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Ex Girlfriend [F 18] says she wants to get back together with me [M 18] after she dumped me two months ago.
My ex [F 18], dumped me [M 18] over Facebook while she was holidaying. Harsh right? We had been going out for 6 months and i'd never felt so strongly about a girl before.. She also never gave me a reason why she dumped me.. It's two months later and I've only just got out of missing her. We talked, in that time a bit. She wanted to be friends with benefits in that time but I turned it down. Now she wants me back. She said she misses me and she didn't know why she broke up with me in the first place. I said we should take it slow and work things out which she is happy with. Too bad I can't keep to that. I'm getting my old feelings back and i'm going to get needy. I can feel it. I'ts just hard because I don't want to lose her. But at the same time. I don't know if It's a good idea to take her back. I know, Fucked aye? Anyways, making my Reddit posting debut so sorry if I did a shit job.
My ex wants me back, after I just stopped missing her I said we'd take it slow, but I can feel myself getting too attached already after a week.
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Ex Girlfriend [F 18] says she wants to get back together with me [M 18] after she dumped me two months ago. POST: My ex [F 18], dumped me [M 18] over Facebook while she was holidaying. Harsh right? We had been going out for 6 months and i'd never felt so strongly about a girl before.. She also never gave me a reason why she dumped me.. It's two months later and I've only just got out of missing her. We talked, in that time a bit. She wanted to be friends with benefits in that time but I turned it down. Now she wants me back. She said she misses me and she didn't know why she broke up with me in the first place. I said we should take it slow and work things out which she is happy with. Too bad I can't keep to that. I'm getting my old feelings back and i'm going to get needy. I can feel it. I'ts just hard because I don't want to lose her. But at the same time. I don't know if It's a good idea to take her back. I know, Fucked aye? Anyways, making my Reddit posting debut so sorry if I did a shit job. TL;DR:
My ex wants me back, after I just stopped missing her I said we'd take it slow, but I can feel myself getting too attached already after a week.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: Ex Girlfriend [F 18] says she wants to get back together with me [M 18] after she dumped me two months ago. POST: My ex [F 18], dumped me [M 18] over Facebook while she was holidaying. Harsh right? We had been going out for 6 months and i'd never felt so strongly about a girl before.. She also never gave me a reason why she dumped me.. It's two months later and I've only just got out of missing her. We talked, in that time a bit. She wanted to be friends with benefits in that time but I turned it down. Now she wants me back. She said she misses me and she didn't know why she broke up with me in the first place. I said we should take it slow and work things out which she is happy with. Too bad I can't keep to that. I'm getting my old feelings back and i'm going to get needy. I can feel it. I'ts just hard because I don't want to lose her. But at the same time. I don't know if It's a good idea to take her back. I know, Fucked aye? Anyways, making my Reddit posting debut so sorry if I did a shit job. TL;DR: My ex wants me back, after I just stopped missing her I said we'd take it slow, but I can feel myself getting too attached already after a week.<|endoftext|>
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Me [24F] with my SO [25M] of 2 years. We've lost the 'spark'. How to get it back?
My SO and I live together. We just recently had a very long talk where we made it clear that he and I have lost the 'spark' to our relationship. We know that long term relationships will not ever be like the beginning honeymoon stages of new romance but we're not sure how to rekindle the romance with each other again. There's very little romance with us, everything is so domestic. We both agreed that we love each other and want to work on it rather than just give up, we're just not too sure how to do it. I need your help. I don't know if something like going out on dates once a week or something is going to help, but I'm open to all suggestions.
SO and I decided we needed to rekindle our romance, ignite that 'spark' again. How do we do this? What experience have you guys had with this?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my SO [25M] of 2 years. We've lost the'spark'. How to get it back? POST: My SO and I live together. We just recently had a very long talk where we made it clear that he and I have lost the'spark' to our relationship. We know that long term relationships will not ever be like the beginning honeymoon stages of new romance but we're not sure how to rekindle the romance with each other again. There's very little romance with us, everything is so domestic. We both agreed that we love each other and want to work on it rather than just give up, we're just not too sure how to do it. I need your help. I don't know if something like going out on dates once a week or something is going to help, but I'm open to all suggestions. TL;DR:
SO and I decided we needed to rekindle our romance, ignite that 'spark' again. How do we do this? What experience have you guys had with this?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] with my SO [25M] of 2 years. We've lost the'spark'. How to get it back? POST: My SO and I live together. We just recently had a very long talk where we made it clear that he and I have lost the'spark' to our relationship. We know that long term relationships will not ever be like the beginning honeymoon stages of new romance but we're not sure how to rekindle the romance with each other again. There's very little romance with us, everything is so domestic. We both agreed that we love each other and want to work on it rather than just give up, we're just not too sure how to do it. I need your help. I don't know if something like going out on dates once a week or something is going to help, but I'm open to all suggestions. TL;DR: SO and I decided we needed to rekindle our romance, ignite that 'spark' again. How do we do this? What experience have you guys had with this?<|endoftext|>
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Very recently separated, married 11+ years
Wife left me less than a week ago on my birthday, with the question 'How would your life be without me in it?' I had known we were drifting apart but it still took me for a ride. When she got home, I tried to talk to her about it, but she was having none of it. Eventually, this led to her saying very painful things about our time together. Some background details: When we married she helped me get custody of my then 3 year old daughter, who was in an abusive household and has been the only mother she knows. We both have mental health issues, She is PTSD and bipolar, while I have ADHD combo type and have anxiety issues. Other contributing factors: I was arrested last year for a felony embezzlement charge, which I just completed a diversion program so it wont fuck up me life. Could have fought the charge due to some really bad combo's of medicine that really skewed my sense of reality and it being such a low amount. But I have taught my daughter about taking responsibility for your actions, so I didnt want to take the easy way out. About 18 months ago, she went through weight loss surgery, and has not been back to work for more than 2-3 due to her fucking up her back and being out on workmans comp since September. She has agreed to help my daughter and I find a new place to live that is in the current school district as I could barely afford the place we are in now. She will help us with the bills she is paying currently until we find a new place, under 250 a month. She also wants to continue to be my daughter's mom even though she is bolting half a state a way. I have been getting sleep better in the past 3 nights than I thought possible, I am pretty much at each with all this now.
I am a 35 year old recently single father with a 14 year old daughter. WTH do I do with my life now?
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Very recently separated, married 11+ years POST: Wife left me less than a week ago on my birthday, with the question 'How would your life be without me in it?' I had known we were drifting apart but it still took me for a ride. When she got home, I tried to talk to her about it, but she was having none of it. Eventually, this led to her saying very painful things about our time together. Some background details: When we married she helped me get custody of my then 3 year old daughter, who was in an abusive household and has been the only mother she knows. We both have mental health issues, She is PTSD and bipolar, while I have ADHD combo type and have anxiety issues. Other contributing factors: I was arrested last year for a felony embezzlement charge, which I just completed a diversion program so it wont fuck up me life. Could have fought the charge due to some really bad combo's of medicine that really skewed my sense of reality and it being such a low amount. But I have taught my daughter about taking responsibility for your actions, so I didnt want to take the easy way out. About 18 months ago, she went through weight loss surgery, and has not been back to work for more than 2-3 due to her fucking up her back and being out on workmans comp since September. She has agreed to help my daughter and I find a new place to live that is in the current school district as I could barely afford the place we are in now. She will help us with the bills she is paying currently until we find a new place, under 250 a month. She also wants to continue to be my daughter's mom even though she is bolting half a state a way. I have been getting sleep better in the past 3 nights than I thought possible, I am pretty much at each with all this now. TL;DR:
I am a 35 year old recently single father with a 14 year old daughter. WTH do I do with my life now?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: Very recently separated, married 11+ years POST: Wife left me less than a week ago on my birthday, with the question 'How would your life be without me in it?' I had known we were drifting apart but it still took me for a ride. When she got home, I tried to talk to her about it, but she was having none of it. Eventually, this led to her saying very painful things about our time together. Some background details: When we married she helped me get custody of my then 3 year old daughter, who was in an abusive household and has been the only mother she knows. We both have mental health issues, She is PTSD and bipolar, while I have ADHD combo type and have anxiety issues. Other contributing factors: I was arrested last year for a felony embezzlement charge, which I just completed a diversion program so it wont fuck up me life. Could have fought the charge due to some really bad combo's of medicine that really skewed my sense of reality and it being such a low amount. But I have taught my daughter about taking responsibility for your actions, so I didnt want to take the easy way out. About 18 months ago, she went through weight loss surgery, and has not been back to work for more than 2-3 due to her fucking up her back and being out on workmans comp since September. She has agreed to help my daughter and I find a new place to live that is in the current school district as I could barely afford the place we are in now. She will help us with the bills she is paying currently until we find a new place, under 250 a month. She also wants to continue to be my daughter's mom even though she is bolting half a state a way. I have been getting sleep better in the past 3 nights than I thought possible, I am pretty much at each with all this now. TL;DR: I am a 35 year old recently single father with a 14 year old daughter. WTH do I do with my life now?<|endoftext|>
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Redditors, I'm graduating with my Bachelors in May and hopefully continuing on to Law School in the fall. I'm scared shitless of becoming a real adult. What is the most important advice you wish you would have had upon graduating?
Where I'm coming from: I am about to begin my last semester of my undergraduate degree before I hopefully go on to law school (waiting to hear back). I will likely move somewhere somewhere different to continue my education, leaving behind my family (I study 1 hr from home) and close friends. I've applied to some local law schools, but am ready to leave this state. What is particularly tough is I've been in a wonderfully fulfilling relationship with an amazing guy for almost two years. He has a job offer close to home and has to accept or decline by the end of this month. He has applied for jobs in some of the same areas as law schools I've applied to, but no definitive offers yet from those. I will make my decisions for my future based on seeking my own personal fulfillment, but I'm devastated at the thought of not being with this person- he is so, so special. I'm not ready to leave him. And I'm not really sure if I'm ready to be far from home yet. It's scary to think I'm about to gain greater independence from my parents and become a citizen of the world. So, my fellow Redditors, any advice on how to take this time of transition in stride? Thank you so much for your consideration- Reddit has been such a saving grace for me, and I'd be grateful for those older and wiser to leave their insight.
Last semester of college, hopefully going to law school, scared of the thought of leaving everyone and everything I know behind, especially long term boyfriend. HELP!
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors, I'm graduating with my Bachelors in May and hopefully continuing on to Law School in the fall. I'm scared shitless of becoming a real adult. What is the most important advice you wish you would have had upon graduating? POST: Where I'm coming from: I am about to begin my last semester of my undergraduate degree before I hopefully go on to law school (waiting to hear back). I will likely move somewhere somewhere different to continue my education, leaving behind my family (I study 1 hr from home) and close friends. I've applied to some local law schools, but am ready to leave this state. What is particularly tough is I've been in a wonderfully fulfilling relationship with an amazing guy for almost two years. He has a job offer close to home and has to accept or decline by the end of this month. He has applied for jobs in some of the same areas as law schools I've applied to, but no definitive offers yet from those. I will make my decisions for my future based on seeking my own personal fulfillment, but I'm devastated at the thought of not being with this person- he is so, so special. I'm not ready to leave him. And I'm not really sure if I'm ready to be far from home yet. It's scary to think I'm about to gain greater independence from my parents and become a citizen of the world. So, my fellow Redditors, any advice on how to take this time of transition in stride? Thank you so much for your consideration- Reddit has been such a saving grace for me, and I'd be grateful for those older and wiser to leave their insight. TL;DR:
Last semester of college, hopefully going to law school, scared of the thought of leaving everyone and everything I know behind, especially long term boyfriend. HELP!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Redditors, I'm graduating with my Bachelors in May and hopefully continuing on to Law School in the fall. I'm scared shitless of becoming a real adult. What is the most important advice you wish you would have had upon graduating? POST: Where I'm coming from: I am about to begin my last semester of my undergraduate degree before I hopefully go on to law school (waiting to hear back). I will likely move somewhere somewhere different to continue my education, leaving behind my family (I study 1 hr from home) and close friends. I've applied to some local law schools, but am ready to leave this state. What is particularly tough is I've been in a wonderfully fulfilling relationship with an amazing guy for almost two years. He has a job offer close to home and has to accept or decline by the end of this month. He has applied for jobs in some of the same areas as law schools I've applied to, but no definitive offers yet from those. I will make my decisions for my future based on seeking my own personal fulfillment, but I'm devastated at the thought of not being with this person- he is so, so special. I'm not ready to leave him. And I'm not really sure if I'm ready to be far from home yet. It's scary to think I'm about to gain greater independence from my parents and become a citizen of the world. So, my fellow Redditors, any advice on how to take this time of transition in stride? Thank you so much for your consideration- Reddit has been such a saving grace for me, and I'd be grateful for those older and wiser to leave their insight. TL;DR: Last semester of college, hopefully going to law school, scared of the thought of leaving everyone and everything I know behind, especially long term boyfriend. HELP!<|endoftext|>
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Should social media be a problem in my two year relationship between a [20/m] and [20/F]?
So I've always been bothered by my girlfriend posting selfies of herself on instagram/tumblr. In my head, posting selfies of yourself is to get attention from other people. My girlfriend posts selfies that are usually chest up, but occasionally are full body mirror shots. The pictures aren't nude and don't show any goods but it bugs me that her curvey figure is out there for people to look at and like. Her need for attention is what bothers me. I've talked to her about it before and have told her how I don't like them and that it bothers me that she puts them up. But still, she puts one up about once a week. Now I get this is may be my insecurity speaking but am I wrong to think that if something bothers me she should respect my feelings and not do it? Meanwhile, she tells me how she likes me not having social media and that it's a plus to her. So I've deleted my Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram as a result. In return, I get nothing. Her facebook does not have her relationship status listed either. So am I being too insecure and controlling? Or should she care more that it bugs me?
My girlfriend doesn't like me on social media so I've deleted all of my accounts. Meanwhile, she posts selfies even though I let her know I don't like them.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should social media be a problem in my two year relationship between a [20/m] and [20/F]? POST: So I've always been bothered by my girlfriend posting selfies of herself on instagram/tumblr. In my head, posting selfies of yourself is to get attention from other people. My girlfriend posts selfies that are usually chest up, but occasionally are full body mirror shots. The pictures aren't nude and don't show any goods but it bugs me that her curvey figure is out there for people to look at and like. Her need for attention is what bothers me. I've talked to her about it before and have told her how I don't like them and that it bothers me that she puts them up. But still, she puts one up about once a week. Now I get this is may be my insecurity speaking but am I wrong to think that if something bothers me she should respect my feelings and not do it? Meanwhile, she tells me how she likes me not having social media and that it's a plus to her. So I've deleted my Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram as a result. In return, I get nothing. Her facebook does not have her relationship status listed either. So am I being too insecure and controlling? Or should she care more that it bugs me? TL;DR:
My girlfriend doesn't like me on social media so I've deleted all of my accounts. Meanwhile, she posts selfies even though I let her know I don't like them.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Should social media be a problem in my two year relationship between a [20/m] and [20/F]? POST: So I've always been bothered by my girlfriend posting selfies of herself on instagram/tumblr. In my head, posting selfies of yourself is to get attention from other people. My girlfriend posts selfies that are usually chest up, but occasionally are full body mirror shots. The pictures aren't nude and don't show any goods but it bugs me that her curvey figure is out there for people to look at and like. Her need for attention is what bothers me. I've talked to her about it before and have told her how I don't like them and that it bothers me that she puts them up. But still, she puts one up about once a week. Now I get this is may be my insecurity speaking but am I wrong to think that if something bothers me she should respect my feelings and not do it? Meanwhile, she tells me how she likes me not having social media and that it's a plus to her. So I've deleted my Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram as a result. In return, I get nothing. Her facebook does not have her relationship status listed either. So am I being too insecure and controlling? Or should she care more that it bugs me? TL;DR: My girlfriend doesn't like me on social media so I've deleted all of my accounts. Meanwhile, she posts selfies even though I let her know I don't like them.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by watching a video featuring Hitler with my 2 year old daughter.
Okay, you know that Hitler scene taken from that movie "Downfall" where you can put in words and make your own video, well it was a recent one of those. So, it is more like an actor playing Hitler, but same affect. Well, I decided to watch one because it has to do with the Seattle Seahawks and the Green Bay Packers, and given that I am a Hawks fan, it seemed relevant. The problem is that my daughter wants to be involved with everything, so I let her watch it without a second thought. Despite not understanding what was going on, she was busting up laughing the entire time. She loved it, and her laughter was cracking me up. No harm done. Until a moment later when my daughter is screaming like Hitler was in the video. My daughter only turned 2 less than a month ago, but believe me, she speaks very well for her age, and her Hitler impression is about as good as it can possibly be for a 2 year old. My daughter now screams like Hitler at people at the grocery store, the park, and everywhere else we go. For anyone interested, here is the video:
I watched a video of Hitler with my 2 year old daughter and now she screams at people like Hitler wherever we go.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by watching a video featuring Hitler with my 2 year old daughter. POST: Okay, you know that Hitler scene taken from that movie "Downfall" where you can put in words and make your own video, well it was a recent one of those. So, it is more like an actor playing Hitler, but same affect. Well, I decided to watch one because it has to do with the Seattle Seahawks and the Green Bay Packers, and given that I am a Hawks fan, it seemed relevant. The problem is that my daughter wants to be involved with everything, so I let her watch it without a second thought. Despite not understanding what was going on, she was busting up laughing the entire time. She loved it, and her laughter was cracking me up. No harm done. Until a moment later when my daughter is screaming like Hitler was in the video. My daughter only turned 2 less than a month ago, but believe me, she speaks very well for her age, and her Hitler impression is about as good as it can possibly be for a 2 year old. My daughter now screams like Hitler at people at the grocery store, the park, and everywhere else we go. For anyone interested, here is the video: TL;DR:
I watched a video of Hitler with my 2 year old daughter and now she screams at people like Hitler wherever we go.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by watching a video featuring Hitler with my 2 year old daughter. POST: Okay, you know that Hitler scene taken from that movie "Downfall" where you can put in words and make your own video, well it was a recent one of those. So, it is more like an actor playing Hitler, but same affect. Well, I decided to watch one because it has to do with the Seattle Seahawks and the Green Bay Packers, and given that I am a Hawks fan, it seemed relevant. The problem is that my daughter wants to be involved with everything, so I let her watch it without a second thought. Despite not understanding what was going on, she was busting up laughing the entire time. She loved it, and her laughter was cracking me up. No harm done. Until a moment later when my daughter is screaming like Hitler was in the video. My daughter only turned 2 less than a month ago, but believe me, she speaks very well for her age, and her Hitler impression is about as good as it can possibly be for a 2 year old. My daughter now screams like Hitler at people at the grocery store, the park, and everywhere else we go. For anyone interested, here is the video: TL;DR: I watched a video of Hitler with my 2 year old daughter and now she screams at people like Hitler wherever we go.<|endoftext|>
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I [19M] didn't want a friends with benefits relationship with my ex [21F] things got out of control from there...
This is a repost just because I forgot to tag this the first time, sorry I'm new to this. So I only saw my most recent ex girlfriend for five months, but we go to the same school so it was very time/sexually intensive. I'm somewhat of a prude and I haven't been with many people so this was something entirely new to me. We have so many mutual friends and we go to a small school in the midwest. She's extremely popular and known by everyone and many people out there and heavily involved in the most exclusive clubs on campus. So we dated for 5 months and I went all out on her. We traveled, I bought her gifts, and did so many random romantic things for her. She did not really give me back much but I figured she had a much higher status and was a much better person than I was so that was ok, I was the one who was supposed to be reaching. I dropped the L bomb, she didn't requite. We came back from spring break and she broke up with me because things felt different. I was under a lot of pressure and I was not able to be the totally fun, carefree person she had come to love so she ended it. Tt was really tough but I was ok with it in a way I still can't explain. Immediately (1 day) after we broke up she wanted to get back together, but not officially. She wanted an open or friends with benefits relationship. I tried it for two weeks and it was too much for me and so I ended it. She was really pissed off and found someone new about two weeks later. He is also very heavily involved in our school and he lives in the building next to me and many of my best friends, even one of my roommates are really close with him. She ignores me now and I feel like a complete loser. I've even gone to a psyche crisis center from what all of this has caused me and started going to therapy. I feel like the excluded loser now and even though I know it's not true I feel that way. I need some help.
Ex who treated me badly wanted to be FWB, I didn't want to. Is now seeing one of my friends
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] didn't want a friends with benefits relationship with my ex [21F] things got out of control from there... POST: This is a repost just because I forgot to tag this the first time, sorry I'm new to this. So I only saw my most recent ex girlfriend for five months, but we go to the same school so it was very time/sexually intensive. I'm somewhat of a prude and I haven't been with many people so this was something entirely new to me. We have so many mutual friends and we go to a small school in the midwest. She's extremely popular and known by everyone and many people out there and heavily involved in the most exclusive clubs on campus. So we dated for 5 months and I went all out on her. We traveled, I bought her gifts, and did so many random romantic things for her. She did not really give me back much but I figured she had a much higher status and was a much better person than I was so that was ok, I was the one who was supposed to be reaching. I dropped the L bomb, she didn't requite. We came back from spring break and she broke up with me because things felt different. I was under a lot of pressure and I was not able to be the totally fun, carefree person she had come to love so she ended it. Tt was really tough but I was ok with it in a way I still can't explain. Immediately (1 day) after we broke up she wanted to get back together, but not officially. She wanted an open or friends with benefits relationship. I tried it for two weeks and it was too much for me and so I ended it. She was really pissed off and found someone new about two weeks later. He is also very heavily involved in our school and he lives in the building next to me and many of my best friends, even one of my roommates are really close with him. She ignores me now and I feel like a complete loser. I've even gone to a psyche crisis center from what all of this has caused me and started going to therapy. I feel like the excluded loser now and even though I know it's not true I feel that way. I need some help. TL;DR:
Ex who treated me badly wanted to be FWB, I didn't want to. Is now seeing one of my friends<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [19M] didn't want a friends with benefits relationship with my ex [21F] things got out of control from there... POST: This is a repost just because I forgot to tag this the first time, sorry I'm new to this. So I only saw my most recent ex girlfriend for five months, but we go to the same school so it was very time/sexually intensive. I'm somewhat of a prude and I haven't been with many people so this was something entirely new to me. We have so many mutual friends and we go to a small school in the midwest. She's extremely popular and known by everyone and many people out there and heavily involved in the most exclusive clubs on campus. So we dated for 5 months and I went all out on her. We traveled, I bought her gifts, and did so many random romantic things for her. She did not really give me back much but I figured she had a much higher status and was a much better person than I was so that was ok, I was the one who was supposed to be reaching. I dropped the L bomb, she didn't requite. We came back from spring break and she broke up with me because things felt different. I was under a lot of pressure and I was not able to be the totally fun, carefree person she had come to love so she ended it. Tt was really tough but I was ok with it in a way I still can't explain. Immediately (1 day) after we broke up she wanted to get back together, but not officially. She wanted an open or friends with benefits relationship. I tried it for two weeks and it was too much for me and so I ended it. She was really pissed off and found someone new about two weeks later. He is also very heavily involved in our school and he lives in the building next to me and many of my best friends, even one of my roommates are really close with him. She ignores me now and I feel like a complete loser. I've even gone to a psyche crisis center from what all of this has caused me and started going to therapy. I feel like the excluded loser now and even though I know it's not true I feel that way. I need some help. TL;DR: Ex who treated me badly wanted to be FWB, I didn't want to. Is now seeing one of my friends<|endoftext|>
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Me [21 M] with my Friend [21 M] a couple years, I have feelings for him, need help
Hey reddit. i'm a guy, a senior in college, and recently started accepting the fact that I like other dudes. I've never been in a romantic relationship and I really like having close friends because they're the closest I can get to being in a romantic relationship (i'll explain more further down). Also, seeing as i'm gay, many societal and religious forces have discouraged me from pursuing a gay relationship/marriage. And I really don't feel comfortable being in one for that reason. This is a problem because it makes me very insecure about my friendships since these relationships are the "epitome" of whatever kind of intimacy I'll ever have with another human being. I feel like my friends don't put in as much effort as I do in the friendship because they have tangible romantic relationships or the IDEA of having one (getting married in the future, etc.) that they can fall back on--and I don't. Like this is it for me. It's ridiculously depressing. Is my way of thinking flawed? Additionally, I have this one really close friend that I have major feelings for. I'm unsure of his sexuality but we joke around about having sex/dating each other pretty regularly. He's my best bud and I confide in him every little thing about my life and so does he. It feels weird to say this but I love him. It feels awesome but also depressing because I know that some day he'll probably find a girl or something and I'll be left to rot. the idea is so much more salient now that graduation is right around the corner. He also always asks me to "f*ck" him jokingly but keeps repeating it on occasion. We've discussed girls before--he thinks i'm straight--but I'm still unsure of his sexuality. Does him asking me mean he has homosexual tendencies? Do straight guys do that with their friends? I'd really appreciate any help! i'm WAY too obsessed over this guy, I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him the second we end a conversation. How do i stop these feelings, if I should stop them at all?
gay, have feelings for straight (?) friend...unsure about how my friendships will pan out. Kinda hard to summarize. Any words of advice?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Friend [21 M] a couple years, I have feelings for him, need help POST: Hey reddit. i'm a guy, a senior in college, and recently started accepting the fact that I like other dudes. I've never been in a romantic relationship and I really like having close friends because they're the closest I can get to being in a romantic relationship (i'll explain more further down). Also, seeing as i'm gay, many societal and religious forces have discouraged me from pursuing a gay relationship/marriage. And I really don't feel comfortable being in one for that reason. This is a problem because it makes me very insecure about my friendships since these relationships are the "epitome" of whatever kind of intimacy I'll ever have with another human being. I feel like my friends don't put in as much effort as I do in the friendship because they have tangible romantic relationships or the IDEA of having one (getting married in the future, etc.) that they can fall back on--and I don't. Like this is it for me. It's ridiculously depressing. Is my way of thinking flawed? Additionally, I have this one really close friend that I have major feelings for. I'm unsure of his sexuality but we joke around about having sex/dating each other pretty regularly. He's my best bud and I confide in him every little thing about my life and so does he. It feels weird to say this but I love him. It feels awesome but also depressing because I know that some day he'll probably find a girl or something and I'll be left to rot. the idea is so much more salient now that graduation is right around the corner. He also always asks me to "f*ck" him jokingly but keeps repeating it on occasion. We've discussed girls before--he thinks i'm straight--but I'm still unsure of his sexuality. Does him asking me mean he has homosexual tendencies? Do straight guys do that with their friends? I'd really appreciate any help! i'm WAY too obsessed over this guy, I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him the second we end a conversation. How do i stop these feelings, if I should stop them at all? TL;DR:
gay, have feelings for straight (?) friend...unsure about how my friendships will pan out. Kinda hard to summarize. Any words of advice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my Friend [21 M] a couple years, I have feelings for him, need help POST: Hey reddit. i'm a guy, a senior in college, and recently started accepting the fact that I like other dudes. I've never been in a romantic relationship and I really like having close friends because they're the closest I can get to being in a romantic relationship (i'll explain more further down). Also, seeing as i'm gay, many societal and religious forces have discouraged me from pursuing a gay relationship/marriage. And I really don't feel comfortable being in one for that reason. This is a problem because it makes me very insecure about my friendships since these relationships are the "epitome" of whatever kind of intimacy I'll ever have with another human being. I feel like my friends don't put in as much effort as I do in the friendship because they have tangible romantic relationships or the IDEA of having one (getting married in the future, etc.) that they can fall back on--and I don't. Like this is it for me. It's ridiculously depressing. Is my way of thinking flawed? Additionally, I have this one really close friend that I have major feelings for. I'm unsure of his sexuality but we joke around about having sex/dating each other pretty regularly. He's my best bud and I confide in him every little thing about my life and so does he. It feels weird to say this but I love him. It feels awesome but also depressing because I know that some day he'll probably find a girl or something and I'll be left to rot. the idea is so much more salient now that graduation is right around the corner. He also always asks me to "f*ck" him jokingly but keeps repeating it on occasion. We've discussed girls before--he thinks i'm straight--but I'm still unsure of his sexuality. Does him asking me mean he has homosexual tendencies? Do straight guys do that with their friends? I'd really appreciate any help! i'm WAY too obsessed over this guy, I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him the second we end a conversation. How do i stop these feelings, if I should stop them at all? TL;DR: gay, have feelings for straight (?) friend...unsure about how my friendships will pan out. Kinda hard to summarize. Any words of advice?<|endoftext|>
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Male, 25 Still trying to get back into the dating scene
About me: I'm 25, I've had 2? serious girlfriends in my life. One wasn't meant to be after a year, lack of communication is always going to end badly. The second one was the doozie. I dated this girl for almost 3 years, we were long distance, but made sure to spend as much time together whenever possible (I went to school in NY and she was in MD). When I got out of school due to personal issues in my family life, things still seemed ok, until she dropped those infamous words "We need to talk." You all know what happened when I saw her next. Now, it is about 4-5 years later, she's been married for 2 years, (I was probably played the more and more I think about it, although I always try to give the benefit of the doubt), and I have had 0 girlfriends since. When I was with her, she kind of molded me, passively made me push away some of my friends, and now I am only really close to one person and have a few others I consider good friends. More importantly, she destroyed my confidence when she left me, and when I had no hint of trouble, until those 4 words came out of her mouth. (In the years since she dumped me, I've been on 2 dates through OK Cupid and it wasn't working out apparently (her choice) and I thought there was something good there.) Now I know that I need to get into good shape, girls love fit guys, but I don't know how to approach women or how to strike up a conversation even. I've had a few people I've hooked up with, usually when I was drunk, but it's not necessarily what I want. I enjoy the fun, but I would much rather something meaningful, I always have. What do I do to stop being so shy and unconfident with girls? p.s. Also been shot down by 3 girls I think this year that I've tried to ask out, which doesn't help at all. It makes me even more petrified of rejection.
25, male, out of dating game for 4-5 years, had hook ups, need advice on how to talk to women/break the ice
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Male, 25 Still trying to get back into the dating scene POST: About me: I'm 25, I've had 2? serious girlfriends in my life. One wasn't meant to be after a year, lack of communication is always going to end badly. The second one was the doozie. I dated this girl for almost 3 years, we were long distance, but made sure to spend as much time together whenever possible (I went to school in NY and she was in MD). When I got out of school due to personal issues in my family life, things still seemed ok, until she dropped those infamous words "We need to talk." You all know what happened when I saw her next. Now, it is about 4-5 years later, she's been married for 2 years, (I was probably played the more and more I think about it, although I always try to give the benefit of the doubt), and I have had 0 girlfriends since. When I was with her, she kind of molded me, passively made me push away some of my friends, and now I am only really close to one person and have a few others I consider good friends. More importantly, she destroyed my confidence when she left me, and when I had no hint of trouble, until those 4 words came out of her mouth. (In the years since she dumped me, I've been on 2 dates through OK Cupid and it wasn't working out apparently (her choice) and I thought there was something good there.) Now I know that I need to get into good shape, girls love fit guys, but I don't know how to approach women or how to strike up a conversation even. I've had a few people I've hooked up with, usually when I was drunk, but it's not necessarily what I want. I enjoy the fun, but I would much rather something meaningful, I always have. What do I do to stop being so shy and unconfident with girls? p.s. Also been shot down by 3 girls I think this year that I've tried to ask out, which doesn't help at all. It makes me even more petrified of rejection. TL;DR:
25, male, out of dating game for 4-5 years, had hook ups, need advice on how to talk to women/break the ice<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Male, 25 Still trying to get back into the dating scene POST: About me: I'm 25, I've had 2? serious girlfriends in my life. One wasn't meant to be after a year, lack of communication is always going to end badly. The second one was the doozie. I dated this girl for almost 3 years, we were long distance, but made sure to spend as much time together whenever possible (I went to school in NY and she was in MD). When I got out of school due to personal issues in my family life, things still seemed ok, until she dropped those infamous words "We need to talk." You all know what happened when I saw her next. Now, it is about 4-5 years later, she's been married for 2 years, (I was probably played the more and more I think about it, although I always try to give the benefit of the doubt), and I have had 0 girlfriends since. When I was with her, she kind of molded me, passively made me push away some of my friends, and now I am only really close to one person and have a few others I consider good friends. More importantly, she destroyed my confidence when she left me, and when I had no hint of trouble, until those 4 words came out of her mouth. (In the years since she dumped me, I've been on 2 dates through OK Cupid and it wasn't working out apparently (her choice) and I thought there was something good there.) Now I know that I need to get into good shape, girls love fit guys, but I don't know how to approach women or how to strike up a conversation even. I've had a few people I've hooked up with, usually when I was drunk, but it's not necessarily what I want. I enjoy the fun, but I would much rather something meaningful, I always have. What do I do to stop being so shy and unconfident with girls? p.s. Also been shot down by 3 girls I think this year that I've tried to ask out, which doesn't help at all. It makes me even more petrified of rejection. TL;DR: 25, male, out of dating game for 4-5 years, had hook ups, need advice on how to talk to women/break the ice<|endoftext|>
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My (18/M) Friends (18/M, 18/M, 19/M, 17/F, 18/F) ditched my birthday to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and staying for 45 minutes
So A few weeks ago I had a really bad injury that left me unable to walk for the next 3 months. I'm on painkillers and in physio and shit. That's just sort of a preface. So before this, my friends have been astounding. They've always been there when i've needed them and we all come from shitty home situations, so we're more family to eachother than our actual family. Anyways, yesterday was my 18th (yay) and my friends offered to come around 6. They ended up coming at 8:30 because they wanted to go to the LCBO and get booze so they can get piss-drunk at one of their houses (19/m) who has the house to himself for the night. Two of them left after a half an hour to go pick up from some guy and they never came back. 15 minutes later, 19/m's girlfriend, 17/f gets a call from him saying that everyone should leave and go to his house, and he'd come chill today instead bc he felt bad. I said nothing because I'm the sort of person who likes to keep the harmony, but it really hurt my feelings. From my perspective, I'm trapped on a fucking couch for 3 months straight in a shitty home situation with no one to keep me company and nothing to do, I cant walk, cant smoke, cant drink or do anything because of my meds, and they ditch on my 18th birthday, the big one, to go get drunk. Am I overreacting or are they being fucking assholes? If so, what do I do/say, if anything?
friends ditched on my 18th to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and after staying for like 45 minutes. Happy bday to me right?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (18/M) Friends (18/M, 18/M, 19/M, 17/F, 18/F) ditched my birthday to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and staying for 45 minutes POST: So A few weeks ago I had a really bad injury that left me unable to walk for the next 3 months. I'm on painkillers and in physio and shit. That's just sort of a preface. So before this, my friends have been astounding. They've always been there when i've needed them and we all come from shitty home situations, so we're more family to eachother than our actual family. Anyways, yesterday was my 18th (yay) and my friends offered to come around 6. They ended up coming at 8:30 because they wanted to go to the LCBO and get booze so they can get piss-drunk at one of their houses (19/m) who has the house to himself for the night. Two of them left after a half an hour to go pick up from some guy and they never came back. 15 minutes later, 19/m's girlfriend, 17/f gets a call from him saying that everyone should leave and go to his house, and he'd come chill today instead bc he felt bad. I said nothing because I'm the sort of person who likes to keep the harmony, but it really hurt my feelings. From my perspective, I'm trapped on a fucking couch for 3 months straight in a shitty home situation with no one to keep me company and nothing to do, I cant walk, cant smoke, cant drink or do anything because of my meds, and they ditch on my 18th birthday, the big one, to go get drunk. Am I overreacting or are they being fucking assholes? If so, what do I do/say, if anything? TL;DR:
friends ditched on my 18th to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and after staying for like 45 minutes. Happy bday to me right?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My (18/M) Friends (18/M, 18/M, 19/M, 17/F, 18/F) ditched my birthday to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and staying for 45 minutes POST: So A few weeks ago I had a really bad injury that left me unable to walk for the next 3 months. I'm on painkillers and in physio and shit. That's just sort of a preface. So before this, my friends have been astounding. They've always been there when i've needed them and we all come from shitty home situations, so we're more family to eachother than our actual family. Anyways, yesterday was my 18th (yay) and my friends offered to come around 6. They ended up coming at 8:30 because they wanted to go to the LCBO and get booze so they can get piss-drunk at one of their houses (19/m) who has the house to himself for the night. Two of them left after a half an hour to go pick up from some guy and they never came back. 15 minutes later, 19/m's girlfriend, 17/f gets a call from him saying that everyone should leave and go to his house, and he'd come chill today instead bc he felt bad. I said nothing because I'm the sort of person who likes to keep the harmony, but it really hurt my feelings. From my perspective, I'm trapped on a fucking couch for 3 months straight in a shitty home situation with no one to keep me company and nothing to do, I cant walk, cant smoke, cant drink or do anything because of my meds, and they ditch on my 18th birthday, the big one, to go get drunk. Am I overreacting or are they being fucking assholes? If so, what do I do/say, if anything? TL;DR: friends ditched on my 18th to get drunk after showing up 2 1/2 hours late and after staying for like 45 minutes. Happy bday to me right?<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by not opening my text messages.
So yesterday as I was leaving work my boss says to me "there's no work tomorrow" so I say "no worries let me know" (he's very prone to changing his mind). So I went out last night, and went to the movies and got a bit drunk in gold lounge (I get extremely bad hangovers no matter how much I drink or what I do). So I'm having a merry old time, wind up at a mates house, have a few more fire waters and go to bed at 3am. So I wake up at just about bang on 8 and look at my phone because I downloaded Fallout Shelter and was keen to check on my vault. Pull down the top drawer of my phone and there's a message from Rob (bossman) at 8:35pm. I get a knot in my stomach. I click on it "8am start". I think fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck. I like to think cheesy comedy movie music started playing at I was running through his house looking for all my shit, making a coffee and getting dressed into the work clothes I always keep in my overnight bag. Anyway so I fucking bailed all ready for work in very impressive time I shoot him a text "fuck man I'm so sorry I'll be there in 10". I get one back as I'm nearly at his house " what? I said there's no work today " so I was thinking "wtf was that message?" It was from fucking Tuesday. So now I'm sitting in traffic, hungover to actual fuck. And my boss thinks I'm a fucking spoon.
got drunk, thought I had the day off today. Freaked out because a message from 2 days ago said 8am start.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not opening my text messages. POST: So yesterday as I was leaving work my boss says to me "there's no work tomorrow" so I say "no worries let me know" (he's very prone to changing his mind). So I went out last night, and went to the movies and got a bit drunk in gold lounge (I get extremely bad hangovers no matter how much I drink or what I do). So I'm having a merry old time, wind up at a mates house, have a few more fire waters and go to bed at 3am. So I wake up at just about bang on 8 and look at my phone because I downloaded Fallout Shelter and was keen to check on my vault. Pull down the top drawer of my phone and there's a message from Rob (bossman) at 8:35pm. I get a knot in my stomach. I click on it "8am start". I think fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck. I like to think cheesy comedy movie music started playing at I was running through his house looking for all my shit, making a coffee and getting dressed into the work clothes I always keep in my overnight bag. Anyway so I fucking bailed all ready for work in very impressive time I shoot him a text "fuck man I'm so sorry I'll be there in 10". I get one back as I'm nearly at his house " what? I said there's no work today " so I was thinking "wtf was that message?" It was from fucking Tuesday. So now I'm sitting in traffic, hungover to actual fuck. And my boss thinks I'm a fucking spoon. TL;DR:
got drunk, thought I had the day off today. Freaked out because a message from 2 days ago said 8am start.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by not opening my text messages. POST: So yesterday as I was leaving work my boss says to me "there's no work tomorrow" so I say "no worries let me know" (he's very prone to changing his mind). So I went out last night, and went to the movies and got a bit drunk in gold lounge (I get extremely bad hangovers no matter how much I drink or what I do). So I'm having a merry old time, wind up at a mates house, have a few more fire waters and go to bed at 3am. So I wake up at just about bang on 8 and look at my phone because I downloaded Fallout Shelter and was keen to check on my vault. Pull down the top drawer of my phone and there's a message from Rob (bossman) at 8:35pm. I get a knot in my stomach. I click on it "8am start". I think fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck. I like to think cheesy comedy movie music started playing at I was running through his house looking for all my shit, making a coffee and getting dressed into the work clothes I always keep in my overnight bag. Anyway so I fucking bailed all ready for work in very impressive time I shoot him a text "fuck man I'm so sorry I'll be there in 10". I get one back as I'm nearly at his house " what? I said there's no work today " so I was thinking "wtf was that message?" It was from fucking Tuesday. So now I'm sitting in traffic, hungover to actual fuck. And my boss thinks I'm a fucking spoon. TL;DR: got drunk, thought I had the day off today. Freaked out because a message from 2 days ago said 8am start.<|endoftext|>
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Father wants to charge room & board, rough past with financial deals (Ontario, Canada)
Hi legal advice, I am a 22 (f) recent graduate from University. I currently hold a full time job, but because of school I was working reduced hours and therefore had a lower pay check. My father and I have been having a long drawn-out battle over room and board. We finally agreed to a price of $75 a week, but there's now a catch. He's demanding that I pay every Friday the amount and refuses to do bi-weekly schedule, but that's just semantics. My issue is, is that he wants cash. Now, to point the obvious out, cash is not traceable, and he will not take a cheque. In the past I bought a car, but had to put it under his name because he had me convinced that my credit score was not strong enough for it to be a loan under just my name. Now, when i agreed to this he forced me to pay the entire year including insurance in one summer, which i did, but it killed any savings I had, and every time we got in a fight, he pulled my keys, even though it was technically my car. So I guess the advice I'm seeking is, is how do I basically cover my ass for these rent payments when things go inevitably sour? He has threatened to kick me out in the past, and I want to be able to trace the payments if I ever need to. If I call my bank to put a note on my account saying that as of May 13, 2016, the withdrawals of $150 every pay day are for rent, will that hold any grounds? Thanks for any advice!!
Dad's a jerk and has screwed me before, how do I prove my money is paying rent with no cheques?
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Father wants to charge room & board, rough past with financial deals (Ontario, Canada) POST: Hi legal advice, I am a 22 (f) recent graduate from University. I currently hold a full time job, but because of school I was working reduced hours and therefore had a lower pay check. My father and I have been having a long drawn-out battle over room and board. We finally agreed to a price of $75 a week, but there's now a catch. He's demanding that I pay every Friday the amount and refuses to do bi-weekly schedule, but that's just semantics. My issue is, is that he wants cash. Now, to point the obvious out, cash is not traceable, and he will not take a cheque. In the past I bought a car, but had to put it under his name because he had me convinced that my credit score was not strong enough for it to be a loan under just my name. Now, when i agreed to this he forced me to pay the entire year including insurance in one summer, which i did, but it killed any savings I had, and every time we got in a fight, he pulled my keys, even though it was technically my car. So I guess the advice I'm seeking is, is how do I basically cover my ass for these rent payments when things go inevitably sour? He has threatened to kick me out in the past, and I want to be able to trace the payments if I ever need to. If I call my bank to put a note on my account saying that as of May 13, 2016, the withdrawals of $150 every pay day are for rent, will that hold any grounds? Thanks for any advice!! TL;DR:
Dad's a jerk and has screwed me before, how do I prove my money is paying rent with no cheques?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Father wants to charge room & board, rough past with financial deals (Ontario, Canada) POST: Hi legal advice, I am a 22 (f) recent graduate from University. I currently hold a full time job, but because of school I was working reduced hours and therefore had a lower pay check. My father and I have been having a long drawn-out battle over room and board. We finally agreed to a price of $75 a week, but there's now a catch. He's demanding that I pay every Friday the amount and refuses to do bi-weekly schedule, but that's just semantics. My issue is, is that he wants cash. Now, to point the obvious out, cash is not traceable, and he will not take a cheque. In the past I bought a car, but had to put it under his name because he had me convinced that my credit score was not strong enough for it to be a loan under just my name. Now, when i agreed to this he forced me to pay the entire year including insurance in one summer, which i did, but it killed any savings I had, and every time we got in a fight, he pulled my keys, even though it was technically my car. So I guess the advice I'm seeking is, is how do I basically cover my ass for these rent payments when things go inevitably sour? He has threatened to kick me out in the past, and I want to be able to trace the payments if I ever need to. If I call my bank to put a note on my account saying that as of May 13, 2016, the withdrawals of $150 every pay day are for rent, will that hold any grounds? Thanks for any advice!! TL;DR: Dad's a jerk and has screwed me before, how do I prove my money is paying rent with no cheques?<|endoftext|>
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Night running (or: the most useless run I've ever had)
Just a rambling anecdote about the failed run I just did. So I set out on my old route for the first time in a few months (I'm visiting home from uni for the holidays). Decided I'd go for a night run since I've been doing that at university. I stuck a head torch on, since I'm out in the countryside. During the day, my route (a winding bridleway through the countryside) looks [like this] Pretty idyllic, right? Well, it turns out that in the pitch black, with none of the city lights I've gotten used to, it looks like [this] Naturally, I pussied out and decided to take a detour down a shorter route that I usually use as a distance extension when I'm feeling like I still have some distance left in me. Its only about two miles but it goes through the town centre so theres lighting and, hey, better than nothing, right? So I'm heading down this route idly thinking about a game called 'metro 2033' when my damp shoelace flicks up into the back of my leg. It was still dark because I hadn't got to the streetlights yet, and I instantly decided that one of [these things] had leapt out of my nightmares and was attacking my calves. I squeaked a bit, jumped about 2 feet in the air and was almost sprinting for about 600 metres until I managed to get a grip. Things went a little less shittily when I reached the down centre (apart from the fact that i had a headlamp on in a thoroughly lit area and therefore looked like a complete twat to the Saturday night revellers) until I realised that it had only been 2 hours since my dinner (pulled pork in rolls with a kind of gravy sauce. I normally don't eat all day before a run but my mum made it as a treat and I could hardly say no) and it was starting to make a return on me. So I had to cut my short route even shorter and limp home.
expected 6-12 miles at a sub 8 minute mile. Got <2 miles fraught with invisible demons and narrowly-evaded vomiting
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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Night running (or: the most useless run I've ever had) POST: Just a rambling anecdote about the failed run I just did. So I set out on my old route for the first time in a few months (I'm visiting home from uni for the holidays). Decided I'd go for a night run since I've been doing that at university. I stuck a head torch on, since I'm out in the countryside. During the day, my route (a winding bridleway through the countryside) looks [like this] Pretty idyllic, right? Well, it turns out that in the pitch black, with none of the city lights I've gotten used to, it looks like [this] Naturally, I pussied out and decided to take a detour down a shorter route that I usually use as a distance extension when I'm feeling like I still have some distance left in me. Its only about two miles but it goes through the town centre so theres lighting and, hey, better than nothing, right? So I'm heading down this route idly thinking about a game called'metro 2033' when my damp shoelace flicks up into the back of my leg. It was still dark because I hadn't got to the streetlights yet, and I instantly decided that one of [these things] had leapt out of my nightmares and was attacking my calves. I squeaked a bit, jumped about 2 feet in the air and was almost sprinting for about 600 metres until I managed to get a grip. Things went a little less shittily when I reached the down centre (apart from the fact that i had a headlamp on in a thoroughly lit area and therefore looked like a complete twat to the Saturday night revellers) until I realised that it had only been 2 hours since my dinner (pulled pork in rolls with a kind of gravy sauce. I normally don't eat all day before a run but my mum made it as a treat and I could hardly say no) and it was starting to make a return on me. So I had to cut my short route even shorter and limp home. TL;DR:
expected 6-12 miles at a sub 8 minute mile. Got <2 miles fraught with invisible demons and narrowly-evaded vomiting<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Night running (or: the most useless run I've ever had) POST: Just a rambling anecdote about the failed run I just did. So I set out on my old route for the first time in a few months (I'm visiting home from uni for the holidays). Decided I'd go for a night run since I've been doing that at university. I stuck a head torch on, since I'm out in the countryside. During the day, my route (a winding bridleway through the countryside) looks [like this] Pretty idyllic, right? Well, it turns out that in the pitch black, with none of the city lights I've gotten used to, it looks like [this] Naturally, I pussied out and decided to take a detour down a shorter route that I usually use as a distance extension when I'm feeling like I still have some distance left in me. Its only about two miles but it goes through the town centre so theres lighting and, hey, better than nothing, right? So I'm heading down this route idly thinking about a game called'metro 2033' when my damp shoelace flicks up into the back of my leg. It was still dark because I hadn't got to the streetlights yet, and I instantly decided that one of [these things] had leapt out of my nightmares and was attacking my calves. I squeaked a bit, jumped about 2 feet in the air and was almost sprinting for about 600 metres until I managed to get a grip. Things went a little less shittily when I reached the down centre (apart from the fact that i had a headlamp on in a thoroughly lit area and therefore looked like a complete twat to the Saturday night revellers) until I realised that it had only been 2 hours since my dinner (pulled pork in rolls with a kind of gravy sauce. I normally don't eat all day before a run but my mum made it as a treat and I could hardly say no) and it was starting to make a return on me. So I had to cut my short route even shorter and limp home. TL;DR: expected 6-12 miles at a sub 8 minute mile. Got <2 miles fraught with invisible demons and narrowly-evaded vomiting<|endoftext|>
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Wouldn't the whole copyright thing be a lot easier if an artist's 'product' became free (to use) after his/her death?
I mean, when an artist (in this case most likely a musician/band) dies, he or she cant be financially rewarded for their art anymore. So why pay others good money for stuff that isn't theirs? And I understand that this wont work with, for example, games and film, because these are usually the fruit of a larger corporate effort. But a song should belong to a band or musician, and it should be their descision who pays or doesnt pay for it and when. Now I am a musician, and I study architecture/art, and I see no reason why anybody (not even the kids I will eventually have) should get a penny of the revenue of my work. I see no need to pay an organisation or government to help me in the eventuality of someone using or copying my work for any reason other than to make money, and I think most artists nowadays are perfectly capable of fighting their own legal battles íf they choose to. Off course, when someone steals work to gain money, there should be a law and punisent to follow. But again; only when the original artist is alive and wants to fight it.
I think art should belong to the original artists as long as they are alive. When they die, their work should be free (to use).
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wouldn't the whole copyright thing be a lot easier if an artist's 'product' became free (to use) after his/her death? POST: I mean, when an artist (in this case most likely a musician/band) dies, he or she cant be financially rewarded for their art anymore. So why pay others good money for stuff that isn't theirs? And I understand that this wont work with, for example, games and film, because these are usually the fruit of a larger corporate effort. But a song should belong to a band or musician, and it should be their descision who pays or doesnt pay for it and when. Now I am a musician, and I study architecture/art, and I see no reason why anybody (not even the kids I will eventually have) should get a penny of the revenue of my work. I see no need to pay an organisation or government to help me in the eventuality of someone using or copying my work for any reason other than to make money, and I think most artists nowadays are perfectly capable of fighting their own legal battles íf they choose to. Off course, when someone steals work to gain money, there should be a law and punisent to follow. But again; only when the original artist is alive and wants to fight it. TL;DR:
I think art should belong to the original artists as long as they are alive. When they die, their work should be free (to use).<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Wouldn't the whole copyright thing be a lot easier if an artist's 'product' became free (to use) after his/her death? POST: I mean, when an artist (in this case most likely a musician/band) dies, he or she cant be financially rewarded for their art anymore. So why pay others good money for stuff that isn't theirs? And I understand that this wont work with, for example, games and film, because these are usually the fruit of a larger corporate effort. But a song should belong to a band or musician, and it should be their descision who pays or doesnt pay for it and when. Now I am a musician, and I study architecture/art, and I see no reason why anybody (not even the kids I will eventually have) should get a penny of the revenue of my work. I see no need to pay an organisation or government to help me in the eventuality of someone using or copying my work for any reason other than to make money, and I think most artists nowadays are perfectly capable of fighting their own legal battles íf they choose to. Off course, when someone steals work to gain money, there should be a law and punisent to follow. But again; only when the original artist is alive and wants to fight it. TL;DR: I think art should belong to the original artists as long as they are alive. When they die, their work should be free (to use).<|endoftext|>
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Me [23 F] with this guy [20s M] that I want to meet. Need simple advice and some encouragement, maybe?
Hi reddit! Need an advice which may sound too simple to you maybe, but because I am a reserved and a very shy person, it's kind of hard for me. So I'm in a foreign country now and staying in a shared house, you know like, there's a big apartment with lots of people (mostly students but all youngsters) and there are common bathrooms/kitchen and stuff like that and you stay in private or 2-persons rooms. It's very common here to greet people with pleasantries when you encounter even if you are going to toilet or something. It's a very friendly place. So this Guy I want to meet stays on the same floor as me. We encountered each other many times and all that time we exchanged goodnights, hellos and stuff all kindly and smiling. Everybody smiles in this house. I need some encouragement here. I don't go to the dining room often, which is a place to meet and talk with all the people living here so I haven't seen him outside of our lucky encounters. I really really want to stop him when I next see him and just ask his name like everyone else did to me, but I am just...super shy(you get it) and the last time we were getting out of our room at the same time I didn't even say anything other than smile then instantly turn my head back. Would it be weird to just stop him and start a convo after all this time? Fuck, how do I even do this simple thing?
Living in a shared house, and there's a guy I would like to meet. Because I'm super shy, I can not engage in a convo with him. Please help me?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with this guy [20s M] that I want to meet. Need simple advice and some encouragement, maybe? POST: Hi reddit! Need an advice which may sound too simple to you maybe, but because I am a reserved and a very shy person, it's kind of hard for me. So I'm in a foreign country now and staying in a shared house, you know like, there's a big apartment with lots of people (mostly students but all youngsters) and there are common bathrooms/kitchen and stuff like that and you stay in private or 2-persons rooms. It's very common here to greet people with pleasantries when you encounter even if you are going to toilet or something. It's a very friendly place. So this Guy I want to meet stays on the same floor as me. We encountered each other many times and all that time we exchanged goodnights, hellos and stuff all kindly and smiling. Everybody smiles in this house. I need some encouragement here. I don't go to the dining room often, which is a place to meet and talk with all the people living here so I haven't seen him outside of our lucky encounters. I really really want to stop him when I next see him and just ask his name like everyone else did to me, but I am just...super shy(you get it) and the last time we were getting out of our room at the same time I didn't even say anything other than smile then instantly turn my head back. Would it be weird to just stop him and start a convo after all this time? Fuck, how do I even do this simple thing? TL;DR:
Living in a shared house, and there's a guy I would like to meet. Because I'm super shy, I can not engage in a convo with him. Please help me?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23 F] with this guy [20s M] that I want to meet. Need simple advice and some encouragement, maybe? POST: Hi reddit! Need an advice which may sound too simple to you maybe, but because I am a reserved and a very shy person, it's kind of hard for me. So I'm in a foreign country now and staying in a shared house, you know like, there's a big apartment with lots of people (mostly students but all youngsters) and there are common bathrooms/kitchen and stuff like that and you stay in private or 2-persons rooms. It's very common here to greet people with pleasantries when you encounter even if you are going to toilet or something. It's a very friendly place. So this Guy I want to meet stays on the same floor as me. We encountered each other many times and all that time we exchanged goodnights, hellos and stuff all kindly and smiling. Everybody smiles in this house. I need some encouragement here. I don't go to the dining room often, which is a place to meet and talk with all the people living here so I haven't seen him outside of our lucky encounters. I really really want to stop him when I next see him and just ask his name like everyone else did to me, but I am just...super shy(you get it) and the last time we were getting out of our room at the same time I didn't even say anything other than smile then instantly turn my head back. Would it be weird to just stop him and start a convo after all this time? Fuck, how do I even do this simple thing? TL;DR: Living in a shared house, and there's a guy I would like to meet. Because I'm super shy, I can not engage in a convo with him. Please help me?<|endoftext|>
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[21 F] What are realistic expectations I can have of my boyfriend? [21 M] (dating 5 months)
My boyfriend is well aware of the fact that he's not good at or used to being communicative/keeping in touch with people well. However, since we're in a relationship, I've told him that it's important to me and makes me feel overlooked/like he doesn't care about me much when he sees but doesn't respond to my messages/texts, doesn't make any effort to keep in touch with me unless it's necessary to arrange meeting up next. What are some reasonable things to expect from him when it comes to keeping in touch when in a relationship and in the relationship in general? I've been in a serious relationship before but I was the first girl to even hold his hand let alone be his girlfriend. Right now I'd be very happy if he: - texts me occasionally (maybe once every other day or so) about something besides when we're meeting up next - acknowledges the few texts that I do send, when he sees them and isn't busy, even if what I send isn't a question (for example a picture of me in my underwear, I've sent him that before and he never responded, didn't even know what he thought until I saw him in person later and he said he was happy to get it but didn't want to 'say anything creepy') - make a habit of texting goodnight, even if we don't say anything else to eachother for the whole day (it was his idea, but sometimes he forgets) - don't say 'I love you' if you're not going to make eye contact or seem confident about it (he would say it on his own, I never pressured him to say it, but often he would mumble it while looking anywhere but me) - Say goodbye at the end of online conversations instead of just logging off Those are the only things about the relationship that bother me and they seem so small, but I don't know if they're unreasonable to think that those things are normal in a relationship. Please let me know what expectations are reasonable and what aren't.
What is it normal to expect from a boyfriend in terms of a relationship/keeping in touch? (In an at least decent relationship)
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21 F] What are realistic expectations I can have of my boyfriend? [21 M] (dating 5 months) POST: My boyfriend is well aware of the fact that he's not good at or used to being communicative/keeping in touch with people well. However, since we're in a relationship, I've told him that it's important to me and makes me feel overlooked/like he doesn't care about me much when he sees but doesn't respond to my messages/texts, doesn't make any effort to keep in touch with me unless it's necessary to arrange meeting up next. What are some reasonable things to expect from him when it comes to keeping in touch when in a relationship and in the relationship in general? I've been in a serious relationship before but I was the first girl to even hold his hand let alone be his girlfriend. Right now I'd be very happy if he: - texts me occasionally (maybe once every other day or so) about something besides when we're meeting up next - acknowledges the few texts that I do send, when he sees them and isn't busy, even if what I send isn't a question (for example a picture of me in my underwear, I've sent him that before and he never responded, didn't even know what he thought until I saw him in person later and he said he was happy to get it but didn't want to'say anything creepy') - make a habit of texting goodnight, even if we don't say anything else to eachother for the whole day (it was his idea, but sometimes he forgets) - don't say 'I love you' if you're not going to make eye contact or seem confident about it (he would say it on his own, I never pressured him to say it, but often he would mumble it while looking anywhere but me) - Say goodbye at the end of online conversations instead of just logging off Those are the only things about the relationship that bother me and they seem so small, but I don't know if they're unreasonable to think that those things are normal in a relationship. Please let me know what expectations are reasonable and what aren't. TL;DR:
What is it normal to expect from a boyfriend in terms of a relationship/keeping in touch? (In an at least decent relationship)<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21 F] What are realistic expectations I can have of my boyfriend? [21 M] (dating 5 months) POST: My boyfriend is well aware of the fact that he's not good at or used to being communicative/keeping in touch with people well. However, since we're in a relationship, I've told him that it's important to me and makes me feel overlooked/like he doesn't care about me much when he sees but doesn't respond to my messages/texts, doesn't make any effort to keep in touch with me unless it's necessary to arrange meeting up next. What are some reasonable things to expect from him when it comes to keeping in touch when in a relationship and in the relationship in general? I've been in a serious relationship before but I was the first girl to even hold his hand let alone be his girlfriend. Right now I'd be very happy if he: - texts me occasionally (maybe once every other day or so) about something besides when we're meeting up next - acknowledges the few texts that I do send, when he sees them and isn't busy, even if what I send isn't a question (for example a picture of me in my underwear, I've sent him that before and he never responded, didn't even know what he thought until I saw him in person later and he said he was happy to get it but didn't want to'say anything creepy') - make a habit of texting goodnight, even if we don't say anything else to eachother for the whole day (it was his idea, but sometimes he forgets) - don't say 'I love you' if you're not going to make eye contact or seem confident about it (he would say it on his own, I never pressured him to say it, but often he would mumble it while looking anywhere but me) - Say goodbye at the end of online conversations instead of just logging off Those are the only things about the relationship that bother me and they seem so small, but I don't know if they're unreasonable to think that those things are normal in a relationship. Please let me know what expectations are reasonable and what aren't. TL;DR: What is it normal to expect from a boyfriend in terms of a relationship/keeping in touch? (In an at least decent relationship)<|endoftext|>
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How should I proceed in a mutual attraction for a guy in an LTR?
I have gotten to know "this guy" over the past year. After months of dropping hints about his decaying relationship of 4 years and alluding to liking me, we finally admitted we like each other. However, now that the cat is out of the bag he is hesitant to seal the deal. He isn't ready to leave his girlfriend whom he claims he still loves despite their problems, and doesn't want to begin a side affair with me because he doesn't want me to feel slighted or used if he has to stop seeing me. We have intense chemistry, get along great, and at the risk of sounding like a shallow moron – I know I am more attractive than his current girlfriend. I have never felt so drawn or connected to someone and he has expressed similar sentiments. The smarter part of me knows I should just let it go, but the naïve ass backwards part thinks if I am able to convince him to begin an affair with me, he'll realize how great it can be and end things with her. Can you talk some sense into me one way or another? Either tell me why I'm an idiot, or give me some lame inspirational anecdote so I can forge ahead. Why would he admit his attraction if he wouldn't go all the way?
He's in an LTR that has fizzled. We have intense chemistry that recently surfaced but he is afraid/hesitant to leave gf. How should I proceed in this situation?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How should I proceed in a mutual attraction for a guy in an LTR? POST: I have gotten to know "this guy" over the past year. After months of dropping hints about his decaying relationship of 4 years and alluding to liking me, we finally admitted we like each other. However, now that the cat is out of the bag he is hesitant to seal the deal. He isn't ready to leave his girlfriend whom he claims he still loves despite their problems, and doesn't want to begin a side affair with me because he doesn't want me to feel slighted or used if he has to stop seeing me. We have intense chemistry, get along great, and at the risk of sounding like a shallow moron – I know I am more attractive than his current girlfriend. I have never felt so drawn or connected to someone and he has expressed similar sentiments. The smarter part of me knows I should just let it go, but the naïve ass backwards part thinks if I am able to convince him to begin an affair with me, he'll realize how great it can be and end things with her. Can you talk some sense into me one way or another? Either tell me why I'm an idiot, or give me some lame inspirational anecdote so I can forge ahead. Why would he admit his attraction if he wouldn't go all the way? TL;DR:
He's in an LTR that has fizzled. We have intense chemistry that recently surfaced but he is afraid/hesitant to leave gf. How should I proceed in this situation?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: How should I proceed in a mutual attraction for a guy in an LTR? POST: I have gotten to know "this guy" over the past year. After months of dropping hints about his decaying relationship of 4 years and alluding to liking me, we finally admitted we like each other. However, now that the cat is out of the bag he is hesitant to seal the deal. He isn't ready to leave his girlfriend whom he claims he still loves despite their problems, and doesn't want to begin a side affair with me because he doesn't want me to feel slighted or used if he has to stop seeing me. We have intense chemistry, get along great, and at the risk of sounding like a shallow moron – I know I am more attractive than his current girlfriend. I have never felt so drawn or connected to someone and he has expressed similar sentiments. The smarter part of me knows I should just let it go, but the naïve ass backwards part thinks if I am able to convince him to begin an affair with me, he'll realize how great it can be and end things with her. Can you talk some sense into me one way or another? Either tell me why I'm an idiot, or give me some lame inspirational anecdote so I can forge ahead. Why would he admit his attraction if he wouldn't go all the way? TL;DR: He's in an LTR that has fizzled. We have intense chemistry that recently surfaced but he is afraid/hesitant to leave gf. How should I proceed in this situation?<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, do you have someone in your past that you could easily say you're still in love with? (May be a long one, sorry ):
I recently saw someone I had known years ago in a way that seemed quite serendipitous at the time. Nothing happened, life went on as usual. And yet, I feel as though this event has warped my mind somewhat. I loved him for the entire time that I even remotely interacted with him. Yes, he was pretty, and all the other girls were aware of this and tried to take advantage. I really, truly just loved this person, flaws and all. It genuinely seemed at times that the attraction was mutual, but I digress. Once again, life happened. he made his choices, I made mine. I NEVER stopped thinking of him. Over the years, I would Google him on occasion, even when I was in a relationship and married. My mind is like a steel trap, especially when I am searching and researching. I retain tiny details and then apply them in further searches. One night I "over-Googled" and discovered that he had spent some time with debilitating depression, I would say a year or two. Most people would be swayed by this information, but I wasn't. I have spent many years battling depression and mood swings, and I know how that can impact one's existence. I can relate to these things, and I know that not many people can.I know my details are boring Reddit, but I have been keeping this to myself all week, unable to explain it to anyone out of a sense of my own embarrassment. My questions, if you have made it through my silly post.... Does this feeling, this sense of longing for the company of a past love/interest ever go away?Is this kind of thing productive? Have anyone of you or someone you know ever had a happy ending come of this? I'm not even looing to date this person on the regular, I just want to see him, get a cup of coffee, simple shit like that...
Saw someone I loved from years ago quite randomly. Now I can't get them off my mind. Does anyone else
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, do you have someone in your past that you could easily say you're still in love with? (May be a long one, sorry ): POST: I recently saw someone I had known years ago in a way that seemed quite serendipitous at the time. Nothing happened, life went on as usual. And yet, I feel as though this event has warped my mind somewhat. I loved him for the entire time that I even remotely interacted with him. Yes, he was pretty, and all the other girls were aware of this and tried to take advantage. I really, truly just loved this person, flaws and all. It genuinely seemed at times that the attraction was mutual, but I digress. Once again, life happened. he made his choices, I made mine. I NEVER stopped thinking of him. Over the years, I would Google him on occasion, even when I was in a relationship and married. My mind is like a steel trap, especially when I am searching and researching. I retain tiny details and then apply them in further searches. One night I "over-Googled" and discovered that he had spent some time with debilitating depression, I would say a year or two. Most people would be swayed by this information, but I wasn't. I have spent many years battling depression and mood swings, and I know how that can impact one's existence. I can relate to these things, and I know that not many people can.I know my details are boring Reddit, but I have been keeping this to myself all week, unable to explain it to anyone out of a sense of my own embarrassment. My questions, if you have made it through my silly post.... Does this feeling, this sense of longing for the company of a past love/interest ever go away?Is this kind of thing productive? Have anyone of you or someone you know ever had a happy ending come of this? I'm not even looing to date this person on the regular, I just want to see him, get a cup of coffee, simple shit like that... TL;DR:
Saw someone I loved from years ago quite randomly. Now I can't get them off my mind. Does anyone else <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, do you have someone in your past that you could easily say you're still in love with? (May be a long one, sorry ): POST: I recently saw someone I had known years ago in a way that seemed quite serendipitous at the time. Nothing happened, life went on as usual. And yet, I feel as though this event has warped my mind somewhat. I loved him for the entire time that I even remotely interacted with him. Yes, he was pretty, and all the other girls were aware of this and tried to take advantage. I really, truly just loved this person, flaws and all. It genuinely seemed at times that the attraction was mutual, but I digress. Once again, life happened. he made his choices, I made mine. I NEVER stopped thinking of him. Over the years, I would Google him on occasion, even when I was in a relationship and married. My mind is like a steel trap, especially when I am searching and researching. I retain tiny details and then apply them in further searches. One night I "over-Googled" and discovered that he had spent some time with debilitating depression, I would say a year or two. Most people would be swayed by this information, but I wasn't. I have spent many years battling depression and mood swings, and I know how that can impact one's existence. I can relate to these things, and I know that not many people can.I know my details are boring Reddit, but I have been keeping this to myself all week, unable to explain it to anyone out of a sense of my own embarrassment. My questions, if you have made it through my silly post.... Does this feeling, this sense of longing for the company of a past love/interest ever go away?Is this kind of thing productive? Have anyone of you or someone you know ever had a happy ending come of this? I'm not even looing to date this person on the regular, I just want to see him, get a cup of coffee, simple shit like that... TL;DR: Saw someone I loved from years ago quite randomly. Now I can't get them off my mind. Does anyone else <|endoftext|>
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Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] 9 months, worried about moving in together
Basically I'm getting worried about moving in with my girlfriend. I'm a med student and just inherited money from death in the family so I can finally afford my own place. My girlfriend's just about to finish her college degree in the next town over and now wants to move in with me this summer. I'm getting super freaked out about this; I'm a clean freak (parents are MASSIVE hoarders and I can't stand that) and all I've wanted for the last 6 years of college is somewhere of my own. it's finally on the horizon, but my girlfriend is chaotic, messy, and although she always says she won't be like that when we move in, visiting her apartment is like a maze of dirty dishes and clothes on every surface. Second issue is that my family *really* don't like her, for some reason I can't work out.
Freaking out about moving in with girlfriend, not sure what to do, I'm a clean freak, she's super messy, my family don't like her either.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] 9 months, worried about moving in together POST: Basically I'm getting worried about moving in with my girlfriend. I'm a med student and just inherited money from death in the family so I can finally afford my own place. My girlfriend's just about to finish her college degree in the next town over and now wants to move in with me this summer. I'm getting super freaked out about this; I'm a clean freak (parents are MASSIVE hoarders and I can't stand that) and all I've wanted for the last 6 years of college is somewhere of my own. it's finally on the horizon, but my girlfriend is chaotic, messy, and although she always says she won't be like that when we move in, visiting her apartment is like a maze of dirty dishes and clothes on every surface. Second issue is that my family *really* don't like her, for some reason I can't work out. TL;DR:
Freaking out about moving in with girlfriend, not sure what to do, I'm a clean freak, she's super messy, my family don't like her either.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] with my girlfriend [25 F] 9 months, worried about moving in together POST: Basically I'm getting worried about moving in with my girlfriend. I'm a med student and just inherited money from death in the family so I can finally afford my own place. My girlfriend's just about to finish her college degree in the next town over and now wants to move in with me this summer. I'm getting super freaked out about this; I'm a clean freak (parents are MASSIVE hoarders and I can't stand that) and all I've wanted for the last 6 years of college is somewhere of my own. it's finally on the horizon, but my girlfriend is chaotic, messy, and although she always says she won't be like that when we move in, visiting her apartment is like a maze of dirty dishes and clothes on every surface. Second issue is that my family *really* don't like her, for some reason I can't work out. TL;DR: Freaking out about moving in with girlfriend, not sure what to do, I'm a clean freak, she's super messy, my family don't like her either.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by playing with an exercise ball.
This happened a couple hours ago. Me and my friend were messing around, and found my Moms old exercise balls. Great idea, play with them because exercise balls are fun and shit. Anyways we start kicked them, and a full on soccer game ensues. We're playing in an about 15x7 room, with lots of valuable easily breakable stuff in it I.E swords, pictures, china cabinet ect. Well I keep telling my friend to kick it softer, and with the back of your foot, not full on kicking it, that way it would stop bouncing all over the place. My friend being the idiot he is, doesn't understand how to kick the ball still. He kicks it as hard as he can, it bounces off the wall and lands directly on this small glass dragon my Step Dad has had forever. It pretty much shatters, leaving about 2 big pieces left. I try super glueing it, but it's glass and wont comply. After about 3 hours of trying to fix it, I give up, throw all the small pieces away and just say fuck it. Put it on the shelf it was on, half ass fixed. About 30 minutes ago my Step Dad barges into my room and asked what the fuck happened? We both deny knowing what happened. I feel so bad, one for breaking a novelty item he's had for as long as I can remember, and for lying about it... Me and my friend are very stupid.
Me and friend played soccer with an exercise ball inside the house. Friend full on kicks the ball, lands directly on a novelty small glass dragon my Step Dad has had since the beginning of time.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing with an exercise ball. POST: This happened a couple hours ago. Me and my friend were messing around, and found my Moms old exercise balls. Great idea, play with them because exercise balls are fun and shit. Anyways we start kicked them, and a full on soccer game ensues. We're playing in an about 15x7 room, with lots of valuable easily breakable stuff in it I.E swords, pictures, china cabinet ect. Well I keep telling my friend to kick it softer, and with the back of your foot, not full on kicking it, that way it would stop bouncing all over the place. My friend being the idiot he is, doesn't understand how to kick the ball still. He kicks it as hard as he can, it bounces off the wall and lands directly on this small glass dragon my Step Dad has had forever. It pretty much shatters, leaving about 2 big pieces left. I try super glueing it, but it's glass and wont comply. After about 3 hours of trying to fix it, I give up, throw all the small pieces away and just say fuck it. Put it on the shelf it was on, half ass fixed. About 30 minutes ago my Step Dad barges into my room and asked what the fuck happened? We both deny knowing what happened. I feel so bad, one for breaking a novelty item he's had for as long as I can remember, and for lying about it... Me and my friend are very stupid. TL;DR:
Me and friend played soccer with an exercise ball inside the house. Friend full on kicks the ball, lands directly on a novelty small glass dragon my Step Dad has had since the beginning of time.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by playing with an exercise ball. POST: This happened a couple hours ago. Me and my friend were messing around, and found my Moms old exercise balls. Great idea, play with them because exercise balls are fun and shit. Anyways we start kicked them, and a full on soccer game ensues. We're playing in an about 15x7 room, with lots of valuable easily breakable stuff in it I.E swords, pictures, china cabinet ect. Well I keep telling my friend to kick it softer, and with the back of your foot, not full on kicking it, that way it would stop bouncing all over the place. My friend being the idiot he is, doesn't understand how to kick the ball still. He kicks it as hard as he can, it bounces off the wall and lands directly on this small glass dragon my Step Dad has had forever. It pretty much shatters, leaving about 2 big pieces left. I try super glueing it, but it's glass and wont comply. After about 3 hours of trying to fix it, I give up, throw all the small pieces away and just say fuck it. Put it on the shelf it was on, half ass fixed. About 30 minutes ago my Step Dad barges into my room and asked what the fuck happened? We both deny knowing what happened. I feel so bad, one for breaking a novelty item he's had for as long as I can remember, and for lying about it... Me and my friend are very stupid. TL;DR: Me and friend played soccer with an exercise ball inside the house. Friend full on kicks the ball, lands directly on a novelty small glass dragon my Step Dad has had since the beginning of time.<|endoftext|>
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I need your help! Can you help me create a name and ideas for our Youtube Group?
So, a friend and I are creating a Youtube Account to have fun with in our spare time. We are just looking for some opinions. You don't have to waste your time by saying, "DUDE MAKE UP UR OWN IDEEEAZZZ< U ARE SO UNORIGINALLL COPYCATTER." We want to start making videos soon, but we need help creating a name and/or ideas you would like to see. What are videos will consists of are funny/awkward situations around our college campus with other students. We do not want to physically harm anyone or ruin others things. We just want to make situations funny/awkward What would make campus more fun? **Info:** So here is info about us that could help to make our channel better. Our names are Billy (or William) and Klaudio. We are 18 year old PreMed students that go to a highly respected university in Michigan. Our studies/homework come first before our youtube channel though. **Our Inspirations are:** LAHWF, MediocreFilms, LifeAccordingToJimmy, AwesomenessTV, EdBassMaster, JackValeFilms, etc. **Name Ideas:** - RealCollegeLife - OnCampusTV - CoolKidsOnCampus - WhatsCollege - StudyHabits - StudyBuddies - ProcrastinationStation - PassTheTimeTV - ChasingLaughs - BuiltForLaughs - WillWork4Tuition - WillWithFriends - AmusementAcademy - CollegeChuckles **Some Ideas:** - Winter Speedo Outside Volleyball 1v1 - Skiing to Class - Airhorn in Library - Awkward Situations - etc. **We have our own ideas but we were wondering what you, as an audience, might like to see!** Thanks :)
College Kids. Awkward Situations. Funny Situations/Pranks. Improv. On Campus. Name and Video Ideas!
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need your help! Can you help me create a name and ideas for our Youtube Group? POST: So, a friend and I are creating a Youtube Account to have fun with in our spare time. We are just looking for some opinions. You don't have to waste your time by saying, "DUDE MAKE UP UR OWN IDEEEAZZZ< U ARE SO UNORIGINALLL COPYCATTER." We want to start making videos soon, but we need help creating a name and/or ideas you would like to see. What are videos will consists of are funny/awkward situations around our college campus with other students. We do not want to physically harm anyone or ruin others things. We just want to make situations funny/awkward What would make campus more fun? **Info:** So here is info about us that could help to make our channel better. Our names are Billy (or William) and Klaudio. We are 18 year old PreMed students that go to a highly respected university in Michigan. Our studies/homework come first before our youtube channel though. **Our Inspirations are:** LAHWF, MediocreFilms, LifeAccordingToJimmy, AwesomenessTV, EdBassMaster, JackValeFilms, etc. **Name Ideas:** - RealCollegeLife - OnCampusTV - CoolKidsOnCampus - WhatsCollege - StudyHabits - StudyBuddies - ProcrastinationStation - PassTheTimeTV - ChasingLaughs - BuiltForLaughs - WillWork4Tuition - WillWithFriends - AmusementAcademy - CollegeChuckles **Some Ideas:** - Winter Speedo Outside Volleyball 1v1 - Skiing to Class - Airhorn in Library - Awkward Situations - etc. **We have our own ideas but we were wondering what you, as an audience, might like to see!** Thanks :) TL;DR:
College Kids. Awkward Situations. Funny Situations/Pranks. Improv. On Campus. Name and Video Ideas!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I need your help! Can you help me create a name and ideas for our Youtube Group? POST: So, a friend and I are creating a Youtube Account to have fun with in our spare time. We are just looking for some opinions. You don't have to waste your time by saying, "DUDE MAKE UP UR OWN IDEEEAZZZ< U ARE SO UNORIGINALLL COPYCATTER." We want to start making videos soon, but we need help creating a name and/or ideas you would like to see. What are videos will consists of are funny/awkward situations around our college campus with other students. We do not want to physically harm anyone or ruin others things. We just want to make situations funny/awkward What would make campus more fun? **Info:** So here is info about us that could help to make our channel better. Our names are Billy (or William) and Klaudio. We are 18 year old PreMed students that go to a highly respected university in Michigan. Our studies/homework come first before our youtube channel though. **Our Inspirations are:** LAHWF, MediocreFilms, LifeAccordingToJimmy, AwesomenessTV, EdBassMaster, JackValeFilms, etc. **Name Ideas:** - RealCollegeLife - OnCampusTV - CoolKidsOnCampus - WhatsCollege - StudyHabits - StudyBuddies - ProcrastinationStation - PassTheTimeTV - ChasingLaughs - BuiltForLaughs - WillWork4Tuition - WillWithFriends - AmusementAcademy - CollegeChuckles **Some Ideas:** - Winter Speedo Outside Volleyball 1v1 - Skiing to Class - Airhorn in Library - Awkward Situations - etc. **We have our own ideas but we were wondering what you, as an audience, might like to see!** Thanks :) TL;DR: College Kids. Awkward Situations. Funny Situations/Pranks. Improv. On Campus. Name and Video Ideas!<|endoftext|>
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I may be fired... What do?
So first, some backstory: I'm 18, going to university, and I work for a grocery chain. The last couple of days I have been the victim of debit card fraud and I've been pretty stressed out because my card is frozen. My mom has been calling me a lot in order to help me with this since I've never been through this before. So today at work, I was getting shopping carts in the parking lot and I felt my phone ringing in my pocket so I decided it would be smart to just get in my car and answer the phone real fast so I could know what was happening. The assistant store manager decided to come out of the building to talk to me at that point but didn't see me in the regular lot, so he decided to investigate the employee lot and found me in my car. I had just finished my call so it just looked like I was sitting in my car on my phone, and he started to yell at me for not working and told me to just clock out of my shift and go home without letting me explain. Now I have to come in to talk to my head manager and I might just get fired. I have little experience out of the service industry and cannot get a job in my field due to lack of experience. This job is basically the only thing keeping me out of debt in college so any help would be appreciated.
I was accused of slacking off on work when I was just trying to solve my debit card fraud issue and now I may get fired
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I may be fired... What do? POST: So first, some backstory: I'm 18, going to university, and I work for a grocery chain. The last couple of days I have been the victim of debit card fraud and I've been pretty stressed out because my card is frozen. My mom has been calling me a lot in order to help me with this since I've never been through this before. So today at work, I was getting shopping carts in the parking lot and I felt my phone ringing in my pocket so I decided it would be smart to just get in my car and answer the phone real fast so I could know what was happening. The assistant store manager decided to come out of the building to talk to me at that point but didn't see me in the regular lot, so he decided to investigate the employee lot and found me in my car. I had just finished my call so it just looked like I was sitting in my car on my phone, and he started to yell at me for not working and told me to just clock out of my shift and go home without letting me explain. Now I have to come in to talk to my head manager and I might just get fired. I have little experience out of the service industry and cannot get a job in my field due to lack of experience. This job is basically the only thing keeping me out of debt in college so any help would be appreciated. TL;DR:
I was accused of slacking off on work when I was just trying to solve my debit card fraud issue and now I may get fired<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: I may be fired... What do? POST: So first, some backstory: I'm 18, going to university, and I work for a grocery chain. The last couple of days I have been the victim of debit card fraud and I've been pretty stressed out because my card is frozen. My mom has been calling me a lot in order to help me with this since I've never been through this before. So today at work, I was getting shopping carts in the parking lot and I felt my phone ringing in my pocket so I decided it would be smart to just get in my car and answer the phone real fast so I could know what was happening. The assistant store manager decided to come out of the building to talk to me at that point but didn't see me in the regular lot, so he decided to investigate the employee lot and found me in my car. I had just finished my call so it just looked like I was sitting in my car on my phone, and he started to yell at me for not working and told me to just clock out of my shift and go home without letting me explain. Now I have to come in to talk to my head manager and I might just get fired. I have little experience out of the service industry and cannot get a job in my field due to lack of experience. This job is basically the only thing keeping me out of debt in college so any help would be appreciated. TL;DR: I was accused of slacking off on work when I was just trying to solve my debit card fraud issue and now I may get fired<|endoftext|>
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I (22/M) am trying to get over my ex (21/F), who left me to get back together with HER ex, and I need help. What can I do?
She and I dated for a while. Her ex-boyfriend was out of the country for two years and when he returned abruptly, she decided to get back together with him (secretly). She tried to break things off with me, though I knew the real reasons, by saying "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now". I recently spoke with her (via text) where she told me "I'm in a relationship now and I'm happy....I'll probably be getting married in the next few months". It really hurt to hear that, because for a long time, she and I had considered marriage. But she dumped me right when he got back to the states. This whole situation has been very discouraging to me because she and I were really close. I loved her a lot, and I thought she loved me too. Now, I am scared and too discouraged to try getting into another relationship - for fear of getting close and bringing those kinds of affectionate feelings back, only to have them torn away again.
Ugly break-up left me feeling discouraged, inadequate, and scared. I need help. What can I do to get over her and move on?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (22/M) am trying to get over my ex (21/F), who left me to get back together with HER ex, and I need help. What can I do? POST: She and I dated for a while. Her ex-boyfriend was out of the country for two years and when he returned abruptly, she decided to get back together with him (secretly). She tried to break things off with me, though I knew the real reasons, by saying "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now". I recently spoke with her (via text) where she told me "I'm in a relationship now and I'm happy....I'll probably be getting married in the next few months". It really hurt to hear that, because for a long time, she and I had considered marriage. But she dumped me right when he got back to the states. This whole situation has been very discouraging to me because she and I were really close. I loved her a lot, and I thought she loved me too. Now, I am scared and too discouraged to try getting into another relationship - for fear of getting close and bringing those kinds of affectionate feelings back, only to have them torn away again. TL;DR:
Ugly break-up left me feeling discouraged, inadequate, and scared. I need help. What can I do to get over her and move on?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (22/M) am trying to get over my ex (21/F), who left me to get back together with HER ex, and I need help. What can I do? POST: She and I dated for a while. Her ex-boyfriend was out of the country for two years and when he returned abruptly, she decided to get back together with him (secretly). She tried to break things off with me, though I knew the real reasons, by saying "I'm just not ready for a relationship right now". I recently spoke with her (via text) where she told me "I'm in a relationship now and I'm happy....I'll probably be getting married in the next few months". It really hurt to hear that, because for a long time, she and I had considered marriage. But she dumped me right when he got back to the states. This whole situation has been very discouraging to me because she and I were really close. I loved her a lot, and I thought she loved me too. Now, I am scared and too discouraged to try getting into another relationship - for fear of getting close and bringing those kinds of affectionate feelings back, only to have them torn away again. TL;DR: Ugly break-up left me feeling discouraged, inadequate, and scared. I need help. What can I do to get over her and move on?<|endoftext|>
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Foreign ex-coworker[Late20sF] I[24M] kissed while in London is coming to visit my city, wants me to 'be her guide'
Met this girl in March when I was working for my old company, visiting their London office (I'm in California). I hung out with the London coworkers for a few days, this girl a little bit more, and ended up kissing her the day before I left. We didn't talk a whole lot after that but she said she'd see me when she came to visit the California office. Cut to yesterday, she did exactly that over Facebook messenger, and asked me to be her guide around San Francisco where I live now (and work at a new company). She's working at an office about 40 miles away during the week next week and wants to visit SF that weekend and the weekend after. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said touristy stuff, food, music, and 'whatever the locals do for fun ;)'. Since she's just here for two weeks I'm thinking we'll have some fun and go our separate ways after. Am I right in assuming she's still interested? And if so, what should I take her to do? And basically just what should I go in to this expecting/aiming for/how do I not fuck this up?
kissed coworker in London six months ago, she's coming to visit and wants me to be her guide, should I still assume she is interested in me/how do I not fuck this up?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Foreign ex-coworker[Late20sF] I[24M] kissed while in London is coming to visit my city, wants me to 'be her guide' POST: Met this girl in March when I was working for my old company, visiting their London office (I'm in California). I hung out with the London coworkers for a few days, this girl a little bit more, and ended up kissing her the day before I left. We didn't talk a whole lot after that but she said she'd see me when she came to visit the California office. Cut to yesterday, she did exactly that over Facebook messenger, and asked me to be her guide around San Francisco where I live now (and work at a new company). She's working at an office about 40 miles away during the week next week and wants to visit SF that weekend and the weekend after. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said touristy stuff, food, music, and 'whatever the locals do for fun ;)'. Since she's just here for two weeks I'm thinking we'll have some fun and go our separate ways after. Am I right in assuming she's still interested? And if so, what should I take her to do? And basically just what should I go in to this expecting/aiming for/how do I not fuck this up? TL;DR:
kissed coworker in London six months ago, she's coming to visit and wants me to be her guide, should I still assume she is interested in me/how do I not fuck this up?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Foreign ex-coworker[Late20sF] I[24M] kissed while in London is coming to visit my city, wants me to 'be her guide' POST: Met this girl in March when I was working for my old company, visiting their London office (I'm in California). I hung out with the London coworkers for a few days, this girl a little bit more, and ended up kissing her the day before I left. We didn't talk a whole lot after that but she said she'd see me when she came to visit the California office. Cut to yesterday, she did exactly that over Facebook messenger, and asked me to be her guide around San Francisco where I live now (and work at a new company). She's working at an office about 40 miles away during the week next week and wants to visit SF that weekend and the weekend after. I asked her what she wanted to do and she said touristy stuff, food, music, and 'whatever the locals do for fun ;)'. Since she's just here for two weeks I'm thinking we'll have some fun and go our separate ways after. Am I right in assuming she's still interested? And if so, what should I take her to do? And basically just what should I go in to this expecting/aiming for/how do I not fuck this up? TL;DR: kissed coworker in London six months ago, she's coming to visit and wants me to be her guide, should I still assume she is interested in me/how do I not fuck this up?<|endoftext|>
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Business in another state owes me money, what else can I do outside of court?
I'm currently owed just under $8k by a company in Georgia. When I entered into the agreement with the business (a liquidation company) I lived in Illinois. Now I live in California. I currently have a line of communication with the company. They have sent me a portion of the original amount owed - $1,500 - as "goodwill". I investigated the option of small claims, but even if I received a favorable judgment, which would take a lot of my time and possibly money, I would still have to find a way to get them to pay. You can garnish a person's wages, but it's trickier with a business. The company is claiming to have cash flow problems. It doesn't matter if I believe them or not. I accept that they are likely screwing me over with a smile. I think they know I don't really have a way to extract funds from them. However, my continued politeness (relatively) has prevented them from cutting off all contact, which I think is a good thing. I filed a BBB complaint but the BBB does not assist with situations of owed money, and the company didn't respond to the BBB anyway. Do I have ANY leverage left? The extent of what I'm owed is fully documented. In fact the company regularly updates me with the figure of what I'm owed. I just don't know what to do next.
A business in another state owes me money but going to court would be a waste of time/money. What options remain?
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Business in another state owes me money, what else can I do outside of court? POST: I'm currently owed just under $8k by a company in Georgia. When I entered into the agreement with the business (a liquidation company) I lived in Illinois. Now I live in California. I currently have a line of communication with the company. They have sent me a portion of the original amount owed - $1,500 - as "goodwill". I investigated the option of small claims, but even if I received a favorable judgment, which would take a lot of my time and possibly money, I would still have to find a way to get them to pay. You can garnish a person's wages, but it's trickier with a business. The company is claiming to have cash flow problems. It doesn't matter if I believe them or not. I accept that they are likely screwing me over with a smile. I think they know I don't really have a way to extract funds from them. However, my continued politeness (relatively) has prevented them from cutting off all contact, which I think is a good thing. I filed a BBB complaint but the BBB does not assist with situations of owed money, and the company didn't respond to the BBB anyway. Do I have ANY leverage left? The extent of what I'm owed is fully documented. In fact the company regularly updates me with the figure of what I'm owed. I just don't know what to do next. TL;DR:
A business in another state owes me money but going to court would be a waste of time/money. What options remain?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Business in another state owes me money, what else can I do outside of court? POST: I'm currently owed just under $8k by a company in Georgia. When I entered into the agreement with the business (a liquidation company) I lived in Illinois. Now I live in California. I currently have a line of communication with the company. They have sent me a portion of the original amount owed - $1,500 - as "goodwill". I investigated the option of small claims, but even if I received a favorable judgment, which would take a lot of my time and possibly money, I would still have to find a way to get them to pay. You can garnish a person's wages, but it's trickier with a business. The company is claiming to have cash flow problems. It doesn't matter if I believe them or not. I accept that they are likely screwing me over with a smile. I think they know I don't really have a way to extract funds from them. However, my continued politeness (relatively) has prevented them from cutting off all contact, which I think is a good thing. I filed a BBB complaint but the BBB does not assist with situations of owed money, and the company didn't respond to the BBB anyway. Do I have ANY leverage left? The extent of what I'm owed is fully documented. In fact the company regularly updates me with the figure of what I'm owed. I just don't know what to do next. TL;DR: A business in another state owes me money but going to court would be a waste of time/money. What options remain?<|endoftext|>
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t3_c1msu
relationship_advice
Couple of issues (possible long distance relationship and losing my virginity). Help please.
Background: This is a throwaway account. I met a young lady about a month ago and we've been seeing one another fairly regularly since then. Just after I asked her out for our first date but before we went out I lost my job which isn't a big deal in itself. I am, however, starting grad school in the fall--as is she--so I'm leaving the area in a couple of weeks. She's leaving for grad school--somewhere about 2500 miles from where I am going to be--in August. I really like spending time with her and if neither of us were leaving the area we could just let our relationship run its course but we don't have that luxury so I've come to the reddit hivemind for some insight. Issue 1: How stupid is it even to consider a long distance relationship with her? Of course, I need to talk to her about it but am I being dumb even thinking about trying? Issue 2: I'm a virgin; she's not. We were fooling around the other night and she said we should talk about STDs and said she was clean. I dropped the bomb that I'd never had sex and had always thought I'd lose my virginity to the person I married. Since I lost my religion a couple years ago I just kind of let that idea stand since the only person I seriously dated in the intervening three years--for two of them in fact--was somewhat religious and wanted to wait. Am I trying to hold onto a (stupid) Christian idea without its theological, metaphysical and anthropological grounding? In other words, is there a good reason for me to not have sex with this beautiful young woman? Thanks, in advance.
Dating a girl for a month. Both going to grad school far apart. Am I stupid for (1) thinking about a long distance relationship and (2) not having sex with her?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Couple of issues (possible long distance relationship and losing my virginity). Help please. POST: Background: This is a throwaway account. I met a young lady about a month ago and we've been seeing one another fairly regularly since then. Just after I asked her out for our first date but before we went out I lost my job which isn't a big deal in itself. I am, however, starting grad school in the fall--as is she--so I'm leaving the area in a couple of weeks. She's leaving for grad school--somewhere about 2500 miles from where I am going to be--in August. I really like spending time with her and if neither of us were leaving the area we could just let our relationship run its course but we don't have that luxury so I've come to the reddit hivemind for some insight. Issue 1: How stupid is it even to consider a long distance relationship with her? Of course, I need to talk to her about it but am I being dumb even thinking about trying? Issue 2: I'm a virgin; she's not. We were fooling around the other night and she said we should talk about STDs and said she was clean. I dropped the bomb that I'd never had sex and had always thought I'd lose my virginity to the person I married. Since I lost my religion a couple years ago I just kind of let that idea stand since the only person I seriously dated in the intervening three years--for two of them in fact--was somewhat religious and wanted to wait. Am I trying to hold onto a (stupid) Christian idea without its theological, metaphysical and anthropological grounding? In other words, is there a good reason for me to not have sex with this beautiful young woman? Thanks, in advance. TL;DR:
Dating a girl for a month. Both going to grad school far apart. Am I stupid for (1) thinking about a long distance relationship and (2) not having sex with her?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Couple of issues (possible long distance relationship and losing my virginity). Help please. POST: Background: This is a throwaway account. I met a young lady about a month ago and we've been seeing one another fairly regularly since then. Just after I asked her out for our first date but before we went out I lost my job which isn't a big deal in itself. I am, however, starting grad school in the fall--as is she--so I'm leaving the area in a couple of weeks. She's leaving for grad school--somewhere about 2500 miles from where I am going to be--in August. I really like spending time with her and if neither of us were leaving the area we could just let our relationship run its course but we don't have that luxury so I've come to the reddit hivemind for some insight. Issue 1: How stupid is it even to consider a long distance relationship with her? Of course, I need to talk to her about it but am I being dumb even thinking about trying? Issue 2: I'm a virgin; she's not. We were fooling around the other night and she said we should talk about STDs and said she was clean. I dropped the bomb that I'd never had sex and had always thought I'd lose my virginity to the person I married. Since I lost my religion a couple years ago I just kind of let that idea stand since the only person I seriously dated in the intervening three years--for two of them in fact--was somewhat religious and wanted to wait. Am I trying to hold onto a (stupid) Christian idea without its theological, metaphysical and anthropological grounding? In other words, is there a good reason for me to not have sex with this beautiful young woman? Thanks, in advance. TL;DR: Dating a girl for a month. Both going to grad school far apart. Am I stupid for (1) thinking about a long distance relationship and (2) not having sex with her?<|endoftext|>
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What is the rule (if any) regarding buying flowers for a girl who is in a (somewhat rocky) relationship?
I'm 26, she's 28, we are both in law school. As the title suggests. I have a good friend who I definitely am attracted to, and while she's in a relationship it appears to be in not the best of shape. That's not to say that it will end or anything like that, it's just a bit rocky at the moment. That being said, I know her weekend recently was not the best one in the world. What is the protocol, if any, on buying her a small thing of flowers with a card that's somewhat humorous and is encouraging having a good day?
Want to cheer up a good friend of mine who's been down. Is it OK to buy her a small thing of flowers?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What is the rule (if any) regarding buying flowers for a girl who is in a (somewhat rocky) relationship? POST: I'm 26, she's 28, we are both in law school. As the title suggests. I have a good friend who I definitely am attracted to, and while she's in a relationship it appears to be in not the best of shape. That's not to say that it will end or anything like that, it's just a bit rocky at the moment. That being said, I know her weekend recently was not the best one in the world. What is the protocol, if any, on buying her a small thing of flowers with a card that's somewhat humorous and is encouraging having a good day? TL;DR:
Want to cheer up a good friend of mine who's been down. Is it OK to buy her a small thing of flowers?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: What is the rule (if any) regarding buying flowers for a girl who is in a (somewhat rocky) relationship? POST: I'm 26, she's 28, we are both in law school. As the title suggests. I have a good friend who I definitely am attracted to, and while she's in a relationship it appears to be in not the best of shape. That's not to say that it will end or anything like that, it's just a bit rocky at the moment. That being said, I know her weekend recently was not the best one in the world. What is the protocol, if any, on buying her a small thing of flowers with a card that's somewhat humorous and is encouraging having a good day? TL;DR: Want to cheer up a good friend of mine who's been down. Is it OK to buy her a small thing of flowers?<|endoftext|>
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Even 2 years after cutting off contact, I[20/m] still can not stop thinking about her[20/f]. How the heck am I supposed to move on?
I'm currently 20(m). ---------------------------------------The early years------------------------------------------------- **Grade 8 (7 years ago) to Grade 10 (4 years ago)**, I had an incredibly close (f)riend(same age) who I would *always* hang out with. She and I were two peas in a pod. We were really really close. **Grade 11 to Grade 12 (high school)** Our interaction decreased significantly because we were sorted in different classes and barely found time for each other amid the exam preparations. Although we were still close, our interactions gradually reduced. --------------------------------------------The Mistake-------------------------------------------- Note: However I was a stupid cringe-worthy idiot who used to do really foolish stuff and say stupid things. After school ended (2 years ago), I asked her out. She politely told me that she'd rather be **just friends**. I kept my cool and told her that was fine. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ After high school, I decided not to stay in touch with ANYBODY and completely cut off everyone I knew from school including her. I decided to be a better person and improve myself. It's been 3 years and not a day goes by when I don't think about her. Every day, I pick up the phone thinking I'll call her but then decide against it as I feel embarrassed about my past-self and how stupid I was. Every day, I wonder how she's doing and how it would be to talk to her again. Every day, I miss her more than the previous. But I still feel embarrassed of my past-self and his idiocy. I know that talking to her will make me relapse again. I'll fall for her again and won't be able to move on again. How the heck am I supposed to move on? I just need to stop thinking about this.
Cut off contact with close (f)riend after getting rejected. 2 years later, I still keep thinking about her. How do I move on?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Even 2 years after cutting off contact, I[20/m] still can not stop thinking about her[20/f]. How the heck am I supposed to move on? POST: I'm currently 20(m). ---------------------------------------The early years------------------------------------------------- **Grade 8 (7 years ago) to Grade 10 (4 years ago)**, I had an incredibly close (f)riend(same age) who I would *always* hang out with. She and I were two peas in a pod. We were really really close. **Grade 11 to Grade 12 (high school)** Our interaction decreased significantly because we were sorted in different classes and barely found time for each other amid the exam preparations. Although we were still close, our interactions gradually reduced. --------------------------------------------The Mistake-------------------------------------------- Note: However I was a stupid cringe-worthy idiot who used to do really foolish stuff and say stupid things. After school ended (2 years ago), I asked her out. She politely told me that she'd rather be **just friends**. I kept my cool and told her that was fine. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ After high school, I decided not to stay in touch with ANYBODY and completely cut off everyone I knew from school including her. I decided to be a better person and improve myself. It's been 3 years and not a day goes by when I don't think about her. Every day, I pick up the phone thinking I'll call her but then decide against it as I feel embarrassed about my past-self and how stupid I was. Every day, I wonder how she's doing and how it would be to talk to her again. Every day, I miss her more than the previous. But I still feel embarrassed of my past-self and his idiocy. I know that talking to her will make me relapse again. I'll fall for her again and won't be able to move on again. How the heck am I supposed to move on? I just need to stop thinking about this. TL;DR:
Cut off contact with close (f)riend after getting rejected. 2 years later, I still keep thinking about her. How do I move on?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Even 2 years after cutting off contact, I[20/m] still can not stop thinking about her[20/f]. How the heck am I supposed to move on? POST: I'm currently 20(m). ---------------------------------------The early years------------------------------------------------- **Grade 8 (7 years ago) to Grade 10 (4 years ago)**, I had an incredibly close (f)riend(same age) who I would *always* hang out with. She and I were two peas in a pod. We were really really close. **Grade 11 to Grade 12 (high school)** Our interaction decreased significantly because we were sorted in different classes and barely found time for each other amid the exam preparations. Although we were still close, our interactions gradually reduced. --------------------------------------------The Mistake-------------------------------------------- Note: However I was a stupid cringe-worthy idiot who used to do really foolish stuff and say stupid things. After school ended (2 years ago), I asked her out. She politely told me that she'd rather be **just friends**. I kept my cool and told her that was fine. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ After high school, I decided not to stay in touch with ANYBODY and completely cut off everyone I knew from school including her. I decided to be a better person and improve myself. It's been 3 years and not a day goes by when I don't think about her. Every day, I pick up the phone thinking I'll call her but then decide against it as I feel embarrassed about my past-self and how stupid I was. Every day, I wonder how she's doing and how it would be to talk to her again. Every day, I miss her more than the previous. But I still feel embarrassed of my past-self and his idiocy. I know that talking to her will make me relapse again. I'll fall for her again and won't be able to move on again. How the heck am I supposed to move on? I just need to stop thinking about this. TL;DR: Cut off contact with close (f)riend after getting rejected. 2 years later, I still keep thinking about her. How do I move on?<|endoftext|>
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I'm [23 M] not sure how to talk to my girlfriend [21 F] who suddenly stopped putting any effort in the relationship of almost 3 months.
We've been dating for a few months. Lately she's been unmotivated and seems to be rapidly losing interest in me. I feel a breakup coming up. There is a chance I'm wrong about her losing interest in the relationship. She's the kind of person who wants to prove everyone she is strong. The way she acts makes her seem so carefree but to me it's clearly an act. I know she's having a really hard time handling the stress school is giving her lately. She broke down crying to her mother after getting a bad grade. This is the first time I saw her crying. This confirmed that she was bottling up stress. A few minutes prior, though, I asked her how her day was because I noticed she was having a hard time and seemed down. I told her to please use me as a vent for her problems. That sharing problems or crying would never scare me away. But "that wouldn't help". So she either wants to act strong in front of me or she just doesn't want to confide in me. The communication has been almost non-existent the last couple of days. I think everyone handles stress differently. It's not uncommon to cut back on communicating with certain people but shouldn't your boyfriend be one of the last to cut back on? Now it's come to the point that I'm just confused, depressed and stressed out (hair's getting thinner by the day...). I'm thinking of breaking it off myself before she does just to end it while we're still on good terms. I seriously really REALLY rather not. But it's clear to me something is troubling her and I don't want to be a contributor to her stress. How should I handle this? Should I talk to her about this? What do I say? Or do I end it to avoid making things worse? I'm sorry but I'm clueless. I still really adore this girl.
Is my girlfriend done with me or could it be the stress? I allowed myself to get emotionally attached but a breakup seems inevitable how do I handle this like a man?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [23 M] not sure how to talk to my girlfriend [21 F] who suddenly stopped putting any effort in the relationship of almost 3 months. POST: We've been dating for a few months. Lately she's been unmotivated and seems to be rapidly losing interest in me. I feel a breakup coming up. There is a chance I'm wrong about her losing interest in the relationship. She's the kind of person who wants to prove everyone she is strong. The way she acts makes her seem so carefree but to me it's clearly an act. I know she's having a really hard time handling the stress school is giving her lately. She broke down crying to her mother after getting a bad grade. This is the first time I saw her crying. This confirmed that she was bottling up stress. A few minutes prior, though, I asked her how her day was because I noticed she was having a hard time and seemed down. I told her to please use me as a vent for her problems. That sharing problems or crying would never scare me away. But "that wouldn't help". So she either wants to act strong in front of me or she just doesn't want to confide in me. The communication has been almost non-existent the last couple of days. I think everyone handles stress differently. It's not uncommon to cut back on communicating with certain people but shouldn't your boyfriend be one of the last to cut back on? Now it's come to the point that I'm just confused, depressed and stressed out (hair's getting thinner by the day...). I'm thinking of breaking it off myself before she does just to end it while we're still on good terms. I seriously really REALLY rather not. But it's clear to me something is troubling her and I don't want to be a contributor to her stress. How should I handle this? Should I talk to her about this? What do I say? Or do I end it to avoid making things worse? I'm sorry but I'm clueless. I still really adore this girl. TL;DR:
Is my girlfriend done with me or could it be the stress? I allowed myself to get emotionally attached but a breakup seems inevitable how do I handle this like a man?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [23 M] not sure how to talk to my girlfriend [21 F] who suddenly stopped putting any effort in the relationship of almost 3 months. POST: We've been dating for a few months. Lately she's been unmotivated and seems to be rapidly losing interest in me. I feel a breakup coming up. There is a chance I'm wrong about her losing interest in the relationship. She's the kind of person who wants to prove everyone she is strong. The way she acts makes her seem so carefree but to me it's clearly an act. I know she's having a really hard time handling the stress school is giving her lately. She broke down crying to her mother after getting a bad grade. This is the first time I saw her crying. This confirmed that she was bottling up stress. A few minutes prior, though, I asked her how her day was because I noticed she was having a hard time and seemed down. I told her to please use me as a vent for her problems. That sharing problems or crying would never scare me away. But "that wouldn't help". So she either wants to act strong in front of me or she just doesn't want to confide in me. The communication has been almost non-existent the last couple of days. I think everyone handles stress differently. It's not uncommon to cut back on communicating with certain people but shouldn't your boyfriend be one of the last to cut back on? Now it's come to the point that I'm just confused, depressed and stressed out (hair's getting thinner by the day...). I'm thinking of breaking it off myself before she does just to end it while we're still on good terms. I seriously really REALLY rather not. But it's clear to me something is troubling her and I don't want to be a contributor to her stress. How should I handle this? Should I talk to her about this? What do I say? Or do I end it to avoid making things worse? I'm sorry but I'm clueless. I still really adore this girl. TL;DR: Is my girlfriend done with me or could it be the stress? I allowed myself to get emotionally attached but a breakup seems inevitable how do I handle this like a man?<|endoftext|>
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How do I [F19] get my Ex [M19] to come get the rest of the shit he left at my house?
Okay, so my boyfriend of over 2 years left me on August 30th, when he left he packed a quick bag & said he'd be back for the rest of it the next day, he didn't come get it which was understandable so he told me he'd come on September 2/3rd to get it...obviously he didn't, the last time I heard from him was the 2nd when he said he was too busy & he would come on the 3rd. He hasn't responded to any attempts at contact, I'm not asking him to do anything other then collect his things so I'm really frustrated & out of ideas. Any Advice?
Stupid fucker will not come for his things or even talk to me about getting them, tired of being used for storage.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [F19] get my Ex [M19] to come get the rest of the shit he left at my house? POST: Okay, so my boyfriend of over 2 years left me on August 30th, when he left he packed a quick bag & said he'd be back for the rest of it the next day, he didn't come get it which was understandable so he told me he'd come on September 2/3rd to get it...obviously he didn't, the last time I heard from him was the 2nd when he said he was too busy & he would come on the 3rd. He hasn't responded to any attempts at contact, I'm not asking him to do anything other then collect his things so I'm really frustrated & out of ideas. Any Advice? TL;DR:
Stupid fucker will not come for his things or even talk to me about getting them, tired of being used for storage.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [F19] get my Ex [M19] to come get the rest of the shit he left at my house? POST: Okay, so my boyfriend of over 2 years left me on August 30th, when he left he packed a quick bag & said he'd be back for the rest of it the next day, he didn't come get it which was understandable so he told me he'd come on September 2/3rd to get it...obviously he didn't, the last time I heard from him was the 2nd when he said he was too busy & he would come on the 3rd. He hasn't responded to any attempts at contact, I'm not asking him to do anything other then collect his things so I'm really frustrated & out of ideas. Any Advice? TL;DR: Stupid fucker will not come for his things or even talk to me about getting them, tired of being used for storage.<|endoftext|>
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[19F] I don't want my Little Brother [14M] having a Girlfriend?
Hi, I'm an older sister to twins. I'm nineteen, they're fourteen (a boy and girl). My sister has had a couple boyfriend's before and I'd feel like proud of her, want to talk to her all about it and give advice, and in general I'd just think awehh that's adorable she has a bf, she's growing up. Now my brother has his first girlfriend and I just feel totally weird about it. I feel kind of like I'm "losing" him, and it just makes me territorial and I was kinda rude toward his gf the couples times I've met her. I love both of my siblings equally, I don't know why these feelings are so much stronger towards my brother than her. I worry almost that it could be some sort of strange attraction I have towards my brother? (I don't think I am in any way, but I don't know why else the opposite sex thing would make a difference) I don't want to be that older sibling who interrogates their sibling's SO, I also don't want to be controlling of him or tell him he's not allowed dating or anything. How am I supposed to deal with this and why do you think I feel that way?
I have a little brother and sister, same age. I love them equally but am super overprotective of brother. I don't want him having a girlfriend, I don't know why.
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [19F] I don't want my Little Brother [14M] having a Girlfriend? POST: Hi, I'm an older sister to twins. I'm nineteen, they're fourteen (a boy and girl). My sister has had a couple boyfriend's before and I'd feel like proud of her, want to talk to her all about it and give advice, and in general I'd just think awehh that's adorable she has a bf, she's growing up. Now my brother has his first girlfriend and I just feel totally weird about it. I feel kind of like I'm "losing" him, and it just makes me territorial and I was kinda rude toward his gf the couples times I've met her. I love both of my siblings equally, I don't know why these feelings are so much stronger towards my brother than her. I worry almost that it could be some sort of strange attraction I have towards my brother? (I don't think I am in any way, but I don't know why else the opposite sex thing would make a difference) I don't want to be that older sibling who interrogates their sibling's SO, I also don't want to be controlling of him or tell him he's not allowed dating or anything. How am I supposed to deal with this and why do you think I feel that way? TL;DR:
I have a little brother and sister, same age. I love them equally but am super overprotective of brother. I don't want him having a girlfriend, I don't know why.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [19F] I don't want my Little Brother [14M] having a Girlfriend? POST: Hi, I'm an older sister to twins. I'm nineteen, they're fourteen (a boy and girl). My sister has had a couple boyfriend's before and I'd feel like proud of her, want to talk to her all about it and give advice, and in general I'd just think awehh that's adorable she has a bf, she's growing up. Now my brother has his first girlfriend and I just feel totally weird about it. I feel kind of like I'm "losing" him, and it just makes me territorial and I was kinda rude toward his gf the couples times I've met her. I love both of my siblings equally, I don't know why these feelings are so much stronger towards my brother than her. I worry almost that it could be some sort of strange attraction I have towards my brother? (I don't think I am in any way, but I don't know why else the opposite sex thing would make a difference) I don't want to be that older sibling who interrogates their sibling's SO, I also don't want to be controlling of him or tell him he's not allowed dating or anything. How am I supposed to deal with this and why do you think I feel that way? TL;DR: I have a little brother and sister, same age. I love them equally but am super overprotective of brother. I don't want him having a girlfriend, I don't know why.<|endoftext|>
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[21/F] Have been dating a guy [23/M] for about a month, its going great with him, but I'm experiencing anxiety about getting emotionally close.
The first guy I had a serious relationship with was in my junior year of high school, first guy I had sex with too. I was 16 at the beginning and it lasted 2 1/2 years. He turned out to be controlling, paranoid, inconsiderate of my emotions (would call me names/make negative descriptions of my body) and a general asshat. After that relationship I only wanted casual relationships for a while, and I enjoyed that. A little time goes by and I enter a relationship- the other guy ends it because he feels like I'm emotionally unavailable. Totally true, I didnt feel motivated to try with that guy and I had some fierce independence going on. That was a year ago, and now I've started to date someone new. I feel ready to open up and have a meaningful relationship, the timing seems right and casual flings were leaving me feeling unfulfilled. This new guy is amazing and I can definitely see myself entering a long term relationship with him- even though we've been dating a month we had talked online (on OKC) for much longer. We've talked about what we were each looking for in a partner and a relationship and our goals match up. So far I feel like I'm doing alright and we are moving along at a pace that feels comfortable and natural. But there are times I am gripped with fleeting anxiety. I dont want to end up in the same kind of relationship that I had with my ex. Im very wary, and totally on the lookout for signs that he might be controlling. I'm fairly sure I'm going to be able to work through this on my own, but I'm curious if anyone has gone through something similar. Does anyone have any tips on how to balance letting your guard down and watching out for red flags?
I really want to have an intimate relationship, but a controlling ex and 3 years of casual flings have left me emotionally reserved. how the hell do I open up?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21/F] Have been dating a guy [23/M] for about a month, its going great with him, but I'm experiencing anxiety about getting emotionally close. POST: The first guy I had a serious relationship with was in my junior year of high school, first guy I had sex with too. I was 16 at the beginning and it lasted 2 1/2 years. He turned out to be controlling, paranoid, inconsiderate of my emotions (would call me names/make negative descriptions of my body) and a general asshat. After that relationship I only wanted casual relationships for a while, and I enjoyed that. A little time goes by and I enter a relationship- the other guy ends it because he feels like I'm emotionally unavailable. Totally true, I didnt feel motivated to try with that guy and I had some fierce independence going on. That was a year ago, and now I've started to date someone new. I feel ready to open up and have a meaningful relationship, the timing seems right and casual flings were leaving me feeling unfulfilled. This new guy is amazing and I can definitely see myself entering a long term relationship with him- even though we've been dating a month we had talked online (on OKC) for much longer. We've talked about what we were each looking for in a partner and a relationship and our goals match up. So far I feel like I'm doing alright and we are moving along at a pace that feels comfortable and natural. But there are times I am gripped with fleeting anxiety. I dont want to end up in the same kind of relationship that I had with my ex. Im very wary, and totally on the lookout for signs that he might be controlling. I'm fairly sure I'm going to be able to work through this on my own, but I'm curious if anyone has gone through something similar. Does anyone have any tips on how to balance letting your guard down and watching out for red flags? TL;DR:
I really want to have an intimate relationship, but a controlling ex and 3 years of casual flings have left me emotionally reserved. how the hell do I open up?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21/F] Have been dating a guy [23/M] for about a month, its going great with him, but I'm experiencing anxiety about getting emotionally close. POST: The first guy I had a serious relationship with was in my junior year of high school, first guy I had sex with too. I was 16 at the beginning and it lasted 2 1/2 years. He turned out to be controlling, paranoid, inconsiderate of my emotions (would call me names/make negative descriptions of my body) and a general asshat. After that relationship I only wanted casual relationships for a while, and I enjoyed that. A little time goes by and I enter a relationship- the other guy ends it because he feels like I'm emotionally unavailable. Totally true, I didnt feel motivated to try with that guy and I had some fierce independence going on. That was a year ago, and now I've started to date someone new. I feel ready to open up and have a meaningful relationship, the timing seems right and casual flings were leaving me feeling unfulfilled. This new guy is amazing and I can definitely see myself entering a long term relationship with him- even though we've been dating a month we had talked online (on OKC) for much longer. We've talked about what we were each looking for in a partner and a relationship and our goals match up. So far I feel like I'm doing alright and we are moving along at a pace that feels comfortable and natural. But there are times I am gripped with fleeting anxiety. I dont want to end up in the same kind of relationship that I had with my ex. Im very wary, and totally on the lookout for signs that he might be controlling. I'm fairly sure I'm going to be able to work through this on my own, but I'm curious if anyone has gone through something similar. Does anyone have any tips on how to balance letting your guard down and watching out for red flags? TL;DR: I really want to have an intimate relationship, but a controlling ex and 3 years of casual flings have left me emotionally reserved. how the hell do I open up?<|endoftext|>
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[22 F] with [21 M/F] for over a year, my fiance is a narc
It's a rough and sometimes annoying thing to deal with; being in love with someone who seems to only sleep. He'll fall asleep anywhere normal, like in the car or on the floor while he's playing video games, but he's fallen asleep in weird or awkward places too. He's sat down on the floor in Walmart and dozed off while I was contemplating items for a bit too long, he's fallen asleep on a rock by the lake in my town, hell he's fallen asleep while walking or working out. It's kind of my job to keep him awake, not that I'm really complaining but sometimes it's kind of annoying to be talking then notice he's been half dead the whole time. It makes me sort of afraid that I'm boring because he can keep pretty awake when something grabs his interest. Right now he doesn't have insurance because his mother is a lazy sack of shit and he was currently fired because his manager is a massive cunt in a half (different story) and even if he didn't, he isn't able to work more than a certain amount of hours and of course that only leads to a certain amount of money. We tried B12's but that doesn't seem to do much if anything at all. Is it something I just need to continue growing to deal with?
My fiance is a narcoleptic and I need to know how to cope and help him through it. He does not have insurance and doctors are not possible for the time being.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 F] with [21 M/F] for over a year, my fiance is a narc POST: It's a rough and sometimes annoying thing to deal with; being in love with someone who seems to only sleep. He'll fall asleep anywhere normal, like in the car or on the floor while he's playing video games, but he's fallen asleep in weird or awkward places too. He's sat down on the floor in Walmart and dozed off while I was contemplating items for a bit too long, he's fallen asleep on a rock by the lake in my town, hell he's fallen asleep while walking or working out. It's kind of my job to keep him awake, not that I'm really complaining but sometimes it's kind of annoying to be talking then notice he's been half dead the whole time. It makes me sort of afraid that I'm boring because he can keep pretty awake when something grabs his interest. Right now he doesn't have insurance because his mother is a lazy sack of shit and he was currently fired because his manager is a massive cunt in a half (different story) and even if he didn't, he isn't able to work more than a certain amount of hours and of course that only leads to a certain amount of money. We tried B12's but that doesn't seem to do much if anything at all. Is it something I just need to continue growing to deal with? TL;DR:
My fiance is a narcoleptic and I need to know how to cope and help him through it. He does not have insurance and doctors are not possible for the time being.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [22 F] with [21 M/F] for over a year, my fiance is a narc POST: It's a rough and sometimes annoying thing to deal with; being in love with someone who seems to only sleep. He'll fall asleep anywhere normal, like in the car or on the floor while he's playing video games, but he's fallen asleep in weird or awkward places too. He's sat down on the floor in Walmart and dozed off while I was contemplating items for a bit too long, he's fallen asleep on a rock by the lake in my town, hell he's fallen asleep while walking or working out. It's kind of my job to keep him awake, not that I'm really complaining but sometimes it's kind of annoying to be talking then notice he's been half dead the whole time. It makes me sort of afraid that I'm boring because he can keep pretty awake when something grabs his interest. Right now he doesn't have insurance because his mother is a lazy sack of shit and he was currently fired because his manager is a massive cunt in a half (different story) and even if he didn't, he isn't able to work more than a certain amount of hours and of course that only leads to a certain amount of money. We tried B12's but that doesn't seem to do much if anything at all. Is it something I just need to continue growing to deal with? TL;DR: My fiance is a narcoleptic and I need to know how to cope and help him through it. He does not have insurance and doctors are not possible for the time being.<|endoftext|>
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My mom[49F] drinks every single night and I[23F] think she might be an alcoholic. Am I overreacting?
Hello Reddit, this question has been weighing heavily on my mind for awhile now. I really want to know if my mom is an alcoholic or if I am overreacting. Currently I live with my husband 6 hours away from my parents and I haven't lived at home in over 3 years. However in all the years I did from the time I can remember my mom drank every night (either wine or homemade margaritas with a lot of tequila). I can only recall her ever being drunk one time when I came home from shopping around 1 pm and found her passed out on her bed. (Not just taking a nap, she literally was drunk). I woke her up and she was slurring her words and just out of it. She drinks every time we go out to eat and every single night like I said. (At least 3 glasses of wine a night). And like I said I haven't lived at home in 3 years but I know she still drinks every night because every time she has came to visit me and my son she has me take her to the store to buy wine. EVERY SINGLE TIME. she's probably visited 7 times in the past 2 years but every visit she has to stock up on wine (my husband and I don't drink at all). And she drinks multiple glasses before bed every night she is here. I've told her I'm concerned that she is an alcoholic many times and she gets angry and tells me "an alcoholic is someone who has to drink first thing in the morning". Which I don't believe but I'm not sure. She doesn't seem to be drunk constantly but I feel like drinking tequila or wine every single night and even when you are visiting ur only grandchild and daughter is ridiculous. What do you think Reddit? I know she is an adult so there isn't anything I can do but I just want to know if I'm even justified to be worrying at all about this? Thanks guys!
I think my mom might be an alcoholic because she has to drink every single night but I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom[49F] drinks every single night and I[23F] think she might be an alcoholic. Am I overreacting? POST: Hello Reddit, this question has been weighing heavily on my mind for awhile now. I really want to know if my mom is an alcoholic or if I am overreacting. Currently I live with my husband 6 hours away from my parents and I haven't lived at home in over 3 years. However in all the years I did from the time I can remember my mom drank every night (either wine or homemade margaritas with a lot of tequila). I can only recall her ever being drunk one time when I came home from shopping around 1 pm and found her passed out on her bed. (Not just taking a nap, she literally was drunk). I woke her up and she was slurring her words and just out of it. She drinks every time we go out to eat and every single night like I said. (At least 3 glasses of wine a night). And like I said I haven't lived at home in 3 years but I know she still drinks every night because every time she has came to visit me and my son she has me take her to the store to buy wine. EVERY SINGLE TIME. she's probably visited 7 times in the past 2 years but every visit she has to stock up on wine (my husband and I don't drink at all). And she drinks multiple glasses before bed every night she is here. I've told her I'm concerned that she is an alcoholic many times and she gets angry and tells me "an alcoholic is someone who has to drink first thing in the morning". Which I don't believe but I'm not sure. She doesn't seem to be drunk constantly but I feel like drinking tequila or wine every single night and even when you are visiting ur only grandchild and daughter is ridiculous. What do you think Reddit? I know she is an adult so there isn't anything I can do but I just want to know if I'm even justified to be worrying at all about this? Thanks guys! TL;DR:
I think my mom might be an alcoholic because she has to drink every single night but I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My mom[49F] drinks every single night and I[23F] think she might be an alcoholic. Am I overreacting? POST: Hello Reddit, this question has been weighing heavily on my mind for awhile now. I really want to know if my mom is an alcoholic or if I am overreacting. Currently I live with my husband 6 hours away from my parents and I haven't lived at home in over 3 years. However in all the years I did from the time I can remember my mom drank every night (either wine or homemade margaritas with a lot of tequila). I can only recall her ever being drunk one time when I came home from shopping around 1 pm and found her passed out on her bed. (Not just taking a nap, she literally was drunk). I woke her up and she was slurring her words and just out of it. She drinks every time we go out to eat and every single night like I said. (At least 3 glasses of wine a night). And like I said I haven't lived at home in 3 years but I know she still drinks every night because every time she has came to visit me and my son she has me take her to the store to buy wine. EVERY SINGLE TIME. she's probably visited 7 times in the past 2 years but every visit she has to stock up on wine (my husband and I don't drink at all). And she drinks multiple glasses before bed every night she is here. I've told her I'm concerned that she is an alcoholic many times and she gets angry and tells me "an alcoholic is someone who has to drink first thing in the morning". Which I don't believe but I'm not sure. She doesn't seem to be drunk constantly but I feel like drinking tequila or wine every single night and even when you are visiting ur only grandchild and daughter is ridiculous. What do you think Reddit? I know she is an adult so there isn't anything I can do but I just want to know if I'm even justified to be worrying at all about this? Thanks guys! TL;DR: I think my mom might be an alcoholic because she has to drink every single night but I'm not sure if I'm just overreacting.<|endoftext|>
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How would our long-distant relationship change if we dated? 14 F crushing on a 14 M for several months to half a year now.
I've been good friends with a particular guy for about a year or two, and I've been crushing on him for about a third of that time. Another friend of mine coerced me into asking said guy out, and was heavily involved overall, and so I did, although it took a second time to confirm that I was being serious, as I joke around with him and our other friends a lot. Background: Our relationship is fairly long-distant; we communicate online, even though we live only 15 or so miles away from each other (I've never actually seen him in person; I know him only because of another good friend). Not exactly sketchy, but the way I'm describing it puts it that way. Scrabbling with transportation and parents and the fact that we don't go to the same high school makes it all the more difficult, and it's so much more convenient (at least to them) to talk online. Even if we got together, which we will do at some point, it wouldn't be as often as needed; our relationship would depend heavily on online interaction. Things turned out the way I expected. He said that it wasn't about me, it was a matter of change. He thought nothing would happen at all, and our relationship would fundamentally remain the same. I guess what he meant was that our interactions would basically be the same. Would things really remain the same, or would they change? The answer would be somewhat obvious in a normal relationship, but we're (again, somewhat) long-distant. I'm open to questions, since I know that I may need to specify a bit more.
On the verge of dating a guy, but he doesn't think things would change because we're sort of long-distant. Would they?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How would our long-distant relationship change if we dated? 14 F crushing on a 14 M for several months to half a year now. POST: I've been good friends with a particular guy for about a year or two, and I've been crushing on him for about a third of that time. Another friend of mine coerced me into asking said guy out, and was heavily involved overall, and so I did, although it took a second time to confirm that I was being serious, as I joke around with him and our other friends a lot. Background: Our relationship is fairly long-distant; we communicate online, even though we live only 15 or so miles away from each other (I've never actually seen him in person; I know him only because of another good friend). Not exactly sketchy, but the way I'm describing it puts it that way. Scrabbling with transportation and parents and the fact that we don't go to the same high school makes it all the more difficult, and it's so much more convenient (at least to them) to talk online. Even if we got together, which we will do at some point, it wouldn't be as often as needed; our relationship would depend heavily on online interaction. Things turned out the way I expected. He said that it wasn't about me, it was a matter of change. He thought nothing would happen at all, and our relationship would fundamentally remain the same. I guess what he meant was that our interactions would basically be the same. Would things really remain the same, or would they change? The answer would be somewhat obvious in a normal relationship, but we're (again, somewhat) long-distant. I'm open to questions, since I know that I may need to specify a bit more. TL;DR:
On the verge of dating a guy, but he doesn't think things would change because we're sort of long-distant. Would they?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How would our long-distant relationship change if we dated? 14 F crushing on a 14 M for several months to half a year now. POST: I've been good friends with a particular guy for about a year or two, and I've been crushing on him for about a third of that time. Another friend of mine coerced me into asking said guy out, and was heavily involved overall, and so I did, although it took a second time to confirm that I was being serious, as I joke around with him and our other friends a lot. Background: Our relationship is fairly long-distant; we communicate online, even though we live only 15 or so miles away from each other (I've never actually seen him in person; I know him only because of another good friend). Not exactly sketchy, but the way I'm describing it puts it that way. Scrabbling with transportation and parents and the fact that we don't go to the same high school makes it all the more difficult, and it's so much more convenient (at least to them) to talk online. Even if we got together, which we will do at some point, it wouldn't be as often as needed; our relationship would depend heavily on online interaction. Things turned out the way I expected. He said that it wasn't about me, it was a matter of change. He thought nothing would happen at all, and our relationship would fundamentally remain the same. I guess what he meant was that our interactions would basically be the same. Would things really remain the same, or would they change? The answer would be somewhat obvious in a normal relationship, but we're (again, somewhat) long-distant. I'm open to questions, since I know that I may need to specify a bit more. TL;DR: On the verge of dating a guy, but he doesn't think things would change because we're sort of long-distant. Would they?<|endoftext|>
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Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] 2 years, she has feelings for another person.
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years. However, she recently says she's fallen out of love with me. Since the start of the year she has been flirting with a boy in her class and it has progressed to a stage where they are meeting 1 to 1, yesterday they met and walked around town and at one point, he leaned in for a kiss, she says that though she refused, she wanted to. She says she has fallen out of love with me, that she likes this boy because she can flirt with him and she doesn't want to be tied down. I think the relationship has just gotten into a routine personally, we need to try new things but I don't see how to make her see this. She alerted me to the situation in general 2 weeks ago, we talked it over and all seemed fine, but at this stage it was just texts. Now she says she doesn't love me anymore and we're meeting tomorrow evening to talk things over and try to find a solution. How can we rekindle the flame and save things? Any help is appreciated.
Me and GF been going out for 2 years, she is texting another boy, nearly kissed him, says she has fallen out of love with me. Need to rekindle the flame.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] 2 years, she has feelings for another person. POST: Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years. However, she recently says she's fallen out of love with me. Since the start of the year she has been flirting with a boy in her class and it has progressed to a stage where they are meeting 1 to 1, yesterday they met and walked around town and at one point, he leaned in for a kiss, she says that though she refused, she wanted to. She says she has fallen out of love with me, that she likes this boy because she can flirt with him and she doesn't want to be tied down. I think the relationship has just gotten into a routine personally, we need to try new things but I don't see how to make her see this. She alerted me to the situation in general 2 weeks ago, we talked it over and all seemed fine, but at this stage it was just texts. Now she says she doesn't love me anymore and we're meeting tomorrow evening to talk things over and try to find a solution. How can we rekindle the flame and save things? Any help is appreciated. TL;DR:
Me and GF been going out for 2 years, she is texting another boy, nearly kissed him, says she has fallen out of love with me. Need to rekindle the flame.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my girlfriend [19 F] 2 years, she has feelings for another person. POST: Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 2 years. However, she recently says she's fallen out of love with me. Since the start of the year she has been flirting with a boy in her class and it has progressed to a stage where they are meeting 1 to 1, yesterday they met and walked around town and at one point, he leaned in for a kiss, she says that though she refused, she wanted to. She says she has fallen out of love with me, that she likes this boy because she can flirt with him and she doesn't want to be tied down. I think the relationship has just gotten into a routine personally, we need to try new things but I don't see how to make her see this. She alerted me to the situation in general 2 weeks ago, we talked it over and all seemed fine, but at this stage it was just texts. Now she says she doesn't love me anymore and we're meeting tomorrow evening to talk things over and try to find a solution. How can we rekindle the flame and save things? Any help is appreciated. TL;DR: Me and GF been going out for 2 years, she is texting another boy, nearly kissed him, says she has fallen out of love with me. Need to rekindle the flame.<|endoftext|>
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I (17/M) recently told my friend (17/F) that i have feelings for her
Me and this girl have been extremely good friends for the past two years. We had this connection that i havent really felt with anyone before, we just got along really well, same type of humour whatever. Even my close friends thought that she for sure liked me. Basically I told her how i felt, and she told me how she felt, she told me that she really likes me, that she feels she can be completely herself around me, and told me that she really adores me and tells her mom/friends about me all the time. I tell her that i have feelings for her, and she tells me she doesn't want to risk losing our friendship. This was 7 days ago, and i havent spoken to her since. I really dont know what to do. I want to talk to her and see if theres a chance, because i feel like there might be, but at the same time its been a week and maybe its best if i keep moving on.
told my bestfriend that i have feelings for her says she doesnt want to risk losing our friendship, what do i do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (17/M) recently told my friend (17/F) that i have feelings for her POST: Me and this girl have been extremely good friends for the past two years. We had this connection that i havent really felt with anyone before, we just got along really well, same type of humour whatever. Even my close friends thought that she for sure liked me. Basically I told her how i felt, and she told me how she felt, she told me that she really likes me, that she feels she can be completely herself around me, and told me that she really adores me and tells her mom/friends about me all the time. I tell her that i have feelings for her, and she tells me she doesn't want to risk losing our friendship. This was 7 days ago, and i havent spoken to her since. I really dont know what to do. I want to talk to her and see if theres a chance, because i feel like there might be, but at the same time its been a week and maybe its best if i keep moving on. TL;DR:
told my bestfriend that i have feelings for her says she doesnt want to risk losing our friendship, what do i do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I (17/M) recently told my friend (17/F) that i have feelings for her POST: Me and this girl have been extremely good friends for the past two years. We had this connection that i havent really felt with anyone before, we just got along really well, same type of humour whatever. Even my close friends thought that she for sure liked me. Basically I told her how i felt, and she told me how she felt, she told me that she really likes me, that she feels she can be completely herself around me, and told me that she really adores me and tells her mom/friends about me all the time. I tell her that i have feelings for her, and she tells me she doesn't want to risk losing our friendship. This was 7 days ago, and i havent spoken to her since. I really dont know what to do. I want to talk to her and see if theres a chance, because i feel like there might be, but at the same time its been a week and maybe its best if i keep moving on. TL;DR: told my bestfriend that i have feelings for her says she doesnt want to risk losing our friendship, what do i do.<|endoftext|>
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Girl(17F) I'm(19M) dating is very robotic, any tips on how she can loosen up?
Met a cute, smart girl at my house party a few weeks ago and we've now been on two dates. The first was a double date with my best friend and his girlfriend who is also the girl's best friend, we went to Nando's (popular chicken restaurant in the UK) and then bowling. Throughout the double date I was of course asking her questions about herself, then I would reply with a comment and try to make it humorous, she'd laugh and that was the convo dead. This happened the entire night and she asked me 1 question in the space of 4 hours. I walked her home that night and kissed her before she left. Note: I'm the first guy she had ever been on a date with and the first guy she has kissed. The second date was just me and her and we went to the movies to see Antman. Throughout the film I was rubbing her thighs to get her to feel more relaxed with me and she enjoyed this very much (I asked). We got on an empty bus and things got very touchy feely during the journey home but I could see in her face that she was almost scared of me, I think it's probably because of how intense I can get at times. I walked her home and we had an even longer kissing session than last time and she says I really want to see you again soon, I'm happy cos she's really nice but I fear that the next date which will be at a restaurant with just her and I will be a bit shit due to her only asking two questions in about 7 hours of being together. It's this due to her inexperience of being around guys or do you think she was nervous the entire time we were together? Any tips on how to get her to come out of her shell for next time?
Girl I'm dating has only asked me 2 questions on 2 dates and seems a bit uptight, how do I make her relax?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl(17F) I'm(19M) dating is very robotic, any tips on how she can loosen up? POST: Met a cute, smart girl at my house party a few weeks ago and we've now been on two dates. The first was a double date with my best friend and his girlfriend who is also the girl's best friend, we went to Nando's (popular chicken restaurant in the UK) and then bowling. Throughout the double date I was of course asking her questions about herself, then I would reply with a comment and try to make it humorous, she'd laugh and that was the convo dead. This happened the entire night and she asked me 1 question in the space of 4 hours. I walked her home that night and kissed her before she left. Note: I'm the first guy she had ever been on a date with and the first guy she has kissed. The second date was just me and her and we went to the movies to see Antman. Throughout the film I was rubbing her thighs to get her to feel more relaxed with me and she enjoyed this very much (I asked). We got on an empty bus and things got very touchy feely during the journey home but I could see in her face that she was almost scared of me, I think it's probably because of how intense I can get at times. I walked her home and we had an even longer kissing session than last time and she says I really want to see you again soon, I'm happy cos she's really nice but I fear that the next date which will be at a restaurant with just her and I will be a bit shit due to her only asking two questions in about 7 hours of being together. It's this due to her inexperience of being around guys or do you think she was nervous the entire time we were together? Any tips on how to get her to come out of her shell for next time? TL;DR:
Girl I'm dating has only asked me 2 questions on 2 dates and seems a bit uptight, how do I make her relax?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl(17F) I'm(19M) dating is very robotic, any tips on how she can loosen up? POST: Met a cute, smart girl at my house party a few weeks ago and we've now been on two dates. The first was a double date with my best friend and his girlfriend who is also the girl's best friend, we went to Nando's (popular chicken restaurant in the UK) and then bowling. Throughout the double date I was of course asking her questions about herself, then I would reply with a comment and try to make it humorous, she'd laugh and that was the convo dead. This happened the entire night and she asked me 1 question in the space of 4 hours. I walked her home that night and kissed her before she left. Note: I'm the first guy she had ever been on a date with and the first guy she has kissed. The second date was just me and her and we went to the movies to see Antman. Throughout the film I was rubbing her thighs to get her to feel more relaxed with me and she enjoyed this very much (I asked). We got on an empty bus and things got very touchy feely during the journey home but I could see in her face that she was almost scared of me, I think it's probably because of how intense I can get at times. I walked her home and we had an even longer kissing session than last time and she says I really want to see you again soon, I'm happy cos she's really nice but I fear that the next date which will be at a restaurant with just her and I will be a bit shit due to her only asking two questions in about 7 hours of being together. It's this due to her inexperience of being around guys or do you think she was nervous the entire time we were together? Any tips on how to get her to come out of her shell for next time? TL;DR: Girl I'm dating has only asked me 2 questions on 2 dates and seems a bit uptight, how do I make her relax?<|endoftext|>
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Me [18 F] with my girlfriend [20s F] of six months. She wants to part ways after ten years.
She told me that she loves me, and she'll never move on from me, but she wants to part ways after a decade or so. She told me she'll always love me, and we'll always be together in a sense afterwards and it isn't that she's breaking up with me. She just doesn't want me to have to see her die, or the other way around. She thinks it's best. I want to grow old with her. Has anyone else encountered this before? I'm not really asking for advice, since I'm the only person other than her that really understands this relationship. I want to know if anyone else has been told this, and what happened.
Girlfriend told me she wants to move on after a decade or so to avoid one of us having to die on the other. Is this common?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my girlfriend [20s F] of six months. She wants to part ways after ten years. POST: She told me that she loves me, and she'll never move on from me, but she wants to part ways after a decade or so. She told me she'll always love me, and we'll always be together in a sense afterwards and it isn't that she's breaking up with me. She just doesn't want me to have to see her die, or the other way around. She thinks it's best. I want to grow old with her. Has anyone else encountered this before? I'm not really asking for advice, since I'm the only person other than her that really understands this relationship. I want to know if anyone else has been told this, and what happened. TL;DR:
Girlfriend told me she wants to move on after a decade or so to avoid one of us having to die on the other. Is this common?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [18 F] with my girlfriend [20s F] of six months. She wants to part ways after ten years. POST: She told me that she loves me, and she'll never move on from me, but she wants to part ways after a decade or so. She told me she'll always love me, and we'll always be together in a sense afterwards and it isn't that she's breaking up with me. She just doesn't want me to have to see her die, or the other way around. She thinks it's best. I want to grow old with her. Has anyone else encountered this before? I'm not really asking for advice, since I'm the only person other than her that really understands this relationship. I want to know if anyone else has been told this, and what happened. TL;DR: Girlfriend told me she wants to move on after a decade or so to avoid one of us having to die on the other. Is this common?<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by dropping my laptop
This is my first Reddit post and it happened months ago... I normally like to have my laptop on my bed while play games (serves multiple purposes like charging my controller). I was playing destiny and for the lack of matchmaking for raids I had use a site for hooking up with other players. I got into a group and it was getting serious (since I was performing badly) and completely forgot about my laptop. Little did I know, I pushed it off the bed and it landed on the charging cord (or the male) jack. Good thing it was it was still working. So after the raid (my performance did go up) I decided to watch Netflix which drained my battery and made my laptop die. I tried charging it but there was damage on the plastic. Apparently it severed the connection between the male and female jack.
Don't "accidentally" drop or push devices off your bed (it may get back at you may not like it)
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by dropping my laptop POST: This is my first Reddit post and it happened months ago... I normally like to have my laptop on my bed while play games (serves multiple purposes like charging my controller). I was playing destiny and for the lack of matchmaking for raids I had use a site for hooking up with other players. I got into a group and it was getting serious (since I was performing badly) and completely forgot about my laptop. Little did I know, I pushed it off the bed and it landed on the charging cord (or the male) jack. Good thing it was it was still working. So after the raid (my performance did go up) I decided to watch Netflix which drained my battery and made my laptop die. I tried charging it but there was damage on the plastic. Apparently it severed the connection between the male and female jack. TL;DR:
Don't "accidentally" drop or push devices off your bed (it may get back at you may not like it)<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by dropping my laptop POST: This is my first Reddit post and it happened months ago... I normally like to have my laptop on my bed while play games (serves multiple purposes like charging my controller). I was playing destiny and for the lack of matchmaking for raids I had use a site for hooking up with other players. I got into a group and it was getting serious (since I was performing badly) and completely forgot about my laptop. Little did I know, I pushed it off the bed and it landed on the charging cord (or the male) jack. Good thing it was it was still working. So after the raid (my performance did go up) I decided to watch Netflix which drained my battery and made my laptop die. I tried charging it but there was damage on the plastic. Apparently it severed the connection between the male and female jack. TL;DR: Don't "accidentally" drop or push devices off your bed (it may get back at you may not like it)<|endoftext|>
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Can you be in love with two guys at the same time?
I'm [21F] very confused, I have a bf [22M] and I've been with him for two years and I love him so much, but I a few months ago I started hanging out with this guy [21M] who used to be my friend way back, and he's in love with me and he told me that he knows I have a bf and he respects that so he'll just try to get over me but as time kept passing and my bf was away for four months we began to talk more and I began getting these mixes feelings and I think I fell for him really hard, problem is my friend is really hurting because of me and I can't tell him I love him because when I'm with my bf I love him exactly the same, and I don't know what to do it's killing me that I love them both and neither one of them deserves to get hurt.
I think I'm in love with both my boyfriend and my best guy friend and I'm too confused about what to do...
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Can you be in love with two guys at the same time? POST: I'm [21F] very confused, I have a bf [22M] and I've been with him for two years and I love him so much, but I a few months ago I started hanging out with this guy [21M] who used to be my friend way back, and he's in love with me and he told me that he knows I have a bf and he respects that so he'll just try to get over me but as time kept passing and my bf was away for four months we began to talk more and I began getting these mixes feelings and I think I fell for him really hard, problem is my friend is really hurting because of me and I can't tell him I love him because when I'm with my bf I love him exactly the same, and I don't know what to do it's killing me that I love them both and neither one of them deserves to get hurt. TL;DR:
I think I'm in love with both my boyfriend and my best guy friend and I'm too confused about what to do...<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: Can you be in love with two guys at the same time? POST: I'm [21F] very confused, I have a bf [22M] and I've been with him for two years and I love him so much, but I a few months ago I started hanging out with this guy [21M] who used to be my friend way back, and he's in love with me and he told me that he knows I have a bf and he respects that so he'll just try to get over me but as time kept passing and my bf was away for four months we began to talk more and I began getting these mixes feelings and I think I fell for him really hard, problem is my friend is really hurting because of me and I can't tell him I love him because when I'm with my bf I love him exactly the same, and I don't know what to do it's killing me that I love them both and neither one of them deserves to get hurt. TL;DR: I think I'm in love with both my boyfriend and my best guy friend and I'm too confused about what to do...<|endoftext|>
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Some motivational help needed
Don't know if this belongs here or not, but I shall give a little backstory before my question. I currently (last week) lost my job, I'm in IT, due to the fact that I got a contempt charge in court for traffic violations. Feeling extremely down about what to do since ill be homeless in about 2 months with no income coming in. Was wondering if anyone had some insight on how to get another decent paying job quickly because I'm going out of my mind from stress. My girlfriend has let me stay with her to get back on my feet a little and has been absolutely amazing with everything.
got a contempt of court charge for traffic tickets. Went to jail for 10 days and subsequently lost my job because of it. My dream job at that.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Some motivational help needed POST: Don't know if this belongs here or not, but I shall give a little backstory before my question. I currently (last week) lost my job, I'm in IT, due to the fact that I got a contempt charge in court for traffic violations. Feeling extremely down about what to do since ill be homeless in about 2 months with no income coming in. Was wondering if anyone had some insight on how to get another decent paying job quickly because I'm going out of my mind from stress. My girlfriend has let me stay with her to get back on my feet a little and has been absolutely amazing with everything. TL;DR:
got a contempt of court charge for traffic tickets. Went to jail for 10 days and subsequently lost my job because of it. My dream job at that.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Some motivational help needed POST: Don't know if this belongs here or not, but I shall give a little backstory before my question. I currently (last week) lost my job, I'm in IT, due to the fact that I got a contempt charge in court for traffic violations. Feeling extremely down about what to do since ill be homeless in about 2 months with no income coming in. Was wondering if anyone had some insight on how to get another decent paying job quickly because I'm going out of my mind from stress. My girlfriend has let me stay with her to get back on my feet a little and has been absolutely amazing with everything. TL;DR: got a contempt of court charge for traffic tickets. Went to jail for 10 days and subsequently lost my job because of it. My dream job at that.<|endoftext|>
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I made a technological-territorial boundaries error with my boyfriend. Please help
We've been dating for two years, we're in our mid- and late-twenties. Fully awesome relationship, we suck the marrow out of life together. He teaches me the best techniques for this. Life circumstances (school, work) are making it so that we have to live 70 miles apart for an indeterminate amount of time (6-12 months) so we have been cooling it off a little to save ourselves the heartache of being together every day and immediately not seeing each other. (We don't currently live together because, well, we don't have much money). The other night he left his cell phone at my house and went to work in the morning. I called him at work to invite him over for dinner and to get his phone. He said he'd come after he finished visiting a friend of ours (but mostly his) in the neighborhood. An hour after he said he'd come I called the friend from his phone to invite them both over for dinner because I had plenty of food and wine. The friend said that my boyfriend had already left hours ago and had said he'd "lost" his phone. Then an incoming call came from his father's cell. I missed it but called back thinking he'd gone home and was calling to let me know. When he came by later he was pissed I'd called his friend so I didn't mention the dad. When he saw his recent calls he blew up, said "My father doesn't even know we're seeing each other right now," and left saying "don't call me." Inbox this morning: "Don't come by my work for any reason. I'll call you sometime after I replace my broken phone." I'm sad. Don't know what to do. Wrote a friendly apologetic email. Cell phones and other communication channels seem very sacred to him. Is this a man thing?
Semi-estranged boyfriend left phone at my house, I called his friend and father from this phone under very normal circumstances. He's pissed, esp. because father didn't know we were seeing each other again.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I made a technological-territorial boundaries error with my boyfriend. Please help POST: We've been dating for two years, we're in our mid- and late-twenties. Fully awesome relationship, we suck the marrow out of life together. He teaches me the best techniques for this. Life circumstances (school, work) are making it so that we have to live 70 miles apart for an indeterminate amount of time (6-12 months) so we have been cooling it off a little to save ourselves the heartache of being together every day and immediately not seeing each other. (We don't currently live together because, well, we don't have much money). The other night he left his cell phone at my house and went to work in the morning. I called him at work to invite him over for dinner and to get his phone. He said he'd come after he finished visiting a friend of ours (but mostly his) in the neighborhood. An hour after he said he'd come I called the friend from his phone to invite them both over for dinner because I had plenty of food and wine. The friend said that my boyfriend had already left hours ago and had said he'd "lost" his phone. Then an incoming call came from his father's cell. I missed it but called back thinking he'd gone home and was calling to let me know. When he came by later he was pissed I'd called his friend so I didn't mention the dad. When he saw his recent calls he blew up, said "My father doesn't even know we're seeing each other right now," and left saying "don't call me." Inbox this morning: "Don't come by my work for any reason. I'll call you sometime after I replace my broken phone." I'm sad. Don't know what to do. Wrote a friendly apologetic email. Cell phones and other communication channels seem very sacred to him. Is this a man thing? TL;DR:
Semi-estranged boyfriend left phone at my house, I called his friend and father from this phone under very normal circumstances. He's pissed, esp. because father didn't know we were seeing each other again.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: I made a technological-territorial boundaries error with my boyfriend. Please help POST: We've been dating for two years, we're in our mid- and late-twenties. Fully awesome relationship, we suck the marrow out of life together. He teaches me the best techniques for this. Life circumstances (school, work) are making it so that we have to live 70 miles apart for an indeterminate amount of time (6-12 months) so we have been cooling it off a little to save ourselves the heartache of being together every day and immediately not seeing each other. (We don't currently live together because, well, we don't have much money). The other night he left his cell phone at my house and went to work in the morning. I called him at work to invite him over for dinner and to get his phone. He said he'd come after he finished visiting a friend of ours (but mostly his) in the neighborhood. An hour after he said he'd come I called the friend from his phone to invite them both over for dinner because I had plenty of food and wine. The friend said that my boyfriend had already left hours ago and had said he'd "lost" his phone. Then an incoming call came from his father's cell. I missed it but called back thinking he'd gone home and was calling to let me know. When he came by later he was pissed I'd called his friend so I didn't mention the dad. When he saw his recent calls he blew up, said "My father doesn't even know we're seeing each other right now," and left saying "don't call me." Inbox this morning: "Don't come by my work for any reason. I'll call you sometime after I replace my broken phone." I'm sad. Don't know what to do. Wrote a friendly apologetic email. Cell phones and other communication channels seem very sacred to him. Is this a man thing? TL;DR: Semi-estranged boyfriend left phone at my house, I called his friend and father from this phone under very normal circumstances. He's pissed, esp. because father didn't know we were seeing each other again.<|endoftext|>
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I (26/F) am having a hard time reading my boyfriends (28/M) emotions - no "i love you"
hi! so we have been dating for about 7 months now. He's a really sweet guy, we trust each other, we argue but we talk it out, he's extremely caring and thoughtful. We are like best friends, yet he's affectionate and loving too. I'm having a hard time reading him though. He hasn't said I love you yet (I said it a month ago at the 6 month mark) and his only reason is "I am not there yet." But don't you kinda "know" by 6 months if you can love someone? Secondly, on that note, he isn't expressing his emotions very well. When he compliments our relationship, its usually pretty basic - "I'm happy in our relationship" or "I'm so happy you're in my life." He's not very good with words but I can't figure out if he's truly happy or if he just sucks at communicating. He's the type of guy who bottles things up sometimes (not just with us, but with work, personal stresses, etc). He doesn't verbalize his feelings often, but I like to hear them. I should note that he shows emotions in other places too (not just with me), like he cried when we watched V for Vendetta. Thoughts? I feel like I've done all I can to make him feel safe to bring his guard down. I really don't know how I can make him feel more comfortable around me to express his feelings or how I can get him to feel more secure in saying I love you. Thoughts?
Boyfriend hasn't said I love you and seems unemotional with words. I need to help trying to break his shell still.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26/F) am having a hard time reading my boyfriends (28/M) emotions - no "i love you" POST: hi! so we have been dating for about 7 months now. He's a really sweet guy, we trust each other, we argue but we talk it out, he's extremely caring and thoughtful. We are like best friends, yet he's affectionate and loving too. I'm having a hard time reading him though. He hasn't said I love you yet (I said it a month ago at the 6 month mark) and his only reason is "I am not there yet." But don't you kinda "know" by 6 months if you can love someone? Secondly, on that note, he isn't expressing his emotions very well. When he compliments our relationship, its usually pretty basic - "I'm happy in our relationship" or "I'm so happy you're in my life." He's not very good with words but I can't figure out if he's truly happy or if he just sucks at communicating. He's the type of guy who bottles things up sometimes (not just with us, but with work, personal stresses, etc). He doesn't verbalize his feelings often, but I like to hear them. I should note that he shows emotions in other places too (not just with me), like he cried when we watched V for Vendetta. Thoughts? I feel like I've done all I can to make him feel safe to bring his guard down. I really don't know how I can make him feel more comfortable around me to express his feelings or how I can get him to feel more secure in saying I love you. Thoughts? TL;DR:
Boyfriend hasn't said I love you and seems unemotional with words. I need to help trying to break his shell still.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (26/F) am having a hard time reading my boyfriends (28/M) emotions - no "i love you" POST: hi! so we have been dating for about 7 months now. He's a really sweet guy, we trust each other, we argue but we talk it out, he's extremely caring and thoughtful. We are like best friends, yet he's affectionate and loving too. I'm having a hard time reading him though. He hasn't said I love you yet (I said it a month ago at the 6 month mark) and his only reason is "I am not there yet." But don't you kinda "know" by 6 months if you can love someone? Secondly, on that note, he isn't expressing his emotions very well. When he compliments our relationship, its usually pretty basic - "I'm happy in our relationship" or "I'm so happy you're in my life." He's not very good with words but I can't figure out if he's truly happy or if he just sucks at communicating. He's the type of guy who bottles things up sometimes (not just with us, but with work, personal stresses, etc). He doesn't verbalize his feelings often, but I like to hear them. I should note that he shows emotions in other places too (not just with me), like he cried when we watched V for Vendetta. Thoughts? I feel like I've done all I can to make him feel safe to bring his guard down. I really don't know how I can make him feel more comfortable around me to express his feelings or how I can get him to feel more secure in saying I love you. Thoughts? TL;DR: Boyfriend hasn't said I love you and seems unemotional with words. I need to help trying to break his shell still.<|endoftext|>
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personalfinance
Out of work, no money, everytime I try it seems like I fail, no hope of finding work. Help me.
Hello everybody, I have been reading reddit for a little while, but this is my first time posting. Here is my situation: I am 24 years old and I work in finance. I helped my siblings build up their real estate company, but then was subsequently fired from that company once they no longer needed me. I started my own company and have been working very diligently on it and I even have several large investors that are willing to back me, but now I am running into the problem of nothing good to buy. I have spent months talking to real estate agents, brokers, sellers, and other individuals trying to find a good real estate deal to buy, but no such luck. It seems like I helped build up a company at a good time, but then as soon as I started my company the market changed and now acquisitions are damn near impossible to find. I continue to work every day on finding something, but I have recently started putting my resume out there to try to find some kind of work. However, I am running across the additional problem that I have no education to back my experience. My most recent job title was Director of Business Development and before that I was a manager at a fortune 500 company. I have put out a ton of applications and haven't even heard a response back. In addition to all of that, I (as a last resort) have asked close friends if they would help me find some sort of work, but they have not been able to do anything for me. I am a very hard working person and I would do pretty much any job well as that is just the way that I work, but I am stuck in this place where I can't get anything of value done. My wife and I have a baby on the way and I want to be able to support them, but currently we are living with my wife's mom and it is a serious blow. I feel defeated everyday, but I still move forward and try to make things happen. Is there anything that I have overlooked? I network frequently and look for opportunities.
Family screwed me out of a company I helped build, now I am living at my mother-in-law's house with no job, no money, and little prospect of success. Fuck.
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Out of work, no money, everytime I try it seems like I fail, no hope of finding work. Help me. POST: Hello everybody, I have been reading reddit for a little while, but this is my first time posting. Here is my situation: I am 24 years old and I work in finance. I helped my siblings build up their real estate company, but then was subsequently fired from that company once they no longer needed me. I started my own company and have been working very diligently on it and I even have several large investors that are willing to back me, but now I am running into the problem of nothing good to buy. I have spent months talking to real estate agents, brokers, sellers, and other individuals trying to find a good real estate deal to buy, but no such luck. It seems like I helped build up a company at a good time, but then as soon as I started my company the market changed and now acquisitions are damn near impossible to find. I continue to work every day on finding something, but I have recently started putting my resume out there to try to find some kind of work. However, I am running across the additional problem that I have no education to back my experience. My most recent job title was Director of Business Development and before that I was a manager at a fortune 500 company. I have put out a ton of applications and haven't even heard a response back. In addition to all of that, I (as a last resort) have asked close friends if they would help me find some sort of work, but they have not been able to do anything for me. I am a very hard working person and I would do pretty much any job well as that is just the way that I work, but I am stuck in this place where I can't get anything of value done. My wife and I have a baby on the way and I want to be able to support them, but currently we are living with my wife's mom and it is a serious blow. I feel defeated everyday, but I still move forward and try to make things happen. Is there anything that I have overlooked? I network frequently and look for opportunities. TL;DR:
Family screwed me out of a company I helped build, now I am living at my mother-in-law's house with no job, no money, and little prospect of success. Fuck.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/personalfinance TITLE: Out of work, no money, everytime I try it seems like I fail, no hope of finding work. Help me. POST: Hello everybody, I have been reading reddit for a little while, but this is my first time posting. Here is my situation: I am 24 years old and I work in finance. I helped my siblings build up their real estate company, but then was subsequently fired from that company once they no longer needed me. I started my own company and have been working very diligently on it and I even have several large investors that are willing to back me, but now I am running into the problem of nothing good to buy. I have spent months talking to real estate agents, brokers, sellers, and other individuals trying to find a good real estate deal to buy, but no such luck. It seems like I helped build up a company at a good time, but then as soon as I started my company the market changed and now acquisitions are damn near impossible to find. I continue to work every day on finding something, but I have recently started putting my resume out there to try to find some kind of work. However, I am running across the additional problem that I have no education to back my experience. My most recent job title was Director of Business Development and before that I was a manager at a fortune 500 company. I have put out a ton of applications and haven't even heard a response back. In addition to all of that, I (as a last resort) have asked close friends if they would help me find some sort of work, but they have not been able to do anything for me. I am a very hard working person and I would do pretty much any job well as that is just the way that I work, but I am stuck in this place where I can't get anything of value done. My wife and I have a baby on the way and I want to be able to support them, but currently we are living with my wife's mom and it is a serious blow. I feel defeated everyday, but I still move forward and try to make things happen. Is there anything that I have overlooked? I network frequently and look for opportunities. TL;DR: Family screwed me out of a company I helped build, now I am living at my mother-in-law's house with no job, no money, and little prospect of success. Fuck.<|endoftext|>
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Me [25F] with my ex fling? [30 M] of 3 and half month and he just stopped talking. I was serious
First time ever in reddit. i'm this desperate. I'm 25F in korea, He is 30M american here for tour and almost wrap up and leave on early next year. I met him Okcupid.. It all just started few message back and forth. and i didn't mean to be serious with him or anything at first but somehow he put mojo on me to fall for him since I knew he would leave country at some point. We talked about it and he said we were dating and i could call him as bf and i was hi gf at month and a half point. Start the first day, we spent every weekend together at his place. tour around the city - he made my fairy tale to be true. Every cool place he took me to, those fancy dinner we had and weekend spending and ridiculous amount of talking about life, universe, and just about anything. I couldn't resist his eyes staring inside of me. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, financially stable and.. just a what a hot hunk. opposite of any guy i was ever with. All the sudden, he stopped contact with me and sent me one text saying he's going to be busy prepare leave and i heard nothing from him. I've message to him, called to try to talk and sort it out because it was still hurting me to not hear explanation after such a great weekend. Tuesday that happened, nothing hear from him and i told him that i would go get my stuff from apartment. then, i got box of stuff left out at the door. that was it. I understood but i needed a closure but i got none. I sent him long message after weekend of not hearing about why i am upset and why it's how i feel. he seem to have no empathy or sympathy towards to others feeling so it was hard for him to understand things sometimes. I just wanna know what I should do from now on.
Guys stopped talking all the sudden, I knew it's going to be over but i need closure. don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my ex fling? [30 M] of 3 and half month and he just stopped talking. I was serious POST: First time ever in reddit. i'm this desperate. I'm 25F in korea, He is 30M american here for tour and almost wrap up and leave on early next year. I met him Okcupid.. It all just started few message back and forth. and i didn't mean to be serious with him or anything at first but somehow he put mojo on me to fall for him since I knew he would leave country at some point. We talked about it and he said we were dating and i could call him as bf and i was hi gf at month and a half point. Start the first day, we spent every weekend together at his place. tour around the city - he made my fairy tale to be true. Every cool place he took me to, those fancy dinner we had and weekend spending and ridiculous amount of talking about life, universe, and just about anything. I couldn't resist his eyes staring inside of me. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, financially stable and.. just a what a hot hunk. opposite of any guy i was ever with. All the sudden, he stopped contact with me and sent me one text saying he's going to be busy prepare leave and i heard nothing from him. I've message to him, called to try to talk and sort it out because it was still hurting me to not hear explanation after such a great weekend. Tuesday that happened, nothing hear from him and i told him that i would go get my stuff from apartment. then, i got box of stuff left out at the door. that was it. I understood but i needed a closure but i got none. I sent him long message after weekend of not hearing about why i am upset and why it's how i feel. he seem to have no empathy or sympathy towards to others feeling so it was hard for him to understand things sometimes. I just wanna know what I should do from now on. TL;DR:
Guys stopped talking all the sudden, I knew it's going to be over but i need closure. don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [25F] with my ex fling? [30 M] of 3 and half month and he just stopped talking. I was serious POST: First time ever in reddit. i'm this desperate. I'm 25F in korea, He is 30M american here for tour and almost wrap up and leave on early next year. I met him Okcupid.. It all just started few message back and forth. and i didn't mean to be serious with him or anything at first but somehow he put mojo on me to fall for him since I knew he would leave country at some point. We talked about it and he said we were dating and i could call him as bf and i was hi gf at month and a half point. Start the first day, we spent every weekend together at his place. tour around the city - he made my fairy tale to be true. Every cool place he took me to, those fancy dinner we had and weekend spending and ridiculous amount of talking about life, universe, and just about anything. I couldn't resist his eyes staring inside of me. Tall, blonde, blue eyes, financially stable and.. just a what a hot hunk. opposite of any guy i was ever with. All the sudden, he stopped contact with me and sent me one text saying he's going to be busy prepare leave and i heard nothing from him. I've message to him, called to try to talk and sort it out because it was still hurting me to not hear explanation after such a great weekend. Tuesday that happened, nothing hear from him and i told him that i would go get my stuff from apartment. then, i got box of stuff left out at the door. that was it. I understood but i needed a closure but i got none. I sent him long message after weekend of not hearing about why i am upset and why it's how i feel. he seem to have no empathy or sympathy towards to others feeling so it was hard for him to understand things sometimes. I just wanna know what I should do from now on. TL;DR: Guys stopped talking all the sudden, I knew it's going to be over but i need closure. don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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Girl I've [M/21] talked to for a little [F/19] had a formal and went with someone else (more details inside)
This girl in question and I have been talking a little for a few months. She goes to a different university 2 hours away than me so it's been tough to really start anything because of the distance. We have had sex before and we've mentioned what we both want before so things have been going well but until we're back home after college it's just tough to do anything together. We have before talked about formals and stuff like that before as she's in a sorority. She even mentioned bringing me along possibly sometime (I'm actually transferring to that school next year, nothing relating to her). Yesterday she snapchatted me in her dress and makeup saying it was formal day and she also sent me a pic of her and her date. I've never met him or any of her friends, but he's a good friend of hers. She never mentioned the formal to me. I snapchatted a pic saying "he's cuter than me" and she responded with a face of disgust that I read as "no not at all" in body language. Still, I'm jealous. Ever since the time about a month ago where I visited she's been really busy with school and the like. She's mentioned quite often that she wants to see me and there have been many indicators when we've texted and the like that show she still has interest.
Girl I've been talking to had a formal and went with someone else. I couldn't have gone anyway and she still shows interest in many ways, but this makes me jealous.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl I've [M/21] talked to for a little [F/19] had a formal and went with someone else (more details inside) POST: This girl in question and I have been talking a little for a few months. She goes to a different university 2 hours away than me so it's been tough to really start anything because of the distance. We have had sex before and we've mentioned what we both want before so things have been going well but until we're back home after college it's just tough to do anything together. We have before talked about formals and stuff like that before as she's in a sorority. She even mentioned bringing me along possibly sometime (I'm actually transferring to that school next year, nothing relating to her). Yesterday she snapchatted me in her dress and makeup saying it was formal day and she also sent me a pic of her and her date. I've never met him or any of her friends, but he's a good friend of hers. She never mentioned the formal to me. I snapchatted a pic saying "he's cuter than me" and she responded with a face of disgust that I read as "no not at all" in body language. Still, I'm jealous. Ever since the time about a month ago where I visited she's been really busy with school and the like. She's mentioned quite often that she wants to see me and there have been many indicators when we've texted and the like that show she still has interest. TL;DR:
Girl I've been talking to had a formal and went with someone else. I couldn't have gone anyway and she still shows interest in many ways, but this makes me jealous.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girl I've [M/21] talked to for a little [F/19] had a formal and went with someone else (more details inside) POST: This girl in question and I have been talking a little for a few months. She goes to a different university 2 hours away than me so it's been tough to really start anything because of the distance. We have had sex before and we've mentioned what we both want before so things have been going well but until we're back home after college it's just tough to do anything together. We have before talked about formals and stuff like that before as she's in a sorority. She even mentioned bringing me along possibly sometime (I'm actually transferring to that school next year, nothing relating to her). Yesterday she snapchatted me in her dress and makeup saying it was formal day and she also sent me a pic of her and her date. I've never met him or any of her friends, but he's a good friend of hers. She never mentioned the formal to me. I snapchatted a pic saying "he's cuter than me" and she responded with a face of disgust that I read as "no not at all" in body language. Still, I'm jealous. Ever since the time about a month ago where I visited she's been really busy with school and the like. She's mentioned quite often that she wants to see me and there have been many indicators when we've texted and the like that show she still has interest. TL;DR: Girl I've been talking to had a formal and went with someone else. I couldn't have gone anyway and she still shows interest in many ways, but this makes me jealous.<|endoftext|>
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Vassar or Bowdoin?
I've been accepted to both, and I'm having trouble deciding. I'd say I'm academically inclined; I do well in school, but I'm not overly obsessed with grades or a career path. I really just enjoy going to class and learning for the sake of learning, so I'm looking for the most academically rigorous experience I can get. I have no idea what I want to major in, though my interests generally lie in English/History/Philosophy. I'm also really into art, music, and theater (I mostly do set design and technical theater) as well as LGBT activism (I identify as pansexual, so I don't really have many qualms about Vassar's guy/girl ratio).
I'd love to know what you guys think about the two schools, their pros and cons, and which would be the better fit for me. Thanks in advance!
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SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Vassar or Bowdoin? POST: I've been accepted to both, and I'm having trouble deciding. I'd say I'm academically inclined; I do well in school, but I'm not overly obsessed with grades or a career path. I really just enjoy going to class and learning for the sake of learning, so I'm looking for the most academically rigorous experience I can get. I have no idea what I want to major in, though my interests generally lie in English/History/Philosophy. I'm also really into art, music, and theater (I mostly do set design and technical theater) as well as LGBT activism (I identify as pansexual, so I don't really have many qualms about Vassar's guy/girl ratio). TL;DR:
I'd love to know what you guys think about the two schools, their pros and cons, and which would be the better fit for me. Thanks in advance!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/college TITLE: Vassar or Bowdoin? POST: I've been accepted to both, and I'm having trouble deciding. I'd say I'm academically inclined; I do well in school, but I'm not overly obsessed with grades or a career path. I really just enjoy going to class and learning for the sake of learning, so I'm looking for the most academically rigorous experience I can get. I have no idea what I want to major in, though my interests generally lie in English/History/Philosophy. I'm also really into art, music, and theater (I mostly do set design and technical theater) as well as LGBT activism (I identify as pansexual, so I don't really have many qualms about Vassar's guy/girl ratio). TL;DR: I'd love to know what you guys think about the two schools, their pros and cons, and which would be the better fit for me. Thanks in advance!<|endoftext|>
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Me [28 M] Heartbroken couple of times. Trying to figure out what is happening with myself
I have been "in love" a couple of times in my life. I was really into those two girls (years apart). Always felt like could do anything to be with them anytime. Got rejected both times. Wrong place...wrong time, wrong person perhaps. Ever since it happened the first time (8/9 years ago) I have not been too well for a long period of time. Always felt demotivated and a lack of interest in most things. The second time it happened (3/4) years ago, I put an emotional wall around me which eventually cost me my relationship with another girl. From then on I have become very machine-like. I am not motivated at work. My mind vehemently rejects the idea of being with someone. I think it has had enough of mental stress for a lifetime. I feel like I have emptied my heart out a couple of times and did not get anything in return. I am incapable of liking someone else and being in a committed relationship.
Question to redditors who may have had similar experiences, how long does this phase stay for? Sometimes I feel like I will end up alone because I wont be able to truly like someone like I did before. Is this fear rational?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] Heartbroken couple of times. Trying to figure out what is happening with myself POST: I have been "in love" a couple of times in my life. I was really into those two girls (years apart). Always felt like could do anything to be with them anytime. Got rejected both times. Wrong place...wrong time, wrong person perhaps. Ever since it happened the first time (8/9 years ago) I have not been too well for a long period of time. Always felt demotivated and a lack of interest in most things. The second time it happened (3/4) years ago, I put an emotional wall around me which eventually cost me my relationship with another girl. From then on I have become very machine-like. I am not motivated at work. My mind vehemently rejects the idea of being with someone. I think it has had enough of mental stress for a lifetime. I feel like I have emptied my heart out a couple of times and did not get anything in return. I am incapable of liking someone else and being in a committed relationship. TL;DR:
Question to redditors who may have had similar experiences, how long does this phase stay for? Sometimes I feel like I will end up alone because I wont be able to truly like someone like I did before. Is this fear rational?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [28 M] Heartbroken couple of times. Trying to figure out what is happening with myself POST: I have been "in love" a couple of times in my life. I was really into those two girls (years apart). Always felt like could do anything to be with them anytime. Got rejected both times. Wrong place...wrong time, wrong person perhaps. Ever since it happened the first time (8/9 years ago) I have not been too well for a long period of time. Always felt demotivated and a lack of interest in most things. The second time it happened (3/4) years ago, I put an emotional wall around me which eventually cost me my relationship with another girl. From then on I have become very machine-like. I am not motivated at work. My mind vehemently rejects the idea of being with someone. I think it has had enough of mental stress for a lifetime. I feel like I have emptied my heart out a couple of times and did not get anything in return. I am incapable of liking someone else and being in a committed relationship. TL;DR: Question to redditors who may have had similar experiences, how long does this phase stay for? Sometimes I feel like I will end up alone because I wont be able to truly like someone like I did before. Is this fear rational?<|endoftext|>
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tifu
TIFU by forcing Chemo images on a subordinate.
I'm a manager at a store which has a large amount of Hallmark-like cards on display. We are currently going through inventory and must separate cards into categories to count for our auditor. Well, I delegated the task to a subordinate (Anon2) and had them specifically in a section for "Get Well." For some dark humor reason, there are a ton of cards on cancer and chemotherapy (such as ones like this So, for about 3 hours the subordinate sorted through these cards and my co-manager came up to me and said, "Hey Anon, you do know that Anon2's mom just got diagnosed with cancer... right?" As I gazed into his eyes with a cold sweat taking over. I then searched my memory to make sure I didn't make any jokes or anything and remembered picking up a similar card to the card I posted a link of above and saying, "Wow. This is a terrible card. What kind of dark humor is this? They may have well of made a joke about the Holocaust." And Anon responded by just nodding IIRC. Luckily, Anon2 is calm and cool and we are friends outside work, so hopefully they don't take this to heart too much. Or hopefully they don't walk out crying and quit. I just moved Anon2 to a new task as lightly as possible after finding out.
I made a worker sort through Hallmark-like cards that make dark humor jokes about cancer for about three hours for inventory. The worker's mom was just diagnosed with cancer, which I didn't know.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forcing Chemo images on a subordinate. POST: I'm a manager at a store which has a large amount of Hallmark-like cards on display. We are currently going through inventory and must separate cards into categories to count for our auditor. Well, I delegated the task to a subordinate (Anon2) and had them specifically in a section for "Get Well." For some dark humor reason, there are a ton of cards on cancer and chemotherapy (such as ones like this So, for about 3 hours the subordinate sorted through these cards and my co-manager came up to me and said, "Hey Anon, you do know that Anon2's mom just got diagnosed with cancer... right?" As I gazed into his eyes with a cold sweat taking over. I then searched my memory to make sure I didn't make any jokes or anything and remembered picking up a similar card to the card I posted a link of above and saying, "Wow. This is a terrible card. What kind of dark humor is this? They may have well of made a joke about the Holocaust." And Anon responded by just nodding IIRC. Luckily, Anon2 is calm and cool and we are friends outside work, so hopefully they don't take this to heart too much. Or hopefully they don't walk out crying and quit. I just moved Anon2 to a new task as lightly as possible after finding out. TL;DR:
I made a worker sort through Hallmark-like cards that make dark humor jokes about cancer for about three hours for inventory. The worker's mom was just diagnosed with cancer, which I didn't know.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forcing Chemo images on a subordinate. POST: I'm a manager at a store which has a large amount of Hallmark-like cards on display. We are currently going through inventory and must separate cards into categories to count for our auditor. Well, I delegated the task to a subordinate (Anon2) and had them specifically in a section for "Get Well." For some dark humor reason, there are a ton of cards on cancer and chemotherapy (such as ones like this So, for about 3 hours the subordinate sorted through these cards and my co-manager came up to me and said, "Hey Anon, you do know that Anon2's mom just got diagnosed with cancer... right?" As I gazed into his eyes with a cold sweat taking over. I then searched my memory to make sure I didn't make any jokes or anything and remembered picking up a similar card to the card I posted a link of above and saying, "Wow. This is a terrible card. What kind of dark humor is this? They may have well of made a joke about the Holocaust." And Anon responded by just nodding IIRC. Luckily, Anon2 is calm and cool and we are friends outside work, so hopefully they don't take this to heart too much. Or hopefully they don't walk out crying and quit. I just moved Anon2 to a new task as lightly as possible after finding out. TL;DR: I made a worker sort through Hallmark-like cards that make dark humor jokes about cancer for about three hours for inventory. The worker's mom was just diagnosed with cancer, which I didn't know.<|endoftext|>
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I'm [17M] currently in high school stuck with a dilemma with a girl I kind of like a while back who recently broke up with my best friend.
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1: Succumb to by desires and go out with Alyssa whilst totally disrespecting Caleb 2: Totally blow Alyssa off or 3: Say I'm gay
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [17M] currently in high school stuck with a dilemma with a girl I kind of like a while back who recently broke up with my best friend. POST: Well, my friend (lets call him Caleb) recently broke up with his girlfriend (lets call her Alyssa) after a long 3 year relationship. Caleb and I were friends with each other since freshman year we knew each other pretty well and worked well together. Alyssa and I knew each other through classes and study groups well knew each other pretty well and we're pretty friendly with each other. Well, lets skip to the interesting part, so its been 2 weeks after Caleb and Alyssa broke up, and Alyssa has been flirting really hard with me ranging from text messages to physical messages. So now I'm left with 3 choices TL;DR:
1: Succumb to by desires and go out with Alyssa whilst totally disrespecting Caleb 2: Totally blow Alyssa off or 3: Say I'm gay<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [17M] currently in high school stuck with a dilemma with a girl I kind of like a while back who recently broke up with my best friend. POST: Well, my friend (lets call him Caleb) recently broke up with his girlfriend (lets call her Alyssa) after a long 3 year relationship. Caleb and I were friends with each other since freshman year we knew each other pretty well and worked well together. Alyssa and I knew each other through classes and study groups well knew each other pretty well and we're pretty friendly with each other. Well, lets skip to the interesting part, so its been 2 weeks after Caleb and Alyssa broke up, and Alyssa has been flirting really hard with me ranging from text messages to physical messages. So now I'm left with 3 choices TL;DR: 1: Succumb to by desires and go out with Alyssa whilst totally disrespecting Caleb 2: Totally blow Alyssa off or 3: Say I'm gay<|endoftext|>
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dating_advice
Transition from friends to more than friends.
Backstory: this girl (20) and I (21) have become good friends these past two months. We met in a painting class in college. I being the SAP I am, little be little, have started showing more signs of interest. We are both very compatible and constantly joke and poke fun at one another. However, we have never discussed past relationships or potential relationships (staying out of that friend-zone-area). She is single, although has her fair share of male suitors. The question I need help with is how do I transition this friendship into something more? I have been upping the kino between us, we are both comfortable letting each other in our "personal space," and I make sure to never treat her like "one of the guys" So should I point blank ask her for a date? And hope it doesn't catch her off guard. Should I try to get her to "hang out" and gauge her interest after that. Should I just be honest and tell her how I feel? Being a friend we already know so much about each other a date would even feel odd (oh so what do you do, do you like such/such, etc). What is the best way to let her know I want to be more than friends.
Friend (girl) have become really close, show text book signs of interest yet she still gives signs of restraint. How to transition from friends to dating etc.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Transition from friends to more than friends. POST: Backstory: this girl (20) and I (21) have become good friends these past two months. We met in a painting class in college. I being the SAP I am, little be little, have started showing more signs of interest. We are both very compatible and constantly joke and poke fun at one another. However, we have never discussed past relationships or potential relationships (staying out of that friend-zone-area). She is single, although has her fair share of male suitors. The question I need help with is how do I transition this friendship into something more? I have been upping the kino between us, we are both comfortable letting each other in our "personal space," and I make sure to never treat her like "one of the guys" So should I point blank ask her for a date? And hope it doesn't catch her off guard. Should I try to get her to "hang out" and gauge her interest after that. Should I just be honest and tell her how I feel? Being a friend we already know so much about each other a date would even feel odd (oh so what do you do, do you like such/such, etc). What is the best way to let her know I want to be more than friends. TL;DR:
Friend (girl) have become really close, show text book signs of interest yet she still gives signs of restraint. How to transition from friends to dating etc.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: Transition from friends to more than friends. POST: Backstory: this girl (20) and I (21) have become good friends these past two months. We met in a painting class in college. I being the SAP I am, little be little, have started showing more signs of interest. We are both very compatible and constantly joke and poke fun at one another. However, we have never discussed past relationships or potential relationships (staying out of that friend-zone-area). She is single, although has her fair share of male suitors. The question I need help with is how do I transition this friendship into something more? I have been upping the kino between us, we are both comfortable letting each other in our "personal space," and I make sure to never treat her like "one of the guys" So should I point blank ask her for a date? And hope it doesn't catch her off guard. Should I try to get her to "hang out" and gauge her interest after that. Should I just be honest and tell her how I feel? Being a friend we already know so much about each other a date would even feel odd (oh so what do you do, do you like such/such, etc). What is the best way to let her know I want to be more than friends. TL;DR: Friend (girl) have become really close, show text book signs of interest yet she still gives signs of restraint. How to transition from friends to dating etc.<|endoftext|>
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Dating an awkward texter... advice!
Just want to get some unbiased third party thoughts here: Last year around this time, I ran into an old high school friend at a local Starbucks. We hadn't talked since high school, but it was really nice to see him. I was in a serious long-distance relationship at the time. [He was actually my first kiss in eighth grade, as it turns out, and I had a pretty severe crush on him in high school.] He messaged me on facebook, we exchanged numbers and texts and went out to dinner... it felt very much like a date so I didn't go out with him again at that time. Then, when I got out of my relationship, so around May of this year, we ended up going out again, like two weeks after my break-up. The first date was great, but he was sort of disengaged the second date and it ended awkwardly. I asked him if he wanted to come up to my apartment and he declined. Then he texted me this apology, saying that he's super awkward and doesn't know how to be in social situations without alcohol. I figured I'd let him get in touch with me when he was ready so we didn't go out again until this week. He texted me out of the blue and we went out. It was a lot of fun. I was sort of excited about going out with him again. He told me that he dated a girl since we last went out, so I figured that was why he didn't stay in touch. So, this brings me to today. We were supposed to go out tonight, but he texted me to say that he didn't sleep at all last night and that he wouldn't have any energy to go out tonight, but that he was free this week. I said, Alright and that I was free on certain days and I haven't heard back from him since 10:30 this morning (He usually responds to texts quickly.) So, I'm wondering if I should read into this at all or what? I mean, whatever happens happens, but I thought he was at least interested enough to go out again. Mind you, these "dates" have never been explicitly stated as such, but they feel very much like dates and have the make up of a date. So ya, thoughts people?
Dating childhood friend on and off, but backed out of tonight's date due to lack of sleep last night. Is it bs?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dating an awkward texter... advice! POST: Just want to get some unbiased third party thoughts here: Last year around this time, I ran into an old high school friend at a local Starbucks. We hadn't talked since high school, but it was really nice to see him. I was in a serious long-distance relationship at the time. [He was actually my first kiss in eighth grade, as it turns out, and I had a pretty severe crush on him in high school.] He messaged me on facebook, we exchanged numbers and texts and went out to dinner... it felt very much like a date so I didn't go out with him again at that time. Then, when I got out of my relationship, so around May of this year, we ended up going out again, like two weeks after my break-up. The first date was great, but he was sort of disengaged the second date and it ended awkwardly. I asked him if he wanted to come up to my apartment and he declined. Then he texted me this apology, saying that he's super awkward and doesn't know how to be in social situations without alcohol. I figured I'd let him get in touch with me when he was ready so we didn't go out again until this week. He texted me out of the blue and we went out. It was a lot of fun. I was sort of excited about going out with him again. He told me that he dated a girl since we last went out, so I figured that was why he didn't stay in touch. So, this brings me to today. We were supposed to go out tonight, but he texted me to say that he didn't sleep at all last night and that he wouldn't have any energy to go out tonight, but that he was free this week. I said, Alright and that I was free on certain days and I haven't heard back from him since 10:30 this morning (He usually responds to texts quickly.) So, I'm wondering if I should read into this at all or what? I mean, whatever happens happens, but I thought he was at least interested enough to go out again. Mind you, these "dates" have never been explicitly stated as such, but they feel very much like dates and have the make up of a date. So ya, thoughts people? TL;DR:
Dating childhood friend on and off, but backed out of tonight's date due to lack of sleep last night. Is it bs?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Dating an awkward texter... advice! POST: Just want to get some unbiased third party thoughts here: Last year around this time, I ran into an old high school friend at a local Starbucks. We hadn't talked since high school, but it was really nice to see him. I was in a serious long-distance relationship at the time. [He was actually my first kiss in eighth grade, as it turns out, and I had a pretty severe crush on him in high school.] He messaged me on facebook, we exchanged numbers and texts and went out to dinner... it felt very much like a date so I didn't go out with him again at that time. Then, when I got out of my relationship, so around May of this year, we ended up going out again, like two weeks after my break-up. The first date was great, but he was sort of disengaged the second date and it ended awkwardly. I asked him if he wanted to come up to my apartment and he declined. Then he texted me this apology, saying that he's super awkward and doesn't know how to be in social situations without alcohol. I figured I'd let him get in touch with me when he was ready so we didn't go out again until this week. He texted me out of the blue and we went out. It was a lot of fun. I was sort of excited about going out with him again. He told me that he dated a girl since we last went out, so I figured that was why he didn't stay in touch. So, this brings me to today. We were supposed to go out tonight, but he texted me to say that he didn't sleep at all last night and that he wouldn't have any energy to go out tonight, but that he was free this week. I said, Alright and that I was free on certain days and I haven't heard back from him since 10:30 this morning (He usually responds to texts quickly.) So, I'm wondering if I should read into this at all or what? I mean, whatever happens happens, but I thought he was at least interested enough to go out again. Mind you, these "dates" have never been explicitly stated as such, but they feel very much like dates and have the make up of a date. So ya, thoughts people? TL;DR: Dating childhood friend on and off, but backed out of tonight's date due to lack of sleep last night. Is it bs?<|endoftext|>
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Need Advice: Child Support Rights [Son thinks father is "family friend", devout Christian mother won't let father see son]
I was unsure which subreddit to put this under, and hope I receive some advice here. My boyfriend has a son, six years old. He's been paying $120/mo in child support and has seen his son only 3-4 times. The insane Christian mother hates him, of course, and likes to see his pain. My boyfriend had plans to move 1500 miles away before the son was even conceived, and the mother despises him for running away. She therefore never lets him visit, not even a phone call. He played "Santa" last Christmas and dropped off a gift on the front porch for his son in which the next day he got a phone call from her saying to never come to their house again. She is now demanding more chid support. He is a bartender and makes $2000/mo but sometimes can make more, so he is looking at having to pay $498-$900 per month for one child he never ever sees, and the son doesn't even know who his real father is. The mother won't let him see him anywhere at all, see him at school, share photos, (he has ONE picture of him from 4 years ago) , share grade reports, she won't even let him call to talk to his son on the phone for a minute. They went to a therapist and the therapist said the longer the child waits and the more the child ages, the more psychologically damaged he will be subconsciously later in life. The mother doesn't care, she only cares for her selfish well-being and seeing my boyfriend suffer. I myself have no clue what to do. He has court on the 6th but can't afford an attorney, but there has to be another way. This is unjust and unfair, and I know life is unfair, but there just has to be another way.
Hateful, grudge-holding mom asking bio father to pay 5-9x more child support per mo for 6 yr old child he's 3x in which child knows not his real father*
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Advice: Child Support Rights [Son thinks father is "family friend", devout Christian mother won't let father see son] POST: I was unsure which subreddit to put this under, and hope I receive some advice here. My boyfriend has a son, six years old. He's been paying $120/mo in child support and has seen his son only 3-4 times. The insane Christian mother hates him, of course, and likes to see his pain. My boyfriend had plans to move 1500 miles away before the son was even conceived, and the mother despises him for running away. She therefore never lets him visit, not even a phone call. He played "Santa" last Christmas and dropped off a gift on the front porch for his son in which the next day he got a phone call from her saying to never come to their house again. She is now demanding more chid support. He is a bartender and makes $2000/mo but sometimes can make more, so he is looking at having to pay $498-$900 per month for one child he never ever sees, and the son doesn't even know who his real father is. The mother won't let him see him anywhere at all, see him at school, share photos, (he has ONE picture of him from 4 years ago), share grade reports, she won't even let him call to talk to his son on the phone for a minute. They went to a therapist and the therapist said the longer the child waits and the more the child ages, the more psychologically damaged he will be subconsciously later in life. The mother doesn't care, she only cares for her selfish well-being and seeing my boyfriend suffer. I myself have no clue what to do. He has court on the 6th but can't afford an attorney, but there has to be another way. This is unjust and unfair, and I know life is unfair, but there just has to be another way. TL;DR:
Hateful, grudge-holding mom asking bio father to pay 5-9x more child support per mo for 6 yr old child he's 3x in which child knows not his real father*<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Need Advice: Child Support Rights [Son thinks father is "family friend", devout Christian mother won't let father see son] POST: I was unsure which subreddit to put this under, and hope I receive some advice here. My boyfriend has a son, six years old. He's been paying $120/mo in child support and has seen his son only 3-4 times. The insane Christian mother hates him, of course, and likes to see his pain. My boyfriend had plans to move 1500 miles away before the son was even conceived, and the mother despises him for running away. She therefore never lets him visit, not even a phone call. He played "Santa" last Christmas and dropped off a gift on the front porch for his son in which the next day he got a phone call from her saying to never come to their house again. She is now demanding more chid support. He is a bartender and makes $2000/mo but sometimes can make more, so he is looking at having to pay $498-$900 per month for one child he never ever sees, and the son doesn't even know who his real father is. The mother won't let him see him anywhere at all, see him at school, share photos, (he has ONE picture of him from 4 years ago), share grade reports, she won't even let him call to talk to his son on the phone for a minute. They went to a therapist and the therapist said the longer the child waits and the more the child ages, the more psychologically damaged he will be subconsciously later in life. The mother doesn't care, she only cares for her selfish well-being and seeing my boyfriend suffer. I myself have no clue what to do. He has court on the 6th but can't afford an attorney, but there has to be another way. This is unjust and unfair, and I know life is unfair, but there just has to be another way. TL;DR: Hateful, grudge-holding mom asking bio father to pay 5-9x more child support per mo for 6 yr old child he's 3x in which child knows not his real father*<|endoftext|>
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My[19M] boyfriend ruined our [18F] two year relationship over nothing.
Ok, I know everything will start with "you're young" or " it's be be expected!" Sort of thing but please, save it. Just because we are young doesn't make it any easier. That being said, lets begin. I gave this person everything of me. He took my first everything and for someone who was breaking off from a very strict household, that meant everything to me. He was my first love, my first boyfriend, first person I kissed and held hands with. I knew we were young but towards the later part of our relationship he kept hinting at marriage and, when that scared me, I didn't let it effect anything since I knew he was speaking from the bottom of his heart; or so I thought. I thought that we were a pretty solid deal and so I had worked two jobs in order to help him start paying for an apartment in the state where he was currently going to college at. I gave every single penny I ever had, I picked out the apartment and searched endlessly for the best deals, things of tha sort... But shortly after everything was settled and it was in his name, he broke up with me. Apparently it was over different views we have one on thing but it was minor. What couple doesn't have differences? That's what makes them, right? Surely he wouldn't use me like that if he loved me, right? If he had found someone who could pleasure him correctly since I am new and still afraid of penises, still unable to touch them, he would tell me or try to help me, or talk to me about- right? No. He wouldn't. I put my 100% in everything because I wanted it to work. I planned my life with this guy. I don't even know how to date but that's what my friends keep saying that I should do. Currently I have a 'practice buddie' who's helping me learn how to please a man so maybe I won't be a mess up with the next relationship I get into...
Boyfriend fucked me over after two years even though I gave everything, including my virginity. How am I supposed to deal with this? How do you date?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[19M] boyfriend ruined our [18F] two year relationship over nothing. POST: Ok, I know everything will start with "you're young" or " it's be be expected!" Sort of thing but please, save it. Just because we are young doesn't make it any easier. That being said, lets begin. I gave this person everything of me. He took my first everything and for someone who was breaking off from a very strict household, that meant everything to me. He was my first love, my first boyfriend, first person I kissed and held hands with. I knew we were young but towards the later part of our relationship he kept hinting at marriage and, when that scared me, I didn't let it effect anything since I knew he was speaking from the bottom of his heart; or so I thought. I thought that we were a pretty solid deal and so I had worked two jobs in order to help him start paying for an apartment in the state where he was currently going to college at. I gave every single penny I ever had, I picked out the apartment and searched endlessly for the best deals, things of tha sort... But shortly after everything was settled and it was in his name, he broke up with me. Apparently it was over different views we have one on thing but it was minor. What couple doesn't have differences? That's what makes them, right? Surely he wouldn't use me like that if he loved me, right? If he had found someone who could pleasure him correctly since I am new and still afraid of penises, still unable to touch them, he would tell me or try to help me, or talk to me about- right? No. He wouldn't. I put my 100% in everything because I wanted it to work. I planned my life with this guy. I don't even know how to date but that's what my friends keep saying that I should do. Currently I have a 'practice buddie' who's helping me learn how to please a man so maybe I won't be a mess up with the next relationship I get into... TL;DR:
Boyfriend fucked me over after two years even though I gave everything, including my virginity. How am I supposed to deal with this? How do you date?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My[19M] boyfriend ruined our [18F] two year relationship over nothing. POST: Ok, I know everything will start with "you're young" or " it's be be expected!" Sort of thing but please, save it. Just because we are young doesn't make it any easier. That being said, lets begin. I gave this person everything of me. He took my first everything and for someone who was breaking off from a very strict household, that meant everything to me. He was my first love, my first boyfriend, first person I kissed and held hands with. I knew we were young but towards the later part of our relationship he kept hinting at marriage and, when that scared me, I didn't let it effect anything since I knew he was speaking from the bottom of his heart; or so I thought. I thought that we were a pretty solid deal and so I had worked two jobs in order to help him start paying for an apartment in the state where he was currently going to college at. I gave every single penny I ever had, I picked out the apartment and searched endlessly for the best deals, things of tha sort... But shortly after everything was settled and it was in his name, he broke up with me. Apparently it was over different views we have one on thing but it was minor. What couple doesn't have differences? That's what makes them, right? Surely he wouldn't use me like that if he loved me, right? If he had found someone who could pleasure him correctly since I am new and still afraid of penises, still unable to touch them, he would tell me or try to help me, or talk to me about- right? No. He wouldn't. I put my 100% in everything because I wanted it to work. I planned my life with this guy. I don't even know how to date but that's what my friends keep saying that I should do. Currently I have a 'practice buddie' who's helping me learn how to please a man so maybe I won't be a mess up with the next relationship I get into... TL;DR: Boyfriend fucked me over after two years even though I gave everything, including my virginity. How am I supposed to deal with this? How do you date?<|endoftext|>
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Am I being too harsh on those particularly obnoxious family members on Facebook that seem to think sounding at least somewhat educated is overrated?
My little sister posts statuses like this all the time, and I literally never call her out on it. Today, I decided to, and that one aunt that I'm sure we all have had to butt in and have some defensive opinion about my comment. A comment which was directed solely at my dear sister, whom I very much want to just be the nerdy girl that goes to the library during recess. I tried to end it on a positive note with her, and here comes that one uncle I'm sure we all have that had to start up the unnecessary argument all over again. Am I being to harsh with my family members on Facebook?
this argument with my family was so dumb, I ended it with the definition of crap. should I even bother with them anymore?
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I being too harsh on those particularly obnoxious family members on Facebook that seem to think sounding at least somewhat educated is overrated? POST: My little sister posts statuses like this all the time, and I literally never call her out on it. Today, I decided to, and that one aunt that I'm sure we all have had to butt in and have some defensive opinion about my comment. A comment which was directed solely at my dear sister, whom I very much want to just be the nerdy girl that goes to the library during recess. I tried to end it on a positive note with her, and here comes that one uncle I'm sure we all have that had to start up the unnecessary argument all over again. Am I being to harsh with my family members on Facebook? TL;DR:
this argument with my family was so dumb, I ended it with the definition of crap. should I even bother with them anymore?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Am I being too harsh on those particularly obnoxious family members on Facebook that seem to think sounding at least somewhat educated is overrated? POST: My little sister posts statuses like this all the time, and I literally never call her out on it. Today, I decided to, and that one aunt that I'm sure we all have had to butt in and have some defensive opinion about my comment. A comment which was directed solely at my dear sister, whom I very much want to just be the nerdy girl that goes to the library during recess. I tried to end it on a positive note with her, and here comes that one uncle I'm sure we all have that had to start up the unnecessary argument all over again. Am I being to harsh with my family members on Facebook? TL;DR: this argument with my family was so dumb, I ended it with the definition of crap. should I even bother with them anymore?<|endoftext|>
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My [27/M] close friend [26/M] has a huge crush on my gf [26/F] of 3 years.
I met my friend (we'll call him Andrew) about a year and a half ago when he started working at the same place I do. We clicked almost instantly...I used to think that I was too old to make new friends, but he proved me wrong. At the time, I was in a LDR with my GF (we'll call her Betty). She visited me once during that time (I visited her a lot more just because my schedule was way more flexible) and they (Andrew and Betty) clicked right away too...at first, I was totally delighted about this. Fast forward to this February, when Betty finally moved up here. We've been hanging out with Andrew a LOT, and at first I felt like the three of us had developed an amazing rapport. But then Betty and I started to see signs that he had a crush on her. He would be so much happier to see her than me, or he would make comments to me alone about how I was so lucky to be dating the most beautiful girl in the world, and so on. Betty and I both agree on this (as does a mutual friend). Here's the thing: I know with 100% confidence that Betty would never cheat on me, and I also know with 100% confidence that Andrew would never let that kind of situation happen. I trust them both beyond any doubt. The problem is more that Andrew doesn't seem to be making any effort to get over her in any way, and it's making me feel worried for him and a little jealous at the same time. I'm not sure whether the jealousy is clouding my judgment here, but I don't want him being so infatuated with Betty (not only for my and her sake, but for his too). If I bring this up with him, he'd brush it off and wouldn't let me talk about it - he tends to never take conversations about relationships seriously. What should I do? (throwaway since Andrew knows my main reddit username)
My close friend has developed a crush on my gf. I don't suspect cheating and never would, but it makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27/M] close friend [26/M] has a huge crush on my gf [26/F] of 3 years. POST: I met my friend (we'll call him Andrew) about a year and a half ago when he started working at the same place I do. We clicked almost instantly...I used to think that I was too old to make new friends, but he proved me wrong. At the time, I was in a LDR with my GF (we'll call her Betty). She visited me once during that time (I visited her a lot more just because my schedule was way more flexible) and they (Andrew and Betty) clicked right away too...at first, I was totally delighted about this. Fast forward to this February, when Betty finally moved up here. We've been hanging out with Andrew a LOT, and at first I felt like the three of us had developed an amazing rapport. But then Betty and I started to see signs that he had a crush on her. He would be so much happier to see her than me, or he would make comments to me alone about how I was so lucky to be dating the most beautiful girl in the world, and so on. Betty and I both agree on this (as does a mutual friend). Here's the thing: I know with 100% confidence that Betty would never cheat on me, and I also know with 100% confidence that Andrew would never let that kind of situation happen. I trust them both beyond any doubt. The problem is more that Andrew doesn't seem to be making any effort to get over her in any way, and it's making me feel worried for him and a little jealous at the same time. I'm not sure whether the jealousy is clouding my judgment here, but I don't want him being so infatuated with Betty (not only for my and her sake, but for his too). If I bring this up with him, he'd brush it off and wouldn't let me talk about it - he tends to never take conversations about relationships seriously. What should I do? (throwaway since Andrew knows my main reddit username) TL;DR:
My close friend has developed a crush on my gf. I don't suspect cheating and never would, but it makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [27/M] close friend [26/M] has a huge crush on my gf [26/F] of 3 years. POST: I met my friend (we'll call him Andrew) about a year and a half ago when he started working at the same place I do. We clicked almost instantly...I used to think that I was too old to make new friends, but he proved me wrong. At the time, I was in a LDR with my GF (we'll call her Betty). She visited me once during that time (I visited her a lot more just because my schedule was way more flexible) and they (Andrew and Betty) clicked right away too...at first, I was totally delighted about this. Fast forward to this February, when Betty finally moved up here. We've been hanging out with Andrew a LOT, and at first I felt like the three of us had developed an amazing rapport. But then Betty and I started to see signs that he had a crush on her. He would be so much happier to see her than me, or he would make comments to me alone about how I was so lucky to be dating the most beautiful girl in the world, and so on. Betty and I both agree on this (as does a mutual friend). Here's the thing: I know with 100% confidence that Betty would never cheat on me, and I also know with 100% confidence that Andrew would never let that kind of situation happen. I trust them both beyond any doubt. The problem is more that Andrew doesn't seem to be making any effort to get over her in any way, and it's making me feel worried for him and a little jealous at the same time. I'm not sure whether the jealousy is clouding my judgment here, but I don't want him being so infatuated with Betty (not only for my and her sake, but for his too). If I bring this up with him, he'd brush it off and wouldn't let me talk about it - he tends to never take conversations about relationships seriously. What should I do? (throwaway since Andrew knows my main reddit username) TL;DR: My close friend has developed a crush on my gf. I don't suspect cheating and never would, but it makes me uncomfortable and I don't know what to do about it.<|endoftext|>
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t3_37ifta
Advice
Renting & Pool Repairs
My husband and I currently rent our house which happens to have a pool. Our contract states that we are responsible for maintenance and cleaning of said pool, which to make sure everything is done correctly we pay the pool service that the landlord prefers to take care of it. When we went to start thinking about opening the pool for the summer we noticed that the pool had drained. It turns out that there is a hole in the liner somewhere presumably toward the bottom. Our landlady has been awful to work with since the beginning. We pay our rent on time every month, and we have done repairs out of pocket that leave the home in better condition than when we moved in. We have only asked her to fix one issue during the almost three years we have lived here. We had a plumbing issue in which water was backing up into the house. We have no children, but she kept insisting that a child must have flushed something down the toilet, and that we would be responsible for the repairs. When she was finally faced with the reality that nothing had been flushed she asked to see the contract because she was sure that all repairs were our reponsibility. They were not, and the pipes were fixed. I could tell you a couple hours more worth of stories about her that would blow your mind but I will stick to the current issue from now on. I beleive the pool liner has a hole in it from normal wear and tear which means she should pay for it, but she is refusing. She again is claiming that a child must have ripped the liner. I am so frustrated with her, but I don't know if I have any recourse. I realize that a pool is not a necessity, but I do not want to pay costly pool repairs for a pool that is not mine. Also, she has threatened to take our security deposit if we do not fix it. It's starting to feel like I am renting a money pit. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
our landlord is seemingly of unsound mind, and is trying to make us pay for expensive repairs that are normal wear and tear.
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Renting & Pool Repairs POST: My husband and I currently rent our house which happens to have a pool. Our contract states that we are responsible for maintenance and cleaning of said pool, which to make sure everything is done correctly we pay the pool service that the landlord prefers to take care of it. When we went to start thinking about opening the pool for the summer we noticed that the pool had drained. It turns out that there is a hole in the liner somewhere presumably toward the bottom. Our landlady has been awful to work with since the beginning. We pay our rent on time every month, and we have done repairs out of pocket that leave the home in better condition than when we moved in. We have only asked her to fix one issue during the almost three years we have lived here. We had a plumbing issue in which water was backing up into the house. We have no children, but she kept insisting that a child must have flushed something down the toilet, and that we would be responsible for the repairs. When she was finally faced with the reality that nothing had been flushed she asked to see the contract because she was sure that all repairs were our reponsibility. They were not, and the pipes were fixed. I could tell you a couple hours more worth of stories about her that would blow your mind but I will stick to the current issue from now on. I beleive the pool liner has a hole in it from normal wear and tear which means she should pay for it, but she is refusing. She again is claiming that a child must have ripped the liner. I am so frustrated with her, but I don't know if I have any recourse. I realize that a pool is not a necessity, but I do not want to pay costly pool repairs for a pool that is not mine. Also, she has threatened to take our security deposit if we do not fix it. It's starting to feel like I am renting a money pit. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR:
our landlord is seemingly of unsound mind, and is trying to make us pay for expensive repairs that are normal wear and tear. <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/Advice TITLE: Renting & Pool Repairs POST: My husband and I currently rent our house which happens to have a pool. Our contract states that we are responsible for maintenance and cleaning of said pool, which to make sure everything is done correctly we pay the pool service that the landlord prefers to take care of it. When we went to start thinking about opening the pool for the summer we noticed that the pool had drained. It turns out that there is a hole in the liner somewhere presumably toward the bottom. Our landlady has been awful to work with since the beginning. We pay our rent on time every month, and we have done repairs out of pocket that leave the home in better condition than when we moved in. We have only asked her to fix one issue during the almost three years we have lived here. We had a plumbing issue in which water was backing up into the house. We have no children, but she kept insisting that a child must have flushed something down the toilet, and that we would be responsible for the repairs. When she was finally faced with the reality that nothing had been flushed she asked to see the contract because she was sure that all repairs were our reponsibility. They were not, and the pipes were fixed. I could tell you a couple hours more worth of stories about her that would blow your mind but I will stick to the current issue from now on. I beleive the pool liner has a hole in it from normal wear and tear which means she should pay for it, but she is refusing. She again is claiming that a child must have ripped the liner. I am so frustrated with her, but I don't know if I have any recourse. I realize that a pool is not a necessity, but I do not want to pay costly pool repairs for a pool that is not mine. Also, she has threatened to take our security deposit if we do not fix it. It's starting to feel like I am renting a money pit. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. TL;DR: our landlord is seemingly of unsound mind, and is trying to make us pay for expensive repairs that are normal wear and tear. <|endoftext|>
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Me [22M] with my GF [21F] 1 year, broke up, She was always THAT girl to me, now I can't handle this.
So I was dating the girl of my dreams for a year. We have known each other for about 6 years but we were dating other people and the time and we never could be with each other. We always wanted to be friends and talk to each other but we never could because our gfs, and bfs at the time didn't want us to. I thought about her everyday of my life because I knew she was the one for me. I still do. So we end up dating and everything is as amazing as it should be. Im not the typically 22 year old. I am ready to settle down right now. I really am. You may think that's weird but I don't care. That's how I am. Anyway, a few months later we start to fight and have problems. We moved in together pretty fast (around a month or so of dating). But everything was fine. The biggest issue was my self esteem and confidence. I always had to ask if she cared about me, and if she loved me. Stuff like that. I would get mad and angry over dumb fucking things. Just so she could say sorry and I could feel like she cared about me. So a lot of issues on my part that came from previous relationships. So we broke up finally yesterday. And I am beyond defeated. This is the only girl that I have ever wanted to be with. EVER. She says that she still cares about me a lot and that she wants to still be in my life just not romantically. Every time I think about her possibly being with someone else in the future, it makes my stomach curl. We used to love each other so much. There was so much love it was amazing. I ruined everything with my problems. How do I deal with this? Do you think there is any chance of us getting back together in the future? Can people get feelings for someone again?
Gf of one year dumps me, she's THAT girl for me and I can't deal with the grief. Is there anything I can do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my GF [21F] 1 year, broke up, She was always THAT girl to me, now I can't handle this. POST: So I was dating the girl of my dreams for a year. We have known each other for about 6 years but we were dating other people and the time and we never could be with each other. We always wanted to be friends and talk to each other but we never could because our gfs, and bfs at the time didn't want us to. I thought about her everyday of my life because I knew she was the one for me. I still do. So we end up dating and everything is as amazing as it should be. Im not the typically 22 year old. I am ready to settle down right now. I really am. You may think that's weird but I don't care. That's how I am. Anyway, a few months later we start to fight and have problems. We moved in together pretty fast (around a month or so of dating). But everything was fine. The biggest issue was my self esteem and confidence. I always had to ask if she cared about me, and if she loved me. Stuff like that. I would get mad and angry over dumb fucking things. Just so she could say sorry and I could feel like she cared about me. So a lot of issues on my part that came from previous relationships. So we broke up finally yesterday. And I am beyond defeated. This is the only girl that I have ever wanted to be with. EVER. She says that she still cares about me a lot and that she wants to still be in my life just not romantically. Every time I think about her possibly being with someone else in the future, it makes my stomach curl. We used to love each other so much. There was so much love it was amazing. I ruined everything with my problems. How do I deal with this? Do you think there is any chance of us getting back together in the future? Can people get feelings for someone again? TL;DR:
Gf of one year dumps me, she's THAT girl for me and I can't deal with the grief. Is there anything I can do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22M] with my GF [21F] 1 year, broke up, She was always THAT girl to me, now I can't handle this. POST: So I was dating the girl of my dreams for a year. We have known each other for about 6 years but we were dating other people and the time and we never could be with each other. We always wanted to be friends and talk to each other but we never could because our gfs, and bfs at the time didn't want us to. I thought about her everyday of my life because I knew she was the one for me. I still do. So we end up dating and everything is as amazing as it should be. Im not the typically 22 year old. I am ready to settle down right now. I really am. You may think that's weird but I don't care. That's how I am. Anyway, a few months later we start to fight and have problems. We moved in together pretty fast (around a month or so of dating). But everything was fine. The biggest issue was my self esteem and confidence. I always had to ask if she cared about me, and if she loved me. Stuff like that. I would get mad and angry over dumb fucking things. Just so she could say sorry and I could feel like she cared about me. So a lot of issues on my part that came from previous relationships. So we broke up finally yesterday. And I am beyond defeated. This is the only girl that I have ever wanted to be with. EVER. She says that she still cares about me a lot and that she wants to still be in my life just not romantically. Every time I think about her possibly being with someone else in the future, it makes my stomach curl. We used to love each other so much. There was so much love it was amazing. I ruined everything with my problems. How do I deal with this? Do you think there is any chance of us getting back together in the future? Can people get feelings for someone again? TL;DR: Gf of one year dumps me, she's THAT girl for me and I can't deal with the grief. Is there anything I can do?<|endoftext|>
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How to confront my store manager? Also, How can I try for a raise?
My manager is the leading cause of drama in our workplace. This person also has openly an unprofessionally said things about coworkers and myself to other staff. These things rarely touch upon work ethic or anything regarding the person's value as an employee. They usually just involve negative comments regarding the person, true or not, and most of these people don't do anything wrong and they are good workers. It just irritates me that this person plays favorites, especially regarding wages and positions. On the wages part, I am much lower payed then almost every other employee (figured that out on my own), yet I am trained for everything in our location aside from one area. A manager that respects me calls me the "Charlie" of our location. Just watch it's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and you'll get that. *using non-descriptive terms to try to remain somewhat anonymous, The job is retail. Also, throwaway account.
Manager is hurting our workforce, need to confront her, possibly try to advance/get a raise for working above my pay grade.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to confront my store manager? Also, How can I try for a raise? POST: My manager is the leading cause of drama in our workplace. This person also has openly an unprofessionally said things about coworkers and myself to other staff. These things rarely touch upon work ethic or anything regarding the person's value as an employee. They usually just involve negative comments regarding the person, true or not, and most of these people don't do anything wrong and they are good workers. It just irritates me that this person plays favorites, especially regarding wages and positions. On the wages part, I am much lower payed then almost every other employee (figured that out on my own), yet I am trained for everything in our location aside from one area. A manager that respects me calls me the "Charlie" of our location. Just watch it's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and you'll get that. *using non-descriptive terms to try to remain somewhat anonymous, The job is retail. Also, throwaway account. TL;DR:
Manager is hurting our workforce, need to confront her, possibly try to advance/get a raise for working above my pay grade.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: How to confront my store manager? Also, How can I try for a raise? POST: My manager is the leading cause of drama in our workplace. This person also has openly an unprofessionally said things about coworkers and myself to other staff. These things rarely touch upon work ethic or anything regarding the person's value as an employee. They usually just involve negative comments regarding the person, true or not, and most of these people don't do anything wrong and they are good workers. It just irritates me that this person plays favorites, especially regarding wages and positions. On the wages part, I am much lower payed then almost every other employee (figured that out on my own), yet I am trained for everything in our location aside from one area. A manager that respects me calls me the "Charlie" of our location. Just watch it's Always Sunny in Philadelphia and you'll get that. *using non-descriptive terms to try to remain somewhat anonymous, The job is retail. Also, throwaway account. TL;DR: Manager is hurting our workforce, need to confront her, possibly try to advance/get a raise for working above my pay grade.<|endoftext|>
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How do I [24M] bond with my sister-in-law [25F] who is going to be living with me for a few months.
My brother (28M) and my sister-in-law just got married this past September but my brother will have to be working abroad in some pretty bad parts of Africa for a few months between the end of the year and he beginning of 2015. Because it's a pretty bad place my brother doesn't want her living there and she agrees however her parents and mine both live in Australia but I'm currently in Edinburgh (UK). It was my mother's idea that I invite my SIL to live with me while he's away so we can get to know each other more and because it's closer to my brothers work he can get a flight to the UK and back every couple of weeks easily. I'm a **very** introverted kind of guy. I spent 5 years of University with virtually no contact with my classmates and for the four years my brother and her were dating I think I'd only met her a handful of times and never actually had a proper conversation with her. She's really nice and I think my brother has told her I'm a little strange because she sometime texts me out of the blue asking "what's up" and stuff like that. (I know it may seem normal but people who know me know that I hate texting and i's very difficult to get a conversation out of me) Obviously since she is family now I want to try and get to know her better but I still feel very uneasy spending that much time with someone. She's on board with the idea and has already found a Job in Edinburgh and although I have a job too we're still going to be spending every evening and weekend alone the only thing we have in common is that we know my brother!
My sister-in-law is going to be living with me for a few months. I am very introverted and crap and conversing & maintaining relationships and don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [24M] bond with my sister-in-law [25F] who is going to be living with me for a few months. POST: My brother (28M) and my sister-in-law just got married this past September but my brother will have to be working abroad in some pretty bad parts of Africa for a few months between the end of the year and he beginning of 2015. Because it's a pretty bad place my brother doesn't want her living there and she agrees however her parents and mine both live in Australia but I'm currently in Edinburgh (UK). It was my mother's idea that I invite my SIL to live with me while he's away so we can get to know each other more and because it's closer to my brothers work he can get a flight to the UK and back every couple of weeks easily. I'm a **very** introverted kind of guy. I spent 5 years of University with virtually no contact with my classmates and for the four years my brother and her were dating I think I'd only met her a handful of times and never actually had a proper conversation with her. She's really nice and I think my brother has told her I'm a little strange because she sometime texts me out of the blue asking "what's up" and stuff like that. (I know it may seem normal but people who know me know that I hate texting and i's very difficult to get a conversation out of me) Obviously since she is family now I want to try and get to know her better but I still feel very uneasy spending that much time with someone. She's on board with the idea and has already found a Job in Edinburgh and although I have a job too we're still going to be spending every evening and weekend alone the only thing we have in common is that we know my brother! TL;DR:
My sister-in-law is going to be living with me for a few months. I am very introverted and crap and conversing & maintaining relationships and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: How do I [24M] bond with my sister-in-law [25F] who is going to be living with me for a few months. POST: My brother (28M) and my sister-in-law just got married this past September but my brother will have to be working abroad in some pretty bad parts of Africa for a few months between the end of the year and he beginning of 2015. Because it's a pretty bad place my brother doesn't want her living there and she agrees however her parents and mine both live in Australia but I'm currently in Edinburgh (UK). It was my mother's idea that I invite my SIL to live with me while he's away so we can get to know each other more and because it's closer to my brothers work he can get a flight to the UK and back every couple of weeks easily. I'm a **very** introverted kind of guy. I spent 5 years of University with virtually no contact with my classmates and for the four years my brother and her were dating I think I'd only met her a handful of times and never actually had a proper conversation with her. She's really nice and I think my brother has told her I'm a little strange because she sometime texts me out of the blue asking "what's up" and stuff like that. (I know it may seem normal but people who know me know that I hate texting and i's very difficult to get a conversation out of me) Obviously since she is family now I want to try and get to know her better but I still feel very uneasy spending that much time with someone. She's on board with the idea and has already found a Job in Edinburgh and although I have a job too we're still going to be spending every evening and weekend alone the only thing we have in common is that we know my brother! TL;DR: My sister-in-law is going to be living with me for a few months. I am very introverted and crap and conversing & maintaining relationships and don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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[21F] Short Term Fling with [22M] Before Graduation?
Have been seeing this guy for almost two months now. Everything is fine - I don't think either of us is really really into the other person, but it's nice to have someone to hang out with... and have sex with. The two of us decided recently to date each other exclusively - but we're not in a relationship. I am not really sure what I want, because I am graduating college in a few months and will be moving across the country for my job. I think I'd be interested in having a fling. There's some level of commitment (exclusivity), but there's an expiration date in a few months. My question is: should I try to make this work? Since I'll only be around for a little while longer, should I just enjoy this for what it is? I'm worried I'll get attached and go through a painful separation later on. Or - that I might end up developing real feelings while he still is lukewarm towards me. Maybe I'm just feeling lonely and that's why I'm trying to make this work, even though it doesn't seem quite right.
Dating this guy that I'm kind of lukewarm about (and vice versa), don't know if it's worth it to keep seeing him since I'm moving in a few months.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21F] Short Term Fling with [22M] Before Graduation? POST: Have been seeing this guy for almost two months now. Everything is fine - I don't think either of us is really really into the other person, but it's nice to have someone to hang out with... and have sex with. The two of us decided recently to date each other exclusively - but we're not in a relationship. I am not really sure what I want, because I am graduating college in a few months and will be moving across the country for my job. I think I'd be interested in having a fling. There's some level of commitment (exclusivity), but there's an expiration date in a few months. My question is: should I try to make this work? Since I'll only be around for a little while longer, should I just enjoy this for what it is? I'm worried I'll get attached and go through a painful separation later on. Or - that I might end up developing real feelings while he still is lukewarm towards me. Maybe I'm just feeling lonely and that's why I'm trying to make this work, even though it doesn't seem quite right. TL;DR:
Dating this guy that I'm kind of lukewarm about (and vice versa), don't know if it's worth it to keep seeing him since I'm moving in a few months.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: [21F] Short Term Fling with [22M] Before Graduation? POST: Have been seeing this guy for almost two months now. Everything is fine - I don't think either of us is really really into the other person, but it's nice to have someone to hang out with... and have sex with. The two of us decided recently to date each other exclusively - but we're not in a relationship. I am not really sure what I want, because I am graduating college in a few months and will be moving across the country for my job. I think I'd be interested in having a fling. There's some level of commitment (exclusivity), but there's an expiration date in a few months. My question is: should I try to make this work? Since I'll only be around for a little while longer, should I just enjoy this for what it is? I'm worried I'll get attached and go through a painful separation later on. Or - that I might end up developing real feelings while he still is lukewarm towards me. Maybe I'm just feeling lonely and that's why I'm trying to make this work, even though it doesn't seem quite right. TL;DR: Dating this guy that I'm kind of lukewarm about (and vice versa), don't know if it's worth it to keep seeing him since I'm moving in a few months.<|endoftext|>
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My SO [19 M/] 8 months(LDR), is blowing off my [21/F] birthday :(
My SO and I love each other very much and are very serious about each other. He had his birthday a couple of months ago and I was very excited for it. He says that because his family doesn't make a big deal about birthdays, he doesn't really care about them, but he has admitted that he would love it if people made a bigger deal out of it. And so I did. I kept reminding him that his birthday is coming up, regularly, for 2 months. I started subtly asking him what he wanted, put together a gift basket of stuff he likes and sent it across the ocean for him. He was super happy, he loved it and he told me that I made his birthday very special. Mine is 2 weeks from now and he hasn't talked about it at all, seems like he hardly remembers. He told me he would not send me anything cause he can't afford it. I feel really bad because I love birthdays and they are a big deal to me. He has been telling me about other stuff he has been buying, which makes me feel worse because it seems like he can afford it. On one hand I feel upset because I put a lot of effort into his gift and on the other hand I feel guilty about being so petty and selfish. He loves me and that should be enough. I tell myself to get over it, but I feel bad to the point that I am NOT looking forward to my birthday anymore.
Sent SO a gift basket, was overly excited for his birthday. He never talks about mine and has made it clear that he wont be sending me anything.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [19 M/] 8 months(LDR), is blowing off my [21/F] birthday :( POST: My SO and I love each other very much and are very serious about each other. He had his birthday a couple of months ago and I was very excited for it. He says that because his family doesn't make a big deal about birthdays, he doesn't really care about them, but he has admitted that he would love it if people made a bigger deal out of it. And so I did. I kept reminding him that his birthday is coming up, regularly, for 2 months. I started subtly asking him what he wanted, put together a gift basket of stuff he likes and sent it across the ocean for him. He was super happy, he loved it and he told me that I made his birthday very special. Mine is 2 weeks from now and he hasn't talked about it at all, seems like he hardly remembers. He told me he would not send me anything cause he can't afford it. I feel really bad because I love birthdays and they are a big deal to me. He has been telling me about other stuff he has been buying, which makes me feel worse because it seems like he can afford it. On one hand I feel upset because I put a lot of effort into his gift and on the other hand I feel guilty about being so petty and selfish. He loves me and that should be enough. I tell myself to get over it, but I feel bad to the point that I am NOT looking forward to my birthday anymore. TL;DR:
Sent SO a gift basket, was overly excited for his birthday. He never talks about mine and has made it clear that he wont be sending me anything.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My SO [19 M/] 8 months(LDR), is blowing off my [21/F] birthday :( POST: My SO and I love each other very much and are very serious about each other. He had his birthday a couple of months ago and I was very excited for it. He says that because his family doesn't make a big deal about birthdays, he doesn't really care about them, but he has admitted that he would love it if people made a bigger deal out of it. And so I did. I kept reminding him that his birthday is coming up, regularly, for 2 months. I started subtly asking him what he wanted, put together a gift basket of stuff he likes and sent it across the ocean for him. He was super happy, he loved it and he told me that I made his birthday very special. Mine is 2 weeks from now and he hasn't talked about it at all, seems like he hardly remembers. He told me he would not send me anything cause he can't afford it. I feel really bad because I love birthdays and they are a big deal to me. He has been telling me about other stuff he has been buying, which makes me feel worse because it seems like he can afford it. On one hand I feel upset because I put a lot of effort into his gift and on the other hand I feel guilty about being so petty and selfish. He loves me and that should be enough. I tell myself to get over it, but I feel bad to the point that I am NOT looking forward to my birthday anymore. TL;DR: Sent SO a gift basket, was overly excited for his birthday. He never talks about mine and has made it clear that he wont be sending me anything.<|endoftext|>
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[22M] Childhood crush leaving soon...
Needed some solid advice on this.. I fell in love with a girl I've known as family friends since childhood, probably age 10 or 11 around the start of it (we're the same age). Since that time we only spoke briefly each week at church but mostly just waved at each other (where we were also introduced to each other's families back then), or when she would meet up with my older sis a lot (who's still close with her). We also attended many parties together but nothing beyond friendliness in all cases. Me and her never really had feelings for each other initially BUT I was only slightly told she had a big thing for me back when we were young but never came to fruition and I never heeded any signs either, although I asked some of our mutual friend circles and all of her female friends told me she doesn't have a thing for guys right now because she's too focused on academics. Fast forward to this year, she got accepted to a top level grad school and her family is actually moving out of state for business as well so she will be departing the scene soon. I feel that I am losing touch with her as we start to go our own ways after this. My question is, should I confess the truth to her after all these years of our friendship? Should I tell her how I feel about her before she leaves or should I drop it all entirely and abandon ship anyway? My brain tells me to consider the risk of her friendship going the wrong way but my heart tells me to tell her how much she has meant to me all these long years of patience. My sister informed me that being an attractive guy who works on himself years from now will prove to my crush that I will be the man for her in her future, although not sure how long that will take.
childhood crush is moving away for long time, need help on whether to confess my feelings for her after many years of friendship or leave it as be in hopes of her reaching out to me down the road.
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [22M] Childhood crush leaving soon... POST: Needed some solid advice on this.. I fell in love with a girl I've known as family friends since childhood, probably age 10 or 11 around the start of it (we're the same age). Since that time we only spoke briefly each week at church but mostly just waved at each other (where we were also introduced to each other's families back then), or when she would meet up with my older sis a lot (who's still close with her). We also attended many parties together but nothing beyond friendliness in all cases. Me and her never really had feelings for each other initially BUT I was only slightly told she had a big thing for me back when we were young but never came to fruition and I never heeded any signs either, although I asked some of our mutual friend circles and all of her female friends told me she doesn't have a thing for guys right now because she's too focused on academics. Fast forward to this year, she got accepted to a top level grad school and her family is actually moving out of state for business as well so she will be departing the scene soon. I feel that I am losing touch with her as we start to go our own ways after this. My question is, should I confess the truth to her after all these years of our friendship? Should I tell her how I feel about her before she leaves or should I drop it all entirely and abandon ship anyway? My brain tells me to consider the risk of her friendship going the wrong way but my heart tells me to tell her how much she has meant to me all these long years of patience. My sister informed me that being an attractive guy who works on himself years from now will prove to my crush that I will be the man for her in her future, although not sure how long that will take. TL;DR:
childhood crush is moving away for long time, need help on whether to confess my feelings for her after many years of friendship or leave it as be in hopes of her reaching out to me down the road.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/askwomenadvice TITLE: [22M] Childhood crush leaving soon... POST: Needed some solid advice on this.. I fell in love with a girl I've known as family friends since childhood, probably age 10 or 11 around the start of it (we're the same age). Since that time we only spoke briefly each week at church but mostly just waved at each other (where we were also introduced to each other's families back then), or when she would meet up with my older sis a lot (who's still close with her). We also attended many parties together but nothing beyond friendliness in all cases. Me and her never really had feelings for each other initially BUT I was only slightly told she had a big thing for me back when we were young but never came to fruition and I never heeded any signs either, although I asked some of our mutual friend circles and all of her female friends told me she doesn't have a thing for guys right now because she's too focused on academics. Fast forward to this year, she got accepted to a top level grad school and her family is actually moving out of state for business as well so she will be departing the scene soon. I feel that I am losing touch with her as we start to go our own ways after this. My question is, should I confess the truth to her after all these years of our friendship? Should I tell her how I feel about her before she leaves or should I drop it all entirely and abandon ship anyway? My brain tells me to consider the risk of her friendship going the wrong way but my heart tells me to tell her how much she has meant to me all these long years of patience. My sister informed me that being an attractive guy who works on himself years from now will prove to my crush that I will be the man for her in her future, although not sure how long that will take. TL;DR: childhood crush is moving away for long time, need help on whether to confess my feelings for her after many years of friendship or leave it as be in hopes of her reaching out to me down the road.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU by trying to getting freaky NSFW
I've been debating posting this TIFU for the longest time now but yolo. It actually happened 3 years ago when my parents and I were still living at my grandmas house. My grandma had her bedroom and my parents had theirs. I however, slept in my grandmas closet. It was quite big so I fit a small bed in there. This was during the summer where I'd wake up at 2pm and go to sleep at 5am playing video games and doing what every on teenage boy does... However, I got curious one night and decided to make a homemade fleshlight. I google "homemade fleshlight" and after looking through carved watermelons, to warm banana peels, I saw a DIY sock and condom fleshlight. I made this lil sucker and it was quite awesome. Now for the fuck up. I used this heavenly contraption and when I was done, I threw it in a random drawer, deep down where no one could find it. Only a few days after, I had a flight to Colombia to see my family. I was gone for maybe a week. I got home & everything was perfectly ok, until my grandma seemed like she wanted to talk to me about something. In my head I was like "Sure grandma, what's up?" She proceeded on to say that she was cleaning her room when she came upon some funky smell. At this point I was dying inside. "One of the drawers had a foul smell and I looked inside to see what was in it". I was dying of embarrassment. She then went on and said "Look it's okay." Then I was like, phew! Homemade fleshlights aren't so bad! "Listen, I know you're at that age to have sex.." "When did you bring a girl over?" "Was it here or in Colombia?" "I won't tell your parents" And she kept going on how I'm not suppose to keep a used condom after I have sex.. There was no way for me to tell my grandma I had made a fleshlight and that I actually didn't smash a girl in her closet. It was quite embarrassing if you ask em.
I made a homemade fleshlight, used it, threw it in a drawer, grandma finds it and tells me it's ok to have sex and that condoms are supposed to be thrown out when they are used.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to getting freaky NSFW POST: I've been debating posting this TIFU for the longest time now but yolo. It actually happened 3 years ago when my parents and I were still living at my grandmas house. My grandma had her bedroom and my parents had theirs. I however, slept in my grandmas closet. It was quite big so I fit a small bed in there. This was during the summer where I'd wake up at 2pm and go to sleep at 5am playing video games and doing what every on teenage boy does... However, I got curious one night and decided to make a homemade fleshlight. I google "homemade fleshlight" and after looking through carved watermelons, to warm banana peels, I saw a DIY sock and condom fleshlight. I made this lil sucker and it was quite awesome. Now for the fuck up. I used this heavenly contraption and when I was done, I threw it in a random drawer, deep down where no one could find it. Only a few days after, I had a flight to Colombia to see my family. I was gone for maybe a week. I got home & everything was perfectly ok, until my grandma seemed like she wanted to talk to me about something. In my head I was like "Sure grandma, what's up?" She proceeded on to say that she was cleaning her room when she came upon some funky smell. At this point I was dying inside. "One of the drawers had a foul smell and I looked inside to see what was in it". I was dying of embarrassment. She then went on and said "Look it's okay." Then I was like, phew! Homemade fleshlights aren't so bad! "Listen, I know you're at that age to have sex.." "When did you bring a girl over?" "Was it here or in Colombia?" "I won't tell your parents" And she kept going on how I'm not suppose to keep a used condom after I have sex.. There was no way for me to tell my grandma I had made a fleshlight and that I actually didn't smash a girl in her closet. It was quite embarrassing if you ask em. TL;DR:
I made a homemade fleshlight, used it, threw it in a drawer, grandma finds it and tells me it's ok to have sex and that condoms are supposed to be thrown out when they are used.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to getting freaky NSFW POST: I've been debating posting this TIFU for the longest time now but yolo. It actually happened 3 years ago when my parents and I were still living at my grandmas house. My grandma had her bedroom and my parents had theirs. I however, slept in my grandmas closet. It was quite big so I fit a small bed in there. This was during the summer where I'd wake up at 2pm and go to sleep at 5am playing video games and doing what every on teenage boy does... However, I got curious one night and decided to make a homemade fleshlight. I google "homemade fleshlight" and after looking through carved watermelons, to warm banana peels, I saw a DIY sock and condom fleshlight. I made this lil sucker and it was quite awesome. Now for the fuck up. I used this heavenly contraption and when I was done, I threw it in a random drawer, deep down where no one could find it. Only a few days after, I had a flight to Colombia to see my family. I was gone for maybe a week. I got home & everything was perfectly ok, until my grandma seemed like she wanted to talk to me about something. In my head I was like "Sure grandma, what's up?" She proceeded on to say that she was cleaning her room when she came upon some funky smell. At this point I was dying inside. "One of the drawers had a foul smell and I looked inside to see what was in it". I was dying of embarrassment. She then went on and said "Look it's okay." Then I was like, phew! Homemade fleshlights aren't so bad! "Listen, I know you're at that age to have sex.." "When did you bring a girl over?" "Was it here or in Colombia?" "I won't tell your parents" And she kept going on how I'm not suppose to keep a used condom after I have sex.. There was no way for me to tell my grandma I had made a fleshlight and that I actually didn't smash a girl in her closet. It was quite embarrassing if you ask em. TL;DR: I made a homemade fleshlight, used it, threw it in a drawer, grandma finds it and tells me it's ok to have sex and that condoms are supposed to be thrown out when they are used.<|endoftext|>
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Me [19/M] with my gf[20/F] have been dating 3 years. I've realized a laundry list of issues I have with our relationship, most of all I am no longer in love with her. Yet I can't find a way/muster up the courage to end our relationship. please help
Have lived together for the past year. Just no longer sexually attracted to her . As I lived with her I began to REALLY get to know her family and have issues with all members (especially her mother, and gf already does certain things like her mom). I feel as if she is my best friend that I like hanging out with, not my significant other. I care about her a lot and wish there was a way to do it without heartbreak, however everytime I try to tell her "I dont think this is working anymore" she breaks down and cries her eyes out, almost full panic attack and says that if we just try a little longer it'll get better. I have been trying/waiting for things to get better for the past 2 months. We had a really rough year(money, school, roommates, living situation) and Im sure that has contributed, but its her main reasoning to have us continue now that we are out of our old situation. I have felt my feelings for her and want for the relationship deteriorating for the past 3 or so months and believe its time.
care about gf a lot but am no longer in love with her and feel the need to end the relationship. Please help
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19/M] with my gf[20/F] have been dating 3 years. I've realized a laundry list of issues I have with our relationship, most of all I am no longer in love with her. Yet I can't find a way/muster up the courage to end our relationship. please help POST: Have lived together for the past year. Just no longer sexually attracted to her . As I lived with her I began to REALLY get to know her family and have issues with all members (especially her mother, and gf already does certain things like her mom). I feel as if she is my best friend that I like hanging out with, not my significant other. I care about her a lot and wish there was a way to do it without heartbreak, however everytime I try to tell her "I dont think this is working anymore" she breaks down and cries her eyes out, almost full panic attack and says that if we just try a little longer it'll get better. I have been trying/waiting for things to get better for the past 2 months. We had a really rough year(money, school, roommates, living situation) and Im sure that has contributed, but its her main reasoning to have us continue now that we are out of our old situation. I have felt my feelings for her and want for the relationship deteriorating for the past 3 or so months and believe its time. TL;DR:
care about gf a lot but am no longer in love with her and feel the need to end the relationship. Please help<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19/M] with my gf[20/F] have been dating 3 years. I've realized a laundry list of issues I have with our relationship, most of all I am no longer in love with her. Yet I can't find a way/muster up the courage to end our relationship. please help POST: Have lived together for the past year. Just no longer sexually attracted to her . As I lived with her I began to REALLY get to know her family and have issues with all members (especially her mother, and gf already does certain things like her mom). I feel as if she is my best friend that I like hanging out with, not my significant other. I care about her a lot and wish there was a way to do it without heartbreak, however everytime I try to tell her "I dont think this is working anymore" she breaks down and cries her eyes out, almost full panic attack and says that if we just try a little longer it'll get better. I have been trying/waiting for things to get better for the past 2 months. We had a really rough year(money, school, roommates, living situation) and Im sure that has contributed, but its her main reasoning to have us continue now that we are out of our old situation. I have felt my feelings for her and want for the relationship deteriorating for the past 3 or so months and believe its time. TL;DR: care about gf a lot but am no longer in love with her and feel the need to end the relationship. Please help<|endoftext|>
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my friend is going to court about child support.. shes worried.
this is in MN.. her ex has a violent past and has been denied by her the right to see their daughter. he isnt on the birth certificate but for her to get continued aid with her childcare she needs to go after child support.. its $150 or so dollars a month because he makes so little. she doesnt want him to see her because he has been violent with the child in the room. this is documented on police records.. the problem is she makes too much to get a free lawyer but not enough to afford a lawyer. she is going to represent herself and shes scared of what could happen. so the question is.. what can she do to assure this will go the smoothest possible way? she has already gathered his police reports and many of them are violent. she is bummed out that this is happening over less than $2,000 a year and shed rather struggle without the extra cash than open herself up to this whole ordeal but then she will lose her child care aid. she does not want the father in her childs life and has documented him saying he will "sign his parental rights away" not sure if that even means anything..
girl with a violent baby daddy is being forced to go to court for child support but wants to continue no contact between him and the child.
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: my friend is going to court about child support.. shes worried. POST: this is in MN.. her ex has a violent past and has been denied by her the right to see their daughter. he isnt on the birth certificate but for her to get continued aid with her childcare she needs to go after child support.. its $150 or so dollars a month because he makes so little. she doesnt want him to see her because he has been violent with the child in the room. this is documented on police records.. the problem is she makes too much to get a free lawyer but not enough to afford a lawyer. she is going to represent herself and shes scared of what could happen. so the question is.. what can she do to assure this will go the smoothest possible way? she has already gathered his police reports and many of them are violent. she is bummed out that this is happening over less than $2,000 a year and shed rather struggle without the extra cash than open herself up to this whole ordeal but then she will lose her child care aid. she does not want the father in her childs life and has documented him saying he will "sign his parental rights away" not sure if that even means anything.. TL;DR:
girl with a violent baby daddy is being forced to go to court for child support but wants to continue no contact between him and the child.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: my friend is going to court about child support.. shes worried. POST: this is in MN.. her ex has a violent past and has been denied by her the right to see their daughter. he isnt on the birth certificate but for her to get continued aid with her childcare she needs to go after child support.. its $150 or so dollars a month because he makes so little. she doesnt want him to see her because he has been violent with the child in the room. this is documented on police records.. the problem is she makes too much to get a free lawyer but not enough to afford a lawyer. she is going to represent herself and shes scared of what could happen. so the question is.. what can she do to assure this will go the smoothest possible way? she has already gathered his police reports and many of them are violent. she is bummed out that this is happening over less than $2,000 a year and shed rather struggle without the extra cash than open herself up to this whole ordeal but then she will lose her child care aid. she does not want the father in her childs life and has documented him saying he will "sign his parental rights away" not sure if that even means anything.. TL;DR: girl with a violent baby daddy is being forced to go to court for child support but wants to continue no contact between him and the child.<|endoftext|>
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Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22M] 3yrs together, need an outside perspective please.
Been together 3 years now, through my uni course, now got a full time job, living together on a separate part of his parents property. I want to move and he doesn't. I've been noticing the small aspects of control creep in, that he so openly stated from the start that he's not like, eg, telling me what to wear, friends, my interests and purchases. I love him, but I feel that we've gotten into a boring routine. Sorry to stereotype, but he spends a huge amount of time on his PC/phone/internet, with headphones even if not using them -comes off as antisocial. I do everything else around him, cook, clean, shop, drive for anything he wants or when he doesn't want to. He brags that he doesn't drink/smoke/hit me etc, but I feel that he doesn't support me when I really need him there (emotionally), and actually made me feel worse. It does not happen often but I've never felt so terrible in my life than in those moments. Though recently he said we should break-up, that I need to learn what its like to live with someone and be in the real world, I need someone more mature. I was a mess, didn't expect to react like I did. Later he said that he loves me, and he needs to be the one to mature and be there to support me. But a week or two later, I was emotional and in pain and he made me feel like scum. Now I'm starting to listen to my friends more and all the things I know a relationship should be but never had the courage to enact or follow. I know he loves me, he even gave me an engagement and wedding ring set for Christmas, though didn't propose, but I feel like his actions don't really match up.
He says he's realised what he needs to be/do for me, but most recently he hasn't and made me feel the worst I ever had in my life. I don't know what to think, should I stay?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22M] 3yrs together, need an outside perspective please. POST: Been together 3 years now, through my uni course, now got a full time job, living together on a separate part of his parents property. I want to move and he doesn't. I've been noticing the small aspects of control creep in, that he so openly stated from the start that he's not like, eg, telling me what to wear, friends, my interests and purchases. I love him, but I feel that we've gotten into a boring routine. Sorry to stereotype, but he spends a huge amount of time on his PC/phone/internet, with headphones even if not using them -comes off as antisocial. I do everything else around him, cook, clean, shop, drive for anything he wants or when he doesn't want to. He brags that he doesn't drink/smoke/hit me etc, but I feel that he doesn't support me when I really need him there (emotionally), and actually made me feel worse. It does not happen often but I've never felt so terrible in my life than in those moments. Though recently he said we should break-up, that I need to learn what its like to live with someone and be in the real world, I need someone more mature. I was a mess, didn't expect to react like I did. Later he said that he loves me, and he needs to be the one to mature and be there to support me. But a week or two later, I was emotional and in pain and he made me feel like scum. Now I'm starting to listen to my friends more and all the things I know a relationship should be but never had the courage to enact or follow. I know he loves me, he even gave me an engagement and wedding ring set for Christmas, though didn't propose, but I feel like his actions don't really match up. TL;DR:
He says he's realised what he needs to be/do for me, but most recently he hasn't and made me feel the worst I ever had in my life. I don't know what to think, should I stay?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my boyfriend [22M] 3yrs together, need an outside perspective please. POST: Been together 3 years now, through my uni course, now got a full time job, living together on a separate part of his parents property. I want to move and he doesn't. I've been noticing the small aspects of control creep in, that he so openly stated from the start that he's not like, eg, telling me what to wear, friends, my interests and purchases. I love him, but I feel that we've gotten into a boring routine. Sorry to stereotype, but he spends a huge amount of time on his PC/phone/internet, with headphones even if not using them -comes off as antisocial. I do everything else around him, cook, clean, shop, drive for anything he wants or when he doesn't want to. He brags that he doesn't drink/smoke/hit me etc, but I feel that he doesn't support me when I really need him there (emotionally), and actually made me feel worse. It does not happen often but I've never felt so terrible in my life than in those moments. Though recently he said we should break-up, that I need to learn what its like to live with someone and be in the real world, I need someone more mature. I was a mess, didn't expect to react like I did. Later he said that he loves me, and he needs to be the one to mature and be there to support me. But a week or two later, I was emotional and in pain and he made me feel like scum. Now I'm starting to listen to my friends more and all the things I know a relationship should be but never had the courage to enact or follow. I know he loves me, he even gave me an engagement and wedding ring set for Christmas, though didn't propose, but I feel like his actions don't really match up. TL;DR: He says he's realised what he needs to be/do for me, but most recently he hasn't and made me feel the worst I ever had in my life. I don't know what to think, should I stay?<|endoftext|>
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Me [21 /F] with my boyfriend [23 M] for 11 months, I have doubts about my sexuality
Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. This relationship is the first one that I deem as serious as the others were just casual. I love my boyfriend an awful lot, he's the love of my life and my best friend but I somehow feel like I'm missing out on a part of me that I'm eager to explore. I came to the realisation that I was also attracted to women a few months before I started dating my boyfriend but never have been further than kissing and a cheeky grope with one. I really want to go all the way with a woman as the idea excites me but I can't as I'm in a relationship that I'm happy to be in. A 3-some is off the cards as my boyfriend doesn't think it is fair if we had one with another woman (i don't mind) as he'd hate it if we had one with another man and he got to do things to me. He also doesnt want it to jeopardise our relationship. I really don't know what to do. HELP.
Haven't ever got to experience a same sex sexual encounter and feel like I'm missing out, but in a serious relationship with a man that I love to death. Help?!
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 /F] with my boyfriend [23 M] for 11 months, I have doubts about my sexuality POST: Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. This relationship is the first one that I deem as serious as the others were just casual. I love my boyfriend an awful lot, he's the love of my life and my best friend but I somehow feel like I'm missing out on a part of me that I'm eager to explore. I came to the realisation that I was also attracted to women a few months before I started dating my boyfriend but never have been further than kissing and a cheeky grope with one. I really want to go all the way with a woman as the idea excites me but I can't as I'm in a relationship that I'm happy to be in. A 3-some is off the cards as my boyfriend doesn't think it is fair if we had one with another woman (i don't mind) as he'd hate it if we had one with another man and he got to do things to me. He also doesnt want it to jeopardise our relationship. I really don't know what to do. HELP. TL;DR:
Haven't ever got to experience a same sex sexual encounter and feel like I'm missing out, but in a serious relationship with a man that I love to death. Help?!<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 /F] with my boyfriend [23 M] for 11 months, I have doubts about my sexuality POST: Alright, so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months. This relationship is the first one that I deem as serious as the others were just casual. I love my boyfriend an awful lot, he's the love of my life and my best friend but I somehow feel like I'm missing out on a part of me that I'm eager to explore. I came to the realisation that I was also attracted to women a few months before I started dating my boyfriend but never have been further than kissing and a cheeky grope with one. I really want to go all the way with a woman as the idea excites me but I can't as I'm in a relationship that I'm happy to be in. A 3-some is off the cards as my boyfriend doesn't think it is fair if we had one with another woman (i don't mind) as he'd hate it if we had one with another man and he got to do things to me. He also doesnt want it to jeopardise our relationship. I really don't know what to do. HELP. TL;DR: Haven't ever got to experience a same sex sexual encounter and feel like I'm missing out, but in a serious relationship with a man that I love to death. Help?!<|endoftext|>
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What can I do to make me feel more like an adult?
I'm a 21 year old college student taking 1 class in college right now. I have nothing to do for finals except turn in a english 102 paper. next quarter i'm going to go to school full time. I have been spending my days doing nothing but browsing reddit and playing call of duty. I have no motivation to workout because i just got my wisdom teeth pulled a week ago and my mouth still hurts and i have no motivation to get a job because i have a bad work history hoping from company to company for 3-6 months. What can I start doing that will make me feel like more of an adult? also, now that it's mid December there is no point in looking for a job because most of them are seasonal and end in January. I am also a really skinny guy and can't do anything as far as physical requirements go (lifting things 50+ pounds 24/7)
21 year old only taking one class in college. no job. no motivation to workout. has too much free time during the day. has a car but can't afford extra gas money to drive to a volunteering place/gym.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do to make me feel more like an adult? POST: I'm a 21 year old college student taking 1 class in college right now. I have nothing to do for finals except turn in a english 102 paper. next quarter i'm going to go to school full time. I have been spending my days doing nothing but browsing reddit and playing call of duty. I have no motivation to workout because i just got my wisdom teeth pulled a week ago and my mouth still hurts and i have no motivation to get a job because i have a bad work history hoping from company to company for 3-6 months. What can I start doing that will make me feel like more of an adult? also, now that it's mid December there is no point in looking for a job because most of them are seasonal and end in January. I am also a really skinny guy and can't do anything as far as physical requirements go (lifting things 50+ pounds 24/7) TL;DR:
21 year old only taking one class in college. no job. no motivation to workout. has too much free time during the day. has a car but can't afford extra gas money to drive to a volunteering place/gym.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: What can I do to make me feel more like an adult? POST: I'm a 21 year old college student taking 1 class in college right now. I have nothing to do for finals except turn in a english 102 paper. next quarter i'm going to go to school full time. I have been spending my days doing nothing but browsing reddit and playing call of duty. I have no motivation to workout because i just got my wisdom teeth pulled a week ago and my mouth still hurts and i have no motivation to get a job because i have a bad work history hoping from company to company for 3-6 months. What can I start doing that will make me feel like more of an adult? also, now that it's mid December there is no point in looking for a job because most of them are seasonal and end in January. I am also a really skinny guy and can't do anything as far as physical requirements go (lifting things 50+ pounds 24/7) TL;DR: 21 year old only taking one class in college. no job. no motivation to workout. has too much free time during the day. has a car but can't afford extra gas money to drive to a volunteering place/gym.<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, I was one of the girls that was first on scene to a car accident, I'm having trouble dealing with it. What are some things you do to heal in times of emotional and mental distress?
This is the accident. When we heard it we ran outside and saw his mangeled car and his body just laying on the ground. After checking to see if he was breathing, my friend and I made sure no one else was in the car. Luckily, no one was. Four of us sat with him, talking to him as we waited for the ambulance to arrive. He was lying face down, but I could tell his ribs were destroyed, and his face was totally fucked too, his attempts at breathing through the blood that was drowning him are echoing in my head. He tried to lift his face, but worried that his neck was hurt in ways I couldn't tell and that moving his head could possibly hurt him more, I patted his hair and told him everything was going to be okay, we stayed with him until the paramedics arrived. We were waiting outside, worried because the ambulance hadn't left yet, and then when we saw the coroner on sight I just lost it. I didn't know him, but I can't seem to get over it, I need some help. I'm working on contacting my campuses psychologist, but I know that just talking about it won't get his mangeled body and choking breaths out of my head. Please, if you experienced a traumatic event, what helped you get through it. I'm terrified to sleep, having trouble keeping food down, and on the verge of tears at every moment.
I witnessed an awful car accident, stayed with the victim until the paramedics arrived, but he ended up dying. I'm having issues dealing with it.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I was one of the girls that was first on scene to a car accident, I'm having trouble dealing with it. What are some things you do to heal in times of emotional and mental distress? POST: This is the accident. When we heard it we ran outside and saw his mangeled car and his body just laying on the ground. After checking to see if he was breathing, my friend and I made sure no one else was in the car. Luckily, no one was. Four of us sat with him, talking to him as we waited for the ambulance to arrive. He was lying face down, but I could tell his ribs were destroyed, and his face was totally fucked too, his attempts at breathing through the blood that was drowning him are echoing in my head. He tried to lift his face, but worried that his neck was hurt in ways I couldn't tell and that moving his head could possibly hurt him more, I patted his hair and told him everything was going to be okay, we stayed with him until the paramedics arrived. We were waiting outside, worried because the ambulance hadn't left yet, and then when we saw the coroner on sight I just lost it. I didn't know him, but I can't seem to get over it, I need some help. I'm working on contacting my campuses psychologist, but I know that just talking about it won't get his mangeled body and choking breaths out of my head. Please, if you experienced a traumatic event, what helped you get through it. I'm terrified to sleep, having trouble keeping food down, and on the verge of tears at every moment. TL;DR:
I witnessed an awful car accident, stayed with the victim until the paramedics arrived, but he ended up dying. I'm having issues dealing with it.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, I was one of the girls that was first on scene to a car accident, I'm having trouble dealing with it. What are some things you do to heal in times of emotional and mental distress? POST: This is the accident. When we heard it we ran outside and saw his mangeled car and his body just laying on the ground. After checking to see if he was breathing, my friend and I made sure no one else was in the car. Luckily, no one was. Four of us sat with him, talking to him as we waited for the ambulance to arrive. He was lying face down, but I could tell his ribs were destroyed, and his face was totally fucked too, his attempts at breathing through the blood that was drowning him are echoing in my head. He tried to lift his face, but worried that his neck was hurt in ways I couldn't tell and that moving his head could possibly hurt him more, I patted his hair and told him everything was going to be okay, we stayed with him until the paramedics arrived. We were waiting outside, worried because the ambulance hadn't left yet, and then when we saw the coroner on sight I just lost it. I didn't know him, but I can't seem to get over it, I need some help. I'm working on contacting my campuses psychologist, but I know that just talking about it won't get his mangeled body and choking breaths out of my head. Please, if you experienced a traumatic event, what helped you get through it. I'm terrified to sleep, having trouble keeping food down, and on the verge of tears at every moment. TL;DR: I witnessed an awful car accident, stayed with the victim until the paramedics arrived, but he ended up dying. I'm having issues dealing with it.<|endoftext|>
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Help with texting crush..
Ok I thought I was making progress with this girl over texting after we spent a large most of Friday texting back and forth I paid her a few compliments on saturday and she was blusing all around. I didnt text her again till sunday evening and it was a bit different. Perhaps I was expecting more of her blushes that made me think it was going somewhere I dunno, but it was a bit more stale than friday and saturday. Hey Im a sucker I know, but I really like this girl and thought it was going some place. Even told her it would have been great if she had come with us to this this we did sunday morning, she didn't say much about it :( even teasing her wasn't working as it was the previous two days, nor did complimenting her (though it wasn't as good as the one I did on saturday...). could it have been cause I stopped texting her saturday after her blushes? After all I simply wanted to end on a high note. Was even planning on calling her before she went to sleep to hear her voice but the conversation was so stale, lasted about two hours but never non stop, that we simply ended with a non-descripts "good nights :)". I also added "good luck with work tomorrow" cause it's what I was gonna say when I called her! but of course she only said "thanks :}" give me the hard truths here please (at least based on what Im giving u), is it a lost cause?? Or should I just man up and arrange a meet/date??? After all she had seemed to be interested in me the previous two days and may be playing hard to get now? Also, shes 21 and Im 22.
seemed to have lost the magic with texting crush from saturday to sunday. shoud I just go for it and tell her I like her/ask her out, disregarding everything?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help with texting crush.. POST: Ok I thought I was making progress with this girl over texting after we spent a large most of Friday texting back and forth I paid her a few compliments on saturday and she was blusing all around. I didnt text her again till sunday evening and it was a bit different. Perhaps I was expecting more of her blushes that made me think it was going somewhere I dunno, but it was a bit more stale than friday and saturday. Hey Im a sucker I know, but I really like this girl and thought it was going some place. Even told her it would have been great if she had come with us to this this we did sunday morning, she didn't say much about it :( even teasing her wasn't working as it was the previous two days, nor did complimenting her (though it wasn't as good as the one I did on saturday...). could it have been cause I stopped texting her saturday after her blushes? After all I simply wanted to end on a high note. Was even planning on calling her before she went to sleep to hear her voice but the conversation was so stale, lasted about two hours but never non stop, that we simply ended with a non-descripts "good nights :)". I also added "good luck with work tomorrow" cause it's what I was gonna say when I called her! but of course she only said "thanks :}" give me the hard truths here please (at least based on what Im giving u), is it a lost cause?? Or should I just man up and arrange a meet/date??? After all she had seemed to be interested in me the previous two days and may be playing hard to get now? Also, shes 21 and Im 22. TL;DR:
seemed to have lost the magic with texting crush from saturday to sunday. shoud I just go for it and tell her I like her/ask her out, disregarding everything?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Help with texting crush.. POST: Ok I thought I was making progress with this girl over texting after we spent a large most of Friday texting back and forth I paid her a few compliments on saturday and she was blusing all around. I didnt text her again till sunday evening and it was a bit different. Perhaps I was expecting more of her blushes that made me think it was going somewhere I dunno, but it was a bit more stale than friday and saturday. Hey Im a sucker I know, but I really like this girl and thought it was going some place. Even told her it would have been great if she had come with us to this this we did sunday morning, she didn't say much about it :( even teasing her wasn't working as it was the previous two days, nor did complimenting her (though it wasn't as good as the one I did on saturday...). could it have been cause I stopped texting her saturday after her blushes? After all I simply wanted to end on a high note. Was even planning on calling her before she went to sleep to hear her voice but the conversation was so stale, lasted about two hours but never non stop, that we simply ended with a non-descripts "good nights :)". I also added "good luck with work tomorrow" cause it's what I was gonna say when I called her! but of course she only said "thanks :}" give me the hard truths here please (at least based on what Im giving u), is it a lost cause?? Or should I just man up and arrange a meet/date??? After all she had seemed to be interested in me the previous two days and may be playing hard to get now? Also, shes 21 and Im 22. TL;DR: seemed to have lost the magic with texting crush from saturday to sunday. shoud I just go for it and tell her I like her/ask her out, disregarding everything?<|endoftext|>
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t3_38qblw
tifu
TIFU by trying to make light of something sad
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5 of my moms cats died, and I told her it was a CAT-astrophe, and that it was a CAT-aclysmic event. Now she won't talk to me.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to make light of something sad POST: This, unlike all the ones I usually see here, happened today. An hour ago actually. My mother sent me a text today that just said "CALL ME! 911!". So naturally, I freaked the fuck out and told my boss that I had to make a phone call. He excused me and I walked outside to call my mother. She answered and was crying, of course my heart sank. Through all of the sobbing and snot noises, I could hear her say "They're dead! They're all dead!". I didn't even know who was dead, but I could feel the tears start to well up because, A.) Shes my Mom... She gets sad, I feel for her, and B.) I probably just lost someone that I truly cared for. I asked her who was dead and finally, I hear the names.... Or lack there of, because she doesn't name her cats, she just calls them whatever baby talk pet name she can think of. 5 of her cats died today. I felt a sigh of relief. I totally thought that my sisters had died or something. So my mom vents and cries for a while, and fell the itch behind my skull. I HAVE to do it... She keeps sobbing and then it happens. "I know mom, I know.... Its a CAT-astrophe." She stopped crying and it got silent on the phone.... "Its a CAT-aclysmic event mother. I'm so sorry" She is seething on the other side of the phone, but I felt satisfied with finally getting it out. It was like a poison that my body was rejecting and if I didn't say it, I would die.... She hung up on me. Hasn't answered my text messages. Her boyfriend told me that she doesn't want to talk to me right now... ... Fuck. I'm an asshole. TL;DR:
5 of my moms cats died, and I told her it was a CAT-astrophe, and that it was a CAT-aclysmic event. Now she won't talk to me.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by trying to make light of something sad POST: This, unlike all the ones I usually see here, happened today. An hour ago actually. My mother sent me a text today that just said "CALL ME! 911!". So naturally, I freaked the fuck out and told my boss that I had to make a phone call. He excused me and I walked outside to call my mother. She answered and was crying, of course my heart sank. Through all of the sobbing and snot noises, I could hear her say "They're dead! They're all dead!". I didn't even know who was dead, but I could feel the tears start to well up because, A.) Shes my Mom... She gets sad, I feel for her, and B.) I probably just lost someone that I truly cared for. I asked her who was dead and finally, I hear the names.... Or lack there of, because she doesn't name her cats, she just calls them whatever baby talk pet name she can think of. 5 of her cats died today. I felt a sigh of relief. I totally thought that my sisters had died or something. So my mom vents and cries for a while, and fell the itch behind my skull. I HAVE to do it... She keeps sobbing and then it happens. "I know mom, I know.... Its a CAT-astrophe." She stopped crying and it got silent on the phone.... "Its a CAT-aclysmic event mother. I'm so sorry" She is seething on the other side of the phone, but I felt satisfied with finally getting it out. It was like a poison that my body was rejecting and if I didn't say it, I would die.... She hung up on me. Hasn't answered my text messages. Her boyfriend told me that she doesn't want to talk to me right now... ... Fuck. I'm an asshole. TL;DR: 5 of my moms cats died, and I told her it was a CAT-astrophe, and that it was a CAT-aclysmic event. Now she won't talk to me.<|endoftext|>
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I [23M] saw this girl when visiting my brother in another city and want to know if there's any move...
Not too complex. I graduated from college in 2014 and I live in NYC. My younger brother goes to school in Boston and I was up there visiting him for his 21st this weekend. While there, we went to an event at *another* school (not the one my brother is in). At this event, I saw this girl across the room who was just strikingly beautiful. Just the kind of girl that you can't look away from and kind of makes the rest of the room go blurry. Because (a) this was my school, or even my brother's school, (b) I was mostly hanging out with my brother's friends, (c) she was talking to her friends, and (d) didn't want to be weird/creepy, I didn't go up to her at all. I did talk to 2 close friends who went to her school my year (2014) and they knew her, but not well. Question is: is there any move here? Is it too creepy to try to find a find to contact this girl who probably didn't even see me that I just caught a glimpse of for 10 minutes on a Saturday morning? She has Facebook, obviously, but I'm afraid to do anything for fear of coming across as "Hi, you're pretty, I've stalked you". Any recommendations?
Saw this beautiful girl (who didn't see me) while I was visiting another city, is there anything to be done?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] saw this girl when visiting my brother in another city and want to know if there's any move... POST: Not too complex. I graduated from college in 2014 and I live in NYC. My younger brother goes to school in Boston and I was up there visiting him for his 21st this weekend. While there, we went to an event at *another* school (not the one my brother is in). At this event, I saw this girl across the room who was just strikingly beautiful. Just the kind of girl that you can't look away from and kind of makes the rest of the room go blurry. Because (a) this was my school, or even my brother's school, (b) I was mostly hanging out with my brother's friends, (c) she was talking to her friends, and (d) didn't want to be weird/creepy, I didn't go up to her at all. I did talk to 2 close friends who went to her school my year (2014) and they knew her, but not well. Question is: is there any move here? Is it too creepy to try to find a find to contact this girl who probably didn't even see me that I just caught a glimpse of for 10 minutes on a Saturday morning? She has Facebook, obviously, but I'm afraid to do anything for fear of coming across as "Hi, you're pretty, I've stalked you". Any recommendations? TL;DR:
Saw this beautiful girl (who didn't see me) while I was visiting another city, is there anything to be done?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23M] saw this girl when visiting my brother in another city and want to know if there's any move... POST: Not too complex. I graduated from college in 2014 and I live in NYC. My younger brother goes to school in Boston and I was up there visiting him for his 21st this weekend. While there, we went to an event at *another* school (not the one my brother is in). At this event, I saw this girl across the room who was just strikingly beautiful. Just the kind of girl that you can't look away from and kind of makes the rest of the room go blurry. Because (a) this was my school, or even my brother's school, (b) I was mostly hanging out with my brother's friends, (c) she was talking to her friends, and (d) didn't want to be weird/creepy, I didn't go up to her at all. I did talk to 2 close friends who went to her school my year (2014) and they knew her, but not well. Question is: is there any move here? Is it too creepy to try to find a find to contact this girl who probably didn't even see me that I just caught a glimpse of for 10 minutes on a Saturday morning? She has Facebook, obviously, but I'm afraid to do anything for fear of coming across as "Hi, you're pretty, I've stalked you". Any recommendations? TL;DR: Saw this beautiful girl (who didn't see me) while I was visiting another city, is there anything to be done?<|endoftext|>
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I [25 F] Don't Know How to Quit my Ex-Fiance[28 M] 3 Years.
We were together for three years, engaged for most of that time and we met when I was 18 and he was 21. Since then (we had an extremely bad break-up), our relationship has had it's ups and downs. We stopped talking for almost a year after I broke off the engagement but since then, we've been really honest with each other about what went wrong and have become good friends. Moving on. Today at work, I suddenly started missing him. A LOT. (We talk on the phone a lot but haven't seen each other since the end of 2014). I'm coming to the realization that maybe he is my soulmate. I mean, we shared so many firsts together. We know each other so well. We "get" each other and we still love each other. Even though we've both been in relationships since we broke up, we've always had each other. I kept thinking when I broke up with him that he wasn't "it" for me but what if he's been the one all along and I was too damn stubborn to see it? I don't know what to do. We're both currently in relationships so it's not like I can bare my heart to him and potentially be a homewrecker because I was too freaking obtuse to see what was in my face. We're supposed to be going to dinner tonight to catch-up and I don't know how I'll be able to look at him. I'm so lost right now.
After being broken up for almost 4 years, I've come to the startling realization that I might still be in love with my ex-fiance.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] Don't Know How to Quit my Ex-Fiance[28 M] 3 Years. POST: We were together for three years, engaged for most of that time and we met when I was 18 and he was 21. Since then (we had an extremely bad break-up), our relationship has had it's ups and downs. We stopped talking for almost a year after I broke off the engagement but since then, we've been really honest with each other about what went wrong and have become good friends. Moving on. Today at work, I suddenly started missing him. A LOT. (We talk on the phone a lot but haven't seen each other since the end of 2014). I'm coming to the realization that maybe he is my soulmate. I mean, we shared so many firsts together. We know each other so well. We "get" each other and we still love each other. Even though we've both been in relationships since we broke up, we've always had each other. I kept thinking when I broke up with him that he wasn't "it" for me but what if he's been the one all along and I was too damn stubborn to see it? I don't know what to do. We're both currently in relationships so it's not like I can bare my heart to him and potentially be a homewrecker because I was too freaking obtuse to see what was in my face. We're supposed to be going to dinner tonight to catch-up and I don't know how I'll be able to look at him. I'm so lost right now. TL;DR:
After being broken up for almost 4 years, I've come to the startling realization that I might still be in love with my ex-fiance.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25 F] Don't Know How to Quit my Ex-Fiance[28 M] 3 Years. POST: We were together for three years, engaged for most of that time and we met when I was 18 and he was 21. Since then (we had an extremely bad break-up), our relationship has had it's ups and downs. We stopped talking for almost a year after I broke off the engagement but since then, we've been really honest with each other about what went wrong and have become good friends. Moving on. Today at work, I suddenly started missing him. A LOT. (We talk on the phone a lot but haven't seen each other since the end of 2014). I'm coming to the realization that maybe he is my soulmate. I mean, we shared so many firsts together. We know each other so well. We "get" each other and we still love each other. Even though we've both been in relationships since we broke up, we've always had each other. I kept thinking when I broke up with him that he wasn't "it" for me but what if he's been the one all along and I was too damn stubborn to see it? I don't know what to do. We're both currently in relationships so it's not like I can bare my heart to him and potentially be a homewrecker because I was too freaking obtuse to see what was in my face. We're supposed to be going to dinner tonight to catch-up and I don't know how I'll be able to look at him. I'm so lost right now. TL;DR: After being broken up for almost 4 years, I've come to the startling realization that I might still be in love with my ex-fiance.<|endoftext|>
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My mom got into an somewhat major accident today. What steps do we need to take to properly handle this?
My mom was turning left on a yellow arrow when a car driven by a 17 year old kid blew the oncoming traffic red light (according to a third party witness statement that one of the cops told me about) and hit her on the front passenger side. Cops & ambulances came, and thankfully both parties seem to be mostly ok. Car got towed and will need some reconstruction in the wheel/front passenger door area or a complete replacement. My mom was taken to the ER but is mostly ok, except for a little stiffness in her shoulders and back. She was discharged after a few hours. I got the police report but it doesn't say anything about the accident itself--just insurance and passenger details (3 in their car, 1 in my mom's), plus a description of the damage and a form to submit to the Illinois Dept. of Transportation. What do we do now? My dad will contact the insurance company tomorrow, but we don't have any report indicating who was at fault, the course of events, etc. I thought the police report would have all that info. The car is in the tow yard right now, I think we will go tomorrow and collect the minor things my mom left in it. I'm hoping to get this settled and cleared as quickly as possible.
What do we do after an accident with minor injuries? The other driver apparently was at fault, but we have no police record that indicates that or what actually happened.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My mom got into an somewhat major accident today. What steps do we need to take to properly handle this? POST: My mom was turning left on a yellow arrow when a car driven by a 17 year old kid blew the oncoming traffic red light (according to a third party witness statement that one of the cops told me about) and hit her on the front passenger side. Cops & ambulances came, and thankfully both parties seem to be mostly ok. Car got towed and will need some reconstruction in the wheel/front passenger door area or a complete replacement. My mom was taken to the ER but is mostly ok, except for a little stiffness in her shoulders and back. She was discharged after a few hours. I got the police report but it doesn't say anything about the accident itself--just insurance and passenger details (3 in their car, 1 in my mom's), plus a description of the damage and a form to submit to the Illinois Dept. of Transportation. What do we do now? My dad will contact the insurance company tomorrow, but we don't have any report indicating who was at fault, the course of events, etc. I thought the police report would have all that info. The car is in the tow yard right now, I think we will go tomorrow and collect the minor things my mom left in it. I'm hoping to get this settled and cleared as quickly as possible. TL;DR:
What do we do after an accident with minor injuries? The other driver apparently was at fault, but we have no police record that indicates that or what actually happened.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My mom got into an somewhat major accident today. What steps do we need to take to properly handle this? POST: My mom was turning left on a yellow arrow when a car driven by a 17 year old kid blew the oncoming traffic red light (according to a third party witness statement that one of the cops told me about) and hit her on the front passenger side. Cops & ambulances came, and thankfully both parties seem to be mostly ok. Car got towed and will need some reconstruction in the wheel/front passenger door area or a complete replacement. My mom was taken to the ER but is mostly ok, except for a little stiffness in her shoulders and back. She was discharged after a few hours. I got the police report but it doesn't say anything about the accident itself--just insurance and passenger details (3 in their car, 1 in my mom's), plus a description of the damage and a form to submit to the Illinois Dept. of Transportation. What do we do now? My dad will contact the insurance company tomorrow, but we don't have any report indicating who was at fault, the course of events, etc. I thought the police report would have all that info. The car is in the tow yard right now, I think we will go tomorrow and collect the minor things my mom left in it. I'm hoping to get this settled and cleared as quickly as possible. TL;DR: What do we do after an accident with minor injuries? The other driver apparently was at fault, but we have no police record that indicates that or what actually happened.<|endoftext|>
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He said "I love you" after two weeks of dating, I'm a little freaked
I'm 21F, he's 24M. We met on OKCupid, and we've been out on two dates, we've been talking for the past month. I had to cancel on a date we had a week ago at the last minute because I was sick, and he texted me "I hope you feel better. Love you!" It kind of freaked me out that we barely knew each other and he already said I love you, but I just ignored the text because I was sick and didn't feel like dealing with the situation. Since then he's texted me "love you!" two more times (not out of the blue, just at the end of our conversations). It still freaks me out, but I'm worried if I should be alarmed. Half of my friends say that I should run for the hills and the other half say that this is normal guy behavior, that they always hop to I love you fast because they want to get in your pants. So what do you guys think? Is this normal guy behavior? Is it strange for a guy I barely know to be saying he loves me?
A guy I've been dating for about two weeks said I love you to me. Is it okay to be freaked out about it or is it normal for guys to move that fast?
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: He said "I love you" after two weeks of dating, I'm a little freaked POST: I'm 21F, he's 24M. We met on OKCupid, and we've been out on two dates, we've been talking for the past month. I had to cancel on a date we had a week ago at the last minute because I was sick, and he texted me "I hope you feel better. Love you!" It kind of freaked me out that we barely knew each other and he already said I love you, but I just ignored the text because I was sick and didn't feel like dealing with the situation. Since then he's texted me "love you!" two more times (not out of the blue, just at the end of our conversations). It still freaks me out, but I'm worried if I should be alarmed. Half of my friends say that I should run for the hills and the other half say that this is normal guy behavior, that they always hop to I love you fast because they want to get in your pants. So what do you guys think? Is this normal guy behavior? Is it strange for a guy I barely know to be saying he loves me? TL;DR:
A guy I've been dating for about two weeks said I love you to me. Is it okay to be freaked out about it or is it normal for guys to move that fast?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: He said "I love you" after two weeks of dating, I'm a little freaked POST: I'm 21F, he's 24M. We met on OKCupid, and we've been out on two dates, we've been talking for the past month. I had to cancel on a date we had a week ago at the last minute because I was sick, and he texted me "I hope you feel better. Love you!" It kind of freaked me out that we barely knew each other and he already said I love you, but I just ignored the text because I was sick and didn't feel like dealing with the situation. Since then he's texted me "love you!" two more times (not out of the blue, just at the end of our conversations). It still freaks me out, but I'm worried if I should be alarmed. Half of my friends say that I should run for the hills and the other half say that this is normal guy behavior, that they always hop to I love you fast because they want to get in your pants. So what do you guys think? Is this normal guy behavior? Is it strange for a guy I barely know to be saying he loves me? TL;DR: A guy I've been dating for about two weeks said I love you to me. Is it okay to be freaked out about it or is it normal for guys to move that fast?<|endoftext|>
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I recently realized how much I relied on my mom after going extremely painful surgery, Reddit, have you ever had an epiphany about how much you may rely on your family?
Recently, I had to go to the emergency room a couple times to check if my nether region was okay and finally after the 2nd time the doctor said we'd have to do surgery. So I get hauled into surgery early one morning and to be honest I was terrified. I remember sitting on the hospital bed with my mom on a chair next to me as they put in my IV. I started to feel stoned as shit, like I just wanted to explode into a million frogs. Then I woke up, in screaming agony yelling at the top of my lungs. I started crying extremely hard, because the pain was just unbearable. I remember screaming out cuss words and apologizing to my mom for using cuss words and I remember holding out my hands for someone to grab them. This young nurse came over and took my right hand and I started squeezing it hard and she just stared at me writhing in pain, Meanwhile a second nurse was putting in more drugs into my IV. I looked around for my mom after semi-blacking out and I found her to the left of my holding my hand. For some reason I asked her to rub my head, sort of like the top of my hair. When I was a child she used to slide her hands gently through my hair to calm me down and to make me stop crying. At that point after 5 minutes of more immense pain I finally calmed down and returned to la-la land. A couple days later after I returned home, I went to the bathroom to take a leak and check my stitches. As I was sitting there I just sort of stopped and started thinking about what happened after the surgery, and I remembered the part about my mom rubbing my hair and it made me start to tear up. So I went out to my mom who was sitting at the dinner table on her laptop and brought up the subject and I explained how it was kind of funny that I had asked her to rub my head like that. And she kind stuttered saying it but she said "its like you were a kid again, and you needed me" and then we both started crying hard and I sat there for a minute hugging her.
Had surgery, asked mom to help me the way she did when I was a kid, brought up what happened days later, onions.
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I recently realized how much I relied on my mom after going extremely painful surgery, Reddit, have you ever had an epiphany about how much you may rely on your family? POST: Recently, I had to go to the emergency room a couple times to check if my nether region was okay and finally after the 2nd time the doctor said we'd have to do surgery. So I get hauled into surgery early one morning and to be honest I was terrified. I remember sitting on the hospital bed with my mom on a chair next to me as they put in my IV. I started to feel stoned as shit, like I just wanted to explode into a million frogs. Then I woke up, in screaming agony yelling at the top of my lungs. I started crying extremely hard, because the pain was just unbearable. I remember screaming out cuss words and apologizing to my mom for using cuss words and I remember holding out my hands for someone to grab them. This young nurse came over and took my right hand and I started squeezing it hard and she just stared at me writhing in pain, Meanwhile a second nurse was putting in more drugs into my IV. I looked around for my mom after semi-blacking out and I found her to the left of my holding my hand. For some reason I asked her to rub my head, sort of like the top of my hair. When I was a child she used to slide her hands gently through my hair to calm me down and to make me stop crying. At that point after 5 minutes of more immense pain I finally calmed down and returned to la-la land. A couple days later after I returned home, I went to the bathroom to take a leak and check my stitches. As I was sitting there I just sort of stopped and started thinking about what happened after the surgery, and I remembered the part about my mom rubbing my hair and it made me start to tear up. So I went out to my mom who was sitting at the dinner table on her laptop and brought up the subject and I explained how it was kind of funny that I had asked her to rub my head like that. And she kind stuttered saying it but she said "its like you were a kid again, and you needed me" and then we both started crying hard and I sat there for a minute hugging her. TL;DR:
Had surgery, asked mom to help me the way she did when I was a kid, brought up what happened days later, onions.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: I recently realized how much I relied on my mom after going extremely painful surgery, Reddit, have you ever had an epiphany about how much you may rely on your family? POST: Recently, I had to go to the emergency room a couple times to check if my nether region was okay and finally after the 2nd time the doctor said we'd have to do surgery. So I get hauled into surgery early one morning and to be honest I was terrified. I remember sitting on the hospital bed with my mom on a chair next to me as they put in my IV. I started to feel stoned as shit, like I just wanted to explode into a million frogs. Then I woke up, in screaming agony yelling at the top of my lungs. I started crying extremely hard, because the pain was just unbearable. I remember screaming out cuss words and apologizing to my mom for using cuss words and I remember holding out my hands for someone to grab them. This young nurse came over and took my right hand and I started squeezing it hard and she just stared at me writhing in pain, Meanwhile a second nurse was putting in more drugs into my IV. I looked around for my mom after semi-blacking out and I found her to the left of my holding my hand. For some reason I asked her to rub my head, sort of like the top of my hair. When I was a child she used to slide her hands gently through my hair to calm me down and to make me stop crying. At that point after 5 minutes of more immense pain I finally calmed down and returned to la-la land. A couple days later after I returned home, I went to the bathroom to take a leak and check my stitches. As I was sitting there I just sort of stopped and started thinking about what happened after the surgery, and I remembered the part about my mom rubbing my hair and it made me start to tear up. So I went out to my mom who was sitting at the dinner table on her laptop and brought up the subject and I explained how it was kind of funny that I had asked her to rub my head like that. And she kind stuttered saying it but she said "its like you were a kid again, and you needed me" and then we both started crying hard and I sat there for a minute hugging her. TL;DR: Had surgery, asked mom to help me the way she did when I was a kid, brought up what happened days later, onions.<|endoftext|>
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No holiday pay due to ringing in sick before holiday period started. Sainsburys-Northern Ireland
Hello, I'm an employee at Sainsburys and just before Christmas I booked a week off (I'm only working 4days a week- 16hrs)from the Sunday21st-Sunday27th of February. However before I managed to take time off I was ill and forced to ring in sick and thus miss one day of work before my holiday period would have took place. Upon returning to work I was informed when completing my Return to Work form that I would not be getting paid for the holiday due to ringing in sick. I was told however that my holiday time would be put back into my given back to me. This would be fine except our holidays reset in a couple of days. So basically my holiday hours renaming will be going back to full in a couple days and I'm losing a quarter of my months wages. Is this legal/allowed? I've read the employee handbook but nothing about it is mentioned in there. I really don't want to lose 1/4 of my months earnings. Thanks for any assistance. If you need me to clear anything up please ask.
Booked time off work, rang in sick before it started, upon completing my Return to Work form I was informed by my manager that I won't get any pay for my time off.
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: No holiday pay due to ringing in sick before holiday period started. Sainsburys-Northern Ireland POST: Hello, I'm an employee at Sainsburys and just before Christmas I booked a week off (I'm only working 4days a week- 16hrs)from the Sunday21st-Sunday27th of February. However before I managed to take time off I was ill and forced to ring in sick and thus miss one day of work before my holiday period would have took place. Upon returning to work I was informed when completing my Return to Work form that I would not be getting paid for the holiday due to ringing in sick. I was told however that my holiday time would be put back into my given back to me. This would be fine except our holidays reset in a couple of days. So basically my holiday hours renaming will be going back to full in a couple days and I'm losing a quarter of my months wages. Is this legal/allowed? I've read the employee handbook but nothing about it is mentioned in there. I really don't want to lose 1/4 of my months earnings. Thanks for any assistance. If you need me to clear anything up please ask. TL;DR:
Booked time off work, rang in sick before it started, upon completing my Return to Work form I was informed by my manager that I won't get any pay for my time off.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: No holiday pay due to ringing in sick before holiday period started. Sainsburys-Northern Ireland POST: Hello, I'm an employee at Sainsburys and just before Christmas I booked a week off (I'm only working 4days a week- 16hrs)from the Sunday21st-Sunday27th of February. However before I managed to take time off I was ill and forced to ring in sick and thus miss one day of work before my holiday period would have took place. Upon returning to work I was informed when completing my Return to Work form that I would not be getting paid for the holiday due to ringing in sick. I was told however that my holiday time would be put back into my given back to me. This would be fine except our holidays reset in a couple of days. So basically my holiday hours renaming will be going back to full in a couple days and I'm losing a quarter of my months wages. Is this legal/allowed? I've read the employee handbook but nothing about it is mentioned in there. I really don't want to lose 1/4 of my months earnings. Thanks for any assistance. If you need me to clear anything up please ask. TL;DR: Booked time off work, rang in sick before it started, upon completing my Return to Work form I was informed by my manager that I won't get any pay for my time off.<|endoftext|>
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Reddit, what are your most awkward experiences with the elderly?
I was on a bus going to a friends house. Bus is full, and I decide to sit at the back. The next two stops later, the bus is still full, and an elderly gentleman decides to get on the bus. He pays his fare, looks at the bus, and walks all the way to the back of the bus where I'm sitting. **And he asks ME for my seat on the bus.** He skipped thirty or so people, even at the front of the bus whom were all capable of getting up, climbed the two steps elevating the rear of the bus and asked ME specifically to get up. I did, but I have never been more insulted in my life. What are your awkward experiences with the elderly, reddit?
rude old timer skips 20 seated people on a bus to ask me to move for him. fuck him and people like him
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your most awkward experiences with the elderly? POST: I was on a bus going to a friends house. Bus is full, and I decide to sit at the back. The next two stops later, the bus is still full, and an elderly gentleman decides to get on the bus. He pays his fare, looks at the bus, and walks all the way to the back of the bus where I'm sitting. **And he asks ME for my seat on the bus.** He skipped thirty or so people, even at the front of the bus whom were all capable of getting up, climbed the two steps elevating the rear of the bus and asked ME specifically to get up. I did, but I have never been more insulted in my life. What are your awkward experiences with the elderly, reddit? TL;DR:
rude old timer skips 20 seated people on a bus to ask me to move for him. fuck him and people like him<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, what are your most awkward experiences with the elderly? POST: I was on a bus going to a friends house. Bus is full, and I decide to sit at the back. The next two stops later, the bus is still full, and an elderly gentleman decides to get on the bus. He pays his fare, looks at the bus, and walks all the way to the back of the bus where I'm sitting. **And he asks ME for my seat on the bus.** He skipped thirty or so people, even at the front of the bus whom were all capable of getting up, climbed the two steps elevating the rear of the bus and asked ME specifically to get up. I did, but I have never been more insulted in my life. What are your awkward experiences with the elderly, reddit? TL;DR: rude old timer skips 20 seated people on a bus to ask me to move for him. fuck him and people like him<|endoftext|>
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Moving out of town to study, leaving a girl who's the best I've ever, and probably will ever meet
Hello there reddit. I am 18/m and about to start college. Since that I want to become a master of engineering, which isn't available in my hometown's college, I decided to apply for a university two hours away. I have already had contact with the university and all that there's left is to find shelter and be at the opening ceremony one week from today. I'm not "in" until I show up at the ceremony mentioned. I've been dating a girl, 17/m for a month now. I've written a couple of threads about her before and, frankly speaking, she's almost identical to the woman of my dreams. I have never had such a spark with a girl before, despite having been in a couple of relationships before. We complete each other, think very likely, have similar tastes and opinions... well, I could go on. Bottom line, she's awesome. We even already love each other. The problem is my fear that getting enrolled in college would weaken my relationship with her. Since that she's still underage, she lives with her parents. They aren't strict but they wouldn't appreciate her going to an another city just to meet her boyfriend. Sleepovers aren't even a possibility for neither of us at this stage of the relationship, in the given circumstances. I am really afraid, redditors. I don't want to end up losing her. All of the relationships I've been through have been really horrible and I really want to get to know this girl better and better. I don't want to lose her. I don't know what to do.
I'm moving out of my hometown for college studies to a city two hours away. I am afraid that this might destroy my fresh relationship with my girlfriend. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Moving out of town to study, leaving a girl who's the best I've ever, and probably will ever meet POST: Hello there reddit. I am 18/m and about to start college. Since that I want to become a master of engineering, which isn't available in my hometown's college, I decided to apply for a university two hours away. I have already had contact with the university and all that there's left is to find shelter and be at the opening ceremony one week from today. I'm not "in" until I show up at the ceremony mentioned. I've been dating a girl, 17/m for a month now. I've written a couple of threads about her before and, frankly speaking, she's almost identical to the woman of my dreams. I have never had such a spark with a girl before, despite having been in a couple of relationships before. We complete each other, think very likely, have similar tastes and opinions... well, I could go on. Bottom line, she's awesome. We even already love each other. The problem is my fear that getting enrolled in college would weaken my relationship with her. Since that she's still underage, she lives with her parents. They aren't strict but they wouldn't appreciate her going to an another city just to meet her boyfriend. Sleepovers aren't even a possibility for neither of us at this stage of the relationship, in the given circumstances. I am really afraid, redditors. I don't want to end up losing her. All of the relationships I've been through have been really horrible and I really want to get to know this girl better and better. I don't want to lose her. I don't know what to do. TL;DR:
I'm moving out of my hometown for college studies to a city two hours away. I am afraid that this might destroy my fresh relationship with my girlfriend. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Moving out of town to study, leaving a girl who's the best I've ever, and probably will ever meet POST: Hello there reddit. I am 18/m and about to start college. Since that I want to become a master of engineering, which isn't available in my hometown's college, I decided to apply for a university two hours away. I have already had contact with the university and all that there's left is to find shelter and be at the opening ceremony one week from today. I'm not "in" until I show up at the ceremony mentioned. I've been dating a girl, 17/m for a month now. I've written a couple of threads about her before and, frankly speaking, she's almost identical to the woman of my dreams. I have never had such a spark with a girl before, despite having been in a couple of relationships before. We complete each other, think very likely, have similar tastes and opinions... well, I could go on. Bottom line, she's awesome. We even already love each other. The problem is my fear that getting enrolled in college would weaken my relationship with her. Since that she's still underage, she lives with her parents. They aren't strict but they wouldn't appreciate her going to an another city just to meet her boyfriend. Sleepovers aren't even a possibility for neither of us at this stage of the relationship, in the given circumstances. I am really afraid, redditors. I don't want to end up losing her. All of the relationships I've been through have been really horrible and I really want to get to know this girl better and better. I don't want to lose her. I don't know what to do. TL;DR: I'm moving out of my hometown for college studies to a city two hours away. I am afraid that this might destroy my fresh relationship with my girlfriend. What should I do?<|endoftext|>
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My [14F] friend/date [15M] constantly overpraises me
Ok, so throwaway for obvious reasons. I've recently moved into a new part of town about a year ago, and I met Vin. Vin, for the most part, was a bit troubled, but has a good heart, is very sweet, and loyal to boot. He has a rough life with two divorced parents and a year out of school, so it's natural that he has a side for dark humor, which can hurt or help, depending on the situation. Recently, when we moved to highschool, he decided to ask me to homecoming (which I was hoping for, as we grew to have feelings for each other) and I agreed wholeheartedly. However, recently things had begun to be.. wierd for me. Everytime we would text or call, he would always mention how glad he is to have me, and how sweet, kind, and cute I am. He's always sincere about it, and he's never tried using it as a way of blackmail or manipilation. But... he's been doing it a lot lately. More often than I would like. The first time, I thought it was the sweetest thing. Now... he just says it all the time, to fill in the awkward silence. And everytime he praises me I feel obligated to respond in a similar fashion, and tbh, it gets annoying. I really like him, but it's tough to talk to a person that just wants to always talk about you. How should I deal with this? I feel that his words would have more meaning if he'd say that sort of thing less often.
My date/friend likes to put me on a pedestal a lot, and it makes me feel inadequate and annoyed because I'd prefer to talk about koalas vs sloths.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [14F] friend/date [15M] constantly overpraises me POST: Ok, so throwaway for obvious reasons. I've recently moved into a new part of town about a year ago, and I met Vin. Vin, for the most part, was a bit troubled, but has a good heart, is very sweet, and loyal to boot. He has a rough life with two divorced parents and a year out of school, so it's natural that he has a side for dark humor, which can hurt or help, depending on the situation. Recently, when we moved to highschool, he decided to ask me to homecoming (which I was hoping for, as we grew to have feelings for each other) and I agreed wholeheartedly. However, recently things had begun to be.. wierd for me. Everytime we would text or call, he would always mention how glad he is to have me, and how sweet, kind, and cute I am. He's always sincere about it, and he's never tried using it as a way of blackmail or manipilation. But... he's been doing it a lot lately. More often than I would like. The first time, I thought it was the sweetest thing. Now... he just says it all the time, to fill in the awkward silence. And everytime he praises me I feel obligated to respond in a similar fashion, and tbh, it gets annoying. I really like him, but it's tough to talk to a person that just wants to always talk about you. How should I deal with this? I feel that his words would have more meaning if he'd say that sort of thing less often. TL;DR:
My date/friend likes to put me on a pedestal a lot, and it makes me feel inadequate and annoyed because I'd prefer to talk about koalas vs sloths.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [14F] friend/date [15M] constantly overpraises me POST: Ok, so throwaway for obvious reasons. I've recently moved into a new part of town about a year ago, and I met Vin. Vin, for the most part, was a bit troubled, but has a good heart, is very sweet, and loyal to boot. He has a rough life with two divorced parents and a year out of school, so it's natural that he has a side for dark humor, which can hurt or help, depending on the situation. Recently, when we moved to highschool, he decided to ask me to homecoming (which I was hoping for, as we grew to have feelings for each other) and I agreed wholeheartedly. However, recently things had begun to be.. wierd for me. Everytime we would text or call, he would always mention how glad he is to have me, and how sweet, kind, and cute I am. He's always sincere about it, and he's never tried using it as a way of blackmail or manipilation. But... he's been doing it a lot lately. More often than I would like. The first time, I thought it was the sweetest thing. Now... he just says it all the time, to fill in the awkward silence. And everytime he praises me I feel obligated to respond in a similar fashion, and tbh, it gets annoying. I really like him, but it's tough to talk to a person that just wants to always talk about you. How should I deal with this? I feel that his words would have more meaning if he'd say that sort of thing less often. TL;DR: My date/friend likes to put me on a pedestal a lot, and it makes me feel inadequate and annoyed because I'd prefer to talk about koalas vs sloths.<|endoftext|>
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t3_31jy55
tifu
TIFU at a hotel bar in Utah. NSFW
So...this didn't happen today, this happened a few years ago, shortly after the release of the iPad. I had just gotten my new toy and was sent to work in Park City, Utah. The device was brand new and I brought it everywhere, especially dinner by myself. I had used it earlier watching some pornhub so I wouldn't go out with a loaded gun... I'm eating at the bar by myself and the bar is filled with people sipping on less than 4% ABV beers. I was drinking a Wasatch Polygamy Porter, go figure, when this 40 something year old lady asked me if she could see the device because she's never seen one in person. Usually people looking at other peoples toys just admire the asthetics and the interface. I'm watching and she opens my photos and the photo booth app, good thing nothing much was in there yet... Next she opens safari, and there is a video playing from earlier with this black dude balls deep in some white girl and it automatically resumed playing and you just hear thighs slapping ass. I yanked the iPad right out of her hands and walked out of the bar with everyone looking at me. My sudden jerk reaction probably made it worse. I just walked out. I called to the bar from the elevator phone and gave them my name and room number to bill me. I avoided everyone I could for the next 9 nights.
beat off before dinner in Utah, woman tried my iPad, opened up safari and interracial sex was displayed loud and vividly at the super conservative bar.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU at a hotel bar in Utah. NSFW POST: So...this didn't happen today, this happened a few years ago, shortly after the release of the iPad. I had just gotten my new toy and was sent to work in Park City, Utah. The device was brand new and I brought it everywhere, especially dinner by myself. I had used it earlier watching some pornhub so I wouldn't go out with a loaded gun... I'm eating at the bar by myself and the bar is filled with people sipping on less than 4% ABV beers. I was drinking a Wasatch Polygamy Porter, go figure, when this 40 something year old lady asked me if she could see the device because she's never seen one in person. Usually people looking at other peoples toys just admire the asthetics and the interface. I'm watching and she opens my photos and the photo booth app, good thing nothing much was in there yet... Next she opens safari, and there is a video playing from earlier with this black dude balls deep in some white girl and it automatically resumed playing and you just hear thighs slapping ass. I yanked the iPad right out of her hands and walked out of the bar with everyone looking at me. My sudden jerk reaction probably made it worse. I just walked out. I called to the bar from the elevator phone and gave them my name and room number to bill me. I avoided everyone I could for the next 9 nights. TL;DR:
beat off before dinner in Utah, woman tried my iPad, opened up safari and interracial sex was displayed loud and vividly at the super conservative bar.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU at a hotel bar in Utah. NSFW POST: So...this didn't happen today, this happened a few years ago, shortly after the release of the iPad. I had just gotten my new toy and was sent to work in Park City, Utah. The device was brand new and I brought it everywhere, especially dinner by myself. I had used it earlier watching some pornhub so I wouldn't go out with a loaded gun... I'm eating at the bar by myself and the bar is filled with people sipping on less than 4% ABV beers. I was drinking a Wasatch Polygamy Porter, go figure, when this 40 something year old lady asked me if she could see the device because she's never seen one in person. Usually people looking at other peoples toys just admire the asthetics and the interface. I'm watching and she opens my photos and the photo booth app, good thing nothing much was in there yet... Next she opens safari, and there is a video playing from earlier with this black dude balls deep in some white girl and it automatically resumed playing and you just hear thighs slapping ass. I yanked the iPad right out of her hands and walked out of the bar with everyone looking at me. My sudden jerk reaction probably made it worse. I just walked out. I called to the bar from the elevator phone and gave them my name and room number to bill me. I avoided everyone I could for the next 9 nights. TL;DR: beat off before dinner in Utah, woman tried my iPad, opened up safari and interracial sex was displayed loud and vividly at the super conservative bar.<|endoftext|>
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I think her sexual past might cause a break in the relationship, please help?
Well I'm 18, she's 17 to start off. She's the first girl i've fallenin love with and i'm the first guy she's fallen in love with (her words). She has had a previous partner and I understand that. It just kind of pains me that I couldn't have her virginity like she had mine because it feels like I have a connection to her that she may not have with me. Idk, Her ex does tend to cause a lot of problems and this is one of them. She sometimes brings up sexual innuendo with is okay because it's fun to flirt, but sometimes it relates to her and her ex having sex (she doesnt say it intentionally) but it hurts me inside because I love the girl. You may think i'm stupid for it or that we're just a cliche lovey-dovey couple of kids but we are madly in love...idk, we just don't act like other couples do (in a good way) I don't expect you to believe me, because a while ago, I wouldn't have either. I don't want to be criticized for having sex with her, because it's illegal, I understand that. But can anyone help calm my nerves? Is it normal for me to wish we had exchanged virginities? Or that I get sad when I hear about her ex? because I get mental images and they make me want to curl up and die.
Gf was not a virgin, I was, I lost mine. She didn't. Is it okay to feel sad? Her ex causes problems because of it, and I get mental images. Any Advice?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think her sexual past might cause a break in the relationship, please help? POST: Well I'm 18, she's 17 to start off. She's the first girl i've fallenin love with and i'm the first guy she's fallen in love with (her words). She has had a previous partner and I understand that. It just kind of pains me that I couldn't have her virginity like she had mine because it feels like I have a connection to her that she may not have with me. Idk, Her ex does tend to cause a lot of problems and this is one of them. She sometimes brings up sexual innuendo with is okay because it's fun to flirt, but sometimes it relates to her and her ex having sex (she doesnt say it intentionally) but it hurts me inside because I love the girl. You may think i'm stupid for it or that we're just a cliche lovey-dovey couple of kids but we are madly in love...idk, we just don't act like other couples do (in a good way) I don't expect you to believe me, because a while ago, I wouldn't have either. I don't want to be criticized for having sex with her, because it's illegal, I understand that. But can anyone help calm my nerves? Is it normal for me to wish we had exchanged virginities? Or that I get sad when I hear about her ex? because I get mental images and they make me want to curl up and die. TL;DR:
Gf was not a virgin, I was, I lost mine. She didn't. Is it okay to feel sad? Her ex causes problems because of it, and I get mental images. Any Advice?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I think her sexual past might cause a break in the relationship, please help? POST: Well I'm 18, she's 17 to start off. She's the first girl i've fallenin love with and i'm the first guy she's fallen in love with (her words). She has had a previous partner and I understand that. It just kind of pains me that I couldn't have her virginity like she had mine because it feels like I have a connection to her that she may not have with me. Idk, Her ex does tend to cause a lot of problems and this is one of them. She sometimes brings up sexual innuendo with is okay because it's fun to flirt, but sometimes it relates to her and her ex having sex (she doesnt say it intentionally) but it hurts me inside because I love the girl. You may think i'm stupid for it or that we're just a cliche lovey-dovey couple of kids but we are madly in love...idk, we just don't act like other couples do (in a good way) I don't expect you to believe me, because a while ago, I wouldn't have either. I don't want to be criticized for having sex with her, because it's illegal, I understand that. But can anyone help calm my nerves? Is it normal for me to wish we had exchanged virginities? Or that I get sad when I hear about her ex? because I get mental images and they make me want to curl up and die. TL;DR: Gf was not a virgin, I was, I lost mine. She didn't. Is it okay to feel sad? Her ex causes problems because of it, and I get mental images. Any Advice?<|endoftext|>
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My [22 M] best friend [25/F] didn't end our friendship, but asked for space in January. Should I contact her?
I could give you all the long version, but basically I have one solid Best Friend who essentially ghosted me in January. We had a very tiny argument that spiraled into two months of silence from her (aka something else was going on she didn't express.) After two months I reached out and got a little explanation of what was going on, but mostly she said to keep leaving her alone. Didn't say to delete her number or forget our friendship or anything like a "break up," but just to continue giving her space. It's been two more months, what should I do now? As a kicker - she still follows me on Twitter and Instagram, which I find to be a little strange since she's the one who initiated it. Not sure if that's worth interpreting. I can give more details if you'd like. Thanks y'all
In January my best friend ghosted me. Two months ago she told me to keep giving her space. What should I do now?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] best friend [25/F] didn't end our friendship, but asked for space in January. Should I contact her? POST: I could give you all the long version, but basically I have one solid Best Friend who essentially ghosted me in January. We had a very tiny argument that spiraled into two months of silence from her (aka something else was going on she didn't express.) After two months I reached out and got a little explanation of what was going on, but mostly she said to keep leaving her alone. Didn't say to delete her number or forget our friendship or anything like a "break up," but just to continue giving her space. It's been two more months, what should I do now? As a kicker - she still follows me on Twitter and Instagram, which I find to be a little strange since she's the one who initiated it. Not sure if that's worth interpreting. I can give more details if you'd like. Thanks y'all TL;DR:
In January my best friend ghosted me. Two months ago she told me to keep giving her space. What should I do now?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [22 M] best friend [25/F] didn't end our friendship, but asked for space in January. Should I contact her? POST: I could give you all the long version, but basically I have one solid Best Friend who essentially ghosted me in January. We had a very tiny argument that spiraled into two months of silence from her (aka something else was going on she didn't express.) After two months I reached out and got a little explanation of what was going on, but mostly she said to keep leaving her alone. Didn't say to delete her number or forget our friendship or anything like a "break up," but just to continue giving her space. It's been two more months, what should I do now? As a kicker - she still follows me on Twitter and Instagram, which I find to be a little strange since she's the one who initiated it. Not sure if that's worth interpreting. I can give more details if you'd like. Thanks y'all TL;DR: In January my best friend ghosted me. Two months ago she told me to keep giving her space. What should I do now?<|endoftext|>
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Scream in my ear? Get sickly sweet service.
So, this happened about 2 days ago. I'm a supervisor at a very popular Canadian chain, and we happen to have a drive through. It was around 10:30 at night, and myself and my coworker were pretty relaxed. We get the car "ding", that alerts us when there a car waiting to order. Almost immediately after, we hear an ear piercing shriek from an upset child. Our headsets are very sensitive, and can pick up whispers some times, so you can imagine how fucking loud this raptor child was. I was peeved, but I thought "It's late, kid is probably having a rough time." But then momzilla decided to order, screaming almost louder than her kid, at the order box about what she absolutely had to have (no pleases or thank you), yelling to her kids about what they wanted. And of course, they scream their order. I told her, "We can hear the person in the passengers seat order just fine, so no need to worry about that.", in an attempted to convey to her that we can hear her herd just fine. No such luck, because then promptly screamed at the box her next order. My ears were ringing at this point, so I just wanted them to move up. I got their order, but as they were coming to the window, I decided to have a bit of revenge. The moment they got to the window, I put on my best fake smile and gave them the most obnoxious and superficial service I could, asking in my most Umbridge-like voice how their night is, how's the family, and if I can give them anything else. I refused to give up conversation, although I could tell the mother didn't want to maintain it. It only lasted around 2 minutes, and when they got their food, they drove off in silence. When my co-worker asked why I was so nice to them, I responded, "There's nothing more annoying than an over enthusiastic worker at 10:30pm."
Momzilla and pack of Rapters scream at a tired employee that can be as sweet as a pile of stepped on lollipops.
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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Scream in my ear? Get sickly sweet service. POST: So, this happened about 2 days ago. I'm a supervisor at a very popular Canadian chain, and we happen to have a drive through. It was around 10:30 at night, and myself and my coworker were pretty relaxed. We get the car "ding", that alerts us when there a car waiting to order. Almost immediately after, we hear an ear piercing shriek from an upset child. Our headsets are very sensitive, and can pick up whispers some times, so you can imagine how fucking loud this raptor child was. I was peeved, but I thought "It's late, kid is probably having a rough time." But then momzilla decided to order, screaming almost louder than her kid, at the order box about what she absolutely had to have (no pleases or thank you), yelling to her kids about what they wanted. And of course, they scream their order. I told her, "We can hear the person in the passengers seat order just fine, so no need to worry about that.", in an attempted to convey to her that we can hear her herd just fine. No such luck, because then promptly screamed at the box her next order. My ears were ringing at this point, so I just wanted them to move up. I got their order, but as they were coming to the window, I decided to have a bit of revenge. The moment they got to the window, I put on my best fake smile and gave them the most obnoxious and superficial service I could, asking in my most Umbridge-like voice how their night is, how's the family, and if I can give them anything else. I refused to give up conversation, although I could tell the mother didn't want to maintain it. It only lasted around 2 minutes, and when they got their food, they drove off in silence. When my co-worker asked why I was so nice to them, I responded, "There's nothing more annoying than an over enthusiastic worker at 10:30pm." TL;DR:
Momzilla and pack of Rapters scream at a tired employee that can be as sweet as a pile of stepped on lollipops.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/pettyrevenge TITLE: Scream in my ear? Get sickly sweet service. POST: So, this happened about 2 days ago. I'm a supervisor at a very popular Canadian chain, and we happen to have a drive through. It was around 10:30 at night, and myself and my coworker were pretty relaxed. We get the car "ding", that alerts us when there a car waiting to order. Almost immediately after, we hear an ear piercing shriek from an upset child. Our headsets are very sensitive, and can pick up whispers some times, so you can imagine how fucking loud this raptor child was. I was peeved, but I thought "It's late, kid is probably having a rough time." But then momzilla decided to order, screaming almost louder than her kid, at the order box about what she absolutely had to have (no pleases or thank you), yelling to her kids about what they wanted. And of course, they scream their order. I told her, "We can hear the person in the passengers seat order just fine, so no need to worry about that.", in an attempted to convey to her that we can hear her herd just fine. No such luck, because then promptly screamed at the box her next order. My ears were ringing at this point, so I just wanted them to move up. I got their order, but as they were coming to the window, I decided to have a bit of revenge. The moment they got to the window, I put on my best fake smile and gave them the most obnoxious and superficial service I could, asking in my most Umbridge-like voice how their night is, how's the family, and if I can give them anything else. I refused to give up conversation, although I could tell the mother didn't want to maintain it. It only lasted around 2 minutes, and when they got their food, they drove off in silence. When my co-worker asked why I was so nice to them, I responded, "There's nothing more annoying than an over enthusiastic worker at 10:30pm." TL;DR: Momzilla and pack of Rapters scream at a tired employee that can be as sweet as a pile of stepped on lollipops.<|endoftext|>
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I [22F] haven't talked to my mother in 3 years but want to re-open communication.
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Haven't talked to mother in 3 years, getting married soon.I want to open up communication so I can give her the chance to be there, but don't know what I should say/do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] haven't talked to my mother in 3 years but want to re-open communication. POST: When I was 17 my biological mother and stepfather starting making a habit of kicking me out of their house periodically for various reasons, but none of them having to do with anything criminal or generally unruly. I would come back hoping to patch things up and it would just be another couple months until they did it again. I'm not sure who was the main decision maker in these cases but I have no desire to start back up with my stepfather. That being said, I was eventually tired enough of them being my unstable and unpredictable financial support and decided to join the military. A decision neither of them were pleased with, but they seemed to accept it after I came back from out of state college to try to patch things up before heading to basic. However, despite the fact that I would be gone for a few months without being able to see them, they still kicked me out 2 weeks before I was to head off. I have not talked to or seen either one of them since then and now it has been just about 3 years. My life is that much less stressful without them and I feel no gaps in my life where they should be. I am mostly having these thoughts now because I am getting married in a couple months, and shortly after I will be leaving the country to be stationed overseas. I feel that were I a mother, I would be very sad to not be at least afforded the opportunity to go to my only daughter's wedding. She has not made any effort to contact me and I have not impeded her doing so(I haven't blocked her on social media), so I know she is not going to do it before the wedding. Despite the potential cost, I know that I want to give her a chance to come to my wedding. I am just unsure of how best to do this. To just send her an invitation would be very detrimental to my mental health if she just showed up without contacting me prior. I also am not really the type to send a heartfelt letter to someone who thinks they have done no wrong. TL;DR:
Haven't talked to mother in 3 years, getting married soon.I want to open up communication so I can give her the chance to be there, but don't know what I should say/do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [22F] haven't talked to my mother in 3 years but want to re-open communication. POST: When I was 17 my biological mother and stepfather starting making a habit of kicking me out of their house periodically for various reasons, but none of them having to do with anything criminal or generally unruly. I would come back hoping to patch things up and it would just be another couple months until they did it again. I'm not sure who was the main decision maker in these cases but I have no desire to start back up with my stepfather. That being said, I was eventually tired enough of them being my unstable and unpredictable financial support and decided to join the military. A decision neither of them were pleased with, but they seemed to accept it after I came back from out of state college to try to patch things up before heading to basic. However, despite the fact that I would be gone for a few months without being able to see them, they still kicked me out 2 weeks before I was to head off. I have not talked to or seen either one of them since then and now it has been just about 3 years. My life is that much less stressful without them and I feel no gaps in my life where they should be. I am mostly having these thoughts now because I am getting married in a couple months, and shortly after I will be leaving the country to be stationed overseas. I feel that were I a mother, I would be very sad to not be at least afforded the opportunity to go to my only daughter's wedding. She has not made any effort to contact me and I have not impeded her doing so(I haven't blocked her on social media), so I know she is not going to do it before the wedding. Despite the potential cost, I know that I want to give her a chance to come to my wedding. I am just unsure of how best to do this. To just send her an invitation would be very detrimental to my mental health if she just showed up without contacting me prior. I also am not really the type to send a heartfelt letter to someone who thinks they have done no wrong. TL;DR: Haven't talked to mother in 3 years, getting married soon.I want to open up communication so I can give her the chance to be there, but don't know what I should say/do.<|endoftext|>
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So I have a crush but it seems unlikely... am I overthinking?
Some background info: I'm a slightly shy 18yo Asian male just starting college, met a girl, 18yo Caucasian at a bridging course-like event last week. I'm not great with girls and haven't had much experience at all. So I have a crush for this girl, the course was a week long and we'd sorta hung out a bit. By a bit I mean we sat next to each other in tutorials, sometimes lectures, had lunch, and walked around campus and stuff. It sounds like a friendship thing, but I'm extremely angsty so I keep overthinking. For example: she sat next to me on the first day at a tutorial and the seating for that tutorial never changed, so we sat next to each other for a bit but it probably wasn't because she liked me as a person but more because everyone stuck to their seats after the first day. getting lunch together was probably a similar thing, since everyone from the tutorial got lunch together. At first I think of these things as positives as I'm getting to know her, but then again it becomes a negative thing as she probably thinks nothing of me and is just being polite. We will be doing the same degree so I'd probably see her around, but what then? What if I don't see her around, or what if she finds other people to hang out with? I'm divided over whether to just be nice and try be friends, or to ask her out and I'm always sceptical of any possibilities since Caucasian girls never go for Asian guys. From our conversations I gathered that we're similar people, though I don't know if she picked up on it either. I'd like to talk more, and we're friends on facebook but she's never online. What do I do?
Shy inexperienced Asian guy met a non-Asian girl at college, have a crush on her but don't know what to do.
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: So I have a crush but it seems unlikely... am I overthinking? POST: Some background info: I'm a slightly shy 18yo Asian male just starting college, met a girl, 18yo Caucasian at a bridging course-like event last week. I'm not great with girls and haven't had much experience at all. So I have a crush for this girl, the course was a week long and we'd sorta hung out a bit. By a bit I mean we sat next to each other in tutorials, sometimes lectures, had lunch, and walked around campus and stuff. It sounds like a friendship thing, but I'm extremely angsty so I keep overthinking. For example: she sat next to me on the first day at a tutorial and the seating for that tutorial never changed, so we sat next to each other for a bit but it probably wasn't because she liked me as a person but more because everyone stuck to their seats after the first day. getting lunch together was probably a similar thing, since everyone from the tutorial got lunch together. At first I think of these things as positives as I'm getting to know her, but then again it becomes a negative thing as she probably thinks nothing of me and is just being polite. We will be doing the same degree so I'd probably see her around, but what then? What if I don't see her around, or what if she finds other people to hang out with? I'm divided over whether to just be nice and try be friends, or to ask her out and I'm always sceptical of any possibilities since Caucasian girls never go for Asian guys. From our conversations I gathered that we're similar people, though I don't know if she picked up on it either. I'd like to talk more, and we're friends on facebook but she's never online. What do I do? TL;DR:
Shy inexperienced Asian guy met a non-Asian girl at college, have a crush on her but don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: So I have a crush but it seems unlikely... am I overthinking? POST: Some background info: I'm a slightly shy 18yo Asian male just starting college, met a girl, 18yo Caucasian at a bridging course-like event last week. I'm not great with girls and haven't had much experience at all. So I have a crush for this girl, the course was a week long and we'd sorta hung out a bit. By a bit I mean we sat next to each other in tutorials, sometimes lectures, had lunch, and walked around campus and stuff. It sounds like a friendship thing, but I'm extremely angsty so I keep overthinking. For example: she sat next to me on the first day at a tutorial and the seating for that tutorial never changed, so we sat next to each other for a bit but it probably wasn't because she liked me as a person but more because everyone stuck to their seats after the first day. getting lunch together was probably a similar thing, since everyone from the tutorial got lunch together. At first I think of these things as positives as I'm getting to know her, but then again it becomes a negative thing as she probably thinks nothing of me and is just being polite. We will be doing the same degree so I'd probably see her around, but what then? What if I don't see her around, or what if she finds other people to hang out with? I'm divided over whether to just be nice and try be friends, or to ask her out and I'm always sceptical of any possibilities since Caucasian girls never go for Asian guys. From our conversations I gathered that we're similar people, though I don't know if she picked up on it either. I'd like to talk more, and we're friends on facebook but she's never online. What do I do? TL;DR: Shy inexperienced Asian guy met a non-Asian girl at college, have a crush on her but don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>
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[26/M], my GF [26/F] of 4 years doesn't want me to be away over the summer.
Ok, so I just got an E-mail the other day from a summer internship, in the field of which I'm studying (engineering major with 1 year to go, if it's of any importance) It looks really promising and in 2 weeks they let me know if I have the job or not. The job is within commuting distance of the town were we both attend uni. Anyway told my girlfriend about it yesterday and she was less than amused, she wants me to come and live with her at her parents place again (she lives an 18 hour trainride away) I've already been there two summers in a row now, doing a job I hate. Her family is ok, but I'm having a hard time coping with them over longer periods of time. Also I know no one but her family at her hometown which sucks. But I should mention that it would be similar where I'm right now since most my student friends go home over the summer. Anyway, right now she's pressing me to apply for the same job she has already secured (driving a forklift in a paper mill), well-payed, but long and stupid hours and monotonous. She's doesn't love her job either, but as I said the money is good (~7500$ for one summer). But if we don't get placed on the same shift we'll never see each other either way. She (and her family) knows a bunch of people there so I have a good chance of getting this job as well. Anyway she thinks I'm rather selfish, and that I should consider what's best for us and not just me. And I'm kind of at a loss and don't know what to do really, so any input on the matter would be really helpful. How would you approach the issue (from both perspectives)?
Gf wants me with her for summer doing a shitty (alas well-paid) job rather than do an internship.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/M], my GF [26/F] of 4 years doesn't want me to be away over the summer. POST: Ok, so I just got an E-mail the other day from a summer internship, in the field of which I'm studying (engineering major with 1 year to go, if it's of any importance) It looks really promising and in 2 weeks they let me know if I have the job or not. The job is within commuting distance of the town were we both attend uni. Anyway told my girlfriend about it yesterday and she was less than amused, she wants me to come and live with her at her parents place again (she lives an 18 hour trainride away) I've already been there two summers in a row now, doing a job I hate. Her family is ok, but I'm having a hard time coping with them over longer periods of time. Also I know no one but her family at her hometown which sucks. But I should mention that it would be similar where I'm right now since most my student friends go home over the summer. Anyway, right now she's pressing me to apply for the same job she has already secured (driving a forklift in a paper mill), well-payed, but long and stupid hours and monotonous. She's doesn't love her job either, but as I said the money is good (~7500$ for one summer). But if we don't get placed on the same shift we'll never see each other either way. She (and her family) knows a bunch of people there so I have a good chance of getting this job as well. Anyway she thinks I'm rather selfish, and that I should consider what's best for us and not just me. And I'm kind of at a loss and don't know what to do really, so any input on the matter would be really helpful. How would you approach the issue (from both perspectives)? TL;DR:
Gf wants me with her for summer doing a shitty (alas well-paid) job rather than do an internship.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [26/M], my GF [26/F] of 4 years doesn't want me to be away over the summer. POST: Ok, so I just got an E-mail the other day from a summer internship, in the field of which I'm studying (engineering major with 1 year to go, if it's of any importance) It looks really promising and in 2 weeks they let me know if I have the job or not. The job is within commuting distance of the town were we both attend uni. Anyway told my girlfriend about it yesterday and she was less than amused, she wants me to come and live with her at her parents place again (she lives an 18 hour trainride away) I've already been there two summers in a row now, doing a job I hate. Her family is ok, but I'm having a hard time coping with them over longer periods of time. Also I know no one but her family at her hometown which sucks. But I should mention that it would be similar where I'm right now since most my student friends go home over the summer. Anyway, right now she's pressing me to apply for the same job she has already secured (driving a forklift in a paper mill), well-payed, but long and stupid hours and monotonous. She's doesn't love her job either, but as I said the money is good (~7500$ for one summer). But if we don't get placed on the same shift we'll never see each other either way. She (and her family) knows a bunch of people there so I have a good chance of getting this job as well. Anyway she thinks I'm rather selfish, and that I should consider what's best for us and not just me. And I'm kind of at a loss and don't know what to do really, so any input on the matter would be really helpful. How would you approach the issue (from both perspectives)? TL;DR: Gf wants me with her for summer doing a shitty (alas well-paid) job rather than do an internship.<|endoftext|>
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TIFU - By locking myself out
Ok, I don't know why I didn't think to post this here 3 days ago when it happened, instead I just posted it for my friends at /r/talesfromthefrontdesk but this is pretty TIFU worthy. Backstory: I'm a night manager for a hotel, I'm the **only** staff member on property from 11pm to 7am, just me, and 150 rooms of guests. I keep an eye on the front desk while I do the accounting for the day, the weekly schedule for the office, various things that we just can't get done during the day. I live in Connecticut, it was -6 here the other night. Here comes the FU: I decided I wanted to smoke a cigarette, but I didn't want to freeze my ass off, so we have [this area] ( off of the side of the building - note the 20 foot freakin wall that goes all the way around, and the orange gates. Those gates are locked from the **other** side. -- I smoke out there when it's cold because I can turn on our industrial dryers in laundry and stand under the vents to stay warm, now in the 3 years I've worked in this building we have NEVER locked the door from the building to the box (that's what we call it) so I naturally didn't take my keys with me when I went outside. Well. Some idiot *locked the door*. It's negative 6 degrees. I'm in a suit and a pea coat with skimpy scarf, and these dryers are about to shut off, and I'm trapped in the box. I clearly cannot scale that wall, and I can't climb the gate because of the design of it, thankfully I'm one of those addicts who doesn't leave his phone anywhere, but I had to call an employee from a neighboring hotel, tell him where I was and how to navigate his way through the entire back end of my hotel to let me in before I freeze to death. And I left my hotel unattended for 20 minutes at least.
I'm a dumbass who locked myself out of the hotel I work in, at 3am, in -6 degree weather. Not one of my brighter moments.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU - By locking myself out POST: Ok, I don't know why I didn't think to post this here 3 days ago when it happened, instead I just posted it for my friends at /r/talesfromthefrontdesk but this is pretty TIFU worthy. Backstory: I'm a night manager for a hotel, I'm the **only** staff member on property from 11pm to 7am, just me, and 150 rooms of guests. I keep an eye on the front desk while I do the accounting for the day, the weekly schedule for the office, various things that we just can't get done during the day. I live in Connecticut, it was -6 here the other night. Here comes the FU: I decided I wanted to smoke a cigarette, but I didn't want to freeze my ass off, so we have [this area] ( off of the side of the building - note the 20 foot freakin wall that goes all the way around, and the orange gates. Those gates are locked from the **other** side. -- I smoke out there when it's cold because I can turn on our industrial dryers in laundry and stand under the vents to stay warm, now in the 3 years I've worked in this building we have NEVER locked the door from the building to the box (that's what we call it) so I naturally didn't take my keys with me when I went outside. Well. Some idiot *locked the door*. It's negative 6 degrees. I'm in a suit and a pea coat with skimpy scarf, and these dryers are about to shut off, and I'm trapped in the box. I clearly cannot scale that wall, and I can't climb the gate because of the design of it, thankfully I'm one of those addicts who doesn't leave his phone anywhere, but I had to call an employee from a neighboring hotel, tell him where I was and how to navigate his way through the entire back end of my hotel to let me in before I freeze to death. And I left my hotel unattended for 20 minutes at least. TL;DR:
I'm a dumbass who locked myself out of the hotel I work in, at 3am, in -6 degree weather. Not one of my brighter moments.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU - By locking myself out POST: Ok, I don't know why I didn't think to post this here 3 days ago when it happened, instead I just posted it for my friends at /r/talesfromthefrontdesk but this is pretty TIFU worthy. Backstory: I'm a night manager for a hotel, I'm the **only** staff member on property from 11pm to 7am, just me, and 150 rooms of guests. I keep an eye on the front desk while I do the accounting for the day, the weekly schedule for the office, various things that we just can't get done during the day. I live in Connecticut, it was -6 here the other night. Here comes the FU: I decided I wanted to smoke a cigarette, but I didn't want to freeze my ass off, so we have [this area] ( off of the side of the building - note the 20 foot freakin wall that goes all the way around, and the orange gates. Those gates are locked from the **other** side. -- I smoke out there when it's cold because I can turn on our industrial dryers in laundry and stand under the vents to stay warm, now in the 3 years I've worked in this building we have NEVER locked the door from the building to the box (that's what we call it) so I naturally didn't take my keys with me when I went outside. Well. Some idiot *locked the door*. It's negative 6 degrees. I'm in a suit and a pea coat with skimpy scarf, and these dryers are about to shut off, and I'm trapped in the box. I clearly cannot scale that wall, and I can't climb the gate because of the design of it, thankfully I'm one of those addicts who doesn't leave his phone anywhere, but I had to call an employee from a neighboring hotel, tell him where I was and how to navigate his way through the entire back end of my hotel to let me in before I freeze to death. And I left my hotel unattended for 20 minutes at least. TL;DR: I'm a dumbass who locked myself out of the hotel I work in, at 3am, in -6 degree weather. Not one of my brighter moments.<|endoftext|>
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I (20F) have found out that my boyfriend(27m) has still been in contact with his ex.
Alrighty so i know, no snooping and stuff like that but I did. Do i regret it? No. He has lied to me in the past before about being in contact with her and has tried to cover it up. I found an email , from June 21st (there are more dating to like a week ago) and it is very flirtatious and it seems to me that they are still in contact and still seeing each other. Now I took a photo and I'm contemplating sending it to him but I honestly dont know if thats the way to confront this. Overall I'm not quite sure how to go about this.
My boyfriend of over 2 years has been in contact with his. I found emails from the two of them and don't know how to confront the situation.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) have found out that my boyfriend(27m) has still been in contact with his ex. POST: Alrighty so i know, no snooping and stuff like that but I did. Do i regret it? No. He has lied to me in the past before about being in contact with her and has tried to cover it up. I found an email, from June 21st (there are more dating to like a week ago) and it is very flirtatious and it seems to me that they are still in contact and still seeing each other. Now I took a photo and I'm contemplating sending it to him but I honestly dont know if thats the way to confront this. Overall I'm not quite sure how to go about this. TL;DR:
My boyfriend of over 2 years has been in contact with his. I found emails from the two of them and don't know how to confront the situation.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (20F) have found out that my boyfriend(27m) has still been in contact with his ex. POST: Alrighty so i know, no snooping and stuff like that but I did. Do i regret it? No. He has lied to me in the past before about being in contact with her and has tried to cover it up. I found an email, from June 21st (there are more dating to like a week ago) and it is very flirtatious and it seems to me that they are still in contact and still seeing each other. Now I took a photo and I'm contemplating sending it to him but I honestly dont know if thats the way to confront this. Overall I'm not quite sure how to go about this. TL;DR: My boyfriend of over 2 years has been in contact with his. I found emails from the two of them and don't know how to confront the situation.<|endoftext|>
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(27 m) to divorce (25 f ) or not, need to know yesterday
We've been to a counselor, he said we had a relationship that was toxic. Now to my question, wife of 1.5 years is out of town for easter, small argument happens via text. She tells me it's over. I have two days to come to terms, looks for a roommate. Come back and says she will grab some clothes and come back a few days later for the rest of her stuff. Passes out on couch, today she's acting Iike nothing happened. We try to talk about it but we end up crying or going off on a tangent and not talking about the issue. I'm tired of this emotional elevator I'm in. Should I just call it quits? I feel I should end it. To be honest I think about being with other women. I'm scared. I guess I got use to being comfortable and I don't want to make a mistake.
get in argument with wife via text while she was out of town for easter. She said it was over, got back and now she's acting as of it never happened and she doesn't want to end it now.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (27 m) to divorce (25 f ) or not, need to know yesterday POST: We've been to a counselor, he said we had a relationship that was toxic. Now to my question, wife of 1.5 years is out of town for easter, small argument happens via text. She tells me it's over. I have two days to come to terms, looks for a roommate. Come back and says she will grab some clothes and come back a few days later for the rest of her stuff. Passes out on couch, today she's acting Iike nothing happened. We try to talk about it but we end up crying or going off on a tangent and not talking about the issue. I'm tired of this emotional elevator I'm in. Should I just call it quits? I feel I should end it. To be honest I think about being with other women. I'm scared. I guess I got use to being comfortable and I don't want to make a mistake. TL;DR:
get in argument with wife via text while she was out of town for easter. She said it was over, got back and now she's acting as of it never happened and she doesn't want to end it now.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: (27 m) to divorce (25 f ) or not, need to know yesterday POST: We've been to a counselor, he said we had a relationship that was toxic. Now to my question, wife of 1.5 years is out of town for easter, small argument happens via text. She tells me it's over. I have two days to come to terms, looks for a roommate. Come back and says she will grab some clothes and come back a few days later for the rest of her stuff. Passes out on couch, today she's acting Iike nothing happened. We try to talk about it but we end up crying or going off on a tangent and not talking about the issue. I'm tired of this emotional elevator I'm in. Should I just call it quits? I feel I should end it. To be honest I think about being with other women. I'm scared. I guess I got use to being comfortable and I don't want to make a mistake. TL;DR: get in argument with wife via text while she was out of town for easter. She said it was over, got back and now she's acting as of it never happened and she doesn't want to end it now.<|endoftext|>
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Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off ?
I am a 23F virgin, and I have been hangning out with this guy for the past month. He asked me how many people I have slept with and his eyes lit up. Then I asked him how many he has been with, and he said 10, with 9 of them being one night stands. Now, I am looking to have sex with someone special, and even though I REALLY like him, the fact he had 9 one night stands does not agree with my sexual side. I feel one night stands are gross, and sex is something that should be special with someone. So ladies/men how does a lady break it off with someone due to their sexual past, without sounding like a b***h about his past? Do I bring it right up to him? Do I just say your sexual past bothers me and we can be friends, but no sex. How do I approach this situation?
Hanging with guy who has had 9 one night stands, dont agree with this at all, and wants to break things off because of this, but how...''
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off? POST: I am a 23F virgin, and I have been hangning out with this guy for the past month. He asked me how many people I have slept with and his eyes lit up. Then I asked him how many he has been with, and he said 10, with 9 of them being one night stands. Now, I am looking to have sex with someone special, and even though I REALLY like him, the fact he had 9 one night stands does not agree with my sexual side. I feel one night stands are gross, and sex is something that should be special with someone. So ladies/men how does a lady break it off with someone due to their sexual past, without sounding like a b***h about his past? Do I bring it right up to him? Do I just say your sexual past bothers me and we can be friends, but no sex. How do I approach this situation? TL;DR:
Hanging with guy who has had 9 one night stands, dont agree with this at all, and wants to break things off because of this, but how...''<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] with the guy [25 M] finding out his sexual past and wanting to find a way to break it off? POST: I am a 23F virgin, and I have been hangning out with this guy for the past month. He asked me how many people I have slept with and his eyes lit up. Then I asked him how many he has been with, and he said 10, with 9 of them being one night stands. Now, I am looking to have sex with someone special, and even though I REALLY like him, the fact he had 9 one night stands does not agree with my sexual side. I feel one night stands are gross, and sex is something that should be special with someone. So ladies/men how does a lady break it off with someone due to their sexual past, without sounding like a b***h about his past? Do I bring it right up to him? Do I just say your sexual past bothers me and we can be friends, but no sex. How do I approach this situation? TL;DR: Hanging with guy who has had 9 one night stands, dont agree with this at all, and wants to break things off because of this, but how...''<|endoftext|>
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t3_10fsfi
relationship_advice
[30/m] girl i'm seeing (25/f) says odd things when wasted...
so i'm seeing this beautiful woman. not sure if the relationship is defined but she has told me she doesn't want to even talk to other guys or hookup with others and if i felt the same. which i did bc she's the most gorgeous girl i've hooked up with. now sure if this defined our relationship as "dating" or "bf/gf" but i didn't press. now the kicker. whenever we get completely shitfaced (we like to party), she will say things like "i dont want to be with you." and even in my drunken stupor, i'm still hurt by it so i don't press her, but then in 5 mins she's like "babe, what are you doing? come over here. why don't you wanna lay with me?" and then she'll just get into crazy wild sex mode. she's said this twice now, on separate occasions when we've gotten wasted. and both times, i'm just confused, because she'll blackout and say "get over here. why aren't you laying with me??" and then crazy sex commences. when we're sober, she's super sweet, says nice things, misses me, buys me random snacks etc etc. so what does this mean? i feel that sometimes when someone is drunk, the "truth" comes out and is this a case of that? but i've said some dumb shit while drunk, that wasn't honest, so i have no clue what to even do with this.
girl i'm with, super sweet, nice, cheesy, asked to be exclusive, but when completely wasted said she didn't wanna be w me, but then in 5-10 min goes back to her normal sweet self.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [30/m] girl i'm seeing (25/f) says odd things when wasted... POST: so i'm seeing this beautiful woman. not sure if the relationship is defined but she has told me she doesn't want to even talk to other guys or hookup with others and if i felt the same. which i did bc she's the most gorgeous girl i've hooked up with. now sure if this defined our relationship as "dating" or "bf/gf" but i didn't press. now the kicker. whenever we get completely shitfaced (we like to party), she will say things like "i dont want to be with you." and even in my drunken stupor, i'm still hurt by it so i don't press her, but then in 5 mins she's like "babe, what are you doing? come over here. why don't you wanna lay with me?" and then she'll just get into crazy wild sex mode. she's said this twice now, on separate occasions when we've gotten wasted. and both times, i'm just confused, because she'll blackout and say "get over here. why aren't you laying with me??" and then crazy sex commences. when we're sober, she's super sweet, says nice things, misses me, buys me random snacks etc etc. so what does this mean? i feel that sometimes when someone is drunk, the "truth" comes out and is this a case of that? but i've said some dumb shit while drunk, that wasn't honest, so i have no clue what to even do with this. TL;DR:
girl i'm with, super sweet, nice, cheesy, asked to be exclusive, but when completely wasted said she didn't wanna be w me, but then in 5-10 min goes back to her normal sweet self.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [30/m] girl i'm seeing (25/f) says odd things when wasted... POST: so i'm seeing this beautiful woman. not sure if the relationship is defined but she has told me she doesn't want to even talk to other guys or hookup with others and if i felt the same. which i did bc she's the most gorgeous girl i've hooked up with. now sure if this defined our relationship as "dating" or "bf/gf" but i didn't press. now the kicker. whenever we get completely shitfaced (we like to party), she will say things like "i dont want to be with you." and even in my drunken stupor, i'm still hurt by it so i don't press her, but then in 5 mins she's like "babe, what are you doing? come over here. why don't you wanna lay with me?" and then she'll just get into crazy wild sex mode. she's said this twice now, on separate occasions when we've gotten wasted. and both times, i'm just confused, because she'll blackout and say "get over here. why aren't you laying with me??" and then crazy sex commences. when we're sober, she's super sweet, says nice things, misses me, buys me random snacks etc etc. so what does this mean? i feel that sometimes when someone is drunk, the "truth" comes out and is this a case of that? but i've said some dumb shit while drunk, that wasn't honest, so i have no clue what to even do with this. TL;DR: girl i'm with, super sweet, nice, cheesy, asked to be exclusive, but when completely wasted said she didn't wanna be w me, but then in 5-10 min goes back to her normal sweet self.<|endoftext|>
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Alabama and/or California Law about performing background checks
I was wondering if anyone has any information about parents performing background checks on people associated with their children. I'm 25 years old and my mom (without my knowledge) hired a PI to do a background check on a friend of mine. In the report, it says everything was in compliance with Alabama (where I live, he lives in California) and Federal laws, though I'm curious as to what the actual law states. And also from what I've read, everything in the report was from public record. So, my guess would be everything was in compliance but I would still like to know if there's any legal action my friend could take against my mother.
According to alabama law, is there any legal action of person can take against another person for performing a background check without their permission?
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Alabama and/or California Law about performing background checks POST: I was wondering if anyone has any information about parents performing background checks on people associated with their children. I'm 25 years old and my mom (without my knowledge) hired a PI to do a background check on a friend of mine. In the report, it says everything was in compliance with Alabama (where I live, he lives in California) and Federal laws, though I'm curious as to what the actual law states. And also from what I've read, everything in the report was from public record. So, my guess would be everything was in compliance but I would still like to know if there's any legal action my friend could take against my mother. TL;DR:
According to alabama law, is there any legal action of person can take against another person for performing a background check without their permission?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Alabama and/or California Law about performing background checks POST: I was wondering if anyone has any information about parents performing background checks on people associated with their children. I'm 25 years old and my mom (without my knowledge) hired a PI to do a background check on a friend of mine. In the report, it says everything was in compliance with Alabama (where I live, he lives in California) and Federal laws, though I'm curious as to what the actual law states. And also from what I've read, everything in the report was from public record. So, my guess would be everything was in compliance but I would still like to know if there's any legal action my friend could take against my mother. TL;DR: According to alabama law, is there any legal action of person can take against another person for performing a background check without their permission?<|endoftext|>
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I'm on trouble! Met my highschool crush yestersday while out with friends. We have a crazy connection, we think alike, like the same things and is from the same place. The emotions were crazy. We ended up talking while sitting by the docks looking out from the pier. It was amazing, and heartbreaking. We really hit it off. But, I have a bf of 5 years who I love very much. Nothing happened, othee than the innapropriate conversations of what could have been and how much he wanted to take me home and just sleep with me. I felt really bad, I never knew he liked me like that. Turns out he told me things he has never told anyone before, because of our connection. Had i been single I would have went in a heartbeat. Seeing how I am very much in love with my bf as well, I would never have gone with him (I think?). This leaves me in an emotionally confused mess. I'm sittin at another party today, and I added his number to my phone, and I have no idea why.
Met crush, have a bf, great connection, is now really confused. Should I just wait these feelings out?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] crush [24M] and bf [27M] POST: I'm on trouble! Met my highschool crush yestersday while out with friends. We have a crazy connection, we think alike, like the same things and is from the same place. The emotions were crazy. We ended up talking while sitting by the docks looking out from the pier. It was amazing, and heartbreaking. We really hit it off. But, I have a bf of 5 years who I love very much. Nothing happened, othee than the innapropriate conversations of what could have been and how much he wanted to take me home and just sleep with me. I felt really bad, I never knew he liked me like that. Turns out he told me things he has never told anyone before, because of our connection. Had i been single I would have went in a heartbeat. Seeing how I am very much in love with my bf as well, I would never have gone with him (I think?). This leaves me in an emotionally confused mess. I'm sittin at another party today, and I added his number to my phone, and I have no idea why. TL;DR:
Met crush, have a bf, great connection, is now really confused. Should I just wait these feelings out?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24F] crush [24M] and bf [27M] POST: I'm on trouble! Met my highschool crush yestersday while out with friends. We have a crazy connection, we think alike, like the same things and is from the same place. The emotions were crazy. We ended up talking while sitting by the docks looking out from the pier. It was amazing, and heartbreaking. We really hit it off. But, I have a bf of 5 years who I love very much. Nothing happened, othee than the innapropriate conversations of what could have been and how much he wanted to take me home and just sleep with me. I felt really bad, I never knew he liked me like that. Turns out he told me things he has never told anyone before, because of our connection. Had i been single I would have went in a heartbeat. Seeing how I am very much in love with my bf as well, I would never have gone with him (I think?). This leaves me in an emotionally confused mess. I'm sittin at another party today, and I added his number to my phone, and I have no idea why. TL;DR: Met crush, have a bf, great connection, is now really confused. Should I just wait these feelings out?<|endoftext|>
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t3_33hrmg
tifu
TIFU by going to the store to buy milk
Allow me to begin with the fact that I am tall, very lean, heavily tattooed and I have a rather large and full very red beard; I am also the father of a two and a half year old girl who, as my wife states, is "home potty trained." This essentially means that no accidents at home, but, when out-and-about, it's a gamble. We allow her to choose and then automatically bring extra clothes... just in case. Last night after a long day of running errands, my wife and I arrived home to realize we had forgotten to get milk. Not wanting to forego our parking spot (parking can be competitive in our apartment complex), I volunteered to walk the couple of blocks to the grocery story to grab a few groceries and walk back. The walk and even the very act of grocery shopping is without incident, but it is upon the checkout wherein I fucked up. Unbeknownst to me, my wife had thrown our daughter's change of clothes in the exact same cloth, reusable grocery bag I was now using. Lo and behold, I produce a pastel colored tulip bag that already sticks out like a sore thumb and a fresh pair of my daughter's underwear comes tumbling out... in front of EVERYONE. The reactions of the surrounding shoppers filtered like falling dominoes. The lady next to me glared disapprovingly and immediately covered her adolescent son's eyes, the cashier looked at me like I am Charles Manson, etc. Pretty sure I won't be returning to this store any time soon.
Wife accidentally spring loaded my pocket with our daughter's super pink underwear and it surprised me (and everyone else) at the self-checkout line in the grocery store. So much embarrassment.
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the store to buy milk POST: Allow me to begin with the fact that I am tall, very lean, heavily tattooed and I have a rather large and full very red beard; I am also the father of a two and a half year old girl who, as my wife states, is "home potty trained." This essentially means that no accidents at home, but, when out-and-about, it's a gamble. We allow her to choose and then automatically bring extra clothes... just in case. Last night after a long day of running errands, my wife and I arrived home to realize we had forgotten to get milk. Not wanting to forego our parking spot (parking can be competitive in our apartment complex), I volunteered to walk the couple of blocks to the grocery story to grab a few groceries and walk back. The walk and even the very act of grocery shopping is without incident, but it is upon the checkout wherein I fucked up. Unbeknownst to me, my wife had thrown our daughter's change of clothes in the exact same cloth, reusable grocery bag I was now using. Lo and behold, I produce a pastel colored tulip bag that already sticks out like a sore thumb and a fresh pair of my daughter's underwear comes tumbling out... in front of EVERYONE. The reactions of the surrounding shoppers filtered like falling dominoes. The lady next to me glared disapprovingly and immediately covered her adolescent son's eyes, the cashier looked at me like I am Charles Manson, etc. Pretty sure I won't be returning to this store any time soon. TL;DR:
Wife accidentally spring loaded my pocket with our daughter's super pink underwear and it surprised me (and everyone else) at the self-checkout line in the grocery store. So much embarrassment.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by going to the store to buy milk POST: Allow me to begin with the fact that I am tall, very lean, heavily tattooed and I have a rather large and full very red beard; I am also the father of a two and a half year old girl who, as my wife states, is "home potty trained." This essentially means that no accidents at home, but, when out-and-about, it's a gamble. We allow her to choose and then automatically bring extra clothes... just in case. Last night after a long day of running errands, my wife and I arrived home to realize we had forgotten to get milk. Not wanting to forego our parking spot (parking can be competitive in our apartment complex), I volunteered to walk the couple of blocks to the grocery story to grab a few groceries and walk back. The walk and even the very act of grocery shopping is without incident, but it is upon the checkout wherein I fucked up. Unbeknownst to me, my wife had thrown our daughter's change of clothes in the exact same cloth, reusable grocery bag I was now using. Lo and behold, I produce a pastel colored tulip bag that already sticks out like a sore thumb and a fresh pair of my daughter's underwear comes tumbling out... in front of EVERYONE. The reactions of the surrounding shoppers filtered like falling dominoes. The lady next to me glared disapprovingly and immediately covered her adolescent son's eyes, the cashier looked at me like I am Charles Manson, etc. Pretty sure I won't be returning to this store any time soon. TL;DR: Wife accidentally spring loaded my pocket with our daughter's super pink underwear and it surprised me (and everyone else) at the self-checkout line in the grocery store. So much embarrassment.<|endoftext|>
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Me (23f) with my partner (47m) who doesn't want sex anymore and my other partner (47m) who is not a good person
I have been with my partner Richard for five years. We got together when I was eighteen. He was married but left his wife for me after six months. (I did not ask him to, nor did I really want him to.) He's a really good person and we are mostly very happy. He has two kids with whom I close; our relationship is again, largely very good. For the majority of our relationship I have been seeing other people, mainly for the sex. Richard is not good nor is he keen in bed. I have a high sex drive and he does not and this is why I have gone outside the relationship to have my needs met. I have had multiple regular sex partners, for most of this time. Recently I cut almost all of them, with the exception of Alistair, who is one of my best friends. Alistair is the same age as Richard, and married to Catherine. They have two children with whom I am also friendly. (The boy has a crush on me.) Alistair is not a good person but his dick is good and his libido is high. We have the same personality and humour and I really enjoy his company. We have been having sex for four years. I recently caught feelings while on my period and contemplated leaving Richard for him, but I know that he would never leave Catherine for me (even though he says he would). We work together and sometimes have sex at work. The sex is pretty good but more importantly it's regular. I know that he is not good for me (he sometimes violates my boundaries during sex) but I really want to keep having sex and he's easy. Richard has responded to my requests for more/rougher sex poorly. He cheated on me three years ago with a woman his own age, but we have since worked through these issues. (She also complained about the sex being bad.) I don't know who to choose; the man who fulfils my sexual needs or my emotional needs. Richard is really supportive and emotionally the best relationship I have ever had and Alistair is stupid and not particularly pleasant but I feel my sexual needs are met with him.
partner of five years emotionally wonderful and very supportive but terrible in bed; contemplating leaving him for married man who is good at sex. What should I do?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (23f) with my partner (47m) who doesn't want sex anymore and my other partner (47m) who is not a good person POST: I have been with my partner Richard for five years. We got together when I was eighteen. He was married but left his wife for me after six months. (I did not ask him to, nor did I really want him to.) He's a really good person and we are mostly very happy. He has two kids with whom I close; our relationship is again, largely very good. For the majority of our relationship I have been seeing other people, mainly for the sex. Richard is not good nor is he keen in bed. I have a high sex drive and he does not and this is why I have gone outside the relationship to have my needs met. I have had multiple regular sex partners, for most of this time. Recently I cut almost all of them, with the exception of Alistair, who is one of my best friends. Alistair is the same age as Richard, and married to Catherine. They have two children with whom I am also friendly. (The boy has a crush on me.) Alistair is not a good person but his dick is good and his libido is high. We have the same personality and humour and I really enjoy his company. We have been having sex for four years. I recently caught feelings while on my period and contemplated leaving Richard for him, but I know that he would never leave Catherine for me (even though he says he would). We work together and sometimes have sex at work. The sex is pretty good but more importantly it's regular. I know that he is not good for me (he sometimes violates my boundaries during sex) but I really want to keep having sex and he's easy. Richard has responded to my requests for more/rougher sex poorly. He cheated on me three years ago with a woman his own age, but we have since worked through these issues. (She also complained about the sex being bad.) I don't know who to choose; the man who fulfils my sexual needs or my emotional needs. Richard is really supportive and emotionally the best relationship I have ever had and Alistair is stupid and not particularly pleasant but I feel my sexual needs are met with him. TL;DR:
partner of five years emotionally wonderful and very supportive but terrible in bed; contemplating leaving him for married man who is good at sex. What should I do? <|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me (23f) with my partner (47m) who doesn't want sex anymore and my other partner (47m) who is not a good person POST: I have been with my partner Richard for five years. We got together when I was eighteen. He was married but left his wife for me after six months. (I did not ask him to, nor did I really want him to.) He's a really good person and we are mostly very happy. He has two kids with whom I close; our relationship is again, largely very good. For the majority of our relationship I have been seeing other people, mainly for the sex. Richard is not good nor is he keen in bed. I have a high sex drive and he does not and this is why I have gone outside the relationship to have my needs met. I have had multiple regular sex partners, for most of this time. Recently I cut almost all of them, with the exception of Alistair, who is one of my best friends. Alistair is the same age as Richard, and married to Catherine. They have two children with whom I am also friendly. (The boy has a crush on me.) Alistair is not a good person but his dick is good and his libido is high. We have the same personality and humour and I really enjoy his company. We have been having sex for four years. I recently caught feelings while on my period and contemplated leaving Richard for him, but I know that he would never leave Catherine for me (even though he says he would). We work together and sometimes have sex at work. The sex is pretty good but more importantly it's regular. I know that he is not good for me (he sometimes violates my boundaries during sex) but I really want to keep having sex and he's easy. Richard has responded to my requests for more/rougher sex poorly. He cheated on me three years ago with a woman his own age, but we have since worked through these issues. (She also complained about the sex being bad.) I don't know who to choose; the man who fulfils my sexual needs or my emotional needs. Richard is really supportive and emotionally the best relationship I have ever had and Alistair is stupid and not particularly pleasant but I feel my sexual needs are met with him. TL;DR: partner of five years emotionally wonderful and very supportive but terrible in bed; contemplating leaving him for married man who is good at sex. What should I do? <|endoftext|>
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My [20 F] boyfriend [19 M] is very introverted and we're both very busy so I feel like I never get the chance to have a quality conversation with him. I want to keep getting to know him!
Hey guys, so my boyfriend of three months and I have a really nice relationship, and we both care a lot about each other. Neither of us have had many relationships before this, He does show how he feels about me, but never really says it. That's okay with me at this point because I know his personality pretty well. He needs time to himself and when he hangs out with anybody he's not the most outspoken. Since we're so busy and then exhausted at the end of our days, when we hang out often he invites me over and we watch TV for a little and then have sex and we fall asleep. Then I have to leave early in the morning for work. The cycle repeats. I feel like I'm missing out on having quality conversations with him. I don't have any problems to bring up with him or changes in the relationship to make, I just want to keep getting to know him. We seem to have gotten comfortable with chilling then having sex then falling asleep but I know that's not enough for me! What are some low key activities I can suggest that will give us a chance to keep talking to each other and getting to know each other?
We're too busy/tired once we get the chance to hang out to have a quality conversation with each other. What are some activities that will facilitate a good long talk?
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 F] boyfriend [19 M] is very introverted and we're both very busy so I feel like I never get the chance to have a quality conversation with him. I want to keep getting to know him! POST: Hey guys, so my boyfriend of three months and I have a really nice relationship, and we both care a lot about each other. Neither of us have had many relationships before this, He does show how he feels about me, but never really says it. That's okay with me at this point because I know his personality pretty well. He needs time to himself and when he hangs out with anybody he's not the most outspoken. Since we're so busy and then exhausted at the end of our days, when we hang out often he invites me over and we watch TV for a little and then have sex and we fall asleep. Then I have to leave early in the morning for work. The cycle repeats. I feel like I'm missing out on having quality conversations with him. I don't have any problems to bring up with him or changes in the relationship to make, I just want to keep getting to know him. We seem to have gotten comfortable with chilling then having sex then falling asleep but I know that's not enough for me! What are some low key activities I can suggest that will give us a chance to keep talking to each other and getting to know each other? TL;DR:
We're too busy/tired once we get the chance to hang out to have a quality conversation with each other. What are some activities that will facilitate a good long talk?<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: My [20 F] boyfriend [19 M] is very introverted and we're both very busy so I feel like I never get the chance to have a quality conversation with him. I want to keep getting to know him! POST: Hey guys, so my boyfriend of three months and I have a really nice relationship, and we both care a lot about each other. Neither of us have had many relationships before this, He does show how he feels about me, but never really says it. That's okay with me at this point because I know his personality pretty well. He needs time to himself and when he hangs out with anybody he's not the most outspoken. Since we're so busy and then exhausted at the end of our days, when we hang out often he invites me over and we watch TV for a little and then have sex and we fall asleep. Then I have to leave early in the morning for work. The cycle repeats. I feel like I'm missing out on having quality conversations with him. I don't have any problems to bring up with him or changes in the relationship to make, I just want to keep getting to know him. We seem to have gotten comfortable with chilling then having sex then falling asleep but I know that's not enough for me! What are some low key activities I can suggest that will give us a chance to keep talking to each other and getting to know each other? TL;DR: We're too busy/tired once we get the chance to hang out to have a quality conversation with each other. What are some activities that will facilitate a good long talk?<|endoftext|>
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Me [24 M] just got told I can't see my therapist anymore because she doesn't accept my insurance. I have nobody to talk to for emotional support. How can I sort myself out?
I spent the last eight years working with the same therapist. I enjoyed going to her because she would push me to go out and socialize, be confident in situations I normally wouldn't feel comfortable in, and help me deal with my dysfunctional family. Recently found out that it's not possible for me to continue seeing her. I'm considering looking for a qualified cognitive-behavioral therapist in the area. Another option that I have is my school offers free counseling services. For some reason I feel ashamed to go there and have other students see me. Also, it feels disheartening that I have to start over with a new therapist that doesn't know anything about my life. I feel alone, have trouble concentrating on school work, feel mentally slow, and have no passion for anything. Is it worth checking out the counseling services at school? Are the "therapists" there generally students doing an internship, or are they fully qualified licensed professionals?
My therapist of eight years who has pushed me to succeed academically and socially in spite of my dysfunctional family no longer accepts my insurance. Haven't seen her in months. I'm now doing poorly both socially and academically.
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] just got told I can't see my therapist anymore because she doesn't accept my insurance. I have nobody to talk to for emotional support. How can I sort myself out? POST: I spent the last eight years working with the same therapist. I enjoyed going to her because she would push me to go out and socialize, be confident in situations I normally wouldn't feel comfortable in, and help me deal with my dysfunctional family. Recently found out that it's not possible for me to continue seeing her. I'm considering looking for a qualified cognitive-behavioral therapist in the area. Another option that I have is my school offers free counseling services. For some reason I feel ashamed to go there and have other students see me. Also, it feels disheartening that I have to start over with a new therapist that doesn't know anything about my life. I feel alone, have trouble concentrating on school work, feel mentally slow, and have no passion for anything. Is it worth checking out the counseling services at school? Are the "therapists" there generally students doing an internship, or are they fully qualified licensed professionals? TL;DR:
My therapist of eight years who has pushed me to succeed academically and socially in spite of my dysfunctional family no longer accepts my insurance. Haven't seen her in months. I'm now doing poorly both socially and academically.<|endoftext|>
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SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [24 M] just got told I can't see my therapist anymore because she doesn't accept my insurance. I have nobody to talk to for emotional support. How can I sort myself out? POST: I spent the last eight years working with the same therapist. I enjoyed going to her because she would push me to go out and socialize, be confident in situations I normally wouldn't feel comfortable in, and help me deal with my dysfunctional family. Recently found out that it's not possible for me to continue seeing her. I'm considering looking for a qualified cognitive-behavioral therapist in the area. Another option that I have is my school offers free counseling services. For some reason I feel ashamed to go there and have other students see me. Also, it feels disheartening that I have to start over with a new therapist that doesn't know anything about my life. I feel alone, have trouble concentrating on school work, feel mentally slow, and have no passion for anything. Is it worth checking out the counseling services at school? Are the "therapists" there generally students doing an internship, or are they fully qualified licensed professionals? TL;DR: My therapist of eight years who has pushed me to succeed academically and socially in spite of my dysfunctional family no longer accepts my insurance. Haven't seen her in months. I'm now doing poorly both socially and academically.<|endoftext|>
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