that I have attachment issues, I could fall in love with anything that moved. I have some SERIOUS cognitive dissonance going on. I enjoy hooking up with her, but she has intimacy issues so a lot of the time, I don't think she enjoys it. On top of all of this, I know she maintains contact with her ex, who she didn't really break up with, she used the breakup as a tool to get him to change, and apparently they started talking again right before she went abroad. I know she texts/sexts with him frequently, talks about how much she misses him, etc., very intimate stuff. I should mention I have major issues with jealousy which I'm working on in therapy. Meanwhile, I have developed feelings for her, and despite my better judgement, I do love this girl, even though I'm not in love with her, if that makes sense. My brain knows what's good for me, and my heart is a desperate motherfucker. We are pretty intimate, but I can't help feeling that I'm just a surrogate while she's here, and she is only into me because I'm the best option for her right now, I know she plans on getting back together with him. I didn't really have a chance from the start, and I just feel used and disappointed. At the same time, I want to enjoy the FWB situation as best I can and live in the moment, considering I know she isn't right for me. This is more of a vent than anything else, but any advice or comments would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm hooking up with a girl who has an attachment disorder and has an ex she's using me for. I have feelings for her, but I don't think she feels the same towards me. I like her, but she doesn't feel the same. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How many times does your gf/wife think she might be pregnant because her period timing is off. POST: I'm pretty sure this type of question doesn't belong in this subreddit but I don't know where else to ~~rant~~ talk about this. You see I've been married for 3 years and I can't count how many times I've heard my wife freak out about her period and how she might be pregnant. She did it to me again the other day and was like this "this never happened before, my period is always on time". So of course I had to act concerned. I mean it wouldn't be good timing at all being that I'm deployed and won't be able to be with her long term for another year. I just got back from seeing her for two weeks. She had an IUD and she thought I had penetrated through it and knocked it out or something. It's not like I don't care and I don't believe her but when you get told this so much, and she isn't the first one to say that to me, but it tends to wear off its effect on me after a while. We already have a beautiful daughter who just turned 4 but right now wouldn't be good timing for another one. I love my wife to death, I'm just saying do we have to go through this again? TL;DR: TL;DR: My wife always thinks she might be pregnant and I'm afraid that might put our daughter at risk. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 M] with one of best friends [24 M]. He wants me to go to his graduation but I'm 3 hours away. I don't really want to go but I'm feeling shitty about it. POST: One of my close friends is graduating next week. I've known him since the seventh grade. I work a job that gives me 3 days weekends often in return for longer hours the following week. His graduation falls on one of my weekends off. He asked me to come a few weeks ago and I told him, I didn't know my schedule at the time ( which was true). He mentioned it again last week. I'm not interested because I honestly believe graduations are overhyped. I wasn't interested in my own last year. I see it only as a formality. I haven't said anything yet but I'm really not keen on driving 3 hours there and back in the course of a weekend for something that I'm not interested in. I feel really shitty because he came to mine - granted he was only an hour away at the time. I know I have been drifting away from my friends ever since I moved away for a job and am wondering if this is a symptom of it. TL;DR: TL;DR: My friend wants me to take the time to travel to his graduation but I don't really want to. Should I be? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [28F] boyfriend [29M] of 1 year semi-broke up with me, then immediately changed his mind. Need some guidance. POST: A few days ago, my boyfriend who I love a ton and see myself with forever semi-broke up with me. He told me he was scared he couldn't make me happy enough... that I needed too much and he wasn't sure he could give it to me. He said he thought this was something innate in me, that couldn't change. I completely broke down, but then after an hour or so we realized this was a changeable thing (I've been taking him for granted. He does the most amazing things for me all the time, and I've just gotten used to it so haven't been appreciating it like I need to), so he decided he did not want to break up. He realized he should've just brought this issue up to me as a discussion a month ago when he started to feel it, but he didn't know how and was scared. He's introverted and not confrontational at all, whereas I bring up every issue I have with him because I think that's healthy. He promised that next time something comes up, he'll tell me right away instead of letting it build up in his head. We had an amazing weekend together. He told me I'm the love of his life, that he knows 200% now that he wants to be with me, and that he made a huge, dumb mistake by trying to break up. I'm ecstatic that we aren't breaking up, but I'm just so confused and so blind sighted. The thought that keeps running through my head is, how can we make it long term if he was willing to give me up? How do I get over that? So if there's anyone out there who has gone through a similar situation, I'd love some insight. TL;DR: TL;DR: Boyfriend semi-broke up with me, but we stayed together. Now I'm wondering how to get over it. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My girlfriend [18] wants to save sex until marriage, I [M, 19] don't POST: We've only been dating for a month, and I recently learned that my girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until marriage. That's her choice, and it doesn't look like she will easily change her mind. My options, as I see it are twofold: 1) Convince her to change her mind 2) Break up The obvious third option (marry her) is out of the question. I have no idea how to manage (1) because she is pretty adamant in her decision, but I can always try. I have no idea how to manage (2) without looking like a complete asshole who only dates girls for sex. TL;DR: TL;DR: My girlfriend wants to save sex until marriage, I don't and I don't know how to handle this delicate situation Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Just busted my dad for surfing porn and being totally incompetent in clearing browser history. How should I confront/teach him? POST: So I just discovered that my dad visits a lot of porn sites. At first I was disgusted, but then I just accepted the fact as every man with an internet connection probably does this. In the end I was just shocked to discover how bad he was at covering traces, and now I feel a responsibility to do something. I was visiting my family to babysit my brother and was using his work-laptop for surfing reddit. My dad had obviously completely forgotten to clear any browser history, as just typing "red" in the address field resulted in 40+ redtube links (classic). I then found that he had marked some links as favourites, only to discover that he had a whole folder named as some work-related thing like "planning 2011" filled with his favourite links. I.e. he's using tactics I used as a 12-year-old. I feel like I should do something, as both his working and his private life could take serious damage of this. I have a teen sister who uses his computer regularly and probably wouldn't have much trust in her dad after discovering he's into anal porn. For a second I thought she was the guilty one, but the suspects complete lack of knowledge in private browsing or internet-etiquette makes me sure it's an old person. I have a good relationship with my dad, but this isn't really a subject that can be brought up over a lunch, and we usually tend to avoid discussing difficult matters. Direct confrontation would probably just result in total denial and a very stiff dinners in the future. All I really want is to prevent him from damaging his life, but I won't give him a private lesson in surfing porn. How should I confront him and teach him? TL;DR: TL;DR: My dad can't use the private-browsing feature and surfs a lot of porn. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Ex is coming to visit POST: Background: Me - Male, 20 years old Her - Female (duh), 19 years old Length of relationship - 9 months (senior year of high school) Length of friendship - 2 1/2 years Story: After breaking up during our first semester of college, we have reconnected off and on since then. Every few or so months we'll start texting again and it leads to meeting and a resurfacing of emotions. Recently though we've started to mature a fair bit and she told me that she realized after being with someone after me that I was the person who made her happiest and she thinks she was meant to be with me. Nonetheless, we try to continue our pattern of talking a little every few months to keep things from accelerating too fast, since we both agreed we need time to mature some more before we try to be in relationships with *anyone*. I think she is sincere and she does act like I am an important aspect of her life, regardless of the status of our relationship. We recently started communicating again and she said numerous times that she misses me and really wants to see me. I invited her to come visit me at my new place on Thursday and spend the night. We reminisced on our past relationship and how we always fell asleep facing each other so we could feel each other breathing and stuff like that, and it seems like something we both want to experience again. I can imagine that that may lead to other things as they usually do, but this is where my question lies. How can we experience these things again and enjoy each other's company without compromising our relationship? I've never quite understood how two people can leave emotions out of an interaction like this, but apparently a lot of people do. She seems to be able to do it too, but I don't see what I'm missing. What's the secret? TL;DR: TL;DR: Me and girlfriend of a few months have a mutual attraction. We like each other and she likes me. We want to have a good time and start seeing each other again, but we're concerned about compromising our relationship. What does it mean to have a good time with someone you love? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mother [43/F] does not respect me [19/F] or anyone else in our family. POST: Everything she says and does to me is meant to belittle and invalidate, whether it’s telling me I’m dirty and lazy for not cleaning my room, throwing my possessions across the floor because “they’re in the wrong place,” or comparing me to her coworker’s daughter (also my roommate), who is “more considerate and respectful to her parents.” I’m moving out for college in a couple of weeks, so at least I can escape. However, my brother [14/M] is not as fortunate as I am. Because he’s in high school and has a history of “sub-par” grades, my mother is stricter with him than she was with me. She limits his access to electronics because she doesn’t trust him to use them responsibly. In the past, she has completely smashed a laptop and ipod because my brother spent too much time on them. We’ve been going to the library every day since my mother’s constant hovering is affecting my brother’s ability to study at home. Even my stepdad [42/M] is a victim. He is Mexican, so the racist stereotype of Mexicans being lazy and stupid is ever present in her traditional Asian mind. Whenever we have guests or relatives over, my stepdad is told to say that he is Colombian, Italian, or other ethnicities that don’t have the same stigma as Mexicans. My stepdad has repeatedly told my mother how awful this makes him feel, but she doesn’t listen. She criticizes him for every little thing, while he just puts his head down and takes it. I’ve never once heard her say “I love you” or use any term of endearment. My mother is also a victim of domestic abuse and a toxic marriage, if that helps to explain things, and her personality definitely changed after the divorce. So reddit, is there anything I can do to help my brother and stepdad deal with my mother before I leave for college? TL;DR: TL;DR: Mother doesn’t treat anyone in the household with respect. She was in an abusive marriage a few years ago and has changed a lot since her divorce. How can I help my brother and stepdad deal with her before I leave for college? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22F] new roommate [26M] just found out an friend/ex-lover [19F] died of an overdose. What's the best way to approach this situation? POST: He was intimate with this girl in the past, and she used to live here. She was doing heroin. She started doing it a lot, heading toward junkie status, so he kicked her out. He's beating himself up because he drove her somewhere to get some for her birthday, 3 months ago. From what he's told me, she wasn't doing it a lot then. I guess she really spiraled in the last few months. I officially moved in yesterday. I haven't known him that long. This sort of situation is very new to me. I have only known a few junkies (never friends, only acquaintances) and have never had a friend/lover/ex-lover die. He and I get along but we're not actually friends, yet I feel I have an obligation to comfort him through this, being his roommate and all. And I do feel bad for him. I'm sure losing someone you were intimate with is very hard. How do I approach and handle this situation? For clarification purposes, I'm 99% positive he doesn't do any hard drugs. He seems to be strictly pot and alcohol. He actually just threw a roommate out because the guy started smoking crack. We live in a fairly urban part of the city, where these drugs are a bit more common. My roommate has a good head on his shoulders and knows not to mess around with people who do that stuff. TL;DR: TL;DR: Roommate's friend/ex-lover is dead of an overdose. I've never had this happen to me or anyone near me. How do I comfort him as a roommate? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: weird sex stories. we all have them, now lets share them. POST: a while back i dated a girl who was seriously horny 24/7 (in retrospect this should have been a red flag). so one afternoon i'm over at her parents house watching a movie in the family room with her mom in attendance. we were cuddling under a blanket and before we could even get to the main dvd title menu, she had her hand in my pants. she gives me that "i'd like to fuck you right this very instant" look. we decide that it is a good time to go to the 2nd story loft to watch the movie there and leave her mom to her knitting down stairs. we get to the couch as quickly as possible and proceed with some innocent fooling around. things are getting heated as she straddles me and proceeds to climb on top of my lap. just as she reaches for my junk, her brother comes running up the stairs as i am half way inside of her. he gives us the [macaulay culkin] look of shock and runs back down stairs. my girlfriend runs after him as she pulls her pants up and grabs him by the arm begging him not to tell her mother. she brings him back upstairs and we all decide ice cream sounds nice right about now. so we go out and get him some cheapy sonic ice cream, come back home, set him up with a kiddy movie in the family room, and then my girlfriend and i finish what we had started. TL;DR: TL;DR: girlfriend's brother comes running up stairs with a warning from my girlfriend that mom would be mad if she found out. we get him ice cream and proceed to have hot sexy times. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my _gf__ [19 F] duration, when do you fall out of love with somebody. POST: Hey, I dont really want to write a long story, just wana hear more what people think about when you have fallen out of love. I have been dating the perfect girl for 10 months and i think i have fallen out of love. She is still in love with me, and shes still perfect. I feel like i have been given the choice of breakign up the most perfect relationship ever just because im kinda not into it anymore ("its not you its me") or continuing with her. What if a girl is 98% of what you look for in another person... is that enough? kisses, Kev TL;DR: TL;DR: am i a bitch for falling out of love with the perfect person. Should i just keep dating her because... shes perfect. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: My gf (18) wants to break up because she is leaving my country POST: Before starting this relationship i was kinda of an asshole. When we started dating she(F) was 15 years old and i was 18 years old(M)(3.5Y Age gap), at first i was a bit worried i would create pain on her because i wasn't the best boyfriend in the world, but as the time passed by, our relationship grew, things got as perfect as i could define. We always had a ghost in our relationship because she is not from my country, she lives in my country since 8 years old, she is from Brazil and i leave in Portugal. We were always afraid of the time where she had to come back, because all her family besides parents and younger brother lives in Brazil. When we made 2 years she went to Brazil for 1 month to visit the family and because of money issues i couldn't went with her, but our relationship surpassed it pretty well. Until we made 3 years our relationship was pretty damn good and nothing would ever say we would end. Last month she went to Germany to work for 1 month but before that we had some problems because of a former Girl friend.. We ended up being this whole month yelling at each other but in the end we got it, and she went back to Portugal. 3 days ago she says that her father wants to get back to Brazil in the next year, because of Portuguese crisis and the necessity to come to his country.. I was still recovering from our past issue and this was throw at our relationship... There is nothing i can do, because i'll end the university in 2 years and she is not in university yet.. She gave up on our relationship because she thinks there is nothing we can do, and she is thinking right now if we should break to stop further pain.. I don't know what to do, what to think .. I just can't think i can endure such pain right now.. Losing her is my worst nightmare, i cant sleep, i cant concentrate.. This text might be too difficult to read.. English is not my native language as you can tell and i just need to take this out of my chest.. TL;DR: TL;DR: Gf left me because her father wants to get back to Brazil because of Portuguese crisis and the necessity to come to his country.. I don't know what to do, what to think.. I just can't think i can endure such pain right now.. Losing her is my worst nightmare, i cant sleep, i Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to get out of an assignment POST: So.. TIFU about fifteen minutes ago, when I was doing my 2000 word essay for school. I'm just sitting there, procrastinating away, about 400 words in. I have a glass of water in my hand, and I just think to myself, 'If I was to just.. give this glass of water.. the slightest tip.. I would have the perfect excuse for not doing this essay' (Keep in mind that this is very late at night and I'm incredibly sleep deprived). I have one hand supporting my face, and in one hand the glass of water. I start playing with the glass of water, tilting it so that it's almost tipping all the water out, then straightening it, then tipping it again (I'm so freakin bored). Guess what happens next? I accidentally tip half the fucking glass all over my keyboard. I PANIC SO FUCKING MUCH. I stand up frantically and hit my knee under the table (pretty hard), and I fall back onto my chair. I'm having a panic attack now. I grab the laptop, tip all the water out of it, shake it and wipe the keyboard on my bed. It's fucked. It's DEFINTELY fucked. I'm DEFINTELY FUCKED. But didn't I want this? I still have to do the damn assignment, but now I'll have an excuse for an extension. I don't think that a week's extension was worth a thousand dollars and all my work that I've done all semester. Then I realise.. whew.. that's all right.. my semester's work is fine.. it's all on Dropbox. It's all on Dropbox. It's all on Dropbox? IT'S ALL ON DROPBOX! ALL MY FUCKING WORK IS ON DROPBOX! -_- kill me right now TL;DR: TL;DR: TIFU by accidentily spilling half a glass of water all over my keyboard while trying to pretend that I was going to do a 2000 word essay. Now have an excuse for an extension and my work is all on Dropbox Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How should I [23 F] let him [26 M] know I am no longer interested in dating? POST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm not too familiar with dating, and I have no idea how to tell someone who's really interested that I don't want to date anymore. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (24f) him (29m) controlling already After 1 month. POST: I posted a few months ago about my crazy jealous ex bf. He was controlling and never let me go out without constant tabs on me. And I had broken up with him and moved on. I moved in fact to this new guy who I'd known as a friend from 3 years previous. Tonight I tell new bf I can't see him straight after work because I a work dinner. I did some work on a project that helped out a manager and she was so grateful she asked me over to her apartment for dinner. I accepted not quite realizing she wanted to cook me a meal. I told my bf I'd be an hour or so. It turns out I was about 3 hours. My boss is a welcoming gracious host and I can't find any way to excuse myself quickly from the meal. All the while my new bf is texting me 'when are you coming home, where are you, are you leaving yet' putting immense pressure and stress on me. He knows I just got out of a controlling relationship. I don't want to answer to anyone. My question is, do I have the right to be pissed or am I being selfish? TL;DR: TL;DR: Bf of 1 month keeps asking me when I'm coming home or where I'm going. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26m) gf (22f) is having a friend stay over and I'm a bit distraught. POST: I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still? TL;DR: TL;DR: Relationship has been heading south, she tells me male friend will be spending the night since his apartment was broken into. I'm very conflicted. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Is it wrong to tell her straight up I like her? POST: I'm 17 in high-school. New to this sub. I have a "date" this weekend with this one girl. met her about a week ago, Let's call her E. I just got M's number, which i just started talking to a few days ago and I've been texting. So far it's kind of been platonic texting M. Do I really got to play all these games, or would be a good move to tell M straight up? Like "I find you attractive and we should escalate things, but I want to know soon cause I'm talking with some other chick (which is E) and I don't want to move things further with her (E) and lead E on, if me and you are gonna escalate this" but in a more refined way. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm not sure if I should tell a girl I like her, but I want to wait a bit. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [F23,M24] Can this work, or am I crazy? POST: We've been together for maybe a year and a half, I'm F23, dating M24. The relationship is great, I like him a lot, he's really supportive, the sex is awesome, we have a lot of common interests and have a lot of fun. However, my practical side says it's not going to last forever, due to: - He wants kids. I don't. This isn't going to change, and I'm not willing to compromise. - His family has all stayed within one small area of a specific city, and long term he wants to stay there. I have no ties to this city/country/hemisphere, and want to live abroad and not return. - my family is abroad - career opportunities here for me are abysmal, while they're excellent overseas - I don't much like the culture here - Alcohol. His idea of a night out with friends is getting reasonably drunk. He's not pleasant to be around while drunk, and (dad was an alcoholic) I don't want to deal with it. He never drinks when I'm around, which is fine when we're dating, but wouldn't work so well if we lived together. I've received a great job offer for roughly 5 months from now, a few months after I graduate college, in a city a couple of days drive away. I want to take this offer. Given the above, I don't think a LDR is a good idea. We have talked about our different views on the above topics, though not how (if at all) we'd reconcile them. He knows I have this job offer (and others.) Is it crazy to want to stay in the relationship until I move? Is it crazy to think we could stay friends at the end? Any advice for enjoying the time we do have, and ending things well? TL;DR: TL;DR: dating is great, but it won't work long-term. Can I say 'I had a lot of fun, it wasn't going to last forever, lets be friends' when I move in 5 months? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Adopted kittens from an agency. Two days later after explosive diarrhea all over my apartment they are diagnosed with Giardia. I need advice on dealing with the agency. POST: I feel that out of principle I should be refunded the adoption fee since the agency's foster home infected the kittens with the parasite. Both cats were born in the foster home and there are 20 other cats. Do I have any legal right to ask for the fee back? Or help with the cost of treating? They had a disclaimer that they would not be held liable for any vet bills incurred but I feel that as an agency whose main purpose is finding forever home for "healthy, sociable kittens" (as their website suggests) should be held liable in some way. Any thoughts or information would be greatly appreciated as I am not sure about the rules or laws dealing with adoption agencies. TL;DR: TL;DR: Adopted kittens from an agency who said it would not be held liable for any vet bills. Two days later they are diagnosed with Giardia. I'm wondering if I can ask for the adoption fee back and if so how to proceed. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [20/M] friend of girl who rejected me wanting chill/throw party .... Need help POST: Background: The girl who I fell for approached me wanting to get close to an acquantance of mine from HS since we all worked together and me and him constantly hung out at work. Long story short she introduced me to drugs and I fell hard... Friend who didn't care about her tbh, was shocked to find out and spent a good 3 months trying to get me to see the truth that she wouldn't ever like me which was proved true once my feelings came out she ran. Stopped texting me completely, wouldn't talk to me at work, just cut off. Got depressed and took time but I'm over it now and am a better person for it. Current: Just started getting snapchats from this girl's best friend saying how "we wanna hang out" I'm assuming the girl I fell for is included. They live in a different city and when I used that as an excuse she responded by saying "we could throw a party." I'm unsure of what to do. On one hand I know that untimately my friend would highly disapprove, and I'm not sure what exactly the two girls want from me. On the other I'm still physically attracted to the other girl. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm dating a girl who rejected me who I'm now friendzoned and is now trying to get me to hang out with her best friends. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (F20) friend just ended her relationship of one year. How do I (M20) cheer her up? POST: A good friend of mine Annie just broke up with her boyfriend Nick after being together for one year. Before the breakup, I noticed she was being more quiet then usual, and she was very stressed about money. About 4 months ago, she moved in with her friend and Nick. Nick doesn't have a job, nor does he have a high school diploma. I told Annie it was a bad idea to move in, and to wait for Nick to get a job before hand. Nick never bothered to find a job during these 4 months, only staying home to play video games. Annie texted me the other day, telling me she broke up with him, since rent is due, and he has never contributed to anything. It does break my heart to see her go through with this, and I was wondering if it was a good idea to try to cheer her up. TL;DR: TL;DR: Friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend 4 months ago, and I was curious if it would help cheer her up. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [30 M] with my girlfriend[31 F] of 1.5 years, breaking lease because I need mental help. POST: I have been with my girlfriend for a year and a half. We are one month into living together for the first time. I have been dealing with depression for a while now and my girlfriend knows about it. Durring some recent therapy I've started to uncover some severe childhood trauma that I had covered up a long time ago. I talked to my girlfriend about this and a suicide attempt I made three months ago. After three days of chaotic back and forth we decided I needed to be on my own to grow and heal and stop my chain of relying on women in my life to fill a gap (I've had 4 log term relationships in the last ten years and they were one after another with almost no down time between them) The problem is how much I feel like a scumbag now. Obviously her parents hate me and think she should sue me for move costs when we break our lease. I'm so desperate to be mentally well but I feel like I'm a bad person now. I need to hear from complete strangers if I'm doing the right thing. Sorry this was so long. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm causing an expensive and painful breakup but doing it to fix my long standing mental problems. Am I wrong to do this? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I (23/M) had a first date with a female friend (19/F) that didn't feel like a date, not sure what to do now. POST: Some backstory: We go to the same university, and have both been attending a club each week. We've gotten to know each other a bit over the last couple months, and after official club activities are over everyone typically goes to a nearby restaurant to basically hang out. Over the last couple weeks we've been sitting more and more on our own and talking for a couple hours. She's a nice girl and I'd at least consider her a friend, but I'm interested in seeing what more could happen. So, I decided I'd ask her out. Before I did though, we got to talking and she mentions a board game she likes that a friend of mine happens to own, so I jump on that, and invite her to a game night at my apartment, and I got her number. I decided it might seem a little strange to ask her out after this though, so I put that off. I organized a night to get people together to play games, but she had an exam and decided to study rather than coming. So, fast forward to last night, another club meeting. It was all well and good, pretty normal stuff. At the end of the night I figure game night was a bust so back to my original plan. I must admit I didn't put much thought into things as I ask if she wants to get lunch with me the next day (so today). She says sure, "Hurray" I think to myself, I've made progress. So, we decided on a place to go and met up today at 1:30. We go in, and it was pleasant, we were there about 90 minutes, talking most of the time about various things. But something was missing, it didn't feel like a date, there was no real romance there. It seemed much more like 2 friends out getting lunch. I'm now thinking lunch was perhaps not the best thing, maybe it sends the wrong signals, but I'm not sure how to proceed. Any suggestions on what I should do now? TL;DR: TL;DR: We went out on what I meant as a date, but it was more like 2 friends hanging out. How can I proceed/let her know I'm interested in more? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mum [35] is fighting/arguing with my dad [41] for a long time. I'm [17] afraid that they'll soon seperate. POST: My parents are fighting since a long time and nothing improved ever. I'm still quite young and I also have a little sister (8y). I'm afraid that they seperate and I don't know what to do. It is important to mention that we are debts and my dad wasted (and still wastes) a lot of money which not makes my mum crazy but he often asks my mum for money which he almost never returns. I know that the main problem is he wastes the most part of our money. But as I said I don't know how to change this situation. I don't want to sit in front of my computer and watch how my family breaks apart. Help is appreciated *(Sorry for any mistakes) TL;DR: TL;DR: My mum is fighting with my dad and I'm afraid that they will soon seperate. I don't know how to help and I don't want to sit in front of my computer and watch my family break apart Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my neighbour [50s F] of half a year, her family is so disruptive, should I broach this and how? POST: My neighbour seems like a nice woman, a bit of a gossip, but friendly and approachable none-the-less. The trouble is her family. She's a grandmother and she has 3-4 grandkids plus her daughters and sons-in-law around literally every day even though they don't live there. One thing that's kind of annoying is we have to park in the street, there's no driveways, and the fact this family takes up 4 car parking spaces for one household each day is kind of irritating. Like today, I was out of the house for 10 minutes dropping my OH off at work, I came back, and the daughter had moved her car forward into the space I was parked, so the other daughter could fit her car in front of my house. One of the daughters was rude enough to ask me to move my car so they could park there so they could be closer to the house to bring the kids in once as well. They are as entitled to park there as I am, it's just really annoying. And the kids are so loud. They play in the garden all day for hours, which is expected, it's summer, the kids are now off school. But even with the windows closed I can hear them constantly screaming and shouting. I work nights and it's really disrupting my sleep. Obviously I don't expect them to be tiptoeing around but they are extremely loud, louder than most kids I hear playing out. Should I mention something to my neighbour? I know me saying anything will give her ammo to bitch and gossip about and I don't want it to cause any trouble. But I'm hoping it could make them be a little more considerate. Or should I just grin and bear it, they're not doing anything to deliberately disturb me, I just think they are very inconsiderate. TL;DR: TL;DR: Should I say something to my neighbour about her kids and grandkids, or should I let it lie? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Help me lay a good foundation for a serious relationship POST: Hi, I just recently met this girl and spent time alone with her and such lastnight. Were not technically in a "relationship" per se but we are dating. I've in the past had payed too much attention to girls, spent too much time talking, and being together in general. You know, the whole spend every evening together for hours, text for hours, etc.. I feel like doing that really speeds things up and kills it.. makes it boring, unexciting. How can I communicate with her and show her I am thinking about her but without revealing too much, or doing it too often and making the relationship boring? TL;DR: TL;DR: I've spent a lot of time talking to girls, even when I'm actually dating. How can I communicate with her and show her I'm thinking about her but without revealing too much, or doing it too often and making the relationship boring? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [30 M] roommate is pissed at me [28M] for accepting a ride from his girlfriend [27F] while he was out of town. POST: All three of us are roommates. They live on the top floor of the house, I live on the bottom. Just to give you an idea of our living arrangement. Over the weekend my roommate went out of town. While he was out of town I went downtown with a few friends for some drinks. The guy that drove me down left way earlier than everyone else but I decided to stay, assuming I would get a ride from someone else. The plan was for everyone to go back to the house where we started. That didn't end up happening. Everyone in the group ended up just going home from downtown. So my plan was to just get a cab. Then I remember my roommates girlfriend texted me earlier in the day and offered to be my DD if i was going to be drinking. So now that everyone was just going home, I take her up on that offer. She comes and picks me up and gives me a ride home. We get home, I go downstairs to my room and pass out. End of night. The next day my roommate is home. The first thing he says to me when he sees me "oh, you needed a DD last night?" sarcastically. I could hear her say something in the background like "babe, I offered to give him a ride". Later on in the day (today) I walk upstairs and they're putting their dog in this weird height chair for dogs? (don't ask, i have no clue) he passive aggressively suggests that I go downstairs while i'm checking the dog out in this weird height chair. I question him, and he says that "the dog is all wound up". I can tell he's mad about something. I'm not sure how to approach this. I didn't think that it would be a big deal at all for her to pick me up. Did i cross a boundary or does he have a right to be mad at me? TL;DR: TL;DR: Roommate's girlfriend ratted me out for taking a cab last night, told me I needed a DD last night. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My bf [M, 25] of 8 months hasn't said I love you (I'm F24) POST: I told him that I loved him the other night; I'm used to waiting for the guy to say it first, but 8 months is starting to be way too long to me. He responded that he's not ready yet and needs more time. Another thing is that he's moving away in three weeks to another country for a year, and we haven't decided on what to do about us. I'm glad he was honest and didn't say it back if he didn't feel it. He acts like he cares about me, and actions speak louder than words. But this whole experience has left me vulnerable and insecure. This is my first long serious relationship, and the first time I’ve been bursting to say these words to a guy and mean it. My friends say that he’s trying not to hurt me because he’s leaving so soon, but I’m already hurt. My friends also say that I owe it to myself and to him to see this relationship to its natural end. But I don’t know about that. 8 months is a long time, and I don't see how anything will change in the next few weeks. I'm going to be so sad if we're together all this time, only to find out at the very end that he never loved me all this time (which at this rate, is probably how things will end). If we’re going to break up, I almost want to do it now, although I'm not 100% decided on this...other part of me does want to do as my friends suggest and make the most out of these last few days. If we’re going to stay together, I need some sort of reassurance before he goes that he can at least verbalize how he feels about me before I’m willing to give it a shot. TL;DR: TL;DR: I told my bf I loved him tonight, but I still can't tell if he loves me. He says he's not ready to say it, but he's moving away in three weeks. I'm hurt and don't know how to handle this with him. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] with my ex best friend [28 F] of 5 years, no longer speak. I want to out her to her boyfriend [28 M] because she outted me. POST: Almost two years ago, my best friend, lets call her Rosie and I bonded over the fact that we were in relationships but were still in love with our ex boyfriends. It wasn’t just still being in love, it was also feeling guilty about the way we had treated our ex’s too. We would often talk about what we would do differently, and how hard it was to still see them, sexual fantasies that we had about them, etc. My fiancée, was aware that I had started talking to my ex again, there had been a death in his family. I ended up leaving my fiancée to try things out with my ex. It didn’t work out. Rosie ended up meeting up with her ex quite often and played down a lot of what she did with him to her boyfriend so she didn’t get in trouble. Rosie and I, are no longer friends anymore. She outted me to her boyfriend about things that I said to her about my ex while I was still with my fiancé because she was angry with me. I have not outted her. But now, her boyfriend, a friend of mine for years, thinks I’m scum and refuses to have a friendship with me. TL;DR: TL;DR: Best friend outted me to my ex boyfriend. I don't know what to do. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Why do I feel light-headed/pass out when discussing certain topics? POST: I wasn't quite sure where to put this, as I don't consider it particularly serious, so I put it here. Apologies if this is the wrong subreddit. About 2 and a half years ago, I managed to pass out in a sex education class when contraception was being discussed. In the following 2 weeks, I passed out in every class (Only one class a week, but that's not really the point). Pregnancy and words to describe different levels of sexual activity (e.g promiscuous) were discussed in those classes. My parents took me to the doctors to see why this was happening and it was narrowed down to lack of sleep and a lack of oxygen reaching the brain when those subjects were being discussed around me (I have no idea as to why that was the case). At the time I believed it, as I frequently went to bed at late times before school. I ended up having to take a bottle of water into each lesson and perform a breathing technique each time I felt light-headed. While this helped, I later realised that the doctor may not have been entirely correct, as I will explain in the next paragraph. I have also experienced fainting with HIV/AIDS discussion (which was the first time I passed out) and a few minutes after getting an injection. I had gone to bed early (around 9pm) the night before the day of the injection, ate breakfast and still passed out. I also feel light-headed whenever I think of someone cutting themselves, particular in the wrist area. It has baffled me ever since I passed out for the first time. Does anybody have any possible ideas as to why this may be happening? TL;DR: TL;DR: I pass out/feel light-headed discussing certain sexual topics, after injections and thinking of people cutting themselves. Why? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20F] girlfriend of 8 months decided to put our relationship on pause with me [22 M]. Feedback? POST: My girlfriend left to work out of state for the summer a couple weeks ago. We spoke the day before and she told me, essentially, that she is not pushing herself as much as she should because being in a relationship is making her too complacent. So she is putting us on pause until the end of summer so she can develop independence and regain motivation. I love her more than I thought I would. She means the world to me and it was very hard to hear this. Regardless, I supported her for doing this because it will help her to cultivate happiness and strengthen our relationship. Love isn't always about you, it's for them. After getting off the phone, I cried harder than I have in a long time. It feels like a lifeline just got separated from me. But it's also been a realization of how much I really care and love this girl and I want to make this last for as long as possible. I know she loves me very much and we tell each other as often as we can, I just fear she will change her feelings towards me by the end of summer. I just have so many questions about myself, her, love and the future of our relationship. There's so much uncertainty that I am trying to cope with. I turned to reddit because I don't know who to turn to to talk about this. Your thoughts/shared experiences are much appreciated. TL;DR: TL;DR: Girlfriend put our relationship on pause due to complacency, love and independence. Need help coping and making sure things will last as long as possible. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: i [17M] will move to Los Angeles, USA from India next year. how should I make American f, date American women, and adjust to American culture? POST: Hi everyone! I am a 17 year old Indian guy who will study computer science in UCLA next year. I have some questions about American lifestyle and culture. 1. How do I make American friends and date American women? 2. Based on all the news about rapes here and negative portrayals of Indians in Hollywood (Apu in Simpsons, Raj in big bang theory, tech support guy in South Park), does that affect your opinion of Indians (especially the guys) in a negative way? 3. What do American women think of Indian guys? Not just White, but Asian and Latina American women too? 4. How should I react if someone calls me a Muslim? Can you tell Muslims and Indians apart? I see a lot of hatred towards Muslims, even Pakistanis in your movies and TV and video games (Zero dark Thirty, Pakistan mission in Call of Duty Black Ops 2, Modern Warfare 1, Lone Survivor, Family Guy, South Park). 5. What are some customs I should be aware of here? Especially regarding socializing or dating or doing good in school? 6. What is your favorite American food? And what are some other food from other cuisines I could try? TL;DR: TL;DR: Indian guy going to Japan next year to study computer science for the first time. How do I make friends and date American girls? What bad things are happening in the US? What are some customs I should be aware of? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, ever had a relationship come about via Craigslist? POST: The title says it all really. I ask because, over the years I've read the personals on Craigslist, mostly just for fun. Recently, one piqued my interest. No picture or anything, but she listed some similar interests so I shot her a message, with my pic attached. Never in a million years did I ever think I'd get a reply, much less from an attractive female. With a little google-fu, it appears as though she is a totally real person. Quite attractive, and a fair amount of shared interest. I really have no idea how to proceed. It's one thing to ask a girl out in real life, but I have no idea how to go from 'craigslist internet guy' to 'hey lets meet and it not be creepy.' So, any Redditors that may have met someone special on CL - how did your relationship progress from Personal Ad to ... whatever? TL;DR: TL;DR: I got a sent a reply to a Craigslist personal, and got a response. I don't know what to do now. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (25 M) have serious trust issues with my (21 F) girlfriend POST: My girlfriend and I have been "together" for about seven months. By together I mean, agreeing that neither one of us would see anyone else. We didn't really consider us in a relationship until about two months ago. During the relationship I've come across a couple of red flags that concern me: First: In the middle of the relationship we hit a rough patch. We fought a lot and she ended up breaking up with me. We spent one day apart and got back together the next day. During this day apart she hooked up with another dude, which I only found out because I pried. Although we weren't technically together, it did bother me that she moved on to hook up with another dude the same day she ended it. Second: She frequently texts her ex-boyfriend. By frequently I would say every other day. They dated for five years and of course this bothered me tremendously. Every time I would confront her about it she would make it seem like I was crazy and I was suffocating her by not allowing her to be friends with him. Curiosity got the best of me and one day I looked through her phone (wrong, I know) and read a message to her friend. She said that they had been flirting, and he was taking his time to come back to her. I brought this up and understandably she was pissed at me for going through her phone. I argued that the ends justified the means, which I still stand by. She said she wasn't waiting for him to come back and it was a joke between friends. I tried to put it behind us and move on cause i really liked her. Ever since this she says I can look through her phone, which I don't really want to do because I feel like I don't want to further invade her privacy and trust. However, I notice that she is still very secretive with it and deletes all her messages, which doesn't help with my trust issues. Am I crazy or is this behavior worrisome ? TL;DR: TL;DR: GF and I have trust issues. She constantly deletes texts from her ex-boyfriend even though I know what they say and believe it is her fault. Am I crazy for feeling insecure about this? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What credit monitoring service is not a scam? POST: So my wallet got stolen, which means I had to cancel all of my cards and lost a bunch of cash and my ID. What I'm really worried about is the fact that my Social Security card was in there (I know, I'm an idiot). So now I'm caught between a rock and a hard place: either I risk having my identity and credit messed with without any sort of protection, or I sign up for a plan that is probably a scam. I know better than to use the truly stupid ones (i.e. freecreditreport.com), but are there any good ones that won't dick me around and will actually provide a valuable service? TL;DR: TL;DR: My ID card got stolen, I guess I'm screwed. Should I use a credit monitoring service and risk it getting messed with or should I just use a free service and risk it getting messed with? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, my friends and I are being swindled out of money we put down for an apartment. Is there any way we can get it back? POST: Okay so me and two other girls decided to live off campus at University this year. We found an apartment and decided we liked it fairly quickly. The real estate company detailed that we should put down a payment for first and last months rent, security deposit, brokers fee and application fee. It totaled around a little over 2,000 dollars. A few weeks after we put the money down, one of my roommates calls me and tells me that due to financial issues she can't live in the apartment anymore. She was supposed to furnish the apartment so basically the other roommate and I are screwed out of it too. So we let the real estate agent know and she tells us that we can't have our money back unless we find someone else to take the apartment. So after a month of looking for people, this past week we had 3 different groups of people interested in the apartment. I got another inquiry about it only to hear from the real estate agent that the landlord had already sold the place. Because of this apparently we still don't get our money back. My biggest defense is that we were never given a deadline for when to find someone. If we had known that this was the case we would have expedited the process significantly. This is a shady company so I'm looking for any legal advice that I can get to muscle them out. TL;DR: TL;DR: We put down a deposit for an apartment, a month later we get a notice that the apartment is sold, so now we are screwed. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit what is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you? POST: Obviously, I'll start: I was about 9 or 10 years old, some friends and I decide to go to the local swimming pool. Bam! Fast forward to me standing at the bottom of the ladder leading up to the high diving board. All my buddies are daring me to climb up and take the plunge. Having decided to go for it, I begin to climb the ladder. I'm about 6 feet up when it happens. I feel a strong pull, my friend had just "Pantsed" me (its when you rip a guys shorts down exposing his junk to the world). I lose my grasp on the side of the ladder and feel myself falling backwards through slow motion until all of a sudden i'm completely upside down. You see, my leg got caught through one of the holes in the side of the ladder, trapping me upside down. Now my shorts are wedged between me and the rung of the ladder and I'm fucking stuck bad. All of a sudden I hear some girl yell out "HEY LOOK AT THE NAKED BOY!!" Whole pool goes silent. All I can hear is my friends' laughter. I'm struggling to untangle myself as the lifeguard walks around the pool to come lift me up so i can untangle my leg. Once I'm down, I then have to walk the whole length of both the shallow and deep pools to get to the dressing room while every kid smiles and stares and every parent pretends like nothing happened. I sat in the change room for 45 minutes until my mom picked us up. TL;DR: TL;DR: I got caught in a pool and my leg got trapped. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [27 Mwith my fiancée [27 F] 2 1/2 years, are getting married soon, and my stomach is in knots. POST: My fiancée and I have been together for about 2 1/2 years, we got engaged after only 4 months, because we were both very much in love with one another. We are getting married in about 3 weeks, and up until about a month ago I was feel very positive about the entire thing. Now I'm feeling nervous as hell, and starting to question whether I could love her forever, want to still be with her forever, and am starting to have feelings for someone else. I'm not sure if this is because I'm just getting nervous about the wedding, and it's something I should be worried about, or if I'm just being a complete moron and self sabotaging things or if this is something I should be paying attention to. With the wedding a few weeks away, I'm know there are a lot people paying to fly to where we are, and we have received presents and whatnot already, I also feel bad about all those people as well. I've expressed to her that I am nervous, and she gave me an ultimatum of when to know, since she doesn't want me to just not show up. She also seems very sure about everything, which is why I'm scared since I don't think I feel as secure or sure as she does. TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm nervous, and I'm starting to wonder if I'm better off marrying someone else. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [25, F] contact my ex [29, M]? POST: Hi all :) any advice appreciated! Ex and I met over a year ago, when he was going through a big transition in his life - he broke up with his ex, moved from London back to his mum's in his hometown to help her out while still recovering from a back injury, got a new (shitty) job. At that time he was 27. We only dated for about 5-6 month, but we had insane connection. I can honestly say I was never in love before him although I had two 2-yeas-old relationships before him. The issue we had was his big transition in life. I was patient, supporting, but he felt like he couldnt give me his whole self and felt bad for it. He said he wished we met at a different time of his life and not to block him, delete him anywhere... we even suggested to keep saying to our mutual friends we were still together until his pulls himself out of his situation to which I said no. Getting over him was very very hard, but I respected his decision. After that we had no contact whatsoever for about a year and two days ago I stumbled across his IG and felt very empty in my heart. We have many peculiar similar interest, only good memories and seeing all that just made me very sad. That I found someone so perfect for me and I had to let him go. The thing is I believe he will contact me once his life is on a better track, but it's been a year and I know he still works at that shitty place which was his #1 problem why he was unhappy with his life. I am 25 now, I know there are plenty of other guys out there and I am not locking my heart, but trust me, this guy is some rare human species :) TL;DR: TL;DR: Broke up because he was in a bad life situation, year later I still miss him - should I get in touch or not? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I found a folder in my boyfriend's hard drive of random fb pictures of girls in bikinis with their bikinis photoshopped off. Is this weird or is this something guys really did? POST: Hi all. I am using a throwaway. I am 29f and my boyfriend is 32m. We have been dating for a little over a year. He lent me his hard drive and of course I gone and did what I shouldn't have. I went snooping. In his Pictures folder in his hard drive I found a folder of many different random girls I am assuming he found on facebook. all of the girls were originally in bikinis but the bikinis have been airbrushed out and replaced with basically what should be under those clothes. I was a bit shocked because this guy is a complete gentleman, or so I have been led to believe. The creepiest part is I saw some pictures of his ex as well. I guess I would probably have been more accepting of this album if he was doing it to random girls but this was a girl he had a connection with, a girl he loved, a girl who he supposedly have respected and still should respect. I am equal parts disgusted and creeped out. So reddit, what the hell? Men, do you really do this? Could he be practicing his photoshop skills or something? Why use his ex's pics? Oh and I guess this should also be a commentary about not posting your bikini pics on facebook, girls. I am now very happy and proud that I am very careful with the pics that I post. How will I approach him about this? Should I even? TL;DR: TL;DR: in boyfriend's hard drive I found a folder of random bikini pics of girls that have been airbrushed out, and a folder of his ex's photoshopped bikini pics. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] duration, short-description POST: Ok, so since I have more time, I've been thinking and I wanna ask you guys few questions. To what extent does a fangirl (noun) fangirl (verb)? And this is geared towards you fangirls for kpop and Free! (a show) and etc. You know, the manservices. ;) (First, let me set some premises about myself. I have a girlfriend and she's a huge fangirl. I don't really care and in fact, I'll support her. So my intention isn't aggressive, just curious. ) What the hell is this guy saying? Well let me explain. So often times, when you see a shirtless Sehun (kpop star) or a shirtless Haru (from Free!), I notice a lot that the typical reaction is "oh those triceps," or "I'd so feel his arm." I don't mind these comments, but how far are they supposed to go? Should you keep on going on about those fantasies even though you have a respective partner who you care about? And then that question brought me to another part. When a girl fangirls over a guys arms and abs to the point of wanted to feel it, would you feel it in reality if you could? Keep in mind that the scenario is that you've got a partner that you're dedicated to. Additionally, I was also wondering, what happens with a boy's respective fanboying. If the opposite partner were to fanboy about his idol's boobs saying that he'd feel it if he could, would that bother you as his girlfriend? Enlighten me here because I'm really just curious, but would you be offended? Personally, it seems like the same thing as a fangirl wanting to feel their idol's abs/arms. So yeah, tell me what you guys think~ Let's be nice about this cause they're only just questions. Lol. TL;DR: TL;DR: Wondering what extent fangirls go along with their partners fantasies/obsession over their idols arms/abs. Would you be offended at the idea of it? What about a boy's fanboying over his idol's boobs? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Should I [22m] tell my GF [22f] about my dinner plans with a friend whom I know has a crush on me but that I'm only interested in being friends with? POST: I've been in a relationship with GF for a bit over a year. I love her to death and she is the best woman I could ever think of being with. I have NO DESIRE to be with anyone but her. In fact, in a few weeks, I will be proposing to her. Recently, a friend [25f] whom I know is interested in me romantically, contacted me. I like hanging out and talking to her, but only on a platonic basis. I consider her somewhere between distant family and good friends. She asked if I wanted to go to dinner with her and a friend who would be in town and I agreed... but I don't know what to do about my SO? I don't want to bring her along because I don't want it to seem like I'm throwing my SO in her face, not to mention my SO is extremely sensitive about other women giving me a lot of attention, but I also don't want to hide things from my SO. Wat do? TL;DR: TL;DR: Should I tell my SO about my plans with a friend who has a crush on me but that I'm only interested in being friends with? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 F] and SO [34 M] for 1,5y, had a fight, he now wants money. POST: Last weekend I lost my temper. Ex became more and more controlling, making more demands and we couldn't discuss anything because that's what "normal" people do. Relationship counseling or any form of talking about an issue was met with disgust. Over the past few months there has been a lot of body shaming (telling me to cover up my "deformed parts") and making demands. I had enough, I was very unkind, asked him where we stood and told him how this behaviour made me feel. He stopped talking to me. Now he sends me a message, he wants gifts he gave me back and money. Again, a control thing. The money is less than $100 and the gifts are less than $60. This isn't an awful lot for either of us. I offered him to pay the money back months ago when he paid the bill for me, but according to him it was a gift. I just threw everything he asked for and everything he didn't ask for in a box, but started wondering if I should give in to this. Should I just ship the box and not the money (I want to clean up my house anyway), tell him to pick it up himself? I feel like I'm giving in again. Edit: I guess that is an overwhelming vote for ignore and not give in. Thanks for the perspective everyone! Really appreciate that! TL;DR: TL;DR: Broke up, ex is demanding items and money back. Don't know if I should give in. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My GF [23/F] lost my [23/M] keys and she is mad at my for being upset. POST: Yesterday my Gf that i live with lost my keys when at a café. (The keys have been found again this morning, but she is still angry at me for getting upset that they were lost to begin with.) She tells me that she was afraid to tell me they were lost to begin with, because she knew i would get upset. For me, it's not as much that she lost the keys but the fact that she told me that "These things happen" and i "shouldn't get upset over it." The keys were also not only for my apartment, but for my parents, our only mailbox key as well as our bike keys. I told her that it was a trust thing. I gave her something of mine and she lost it. She defends herself by saying that it wasn't as if she tried to lose them, it was an accident. She also says that it's not as if she was cheating so i shouldn't be this upset. Her grandparents are here as well, and she says that they too noticed i was angry today. This also happened right after i had to return the phone i bought her for BD present 6 months ago because of water damage. Who's in the wrong here? Am i over reacting? From her perspective, i shouldn't be angry at her because it was an accident. From my perspective, she lost something of mine and i felt that she didn't take it seriously. I'm an insanely pragmatic person, and i try to always take full responsibility for everything bad that happens to me, and i wish she would take responsibility for this instead of trying to make it my fault for being upset. I tried talking to her, and right now she is outside crying, so...yeah... TL;DR: TL;DR: GF lost my keys and i got upset. She justified it by saying that it was an accident and that i shouldn't be upset. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Can any frenchmen help me? POST: Recently, there was a person who came into my life. He knew he was going to me moving to France soon (I am in America) and he wanted to have a great time. He was in my house while my parents were, coming in uninvited with some other of my friends, and long story short, he convinced me to have a huge party, where he and some of his friends stole a lot of my families shit and left. I only recently discovered it was him, and I was wondering if any of you French people could help me locate him in France. I know that I could call up his parents (he is a minor) and get back the things that he stole from me. TL;DR: TL;DR: Some guy had a party in my house, stole my shit, and moved to France, and I need somebody to find him. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [20 M] with my friend who is a girl [20 F] To date or to be FWB? Been friends for a year or so. POST: kay, so I'm going to try to make this short and simple. Here goes.. A few months back, I went through a shitty breakup and some other stressful issues, getting to the point of depression and self-loathing. But at this time, I was chatting with a girl friend (friend who is a girl) and was getting close. I could tell that she had a crush on me and was sometimes coming on to me. So at that time, I kinda started going with it, though I was doubtful if I wanted an actual relationship. Anyways, at one point, we were kissing, but I stopped it and mentioned that I wasn't exactly ready for anything to develop yet, due to the previous reasons, so we didn't do anything. Felt bad for letting her down, but I still think she has a crush on me. Now it's at this time. I'm sorta lonely, wanting a real relationship with a partner that is almost like me in a way, but unique obviously. So, I look to my girl friend, who likes similar things to me and I've been having thoughts of giving the relationship thing a try with her. But yet, I have a strange feeling that the only reason I want a relationship is because of sex. I just don't want to hurt someone's feelings again (like my previous one, which she put part of the breakup on me for this) and I don't want to commit to a relationship if I don't have 100% on it. I do want to see where it goes, but yet not sure. So the question is if I just want to date her or just see if she'd be willing to go for a FWB situation, if possible? And another question, how do girls even feel about the FWB thing? And I'm not even sure if I want to ask her about FWB. I don't want to do anything to hurt our friendship or hurt anyone. I really don't want to be the asshole who just wants sex. So please help me out. TL;DR: TL;DR: I want a FWB relationship with a girl that likes similar things to me, but I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. My feelings are mixed on it. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: My best friend lives 200 miles away and thinks she is depressed. How can I help her feel better while also not sinking back into depression myself? POST: I'm not really sure where to begin or what to say.. I have been diagnosed with minor depression a few years ago, and as many people with depression know, some periods of time are much worse than others and I am currently in a very low state. My mum is a nurse and my best friend asked me if she can call up my mum to talk to her about something "medical". This turned out to be that she was feeling really rotten, thought she might have depression and didn't know what to do. I do know about these feelings because she has told me before, but she obviously doesn't feel like she wants to talk to me about it, probably out of embarrassment or awkwardness, which I completely understand, and I don't talk to her about my depression either. This being said, I really feel like now is the time to start talking to each other about it. We are going on holiday together in 10 days time, and while I don't really need advice on what to say to her, as it is easier when you have gone through it yourself, but more how to help us both out, without pulling myself down further in to my depression, as I find it is definitely easier to spiral down into depression when you are talking with someone who is also feeling down. Do I tell her what I've been through and how I'm feeling so that she knows she is not alone? Sorry if this isn't making any sense! TL;DR: TL;DR: Best friend is feeling depressed, what can I say to help her feel better? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskDocs TITLE: Ear pain, saw the doctor today. On decongestants due to the absence of an infection, any remedies to help with the pain until it clears? POST: Hey, this is just a very minor thing. I'm a 16 year old male, 6 ft, 155 lbs, white. I swim competitively, so I am in a lot of contact with water. I had some pain about a week ago, bought some swimmer's ear drops, and it cleared up. Pain came back in both ears yesterday, and I was taking ibuprofen so I could go through finals without distractions. I went to see the doc today and she seemed pretty calm about the whole thing. She said the ears weren't infected, and that the Eustachian tubes were probably blocked. I've taken 2 tablets of pseudoephedrine HCl as a decongestant, and the pain in one ear has lessened a good deal. The remaining pain still is apparent when I swallow and it does feel like there is pressure on the ear. After all of this backstory, I was just wondering is there are any remedies to help lessen this pain or address the problem. For example, would any from this list work well or are there any to avoid for my state? TL;DR: TL;DR: I've taken pseudoephedrine HCl decongestant, and I can still feel pain. That pain is not due to an infection, and the eustachian tubes are probably blocked. What are my options? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me 24F with my Ex-Boyfriend 24M, dated for few months 4 years ago, he has Leukemia. POST: Hey. I'll try to keep this short. I'm having a hard time seeing the situation objectively, and would like some advice. We'll call him Richard, and I broke up about 4 and a half years ago. We hadn't dated very long when he moved away for school. We decided to call it off. It was amicable. After this I started dating my current boyfriend, We'll call him Chandler. We'll have been dating for 4 years this fall. We're very happy. Through out this time, Richard has made it very clear that he still has strong feelings for me. Because of this I've kept him at a distance as not to put any strain on my relationship with Chandler. Recently, Last July, Richard contacted me saying he was sick and wanted to hang out. He didn't know what was ailing him yet, but was nervous. He promised he just needed a friend. His engagement just fell through as well, so he was feeling extra vulnerable. Chandler, not being the jealous type, agreed that being a shoulder for Richard was the right thing to do. This arrangement quickly went south as his feelings towards me were not well hidden and I felt like I was being sneaky, even though I was keeping Chandler well informed. It ended with Richard leaving me a message confessing his love and asking me to leave Chandler. We hadn't talked since.. Until today. Richard found out he has Leukemia, he wants to talk. TL;DR: TL;DR: ex-bf still has feelings for me despite our breakup 4 years ago. today we found out he has leukemia. should I continue the relationship? do i break it off now? help plz. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20M] boyfriend forgot our year anniversary and I [20F] don't know how to get over it. POST: Last week was my boyfriend and I's one year anniversary. We are long distance so I couldn't see him on the actual day but I planned a cute surprise weekend for us camping. We spent the night on beach and it was really cute. I had been planning and buying supplies for about 3 months. But he didn't do anything to mark our anniversary. I know money can be tight so i wasn't asking for much. I really just wanted something to show he was thinking about me even when I am away at school, but I got nothing. Not even something handmade (I love handmade stuff more and he knows that) or just an experience somewhere. For me this is still a fresh wound and really hurts my feelings, but he has just told me to drop it and just said a short apologies. When ever i brought it up the other day, it was the first day i said anything since camping, he just got upset and starting accusing me of saying he isn't good enough. This isn't the case I love him to death. I just wanted more effort. When I asked why he didn't get something he just says I don't know. I need advice on how to move on. Help me guys. TL;DR: TL;DR: My boyfriend forgot our year anniversary and managed to get mad at me for asking why. How can i move on? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Apartment has gone from flooding to unlivable and just got hit by a drunk driver. Reddit, what's your eff-this go-to? POST: Been dealing with an insane landlady for the last two months - constant flooding whenever it rained, and she kept claiming she was "dealing with it" with next to no real outcome. Finally responded to her lack of inaction by claiming I'd stop pay on my rent, and wanted out of the lease (have three months left) - especially since there's no heat (beyond portable space heaters) in the apartment. This turned into yelling, her entering my place and making a giant hole without asking to come in or explaining - and then pouring concrete over the crack. Run ahead 5 days - and there's now a batch of icky, icky mold that appeared over night since the last rainfall. On top of everything, crazy landlady obviously thinks she belongs in a bad cop film because her response to everything has been to call and yell, then hang up on me with giant amounts of "Do you understand me, Do YOU understand me?" Then to wrap up this week perfectly got hit by a drunk driver (thankfully no one was hurt) which tore up the front of the car. September - I want a do-over. TL;DR: TL;DR: my landlord sucks and I've got the mold and then got hit by a drunk driver to add more fun. What do you do to destress or deal with not awesome situations? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So this girl I really like [15F] and I [16M] have been really close for a while. [2ish years] We have been slowly moving apart. POST: It's to the point that I have to assert myself into her life. I think things have really gone down hill since she found out I had a thing for her. Yesterday, she actually talked to me. And it was about our relationship. I've brought it up in the past, telling her I always have and would be there if she needed me and got a 'k' reply. Anyways, she brought it up and said that "idk. I just feel like with all my good friends i tend to push them away. I'm sorry." I told her again, that I understand and that I like her for who she is not what she is, and everyone has the right to feel sad or upset. I don't know where to go from here. Thanks in advance. TL;DR: TL;DR: Girl I really like and I have been slowly drifting apart. She brought up that she feels like she does with all her good friends, and she's sad. I don't know what to do or how to handle the situation. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Pulled over, cuffed, detained in Cap Car, released...am I still at a risk of any legal action? POST: Tonight I hacked/changed a road sign in my city because I thought it would be funny, and ill tell you what, it is not. On my way home I was pulled over told my car matched the description of the person changing the sign that got called in, at first I lied, then he went to his car (I know I am stupid), he came back, told me to tell the truth because the guy described me too, so I said it was me, I did it as a joke, he then cuffed me, put me in the back of the car, went and spoke with another car for 20min came back and I told him I can put the sign back, he then read me my rights, I asked if I was under arrest, he said no I am detained and he is trying to make up his mind if he is going to put in my jail or not. he spent some time googling RCW (Revised Codes of Washington) then told he he was talking me back to fix the sign, we did, (side note I had to spell construction for him) he put me back in the car, told he that if he took me to jail I would be there until Monday, took me back to my car, asked me if I Learned anything, I told him yes...he then mumbled something about all this going on file and something about the prosecutor, got of of the car, un-cuffed me, gave me my keys, asked for my cell and home phone and told me to get of of there.... My Question: What just happened? I got no ticket or any paper of any sort, do I stand the risk of getting a ticket later? am I in the clear, what is my next step, obviously someone will say lawyer up, I deliver pizza part time, can't really afford that. TL;DR: TL;DR: hacked road sign, pulled over, cuffed, released. am i safe from legal action? what next step do i take??? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: Ethical grounds: Is it fair in my work environment to ask for a coworker that had an affair with my BF to be removed?? POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: TL;DR: My receptionist cheated with my bf. I want her fired. Is that ethical? It shows distrust and lack of respect for the workplace on her part and I no longer trust her, nor do I have a receptionist that I can function fully with, yet my overhead pays her wage. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: [United States] Need help! Divorce[kinda long sorry] POST: Im sorry if this isn't the right place to post this, if it is the wrong place, pm me the right subreddit and i will post there. I am 23 years old, and i got married when i was 17 years old. I was pregnant and i thought getting married was the best option for my daughter because i grew up in an unstable household and i wanted the best for my child. We were married in a court house in Michigan in 2008. I was very unhappy, and i left in 2012 and moved back to California to stay with friends. My daughter(his biological daughter as well) is still with my Husband. I knew if i took her with me to California i wouldn't have been able to support her, and take care of her the way she deserved. Since then i have been struggling just to live, i couldn't find a stable place to live, or a job. I bounced around from friend's house to friend's house. Now i am in a better place, and i have found someone i am extremely happy with. I am currently pregnant. I have been away from my Husband since 2012, we both dont want to be married any longer but i dont know anything about divorce. I understand that my rights as a parent with my daughter(who is with him) will most likely be taken away since i have not been with her since i left as well. I dont want custody of her because i know she is happy, and healthy with my husband and his family. [if that seems cold, its not, i just know she's happy there, and i can't take her away from her wonderful gma and gpa ] I want to divorce my husband, but i dont know what or even how to do this. I can't afford a lawyer, or to fly back to michigan for court dates, etc. TL;DR: TL;DR: I am a 23 year old female, who's been married since 2008 and whom hasn't lived with her husband since 2012. we have 1 child together, and im not fighting for custody. I dont know what to do, im quite uneducated in marriages/divorces and i need some advice/help please. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Unfair employment opportunities? POST: My boss just told us this week, two days in advance that his brother would be starting here on Friday, today. He is starting full time, right out of the gate. I am a full time employee and work up front, along with a few guys in the warehouse that are full time we all had to go through the "part time trial" time. Like 90 days or more? I started in September of last year and wasn't made full time until January. I stressed I wanted full time to begin with. This just seems wrong to me? My boss even went out to warehouse and told the supervisor to forget about the "regular" training like pulling orders for a designated amount of time since he would be full time just to teach him everything quick basically. Maybe I'm just personally upset but I feel like there's more there. I will also note that the place is shady in quite a few aspects. Also, I'm in Indiana, if that matters! Thanks in advance! TL;DR: TL;DR: my boss hired his brother full time right off the bat and I had to wait 3-4 months before being full time. Seems weird. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: [SV][NSV] F22 5'8" Officially lost 15 pounds and a pant size despite an emotional week last week. POST: Due to the beauty of the female body (*ahem*, **periods**) I was having a terrible week last week. I made the mistake of weighing myself and I had gained 5 pounds! I felt awful. I knew it was just from water retention, but I felt like I had done something wrong and was so distraught I almost tried to give up on dieting for the week. I wanted to buy chocolate and ice cream, but instead I begrudgingly stuck to my plan. Well everyone, great news! I reweighed my self this morning and not only did I lose those 5 pounds I had gained, but I also lost another 2. I'm so happy! I'm glad I stuck to my 1200 cal/day plan and didn't buy that ice cream because not only did I lose another two pounds, but I also fit into my old pants! I was out of clean clothes this morning, so I tried on an old pair of pants for giggles and guess what? They totally fit. I'm back to a US size 10 everybody and I am pumped. I think the takeaway here is to remember that even though it's easy to get discouraged by weight fluctuations, female or otherwise, that it is *worth it* to stick it out. Just keep pushing and remember that if you are truthful with yourself about what/how much you're eating and you stick to your plan then the weight will come off. You'll be glad you did. A big thank you to all of you inspiring folks out there who have lost so much! You guys are what keep me going. TL;DR: TL;DR: had a bad week, lost a lot of weight, and I'm now back to a US size 10 in my old jeans. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I(20F) don't know how to deal with this POST: So my S/O had two fwb before we started dating and I was okay it with but then I recently found out that he was messaging, sending and receiving nudes from other people. I read through some of the message and saw some of the pictures but I couldn't go on and decided to confront him the same night. I'm still together with him and trying to get through this but honestly it's just eating at me. I don't know what else to do. I asked him about it and he said he's been messaging other people throughout the whole time and it's just killing my confidence and it makes me feel like I'm not good enough and very insecure. TL;DR: TL;DR: he was unfaithful and I'm still with him. Needing advice and a new perspective Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Reconnected with old ex as friends, she's acting weird POST: Recently an old ex (F21) contacted me (M22) after not speaking for a year. We had dated for two years until a year ago, since then I have had a short relationship that recently ended. She said she regretted losing touch and wanted to catch up. I felt bad for cutting her off too because things ended pretty amicably and we had agreed to be friends. We caught up for coffee last week and things we pretty fun, no tension or weirdness. Now she's been texting me pretty frequently, which didn't set off any flags until she asked flat out if we were good hanging out as just friends. I was a little confused because I thought we had already established that, and hadn't given her any reason to think otherwise. She said she wanted to know that we're on the same page because she really wants to spend more time with me and not have things be awkward. She got sort of panicky when I she was acting strange about it though. I can't tell if this is her beating around the bush and trying to see if I want something more or her awkward way of trying to avoiding me doing something stupid. I don't think I've given her any signals, and honestly am not interested in starting up a relationship again. I just can't tell if she is and was trying to gauge how I felt or if she was worried that I might be interested in being more than friends, it could honestly go either way. Any thoughts? TL;DR: TL;DR: ex contacts me and things seem fine, suddenly wants to confirm we can just be friends. Not sure what she wants. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] have been with my SO [25 M] for 1 year, it's getting complicated because we want different things. POST: We were talking Wednesday night and I mentioned my past guys which I have a tendency to do that (I'm in the wrong). Things just escalated and we talked about us and what we want. I want to be his girlfriend and want to grow together. I'm pretty sure he knows that because I told him I want to move up the ladder someday and I wrote him 3/4 of poem a while back. The 1/4 of the poem I asked him out, but it never made it to him because I knew he wasn't ready. I am very patient with him and am willing to wait, just not forever. He doesn't know what he wants. His goal for now is to finish school(2 more years) and after that he doesn't even have any plans. What I understood from him was that even after he graduates, he still doesn't have any plans for any significant other. He also mentioned that one day, we might cross paths again.. whatever that means. Before I left his house that night we hugged for about 2 long minutes and I cried even more. I got into my car and he just froze for about 1 minute facing the other way( does he care or not? I'm so confused). I told him to get in the house and he turned around. We lightly kissed and I said I need more time to think about it. He said he wants to hear my voice(no text) when I make my decision. I am still stuck and I don't know what to do because I really really like him. I just feel like he doesn't like me enough since he has to think if he wants to be with me in the long run. TL;DR: TL;DR: My SO and I have different goals and I don't know what to do. I want to be with him and he wants to finish school and be single. I want to be with him and I want to grow together but he doesn't have any immediate plans. I need more time to think about it. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/cats TITLE: Adopted by neighborhood cat, what do? (X-post /r/pets) POST: So one of my neighbors has a thing for rescuing cats, last count put the number of cats at about 7 but one of the cats has "left" home a number of months ago and according to the cat lady, it no longer goes to her house to eat because of all the other cats she has. Over the past few months its been seen fairly regularly in our front yard(rocks with a lot of bushes and shrubs) but as of about the last week or so, it has been hanging out here far more consistently and it meows incessantly at me and family members whenever we step out front. Behaviorally, it's just like any other outdoor cat except that it'll now routinely let us pet it until its been fed. Like he'll walk up to us if we sit down on our walkway and start rubbing its sides against our legs and headbutting our hands so we'll pet it, purring occasionally. This usually carries on until we offer it food(chicken and/or tuna mostly) and once it eats, it'll run off for a better part of the day and come back in the evening. Also, it hasn't really tried following us inside or anything. If we do get up and walk away, it'll just sit there until we go inside/leave or sit back down and call to it. I'm just looking for tips and some advice on what to do with the cat because its clear its not getting its needs met by its owner but I'm still a little apprehensive about feeding it because the cat technically doesn't belong to me and there's the matter of ownership and all the legal issues that might arise. TL;DR: TL;DR: Someone else's rescue cat isn't getting it's needs met and has been looking to me to feed it and give it attention. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Tax filing question. X/post from r/tax POST: Good Evening Reddit, I am hoping someone may be able to shed some light on a tax situation I am in for 2015. I ended up losing my job in December 2014, and took an early withdrawal from my IRA in February 2015 to purchase a vehicle since my new job was much further away. The thought I had when I sold off shares in my IRA was that I could keep the amount I would pay in tax in the IRA, and withdraw it later to pay the tax bill, but allow me to keep investing for the duration of the year. I also had a lot of about $3-4K in medical bills that were paid over the course of the year. We are weighing using a CPA vs. going to Jackson Hewitt like we did last year, and have been leaning toward using a CPA. The only issue with that is the guy I would use is booked until 4/15, so now I am looking at filing an extension. TL;DR: TL;DR: I had a messed up year, and now don't know if I need an extension so I can work with a CPA, or just go back to Jackson Hewitt as we have done for many years previously. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/self TITLE: How to pickup girls at college parties? How to keep her interested? POST: I'm currently a freshman, and haven't spent a single sober weekend without going to parties friday/saturday and have made tons of friends through them. I always end up meeting women and talking to them, but i always hit the wall, where i can't think of anything more to talk about, and we just sort of stand there awkwardly until we slowly move away from each other. My friends always find some kind of common ground with the girls they meet at parties, but my interests are a bit....odd with the crowds that go to the house parties. For example, my hobbies include things like audio hardware/android software and hardware/more experimental or "hipster" music(oneohtrix point never or animal collective to name some of the more popular artists i listen to). Do you guys have any good general questions that could keep a conversation going? or any comments i should drop in to give a "clue" of what im trying to go for? thanks in advance for the answers! TL;DR: TL;DR: I'm a college freshman and I've met way too many girls at parties, but i can't think of anything to talk about at most of them. help? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I have a hard time seeing myself as a sexual person. POST: I'm 23 years old and I've never been in a relationship. The closest I've gotten is a month of talking and hooking up twice (no sex). I'm still a virgin as well. None of this really bothers me but I've had people say that I'm attractive and then not ask me out. Obviously not everyone who's attracted to my physical features is attracted to me as a person. That's no problem. But I think that the reason I haven't been approached for a serious relationship is because I'm not confident in either my physical attractiveness or my ability to hold my own in a relationship. I've never considered myself sexy, and I think when I try to be I feel like I end up looking awkward and like a weird dork. I'm also terrible at reading people's signals because I honestly have a hard time believing that people are interested in me. I also have a hard time expressing interest in others. I've been told I'm cute, but that's all I feel like I am or can be. Advice? TL;DR: TL;DR: I don't feel like I can be sexy, I don't see myself as sexy, and I have a hard time believing people can see me sexually/want me sexually. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27 M] wife [26 F] has had jealousy issues, impacting my ability to make female friends. How can I make more platonic friends with women in a healthy way? POST: In my 20s. I have not made many female friends in several years (only acquaintances), particularly because of my wife's jealousy issues and reactions. I personally have never been irresponsible or disloyal in that regard. But, since women are half the population and an important part of human relationship/community in general, I think it's important and I want to start nurturing more platonic friendships with women despite my wife. Is this possible? What are the best ways that are still respectful to my wife, yet also not so restrictive that it inhibits my growth as a person and a friend? I'm not sure I even know how to go about finding friendships with other women in the first place at this point. TL;DR: TL;DR: Wife has jealous issues that prevent me from making female friends. How can I do so in a healthy manner? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Too little too late POST: So I [19f] met this great guy over the summer, lets call him mike [21m]. We basically became FWB because I wasn't over another guy. He was into all different types of music, he was really the nicest guy ever and I really liked him as a person. He was hinting at trying to turn it official, but we lived really far away for school and like i said, i still wasn't over the other guy. I really just wasn't ready for what he was looking for. September he got a girlfriend, I told him I was happy for him and my aim was to leave him alone. He had other plans. He messaged me on Facebook every other day. His gf got pissed (rightly) but she deleted me off his Facebook without his permission (wrongly). As we were saying our last goodbyes he says "Thanks for reminding me what I stand for. You always brought out the best in me, even when I forget sometimes." I honestly believe that something like that will only be said to you a handful of times. I didn't know what to say at first, but after a while that line really started to touch me. But I left him alone because I respect other people's relationships. Now, I feel like a very different person than who I was in early August. A lot has happened (really). I realized the other day I am now looking for exactly what he was offering. I checked his closed off Facebook page a few days ago and there was a picture of only him- I was ecstatic- he only has his picture like that when single. I checked again today and there she was with him. He was looking as cute as ever. That really just stomped on all my dreams. Mostly though, I just want my friend back and I want him to recommend awesome music. TL;DR: TL;DR: Awesome guy came into my life too early and I recently realized that. I'm an idiot. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: New Coworker over sharing - help me interpret her behavior... POST: So, three weeks ago my company hired someone new that I'll be working very closely with. She works out of Texas, I work out of Oregon & our boss works out of Atlanta. I'd been covering her duties, in addition to mine for the past year, so I put together a transition plan & set up weekly calls with her to bring her up to speed. My boss wants me to mentor her. Btw, I'm male & 39. She's 54. We both have SOs. We'd both be considered "average" or "attractive" for our ages, given societal norms in the U.S. We've seen pics of each other on our online bios. We're both educated & have positions of authority, making well over $100K. Each call has gotten a little more personal. Yesterday on a call... somewhat out of the blue... she mentioned a time when she had to address an employee with hygiene issues. She used terms like 'pussy smelled like tuna', etc. Later in the convo, she said she enjoys naked hot tubbing. Also that she wants to go out drinking with me when were together in Atlanta next month (it's well known that I like to put a few back when traveling). She also mentioned that we should book a hotel away from where our other colleagues are staying so they don't get tje wrong idea about us drinking together....oh and she mentioned that she had a hysterectomy. We also talked a bit about our SOs and family life, kids, etc. Not sure how to interpret her openness. Is she trying to be one of the guys... does she want sex... testing the water? TL;DR: TL;DR: Coworker over sharing personal & potentially sexual stuff. Don't know how to interpret. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: I [19M] received an open-ended no. Can't tell if she [19F] is too nice to say no, or if it actually is an open window. POST: I'll preface by saying I'm generally not the most social person. I've been at college for about 7 weeks, and I've gotten to know a girl who lives on my floor in my dorm. We haven't had much interaction, just played a few board games, had a few conversations. She's intelligent and beautiful, and I'm interested. The other day I saw her sitting in the lounge. I thought, "Fuck all this dancing around. I'm interested, why should I pretend otherwise?" So I popped in and said, "Hey [19F], would you like to go on a date with me some time?" She said, "Ummm... what would we do?" I replied, "I hadn't thought that far ahead yet." (Probably not the greatest answer, but the truth). She replies, "Well, I don't know if I'd want to go as a date, but if you wanted to get dinner at the student center some time that'd be cool." I said "Sounds good :)" and went on my way. Now her answer seemed genuine, but she's an extremely personable person so I'm not sure if it was just her responding well to an awkward situation or what. As I said in the title, I'm not sure if she put in the dinner at the stu cen bit because she didn't want to say no, or if she just wants to get to know me better before considering a date? Either one seems kind of reasonable to me. Here's my dilemma: If I ask her to grab dinner with me and she only said it because she's too nice it could potentially become an extremely awkward situation. However, if I don't ask her, I could be missing a great opportunity. If I could get some feedback, that would be wunderbar. TL;DR: TL;DR: I asked a gal I don't know too well on a date. She said she would get dinner with me some time, not as a date. Not sure if open-ended no or she's just too nice to say no. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [23 M] SO, we have been dating for about 3 months, girlfriend was drunkenly kissed by one of her friends after we were hanging out at a bar. POST: SO and I have been dating for about 3 months and it seems like things have been going pretty well. Last weekend we arranged to meet at a bar in a nearby city(where she lives) for some drinks and we would each bring some friends to make it a social thing. As the night goes on everyone is having a good time but one of her friends is kind of interrogating me, which is fine since she is just looking out for her friend. My group, myself and one other, took the bus there since we couldnt find a DD. Once it gets close to 2 my friend starts calling cab companies so we have a plan to get home. Usually I crash at my SOs place but one of her friends was staying over and I didnt want to impose and assume the same with my friend in tow. In retrospect I should have just asked. I didn't want to be rude and ditch the only person that came with me so we managed to catch the last bus home. SO and I text where she mentions that the interrogating friend liked me until I left and is now super pissed. A few days later SO told me that on their way home interrogating friend, forgot to mention interrogating friend is a female, said "she deserves someone better" and kissed her/made out a bit. She said she felt weird and there was no emotion in it, it doesnt mean anything, sometimes that happens when girls get drunk etc....though she told me these things on the phone. I am seeing her later today and I am still not sure how I feel about the situation. At first I didnt really think too much of it but its started to creep in my head a bit I suppose. My plan is to talk to her about it later in person. Is this something I should be upset about or chastise myself for being a dumbass and leaving? TL;DR: TL;DR: SO's female friend drunkenly kissed SO after a night at the bar. I went home early so that my friend that joined us got home okay. Not sure how to feel? Could this be a warning sign for other stuff? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (22F) My SO (26M) got a job in the next state, how do I deal with a sudden LDR? POST: He and I have been together for over a year, have lived together for a year, and have a 5 month old son. I love him so much, and have spent every night for the past 1.5 years sleeping next to him. But he just started a job two days ago for a very nice job, about 10 hours away. While he'll be able to come back home for a week every now and then, he'll still be gone for at least a month at a time. I've only been alone for two days, yet I already feel depressed without him. I'm already on antidepressants for post-partum depression, but it feels worse already. I now have to learn how to essentially be a single mom... I already miss him so much. I can't imagine being away from him for this long! I'm stuck here because I'm in school, plus the prices of everything where he is is outrageous, so it would be smarter for me to stay so we can actually *save* money. I just feel at a loss. I don't know how to deal with this, I can't let myself get any more depressed--I have our baby to take care of! He calls every day, and when we can afford it, we'll get him a laptop so we can Skype, too. But yeah...any advice, please? TL;DR: TL;DR: My SO/father of my baby got a job 10 hours away, I'm already depressed without him. How do I deal with this? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/loseit TITLE: Timing of consumption doesn't matter (much) POST: Your body burns calories. You provide the calories by eating food, storing excess as adipose, using adipose to supplement deficiencies, it's an amazing system. Calories in < calories out and you lose weight, it's as simple as that, how we manipulate the formula is where it gets complex, some people like to exercise a lot to give them leeway on the calories, some are sedentary and rely solely on restricting input, and everything in between. As long as we get the in less than the out, we burn fat. The time of day that you put the calories into your body has a statistically insignificant impact on this calculation. Does your body burn fewer calories when you are sleeping than when you are awake and moving? Yes it does. Does it matter if you ate right before going to bed? No it doesn't, it's still calories in, calories out. Here is what I'm saying. If you aren't hungry at lunch time, don't eat just because you are supposed to. If you are cool with going to bed hungry, then do that, figure out the times that you feel most comfortable eating and go with that. If it keeps your calories where they need to be, then skipping eating here and there is only a good thing. TL;DR: TL;DR: eat when you are hungry, don't eat just because you are supposed to. If you are cool with going to sleep hungry, then do that, figure out the times that you feel most comfortable eating and go with that. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Help! Drug test re cannabis advice please. POST: Hey guys, I don't smoke or do drugs other than alcohol. I was on a work trip a few weeks ago and got way to drunk. Went home to a girls house and stayed with her. I don't remember much of the night but vaguely remember her having some weed/trying to roll something and smelling weed smoke. I'd like to think I wouldn't of been stupid to smoke any because my job has random drug tests but I'm just not sure. Obviously I was exposed to some second hand smoke I think, but I'm hoping like hell I didn't smoke any. My questions is... I have a drug test in the next few days and am shit scared. This happened almost exactly 3 weeks ago. If I did smoke a tiny bit(fucking hope I didn't, surely not...) then am I fucked? If so any hope for me? FYI I believe the testing is pretty stringent, it is urine based and seems rather high tech. Thanks for any comments or help. TL;DR: TL;DR: Got shitfaced, stayed at girls house, she smelled weed smoke. Would like advice on how to proceed with drug tests. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [19 F] gf of 2.5 years broke up with me [20 M] because she wants to know what its like to be single. POST: My girlfriend broke up with me nearly four months ago, and she said she doesn't know what it's like to be single, and that she didn't feel like a priority to me anymore. I'll be honest, both of those things are reasonable in my eyes as we're both young and I guess she wants to experience life/figure things out, and I have been rather distant lately because I took summer classes while she was 2 hours away at home and neither of us had cars to come visit each other. We rarely fought with each other, and when we did, it was always minor; no one ever yelled, and whatever conflict would be resolved quickly. I'm losing my mind. The second reason given above seems clearly why she broke up with me, and it's tearing me apart. Knowing that I could have done something. I got complacent, thinking that she'd always be there. Now I'm here dying inside hoping I haven't lost my best friend for good. We've texted a few times since we broke up. Conversations have been normal, like when we were together. There's no anger on either side. She says she loves me and misses me; a few nights ago she was drunk and called me 4 times while I was asleep at 3:00 AM and texted me things like "Please be awake, I want to hear your voice right now." Last night I was really sad/hysterical and told her that I love/miss her, she said the same thing back, but added "I'm sorry I stopped being happy." This false hope is killing me and I don't know what to do. TL;DR: TL;DR: My gf of two.5 years broke up with me after I didn't put effort into a relationship. I'm losing my mind. Now I'm dying inside because of my good friend who I love. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I[24M] had a three way with [21M] and [21F] a week ago, lingering feelings and general emotional confusion. POST: I recently had a threeway with a married couple couple and it was a wonderful experience. No jealousy for any of us and everyone really enjoyed themselves. My problem is that I can't stop thinking about the girl. I'm not really thinking about her in a star-struck lovey-dovey kind of way, but in a way that I seem to seek her attention and affection. Obviously, this is a problem to feel that way about a married woman in a relationship that only brings people in for sex and not polyamory. So I'm trying to figure out why I feel this way about her. I obviously find her attractive and we get along well, but it's clear that it's just sex to both of them (as was explicitly stated before we did anything). I cognitively understand my feelings are misplaced and, to be frank, I'm not even sure what those feelings are, I just find myself thinking about her often. My goal is to try to understand and reconcile these emotional feelings with the rational side of me that recognizes the healthiest way to interact with the couple is to have me not be involved. So, I have two questions. First, how can I understand and eventually reconcile my feelings for this woman? I very much enjoyed the threeway and their company and would hate to have stupid emotions get in the way. Second, why is it that I felt like this in the first place? I knew that it was going to be just for sex, but I still feel like I expected more. Any help / comments / suggestions would be much appreciated! :) TL;DR: TL;DR: had a three way with a married couple, had a great time and now I can't stop thinking about the woman. How can I reconcile my feelings with my rational side? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: When I was 16, I ruined my new car in an extremely dumb way. Reddit, What is the dumbest way you broke something you loved? POST: When I was 16, I had somehow managed to convince my parents to buy me a bimmer that was a few years old. I loved the shit out of that car, it was absolutely beautiful and way too cool for 16 year old me to have. The thing about this car was that it was stick. Now I had never been training in driving manual transition, so I pretty much taught myself how to do it on that car (Horrible Idea) Fast forward a month: My friends and I had been recruited by the mother of a girl from a local all girls school to be prom dates for her daughter + her friends. We arrived at the girl's house on gameday only to find out that there were 2 too many people for the Limo. I said its alright, I'll drive my own car. So my buddy and I are driving in my car to the location. **This is where dumbness takes over.** I figured if we were driving separately, we should have some fun by getting a little speed going. Generally when driving stick, people will shift down a gear to get a little speed increase. I decided 1 wasn't enough, and to shift down 2 gears from 5th to 3rd. However, things get dumber. I make the shift.... and end up going from 5th-1st. You never go from 5th to 1st. Cue intense shaking and loud noises and me thinking "WTF WTF WTF WTF". In the end, I blew out the transition on this newish bimmer I had just received. But we made it to the Prom still... TL;DR: TL;DR: I blew out of the transmission on my car shifting from 5th-1st by accident. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Is mental health issues considered sufficient enough to apply for a tuition refund appeal? POST: I dropped out of college. I'm very depressed, self-loathing, suicidal, and very anxious. Earlier this week, I ran out of my house with a duffel bag of clothes and I planned on taking the train somewhere not very nice, I wanted to get fucked up, drugged, fucked with, ect ect. I didn't care what happened to me because I seriously have no sense of desire to live. I honestly hoped to have died. I really wanted to. That being said, I didn't take the train...my boyfriend found me at the station (he knows me well) and got me to check into a shitty motel room with him for the night. I came back home, no one aware that I was planning on killing myself/doing something horrible to myself that night. I dropped out of school because I knew it just would not work out. I'd fail miserably and I'd be wasting everyone's time around me. I also knew that going would make me more miserable because I hate leaving the house and sometimes, my room. I literally just stay in my room for days in a row, only leaving to go pee or grab some food. Now I'm finally going to go see a therapist. I still have to get referred to one, but I really do want help. I hate the thought of creating pain for those around me, but I feel like I'm about to snap one day. I was close to finally doing it, and THAT'S what scares me. Since I dropped out, I owe me school 'x' amount of money. let's just say..it's substantial. My question: do colleges accept appeals based on mental health issues? Assuming I'd get proper documentation, of course. TL;DR: TL;DR: dropped out of school, suicidal/anxious/depressed. want to appeal for tuition refund but confused on how schools handle mental health issues. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with my friend [25 M]. I'm too inexperienced to tell if he was dropping hints. My friends think he just wants to hook up with me. POST: Basically, a friend of mine asked me out of the blue whether I had a boyfriend. I said no, and for a few awkward minutes he quizzed me about my previous boyfriend and what he was like and whether I broke up with him, etc. A few minutes later, he then asked what I thought about him. It was really sudden, so I was totally caught off guard. I said “I think you’re really nice!” He covered his face with his hands and laughed a little and seemed disappointed by my answer What kind of answer was he expecting from me? I’m not sure what he was looking for exactly with my response. Was he hinting at something? Or just genuinely curious? I wasn’t totally sure so I just responded honestly. I’m really inexperienced with flirting and dating so I am really confused about what exactly he wanted from me. I asked a few of my friends. Some of them were quick to tell me they don’t think he’s a good guy and that he probably just wants to hook up with me. I’m not sure why they think so just from what I told them (they don’t know him)… but again, I am really inexperienced. And maybe they picked up on something I didn’t notice from what I told them? Actually every time a guy hits on me or shows he's interested, some of my friends are always really dismissive of him and tell me that he just wants to hook up and that he'll move on to someone else soon. It kind of makes me nervous when guys approach me now, wondering if they always have some kind of motive. But this guy isn't like that I'm pretty sure, if only because we started off as friends. Not sure what to do or think. Honestly, I have feelings for him. But I'm not even sure if he feels the same way I do, or if he meant anything by what he said. TL;DR: TL;DR: Friend of mine (who I don't know very well) asked me out of the blue if I had a boyfriend. I said no, he then asked me what I thought of him. I responded to him honestly, but I don't know if he was trying to hint at something or just genuinely interested. Am I being paranoid? Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (26m) gf (22f) is having a friend stay over and I'm a bit distraught. POST: I've been with this girl for just a couple months but I fell for her hard and fast. Everything started out wonderful, but it's taken a turn south over the past few weeks. She has said she doesn't know what she wants or how she feels about us now. She has made no effort to see me in over a week (while previously wanting to see me every day). Then she said that she can't deal with how great I am to her and she doesn't deserve me thinking that she's such an awesome person. Before me, she had a long string of really shitty boyfriends (including one who tried to strangle her). She then made me feel awesome by saying that she's always been treated bad and that's what she needs. That she misses it. Now for tonight. She's barely been talking to me but I get a message that her friend's apartment got broken into and he will be sleeping at her house. I understand that I have no right to tell her what she can and can't do, but I really don't like that she didn't even ask how I felt. It doesn't help that I can be jealous (my ex wife cheated on me while I was out of town trying to make enough money so we wouldn't lose our house) and she knows it. And it seems that almost all of the friends she has are ones she's 'fucked' at some point. I don't know what to do. Has she just been slowly ending it? Am I an r-tard for even considering wanting to be with her still? TL;DR: TL;DR: Relationship has been heading south, she tells me male friend will be spending the night since his apartment was broken into. I'm very conflicted. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my on again off again girl [23 f], aren't together, but I think i'm in love. POST: First off this is going to be really long, I apologize. I have been broken up with this girl for about three years. I have been with another girl for two years. I am happy. I really am. Do you know that saying the one that got away. I would always text this one girl hey, or whats up. I knew she'd never respond, but that was okay. Just pretending she got it was okay. (On a side note I know this sounds stalkerish, but when we broke up as we have several times she said it was because she ran from deep commitment.) Now flash forward to a month ago. I was with my current girlfriend walking into my local Barnes and Noble book store. The person who was in front of me was her. I had no idea why she wasnt away at her school, but I knew it was her. I wanted so badly to say something say anything, but I didn't. I let her walk away. I talked to her over social media later, just exchanged pleasantries. Nothing more. I don't care if she forgets me. Its more I want to keep that relationship there, no matter how slight. I know I still love her. I kinda think I always will. When I think of growing old it is with her. At the end of the day if I could see only one face before I fall asleep it would be hers. What do I do reddit? TL;DR: TL;DR: I think I'm in love, but I am. I can't do anything about it. I don't know what to do. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Help me, please? POST: okay, so basically my parents have gotten to the point of me not being able to tolerate them any longer. I don't have control over any aspect of my life. I have a curfew of 7 pm on weekends, 4 pm on school nights, no going to girls houses ever no matter what my intentions (friends that are female, friends that are male and have similarly aged siblings that tag along, girlfriend even if her parents are home), no having more than $5 dollars on me at any one time unless I'm in a shopping mall and they are present in the building, and the one thing that pisses me off more than anything; the fact that I'm 17 and I'm not allowed to stay up past 10. They literally take my ipod, phone (which i payed and still pay the bill for), and Ps3 and entire entertainment unit out of my room. If you're still reading, cats. TL;DR: TL;DR: my parents are killing me, please help. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31/M] dating [27/F] and her availability is a problem POST: Need some advice on this one. Met 27/F through online dating back in November. Got to meet her in December just before the holidays and we hit it off, similar background, some shared interests, and an obvious desire to go out again. We agreed to hold off until after xmas and new years since that's a complicated time to start dating new people. Our first date after new years was a day date on a Sunday, very relaxing and we both seemed to have a good time. Subsequent date (in Jan.) was dinner/movie (traditional, I know), and another dinner a few weeks later (now Feb.). No sex, but there has been some kissing/intimacy. I am frustrated at the large gaps in time between our dates, and that doesn't seem to be improving. She travels a lot for work, whereas I travel only occasionally. It's now February and it seems bizarre to me to only be a few dates in with her. I genuinely like her and want to build something positive, however I have avoided talking to her about this as I can't gauge if she's just taking things slow or whether I am being kept at arms length due to other people in her life. She's travelling again over valentine's day, which sucks. Left with the question, do I just relax, go with the flow, keep going on dates, and let the chips fall where they may? TL;DR: TL;DR: Met, stayed friend, no sex, lots of dates with her, she's travelling but idk if she's just taking things slow or if she's not interested. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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Post: SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [31 M] with my girl [24 F] for 8 years. Broke up over the summer due to me cheating. Came back...But now it's rough. POST: Currently with my girlfriend who I've been with for about 8 years. Over the summer we broke up due to me cheating and it was hard on me. She was out having fun and I did too but I was super depressed. Begging for her back (which I regret), calling her 1000 times pleading my case. She pretty much wasn't going for it. Most likely because she was seeing some new guy...(32...detective...nice car...crib). She was into him but then suddenly she slowly started to come back to me. Eventually we got back together but of course she still doesn't trust me. We had sex the first 2 days we got back together but ever since then the sex has been non existent. She either says she's tired/has to get up early (Nursing school) or she'll say "i still dont trust you". I can't lie it pisses me off but I guess thats the price I have to pay right? It's starting to feel like she's second guessing coming back to me ...and I admit sometimes I do. But I love her. Maybe she believed that I would change the way I said I would when she was gone ...and I'm not showing change. What do i do? Any advice/Suggestions would be appreciated. How Do I get it back to how things used to be? Is That Possible? TL;DR: TL;DR: 1. Girlfriend broke up with me due to me cheating, got back together but now things are different. Does this summary correctly capture the main points of the post?
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