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amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm|authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's good
informing people of your intentions so they don't misunderstand you.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit
wanting to celebrate mine and my sister's birthdays a day after her birthday so I can visit with friends on her birthday
reddit/amitheasshole/artxe5
It's good to inform people of your intentions so they don't misunderstand you.
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42
85
3
narrator|my sister|friends
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|description
null
char-0
0
It is okay
being private about medical matters.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
not being upfront that I don't have allergies
reddit/amitheasshole/ayr839
It is okay to be private about medical matters.
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30
42
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's being a good friend
being honest with a friend about poor lifestyle choices.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
giving my friend a reality check on her weight and ego
reddit/amitheasshole/aorfuk
It is being a good friend to be honest with a friend about poor lifestyle choices.
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16
27
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
You should
protecting your family, even from other family members who are toxic.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
probable
keeping my MIL very distanced from our family
reddit/amitheasshole/a87wgs
You should protect your family, even from other family members who are toxic.
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89
127
3
narrator|my MIL|our family
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
it's rude
always talking about yourself to others.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
explicit
being annoyed at someone who only talks about how they're a good person
reddit/amitheasshole/b48l76
It's rude to always talk about yourself to others.
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67
13
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
It is expected
cleaning up your own mess
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-1
explicit-no
getting upset that my husband didn't clean up his fish mess to my standards
reddit/amitheasshole/aznwag
It is expected that you clean up your own mess
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132
101
2
narrator|my husband
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It is OK
taking an open parking spot.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
taking the parking spot
reddit/amitheasshole/aedf09
It is ok to take an open parking spot.
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107
43
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms|advice
null
char-1
0
You should
going to a therapist if you need help.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
probable-no
breaking up with my bf because he refuses to get a therapist
reddit/amitheasshole/asz7ds
You should go to a therapist if you need help.
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42
101
3
narrator|my bf|a therapist
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
null
char-0
0
it is wrong
being hung up over an old relationship.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
looking at my ex-girlfriend's Facebook messages
reddit/amitheasshole/b1z3zi
It is wrong to be hung up over an old relationship.
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30
17
2
narrator|my ex - girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
test
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
People should
being kind to others.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
telling a 28 year old woman she doesn't get a birthday week
reddit/amitheasshole/9wkkk0
People should be kind to others.
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89
133
2
narrator|a 28 year old woman
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
okay
wanting to reconnect with family.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
probable
not wanting to re-connect with my formerly abusive older brother
reddit/amitheasshole/agogpt
It's okay to want to reconnect with family.
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120
4
2
narrator|my formerly abusive older brother
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's understandable
wanting family to help you out when you need it.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
probable
being a little pouty because my brother won't pick me up from my train
reddit/amitheasshole/ams5jm
It's understandable to want family to help you out when you need it.
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105
106
2
narrator|my brother
amitheasshole
1
test
4
description
null
char-0
0
understandable
not feeling extremely enthusiastic about everything, all of the time.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not being "enthusiastic enough" on my first two days of work
reddit/amitheasshole/axfjgx
It's understandable that not everyone feels extremely enthusiastic about everything, all of the time.
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89
4
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's wrong
not considering the feelings of others.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
letting this girl down
reddit/amitheasshole/aosohr
It's wrong to not consider the feelings of others.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aosohr/3SNLUL3WO72HBW14GUTRMG878LCLUV/40/1
40
106
2
narrator|this girl
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
you should
If you break something that is glass, cleaning it up
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
hypothetical
breaking the kitchen glass door
reddit/amitheasshole/ahy6b1
If you break something glass you should clean it up.
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120
42
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
don't
inviting anyone to your wedding that you don't want their.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
not wanting to have a wedding because of my fiancée's family
reddit/amitheasshole/b8yzzv
You don't have to invite anyone to your wedding that you don't want their.
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70
0
3
narrator|my fiancée 's family|my fiancée
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
null
char-0
0
expected
people wanting their own personal space.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
sleeping in my car instead of at my MIL's house
reddit/amitheasshole/ays9f4
It's expected that people want their own personal space.
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40
4
2
narrator|my MIL
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's wrong
misleading someone you live with about your plans to move.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
probable
telling my roommate with 2 months notice that I'm going to move out, then after he bought a house to live in, change my mind and getting a new roommate
reddit/amitheasshole/adwxny
It's wrong to mislead someone you live with about your plans to move.
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129
49
3
narrator|my roommate|a new roommate
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
It's good
being honest about your identity.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
coming out to my friend
reddit/amitheasshole/au2bvb
It's good to be honest about your identity.
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127
101
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
test
4
description
authority-subversion
char-0
0
It's okay
feeling upset if you are being singled out for drug tests.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
being upset that I constantly get pulled for 'random' drug tests
reddit/amitheasshole/ba02md
It's okay to feel upset if you are being singled out for drug tests.
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85
62
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's wrong
taking something from someone without them knowing.
agency
-2
4
illegal
-2
char-0
explicit
taking someone's puppy while they're (presumably) at work
reddit/amitheasshole/b2yb1q
It's wrong to do take something from someone without them knowing.
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105
138
2
narrator|someone
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It is reasonable
not caring about an ex's opinion any longer.
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-0
explicit
not caring about my ex's feelings
reddit/amitheasshole/abyygl
It is reasonable to not care about an ex's opinion any longer.
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16
138
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
you should
always asking your partner's feelings about things.
agency
1
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not asking about gf's feelings when I was preoccupied with uni etc
reddit/amitheasshole/agh2j7
You should always ask your partner's feelings about things.
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42
94
2
narrator|gf
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
It's understandable
not wanting to shovel your sidewalk.
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not shoveling my sidewalk
reddit/amitheasshole/agmhor
It's understandable to not want to shovel your sidewalk.
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120
59
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's okay
questioning someone's reaction to something.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
thinking shes overreacting
reddit/amitheasshole/b1d5gg
It's okay to question someone's reaction to something.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b1d5gg/351SEKWQS3WF0C83UB4HCTJ8MPMMD1/120/2
120
0
2
narrator|she
amitheasshole
1
dev
2
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's insecure
Requiring someone else to stop looking at porn.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
probable
asking my husband to stop looking at porn
reddit/amitheasshole/a5k48f
It is insecure to require someone else to stop looking at porn.
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84
107
2
narrator|my husband
amitheasshole
1
test
1
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
should
getting out of a relationship when you find someone better.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
continuing to have a close relationship with a married woman, despite us both having feelings for each other
reddit/amitheasshole/aiwwuu
You should always get out of a relationship when you find someone better.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/aiwwuu/3OB0CAO74K4W692JZABIX9LDJPVHYP/94/2
94
0
2
narrator|a married woman
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's hurtful
showing romantic interest in others when you're in a committed relationship.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
hypothetical
checking out other (animated) girls with my boyfriend next to me
reddit/amitheasshole/asxaq6
It's hurtful to show romantic interest in others when you're in a committed relationship.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/asxaq6/3NKQQ8O391KYDKDC3DV33302VA2UD8/89/2
89
106
3
narrator|other ( animated ) girls|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
You shouldn't
putting sports above your work.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
leaving work early on my last day to watch football
reddit/amitheasshole/afozxw
You shouldn't put sports above your work.
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42
61
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
profiting off the ignorance of someone else.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
buying expensive antiques at a yardsale for a cheap price because the owner had no idea of its value
reddit/amitheasshole/ba5yf8
You shouldn't profit off the ignorance of someone else.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/ba5yf8/3OLQQLKKNV4URAGIN9292J9CINTJEK/94/1
94
43
2
narrator|the owner
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You should
always trying to spend more time with your family members.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
probable-no
getting depression due to how little I got to be in my Son's life
reddit/amitheasshole/afvp0h
You should always try to spend more time with your family members.
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42
127
2
narrator|my Son
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|description
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's rude
only thinking about yourself in a community.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
sending my neighbours a letter about noise
reddit/amitheasshole/ac6560
It's rude to only think about yourself in a community.
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40
42
2
narrator|my neighbours
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-1
0
it's expected
controlling your children's behavior at a party.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
probable-no
leaving a family party early because of annoying kids
reddit/amitheasshole/a9sid4
It's expected that you control your children's behavior at a party.
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120
100
3
narrator|family|kids
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
should
being aware of how your lifestyle is affecting those close to you.
agency
0
3
legal
2
char-1
probable-no
asking my flatmates to clean up after themselves
reddit/amitheasshole/9vfrlz
You should be aware of how your lifestyle is affecting those close to you.
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43
138
3
narrator|my flatmates|themselves
amitheasshole
1
test
2
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's expected
Being hardworking.
agency
2
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit-no
not being "enthusiastic enough" on my first two days of work
reddit/amitheasshole/axfjgx
People are expected to be hardworking.
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89
107
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
authority-subversion
char-0
0
expected
obeying traffic laws.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
explicit
driving the speed limit
reddit/amitheasshole/avx20b
It's expected to obey traffic laws.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/avx20b/3IUZPWIU1RMJJU8RQUWRP4GP41OKWW/4/1
4
59
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
it's wrong
visiting family when they are going through a rough time.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
hypothetical
wanting my sister to visit me while she was in town for a funeral
reddit/amitheasshole/aldxo5
It's wrong to visit family when they are going through a rough time.
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42
27
2
narrator|my sister
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's okay
wanting to end a friendship.
agency
0
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
wanting to cut ties with my close friend of 4 years because I don't want to deal with his drama anymore
reddit/amitheasshole/ambqag
It's okay to want to end a friendship.
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120
39
2
narrator|my close friend
amitheasshole
1
test
2
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
saying no to someone when they need help if you aren't currently feeling the best
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
hypothetical
refusing to help my brother collect chopped wood
reddit/amitheasshole/a99bgc
It's good to say no to someone when they need help if you aren't currently feeling the best
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/a99bgc/3Q5ZZ9ZEVRU5BAR6L4CF9ZULL1858P/48/1
48
39
2
narrator|my brother
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms|advice
fairness-cheating|authority-subversion
char-1
0
You shouldn't
doing inappropriate things while you're working.
agency
-1
4
tolerated
-2
char-1
explicit
firing our cleaning lady for drawing a huge pen!s/b@lls in our steamed-up mirror
reddit/amitheasshole/b64tgf
You shouldn't do inappropriate things while you're working.
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42
76
2
narrator|our cleaning lady
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's ok
keeping it to yourself when you think you would hurt someone you care about by telling them something
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not telling my wife about things that happened on my stag weekend
reddit/amitheasshole/aphjaq
If you think you would hurt someone you care about by telling them something, it's okay to keep it to yourself.
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129
121
2
narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
authority-subversion
char-0
0
You shouldn't
arguing with someone in a higher position than you.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
arguing with the Moderator on "r/"sex SubReddit? am I just confused with what Mods are for
reddit/amitheasshole/ak87z5
You shouldn't argue with someone in a higher position than you.
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42
109
2
narrator|the Moderator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-none
0
It's okay
feeling lonely when your friends don't show that they care.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
getting upset at some friends for making a mistake and feeling that they didn't do a good job to make up for it
reddit/amitheasshole/b06rs9
It's okay to feel lonely when your friends don't show that they care.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b06rs9/3IHR8NYAMAG8LJMNTGVGQTJXAG3P4G/129/2
129
112
2
narrator|some friends
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
shows lack of character and loyalty.
Moving on from a relationship too soon
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
already moving on from a relationship I had for 4 years
reddit/amitheasshole/akt1v4
Moving on from a relationship too soon shows lack of character and loyalty.
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121
17
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-none
0
you should
apologizing when you've done something bad.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-none
null
wanting a sincere apology
reddit/amitheasshole/9uotdk
You should apologize when you've done something bad.
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87
39
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
shouldn't
taking advantage of young people.
agency
-2
3
tolerated
-2
char-0
explicit
leading on my younger roommate
reddit/amitheasshole/9u531o
You shouldn't take advantage of young people.
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42
138
2
narrator|my younger roommate
amitheasshole
1
test
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You should
treating girls as equals.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit
destroying a girl in a game of rugby
reddit/amitheasshole/9v3niu
You should treat girls as equals.
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87
30
2
narrator|a girl
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it is okay
cutting toxic family members out of your life.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
probable
never wanting to speak to my father ever again and wishing he would die alone after everything he's done
reddit/amitheasshole/arxc8u
It is okay to cut toxic family members out of your life.
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30
130
2
narrator|my father
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
it's understandable
having an emotional reaction.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
thinking shes overreacting
reddit/amitheasshole/b1d5gg
It's understandable to have an emotional reaction.
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120
31
2
narrator|she
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's wrong
Talking to someone who is not your wife on social media in a romantic way when you are married.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
hypothetical
making fake Facebook accounts posing as a woman, get guys to hit on me and send the conversions to their girlfriend or wife
reddit/amitheasshole/azhn0k
It is wrong to talk to someone who is not your wife on social media in a romantic way when you are married.
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107
107
5
narrator|a woman|guys|their girlfriend|wife
amitheasshole
1
test
2
social-norms
null
char-0
0
People should always
feeling comfortable expressing how they feel.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
speaking my mind
reddit/amitheasshole/a6164o
People should always feel comfortable expressing how they feel.
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57
56
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
it's good
advocating for the vulnerable.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
probable
telling my friend that she shouldn't be naked in front of the kids she's babysitting
reddit/amitheasshole/a2gry0
It's good to advocate for the vulnerable.
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89
130
3
narrator|my friend|the kids
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it is expected
not getting involved sexually with someone that your friend is interested in.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
sleeping with my a guy my friend is interested in
reddit/amitheasshole/aknzun
It is expected that you don't get involved sexually with someone that your friend is interested in.
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108
17
3
narrator|a guy my friend is interested in|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
impolite
avoiding spending time with your family.
agency
-1
3
legal
-2
char-0
probable
not wanting to spend time with my family
reddit/amitheasshole/anxzqd
It's impolite to avoid spending time with your family.
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121
78
2
narrator|my family
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's okay
being overwhelmed by someone else's problems.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
telling my mom to stop unloading on me
reddit/amitheasshole/a3xjah
It is okay to be overwhelmed by someone else's problems.
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30
22
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
train
4
description
care-harm
char-0
0
It's fine
wanting to eat.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
microwaving a ham sandwich
reddit/amitheasshole/axqvgx
It's fine to want to eat.
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120
93
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
it's rude
asking someone you're engaged to that they go away.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
making my ex Fiancee and her kids leave
reddit/amitheasshole/at5w7e
It's rude to ask someone you're engaged to that they go away.
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121
130
3
narrator|my ex Fiancee|her kids
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
social-norms|advice
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
not wanting to get back with an ex.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
not wanting to get back with my ex
reddit/amitheasshole/akksr9
It's okay not to want to get back with an ex.
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42
70
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's normal
married couples having arguments from time to time.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-0
explicit
having a go at my wife
reddit/amitheasshole/b582yh
It's normal for married couples to have arguments from time to time.
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127
143
2
narrator|my wife
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|advice
fairness-cheating|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
It's wrong
discriminating against the handicapped.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
rejecting a girl because she's in a Wheelchair
reddit/amitheasshole/aw7rpq
It's wrong to discriminate against the handicapped.
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40
106
2
narrator|a girl
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
is wrong
judging people for things that may be beyond their control
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
being ashamed of my boyfriend for being fat
reddit/amitheasshole/9zndzt
It's wrong to judge people for things that may be beyond their control.
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89
3
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
test
4
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
being stingy.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
not getting my friends a wedding gift
reddit/amitheasshole/b6mjur
You shouldn't be stingy.
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42
106
2
narrator|my friends
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
care-harm
char-0
0
Its considered reckless
having too much alcohol to drink.
agency
-1
4
tolerated
-1
char-0
explicit
being drunk and on a dare
reddit/amitheasshole/as3m0x
Its considered reckless to have too much alcohol to drink.
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19
56
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
2
description
null
char-1
1
{}
Gender norms are a thing of the past.
null
null
null
null
null
null
null
telling my mother that both men or women can "take care of each other" in a relationship
reddit/amitheasshole/b3zaka
Gender norms are a thing of the past.
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94
127
2
narrator|my mother
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-1
0
bad
not keeping your promises
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
being upset that my boyfriend broke his promise on our date night
reddit/amitheasshole/b3w7eb
It's bad to not keep your promises.
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40
118
2
narrator|my boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
care-harm
char-1
0
You should
understanding the desire of your significant other to have their kids have their name.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-1
hypothetical
wanting my hypothetical kids with my girl friend to take my last name
reddit/amitheasshole/axhfiz
You should understand the desire of your significant other to have their kids have their name.
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16
33
3
narrator|my girl friend|my hypothetical kids
amitheasshole
1
test
2
morality-ethics|description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's okay
not wanting to live with your family.
agency
0
2
legal
0
char-0
explicit
not wanting to live at my mom's house
reddit/amitheasshole/atb3bw
It's okay not to want to live with your family.
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42
42
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
being hypocritical by doing things you tell other's to not do.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
playing loud death metal to teach my obnoxious neighbor a lesson
reddit/amitheasshole/b4o3lv
You shouldn't be hypocritical by doing things you tell other's to not do.
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87
61
2
narrator|my obnoxious neighbor
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
shouldn't
expecting your family to share their things with you.
agency
-1
3
legal
0
char-1
probable
not letting my cousin play on my PlayStation
reddit/amitheasshole/aar77b
You shouldn't expect your family to share their things with you.
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42
76
2
narrator|my cousin
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
care-harm
char-1
0
You should
asking someone to bring you food if you want them too.
agency
0
4
legal
0
char-1
probable-no
not getting my brother food
reddit/amitheasshole/aet617
You should ask someone to bring you food if you want them too.
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16
93
2
narrator|my brother
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
expected
not wanting to pretend to be romantically involved with your sibling.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
quitting a play because they cast my sister and I as a couple
reddit/amitheasshole/a1v1ph
It is expected that you would not want to pretend to be romantically involved with your sibling.
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119
146
2
narrator|my sister
amitheasshole
1
test
4
social-norms
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
expecting your family to pay for things that they weren't responsible for.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
asking my mom to pay for a missing item in a parcel she signed for
reddit/amitheasshole/axwklp
You shouldn't expect your family to pay for things that they weren't responsible for.
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42
109
2
narrator|my mom
amitheasshole
1
train
2
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
1
good
compromising
agency
null
null
null
null
null
null
asking my wife to not allow my fil in the delivery room
reddit/amitheasshole/aorwnz
Compromise is good.
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111
39
3
narrator|my wife|my fil
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's bad
exposing a friend's secret.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
telling my friend's parents about her relationship as revenge
reddit/amitheasshole/b32ymu
It's bad to expose a friend's secret.
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87
127
3
narrator|my friend|my friend 's parents
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
authority-subversion
char-2
0
it's okay
feeling nervous when you see your customer talking with your manager.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-2
hypothetical
telling my waitress's manager she did a great job
reddit/amitheasshole/ak0zkc
It's okay to feel nervous when you see your customer talking with your manager.
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129
130
3
narrator|my waitress 's manager|waitress
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
expected
cashier treating customers with respect.
experience
0
4
legal
null
null
null
reporting the grocery cashier for always shit-talking at customers in another language
reddit/amitheasshole/b6kwb4
It's expected that a cashier will treat customers with respect.
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14
34
3
narrator|the grocery cashier|customers
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-1
0
should not
misleading people.
agency
-1
4
legal
-1
char-1
explicit
thinking badly of a person who hid info
reddit/amitheasshole/9uge92
You should not mislead people.
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111
105
2
narrator|a person
amitheasshole
1
train
4
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
expected
wanting to be with their family.
agency
0
4
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
wanting to leave my dad
reddit/amitheasshole/a6ovn3
People are expected to want to be with their family.
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89
78
2
narrator|my dad
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
You shouldn't
testing your friends.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-1
explicit-no
not going to a test a friend wanted to me help him cheat on
reddit/amitheasshole/amy9tp
You shouldn't test your friends.
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42
105
2
narrator|a friend
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
null
char-0
0
It is okay
having a strange sense of humor.
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
laughing at kid's weird crying
reddit/amitheasshole/b1bggd
It is okay to have a strange sense of humor.
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30
101
2
narrator|kid
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
It is wrong
damaging someone else's property on purpose.
agency
-1
3
tolerated
-1
char-0
explicit
hitting someones car in the drive thru on purpose
reddit/amitheasshole/9wzmtq
It is wrong to damage someone else's property on purpose.
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30
99
2
narrator|someones
amitheasshole
1
train
3
social-norms
care-harm
char-0
0
You should
being accepting of the other people in a family member's life.
agency
0
3
legal
1
char-0
explicit-no
not wanting to be around my grandpa's girlfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/b2x3uj
You should be accepting of the other people in a family member's life.
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43
61
3
narrator|my grandpa 's girlfriend|my grandpa
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
should
being there for your friends.
agency
1
3
legal
1
char-0
probable-no
trying to cut my friend out
reddit/amitheasshole/a52bsr
You should be there for your friends.
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42
139
2
narrator|my friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics|social-norms
fairness-cheating|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
It's wrong
dating an ex's friend.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
dating my abusive ex's best friend
reddit/amitheasshole/ainf1h
It is wrong to date an ex's friend.
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30
30
3
narrator|my abusive ex|my abusive ex 's best friend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
it's wrong
using the ER for things that are not serious.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
explicit
going to the ER , pretending to be sick , to get a doctors note for work
reddit/amitheasshole/b5tpf0
It is wrong to use the ER for things that are not serious.
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107
0
2
narrator|a doctors
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
care-harm
char-0
0
It's ok
Throwing out a roommates plants if they suddenly cause an allergic reaction that you can't deal with.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
hypothetical
throwing out my roommates plants
reddit/amitheasshole/b65dp3
It is ok to throw out a roommates plants if they suddenly cause an allergic reaction that you can't deal with.
rot/reddit/amitheasshole/b65dp3/3IQ1VMJRYWZ2VLMXLS9AH65I1QLA9X/107/5
107
107
2
narrator|my roommates
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
null
char-0
0
is very normal.
Having jealous feelings about ex-partners
experience
null
null
null
null
null
null
being upset at my friend for dating my ex
reddit/amitheasshole/afvqlc
Having jealous feelings about ex-partners is very normal.
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45
91
3
narrator|my friend|my ex
amitheasshole
1
train
3
advice
authority-subversion
char-0
0
it's okay
not allowing someone over if you don't like their partner.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
probable
wanting to tell this girl she's not allowed to come to my house especially with her boyfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/9ydjla
It's okay to not allow someone over if you don't like their partner.
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42
27
3
narrator|this girl|her boyfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
morality-ethics
authority-subversion
char-0
0
is not your right
telling someone else how they can dress.
agency
-1
3
legal
-1
char-0
probable
not wanting my girlfriend to wear a revealing bikini
reddit/amitheasshole/anb5e3
It is not your right to tell someone else how they can dress.
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16
127
2
narrator|my girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
It's fine
suggesting that your neighbor be considerate of you.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
requesting neighbor not to honk their horn in my driveway past 8:00pm
reddit/amitheasshole/b8r85z
It's fine to suggest that your neighbor be considerate of you.
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120
91
2
narrator|neighbor
amitheasshole
1
dev
3
advice
null
char-0
1
It's okay
when our dreams don't align with what other people think they should be.
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null
null
null
null
null
null
turning down a full ride to college
reddit/amitheasshole/b7qebo
It's okay when our dreams don't align with what other people think they should be.
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105
56
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|social-norms
care-harm|loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
You shouldn't
revealing sensitive information to others about your partner.
agency
-1
4
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
telling my boyfriends parents he used an egg donor
reddit/amitheasshole/aumtvf
You shouldn't reveal sensitive information to others about your partner.
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42
109
4
narrator|my boyfriends parents|my boyfriends|an egg donor
amitheasshole
1
train
2
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
you shouldn't
getting involved in your friend's personal life.
agency
-1
2
legal
-1
char-0
probable
dating my best friend's ex
reddit/amitheasshole/9u9w8a
You shouldn't get involved in your friend's personal life.
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42
130
3
narrator|my best friend 's ex|my best friend
amitheasshole
1
train
3
description
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
0
it's tough
being in a long distance relationship.
agency
0
3
legal
0
char-0
explicit
breaking up with my long distance girlfriend
reddit/amitheasshole/b37eqi
Long distance relationships are tough.
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42
40
2
narrator|my long distance girlfriend
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics|advice
fairness-cheating|authority-subversion
char-0
0
It is wrong
being misleading about medical issues.
agency
-1
4
tolerated
-2
char-0
explicit
not being upfront that I don't have allergies
reddit/amitheasshole/ayr839
It is wrong to be misleading about medical issues.
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30
106
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
advice
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
should
returning borrowed items when asked.
agency
0
4
legal
2
char-0
probable-no
refusing to give my ex his sweatshirt back
reddit/amitheasshole/b4ou9g
You should return borrowed items when asked.
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111
3
2
narrator|my ex
amitheasshole
1
test
3
social-norms
loyalty-betrayal
char-0
1
{}
If you don't want to go somewhere, you should let others know.
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null
null
null
null
null
null
not wanting to go on birthright to Israel
reddit/amitheasshole/b0ibop
If you don't want to go somewhere, you should let others know.
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42
91
1
narrator
amitheasshole
1
train
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal
char-2
0
It's immoral
cheating on your partner.
agency
-2
4
legal
-2
char-2
explicit
not telling my brother his gf is cheating
reddit/amitheasshole/akjma4
It's immoral to cheat on your partner.
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127
91
3
narrator|my brother|his gf
amitheasshole
1
train
2
morality-ethics
fairness-cheating
char-0
0
you shouldn't
watching a movie without paying for it.
agency
-1
2
tolerated
-1
char-0
explicit
watching Captain Marvel but with a movie ticket for Alita
reddit/amitheasshole/ayt4mg
You shouldn't watch a movie without paying for it.
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131
100
2
narrator|Captain Marvel
amitheasshole
1
dev
4
morality-ethics
loyalty-betrayal|sanctity-degradation
char-0
0
insensitive
not caring about the death of a friend.
agency
-2
3
legal
-2
char-0
explicit
not caring that my estranged friend died
reddit/amitheasshole/b0x20m
It is insensitive not to care about the death of a friend.
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30
78
2
narrator|my estranged friend