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amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
fairness-cheating|authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's allowed
deciding who you want to come to a party in your honor.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
not wanting this guy at my birthday party
reddit/amitheasshole/a2rymd
It's allowed to decide who you want to come to a party in your honor.
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121
42
2
narrator|this guy
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|description
care-harm
char-none
0
It's normal
being upset when someone is acting inconsiderately towards you.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-none
null
not wanting to move my bag
reddit/amitheasshole/avjyev
It's normal to be upset if someone is acting inconsiderately towards you.
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127
106
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
Wasting your money on something you don't like.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
wanting to abandon my study abroad despite the money/time invested in it
reddit/amitheasshole/9y7kwo
You shouldn't waste your money on something you don't like.
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42
107
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
it is rude
trying to micromanage who your friend can be friends with.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
wanting my friend to stop being friends with another person
reddit/amitheasshole/ag3zd6
It is rude to try to micromanage who your friend can be friends with.
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107
130
3
narrator|my friend|another person
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's bad
trying to dictate what your significant other can do.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
telling my girlfriend she cant come to new york with me
reddit/amitheasshole/aejroo
It's bad to try to dictate what your significant other can do.
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87
118
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-1
0
is expected
People being invited to events their spouses are attending when other spouses are going.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
telling my wife that upcoming guys night out is still for guys when another wife was invited
reddit/amitheasshole/ay967b
People expect to be invited to events their spouses are attending when other spouses are going.
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8
42
4
narrator|my wife|another wife|guys
amitheasshole
1
test
1
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's okay
just leaving a job if you're angry.
agency
0
1
legal
-2
char-0
probable
walking out on the job
reddit/amitheasshole/azcxjk
It's okay to just leave a job if you're angry.
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42
39
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's acceptable
wanting to climb the professional ladder.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
wanting a promotion
reddit/amitheasshole/a1rpn7
It's acceptable to want to climb the professional ladder.
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67
56
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's rude
yelling at someone
agency
-2
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
screaming at my dad and vowing to never open up to him again
reddit/amitheasshole/aru0cj
It's rude to yell at someone.
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87
11
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-none
0
is okay
When someone is distrustful of you, feeling offended
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
not knowing if I should have to trust in boyfriend or not
reddit/amitheasshole/aftnyt
When someone is distrustful of you, it's okay to feel offended.
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129
3
2
narrator|boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal|authority-subversion
char-0
0
It is rude
ignoring the security personnel at your place of business.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not greeting the security guard at my office
reddit/amitheasshole/a82ndz
It is rude to ignore the security personnel at your place of business.
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54
99
2
narrator|the security guard
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
it's smart
finding bargains.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
buying a 1983 item that was originally $1000, that is sold for $60-200 today, for $10 from an italian seller who does not know WTF it does
reddit/amitheasshole/an29sf
It's smart to find bargains.
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8
27
2
narrator|an italian seller
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's not okay
letting something go when it's important for them to know.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
not correcting guest's mispronounced words at work
reddit/amitheasshole/ay6nwj
It's not okay to let something go when it's important for them to know.
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105
138
2
narrator|guest
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
It's bad
being overly materialistic.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
telling my Sister she's a Spoiled Brat
reddit/amitheasshole/atzi2f
It's bad to be overly materialistic.
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127
42
2
narrator|my Sister
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
it's rude
becoming friends with someone your significant other knows, if you know it upsets them.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-1
explicit-no
not letting my girlfriend being friend with my classmate
reddit/amitheasshole/a9x4b3
It's rude to become friends with someone your significant other knows, if you know it upsets them.
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85
118
3
narrator|my girlfriend|my classmate
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's okay
being angry at your parents when they behave in antisocial ways
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
getting mad at my dad for locking me outside
reddit/amitheasshole/adrfp7
It's okay to be angry at your parents when they behave in antisocial ways
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48
62
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's good
calling animal control over a possibly vicious dog.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
probable
calling animal control to come get a stray dog
reddit/amitheasshole/a4qh0w
It's good to call animal control over a possibly vicious dog.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a4qh0w/3R6BYFZZPARNS8L3ZO1GBA2R15QFXN/42/1
42
59
2
narrator|animal control
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
sanctity-degradation
char-1
0
it's unacceptable
being nude in public
agency
-2
2
tolerated
-2
char-1
hypothetical
telling my friend that she shouldn't be naked in front of the kids she's babysitting
reddit/amitheasshole/a2gry0
Public nudity is unacceptable.
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89
49
3
narrator|my friend|the kids
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's bad
Being an enabler of harmful behavior.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
probable-no
not wanting to enable my grandparents hurting themselves
reddit/amitheasshole/acod0s
It's bad to be an enabler of harmful behavior.
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87
107
2
narrator|my grandparents
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's okay
telling your friends embarrassing things to help them
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
pointing out my friend's blackheads
reddit/amitheasshole/at6n0h
It is okay to tell your friends embarrassing things to help them
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132
13
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
care-harm
char-none
1
{}
Putting down stray animals will reduce the population.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
supporting a decision to chase away/put down stray dogs
reddit/amitheasshole/abi87q
Putting down stray animals will reduce the population.
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94
38
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it is rude
ignoring someone.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
ignoring depressed girl
reddit/amitheasshole/aofs01
It is rude to ignore someone.
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30
14
2
narrator|depressed girl
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-1
0
It's okay
asking someone out if you're attracted to them.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
explicit
staying single and rejecting everyone who asks me out
reddit/amitheasshole/9wi9zo
It's okay to ask someone out if you're attracted to them.
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120
42
2
narrator|everyone
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
is good
when wanting a friend to do something with you, finding a meeting place close to them.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
making my friend drive 40 miles round trip to play cards
reddit/amitheasshole/aus9cf
If you want a friend to do something with you, it's good to find a meeting place close to them.
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104
3
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
being honest with people, even if the truth hurts.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
probable
telling a girl she stinks
reddit/amitheasshole/apxa03
It's good to be honest with people, even if the truth hurts.
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127
130
2
narrator|a girl
amitheasshole
1
test
3
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
it's rude
being aggressive towards other people.
agency
-1
3
tolerated
-1
char-0
explicit
being Passive Aggressive/bad communication
reddit/amitheasshole/ackmrn
It is rude to be aggressive towards other people.
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111
22
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
It's rude
sending suggestive pictures of yourself to other people if you are in a relationship.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
sending the same nudes to my girlfriend that I had sexted other girls with
reddit/amitheasshole/a8itlj
It's rude to send suggestive pictures of yourself to other people if you are in a relationship.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a8itlj/3R3YRB5GRII0FDA0J341D2SWE8PAUC/120/2
120
101
3
narrator|my girlfriend|other girls
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice|description
null
char-0
0
It is okay
not wanting to drink.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not drinking with my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/arm0yc
It is okay to not want to drink.
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30
42
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
authority-subversion
char-1
0
It's good
standing up for yourself when a guy tries to bully you.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-1
hypothetical
yelling at this guy
reddit/amitheasshole/b19cac
It's good to stand up for yourself when a guy tries to bully you.
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121
19
2
narrator|this guy
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It is ok
your friend not going on a trip with you.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-1
explicit
telling my friend I can't go on a trip with her over Spring Break
reddit/amitheasshole/atak8t
It is ok if your friend can't go on a trip with you.
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107
42
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
null
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it is unacceptable
surrendering pets
agency
-2
4
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
wanting to re-home my moms dog
reddit/amitheasshole/a43d81
It is unacceptable to surrender pets.
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5
11
2
narrator|my moms
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
should
being respectful to one another.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
calling a fellow student "kiddo"
reddit/amitheasshole/ab3pkd
Students should be respectful to one another.
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111
52
2
narrator|a fellow student
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's okay
not supporting someone's pregnancy.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not supporting my mom's pregnancy
reddit/amitheasshole/ar1nx6
It's okay to not support someone's pregnancy.
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42
27
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
dev
0
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You should
always accusing your partner of things.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-none
null
telling my boyfriend he doesn't need to always correct me or tell me I did something wrong
reddit/amitheasshole/aobql4
You should always accuse your partner of things.
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42
84
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You should
being there for your friends, no matter what.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
probable-no
potentially skipping my friends vacation wedding
reddit/amitheasshole/a1i9np
You should always be there for your friends, no matter what.
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42
52
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
It's rude
not showing up to something we said we were going to show up for.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-1
probable
leaving when we were supposed to meet up
reddit/amitheasshole/ajbuox
It's rude to not show up to something we said we were going to show up for.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ajbuox/3U84XHCDIFS2ZNOTGPTIHRLBKFFZ4G/105/2
105
56
2
narrator|we
amitheasshole
1
test
3
advice
null
char-1
0
Its good
Telling others of your plans
agency
1
4
legal
0
char-1
probable
asking my coworker to message the group when he'll be late for the bus
reddit/amitheasshole/akm7et
It's good to tell others of your plans.
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42
84
3
narrator|my coworker|the group
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's wrong
pointing out other people's physical appearance in a negative light.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
asking a short guy for the legroom he wasn't using
reddit/amitheasshole/axfrqy
It is wrong to point out other people's physical appearance in a negative light.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/axfrqy/3018Q3ZVOL58ZLIJF99W8R5C38QAR7/57/1
57
31
2
narrator|a short guy
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-1
0
It's wrong
using someone's sexual preference to embarrass them.
agency
-2
3
legal
-2
char-1
explicit
getting mad at my dad for calling me out as gay in front of the entire extended family and friends
reddit/amitheasshole/9tykdu
It's wrong to use someone's sexual preference to embarrass them.
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120
42
4
narrator|my dad|extended family|friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
shouldn't
sharing other people's secrets.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
probable
being mad that my girlfriend tells others I am bisexual
reddit/amitheasshole/an6sao
You shouldn't share other people's secrets.
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87
78
3
narrator|my girlfriend|others
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's reasonable
wanting your children to have your surname
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
telling my girlfriend that when we have kids they will have my surname and not be double barrelled
reddit/amitheasshole/b82y1l
It's reasonable to want your children to have your surname.
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100
97
3
narrator|my girlfriend|kids
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
You should
giving advanced notice of your plans.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-1
explicit-no
refusing to help with my SIL's birthday party preparations and during the event when she gave one day's notice
reddit/amitheasshole/b2cjwn
You should give advanced notice of your plans.
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42
93
2
narrator|my SIL
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
You shouldn't
hating your partner's parents.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
hating my girlfriends parents for not allowing me to stay in their house while they were out
reddit/amitheasshole/9y62rb
You shouldn't hate your partner's parents.
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42
76
3
narrator|my girlfriends parents|my girlfriends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's rude
making a partner do all the work in the home.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
probable
wanting to sleep at night while my wife and grandma take care of the newborn
reddit/amitheasshole/ac4m7b
It's rude to make a partner do all the work in the home.
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4
40
4
narrator|my wife|grandma|the newborn
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics|description
care-harm
char-1
0
You shouldn't
expecting people to want to date you if you have a physical problem.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-1
hypothetical
telling a girl from tinder I don't want to go on a date anymore because of her lazy eye
reddit/amitheasshole/9x8eic
You shouldn't expect people to want to date you if you have a physical problem.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9x8eic/3L6L49WXW3C4S94491M2SNEGNHR454/42/3
42
42
2
narrator|a girl
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
sanctity-degradation
char-1
0
People are expected
keeping themselves clean.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-1
probable-no
not staying with my cousin cuz he smells
reddit/amitheasshole/b9qbde
People are expected to keep themselves clean.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b9qbde/3J88R45B2JDZJLAXDRXLN4GV7BPXPO/89/1
89
133
2
narrator|my cousin
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
1
{}
Just because your partner likes someone doesn't mean that you have to.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
hating my boyfriends best friend
reddit/amitheasshole/aychrx
Just because your partner likes someone doesn't mean that you have to.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aychrx/36H9ULYP659MXOGEIKMFK1UCU7MFJE/30/3
30
101
3
narrator|my boyfriends|my boyfriends best friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You shouldn't
Ignoring your family members.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
not caring if me and my parents don't talk for 20 years
reddit/amitheasshole/amrvzn
You shouldn't ignore your family members.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/amrvzn/3GD6L00D3VCL8HSREIKMBRIZXR71MC/42/2
42
107
2
narrator|my parents
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
shouldn't
butting into other's relationships.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
wanting my dad to break up and kick out his gf
reddit/amitheasshole/av62iw
You shouldn't butt into other's relationships.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/av62iw/3A0EX8ZRNB3MFWZXZI1MBYIFSERYBZ/87/2
87
79
3
narrator|my dad|his gf
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's wrong
expecting something for free that is usually paid for.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
refusing to pay rent and demanding to live for free
reddit/amitheasshole/an34tc
It's wrong to expect something for free that is usually paid for.
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120
30
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
null
null
null
null
1
{}
You should talk with your girlfriend and research what habits would be best for the baby.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
having a drink with my pregnant gf
reddit/amitheasshole/ahd13i
You should talk with your girlfriend and research what habits would be best for the baby.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ahd13i/39GHHAVOMI6CZ8JPY3QWTXXL5JA4JG/16/2
16
84
2
narrator|my pregnant gf
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
null
char-1
0
it is rude
talking while watching TV.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-1
probable
telling my wife to stop talking while watching stuff
reddit/amitheasshole/b1i2m8
It is rude to talk while watching TV.
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5
39
2
narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice|description
null
char-0
0
expected
People not turning down anything free.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
taking advantage of a free lunch
reddit/amitheasshole/av26n3
People will not turn down anything free.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/av26n3/3EF8EXOTT4AV79M6BL7UVZQIPWF1J5/57/2
57
143
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
should
telling your friend what is bothering you.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
being mad at my friend that she talks to her boyfriend 24/7
reddit/amitheasshole/ajiru4
You should tell your friend what is bothering you.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ajiru4/3XIQGXAUMFNADF6XH534NIPA3G57X7/42/3
42
59
3
narrator|my friend|her boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
null
null
null
null
1
{}
It is possessive to try to control what your partner in a casual relationship does.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
wanting to ask my new girlfriend to delete her dating apps
reddit/amitheasshole/azze1u
It is possessive to try to control what your partner in a casual relationship does.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/azze1u/3R9WASFE22VCX3LI06P18VI2DK4FZY/70/1
70
102
2
narrator|my new girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|authority-subversion
char-none
0
It's wrong
taking a vacation all at the same time at a large company.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-none
null
believing an entire game development company shouldn't all take holiday vacation at the same time
reddit/amitheasshole/acm383
It's wrong to take a vacation all at the same time at a large company.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/acm383/3L6L49WXW3C4S94491M2SNEGNHI54W/42/3
42
50
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's understandable
wanting your roommate to be quiet early in the morning.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
wanting to stop weird housemate fucking in communal shower at 5am and then leaving gf in his bedroom when he goes out
reddit/amitheasshole/aet5d9
It's understandable to want your roommate to be quiet early in the morning.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aet5d9/3V0Z7YWSI1FBNP4WBELR36BHGR7V2G/87/3
87
22
3
narrator|weird housemate|gf
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal|authority-subversion
char-0
0
You shouldn't
resenting your parents.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
resenting my dad after he got remarried on my birthday and essentially disregards it every year since
reddit/amitheasshole/aczngx
You shouldn't resent your parents.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aczngx/3R3YRB5GRII0FDA0J341D2SWE8MUAT/42/1
42
93
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
is heartless
lying about loving your parents.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
lying to my dad about loving him
reddit/amitheasshole/b5bung
It is heartless to lie about loving your parents.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b5bung/3L4PIM1GQWV9V3GMVFNCBDNJA16RYJ/84/2
84
3
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
It is understandable
having an emotional connection to a possession.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting upset at my stepmom after she threw away my property that I had an emotional connection to
reddit/amitheasshole/ay4n6k
It is understandable to have an emotional connection to a possession.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ay4n6k/3PH3VY7DJOCE8P7DQVZ1CJ428AIZWE/30/4
30
26
2
narrator|my stepmom
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
authority-subversion
char-0
0
shouldn't
You telling your child's mother what to do.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
telling my sons mother there's no "correct" way to use a spoon or a pen that she can teach my son
reddit/amitheasshole/afaw34
You shouldn't tell your child's mother what to do.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/afaw34/3WSELTNVR6HLF0VBJYER866UVV6TAU/42/1
42
59
3
narrator|my sons|my sons mother
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's not a big deal
leaving lights on
agency
0
2
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not turning off house lights
reddit/amitheasshole/a0b6t8
It's not a big deal to leave lights on since it doesn't use that much power.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a0b6t8/31LVTDXBLAPPV49NC0YMH5LN1L1RLO/104/2
104
104
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
should
letting your kids go to work early if they wish to do so.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-1
hypothetical
wanting to go to work sooner against my parents wishes
reddit/amitheasshole/b9ncwi
You should let your kids go to work early if they wish to do so.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b9ncwi/30JNVC0ORCZNX7BX80UOKNIBOJZQHQ/42/4
42
118
2
narrator|my parents
amitheasshole
1
test
3
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's okay
being tired at work and wanting to ask to go home.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
asking to go home early instead of taking a second break
reddit/amitheasshole/aznqc5
It's okay if you are tired at work if you want to ask to go home.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aznqc5/317HQ483IA72Q59PYQKSG5OLFI5NIX/105/1
105
27
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-none
0
It is expected
slamming a door when they are angry.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-none
null
relation door slamming
reddit/amitheasshole/b1oulz
It is expected that a family member might slam a door when they are angry.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b1oulz/3V5Q80FXI06RBG2DR4FLKBJYL5932E/19/2
19
133
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
should
putting your own interests first when you're at work so that you can maximize your own career success.
agency
0
2
tolerated
0
char-0
hypothetical
confronting my colleague about our overtime schedule
reddit/amitheasshole/a22rc3
You should put your own interests first when you're at work so that you can maximize your own career success.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a22rc3/3COPXFW7XERTZLBQE8IWXA8T711KP7/48/3
48
33
2
narrator|my colleague
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
description
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
is a natural response
Feeling angry at being left out of fun things
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
being annoyed at my friends for leaving me behind
reddit/amitheasshole/awb5c6
Feeling angry at being left out of fun things is a natural response.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/awb5c6/3VHP9MDGRQZZPAA88S5TXXHH4N5CFP/45/2
45
89
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
is wrong
saying you're going to pay rent and not paying it
agency
-1
4
tolerated
-2
char-0
probable
not paying rent
reddit/amitheasshole/au4zxy
If you say you're going to pay rent, it's wrong to not pay it.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/au4zxy/3C6FJU71TT81BV83Z9IHGOA3HY3YUJ/104/1
104
3
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
care-harm
char-1
0
It's expected
leaving your children at home when you go on a date with someone.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-1
hypothetical
asking her not to bring her kids on our dates
reddit/amitheasshole/b3h07o
It's expected that you'll leave your children at home when you go on a date with someone.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b3h07o/3HPZF4IVNP85P1R3DIXHMIOXAYXCYO/104/2
104
26
3
narrator|her|her kids
amitheasshole
1
test
4
description
null
char-0
0
It's understandable
wanting to get away from people who are annoying you.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
leaving a family party early because of annoying kids
reddit/amitheasshole/a9sid4
It's understandable to want to get away from people who are annoying you.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a9sid4/3QY5DC2MXUZVB4R8UJQTR33NBNGFU6/120/3
120
62
3
narrator|family|kids
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
have a right
getting rid of someone who isn't providing you with good service.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
"firing" my therapist
reddit/amitheasshole/b3l3ah
You have a right to get rid of someone who isn't providing you with good service.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b3l3ah/3CFJTT4SXW5DNKH2IJ33K82VJ66I7X/4/1
4
105
2
narrator|my therapist
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
You shouldn't
expecting others to help you if you give late notice.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
explicit
refusing to help with my SIL's birthday party preparations and during the event when she gave one day's notice
reddit/amitheasshole/b2cjwn
You shouldn't expect others to help you if you give late notice.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b2cjwn/3EFVCAY5L6ODI96RA6G9A9DQ75HJ8D/42/4
42
70
2
narrator|my SIL
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's fine
not liking all of your girlfriend's friends.
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not liking my girlfriends best friend and being uncomfortable when they hangout
reddit/amitheasshole/a3q0eh
It's fine for you to not like all of your girlfriend's friends.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a3q0eh/3GU1KF0O4LGS6I7W8V53Y7P3OA1PBB/4/1
4
138
3
narrator|my girlfriends|my girlfriends best friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
It's expected
loving your significant other's children.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
probable
admitting I love my own child more than my girlfriend's children
reddit/amitheasshole/b9hri8
It's expected that you love your significant other's children.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b9hri8/3GD6L00D3VCL8HSREIKMBRIZXT0M1U/120/2
120
42
4
narrator|my own child|my girlfriend 's children|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
It's rude
ignoring someone in a relationship.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
wanting one of my friends to ghost the guy who's been ghosting her for 2 months now that he's stopped
reddit/amitheasshole/ae3dzk
It's rude to ignore someone in a relationship.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ae3dzk/3YWRV122CVEMWPHLM5KNHBM1KJ2U8Z/40/1
40
56
3
narrator|my friends|the guy who 's been ghosting her
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm
char-1
0
You should
learning to communicate with your partner about things that are upsetting you.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
explicit-no
wanting to breakup withy g of almost 2 years because she's gone cold
reddit/amitheasshole/aghwlb
You should learn to communicate with your partner about things that are upsetting you.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aghwlb/39RP059MEK8MLFAJGFDBH3V8F3NMB1/42/3
42
42
2
narrator|g of almost 2 years
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|advice
care-harm
char-0
0
shouldn't
involving yourself in matters that have nothing to do with you.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
being upset that my coworker slept with my brother
reddit/amitheasshole/aephhd
You shouldn't involve yourself in matters that have nothing to do with you.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aephhd/32Q90QCQ1V0P2UM05U2L3Y9PXB5KEU/4/4
4
79
3
narrator|my coworker|my brother
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
it's ok
not decorating for a holiday
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not decorating for Christmas
reddit/amitheasshole/a4ct4v
Not decorating for a holiday is OK.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a4ct4v/3X73LLYYQ4T2UAY5S827GTN6J6WHNA/108/3
108
27
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's okay
taking a reward when you earned it.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
taking a scholarship
reddit/amitheasshole/axte1l
It's okay to take a reward when you earned it.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/axte1l/373ERPL3YRNDEHHSL90D3WV4VWURTU/105/1
105
97
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
taking advantage of a child.
agency
-2
4
tolerated
-2
char-0
explicit
licking a kids hand
reddit/amitheasshole/b2k3jm
You shouldn't take advantage of a child.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b2k3jm/31LVTDXBLAPPV49NC0YMH5LN1KXLRC/87/3
87
127
2
narrator|a kids
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
telling someone their significant other is damaging their property.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
telling my dad his girlfriend is destroying his house while he's on vacation
reddit/amitheasshole/9xgcdm
It's okay to tell someone their significant other is damaging their property.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9xgcdm/352YTHGROYSG82OZA3NBHKH6SPOH42/120/3
120
133
3
narrator|my dad|his girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
you should
telling your friend if their partner is possibly homophobic.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not telling my bisexual best friend that her boyfriend is lowkey homophobic
reddit/amitheasshole/b174j5
You should tell your friend if their partner is possibly homophobic.
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42
39
3
narrator|my bisexual best friend|her boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
It is expected
being understanding with those who are grieving a death.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-1
hypothetical
being angry with a close family friend by not telling my family of her husband's death and funeral
reddit/amitheasshole/atkx28
It is expected that you are understanding with those who are grieving a death.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/atkx28/3Y5140Z9D0V2TQL2E5XKKUTGJYPIPD/132/1
132
106
4
narrator|a close family friend|my family|her husband
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|advice
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's okay
thinking your parents could of done better for you.
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
being angry at my parents for not rejecting me because of previous actions, despite me seeking help for my mental issues
reddit/amitheasshole/af3p0d
it's okay to think your parents could of done better for you.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/af3p0d/3R0T90IZ1VR53A63JCBBFIHT53GGC5/105/1
105
106
2
narrator|my parents
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
You don't
Having to do anything in your home that you don't want to do.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
wanting to sleep at night while my wife and grandma take care of the newborn
reddit/amitheasshole/ac4m7b
You don't have to do anything in your home that you don't want to do.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ac4m7b/35GMH2SV3HW8SL7F3MUEAFQYH2KOEV/4/3
4
84
4
narrator|my wife|grandma|the newborn
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's rude
getting upset with someone when they didn't help you with work you were suppose to do.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
being pissed at BIL for refusing to help
reddit/amitheasshole/9t6vik
It's rude to get upset with someone when they didn't help you with work you were suppose to do.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/9t6vik/3W92K5RLWXW3MMNJTXNP1DETWZR5VC/105/2
105
121
2
narrator|BIL
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
null
char-0
0
It's expected
wanting to go out when people are celebrating.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit-no
wanting to stay home for new years
reddit/amitheasshole/abfn7c
It's expected that you want to go out when people are celebrating.
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120
109
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
It's understandable
being upset when someone you loves tells you they love someone else
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
telling my exgirlfriend I have feelings for her best friend
reddit/amitheasshole/apr7jh
It's understandable to be upset when someone you loves tells you they love someone else
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narrator|my exgirlfriend|her best friend
amitheasshole
1
train
1
social-norms
null
char-1
0
It's okay
thinking that other people will want to hear your commentary on things.
agency
0
1
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
hating the security guard's morning commentary on what day it is
reddit/amitheasshole/atjpr5
It's okay to think that other people will want to hear your commentary on things.
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narrator|the security guard
amitheasshole
1
train
2
description
authority-subversion
char-1
0
it's okay
feeling dread when a customer asks to speak with you as a manager
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-1
hypothetical
telling my waitress's manager she did a great job
reddit/amitheasshole/ak0zkc
If you are a manager, it's okay to feel dread when a customer asks to speak with you.
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narrator|my waitress 's manager|waitress
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
rude
using someone on social media for your personal gain.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
probable
blocking an acquaintance on social media for trying to use me for personal gain
reddit/amitheasshole/aero46
It's rude to use someone on social media for your personal gain.
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narrator|an acquaintance
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's OK
focusing on your career when you're a young adult.
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-0
hypothetical
not wanting to visit my family until I'm older
reddit/amitheasshole/apel1r
It's OK to focus on your career when you're a young adult.
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narrator|my family
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
It's understandable
not always having time for family.
experience
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null
null
null
null
not watching my sister in laws kids
reddit/amitheasshole/ab4hn4
It's understandable that you won't always have time for family.
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narrator|my sister in laws|my sister in laws kids
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's rude
ignoring your parents.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not answering the door when my parents visit
reddit/amitheasshole/aplqzd
It's rude to ignore your parents.
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91
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narrator|my parents
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
care-harm
char-1
0
it's understandable
being hurt if someone doesn't like something you made yourself
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
saying that I really did not like his new tattoo that he did himself
reddit/amitheasshole/ai7fyo
It's understandable to be hurt if someone doesn't like something you made yourself.
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narrator|his
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
Friends are expected to
helping each other out in trying times.
agency
2
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not giving my friend rent money
reddit/amitheasshole/asr5ym
Friends are expected to help each other out in trying times.
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85
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narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's good
discussing disagreements calmly with your spouse.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
having a go at my wife
reddit/amitheasshole/b582yh
It's good to discuss disagreements calmly with your spouse.
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narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-none
1
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It's an occasion of happiness when an old friend who moved away returns to town during the holidays.
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null
null
wanting to visit my hometown over the holidays
reddit/amitheasshole/a3aka9
It's an occasion of happiness when an old friend who moved away returns to town during the holidays.
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1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
not okay
Taking someone else's belongings
agency
-2
3
tolerated
-2
char-1
explicit
dwelling on the fact that my former roommate kept some of my dishware without asking
reddit/amitheasshole/artqlj
Taking someone else's belongings is not okay.
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39
2
narrator|my former roommate
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It's okay
not wanting children around people you think are a bad influence.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not wanting my future children to spend significant time with my future in-laws
reddit/amitheasshole/agr10n
It's okay to not want children around people you think are a bad influence.
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narrator|my future children|my future in - laws