tarsur909/summarize_from_feedback_oai_preprocessing

I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long?

Online friend wants to meet up for a drink, but I'm concerned about meeting someone I've only known for a few months. How do I politely tell him I'm not so sure I want to?

Online friend wants to meet up after only knowing each other for a few months- I'm not sure I'm ready to meet up

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 247, 3331, 3066, 643, 15577, 3858, 327, 34302, 13, 285, 359, 1849, 644, 44096, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 5082, 626, 1908, 779, 247, 1798, 1175, 3331, 13, 533, 359, 755, 2112, 15, 844, 1119, 562, 359, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 2846, 13, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 10913, 562, 15, 2058, 806, 309, 1869, 352, 651, 320, 2238, 273, 794, 13, 533, 309, 3395, 247, 2372, 11219, 285, 7514, 387, 253, 1869, 273, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 844, 574, 2168, 5469, 672, 285, 835, 359, 812, 2525, 598, 672, 309, 574, 841, 10450, 15, 309, 5125, 9745, 619, 22273, 2112, 13, 390, 14203, 562, 342, 690, 3858, 273, 7477, 13, 533, 344, 753, 344, 434, 20032, 4804, 747, 952, 14, 534, 309, 1675, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 2525, 846, 512, 13, 285, 326, 309, 1537, 320, 7378, 281, 2525, 846, 359, 1472, 3858, 323, 247, 2372, 1048, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long? TL;DR:

Online friend wants to meet up for a drink, but I'm concerned about meeting someone I've only known for a few months. How do I politely tell him I'm not so sure I want to?<|endoftext|>

[ 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 7514, 670, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Online friend wants to meet up after only knowing each other for a few months- I'm not sure I'm ready to meet up<|endoftext|>

[ 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 846, 760, 8958, 1016, 643, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 14, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 2525, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long? TL;DR: Online friend wants to meet up for a drink, but I'm concerned about meeting someone I've only known for a few months. How do I politely tell him I'm not so sure I want to?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 247, 3331, 3066, 643, 15577, 3858, 327, 34302, 13, 285, 359, 1849, 644, 44096, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 5082, 626, 1908, 779, 247, 1798, 1175, 3331, 13, 533, 359, 755, 2112, 15, 844, 1119, 562, 359, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 2846, 13, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 10913, 562, 15, 2058, 806, 309, 1869, 352, 651, 320, 2238, 273, 794, 13, 533, 309, 3395, 247, 2372, 11219, 285, 7514, 387, 253, 1869, 273, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 844, 574, 2168, 5469, 672, 285, 835, 359, 812, 2525, 598, 672, 309, 574, 841, 10450, 15, 309, 5125, 9745, 619, 22273, 2112, 13, 390, 14203, 562, 342, 690, 3858, 273, 7477, 13, 533, 344, 753, 344, 434, 20032, 4804, 747, 952, 14, 534, 309, 1675, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 2525, 846, 512, 13, 285, 326, 309, 1537, 320, 7378, 281, 2525, 846, 359, 1472, 3858, 323, 247, 2372, 1048, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 7514, 670, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

235

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met a friend via other mutual friends on twitter, and we've been chatting for about a month. I wouldn't consider him a particular good friend, but we get along. We found out we live in the same city, and he wants to hang out. At first I thought it would be kind of fun, but I became a bit nervous and concerned at the thought of meeting someone I've only known for a few months. We had already discussed when and where we could meet up when I had these feelings. I suggested bringing my boyfriend along, or hanging out with some friends of mine, but he said he's uncomfortable meeting new people- which I respect. How do I politely tell him that I'm not so sure I want to meet after all, and that I might be willing to meet after we're friends for a bit long? TL;DR: Online friend wants to meet up after only knowing each other for a few months- I'm not sure I'm ready to meet up<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 247, 3331, 3066, 643, 15577, 3858, 327, 34302, 13, 285, 359, 1849, 644, 44096, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 5082, 626, 1908, 779, 247, 1798, 1175, 3331, 13, 533, 359, 755, 2112, 15, 844, 1119, 562, 359, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 2846, 13, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 10913, 562, 15, 2058, 806, 309, 1869, 352, 651, 320, 2238, 273, 794, 13, 533, 309, 3395, 247, 2372, 11219, 285, 7514, 387, 253, 1869, 273, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 844, 574, 2168, 5469, 672, 285, 835, 359, 812, 2525, 598, 672, 309, 574, 841, 10450, 15, 309, 5125, 9745, 619, 22273, 2112, 13, 390, 14203, 562, 342, 690, 3858, 273, 7477, 13, 533, 344, 753, 344, 434, 20032, 4804, 747, 952, 14, 534, 309, 1675, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 2525, 846, 512, 13, 285, 326, 309, 1537, 320, 7378, 281, 2525, 846, 359, 1472, 3858, 323, 247, 2372, 1048, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 846, 760, 8958, 1016, 643, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 14, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 2525, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

220

193

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 7514, 670, 4804, 3095, 309, 1849, 760, 1929, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 45646, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 417, 594, 2119, 309, 971, 281, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 15650, 3331, 5605, 281, 2525, 598, 846, 760, 8958, 1016, 643, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 14, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 2525, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I like this girl I'm a 16 year old junior who's talking to this girl and I'm clueless on what am doing right or wrong. I went to a party and the girl happened to be there, and we made eye contact a shit ton before talking. Later on during the party we played BP, but i already had a guy partner so she went on the other team to play. And some minor stuff we shared a blanket while a movie was on and when the party ended she gave me a ride home because i asked if anyone lived near a location close to me and we just happened to live near each other. I snapchatted her later that night saying thanks for the ride, and she asked me if i could give her a ride to school. Our school starts at 10 on certain days, so we can do stuff during the morning so i usually get a starbucks drink. Here is our conversation, and Im not sure if im missing something by the adele lyrics. because after that is "you'd like to meet." Sorry if im overthinking, but i thought if im right it was really clever. Also sorry for any grammar shit. Heres the conversation Me: Helo Her: alex? me: Its me, you need a ride right Her: Actually lol idkidk, Her: I was gnona not go to zero period cuz its like super stupid, Her: I was wondering if after all these years Theres more but this subreddit doesnt allow links, ill link if if they allow it. I uploaded it to imgur.

Made eyecontact and chatted with girl, got her number, does me favor and asks for one back. I send her adele lyrics as a joke and she half finishes it, am i missing a hint?

Im a 16 year old junior who is texting this girl and im a clueless whiny teenager with no clue on whats going on. Did i miss a hint?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 751, 436, 3226, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 434, 5015, 281, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 1353, 502, 3814, 405, 327, 752, 717, 2509, 987, 390, 3430, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 285, 253, 3226, 4592, 281, 320, 627, 13, 285, 359, 1160, 5130, 3057, 247, 10739, 7020, 1078, 5015, 15, 187, 24801, 327, 1309, 253, 3128, 359, 4546, 17641, 13, 533, 891, 2168, 574, 247, 5599, 7832, 594, 703, 2427, 327, 253, 643, 2285, 281, 1132, 15, 1244, 690, 5884, 5017, 359, 6096, 247, 23069, 1223, 247, 6440, 369, 327, 285, 672, 253, 3128, 7402, 703, 3534, 479, 247, 9549, 1728, 984, 891, 2546, 604, 3780, 6940, 2822, 247, 4328, 2810, 281, 479, 285, 359, 816, 4592, 281, 3153, 2822, 1016, 643, 15, 187, 187, 42, 14496, 348, 19822, 617, 1996, 326, 2360, 3981, 6701, 323, 253, 9549, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 891, 812, 1918, 617, 247, 9549, 281, 2143, 15, 3824, 2143, 7866, 387, 884, 327, 2176, 1897, 13, 594, 359, 476, 513, 5017, 1309, 253, 4131, 594, 891, 3798, 755, 247, 4177, 41422, 5484, 15, 3856, 310, 776, 7827, 13, 285, 3173, 417, 2119, 604, 516, 5816, 1633, 407, 253, 519, 11177, 24591, 15, 984, 846, 326, 310, 346, 5658, 1871, 751, 281, 2525, 449, 26070, 604, 516, 689, 37341, 13, 533, 891, 1869, 604, 516, 987, 352, 369, 1663, 19080, 15, 5220, 7016, 323, 667, 28146, 10739, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 373, 253, 7827, 2490, 187, 5072, 27, 7518, 80, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 247, 1591, 32, 187, 187, 1405, 27, 7850, 479, 13, 368, 878, 247, 9549, 987, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 24697, 23385, 2654, 49934, 76, 13, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 305, 4160, 66, 417, 564, 281, 5058, 2180, 260, 7958, 697, 751, 2221, 11339, 13, 2490, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 12371, 604, 846, 512, 841, 1107, 187, 187, 510, 373, 625, 533, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 36908, 1581, 4859, 13, 2853, 3048, 604, 604, 597, 1581, 352, 15, 309, 28228, 352, 281, 23764, 321, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like this girl I'm a 16 year old junior who's talking to this girl and I'm clueless on what am doing right or wrong. I went to a party and the girl happened to be there, and we made eye contact a shit ton before talking. Later on during the party we played BP, but i already had a guy partner so she went on the other team to play. And some minor stuff we shared a blanket while a movie was on and when the party ended she gave me a ride home because i asked if anyone lived near a location close to me and we just happened to live near each other. I snapchatted her later that night saying thanks for the ride, and she asked me if i could give her a ride to school. Our school starts at 10 on certain days, so we can do stuff during the morning so i usually get a starbucks drink. Here is our conversation, and Im not sure if im missing something by the adele lyrics. because after that is "you'd like to meet." Sorry if im overthinking, but i thought if im right it was really clever. Also sorry for any grammar shit. Heres the conversation Me: Helo Her: alex? me: Its me, you need a ride right Her: Actually lol idkidk, Her: I was gnona not go to zero period cuz its like super stupid, Her: I was wondering if after all these years Theres more but this subreddit doesnt allow links, ill link if if they allow it. I uploaded it to imgur. TL;DR:

Made eyecontact and chatted with girl, got her number, does me favor and asks for one back. I send her adele lyrics as a joke and she half finishes it, am i missing a hint?<|endoftext|>

[ 23089, 5130, 22045, 285, 448, 19822, 342, 3226, 13, 1694, 617, 1180, 13, 1057, 479, 3718, 285, 12325, 323, 581, 896, 15, 309, 5007, 617, 519, 11177, 24591, 347, 247, 16391, 285, 703, 2716, 30214, 352, 13, 717, 891, 5816, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Im a 16 year old junior who is texting this girl and im a clueless whiny teenager with no clue on whats going on. Did i miss a hint?<|endoftext|>

[ 3173, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 310, 2505, 272, 436, 3226, 285, 516, 247, 502, 3814, 405, 364, 5104, 28713, 342, 642, 22796, 327, 47515, 1469, 327, 15, 10348, 891, 2985, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like this girl I'm a 16 year old junior who's talking to this girl and I'm clueless on what am doing right or wrong. I went to a party and the girl happened to be there, and we made eye contact a shit ton before talking. Later on during the party we played BP, but i already had a guy partner so she went on the other team to play. And some minor stuff we shared a blanket while a movie was on and when the party ended she gave me a ride home because i asked if anyone lived near a location close to me and we just happened to live near each other. I snapchatted her later that night saying thanks for the ride, and she asked me if i could give her a ride to school. Our school starts at 10 on certain days, so we can do stuff during the morning so i usually get a starbucks drink. Here is our conversation, and Im not sure if im missing something by the adele lyrics. because after that is "you'd like to meet." Sorry if im overthinking, but i thought if im right it was really clever. Also sorry for any grammar shit. Heres the conversation Me: Helo Her: alex? me: Its me, you need a ride right Her: Actually lol idkidk, Her: I was gnona not go to zero period cuz its like super stupid, Her: I was wondering if after all these years Theres more but this subreddit doesnt allow links, ill link if if they allow it. I uploaded it to imgur. TL;DR: Made eyecontact and chatted with girl, got her number, does me favor and asks for one back. I send her adele lyrics as a joke and she half finishes it, am i missing a hint?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 751, 436, 3226, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 434, 5015, 281, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 1353, 502, 3814, 405, 327, 752, 717, 2509, 987, 390, 3430, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 285, 253, 3226, 4592, 281, 320, 627, 13, 285, 359, 1160, 5130, 3057, 247, 10739, 7020, 1078, 5015, 15, 187, 24801, 327, 1309, 253, 3128, 359, 4546, 17641, 13, 533, 891, 2168, 574, 247, 5599, 7832, 594, 703, 2427, 327, 253, 643, 2285, 281, 1132, 15, 1244, 690, 5884, 5017, 359, 6096, 247, 23069, 1223, 247, 6440, 369, 327, 285, 672, 253, 3128, 7402, 703, 3534, 479, 247, 9549, 1728, 984, 891, 2546, 604, 3780, 6940, 2822, 247, 4328, 2810, 281, 479, 285, 359, 816, 4592, 281, 3153, 2822, 1016, 643, 15, 187, 187, 42, 14496, 348, 19822, 617, 1996, 326, 2360, 3981, 6701, 323, 253, 9549, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 891, 812, 1918, 617, 247, 9549, 281, 2143, 15, 3824, 2143, 7866, 387, 884, 327, 2176, 1897, 13, 594, 359, 476, 513, 5017, 1309, 253, 4131, 594, 891, 3798, 755, 247, 4177, 41422, 5484, 15, 3856, 310, 776, 7827, 13, 285, 3173, 417, 2119, 604, 516, 5816, 1633, 407, 253, 519, 11177, 24591, 15, 984, 846, 326, 310, 346, 5658, 1871, 751, 281, 2525, 449, 26070, 604, 516, 689, 37341, 13, 533, 891, 1869, 604, 516, 987, 352, 369, 1663, 19080, 15, 5220, 7016, 323, 667, 28146, 10739, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 373, 253, 7827, 2490, 187, 5072, 27, 7518, 80, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 247, 1591, 32, 187, 187, 1405, 27, 7850, 479, 13, 368, 878, 247, 9549, 987, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 24697, 23385, 2654, 49934, 76, 13, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 305, 4160, 66, 417, 564, 281, 5058, 2180, 260, 7958, 697, 751, 2221, 11339, 13, 2490, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 12371, 604, 846, 512, 841, 1107, 187, 187, 510, 373, 625, 533, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 36908, 1581, 4859, 13, 2853, 3048, 604, 604, 597, 1581, 352, 15, 309, 28228, 352, 281, 23764, 321, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 23089, 5130, 22045, 285, 448, 19822, 342, 3226, 13, 1694, 617, 1180, 13, 1057, 479, 3718, 285, 12325, 323, 581, 896, 15, 309, 5007, 617, 519, 11177, 24591, 347, 247, 16391, 285, 703, 2716, 30214, 352, 13, 717, 891, 5816, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

410

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I like this girl I'm a 16 year old junior who's talking to this girl and I'm clueless on what am doing right or wrong. I went to a party and the girl happened to be there, and we made eye contact a shit ton before talking. Later on during the party we played BP, but i already had a guy partner so she went on the other team to play. And some minor stuff we shared a blanket while a movie was on and when the party ended she gave me a ride home because i asked if anyone lived near a location close to me and we just happened to live near each other. I snapchatted her later that night saying thanks for the ride, and she asked me if i could give her a ride to school. Our school starts at 10 on certain days, so we can do stuff during the morning so i usually get a starbucks drink. Here is our conversation, and Im not sure if im missing something by the adele lyrics. because after that is "you'd like to meet." Sorry if im overthinking, but i thought if im right it was really clever. Also sorry for any grammar shit. Heres the conversation Me: Helo Her: alex? me: Its me, you need a ride right Her: Actually lol idkidk, Her: I was gnona not go to zero period cuz its like super stupid, Her: I was wondering if after all these years Theres more but this subreddit doesnt allow links, ill link if if they allow it. I uploaded it to imgur. TL;DR: Im a 16 year old junior who is texting this girl and im a clueless whiny teenager with no clue on whats going on. Did i miss a hint?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 751, 436, 3226, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 434, 5015, 281, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 1353, 502, 3814, 405, 327, 752, 717, 2509, 987, 390, 3430, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 285, 253, 3226, 4592, 281, 320, 627, 13, 285, 359, 1160, 5130, 3057, 247, 10739, 7020, 1078, 5015, 15, 187, 24801, 327, 1309, 253, 3128, 359, 4546, 17641, 13, 533, 891, 2168, 574, 247, 5599, 7832, 594, 703, 2427, 327, 253, 643, 2285, 281, 1132, 15, 1244, 690, 5884, 5017, 359, 6096, 247, 23069, 1223, 247, 6440, 369, 327, 285, 672, 253, 3128, 7402, 703, 3534, 479, 247, 9549, 1728, 984, 891, 2546, 604, 3780, 6940, 2822, 247, 4328, 2810, 281, 479, 285, 359, 816, 4592, 281, 3153, 2822, 1016, 643, 15, 187, 187, 42, 14496, 348, 19822, 617, 1996, 326, 2360, 3981, 6701, 323, 253, 9549, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 891, 812, 1918, 617, 247, 9549, 281, 2143, 15, 3824, 2143, 7866, 387, 884, 327, 2176, 1897, 13, 594, 359, 476, 513, 5017, 1309, 253, 4131, 594, 891, 3798, 755, 247, 4177, 41422, 5484, 15, 3856, 310, 776, 7827, 13, 285, 3173, 417, 2119, 604, 516, 5816, 1633, 407, 253, 519, 11177, 24591, 15, 984, 846, 326, 310, 346, 5658, 1871, 751, 281, 2525, 449, 26070, 604, 516, 689, 37341, 13, 533, 891, 1869, 604, 516, 987, 352, 369, 1663, 19080, 15, 5220, 7016, 323, 667, 28146, 10739, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 373, 253, 7827, 2490, 187, 5072, 27, 7518, 80, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 247, 1591, 32, 187, 187, 1405, 27, 7850, 479, 13, 368, 878, 247, 9549, 987, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 24697, 23385, 2654, 49934, 76, 13, 187, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 305, 4160, 66, 417, 564, 281, 5058, 2180, 260, 7958, 697, 751, 2221, 11339, 13, 2490, 187, 10759, 27, 309, 369, 12371, 604, 846, 512, 841, 1107, 187, 187, 510, 373, 625, 533, 436, 749, 433, 22940, 36908, 1581, 4859, 13, 2853, 3048, 604, 604, 597, 1581, 352, 15, 309, 28228, 352, 281, 23764, 321, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 3173, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 310, 2505, 272, 436, 3226, 285, 516, 247, 502, 3814, 405, 364, 5104, 28713, 342, 642, 22796, 327, 47515, 1469, 327, 15, 10348, 891, 2985, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

402

366

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 23089, 5130, 22045, 285, 448, 19822, 342, 3226, 13, 1694, 617, 1180, 13, 1057, 479, 3718, 285, 12325, 323, 581, 896, 15, 309, 5007, 617, 519, 11177, 24591, 347, 247, 16391, 285, 703, 2716, 30214, 352, 13, 717, 891, 5816, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 3173, 247, 1668, 807, 1711, 19394, 665, 310, 2505, 272, 436, 3226, 285, 516, 247, 502, 3814, 405, 364, 5104, 28713, 342, 642, 22796, 327, 47515, 1469, 327, 15, 10348, 891, 2985, 247, 12662, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My ex-girlfriend had trust issues and was extremely controlling, demanding all of my time, crying to keep me by her side when I tried to leave. Now that we're apart, I'm talking to a new someone [18F], in whom I've found most everything I could want in a romantic partner. I'm worried that I'm being clingy, which I fear may have developed in my previous relationship. All of the self confidence and security that I had before my previous relationship is gone, and now what I have left is self doubt and confusion. I'm fairly confident that the girl that I'm talking to now is interested in me, but I'm worried that I'm going to drive her away with scars from my previous relationship. She's one of the most understanding and caring people I have ever met and, due to my unstable mental state when I met her, I told her more about myself than I have told most anyone else. She didn't run away screaming, but she's also extremely nice, so I don't know what her motive to continue talking to me is. During that time, she was the only person I could talk to (contact outside of my immediate vicinity was not feasible) for help and emotional support. I've only talked to her for about a month, but when we talk, the conversations last for hours on end, and are very meaningful. She has scars from the past, too, and she mentioned that she never really learned how to flirt because of them. This causes serious difficulty in reading her, which does NOT help with the self doubt. I don't even know what I'm afraid of, but the fear is paralyzing. How can I move forward when I fear my ability to function successfully inside of a new relationship has been compromised?

Scars from previous relationship make me fear for my ability to succeed in a new one.

I'm a mess, and I don't know what I even want anymore. I'm afraid I've developed self doubt and fear of being hurt again.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 574, 4517, 3374, 285, 369, 6685, 10938, 13, 17905, 512, 273, 619, 673, 13, 17800, 281, 1978, 479, 407, 617, 1930, 672, 309, 3597, 281, 3553, 15, 3954, 326, 359, 1472, 7419, 13, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 247, 747, 3095, 544, 1093, 39, 1092, 275, 5207, 309, 1849, 1119, 954, 3253, 309, 812, 971, 275, 247, 18109, 7832, 15, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1146, 49196, 90, 13, 534, 309, 4709, 778, 452, 3715, 275, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1876, 273, 253, 1881, 7162, 285, 3988, 326, 309, 574, 1078, 619, 2045, 2954, 310, 4783, 13, 285, 1024, 752, 309, 452, 1669, 310, 1881, 5545, 285, 13775, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 253, 3226, 326, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 1024, 310, 6110, 275, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 4446, 617, 1977, 342, 38763, 432, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1500, 434, 581, 273, 253, 954, 4685, 285, 23374, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 285, 13, 1955, 281, 619, 17631, 6255, 1375, 672, 309, 1313, 617, 13, 309, 2183, 617, 625, 670, 4266, 685, 309, 452, 2183, 954, 3780, 2010, 15, 1500, 1904, 626, 1408, 1977, 22233, 13, 533, 703, 434, 671, 6685, 5322, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 617, 23778, 281, 4035, 5015, 281, 479, 310, 15, 187, 187, 10457, 326, 673, 13, 703, 369, 253, 760, 1436, 309, 812, 2312, 281, 313, 22045, 3345, 273, 619, 8993, 21520, 369, 417, 17887, 10, 323, 1361, 285, 8991, 1329, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 10062, 281, 617, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 533, 672, 359, 2312, 13, 253, 16072, 1390, 323, 3038, 327, 990, 13, 285, 403, 1077, 14282, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 38763, 432, 253, 2469, 13, 1512, 13, 285, 703, 5393, 326, 703, 1620, 1663, 6311, 849, 281, 892, 4580, 984, 273, 731, 15, 831, 5997, 4092, 10183, 275, 4361, 617, 13, 534, 1057, 5803, 1361, 342, 253, 1881, 5545, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 13, 533, 253, 4709, 310, 45636, 8537, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 2118, 3579, 672, 309, 4709, 619, 3745, 281, 1159, 8379, 3304, 273, 247, 747, 2954, 556, 644, 25047, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend had trust issues and was extremely controlling, demanding all of my time, crying to keep me by her side when I tried to leave. Now that we're apart, I'm talking to a new someone [18F], in whom I've found most everything I could want in a romantic partner. I'm worried that I'm being clingy, which I fear may have developed in my previous relationship. All of the self confidence and security that I had before my previous relationship is gone, and now what I have left is self doubt and confusion. I'm fairly confident that the girl that I'm talking to now is interested in me, but I'm worried that I'm going to drive her away with scars from my previous relationship. She's one of the most understanding and caring people I have ever met and, due to my unstable mental state when I met her, I told her more about myself than I have told most anyone else. She didn't run away screaming, but she's also extremely nice, so I don't know what her motive to continue talking to me is. During that time, she was the only person I could talk to (contact outside of my immediate vicinity was not feasible) for help and emotional support. I've only talked to her for about a month, but when we talk, the conversations last for hours on end, and are very meaningful. She has scars from the past, too, and she mentioned that she never really learned how to flirt because of them. This causes serious difficulty in reading her, which does NOT help with the self doubt. I don't even know what I'm afraid of, but the fear is paralyzing. How can I move forward when I fear my ability to function successfully inside of a new relationship has been compromised? TL;DR:

Scars from previous relationship make me fear for my ability to succeed in a new one.<|endoftext|>

[ 1810, 1032, 432, 2045, 2954, 1056, 479, 4709, 323, 619, 3745, 281, 9302, 275, 247, 747, 581, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I'm a mess, and I don't know what I even want anymore. I'm afraid I've developed self doubt and fear of being hurt again.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 247, 4840, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1014, 971, 10542, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 309, 1849, 3715, 1881, 5545, 285, 4709, 273, 1146, 8513, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend had trust issues and was extremely controlling, demanding all of my time, crying to keep me by her side when I tried to leave. Now that we're apart, I'm talking to a new someone [18F], in whom I've found most everything I could want in a romantic partner. I'm worried that I'm being clingy, which I fear may have developed in my previous relationship. All of the self confidence and security that I had before my previous relationship is gone, and now what I have left is self doubt and confusion. I'm fairly confident that the girl that I'm talking to now is interested in me, but I'm worried that I'm going to drive her away with scars from my previous relationship. She's one of the most understanding and caring people I have ever met and, due to my unstable mental state when I met her, I told her more about myself than I have told most anyone else. She didn't run away screaming, but she's also extremely nice, so I don't know what her motive to continue talking to me is. During that time, she was the only person I could talk to (contact outside of my immediate vicinity was not feasible) for help and emotional support. I've only talked to her for about a month, but when we talk, the conversations last for hours on end, and are very meaningful. She has scars from the past, too, and she mentioned that she never really learned how to flirt because of them. This causes serious difficulty in reading her, which does NOT help with the self doubt. I don't even know what I'm afraid of, but the fear is paralyzing. How can I move forward when I fear my ability to function successfully inside of a new relationship has been compromised? TL;DR: Scars from previous relationship make me fear for my ability to succeed in a new one.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 574, 4517, 3374, 285, 369, 6685, 10938, 13, 17905, 512, 273, 619, 673, 13, 17800, 281, 1978, 479, 407, 617, 1930, 672, 309, 3597, 281, 3553, 15, 3954, 326, 359, 1472, 7419, 13, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 247, 747, 3095, 544, 1093, 39, 1092, 275, 5207, 309, 1849, 1119, 954, 3253, 309, 812, 971, 275, 247, 18109, 7832, 15, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1146, 49196, 90, 13, 534, 309, 4709, 778, 452, 3715, 275, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1876, 273, 253, 1881, 7162, 285, 3988, 326, 309, 574, 1078, 619, 2045, 2954, 310, 4783, 13, 285, 1024, 752, 309, 452, 1669, 310, 1881, 5545, 285, 13775, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 253, 3226, 326, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 1024, 310, 6110, 275, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 4446, 617, 1977, 342, 38763, 432, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1500, 434, 581, 273, 253, 954, 4685, 285, 23374, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 285, 13, 1955, 281, 619, 17631, 6255, 1375, 672, 309, 1313, 617, 13, 309, 2183, 617, 625, 670, 4266, 685, 309, 452, 2183, 954, 3780, 2010, 15, 1500, 1904, 626, 1408, 1977, 22233, 13, 533, 703, 434, 671, 6685, 5322, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 617, 23778, 281, 4035, 5015, 281, 479, 310, 15, 187, 187, 10457, 326, 673, 13, 703, 369, 253, 760, 1436, 309, 812, 2312, 281, 313, 22045, 3345, 273, 619, 8993, 21520, 369, 417, 17887, 10, 323, 1361, 285, 8991, 1329, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 10062, 281, 617, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 533, 672, 359, 2312, 13, 253, 16072, 1390, 323, 3038, 327, 990, 13, 285, 403, 1077, 14282, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 38763, 432, 253, 2469, 13, 1512, 13, 285, 703, 5393, 326, 703, 1620, 1663, 6311, 849, 281, 892, 4580, 984, 273, 731, 15, 831, 5997, 4092, 10183, 275, 4361, 617, 13, 534, 1057, 5803, 1361, 342, 253, 1881, 5545, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 13, 533, 253, 4709, 310, 45636, 8537, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 2118, 3579, 672, 309, 4709, 619, 3745, 281, 1159, 8379, 3304, 273, 247, 747, 2954, 556, 644, 25047, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1810, 1032, 432, 2045, 2954, 1056, 479, 4709, 323, 619, 3745, 281, 9302, 275, 247, 747, 581, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

412

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My ex-girlfriend had trust issues and was extremely controlling, demanding all of my time, crying to keep me by her side when I tried to leave. Now that we're apart, I'm talking to a new someone [18F], in whom I've found most everything I could want in a romantic partner. I'm worried that I'm being clingy, which I fear may have developed in my previous relationship. All of the self confidence and security that I had before my previous relationship is gone, and now what I have left is self doubt and confusion. I'm fairly confident that the girl that I'm talking to now is interested in me, but I'm worried that I'm going to drive her away with scars from my previous relationship. She's one of the most understanding and caring people I have ever met and, due to my unstable mental state when I met her, I told her more about myself than I have told most anyone else. She didn't run away screaming, but she's also extremely nice, so I don't know what her motive to continue talking to me is. During that time, she was the only person I could talk to (contact outside of my immediate vicinity was not feasible) for help and emotional support. I've only talked to her for about a month, but when we talk, the conversations last for hours on end, and are very meaningful. She has scars from the past, too, and she mentioned that she never really learned how to flirt because of them. This causes serious difficulty in reading her, which does NOT help with the self doubt. I don't even know what I'm afraid of, but the fear is paralyzing. How can I move forward when I fear my ability to function successfully inside of a new relationship has been compromised? TL;DR: I'm a mess, and I don't know what I even want anymore. I'm afraid I've developed self doubt and fear of being hurt again.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 574, 4517, 3374, 285, 369, 6685, 10938, 13, 17905, 512, 273, 619, 673, 13, 17800, 281, 1978, 479, 407, 617, 1930, 672, 309, 3597, 281, 3553, 15, 3954, 326, 359, 1472, 7419, 13, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 247, 747, 3095, 544, 1093, 39, 1092, 275, 5207, 309, 1849, 1119, 954, 3253, 309, 812, 971, 275, 247, 18109, 7832, 15, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1146, 49196, 90, 13, 534, 309, 4709, 778, 452, 3715, 275, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1876, 273, 253, 1881, 7162, 285, 3988, 326, 309, 574, 1078, 619, 2045, 2954, 310, 4783, 13, 285, 1024, 752, 309, 452, 1669, 310, 1881, 5545, 285, 13775, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 253, 3226, 326, 309, 1353, 5015, 281, 1024, 310, 6110, 275, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 4446, 617, 1977, 342, 38763, 432, 619, 2045, 2954, 15, 1500, 434, 581, 273, 253, 954, 4685, 285, 23374, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 285, 13, 1955, 281, 619, 17631, 6255, 1375, 672, 309, 1313, 617, 13, 309, 2183, 617, 625, 670, 4266, 685, 309, 452, 2183, 954, 3780, 2010, 15, 1500, 1904, 626, 1408, 1977, 22233, 13, 533, 703, 434, 671, 6685, 5322, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 617, 23778, 281, 4035, 5015, 281, 479, 310, 15, 187, 187, 10457, 326, 673, 13, 703, 369, 253, 760, 1436, 309, 812, 2312, 281, 313, 22045, 3345, 273, 619, 8993, 21520, 369, 417, 17887, 10, 323, 1361, 285, 8991, 1329, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 10062, 281, 617, 323, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 533, 672, 359, 2312, 13, 253, 16072, 1390, 323, 3038, 327, 990, 13, 285, 403, 1077, 14282, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 38763, 432, 253, 2469, 13, 1512, 13, 285, 703, 5393, 326, 703, 1620, 1663, 6311, 849, 281, 892, 4580, 984, 273, 731, 15, 831, 5997, 4092, 10183, 275, 4361, 617, 13, 534, 1057, 5803, 1361, 342, 253, 1881, 5545, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 13, 533, 253, 4709, 310, 45636, 8537, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 2118, 3579, 672, 309, 4709, 619, 3745, 281, 1159, 8379, 3304, 273, 247, 747, 2954, 556, 644, 25047, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 247, 4840, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1014, 971, 10542, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 309, 1849, 3715, 1881, 5545, 285, 4709, 273, 1146, 8513, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

425

393

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1810, 1032, 432, 2045, 2954, 1056, 479, 4709, 323, 619, 3745, 281, 9302, 275, 247, 747, 581, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 247, 4840, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1014, 971, 10542, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 309, 1849, 3715, 1881, 5545, 285, 4709, 273, 1146, 8513, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'm a 19 year old female in college who has had her fair share of relationships throughout life so far. Because of my excessive high school dating, I have become rather cynical early on in life about love. What I have found, in most cases, is that in relationships people get bored of each other once they get too comfortable, end up bored, and then break up. It's not so much a fear of heart break I have - it's the fear of getting bored of someone since I've seen the cyclic nature of relationships so many times, both through my personal experience and observation of other relationships. Right now I'm in a budding relationship [M/19] (we still haven't formally attached labels, but it's most certainly a thing) and I have been having anxiety recently because I'm afraid that he will get bored or I will get bored, but I am extremely compatible with this person, more so than anyone else I've dated. I just can't help being cynical and having anxiety but I don't want it to ruin the relationship. Help please? Can anyone relate?

Have high school dating experience that has shown me that relationships get boring and break up, have current relationship that I'm afraid will get boring as well and I'm anxious. Need advice on how to overcome these fears.

19 y.o. female in college, cynical about relationships/admiration of people, afraid of getting bored during/after relationship, need advice to overcome initial anxiety/be patient.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 5343, 275, 6831, 665, 556, 574, 617, 4344, 3894, 273, 7688, 4768, 1495, 594, 2080, 15, 4923, 273, 619, 13622, 1029, 2143, 13597, 13, 309, 452, 2489, 2581, 47892, 2393, 327, 275, 1495, 670, 2389, 15, 1737, 309, 452, 1119, 13, 275, 954, 2219, 13, 310, 326, 275, 7688, 952, 755, 23086, 273, 1016, 643, 2378, 597, 755, 1512, 9848, 13, 990, 598, 23086, 13, 285, 840, 2740, 598, 15, 733, 434, 417, 594, 1199, 247, 4709, 273, 2798, 2740, 309, 452, 428, 352, 434, 253, 4709, 273, 2970, 23086, 273, 3095, 1580, 309, 1849, 2326, 253, 19870, 3753, 273, 7688, 594, 1142, 2069, 13, 1097, 949, 619, 3367, 2793, 285, 8310, 273, 643, 7688, 15, 187, 187, 8455, 1024, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 49301, 2954, 544, 46, 16, 746, 62, 313, 664, 1335, 6468, 626, 19186, 7660, 13301, 13, 533, 352, 434, 954, 5604, 247, 2181, 10, 285, 309, 452, 644, 1907, 10397, 4102, 984, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 588, 755, 23086, 390, 309, 588, 755, 23086, 13, 533, 309, 717, 6685, 13333, 342, 436, 1436, 13, 625, 594, 685, 3780, 2010, 309, 1849, 15483, 15, 309, 816, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 47892, 285, 1907, 10397, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 23737, 253, 2954, 15, 21695, 4496, 32, 2615, 3780, 14588, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 19 year old female in college who has had her fair share of relationships throughout life so far. Because of my excessive high school dating, I have become rather cynical early on in life about love. What I have found, in most cases, is that in relationships people get bored of each other once they get too comfortable, end up bored, and then break up. It's not so much a fear of heart break I have - it's the fear of getting bored of someone since I've seen the cyclic nature of relationships so many times, both through my personal experience and observation of other relationships. Right now I'm in a budding relationship [M/19] (we still haven't formally attached labels, but it's most certainly a thing) and I have been having anxiety recently because I'm afraid that he will get bored or I will get bored, but I am extremely compatible with this person, more so than anyone else I've dated. I just can't help being cynical and having anxiety but I don't want it to ruin the relationship. Help please? Can anyone relate? TL;DR:

Have high school dating experience that has shown me that relationships get boring and break up, have current relationship that I'm afraid will get boring as well and I'm anxious. Need advice on how to overcome these fears.<|endoftext|>

[ 12238, 1029, 2143, 13597, 2793, 326, 556, 2011, 479, 326, 7688, 755, 22258, 285, 2740, 598, 13, 452, 1655, 2954, 326, 309, 1353, 9202, 588, 755, 22258, 347, 973, 285, 309, 1353, 20138, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 841, 18055, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

19 y.o. female in college, cynical about relationships/admiration of people, afraid of getting bored during/after relationship, need advice to overcome initial anxiety/be patient.<|endoftext|>

[ 655, 340, 15, 80, 15, 5343, 275, 6831, 13, 47892, 670, 7688, 16, 44434, 10153, 273, 952, 13, 9202, 273, 2970, 23086, 1309, 16, 6438, 2954, 13, 878, 7535, 281, 11399, 3302, 10397, 16, 1257, 3110, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 19 year old female in college who has had her fair share of relationships throughout life so far. Because of my excessive high school dating, I have become rather cynical early on in life about love. What I have found, in most cases, is that in relationships people get bored of each other once they get too comfortable, end up bored, and then break up. It's not so much a fear of heart break I have - it's the fear of getting bored of someone since I've seen the cyclic nature of relationships so many times, both through my personal experience and observation of other relationships. Right now I'm in a budding relationship [M/19] (we still haven't formally attached labels, but it's most certainly a thing) and I have been having anxiety recently because I'm afraid that he will get bored or I will get bored, but I am extremely compatible with this person, more so than anyone else I've dated. I just can't help being cynical and having anxiety but I don't want it to ruin the relationship. Help please? Can anyone relate? TL;DR: Have high school dating experience that has shown me that relationships get boring and break up, have current relationship that I'm afraid will get boring as well and I'm anxious. Need advice on how to overcome these fears.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 5343, 275, 6831, 665, 556, 574, 617, 4344, 3894, 273, 7688, 4768, 1495, 594, 2080, 15, 4923, 273, 619, 13622, 1029, 2143, 13597, 13, 309, 452, 2489, 2581, 47892, 2393, 327, 275, 1495, 670, 2389, 15, 1737, 309, 452, 1119, 13, 275, 954, 2219, 13, 310, 326, 275, 7688, 952, 755, 23086, 273, 1016, 643, 2378, 597, 755, 1512, 9848, 13, 990, 598, 23086, 13, 285, 840, 2740, 598, 15, 733, 434, 417, 594, 1199, 247, 4709, 273, 2798, 2740, 309, 452, 428, 352, 434, 253, 4709, 273, 2970, 23086, 273, 3095, 1580, 309, 1849, 2326, 253, 19870, 3753, 273, 7688, 594, 1142, 2069, 13, 1097, 949, 619, 3367, 2793, 285, 8310, 273, 643, 7688, 15, 187, 187, 8455, 1024, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 49301, 2954, 544, 46, 16, 746, 62, 313, 664, 1335, 6468, 626, 19186, 7660, 13301, 13, 533, 352, 434, 954, 5604, 247, 2181, 10, 285, 309, 452, 644, 1907, 10397, 4102, 984, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 588, 755, 23086, 390, 309, 588, 755, 23086, 13, 533, 309, 717, 6685, 13333, 342, 436, 1436, 13, 625, 594, 685, 3780, 2010, 309, 1849, 15483, 15, 309, 816, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 47892, 285, 1907, 10397, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 23737, 253, 2954, 15, 21695, 4496, 32, 2615, 3780, 14588, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12238, 1029, 2143, 13597, 2793, 326, 556, 2011, 479, 326, 7688, 755, 22258, 285, 2740, 598, 13, 452, 1655, 2954, 326, 309, 1353, 9202, 588, 755, 22258, 347, 973, 285, 309, 1353, 20138, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 841, 18055, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

289

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm a 19 year old female in college who has had her fair share of relationships throughout life so far. Because of my excessive high school dating, I have become rather cynical early on in life about love. What I have found, in most cases, is that in relationships people get bored of each other once they get too comfortable, end up bored, and then break up. It's not so much a fear of heart break I have - it's the fear of getting bored of someone since I've seen the cyclic nature of relationships so many times, both through my personal experience and observation of other relationships. Right now I'm in a budding relationship [M/19] (we still haven't formally attached labels, but it's most certainly a thing) and I have been having anxiety recently because I'm afraid that he will get bored or I will get bored, but I am extremely compatible with this person, more so than anyone else I've dated. I just can't help being cynical and having anxiety but I don't want it to ruin the relationship. Help please? Can anyone relate? TL;DR: 19 y.o. female in college, cynical about relationships/admiration of people, afraid of getting bored during/after relationship, need advice to overcome initial anxiety/be patient.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 5343, 275, 6831, 665, 556, 574, 617, 4344, 3894, 273, 7688, 4768, 1495, 594, 2080, 15, 4923, 273, 619, 13622, 1029, 2143, 13597, 13, 309, 452, 2489, 2581, 47892, 2393, 327, 275, 1495, 670, 2389, 15, 1737, 309, 452, 1119, 13, 275, 954, 2219, 13, 310, 326, 275, 7688, 952, 755, 23086, 273, 1016, 643, 2378, 597, 755, 1512, 9848, 13, 990, 598, 23086, 13, 285, 840, 2740, 598, 15, 733, 434, 417, 594, 1199, 247, 4709, 273, 2798, 2740, 309, 452, 428, 352, 434, 253, 4709, 273, 2970, 23086, 273, 3095, 1580, 309, 1849, 2326, 253, 19870, 3753, 273, 7688, 594, 1142, 2069, 13, 1097, 949, 619, 3367, 2793, 285, 8310, 273, 643, 7688, 15, 187, 187, 8455, 1024, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 49301, 2954, 544, 46, 16, 746, 62, 313, 664, 1335, 6468, 626, 19186, 7660, 13301, 13, 533, 352, 434, 954, 5604, 247, 2181, 10, 285, 309, 452, 644, 1907, 10397, 4102, 984, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 588, 755, 23086, 390, 309, 588, 755, 23086, 13, 533, 309, 717, 6685, 13333, 342, 436, 1436, 13, 625, 594, 685, 3780, 2010, 309, 1849, 15483, 15, 309, 816, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 47892, 285, 1907, 10397, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 23737, 253, 2954, 15, 21695, 4496, 32, 2615, 3780, 14588, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 655, 340, 15, 80, 15, 5343, 275, 6831, 13, 47892, 670, 7688, 16, 44434, 10153, 273, 952, 13, 9202, 273, 2970, 23086, 1309, 16, 6438, 2954, 13, 878, 7535, 281, 11399, 3302, 10397, 16, 1257, 3110, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

283

245

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12238, 1029, 2143, 13597, 2793, 326, 556, 2011, 479, 326, 7688, 755, 22258, 285, 2740, 598, 13, 452, 1655, 2954, 326, 309, 1353, 9202, 588, 755, 22258, 347, 973, 285, 309, 1353, 20138, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 841, 18055, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 655, 340, 15, 80, 15, 5343, 275, 6831, 13, 47892, 670, 7688, 16, 44434, 10153, 273, 952, 13, 9202, 273, 2970, 23086, 1309, 16, 6438, 2954, 13, 878, 7535, 281, 11399, 3302, 10397, 16, 1257, 3110, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi, So I've got an almost 2 year old corgi. He's always hated baths, but the last two times I've given him a bath things got a little concerning for me. He knows the word ``bath time'' and as soon as I said it he started growling at me. He has a very specific growl when he is very scared or annoyed with another dog and this wasn't it. It was more the growl he uses when playing, but he was not happy. No other signs of aggression like raised hair, ears back, rigid stance or anything like that. He definitely did not want me to pick him up though. His baths are not violent, horrible things (at least in my eyes). I usually fill the tub about two inches so I can splash a little underneath and run the shower. He will try to get out of the shower and move away from the running water. He often jumps up and grabs my arm with his front paws and sort of stands up as to get his front paws out of the water. He just looks so miserable when in the shower. What baffles me is that he loves swimming. At the dog park he just swims around for no reason. Even as a puppy, before he learned he could swim, he'd wade around in the shallows. I try to change up how I bathe him so that maybe it's not so horrible. I've tried cold water, warm water, all bath no shower, all shower no bath, toys, treats, everything I can think of. While I don't think he'd ever bite me, I'm concerned because this is the first time he's shown any aggression towards anyone. He's a very gentle dog.

My dog has started showing aggression about bath time, never shown aggression before, I've tried lot's of different things in the bath with no luck.

Dog hates bath time. When I give him a bath he gets unhappy and sometimes growls. Not sure if he's showing aggression or just unhappy. Help?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 1849, 1694, 271, 2761, 374, 807, 1711, 944, 7311, 15, 754, 434, 1900, 21023, 45731, 13, 533, 253, 1390, 767, 2069, 309, 1849, 1677, 779, 247, 8158, 1841, 1694, 247, 1652, 8664, 323, 479, 15, 754, 6057, 253, 3159, 20890, 67, 506, 673, 6267, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 753, 352, 344, 3053, 1756, 1981, 387, 479, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1077, 2173, 1756, 77, 672, 344, 310, 1077, 16060, 390, 34639, 342, 1529, 4370, 285, 436, 3589, 626, 352, 15, 733, 369, 625, 253, 1756, 77, 344, 4648, 672, 4882, 13, 533, 344, 369, 417, 5211, 15, 1621, 643, 7871, 273, 27894, 751, 5439, 4707, 13, 13628, 896, 13, 16572, 22567, 390, 2712, 751, 326, 15, 754, 7964, 858, 417, 971, 479, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 2167, 15, 2490, 187, 8389, 45731, 403, 417, 12338, 13, 19201, 1841, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 481, 309, 3798, 7522, 253, 6985, 670, 767, 13048, 594, 309, 476, 34058, 247, 1652, 21281, 285, 1408, 253, 16846, 15, 754, 588, 1611, 281, 755, 562, 273, 253, 16846, 285, 2118, 1977, 432, 253, 3515, 1824, 15, 754, 2223, 27287, 598, 285, 42562, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 285, 3686, 273, 9572, 598, 347, 281, 755, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 562, 273, 253, 1824, 15, 754, 816, 4453, 594, 28714, 672, 275, 253, 16846, 15, 1737, 38393, 868, 479, 310, 326, 344, 14528, 17120, 15, 2058, 253, 4370, 5603, 344, 816, 10831, 84, 1475, 323, 642, 1921, 15, 4952, 347, 247, 38091, 13, 1078, 344, 6311, 344, 812, 10831, 13, 344, 1871, 259, 796, 1475, 275, 253, 3091, 5811, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1611, 281, 1818, 598, 849, 309, 270, 4349, 779, 594, 326, 5046, 352, 434, 417, 594, 19201, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 5412, 1824, 13, 5890, 1824, 13, 512, 8158, 642, 16846, 13, 512, 16846, 642, 8158, 13, 23908, 13, 26574, 13, 3253, 309, 476, 1158, 273, 15, 2490, 187, 6175, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 1871, 2455, 18470, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 7514, 984, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 344, 434, 2011, 667, 27894, 4404, 3780, 15, 754, 434, 247, 1077, 9950, 4370, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, So I've got an almost 2 year old corgi. He's always hated baths, but the last two times I've given him a bath things got a little concerning for me. He knows the word ``bath time'' and as soon as I said it he started growling at me. He has a very specific growl when he is very scared or annoyed with another dog and this wasn't it. It was more the growl he uses when playing, but he was not happy. No other signs of aggression like raised hair, ears back, rigid stance or anything like that. He definitely did not want me to pick him up though. His baths are not violent, horrible things (at least in my eyes). I usually fill the tub about two inches so I can splash a little underneath and run the shower. He will try to get out of the shower and move away from the running water. He often jumps up and grabs my arm with his front paws and sort of stands up as to get his front paws out of the water. He just looks so miserable when in the shower. What baffles me is that he loves swimming. At the dog park he just swims around for no reason. Even as a puppy, before he learned he could swim, he'd wade around in the shallows. I try to change up how I bathe him so that maybe it's not so horrible. I've tried cold water, warm water, all bath no shower, all shower no bath, toys, treats, everything I can think of. While I don't think he'd ever bite me, I'm concerned because this is the first time he's shown any aggression towards anyone. He's a very gentle dog. TL;DR:

My dog has started showing aggression about bath time, never shown aggression before, I've tried lot's of different things in the bath with no luck.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 4370, 556, 3053, 4645, 27894, 670, 8158, 673, 13, 1620, 2011, 27894, 1078, 13, 309, 1849, 3597, 2257, 434, 273, 1027, 1841, 275, 253, 8158, 342, 642, 7516, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Dog hates bath time. When I give him a bath he gets unhappy and sometimes growls. Not sure if he's showing aggression or just unhappy. Help?<|endoftext|>

[ 21048, 38232, 8158, 673, 15, 2091, 309, 1918, 779, 247, 8158, 344, 4850, 26442, 285, 4536, 1756, 5200, 15, 3105, 2119, 604, 344, 434, 4645, 27894, 390, 816, 26442, 15, 21695, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, So I've got an almost 2 year old corgi. He's always hated baths, but the last two times I've given him a bath things got a little concerning for me. He knows the word ``bath time'' and as soon as I said it he started growling at me. He has a very specific growl when he is very scared or annoyed with another dog and this wasn't it. It was more the growl he uses when playing, but he was not happy. No other signs of aggression like raised hair, ears back, rigid stance or anything like that. He definitely did not want me to pick him up though. His baths are not violent, horrible things (at least in my eyes). I usually fill the tub about two inches so I can splash a little underneath and run the shower. He will try to get out of the shower and move away from the running water. He often jumps up and grabs my arm with his front paws and sort of stands up as to get his front paws out of the water. He just looks so miserable when in the shower. What baffles me is that he loves swimming. At the dog park he just swims around for no reason. Even as a puppy, before he learned he could swim, he'd wade around in the shallows. I try to change up how I bathe him so that maybe it's not so horrible. I've tried cold water, warm water, all bath no shower, all shower no bath, toys, treats, everything I can think of. While I don't think he'd ever bite me, I'm concerned because this is the first time he's shown any aggression towards anyone. He's a very gentle dog. TL;DR: My dog has started showing aggression about bath time, never shown aggression before, I've tried lot's of different things in the bath with no luck.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 1849, 1694, 271, 2761, 374, 807, 1711, 944, 7311, 15, 754, 434, 1900, 21023, 45731, 13, 533, 253, 1390, 767, 2069, 309, 1849, 1677, 779, 247, 8158, 1841, 1694, 247, 1652, 8664, 323, 479, 15, 754, 6057, 253, 3159, 20890, 67, 506, 673, 6267, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 753, 352, 344, 3053, 1756, 1981, 387, 479, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1077, 2173, 1756, 77, 672, 344, 310, 1077, 16060, 390, 34639, 342, 1529, 4370, 285, 436, 3589, 626, 352, 15, 733, 369, 625, 253, 1756, 77, 344, 4648, 672, 4882, 13, 533, 344, 369, 417, 5211, 15, 1621, 643, 7871, 273, 27894, 751, 5439, 4707, 13, 13628, 896, 13, 16572, 22567, 390, 2712, 751, 326, 15, 754, 7964, 858, 417, 971, 479, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 2167, 15, 2490, 187, 8389, 45731, 403, 417, 12338, 13, 19201, 1841, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 481, 309, 3798, 7522, 253, 6985, 670, 767, 13048, 594, 309, 476, 34058, 247, 1652, 21281, 285, 1408, 253, 16846, 15, 754, 588, 1611, 281, 755, 562, 273, 253, 16846, 285, 2118, 1977, 432, 253, 3515, 1824, 15, 754, 2223, 27287, 598, 285, 42562, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 285, 3686, 273, 9572, 598, 347, 281, 755, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 562, 273, 253, 1824, 15, 754, 816, 4453, 594, 28714, 672, 275, 253, 16846, 15, 1737, 38393, 868, 479, 310, 326, 344, 14528, 17120, 15, 2058, 253, 4370, 5603, 344, 816, 10831, 84, 1475, 323, 642, 1921, 15, 4952, 347, 247, 38091, 13, 1078, 344, 6311, 344, 812, 10831, 13, 344, 1871, 259, 796, 1475, 275, 253, 3091, 5811, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1611, 281, 1818, 598, 849, 309, 270, 4349, 779, 594, 326, 5046, 352, 434, 417, 594, 19201, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 5412, 1824, 13, 5890, 1824, 13, 512, 8158, 642, 16846, 13, 512, 16846, 642, 8158, 13, 23908, 13, 26574, 13, 3253, 309, 476, 1158, 273, 15, 2490, 187, 6175, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 1871, 2455, 18470, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 7514, 984, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 344, 434, 2011, 667, 27894, 4404, 3780, 15, 754, 434, 247, 1077, 9950, 4370, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 4370, 556, 3053, 4645, 27894, 670, 8158, 673, 13, 1620, 2011, 27894, 1078, 13, 309, 1849, 3597, 2257, 434, 273, 1027, 1841, 275, 253, 8158, 342, 642, 7516, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

415

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, So I've got an almost 2 year old corgi. He's always hated baths, but the last two times I've given him a bath things got a little concerning for me. He knows the word ``bath time'' and as soon as I said it he started growling at me. He has a very specific growl when he is very scared or annoyed with another dog and this wasn't it. It was more the growl he uses when playing, but he was not happy. No other signs of aggression like raised hair, ears back, rigid stance or anything like that. He definitely did not want me to pick him up though. His baths are not violent, horrible things (at least in my eyes). I usually fill the tub about two inches so I can splash a little underneath and run the shower. He will try to get out of the shower and move away from the running water. He often jumps up and grabs my arm with his front paws and sort of stands up as to get his front paws out of the water. He just looks so miserable when in the shower. What baffles me is that he loves swimming. At the dog park he just swims around for no reason. Even as a puppy, before he learned he could swim, he'd wade around in the shallows. I try to change up how I bathe him so that maybe it's not so horrible. I've tried cold water, warm water, all bath no shower, all shower no bath, toys, treats, everything I can think of. While I don't think he'd ever bite me, I'm concerned because this is the first time he's shown any aggression towards anyone. He's a very gentle dog. TL;DR: Dog hates bath time. When I give him a bath he gets unhappy and sometimes growls. Not sure if he's showing aggression or just unhappy. Help?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 1849, 1694, 271, 2761, 374, 807, 1711, 944, 7311, 15, 754, 434, 1900, 21023, 45731, 13, 533, 253, 1390, 767, 2069, 309, 1849, 1677, 779, 247, 8158, 1841, 1694, 247, 1652, 8664, 323, 479, 15, 754, 6057, 253, 3159, 20890, 67, 506, 673, 6267, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 753, 352, 344, 3053, 1756, 1981, 387, 479, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1077, 2173, 1756, 77, 672, 344, 310, 1077, 16060, 390, 34639, 342, 1529, 4370, 285, 436, 3589, 626, 352, 15, 733, 369, 625, 253, 1756, 77, 344, 4648, 672, 4882, 13, 533, 344, 369, 417, 5211, 15, 1621, 643, 7871, 273, 27894, 751, 5439, 4707, 13, 13628, 896, 13, 16572, 22567, 390, 2712, 751, 326, 15, 754, 7964, 858, 417, 971, 479, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 2167, 15, 2490, 187, 8389, 45731, 403, 417, 12338, 13, 19201, 1841, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 481, 309, 3798, 7522, 253, 6985, 670, 767, 13048, 594, 309, 476, 34058, 247, 1652, 21281, 285, 1408, 253, 16846, 15, 754, 588, 1611, 281, 755, 562, 273, 253, 16846, 285, 2118, 1977, 432, 253, 3515, 1824, 15, 754, 2223, 27287, 598, 285, 42562, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 285, 3686, 273, 9572, 598, 347, 281, 755, 521, 2914, 1349, 8819, 562, 273, 253, 1824, 15, 754, 816, 4453, 594, 28714, 672, 275, 253, 16846, 15, 1737, 38393, 868, 479, 310, 326, 344, 14528, 17120, 15, 2058, 253, 4370, 5603, 344, 816, 10831, 84, 1475, 323, 642, 1921, 15, 4952, 347, 247, 38091, 13, 1078, 344, 6311, 344, 812, 10831, 13, 344, 1871, 259, 796, 1475, 275, 253, 3091, 5811, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1611, 281, 1818, 598, 849, 309, 270, 4349, 779, 594, 326, 5046, 352, 434, 417, 594, 19201, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 5412, 1824, 13, 5890, 1824, 13, 512, 8158, 642, 16846, 13, 512, 16846, 642, 8158, 13, 23908, 13, 26574, 13, 3253, 309, 476, 1158, 273, 15, 2490, 187, 6175, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 1871, 2455, 18470, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 7514, 984, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 344, 434, 2011, 667, 27894, 4404, 3780, 15, 754, 434, 247, 1077, 9950, 4370, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 21048, 38232, 8158, 673, 15, 2091, 309, 1918, 779, 247, 8158, 344, 4850, 26442, 285, 4536, 1756, 5200, 15, 3105, 2119, 604, 344, 434, 4645, 27894, 390, 816, 26442, 15, 21695, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

417

384

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 4370, 556, 3053, 4645, 27894, 670, 8158, 673, 13, 1620, 2011, 27894, 1078, 13, 309, 1849, 3597, 2257, 434, 273, 1027, 1841, 275, 253, 8158, 342, 642, 7516, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 21048, 38232, 8158, 673, 15, 2091, 309, 1918, 779, 247, 8158, 344, 4850, 26442, 285, 4536, 1756, 5200, 15, 3105, 2119, 604, 344, 434, 4645, 27894, 390, 816, 26442, 15, 21695, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We hit it off, got involved, weren't looking to be in a relationship but just enjoy ones company since we're both focused on making careers. It was about a week--not enough time to be serious. We went to a party where I branched off to meet people (I didn't want to make him feel obligated to me now that we were hooking up). He stormed off at the party with huge jealousy issues. We discussed it the next day, seemed to be cool. He said he didn't like the way he reacted and doesn't want to get involved with another girl and risk being distracted or hurt. Told his friend we were incompatible. He no longer speaks to me, apologized and said it's not me, but he just wants to focus on his career. I don't see how seeking mutual comfort or how a friendship with me would distract him from his career. While he says it's nothing personal, how he has responded seems to say it IS personal. I don't understand how something going so well and not even long enough to have a "fall out" could flip so quickly. I feel more antagonized at a lame--*while prob. true to an extent, it's not the root reason*--excuse. While I think I know the reason--either he's afraid or either he's not that into me--I'd prefer to have been told the truth directly and straightforward. but he won't open up, and I ruined any hope of him opening up by reaching out. I'm just so confused and hurt.

Ex-boyfriend won't open up about reasons for ending things in a way that is honest and direct.

Where can I find the truth when men say they want to "stay focused" on their careers?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 13, 1694, 3206, 13, 10345, 626, 2819, 281, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 4264, 4394, 2567, 1580, 359, 1472, 1097, 7106, 327, 2403, 25829, 15, 733, 369, 670, 247, 2129, 283, 1439, 2217, 673, 281, 320, 4092, 15, 844, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 835, 309, 36690, 745, 281, 2525, 952, 313, 42, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 1056, 779, 1928, 37782, 281, 479, 1024, 326, 359, 497, 10584, 272, 598, 481, 754, 9902, 264, 745, 387, 253, 3128, 342, 5699, 44170, 3374, 15, 209, 187, 1231, 5469, 352, 253, 1735, 1388, 13, 4455, 281, 320, 4484, 15, 754, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 751, 253, 1039, 344, 29771, 285, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 755, 3206, 342, 1529, 3226, 285, 2495, 1146, 31564, 390, 8513, 15, 308, 744, 521, 3331, 359, 497, 32555, 15, 754, 642, 3356, 16544, 281, 479, 13, 46446, 285, 753, 352, 434, 417, 479, 13, 533, 344, 816, 5605, 281, 2770, 327, 521, 5249, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 8445, 15577, 5956, 390, 849, 247, 19429, 342, 479, 651, 36815, 779, 432, 521, 5249, 15, 3900, 344, 2296, 352, 434, 2717, 3367, 13, 849, 344, 556, 10974, 3133, 281, 1333, 352, 4110, 3367, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 2096, 849, 1633, 1469, 594, 973, 285, 417, 1014, 1048, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 346, 12615, 562, 3, 812, 19153, 594, 4541, 15, 309, 1928, 625, 13878, 1025, 387, 247, 42837, 283, 11, 6050, 1742, 15, 2032, 281, 271, 6070, 13, 352, 434, 417, 253, 5230, 1921, 11, 283, 911, 25018, 15, 187, 187, 6175, 309, 1158, 309, 871, 253, 1921, 283, 26597, 344, 434, 9202, 390, 2057, 344, 434, 417, 326, 715, 479, 283, 42, 1871, 4510, 281, 452, 644, 2183, 253, 5083, 3587, 285, 15246, 15, 533, 344, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 13, 285, 309, 27826, 667, 3524, 273, 779, 5909, 598, 407, 10922, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 594, 13477, 285, 8513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We hit it off, got involved, weren't looking to be in a relationship but just enjoy ones company since we're both focused on making careers. It was about a week--not enough time to be serious. We went to a party where I branched off to meet people (I didn't want to make him feel obligated to me now that we were hooking up). He stormed off at the party with huge jealousy issues. We discussed it the next day, seemed to be cool. He said he didn't like the way he reacted and doesn't want to get involved with another girl and risk being distracted or hurt. Told his friend we were incompatible. He no longer speaks to me, apologized and said it's not me, but he just wants to focus on his career. I don't see how seeking mutual comfort or how a friendship with me would distract him from his career. While he says it's nothing personal, how he has responded seems to say it IS personal. I don't understand how something going so well and not even long enough to have a "fall out" could flip so quickly. I feel more antagonized at a lame--*while prob. true to an extent, it's not the root reason*--excuse. While I think I know the reason--either he's afraid or either he's not that into me--I'd prefer to have been told the truth directly and straightforward. but he won't open up, and I ruined any hope of him opening up by reaching out. I'm just so confused and hurt. TL;DR:

Ex-boyfriend won't open up about reasons for ending things in a way that is honest and direct.<|endoftext|>

[ 1889, 14, 14889, 8471, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 670, 4606, 323, 12365, 1841, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 310, 8274, 285, 1480, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Where can I find the truth when men say they want to "stay focused" on their careers?<|endoftext|>

[ 7900, 476, 309, 1089, 253, 5083, 672, 1821, 1333, 597, 971, 281, 346, 39642, 7106, 3, 327, 616, 25829, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We hit it off, got involved, weren't looking to be in a relationship but just enjoy ones company since we're both focused on making careers. It was about a week--not enough time to be serious. We went to a party where I branched off to meet people (I didn't want to make him feel obligated to me now that we were hooking up). He stormed off at the party with huge jealousy issues. We discussed it the next day, seemed to be cool. He said he didn't like the way he reacted and doesn't want to get involved with another girl and risk being distracted or hurt. Told his friend we were incompatible. He no longer speaks to me, apologized and said it's not me, but he just wants to focus on his career. I don't see how seeking mutual comfort or how a friendship with me would distract him from his career. While he says it's nothing personal, how he has responded seems to say it IS personal. I don't understand how something going so well and not even long enough to have a "fall out" could flip so quickly. I feel more antagonized at a lame--*while prob. true to an extent, it's not the root reason*--excuse. While I think I know the reason--either he's afraid or either he's not that into me--I'd prefer to have been told the truth directly and straightforward. but he won't open up, and I ruined any hope of him opening up by reaching out. I'm just so confused and hurt. TL;DR: Ex-boyfriend won't open up about reasons for ending things in a way that is honest and direct.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 13, 1694, 3206, 13, 10345, 626, 2819, 281, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 4264, 4394, 2567, 1580, 359, 1472, 1097, 7106, 327, 2403, 25829, 15, 733, 369, 670, 247, 2129, 283, 1439, 2217, 673, 281, 320, 4092, 15, 844, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 835, 309, 36690, 745, 281, 2525, 952, 313, 42, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 1056, 779, 1928, 37782, 281, 479, 1024, 326, 359, 497, 10584, 272, 598, 481, 754, 9902, 264, 745, 387, 253, 3128, 342, 5699, 44170, 3374, 15, 209, 187, 1231, 5469, 352, 253, 1735, 1388, 13, 4455, 281, 320, 4484, 15, 754, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 751, 253, 1039, 344, 29771, 285, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 755, 3206, 342, 1529, 3226, 285, 2495, 1146, 31564, 390, 8513, 15, 308, 744, 521, 3331, 359, 497, 32555, 15, 754, 642, 3356, 16544, 281, 479, 13, 46446, 285, 753, 352, 434, 417, 479, 13, 533, 344, 816, 5605, 281, 2770, 327, 521, 5249, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 8445, 15577, 5956, 390, 849, 247, 19429, 342, 479, 651, 36815, 779, 432, 521, 5249, 15, 3900, 344, 2296, 352, 434, 2717, 3367, 13, 849, 344, 556, 10974, 3133, 281, 1333, 352, 4110, 3367, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 2096, 849, 1633, 1469, 594, 973, 285, 417, 1014, 1048, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 346, 12615, 562, 3, 812, 19153, 594, 4541, 15, 309, 1928, 625, 13878, 1025, 387, 247, 42837, 283, 11, 6050, 1742, 15, 2032, 281, 271, 6070, 13, 352, 434, 417, 253, 5230, 1921, 11, 283, 911, 25018, 15, 187, 187, 6175, 309, 1158, 309, 871, 253, 1921, 283, 26597, 344, 434, 9202, 390, 2057, 344, 434, 417, 326, 715, 479, 283, 42, 1871, 4510, 281, 452, 644, 2183, 253, 5083, 3587, 285, 15246, 15, 533, 344, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 13, 285, 309, 27826, 667, 3524, 273, 779, 5909, 598, 407, 10922, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 594, 13477, 285, 8513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1889, 14, 14889, 8471, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 670, 4606, 323, 12365, 1841, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 310, 8274, 285, 1480, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

368

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We hit it off, got involved, weren't looking to be in a relationship but just enjoy ones company since we're both focused on making careers. It was about a week--not enough time to be serious. We went to a party where I branched off to meet people (I didn't want to make him feel obligated to me now that we were hooking up). He stormed off at the party with huge jealousy issues. We discussed it the next day, seemed to be cool. He said he didn't like the way he reacted and doesn't want to get involved with another girl and risk being distracted or hurt. Told his friend we were incompatible. He no longer speaks to me, apologized and said it's not me, but he just wants to focus on his career. I don't see how seeking mutual comfort or how a friendship with me would distract him from his career. While he says it's nothing personal, how he has responded seems to say it IS personal. I don't understand how something going so well and not even long enough to have a "fall out" could flip so quickly. I feel more antagonized at a lame--*while prob. true to an extent, it's not the root reason*--excuse. While I think I know the reason--either he's afraid or either he's not that into me--I'd prefer to have been told the truth directly and straightforward. but he won't open up, and I ruined any hope of him opening up by reaching out. I'm just so confused and hurt. TL;DR: Where can I find the truth when men say they want to "stay focused" on their careers?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 13, 1694, 3206, 13, 10345, 626, 2819, 281, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 4264, 4394, 2567, 1580, 359, 1472, 1097, 7106, 327, 2403, 25829, 15, 733, 369, 670, 247, 2129, 283, 1439, 2217, 673, 281, 320, 4092, 15, 844, 2427, 281, 247, 3128, 835, 309, 36690, 745, 281, 2525, 952, 313, 42, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 1056, 779, 1928, 37782, 281, 479, 1024, 326, 359, 497, 10584, 272, 598, 481, 754, 9902, 264, 745, 387, 253, 3128, 342, 5699, 44170, 3374, 15, 209, 187, 1231, 5469, 352, 253, 1735, 1388, 13, 4455, 281, 320, 4484, 15, 754, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 751, 253, 1039, 344, 29771, 285, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 755, 3206, 342, 1529, 3226, 285, 2495, 1146, 31564, 390, 8513, 15, 308, 744, 521, 3331, 359, 497, 32555, 15, 754, 642, 3356, 16544, 281, 479, 13, 46446, 285, 753, 352, 434, 417, 479, 13, 533, 344, 816, 5605, 281, 2770, 327, 521, 5249, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 8445, 15577, 5956, 390, 849, 247, 19429, 342, 479, 651, 36815, 779, 432, 521, 5249, 15, 3900, 344, 2296, 352, 434, 2717, 3367, 13, 849, 344, 556, 10974, 3133, 281, 1333, 352, 4110, 3367, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 2096, 849, 1633, 1469, 594, 973, 285, 417, 1014, 1048, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 346, 12615, 562, 3, 812, 19153, 594, 4541, 15, 309, 1928, 625, 13878, 1025, 387, 247, 42837, 283, 11, 6050, 1742, 15, 2032, 281, 271, 6070, 13, 352, 434, 417, 253, 5230, 1921, 11, 283, 911, 25018, 15, 187, 187, 6175, 309, 1158, 309, 871, 253, 1921, 283, 26597, 344, 434, 9202, 390, 2057, 344, 434, 417, 326, 715, 479, 283, 42, 1871, 4510, 281, 452, 644, 2183, 253, 5083, 3587, 285, 15246, 15, 533, 344, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 13, 285, 309, 27826, 667, 3524, 273, 779, 5909, 598, 407, 10922, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 594, 13477, 285, 8513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 7900, 476, 309, 1089, 253, 5083, 672, 1821, 1333, 597, 971, 281, 346, 39642, 7106, 3, 327, 616, 25829, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

366

345

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1889, 14, 14889, 8471, 1912, 626, 1527, 598, 670, 4606, 323, 12365, 1841, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 310, 8274, 285, 1480, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 7900, 476, 309, 1089, 253, 5083, 672, 1821, 1333, 597, 971, 281, 346, 39642, 7106, 3, 327, 616, 25829, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

hello there i have been "with" this girl for about 7 months we are not exacly dating we just say were together although we have dated befor last year. see her dad says that he doesnt care if her and i date its her mom..... they are separated and for some odd reason her mom loves me but she wont let her daughter date me even though she knows for a fact that her and i have dated a previous time. At first she wasnt alowing her beacuse it was competition season for her at dance and she actually was offerd several scolorships! i get that her mom wanted all her focus on dance but that ended around 5 months ago and still everytime she trys to ask her mom if she can date her mom changes the subject, ignors the question, does everything she can to not answer I say i understand and that ill wait for her cuz i love her but after 7 months of not getting a straight answer it can kinda be a bit annoying but i dont know am i crazy/a dick for thinking that or is it kinda weird? * by the way we are both in grade 9 (14)

my "Girlfriend"mom not answering dating question after 7 months is that weird or no?

girlfriend's mom wont let her daughter date me because she thinks its her mom.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 627, 891, 452, 644, 346, 3113, 3, 436, 3226, 323, 670, 818, 2607, 359, 403, 417, 385, 317, 314, 13597, 359, 816, 1333, 497, 2366, 3738, 359, 452, 15483, 320, 1542, 1390, 807, 15, 923, 617, 12247, 2296, 326, 344, 36908, 1557, 604, 617, 285, 891, 3522, 697, 617, 2243, 20340, 597, 403, 9070, 285, 323, 690, 8909, 1921, 617, 2243, 14528, 479, 533, 703, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 1014, 2167, 703, 6057, 323, 247, 958, 326, 617, 285, 891, 452, 15483, 247, 2045, 673, 15, 2058, 806, 703, 369, 2649, 355, 23581, 617, 320, 317, 2327, 352, 369, 7324, 2952, 323, 617, 387, 11012, 285, 703, 2686, 369, 3959, 69, 2067, 660, 311, 15306, 84, 2, 891, 755, 326, 617, 2243, 3078, 512, 617, 2770, 327, 11012, 533, 326, 7402, 1475, 608, 2607, 3622, 285, 1335, 1046, 2606, 703, 492, 656, 281, 1642, 617, 2243, 604, 703, 476, 3522, 617, 2243, 2544, 253, 2256, 13, 4900, 641, 253, 1953, 13, 1057, 3253, 703, 476, 281, 417, 3662, 187, 187, 42, 1333, 891, 2096, 285, 326, 2853, 3343, 323, 617, 260, 7958, 891, 2389, 617, 533, 846, 818, 2607, 273, 417, 2970, 247, 4951, 3662, 352, 476, 26702, 320, 247, 2372, 24659, 533, 891, 13414, 871, 717, 891, 10412, 16, 66, 33702, 323, 4680, 326, 390, 310, 352, 26702, 12504, 32, 187, 187, 11, 407, 253, 1039, 359, 403, 1097, 275, 9646, 898, 313, 1047, 10, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello there i have been "with" this girl for about 7 months we are not exacly dating we just say were together although we have dated befor last year. see her dad says that he doesnt care if her and i date its her mom..... they are separated and for some odd reason her mom loves me but she wont let her daughter date me even though she knows for a fact that her and i have dated a previous time. At first she wasnt alowing her beacuse it was competition season for her at dance and she actually was offerd several scolorships! i get that her mom wanted all her focus on dance but that ended around 5 months ago and still everytime she trys to ask her mom if she can date her mom changes the subject, ignors the question, does everything she can to not answer I say i understand and that ill wait for her cuz i love her but after 7 months of not getting a straight answer it can kinda be a bit annoying but i dont know am i crazy/a dick for thinking that or is it kinda weird? * by the way we are both in grade 9 (14) TL;DR:

my "Girlfriend"mom not answering dating question after 7 months is that weird or no?<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 346, 38186, 8471, 3, 19475, 417, 22291, 13597, 1953, 846, 818, 2607, 310, 326, 12504, 390, 642, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

girlfriend's mom wont let her daughter date me because she thinks its her mom.<|endoftext|>

[ 19609, 434, 2243, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 984, 703, 11121, 697, 617, 2243, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello there i have been "with" this girl for about 7 months we are not exacly dating we just say were together although we have dated befor last year. see her dad says that he doesnt care if her and i date its her mom..... they are separated and for some odd reason her mom loves me but she wont let her daughter date me even though she knows for a fact that her and i have dated a previous time. At first she wasnt alowing her beacuse it was competition season for her at dance and she actually was offerd several scolorships! i get that her mom wanted all her focus on dance but that ended around 5 months ago and still everytime she trys to ask her mom if she can date her mom changes the subject, ignors the question, does everything she can to not answer I say i understand and that ill wait for her cuz i love her but after 7 months of not getting a straight answer it can kinda be a bit annoying but i dont know am i crazy/a dick for thinking that or is it kinda weird? * by the way we are both in grade 9 (14) TL;DR: my "Girlfriend"mom not answering dating question after 7 months is that weird or no?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 627, 891, 452, 644, 346, 3113, 3, 436, 3226, 323, 670, 818, 2607, 359, 403, 417, 385, 317, 314, 13597, 359, 816, 1333, 497, 2366, 3738, 359, 452, 15483, 320, 1542, 1390, 807, 15, 923, 617, 12247, 2296, 326, 344, 36908, 1557, 604, 617, 285, 891, 3522, 697, 617, 2243, 20340, 597, 403, 9070, 285, 323, 690, 8909, 1921, 617, 2243, 14528, 479, 533, 703, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 1014, 2167, 703, 6057, 323, 247, 958, 326, 617, 285, 891, 452, 15483, 247, 2045, 673, 15, 2058, 806, 703, 369, 2649, 355, 23581, 617, 320, 317, 2327, 352, 369, 7324, 2952, 323, 617, 387, 11012, 285, 703, 2686, 369, 3959, 69, 2067, 660, 311, 15306, 84, 2, 891, 755, 326, 617, 2243, 3078, 512, 617, 2770, 327, 11012, 533, 326, 7402, 1475, 608, 2607, 3622, 285, 1335, 1046, 2606, 703, 492, 656, 281, 1642, 617, 2243, 604, 703, 476, 3522, 617, 2243, 2544, 253, 2256, 13, 4900, 641, 253, 1953, 13, 1057, 3253, 703, 476, 281, 417, 3662, 187, 187, 42, 1333, 891, 2096, 285, 326, 2853, 3343, 323, 617, 260, 7958, 891, 2389, 617, 533, 846, 818, 2607, 273, 417, 2970, 247, 4951, 3662, 352, 476, 26702, 320, 247, 2372, 24659, 533, 891, 13414, 871, 717, 891, 10412, 16, 66, 33702, 323, 4680, 326, 390, 310, 352, 26702, 12504, 32, 187, 187, 11, 407, 253, 1039, 359, 403, 1097, 275, 9646, 898, 313, 1047, 10, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 346, 38186, 8471, 3, 19475, 417, 22291, 13597, 1953, 846, 818, 2607, 310, 326, 12504, 390, 642, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

282

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello there i have been "with" this girl for about 7 months we are not exacly dating we just say were together although we have dated befor last year. see her dad says that he doesnt care if her and i date its her mom..... they are separated and for some odd reason her mom loves me but she wont let her daughter date me even though she knows for a fact that her and i have dated a previous time. At first she wasnt alowing her beacuse it was competition season for her at dance and she actually was offerd several scolorships! i get that her mom wanted all her focus on dance but that ended around 5 months ago and still everytime she trys to ask her mom if she can date her mom changes the subject, ignors the question, does everything she can to not answer I say i understand and that ill wait for her cuz i love her but after 7 months of not getting a straight answer it can kinda be a bit annoying but i dont know am i crazy/a dick for thinking that or is it kinda weird? * by the way we are both in grade 9 (14) TL;DR: girlfriend's mom wont let her daughter date me because she thinks its her mom.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 627, 891, 452, 644, 346, 3113, 3, 436, 3226, 323, 670, 818, 2607, 359, 403, 417, 385, 317, 314, 13597, 359, 816, 1333, 497, 2366, 3738, 359, 452, 15483, 320, 1542, 1390, 807, 15, 923, 617, 12247, 2296, 326, 344, 36908, 1557, 604, 617, 285, 891, 3522, 697, 617, 2243, 20340, 597, 403, 9070, 285, 323, 690, 8909, 1921, 617, 2243, 14528, 479, 533, 703, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 1014, 2167, 703, 6057, 323, 247, 958, 326, 617, 285, 891, 452, 15483, 247, 2045, 673, 15, 2058, 806, 703, 369, 2649, 355, 23581, 617, 320, 317, 2327, 352, 369, 7324, 2952, 323, 617, 387, 11012, 285, 703, 2686, 369, 3959, 69, 2067, 660, 311, 15306, 84, 2, 891, 755, 326, 617, 2243, 3078, 512, 617, 2770, 327, 11012, 533, 326, 7402, 1475, 608, 2607, 3622, 285, 1335, 1046, 2606, 703, 492, 656, 281, 1642, 617, 2243, 604, 703, 476, 3522, 617, 2243, 2544, 253, 2256, 13, 4900, 641, 253, 1953, 13, 1057, 3253, 703, 476, 281, 417, 3662, 187, 187, 42, 1333, 891, 2096, 285, 326, 2853, 3343, 323, 617, 260, 7958, 891, 2389, 617, 533, 846, 818, 2607, 273, 417, 2970, 247, 4951, 3662, 352, 476, 26702, 320, 247, 2372, 24659, 533, 891, 13414, 871, 717, 891, 10412, 16, 66, 33702, 323, 4680, 326, 390, 310, 352, 26702, 12504, 32, 187, 187, 11, 407, 253, 1039, 359, 403, 1097, 275, 9646, 898, 313, 1047, 10, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 19609, 434, 2243, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 984, 703, 11121, 697, 617, 2243, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

279

262

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 346, 38186, 8471, 3, 19475, 417, 22291, 13597, 1953, 846, 818, 2607, 310, 326, 12504, 390, 642, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 19609, 434, 2243, 31451, 1339, 617, 6122, 3522, 479, 984, 703, 11121, 697, 617, 2243, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We started off really close and became good friends quickly after deaths of our fathers a few months apart of each other. But once she got a boyfriend a few months later, things back off. We use to text each other a lot, but it has became a rare thing now. When she dumped him, things became pretty much normal again. But now she is seeing another guy and same deal as before. Basically every time she starts dating a new guy, I don't see her much and hanging out with her one on one it's basically impossible. If I ask for example, do you want to go see a movie? She says that she doesn't think her boyfriend would like her hanging out with another guy. She gives the same answer no matter who she is dating at the time. If I want to see her, we can only hangout at her place (that's rare by the way) and can't be seen in public at all with me.

Friend doesn't want to be seen with me, because it is hard for her to maintain a relationship with me.

Friend doesn't like to see me in public, but we are best friends. What do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 745, 1663, 2810, 285, 3395, 1175, 3858, 4541, 846, 8923, 273, 776, 24593, 247, 1643, 2607, 7419, 273, 1016, 643, 15, 1292, 2378, 703, 1694, 247, 22273, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 13, 1841, 896, 745, 15, 844, 897, 281, 2505, 1016, 643, 247, 2257, 13, 533, 352, 556, 3395, 247, 7520, 2181, 1024, 15, 2490, 187, 3039, 703, 35611, 779, 13, 1841, 3395, 3965, 1199, 2622, 969, 15, 1292, 1024, 703, 310, 6523, 1529, 5599, 285, 1072, 2968, 347, 1078, 15, 32415, 1046, 673, 703, 7866, 13597, 247, 747, 5599, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 617, 1199, 285, 14203, 562, 342, 617, 581, 327, 581, 352, 434, 10323, 7479, 15, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 1642, 323, 1650, 13, 513, 368, 971, 281, 564, 923, 247, 6440, 32, 1500, 2296, 326, 703, 2506, 626, 1158, 617, 22273, 651, 751, 617, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 15, 1500, 4245, 253, 1072, 3662, 642, 2647, 665, 703, 310, 13597, 387, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 309, 971, 281, 923, 617, 13, 359, 476, 760, 10913, 483, 387, 617, 1659, 313, 3529, 434, 7520, 407, 253, 1039, 10, 285, 476, 626, 320, 2326, 275, 1345, 387, 512, 342, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started off really close and became good friends quickly after deaths of our fathers a few months apart of each other. But once she got a boyfriend a few months later, things back off. We use to text each other a lot, but it has became a rare thing now. When she dumped him, things became pretty much normal again. But now she is seeing another guy and same deal as before. Basically every time she starts dating a new guy, I don't see her much and hanging out with her one on one it's basically impossible. If I ask for example, do you want to go see a movie? She says that she doesn't think her boyfriend would like her hanging out with another guy. She gives the same answer no matter who she is dating at the time. If I want to see her, we can only hangout at her place (that's rare by the way) and can't be seen in public at all with me. TL;DR:

Friend doesn't want to be seen with me, because it is hard for her to maintain a relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

[ 25845, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 2326, 342, 479, 13, 984, 352, 310, 1892, 323, 617, 281, 6558, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Friend doesn't like to see me in public, but we are best friends. What do?<|endoftext|>

[ 25845, 2506, 626, 751, 281, 923, 479, 275, 1345, 13, 533, 359, 403, 1682, 3858, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started off really close and became good friends quickly after deaths of our fathers a few months apart of each other. But once she got a boyfriend a few months later, things back off. We use to text each other a lot, but it has became a rare thing now. When she dumped him, things became pretty much normal again. But now she is seeing another guy and same deal as before. Basically every time she starts dating a new guy, I don't see her much and hanging out with her one on one it's basically impossible. If I ask for example, do you want to go see a movie? She says that she doesn't think her boyfriend would like her hanging out with another guy. She gives the same answer no matter who she is dating at the time. If I want to see her, we can only hangout at her place (that's rare by the way) and can't be seen in public at all with me. TL;DR: Friend doesn't want to be seen with me, because it is hard for her to maintain a relationship with me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 745, 1663, 2810, 285, 3395, 1175, 3858, 4541, 846, 8923, 273, 776, 24593, 247, 1643, 2607, 7419, 273, 1016, 643, 15, 1292, 2378, 703, 1694, 247, 22273, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 13, 1841, 896, 745, 15, 844, 897, 281, 2505, 1016, 643, 247, 2257, 13, 533, 352, 556, 3395, 247, 7520, 2181, 1024, 15, 2490, 187, 3039, 703, 35611, 779, 13, 1841, 3395, 3965, 1199, 2622, 969, 15, 1292, 1024, 703, 310, 6523, 1529, 5599, 285, 1072, 2968, 347, 1078, 15, 32415, 1046, 673, 703, 7866, 13597, 247, 747, 5599, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 617, 1199, 285, 14203, 562, 342, 617, 581, 327, 581, 352, 434, 10323, 7479, 15, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 1642, 323, 1650, 13, 513, 368, 971, 281, 564, 923, 247, 6440, 32, 1500, 2296, 326, 703, 2506, 626, 1158, 617, 22273, 651, 751, 617, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 15, 1500, 4245, 253, 1072, 3662, 642, 2647, 665, 703, 310, 13597, 387, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 309, 971, 281, 923, 617, 13, 359, 476, 760, 10913, 483, 387, 617, 1659, 313, 3529, 434, 7520, 407, 253, 1039, 10, 285, 476, 626, 320, 2326, 275, 1345, 387, 512, 342, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 25845, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 2326, 342, 479, 13, 984, 352, 310, 1892, 323, 617, 281, 6558, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

244

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started off really close and became good friends quickly after deaths of our fathers a few months apart of each other. But once she got a boyfriend a few months later, things back off. We use to text each other a lot, but it has became a rare thing now. When she dumped him, things became pretty much normal again. But now she is seeing another guy and same deal as before. Basically every time she starts dating a new guy, I don't see her much and hanging out with her one on one it's basically impossible. If I ask for example, do you want to go see a movie? She says that she doesn't think her boyfriend would like her hanging out with another guy. She gives the same answer no matter who she is dating at the time. If I want to see her, we can only hangout at her place (that's rare by the way) and can't be seen in public at all with me. TL;DR: Friend doesn't like to see me in public, but we are best friends. What do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 745, 1663, 2810, 285, 3395, 1175, 3858, 4541, 846, 8923, 273, 776, 24593, 247, 1643, 2607, 7419, 273, 1016, 643, 15, 1292, 2378, 703, 1694, 247, 22273, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 13, 1841, 896, 745, 15, 844, 897, 281, 2505, 1016, 643, 247, 2257, 13, 533, 352, 556, 3395, 247, 7520, 2181, 1024, 15, 2490, 187, 3039, 703, 35611, 779, 13, 1841, 3395, 3965, 1199, 2622, 969, 15, 1292, 1024, 703, 310, 6523, 1529, 5599, 285, 1072, 2968, 347, 1078, 15, 32415, 1046, 673, 703, 7866, 13597, 247, 747, 5599, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 617, 1199, 285, 14203, 562, 342, 617, 581, 327, 581, 352, 434, 10323, 7479, 15, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 1642, 323, 1650, 13, 513, 368, 971, 281, 564, 923, 247, 6440, 32, 1500, 2296, 326, 703, 2506, 626, 1158, 617, 22273, 651, 751, 617, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 15, 1500, 4245, 253, 1072, 3662, 642, 2647, 665, 703, 310, 13597, 387, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 309, 971, 281, 923, 617, 13, 359, 476, 760, 10913, 483, 387, 617, 1659, 313, 3529, 434, 7520, 407, 253, 1039, 10, 285, 476, 626, 320, 2326, 275, 1345, 387, 512, 342, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 25845, 2506, 626, 751, 281, 923, 479, 275, 1345, 13, 533, 359, 403, 1682, 3858, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

240

220

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 25845, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 2326, 342, 479, 13, 984, 352, 310, 1892, 323, 617, 281, 6558, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 25845, 2506, 626, 751, 281, 923, 479, 275, 1345, 13, 533, 359, 403, 1682, 3858, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Everything she says and does to me is meant to belittle and invalidate, whether it’s telling me I’m dirty and lazy for not cleaning my room, throwing my possessions across the floor because “they’re in the wrong place,” or comparing me to her coworker’s daughter (also my roommate), who is “more considerate and respectful to her parents.” I’m moving out for college in a couple of weeks, so at least I can escape. However, my brother [14/M] is not as fortunate as I am. Because he’s in high school and has a history of “sub-par” grades, my mother is stricter with him than she was with me. She limits his access to electronics because she doesn’t trust him to use them responsibly. In the past, she has completely smashed a laptop and ipod because my brother spent too much time on them. We’ve been going to the library every day since my mother’s constant hovering is affecting my brother’s ability to study at home. Even my stepdad [42/M] is a victim. He is Mexican, so the racist stereotype of Mexicans being lazy and stupid is ever present in her traditional Asian mind. Whenever we have guests or relatives over, my stepdad is told to say that he is Colombian, Italian, or other ethnicities that don’t have the same stigma as Mexicans. My stepdad has repeatedly told my mother how awful this makes him feel, but she doesn’t listen. She criticizes him for every little thing, while he just puts his head down and takes it. I’ve never once heard her say “I love you” or use any term of endearment. My mother is also a victim of domestic abuse and a toxic marriage, if that helps to explain things, and her personality definitely changed after the divorce. So reddit, is there anything I can do to help my brother and stepdad deal with my mother before I leave for college?

Mother doesn’t treat anyone in the household with respect. She was in an abusive marriage a few years ago and has changed a lot since her divorce. How can I help my brother and stepdad deal with her before I leave for college?

My mother is a damaging domino to my brothers and my stepdad, how can I help them?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 16942, 703, 2296, 285, 1057, 281, 479, 310, 5486, 281, 1112, 1522, 285, 12078, 366, 13, 1880, 352, 457, 84, 7746, 479, 309, 457, 78, 16076, 285, 22658, 323, 417, 12478, 619, 2316, 13, 15950, 619, 35586, 2439, 253, 5254, 984, 773, 9328, 457, 250, 275, 253, 3430, 1659, 1806, 390, 10941, 479, 281, 617, 38800, 254, 457, 84, 6122, 313, 12563, 619, 2316, 13884, 582, 665, 310, 773, 3062, 1908, 366, 285, 38975, 281, 617, 4651, 1425, 309, 457, 78, 4886, 562, 323, 6831, 275, 247, 4564, 273, 3618, 13, 594, 387, 1878, 309, 476, 8773, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 619, 4929, 544, 1047, 16, 46, 62, 310, 417, 347, 27949, 347, 309, 717, 15, 4923, 344, 457, 84, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 556, 247, 2892, 273, 773, 2377, 14, 1148, 668, 23129, 13, 619, 3101, 310, 34614, 350, 342, 779, 685, 703, 369, 342, 479, 15, 1500, 7787, 521, 2289, 281, 23598, 984, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 4517, 779, 281, 897, 731, 2539, 4360, 15, 496, 253, 2469, 13, 703, 556, 4336, 38737, 247, 16556, 285, 13997, 351, 984, 619, 4929, 5262, 1512, 1199, 673, 327, 731, 15, 844, 457, 306, 644, 1469, 281, 253, 6335, 1046, 1388, 1580, 619, 3101, 457, 84, 3638, 46115, 310, 13567, 619, 4929, 457, 84, 3745, 281, 1263, 387, 1728, 15, 187, 187, 9586, 619, 3213, 45328, 544, 2945, 16, 46, 62, 310, 247, 5487, 15, 754, 310, 16234, 13, 594, 253, 22198, 14166, 5174, 273, 6691, 27441, 1146, 22658, 285, 11339, 310, 2455, 1246, 275, 617, 5899, 11650, 2564, 15, 32271, 359, 452, 12958, 390, 17772, 689, 13, 619, 3213, 45328, 310, 2183, 281, 1333, 326, 344, 310, 24607, 757, 13, 9890, 13, 390, 643, 16175, 1005, 326, 1053, 457, 85, 452, 253, 1072, 35809, 347, 6691, 27441, 15, 2752, 3213, 45328, 556, 12889, 2183, 619, 3101, 849, 18580, 436, 2789, 779, 1928, 13, 533, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 8028, 15, 1500, 7291, 4219, 779, 323, 1046, 1652, 2181, 13, 1223, 344, 816, 12516, 521, 1481, 1066, 285, 3936, 352, 15, 309, 457, 306, 1620, 2378, 3735, 617, 1333, 773, 42, 2389, 368, 668, 390, 897, 667, 1307, 273, 990, 613, 420, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 3101, 310, 671, 247, 5487, 273, 9836, 7242, 285, 247, 12825, 7875, 13, 604, 326, 7729, 281, 5513, 1841, 13, 285, 617, 13216, 7964, 4391, 846, 253, 17038, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 28159, 262, 13, 310, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 281, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 619, 3101, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Everything she says and does to me is meant to belittle and invalidate, whether it’s telling me I’m dirty and lazy for not cleaning my room, throwing my possessions across the floor because “they’re in the wrong place,” or comparing me to her coworker’s daughter (also my roommate), who is “more considerate and respectful to her parents.” I’m moving out for college in a couple of weeks, so at least I can escape. However, my brother [14/M] is not as fortunate as I am. Because he’s in high school and has a history of “sub-par” grades, my mother is stricter with him than she was with me. She limits his access to electronics because she doesn’t trust him to use them responsibly. In the past, she has completely smashed a laptop and ipod because my brother spent too much time on them. We’ve been going to the library every day since my mother’s constant hovering is affecting my brother’s ability to study at home. Even my stepdad [42/M] is a victim. He is Mexican, so the racist stereotype of Mexicans being lazy and stupid is ever present in her traditional Asian mind. Whenever we have guests or relatives over, my stepdad is told to say that he is Colombian, Italian, or other ethnicities that don’t have the same stigma as Mexicans. My stepdad has repeatedly told my mother how awful this makes him feel, but she doesn’t listen. She criticizes him for every little thing, while he just puts his head down and takes it. I’ve never once heard her say “I love you” or use any term of endearment. My mother is also a victim of domestic abuse and a toxic marriage, if that helps to explain things, and her personality definitely changed after the divorce. So reddit, is there anything I can do to help my brother and stepdad deal with my mother before I leave for college? TL;DR:

Mother doesn’t treat anyone in the household with respect. She was in an abusive marriage a few years ago and has changed a lot since her divorce. How can I help my brother and stepdad deal with her before I leave for college?<|endoftext|>

[ 12273, 2506, 457, 85, 1555, 3780, 275, 253, 11692, 342, 1675, 15, 1500, 369, 275, 271, 33408, 7875, 247, 1643, 1107, 3622, 285, 556, 4391, 247, 2257, 1580, 617, 17038, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 617, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My mother is a damaging domino to my brothers and my stepdad, how can I help them?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 3101, 310, 247, 24038, 2328, 2610, 281, 619, 13189, 285, 619, 3213, 45328, 13, 849, 476, 309, 1361, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Everything she says and does to me is meant to belittle and invalidate, whether it’s telling me I’m dirty and lazy for not cleaning my room, throwing my possessions across the floor because “they’re in the wrong place,” or comparing me to her coworker’s daughter (also my roommate), who is “more considerate and respectful to her parents.” I’m moving out for college in a couple of weeks, so at least I can escape. However, my brother [14/M] is not as fortunate as I am. Because he’s in high school and has a history of “sub-par” grades, my mother is stricter with him than she was with me. She limits his access to electronics because she doesn’t trust him to use them responsibly. In the past, she has completely smashed a laptop and ipod because my brother spent too much time on them. We’ve been going to the library every day since my mother’s constant hovering is affecting my brother’s ability to study at home. Even my stepdad [42/M] is a victim. He is Mexican, so the racist stereotype of Mexicans being lazy and stupid is ever present in her traditional Asian mind. Whenever we have guests or relatives over, my stepdad is told to say that he is Colombian, Italian, or other ethnicities that don’t have the same stigma as Mexicans. My stepdad has repeatedly told my mother how awful this makes him feel, but she doesn’t listen. She criticizes him for every little thing, while he just puts his head down and takes it. I’ve never once heard her say “I love you” or use any term of endearment. My mother is also a victim of domestic abuse and a toxic marriage, if that helps to explain things, and her personality definitely changed after the divorce. So reddit, is there anything I can do to help my brother and stepdad deal with my mother before I leave for college? TL;DR: Mother doesn’t treat anyone in the household with respect. She was in an abusive marriage a few years ago and has changed a lot since her divorce. How can I help my brother and stepdad deal with her before I leave for college?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 16942, 703, 2296, 285, 1057, 281, 479, 310, 5486, 281, 1112, 1522, 285, 12078, 366, 13, 1880, 352, 457, 84, 7746, 479, 309, 457, 78, 16076, 285, 22658, 323, 417, 12478, 619, 2316, 13, 15950, 619, 35586, 2439, 253, 5254, 984, 773, 9328, 457, 250, 275, 253, 3430, 1659, 1806, 390, 10941, 479, 281, 617, 38800, 254, 457, 84, 6122, 313, 12563, 619, 2316, 13884, 582, 665, 310, 773, 3062, 1908, 366, 285, 38975, 281, 617, 4651, 1425, 309, 457, 78, 4886, 562, 323, 6831, 275, 247, 4564, 273, 3618, 13, 594, 387, 1878, 309, 476, 8773, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 619, 4929, 544, 1047, 16, 46, 62, 310, 417, 347, 27949, 347, 309, 717, 15, 4923, 344, 457, 84, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 556, 247, 2892, 273, 773, 2377, 14, 1148, 668, 23129, 13, 619, 3101, 310, 34614, 350, 342, 779, 685, 703, 369, 342, 479, 15, 1500, 7787, 521, 2289, 281, 23598, 984, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 4517, 779, 281, 897, 731, 2539, 4360, 15, 496, 253, 2469, 13, 703, 556, 4336, 38737, 247, 16556, 285, 13997, 351, 984, 619, 4929, 5262, 1512, 1199, 673, 327, 731, 15, 844, 457, 306, 644, 1469, 281, 253, 6335, 1046, 1388, 1580, 619, 3101, 457, 84, 3638, 46115, 310, 13567, 619, 4929, 457, 84, 3745, 281, 1263, 387, 1728, 15, 187, 187, 9586, 619, 3213, 45328, 544, 2945, 16, 46, 62, 310, 247, 5487, 15, 754, 310, 16234, 13, 594, 253, 22198, 14166, 5174, 273, 6691, 27441, 1146, 22658, 285, 11339, 310, 2455, 1246, 275, 617, 5899, 11650, 2564, 15, 32271, 359, 452, 12958, 390, 17772, 689, 13, 619, 3213, 45328, 310, 2183, 281, 1333, 326, 344, 310, 24607, 757, 13, 9890, 13, 390, 643, 16175, 1005, 326, 1053, 457, 85, 452, 253, 1072, 35809, 347, 6691, 27441, 15, 2752, 3213, 45328, 556, 12889, 2183, 619, 3101, 849, 18580, 436, 2789, 779, 1928, 13, 533, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 8028, 15, 1500, 7291, 4219, 779, 323, 1046, 1652, 2181, 13, 1223, 344, 816, 12516, 521, 1481, 1066, 285, 3936, 352, 15, 309, 457, 306, 1620, 2378, 3735, 617, 1333, 773, 42, 2389, 368, 668, 390, 897, 667, 1307, 273, 990, 613, 420, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 3101, 310, 671, 247, 5487, 273, 9836, 7242, 285, 247, 12825, 7875, 13, 604, 326, 7729, 281, 5513, 1841, 13, 285, 617, 13216, 7964, 4391, 846, 253, 17038, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 28159, 262, 13, 310, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 281, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 619, 3101, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12273, 2506, 457, 85, 1555, 3780, 275, 253, 11692, 342, 1675, 15, 1500, 369, 275, 271, 33408, 7875, 247, 1643, 1107, 3622, 285, 556, 4391, 247, 2257, 1580, 617, 17038, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 617, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

497

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Everything she says and does to me is meant to belittle and invalidate, whether it’s telling me I’m dirty and lazy for not cleaning my room, throwing my possessions across the floor because “they’re in the wrong place,” or comparing me to her coworker’s daughter (also my roommate), who is “more considerate and respectful to her parents.” I’m moving out for college in a couple of weeks, so at least I can escape. However, my brother [14/M] is not as fortunate as I am. Because he’s in high school and has a history of “sub-par” grades, my mother is stricter with him than she was with me. She limits his access to electronics because she doesn’t trust him to use them responsibly. In the past, she has completely smashed a laptop and ipod because my brother spent too much time on them. We’ve been going to the library every day since my mother’s constant hovering is affecting my brother’s ability to study at home. Even my stepdad [42/M] is a victim. He is Mexican, so the racist stereotype of Mexicans being lazy and stupid is ever present in her traditional Asian mind. Whenever we have guests or relatives over, my stepdad is told to say that he is Colombian, Italian, or other ethnicities that don’t have the same stigma as Mexicans. My stepdad has repeatedly told my mother how awful this makes him feel, but she doesn’t listen. She criticizes him for every little thing, while he just puts his head down and takes it. I’ve never once heard her say “I love you” or use any term of endearment. My mother is also a victim of domestic abuse and a toxic marriage, if that helps to explain things, and her personality definitely changed after the divorce. So reddit, is there anything I can do to help my brother and stepdad deal with my mother before I leave for college? TL;DR: My mother is a damaging domino to my brothers and my stepdad, how can I help them?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 16942, 703, 2296, 285, 1057, 281, 479, 310, 5486, 281, 1112, 1522, 285, 12078, 366, 13, 1880, 352, 457, 84, 7746, 479, 309, 457, 78, 16076, 285, 22658, 323, 417, 12478, 619, 2316, 13, 15950, 619, 35586, 2439, 253, 5254, 984, 773, 9328, 457, 250, 275, 253, 3430, 1659, 1806, 390, 10941, 479, 281, 617, 38800, 254, 457, 84, 6122, 313, 12563, 619, 2316, 13884, 582, 665, 310, 773, 3062, 1908, 366, 285, 38975, 281, 617, 4651, 1425, 309, 457, 78, 4886, 562, 323, 6831, 275, 247, 4564, 273, 3618, 13, 594, 387, 1878, 309, 476, 8773, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 619, 4929, 544, 1047, 16, 46, 62, 310, 417, 347, 27949, 347, 309, 717, 15, 4923, 344, 457, 84, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 556, 247, 2892, 273, 773, 2377, 14, 1148, 668, 23129, 13, 619, 3101, 310, 34614, 350, 342, 779, 685, 703, 369, 342, 479, 15, 1500, 7787, 521, 2289, 281, 23598, 984, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 4517, 779, 281, 897, 731, 2539, 4360, 15, 496, 253, 2469, 13, 703, 556, 4336, 38737, 247, 16556, 285, 13997, 351, 984, 619, 4929, 5262, 1512, 1199, 673, 327, 731, 15, 844, 457, 306, 644, 1469, 281, 253, 6335, 1046, 1388, 1580, 619, 3101, 457, 84, 3638, 46115, 310, 13567, 619, 4929, 457, 84, 3745, 281, 1263, 387, 1728, 15, 187, 187, 9586, 619, 3213, 45328, 544, 2945, 16, 46, 62, 310, 247, 5487, 15, 754, 310, 16234, 13, 594, 253, 22198, 14166, 5174, 273, 6691, 27441, 1146, 22658, 285, 11339, 310, 2455, 1246, 275, 617, 5899, 11650, 2564, 15, 32271, 359, 452, 12958, 390, 17772, 689, 13, 619, 3213, 45328, 310, 2183, 281, 1333, 326, 344, 310, 24607, 757, 13, 9890, 13, 390, 643, 16175, 1005, 326, 1053, 457, 85, 452, 253, 1072, 35809, 347, 6691, 27441, 15, 2752, 3213, 45328, 556, 12889, 2183, 619, 3101, 849, 18580, 436, 2789, 779, 1928, 13, 533, 703, 2506, 457, 85, 8028, 15, 1500, 7291, 4219, 779, 323, 1046, 1652, 2181, 13, 1223, 344, 816, 12516, 521, 1481, 1066, 285, 3936, 352, 15, 309, 457, 306, 1620, 2378, 3735, 617, 1333, 773, 42, 2389, 368, 668, 390, 897, 667, 1307, 273, 990, 613, 420, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 3101, 310, 671, 247, 5487, 273, 9836, 7242, 285, 247, 12825, 7875, 13, 604, 326, 7729, 281, 5513, 1841, 13, 285, 617, 13216, 7964, 4391, 846, 253, 17038, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 28159, 262, 13, 310, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 281, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 619, 3101, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 3101, 310, 247, 24038, 2328, 2610, 281, 619, 13189, 285, 619, 3213, 45328, 13, 849, 476, 309, 1361, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

469

447

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12273, 2506, 457, 85, 1555, 3780, 275, 253, 11692, 342, 1675, 15, 1500, 369, 275, 271, 33408, 7875, 247, 1643, 1107, 3622, 285, 556, 4391, 247, 2257, 1580, 617, 17038, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 1361, 619, 4929, 285, 3213, 45328, 2968, 342, 617, 1078, 309, 3553, 323, 6831, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 3101, 310, 247, 24038, 2328, 2610, 281, 619, 13189, 285, 619, 3213, 45328, 13, 849, 476, 309, 1361, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi Weddit! First time posting here after getting [engaged a few weeks ago] ( because I love reading posts and seeing how encouraging everyone is! But, I am feeling more overwhelmed and kind of bummed rather than excited on even starting wedding planning. We got a lot of mixed receptions regarding our engagement I wasn't expecting, and I started getting super concerned when I realized how much a wedding can cost. So, as we've figured budgeting should be the number one thing on the to do list (thanks to this sub!) here are some decisions that FH and I have made: 1. Long engagement and setting the wedding date in October 2018 to save up. 2. Our list of what is the most important to us about a wedding day and the consensus is: having our two very large families present (160ish on my side, 130ish on his), and good food. (I realize, neither is cheap!) 3. Me possibly picking up a second job. I'm in graduate school and currently work 20 hours a week, but I can pick up something on the weekends. 4. Cutting spending down as much as possible, including couponing, selling a few things at consignment shops, stop eating out so frequently, etc. 5. No family contributions from either of our sides, which is fine, but nothing to factor in there. I guess the

is is that we need to be careful about how much we spend, and we need to figure out if we want to make it a kind of "luxury" wedding. Because it's not. Thanks in advance!

version: where do you start to make a budget when you're working from the ground up and had nothing saved beforehand? Or am I being insane and should just put everything on hold until next May when I have graduated?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 7213, 22940, 2, 209, 187, 6407, 673, 16920, 1060, 846, 2970, 544, 1205, 2961, 247, 1643, 3618, 3622, 62, 313, 984, 309, 2389, 4361, 9319, 285, 6523, 849, 18462, 4130, 310, 2, 209, 187, 1989, 13, 309, 717, 5471, 625, 29991, 285, 2238, 273, 47274, 1314, 2581, 685, 9049, 327, 1014, 4983, 12142, 7219, 15, 844, 1694, 247, 2257, 273, 6804, 4432, 621, 5001, 776, 13226, 309, 3589, 626, 16764, 13, 285, 309, 3053, 2970, 2221, 7514, 672, 309, 8156, 849, 1199, 247, 12142, 476, 2105, 15, 187, 2598, 13, 347, 359, 1849, 15433, 7563, 272, 943, 320, 253, 1180, 581, 2181, 327, 253, 281, 513, 1618, 313, 35501, 281, 436, 749, 13724, 1060, 403, 690, 7089, 326, 48953, 285, 309, 452, 1160, 27, 187, 18, 15, 8057, 13226, 285, 4758, 253, 12142, 3522, 275, 4437, 4765, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 187, 19, 15, 3824, 1618, 273, 752, 310, 253, 954, 1774, 281, 441, 670, 247, 12142, 1388, 285, 253, 13969, 310, 27, 1907, 776, 767, 1077, 1781, 5870, 1246, 313, 9913, 763, 327, 619, 1930, 13, 11084, 763, 327, 521, 582, 285, 1175, 2739, 15, 313, 42, 8968, 13, 6747, 310, 11142, 13724, 209, 187, 20, 15, 3189, 6830, 8871, 598, 247, 1273, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 275, 16125, 2143, 285, 4390, 789, 1384, 3038, 247, 2129, 13, 533, 309, 476, 2619, 598, 1633, 327, 253, 29665, 15, 187, 21, 15, 18665, 1076, 9100, 1066, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 13, 1690, 17625, 12777, 13, 10156, 247, 1643, 1841, 387, 772, 5930, 16999, 13, 3523, 9123, 562, 594, 7208, 13, 3966, 15, 187, 22, 15, 1621, 2021, 9021, 432, 2057, 273, 776, 7123, 13, 534, 310, 4030, 13, 533, 2717, 281, 2803, 275, 627, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 253, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Weddit! First time posting here after getting [engaged a few weeks ago] ( because I love reading posts and seeing how encouraging everyone is! But, I am feeling more overwhelmed and kind of bummed rather than excited on even starting wedding planning. We got a lot of mixed receptions regarding our engagement I wasn't expecting, and I started getting super concerned when I realized how much a wedding can cost. So, as we've figured budgeting should be the number one thing on the to do list (thanks to this sub!) here are some decisions that FH and I have made: 1. Long engagement and setting the wedding date in October 2018 to save up. 2. Our list of what is the most important to us about a wedding day and the consensus is: having our two very large families present (160ish on my side, 130ish on his), and good food. (I realize, neither is cheap!) 3. Me possibly picking up a second job. I'm in graduate school and currently work 20 hours a week, but I can pick up something on the weekends. 4. Cutting spending down as much as possible, including couponing, selling a few things at consignment shops, stop eating out so frequently, etc. 5. No family contributions from either of our sides, which is fine, but nothing to factor in there. I guess the TL;DR:

is is that we need to be careful about how much we spend, and we need to figure out if we want to make it a kind of "luxury" wedding. Because it's not. Thanks in advance!<|endoftext|>

[ 310, 310, 326, 359, 878, 281, 320, 10182, 670, 849, 1199, 359, 6947, 13, 285, 359, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 359, 971, 281, 1056, 352, 247, 2238, 273, 346, 29833, 1626, 3, 12142, 15, 4923, 352, 434, 417, 15, 187, 187, 8061, 275, 7170, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

version: where do you start to make a budget when you're working from the ground up and had nothing saved beforehand? Or am I being insane and should just put everything on hold until next May when I have graduated?<|endoftext|>

[ 2715, 27, 835, 513, 368, 1265, 281, 1056, 247, 7563, 672, 368, 1472, 2444, 432, 253, 3216, 598, 285, 574, 2717, 9809, 38565, 32, 2207, 717, 309, 1146, 24812, 285, 943, 816, 1691, 3253, 327, 2186, 1919, 1735, 2552, 672, 309, 452, 20981, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Weddit! First time posting here after getting [engaged a few weeks ago] ( because I love reading posts and seeing how encouraging everyone is! But, I am feeling more overwhelmed and kind of bummed rather than excited on even starting wedding planning. We got a lot of mixed receptions regarding our engagement I wasn't expecting, and I started getting super concerned when I realized how much a wedding can cost. So, as we've figured budgeting should be the number one thing on the to do list (thanks to this sub!) here are some decisions that FH and I have made: 1. Long engagement and setting the wedding date in October 2018 to save up. 2. Our list of what is the most important to us about a wedding day and the consensus is: having our two very large families present (160ish on my side, 130ish on his), and good food. (I realize, neither is cheap!) 3. Me possibly picking up a second job. I'm in graduate school and currently work 20 hours a week, but I can pick up something on the weekends. 4. Cutting spending down as much as possible, including couponing, selling a few things at consignment shops, stop eating out so frequently, etc. 5. No family contributions from either of our sides, which is fine, but nothing to factor in there. I guess the TL;DR: is is that we need to be careful about how much we spend, and we need to figure out if we want to make it a kind of "luxury" wedding. Because it's not. Thanks in advance!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 7213, 22940, 2, 209, 187, 6407, 673, 16920, 1060, 846, 2970, 544, 1205, 2961, 247, 1643, 3618, 3622, 62, 313, 984, 309, 2389, 4361, 9319, 285, 6523, 849, 18462, 4130, 310, 2, 209, 187, 1989, 13, 309, 717, 5471, 625, 29991, 285, 2238, 273, 47274, 1314, 2581, 685, 9049, 327, 1014, 4983, 12142, 7219, 15, 844, 1694, 247, 2257, 273, 6804, 4432, 621, 5001, 776, 13226, 309, 3589, 626, 16764, 13, 285, 309, 3053, 2970, 2221, 7514, 672, 309, 8156, 849, 1199, 247, 12142, 476, 2105, 15, 187, 2598, 13, 347, 359, 1849, 15433, 7563, 272, 943, 320, 253, 1180, 581, 2181, 327, 253, 281, 513, 1618, 313, 35501, 281, 436, 749, 13724, 1060, 403, 690, 7089, 326, 48953, 285, 309, 452, 1160, 27, 187, 18, 15, 8057, 13226, 285, 4758, 253, 12142, 3522, 275, 4437, 4765, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 187, 19, 15, 3824, 1618, 273, 752, 310, 253, 954, 1774, 281, 441, 670, 247, 12142, 1388, 285, 253, 13969, 310, 27, 1907, 776, 767, 1077, 1781, 5870, 1246, 313, 9913, 763, 327, 619, 1930, 13, 11084, 763, 327, 521, 582, 285, 1175, 2739, 15, 313, 42, 8968, 13, 6747, 310, 11142, 13724, 209, 187, 20, 15, 3189, 6830, 8871, 598, 247, 1273, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 275, 16125, 2143, 285, 4390, 789, 1384, 3038, 247, 2129, 13, 533, 309, 476, 2619, 598, 1633, 327, 253, 29665, 15, 187, 21, 15, 18665, 1076, 9100, 1066, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 13, 1690, 17625, 12777, 13, 10156, 247, 1643, 1841, 387, 772, 5930, 16999, 13, 3523, 9123, 562, 594, 7208, 13, 3966, 15, 187, 22, 15, 1621, 2021, 9021, 432, 2057, 273, 776, 7123, 13, 534, 310, 4030, 13, 533, 2717, 281, 2803, 275, 627, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 253, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 310, 310, 326, 359, 878, 281, 320, 10182, 670, 849, 1199, 359, 6947, 13, 285, 359, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 359, 971, 281, 1056, 352, 247, 2238, 273, 346, 29833, 1626, 3, 12142, 15, 4923, 352, 434, 417, 15, 187, 187, 8061, 275, 7170, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

361

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Weddit! First time posting here after getting [engaged a few weeks ago] ( because I love reading posts and seeing how encouraging everyone is! But, I am feeling more overwhelmed and kind of bummed rather than excited on even starting wedding planning. We got a lot of mixed receptions regarding our engagement I wasn't expecting, and I started getting super concerned when I realized how much a wedding can cost. So, as we've figured budgeting should be the number one thing on the to do list (thanks to this sub!) here are some decisions that FH and I have made: 1. Long engagement and setting the wedding date in October 2018 to save up. 2. Our list of what is the most important to us about a wedding day and the consensus is: having our two very large families present (160ish on my side, 130ish on his), and good food. (I realize, neither is cheap!) 3. Me possibly picking up a second job. I'm in graduate school and currently work 20 hours a week, but I can pick up something on the weekends. 4. Cutting spending down as much as possible, including couponing, selling a few things at consignment shops, stop eating out so frequently, etc. 5. No family contributions from either of our sides, which is fine, but nothing to factor in there. I guess the TL;DR: version: where do you start to make a budget when you're working from the ground up and had nothing saved beforehand? Or am I being insane and should just put everything on hold until next May when I have graduated?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 7213, 22940, 2, 209, 187, 6407, 673, 16920, 1060, 846, 2970, 544, 1205, 2961, 247, 1643, 3618, 3622, 62, 313, 984, 309, 2389, 4361, 9319, 285, 6523, 849, 18462, 4130, 310, 2, 209, 187, 1989, 13, 309, 717, 5471, 625, 29991, 285, 2238, 273, 47274, 1314, 2581, 685, 9049, 327, 1014, 4983, 12142, 7219, 15, 844, 1694, 247, 2257, 273, 6804, 4432, 621, 5001, 776, 13226, 309, 3589, 626, 16764, 13, 285, 309, 3053, 2970, 2221, 7514, 672, 309, 8156, 849, 1199, 247, 12142, 476, 2105, 15, 187, 2598, 13, 347, 359, 1849, 15433, 7563, 272, 943, 320, 253, 1180, 581, 2181, 327, 253, 281, 513, 1618, 313, 35501, 281, 436, 749, 13724, 1060, 403, 690, 7089, 326, 48953, 285, 309, 452, 1160, 27, 187, 18, 15, 8057, 13226, 285, 4758, 253, 12142, 3522, 275, 4437, 4765, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 187, 19, 15, 3824, 1618, 273, 752, 310, 253, 954, 1774, 281, 441, 670, 247, 12142, 1388, 285, 253, 13969, 310, 27, 1907, 776, 767, 1077, 1781, 5870, 1246, 313, 9913, 763, 327, 619, 1930, 13, 11084, 763, 327, 521, 582, 285, 1175, 2739, 15, 313, 42, 8968, 13, 6747, 310, 11142, 13724, 209, 187, 20, 15, 3189, 6830, 8871, 598, 247, 1273, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 275, 16125, 2143, 285, 4390, 789, 1384, 3038, 247, 2129, 13, 533, 309, 476, 2619, 598, 1633, 327, 253, 29665, 15, 187, 21, 15, 18665, 1076, 9100, 1066, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 13, 1690, 17625, 12777, 13, 10156, 247, 1643, 1841, 387, 772, 5930, 16999, 13, 3523, 9123, 562, 594, 7208, 13, 3966, 15, 187, 22, 15, 1621, 2021, 9021, 432, 2057, 273, 776, 7123, 13, 534, 310, 4030, 13, 533, 2717, 281, 2803, 275, 627, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 253, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2715, 27, 835, 513, 368, 1265, 281, 1056, 247, 7563, 672, 368, 1472, 2444, 432, 253, 3216, 598, 285, 574, 2717, 9809, 38565, 32, 2207, 717, 309, 1146, 24812, 285, 943, 816, 1691, 3253, 327, 2186, 1919, 1735, 2552, 672, 309, 452, 20981, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

359

314

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 310, 310, 326, 359, 878, 281, 320, 10182, 670, 849, 1199, 359, 6947, 13, 285, 359, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 604, 359, 971, 281, 1056, 352, 247, 2238, 273, 346, 29833, 1626, 3, 12142, 15, 4923, 352, 434, 417, 15, 187, 187, 8061, 275, 7170, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2715, 27, 835, 513, 368, 1265, 281, 1056, 247, 7563, 672, 368, 1472, 2444, 432, 253, 3216, 598, 285, 574, 2717, 9809, 38565, 32, 2207, 717, 309, 1146, 24812, 285, 943, 816, 1691, 3253, 327, 2186, 1919, 1735, 2552, 672, 309, 452, 20981, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi all, I [23F] have been dating my bf [22M] for more than a year. Throughout the relationship, I have had one very prevalent sexual fantasy of my boyfriend having a threesome with two other girls (not me). In particular, I fantasize my boyfriend having sex with a girl that he had a crush on for ~2 years before we began dating. Is this normal? If I have sexual fantasies about him, I'm never in it. And when I have sexual fantasies that I'm a participant in, he's never in it. I'm very attracted to him (and he I), and we have a great sex life. I'm just worried that there's something that's happening subconsciously.

I have a sexual fantasy about my boyfriend having a threesome with two other women, and I'm worried that something is happening subconsciously.

I have sexual fantasies of my boyfriend with other women (but never with me). Does this mean anything?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 512, 13, 187, 187, 42, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 452, 644, 13597, 619, 270, 71, 544, 1423, 46, 62, 323, 625, 685, 247, 807, 15, 28786, 253, 2954, 13, 309, 452, 574, 581, 1077, 21270, 5615, 16879, 273, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 6838, 313, 1439, 479, 481, 496, 1798, 13, 309, 36159, 907, 619, 22273, 1907, 2825, 342, 247, 3226, 326, 344, 574, 247, 30582, 327, 323, 5062, 19, 1107, 1078, 359, 3407, 13597, 15, 2490, 187, 2513, 436, 2622, 32, 1310, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 670, 779, 13, 309, 1353, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 1244, 672, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 326, 309, 1353, 247, 14687, 275, 13, 344, 434, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 17755, 281, 779, 313, 395, 344, 309, 582, 285, 359, 452, 247, 1270, 2825, 1495, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 11926, 326, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 434, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all, I [23F] have been dating my bf [22M] for more than a year. Throughout the relationship, I have had one very prevalent sexual fantasy of my boyfriend having a threesome with two other girls (not me). In particular, I fantasize my boyfriend having sex with a girl that he had a crush on for ~2 years before we began dating. Is this normal? If I have sexual fantasies about him, I'm never in it. And when I have sexual fantasies that I'm a participant in, he's never in it. I'm very attracted to him (and he I), and we have a great sex life. I'm just worried that there's something that's happening subconsciously. TL;DR:

I have a sexual fantasy about my boyfriend having a threesome with two other women, and I'm worried that something is happening subconsciously.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 247, 5615, 16879, 670, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 2255, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 1633, 310, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I have sexual fantasies of my boyfriend with other women (but never with me). Does this mean anything?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 273, 619, 22273, 342, 643, 2255, 313, 2858, 1620, 342, 479, 481, 9876, 436, 1599, 2712, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all, I [23F] have been dating my bf [22M] for more than a year. Throughout the relationship, I have had one very prevalent sexual fantasy of my boyfriend having a threesome with two other girls (not me). In particular, I fantasize my boyfriend having sex with a girl that he had a crush on for ~2 years before we began dating. Is this normal? If I have sexual fantasies about him, I'm never in it. And when I have sexual fantasies that I'm a participant in, he's never in it. I'm very attracted to him (and he I), and we have a great sex life. I'm just worried that there's something that's happening subconsciously. TL;DR: I have a sexual fantasy about my boyfriend having a threesome with two other women, and I'm worried that something is happening subconsciously.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 512, 13, 187, 187, 42, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 452, 644, 13597, 619, 270, 71, 544, 1423, 46, 62, 323, 625, 685, 247, 807, 15, 28786, 253, 2954, 13, 309, 452, 574, 581, 1077, 21270, 5615, 16879, 273, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 6838, 313, 1439, 479, 481, 496, 1798, 13, 309, 36159, 907, 619, 22273, 1907, 2825, 342, 247, 3226, 326, 344, 574, 247, 30582, 327, 323, 5062, 19, 1107, 1078, 359, 3407, 13597, 15, 2490, 187, 2513, 436, 2622, 32, 1310, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 670, 779, 13, 309, 1353, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 1244, 672, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 326, 309, 1353, 247, 14687, 275, 13, 344, 434, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 17755, 281, 779, 313, 395, 344, 309, 582, 285, 359, 452, 247, 1270, 2825, 1495, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 11926, 326, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 434, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 247, 5615, 16879, 670, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 2255, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 1633, 310, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

209

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi all, I [23F] have been dating my bf [22M] for more than a year. Throughout the relationship, I have had one very prevalent sexual fantasy of my boyfriend having a threesome with two other girls (not me). In particular, I fantasize my boyfriend having sex with a girl that he had a crush on for ~2 years before we began dating. Is this normal? If I have sexual fantasies about him, I'm never in it. And when I have sexual fantasies that I'm a participant in, he's never in it. I'm very attracted to him (and he I), and we have a great sex life. I'm just worried that there's something that's happening subconsciously. TL;DR: I have sexual fantasies of my boyfriend with other women (but never with me). Does this mean anything?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 512, 13, 187, 187, 42, 544, 1508, 39, 62, 452, 644, 13597, 619, 270, 71, 544, 1423, 46, 62, 323, 625, 685, 247, 807, 15, 28786, 253, 2954, 13, 309, 452, 574, 581, 1077, 21270, 5615, 16879, 273, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 6838, 313, 1439, 479, 481, 496, 1798, 13, 309, 36159, 907, 619, 22273, 1907, 2825, 342, 247, 3226, 326, 344, 574, 247, 30582, 327, 323, 5062, 19, 1107, 1078, 359, 3407, 13597, 15, 2490, 187, 2513, 436, 2622, 32, 1310, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 670, 779, 13, 309, 1353, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 1244, 672, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 326, 309, 1353, 247, 14687, 275, 13, 344, 434, 1620, 275, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 17755, 281, 779, 313, 395, 344, 309, 582, 285, 359, 452, 247, 1270, 2825, 1495, 15, 309, 1353, 816, 11926, 326, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 434, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 273, 619, 22273, 342, 643, 2255, 313, 2858, 1620, 342, 479, 481, 9876, 436, 1599, 2712, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

200

178

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 247, 5615, 16879, 670, 619, 22273, 1907, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 767, 643, 2255, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 11926, 326, 1633, 310, 9369, 749, 585, 43386, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 5615, 46983, 273, 619, 22273, 342, 643, 2255, 313, 2858, 1620, 342, 479, 481, 9876, 436, 1599, 2712, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence.

ex wants a bit of fun and sex with random guys, she's known for being a bit of a risk-taker, should I be concerned for her safety?

My ex-wife is fucking random guys and she's not interested in a relationship, should I be concerned for the safety of my kids?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 496, 4247, 309, 9070, 432, 619, 4475, 846, 884, 1107, 273, 7875, 13, 359, 1849, 1694, 721, 807, 1711, 26664, 285, 597, 1024, 3153, 2716, 253, 673, 342, 617, 13, 2716, 342, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 4102, 1694, 715, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6068, 3066, 622, 1754, 2675, 6928, 313, 5622, 423, 83, 309, 1158, 582, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 5605, 281, 452, 794, 285, 2825, 15, 25683, 703, 1833, 452, 253, 6068, 1705, 689, 281, 617, 1659, 672, 309, 1849, 1694, 253, 5753, 15, 2091, 703, 806, 3053, 2509, 436, 13, 247, 1770, 3622, 13, 703, 1461, 1356, 281, 479, 326, 703, 369, 7514, 670, 617, 5252, 13, 309, 5125, 703, 1908, 970, 247, 1027, 4328, 685, 617, 1728, 984, 352, 671, 47566, 253, 5753, 281, 667, 2495, 13, 533, 703, 2427, 6386, 285, 1313, 6068, 387, 617, 1728, 8791, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 2360, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 4390, 556, 577, 6068, 327, 253, 564, 13, 581, 2210, 689, 253, 2360, 1078, 285, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 779, 16682, 1529, 369, 17197, 275, 253, 10329, 7487, 949, 253, 3497, 15, 3771, 281, 320, 2590, 253, 5753, 403, 342, 479, 16682, 436, 310, 512, 9369, 313, 284, 2080, 347, 309, 1353, 6600, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 4125, 323, 479, 352, 434, 247, 2372, 11132, 281, 4089, 512, 436, 984, 273, 619, 2892, 342, 617, 27, 352, 434, 1335, 4942, 4102, 326, 359, 9070, 13, 359, 11766, 574, 2825, 285, 703, 1620, 4955, 284, 1314, 15, 1893, 352, 434, 2590, 703, 434, 1024, 18216, 617, 30545, 285, 18262, 617, 7185, 13, 534, 703, 556, 1046, 987, 281, 15, 187, 187, 3039, 703, 8599, 479, 670, 436, 5017, 309, 816, 755, 9071, 2149, 407, 352, 13, 2120, 273, 619, 1211, 10450, 15, 1500, 434, 7746, 479, 512, 436, 285, 2238, 273, 7004, 346, 261, 436, 10826, 865, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 670, 617, 285, 253, 5753, 5252, 32, 1737, 7535, 476, 309, 1918, 617, 32, 209, 187, 42, 1353, 4680, 253, 5962, 2495, 310, 326, 581, 273, 841, 6068, 7819, 598, 440, 7821, 959, 285, 1912, 626, 3553, 15, 41624, 703, 4852, 327, 247, 6406, 342, 247, 2257, 273, 1175, 952, 703, 812, 1067, 327, 323, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 4041, 2934, 309, 1849, 574, 310, 281, 5007, 617, 544, 2520, 3929, 880, 534, 12088, 670, 19392, 281, 14207, 273, 7217, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR:

ex wants a bit of fun and sex with random guys, she's known for being a bit of a risk-taker, should I be concerned for her safety?<|endoftext|>

[ 385, 5605, 247, 2372, 273, 794, 285, 2825, 342, 3632, 6068, 13, 703, 434, 1929, 323, 1146, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 2495, 14, 85, 4584, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 617, 5252, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My ex-wife is fucking random guys and she's not interested in a relationship, should I be concerned for the safety of my kids?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 385, 14, 27505, 310, 12835, 3632, 6068, 285, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 253, 5252, 273, 619, 5753, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR: ex wants a bit of fun and sex with random guys, she's known for being a bit of a risk-taker, should I be concerned for her safety?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 496, 4247, 309, 9070, 432, 619, 4475, 846, 884, 1107, 273, 7875, 13, 359, 1849, 1694, 721, 807, 1711, 26664, 285, 597, 1024, 3153, 2716, 253, 673, 342, 617, 13, 2716, 342, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 4102, 1694, 715, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6068, 3066, 622, 1754, 2675, 6928, 313, 5622, 423, 83, 309, 1158, 582, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 5605, 281, 452, 794, 285, 2825, 15, 25683, 703, 1833, 452, 253, 6068, 1705, 689, 281, 617, 1659, 672, 309, 1849, 1694, 253, 5753, 15, 2091, 703, 806, 3053, 2509, 436, 13, 247, 1770, 3622, 13, 703, 1461, 1356, 281, 479, 326, 703, 369, 7514, 670, 617, 5252, 13, 309, 5125, 703, 1908, 970, 247, 1027, 4328, 685, 617, 1728, 984, 352, 671, 47566, 253, 5753, 281, 667, 2495, 13, 533, 703, 2427, 6386, 285, 1313, 6068, 387, 617, 1728, 8791, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 2360, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 4390, 556, 577, 6068, 327, 253, 564, 13, 581, 2210, 689, 253, 2360, 1078, 285, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 779, 16682, 1529, 369, 17197, 275, 253, 10329, 7487, 949, 253, 3497, 15, 3771, 281, 320, 2590, 253, 5753, 403, 342, 479, 16682, 436, 310, 512, 9369, 313, 284, 2080, 347, 309, 1353, 6600, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 4125, 323, 479, 352, 434, 247, 2372, 11132, 281, 4089, 512, 436, 984, 273, 619, 2892, 342, 617, 27, 352, 434, 1335, 4942, 4102, 326, 359, 9070, 13, 359, 11766, 574, 2825, 285, 703, 1620, 4955, 284, 1314, 15, 1893, 352, 434, 2590, 703, 434, 1024, 18216, 617, 30545, 285, 18262, 617, 7185, 13, 534, 703, 556, 1046, 987, 281, 15, 187, 187, 3039, 703, 8599, 479, 670, 436, 5017, 309, 816, 755, 9071, 2149, 407, 352, 13, 2120, 273, 619, 1211, 10450, 15, 1500, 434, 7746, 479, 512, 436, 285, 2238, 273, 7004, 346, 261, 436, 10826, 865, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 670, 617, 285, 253, 5753, 5252, 32, 1737, 7535, 476, 309, 1918, 617, 32, 209, 187, 42, 1353, 4680, 253, 5962, 2495, 310, 326, 581, 273, 841, 6068, 7819, 598, 440, 7821, 959, 285, 1912, 626, 3553, 15, 41624, 703, 4852, 327, 247, 6406, 342, 247, 2257, 273, 1175, 952, 703, 812, 1067, 327, 323, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 4041, 2934, 309, 1849, 574, 310, 281, 5007, 617, 544, 2520, 3929, 880, 534, 12088, 670, 19392, 281, 14207, 273, 7217, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 385, 5605, 247, 2372, 273, 794, 285, 2825, 342, 3632, 6068, 13, 703, 434, 1929, 323, 1146, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 2495, 14, 85, 4584, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 617, 5252, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

460

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: In January I separated from my wife after 10 years of marriage, we've got 6 year old twins and they now live half the time with her, half with me. She's recently got into hooking up with guys via app based social networks (Blendr I think), she's not interested in a relationship but just wants to have fun and sex. Usually she'll have the guys come over to her place when I've got the kids. When she first started doing this, a month ago, she confided to me that she was concerned about her safety, I suggested she consider using a different location than her home because it also exposes the kids to any risk, but she went ahead and met guys at her home anyway. Last night she told me she currently has 4 guys on the go, one came over the night before and she had sex with him whilst another was hiding in the garden watching through the window. Just to be clear the kids are with me whilst this is all happening (as far as I'm aware). Now for me it's a bit challenging to hear all this because of my history with her: it's still relatively recently that we separated, we rarely had sex and she never orgasmed. So it's clear she's now exploring her sexuality and enjoying her freedom, which she has every right to. When she tells me about this stuff I just get floored by it, full of my own feelings. She's telling me all this and kind of asking "is this OK?". So should I be concerned about her and the kids safety? What advice can I give her? I'm thinking the biggest risk is that one of these guys turns up uninvited and won't leave. Luckily she lives on a street with a lot of good people she could call on for help. One idea I've had is to send her [this article]( which talks about responding to threats of violence. TL;DR: My ex-wife is fucking random guys and she's not interested in a relationship, should I be concerned for the safety of my kids?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 496, 4247, 309, 9070, 432, 619, 4475, 846, 884, 1107, 273, 7875, 13, 359, 1849, 1694, 721, 807, 1711, 26664, 285, 597, 1024, 3153, 2716, 253, 673, 342, 617, 13, 2716, 342, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 4102, 1694, 715, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6068, 3066, 622, 1754, 2675, 6928, 313, 5622, 423, 83, 309, 1158, 582, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 533, 816, 5605, 281, 452, 794, 285, 2825, 15, 25683, 703, 1833, 452, 253, 6068, 1705, 689, 281, 617, 1659, 672, 309, 1849, 1694, 253, 5753, 15, 2091, 703, 806, 3053, 2509, 436, 13, 247, 1770, 3622, 13, 703, 1461, 1356, 281, 479, 326, 703, 369, 7514, 670, 617, 5252, 13, 309, 5125, 703, 1908, 970, 247, 1027, 4328, 685, 617, 1728, 984, 352, 671, 47566, 253, 5753, 281, 667, 2495, 13, 533, 703, 2427, 6386, 285, 1313, 6068, 387, 617, 1728, 8791, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 2360, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 4390, 556, 577, 6068, 327, 253, 564, 13, 581, 2210, 689, 253, 2360, 1078, 285, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 779, 16682, 1529, 369, 17197, 275, 253, 10329, 7487, 949, 253, 3497, 15, 3771, 281, 320, 2590, 253, 5753, 403, 342, 479, 16682, 436, 310, 512, 9369, 313, 284, 2080, 347, 309, 1353, 6600, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 4125, 323, 479, 352, 434, 247, 2372, 11132, 281, 4089, 512, 436, 984, 273, 619, 2892, 342, 617, 27, 352, 434, 1335, 4942, 4102, 326, 359, 9070, 13, 359, 11766, 574, 2825, 285, 703, 1620, 4955, 284, 1314, 15, 1893, 352, 434, 2590, 703, 434, 1024, 18216, 617, 30545, 285, 18262, 617, 7185, 13, 534, 703, 556, 1046, 987, 281, 15, 187, 187, 3039, 703, 8599, 479, 670, 436, 5017, 309, 816, 755, 9071, 2149, 407, 352, 13, 2120, 273, 619, 1211, 10450, 15, 1500, 434, 7746, 479, 512, 436, 285, 2238, 273, 7004, 346, 261, 436, 10826, 865, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 670, 617, 285, 253, 5753, 5252, 32, 1737, 7535, 476, 309, 1918, 617, 32, 209, 187, 42, 1353, 4680, 253, 5962, 2495, 310, 326, 581, 273, 841, 6068, 7819, 598, 440, 7821, 959, 285, 1912, 626, 3553, 15, 41624, 703, 4852, 327, 247, 6406, 342, 247, 2257, 273, 1175, 952, 703, 812, 1067, 327, 323, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 4041, 2934, 309, 1849, 574, 310, 281, 5007, 617, 544, 2520, 3929, 880, 534, 12088, 670, 19392, 281, 14207, 273, 7217, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 385, 14, 27505, 310, 12835, 3632, 6068, 285, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 253, 5252, 273, 619, 5753, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

454

425

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 385, 5605, 247, 2372, 273, 794, 285, 2825, 342, 3632, 6068, 13, 703, 434, 1929, 323, 1146, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 2495, 14, 85, 4584, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 617, 5252, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 385, 14, 27505, 310, 12835, 3632, 6068, 285, 703, 434, 417, 6110, 275, 247, 2954, 13, 943, 309, 320, 7514, 323, 253, 5252, 273, 619, 5753, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi Reddit, posting here to get some insight from you. This is the story My brother is young and entered college last year he had a scholarship , a bright young man indeed. Nevertheless a year goes by and it turns out that my mom figure out he had basically lost the last year of collegue, he had been known before to be a bit of a stretcher or a liar but this was way beyond that. I went to his college and ask about him and they told me the info that he just did a couple of month and then drop off saying that he was going to switch university (very common where I am). So…… that happened today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she though or what she knew, and boy he describe a completely different character, he told he was sick of cancer, had a job at the embassy and study saturday, he also mention that he got her a scholarship from his "job" and he would pay for her college, and now I don't know what to do how can I talk to my mom?, how can I address this with him?

Brother lied to mom about leaving college and going to another university. Now I am having a hard time trying to get him to talk to her about it, and I don't know what to do.

Brother went to college, mom told me he was a liar and was going to drop off saying he was going to switch university, today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she thought and he told a completely different story, What should I do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 16920, 1060, 281, 755, 690, 12288, 432, 368, 15, 831, 310, 253, 2926, 2752, 4929, 310, 2872, 285, 5966, 6831, 1390, 807, 344, 574, 247, 26104, 1157, 247, 6627, 2872, 637, 6296, 15, 12257, 247, 807, 4566, 407, 285, 352, 7819, 562, 326, 619, 2243, 4677, 562, 344, 574, 10323, 3663, 253, 1390, 807, 273, 18841, 489, 13, 344, 574, 644, 1929, 1078, 281, 320, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 7677, 5316, 390, 247, 43459, 533, 436, 369, 1039, 4457, 326, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 521, 6831, 285, 1642, 670, 779, 285, 597, 2183, 479, 253, 8692, 326, 344, 816, 858, 247, 4564, 273, 1770, 285, 840, 5926, 745, 3981, 326, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 313, 635, 1846, 835, 309, 717, 481, 1893, 18780, 326, 4592, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 2167, 390, 752, 703, 3260, 13, 285, 5006, 344, 6266, 247, 4336, 1027, 1894, 13, 344, 2183, 344, 369, 8334, 273, 2923, 13, 574, 247, 2628, 387, 253, 34202, 285, 1263, 19004, 1201, 13, 344, 671, 3748, 326, 344, 1694, 617, 247, 26104, 432, 521, 346, 17455, 3, 285, 344, 651, 2075, 323, 617, 6831, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 849, 476, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 2243, 32215, 849, 476, 309, 2953, 436, 342, 779, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, posting here to get some insight from you. This is the story My brother is young and entered college last year he had a scholarship, a bright young man indeed. Nevertheless a year goes by and it turns out that my mom figure out he had basically lost the last year of collegue, he had been known before to be a bit of a stretcher or a liar but this was way beyond that. I went to his college and ask about him and they told me the info that he just did a couple of month and then drop off saying that he was going to switch university (very common where I am). So…… that happened today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she though or what she knew, and boy he describe a completely different character, he told he was sick of cancer, had a job at the embassy and study saturday, he also mention that he got her a scholarship from his "job" and he would pay for her college, and now I don't know what to do how can I talk to my mom?, how can I address this with him? TL;DR:

Brother lied to mom about leaving college and going to another university. Now I am having a hard time trying to get him to talk to her about it, and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 14533, 27786, 281, 2243, 670, 6108, 6831, 285, 1469, 281, 1529, 9835, 15, 3954, 309, 717, 1907, 247, 1892, 673, 2820, 281, 755, 779, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Brother went to college, mom told me he was a liar and was going to drop off saying he was going to switch university, today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she thought and he told a completely different story, What should I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 14533, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 2243, 2183, 479, 344, 369, 247, 43459, 285, 369, 1469, 281, 5926, 745, 3981, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 13, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 1869, 285, 344, 2183, 247, 4336, 1027, 2926, 13, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, posting here to get some insight from you. This is the story My brother is young and entered college last year he had a scholarship, a bright young man indeed. Nevertheless a year goes by and it turns out that my mom figure out he had basically lost the last year of collegue, he had been known before to be a bit of a stretcher or a liar but this was way beyond that. I went to his college and ask about him and they told me the info that he just did a couple of month and then drop off saying that he was going to switch university (very common where I am). So…… that happened today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she though or what she knew, and boy he describe a completely different character, he told he was sick of cancer, had a job at the embassy and study saturday, he also mention that he got her a scholarship from his "job" and he would pay for her college, and now I don't know what to do how can I talk to my mom?, how can I address this with him? TL;DR: Brother lied to mom about leaving college and going to another university. Now I am having a hard time trying to get him to talk to her about it, and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 16920, 1060, 281, 755, 690, 12288, 432, 368, 15, 831, 310, 253, 2926, 2752, 4929, 310, 2872, 285, 5966, 6831, 1390, 807, 344, 574, 247, 26104, 13, 247, 6627, 2872, 637, 6296, 15, 12257, 247, 807, 4566, 407, 285, 352, 7819, 562, 326, 619, 2243, 4677, 562, 344, 574, 10323, 3663, 253, 1390, 807, 273, 18841, 489, 13, 344, 574, 644, 1929, 1078, 281, 320, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 7677, 5316, 390, 247, 43459, 533, 436, 369, 1039, 4457, 326, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 521, 6831, 285, 1642, 670, 779, 285, 597, 2183, 479, 253, 8692, 326, 344, 816, 858, 247, 4564, 273, 1770, 285, 840, 5926, 745, 3981, 326, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 313, 635, 1846, 835, 309, 717, 481, 1893, 18780, 326, 4592, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 2167, 390, 752, 703, 3260, 13, 285, 5006, 344, 6266, 247, 4336, 1027, 1894, 13, 344, 2183, 344, 369, 8334, 273, 2923, 13, 574, 247, 2628, 387, 253, 34202, 285, 1263, 19004, 1201, 13, 344, 671, 3748, 326, 344, 1694, 617, 247, 26104, 432, 521, 346, 17455, 3, 285, 344, 651, 2075, 323, 617, 6831, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 849, 476, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 2243, 32215, 849, 476, 309, 2953, 436, 342, 779, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14533, 27786, 281, 2243, 670, 6108, 6831, 285, 1469, 281, 1529, 9835, 15, 3954, 309, 717, 1907, 247, 1892, 673, 2820, 281, 755, 779, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

288

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, posting here to get some insight from you. This is the story My brother is young and entered college last year he had a scholarship, a bright young man indeed. Nevertheless a year goes by and it turns out that my mom figure out he had basically lost the last year of collegue, he had been known before to be a bit of a stretcher or a liar but this was way beyond that. I went to his college and ask about him and they told me the info that he just did a couple of month and then drop off saying that he was going to switch university (very common where I am). So…… that happened today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she though or what she knew, and boy he describe a completely different character, he told he was sick of cancer, had a job at the embassy and study saturday, he also mention that he got her a scholarship from his "job" and he would pay for her college, and now I don't know what to do how can I talk to my mom?, how can I address this with him? TL;DR: Brother went to college, mom told me he was a liar and was going to drop off saying he was going to switch university, today I went to talk to his girlfriend to ask her what she thought and he told a completely different story, What should I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 16920, 1060, 281, 755, 690, 12288, 432, 368, 15, 831, 310, 253, 2926, 2752, 4929, 310, 2872, 285, 5966, 6831, 1390, 807, 344, 574, 247, 26104, 13, 247, 6627, 2872, 637, 6296, 15, 12257, 247, 807, 4566, 407, 285, 352, 7819, 562, 326, 619, 2243, 4677, 562, 344, 574, 10323, 3663, 253, 1390, 807, 273, 18841, 489, 13, 344, 574, 644, 1929, 1078, 281, 320, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 7677, 5316, 390, 247, 43459, 533, 436, 369, 1039, 4457, 326, 15, 309, 2427, 281, 521, 6831, 285, 1642, 670, 779, 285, 597, 2183, 479, 253, 8692, 326, 344, 816, 858, 247, 4564, 273, 1770, 285, 840, 5926, 745, 3981, 326, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 313, 635, 1846, 835, 309, 717, 481, 1893, 18780, 326, 4592, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 2167, 390, 752, 703, 3260, 13, 285, 5006, 344, 6266, 247, 4336, 1027, 1894, 13, 344, 2183, 344, 369, 8334, 273, 2923, 13, 574, 247, 2628, 387, 253, 34202, 285, 1263, 19004, 1201, 13, 344, 671, 3748, 326, 344, 1694, 617, 247, 26104, 432, 521, 346, 17455, 3, 285, 344, 651, 2075, 323, 617, 6831, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 849, 476, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 2243, 32215, 849, 476, 309, 2953, 436, 342, 779, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14533, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 2243, 2183, 479, 344, 369, 247, 43459, 285, 369, 1469, 281, 5926, 745, 3981, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 13, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 1869, 285, 344, 2183, 247, 4336, 1027, 2926, 13, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

301

247

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14533, 27786, 281, 2243, 670, 6108, 6831, 285, 1469, 281, 1529, 9835, 15, 3954, 309, 717, 1907, 247, 1892, 673, 2820, 281, 755, 779, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14533, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 2243, 2183, 479, 344, 369, 247, 43459, 285, 369, 1469, 281, 5926, 745, 3981, 344, 369, 1469, 281, 5234, 9835, 13, 3063, 309, 2427, 281, 2312, 281, 521, 19609, 281, 1642, 617, 752, 703, 1869, 285, 344, 2183, 247, 4336, 1027, 2926, 13, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My bf and I just adopted a 4 month old named Morty over the weekend. He's generally very sweet and likes to cuddle. But there are at least 3-4 incidents everyday where he gets riled up and will start snapping and biting even when he has been exercised or is relaxed. This has never been a problem for either of us with previous pups, but we're worried because he does it with a snarl and bares his teeth whenever we try to calm him down. This usually happens when he's relaxing and we're petting him. Maybe we're bothering him but even when we leave him alone after that, he'll start actively snapping at our hands and barking at us. We've tried taking our hands away and hiding them, ignoring him but that only makes him go for our stomachs, hips, thighs, etc. When we stand up and walk away, he'll come after us, start barking, jumping and biting at our hands anyway. Recently we've tried saying 'no' and redirecting his attention to a toy but he doesn't have any interest in any of his toys. We're worried because he's going to be a big boy and we don't want this meanness or whatever it is to become a habit. He gives us this mean mug and bares his teeth at us every time this happens. When my bf tried to get him off our bed, Morty bit him in the face. He's had many dogs over the years and we've never come across a dog quite like him. Please reddit, any suggestions or tips or anything will help. You're our only hope! :(

4 month old snarls and bites relentlessly in fits (3-4 times a day). Have tried hiding hands, ignoring, redirecting, playing until he's pooped. We don't know what other things to do to try and stop this behavior. Please help if you have any advice!

4 month old gsp bites and snap, won't stop unless we try to calm him down, and sometimes bites and snaps when we try to redirect his attention to a toy.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 270, 71, 285, 309, 816, 8671, 247, 577, 1770, 1711, 4907, 16905, 90, 689, 253, 8849, 15, 754, 434, 3839, 1077, 7353, 285, 13052, 281, 260, 38226, 15, 1292, 627, 403, 387, 1878, 495, 14, 21, 18048, 15363, 835, 344, 4850, 391, 4206, 598, 285, 588, 1265, 3802, 5436, 285, 41185, 1014, 672, 344, 556, 644, 25796, 390, 310, 19595, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 556, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 342, 2045, 268, 8777, 13, 533, 359, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 1057, 352, 342, 247, 3802, 7694, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 10793, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 3798, 6569, 672, 344, 434, 32196, 285, 359, 1472, 7590, 1076, 779, 15, 8948, 359, 1472, 15105, 272, 779, 533, 1014, 672, 359, 3553, 779, 3815, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1833, 1265, 15257, 3802, 5436, 387, 776, 3564, 285, 21939, 272, 387, 441, 15, 187, 1231, 1849, 3597, 3192, 776, 3564, 1977, 285, 17197, 731, 13, 23111, 779, 533, 326, 760, 2789, 779, 564, 323, 776, 12607, 84, 13, 29434, 13, 38855, 13, 3966, 15, 2091, 359, 1462, 598, 285, 2940, 1977, 13, 344, 1833, 1705, 846, 441, 13, 1265, 21939, 272, 13, 22802, 285, 41185, 387, 776, 3564, 8791, 15, 17746, 359, 1849, 3597, 3981, 686, 2369, 8, 285, 21124, 272, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 667, 1600, 275, 667, 273, 521, 23908, 15, 187, 1231, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 247, 1943, 5006, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 479, 1136, 405, 390, 5913, 352, 310, 281, 2489, 247, 8803, 15, 754, 4245, 441, 436, 1599, 33222, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 387, 441, 1046, 673, 436, 6569, 15, 2091, 619, 270, 71, 3597, 281, 755, 779, 745, 776, 3722, 13, 16905, 90, 2372, 779, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 754, 434, 574, 1142, 9097, 689, 253, 1107, 285, 359, 1849, 1620, 1705, 2439, 247, 4370, 3240, 751, 779, 15, 209, 187, 7845, 28159, 262, 13, 667, 13991, 390, 12192, 390, 2712, 588, 1361, 15, 1422, 1472, 776, 760, 3524, 2, 34977, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf and I just adopted a 4 month old named Morty over the weekend. He's generally very sweet and likes to cuddle. But there are at least 3-4 incidents everyday where he gets riled up and will start snapping and biting even when he has been exercised or is relaxed. This has never been a problem for either of us with previous pups, but we're worried because he does it with a snarl and bares his teeth whenever we try to calm him down. This usually happens when he's relaxing and we're petting him. Maybe we're bothering him but even when we leave him alone after that, he'll start actively snapping at our hands and barking at us. We've tried taking our hands away and hiding them, ignoring him but that only makes him go for our stomachs, hips, thighs, etc. When we stand up and walk away, he'll come after us, start barking, jumping and biting at our hands anyway. Recently we've tried saying 'no' and redirecting his attention to a toy but he doesn't have any interest in any of his toys. We're worried because he's going to be a big boy and we don't want this meanness or whatever it is to become a habit. He gives us this mean mug and bares his teeth at us every time this happens. When my bf tried to get him off our bed, Morty bit him in the face. He's had many dogs over the years and we've never come across a dog quite like him. Please reddit, any suggestions or tips or anything will help. You're our only hope! :( TL;DR:

4 month old snarls and bites relentlessly in fits (3-4 times a day). Have tried hiding hands, ignoring, redirecting, playing until he's pooped. We don't know what other things to do to try and stop this behavior. Please help if you have any advice!<|endoftext|>

[ 577, 1770, 1711, 50082, 5200, 285, 38829, 32027, 13102, 275, 13840, 313, 20, 14, 21, 2069, 247, 1388, 481, 12238, 3597, 17197, 3564, 13, 23111, 13, 21124, 272, 13, 4882, 1919, 344, 434, 2963, 11802, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 643, 1841, 281, 513, 281, 1611, 285, 3523, 436, 3879, 15, 7764, 1361, 604, 368, 452, 667, 7535, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

4 month old gsp bites and snap, won't stop unless we try to calm him down, and sometimes bites and snaps when we try to redirect his attention to a toy.<|endoftext|>

[ 577, 1770, 1711, 305, 1033, 38829, 285, 14496, 13, 1912, 626, 3523, 5734, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 13, 285, 4536, 38829, 285, 48569, 672, 359, 1611, 281, 21124, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf and I just adopted a 4 month old named Morty over the weekend. He's generally very sweet and likes to cuddle. But there are at least 3-4 incidents everyday where he gets riled up and will start snapping and biting even when he has been exercised or is relaxed. This has never been a problem for either of us with previous pups, but we're worried because he does it with a snarl and bares his teeth whenever we try to calm him down. This usually happens when he's relaxing and we're petting him. Maybe we're bothering him but even when we leave him alone after that, he'll start actively snapping at our hands and barking at us. We've tried taking our hands away and hiding them, ignoring him but that only makes him go for our stomachs, hips, thighs, etc. When we stand up and walk away, he'll come after us, start barking, jumping and biting at our hands anyway. Recently we've tried saying 'no' and redirecting his attention to a toy but he doesn't have any interest in any of his toys. We're worried because he's going to be a big boy and we don't want this meanness or whatever it is to become a habit. He gives us this mean mug and bares his teeth at us every time this happens. When my bf tried to get him off our bed, Morty bit him in the face. He's had many dogs over the years and we've never come across a dog quite like him. Please reddit, any suggestions or tips or anything will help. You're our only hope! :( TL;DR: 4 month old snarls and bites relentlessly in fits (3-4 times a day). Have tried hiding hands, ignoring, redirecting, playing until he's pooped. We don't know what other things to do to try and stop this behavior. Please help if you have any advice!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 270, 71, 285, 309, 816, 8671, 247, 577, 1770, 1711, 4907, 16905, 90, 689, 253, 8849, 15, 754, 434, 3839, 1077, 7353, 285, 13052, 281, 260, 38226, 15, 1292, 627, 403, 387, 1878, 495, 14, 21, 18048, 15363, 835, 344, 4850, 391, 4206, 598, 285, 588, 1265, 3802, 5436, 285, 41185, 1014, 672, 344, 556, 644, 25796, 390, 310, 19595, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 556, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 342, 2045, 268, 8777, 13, 533, 359, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 1057, 352, 342, 247, 3802, 7694, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 10793, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 3798, 6569, 672, 344, 434, 32196, 285, 359, 1472, 7590, 1076, 779, 15, 8948, 359, 1472, 15105, 272, 779, 533, 1014, 672, 359, 3553, 779, 3815, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1833, 1265, 15257, 3802, 5436, 387, 776, 3564, 285, 21939, 272, 387, 441, 15, 187, 1231, 1849, 3597, 3192, 776, 3564, 1977, 285, 17197, 731, 13, 23111, 779, 533, 326, 760, 2789, 779, 564, 323, 776, 12607, 84, 13, 29434, 13, 38855, 13, 3966, 15, 2091, 359, 1462, 598, 285, 2940, 1977, 13, 344, 1833, 1705, 846, 441, 13, 1265, 21939, 272, 13, 22802, 285, 41185, 387, 776, 3564, 8791, 15, 17746, 359, 1849, 3597, 3981, 686, 2369, 8, 285, 21124, 272, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 667, 1600, 275, 667, 273, 521, 23908, 15, 187, 1231, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 247, 1943, 5006, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 479, 1136, 405, 390, 5913, 352, 310, 281, 2489, 247, 8803, 15, 754, 4245, 441, 436, 1599, 33222, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 387, 441, 1046, 673, 436, 6569, 15, 2091, 619, 270, 71, 3597, 281, 755, 779, 745, 776, 3722, 13, 16905, 90, 2372, 779, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 754, 434, 574, 1142, 9097, 689, 253, 1107, 285, 359, 1849, 1620, 1705, 2439, 247, 4370, 3240, 751, 779, 15, 209, 187, 7845, 28159, 262, 13, 667, 13991, 390, 12192, 390, 2712, 588, 1361, 15, 1422, 1472, 776, 760, 3524, 2, 34977, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 577, 1770, 1711, 50082, 5200, 285, 38829, 32027, 13102, 275, 13840, 313, 20, 14, 21, 2069, 247, 1388, 481, 12238, 3597, 17197, 3564, 13, 23111, 13, 21124, 272, 13, 4882, 1919, 344, 434, 2963, 11802, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 643, 1841, 281, 513, 281, 1611, 285, 3523, 436, 3879, 15, 7764, 1361, 604, 368, 452, 667, 7535, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

432

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My bf and I just adopted a 4 month old named Morty over the weekend. He's generally very sweet and likes to cuddle. But there are at least 3-4 incidents everyday where he gets riled up and will start snapping and biting even when he has been exercised or is relaxed. This has never been a problem for either of us with previous pups, but we're worried because he does it with a snarl and bares his teeth whenever we try to calm him down. This usually happens when he's relaxing and we're petting him. Maybe we're bothering him but even when we leave him alone after that, he'll start actively snapping at our hands and barking at us. We've tried taking our hands away and hiding them, ignoring him but that only makes him go for our stomachs, hips, thighs, etc. When we stand up and walk away, he'll come after us, start barking, jumping and biting at our hands anyway. Recently we've tried saying 'no' and redirecting his attention to a toy but he doesn't have any interest in any of his toys. We're worried because he's going to be a big boy and we don't want this meanness or whatever it is to become a habit. He gives us this mean mug and bares his teeth at us every time this happens. When my bf tried to get him off our bed, Morty bit him in the face. He's had many dogs over the years and we've never come across a dog quite like him. Please reddit, any suggestions or tips or anything will help. You're our only hope! :( TL;DR: 4 month old gsp bites and snap, won't stop unless we try to calm him down, and sometimes bites and snaps when we try to redirect his attention to a toy.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 270, 71, 285, 309, 816, 8671, 247, 577, 1770, 1711, 4907, 16905, 90, 689, 253, 8849, 15, 754, 434, 3839, 1077, 7353, 285, 13052, 281, 260, 38226, 15, 1292, 627, 403, 387, 1878, 495, 14, 21, 18048, 15363, 835, 344, 4850, 391, 4206, 598, 285, 588, 1265, 3802, 5436, 285, 41185, 1014, 672, 344, 556, 644, 25796, 390, 310, 19595, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 556, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 342, 2045, 268, 8777, 13, 533, 359, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 1057, 352, 342, 247, 3802, 7694, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 10793, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 15, 209, 187, 1552, 3798, 6569, 672, 344, 434, 32196, 285, 359, 1472, 7590, 1076, 779, 15, 8948, 359, 1472, 15105, 272, 779, 533, 1014, 672, 359, 3553, 779, 3815, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1833, 1265, 15257, 3802, 5436, 387, 776, 3564, 285, 21939, 272, 387, 441, 15, 187, 1231, 1849, 3597, 3192, 776, 3564, 1977, 285, 17197, 731, 13, 23111, 779, 533, 326, 760, 2789, 779, 564, 323, 776, 12607, 84, 13, 29434, 13, 38855, 13, 3966, 15, 2091, 359, 1462, 598, 285, 2940, 1977, 13, 344, 1833, 1705, 846, 441, 13, 1265, 21939, 272, 13, 22802, 285, 41185, 387, 776, 3564, 8791, 15, 17746, 359, 1849, 3597, 3981, 686, 2369, 8, 285, 21124, 272, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 667, 1600, 275, 667, 273, 521, 23908, 15, 187, 1231, 1472, 11926, 984, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 247, 1943, 5006, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 479, 1136, 405, 390, 5913, 352, 310, 281, 2489, 247, 8803, 15, 754, 4245, 441, 436, 1599, 33222, 285, 270, 4420, 521, 9970, 387, 441, 1046, 673, 436, 6569, 15, 2091, 619, 270, 71, 3597, 281, 755, 779, 745, 776, 3722, 13, 16905, 90, 2372, 779, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 754, 434, 574, 1142, 9097, 689, 253, 1107, 285, 359, 1849, 1620, 1705, 2439, 247, 4370, 3240, 751, 779, 15, 209, 187, 7845, 28159, 262, 13, 667, 13991, 390, 12192, 390, 2712, 588, 1361, 15, 1422, 1472, 776, 760, 3524, 2, 34977, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 577, 1770, 1711, 305, 1033, 38829, 285, 14496, 13, 1912, 626, 3523, 5734, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 13, 285, 4536, 38829, 285, 48569, 672, 359, 1611, 281, 21124, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

408

371

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 577, 1770, 1711, 50082, 5200, 285, 38829, 32027, 13102, 275, 13840, 313, 20, 14, 21, 2069, 247, 1388, 481, 12238, 3597, 17197, 3564, 13, 23111, 13, 21124, 272, 13, 4882, 1919, 344, 434, 2963, 11802, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 643, 1841, 281, 513, 281, 1611, 285, 3523, 436, 3879, 15, 7764, 1361, 604, 368, 452, 667, 7535, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 577, 1770, 1711, 305, 1033, 38829, 285, 14496, 13, 1912, 626, 3523, 5734, 359, 1611, 281, 11874, 779, 1066, 13, 285, 4536, 38829, 285, 48569, 672, 359, 1611, 281, 21124, 521, 4116, 281, 247, 20953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and it's been great. When we first got together it was known that after she graduates (next week) she'd be heading off to medical school. Discussing future plans has never been something we've done and I suppose it was assumed on both sides that we could continue our relationship (long distance). The past few weeks I've had a lot of questions for myself and thought about the what ifs. As of now, we don't have an end goal or date nor do I think we'll even have one. She's about to start a new chapter in her life that she's dreamed of as a kid. I'll be graduating in a year willing to be employed anywhere in the country. She ultimately wants to prolong our relationship for as long as possible. Flying to see each other on occasional weekends and holidays. I don't want to end it either but I know we won't have what we currently do ever again, or at least in the foreseeable future. I also know that the distance will begin to choke us emotionally, falling down a very slow and eventual breakup. I don't want to break up per say but I want us to both come to agreement that "parting" ways is the best thing for both of us. I want to spend the next week as happy as ever with her and continue building memories to remember for when we're no longer together. Problem is, she just doesn't see it that way and from when I mentioned it Sunday evening -- it pretty much sounded like I told her we're breaking up next week after she graduates and leaves. Every night since then has been tearful on her end. I know this is the right and selfless thing to do for both of us, but I just think I'm doing something wrong... She's very sad, and I am too. She just can't believe there is now a predetermined end. What do I do or say?

Girlfriend is moving away and wants to continue long distance relationship. I don't want to break up even though I really think it's what we want.

Girlfriend moving away for medical school. In a relationship with me for a year and a half. We're both moving away soon. Don't know if it's fair to end it, but doesn't want to break up for the sake of long-distance.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 285, 352, 434, 644, 1270, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 1694, 2366, 352, 369, 1929, 326, 846, 703, 31329, 313, 8384, 2129, 10, 703, 1871, 320, 13590, 745, 281, 3739, 2143, 15, 187, 187, 37, 8552, 272, 2852, 5827, 556, 1620, 644, 1633, 359, 1849, 2218, 285, 309, 9428, 352, 369, 8025, 327, 1097, 7123, 326, 359, 812, 4035, 776, 2954, 313, 5056, 4181, 481, 2490, 187, 510, 2469, 1643, 3618, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 2257, 273, 3533, 323, 4266, 285, 1869, 670, 253, 752, 604, 84, 15, 1284, 273, 1024, 13, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 271, 990, 4736, 390, 3522, 4543, 513, 309, 1158, 359, 1833, 1014, 452, 581, 15, 1500, 434, 670, 281, 1265, 247, 747, 8857, 275, 617, 1495, 326, 703, 434, 33305, 273, 347, 247, 5772, 15, 309, 1833, 320, 38588, 275, 247, 807, 7378, 281, 320, 7091, 9825, 275, 253, 2586, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 9142, 5605, 281, 13455, 776, 2954, 323, 347, 1048, 347, 1896, 15, 42027, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 327, 19322, 29665, 285, 23193, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 2057, 533, 309, 871, 359, 1912, 626, 452, 752, 359, 4390, 513, 2455, 969, 13, 390, 387, 1878, 275, 253, 44671, 2852, 15, 309, 671, 871, 326, 253, 4181, 588, 3135, 281, 45266, 441, 28561, 13, 10805, 1066, 247, 1077, 3468, 285, 27585, 2740, 484, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 591, 1333, 533, 309, 971, 441, 281, 1097, 1705, 281, 4345, 326, 346, 2003, 272, 3, 4088, 310, 253, 1682, 2181, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 15, 309, 971, 281, 6947, 253, 1735, 2129, 347, 5211, 347, 2455, 342, 617, 285, 4035, 3652, 12959, 281, 4456, 323, 672, 359, 1472, 642, 3356, 2366, 15, 2490, 187, 36798, 310, 13, 703, 816, 2506, 626, 923, 352, 326, 1039, 285, 432, 672, 309, 5393, 352, 6926, 7237, 1969, 352, 3965, 1199, 17132, 751, 309, 2183, 617, 359, 1472, 10155, 598, 1735, 2129, 846, 703, 31329, 285, 6505, 15, 6000, 2360, 1580, 840, 556, 644, 16024, 1020, 327, 617, 990, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 253, 987, 285, 1881, 1417, 2181, 281, 513, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1158, 309, 1353, 2509, 1633, 3430, 1051, 1500, 434, 1077, 8872, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1512, 15, 1500, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 627, 310, 1024, 247, 17095, 990, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 390, 1333, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and it's been great. When we first got together it was known that after she graduates (next week) she'd be heading off to medical school. Discussing future plans has never been something we've done and I suppose it was assumed on both sides that we could continue our relationship (long distance). The past few weeks I've had a lot of questions for myself and thought about the what ifs. As of now, we don't have an end goal or date nor do I think we'll even have one. She's about to start a new chapter in her life that she's dreamed of as a kid. I'll be graduating in a year willing to be employed anywhere in the country. She ultimately wants to prolong our relationship for as long as possible. Flying to see each other on occasional weekends and holidays. I don't want to end it either but I know we won't have what we currently do ever again, or at least in the foreseeable future. I also know that the distance will begin to choke us emotionally, falling down a very slow and eventual breakup. I don't want to break up per say but I want us to both come to agreement that "parting" ways is the best thing for both of us. I want to spend the next week as happy as ever with her and continue building memories to remember for when we're no longer together. Problem is, she just doesn't see it that way and from when I mentioned it Sunday evening -- it pretty much sounded like I told her we're breaking up next week after she graduates and leaves. Every night since then has been tearful on her end. I know this is the right and selfless thing to do for both of us, but I just think I'm doing something wrong... She's very sad, and I am too. She just can't believe there is now a predetermined end. What do I do or say? TL;DR:

Girlfriend is moving away and wants to continue long distance relationship. I don't want to break up even though I really think it's what we want.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 310, 4886, 1977, 285, 5605, 281, 4035, 1048, 4181, 2954, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 1014, 2167, 309, 1663, 1158, 352, 434, 752, 359, 971, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Girlfriend moving away for medical school. In a relationship with me for a year and a half. We're both moving away soon. Don't know if it's fair to end it, but doesn't want to break up for the sake of long-distance.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 4886, 1977, 323, 3739, 2143, 15, 496, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 15, 844, 1472, 1097, 4886, 1977, 3517, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 604, 352, 434, 4344, 281, 990, 352, 13, 533, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 323, 253, 13232, 273, 1048, 14, 19893, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and it's been great. When we first got together it was known that after she graduates (next week) she'd be heading off to medical school. Discussing future plans has never been something we've done and I suppose it was assumed on both sides that we could continue our relationship (long distance). The past few weeks I've had a lot of questions for myself and thought about the what ifs. As of now, we don't have an end goal or date nor do I think we'll even have one. She's about to start a new chapter in her life that she's dreamed of as a kid. I'll be graduating in a year willing to be employed anywhere in the country. She ultimately wants to prolong our relationship for as long as possible. Flying to see each other on occasional weekends and holidays. I don't want to end it either but I know we won't have what we currently do ever again, or at least in the foreseeable future. I also know that the distance will begin to choke us emotionally, falling down a very slow and eventual breakup. I don't want to break up per say but I want us to both come to agreement that "parting" ways is the best thing for both of us. I want to spend the next week as happy as ever with her and continue building memories to remember for when we're no longer together. Problem is, she just doesn't see it that way and from when I mentioned it Sunday evening -- it pretty much sounded like I told her we're breaking up next week after she graduates and leaves. Every night since then has been tearful on her end. I know this is the right and selfless thing to do for both of us, but I just think I'm doing something wrong... She's very sad, and I am too. She just can't believe there is now a predetermined end. What do I do or say? TL;DR: Girlfriend is moving away and wants to continue long distance relationship. I don't want to break up even though I really think it's what we want.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 285, 352, 434, 644, 1270, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 1694, 2366, 352, 369, 1929, 326, 846, 703, 31329, 313, 8384, 2129, 10, 703, 1871, 320, 13590, 745, 281, 3739, 2143, 15, 187, 187, 37, 8552, 272, 2852, 5827, 556, 1620, 644, 1633, 359, 1849, 2218, 285, 309, 9428, 352, 369, 8025, 327, 1097, 7123, 326, 359, 812, 4035, 776, 2954, 313, 5056, 4181, 481, 2490, 187, 510, 2469, 1643, 3618, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 2257, 273, 3533, 323, 4266, 285, 1869, 670, 253, 752, 604, 84, 15, 1284, 273, 1024, 13, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 271, 990, 4736, 390, 3522, 4543, 513, 309, 1158, 359, 1833, 1014, 452, 581, 15, 1500, 434, 670, 281, 1265, 247, 747, 8857, 275, 617, 1495, 326, 703, 434, 33305, 273, 347, 247, 5772, 15, 309, 1833, 320, 38588, 275, 247, 807, 7378, 281, 320, 7091, 9825, 275, 253, 2586, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 9142, 5605, 281, 13455, 776, 2954, 323, 347, 1048, 347, 1896, 15, 42027, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 327, 19322, 29665, 285, 23193, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 2057, 533, 309, 871, 359, 1912, 626, 452, 752, 359, 4390, 513, 2455, 969, 13, 390, 387, 1878, 275, 253, 44671, 2852, 15, 309, 671, 871, 326, 253, 4181, 588, 3135, 281, 45266, 441, 28561, 13, 10805, 1066, 247, 1077, 3468, 285, 27585, 2740, 484, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 591, 1333, 533, 309, 971, 441, 281, 1097, 1705, 281, 4345, 326, 346, 2003, 272, 3, 4088, 310, 253, 1682, 2181, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 15, 309, 971, 281, 6947, 253, 1735, 2129, 347, 5211, 347, 2455, 342, 617, 285, 4035, 3652, 12959, 281, 4456, 323, 672, 359, 1472, 642, 3356, 2366, 15, 2490, 187, 36798, 310, 13, 703, 816, 2506, 626, 923, 352, 326, 1039, 285, 432, 672, 309, 5393, 352, 6926, 7237, 1969, 352, 3965, 1199, 17132, 751, 309, 2183, 617, 359, 1472, 10155, 598, 1735, 2129, 846, 703, 31329, 285, 6505, 15, 6000, 2360, 1580, 840, 556, 644, 16024, 1020, 327, 617, 990, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 253, 987, 285, 1881, 1417, 2181, 281, 513, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1158, 309, 1353, 2509, 1633, 3430, 1051, 1500, 434, 1077, 8872, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1512, 15, 1500, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 627, 310, 1024, 247, 17095, 990, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 390, 1333, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 310, 4886, 1977, 285, 5605, 281, 4035, 1048, 4181, 2954, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 1014, 2167, 309, 1663, 1158, 352, 434, 752, 359, 971, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

468

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been with my girlfriend for a year and a half and it's been great. When we first got together it was known that after she graduates (next week) she'd be heading off to medical school. Discussing future plans has never been something we've done and I suppose it was assumed on both sides that we could continue our relationship (long distance). The past few weeks I've had a lot of questions for myself and thought about the what ifs. As of now, we don't have an end goal or date nor do I think we'll even have one. She's about to start a new chapter in her life that she's dreamed of as a kid. I'll be graduating in a year willing to be employed anywhere in the country. She ultimately wants to prolong our relationship for as long as possible. Flying to see each other on occasional weekends and holidays. I don't want to end it either but I know we won't have what we currently do ever again, or at least in the foreseeable future. I also know that the distance will begin to choke us emotionally, falling down a very slow and eventual breakup. I don't want to break up per say but I want us to both come to agreement that "parting" ways is the best thing for both of us. I want to spend the next week as happy as ever with her and continue building memories to remember for when we're no longer together. Problem is, she just doesn't see it that way and from when I mentioned it Sunday evening -- it pretty much sounded like I told her we're breaking up next week after she graduates and leaves. Every night since then has been tearful on her end. I know this is the right and selfless thing to do for both of us, but I just think I'm doing something wrong... She's very sad, and I am too. She just can't believe there is now a predetermined end. What do I do or say? TL;DR: Girlfriend moving away for medical school. In a relationship with me for a year and a half. We're both moving away soon. Don't know if it's fair to end it, but doesn't want to break up for the sake of long-distance.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 285, 352, 434, 644, 1270, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 1694, 2366, 352, 369, 1929, 326, 846, 703, 31329, 313, 8384, 2129, 10, 703, 1871, 320, 13590, 745, 281, 3739, 2143, 15, 187, 187, 37, 8552, 272, 2852, 5827, 556, 1620, 644, 1633, 359, 1849, 2218, 285, 309, 9428, 352, 369, 8025, 327, 1097, 7123, 326, 359, 812, 4035, 776, 2954, 313, 5056, 4181, 481, 2490, 187, 510, 2469, 1643, 3618, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 2257, 273, 3533, 323, 4266, 285, 1869, 670, 253, 752, 604, 84, 15, 1284, 273, 1024, 13, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 271, 990, 4736, 390, 3522, 4543, 513, 309, 1158, 359, 1833, 1014, 452, 581, 15, 1500, 434, 670, 281, 1265, 247, 747, 8857, 275, 617, 1495, 326, 703, 434, 33305, 273, 347, 247, 5772, 15, 309, 1833, 320, 38588, 275, 247, 807, 7378, 281, 320, 7091, 9825, 275, 253, 2586, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 9142, 5605, 281, 13455, 776, 2954, 323, 347, 1048, 347, 1896, 15, 42027, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 327, 19322, 29665, 285, 23193, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 2057, 533, 309, 871, 359, 1912, 626, 452, 752, 359, 4390, 513, 2455, 969, 13, 390, 387, 1878, 275, 253, 44671, 2852, 15, 309, 671, 871, 326, 253, 4181, 588, 3135, 281, 45266, 441, 28561, 13, 10805, 1066, 247, 1077, 3468, 285, 27585, 2740, 484, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 591, 1333, 533, 309, 971, 441, 281, 1097, 1705, 281, 4345, 326, 346, 2003, 272, 3, 4088, 310, 253, 1682, 2181, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 15, 309, 971, 281, 6947, 253, 1735, 2129, 347, 5211, 347, 2455, 342, 617, 285, 4035, 3652, 12959, 281, 4456, 323, 672, 359, 1472, 642, 3356, 2366, 15, 2490, 187, 36798, 310, 13, 703, 816, 2506, 626, 923, 352, 326, 1039, 285, 432, 672, 309, 5393, 352, 6926, 7237, 1969, 352, 3965, 1199, 17132, 751, 309, 2183, 617, 359, 1472, 10155, 598, 1735, 2129, 846, 703, 31329, 285, 6505, 15, 6000, 2360, 1580, 840, 556, 644, 16024, 1020, 327, 617, 990, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 253, 987, 285, 1881, 1417, 2181, 281, 513, 323, 1097, 273, 441, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1158, 309, 1353, 2509, 1633, 3430, 1051, 1500, 434, 1077, 8872, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1512, 15, 1500, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 627, 310, 1024, 247, 17095, 990, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 390, 1333, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 4886, 1977, 323, 3739, 2143, 15, 496, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 15, 844, 1472, 1097, 4886, 1977, 3517, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 604, 352, 434, 4344, 281, 990, 352, 13, 533, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 323, 253, 13232, 273, 1048, 14, 19893, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

490

436

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 310, 4886, 1977, 285, 5605, 281, 4035, 1048, 4181, 2954, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 1014, 2167, 309, 1663, 1158, 352, 434, 752, 359, 971, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 4886, 1977, 323, 3739, 2143, 15, 496, 247, 2954, 342, 479, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 15, 844, 1472, 1097, 4886, 1977, 3517, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 604, 352, 434, 4344, 281, 990, 352, 13, 533, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 323, 253, 13232, 273, 1048, 14, 19893, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Things have changed with us and I just don't feel happy anymore. I miss having my life, not having to answer to anyone and things have changed in the relationship, it feels like he doesn't listen to me, if I tell him I don't want sex, he still tries, if I say I don't want hugs as I've had a stressful day and need space, he says things like "oh you don't love me anymore" throws himself to the other side of the bed and sulks. If I go anywhere near to trying to leave him he bursts out crying. I can't stand to see people cry. I stayed In a relationship for 4 years before just because I felt bad and scared of leaving. I don't want this to happen again. I'm not perfect in this relationship either, but I can't see another way out. Everything he does frustrates me now, which causes me to snap at him and neither of us understand why. I can see he's trying so hard to hold on to this but I can't do it. But I feel terrible, I do love him, we've had a great past together, but how do I address this without him having a breakdown on my bedroom floor again?

I feel like I'm never happy, I want to break up but can't and I don't know how to do it.

Boyfriend won't leave me and I'm not sure if I want to break up with him but don't want to ruin our relationship.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19348, 452, 4391, 342, 441, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1928, 5211, 10542, 15, 309, 2985, 1907, 619, 1495, 13, 417, 1907, 281, 3662, 281, 3780, 285, 1841, 452, 4391, 275, 253, 2954, 13, 352, 9193, 751, 344, 2506, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 13, 604, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 2825, 13, 344, 1335, 14177, 13, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 15729, 84, 347, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 33674, 1388, 285, 878, 2317, 13, 344, 2296, 1841, 751, 346, 1368, 368, 1053, 626, 2389, 479, 10542, 3, 12326, 2994, 281, 253, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 3722, 285, 18253, 661, 15, 1310, 309, 564, 9825, 2822, 281, 2820, 281, 3553, 779, 344, 31746, 562, 17800, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 952, 3501, 15, 309, 11791, 496, 247, 2954, 323, 577, 1107, 1078, 816, 984, 309, 3543, 3076, 285, 16060, 273, 6108, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 281, 5108, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 3962, 275, 436, 2954, 2057, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 923, 1529, 1039, 562, 15, 16942, 344, 1057, 15052, 684, 479, 1024, 13, 534, 5997, 479, 281, 14496, 387, 779, 285, 6747, 273, 441, 2096, 2139, 15, 309, 476, 923, 344, 434, 2820, 594, 1892, 281, 2186, 327, 281, 436, 533, 309, 476, 626, 513, 352, 15, 1292, 309, 1928, 11527, 13, 309, 513, 2389, 779, 13, 359, 1849, 574, 247, 1270, 2469, 2366, 13, 533, 849, 513, 309, 2953, 436, 1293, 779, 1907, 247, 19501, 327, 619, 14098, 5254, 969, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have changed with us and I just don't feel happy anymore. I miss having my life, not having to answer to anyone and things have changed in the relationship, it feels like he doesn't listen to me, if I tell him I don't want sex, he still tries, if I say I don't want hugs as I've had a stressful day and need space, he says things like "oh you don't love me anymore" throws himself to the other side of the bed and sulks. If I go anywhere near to trying to leave him he bursts out crying. I can't stand to see people cry. I stayed In a relationship for 4 years before just because I felt bad and scared of leaving. I don't want this to happen again. I'm not perfect in this relationship either, but I can't see another way out. Everything he does frustrates me now, which causes me to snap at him and neither of us understand why. I can see he's trying so hard to hold on to this but I can't do it. But I feel terrible, I do love him, we've had a great past together, but how do I address this without him having a breakdown on my bedroom floor again? TL;DR:

I feel like I'm never happy, I want to break up but can't and I don't know how to do it.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1620, 5211, 13, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 533, 476, 626, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Boyfriend won't leave me and I'm not sure if I want to break up with him but don't want to ruin our relationship.<|endoftext|>

[ 12143, 8471, 1912, 626, 3553, 479, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 779, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 23737, 776, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have changed with us and I just don't feel happy anymore. I miss having my life, not having to answer to anyone and things have changed in the relationship, it feels like he doesn't listen to me, if I tell him I don't want sex, he still tries, if I say I don't want hugs as I've had a stressful day and need space, he says things like "oh you don't love me anymore" throws himself to the other side of the bed and sulks. If I go anywhere near to trying to leave him he bursts out crying. I can't stand to see people cry. I stayed In a relationship for 4 years before just because I felt bad and scared of leaving. I don't want this to happen again. I'm not perfect in this relationship either, but I can't see another way out. Everything he does frustrates me now, which causes me to snap at him and neither of us understand why. I can see he's trying so hard to hold on to this but I can't do it. But I feel terrible, I do love him, we've had a great past together, but how do I address this without him having a breakdown on my bedroom floor again? TL;DR: I feel like I'm never happy, I want to break up but can't and I don't know how to do it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19348, 452, 4391, 342, 441, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1928, 5211, 10542, 15, 309, 2985, 1907, 619, 1495, 13, 417, 1907, 281, 3662, 281, 3780, 285, 1841, 452, 4391, 275, 253, 2954, 13, 352, 9193, 751, 344, 2506, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 13, 604, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 2825, 13, 344, 1335, 14177, 13, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 15729, 84, 347, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 33674, 1388, 285, 878, 2317, 13, 344, 2296, 1841, 751, 346, 1368, 368, 1053, 626, 2389, 479, 10542, 3, 12326, 2994, 281, 253, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 3722, 285, 18253, 661, 15, 1310, 309, 564, 9825, 2822, 281, 2820, 281, 3553, 779, 344, 31746, 562, 17800, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 952, 3501, 15, 309, 11791, 496, 247, 2954, 323, 577, 1107, 1078, 816, 984, 309, 3543, 3076, 285, 16060, 273, 6108, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 281, 5108, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 3962, 275, 436, 2954, 2057, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 923, 1529, 1039, 562, 15, 16942, 344, 1057, 15052, 684, 479, 1024, 13, 534, 5997, 479, 281, 14496, 387, 779, 285, 6747, 273, 441, 2096, 2139, 15, 309, 476, 923, 344, 434, 2820, 594, 1892, 281, 2186, 327, 281, 436, 533, 309, 476, 626, 513, 352, 15, 1292, 309, 1928, 11527, 13, 309, 513, 2389, 779, 13, 359, 1849, 574, 247, 1270, 2469, 2366, 13, 533, 849, 513, 309, 2953, 436, 1293, 779, 1907, 247, 19501, 327, 619, 14098, 5254, 969, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1620, 5211, 13, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 533, 476, 626, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

303

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Things have changed with us and I just don't feel happy anymore. I miss having my life, not having to answer to anyone and things have changed in the relationship, it feels like he doesn't listen to me, if I tell him I don't want sex, he still tries, if I say I don't want hugs as I've had a stressful day and need space, he says things like "oh you don't love me anymore" throws himself to the other side of the bed and sulks. If I go anywhere near to trying to leave him he bursts out crying. I can't stand to see people cry. I stayed In a relationship for 4 years before just because I felt bad and scared of leaving. I don't want this to happen again. I'm not perfect in this relationship either, but I can't see another way out. Everything he does frustrates me now, which causes me to snap at him and neither of us understand why. I can see he's trying so hard to hold on to this but I can't do it. But I feel terrible, I do love him, we've had a great past together, but how do I address this without him having a breakdown on my bedroom floor again? TL;DR: Boyfriend won't leave me and I'm not sure if I want to break up with him but don't want to ruin our relationship.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19348, 452, 4391, 342, 441, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1928, 5211, 10542, 15, 309, 2985, 1907, 619, 1495, 13, 417, 1907, 281, 3662, 281, 3780, 285, 1841, 452, 4391, 275, 253, 2954, 13, 352, 9193, 751, 344, 2506, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 13, 604, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 2825, 13, 344, 1335, 14177, 13, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 15729, 84, 347, 309, 1849, 574, 247, 33674, 1388, 285, 878, 2317, 13, 344, 2296, 1841, 751, 346, 1368, 368, 1053, 626, 2389, 479, 10542, 3, 12326, 2994, 281, 253, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 3722, 285, 18253, 661, 15, 1310, 309, 564, 9825, 2822, 281, 2820, 281, 3553, 779, 344, 31746, 562, 17800, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 281, 923, 952, 3501, 15, 309, 11791, 496, 247, 2954, 323, 577, 1107, 1078, 816, 984, 309, 3543, 3076, 285, 16060, 273, 6108, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 281, 5108, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 3962, 275, 436, 2954, 2057, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 923, 1529, 1039, 562, 15, 16942, 344, 1057, 15052, 684, 479, 1024, 13, 534, 5997, 479, 281, 14496, 387, 779, 285, 6747, 273, 441, 2096, 2139, 15, 309, 476, 923, 344, 434, 2820, 594, 1892, 281, 2186, 327, 281, 436, 533, 309, 476, 626, 513, 352, 15, 1292, 309, 1928, 11527, 13, 309, 513, 2389, 779, 13, 359, 1849, 574, 247, 1270, 2469, 2366, 13, 533, 849, 513, 309, 2953, 436, 1293, 779, 1907, 247, 19501, 327, 619, 14098, 5254, 969, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12143, 8471, 1912, 626, 3553, 479, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 779, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 23737, 776, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

305

276

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1620, 5211, 13, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 533, 476, 626, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12143, 8471, 1912, 626, 3553, 479, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 971, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 779, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 23737, 776, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

A guy started talking to me over Facebook who I've heard about before and occasionally seen. He has a reputation of being a 'player' and hooking up with girls at parties and all that. I'm pretty much the opposite of him. But I humored him and we had quite a lengthy conversation and I was surprised to find that he wasn't as bad as I presumed him to be. I understand that he is probably just hamming it up for my sake. I tried to make it clear to him that I don't buy is charming charade but he just turned to humor and sadly won me over. After constant nagging and provoking on his part, I finally agreed to spend one day to get to know him in person. He insists that I'll like him. I'm still not sure if this is a good idea, as I could be very easily manipulated. But he was being perfectly kind and polite, so I don't want to be rude. How can I get the point across that I do not intend on being another notch on his bed post? A friend of mine who knows him tells me that refusing him will only make him try harder. Does anyone have any tips on how to make him understand I don't want random sex? And, if it's even possible, how to maybe get him interested in me as a person rather than just another lay?

Pretty sure this boy just wants sex. How do I tell him nicely that I'm not just another girl he gets to bang?

Guy I like is not the friend I thought I was, and won't take no for an answer.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 5599, 3053, 5015, 281, 479, 689, 6745, 665, 309, 1849, 3735, 670, 1078, 285, 13949, 2326, 15, 754, 556, 247, 12681, 273, 1146, 247, 686, 15381, 8, 285, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6838, 387, 4676, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 1353, 3965, 1199, 253, 7285, 273, 779, 15, 1292, 309, 1547, 2149, 779, 285, 359, 574, 3240, 247, 24585, 7827, 285, 309, 369, 9861, 281, 1089, 326, 344, 3589, 626, 347, 3076, 347, 309, 24874, 779, 281, 320, 15, 187, 187, 42, 2096, 326, 344, 310, 3164, 816, 288, 28444, 352, 598, 323, 619, 13232, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 1056, 352, 2590, 281, 779, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 4489, 310, 25507, 1018, 796, 533, 344, 816, 3531, 281, 20393, 285, 30018, 1912, 479, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 4553, 3638, 295, 29191, 285, 872, 6856, 327, 521, 629, 13, 309, 4720, 5821, 281, 6947, 581, 1388, 281, 755, 281, 871, 779, 275, 1436, 15, 754, 31533, 326, 309, 1833, 751, 779, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1335, 417, 2119, 604, 436, 310, 247, 1175, 2934, 13, 347, 309, 812, 320, 1077, 4354, 32494, 15, 1292, 344, 369, 1146, 9670, 2238, 285, 30405, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 320, 30446, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 755, 253, 1127, 2439, 326, 309, 513, 417, 18607, 327, 1146, 1529, 38983, 327, 521, 3722, 1501, 32, 329, 3331, 273, 7477, 665, 6057, 779, 8599, 479, 326, 21455, 779, 588, 760, 1056, 779, 1611, 12150, 15, 187, 187, 10795, 3780, 452, 667, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 3632, 2825, 32, 1244, 13, 604, 352, 434, 1014, 1896, 13, 849, 281, 5046, 755, 779, 6110, 275, 479, 347, 247, 1436, 2581, 685, 816, 1529, 2242, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A guy started talking to me over Facebook who I've heard about before and occasionally seen. He has a reputation of being a 'player' and hooking up with girls at parties and all that. I'm pretty much the opposite of him. But I humored him and we had quite a lengthy conversation and I was surprised to find that he wasn't as bad as I presumed him to be. I understand that he is probably just hamming it up for my sake. I tried to make it clear to him that I don't buy is charming charade but he just turned to humor and sadly won me over. After constant nagging and provoking on his part, I finally agreed to spend one day to get to know him in person. He insists that I'll like him. I'm still not sure if this is a good idea, as I could be very easily manipulated. But he was being perfectly kind and polite, so I don't want to be rude. How can I get the point across that I do not intend on being another notch on his bed post? A friend of mine who knows him tells me that refusing him will only make him try harder. Does anyone have any tips on how to make him understand I don't want random sex? And, if it's even possible, how to maybe get him interested in me as a person rather than just another lay? TL;DR:

Pretty sure this boy just wants sex. How do I tell him nicely that I'm not just another girl he gets to bang?<|endoftext|>

[ 37375, 2119, 436, 5006, 816, 5605, 2825, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 23395, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 816, 1529, 3226, 344, 4850, 281, 29246, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Guy I like is not the friend I thought I was, and won't take no for an answer.<|endoftext|>

[ 22757, 309, 751, 310, 417, 253, 3331, 309, 1869, 309, 369, 13, 285, 1912, 626, 1379, 642, 323, 271, 3662, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A guy started talking to me over Facebook who I've heard about before and occasionally seen. He has a reputation of being a 'player' and hooking up with girls at parties and all that. I'm pretty much the opposite of him. But I humored him and we had quite a lengthy conversation and I was surprised to find that he wasn't as bad as I presumed him to be. I understand that he is probably just hamming it up for my sake. I tried to make it clear to him that I don't buy is charming charade but he just turned to humor and sadly won me over. After constant nagging and provoking on his part, I finally agreed to spend one day to get to know him in person. He insists that I'll like him. I'm still not sure if this is a good idea, as I could be very easily manipulated. But he was being perfectly kind and polite, so I don't want to be rude. How can I get the point across that I do not intend on being another notch on his bed post? A friend of mine who knows him tells me that refusing him will only make him try harder. Does anyone have any tips on how to make him understand I don't want random sex? And, if it's even possible, how to maybe get him interested in me as a person rather than just another lay? TL;DR: Pretty sure this boy just wants sex. How do I tell him nicely that I'm not just another girl he gets to bang?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 5599, 3053, 5015, 281, 479, 689, 6745, 665, 309, 1849, 3735, 670, 1078, 285, 13949, 2326, 15, 754, 556, 247, 12681, 273, 1146, 247, 686, 15381, 8, 285, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6838, 387, 4676, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 1353, 3965, 1199, 253, 7285, 273, 779, 15, 1292, 309, 1547, 2149, 779, 285, 359, 574, 3240, 247, 24585, 7827, 285, 309, 369, 9861, 281, 1089, 326, 344, 3589, 626, 347, 3076, 347, 309, 24874, 779, 281, 320, 15, 187, 187, 42, 2096, 326, 344, 310, 3164, 816, 288, 28444, 352, 598, 323, 619, 13232, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 1056, 352, 2590, 281, 779, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 4489, 310, 25507, 1018, 796, 533, 344, 816, 3531, 281, 20393, 285, 30018, 1912, 479, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 4553, 3638, 295, 29191, 285, 872, 6856, 327, 521, 629, 13, 309, 4720, 5821, 281, 6947, 581, 1388, 281, 755, 281, 871, 779, 275, 1436, 15, 754, 31533, 326, 309, 1833, 751, 779, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1335, 417, 2119, 604, 436, 310, 247, 1175, 2934, 13, 347, 309, 812, 320, 1077, 4354, 32494, 15, 1292, 344, 369, 1146, 9670, 2238, 285, 30405, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 320, 30446, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 755, 253, 1127, 2439, 326, 309, 513, 417, 18607, 327, 1146, 1529, 38983, 327, 521, 3722, 1501, 32, 329, 3331, 273, 7477, 665, 6057, 779, 8599, 479, 326, 21455, 779, 588, 760, 1056, 779, 1611, 12150, 15, 187, 187, 10795, 3780, 452, 667, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 3632, 2825, 32, 1244, 13, 604, 352, 434, 1014, 1896, 13, 849, 281, 5046, 755, 779, 6110, 275, 479, 347, 247, 1436, 2581, 685, 816, 1529, 2242, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 37375, 2119, 436, 5006, 816, 5605, 2825, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 23395, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 816, 1529, 3226, 344, 4850, 281, 29246, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

339

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A guy started talking to me over Facebook who I've heard about before and occasionally seen. He has a reputation of being a 'player' and hooking up with girls at parties and all that. I'm pretty much the opposite of him. But I humored him and we had quite a lengthy conversation and I was surprised to find that he wasn't as bad as I presumed him to be. I understand that he is probably just hamming it up for my sake. I tried to make it clear to him that I don't buy is charming charade but he just turned to humor and sadly won me over. After constant nagging and provoking on his part, I finally agreed to spend one day to get to know him in person. He insists that I'll like him. I'm still not sure if this is a good idea, as I could be very easily manipulated. But he was being perfectly kind and polite, so I don't want to be rude. How can I get the point across that I do not intend on being another notch on his bed post? A friend of mine who knows him tells me that refusing him will only make him try harder. Does anyone have any tips on how to make him understand I don't want random sex? And, if it's even possible, how to maybe get him interested in me as a person rather than just another lay? TL;DR: Guy I like is not the friend I thought I was, and won't take no for an answer.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 5599, 3053, 5015, 281, 479, 689, 6745, 665, 309, 1849, 3735, 670, 1078, 285, 13949, 2326, 15, 754, 556, 247, 12681, 273, 1146, 247, 686, 15381, 8, 285, 10584, 272, 598, 342, 6838, 387, 4676, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 1353, 3965, 1199, 253, 7285, 273, 779, 15, 1292, 309, 1547, 2149, 779, 285, 359, 574, 3240, 247, 24585, 7827, 285, 309, 369, 9861, 281, 1089, 326, 344, 3589, 626, 347, 3076, 347, 309, 24874, 779, 281, 320, 15, 187, 187, 42, 2096, 326, 344, 310, 3164, 816, 288, 28444, 352, 598, 323, 619, 13232, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 1056, 352, 2590, 281, 779, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 4489, 310, 25507, 1018, 796, 533, 344, 816, 3531, 281, 20393, 285, 30018, 1912, 479, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 4553, 3638, 295, 29191, 285, 872, 6856, 327, 521, 629, 13, 309, 4720, 5821, 281, 6947, 581, 1388, 281, 755, 281, 871, 779, 275, 1436, 15, 754, 31533, 326, 309, 1833, 751, 779, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1335, 417, 2119, 604, 436, 310, 247, 1175, 2934, 13, 347, 309, 812, 320, 1077, 4354, 32494, 15, 1292, 344, 369, 1146, 9670, 2238, 285, 30405, 13, 594, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 320, 30446, 15, 2490, 187, 2347, 476, 309, 755, 253, 1127, 2439, 326, 309, 513, 417, 18607, 327, 1146, 1529, 38983, 327, 521, 3722, 1501, 32, 329, 3331, 273, 7477, 665, 6057, 779, 8599, 479, 326, 21455, 779, 588, 760, 1056, 779, 1611, 12150, 15, 187, 187, 10795, 3780, 452, 667, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 3632, 2825, 32, 1244, 13, 604, 352, 434, 1014, 1896, 13, 849, 281, 5046, 755, 779, 6110, 275, 479, 347, 247, 1436, 2581, 685, 816, 1529, 2242, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 22757, 309, 751, 310, 417, 253, 3331, 309, 1869, 309, 369, 13, 285, 1912, 626, 1379, 642, 323, 271, 3662, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

334

312

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 37375, 2119, 436, 5006, 816, 5605, 2825, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 23395, 326, 309, 1353, 417, 816, 1529, 3226, 344, 4850, 281, 29246, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 22757, 309, 751, 310, 417, 253, 3331, 309, 1869, 309, 369, 13, 285, 1912, 626, 1379, 642, 323, 271, 3662, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. So at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life. Just before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life. So my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun?

SO and I are on a break. SO is in a therapy program that will hopefully help her to be more independent, give her positive coping mechanisms, and help her set and reach goals. I don't want to start the relationship until I'm certain she wants and is achieving changes in her life. How can I be sure that this is happening and how can we use this time off from each other for our benefit?

SO and I are taking a break, really struggling with her lack of independence and inability to deal with real life. How can we make the break as productive as possible and how can we use the time apart constructively?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 8717, 285, 309, 574, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 840, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 1146, 2366, 327, 285, 745, 15, 380, 2022, 1921, 352, 556, 644, 751, 436, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 10, 310, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 432, 479, 285, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1500, 556, 417, 2918, 1066, 247, 2628, 323, 625, 685, 247, 1770, 387, 247, 673, 13, 617, 4651, 50276, 12080, 617, 8845, 285, 588, 1918, 617, 28742, 672, 703, 12325, 13, 285, 703, 2223, 10224, 281, 2953, 3739, 285, 6255, 1786, 3374, 326, 1705, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 387, 253, 5068, 273, 253, 1770, 359, 574, 247, 1048, 7827, 670, 512, 273, 436, 13, 285, 690, 273, 617, 3858, 6096, 2074, 7350, 342, 617, 672, 703, 5469, 776, 3374, 342, 731, 15, 1500, 369, 6524, 13762, 407, 247, 5343, 3331, 273, 22502, 281, 4901, 247, 1643, 2129, 1048, 1606, 561, 1387, 285, 581, 327, 581, 4918, 2086, 15, 4058, 3331, 753, 326, 352, 1663, 6518, 617, 755, 247, 17628, 285, 1089, 617, 3884, 275, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 6300, 1078, 703, 3407, 1469, 281, 253, 2086, 359, 10062, 969, 15, 50276, 42, 753, 326, 752, 309, 1158, 359, 1663, 878, 987, 1024, 310, 673, 7419, 285, 281, 2701, 253, 673, 359, 2312, 281, 1016, 643, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 1160, 352, 2590, 326, 309, 1335, 1557, 670, 617, 247, 2257, 533, 352, 434, 7552, 9592, 29125, 281, 2968, 342, 617, 10096, 327, 2571, 285, 617, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 32051, 17770, 34759, 15, 1500, 369, 14004, 13, 533, 753, 703, 5605, 281, 513, 5913, 703, 476, 281, 452, 247, 5875, 2954, 285, 671, 4469, 247, 2266, 8327, 281, 755, 247, 2186, 689, 617, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 619, 3533, 403, 27, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 703, 2686, 5605, 281, 285, 310, 1469, 281, 1056, 1524, 21692, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 897, 436, 2180, 273, 9712, 3989, 1242, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 20420, 4901, 715, 247, 2954, 969, 1293, 22802, 253, 5654, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. So at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life. Just before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life. So my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun? TL;DR:

SO and I are on a break. SO is in a therapy program that will hopefully help her to be more independent, give her positive coping mechanisms, and help her set and reach goals. I don't want to start the relationship until I'm certain she wants and is achieving changes in her life. How can I be sure that this is happening and how can we use this time off from each other for our benefit?<|endoftext|>

[ 8717, 285, 309, 403, 327, 247, 2740, 15, 8717, 310, 275, 247, 4918, 2086, 326, 588, 18670, 1361, 617, 281, 320, 625, 3907, 13, 1918, 617, 2762, 30963, 6297, 13, 285, 1361, 617, 873, 285, 3986, 7342, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1265, 253, 2954, 1919, 309, 1353, 2176, 703, 5605, 285, 310, 17170, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 436, 310, 9369, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 436, 673, 745, 432, 1016, 643, 323, 776, 5649, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SO and I are taking a break, really struggling with her lack of independence and inability to deal with real life. How can we make the break as productive as possible and how can we use the time apart constructively?<|endoftext|>

[ 8717, 285, 309, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 13, 1663, 15586, 342, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 285, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 1524, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 359, 1056, 253, 2740, 347, 19303, 347, 1896, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 253, 673, 7419, 3989, 1242, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. So at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life. Just before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life. So my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun? TL;DR: SO and I are on a break. SO is in a therapy program that will hopefully help her to be more independent, give her positive coping mechanisms, and help her set and reach goals. I don't want to start the relationship until I'm certain she wants and is achieving changes in her life. How can I be sure that this is happening and how can we use this time off from each other for our benefit?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 8717, 285, 309, 574, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 840, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 1146, 2366, 327, 285, 745, 15, 380, 2022, 1921, 352, 556, 644, 751, 436, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 10, 310, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 432, 479, 285, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1500, 556, 417, 2918, 1066, 247, 2628, 323, 625, 685, 247, 1770, 387, 247, 673, 13, 617, 4651, 50276, 12080, 617, 8845, 285, 588, 1918, 617, 28742, 672, 703, 12325, 13, 285, 703, 2223, 10224, 281, 2953, 3739, 285, 6255, 1786, 3374, 326, 1705, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 387, 253, 5068, 273, 253, 1770, 359, 574, 247, 1048, 7827, 670, 512, 273, 436, 13, 285, 690, 273, 617, 3858, 6096, 2074, 7350, 342, 617, 672, 703, 5469, 776, 3374, 342, 731, 15, 1500, 369, 6524, 13762, 407, 247, 5343, 3331, 273, 22502, 281, 4901, 247, 1643, 2129, 1048, 1606, 561, 1387, 285, 581, 327, 581, 4918, 2086, 15, 4058, 3331, 753, 326, 352, 1663, 6518, 617, 755, 247, 17628, 285, 1089, 617, 3884, 275, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 6300, 1078, 703, 3407, 1469, 281, 253, 2086, 359, 10062, 969, 15, 50276, 42, 753, 326, 752, 309, 1158, 359, 1663, 878, 987, 1024, 310, 673, 7419, 285, 281, 2701, 253, 673, 359, 2312, 281, 1016, 643, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 1160, 352, 2590, 326, 309, 1335, 1557, 670, 617, 247, 2257, 533, 352, 434, 7552, 9592, 29125, 281, 2968, 342, 617, 10096, 327, 2571, 285, 617, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 32051, 17770, 34759, 15, 1500, 369, 14004, 13, 533, 753, 703, 5605, 281, 513, 5913, 703, 476, 281, 452, 247, 5875, 2954, 285, 671, 4469, 247, 2266, 8327, 281, 755, 247, 2186, 689, 617, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 619, 3533, 403, 27, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 703, 2686, 5605, 281, 285, 310, 1469, 281, 1056, 1524, 21692, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 897, 436, 2180, 273, 9712, 3989, 1242, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 20420, 4901, 715, 247, 2954, 969, 1293, 22802, 253, 5654, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 8717, 285, 309, 403, 327, 247, 2740, 15, 8717, 310, 275, 247, 4918, 2086, 326, 588, 18670, 1361, 617, 281, 320, 625, 3907, 13, 1918, 617, 2762, 30963, 6297, 13, 285, 1361, 617, 873, 285, 3986, 7342, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1265, 253, 2954, 1919, 309, 1353, 2176, 703, 5605, 285, 310, 17170, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 436, 310, 9369, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 436, 673, 745, 432, 1016, 643, 323, 776, 5649, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

451

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My SO and I had been together for about a year and then went through a period of being together on and off. The main reason it has been like this (at least in my eyes) is her lack of independence from me and in her life. She has not held down a job for more than a month at a time, her parents pay her rent and will give her rides when she asks, and she often fails to address medical and mental health issues that come up. So at the beginning of the month we had a long conversation about all of this, and some of her friends shared similar concerns with her when she discussed our issues with them. She was eventually convinced by a female friend of hers to enter a few week long womens group and one on one therapy program. Her friend said that it really helped her get a grip and find her direction in life. Just before she began going to the program we talked again. I said that what I think we really need right now is time apart and to limit the time we talk to each other as much as possible. I made it clear that I still care about her a lot but it's becoming increasingly frustrating to deal with her dependence on others and her inability to deal with lifes harsh realities. She was upset, but said she wants to do whatever she can to have a healthy relationship and also expressed a strong desire to get a hold over her life. So my questions are: How can I be sure that she actually wants to and is going to make real lasting changes in her life? How can we use this period of separation constructively? How can we appropriately enter into a relationship again without jumping the gun? TL;DR: SO and I are taking a break, really struggling with her lack of independence and inability to deal with real life. How can we make the break as productive as possible and how can we use the time apart constructively?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 8717, 285, 309, 574, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 840, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 1146, 2366, 327, 285, 745, 15, 380, 2022, 1921, 352, 556, 644, 751, 436, 313, 255, 1878, 275, 619, 2927, 10, 310, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 432, 479, 285, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1500, 556, 417, 2918, 1066, 247, 2628, 323, 625, 685, 247, 1770, 387, 247, 673, 13, 617, 4651, 50276, 12080, 617, 8845, 285, 588, 1918, 617, 28742, 672, 703, 12325, 13, 285, 703, 2223, 10224, 281, 2953, 3739, 285, 6255, 1786, 3374, 326, 1705, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 387, 253, 5068, 273, 253, 1770, 359, 574, 247, 1048, 7827, 670, 512, 273, 436, 13, 285, 690, 273, 617, 3858, 6096, 2074, 7350, 342, 617, 672, 703, 5469, 776, 3374, 342, 731, 15, 1500, 369, 6524, 13762, 407, 247, 5343, 3331, 273, 22502, 281, 4901, 247, 1643, 2129, 1048, 1606, 561, 1387, 285, 581, 327, 581, 4918, 2086, 15, 4058, 3331, 753, 326, 352, 1663, 6518, 617, 755, 247, 17628, 285, 1089, 617, 3884, 275, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 6300, 1078, 703, 3407, 1469, 281, 253, 2086, 359, 10062, 969, 15, 50276, 42, 753, 326, 752, 309, 1158, 359, 1663, 878, 987, 1024, 310, 673, 7419, 285, 281, 2701, 253, 673, 359, 2312, 281, 1016, 643, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 1160, 352, 2590, 326, 309, 1335, 1557, 670, 617, 247, 2257, 533, 352, 434, 7552, 9592, 29125, 281, 2968, 342, 617, 10096, 327, 2571, 285, 617, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 32051, 17770, 34759, 15, 1500, 369, 14004, 13, 533, 753, 703, 5605, 281, 513, 5913, 703, 476, 281, 452, 247, 5875, 2954, 285, 671, 4469, 247, 2266, 8327, 281, 755, 247, 2186, 689, 617, 1495, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 619, 3533, 403, 27, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 703, 2686, 5605, 281, 285, 310, 1469, 281, 1056, 1524, 21692, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 897, 436, 2180, 273, 9712, 3989, 1242, 32, 1359, 476, 359, 20420, 4901, 715, 247, 2954, 969, 1293, 22802, 253, 5654, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 8717, 285, 309, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 13, 1663, 15586, 342, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 285, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 1524, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 359, 1056, 253, 2740, 347, 19303, 347, 1896, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 253, 673, 7419, 3989, 1242, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

411

366

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 8717, 285, 309, 403, 327, 247, 2740, 15, 8717, 310, 275, 247, 4918, 2086, 326, 588, 18670, 1361, 617, 281, 320, 625, 3907, 13, 1918, 617, 2762, 30963, 6297, 13, 285, 1361, 617, 873, 285, 3986, 7342, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1265, 253, 2954, 1919, 309, 1353, 2176, 703, 5605, 285, 310, 17170, 2544, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 320, 2119, 326, 436, 310, 9369, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 436, 673, 745, 432, 1016, 643, 323, 776, 5649, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 8717, 285, 309, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 13, 1663, 15586, 342, 617, 3480, 273, 14275, 285, 19297, 281, 2968, 342, 1524, 1495, 15, 1359, 476, 359, 1056, 253, 2740, 347, 19303, 347, 1896, 285, 849, 476, 359, 897, 253, 673, 7419, 3989, 1242, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Basically, we got into a huge fight because I have no idea what I want to do and he blew up at me. This isn't the first time. So he found out that I have a temp job, and that they might not keep me on their payroll, which caused more problems. Sunday, he tried to suggest that I try out personal training. I wasn't sure about it but said I would check it out anyway. Then when I said that I might not want to do it, he got mad, we got into another fight and are now not on speaking terms. I seriously don't know what to do. Today I'm supposed to go to a concert with my friend and my mom tells me it's probably better if I come home because she has to talk to me. I'm still going to still go though and just deal with the repercussions another time.

My father and I aren't able to talk because he wants to know the direction I want to go with in my life. I can't stand talking about it all the time despite him trying to help and we yell at each other. This causes problems.

My father (50m) and I (22m) are having huge problems about me already.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 247, 5699, 3819, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 971, 281, 513, 285, 344, 24294, 598, 387, 479, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 253, 806, 673, 15, 1893, 344, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 452, 247, 14712, 2628, 13, 285, 326, 597, 1537, 417, 1978, 479, 327, 616, 36590, 13, 534, 4269, 625, 3237, 15, 2490, 187, 27180, 13, 344, 3597, 281, 1804, 326, 309, 1611, 562, 3367, 3733, 15, 309, 3589, 626, 2119, 670, 352, 533, 753, 309, 651, 2451, 352, 562, 8791, 15, 2635, 672, 309, 753, 326, 309, 1537, 417, 971, 281, 513, 352, 13, 344, 1694, 10279, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 1529, 3819, 285, 403, 1024, 417, 327, 8288, 2426, 15, 309, 10369, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 14569, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 564, 281, 247, 12699, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 619, 2243, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 3164, 1805, 604, 309, 1705, 1728, 984, 703, 556, 281, 2312, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1335, 1469, 281, 1335, 564, 2167, 285, 816, 2968, 342, 253, 21230, 68, 45874, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically, we got into a huge fight because I have no idea what I want to do and he blew up at me. This isn't the first time. So he found out that I have a temp job, and that they might not keep me on their payroll, which caused more problems. Sunday, he tried to suggest that I try out personal training. I wasn't sure about it but said I would check it out anyway. Then when I said that I might not want to do it, he got mad, we got into another fight and are now not on speaking terms. I seriously don't know what to do. Today I'm supposed to go to a concert with my friend and my mom tells me it's probably better if I come home because she has to talk to me. I'm still going to still go though and just deal with the repercussions another time. TL;DR:

My father and I aren't able to talk because he wants to know the direction I want to go with in my life. I can't stand talking about it all the time despite him trying to help and we yell at each other. This causes problems.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 3392, 285, 309, 6403, 626, 2104, 281, 2312, 984, 344, 5605, 281, 871, 253, 3884, 309, 971, 281, 564, 342, 275, 619, 1495, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 5015, 670, 352, 512, 253, 673, 5747, 779, 2820, 281, 1361, 285, 359, 42963, 387, 1016, 643, 15, 831, 5997, 3237, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My father (50m) and I (22m) are having huge problems about me already.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 3392, 313, 1235, 78, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1423, 78, 10, 403, 1907, 5699, 3237, 670, 479, 2168, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically, we got into a huge fight because I have no idea what I want to do and he blew up at me. This isn't the first time. So he found out that I have a temp job, and that they might not keep me on their payroll, which caused more problems. Sunday, he tried to suggest that I try out personal training. I wasn't sure about it but said I would check it out anyway. Then when I said that I might not want to do it, he got mad, we got into another fight and are now not on speaking terms. I seriously don't know what to do. Today I'm supposed to go to a concert with my friend and my mom tells me it's probably better if I come home because she has to talk to me. I'm still going to still go though and just deal with the repercussions another time. TL;DR: My father and I aren't able to talk because he wants to know the direction I want to go with in my life. I can't stand talking about it all the time despite him trying to help and we yell at each other. This causes problems.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 247, 5699, 3819, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 971, 281, 513, 285, 344, 24294, 598, 387, 479, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 253, 806, 673, 15, 1893, 344, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 452, 247, 14712, 2628, 13, 285, 326, 597, 1537, 417, 1978, 479, 327, 616, 36590, 13, 534, 4269, 625, 3237, 15, 2490, 187, 27180, 13, 344, 3597, 281, 1804, 326, 309, 1611, 562, 3367, 3733, 15, 309, 3589, 626, 2119, 670, 352, 533, 753, 309, 651, 2451, 352, 562, 8791, 15, 2635, 672, 309, 753, 326, 309, 1537, 417, 971, 281, 513, 352, 13, 344, 1694, 10279, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 1529, 3819, 285, 403, 1024, 417, 327, 8288, 2426, 15, 309, 10369, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 14569, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 564, 281, 247, 12699, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 619, 2243, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 3164, 1805, 604, 309, 1705, 1728, 984, 703, 556, 281, 2312, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1335, 1469, 281, 1335, 564, 2167, 285, 816, 2968, 342, 253, 21230, 68, 45874, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 3392, 285, 309, 6403, 626, 2104, 281, 2312, 984, 344, 5605, 281, 871, 253, 3884, 309, 971, 281, 564, 342, 275, 619, 1495, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 5015, 670, 352, 512, 253, 673, 5747, 779, 2820, 281, 1361, 285, 359, 42963, 387, 1016, 643, 15, 831, 5997, 3237, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

257

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically, we got into a huge fight because I have no idea what I want to do and he blew up at me. This isn't the first time. So he found out that I have a temp job, and that they might not keep me on their payroll, which caused more problems. Sunday, he tried to suggest that I try out personal training. I wasn't sure about it but said I would check it out anyway. Then when I said that I might not want to do it, he got mad, we got into another fight and are now not on speaking terms. I seriously don't know what to do. Today I'm supposed to go to a concert with my friend and my mom tells me it's probably better if I come home because she has to talk to me. I'm still going to still go though and just deal with the repercussions another time. TL;DR: My father (50m) and I (22m) are having huge problems about me already.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 247, 5699, 3819, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 971, 281, 513, 285, 344, 24294, 598, 387, 479, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 253, 806, 673, 15, 1893, 344, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 452, 247, 14712, 2628, 13, 285, 326, 597, 1537, 417, 1978, 479, 327, 616, 36590, 13, 534, 4269, 625, 3237, 15, 2490, 187, 27180, 13, 344, 3597, 281, 1804, 326, 309, 1611, 562, 3367, 3733, 15, 309, 3589, 626, 2119, 670, 352, 533, 753, 309, 651, 2451, 352, 562, 8791, 15, 2635, 672, 309, 753, 326, 309, 1537, 417, 971, 281, 513, 352, 13, 344, 1694, 10279, 13, 359, 1694, 715, 1529, 3819, 285, 403, 1024, 417, 327, 8288, 2426, 15, 309, 10369, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 14569, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 564, 281, 247, 12699, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 619, 2243, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 3164, 1805, 604, 309, 1705, 1728, 984, 703, 556, 281, 2312, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1335, 1469, 281, 1335, 564, 2167, 285, 816, 2968, 342, 253, 21230, 68, 45874, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 3392, 313, 1235, 78, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1423, 78, 10, 403, 1907, 5699, 3237, 670, 479, 2168, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

226

205

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 3392, 285, 309, 6403, 626, 2104, 281, 2312, 984, 344, 5605, 281, 871, 253, 3884, 309, 971, 281, 564, 342, 275, 619, 1495, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1462, 5015, 670, 352, 512, 253, 673, 5747, 779, 2820, 281, 1361, 285, 359, 42963, 387, 1016, 643, 15, 831, 5997, 3237, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 3392, 313, 1235, 78, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1423, 78, 10, 403, 1907, 5699, 3237, 670, 479, 2168, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world…

Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.

Wanting advice on how to disclose an affair and keep the mistress' name/info from my wife. Need to know if I should disclose where the affair happens and who it happens with.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR:

Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.<|endoftext|>

[ 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Wanting advice on how to disclose an affair and keep the mistress' name/info from my wife. Need to know if I should disclose where the affair happens and who it happens with.<|endoftext|>

[ 411, 25841, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 17611, 271, 18830, 285, 1978, 253, 36285, 8, 1416, 16, 5374, 432, 619, 4475, 15, 50276, 32783, 281, 871, 604, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 18830, 6569, 285, 665, 352, 6569, 342, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR: Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

362

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR: Wanting advice on how to disclose an affair and keep the mistress' name/info from my wife. Need to know if I should disclose where the affair happens and who it happens with.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 411, 25841, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 17611, 271, 18830, 285, 1978, 253, 36285, 8, 1416, 16, 5374, 432, 619, 4475, 15, 50276, 32783, 281, 871, 604, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 18830, 6569, 285, 665, 352, 6569, 342, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

368

328

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 411, 25841, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 17611, 271, 18830, 285, 1978, 253, 36285, 8, 1416, 16, 5374, 432, 619, 4475, 15, 50276, 32783, 281, 871, 604, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 18830, 6569, 285, 665, 352, 6569, 342, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future.

Might have insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to our financial situation. Don't know how to talk about money/finances without hurting her feelings and causing unnecessary stress. Help!

might have implied that girlfriend is a burden due to our financial future separately, need to apologize/talk about it soon bc it could become a huge issue down the road :(

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 374, 1107, 13, 285, 403, 2403, 5827, 323, 4886, 275, 2366, 13, 2970, 9583, 13, 3966, 904, 3966, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 25420, 281, 776, 15577, 5249, 11865, 13, 309, 1353, 327, 3540, 281, 320, 2403, 5836, 49491, 947, 2925, 12715, 625, 2583, 685, 703, 588, 15, 6758, 309, 1353, 2233, 6, 4030, 342, 13, 309, 3260, 326, 672, 359, 1313, 13, 352, 434, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 479, 13, 703, 14528, 752, 703, 1057, 13, 285, 309, 651, 1620, 13, 2455, 971, 617, 281, 789, 247, 2628, 326, 2789, 617, 28714, 12718, 281, 6233, 441, 625, 2583, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 8693, 2360, 359, 497, 5015, 670, 849, 21198, 359, 403, 987, 1024, 342, 776, 33129, 13, 285, 752, 359, 878, 281, 513, 27576, 13, 281, 1379, 3579, 5018, 15, 380, 7827, 13, 1480, 19101, 27, 50275, 187, 50276, 187, 21760, 42, 1353, 6600, 326, 368, 1472, 2403, 670, 347, 1199, 347, 368, 1833, 2455, 1056, 13, 285, 326, 434, 4030, 15, 36388, 512, 273, 776, 4832, 2852, 310, 619, 7977, 281, 4459, 15, 733, 434, 327, 619, 2564, 11485, 13, 285, 352, 434, 24851, 449, 50276, 187, 50275, 187, 15, 50276, 187, 21760, 15953, 15, 40713, 626, 871, 309, 369, 247, 7977, 15, 473, 976, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 5604, 1904, 626, 1599, 326, 36722, 310, 247, 7977, 13, 275, 17134, 18347, 309, 476, 923, 849, 352, 812, 1239, 326, 1039, 15, 3954, 703, 434, 816, 8513, 285, 39309, 285, 1912, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 1611, 281, 5513, 4266, 15, 309, 4934, 2820, 281, 5513, 13, 533, 703, 434, 594, 10416, 598, 327, 253, 3159, 346, 13156, 3354, 449, 14772, 703, 753, 13, 346, 7845, 35531, 432, 970, 253, 3159, 7977, 672, 359, 1472, 16585, 619, 629, 275, 634, 2852, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 1928, 18580, 15, 1292, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 13, 253, 958, 310, 13, 309, 513, 452, 253, 4067, 22915, 2442, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4030, 342, 326, 1051, 2858, 4536, 309, 7953, 755, 29991, 13, 285, 309, 513, 1158, 309, 943, 320, 2104, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 326, 15, 15459, 3246, 7142, 25509, 2378, 359, 403, 3811, 2366, 16, 38982, 285, 776, 33129, 403, 1039, 625, 44463, 967, 685, 597, 403, 1024, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 971, 281, 4677, 253, 2583, 2523, 562, 19473, 2581, 685, 1996, 1051, 9131, 352, 4916, 247, 5699, 2523, 15, 309, 878, 281, 26012, 4889, 452, 247, 25799, 7827, 670, 776, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 275, 253, 2852, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR:

Might have insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to our financial situation. Don't know how to talk about money/finances without hurting her feelings and causing unnecessary stress. Help!<|endoftext|>

[ 35284, 452, 1210, 249, 11634, 326, 619, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 4112, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 670, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 1293, 34426, 617, 10450, 285, 8479, 15279, 4073, 15, 21695, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

might have implied that girlfriend is a burden due to our financial future separately, need to apologize/talk about it soon bc it could become a huge issue down the road :(<|endoftext|>

[ 1537, 452, 10466, 326, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 2852, 11794, 13, 878, 281, 26012, 16, 26209, 670, 352, 3517, 49501, 352, 812, 2489, 247, 5699, 2523, 1066, 253, 3971, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR: Might have insinuated that my girlfriend is a burden due to our financial situation. Don't know how to talk about money/finances without hurting her feelings and causing unnecessary stress. Help!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 374, 1107, 13, 285, 403, 2403, 5827, 323, 4886, 275, 2366, 13, 2970, 9583, 13, 3966, 904, 3966, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 25420, 281, 776, 15577, 5249, 11865, 13, 309, 1353, 327, 3540, 281, 320, 2403, 5836, 49491, 947, 2925, 12715, 625, 2583, 685, 703, 588, 15, 6758, 309, 1353, 2233, 6, 4030, 342, 13, 309, 3260, 326, 672, 359, 1313, 13, 352, 434, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 479, 13, 703, 14528, 752, 703, 1057, 13, 285, 309, 651, 1620, 13, 2455, 971, 617, 281, 789, 247, 2628, 326, 2789, 617, 28714, 12718, 281, 6233, 441, 625, 2583, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 8693, 2360, 359, 497, 5015, 670, 849, 21198, 359, 403, 987, 1024, 342, 776, 33129, 13, 285, 752, 359, 878, 281, 513, 27576, 13, 281, 1379, 3579, 5018, 15, 380, 7827, 13, 1480, 19101, 27, 50275, 187, 50276, 187, 21760, 42, 1353, 6600, 326, 368, 1472, 2403, 670, 347, 1199, 347, 368, 1833, 2455, 1056, 13, 285, 326, 434, 4030, 15, 36388, 512, 273, 776, 4832, 2852, 310, 619, 7977, 281, 4459, 15, 733, 434, 327, 619, 2564, 11485, 13, 285, 352, 434, 24851, 449, 50276, 187, 50275, 187, 15, 50276, 187, 21760, 15953, 15, 40713, 626, 871, 309, 369, 247, 7977, 15, 473, 976, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 5604, 1904, 626, 1599, 326, 36722, 310, 247, 7977, 13, 275, 17134, 18347, 309, 476, 923, 849, 352, 812, 1239, 326, 1039, 15, 3954, 703, 434, 816, 8513, 285, 39309, 285, 1912, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 1611, 281, 5513, 4266, 15, 309, 4934, 2820, 281, 5513, 13, 533, 703, 434, 594, 10416, 598, 327, 253, 3159, 346, 13156, 3354, 449, 14772, 703, 753, 13, 346, 7845, 35531, 432, 970, 253, 3159, 7977, 672, 359, 1472, 16585, 619, 629, 275, 634, 2852, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 1928, 18580, 15, 1292, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 13, 253, 958, 310, 13, 309, 513, 452, 253, 4067, 22915, 2442, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4030, 342, 326, 1051, 2858, 4536, 309, 7953, 755, 29991, 13, 285, 309, 513, 1158, 309, 943, 320, 2104, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 326, 15, 15459, 3246, 7142, 25509, 2378, 359, 403, 3811, 2366, 16, 38982, 285, 776, 33129, 403, 1039, 625, 44463, 967, 685, 597, 403, 1024, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 971, 281, 4677, 253, 2583, 2523, 562, 19473, 2581, 685, 1996, 1051, 9131, 352, 4916, 247, 5699, 2523, 15, 309, 878, 281, 26012, 4889, 452, 247, 25799, 7827, 670, 776, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 275, 253, 2852, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 35284, 452, 1210, 249, 11634, 326, 619, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 4112, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 670, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 1293, 34426, 617, 10450, 285, 8479, 15279, 4073, 15, 21695, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

489

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been together for almost 2 years, and are making plans for moving in together, getting engaged, etc., etc. Due to our mutual career paths, I'm on track to be making CONSIDERABLY more money than she will. Which I'm 100% fine with, I knew that when we met, it's never been a problem for me, she loves what she does, and I would never, ever want her to work a job that makes her miserable solely to earn us more money. Last night we were talking about how stressed we are right now with our finances, and what we need to do financially, to take forward steps. The conversation, direct quotes: >"I'm aware that you're making about as much as you'll ever make, and that's fine. Nearly all of our financial future is my burden to carry. It's on my mind constantly, and it's scary." . >"Sorry. Didn't know I was a burden. Ouch." I certainly didn't mean that SHE is a burden, in hindsight I can see how it could read that way. Now she's just hurt and pissed and won't listen to me try to explain myself. I kept trying to explain, but she's so hung up on the word "burden." Later she said, "Please refrain from using the word burden when we're discussing my part in your future." I feel awful. But at the same time, the fact is, I do have the larger earning potential, and I'm fine with that...but sometimes I DO get overwhelmed, and I do think I should be able to talk to her about that. ESPECIALLY once we are living together/married and our finances are way more intertwined than they are now. I want to figure the money issue out sooner rather than later...before it becomes a huge issue. I need to apologize AND have a constructive conversation about our money/finances in the future. TL;DR: might have implied that girlfriend is a burden due to our financial future separately, need to apologize/talk about it soon bc it could become a huge issue down the road :(<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 374, 1107, 13, 285, 403, 2403, 5827, 323, 4886, 275, 2366, 13, 2970, 9583, 13, 3966, 904, 3966, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 25420, 281, 776, 15577, 5249, 11865, 13, 309, 1353, 327, 3540, 281, 320, 2403, 5836, 49491, 947, 2925, 12715, 625, 2583, 685, 703, 588, 15, 6758, 309, 1353, 2233, 6, 4030, 342, 13, 309, 3260, 326, 672, 359, 1313, 13, 352, 434, 1620, 644, 247, 1895, 323, 479, 13, 703, 14528, 752, 703, 1057, 13, 285, 309, 651, 1620, 13, 2455, 971, 617, 281, 789, 247, 2628, 326, 2789, 617, 28714, 12718, 281, 6233, 441, 625, 2583, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 8693, 2360, 359, 497, 5015, 670, 849, 21198, 359, 403, 987, 1024, 342, 776, 33129, 13, 285, 752, 359, 878, 281, 513, 27576, 13, 281, 1379, 3579, 5018, 15, 380, 7827, 13, 1480, 19101, 27, 50275, 187, 50276, 187, 21760, 42, 1353, 6600, 326, 368, 1472, 2403, 670, 347, 1199, 347, 368, 1833, 2455, 1056, 13, 285, 326, 434, 4030, 15, 36388, 512, 273, 776, 4832, 2852, 310, 619, 7977, 281, 4459, 15, 733, 434, 327, 619, 2564, 11485, 13, 285, 352, 434, 24851, 449, 50276, 187, 50275, 187, 15, 50276, 187, 21760, 15953, 15, 40713, 626, 871, 309, 369, 247, 7977, 15, 473, 976, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 5604, 1904, 626, 1599, 326, 36722, 310, 247, 7977, 13, 275, 17134, 18347, 309, 476, 923, 849, 352, 812, 1239, 326, 1039, 15, 3954, 703, 434, 816, 8513, 285, 39309, 285, 1912, 626, 8028, 281, 479, 1611, 281, 5513, 4266, 15, 309, 4934, 2820, 281, 5513, 13, 533, 703, 434, 594, 10416, 598, 327, 253, 3159, 346, 13156, 3354, 449, 14772, 703, 753, 13, 346, 7845, 35531, 432, 970, 253, 3159, 7977, 672, 359, 1472, 16585, 619, 629, 275, 634, 2852, 449, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 1928, 18580, 15, 1292, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 13, 253, 958, 310, 13, 309, 513, 452, 253, 4067, 22915, 2442, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4030, 342, 326, 1051, 2858, 4536, 309, 7953, 755, 29991, 13, 285, 309, 513, 1158, 309, 943, 320, 2104, 281, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 326, 15, 15459, 3246, 7142, 25509, 2378, 359, 403, 3811, 2366, 16, 38982, 285, 776, 33129, 403, 1039, 625, 44463, 967, 685, 597, 403, 1024, 15, 50276, 187, 50276, 187, 42, 971, 281, 4677, 253, 2583, 2523, 562, 19473, 2581, 685, 1996, 1051, 9131, 352, 4916, 247, 5699, 2523, 15, 309, 878, 281, 26012, 4889, 452, 247, 25799, 7827, 670, 776, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 275, 253, 2852, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1537, 452, 10466, 326, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 2852, 11794, 13, 878, 281, 26012, 16, 26209, 670, 352, 3517, 49501, 352, 812, 2489, 247, 5699, 2523, 1066, 253, 3971, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

484

449

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 35284, 452, 1210, 249, 11634, 326, 619, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 4112, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 670, 2583, 16, 9750, 1972, 1293, 34426, 617, 10450, 285, 8479, 15279, 4073, 15, 21695, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1537, 452, 10466, 326, 19609, 310, 247, 7977, 1955, 281, 776, 4832, 2852, 11794, 13, 878, 281, 26012, 16, 26209, 670, 352, 3517, 49501, 352, 812, 2489, 247, 5699, 2523, 1066, 253, 3971, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider. But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her.

Girlfriend says she isn't in love with me anymore and I don't know what to do.

Girlfriend of four years hates me, but she says she loves me. Says she loves me more than anything else and if I want more I can always ask her.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 13597, 3965, 2872, 15, 353, 3149, 275, 2366, 846, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 497, 275, 339, 468, 494, 15, 844, 452, 253, 1072, 3858, 285, 1557, 323, 731, 1077, 1199, 15, 2490, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 896, 703, 4395, 281, 253, 31504, 313, 8193, 10294, 13, 337, 13, 22, 6285, 4446, 10, 281, 3297, 387, 617, 4651, 6389, 285, 789, 387, 247, 1980, 42766, 1728, 15, 309, 11791, 275, 776, 1728, 281, 789, 387, 247, 10151, 4444, 13, 309, 4307, 1892, 13, 670, 18881, 39112, 275, 253, 1390, 1770, 15, 1500, 671, 4307, 1892, 285, 359, 11766, 574, 253, 673, 281, 2312, 390, 923, 1016, 977, 13, 533, 359, 3597, 1524, 1892, 15, 2490, 187, 7910, 2607, 2720, 273, 617, 3553, 272, 3874, 359, 1097, 574, 247, 1663, 10000, 10130, 13, 285, 497, 2761, 1620, 1728, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 15, 703, 2175, 15929, 275, 9835, 285, 309, 369, 19083, 619, 6561, 4730, 15, 2490, 187, 688, 480, 2988, 703, 3078, 281, 2740, 484, 984, 703, 4571, 626, 1089, 253, 13673, 326, 908, 281, 4446, 441, 15, 309, 38720, 617, 281, 24033, 285, 387, 1878, 1918, 352, 247, 4839, 18093, 408, 776, 33255, 2753, 758, 672, 359, 1871, 320, 896, 2366, 323, 253, 25986, 33644, 15, 1500, 3534, 275, 285, 359, 574, 247, 17916, 323, 253, 3551, 2607, 15, 1500, 10062, 670, 352, 1390, 2129, 326, 703, 1663, 7636, 479, 285, 35891, 479, 323, 2970, 617, 281, 24033, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 840, 1633, 2544, 15, 9859, 278, 6461, 309, 1353, 327, 619, 1039, 281, 923, 617, 13, 703, 12325, 479, 849, 309, 1353, 2970, 627, 285, 2296, 617, 3392, 310, 9366, 2822, 285, 309, 812, 5834, 247, 8488, 342, 779, 13, 703, 840, 8599, 479, 28763, 703, 4453, 3579, 281, 6523, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 281, 617, 13, 1333, 23120, 281, 616, 5798, 703, 5605, 281, 3984, 342, 479, 35641, 314, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 326, 776, 2954, 310, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 2798, 310, 275, 759, 1951, 987, 1024, 15, 309, 1925, 617, 598, 246, 7131, 285, 8764, 7502, 285, 10062, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 48792, 2389, 436, 3416, 13, 619, 2798, 913, 1041, 1046, 2606, 309, 1158, 273, 617, 285, 627, 310, 2717, 309, 651, 751, 625, 275, 253, 1533, 685, 1335, 320, 275, 247, 9279, 11546, 285, 18248, 2954, 342, 617, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider. But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her. TL;DR:

Girlfriend says she isn't in love with me anymore and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 2296, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Girlfriend of four years hates me, but she says she loves me. Says she loves me more than anything else and if I want more I can always ask her.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 273, 1740, 1107, 38232, 479, 13, 533, 703, 2296, 703, 14528, 479, 15, 49918, 703, 14528, 479, 625, 685, 2712, 2010, 285, 604, 309, 971, 625, 309, 476, 1900, 1642, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider. But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her. TL;DR: Girlfriend says she isn't in love with me anymore and I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 13597, 3965, 2872, 15, 353, 3149, 275, 2366, 846, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 497, 275, 339, 468, 494, 15, 844, 452, 253, 1072, 3858, 285, 1557, 323, 731, 1077, 1199, 15, 2490, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 896, 703, 4395, 281, 253, 31504, 313, 8193, 10294, 13, 337, 13, 22, 6285, 4446, 10, 281, 3297, 387, 617, 4651, 6389, 285, 789, 387, 247, 1980, 42766, 1728, 15, 309, 11791, 275, 776, 1728, 281, 789, 387, 247, 10151, 4444, 13, 309, 4307, 1892, 13, 670, 18881, 39112, 275, 253, 1390, 1770, 15, 1500, 671, 4307, 1892, 285, 359, 11766, 574, 253, 673, 281, 2312, 390, 923, 1016, 977, 13, 533, 359, 3597, 1524, 1892, 15, 2490, 187, 7910, 2607, 2720, 273, 617, 3553, 272, 3874, 359, 1097, 574, 247, 1663, 10000, 10130, 13, 285, 497, 2761, 1620, 1728, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 15, 703, 2175, 15929, 275, 9835, 285, 309, 369, 19083, 619, 6561, 4730, 15, 2490, 187, 688, 480, 2988, 703, 3078, 281, 2740, 484, 984, 703, 4571, 626, 1089, 253, 13673, 326, 908, 281, 4446, 441, 15, 309, 38720, 617, 281, 24033, 285, 387, 1878, 1918, 352, 247, 4839, 18093, 408, 776, 33255, 2753, 758, 672, 359, 1871, 320, 896, 2366, 323, 253, 25986, 33644, 15, 1500, 3534, 275, 285, 359, 574, 247, 17916, 323, 253, 3551, 2607, 15, 1500, 10062, 670, 352, 1390, 2129, 326, 703, 1663, 7636, 479, 285, 35891, 479, 323, 2970, 617, 281, 24033, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 840, 1633, 2544, 15, 9859, 278, 6461, 309, 1353, 327, 619, 1039, 281, 923, 617, 13, 703, 12325, 479, 849, 309, 1353, 2970, 627, 285, 2296, 617, 3392, 310, 9366, 2822, 285, 309, 812, 5834, 247, 8488, 342, 779, 13, 703, 840, 8599, 479, 28763, 703, 4453, 3579, 281, 6523, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 281, 617, 13, 1333, 23120, 281, 616, 5798, 703, 5605, 281, 3984, 342, 479, 35641, 314, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 326, 776, 2954, 310, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 2798, 310, 275, 759, 1951, 987, 1024, 15, 309, 1925, 617, 598, 246, 7131, 285, 8764, 7502, 285, 10062, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 48792, 2389, 436, 3416, 13, 619, 2798, 913, 1041, 1046, 2606, 309, 1158, 273, 617, 285, 627, 310, 2717, 309, 651, 751, 625, 275, 253, 1533, 685, 1335, 320, 275, 247, 9279, 11546, 285, 18248, 2954, 342, 617, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 2296, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

448

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We started dating pretty young. Moved in together after a few months and were inseperable. We have the same friends and care for them very much. About 4 months back she moved to the countryside (120km, 1,5hr drive) to stay at her parents farm and work at a local nursery home. I stayed in our home to work at a nearby plant, I worked hard, about 220 hrs in the last month. She also worked hard and we rarely had the time to talk or see eachother, but we tried real hard. Two months prior of her leaveing town we both had a really busy schedule, and were almost never home at the same time. she studies nursing in university and I was finishing my secondary education. In july she wanted to breakup because she couldn't find the spark that used to drive us. I begged her to reconsider and at least give it a chance untill our routines synced when we'd be back together for the autumn semester. She gave in and we had a blast for the coming months. She talked about it last week that she really loved me and thanked me for getting her to reconsider. But then something changes. Last monday I'm on my way to see her, she asks me how I'm getting there and says her father is somewhere near and I could catch a lift with him, she then tells me thats she looks forward to seeing me. But when I get to her, say hello to their cat she wants to speak with me privatly and says that she isn't in love with me anymore and that our relationship is over. My heart is in peaces right now. I called her up tuesday and wednesday and talked for a while. I REALLY love this woman, my heart aches everytime I think of her and there is nothing I would like more in the world than still be in a fruitfull and loving relationship with her. TL;DR: Girlfriend of four years hates me, but she says she loves me. Says she loves me more than anything else and if I want more I can always ask her.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 3053, 13597, 3965, 2872, 15, 353, 3149, 275, 2366, 846, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 497, 275, 339, 468, 494, 15, 844, 452, 253, 1072, 3858, 285, 1557, 323, 731, 1077, 1199, 15, 2490, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 896, 703, 4395, 281, 253, 31504, 313, 8193, 10294, 13, 337, 13, 22, 6285, 4446, 10, 281, 3297, 387, 617, 4651, 6389, 285, 789, 387, 247, 1980, 42766, 1728, 15, 309, 11791, 275, 776, 1728, 281, 789, 387, 247, 10151, 4444, 13, 309, 4307, 1892, 13, 670, 18881, 39112, 275, 253, 1390, 1770, 15, 1500, 671, 4307, 1892, 285, 359, 11766, 574, 253, 673, 281, 2312, 390, 923, 1016, 977, 13, 533, 359, 3597, 1524, 1892, 15, 2490, 187, 7910, 2607, 2720, 273, 617, 3553, 272, 3874, 359, 1097, 574, 247, 1663, 10000, 10130, 13, 285, 497, 2761, 1620, 1728, 387, 253, 1072, 673, 15, 703, 2175, 15929, 275, 9835, 285, 309, 369, 19083, 619, 6561, 4730, 15, 2490, 187, 688, 480, 2988, 703, 3078, 281, 2740, 484, 984, 703, 4571, 626, 1089, 253, 13673, 326, 908, 281, 4446, 441, 15, 309, 38720, 617, 281, 24033, 285, 387, 1878, 1918, 352, 247, 4839, 18093, 408, 776, 33255, 2753, 758, 672, 359, 1871, 320, 896, 2366, 323, 253, 25986, 33644, 15, 1500, 3534, 275, 285, 359, 574, 247, 17916, 323, 253, 3551, 2607, 15, 1500, 10062, 670, 352, 1390, 2129, 326, 703, 1663, 7636, 479, 285, 35891, 479, 323, 2970, 617, 281, 24033, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 840, 1633, 2544, 15, 9859, 278, 6461, 309, 1353, 327, 619, 1039, 281, 923, 617, 13, 703, 12325, 479, 849, 309, 1353, 2970, 627, 285, 2296, 617, 3392, 310, 9366, 2822, 285, 309, 812, 5834, 247, 8488, 342, 779, 13, 703, 840, 8599, 479, 28763, 703, 4453, 3579, 281, 6523, 479, 15, 2490, 187, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 281, 617, 13, 1333, 23120, 281, 616, 5798, 703, 5605, 281, 3984, 342, 479, 35641, 314, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 326, 776, 2954, 310, 689, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 2798, 310, 275, 759, 1951, 987, 1024, 15, 309, 1925, 617, 598, 246, 7131, 285, 8764, 7502, 285, 10062, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 48792, 2389, 436, 3416, 13, 619, 2798, 913, 1041, 1046, 2606, 309, 1158, 273, 617, 285, 627, 310, 2717, 309, 651, 751, 625, 275, 253, 1533, 685, 1335, 320, 275, 247, 9279, 11546, 285, 18248, 2954, 342, 617, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 273, 1740, 1107, 38232, 479, 13, 533, 703, 2296, 703, 14528, 479, 15, 49918, 703, 14528, 479, 625, 685, 2712, 2010, 285, 604, 309, 971, 625, 309, 476, 1900, 1642, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

462

427

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 2296, 703, 3548, 626, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 10542, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 273, 1740, 1107, 38232, 479, 13, 533, 703, 2296, 703, 14528, 479, 15, 49918, 703, 14528, 479, 625, 685, 2712, 2010, 285, 604, 309, 971, 625, 309, 476, 1900, 1642, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I [19m] and (we'll call her) Emma [20f] Have been dating since December 5, 2014, but she moved to Nepal on September 14, 2015. In these eight months, we've Skyped weekly and tried to keep in contact as much as possible otherwise. I guess I should give some background before I continue. I am in my second year of getting my degree in Discrete Applied Mathematics, which I am planning on pushing into graduate studies (not sure exactly how far I want to go yet), so I'll probably be in school for at least 4 more years. Emma's family does work rescuing girls from sex slavery in India, and she is currently working with them, but is split between doing that and teaching. About 5 weeks back, she started making plans to stay in the United States after her furlough in August, and I was going to propose to her in November. 3 days ago, she received a job offer to teach ESL to rescued girls - the perfect job for her. She now, if it's ok with me, wants to return to Nepal after her furlough. I don't want to get in the way of this job for her, but I won't be able to stand watching her leave again. As I have said, she is willing to give up the job for me, but I don't know if I can do that to her. I would just talk to her about it, but if I did that, she would drop the job in an instant, so I want to talk to someone else before she starts burning bridges.

My girlfriend's incredible dream job is in Nepal and she is leaving in a few weeks. I don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I can stand it anymore.

My girlfriend wants to go back to India after her furlough, even though I'm trying to get her to stay in the U.S.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 746, 78, 62, 285, 313, 664, 1833, 1067, 617, 10, 25975, 544, 938, 71, 62, 12238, 644, 13597, 1580, 4565, 608, 13, 4059, 13, 533, 703, 4395, 281, 35020, 327, 4397, 1638, 13, 4104, 15, 496, 841, 4314, 2607, 13, 359, 1849, 8229, 3170, 264, 13772, 285, 3597, 281, 1978, 275, 3057, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 5010, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 309, 943, 1918, 690, 4114, 1078, 309, 4035, 15, 309, 717, 275, 619, 1273, 807, 273, 2970, 619, 4248, 275, 5201, 6713, 29236, 22718, 13, 534, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 13383, 715, 16125, 2175, 313, 1439, 2119, 4555, 849, 2080, 309, 971, 281, 564, 2568, 582, 594, 309, 1833, 3164, 320, 275, 2143, 323, 387, 1878, 577, 625, 1107, 15, 25975, 434, 2021, 1057, 789, 9708, 5845, 6838, 432, 2825, 21245, 275, 5427, 13, 285, 703, 310, 4390, 2444, 342, 731, 13, 533, 310, 8085, 875, 2509, 326, 285, 9551, 15, 187, 187, 10572, 608, 3618, 896, 13, 703, 3053, 2403, 5827, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 1986, 2077, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 275, 4223, 13, 285, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 12661, 281, 617, 275, 4596, 15, 495, 1897, 3622, 13, 703, 2959, 247, 2628, 3959, 281, 9798, 444, 7084, 281, 28187, 6838, 428, 253, 3962, 2628, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 1024, 13, 604, 352, 434, 8718, 342, 479, 13, 5605, 281, 1091, 281, 35020, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 275, 253, 1039, 273, 436, 2628, 323, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1912, 626, 320, 2104, 281, 1462, 7487, 617, 3553, 969, 15, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 452, 753, 13, 703, 310, 7378, 281, 1918, 598, 253, 2628, 323, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 513, 326, 281, 617, 15, 309, 651, 816, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 533, 604, 309, 858, 326, 13, 703, 651, 5926, 253, 2628, 275, 271, 8164, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 2312, 281, 3095, 2010, 1078, 703, 7866, 13195, 24853, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [19m] and (we'll call her) Emma [20f] Have been dating since December 5, 2014, but she moved to Nepal on September 14, 2015. In these eight months, we've Skyped weekly and tried to keep in contact as much as possible otherwise. I guess I should give some background before I continue. I am in my second year of getting my degree in Discrete Applied Mathematics, which I am planning on pushing into graduate studies (not sure exactly how far I want to go yet), so I'll probably be in school for at least 4 more years. Emma's family does work rescuing girls from sex slavery in India, and she is currently working with them, but is split between doing that and teaching. About 5 weeks back, she started making plans to stay in the United States after her furlough in August, and I was going to propose to her in November. 3 days ago, she received a job offer to teach ESL to rescued girls - the perfect job for her. She now, if it's ok with me, wants to return to Nepal after her furlough. I don't want to get in the way of this job for her, but I won't be able to stand watching her leave again. As I have said, she is willing to give up the job for me, but I don't know if I can do that to her. I would just talk to her about it, but if I did that, she would drop the job in an instant, so I want to talk to someone else before she starts burning bridges. TL;DR:

My girlfriend's incredible dream job is in Nepal and she is leaving in a few weeks. I don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I can stand it anymore.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 19609, 434, 14331, 7156, 2628, 310, 275, 35020, 285, 703, 310, 6108, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7168, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1462, 352, 10542, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My girlfriend wants to go back to India after her furlough, even though I'm trying to get her to stay in the U.S.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 19609, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 5427, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 13, 1014, 2167, 309, 1353, 2820, 281, 755, 617, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 530, 15, 52, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [19m] and (we'll call her) Emma [20f] Have been dating since December 5, 2014, but she moved to Nepal on September 14, 2015. In these eight months, we've Skyped weekly and tried to keep in contact as much as possible otherwise. I guess I should give some background before I continue. I am in my second year of getting my degree in Discrete Applied Mathematics, which I am planning on pushing into graduate studies (not sure exactly how far I want to go yet), so I'll probably be in school for at least 4 more years. Emma's family does work rescuing girls from sex slavery in India, and she is currently working with them, but is split between doing that and teaching. About 5 weeks back, she started making plans to stay in the United States after her furlough in August, and I was going to propose to her in November. 3 days ago, she received a job offer to teach ESL to rescued girls - the perfect job for her. She now, if it's ok with me, wants to return to Nepal after her furlough. I don't want to get in the way of this job for her, but I won't be able to stand watching her leave again. As I have said, she is willing to give up the job for me, but I don't know if I can do that to her. I would just talk to her about it, but if I did that, she would drop the job in an instant, so I want to talk to someone else before she starts burning bridges. TL;DR: My girlfriend's incredible dream job is in Nepal and she is leaving in a few weeks. I don't want to lose her, but I don't know if I can stand it anymore.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 746, 78, 62, 285, 313, 664, 1833, 1067, 617, 10, 25975, 544, 938, 71, 62, 12238, 644, 13597, 1580, 4565, 608, 13, 4059, 13, 533, 703, 4395, 281, 35020, 327, 4397, 1638, 13, 4104, 15, 496, 841, 4314, 2607, 13, 359, 1849, 8229, 3170, 264, 13772, 285, 3597, 281, 1978, 275, 3057, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 5010, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 309, 943, 1918, 690, 4114, 1078, 309, 4035, 15, 309, 717, 275, 619, 1273, 807, 273, 2970, 619, 4248, 275, 5201, 6713, 29236, 22718, 13, 534, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 13383, 715, 16125, 2175, 313, 1439, 2119, 4555, 849, 2080, 309, 971, 281, 564, 2568, 582, 594, 309, 1833, 3164, 320, 275, 2143, 323, 387, 1878, 577, 625, 1107, 15, 25975, 434, 2021, 1057, 789, 9708, 5845, 6838, 432, 2825, 21245, 275, 5427, 13, 285, 703, 310, 4390, 2444, 342, 731, 13, 533, 310, 8085, 875, 2509, 326, 285, 9551, 15, 187, 187, 10572, 608, 3618, 896, 13, 703, 3053, 2403, 5827, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 1986, 2077, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 275, 4223, 13, 285, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 12661, 281, 617, 275, 4596, 15, 495, 1897, 3622, 13, 703, 2959, 247, 2628, 3959, 281, 9798, 444, 7084, 281, 28187, 6838, 428, 253, 3962, 2628, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 1024, 13, 604, 352, 434, 8718, 342, 479, 13, 5605, 281, 1091, 281, 35020, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 275, 253, 1039, 273, 436, 2628, 323, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1912, 626, 320, 2104, 281, 1462, 7487, 617, 3553, 969, 15, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 452, 753, 13, 703, 310, 7378, 281, 1918, 598, 253, 2628, 323, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 513, 326, 281, 617, 15, 309, 651, 816, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 533, 604, 309, 858, 326, 13, 703, 651, 5926, 253, 2628, 275, 271, 8164, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 2312, 281, 3095, 2010, 1078, 703, 7866, 13195, 24853, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 434, 14331, 7156, 2628, 310, 275, 35020, 285, 703, 310, 6108, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7168, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1462, 352, 10542, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

396

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [19m] and (we'll call her) Emma [20f] Have been dating since December 5, 2014, but she moved to Nepal on September 14, 2015. In these eight months, we've Skyped weekly and tried to keep in contact as much as possible otherwise. I guess I should give some background before I continue. I am in my second year of getting my degree in Discrete Applied Mathematics, which I am planning on pushing into graduate studies (not sure exactly how far I want to go yet), so I'll probably be in school for at least 4 more years. Emma's family does work rescuing girls from sex slavery in India, and she is currently working with them, but is split between doing that and teaching. About 5 weeks back, she started making plans to stay in the United States after her furlough in August, and I was going to propose to her in November. 3 days ago, she received a job offer to teach ESL to rescued girls - the perfect job for her. She now, if it's ok with me, wants to return to Nepal after her furlough. I don't want to get in the way of this job for her, but I won't be able to stand watching her leave again. As I have said, she is willing to give up the job for me, but I don't know if I can do that to her. I would just talk to her about it, but if I did that, she would drop the job in an instant, so I want to talk to someone else before she starts burning bridges. TL;DR: My girlfriend wants to go back to India after her furlough, even though I'm trying to get her to stay in the U.S.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 746, 78, 62, 285, 313, 664, 1833, 1067, 617, 10, 25975, 544, 938, 71, 62, 12238, 644, 13597, 1580, 4565, 608, 13, 4059, 13, 533, 703, 4395, 281, 35020, 327, 4397, 1638, 13, 4104, 15, 496, 841, 4314, 2607, 13, 359, 1849, 8229, 3170, 264, 13772, 285, 3597, 281, 1978, 275, 3057, 347, 1199, 347, 1896, 5010, 15, 187, 187, 42, 5476, 309, 943, 1918, 690, 4114, 1078, 309, 4035, 15, 309, 717, 275, 619, 1273, 807, 273, 2970, 619, 4248, 275, 5201, 6713, 29236, 22718, 13, 534, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 13383, 715, 16125, 2175, 313, 1439, 2119, 4555, 849, 2080, 309, 971, 281, 564, 2568, 582, 594, 309, 1833, 3164, 320, 275, 2143, 323, 387, 1878, 577, 625, 1107, 15, 25975, 434, 2021, 1057, 789, 9708, 5845, 6838, 432, 2825, 21245, 275, 5427, 13, 285, 703, 310, 4390, 2444, 342, 731, 13, 533, 310, 8085, 875, 2509, 326, 285, 9551, 15, 187, 187, 10572, 608, 3618, 896, 13, 703, 3053, 2403, 5827, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 1986, 2077, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 275, 4223, 13, 285, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 12661, 281, 617, 275, 4596, 15, 495, 1897, 3622, 13, 703, 2959, 247, 2628, 3959, 281, 9798, 444, 7084, 281, 28187, 6838, 428, 253, 3962, 2628, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 1024, 13, 604, 352, 434, 8718, 342, 479, 13, 5605, 281, 1091, 281, 35020, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 755, 275, 253, 1039, 273, 436, 2628, 323, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1912, 626, 320, 2104, 281, 1462, 7487, 617, 3553, 969, 15, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 452, 753, 13, 703, 310, 7378, 281, 1918, 598, 253, 2628, 323, 479, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 513, 326, 281, 617, 15, 309, 651, 816, 2312, 281, 617, 670, 352, 13, 533, 604, 309, 858, 326, 13, 703, 651, 5926, 253, 2628, 275, 271, 8164, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 2312, 281, 3095, 2010, 1078, 703, 7866, 13195, 24853, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 5427, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 13, 1014, 2167, 309, 1353, 2820, 281, 755, 617, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 530, 15, 52, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

388

357

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 19609, 434, 14331, 7156, 2628, 310, 275, 35020, 285, 703, 310, 6108, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7168, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1462, 352, 10542, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 19609, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 5427, 846, 617, 269, 6434, 602, 13, 1014, 2167, 309, 1353, 2820, 281, 755, 617, 281, 3297, 275, 253, 530, 15, 52, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

(Not a native english speaker, sorry in advance if I don't express myself well) I have 2 flatmates, 1 girl 1 guy. All three of us get along well. We're all uni students. We live together since about 2 years. H. and I get along particularly well since a year. He has a 45y old girlfriend and 2 kids (5 and 6) with his divorced ex-wife. We are emotionally very close, he spends 4x more time with me than with his gf, we spend evenings watching movies, mornings having breakfast together (nothing sexual, we never kissed or cuddle). We get along super well, talk about nearly anything that happens in our lives. We have been open a few months ago about feeling somewhat attracted to each other but it's not gonna work out for either of us because he doesn't want more kids and I do. (He also has a chronic illness that might make him quite ill in a few decades so I think that's a good idea.). So, where's the problem? I feel confused because I catch myself being bothered when his girlfriend is around for 2 days (which is not so often). I think our relation has the emotional character of a relationship, just without the sexual part. I don't even want a relationship with him (I don't have any doubt about this.). Or maybe we're emotionally already in a kind of relationship and it "works" as long as his GF isn't around. I'm confused why I feel this way and what to do. Anyone have some advice?

My roommate (29F) and I are both 25, but have a strange kind of relationship. I (25F) start to feel a little confused about it because I feel that we're emotionally in a kind of relationship but not physically.

I feel confused about my relationship because of my flatmate, I'm not sure if I'm in a relationship or not.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 313, 3650, 247, 7925, 48087, 14925, 13, 7016, 275, 7170, 604, 309, 1053, 626, 3890, 4266, 973, 10, 187, 187, 42, 452, 374, 6507, 13239, 13, 337, 3226, 337, 5599, 15, 1876, 1264, 273, 441, 755, 2112, 973, 15, 844, 1472, 512, 42015, 3484, 15, 844, 3153, 2366, 1580, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 388, 15, 285, 309, 755, 2112, 3782, 973, 1580, 247, 807, 15, 754, 556, 247, 5329, 90, 1711, 19609, 285, 374, 5753, 313, 22, 285, 721, 10, 342, 521, 32806, 385, 14, 27505, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 403, 28561, 1077, 2810, 13, 344, 30885, 577, 89, 625, 673, 342, 479, 685, 342, 521, 305, 71, 13, 359, 6947, 39190, 7487, 11321, 13, 41103, 1907, 12561, 2366, 313, 26142, 5615, 13, 359, 1620, 23651, 390, 260, 38226, 481, 844, 755, 2112, 2221, 973, 13, 2312, 670, 4829, 2712, 326, 6569, 275, 776, 4852, 15, 844, 452, 644, 1527, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 670, 5471, 8489, 17755, 281, 1016, 643, 533, 352, 434, 417, 6501, 789, 562, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 625, 5753, 285, 309, 513, 15, 313, 1328, 671, 556, 247, 6722, 9749, 326, 1537, 1056, 779, 3240, 2853, 275, 247, 1643, 8007, 594, 309, 1158, 326, 434, 247, 1175, 2934, 13351, 2490, 187, 2598, 13, 835, 434, 253, 1895, 32, 309, 1928, 13477, 984, 309, 5834, 4266, 1146, 28860, 672, 521, 19609, 310, 1475, 323, 374, 1897, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 594, 2223, 481, 309, 1158, 776, 5886, 556, 253, 8991, 1894, 273, 247, 2954, 13, 816, 1293, 253, 5615, 629, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 971, 247, 2954, 342, 779, 313, 42, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 5545, 670, 436, 13351, 2207, 5046, 359, 1472, 28561, 2168, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 285, 352, 346, 4896, 3, 347, 1048, 347, 521, 33952, 3548, 626, 1475, 15, 309, 1353, 13477, 2139, 309, 1928, 436, 1039, 285, 752, 281, 513, 15, 26013, 452, 690, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Not a native english speaker, sorry in advance if I don't express myself well) I have 2 flatmates, 1 girl 1 guy. All three of us get along well. We're all uni students. We live together since about 2 years. H. and I get along particularly well since a year. He has a 45y old girlfriend and 2 kids (5 and 6) with his divorced ex-wife. We are emotionally very close, he spends 4x more time with me than with his gf, we spend evenings watching movies, mornings having breakfast together (nothing sexual, we never kissed or cuddle). We get along super well, talk about nearly anything that happens in our lives. We have been open a few months ago about feeling somewhat attracted to each other but it's not gonna work out for either of us because he doesn't want more kids and I do. (He also has a chronic illness that might make him quite ill in a few decades so I think that's a good idea.). So, where's the problem? I feel confused because I catch myself being bothered when his girlfriend is around for 2 days (which is not so often). I think our relation has the emotional character of a relationship, just without the sexual part. I don't even want a relationship with him (I don't have any doubt about this.). Or maybe we're emotionally already in a kind of relationship and it "works" as long as his GF isn't around. I'm confused why I feel this way and what to do. Anyone have some advice? TL;DR:

My roommate (29F) and I are both 25, but have a strange kind of relationship. I (25F) start to feel a little confused about it because I feel that we're emotionally in a kind of relationship but not physically.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 2316, 13884, 313, 1717, 39, 10, 285, 309, 403, 1097, 2030, 13, 533, 452, 247, 8921, 2238, 273, 2954, 15, 309, 313, 1099, 39, 10, 1265, 281, 1928, 247, 1652, 13477, 670, 352, 984, 309, 1928, 326, 359, 1472, 28561, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 533, 417, 13318, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I feel confused about my relationship because of my flatmate, I'm not sure if I'm in a relationship or not.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1928, 13477, 670, 619, 2954, 984, 273, 619, 6507, 13884, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 417, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Not a native english speaker, sorry in advance if I don't express myself well) I have 2 flatmates, 1 girl 1 guy. All three of us get along well. We're all uni students. We live together since about 2 years. H. and I get along particularly well since a year. He has a 45y old girlfriend and 2 kids (5 and 6) with his divorced ex-wife. We are emotionally very close, he spends 4x more time with me than with his gf, we spend evenings watching movies, mornings having breakfast together (nothing sexual, we never kissed or cuddle). We get along super well, talk about nearly anything that happens in our lives. We have been open a few months ago about feeling somewhat attracted to each other but it's not gonna work out for either of us because he doesn't want more kids and I do. (He also has a chronic illness that might make him quite ill in a few decades so I think that's a good idea.). So, where's the problem? I feel confused because I catch myself being bothered when his girlfriend is around for 2 days (which is not so often). I think our relation has the emotional character of a relationship, just without the sexual part. I don't even want a relationship with him (I don't have any doubt about this.). Or maybe we're emotionally already in a kind of relationship and it "works" as long as his GF isn't around. I'm confused why I feel this way and what to do. Anyone have some advice? TL;DR: My roommate (29F) and I are both 25, but have a strange kind of relationship. I (25F) start to feel a little confused about it because I feel that we're emotionally in a kind of relationship but not physically.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 313, 3650, 247, 7925, 48087, 14925, 13, 7016, 275, 7170, 604, 309, 1053, 626, 3890, 4266, 973, 10, 187, 187, 42, 452, 374, 6507, 13239, 13, 337, 3226, 337, 5599, 15, 1876, 1264, 273, 441, 755, 2112, 973, 15, 844, 1472, 512, 42015, 3484, 15, 844, 3153, 2366, 1580, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 388, 15, 285, 309, 755, 2112, 3782, 973, 1580, 247, 807, 15, 754, 556, 247, 5329, 90, 1711, 19609, 285, 374, 5753, 313, 22, 285, 721, 10, 342, 521, 32806, 385, 14, 27505, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 403, 28561, 1077, 2810, 13, 344, 30885, 577, 89, 625, 673, 342, 479, 685, 342, 521, 305, 71, 13, 359, 6947, 39190, 7487, 11321, 13, 41103, 1907, 12561, 2366, 313, 26142, 5615, 13, 359, 1620, 23651, 390, 260, 38226, 481, 844, 755, 2112, 2221, 973, 13, 2312, 670, 4829, 2712, 326, 6569, 275, 776, 4852, 15, 844, 452, 644, 1527, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 670, 5471, 8489, 17755, 281, 1016, 643, 533, 352, 434, 417, 6501, 789, 562, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 625, 5753, 285, 309, 513, 15, 313, 1328, 671, 556, 247, 6722, 9749, 326, 1537, 1056, 779, 3240, 2853, 275, 247, 1643, 8007, 594, 309, 1158, 326, 434, 247, 1175, 2934, 13351, 2490, 187, 2598, 13, 835, 434, 253, 1895, 32, 309, 1928, 13477, 984, 309, 5834, 4266, 1146, 28860, 672, 521, 19609, 310, 1475, 323, 374, 1897, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 594, 2223, 481, 309, 1158, 776, 5886, 556, 253, 8991, 1894, 273, 247, 2954, 13, 816, 1293, 253, 5615, 629, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 971, 247, 2954, 342, 779, 313, 42, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 5545, 670, 436, 13351, 2207, 5046, 359, 1472, 28561, 2168, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 285, 352, 346, 4896, 3, 347, 1048, 347, 521, 33952, 3548, 626, 1475, 15, 309, 1353, 13477, 2139, 309, 1928, 436, 1039, 285, 752, 281, 513, 15, 26013, 452, 690, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 2316, 13884, 313, 1717, 39, 10, 285, 309, 403, 1097, 2030, 13, 533, 452, 247, 8921, 2238, 273, 2954, 15, 309, 313, 1099, 39, 10, 1265, 281, 1928, 247, 1652, 13477, 670, 352, 984, 309, 1928, 326, 359, 1472, 28561, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 533, 417, 13318, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

396

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: (Not a native english speaker, sorry in advance if I don't express myself well) I have 2 flatmates, 1 girl 1 guy. All three of us get along well. We're all uni students. We live together since about 2 years. H. and I get along particularly well since a year. He has a 45y old girlfriend and 2 kids (5 and 6) with his divorced ex-wife. We are emotionally very close, he spends 4x more time with me than with his gf, we spend evenings watching movies, mornings having breakfast together (nothing sexual, we never kissed or cuddle). We get along super well, talk about nearly anything that happens in our lives. We have been open a few months ago about feeling somewhat attracted to each other but it's not gonna work out for either of us because he doesn't want more kids and I do. (He also has a chronic illness that might make him quite ill in a few decades so I think that's a good idea.). So, where's the problem? I feel confused because I catch myself being bothered when his girlfriend is around for 2 days (which is not so often). I think our relation has the emotional character of a relationship, just without the sexual part. I don't even want a relationship with him (I don't have any doubt about this.). Or maybe we're emotionally already in a kind of relationship and it "works" as long as his GF isn't around. I'm confused why I feel this way and what to do. Anyone have some advice? TL;DR: I feel confused about my relationship because of my flatmate, I'm not sure if I'm in a relationship or not.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 313, 3650, 247, 7925, 48087, 14925, 13, 7016, 275, 7170, 604, 309, 1053, 626, 3890, 4266, 973, 10, 187, 187, 42, 452, 374, 6507, 13239, 13, 337, 3226, 337, 5599, 15, 1876, 1264, 273, 441, 755, 2112, 973, 15, 844, 1472, 512, 42015, 3484, 15, 844, 3153, 2366, 1580, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 388, 15, 285, 309, 755, 2112, 3782, 973, 1580, 247, 807, 15, 754, 556, 247, 5329, 90, 1711, 19609, 285, 374, 5753, 313, 22, 285, 721, 10, 342, 521, 32806, 385, 14, 27505, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 403, 28561, 1077, 2810, 13, 344, 30885, 577, 89, 625, 673, 342, 479, 685, 342, 521, 305, 71, 13, 359, 6947, 39190, 7487, 11321, 13, 41103, 1907, 12561, 2366, 313, 26142, 5615, 13, 359, 1620, 23651, 390, 260, 38226, 481, 844, 755, 2112, 2221, 973, 13, 2312, 670, 4829, 2712, 326, 6569, 275, 776, 4852, 15, 844, 452, 644, 1527, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 670, 5471, 8489, 17755, 281, 1016, 643, 533, 352, 434, 417, 6501, 789, 562, 323, 2057, 273, 441, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 625, 5753, 285, 309, 513, 15, 313, 1328, 671, 556, 247, 6722, 9749, 326, 1537, 1056, 779, 3240, 2853, 275, 247, 1643, 8007, 594, 309, 1158, 326, 434, 247, 1175, 2934, 13351, 2490, 187, 2598, 13, 835, 434, 253, 1895, 32, 309, 1928, 13477, 984, 309, 5834, 4266, 1146, 28860, 672, 521, 19609, 310, 1475, 323, 374, 1897, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 594, 2223, 481, 309, 1158, 776, 5886, 556, 253, 8991, 1894, 273, 247, 2954, 13, 816, 1293, 253, 5615, 629, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 1014, 971, 247, 2954, 342, 779, 313, 42, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 5545, 670, 436, 13351, 2207, 5046, 359, 1472, 28561, 2168, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 285, 352, 346, 4896, 3, 347, 1048, 347, 521, 33952, 3548, 626, 1475, 15, 309, 1353, 13477, 2139, 309, 1928, 436, 1039, 285, 752, 281, 513, 15, 26013, 452, 690, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1928, 13477, 670, 619, 2954, 984, 273, 619, 6507, 13884, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 417, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

371

345

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 2316, 13884, 313, 1717, 39, 10, 285, 309, 403, 1097, 2030, 13, 533, 452, 247, 8921, 2238, 273, 2954, 15, 309, 313, 1099, 39, 10, 1265, 281, 1928, 247, 1652, 13477, 670, 352, 984, 309, 1928, 326, 359, 1472, 28561, 275, 247, 2238, 273, 2954, 533, 417, 13318, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1928, 13477, 670, 619, 2954, 984, 273, 619, 6507, 13884, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 417, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) Well, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with "HE KEPT STARING AT ME" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed. Thinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something... or maybe autistic? I dont know.

Teenage boy slapped me in the face for staring at him, making me look weird and defensive.

never stare too much at people or they will stare at you back... with a hard slap :'/

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1198, 479, 13, 352, 369, 672, 891, 369, 670, 495, 390, 577, 1107, 1711, 285, 891, 369, 7824, 1475, 253, 28974, 342, 619, 4651, 15, 844, 7428, 2469, 436, 28713, 7418, 273, 2069, 285, 891, 4934, 17303, 387, 779, 984, 344, 3261, 11755, 313, 303, 1722, 1024, 285, 521, 2454, 310, 31921, 13, 533, 891, 513, 4456, 779, 2819, 751, 271, 8909, 7715, 10, 209, 187, 4497, 13, 846, 2819, 387, 779, 253, 495, 5784, 673, 672, 344, 369, 7824, 2469, 479, 13, 344, 41352, 479, 13, 1663, 1892, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 309, 4456, 521, 12247, 15251, 3006, 285, 7746, 521, 3347, 281, 26012, 671, 285, 521, 3347, 10974, 342, 346, 1922, 17594, 5736, 3915, 1277, 2637, 4915, 10616, 3, 285, 891, 369, 816, 5877, 619, 2454, 13, 19961, 285, 716, 552, 46993, 15, 187, 1044, 10274, 896, 281, 352, 13, 344, 1537, 452, 644, 12156, 728, 984, 273, 521, 4453, 390, 1633, 1051, 390, 5046, 1125, 2531, 32, 309, 13414, 871, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) Well, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with "HE KEPT STARING AT ME" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed. Thinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something... or maybe autistic? I dont know. TL;DR:

Teenage boy slapped me in the face for staring at him, making me look weird and defensive.<|endoftext|>

[ 41673, 486, 5006, 41352, 479, 275, 253, 2454, 323, 17303, 387, 779, 13, 2403, 479, 1007, 12504, 285, 14397, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

never stare too much at people or they will stare at you back... with a hard slap :'/<|endoftext|>

[ 1620, 25885, 1512, 1199, 387, 952, 390, 597, 588, 25885, 387, 368, 896, 1051, 342, 247, 1892, 37551, 1163, 39618, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) Well, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with "HE KEPT STARING AT ME" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed. Thinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something... or maybe autistic? I dont know. TL;DR: Teenage boy slapped me in the face for staring at him, making me look weird and defensive.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1198, 479, 13, 352, 369, 672, 891, 369, 670, 495, 390, 577, 1107, 1711, 285, 891, 369, 7824, 1475, 253, 28974, 342, 619, 4651, 15, 844, 7428, 2469, 436, 28713, 7418, 273, 2069, 285, 891, 4934, 17303, 387, 779, 984, 344, 3261, 11755, 313, 303, 1722, 1024, 285, 521, 2454, 310, 31921, 13, 533, 891, 513, 4456, 779, 2819, 751, 271, 8909, 7715, 10, 209, 187, 4497, 13, 846, 2819, 387, 779, 253, 495, 5784, 673, 672, 344, 369, 7824, 2469, 479, 13, 344, 41352, 479, 13, 1663, 1892, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 309, 4456, 521, 12247, 15251, 3006, 285, 7746, 521, 3347, 281, 26012, 671, 285, 521, 3347, 10974, 342, 346, 1922, 17594, 5736, 3915, 1277, 2637, 4915, 10616, 3, 285, 891, 369, 816, 5877, 619, 2454, 13, 19961, 285, 716, 552, 46993, 15, 187, 1044, 10274, 896, 281, 352, 13, 344, 1537, 452, 644, 12156, 728, 984, 273, 521, 4453, 390, 1633, 1051, 390, 5046, 1125, 2531, 32, 309, 13414, 871, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 41673, 486, 5006, 41352, 479, 275, 253, 2454, 323, 17303, 387, 779, 13, 2403, 479, 1007, 12504, 285, 14397, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

208

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: For me, it was when i was about 3 or 4 years old and i was walking around the mall with my parents. We walked past this teenager numerous of times and i kept staring at him because he looked funny (im 17 now and his face is fuzzy, but i do remember him looking like an odd fellow) Well, after looking at him the 3rd time when he was walking past me, he slapped me, really hard in the face. I remember his dad apologizing and telling his son to apologize also and his son responded with "HE KEPT STARING AT ME" and i was just holding my face, shocked and teary eyed. Thinking back to it, he might have been bullied because of his looks or something... or maybe autistic? I dont know. TL;DR: never stare too much at people or they will stare at you back... with a hard slap :'/<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1198, 479, 13, 352, 369, 672, 891, 369, 670, 495, 390, 577, 1107, 1711, 285, 891, 369, 7824, 1475, 253, 28974, 342, 619, 4651, 15, 844, 7428, 2469, 436, 28713, 7418, 273, 2069, 285, 891, 4934, 17303, 387, 779, 984, 344, 3261, 11755, 313, 303, 1722, 1024, 285, 521, 2454, 310, 31921, 13, 533, 891, 513, 4456, 779, 2819, 751, 271, 8909, 7715, 10, 209, 187, 4497, 13, 846, 2819, 387, 779, 253, 495, 5784, 673, 672, 344, 369, 7824, 2469, 479, 13, 344, 41352, 479, 13, 1663, 1892, 275, 253, 2454, 15, 309, 4456, 521, 12247, 15251, 3006, 285, 7746, 521, 3347, 281, 26012, 671, 285, 521, 3347, 10974, 342, 346, 1922, 17594, 5736, 3915, 1277, 2637, 4915, 10616, 3, 285, 891, 369, 816, 5877, 619, 2454, 13, 19961, 285, 716, 552, 46993, 15, 187, 1044, 10274, 896, 281, 352, 13, 344, 1537, 452, 644, 12156, 728, 984, 273, 521, 4453, 390, 1633, 1051, 390, 5046, 1125, 2531, 32, 309, 13414, 871, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1620, 25885, 1512, 1199, 387, 952, 390, 597, 588, 25885, 387, 368, 896, 1051, 342, 247, 1892, 37551, 1163, 39618, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

208

187

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 41673, 486, 5006, 41352, 479, 275, 253, 2454, 323, 17303, 387, 779, 13, 2403, 479, 1007, 12504, 285, 14397, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1620, 25885, 1512, 1199, 387, 952, 390, 597, 588, 25885, 387, 368, 896, 1051, 342, 247, 1892, 37551, 1163, 39618, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I [F/27] have to say goodbye to my ex [M/27] for the last time and give him back his things. I broke up with him because I felt he wasn't the one despite loving him as a friend and I don't know how to handle the situation. My ex is heartbroken and I feel like an awful person. We also had a cat that we shared that we decided should stay with me. I know he will want to see the cat one last time and say goodbye but I am so upset because I have no idea what to say. Please help reddit, I feel so guilty and overcome with sadness.

broke up with ex because I felt he wasn't the one but I have no idea how to say goodbye.

How do I say goodbye to ex BF of 6 years after I broke up with him because he wasn't the one.?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 39, 16, 1630, 62, 452, 281, 1333, 33969, 281, 619, 385, 544, 46, 16, 1630, 62, 323, 253, 1390, 673, 285, 1918, 779, 896, 521, 1841, 15, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 5747, 18248, 779, 347, 247, 3331, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 6016, 253, 4112, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 385, 310, 2798, 30229, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 18580, 1436, 15, 844, 671, 574, 247, 5798, 326, 359, 6096, 326, 359, 4425, 943, 3297, 342, 479, 15, 309, 871, 344, 588, 971, 281, 923, 253, 5798, 581, 1390, 673, 285, 1333, 33969, 533, 309, 717, 594, 14004, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 1333, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 1361, 28159, 262, 13, 309, 1928, 594, 8106, 285, 11399, 342, 31917, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [F/27] have to say goodbye to my ex [M/27] for the last time and give him back his things. I broke up with him because I felt he wasn't the one despite loving him as a friend and I don't know how to handle the situation. My ex is heartbroken and I feel like an awful person. We also had a cat that we shared that we decided should stay with me. I know he will want to see the cat one last time and say goodbye but I am so upset because I have no idea what to say. Please help reddit, I feel so guilty and overcome with sadness. TL;DR:

broke up with ex because I felt he wasn't the one but I have no idea how to say goodbye.<|endoftext|>

[ 9377, 598, 342, 385, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 1333, 33969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

How do I say goodbye to ex BF of 6 years after I broke up with him because he wasn't the one.?<|endoftext|>

[ 1359, 513, 309, 1333, 33969, 281, 385, 40542, 273, 721, 1107, 846, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 50057, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [F/27] have to say goodbye to my ex [M/27] for the last time and give him back his things. I broke up with him because I felt he wasn't the one despite loving him as a friend and I don't know how to handle the situation. My ex is heartbroken and I feel like an awful person. We also had a cat that we shared that we decided should stay with me. I know he will want to see the cat one last time and say goodbye but I am so upset because I have no idea what to say. Please help reddit, I feel so guilty and overcome with sadness. TL;DR: broke up with ex because I felt he wasn't the one but I have no idea how to say goodbye.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 39, 16, 1630, 62, 452, 281, 1333, 33969, 281, 619, 385, 544, 46, 16, 1630, 62, 323, 253, 1390, 673, 285, 1918, 779, 896, 521, 1841, 15, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 5747, 18248, 779, 347, 247, 3331, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 6016, 253, 4112, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 385, 310, 2798, 30229, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 18580, 1436, 15, 844, 671, 574, 247, 5798, 326, 359, 6096, 326, 359, 4425, 943, 3297, 342, 479, 15, 309, 871, 344, 588, 971, 281, 923, 253, 5798, 581, 1390, 673, 285, 1333, 33969, 533, 309, 717, 594, 14004, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 1333, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 1361, 28159, 262, 13, 309, 1928, 594, 8106, 285, 11399, 342, 31917, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 9377, 598, 342, 385, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 1333, 33969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

181

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [F/27] have to say goodbye to my ex [M/27] for the last time and give him back his things. I broke up with him because I felt he wasn't the one despite loving him as a friend and I don't know how to handle the situation. My ex is heartbroken and I feel like an awful person. We also had a cat that we shared that we decided should stay with me. I know he will want to see the cat one last time and say goodbye but I am so upset because I have no idea what to say. Please help reddit, I feel so guilty and overcome with sadness. TL;DR: How do I say goodbye to ex BF of 6 years after I broke up with him because he wasn't the one.?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 39, 16, 1630, 62, 452, 281, 1333, 33969, 281, 619, 385, 544, 46, 16, 1630, 62, 323, 253, 1390, 673, 285, 1918, 779, 896, 521, 1841, 15, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 5747, 18248, 779, 347, 247, 3331, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 6016, 253, 4112, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 385, 310, 2798, 30229, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 18580, 1436, 15, 844, 671, 574, 247, 5798, 326, 359, 6096, 326, 359, 4425, 943, 3297, 342, 479, 15, 309, 871, 344, 588, 971, 281, 923, 253, 5798, 581, 1390, 673, 285, 1333, 33969, 533, 309, 717, 594, 14004, 984, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 1333, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 1361, 28159, 262, 13, 309, 1928, 594, 8106, 285, 11399, 342, 31917, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1359, 513, 309, 1333, 33969, 281, 385, 40542, 273, 721, 1107, 846, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 50057, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

183

158

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 9377, 598, 342, 385, 984, 309, 3543, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 1333, 33969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1359, 513, 309, 1333, 33969, 281, 385, 40542, 273, 721, 1107, 846, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 984, 344, 3589, 626, 253, 581, 50057, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hello, I have a problem with my cat, Jake. I live in an appartment on the first floor with a small forest at the back with a terrace. Jake has been on the terrace for a few months and never tried to jump down. Unfortunately, there is no way for him to get down or up safely. Because there is such a nice forest next to us, and there are other cats from neighbours where he's "talking " to when he's on the terrace, I want to teach him to get outside. For a few times, I brought him downstairs. He flees immediately into the bushes. After a few hours, he's always crying at the door of my neighbour on the ground level. He does not understand that the door at ground level does not access my apartment. When he's crying to get in, I rush down, but when I approach him, he flees again. I keep calling his name but he's hiding. As soon as I'm back in my apartment he's crying again. Somehow, he does not want to picked up when he's outside. He just wants to enter the door, which is offc not possible because it's not my door. For three times I had to ask my neighbour to let him in and pick him up at his place.

my cat doesn't understand that door at ground level accesses my apartment. he always flees when i try to pick him up. what can i do to make him understand?

My cat does not understand that when he's outside my apartment has multiple floors. When he wants to enter or pick up, he flees again, even when I call his name. Help please :(

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 13, 187, 187, 42, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 619, 5798, 13, 23239, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 271, 622, 2688, 327, 253, 806, 5254, 342, 247, 1355, 9741, 387, 253, 896, 342, 247, 36118, 15, 23239, 556, 644, 327, 253, 36118, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 1620, 3597, 281, 6923, 1066, 15, 12526, 13, 627, 310, 642, 1039, 323, 779, 281, 755, 1066, 390, 598, 15792, 15, 187, 8457, 627, 310, 824, 247, 5322, 9741, 1735, 281, 441, 13, 285, 627, 403, 643, 16581, 432, 31359, 835, 344, 434, 346, 85, 21489, 346, 281, 672, 344, 434, 327, 253, 36118, 13, 309, 971, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 755, 3345, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 247, 1643, 2069, 13, 309, 3982, 779, 30854, 15, 754, 7771, 265, 4745, 715, 253, 40444, 15, 2732, 247, 1643, 3038, 13, 344, 434, 1900, 17800, 387, 253, 3369, 273, 619, 14646, 327, 253, 3216, 1268, 15, 754, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 253, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 1057, 417, 2289, 619, 10230, 15, 2091, 344, 434, 17800, 281, 755, 275, 13, 309, 16949, 1066, 13, 533, 672, 309, 2746, 779, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 15, 309, 1978, 6789, 521, 1416, 533, 344, 434, 17197, 15, 1284, 3517, 347, 309, 1353, 896, 275, 619, 10230, 344, 434, 17800, 969, 15, 187, 6080, 5430, 13, 344, 1057, 417, 971, 281, 5055, 598, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 15, 754, 816, 5605, 281, 4901, 253, 3369, 13, 534, 310, 745, 68, 417, 1896, 984, 352, 434, 417, 619, 3369, 15, 1198, 1264, 2069, 309, 574, 281, 1642, 619, 14646, 281, 1339, 779, 275, 285, 2619, 779, 598, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, I have a problem with my cat, Jake. I live in an appartment on the first floor with a small forest at the back with a terrace. Jake has been on the terrace for a few months and never tried to jump down. Unfortunately, there is no way for him to get down or up safely. Because there is such a nice forest next to us, and there are other cats from neighbours where he's "talking " to when he's on the terrace, I want to teach him to get outside. For a few times, I brought him downstairs. He flees immediately into the bushes. After a few hours, he's always crying at the door of my neighbour on the ground level. He does not understand that the door at ground level does not access my apartment. When he's crying to get in, I rush down, but when I approach him, he flees again. I keep calling his name but he's hiding. As soon as I'm back in my apartment he's crying again. Somehow, he does not want to picked up when he's outside. He just wants to enter the door, which is offc not possible because it's not my door. For three times I had to ask my neighbour to let him in and pick him up at his place. TL;DR:

my cat doesn't understand that door at ground level accesses my apartment. he always flees when i try to pick him up. what can i do to make him understand?<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 5798, 2506, 626, 2096, 326, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 2289, 265, 619, 10230, 15, 344, 1900, 7771, 265, 672, 891, 1611, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 15, 752, 476, 891, 513, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My cat does not understand that when he's outside my apartment has multiple floors. When he wants to enter or pick up, he flees again, even when I call his name. Help please :(<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 5798, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 619, 10230, 556, 2709, 23467, 15, 2091, 344, 5605, 281, 4901, 390, 2619, 598, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 13, 1014, 672, 309, 1067, 521, 1416, 15, 21695, 4496, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, I have a problem with my cat, Jake. I live in an appartment on the first floor with a small forest at the back with a terrace. Jake has been on the terrace for a few months and never tried to jump down. Unfortunately, there is no way for him to get down or up safely. Because there is such a nice forest next to us, and there are other cats from neighbours where he's "talking " to when he's on the terrace, I want to teach him to get outside. For a few times, I brought him downstairs. He flees immediately into the bushes. After a few hours, he's always crying at the door of my neighbour on the ground level. He does not understand that the door at ground level does not access my apartment. When he's crying to get in, I rush down, but when I approach him, he flees again. I keep calling his name but he's hiding. As soon as I'm back in my apartment he's crying again. Somehow, he does not want to picked up when he's outside. He just wants to enter the door, which is offc not possible because it's not my door. For three times I had to ask my neighbour to let him in and pick him up at his place. TL;DR: my cat doesn't understand that door at ground level accesses my apartment. he always flees when i try to pick him up. what can i do to make him understand?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 13, 187, 187, 42, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 619, 5798, 13, 23239, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 271, 622, 2688, 327, 253, 806, 5254, 342, 247, 1355, 9741, 387, 253, 896, 342, 247, 36118, 15, 23239, 556, 644, 327, 253, 36118, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 1620, 3597, 281, 6923, 1066, 15, 12526, 13, 627, 310, 642, 1039, 323, 779, 281, 755, 1066, 390, 598, 15792, 15, 187, 8457, 627, 310, 824, 247, 5322, 9741, 1735, 281, 441, 13, 285, 627, 403, 643, 16581, 432, 31359, 835, 344, 434, 346, 85, 21489, 346, 281, 672, 344, 434, 327, 253, 36118, 13, 309, 971, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 755, 3345, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 247, 1643, 2069, 13, 309, 3982, 779, 30854, 15, 754, 7771, 265, 4745, 715, 253, 40444, 15, 2732, 247, 1643, 3038, 13, 344, 434, 1900, 17800, 387, 253, 3369, 273, 619, 14646, 327, 253, 3216, 1268, 15, 754, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 253, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 1057, 417, 2289, 619, 10230, 15, 2091, 344, 434, 17800, 281, 755, 275, 13, 309, 16949, 1066, 13, 533, 672, 309, 2746, 779, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 15, 309, 1978, 6789, 521, 1416, 533, 344, 434, 17197, 15, 1284, 3517, 347, 309, 1353, 896, 275, 619, 10230, 344, 434, 17800, 969, 15, 187, 6080, 5430, 13, 344, 1057, 417, 971, 281, 5055, 598, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 15, 754, 816, 5605, 281, 4901, 253, 3369, 13, 534, 310, 745, 68, 417, 1896, 984, 352, 434, 417, 619, 3369, 15, 1198, 1264, 2069, 309, 574, 281, 1642, 619, 14646, 281, 1339, 779, 275, 285, 2619, 779, 598, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 5798, 2506, 626, 2096, 326, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 2289, 265, 619, 10230, 15, 344, 1900, 7771, 265, 672, 891, 1611, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 15, 752, 476, 891, 513, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

333

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello, I have a problem with my cat, Jake. I live in an appartment on the first floor with a small forest at the back with a terrace. Jake has been on the terrace for a few months and never tried to jump down. Unfortunately, there is no way for him to get down or up safely. Because there is such a nice forest next to us, and there are other cats from neighbours where he's "talking " to when he's on the terrace, I want to teach him to get outside. For a few times, I brought him downstairs. He flees immediately into the bushes. After a few hours, he's always crying at the door of my neighbour on the ground level. He does not understand that the door at ground level does not access my apartment. When he's crying to get in, I rush down, but when I approach him, he flees again. I keep calling his name but he's hiding. As soon as I'm back in my apartment he's crying again. Somehow, he does not want to picked up when he's outside. He just wants to enter the door, which is offc not possible because it's not my door. For three times I had to ask my neighbour to let him in and pick him up at his place. TL;DR: My cat does not understand that when he's outside my apartment has multiple floors. When he wants to enter or pick up, he flees again, even when I call his name. Help please :(<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 13, 187, 187, 42, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 619, 5798, 13, 23239, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 271, 622, 2688, 327, 253, 806, 5254, 342, 247, 1355, 9741, 387, 253, 896, 342, 247, 36118, 15, 23239, 556, 644, 327, 253, 36118, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 285, 1620, 3597, 281, 6923, 1066, 15, 12526, 13, 627, 310, 642, 1039, 323, 779, 281, 755, 1066, 390, 598, 15792, 15, 187, 8457, 627, 310, 824, 247, 5322, 9741, 1735, 281, 441, 13, 285, 627, 403, 643, 16581, 432, 31359, 835, 344, 434, 346, 85, 21489, 346, 281, 672, 344, 434, 327, 253, 36118, 13, 309, 971, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 755, 3345, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 247, 1643, 2069, 13, 309, 3982, 779, 30854, 15, 754, 7771, 265, 4745, 715, 253, 40444, 15, 2732, 247, 1643, 3038, 13, 344, 434, 1900, 17800, 387, 253, 3369, 273, 619, 14646, 327, 253, 3216, 1268, 15, 754, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 253, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 1057, 417, 2289, 619, 10230, 15, 2091, 344, 434, 17800, 281, 755, 275, 13, 309, 16949, 1066, 13, 533, 672, 309, 2746, 779, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 15, 309, 1978, 6789, 521, 1416, 533, 344, 434, 17197, 15, 1284, 3517, 347, 309, 1353, 896, 275, 619, 10230, 344, 434, 17800, 969, 15, 187, 6080, 5430, 13, 344, 1057, 417, 971, 281, 5055, 598, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 15, 754, 816, 5605, 281, 4901, 253, 3369, 13, 534, 310, 745, 68, 417, 1896, 984, 352, 434, 417, 619, 3369, 15, 1198, 1264, 2069, 309, 574, 281, 1642, 619, 14646, 281, 1339, 779, 275, 285, 2619, 779, 598, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 5798, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 619, 10230, 556, 2709, 23467, 15, 2091, 344, 5605, 281, 4901, 390, 2619, 598, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 13, 1014, 672, 309, 1067, 521, 1416, 15, 21695, 4496, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

337

296

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 5798, 2506, 626, 2096, 326, 3369, 387, 3216, 1268, 2289, 265, 619, 10230, 15, 344, 1900, 7771, 265, 672, 891, 1611, 281, 2619, 779, 598, 15, 752, 476, 891, 513, 281, 1056, 779, 2096, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 5798, 1057, 417, 2096, 326, 672, 344, 434, 3345, 619, 10230, 556, 2709, 23467, 15, 2091, 344, 5605, 281, 4901, 390, 2619, 598, 13, 344, 7771, 265, 969, 13, 1014, 672, 309, 1067, 521, 1416, 15, 21695, 4496, 34977, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My girlfriend who I've dated for about a year and I had a deep conversation today and it eventually led to talking about the past. We had broken up for 2-3 months earlier in the year, and when we got back together she swore she had only had sex with 2 guys while we were separated, but had done stuff with one of my friends. I didn't mind, because I had done stuff too. But we broke up again about 3 weeks ago for about a week and a half, but during that week and a half she had a threesome with her bestfriend and a sketchy guy. That has been on my mind since we've got back together because we've never had a threesome, and the dude looks like a greek god(sorry insecurity), but she promised me she would have a threesome with me if I wanted to, because she doesn't want me to feel insecure or inferior. But today she told me that she had lied to me for the past 8 months, and during that break she had sex with 5 people instead of 2, and that included my friend, who i looked in the face and shook my hand like a month after it happened. I just don't know how to deal with this emotionally. I've always had insecurity when it comes to certain things and this is almost too hard to bear. She says her past doesn't matter because shes with me and she wants to marry me. Anyone have any tips to get over stuff like this? Breaking up isn't an option, we've been through too much and i Do love her. I just need help.

Girlfriend lied about how many people she had been with, need help dealing.

GF had sex with 6 people instead of 2 in the past, and now I have a hard time dealing with it

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 665, 309, 1849, 15483, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3676, 7827, 3063, 285, 352, 6524, 3977, 281, 5015, 670, 253, 2469, 15, 844, 574, 7154, 598, 323, 374, 14, 20, 2607, 4321, 275, 253, 807, 13, 285, 672, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 703, 42895, 703, 574, 760, 574, 2825, 342, 374, 6068, 1223, 359, 497, 9070, 13, 533, 574, 2218, 5017, 342, 581, 273, 619, 3858, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 2564, 13, 984, 309, 574, 2218, 5017, 1512, 15, 1292, 359, 9377, 598, 969, 670, 495, 3618, 3622, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 533, 1309, 326, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 703, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 617, 1682, 8471, 285, 247, 23211, 90, 5599, 15, 2064, 556, 644, 327, 619, 2564, 1580, 359, 1849, 1694, 896, 2366, 984, 359, 1849, 1620, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 13, 285, 253, 29723, 4453, 751, 247, 305, 7209, 7122, 9, 84, 5163, 45583, 582, 533, 703, 12316, 479, 703, 651, 452, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 479, 604, 309, 3078, 281, 13, 984, 703, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 281, 1928, 46519, 390, 18134, 15, 1292, 3063, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 574, 27786, 281, 479, 323, 253, 2469, 854, 2607, 13, 285, 1309, 326, 2740, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 608, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 13, 285, 326, 2908, 619, 3331, 13, 665, 891, 3261, 275, 253, 2454, 285, 11898, 619, 1133, 751, 247, 1770, 846, 352, 4592, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 28561, 15, 309, 1849, 1900, 574, 45583, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 2176, 1841, 285, 436, 310, 2761, 1512, 1892, 281, 8800, 15, 1500, 2296, 617, 2469, 2506, 626, 2647, 984, 703, 84, 342, 479, 285, 703, 5605, 281, 17129, 479, 15, 26013, 452, 667, 12192, 281, 755, 689, 5017, 751, 436, 32, 47179, 598, 3548, 626, 271, 4500, 13, 359, 1849, 644, 949, 1512, 1199, 285, 891, 3166, 2389, 617, 15, 309, 816, 878, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend who I've dated for about a year and I had a deep conversation today and it eventually led to talking about the past. We had broken up for 2-3 months earlier in the year, and when we got back together she swore she had only had sex with 2 guys while we were separated, but had done stuff with one of my friends. I didn't mind, because I had done stuff too. But we broke up again about 3 weeks ago for about a week and a half, but during that week and a half she had a threesome with her bestfriend and a sketchy guy. That has been on my mind since we've got back together because we've never had a threesome, and the dude looks like a greek god(sorry insecurity), but she promised me she would have a threesome with me if I wanted to, because she doesn't want me to feel insecure or inferior. But today she told me that she had lied to me for the past 8 months, and during that break she had sex with 5 people instead of 2, and that included my friend, who i looked in the face and shook my hand like a month after it happened. I just don't know how to deal with this emotionally. I've always had insecurity when it comes to certain things and this is almost too hard to bear. She says her past doesn't matter because shes with me and she wants to marry me. Anyone have any tips to get over stuff like this? Breaking up isn't an option, we've been through too much and i Do love her. I just need help. TL;DR:

Girlfriend lied about how many people she had been with, need help dealing.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 27786, 670, 849, 1142, 952, 703, 574, 644, 342, 13, 878, 1361, 10620, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

GF had sex with 6 people instead of 2 in the past, and now I have a hard time dealing with it<|endoftext|>

[ 33952, 574, 2825, 342, 721, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 10620, 342, 352, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend who I've dated for about a year and I had a deep conversation today and it eventually led to talking about the past. We had broken up for 2-3 months earlier in the year, and when we got back together she swore she had only had sex with 2 guys while we were separated, but had done stuff with one of my friends. I didn't mind, because I had done stuff too. But we broke up again about 3 weeks ago for about a week and a half, but during that week and a half she had a threesome with her bestfriend and a sketchy guy. That has been on my mind since we've got back together because we've never had a threesome, and the dude looks like a greek god(sorry insecurity), but she promised me she would have a threesome with me if I wanted to, because she doesn't want me to feel insecure or inferior. But today she told me that she had lied to me for the past 8 months, and during that break she had sex with 5 people instead of 2, and that included my friend, who i looked in the face and shook my hand like a month after it happened. I just don't know how to deal with this emotionally. I've always had insecurity when it comes to certain things and this is almost too hard to bear. She says her past doesn't matter because shes with me and she wants to marry me. Anyone have any tips to get over stuff like this? Breaking up isn't an option, we've been through too much and i Do love her. I just need help. TL;DR: Girlfriend lied about how many people she had been with, need help dealing.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 665, 309, 1849, 15483, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3676, 7827, 3063, 285, 352, 6524, 3977, 281, 5015, 670, 253, 2469, 15, 844, 574, 7154, 598, 323, 374, 14, 20, 2607, 4321, 275, 253, 807, 13, 285, 672, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 703, 42895, 703, 574, 760, 574, 2825, 342, 374, 6068, 1223, 359, 497, 9070, 13, 533, 574, 2218, 5017, 342, 581, 273, 619, 3858, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 2564, 13, 984, 309, 574, 2218, 5017, 1512, 15, 1292, 359, 9377, 598, 969, 670, 495, 3618, 3622, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 533, 1309, 326, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 703, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 617, 1682, 8471, 285, 247, 23211, 90, 5599, 15, 2064, 556, 644, 327, 619, 2564, 1580, 359, 1849, 1694, 896, 2366, 984, 359, 1849, 1620, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 13, 285, 253, 29723, 4453, 751, 247, 305, 7209, 7122, 9, 84, 5163, 45583, 582, 533, 703, 12316, 479, 703, 651, 452, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 479, 604, 309, 3078, 281, 13, 984, 703, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 281, 1928, 46519, 390, 18134, 15, 1292, 3063, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 574, 27786, 281, 479, 323, 253, 2469, 854, 2607, 13, 285, 1309, 326, 2740, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 608, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 13, 285, 326, 2908, 619, 3331, 13, 665, 891, 3261, 275, 253, 2454, 285, 11898, 619, 1133, 751, 247, 1770, 846, 352, 4592, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 28561, 15, 309, 1849, 1900, 574, 45583, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 2176, 1841, 285, 436, 310, 2761, 1512, 1892, 281, 8800, 15, 1500, 2296, 617, 2469, 2506, 626, 2647, 984, 703, 84, 342, 479, 285, 703, 5605, 281, 17129, 479, 15, 26013, 452, 667, 12192, 281, 755, 689, 5017, 751, 436, 32, 47179, 598, 3548, 626, 271, 4500, 13, 359, 1849, 644, 949, 1512, 1199, 285, 891, 3166, 2389, 617, 15, 309, 816, 878, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 27786, 670, 849, 1142, 952, 703, 574, 644, 342, 13, 878, 1361, 10620, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

370

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend who I've dated for about a year and I had a deep conversation today and it eventually led to talking about the past. We had broken up for 2-3 months earlier in the year, and when we got back together she swore she had only had sex with 2 guys while we were separated, but had done stuff with one of my friends. I didn't mind, because I had done stuff too. But we broke up again about 3 weeks ago for about a week and a half, but during that week and a half she had a threesome with her bestfriend and a sketchy guy. That has been on my mind since we've got back together because we've never had a threesome, and the dude looks like a greek god(sorry insecurity), but she promised me she would have a threesome with me if I wanted to, because she doesn't want me to feel insecure or inferior. But today she told me that she had lied to me for the past 8 months, and during that break she had sex with 5 people instead of 2, and that included my friend, who i looked in the face and shook my hand like a month after it happened. I just don't know how to deal with this emotionally. I've always had insecurity when it comes to certain things and this is almost too hard to bear. She says her past doesn't matter because shes with me and she wants to marry me. Anyone have any tips to get over stuff like this? Breaking up isn't an option, we've been through too much and i Do love her. I just need help. TL;DR: GF had sex with 6 people instead of 2 in the past, and now I have a hard time dealing with it<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 665, 309, 1849, 15483, 323, 670, 247, 807, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3676, 7827, 3063, 285, 352, 6524, 3977, 281, 5015, 670, 253, 2469, 15, 844, 574, 7154, 598, 323, 374, 14, 20, 2607, 4321, 275, 253, 807, 13, 285, 672, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 703, 42895, 703, 574, 760, 574, 2825, 342, 374, 6068, 1223, 359, 497, 9070, 13, 533, 574, 2218, 5017, 342, 581, 273, 619, 3858, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 2564, 13, 984, 309, 574, 2218, 5017, 1512, 15, 1292, 359, 9377, 598, 969, 670, 495, 3618, 3622, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 533, 1309, 326, 2129, 285, 247, 2716, 703, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 617, 1682, 8471, 285, 247, 23211, 90, 5599, 15, 2064, 556, 644, 327, 619, 2564, 1580, 359, 1849, 1694, 896, 2366, 984, 359, 1849, 1620, 574, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 13, 285, 253, 29723, 4453, 751, 247, 305, 7209, 7122, 9, 84, 5163, 45583, 582, 533, 703, 12316, 479, 703, 651, 452, 247, 289, 6151, 485, 342, 479, 604, 309, 3078, 281, 13, 984, 703, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 281, 1928, 46519, 390, 18134, 15, 1292, 3063, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 574, 27786, 281, 479, 323, 253, 2469, 854, 2607, 13, 285, 1309, 326, 2740, 703, 574, 2825, 342, 608, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 13, 285, 326, 2908, 619, 3331, 13, 665, 891, 3261, 275, 253, 2454, 285, 11898, 619, 1133, 751, 247, 1770, 846, 352, 4592, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 28561, 15, 309, 1849, 1900, 574, 45583, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 2176, 1841, 285, 436, 310, 2761, 1512, 1892, 281, 8800, 15, 1500, 2296, 617, 2469, 2506, 626, 2647, 984, 703, 84, 342, 479, 285, 703, 5605, 281, 17129, 479, 15, 26013, 452, 667, 12192, 281, 755, 689, 5017, 751, 436, 32, 47179, 598, 3548, 626, 271, 4500, 13, 359, 1849, 644, 949, 1512, 1199, 285, 891, 3166, 2389, 617, 15, 309, 816, 878, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 33952, 574, 2825, 342, 721, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 10620, 342, 352, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

377

353

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 27786, 670, 849, 1142, 952, 703, 574, 644, 342, 13, 878, 1361, 10620, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 33952, 574, 2825, 342, 721, 952, 3185, 273, 374, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 285, 1024, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 10620, 342, 352, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So this girl and I have been friends since the fifth grade. We were always there for each other and talked on and off. Recently I broke up with my girlfriend so this girl and I have gotten pretty close. I stared developing feelings for her and it was great at the beginning. When I would wake up in the morning I would already have three messages from her. She found out that I did have feelings for her and she told me that she didn't think of me in that way. Which I was fine with but I couldn't make those feelings go away. She was always on my mind and she would always come to me to talk about everything she had going on in her life. But ever since a little before easter she has started to ignore me but she will talk to me like I'm her bestfriend in school. I can obviously tell that something is wrong. When I try to ask her if it was anything I did, she just tells me it's nothing I'm doing and that she just needs time alone. It's been a while since we have had a real conversation about anything. If we do ever text all she says is "okay", "yeah" and "wow". But last week I was basically over her but then I saw my name with a heart next to it, in her phone. I don't know what to do about this anymore. It brought back all the feelings I had for her. She is a strong person and will go without talking to me and she wouldn't feel a thing. She also is very skeptical about letting guys into her life due to past boyfriends. This is basically killing me on the inside. I'm the type of person who cares and thinks to much about everything. I mean I would absolutely love to date her but I have no idea what she wants anymore. Should I just see if I could get this whole thing by asking her to go to the movies with me or should I try to completely get her out of my head? I just need some advice.

I like her, she told me she didn't like me, now has a heart next to my name in her phone and is ignoring me for some reason.

Been friends with this girl for a long time and I have feelings for her. She seems to be giving me mixed signals. I finally got her number but this is bothering me.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 644, 3858, 1580, 253, 10720, 9646, 15, 844, 497, 1900, 627, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 10062, 327, 285, 745, 15, 17746, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 619, 19609, 594, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 12759, 3965, 2810, 15, 309, 15014, 6684, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 352, 369, 1270, 387, 253, 5068, 15, 2091, 309, 651, 11772, 598, 275, 253, 4131, 309, 651, 2168, 452, 1264, 8169, 432, 617, 15, 1500, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 858, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 1158, 273, 479, 275, 326, 1039, 15, 6758, 309, 369, 4030, 342, 533, 309, 4571, 626, 1056, 1110, 10450, 564, 1977, 15, 1500, 369, 1900, 327, 619, 2564, 285, 703, 651, 1900, 1705, 281, 479, 281, 2312, 670, 3253, 703, 574, 1469, 327, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1292, 2455, 1580, 247, 1652, 1078, 1842, 350, 703, 556, 3053, 281, 11823, 479, 533, 703, 588, 2312, 281, 479, 751, 309, 1353, 617, 1682, 8471, 275, 2143, 15, 50276, 42, 476, 9090, 2028, 326, 1633, 310, 3430, 15, 2091, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 617, 604, 352, 369, 2712, 309, 858, 13, 703, 816, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 2717, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 326, 703, 816, 3198, 673, 3815, 15, 733, 434, 644, 247, 1223, 1580, 359, 452, 574, 247, 1524, 7827, 670, 2712, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 2455, 2505, 512, 703, 2296, 310, 346, 536, 333, 995, 346, 90, 3983, 3, 285, 346, 88, 319, 3446, 1292, 1390, 2129, 309, 369, 10323, 689, 617, 533, 840, 309, 3047, 619, 1416, 342, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 352, 13, 275, 617, 4481, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 670, 436, 10542, 15, 733, 3982, 896, 512, 253, 10450, 309, 574, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 310, 247, 2266, 1436, 285, 588, 564, 1293, 5015, 281, 479, 285, 703, 5082, 626, 1928, 247, 2181, 15, 1500, 671, 310, 1077, 33872, 670, 13872, 6068, 715, 617, 1495, 1955, 281, 2469, 5006, 29261, 15, 831, 310, 10323, 9811, 479, 327, 253, 3304, 15, 309, 1353, 253, 1511, 273, 1436, 665, 24505, 285, 11121, 281, 1199, 670, 3253, 15, 309, 1599, 309, 651, 8839, 2389, 281, 3522, 617, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 5605, 10542, 15, 14482, 309, 816, 923, 604, 309, 812, 755, 436, 2644, 2181, 407, 7004, 617, 281, 564, 281, 253, 11321, 342, 479, 390, 943, 309, 1611, 281, 4336, 755, 617, 562, 273, 619, 1481, 32, 309, 816, 878, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this girl and I have been friends since the fifth grade. We were always there for each other and talked on and off. Recently I broke up with my girlfriend so this girl and I have gotten pretty close. I stared developing feelings for her and it was great at the beginning. When I would wake up in the morning I would already have three messages from her. She found out that I did have feelings for her and she told me that she didn't think of me in that way. Which I was fine with but I couldn't make those feelings go away. She was always on my mind and she would always come to me to talk about everything she had going on in her life. But ever since a little before easter she has started to ignore me but she will talk to me like I'm her bestfriend in school. I can obviously tell that something is wrong. When I try to ask her if it was anything I did, she just tells me it's nothing I'm doing and that she just needs time alone. It's been a while since we have had a real conversation about anything. If we do ever text all she says is "okay", "yeah" and "wow". But last week I was basically over her but then I saw my name with a heart next to it, in her phone. I don't know what to do about this anymore. It brought back all the feelings I had for her. She is a strong person and will go without talking to me and she wouldn't feel a thing. She also is very skeptical about letting guys into her life due to past boyfriends. This is basically killing me on the inside. I'm the type of person who cares and thinks to much about everything. I mean I would absolutely love to date her but I have no idea what she wants anymore. Should I just see if I could get this whole thing by asking her to go to the movies with me or should I try to completely get her out of my head? I just need some advice. TL;DR:

I like her, she told me she didn't like me, now has a heart next to my name in her phone and is ignoring me for some reason.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 751, 617, 13, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 1904, 626, 751, 479, 13, 1024, 556, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 619, 1416, 275, 617, 4481, 285, 310, 23111, 479, 323, 690, 1921, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Been friends with this girl for a long time and I have feelings for her. She seems to be giving me mixed signals. I finally got her number but this is bothering me.<|endoftext|>

[ 2325, 257, 3858, 342, 436, 3226, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 285, 309, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 3133, 281, 320, 4933, 479, 6804, 6298, 15, 309, 4720, 1694, 617, 1180, 533, 436, 310, 15105, 272, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this girl and I have been friends since the fifth grade. We were always there for each other and talked on and off. Recently I broke up with my girlfriend so this girl and I have gotten pretty close. I stared developing feelings for her and it was great at the beginning. When I would wake up in the morning I would already have three messages from her. She found out that I did have feelings for her and she told me that she didn't think of me in that way. Which I was fine with but I couldn't make those feelings go away. She was always on my mind and she would always come to me to talk about everything she had going on in her life. But ever since a little before easter she has started to ignore me but she will talk to me like I'm her bestfriend in school. I can obviously tell that something is wrong. When I try to ask her if it was anything I did, she just tells me it's nothing I'm doing and that she just needs time alone. It's been a while since we have had a real conversation about anything. If we do ever text all she says is "okay", "yeah" and "wow". But last week I was basically over her but then I saw my name with a heart next to it, in her phone. I don't know what to do about this anymore. It brought back all the feelings I had for her. She is a strong person and will go without talking to me and she wouldn't feel a thing. She also is very skeptical about letting guys into her life due to past boyfriends. This is basically killing me on the inside. I'm the type of person who cares and thinks to much about everything. I mean I would absolutely love to date her but I have no idea what she wants anymore. Should I just see if I could get this whole thing by asking her to go to the movies with me or should I try to completely get her out of my head? I just need some advice. TL;DR: I like her, she told me she didn't like me, now has a heart next to my name in her phone and is ignoring me for some reason.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 644, 3858, 1580, 253, 10720, 9646, 15, 844, 497, 1900, 627, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 10062, 327, 285, 745, 15, 17746, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 619, 19609, 594, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 12759, 3965, 2810, 15, 309, 15014, 6684, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 352, 369, 1270, 387, 253, 5068, 15, 2091, 309, 651, 11772, 598, 275, 253, 4131, 309, 651, 2168, 452, 1264, 8169, 432, 617, 15, 1500, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 858, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 1158, 273, 479, 275, 326, 1039, 15, 6758, 309, 369, 4030, 342, 533, 309, 4571, 626, 1056, 1110, 10450, 564, 1977, 15, 1500, 369, 1900, 327, 619, 2564, 285, 703, 651, 1900, 1705, 281, 479, 281, 2312, 670, 3253, 703, 574, 1469, 327, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1292, 2455, 1580, 247, 1652, 1078, 1842, 350, 703, 556, 3053, 281, 11823, 479, 533, 703, 588, 2312, 281, 479, 751, 309, 1353, 617, 1682, 8471, 275, 2143, 15, 50276, 42, 476, 9090, 2028, 326, 1633, 310, 3430, 15, 2091, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 617, 604, 352, 369, 2712, 309, 858, 13, 703, 816, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 2717, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 326, 703, 816, 3198, 673, 3815, 15, 733, 434, 644, 247, 1223, 1580, 359, 452, 574, 247, 1524, 7827, 670, 2712, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 2455, 2505, 512, 703, 2296, 310, 346, 536, 333, 995, 346, 90, 3983, 3, 285, 346, 88, 319, 3446, 1292, 1390, 2129, 309, 369, 10323, 689, 617, 533, 840, 309, 3047, 619, 1416, 342, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 352, 13, 275, 617, 4481, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 670, 436, 10542, 15, 733, 3982, 896, 512, 253, 10450, 309, 574, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 310, 247, 2266, 1436, 285, 588, 564, 1293, 5015, 281, 479, 285, 703, 5082, 626, 1928, 247, 2181, 15, 1500, 671, 310, 1077, 33872, 670, 13872, 6068, 715, 617, 1495, 1955, 281, 2469, 5006, 29261, 15, 831, 310, 10323, 9811, 479, 327, 253, 3304, 15, 309, 1353, 253, 1511, 273, 1436, 665, 24505, 285, 11121, 281, 1199, 670, 3253, 15, 309, 1599, 309, 651, 8839, 2389, 281, 3522, 617, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 5605, 10542, 15, 14482, 309, 816, 923, 604, 309, 812, 755, 436, 2644, 2181, 407, 7004, 617, 281, 564, 281, 253, 11321, 342, 479, 390, 943, 309, 1611, 281, 4336, 755, 617, 562, 273, 619, 1481, 32, 309, 816, 878, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 751, 617, 13, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 1904, 626, 751, 479, 13, 1024, 556, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 619, 1416, 275, 617, 4481, 285, 310, 23111, 479, 323, 690, 1921, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

469

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So this girl and I have been friends since the fifth grade. We were always there for each other and talked on and off. Recently I broke up with my girlfriend so this girl and I have gotten pretty close. I stared developing feelings for her and it was great at the beginning. When I would wake up in the morning I would already have three messages from her. She found out that I did have feelings for her and she told me that she didn't think of me in that way. Which I was fine with but I couldn't make those feelings go away. She was always on my mind and she would always come to me to talk about everything she had going on in her life. But ever since a little before easter she has started to ignore me but she will talk to me like I'm her bestfriend in school. I can obviously tell that something is wrong. When I try to ask her if it was anything I did, she just tells me it's nothing I'm doing and that she just needs time alone. It's been a while since we have had a real conversation about anything. If we do ever text all she says is "okay", "yeah" and "wow". But last week I was basically over her but then I saw my name with a heart next to it, in her phone. I don't know what to do about this anymore. It brought back all the feelings I had for her. She is a strong person and will go without talking to me and she wouldn't feel a thing. She also is very skeptical about letting guys into her life due to past boyfriends. This is basically killing me on the inside. I'm the type of person who cares and thinks to much about everything. I mean I would absolutely love to date her but I have no idea what she wants anymore. Should I just see if I could get this whole thing by asking her to go to the movies with me or should I try to completely get her out of my head? I just need some advice. TL;DR: Been friends with this girl for a long time and I have feelings for her. She seems to be giving me mixed signals. I finally got her number but this is bothering me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 644, 3858, 1580, 253, 10720, 9646, 15, 844, 497, 1900, 627, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 10062, 327, 285, 745, 15, 17746, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 619, 19609, 594, 436, 3226, 285, 309, 452, 12759, 3965, 2810, 15, 309, 15014, 6684, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 352, 369, 1270, 387, 253, 5068, 15, 2091, 309, 651, 11772, 598, 275, 253, 4131, 309, 651, 2168, 452, 1264, 8169, 432, 617, 15, 1500, 1119, 562, 326, 309, 858, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 1158, 273, 479, 275, 326, 1039, 15, 6758, 309, 369, 4030, 342, 533, 309, 4571, 626, 1056, 1110, 10450, 564, 1977, 15, 1500, 369, 1900, 327, 619, 2564, 285, 703, 651, 1900, 1705, 281, 479, 281, 2312, 670, 3253, 703, 574, 1469, 327, 275, 617, 1495, 15, 1292, 2455, 1580, 247, 1652, 1078, 1842, 350, 703, 556, 3053, 281, 11823, 479, 533, 703, 588, 2312, 281, 479, 751, 309, 1353, 617, 1682, 8471, 275, 2143, 15, 50276, 42, 476, 9090, 2028, 326, 1633, 310, 3430, 15, 2091, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 617, 604, 352, 369, 2712, 309, 858, 13, 703, 816, 8599, 479, 352, 434, 2717, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 326, 703, 816, 3198, 673, 3815, 15, 733, 434, 644, 247, 1223, 1580, 359, 452, 574, 247, 1524, 7827, 670, 2712, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 2455, 2505, 512, 703, 2296, 310, 346, 536, 333, 995, 346, 90, 3983, 3, 285, 346, 88, 319, 3446, 1292, 1390, 2129, 309, 369, 10323, 689, 617, 533, 840, 309, 3047, 619, 1416, 342, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 352, 13, 275, 617, 4481, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 670, 436, 10542, 15, 733, 3982, 896, 512, 253, 10450, 309, 574, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 310, 247, 2266, 1436, 285, 588, 564, 1293, 5015, 281, 479, 285, 703, 5082, 626, 1928, 247, 2181, 15, 1500, 671, 310, 1077, 33872, 670, 13872, 6068, 715, 617, 1495, 1955, 281, 2469, 5006, 29261, 15, 831, 310, 10323, 9811, 479, 327, 253, 3304, 15, 309, 1353, 253, 1511, 273, 1436, 665, 24505, 285, 11121, 281, 1199, 670, 3253, 15, 309, 1599, 309, 651, 8839, 2389, 281, 3522, 617, 533, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 5605, 10542, 15, 14482, 309, 816, 923, 604, 309, 812, 755, 436, 2644, 2181, 407, 7004, 617, 281, 564, 281, 253, 11321, 342, 479, 390, 943, 309, 1611, 281, 4336, 755, 617, 562, 273, 619, 1481, 32, 309, 816, 878, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2325, 257, 3858, 342, 436, 3226, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 285, 309, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 3133, 281, 320, 4933, 479, 6804, 6298, 15, 309, 4720, 1694, 617, 1180, 533, 436, 310, 15105, 272, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

475

436

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 751, 617, 13, 703, 2183, 479, 703, 1904, 626, 751, 479, 13, 1024, 556, 247, 2798, 1735, 281, 619, 1416, 275, 617, 4481, 285, 310, 23111, 479, 323, 690, 1921, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2325, 257, 3858, 342, 436, 3226, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 285, 309, 452, 10450, 323, 617, 15, 1500, 3133, 281, 320, 4933, 479, 6804, 6298, 15, 309, 4720, 1694, 617, 1180, 533, 436, 310, 15105, 272, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So I'm going to try and keep this short, I'd just like some advice from 'the people on the internet'... I've recently started a working holiday in Australia, arrived in Sydney about two weeks ago and looking for a job now... This is stressing me out quit badly, but that's a whole other discussion... Me and my mum [53F] have quite a good relationship, I also lived back home for a while before I came here to save up some money and even though she can be a bit overbearing, she's been incredibly supportive and a great mum in general. Before I left, she had already told me she would like to come and visit me, which I obviously think would be very nice, even though it also stresses me out a bit since I don't really know where I'll be during the year or what I'll be doing, but I'm happy trying to organise it a bit... However, today she asked me whether she could come and visit for Christmas... I know she'd really like to cause we don't have much family and she'd probably spend some of the holiday time alone, but I'd rather have her come and visit me another time. Thing is, I'm renting a room in a house with quite a few people, so I'm not sure if they'd appreciate an extra person for 2 weeks. I'm also pretty stressed out about trying to find a job and being in a new country in general and I feel like I'd rather tackle those issues first and see her when I feel more comfortable... For now, I've told her I was going to check with my housemates (which I will obv), but I know she'll be very disappointed if I say I'd rather postpone it to another time. I feel like I'm being a horrible daughter right now and I'm just wondering whether I should suck it up and just tell her to come visit?

Mums asked me to come Christmas when I'm not sure if I'd prefer her to come or not. I feel like a horrible daughter.

Mum wants me to come visit her in Australia, I'd rather stay home the first two weeks... Should I tell her to come visit me later?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 1611, 285, 1978, 436, 2159, 13, 309, 1871, 816, 751, 690, 7535, 432, 686, 783, 952, 327, 253, 8573, 8, 1051, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 4102, 3053, 247, 2444, 13319, 275, 6976, 13, 7244, 275, 17361, 670, 767, 3618, 3622, 285, 2819, 323, 247, 2628, 1024, 1051, 831, 310, 4073, 272, 479, 562, 15856, 16426, 13, 533, 326, 434, 247, 2644, 643, 5955, 1051, 2490, 187, 5072, 285, 619, 29616, 544, 3357, 39, 62, 452, 3240, 247, 1175, 2954, 13, 309, 671, 6940, 896, 1728, 323, 247, 1223, 1078, 309, 2210, 1060, 281, 5321, 598, 690, 2583, 285, 1014, 2167, 703, 476, 320, 247, 2372, 689, 26201, 13, 703, 434, 644, 16088, 23384, 285, 247, 1270, 29616, 275, 2087, 15, 9613, 309, 1669, 13, 703, 574, 2168, 2183, 479, 703, 651, 751, 281, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 13, 534, 309, 9090, 1158, 651, 320, 1077, 5322, 13, 1014, 2167, 352, 671, 24631, 479, 562, 247, 2372, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 835, 309, 1833, 320, 1309, 253, 807, 390, 752, 309, 1833, 320, 2509, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 5211, 2820, 281, 1963, 885, 352, 247, 2372, 1051, 209, 187, 6436, 13, 3063, 703, 2546, 479, 1880, 703, 812, 1705, 285, 4143, 323, 9449, 1051, 309, 871, 703, 1871, 1663, 751, 281, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 1199, 2021, 285, 703, 1871, 3164, 6947, 690, 273, 253, 13319, 673, 3815, 13, 533, 309, 1871, 2581, 452, 617, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 1044, 272, 310, 13, 309, 1353, 3816, 1076, 247, 2316, 275, 247, 2419, 342, 3240, 247, 1643, 952, 13, 594, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 597, 1871, 11435, 271, 4465, 1436, 323, 374, 3618, 15, 309, 1353, 671, 3965, 21198, 562, 670, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 2628, 285, 1146, 275, 247, 747, 2586, 275, 2087, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1871, 2581, 18915, 1110, 3374, 806, 285, 923, 617, 672, 309, 1928, 625, 9848, 1051, 2490, 187, 2214, 1024, 13, 309, 1849, 2183, 617, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2451, 342, 619, 2419, 13239, 313, 4609, 309, 588, 691, 87, 582, 533, 309, 871, 703, 1833, 320, 1077, 19271, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1871, 2581, 1501, 2041, 352, 281, 1529, 673, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1146, 247, 19201, 6122, 987, 1024, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 12371, 1880, 309, 943, 15327, 352, 598, 285, 816, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm going to try and keep this short, I'd just like some advice from 'the people on the internet'... I've recently started a working holiday in Australia, arrived in Sydney about two weeks ago and looking for a job now... This is stressing me out quit badly, but that's a whole other discussion... Me and my mum [53F] have quite a good relationship, I also lived back home for a while before I came here to save up some money and even though she can be a bit overbearing, she's been incredibly supportive and a great mum in general. Before I left, she had already told me she would like to come and visit me, which I obviously think would be very nice, even though it also stresses me out a bit since I don't really know where I'll be during the year or what I'll be doing, but I'm happy trying to organise it a bit... However, today she asked me whether she could come and visit for Christmas... I know she'd really like to cause we don't have much family and she'd probably spend some of the holiday time alone, but I'd rather have her come and visit me another time. Thing is, I'm renting a room in a house with quite a few people, so I'm not sure if they'd appreciate an extra person for 2 weeks. I'm also pretty stressed out about trying to find a job and being in a new country in general and I feel like I'd rather tackle those issues first and see her when I feel more comfortable... For now, I've told her I was going to check with my housemates (which I will obv), but I know she'll be very disappointed if I say I'd rather postpone it to another time. I feel like I'm being a horrible daughter right now and I'm just wondering whether I should suck it up and just tell her to come visit? TL;DR:

Mums asked me to come Christmas when I'm not sure if I'd prefer her to come or not. I feel like a horrible daughter.<|endoftext|>

[ 353, 7640, 2546, 479, 281, 1705, 9449, 672, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1871, 4510, 617, 281, 1705, 390, 417, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 247, 19201, 6122, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Mum wants me to come visit her in Australia, I'd rather stay home the first two weeks... Should I tell her to come visit me later?<|endoftext|>

[ 34701, 5605, 479, 281, 1705, 4143, 617, 275, 6976, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 3297, 1728, 253, 806, 767, 3618, 1051, 14482, 309, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 479, 1996, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm going to try and keep this short, I'd just like some advice from 'the people on the internet'... I've recently started a working holiday in Australia, arrived in Sydney about two weeks ago and looking for a job now... This is stressing me out quit badly, but that's a whole other discussion... Me and my mum [53F] have quite a good relationship, I also lived back home for a while before I came here to save up some money and even though she can be a bit overbearing, she's been incredibly supportive and a great mum in general. Before I left, she had already told me she would like to come and visit me, which I obviously think would be very nice, even though it also stresses me out a bit since I don't really know where I'll be during the year or what I'll be doing, but I'm happy trying to organise it a bit... However, today she asked me whether she could come and visit for Christmas... I know she'd really like to cause we don't have much family and she'd probably spend some of the holiday time alone, but I'd rather have her come and visit me another time. Thing is, I'm renting a room in a house with quite a few people, so I'm not sure if they'd appreciate an extra person for 2 weeks. I'm also pretty stressed out about trying to find a job and being in a new country in general and I feel like I'd rather tackle those issues first and see her when I feel more comfortable... For now, I've told her I was going to check with my housemates (which I will obv), but I know she'll be very disappointed if I say I'd rather postpone it to another time. I feel like I'm being a horrible daughter right now and I'm just wondering whether I should suck it up and just tell her to come visit? TL;DR: Mums asked me to come Christmas when I'm not sure if I'd prefer her to come or not. I feel like a horrible daughter.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 1611, 285, 1978, 436, 2159, 13, 309, 1871, 816, 751, 690, 7535, 432, 686, 783, 952, 327, 253, 8573, 8, 1051, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 4102, 3053, 247, 2444, 13319, 275, 6976, 13, 7244, 275, 17361, 670, 767, 3618, 3622, 285, 2819, 323, 247, 2628, 1024, 1051, 831, 310, 4073, 272, 479, 562, 15856, 16426, 13, 533, 326, 434, 247, 2644, 643, 5955, 1051, 2490, 187, 5072, 285, 619, 29616, 544, 3357, 39, 62, 452, 3240, 247, 1175, 2954, 13, 309, 671, 6940, 896, 1728, 323, 247, 1223, 1078, 309, 2210, 1060, 281, 5321, 598, 690, 2583, 285, 1014, 2167, 703, 476, 320, 247, 2372, 689, 26201, 13, 703, 434, 644, 16088, 23384, 285, 247, 1270, 29616, 275, 2087, 15, 9613, 309, 1669, 13, 703, 574, 2168, 2183, 479, 703, 651, 751, 281, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 13, 534, 309, 9090, 1158, 651, 320, 1077, 5322, 13, 1014, 2167, 352, 671, 24631, 479, 562, 247, 2372, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 835, 309, 1833, 320, 1309, 253, 807, 390, 752, 309, 1833, 320, 2509, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 5211, 2820, 281, 1963, 885, 352, 247, 2372, 1051, 209, 187, 6436, 13, 3063, 703, 2546, 479, 1880, 703, 812, 1705, 285, 4143, 323, 9449, 1051, 309, 871, 703, 1871, 1663, 751, 281, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 1199, 2021, 285, 703, 1871, 3164, 6947, 690, 273, 253, 13319, 673, 3815, 13, 533, 309, 1871, 2581, 452, 617, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 1044, 272, 310, 13, 309, 1353, 3816, 1076, 247, 2316, 275, 247, 2419, 342, 3240, 247, 1643, 952, 13, 594, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 597, 1871, 11435, 271, 4465, 1436, 323, 374, 3618, 15, 309, 1353, 671, 3965, 21198, 562, 670, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 2628, 285, 1146, 275, 247, 747, 2586, 275, 2087, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1871, 2581, 18915, 1110, 3374, 806, 285, 923, 617, 672, 309, 1928, 625, 9848, 1051, 2490, 187, 2214, 1024, 13, 309, 1849, 2183, 617, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2451, 342, 619, 2419, 13239, 313, 4609, 309, 588, 691, 87, 582, 533, 309, 871, 703, 1833, 320, 1077, 19271, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1871, 2581, 1501, 2041, 352, 281, 1529, 673, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1146, 247, 19201, 6122, 987, 1024, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 12371, 1880, 309, 943, 15327, 352, 598, 285, 816, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 353, 7640, 2546, 479, 281, 1705, 9449, 672, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1871, 4510, 617, 281, 1705, 390, 417, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 247, 19201, 6122, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

455

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I'm going to try and keep this short, I'd just like some advice from 'the people on the internet'... I've recently started a working holiday in Australia, arrived in Sydney about two weeks ago and looking for a job now... This is stressing me out quit badly, but that's a whole other discussion... Me and my mum [53F] have quite a good relationship, I also lived back home for a while before I came here to save up some money and even though she can be a bit overbearing, she's been incredibly supportive and a great mum in general. Before I left, she had already told me she would like to come and visit me, which I obviously think would be very nice, even though it also stresses me out a bit since I don't really know where I'll be during the year or what I'll be doing, but I'm happy trying to organise it a bit... However, today she asked me whether she could come and visit for Christmas... I know she'd really like to cause we don't have much family and she'd probably spend some of the holiday time alone, but I'd rather have her come and visit me another time. Thing is, I'm renting a room in a house with quite a few people, so I'm not sure if they'd appreciate an extra person for 2 weeks. I'm also pretty stressed out about trying to find a job and being in a new country in general and I feel like I'd rather tackle those issues first and see her when I feel more comfortable... For now, I've told her I was going to check with my housemates (which I will obv), but I know she'll be very disappointed if I say I'd rather postpone it to another time. I feel like I'm being a horrible daughter right now and I'm just wondering whether I should suck it up and just tell her to come visit? TL;DR: Mum wants me to come visit her in Australia, I'd rather stay home the first two weeks... Should I tell her to come visit me later?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1353, 1469, 281, 1611, 285, 1978, 436, 2159, 13, 309, 1871, 816, 751, 690, 7535, 432, 686, 783, 952, 327, 253, 8573, 8, 1051, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 4102, 3053, 247, 2444, 13319, 275, 6976, 13, 7244, 275, 17361, 670, 767, 3618, 3622, 285, 2819, 323, 247, 2628, 1024, 1051, 831, 310, 4073, 272, 479, 562, 15856, 16426, 13, 533, 326, 434, 247, 2644, 643, 5955, 1051, 2490, 187, 5072, 285, 619, 29616, 544, 3357, 39, 62, 452, 3240, 247, 1175, 2954, 13, 309, 671, 6940, 896, 1728, 323, 247, 1223, 1078, 309, 2210, 1060, 281, 5321, 598, 690, 2583, 285, 1014, 2167, 703, 476, 320, 247, 2372, 689, 26201, 13, 703, 434, 644, 16088, 23384, 285, 247, 1270, 29616, 275, 2087, 15, 9613, 309, 1669, 13, 703, 574, 2168, 2183, 479, 703, 651, 751, 281, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 13, 534, 309, 9090, 1158, 651, 320, 1077, 5322, 13, 1014, 2167, 352, 671, 24631, 479, 562, 247, 2372, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 835, 309, 1833, 320, 1309, 253, 807, 390, 752, 309, 1833, 320, 2509, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 5211, 2820, 281, 1963, 885, 352, 247, 2372, 1051, 209, 187, 6436, 13, 3063, 703, 2546, 479, 1880, 703, 812, 1705, 285, 4143, 323, 9449, 1051, 309, 871, 703, 1871, 1663, 751, 281, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 1199, 2021, 285, 703, 1871, 3164, 6947, 690, 273, 253, 13319, 673, 3815, 13, 533, 309, 1871, 2581, 452, 617, 1705, 285, 4143, 479, 1529, 673, 15, 187, 187, 1044, 272, 310, 13, 309, 1353, 3816, 1076, 247, 2316, 275, 247, 2419, 342, 3240, 247, 1643, 952, 13, 594, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 597, 1871, 11435, 271, 4465, 1436, 323, 374, 3618, 15, 309, 1353, 671, 3965, 21198, 562, 670, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 2628, 285, 1146, 275, 247, 747, 2586, 275, 2087, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1871, 2581, 18915, 1110, 3374, 806, 285, 923, 617, 672, 309, 1928, 625, 9848, 1051, 2490, 187, 2214, 1024, 13, 309, 1849, 2183, 617, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2451, 342, 619, 2419, 13239, 313, 4609, 309, 588, 691, 87, 582, 533, 309, 871, 703, 1833, 320, 1077, 19271, 604, 309, 1333, 309, 1871, 2581, 1501, 2041, 352, 281, 1529, 673, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 1353, 1146, 247, 19201, 6122, 987, 1024, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 12371, 1880, 309, 943, 15327, 352, 598, 285, 816, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 34701, 5605, 479, 281, 1705, 4143, 617, 275, 6976, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 3297, 1728, 253, 806, 767, 3618, 1051, 14482, 309, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 479, 1996, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

456

425

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 353, 7640, 2546, 479, 281, 1705, 9449, 672, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 1871, 4510, 617, 281, 1705, 390, 417, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 247, 19201, 6122, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 34701, 5605, 479, 281, 1705, 4143, 617, 275, 6976, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 3297, 1728, 253, 806, 767, 3618, 1051, 14482, 309, 2028, 617, 281, 1705, 4143, 479, 1996, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

If this sounds familiar, it's because I asked about this right after I apologized and she told me that "she just wanted to be friends because apparently sex causes drama". Most of you responded by pretty much telling me that she didn't want to be friends and I just got dumped. But she has texted me pretty much every day since the fight. A few days ago, I spent the whole day with her running into town to run some errands. And the next day it was raining. So she came over and cuddled and watched movies with me all day. We even made out a few times(initiated by her). I know this girl was very attracted to me and we were getting along really well until that fight(and the sex was great). So now, I'm hoping that if I keep up what I'm doing and spending time with her, eventually this making out will lead back to sex and then maybe back to a relationship. So I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with this sort of situation? Am I going to end up as some kind of "cuddle buddy" if I keep talking to her? I would have no concerns except for last night, she texted me to tell me that she was bored and when I asked her to come hang out(I live about a 5 min drive from her), she just kind of ignored the request.

If a girl that I have been intimate with constantly texts me and we hang out from time to time(even make out), does that mean that she wants to go back to some sort of intimate relationship or does she really just want to be a friend?

I'm still talking to a girl that I had a big fight with but we are still talking. I'm hoping that this will lead to sex and then maybe eventually a relationship.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1310, 436, 7835, 7615, 13, 352, 434, 984, 309, 2546, 670, 436, 987, 846, 309, 46446, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 346, 6689, 816, 3078, 281, 320, 3858, 984, 8505, 2825, 5997, 14562, 3446, 5595, 273, 368, 10974, 407, 3965, 1199, 7746, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 285, 309, 816, 1694, 35611, 15, 1292, 703, 556, 2505, 264, 479, 3965, 1199, 1046, 1388, 1580, 253, 3819, 15, 329, 1643, 1897, 3622, 13, 309, 5262, 253, 2644, 1388, 342, 617, 3515, 715, 3874, 281, 1408, 690, 1486, 2287, 15, 1244, 253, 1735, 1388, 352, 369, 1218, 1699, 15, 1893, 703, 2210, 689, 285, 260, 40747, 285, 9047, 11321, 342, 479, 512, 1388, 15, 844, 1014, 1160, 562, 247, 1643, 2069, 9, 4478, 4215, 407, 617, 481, 309, 871, 436, 3226, 369, 1077, 17755, 281, 479, 285, 359, 497, 2970, 2112, 1663, 973, 1919, 326, 3819, 9, 395, 253, 2825, 369, 1270, 481, 1893, 1024, 13, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 604, 309, 1978, 598, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 9100, 673, 342, 617, 13, 6524, 436, 2403, 562, 588, 1421, 896, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 896, 281, 247, 2954, 15, 1893, 309, 5476, 309, 1353, 12371, 604, 3780, 556, 667, 2793, 342, 436, 3686, 273, 4112, 32, 3052, 309, 1469, 281, 990, 598, 347, 690, 2238, 273, 346, 68, 38226, 29517, 3, 604, 309, 1978, 5015, 281, 617, 32, 309, 651, 452, 642, 7350, 3707, 323, 1390, 2360, 13, 703, 2505, 264, 479, 281, 2028, 479, 326, 703, 369, 23086, 285, 672, 309, 2546, 617, 281, 1705, 10913, 562, 9, 42, 3153, 670, 247, 608, 1054, 4446, 432, 617, 582, 703, 816, 2238, 273, 12841, 253, 2748, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: If this sounds familiar, it's because I asked about this right after I apologized and she told me that "she just wanted to be friends because apparently sex causes drama". Most of you responded by pretty much telling me that she didn't want to be friends and I just got dumped. But she has texted me pretty much every day since the fight. A few days ago, I spent the whole day with her running into town to run some errands. And the next day it was raining. So she came over and cuddled and watched movies with me all day. We even made out a few times(initiated by her). I know this girl was very attracted to me and we were getting along really well until that fight(and the sex was great). So now, I'm hoping that if I keep up what I'm doing and spending time with her, eventually this making out will lead back to sex and then maybe back to a relationship. So I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with this sort of situation? Am I going to end up as some kind of "cuddle buddy" if I keep talking to her? I would have no concerns except for last night, she texted me to tell me that she was bored and when I asked her to come hang out(I live about a 5 min drive from her), she just kind of ignored the request. TL;DR:

If a girl that I have been intimate with constantly texts me and we hang out from time to time(even make out), does that mean that she wants to go back to some sort of intimate relationship or does she really just want to be a friend?<|endoftext|>

[ 1310, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 452, 644, 21383, 342, 11485, 17438, 479, 285, 359, 10913, 562, 432, 673, 281, 673, 9, 9154, 1056, 562, 582, 1057, 326, 1599, 326, 703, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 690, 3686, 273, 21383, 2954, 390, 1057, 703, 1663, 816, 971, 281, 320, 247, 3331, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I'm still talking to a girl that I had a big fight with but we are still talking. I'm hoping that this will lead to sex and then maybe eventually a relationship.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 1335, 5015, 281, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 574, 247, 1943, 3819, 342, 533, 359, 403, 1335, 5015, 15, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 436, 588, 1421, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 6524, 247, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: If this sounds familiar, it's because I asked about this right after I apologized and she told me that "she just wanted to be friends because apparently sex causes drama". Most of you responded by pretty much telling me that she didn't want to be friends and I just got dumped. But she has texted me pretty much every day since the fight. A few days ago, I spent the whole day with her running into town to run some errands. And the next day it was raining. So she came over and cuddled and watched movies with me all day. We even made out a few times(initiated by her). I know this girl was very attracted to me and we were getting along really well until that fight(and the sex was great). So now, I'm hoping that if I keep up what I'm doing and spending time with her, eventually this making out will lead back to sex and then maybe back to a relationship. So I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with this sort of situation? Am I going to end up as some kind of "cuddle buddy" if I keep talking to her? I would have no concerns except for last night, she texted me to tell me that she was bored and when I asked her to come hang out(I live about a 5 min drive from her), she just kind of ignored the request. TL;DR: If a girl that I have been intimate with constantly texts me and we hang out from time to time(even make out), does that mean that she wants to go back to some sort of intimate relationship or does she really just want to be a friend?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1310, 436, 7835, 7615, 13, 352, 434, 984, 309, 2546, 670, 436, 987, 846, 309, 46446, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 346, 6689, 816, 3078, 281, 320, 3858, 984, 8505, 2825, 5997, 14562, 3446, 5595, 273, 368, 10974, 407, 3965, 1199, 7746, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 285, 309, 816, 1694, 35611, 15, 1292, 703, 556, 2505, 264, 479, 3965, 1199, 1046, 1388, 1580, 253, 3819, 15, 329, 1643, 1897, 3622, 13, 309, 5262, 253, 2644, 1388, 342, 617, 3515, 715, 3874, 281, 1408, 690, 1486, 2287, 15, 1244, 253, 1735, 1388, 352, 369, 1218, 1699, 15, 1893, 703, 2210, 689, 285, 260, 40747, 285, 9047, 11321, 342, 479, 512, 1388, 15, 844, 1014, 1160, 562, 247, 1643, 2069, 9, 4478, 4215, 407, 617, 481, 309, 871, 436, 3226, 369, 1077, 17755, 281, 479, 285, 359, 497, 2970, 2112, 1663, 973, 1919, 326, 3819, 9, 395, 253, 2825, 369, 1270, 481, 1893, 1024, 13, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 604, 309, 1978, 598, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 9100, 673, 342, 617, 13, 6524, 436, 2403, 562, 588, 1421, 896, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 896, 281, 247, 2954, 15, 1893, 309, 5476, 309, 1353, 12371, 604, 3780, 556, 667, 2793, 342, 436, 3686, 273, 4112, 32, 3052, 309, 1469, 281, 990, 598, 347, 690, 2238, 273, 346, 68, 38226, 29517, 3, 604, 309, 1978, 5015, 281, 617, 32, 309, 651, 452, 642, 7350, 3707, 323, 1390, 2360, 13, 703, 2505, 264, 479, 281, 2028, 479, 326, 703, 369, 23086, 285, 672, 309, 2546, 617, 281, 1705, 10913, 562, 9, 42, 3153, 670, 247, 608, 1054, 4446, 432, 617, 582, 703, 816, 2238, 273, 12841, 253, 2748, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1310, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 452, 644, 21383, 342, 11485, 17438, 479, 285, 359, 10913, 562, 432, 673, 281, 673, 9, 9154, 1056, 562, 582, 1057, 326, 1599, 326, 703, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 690, 3686, 273, 21383, 2954, 390, 1057, 703, 1663, 816, 971, 281, 320, 247, 3331, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

356

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: If this sounds familiar, it's because I asked about this right after I apologized and she told me that "she just wanted to be friends because apparently sex causes drama". Most of you responded by pretty much telling me that she didn't want to be friends and I just got dumped. But she has texted me pretty much every day since the fight. A few days ago, I spent the whole day with her running into town to run some errands. And the next day it was raining. So she came over and cuddled and watched movies with me all day. We even made out a few times(initiated by her). I know this girl was very attracted to me and we were getting along really well until that fight(and the sex was great). So now, I'm hoping that if I keep up what I'm doing and spending time with her, eventually this making out will lead back to sex and then maybe back to a relationship. So I guess I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with this sort of situation? Am I going to end up as some kind of "cuddle buddy" if I keep talking to her? I would have no concerns except for last night, she texted me to tell me that she was bored and when I asked her to come hang out(I live about a 5 min drive from her), she just kind of ignored the request. TL;DR: I'm still talking to a girl that I had a big fight with but we are still talking. I'm hoping that this will lead to sex and then maybe eventually a relationship.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1310, 436, 7835, 7615, 13, 352, 434, 984, 309, 2546, 670, 436, 987, 846, 309, 46446, 285, 703, 2183, 479, 326, 346, 6689, 816, 3078, 281, 320, 3858, 984, 8505, 2825, 5997, 14562, 3446, 5595, 273, 368, 10974, 407, 3965, 1199, 7746, 479, 326, 703, 1904, 626, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 285, 309, 816, 1694, 35611, 15, 1292, 703, 556, 2505, 264, 479, 3965, 1199, 1046, 1388, 1580, 253, 3819, 15, 329, 1643, 1897, 3622, 13, 309, 5262, 253, 2644, 1388, 342, 617, 3515, 715, 3874, 281, 1408, 690, 1486, 2287, 15, 1244, 253, 1735, 1388, 352, 369, 1218, 1699, 15, 1893, 703, 2210, 689, 285, 260, 40747, 285, 9047, 11321, 342, 479, 512, 1388, 15, 844, 1014, 1160, 562, 247, 1643, 2069, 9, 4478, 4215, 407, 617, 481, 309, 871, 436, 3226, 369, 1077, 17755, 281, 479, 285, 359, 497, 2970, 2112, 1663, 973, 1919, 326, 3819, 9, 395, 253, 2825, 369, 1270, 481, 1893, 1024, 13, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 604, 309, 1978, 598, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 285, 9100, 673, 342, 617, 13, 6524, 436, 2403, 562, 588, 1421, 896, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 896, 281, 247, 2954, 15, 1893, 309, 5476, 309, 1353, 12371, 604, 3780, 556, 667, 2793, 342, 436, 3686, 273, 4112, 32, 3052, 309, 1469, 281, 990, 598, 347, 690, 2238, 273, 346, 68, 38226, 29517, 3, 604, 309, 1978, 5015, 281, 617, 32, 309, 651, 452, 642, 7350, 3707, 323, 1390, 2360, 13, 703, 2505, 264, 479, 281, 2028, 479, 326, 703, 369, 23086, 285, 672, 309, 2546, 617, 281, 1705, 10913, 562, 9, 42, 3153, 670, 247, 608, 1054, 4446, 432, 617, 582, 703, 816, 2238, 273, 12841, 253, 2748, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 1335, 5015, 281, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 574, 247, 1943, 3819, 342, 533, 359, 403, 1335, 5015, 15, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 436, 588, 1421, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 6524, 247, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

341

304

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1310, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 452, 644, 21383, 342, 11485, 17438, 479, 285, 359, 10913, 562, 432, 673, 281, 673, 9, 9154, 1056, 562, 582, 1057, 326, 1599, 326, 703, 5605, 281, 564, 896, 281, 690, 3686, 273, 21383, 2954, 390, 1057, 703, 1663, 816, 971, 281, 320, 247, 3331, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 1335, 5015, 281, 247, 3226, 326, 309, 574, 247, 1943, 3819, 342, 533, 359, 403, 1335, 5015, 15, 309, 1353, 11525, 326, 436, 588, 1421, 281, 2825, 285, 840, 5046, 6524, 247, 2954, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'm usually a care-free girl but I've been skeptical of my boyfriend lately. He's from South Korea, lived in Guam for a bit, and has lived in the US since he was about 22. I love him but as our relationship has progressed, I've noticed he has withheld basic information. I just became a waitress, as I am in college, and he refuses to show his ID to me. I eventually saw it and it was normal...no problem. I was confused as to why he would hide information from me that he would give to the local grocery store employee in the US. He has also admitted to being a "bad person" and that he went to court. However he refuses to say what for. I respect him being private and I know he is kind, but I can't help being paranoid after the amount of time that has passed. This didn't bother me much but he has only a handful of friends and reads all day about his job instead of applying for jobs. I am patient with him. I love him. But are these signs that I need to opt out? I'm afraid he's just depressed and I should be there for him instead of being skeptical. If anyone has any perspective, please share.

Boyfriend has been withholding information, although I love him and nothing bad has happened in the relationship. Am I justified being suspicious?

my boyfriend is withholding strange information from me. should it be a breaking point?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3798, 247, 1557, 14, 4924, 3226, 533, 309, 1849, 644, 33872, 273, 619, 22273, 21403, 15, 754, 434, 432, 3684, 9733, 13, 6940, 275, 3262, 312, 323, 247, 2372, 13, 285, 556, 6940, 275, 253, 1982, 1580, 344, 369, 670, 3307, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 533, 347, 776, 2954, 556, 33127, 13, 309, 1849, 8344, 344, 556, 40492, 5044, 1491, 15, 309, 816, 3395, 247, 3343, 560, 13, 347, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 13, 285, 344, 29939, 281, 921, 521, 5417, 281, 479, 15, 309, 6524, 3047, 352, 285, 352, 369, 2622, 1051, 2369, 1895, 15, 309, 369, 13477, 347, 281, 2139, 344, 651, 10507, 1491, 432, 479, 326, 344, 651, 50276, 31089, 281, 253, 1980, 25633, 4657, 8183, 275, 253, 1982, 15, 754, 556, 671, 8176, 281, 1146, 247, 346, 14367, 1436, 3, 285, 326, 344, 2427, 281, 1302, 15, 1723, 344, 29939, 281, 1333, 752, 323, 15, 309, 1675, 779, 1146, 3055, 285, 309, 871, 344, 310, 2238, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 46197, 846, 253, 2408, 273, 673, 326, 556, 4817, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 1904, 626, 15105, 479, 1199, 533, 344, 556, 760, 247, 17167, 273, 3858, 285, 9563, 512, 1388, 670, 521, 2628, 3185, 273, 9433, 323, 7375, 15, 309, 717, 3110, 342, 779, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 15, 1292, 403, 841, 7871, 326, 309, 878, 281, 1478, 562, 32, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 434, 816, 23201, 285, 309, 943, 320, 627, 323, 779, 3185, 273, 1146, 33872, 15, 1310, 3780, 556, 667, 8668, 13, 4496, 3894, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm usually a care-free girl but I've been skeptical of my boyfriend lately. He's from South Korea, lived in Guam for a bit, and has lived in the US since he was about 22. I love him but as our relationship has progressed, I've noticed he has withheld basic information. I just became a waitress, as I am in college, and he refuses to show his ID to me. I eventually saw it and it was normal...no problem. I was confused as to why he would hide information from me that he would give to the local grocery store employee in the US. He has also admitted to being a "bad person" and that he went to court. However he refuses to say what for. I respect him being private and I know he is kind, but I can't help being paranoid after the amount of time that has passed. This didn't bother me much but he has only a handful of friends and reads all day about his job instead of applying for jobs. I am patient with him. I love him. But are these signs that I need to opt out? I'm afraid he's just depressed and I should be there for him instead of being skeptical. If anyone has any perspective, please share. TL;DR:

Boyfriend has been withholding information, although I love him and nothing bad has happened in the relationship. Am I justified being suspicious?<|endoftext|>

[ 12143, 8471, 556, 644, 40271, 1491, 13, 3738, 309, 2389, 779, 285, 2717, 3076, 556, 4592, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 3052, 309, 17285, 1146, 20634, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

my boyfriend is withholding strange information from me. should it be a breaking point?<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 22273, 310, 40271, 8921, 1491, 432, 479, 15, 943, 352, 320, 247, 10155, 1127, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm usually a care-free girl but I've been skeptical of my boyfriend lately. He's from South Korea, lived in Guam for a bit, and has lived in the US since he was about 22. I love him but as our relationship has progressed, I've noticed he has withheld basic information. I just became a waitress, as I am in college, and he refuses to show his ID to me. I eventually saw it and it was normal...no problem. I was confused as to why he would hide information from me that he would give to the local grocery store employee in the US. He has also admitted to being a "bad person" and that he went to court. However he refuses to say what for. I respect him being private and I know he is kind, but I can't help being paranoid after the amount of time that has passed. This didn't bother me much but he has only a handful of friends and reads all day about his job instead of applying for jobs. I am patient with him. I love him. But are these signs that I need to opt out? I'm afraid he's just depressed and I should be there for him instead of being skeptical. If anyone has any perspective, please share. TL;DR: Boyfriend has been withholding information, although I love him and nothing bad has happened in the relationship. Am I justified being suspicious?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3798, 247, 1557, 14, 4924, 3226, 533, 309, 1849, 644, 33872, 273, 619, 22273, 21403, 15, 754, 434, 432, 3684, 9733, 13, 6940, 275, 3262, 312, 323, 247, 2372, 13, 285, 556, 6940, 275, 253, 1982, 1580, 344, 369, 670, 3307, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 533, 347, 776, 2954, 556, 33127, 13, 309, 1849, 8344, 344, 556, 40492, 5044, 1491, 15, 309, 816, 3395, 247, 3343, 560, 13, 347, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 13, 285, 344, 29939, 281, 921, 521, 5417, 281, 479, 15, 309, 6524, 3047, 352, 285, 352, 369, 2622, 1051, 2369, 1895, 15, 309, 369, 13477, 347, 281, 2139, 344, 651, 10507, 1491, 432, 479, 326, 344, 651, 50276, 31089, 281, 253, 1980, 25633, 4657, 8183, 275, 253, 1982, 15, 754, 556, 671, 8176, 281, 1146, 247, 346, 14367, 1436, 3, 285, 326, 344, 2427, 281, 1302, 15, 1723, 344, 29939, 281, 1333, 752, 323, 15, 309, 1675, 779, 1146, 3055, 285, 309, 871, 344, 310, 2238, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 46197, 846, 253, 2408, 273, 673, 326, 556, 4817, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 1904, 626, 15105, 479, 1199, 533, 344, 556, 760, 247, 17167, 273, 3858, 285, 9563, 512, 1388, 670, 521, 2628, 3185, 273, 9433, 323, 7375, 15, 309, 717, 3110, 342, 779, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 15, 1292, 403, 841, 7871, 326, 309, 878, 281, 1478, 562, 32, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 434, 816, 23201, 285, 309, 943, 320, 627, 323, 779, 3185, 273, 1146, 33872, 15, 1310, 3780, 556, 667, 8668, 13, 4496, 3894, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12143, 8471, 556, 644, 40271, 1491, 13, 3738, 309, 2389, 779, 285, 2717, 3076, 556, 4592, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 3052, 309, 17285, 1146, 20634, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

307

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm usually a care-free girl but I've been skeptical of my boyfriend lately. He's from South Korea, lived in Guam for a bit, and has lived in the US since he was about 22. I love him but as our relationship has progressed, I've noticed he has withheld basic information. I just became a waitress, as I am in college, and he refuses to show his ID to me. I eventually saw it and it was normal...no problem. I was confused as to why he would hide information from me that he would give to the local grocery store employee in the US. He has also admitted to being a "bad person" and that he went to court. However he refuses to say what for. I respect him being private and I know he is kind, but I can't help being paranoid after the amount of time that has passed. This didn't bother me much but he has only a handful of friends and reads all day about his job instead of applying for jobs. I am patient with him. I love him. But are these signs that I need to opt out? I'm afraid he's just depressed and I should be there for him instead of being skeptical. If anyone has any perspective, please share. TL;DR: my boyfriend is withholding strange information from me. should it be a breaking point?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3798, 247, 1557, 14, 4924, 3226, 533, 309, 1849, 644, 33872, 273, 619, 22273, 21403, 15, 754, 434, 432, 3684, 9733, 13, 6940, 275, 3262, 312, 323, 247, 2372, 13, 285, 556, 6940, 275, 253, 1982, 1580, 344, 369, 670, 3307, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 533, 347, 776, 2954, 556, 33127, 13, 309, 1849, 8344, 344, 556, 40492, 5044, 1491, 15, 309, 816, 3395, 247, 3343, 560, 13, 347, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 13, 285, 344, 29939, 281, 921, 521, 5417, 281, 479, 15, 309, 6524, 3047, 352, 285, 352, 369, 2622, 1051, 2369, 1895, 15, 309, 369, 13477, 347, 281, 2139, 344, 651, 10507, 1491, 432, 479, 326, 344, 651, 50276, 31089, 281, 253, 1980, 25633, 4657, 8183, 275, 253, 1982, 15, 754, 556, 671, 8176, 281, 1146, 247, 346, 14367, 1436, 3, 285, 326, 344, 2427, 281, 1302, 15, 1723, 344, 29939, 281, 1333, 752, 323, 15, 309, 1675, 779, 1146, 3055, 285, 309, 871, 344, 310, 2238, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 1361, 1146, 46197, 846, 253, 2408, 273, 673, 326, 556, 4817, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 1904, 626, 15105, 479, 1199, 533, 344, 556, 760, 247, 17167, 273, 3858, 285, 9563, 512, 1388, 670, 521, 2628, 3185, 273, 9433, 323, 7375, 15, 309, 717, 3110, 342, 779, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 15, 1292, 403, 841, 7871, 326, 309, 878, 281, 1478, 562, 32, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 434, 816, 23201, 285, 309, 943, 320, 627, 323, 779, 3185, 273, 1146, 33872, 15, 1310, 3780, 556, 667, 8668, 13, 4496, 3894, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 22273, 310, 40271, 8921, 1491, 432, 479, 15, 943, 352, 320, 247, 10155, 1127, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

297

280

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12143, 8471, 556, 644, 40271, 1491, 13, 3738, 309, 2389, 779, 285, 2717, 3076, 556, 4592, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 3052, 309, 17285, 1146, 20634, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 22273, 310, 40271, 8921, 1491, 432, 479, 15, 943, 352, 320, 247, 10155, 1127, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Just wanted to vent here, and see if anyone had any advice. So in November, my motorbike got stolen. The bike was put up on eBay the same morning, and the guy selling it put his phone number on the auction, which linked to his name, business address (which was the location of the bike) etc. etc. etc. I contacted the police, told them ALL of the information of the whereabouts of the bike etc.... They did nothing, at all, for over a month (I had to win the eBay auction for the bike TWICE to prevent it from being sold on, which gave me a nice non-payment notice on my ebay account, and that of a friend). Finally, my case was passed on to a new officer, and my bike was recovered from the person selling it on eBay, great news I thought! Now I have received a letter from the police impound lot, and I am being charged 200 Pounds to RETRIEVE My stolen bike, plus 20 pounds a DAY storage fee, which I can't afford... If I DON'T retrieve it, they charge me fifty pounds (plus that storage fee) for the privilege of having my bike crushed and disposed of. Right now that is literally the only option I can afford, meaning it would have actually been BETTER for me to leave my bike to be sold off to someone on eBay!! The bike is worth only around 200 pounds so even if I got it back and decided to sell the thing, I wouldn't recoup my losses... I've looked over online and there are dozens of news reports on people who have gone through similar situations and nobody has been able to waive the charges... I am absolutely pissed off to the most ridiculous degree, and have no idea what to do... Can anyone on reddit help?

stolen motorbike recovered, police wont return stolen bike; being charged 200 pounds to recover bike plus 20 pounds a day storage fee; no option to waive fees yet... help?

bike stolen, police have done nothing for month, now being charged 200 pounds to retrieve bike w/o any possibility of recouping losses, how do I avoid this?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3771, 3078, 281, 5698, 1060, 13, 285, 923, 604, 3780, 574, 667, 7535, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 275, 4596, 13, 619, 5694, 67, 2804, 1694, 15661, 15, 380, 13696, 369, 1691, 598, 327, 43131, 253, 1072, 4131, 13, 285, 253, 5599, 10156, 352, 1691, 521, 4481, 1180, 327, 253, 22685, 13, 534, 7939, 281, 521, 1416, 13, 2136, 2953, 313, 4609, 369, 253, 4328, 273, 253, 13696, 10, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 18203, 253, 3513, 13, 2183, 731, 13556, 273, 253, 1491, 273, 253, 49924, 273, 253, 13696, 3966, 2391, 1583, 858, 2717, 13, 387, 512, 13, 323, 689, 247, 1770, 313, 42, 574, 281, 3330, 253, 43131, 22685, 323, 253, 13696, 30694, 8875, 281, 3657, 352, 432, 1146, 4211, 327, 13, 534, 3534, 479, 247, 5322, 1327, 14, 26360, 4366, 327, 619, 299, 32442, 2395, 13, 285, 326, 273, 247, 3331, 481, 2490, 187, 10971, 13, 619, 1083, 369, 4817, 327, 281, 247, 747, 5908, 13, 285, 619, 13696, 369, 12372, 432, 253, 1436, 10156, 352, 327, 43131, 13, 1270, 3668, 309, 1869, 2, 187, 187, 4125, 309, 452, 2959, 247, 4857, 432, 253, 3513, 1607, 517, 2257, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1146, 6636, 1052, 367, 2261, 281, 34545, 4873, 8199, 38, 2752, 15661, 13696, 13, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 39045, 5718, 9801, 13, 534, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 1051, 1310, 309, 24694, 8, 53, 19553, 352, 13, 597, 4179, 479, 13719, 12511, 313, 11095, 326, 5718, 9801, 10, 323, 253, 15863, 273, 1907, 619, 13696, 24983, 285, 15432, 273, 15, 10154, 1024, 326, 310, 12832, 253, 760, 4500, 309, 476, 7848, 13, 4495, 352, 651, 452, 2686, 644, 36855, 4827, 323, 479, 281, 3553, 619, 13696, 281, 320, 4211, 745, 281, 3095, 327, 43131, 4672, 380, 13696, 310, 4409, 760, 1475, 1052, 12511, 594, 1014, 604, 309, 1694, 352, 896, 285, 4425, 281, 5580, 253, 2181, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 761, 1011, 619, 11655, 1051, 309, 1849, 3261, 689, 3909, 285, 627, 403, 18660, 273, 3668, 5012, 327, 952, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 2074, 9534, 285, 12445, 556, 644, 2104, 281, 40872, 253, 7260, 1051, 309, 717, 8839, 39309, 745, 281, 253, 954, 19082, 4248, 13, 285, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1051, 2615, 3780, 327, 28159, 262, 1361, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just wanted to vent here, and see if anyone had any advice. So in November, my motorbike got stolen. The bike was put up on eBay the same morning, and the guy selling it put his phone number on the auction, which linked to his name, business address (which was the location of the bike) etc. etc. etc. I contacted the police, told them ALL of the information of the whereabouts of the bike etc.... They did nothing, at all, for over a month (I had to win the eBay auction for the bike TWICE to prevent it from being sold on, which gave me a nice non-payment notice on my ebay account, and that of a friend). Finally, my case was passed on to a new officer, and my bike was recovered from the person selling it on eBay, great news I thought! Now I have received a letter from the police impound lot, and I am being charged 200 Pounds to RETRIEVE My stolen bike, plus 20 pounds a DAY storage fee, which I can't afford... If I DON'T retrieve it, they charge me fifty pounds (plus that storage fee) for the privilege of having my bike crushed and disposed of. Right now that is literally the only option I can afford, meaning it would have actually been BETTER for me to leave my bike to be sold off to someone on eBay!! The bike is worth only around 200 pounds so even if I got it back and decided to sell the thing, I wouldn't recoup my losses... I've looked over online and there are dozens of news reports on people who have gone through similar situations and nobody has been able to waive the charges... I am absolutely pissed off to the most ridiculous degree, and have no idea what to do... Can anyone on reddit help? TL;DR:

stolen motorbike recovered, police wont return stolen bike; being charged 200 pounds to recover bike plus 20 pounds a day storage fee; no option to waive fees yet... help?<|endoftext|>

[ 15661, 5694, 67, 2804, 12372, 13, 3513, 31451, 1091, 15661, 13696, 28, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 9295, 13696, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 1388, 5718, 9801, 28, 642, 4500, 281, 40872, 8128, 2568, 1051, 1361, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

bike stolen, police have done nothing for month, now being charged 200 pounds to retrieve bike w/o any possibility of recouping losses, how do I avoid this?<|endoftext|>

[ 13696, 15661, 13, 3513, 452, 2218, 2717, 323, 1770, 13, 1024, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 19553, 13696, 259, 16, 80, 667, 6387, 273, 761, 1011, 272, 11655, 13, 849, 513, 309, 3693, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just wanted to vent here, and see if anyone had any advice. So in November, my motorbike got stolen. The bike was put up on eBay the same morning, and the guy selling it put his phone number on the auction, which linked to his name, business address (which was the location of the bike) etc. etc. etc. I contacted the police, told them ALL of the information of the whereabouts of the bike etc.... They did nothing, at all, for over a month (I had to win the eBay auction for the bike TWICE to prevent it from being sold on, which gave me a nice non-payment notice on my ebay account, and that of a friend). Finally, my case was passed on to a new officer, and my bike was recovered from the person selling it on eBay, great news I thought! Now I have received a letter from the police impound lot, and I am being charged 200 Pounds to RETRIEVE My stolen bike, plus 20 pounds a DAY storage fee, which I can't afford... If I DON'T retrieve it, they charge me fifty pounds (plus that storage fee) for the privilege of having my bike crushed and disposed of. Right now that is literally the only option I can afford, meaning it would have actually been BETTER for me to leave my bike to be sold off to someone on eBay!! The bike is worth only around 200 pounds so even if I got it back and decided to sell the thing, I wouldn't recoup my losses... I've looked over online and there are dozens of news reports on people who have gone through similar situations and nobody has been able to waive the charges... I am absolutely pissed off to the most ridiculous degree, and have no idea what to do... Can anyone on reddit help? TL;DR: stolen motorbike recovered, police wont return stolen bike; being charged 200 pounds to recover bike plus 20 pounds a day storage fee; no option to waive fees yet... help?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3771, 3078, 281, 5698, 1060, 13, 285, 923, 604, 3780, 574, 667, 7535, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 275, 4596, 13, 619, 5694, 67, 2804, 1694, 15661, 15, 380, 13696, 369, 1691, 598, 327, 43131, 253, 1072, 4131, 13, 285, 253, 5599, 10156, 352, 1691, 521, 4481, 1180, 327, 253, 22685, 13, 534, 7939, 281, 521, 1416, 13, 2136, 2953, 313, 4609, 369, 253, 4328, 273, 253, 13696, 10, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 18203, 253, 3513, 13, 2183, 731, 13556, 273, 253, 1491, 273, 253, 49924, 273, 253, 13696, 3966, 2391, 1583, 858, 2717, 13, 387, 512, 13, 323, 689, 247, 1770, 313, 42, 574, 281, 3330, 253, 43131, 22685, 323, 253, 13696, 30694, 8875, 281, 3657, 352, 432, 1146, 4211, 327, 13, 534, 3534, 479, 247, 5322, 1327, 14, 26360, 4366, 327, 619, 299, 32442, 2395, 13, 285, 326, 273, 247, 3331, 481, 2490, 187, 10971, 13, 619, 1083, 369, 4817, 327, 281, 247, 747, 5908, 13, 285, 619, 13696, 369, 12372, 432, 253, 1436, 10156, 352, 327, 43131, 13, 1270, 3668, 309, 1869, 2, 187, 187, 4125, 309, 452, 2959, 247, 4857, 432, 253, 3513, 1607, 517, 2257, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1146, 6636, 1052, 367, 2261, 281, 34545, 4873, 8199, 38, 2752, 15661, 13696, 13, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 39045, 5718, 9801, 13, 534, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 1051, 1310, 309, 24694, 8, 53, 19553, 352, 13, 597, 4179, 479, 13719, 12511, 313, 11095, 326, 5718, 9801, 10, 323, 253, 15863, 273, 1907, 619, 13696, 24983, 285, 15432, 273, 15, 10154, 1024, 326, 310, 12832, 253, 760, 4500, 309, 476, 7848, 13, 4495, 352, 651, 452, 2686, 644, 36855, 4827, 323, 479, 281, 3553, 619, 13696, 281, 320, 4211, 745, 281, 3095, 327, 43131, 4672, 380, 13696, 310, 4409, 760, 1475, 1052, 12511, 594, 1014, 604, 309, 1694, 352, 896, 285, 4425, 281, 5580, 253, 2181, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 761, 1011, 619, 11655, 1051, 309, 1849, 3261, 689, 3909, 285, 627, 403, 18660, 273, 3668, 5012, 327, 952, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 2074, 9534, 285, 12445, 556, 644, 2104, 281, 40872, 253, 7260, 1051, 309, 717, 8839, 39309, 745, 281, 253, 954, 19082, 4248, 13, 285, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1051, 2615, 3780, 327, 28159, 262, 1361, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 15661, 5694, 67, 2804, 12372, 13, 3513, 31451, 1091, 15661, 13696, 28, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 9295, 13696, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 1388, 5718, 9801, 28, 642, 4500, 281, 40872, 8128, 2568, 1051, 1361, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

438

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Just wanted to vent here, and see if anyone had any advice. So in November, my motorbike got stolen. The bike was put up on eBay the same morning, and the guy selling it put his phone number on the auction, which linked to his name, business address (which was the location of the bike) etc. etc. etc. I contacted the police, told them ALL of the information of the whereabouts of the bike etc.... They did nothing, at all, for over a month (I had to win the eBay auction for the bike TWICE to prevent it from being sold on, which gave me a nice non-payment notice on my ebay account, and that of a friend). Finally, my case was passed on to a new officer, and my bike was recovered from the person selling it on eBay, great news I thought! Now I have received a letter from the police impound lot, and I am being charged 200 Pounds to RETRIEVE My stolen bike, plus 20 pounds a DAY storage fee, which I can't afford... If I DON'T retrieve it, they charge me fifty pounds (plus that storage fee) for the privilege of having my bike crushed and disposed of. Right now that is literally the only option I can afford, meaning it would have actually been BETTER for me to leave my bike to be sold off to someone on eBay!! The bike is worth only around 200 pounds so even if I got it back and decided to sell the thing, I wouldn't recoup my losses... I've looked over online and there are dozens of news reports on people who have gone through similar situations and nobody has been able to waive the charges... I am absolutely pissed off to the most ridiculous degree, and have no idea what to do... Can anyone on reddit help? TL;DR: bike stolen, police have done nothing for month, now being charged 200 pounds to retrieve bike w/o any possibility of recouping losses, how do I avoid this?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3771, 3078, 281, 5698, 1060, 13, 285, 923, 604, 3780, 574, 667, 7535, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 275, 4596, 13, 619, 5694, 67, 2804, 1694, 15661, 15, 380, 13696, 369, 1691, 598, 327, 43131, 253, 1072, 4131, 13, 285, 253, 5599, 10156, 352, 1691, 521, 4481, 1180, 327, 253, 22685, 13, 534, 7939, 281, 521, 1416, 13, 2136, 2953, 313, 4609, 369, 253, 4328, 273, 253, 13696, 10, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 3966, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 18203, 253, 3513, 13, 2183, 731, 13556, 273, 253, 1491, 273, 253, 49924, 273, 253, 13696, 3966, 2391, 1583, 858, 2717, 13, 387, 512, 13, 323, 689, 247, 1770, 313, 42, 574, 281, 3330, 253, 43131, 22685, 323, 253, 13696, 30694, 8875, 281, 3657, 352, 432, 1146, 4211, 327, 13, 534, 3534, 479, 247, 5322, 1327, 14, 26360, 4366, 327, 619, 299, 32442, 2395, 13, 285, 326, 273, 247, 3331, 481, 2490, 187, 10971, 13, 619, 1083, 369, 4817, 327, 281, 247, 747, 5908, 13, 285, 619, 13696, 369, 12372, 432, 253, 1436, 10156, 352, 327, 43131, 13, 1270, 3668, 309, 1869, 2, 187, 187, 4125, 309, 452, 2959, 247, 4857, 432, 253, 3513, 1607, 517, 2257, 13, 285, 309, 717, 1146, 6636, 1052, 367, 2261, 281, 34545, 4873, 8199, 38, 2752, 15661, 13696, 13, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 39045, 5718, 9801, 13, 534, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 1051, 1310, 309, 24694, 8, 53, 19553, 352, 13, 597, 4179, 479, 13719, 12511, 313, 11095, 326, 5718, 9801, 10, 323, 253, 15863, 273, 1907, 619, 13696, 24983, 285, 15432, 273, 15, 10154, 1024, 326, 310, 12832, 253, 760, 4500, 309, 476, 7848, 13, 4495, 352, 651, 452, 2686, 644, 36855, 4827, 323, 479, 281, 3553, 619, 13696, 281, 320, 4211, 745, 281, 3095, 327, 43131, 4672, 380, 13696, 310, 4409, 760, 1475, 1052, 12511, 594, 1014, 604, 309, 1694, 352, 896, 285, 4425, 281, 5580, 253, 2181, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 761, 1011, 619, 11655, 1051, 309, 1849, 3261, 689, 3909, 285, 627, 403, 18660, 273, 3668, 5012, 327, 952, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 2074, 9534, 285, 12445, 556, 644, 2104, 281, 40872, 253, 7260, 1051, 309, 717, 8839, 39309, 745, 281, 253, 954, 19082, 4248, 13, 285, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1051, 2615, 3780, 327, 28159, 262, 1361, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 13696, 15661, 13, 3513, 452, 2218, 2717, 323, 1770, 13, 1024, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 19553, 13696, 259, 16, 80, 667, 6387, 273, 761, 1011, 272, 11655, 13, 849, 513, 309, 3693, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

437

401

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 15661, 5694, 67, 2804, 12372, 13, 3513, 31451, 1091, 15661, 13696, 28, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 9295, 13696, 5043, 1384, 12511, 247, 1388, 5718, 9801, 28, 642, 4500, 281, 40872, 8128, 2568, 1051, 1361, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 13696, 15661, 13, 3513, 452, 2218, 2717, 323, 1770, 13, 1024, 1146, 6636, 1052, 12511, 281, 19553, 13696, 259, 16, 80, 667, 6387, 273, 761, 1011, 272, 11655, 13, 849, 513, 309, 3693, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. Here's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place. I'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that "She didn't say anything... this is what i observed" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work. How do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss?

Ex-friend is causing workplace drama trying to take me down and I don't mean to be a dick to her but she won't stop saying things that aren't true and my supervisor keeps covering for her.

Friend of mine always causing conflict at work, doesn't come to me for help. How do I deal with being lied to by my boss?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 247, 38800, 254, 665, 309, 369, 2810, 3858, 342, 1078, 309, 3053, 2444, 627, 285, 309, 8899, 598, 342, 436, 3226, 15, 1500, 556, 247, 269, 5155, 13, 247, 5772, 13, 617, 1211, 2419, 13, 359, 1620, 497, 10102, 39904, 3206, 1620, 588, 320, 15, 2490, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 13, 703, 556, 644, 8479, 15272, 387, 789, 3981, 326, 309, 452, 1160, 3802, 504, 390, 1599, 5701, 281, 617, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 275, 2505, 390, 667, 1524, 1892, 1941, 4457, 35513, 533, 309, 21684, 368, 352, 434, 440, 5672, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 703, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 313, 379, 6326, 1682, 3331, 10, 285, 2028, 479, 15, 1500, 4566, 281, 619, 26141, 665, 359, 403, 1097, 1077, 2810, 3858, 342, 285, 344, 14177, 281, 1132, 3730, 658, 281, 247, 3819, 326, 10095, 626, 1014, 320, 3192, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 598, 323, 247, 14892, 275, 247, 4564, 3618, 13, 703, 556, 644, 4983, 247, 7344, 285, 309, 6468, 626, 13452, 281, 617, 275, 1436, 13, 2505, 264, 617, 13, 36979, 264, 13, 5007, 617, 667, 5511, 24612, 275, 689, 247, 1770, 1580, 309, 1694, 342, 619, 747, 19609, 15, 380, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 3981, 326, 346, 2993, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 1051, 436, 310, 752, 891, 2540, 3, 672, 627, 369, 2717, 281, 10018, 285, 672, 703, 4720, 2210, 281, 479, 670, 253, 2523, 703, 753, 2336, 37438, 752, 344, 753, 281, 479, 253, 2360, 1078, 846, 789, 15, 187, 187, 2347, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 436, 285, 755, 619, 385, 14, 8471, 16, 68, 319, 1064, 254, 281, 6294, 598, 285, 3523, 2820, 281, 2847, 14562, 323, 642, 1921, 285, 755, 479, 275, 7596, 342, 619, 12145, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. Here's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place. I'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that "She didn't say anything... this is what i observed" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work. How do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss? TL;DR:

Ex-friend is causing workplace drama trying to take me down and I don't mean to be a dick to her but she won't stop saying things that aren't true and my supervisor keeps covering for her.<|endoftext|>

[ 1889, 14, 8471, 310, 8479, 21853, 14562, 2820, 281, 1379, 479, 1066, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1599, 281, 320, 247, 33702, 281, 617, 533, 703, 1912, 626, 3523, 3981, 1841, 326, 6403, 626, 2032, 285, 619, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Friend of mine always causing conflict at work, doesn't come to me for help. How do I deal with being lied to by my boss?<|endoftext|>

[ 25845, 273, 7477, 1900, 8479, 7344, 387, 789, 13, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 323, 1361, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 1146, 27786, 281, 407, 619, 12145, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. Here's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place. I'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that "She didn't say anything... this is what i observed" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work. How do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss? TL;DR: Ex-friend is causing workplace drama trying to take me down and I don't mean to be a dick to her but she won't stop saying things that aren't true and my supervisor keeps covering for her.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 247, 38800, 254, 665, 309, 369, 2810, 3858, 342, 1078, 309, 3053, 2444, 627, 285, 309, 8899, 598, 342, 436, 3226, 15, 1500, 556, 247, 269, 5155, 13, 247, 5772, 13, 617, 1211, 2419, 13, 359, 1620, 497, 10102, 39904, 3206, 1620, 588, 320, 15, 2490, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 13, 703, 556, 644, 8479, 15272, 387, 789, 3981, 326, 309, 452, 1160, 3802, 504, 390, 1599, 5701, 281, 617, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 275, 2505, 390, 667, 1524, 1892, 1941, 4457, 35513, 533, 309, 21684, 368, 352, 434, 440, 5672, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 703, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 313, 379, 6326, 1682, 3331, 10, 285, 2028, 479, 15, 1500, 4566, 281, 619, 26141, 665, 359, 403, 1097, 1077, 2810, 3858, 342, 285, 344, 14177, 281, 1132, 3730, 658, 281, 247, 3819, 326, 10095, 626, 1014, 320, 3192, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 598, 323, 247, 14892, 275, 247, 4564, 3618, 13, 703, 556, 644, 4983, 247, 7344, 285, 309, 6468, 626, 13452, 281, 617, 275, 1436, 13, 2505, 264, 617, 13, 36979, 264, 13, 5007, 617, 667, 5511, 24612, 275, 689, 247, 1770, 1580, 309, 1694, 342, 619, 747, 19609, 15, 380, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 3981, 326, 346, 2993, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 1051, 436, 310, 752, 891, 2540, 3, 672, 627, 369, 2717, 281, 10018, 285, 672, 703, 4720, 2210, 281, 479, 670, 253, 2523, 703, 753, 2336, 37438, 752, 344, 753, 281, 479, 253, 2360, 1078, 846, 789, 15, 187, 187, 2347, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 436, 285, 755, 619, 385, 14, 8471, 16, 68, 319, 1064, 254, 281, 6294, 598, 285, 3523, 2820, 281, 2847, 14562, 323, 642, 1921, 285, 755, 479, 275, 7596, 342, 619, 12145, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1889, 14, 8471, 310, 8479, 21853, 14562, 2820, 281, 1379, 479, 1066, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1599, 281, 320, 247, 33702, 281, 617, 533, 703, 1912, 626, 3523, 3981, 1841, 326, 6403, 626, 2032, 285, 619, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

356

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have a coworker who I was close friends with before I started working there and I grew up with this girl. She has a fiance, a kid, her own house, we never were romantically involved never will be. Here's the deal, she has been causing conflicts at work saying that I have made snide or mean comments to her. This isn't in text or any real hard evidence beyond hearsay but I assure you it's untrue. The problem is she doesn't come to me (her supposed best friend) and tell me. She goes to my supervisor who we are both very close friends with and he tries to play referree to a fight that shouldn't even be taking place. I'm up for a promotion in a couple weeks, she has been starting a conflict and I haven't spoken to her in person, texted her, facebooked, send her any communication whatsoever in over a month since I got with my new girlfriend. The supervisor keeps covering for her saying that "She didn't say anything... this is what i observed" when there was nothing to observe and when she finally came to me about the issue she said verbatim what he said to me the night before after work. How do I deal with this and get my ex-friend/coworker to shut up and stop trying to cause drama for no reason and get me in trouble with my boss? TL;DR: Friend of mine always causing conflict at work, doesn't come to me for help. How do I deal with being lied to by my boss?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 247, 38800, 254, 665, 309, 369, 2810, 3858, 342, 1078, 309, 3053, 2444, 627, 285, 309, 8899, 598, 342, 436, 3226, 15, 1500, 556, 247, 269, 5155, 13, 247, 5772, 13, 617, 1211, 2419, 13, 359, 1620, 497, 10102, 39904, 3206, 1620, 588, 320, 15, 2490, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 13, 703, 556, 644, 8479, 15272, 387, 789, 3981, 326, 309, 452, 1160, 3802, 504, 390, 1599, 5701, 281, 617, 15, 831, 3548, 626, 275, 2505, 390, 667, 1524, 1892, 1941, 4457, 35513, 533, 309, 21684, 368, 352, 434, 440, 5672, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 703, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 313, 379, 6326, 1682, 3331, 10, 285, 2028, 479, 15, 1500, 4566, 281, 619, 26141, 665, 359, 403, 1097, 1077, 2810, 3858, 342, 285, 344, 14177, 281, 1132, 3730, 658, 281, 247, 3819, 326, 10095, 626, 1014, 320, 3192, 1659, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 598, 323, 247, 14892, 275, 247, 4564, 3618, 13, 703, 556, 644, 4983, 247, 7344, 285, 309, 6468, 626, 13452, 281, 617, 275, 1436, 13, 2505, 264, 617, 13, 36979, 264, 13, 5007, 617, 667, 5511, 24612, 275, 689, 247, 1770, 1580, 309, 1694, 342, 619, 747, 19609, 15, 380, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 3981, 326, 346, 2993, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 1051, 436, 310, 752, 891, 2540, 3, 672, 627, 369, 2717, 281, 10018, 285, 672, 703, 4720, 2210, 281, 479, 670, 253, 2523, 703, 753, 2336, 37438, 752, 344, 753, 281, 479, 253, 2360, 1078, 846, 789, 15, 187, 187, 2347, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 436, 285, 755, 619, 385, 14, 8471, 16, 68, 319, 1064, 254, 281, 6294, 598, 285, 3523, 2820, 281, 2847, 14562, 323, 642, 1921, 285, 755, 479, 275, 7596, 342, 619, 12145, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 25845, 273, 7477, 1900, 8479, 7344, 387, 789, 13, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 323, 1361, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 1146, 27786, 281, 407, 619, 12145, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

343

313

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1889, 14, 8471, 310, 8479, 21853, 14562, 2820, 281, 1379, 479, 1066, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1599, 281, 320, 247, 33702, 281, 617, 533, 703, 1912, 626, 3523, 3981, 1841, 326, 6403, 626, 2032, 285, 619, 26141, 11359, 10985, 323, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 25845, 273, 7477, 1900, 8479, 7344, 387, 789, 13, 2506, 626, 1705, 281, 479, 323, 1361, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 1146, 27786, 281, 407, 619, 12145, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

This morning I was heading to campus for a final. Right when I entered onto the freeway, I changed to the center lane. While switching over, some douche bag in the fast lane swerved out of his lane (where he had been closely tailgating another car) into mine, cutting me off. It was rude, but I simply switched into the fast lane and let it go. I eventually passed him up, and looked over to see that he was about my age (twenties), and driving with his girlfriend in the car. I let it go... I continued in the fast lane until my exit approached. I tried to switch out of the lane, only to find that the aforementioned douche was boxing me in by driving a tiny bit behind me in the neighboring lane. I turned on my blinker, I sped up to try to get ahead of him, but he boxed me in between himself and the car in front of me. Eventually, I just slowed down to let him pass. As he drove by, he looked at me smugly. At this point, I glared and mouthed, "What the fuck." As I switched over to the exiting lane, he mimicked me, switching in front of me and cutting me off in whatever lane I was in. As I reached my exit, he threw something small out of his window and it bounced off my windshield. I think he flipped me off. Then he sped off. In my anger, I recited his license plate like a mantra, ingraining it into my brain.. Is there anything I can do that would be both hilarious to me and embarrassing/insulting to him, while knowing only his license plate number? It's 4ZYJ560, by the way.

douche bag cut me off in fast lane, boxmicked me by driving behind me, recited license plate number, am thinking revenge. how to get revenge/how to humiliate/ outrageously embarrass asshole?

douchebag cut me off, flashed me his license plate, then reversed and threw stuff at my windshield before speeding off. Is there a way to exact revenge?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 4131, 309, 369, 13590, 281, 13790, 323, 247, 2457, 15, 10154, 672, 309, 5966, 4830, 253, 1959, 1106, 13, 309, 4391, 281, 253, 4055, 18209, 15, 3900, 12797, 689, 13, 690, 2443, 1962, 7351, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1863, 4994, 562, 273, 521, 18209, 313, 2811, 344, 574, 644, 8244, 8105, 72, 839, 1529, 1113, 10, 715, 7477, 13, 9968, 479, 745, 15, 2490, 187, 1147, 369, 30446, 13, 533, 309, 3365, 17609, 715, 253, 3809, 18209, 285, 1339, 352, 564, 15, 309, 6524, 4817, 779, 598, 13, 285, 3261, 689, 281, 923, 326, 344, 369, 670, 619, 2363, 313, 7553, 47798, 582, 285, 6276, 342, 521, 19609, 275, 253, 1113, 15, 309, 1339, 352, 564, 1051, 187, 187, 42, 4821, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1919, 619, 10463, 13781, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 5234, 562, 273, 253, 18209, 13, 760, 281, 1089, 326, 253, 18979, 2443, 1962, 369, 36607, 479, 275, 407, 6276, 247, 10058, 2372, 3212, 479, 275, 253, 20667, 18209, 15, 309, 3531, 327, 619, 25924, 254, 13, 309, 653, 264, 598, 281, 1611, 281, 755, 6386, 273, 779, 13, 533, 344, 3817, 264, 479, 275, 875, 2994, 285, 253, 1113, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 15, 25010, 13, 309, 816, 28837, 1066, 281, 1339, 779, 1509, 15, 1284, 344, 12668, 407, 13, 344, 3261, 387, 479, 39817, 314, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 13, 309, 47278, 285, 278, 483, 742, 13, 346, 1276, 253, 7435, 449, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 17609, 689, 281, 253, 44528, 18209, 13, 344, 13892, 14050, 479, 13, 12797, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 285, 9968, 479, 745, 275, 5913, 18209, 309, 369, 275, 15, 1284, 309, 4925, 619, 10463, 13, 344, 13222, 1633, 1355, 562, 273, 521, 3497, 285, 352, 45394, 745, 619, 5448, 32770, 15, 309, 1158, 344, 34572, 479, 745, 15, 2635, 344, 653, 264, 745, 15, 187, 187, 688, 619, 12700, 13, 309, 49064, 521, 7981, 5340, 751, 247, 18006, 376, 13, 6446, 26208, 352, 715, 619, 3998, 537, 1680, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 326, 651, 320, 1097, 37750, 281, 479, 285, 34019, 16, 968, 503, 272, 281, 779, 13, 1223, 8958, 760, 521, 7981, 5340, 1180, 32, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 577, 59, 58, 43, 35556, 13, 407, 253, 1039, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning I was heading to campus for a final. Right when I entered onto the freeway, I changed to the center lane. While switching over, some douche bag in the fast lane swerved out of his lane (where he had been closely tailgating another car) into mine, cutting me off. It was rude, but I simply switched into the fast lane and let it go. I eventually passed him up, and looked over to see that he was about my age (twenties), and driving with his girlfriend in the car. I let it go... I continued in the fast lane until my exit approached. I tried to switch out of the lane, only to find that the aforementioned douche was boxing me in by driving a tiny bit behind me in the neighboring lane. I turned on my blinker, I sped up to try to get ahead of him, but he boxed me in between himself and the car in front of me. Eventually, I just slowed down to let him pass. As he drove by, he looked at me smugly. At this point, I glared and mouthed, "What the fuck." As I switched over to the exiting lane, he mimicked me, switching in front of me and cutting me off in whatever lane I was in. As I reached my exit, he threw something small out of his window and it bounced off my windshield. I think he flipped me off. Then he sped off. In my anger, I recited his license plate like a mantra, ingraining it into my brain.. Is there anything I can do that would be both hilarious to me and embarrassing/insulting to him, while knowing only his license plate number? It's 4ZYJ560, by the way. TL;DR:

douche bag cut me off in fast lane, boxmicked me by driving behind me, recited license plate number, am thinking revenge. how to get revenge/how to humiliate/ outrageously embarrass asshole?<|endoftext|>

[ 2443, 1962, 7351, 2624, 479, 745, 275, 3809, 18209, 13, 3817, 78, 14050, 479, 407, 6276, 3212, 479, 13, 49064, 7981, 5340, 1180, 13, 717, 4680, 25442, 15, 849, 281, 755, 25442, 16, 5430, 281, 45543, 366, 16, 22145, 4087, 15005, 40889, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

douchebag cut me off, flashed me his license plate, then reversed and threw stuff at my windshield before speeding off. Is there a way to exact revenge?<|endoftext|>

[ 2443, 1962, 22738, 2624, 479, 745, 13, 34645, 479, 521, 7981, 5340, 13, 840, 13891, 285, 13222, 5017, 387, 619, 5448, 32770, 1078, 43088, 745, 15, 1680, 627, 247, 1039, 281, 3242, 25442, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning I was heading to campus for a final. Right when I entered onto the freeway, I changed to the center lane. While switching over, some douche bag in the fast lane swerved out of his lane (where he had been closely tailgating another car) into mine, cutting me off. It was rude, but I simply switched into the fast lane and let it go. I eventually passed him up, and looked over to see that he was about my age (twenties), and driving with his girlfriend in the car. I let it go... I continued in the fast lane until my exit approached. I tried to switch out of the lane, only to find that the aforementioned douche was boxing me in by driving a tiny bit behind me in the neighboring lane. I turned on my blinker, I sped up to try to get ahead of him, but he boxed me in between himself and the car in front of me. Eventually, I just slowed down to let him pass. As he drove by, he looked at me smugly. At this point, I glared and mouthed, "What the fuck." As I switched over to the exiting lane, he mimicked me, switching in front of me and cutting me off in whatever lane I was in. As I reached my exit, he threw something small out of his window and it bounced off my windshield. I think he flipped me off. Then he sped off. In my anger, I recited his license plate like a mantra, ingraining it into my brain.. Is there anything I can do that would be both hilarious to me and embarrassing/insulting to him, while knowing only his license plate number? It's 4ZYJ560, by the way. TL;DR: douche bag cut me off in fast lane, boxmicked me by driving behind me, recited license plate number, am thinking revenge. how to get revenge/how to humiliate/ outrageously embarrass asshole?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 4131, 309, 369, 13590, 281, 13790, 323, 247, 2457, 15, 10154, 672, 309, 5966, 4830, 253, 1959, 1106, 13, 309, 4391, 281, 253, 4055, 18209, 15, 3900, 12797, 689, 13, 690, 2443, 1962, 7351, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1863, 4994, 562, 273, 521, 18209, 313, 2811, 344, 574, 644, 8244, 8105, 72, 839, 1529, 1113, 10, 715, 7477, 13, 9968, 479, 745, 15, 2490, 187, 1147, 369, 30446, 13, 533, 309, 3365, 17609, 715, 253, 3809, 18209, 285, 1339, 352, 564, 15, 309, 6524, 4817, 779, 598, 13, 285, 3261, 689, 281, 923, 326, 344, 369, 670, 619, 2363, 313, 7553, 47798, 582, 285, 6276, 342, 521, 19609, 275, 253, 1113, 15, 309, 1339, 352, 564, 1051, 187, 187, 42, 4821, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1919, 619, 10463, 13781, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 5234, 562, 273, 253, 18209, 13, 760, 281, 1089, 326, 253, 18979, 2443, 1962, 369, 36607, 479, 275, 407, 6276, 247, 10058, 2372, 3212, 479, 275, 253, 20667, 18209, 15, 309, 3531, 327, 619, 25924, 254, 13, 309, 653, 264, 598, 281, 1611, 281, 755, 6386, 273, 779, 13, 533, 344, 3817, 264, 479, 275, 875, 2994, 285, 253, 1113, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 15, 25010, 13, 309, 816, 28837, 1066, 281, 1339, 779, 1509, 15, 1284, 344, 12668, 407, 13, 344, 3261, 387, 479, 39817, 314, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 13, 309, 47278, 285, 278, 483, 742, 13, 346, 1276, 253, 7435, 449, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 17609, 689, 281, 253, 44528, 18209, 13, 344, 13892, 14050, 479, 13, 12797, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 285, 9968, 479, 745, 275, 5913, 18209, 309, 369, 275, 15, 1284, 309, 4925, 619, 10463, 13, 344, 13222, 1633, 1355, 562, 273, 521, 3497, 285, 352, 45394, 745, 619, 5448, 32770, 15, 309, 1158, 344, 34572, 479, 745, 15, 2635, 344, 653, 264, 745, 15, 187, 187, 688, 619, 12700, 13, 309, 49064, 521, 7981, 5340, 751, 247, 18006, 376, 13, 6446, 26208, 352, 715, 619, 3998, 537, 1680, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 326, 651, 320, 1097, 37750, 281, 479, 285, 34019, 16, 968, 503, 272, 281, 779, 13, 1223, 8958, 760, 521, 7981, 5340, 1180, 32, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 577, 59, 58, 43, 35556, 13, 407, 253, 1039, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2443, 1962, 7351, 2624, 479, 745, 275, 3809, 18209, 13, 3817, 78, 14050, 479, 407, 6276, 3212, 479, 13, 49064, 7981, 5340, 1180, 13, 717, 4680, 25442, 15, 849, 281, 755, 25442, 16, 5430, 281, 45543, 366, 16, 22145, 4087, 15005, 40889, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

439

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This morning I was heading to campus for a final. Right when I entered onto the freeway, I changed to the center lane. While switching over, some douche bag in the fast lane swerved out of his lane (where he had been closely tailgating another car) into mine, cutting me off. It was rude, but I simply switched into the fast lane and let it go. I eventually passed him up, and looked over to see that he was about my age (twenties), and driving with his girlfriend in the car. I let it go... I continued in the fast lane until my exit approached. I tried to switch out of the lane, only to find that the aforementioned douche was boxing me in by driving a tiny bit behind me in the neighboring lane. I turned on my blinker, I sped up to try to get ahead of him, but he boxed me in between himself and the car in front of me. Eventually, I just slowed down to let him pass. As he drove by, he looked at me smugly. At this point, I glared and mouthed, "What the fuck." As I switched over to the exiting lane, he mimicked me, switching in front of me and cutting me off in whatever lane I was in. As I reached my exit, he threw something small out of his window and it bounced off my windshield. I think he flipped me off. Then he sped off. In my anger, I recited his license plate like a mantra, ingraining it into my brain.. Is there anything I can do that would be both hilarious to me and embarrassing/insulting to him, while knowing only his license plate number? It's 4ZYJ560, by the way. TL;DR: douchebag cut me off, flashed me his license plate, then reversed and threw stuff at my windshield before speeding off. Is there a way to exact revenge?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 4131, 309, 369, 13590, 281, 13790, 323, 247, 2457, 15, 10154, 672, 309, 5966, 4830, 253, 1959, 1106, 13, 309, 4391, 281, 253, 4055, 18209, 15, 3900, 12797, 689, 13, 690, 2443, 1962, 7351, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1863, 4994, 562, 273, 521, 18209, 313, 2811, 344, 574, 644, 8244, 8105, 72, 839, 1529, 1113, 10, 715, 7477, 13, 9968, 479, 745, 15, 2490, 187, 1147, 369, 30446, 13, 533, 309, 3365, 17609, 715, 253, 3809, 18209, 285, 1339, 352, 564, 15, 309, 6524, 4817, 779, 598, 13, 285, 3261, 689, 281, 923, 326, 344, 369, 670, 619, 2363, 313, 7553, 47798, 582, 285, 6276, 342, 521, 19609, 275, 253, 1113, 15, 309, 1339, 352, 564, 1051, 187, 187, 42, 4821, 275, 253, 3809, 18209, 1919, 619, 10463, 13781, 15, 309, 3597, 281, 5234, 562, 273, 253, 18209, 13, 760, 281, 1089, 326, 253, 18979, 2443, 1962, 369, 36607, 479, 275, 407, 6276, 247, 10058, 2372, 3212, 479, 275, 253, 20667, 18209, 15, 309, 3531, 327, 619, 25924, 254, 13, 309, 653, 264, 598, 281, 1611, 281, 755, 6386, 273, 779, 13, 533, 344, 3817, 264, 479, 275, 875, 2994, 285, 253, 1113, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 15, 25010, 13, 309, 816, 28837, 1066, 281, 1339, 779, 1509, 15, 1284, 344, 12668, 407, 13, 344, 3261, 387, 479, 39817, 314, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 13, 309, 47278, 285, 278, 483, 742, 13, 346, 1276, 253, 7435, 449, 187, 187, 1909, 309, 17609, 689, 281, 253, 44528, 18209, 13, 344, 13892, 14050, 479, 13, 12797, 275, 2914, 273, 479, 285, 9968, 479, 745, 275, 5913, 18209, 309, 369, 275, 15, 1284, 309, 4925, 619, 10463, 13, 344, 13222, 1633, 1355, 562, 273, 521, 3497, 285, 352, 45394, 745, 619, 5448, 32770, 15, 309, 1158, 344, 34572, 479, 745, 15, 2635, 344, 653, 264, 745, 15, 187, 187, 688, 619, 12700, 13, 309, 49064, 521, 7981, 5340, 751, 247, 18006, 376, 13, 6446, 26208, 352, 715, 619, 3998, 537, 1680, 627, 2712, 309, 476, 513, 326, 651, 320, 1097, 37750, 281, 479, 285, 34019, 16, 968, 503, 272, 281, 779, 13, 1223, 8958, 760, 521, 7981, 5340, 1180, 32, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 577, 59, 58, 43, 35556, 13, 407, 253, 1039, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2443, 1962, 22738, 2624, 479, 745, 13, 34645, 479, 521, 7981, 5340, 13, 840, 13891, 285, 13222, 5017, 387, 619, 5448, 32770, 1078, 43088, 745, 15, 1680, 627, 247, 1039, 281, 3242, 25442, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

430

395

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2443, 1962, 7351, 2624, 479, 745, 275, 3809, 18209, 13, 3817, 78, 14050, 479, 407, 6276, 3212, 479, 13, 49064, 7981, 5340, 1180, 13, 717, 4680, 25442, 15, 849, 281, 755, 25442, 16, 5430, 281, 45543, 366, 16, 22145, 4087, 15005, 40889, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2443, 1962, 22738, 2624, 479, 745, 13, 34645, 479, 521, 7981, 5340, 13, 840, 13891, 285, 13222, 5017, 387, 619, 5448, 32770, 1078, 43088, 745, 15, 1680, 627, 247, 1039, 281, 3242, 25442, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

About a year and a half ago, I bought an amazing ceiling fan. It kept me cool when it was hot, and warm when it was cold (it had a heating option). After about 4 months of use, it stopped working. I tried everything to fix it. Eventually I just became lazy and gave up. Then one day, my niece comes over, walks into my room, and says she likes my fan. I thank her and tell her sadly it's broken. She says, "Let me try", and walks over to the remote for the fan. She tried to turn it on but it doesn't work. Then she walks over to the two light switches in my room, and flicks them. Oh my god. This girl is a genius. She turns on the fan and I feel it's heavenly gusty wind on my fan deprived face. This girl is an angel.

Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to turn fan on remotely, genius niece flips light switches and fan starts up again...

Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to fix it and turns fan on, fan works great for a short while then stops again.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 3622, 13, 309, 8686, 271, 8644, 16720, 7989, 15, 733, 4934, 479, 4484, 672, 352, 369, 3511, 13, 285, 5890, 672, 352, 369, 5412, 313, 262, 574, 247, 12220, 4500, 481, 2732, 670, 577, 2607, 273, 897, 13, 352, 6331, 2444, 15, 309, 3597, 3253, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 25010, 309, 816, 3395, 22658, 285, 3534, 598, 15, 2635, 581, 1388, 13, 619, 43551, 3249, 689, 13, 16771, 715, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 2296, 703, 13052, 619, 7989, 15, 309, 5717, 617, 285, 2028, 617, 30018, 352, 434, 7154, 15, 1500, 2296, 13, 346, 1466, 479, 1611, 995, 285, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 8905, 323, 253, 7989, 15, 1500, 3597, 281, 1614, 352, 327, 533, 352, 2506, 626, 789, 15, 2635, 703, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 767, 1708, 20994, 275, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 44061, 661, 731, 15, 5531, 619, 7122, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 247, 21242, 15, 1500, 7819, 327, 253, 7989, 285, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 44593, 30942, 90, 5448, 327, 619, 7989, 25979, 2454, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 271, 23087, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About a year and a half ago, I bought an amazing ceiling fan. It kept me cool when it was hot, and warm when it was cold (it had a heating option). After about 4 months of use, it stopped working. I tried everything to fix it. Eventually I just became lazy and gave up. Then one day, my niece comes over, walks into my room, and says she likes my fan. I thank her and tell her sadly it's broken. She says, "Let me try", and walks over to the remote for the fan. She tried to turn it on but it doesn't work. Then she walks over to the two light switches in my room, and flicks them. Oh my god. This girl is a genius. She turns on the fan and I feel it's heavenly gusty wind on my fan deprived face. This girl is an angel. TL;DR:

Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to turn fan on remotely, genius niece flips light switches and fan starts up again...<|endoftext|>

[ 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 1614, 7989, 327, 27938, 13, 21242, 43551, 892, 2824, 1708, 20994, 285, 7989, 7866, 598, 969, 1051, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to fix it and turns fan on, fan works great for a short while then stops again.<|endoftext|>

[ 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 4993, 352, 285, 7819, 7989, 327, 13, 7989, 2987, 1270, 323, 247, 2159, 1223, 840, 14545, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About a year and a half ago, I bought an amazing ceiling fan. It kept me cool when it was hot, and warm when it was cold (it had a heating option). After about 4 months of use, it stopped working. I tried everything to fix it. Eventually I just became lazy and gave up. Then one day, my niece comes over, walks into my room, and says she likes my fan. I thank her and tell her sadly it's broken. She says, "Let me try", and walks over to the remote for the fan. She tried to turn it on but it doesn't work. Then she walks over to the two light switches in my room, and flicks them. Oh my god. This girl is a genius. She turns on the fan and I feel it's heavenly gusty wind on my fan deprived face. This girl is an angel. TL;DR: Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to turn fan on remotely, genius niece flips light switches and fan starts up again...<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 3622, 13, 309, 8686, 271, 8644, 16720, 7989, 15, 733, 4934, 479, 4484, 672, 352, 369, 3511, 13, 285, 5890, 672, 352, 369, 5412, 313, 262, 574, 247, 12220, 4500, 481, 2732, 670, 577, 2607, 273, 897, 13, 352, 6331, 2444, 15, 309, 3597, 3253, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 25010, 309, 816, 3395, 22658, 285, 3534, 598, 15, 2635, 581, 1388, 13, 619, 43551, 3249, 689, 13, 16771, 715, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 2296, 703, 13052, 619, 7989, 15, 309, 5717, 617, 285, 2028, 617, 30018, 352, 434, 7154, 15, 1500, 2296, 13, 346, 1466, 479, 1611, 995, 285, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 8905, 323, 253, 7989, 15, 1500, 3597, 281, 1614, 352, 327, 533, 352, 2506, 626, 789, 15, 2635, 703, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 767, 1708, 20994, 275, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 44061, 661, 731, 15, 5531, 619, 7122, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 247, 21242, 15, 1500, 7819, 327, 253, 7989, 285, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 44593, 30942, 90, 5448, 327, 619, 7989, 25979, 2454, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 271, 23087, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 1614, 7989, 327, 27938, 13, 21242, 43551, 892, 2824, 1708, 20994, 285, 7989, 7866, 598, 969, 1051, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

234

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About a year and a half ago, I bought an amazing ceiling fan. It kept me cool when it was hot, and warm when it was cold (it had a heating option). After about 4 months of use, it stopped working. I tried everything to fix it. Eventually I just became lazy and gave up. Then one day, my niece comes over, walks into my room, and says she likes my fan. I thank her and tell her sadly it's broken. She says, "Let me try", and walks over to the remote for the fan. She tried to turn it on but it doesn't work. Then she walks over to the two light switches in my room, and flicks them. Oh my god. This girl is a genius. She turns on the fan and I feel it's heavenly gusty wind on my fan deprived face. This girl is an angel. TL;DR: Bought awesome ceiling fan, fan stopped working, niece tries to fix it and turns fan on, fan works great for a short while then stops again.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 3622, 13, 309, 8686, 271, 8644, 16720, 7989, 15, 733, 4934, 479, 4484, 672, 352, 369, 3511, 13, 285, 5890, 672, 352, 369, 5412, 313, 262, 574, 247, 12220, 4500, 481, 2732, 670, 577, 2607, 273, 897, 13, 352, 6331, 2444, 15, 309, 3597, 3253, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 25010, 309, 816, 3395, 22658, 285, 3534, 598, 15, 2635, 581, 1388, 13, 619, 43551, 3249, 689, 13, 16771, 715, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 2296, 703, 13052, 619, 7989, 15, 309, 5717, 617, 285, 2028, 617, 30018, 352, 434, 7154, 15, 1500, 2296, 13, 346, 1466, 479, 1611, 995, 285, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 8905, 323, 253, 7989, 15, 1500, 3597, 281, 1614, 352, 327, 533, 352, 2506, 626, 789, 15, 2635, 703, 16771, 689, 281, 253, 767, 1708, 20994, 275, 619, 2316, 13, 285, 44061, 661, 731, 15, 5531, 619, 7122, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 247, 21242, 15, 1500, 7819, 327, 253, 7989, 285, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 44593, 30942, 90, 5448, 327, 619, 7989, 25979, 2454, 15, 831, 3226, 310, 271, 23087, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 4993, 352, 285, 7819, 7989, 327, 13, 7989, 2987, 1270, 323, 247, 2159, 1223, 840, 14545, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

235

203

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 1614, 7989, 327, 27938, 13, 21242, 43551, 892, 2824, 1708, 20994, 285, 7989, 7866, 598, 969, 1051, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 378, 1224, 13103, 16720, 7989, 13, 7989, 6331, 2444, 13, 43551, 14177, 281, 4993, 352, 285, 7819, 7989, 327, 13, 7989, 2987, 1270, 323, 247, 2159, 1223, 840, 14545, 969, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I am a 24 year old male living in Uruguay. For the past six years I have been studding architecture at my public university, I´m not graduated yet, and it will take me another 3 years to do so. It´s a fairly slow process because the system is overpopulated and, because it takes so long, most of the students start working before graduating, making it even slower. I have been working mainly as a freelance 3d designer, teaching in my university, teaching 3ds max courses, drawing for some architectures studies and entering some architecture and design contests. The thing is that those 3 years remaining are about urbanism, and all the things I still have to learn about architecture come only from experience, so I want to start my business. I know some people doing the same thing I want to do, but the competition is so tough than they will not give me any advice, would you Reddit? This is a throwaway account

24 year old male living in Uruguay wants to start a business in Architecture, looking for advice and tips on how to do it.

I´m starting a small architecture business. I need advice on advertising and other things that are necessary to succeed.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 247, 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 15, 1198, 253, 2469, 2800, 1107, 309, 452, 644, 799, 5361, 10336, 387, 619, 1345, 9835, 13, 309, 11679, 78, 417, 20981, 2568, 13, 285, 352, 588, 1379, 479, 1529, 495, 1107, 281, 513, 594, 15, 733, 11679, 84, 247, 9648, 3468, 1232, 984, 253, 985, 310, 689, 9576, 2907, 285, 13, 984, 352, 3936, 594, 1048, 13, 954, 273, 253, 3484, 1265, 2444, 1078, 38588, 13, 2403, 352, 1014, 17357, 15, 187, 187, 42, 452, 644, 2444, 7194, 347, 247, 44208, 495, 69, 17039, 13, 9551, 275, 619, 9835, 13, 9551, 495, 1397, 2781, 13519, 13, 10263, 323, 690, 35615, 2175, 285, 11734, 690, 10336, 285, 2216, 39858, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 1110, 495, 1107, 5780, 403, 670, 10106, 1204, 13, 285, 512, 253, 1841, 309, 1335, 452, 281, 3037, 670, 10336, 1705, 760, 432, 2793, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 1265, 619, 2136, 15, 309, 871, 690, 952, 2509, 253, 1072, 2181, 309, 971, 281, 513, 13, 533, 253, 7324, 310, 594, 10458, 685, 597, 588, 417, 1918, 479, 667, 7535, 13, 651, 368, 39714, 32, 187, 187, 1552, 310, 247, 4710, 12594, 50276, 15793, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 24 year old male living in Uruguay. For the past six years I have been studding architecture at my public university, I´m not graduated yet, and it will take me another 3 years to do so. It´s a fairly slow process because the system is overpopulated and, because it takes so long, most of the students start working before graduating, making it even slower. I have been working mainly as a freelance 3d designer, teaching in my university, teaching 3ds max courses, drawing for some architectures studies and entering some architecture and design contests. The thing is that those 3 years remaining are about urbanism, and all the things I still have to learn about architecture come only from experience, so I want to start my business. I know some people doing the same thing I want to do, but the competition is so tough than they will not give me any advice, would you Reddit? This is a throwaway account TL;DR:

24 year old male living in Uruguay wants to start a business in Architecture, looking for advice and tips on how to do it.<|endoftext|>

[ 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 5605, 281, 1265, 247, 2136, 275, 35052, 13, 2819, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I´m starting a small architecture business. I need advice on advertising and other things that are necessary to succeed.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 11679, 78, 4983, 247, 1355, 10336, 2136, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 327, 12089, 285, 643, 1841, 326, 403, 3309, 281, 9302, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 24 year old male living in Uruguay. For the past six years I have been studding architecture at my public university, I´m not graduated yet, and it will take me another 3 years to do so. It´s a fairly slow process because the system is overpopulated and, because it takes so long, most of the students start working before graduating, making it even slower. I have been working mainly as a freelance 3d designer, teaching in my university, teaching 3ds max courses, drawing for some architectures studies and entering some architecture and design contests. The thing is that those 3 years remaining are about urbanism, and all the things I still have to learn about architecture come only from experience, so I want to start my business. I know some people doing the same thing I want to do, but the competition is so tough than they will not give me any advice, would you Reddit? This is a throwaway account TL;DR: 24 year old male living in Uruguay wants to start a business in Architecture, looking for advice and tips on how to do it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 247, 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 15, 1198, 253, 2469, 2800, 1107, 309, 452, 644, 799, 5361, 10336, 387, 619, 1345, 9835, 13, 309, 11679, 78, 417, 20981, 2568, 13, 285, 352, 588, 1379, 479, 1529, 495, 1107, 281, 513, 594, 15, 733, 11679, 84, 247, 9648, 3468, 1232, 984, 253, 985, 310, 689, 9576, 2907, 285, 13, 984, 352, 3936, 594, 1048, 13, 954, 273, 253, 3484, 1265, 2444, 1078, 38588, 13, 2403, 352, 1014, 17357, 15, 187, 187, 42, 452, 644, 2444, 7194, 347, 247, 44208, 495, 69, 17039, 13, 9551, 275, 619, 9835, 13, 9551, 495, 1397, 2781, 13519, 13, 10263, 323, 690, 35615, 2175, 285, 11734, 690, 10336, 285, 2216, 39858, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 1110, 495, 1107, 5780, 403, 670, 10106, 1204, 13, 285, 512, 253, 1841, 309, 1335, 452, 281, 3037, 670, 10336, 1705, 760, 432, 2793, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 1265, 619, 2136, 15, 309, 871, 690, 952, 2509, 253, 1072, 2181, 309, 971, 281, 513, 13, 533, 253, 7324, 310, 594, 10458, 685, 597, 588, 417, 1918, 479, 667, 7535, 13, 651, 368, 39714, 32, 187, 187, 1552, 310, 247, 4710, 12594, 50276, 15793, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 5605, 281, 1265, 247, 2136, 275, 35052, 13, 2819, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

254

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am a 24 year old male living in Uruguay. For the past six years I have been studding architecture at my public university, I´m not graduated yet, and it will take me another 3 years to do so. It´s a fairly slow process because the system is overpopulated and, because it takes so long, most of the students start working before graduating, making it even slower. I have been working mainly as a freelance 3d designer, teaching in my university, teaching 3ds max courses, drawing for some architectures studies and entering some architecture and design contests. The thing is that those 3 years remaining are about urbanism, and all the things I still have to learn about architecture come only from experience, so I want to start my business. I know some people doing the same thing I want to do, but the competition is so tough than they will not give me any advice, would you Reddit? This is a throwaway account TL;DR: I´m starting a small architecture business. I need advice on advertising and other things that are necessary to succeed.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 247, 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 15, 1198, 253, 2469, 2800, 1107, 309, 452, 644, 799, 5361, 10336, 387, 619, 1345, 9835, 13, 309, 11679, 78, 417, 20981, 2568, 13, 285, 352, 588, 1379, 479, 1529, 495, 1107, 281, 513, 594, 15, 733, 11679, 84, 247, 9648, 3468, 1232, 984, 253, 985, 310, 689, 9576, 2907, 285, 13, 984, 352, 3936, 594, 1048, 13, 954, 273, 253, 3484, 1265, 2444, 1078, 38588, 13, 2403, 352, 1014, 17357, 15, 187, 187, 42, 452, 644, 2444, 7194, 347, 247, 44208, 495, 69, 17039, 13, 9551, 275, 619, 9835, 13, 9551, 495, 1397, 2781, 13519, 13, 10263, 323, 690, 35615, 2175, 285, 11734, 690, 10336, 285, 2216, 39858, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 1110, 495, 1107, 5780, 403, 670, 10106, 1204, 13, 285, 512, 253, 1841, 309, 1335, 452, 281, 3037, 670, 10336, 1705, 760, 432, 2793, 13, 594, 309, 971, 281, 1265, 619, 2136, 15, 309, 871, 690, 952, 2509, 253, 1072, 2181, 309, 971, 281, 513, 13, 533, 253, 7324, 310, 594, 10458, 685, 597, 588, 417, 1918, 479, 667, 7535, 13, 651, 368, 39714, 32, 187, 187, 1552, 310, 247, 4710, 12594, 50276, 15793, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 11679, 78, 4983, 247, 1355, 10336, 2136, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 327, 12089, 285, 643, 1841, 326, 403, 3309, 281, 9302, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

249

225

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2164, 807, 1711, 5086, 3811, 275, 530, 44300, 333, 5605, 281, 1265, 247, 2136, 275, 35052, 13, 2819, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 327, 849, 281, 513, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 11679, 78, 4983, 247, 1355, 10336, 2136, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 327, 12089, 285, 643, 1841, 326, 403, 3309, 281, 9302, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday and walk in to their unlocked house, only to notice that no one is home. I could not believe that even after having all of their belongings stolen just weeks before they still did not learn their lesson. I see Buddy #1's laptop computer sitting on the couch in plain sight right when you walk in the house. So I decide to hide his computer in his t-shirt drawer in his bedroom and throw the couch cushions off the couch all across the room. (I told Buddy #1 I was doing this just so at least one of them would know that it was a staged robbery. Buddy #2 is the one worse about locking the doors so he is really the one I wanted to teach the lesson to. I figured Buddy #2 would call his roommate before doing anything too drastic.) Hours later Buddy #2 comes home and sees the couch cushions thrown across the room and the computer missing. He freaks out and immediately calls the cops and reports the "burglary". He then calls me and tells me about how he got robbed again and I tell him that it was all me and I just staged it to teach him to learn to lock his doors. I had no idea he would call the cops before telling his roommate or myself. He quickly called the cops back to tell them it was a prank and to not send a squad car, but the cop was already pulling up to the house so it was too late to cancel. My friend got hit with a $500 fine for reporting a false crime. So now I am paying for my friends' ticket. But maybe now he will learn to lock their doors...

taught my friends to protect their house by stage a robbery just to teach them a lesson. cops found out it was all fake and fined my friend for reporting false crime. now i have to pay $500.

TIFU by teaching my friend to protect his home by stage a false burglary to teach him to lock his doors. He got called to the cops before reporting the false crime.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 495, 285, 247, 2716, 3618, 3622, 767, 273, 619, 5524, 37229, 313, 10002, 452, 644, 417, 49186, 3076, 670, 22081, 616, 11008, 10, 574, 616, 2419, 7154, 715, 285, 3253, 275, 616, 2419, 326, 574, 667, 3686, 273, 1318, 369, 2668, 15, 209, 187, 2598, 309, 1481, 281, 616, 2419, 11066, 285, 2940, 275, 281, 616, 37572, 2419, 13, 760, 281, 4366, 326, 642, 581, 310, 1728, 15, 309, 812, 417, 2868, 326, 1014, 846, 1907, 512, 273, 616, 45308, 15661, 816, 3618, 1078, 597, 1335, 858, 417, 3037, 616, 16507, 15, 309, 923, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 434, 16556, 4382, 7063, 327, 253, 21985, 275, 8342, 8184, 987, 672, 368, 2940, 275, 253, 2419, 15, 1893, 309, 7617, 281, 10507, 521, 4382, 275, 521, 246, 14, 23565, 31579, 275, 521, 14098, 285, 4710, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 745, 253, 21985, 512, 2439, 253, 2316, 15, 313, 42, 2183, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 309, 369, 2509, 436, 816, 594, 387, 1878, 581, 273, 731, 651, 871, 326, 352, 369, 247, 35035, 19535, 15, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 310, 253, 581, 7197, 670, 22081, 253, 11008, 594, 344, 310, 1663, 253, 581, 309, 3078, 281, 9798, 253, 16507, 281, 15, 309, 15433, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 651, 1067, 521, 2316, 13884, 1078, 2509, 2712, 1512, 36927, 2698, 209, 187, 41, 2108, 1996, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 3249, 1728, 285, 11403, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 13044, 2439, 253, 2316, 285, 253, 4382, 5816, 15, 754, 4107, 8765, 562, 285, 4745, 5841, 253, 23247, 285, 5012, 253, 346, 13156, 3129, 552, 3446, 754, 840, 5841, 479, 285, 8599, 479, 670, 849, 344, 1694, 38208, 969, 285, 309, 2028, 779, 326, 352, 369, 512, 479, 285, 309, 816, 35035, 352, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 3037, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 344, 651, 1067, 253, 23247, 1078, 7746, 521, 2316, 13884, 390, 4266, 15, 754, 4541, 1925, 253, 23247, 896, 281, 2028, 731, 352, 369, 247, 819, 1164, 285, 281, 417, 5007, 247, 13487, 1113, 13, 533, 253, 5440, 369, 2168, 14252, 598, 281, 253, 2419, 594, 352, 369, 1512, 3563, 281, 14002, 15, 2752, 3331, 1694, 4352, 342, 247, 370, 5388, 4030, 323, 9610, 247, 3221, 6617, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 10054, 323, 619, 3858, 8, 13571, 15, 1292, 5046, 1024, 344, 588, 3037, 281, 5569, 616, 11008, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday and walk in to their unlocked house, only to notice that no one is home. I could not believe that even after having all of their belongings stolen just weeks before they still did not learn their lesson. I see Buddy #1's laptop computer sitting on the couch in plain sight right when you walk in the house. So I decide to hide his computer in his t-shirt drawer in his bedroom and throw the couch cushions off the couch all across the room. (I told Buddy #1 I was doing this just so at least one of them would know that it was a staged robbery. Buddy #2 is the one worse about locking the doors so he is really the one I wanted to teach the lesson to. I figured Buddy #2 would call his roommate before doing anything too drastic.) Hours later Buddy #2 comes home and sees the couch cushions thrown across the room and the computer missing. He freaks out and immediately calls the cops and reports the "burglary". He then calls me and tells me about how he got robbed again and I tell him that it was all me and I just staged it to teach him to learn to lock his doors. I had no idea he would call the cops before telling his roommate or myself. He quickly called the cops back to tell them it was a prank and to not send a squad car, but the cop was already pulling up to the house so it was too late to cancel. My friend got hit with a $500 fine for reporting a false crime. So now I am paying for my friends' ticket. But maybe now he will learn to lock their doors... TL;DR:

taught my friends to protect their house by stage a robbery just to teach them a lesson. cops found out it was all fake and fined my friend for reporting false crime. now i have to pay $500.<|endoftext|>

[ 10256, 619, 3858, 281, 4017, 616, 2419, 407, 3924, 247, 19535, 816, 281, 9798, 731, 247, 16507, 15, 23247, 1119, 562, 352, 369, 512, 15223, 285, 44861, 619, 3331, 323, 9610, 3221, 6617, 15, 1024, 891, 452, 281, 2075, 370, 5388, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

TIFU by teaching my friend to protect his home by stage a false burglary to teach him to lock his doors. He got called to the cops before reporting the false crime.<|endoftext|>

[ 308, 3801, 54, 407, 9551, 619, 3331, 281, 4017, 521, 1728, 407, 3924, 247, 3221, 34199, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 754, 1694, 1925, 281, 253, 23247, 1078, 9610, 253, 3221, 6617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday and walk in to their unlocked house, only to notice that no one is home. I could not believe that even after having all of their belongings stolen just weeks before they still did not learn their lesson. I see Buddy #1's laptop computer sitting on the couch in plain sight right when you walk in the house. So I decide to hide his computer in his t-shirt drawer in his bedroom and throw the couch cushions off the couch all across the room. (I told Buddy #1 I was doing this just so at least one of them would know that it was a staged robbery. Buddy #2 is the one worse about locking the doors so he is really the one I wanted to teach the lesson to. I figured Buddy #2 would call his roommate before doing anything too drastic.) Hours later Buddy #2 comes home and sees the couch cushions thrown across the room and the computer missing. He freaks out and immediately calls the cops and reports the "burglary". He then calls me and tells me about how he got robbed again and I tell him that it was all me and I just staged it to teach him to learn to lock his doors. I had no idea he would call the cops before telling his roommate or myself. He quickly called the cops back to tell them it was a prank and to not send a squad car, but the cop was already pulling up to the house so it was too late to cancel. My friend got hit with a $500 fine for reporting a false crime. So now I am paying for my friends' ticket. But maybe now he will learn to lock their doors... TL;DR: taught my friends to protect their house by stage a robbery just to teach them a lesson. cops found out it was all fake and fined my friend for reporting false crime. now i have to pay $500.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 495, 285, 247, 2716, 3618, 3622, 767, 273, 619, 5524, 37229, 313, 10002, 452, 644, 417, 49186, 3076, 670, 22081, 616, 11008, 10, 574, 616, 2419, 7154, 715, 285, 3253, 275, 616, 2419, 326, 574, 667, 3686, 273, 1318, 369, 2668, 15, 209, 187, 2598, 309, 1481, 281, 616, 2419, 11066, 285, 2940, 275, 281, 616, 37572, 2419, 13, 760, 281, 4366, 326, 642, 581, 310, 1728, 15, 309, 812, 417, 2868, 326, 1014, 846, 1907, 512, 273, 616, 45308, 15661, 816, 3618, 1078, 597, 1335, 858, 417, 3037, 616, 16507, 15, 309, 923, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 434, 16556, 4382, 7063, 327, 253, 21985, 275, 8342, 8184, 987, 672, 368, 2940, 275, 253, 2419, 15, 1893, 309, 7617, 281, 10507, 521, 4382, 275, 521, 246, 14, 23565, 31579, 275, 521, 14098, 285, 4710, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 745, 253, 21985, 512, 2439, 253, 2316, 15, 313, 42, 2183, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 309, 369, 2509, 436, 816, 594, 387, 1878, 581, 273, 731, 651, 871, 326, 352, 369, 247, 35035, 19535, 15, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 310, 253, 581, 7197, 670, 22081, 253, 11008, 594, 344, 310, 1663, 253, 581, 309, 3078, 281, 9798, 253, 16507, 281, 15, 309, 15433, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 651, 1067, 521, 2316, 13884, 1078, 2509, 2712, 1512, 36927, 2698, 209, 187, 41, 2108, 1996, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 3249, 1728, 285, 11403, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 13044, 2439, 253, 2316, 285, 253, 4382, 5816, 15, 754, 4107, 8765, 562, 285, 4745, 5841, 253, 23247, 285, 5012, 253, 346, 13156, 3129, 552, 3446, 754, 840, 5841, 479, 285, 8599, 479, 670, 849, 344, 1694, 38208, 969, 285, 309, 2028, 779, 326, 352, 369, 512, 479, 285, 309, 816, 35035, 352, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 3037, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 344, 651, 1067, 253, 23247, 1078, 7746, 521, 2316, 13884, 390, 4266, 15, 754, 4541, 1925, 253, 23247, 896, 281, 2028, 731, 352, 369, 247, 819, 1164, 285, 281, 417, 5007, 247, 13487, 1113, 13, 533, 253, 5440, 369, 2168, 14252, 598, 281, 253, 2419, 594, 352, 369, 1512, 3563, 281, 14002, 15, 2752, 3331, 1694, 4352, 342, 247, 370, 5388, 4030, 323, 9610, 247, 3221, 6617, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 10054, 323, 619, 3858, 8, 13571, 15, 1292, 5046, 1024, 344, 588, 3037, 281, 5569, 616, 11008, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 10256, 619, 3858, 281, 4017, 616, 2419, 407, 3924, 247, 19535, 816, 281, 9798, 731, 247, 16507, 15, 23247, 1119, 562, 352, 369, 512, 15223, 285, 44861, 619, 3331, 323, 9610, 3221, 6617, 15, 1024, 891, 452, 281, 2075, 370, 5388, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

457

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: About 3 and a half weeks ago two of my buddies (who have been notoriously bad about locking their doors) had their house broken into and everything in their house that had any sort of value was taken. So I head to their house yesterday and walk in to their unlocked house, only to notice that no one is home. I could not believe that even after having all of their belongings stolen just weeks before they still did not learn their lesson. I see Buddy #1's laptop computer sitting on the couch in plain sight right when you walk in the house. So I decide to hide his computer in his t-shirt drawer in his bedroom and throw the couch cushions off the couch all across the room. (I told Buddy #1 I was doing this just so at least one of them would know that it was a staged robbery. Buddy #2 is the one worse about locking the doors so he is really the one I wanted to teach the lesson to. I figured Buddy #2 would call his roommate before doing anything too drastic.) Hours later Buddy #2 comes home and sees the couch cushions thrown across the room and the computer missing. He freaks out and immediately calls the cops and reports the "burglary". He then calls me and tells me about how he got robbed again and I tell him that it was all me and I just staged it to teach him to learn to lock his doors. I had no idea he would call the cops before telling his roommate or myself. He quickly called the cops back to tell them it was a prank and to not send a squad car, but the cop was already pulling up to the house so it was too late to cancel. My friend got hit with a $500 fine for reporting a false crime. So now I am paying for my friends' ticket. But maybe now he will learn to lock their doors... TL;DR: TIFU by teaching my friend to protect his home by stage a false burglary to teach him to lock his doors. He got called to the cops before reporting the false crime.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 11376, 495, 285, 247, 2716, 3618, 3622, 767, 273, 619, 5524, 37229, 313, 10002, 452, 644, 417, 49186, 3076, 670, 22081, 616, 11008, 10, 574, 616, 2419, 7154, 715, 285, 3253, 275, 616, 2419, 326, 574, 667, 3686, 273, 1318, 369, 2668, 15, 209, 187, 2598, 309, 1481, 281, 616, 2419, 11066, 285, 2940, 275, 281, 616, 37572, 2419, 13, 760, 281, 4366, 326, 642, 581, 310, 1728, 15, 309, 812, 417, 2868, 326, 1014, 846, 1907, 512, 273, 616, 45308, 15661, 816, 3618, 1078, 597, 1335, 858, 417, 3037, 616, 16507, 15, 309, 923, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 434, 16556, 4382, 7063, 327, 253, 21985, 275, 8342, 8184, 987, 672, 368, 2940, 275, 253, 2419, 15, 1893, 309, 7617, 281, 10507, 521, 4382, 275, 521, 246, 14, 23565, 31579, 275, 521, 14098, 285, 4710, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 745, 253, 21985, 512, 2439, 253, 2316, 15, 313, 42, 2183, 15731, 6421, 1852, 18, 309, 369, 2509, 436, 816, 594, 387, 1878, 581, 273, 731, 651, 871, 326, 352, 369, 247, 35035, 19535, 15, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 310, 253, 581, 7197, 670, 22081, 253, 11008, 594, 344, 310, 1663, 253, 581, 309, 3078, 281, 9798, 253, 16507, 281, 15, 309, 15433, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 651, 1067, 521, 2316, 13884, 1078, 2509, 2712, 1512, 36927, 2698, 209, 187, 41, 2108, 1996, 15731, 6421, 1852, 19, 3249, 1728, 285, 11403, 253, 21985, 26938, 621, 13044, 2439, 253, 2316, 285, 253, 4382, 5816, 15, 754, 4107, 8765, 562, 285, 4745, 5841, 253, 23247, 285, 5012, 253, 346, 13156, 3129, 552, 3446, 754, 840, 5841, 479, 285, 8599, 479, 670, 849, 344, 1694, 38208, 969, 285, 309, 2028, 779, 326, 352, 369, 512, 479, 285, 309, 816, 35035, 352, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 3037, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 344, 651, 1067, 253, 23247, 1078, 7746, 521, 2316, 13884, 390, 4266, 15, 754, 4541, 1925, 253, 23247, 896, 281, 2028, 731, 352, 369, 247, 819, 1164, 285, 281, 417, 5007, 247, 13487, 1113, 13, 533, 253, 5440, 369, 2168, 14252, 598, 281, 253, 2419, 594, 352, 369, 1512, 3563, 281, 14002, 15, 2752, 3331, 1694, 4352, 342, 247, 370, 5388, 4030, 323, 9610, 247, 3221, 6617, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 10054, 323, 619, 3858, 8, 13571, 15, 1292, 5046, 1024, 344, 588, 3037, 281, 5569, 616, 11008, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 308, 3801, 54, 407, 9551, 619, 3331, 281, 4017, 521, 1728, 407, 3924, 247, 3221, 34199, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 754, 1694, 1925, 281, 253, 23247, 1078, 9610, 253, 3221, 6617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

451

414

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 10256, 619, 3858, 281, 4017, 616, 2419, 407, 3924, 247, 19535, 816, 281, 9798, 731, 247, 16507, 15, 23247, 1119, 562, 352, 369, 512, 15223, 285, 44861, 619, 3331, 323, 9610, 3221, 6617, 15, 1024, 891, 452, 281, 2075, 370, 5388, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 308, 3801, 54, 407, 9551, 619, 3331, 281, 4017, 521, 1728, 407, 3924, 247, 3221, 34199, 281, 9798, 779, 281, 5569, 521, 11008, 15, 754, 1694, 1925, 281, 253, 23247, 1078, 9610, 253, 3221, 6617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I am in college and in a few weeks my summer classes end and I don't have class till fall. I work full time in fast food and I make about a grand a month doing this. I recently bought myself a new car and gave my little brother my old one so my parents are paying for the insurance for helping them out. My car payment is high because I got a little bit of a nicer car and my credit is eh, high for a 19 year old tho. I didn't get a co signer or anything. My parents want me to come home for like a month or so, and honestly unless that are willing to pay my car payment I can't come. I know they can't afford that tho because they are constantly borrowing money from me. My brother owes me 600 right now and my dad asked to borrow a little money and I look in my account and he borrowed $950! He paid it back within days but still. My dad owns a business, has since before I was born, and it has slowed down a lot, his main source of work is constantly late on checks, I am talking 3 weeks to 3 months late, so when he asks for money I know it is going toward food or stuff for my family so I am fine letting him borrow. Anyways, how do I tell them I can't come down. They are a hour and a half away and as long as my schedule stays the same I will be able to come like once a week. Thinking of getting a second job for a few months just to get a little saving up again. They are expecting me to move down after fall semester and do school down there but I am planning on staying and maybe moving in with my SO but everything is up in the air. I just don't know how to talk to them about this or well anything.

parents are broke, can't afford to take a month off to come home for a month, how do I tell them I can't come home for a month or so?

Parents are expecting me to move down to live with them, I can't afford to come home for 3-4 weeks, how do I tell them that I can't afford to come home

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 285, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 619, 5768, 5971, 990, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 966, 7357, 2965, 15, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 275, 3809, 2739, 285, 309, 1056, 670, 247, 4936, 247, 1770, 2509, 436, 15, 309, 4102, 8686, 4266, 247, 747, 1113, 285, 3534, 619, 1652, 4929, 619, 1711, 581, 594, 619, 4651, 403, 10054, 323, 253, 6503, 323, 9073, 731, 562, 15, 2752, 1113, 7830, 310, 1029, 984, 309, 1694, 247, 1652, 2372, 273, 247, 49482, 1113, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 25685, 13, 1029, 323, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 37152, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 247, 820, 861, 254, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 971, 479, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 751, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 13, 285, 20509, 5734, 326, 403, 7378, 281, 2075, 619, 1113, 7830, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 15, 309, 871, 597, 476, 626, 7848, 326, 37152, 984, 597, 403, 11485, 40770, 2583, 432, 479, 15, 2752, 4929, 42261, 479, 12891, 987, 1024, 285, 619, 12247, 2546, 281, 13179, 247, 1652, 2583, 285, 309, 1007, 275, 619, 2395, 285, 344, 29563, 370, 38678, 2, 754, 5087, 352, 896, 1561, 1897, 533, 1335, 15, 2752, 12247, 21186, 247, 2136, 13, 556, 1580, 1078, 309, 369, 5686, 13, 285, 352, 556, 28837, 1066, 247, 2257, 13, 521, 2022, 2603, 273, 789, 310, 11485, 3563, 327, 12255, 13, 309, 717, 5015, 495, 3618, 281, 495, 2607, 3563, 13, 594, 672, 344, 12325, 323, 2583, 309, 871, 352, 310, 1469, 2584, 2739, 390, 5017, 323, 619, 2021, 594, 309, 717, 4030, 13872, 779, 13179, 15, 2490, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1066, 15, 1583, 403, 247, 4964, 285, 247, 2716, 1977, 285, 347, 1048, 347, 619, 10130, 19931, 253, 1072, 309, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 1705, 751, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 43483, 273, 2970, 247, 1273, 2628, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 816, 281, 755, 247, 1652, 13868, 598, 969, 15, 1583, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 846, 2965, 33644, 285, 513, 2143, 1066, 627, 533, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 14596, 285, 5046, 4886, 275, 342, 619, 8717, 533, 3253, 310, 598, 275, 253, 2329, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 436, 390, 973, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am in college and in a few weeks my summer classes end and I don't have class till fall. I work full time in fast food and I make about a grand a month doing this. I recently bought myself a new car and gave my little brother my old one so my parents are paying for the insurance for helping them out. My car payment is high because I got a little bit of a nicer car and my credit is eh, high for a 19 year old tho. I didn't get a co signer or anything. My parents want me to come home for like a month or so, and honestly unless that are willing to pay my car payment I can't come. I know they can't afford that tho because they are constantly borrowing money from me. My brother owes me 600 right now and my dad asked to borrow a little money and I look in my account and he borrowed $950! He paid it back within days but still. My dad owns a business, has since before I was born, and it has slowed down a lot, his main source of work is constantly late on checks, I am talking 3 weeks to 3 months late, so when he asks for money I know it is going toward food or stuff for my family so I am fine letting him borrow. Anyways, how do I tell them I can't come down. They are a hour and a half away and as long as my schedule stays the same I will be able to come like once a week. Thinking of getting a second job for a few months just to get a little saving up again. They are expecting me to move down after fall semester and do school down there but I am planning on staying and maybe moving in with my SO but everything is up in the air. I just don't know how to talk to them about this or well anything. TL;DR:

parents are broke, can't afford to take a month off to come home for a month, how do I tell them I can't come home for a month or so?<|endoftext|>

[ 4651, 403, 9377, 13, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1379, 247, 1770, 745, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Parents are expecting me to move down to live with them, I can't afford to come home for 3-4 weeks, how do I tell them that I can't afford to come home<|endoftext|>

[ 37850, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 281, 3153, 342, 731, 13, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 495, 14, 21, 3618, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 326, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am in college and in a few weeks my summer classes end and I don't have class till fall. I work full time in fast food and I make about a grand a month doing this. I recently bought myself a new car and gave my little brother my old one so my parents are paying for the insurance for helping them out. My car payment is high because I got a little bit of a nicer car and my credit is eh, high for a 19 year old tho. I didn't get a co signer or anything. My parents want me to come home for like a month or so, and honestly unless that are willing to pay my car payment I can't come. I know they can't afford that tho because they are constantly borrowing money from me. My brother owes me 600 right now and my dad asked to borrow a little money and I look in my account and he borrowed $950! He paid it back within days but still. My dad owns a business, has since before I was born, and it has slowed down a lot, his main source of work is constantly late on checks, I am talking 3 weeks to 3 months late, so when he asks for money I know it is going toward food or stuff for my family so I am fine letting him borrow. Anyways, how do I tell them I can't come down. They are a hour and a half away and as long as my schedule stays the same I will be able to come like once a week. Thinking of getting a second job for a few months just to get a little saving up again. They are expecting me to move down after fall semester and do school down there but I am planning on staying and maybe moving in with my SO but everything is up in the air. I just don't know how to talk to them about this or well anything. TL;DR: parents are broke, can't afford to take a month off to come home for a month, how do I tell them I can't come home for a month or so?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 285, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 619, 5768, 5971, 990, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 966, 7357, 2965, 15, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 275, 3809, 2739, 285, 309, 1056, 670, 247, 4936, 247, 1770, 2509, 436, 15, 309, 4102, 8686, 4266, 247, 747, 1113, 285, 3534, 619, 1652, 4929, 619, 1711, 581, 594, 619, 4651, 403, 10054, 323, 253, 6503, 323, 9073, 731, 562, 15, 2752, 1113, 7830, 310, 1029, 984, 309, 1694, 247, 1652, 2372, 273, 247, 49482, 1113, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 25685, 13, 1029, 323, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 37152, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 247, 820, 861, 254, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 971, 479, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 751, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 13, 285, 20509, 5734, 326, 403, 7378, 281, 2075, 619, 1113, 7830, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 15, 309, 871, 597, 476, 626, 7848, 326, 37152, 984, 597, 403, 11485, 40770, 2583, 432, 479, 15, 2752, 4929, 42261, 479, 12891, 987, 1024, 285, 619, 12247, 2546, 281, 13179, 247, 1652, 2583, 285, 309, 1007, 275, 619, 2395, 285, 344, 29563, 370, 38678, 2, 754, 5087, 352, 896, 1561, 1897, 533, 1335, 15, 2752, 12247, 21186, 247, 2136, 13, 556, 1580, 1078, 309, 369, 5686, 13, 285, 352, 556, 28837, 1066, 247, 2257, 13, 521, 2022, 2603, 273, 789, 310, 11485, 3563, 327, 12255, 13, 309, 717, 5015, 495, 3618, 281, 495, 2607, 3563, 13, 594, 672, 344, 12325, 323, 2583, 309, 871, 352, 310, 1469, 2584, 2739, 390, 5017, 323, 619, 2021, 594, 309, 717, 4030, 13872, 779, 13179, 15, 2490, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1066, 15, 1583, 403, 247, 4964, 285, 247, 2716, 1977, 285, 347, 1048, 347, 619, 10130, 19931, 253, 1072, 309, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 1705, 751, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 43483, 273, 2970, 247, 1273, 2628, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 816, 281, 755, 247, 1652, 13868, 598, 969, 15, 1583, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 846, 2965, 33644, 285, 513, 2143, 1066, 627, 533, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 14596, 285, 5046, 4886, 275, 342, 619, 8717, 533, 3253, 310, 598, 275, 253, 2329, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 436, 390, 973, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 4651, 403, 9377, 13, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1379, 247, 1770, 745, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

436

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I am in college and in a few weeks my summer classes end and I don't have class till fall. I work full time in fast food and I make about a grand a month doing this. I recently bought myself a new car and gave my little brother my old one so my parents are paying for the insurance for helping them out. My car payment is high because I got a little bit of a nicer car and my credit is eh, high for a 19 year old tho. I didn't get a co signer or anything. My parents want me to come home for like a month or so, and honestly unless that are willing to pay my car payment I can't come. I know they can't afford that tho because they are constantly borrowing money from me. My brother owes me 600 right now and my dad asked to borrow a little money and I look in my account and he borrowed $950! He paid it back within days but still. My dad owns a business, has since before I was born, and it has slowed down a lot, his main source of work is constantly late on checks, I am talking 3 weeks to 3 months late, so when he asks for money I know it is going toward food or stuff for my family so I am fine letting him borrow. Anyways, how do I tell them I can't come down. They are a hour and a half away and as long as my schedule stays the same I will be able to come like once a week. Thinking of getting a second job for a few months just to get a little saving up again. They are expecting me to move down after fall semester and do school down there but I am planning on staying and maybe moving in with my SO but everything is up in the air. I just don't know how to talk to them about this or well anything. TL;DR: Parents are expecting me to move down to live with them, I can't afford to come home for 3-4 weeks, how do I tell them that I can't afford to come home<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 717, 275, 6831, 285, 275, 247, 1643, 3618, 619, 5768, 5971, 990, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 966, 7357, 2965, 15, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 275, 3809, 2739, 285, 309, 1056, 670, 247, 4936, 247, 1770, 2509, 436, 15, 309, 4102, 8686, 4266, 247, 747, 1113, 285, 3534, 619, 1652, 4929, 619, 1711, 581, 594, 619, 4651, 403, 10054, 323, 253, 6503, 323, 9073, 731, 562, 15, 2752, 1113, 7830, 310, 1029, 984, 309, 1694, 247, 1652, 2372, 273, 247, 49482, 1113, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 25685, 13, 1029, 323, 247, 655, 807, 1711, 37152, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 247, 820, 861, 254, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 971, 479, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 751, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 13, 285, 20509, 5734, 326, 403, 7378, 281, 2075, 619, 1113, 7830, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 15, 309, 871, 597, 476, 626, 7848, 326, 37152, 984, 597, 403, 11485, 40770, 2583, 432, 479, 15, 2752, 4929, 42261, 479, 12891, 987, 1024, 285, 619, 12247, 2546, 281, 13179, 247, 1652, 2583, 285, 309, 1007, 275, 619, 2395, 285, 344, 29563, 370, 38678, 2, 754, 5087, 352, 896, 1561, 1897, 533, 1335, 15, 2752, 12247, 21186, 247, 2136, 13, 556, 1580, 1078, 309, 369, 5686, 13, 285, 352, 556, 28837, 1066, 247, 2257, 13, 521, 2022, 2603, 273, 789, 310, 11485, 3563, 327, 12255, 13, 309, 717, 5015, 495, 3618, 281, 495, 2607, 3563, 13, 594, 672, 344, 12325, 323, 2583, 309, 871, 352, 310, 1469, 2584, 2739, 390, 5017, 323, 619, 2021, 594, 309, 717, 4030, 13872, 779, 13179, 15, 2490, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1066, 15, 1583, 403, 247, 4964, 285, 247, 2716, 1977, 285, 347, 1048, 347, 619, 10130, 19931, 253, 1072, 309, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 1705, 751, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 43483, 273, 2970, 247, 1273, 2628, 323, 247, 1643, 2607, 816, 281, 755, 247, 1652, 13868, 598, 969, 15, 1583, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 846, 2965, 33644, 285, 513, 2143, 1066, 627, 533, 309, 717, 7219, 327, 14596, 285, 5046, 4886, 275, 342, 619, 8717, 533, 3253, 310, 598, 275, 253, 2329, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 436, 390, 973, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 37850, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 281, 3153, 342, 731, 13, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 495, 14, 21, 3618, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 326, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

439

400

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 4651, 403, 9377, 13, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1379, 247, 1770, 745, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 309, 476, 626, 1705, 1728, 323, 247, 1770, 390, 594, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 37850, 403, 16764, 479, 281, 2118, 1066, 281, 3153, 342, 731, 13, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 323, 495, 14, 21, 3618, 13, 849, 513, 309, 2028, 731, 326, 309, 476, 626, 7848, 281, 1705, 1728, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. This makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends. I should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too.

How do I (19 F) convince my boyfriend (23 M) I am just friends with his brother (30 M) and nothing more?

My boyfriend and his brother have become a lot closer friends and it has led to a lot of tension between the two and me. I dont want to be friends with him anymore but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my boyfriends brother likes me more.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 31472, 285, 309, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 1475, 495, 2607, 13, 309, 1849, 1929, 521, 544, 1229, 353, 62, 4929, 19436, 50276, 1542, 670, 247, 807, 342, 534, 359, 452, 2489, 1077, 2810, 3858, 285, 452, 644, 949, 247, 2257, 15, 11376, 253, 673, 309, 1694, 2366, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 19436, 3053, 281, 1333, 344, 574, 2266, 10450, 323, 479, 285, 326, 344, 574, 644, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 2789, 619, 22273, 1663, 11790, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 6016, 521, 12700, 1077, 973, 13, 344, 7866, 24662, 342, 521, 4929, 756, 5123, 779, 273, 1841, 285, 372, 25013, 779, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 309, 476, 18578, 619, 7832, 326, 3189, 285, 19436, 403, 3858, 285, 816, 3858, 760, 15, 19436, 8599, 479, 309, 943, 2740, 484, 342, 619, 480, 26491, 984, 344, 2296, 344, 36908, 1557, 670, 479, 285, 310, 760, 970, 479, 15, 309, 1663, 452, 642, 2934, 835, 891, 943, 564, 432, 1060, 984, 891, 1663, 513, 417, 971, 2057, 273, 731, 281, 3819, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 7832, 11121, 697, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 604, 331, 9154, 13052, 479, 625, 685, 3858, 15, 187, 187, 42, 943, 671, 823, 326, 1078, 479, 285, 480, 405, 466, 1694, 2366, 891, 908, 281, 10913, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 331, 9154, 533, 896, 840, 891, 42126, 452, 667, 10450, 323, 480, 405, 466, 15, 18827, 466, 42126, 751, 479, 14203, 562, 342, 331, 9154, 896, 840, 285, 344, 908, 281, 320, 12338, 285, 2740, 521, 1841, 15, 891, 15, 70, 4382, 13, 1481, 19598, 13, 285, 247, 1943, 13822, 275, 331, 1173, 561, 1113, 285, 247, 2257, 273, 643, 1841, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. This makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends. I should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too. TL;DR:

How do I (19 F) convince my boyfriend (23 M) I am just friends with his brother (30 M) and nothing more?<|endoftext|>

[ 1359, 513, 309, 313, 746, 401, 10, 18578, 619, 22273, 313, 1508, 353, 10, 309, 717, 816, 3858, 342, 521, 4929, 313, 1229, 353, 10, 285, 2717, 625, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My boyfriend and his brother have become a lot closer friends and it has led to a lot of tension between the two and me. I dont want to be friends with him anymore but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my boyfriends brother likes me more.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 22273, 285, 521, 4929, 452, 2489, 247, 2257, 8003, 3858, 285, 352, 556, 3977, 281, 247, 2257, 273, 12415, 875, 253, 767, 285, 479, 15, 309, 13414, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 342, 779, 10542, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 5006, 29261, 4929, 13052, 479, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. This makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends. I should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too. TL;DR: How do I (19 F) convince my boyfriend (23 M) I am just friends with his brother (30 M) and nothing more?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 31472, 285, 309, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 1475, 495, 2607, 13, 309, 1849, 1929, 521, 544, 1229, 353, 62, 4929, 19436, 50276, 1542, 670, 247, 807, 342, 534, 359, 452, 2489, 1077, 2810, 3858, 285, 452, 644, 949, 247, 2257, 15, 11376, 253, 673, 309, 1694, 2366, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 19436, 3053, 281, 1333, 344, 574, 2266, 10450, 323, 479, 285, 326, 344, 574, 644, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 2789, 619, 22273, 1663, 11790, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 6016, 521, 12700, 1077, 973, 13, 344, 7866, 24662, 342, 521, 4929, 756, 5123, 779, 273, 1841, 285, 372, 25013, 779, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 309, 476, 18578, 619, 7832, 326, 3189, 285, 19436, 403, 3858, 285, 816, 3858, 760, 15, 19436, 8599, 479, 309, 943, 2740, 484, 342, 619, 480, 26491, 984, 344, 2296, 344, 36908, 1557, 670, 479, 285, 310, 760, 970, 479, 15, 309, 1663, 452, 642, 2934, 835, 891, 943, 564, 432, 1060, 984, 891, 1663, 513, 417, 971, 2057, 273, 731, 281, 3819, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 7832, 11121, 697, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 604, 331, 9154, 13052, 479, 625, 685, 3858, 15, 187, 187, 42, 943, 671, 823, 326, 1078, 479, 285, 480, 405, 466, 1694, 2366, 891, 908, 281, 10913, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 331, 9154, 533, 896, 840, 891, 42126, 452, 667, 10450, 323, 480, 405, 466, 15, 18827, 466, 42126, 751, 479, 14203, 562, 342, 331, 9154, 896, 840, 285, 344, 908, 281, 320, 12338, 285, 2740, 521, 1841, 15, 891, 15, 70, 4382, 13, 1481, 19598, 13, 285, 247, 1943, 13822, 275, 331, 1173, 561, 1113, 285, 247, 2257, 273, 643, 1841, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1359, 513, 309, 313, 746, 401, 10, 18578, 619, 22273, 313, 1508, 353, 10, 309, 717, 816, 3858, 342, 521, 4929, 313, 1229, 353, 10, 285, 2717, 625, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

347

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend Jesse and I have been together for around 3 months, I've known his [30 M] brother Steven for about a year with which we have become very close friends and have been through a lot. About the time I got together with my boyfriend, Steven started to say he had strong feelings for me and that he had been in love with me for a while. This makes my boyfriend really angry and he doesn't handle his anger very well, he starts fights with his brother accuses him of things and degrades him. I don't know how I can convince my partner that Me and Steven are friends and just friends only. Steven tells me I should breakup with my jesse because he says he doesnt care about me and is only using me. I really have no idea where i should go from here because i really do not want either of them to fight but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my partner thinks its innapropriate if steven likes me more than friends. I should also add that before me and jessie got together i used to hang out a lot with steven but back then i didnt have any feelings for jessie. Jessie didnt like me hanging out with steven back then and he used to be violent and break his things. i.e computer, headsets, and a big dent in stevens car and a lot of other things too. TL;DR: My boyfriend and his brother have become a lot closer friends and it has led to a lot of tension between the two and me. I dont want to be friends with him anymore but i also dont want to not be friends with someone just because my boyfriends brother likes me more.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 31472, 285, 309, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 1475, 495, 2607, 13, 309, 1849, 1929, 521, 544, 1229, 353, 62, 4929, 19436, 50276, 1542, 670, 247, 807, 342, 534, 359, 452, 2489, 1077, 2810, 3858, 285, 452, 644, 949, 247, 2257, 15, 11376, 253, 673, 309, 1694, 2366, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 19436, 3053, 281, 1333, 344, 574, 2266, 10450, 323, 479, 285, 326, 344, 574, 644, 275, 2389, 342, 479, 323, 247, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 1552, 2789, 619, 22273, 1663, 11790, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 6016, 521, 12700, 1077, 973, 13, 344, 7866, 24662, 342, 521, 4929, 756, 5123, 779, 273, 1841, 285, 372, 25013, 779, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 309, 476, 18578, 619, 7832, 326, 3189, 285, 19436, 403, 3858, 285, 816, 3858, 760, 15, 19436, 8599, 479, 309, 943, 2740, 484, 342, 619, 480, 26491, 984, 344, 2296, 344, 36908, 1557, 670, 479, 285, 310, 760, 970, 479, 15, 309, 1663, 452, 642, 2934, 835, 891, 943, 564, 432, 1060, 984, 891, 1663, 513, 417, 971, 2057, 273, 731, 281, 3819, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 7832, 11121, 697, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 604, 331, 9154, 13052, 479, 625, 685, 3858, 15, 187, 187, 42, 943, 671, 823, 326, 1078, 479, 285, 480, 405, 466, 1694, 2366, 891, 908, 281, 10913, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 331, 9154, 533, 896, 840, 891, 42126, 452, 667, 10450, 323, 480, 405, 466, 15, 18827, 466, 42126, 751, 479, 14203, 562, 342, 331, 9154, 896, 840, 285, 344, 908, 281, 320, 12338, 285, 2740, 521, 1841, 15, 891, 15, 70, 4382, 13, 1481, 19598, 13, 285, 247, 1943, 13822, 275, 331, 1173, 561, 1113, 285, 247, 2257, 273, 643, 1841, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 22273, 285, 521, 4929, 452, 2489, 247, 2257, 8003, 3858, 285, 352, 556, 3977, 281, 247, 2257, 273, 12415, 875, 253, 767, 285, 479, 15, 309, 13414, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 342, 779, 10542, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 5006, 29261, 4929, 13052, 479, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

374

317

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1359, 513, 309, 313, 746, 401, 10, 18578, 619, 22273, 313, 1508, 353, 10, 309, 717, 816, 3858, 342, 521, 4929, 313, 1229, 353, 10, 285, 2717, 625, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 22273, 285, 521, 4929, 452, 2489, 247, 2257, 8003, 3858, 285, 352, 556, 3977, 281, 247, 2257, 273, 12415, 875, 253, 767, 285, 479, 15, 309, 13414, 971, 281, 320, 3858, 342, 779, 10542, 533, 891, 671, 13414, 971, 281, 417, 320, 3858, 342, 3095, 816, 984, 619, 5006, 29261, 4929, 13052, 479, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

GF and I have been dating just over a year now, and we have had some truly incredible times, and unfortunately not so incredible times. Her depression (which she hid from me in the early stages) resurfaced and we had a 3 month barren spell of mistrust and communication problems. Now that she is going to professional help again, I feel things are becoming better yet again. Depression is entirely new to me and I am learning every day about it. Now that the Christmas season is coming up, I get the worst feeling that my GF will end up getting drunk and fucking someone at the Christmas Party. She recently started a new job in a prestigious head hunting firm that places middle and senior management executives in top jobs all around Europe. She is the youngest in her office by about 6 years, and its pretty much dominated entirely by males. Out of about the 100 staff who work there, there are 20 females, and from what she has told me of previous work nights out, normally most of these women end up getting fucked, kissed, or cheat on their partners with fellow work colleagues. Her current team (who I have met once) is made up of 5 single, very successful guys. Whats worse, is the company Christmas party has put them up in one of the most lavish hotels in the country, 100 miles away from where we live, overnight with free accomodation........IN SHARED ROOMS. I voiced my disapproval this because she will be sharing a room (2 single beds) with guy on her team who is notorious for being a ladies man, and pretty much best friends with the senior director of the company. She can put herself in some silly situations when drinking, and any work night out she has often been blind drunk (but always got me to collect her). Even when we go out together, sometimes her depression coupled with drink puts her in these situations that men can easily misconstrue as being led on. We have fought about it and she has stopped it (to the best of my knowledge). Im just worried that it could happen again, and the shared rooms, and obvious alcoholic elements of a standard christmas party in a hotel just makes me worried. Am I mad for being this insecure

GF of 1 year is going to a special christmas party in a hotel 100 miles away from us, she is sharing two single beds with a known ladies man who I suspect is a bit of a psycho, and her current team (who I have known for a while) are all guys that are all drinking and are all sharing a hotel room. I am worried she will get drunk and fuck someone there and then end up cheating on me.

GF says she will sleep with other guys at her Christmas Party, I am worried she will cheat on me.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 33952, 285, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 816, 689, 247, 807, 1024, 13, 285, 359, 452, 574, 690, 7777, 14331, 2069, 13, 285, 19235, 417, 594, 14331, 2069, 15, 4058, 9454, 313, 4609, 703, 29334, 432, 479, 275, 253, 2393, 8661, 10, 25189, 28619, 285, 359, 574, 247, 495, 1770, 2534, 445, 15368, 273, 5384, 18037, 285, 5511, 3237, 15, 3954, 326, 703, 310, 1469, 281, 5702, 1361, 969, 13, 309, 1928, 1841, 403, 7552, 1805, 2568, 969, 15, 27675, 310, 7094, 747, 281, 479, 285, 309, 717, 4715, 1046, 1388, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 326, 253, 9449, 2952, 310, 3551, 598, 13, 309, 755, 253, 9065, 5471, 326, 619, 33952, 588, 990, 598, 2970, 17507, 285, 12835, 3095, 387, 253, 9449, 7021, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 4102, 3053, 247, 747, 2628, 275, 247, 34544, 1481, 16121, 5882, 326, 5053, 4766, 285, 8474, 4323, 23289, 275, 1755, 7375, 512, 1475, 3060, 15, 1500, 310, 253, 25423, 275, 617, 3906, 407, 670, 721, 1107, 13, 285, 697, 3965, 1199, 14691, 7094, 407, 10798, 15, 6282, 273, 670, 253, 2233, 4750, 665, 789, 627, 13, 627, 403, 1384, 10753, 13, 285, 432, 752, 703, 556, 2183, 479, 273, 2045, 789, 15513, 562, 13, 9403, 954, 273, 841, 2255, 990, 598, 2970, 35598, 13, 23651, 13, 390, 39038, 327, 616, 10471, 342, 7715, 789, 11651, 15, 187, 187, 10759, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1313, 2378, 10, 310, 1160, 598, 273, 608, 2014, 13, 1077, 5547, 6068, 15, 44891, 7197, 13, 310, 253, 2567, 9449, 3128, 556, 1691, 731, 598, 275, 581, 273, 253, 954, 22874, 763, 21440, 275, 253, 2586, 13, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 835, 359, 3153, 13, 13463, 342, 1959, 3648, 351, 318, 5638, 1042, 7840, 1277, 1703, 16636, 2277, 52, 15, 309, 39544, 619, 31521, 1208, 436, 984, 703, 588, 320, 9628, 247, 2316, 313, 19, 2014, 20534, 10, 342, 5599, 327, 617, 2285, 665, 310, 32566, 323, 1146, 247, 16901, 637, 13, 285, 3965, 1199, 1682, 3858, 342, 253, 8474, 6423, 273, 253, 2567, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 476, 1691, 5972, 275, 690, 19456, 9534, 672, 10678, 13, 285, 667, 789, 2360, 562, 703, 556, 2223, 644, 9645, 17507, 313, 2858, 1900, 1694, 479, 281, 4822, 617, 481, 4952, 672, 359, 564, 562, 2366, 13, 4536, 617, 9454, 9904, 342, 5484, 12516, 617, 275, 841, 9534, 326, 1821, 476, 4354, 44890, 1344, 489, 347, 1146, 3977, 327, 15, 844, 452, 13465, 670, 352, 285, 703, 556, 6331, 352, 313, 936, 253, 1682, 273, 619, 3640, 481, 187, 187, 3351, 816, 11926, 326, 352, 812, 5108, 969, 13, 285, 253, 6096, 9956, 13, 285, 4755, 32840, 3603, 273, 247, 2629, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 816, 2789, 479, 11926, 15, 187, 187, 8096, 309, 10279, 323, 1146, 436, 46519, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: GF and I have been dating just over a year now, and we have had some truly incredible times, and unfortunately not so incredible times. Her depression (which she hid from me in the early stages) resurfaced and we had a 3 month barren spell of mistrust and communication problems. Now that she is going to professional help again, I feel things are becoming better yet again. Depression is entirely new to me and I am learning every day about it. Now that the Christmas season is coming up, I get the worst feeling that my GF will end up getting drunk and fucking someone at the Christmas Party. She recently started a new job in a prestigious head hunting firm that places middle and senior management executives in top jobs all around Europe. She is the youngest in her office by about 6 years, and its pretty much dominated entirely by males. Out of about the 100 staff who work there, there are 20 females, and from what she has told me of previous work nights out, normally most of these women end up getting fucked, kissed, or cheat on their partners with fellow work colleagues. Her current team (who I have met once) is made up of 5 single, very successful guys. Whats worse, is the company Christmas party has put them up in one of the most lavish hotels in the country, 100 miles away from where we live, overnight with free accomodation........IN SHARED ROOMS. I voiced my disapproval this because she will be sharing a room (2 single beds) with guy on her team who is notorious for being a ladies man, and pretty much best friends with the senior director of the company. She can put herself in some silly situations when drinking, and any work night out she has often been blind drunk (but always got me to collect her). Even when we go out together, sometimes her depression coupled with drink puts her in these situations that men can easily misconstrue as being led on. We have fought about it and she has stopped it (to the best of my knowledge). Im just worried that it could happen again, and the shared rooms, and obvious alcoholic elements of a standard christmas party in a hotel just makes me worried. Am I mad for being this insecure TL;DR:

GF of 1 year is going to a special christmas party in a hotel 100 miles away from us, she is sharing two single beds with a known ladies man who I suspect is a bit of a psycho, and her current team (who I have known for a while) are all guys that are all drinking and are all sharing a hotel room. I am worried she will get drunk and fuck someone there and then end up cheating on me.<|endoftext|>

[ 33952, 273, 337, 807, 310, 1469, 281, 247, 2714, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 441, 13, 703, 310, 9628, 767, 2014, 20534, 342, 247, 1929, 16901, 637, 665, 309, 9101, 310, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 30543, 13, 285, 617, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1929, 323, 247, 1223, 10, 403, 512, 6068, 326, 403, 512, 10678, 285, 403, 512, 9628, 247, 8614, 2316, 15, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 755, 17507, 285, 7435, 3095, 627, 285, 840, 990, 598, 37142, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

GF says she will sleep with other guys at her Christmas Party, I am worried she will cheat on me.<|endoftext|>

[ 33952, 2296, 703, 588, 4600, 342, 643, 6068, 387, 617, 9449, 7021, 13, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 39038, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: GF and I have been dating just over a year now, and we have had some truly incredible times, and unfortunately not so incredible times. Her depression (which she hid from me in the early stages) resurfaced and we had a 3 month barren spell of mistrust and communication problems. Now that she is going to professional help again, I feel things are becoming better yet again. Depression is entirely new to me and I am learning every day about it. Now that the Christmas season is coming up, I get the worst feeling that my GF will end up getting drunk and fucking someone at the Christmas Party. She recently started a new job in a prestigious head hunting firm that places middle and senior management executives in top jobs all around Europe. She is the youngest in her office by about 6 years, and its pretty much dominated entirely by males. Out of about the 100 staff who work there, there are 20 females, and from what she has told me of previous work nights out, normally most of these women end up getting fucked, kissed, or cheat on their partners with fellow work colleagues. Her current team (who I have met once) is made up of 5 single, very successful guys. Whats worse, is the company Christmas party has put them up in one of the most lavish hotels in the country, 100 miles away from where we live, overnight with free accomodation........IN SHARED ROOMS. I voiced my disapproval this because she will be sharing a room (2 single beds) with guy on her team who is notorious for being a ladies man, and pretty much best friends with the senior director of the company. She can put herself in some silly situations when drinking, and any work night out she has often been blind drunk (but always got me to collect her). Even when we go out together, sometimes her depression coupled with drink puts her in these situations that men can easily misconstrue as being led on. We have fought about it and she has stopped it (to the best of my knowledge). Im just worried that it could happen again, and the shared rooms, and obvious alcoholic elements of a standard christmas party in a hotel just makes me worried. Am I mad for being this insecure TL;DR: GF of 1 year is going to a special christmas party in a hotel 100 miles away from us, she is sharing two single beds with a known ladies man who I suspect is a bit of a psycho, and her current team (who I have known for a while) are all guys that are all drinking and are all sharing a hotel room. I am worried she will get drunk and fuck someone there and then end up cheating on me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 33952, 285, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 816, 689, 247, 807, 1024, 13, 285, 359, 452, 574, 690, 7777, 14331, 2069, 13, 285, 19235, 417, 594, 14331, 2069, 15, 4058, 9454, 313, 4609, 703, 29334, 432, 479, 275, 253, 2393, 8661, 10, 25189, 28619, 285, 359, 574, 247, 495, 1770, 2534, 445, 15368, 273, 5384, 18037, 285, 5511, 3237, 15, 3954, 326, 703, 310, 1469, 281, 5702, 1361, 969, 13, 309, 1928, 1841, 403, 7552, 1805, 2568, 969, 15, 27675, 310, 7094, 747, 281, 479, 285, 309, 717, 4715, 1046, 1388, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 326, 253, 9449, 2952, 310, 3551, 598, 13, 309, 755, 253, 9065, 5471, 326, 619, 33952, 588, 990, 598, 2970, 17507, 285, 12835, 3095, 387, 253, 9449, 7021, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 4102, 3053, 247, 747, 2628, 275, 247, 34544, 1481, 16121, 5882, 326, 5053, 4766, 285, 8474, 4323, 23289, 275, 1755, 7375, 512, 1475, 3060, 15, 1500, 310, 253, 25423, 275, 617, 3906, 407, 670, 721, 1107, 13, 285, 697, 3965, 1199, 14691, 7094, 407, 10798, 15, 6282, 273, 670, 253, 2233, 4750, 665, 789, 627, 13, 627, 403, 1384, 10753, 13, 285, 432, 752, 703, 556, 2183, 479, 273, 2045, 789, 15513, 562, 13, 9403, 954, 273, 841, 2255, 990, 598, 2970, 35598, 13, 23651, 13, 390, 39038, 327, 616, 10471, 342, 7715, 789, 11651, 15, 187, 187, 10759, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1313, 2378, 10, 310, 1160, 598, 273, 608, 2014, 13, 1077, 5547, 6068, 15, 44891, 7197, 13, 310, 253, 2567, 9449, 3128, 556, 1691, 731, 598, 275, 581, 273, 253, 954, 22874, 763, 21440, 275, 253, 2586, 13, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 835, 359, 3153, 13, 13463, 342, 1959, 3648, 351, 318, 5638, 1042, 7840, 1277, 1703, 16636, 2277, 52, 15, 309, 39544, 619, 31521, 1208, 436, 984, 703, 588, 320, 9628, 247, 2316, 313, 19, 2014, 20534, 10, 342, 5599, 327, 617, 2285, 665, 310, 32566, 323, 1146, 247, 16901, 637, 13, 285, 3965, 1199, 1682, 3858, 342, 253, 8474, 6423, 273, 253, 2567, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 476, 1691, 5972, 275, 690, 19456, 9534, 672, 10678, 13, 285, 667, 789, 2360, 562, 703, 556, 2223, 644, 9645, 17507, 313, 2858, 1900, 1694, 479, 281, 4822, 617, 481, 4952, 672, 359, 564, 562, 2366, 13, 4536, 617, 9454, 9904, 342, 5484, 12516, 617, 275, 841, 9534, 326, 1821, 476, 4354, 44890, 1344, 489, 347, 1146, 3977, 327, 15, 844, 452, 13465, 670, 352, 285, 703, 556, 6331, 352, 313, 936, 253, 1682, 273, 619, 3640, 481, 187, 187, 3351, 816, 11926, 326, 352, 812, 5108, 969, 13, 285, 253, 6096, 9956, 13, 285, 4755, 32840, 3603, 273, 247, 2629, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 816, 2789, 479, 11926, 15, 187, 187, 8096, 309, 10279, 323, 1146, 436, 46519, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 33952, 273, 337, 807, 310, 1469, 281, 247, 2714, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 441, 13, 703, 310, 9628, 767, 2014, 20534, 342, 247, 1929, 16901, 637, 665, 309, 9101, 310, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 30543, 13, 285, 617, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1929, 323, 247, 1223, 10, 403, 512, 6068, 326, 403, 512, 10678, 285, 403, 512, 9628, 247, 8614, 2316, 15, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 755, 17507, 285, 7435, 3095, 627, 285, 840, 990, 598, 37142, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

576

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: GF and I have been dating just over a year now, and we have had some truly incredible times, and unfortunately not so incredible times. Her depression (which she hid from me in the early stages) resurfaced and we had a 3 month barren spell of mistrust and communication problems. Now that she is going to professional help again, I feel things are becoming better yet again. Depression is entirely new to me and I am learning every day about it. Now that the Christmas season is coming up, I get the worst feeling that my GF will end up getting drunk and fucking someone at the Christmas Party. She recently started a new job in a prestigious head hunting firm that places middle and senior management executives in top jobs all around Europe. She is the youngest in her office by about 6 years, and its pretty much dominated entirely by males. Out of about the 100 staff who work there, there are 20 females, and from what she has told me of previous work nights out, normally most of these women end up getting fucked, kissed, or cheat on their partners with fellow work colleagues. Her current team (who I have met once) is made up of 5 single, very successful guys. Whats worse, is the company Christmas party has put them up in one of the most lavish hotels in the country, 100 miles away from where we live, overnight with free accomodation........IN SHARED ROOMS. I voiced my disapproval this because she will be sharing a room (2 single beds) with guy on her team who is notorious for being a ladies man, and pretty much best friends with the senior director of the company. She can put herself in some silly situations when drinking, and any work night out she has often been blind drunk (but always got me to collect her). Even when we go out together, sometimes her depression coupled with drink puts her in these situations that men can easily misconstrue as being led on. We have fought about it and she has stopped it (to the best of my knowledge). Im just worried that it could happen again, and the shared rooms, and obvious alcoholic elements of a standard christmas party in a hotel just makes me worried. Am I mad for being this insecure TL;DR: GF says she will sleep with other guys at her Christmas Party, I am worried she will cheat on me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 33952, 285, 309, 452, 644, 13597, 816, 689, 247, 807, 1024, 13, 285, 359, 452, 574, 690, 7777, 14331, 2069, 13, 285, 19235, 417, 594, 14331, 2069, 15, 4058, 9454, 313, 4609, 703, 29334, 432, 479, 275, 253, 2393, 8661, 10, 25189, 28619, 285, 359, 574, 247, 495, 1770, 2534, 445, 15368, 273, 5384, 18037, 285, 5511, 3237, 15, 3954, 326, 703, 310, 1469, 281, 5702, 1361, 969, 13, 309, 1928, 1841, 403, 7552, 1805, 2568, 969, 15, 27675, 310, 7094, 747, 281, 479, 285, 309, 717, 4715, 1046, 1388, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 326, 253, 9449, 2952, 310, 3551, 598, 13, 309, 755, 253, 9065, 5471, 326, 619, 33952, 588, 990, 598, 2970, 17507, 285, 12835, 3095, 387, 253, 9449, 7021, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 4102, 3053, 247, 747, 2628, 275, 247, 34544, 1481, 16121, 5882, 326, 5053, 4766, 285, 8474, 4323, 23289, 275, 1755, 7375, 512, 1475, 3060, 15, 1500, 310, 253, 25423, 275, 617, 3906, 407, 670, 721, 1107, 13, 285, 697, 3965, 1199, 14691, 7094, 407, 10798, 15, 6282, 273, 670, 253, 2233, 4750, 665, 789, 627, 13, 627, 403, 1384, 10753, 13, 285, 432, 752, 703, 556, 2183, 479, 273, 2045, 789, 15513, 562, 13, 9403, 954, 273, 841, 2255, 990, 598, 2970, 35598, 13, 23651, 13, 390, 39038, 327, 616, 10471, 342, 7715, 789, 11651, 15, 187, 187, 10759, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1313, 2378, 10, 310, 1160, 598, 273, 608, 2014, 13, 1077, 5547, 6068, 15, 44891, 7197, 13, 310, 253, 2567, 9449, 3128, 556, 1691, 731, 598, 275, 581, 273, 253, 954, 22874, 763, 21440, 275, 253, 2586, 13, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 835, 359, 3153, 13, 13463, 342, 1959, 3648, 351, 318, 5638, 1042, 7840, 1277, 1703, 16636, 2277, 52, 15, 309, 39544, 619, 31521, 1208, 436, 984, 703, 588, 320, 9628, 247, 2316, 313, 19, 2014, 20534, 10, 342, 5599, 327, 617, 2285, 665, 310, 32566, 323, 1146, 247, 16901, 637, 13, 285, 3965, 1199, 1682, 3858, 342, 253, 8474, 6423, 273, 253, 2567, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 476, 1691, 5972, 275, 690, 19456, 9534, 672, 10678, 13, 285, 667, 789, 2360, 562, 703, 556, 2223, 644, 9645, 17507, 313, 2858, 1900, 1694, 479, 281, 4822, 617, 481, 4952, 672, 359, 564, 562, 2366, 13, 4536, 617, 9454, 9904, 342, 5484, 12516, 617, 275, 841, 9534, 326, 1821, 476, 4354, 44890, 1344, 489, 347, 1146, 3977, 327, 15, 844, 452, 13465, 670, 352, 285, 703, 556, 6331, 352, 313, 936, 253, 1682, 273, 619, 3640, 481, 187, 187, 3351, 816, 11926, 326, 352, 812, 5108, 969, 13, 285, 253, 6096, 9956, 13, 285, 4755, 32840, 3603, 273, 247, 2629, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 816, 2789, 479, 11926, 15, 187, 187, 8096, 309, 10279, 323, 1146, 436, 46519, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 33952, 2296, 703, 588, 4600, 342, 643, 6068, 387, 617, 9449, 7021, 13, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 39038, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

509

486

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 33952, 273, 337, 807, 310, 1469, 281, 247, 2714, 37622, 6681, 3128, 275, 247, 8614, 2233, 6574, 1977, 432, 441, 13, 703, 310, 9628, 767, 2014, 20534, 342, 247, 1929, 16901, 637, 665, 309, 9101, 310, 247, 2372, 273, 247, 30543, 13, 285, 617, 1655, 2285, 313, 10002, 309, 452, 1929, 323, 247, 1223, 10, 403, 512, 6068, 326, 403, 512, 10678, 285, 403, 512, 9628, 247, 8614, 2316, 15, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 755, 17507, 285, 7435, 3095, 627, 285, 840, 990, 598, 37142, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 33952, 2296, 703, 588, 4600, 342, 643, 6068, 387, 617, 9449, 7021, 13, 309, 717, 11926, 703, 588, 39038, 327, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Me and my co-worker have been working with each other for 5 months before he was promoted to a higher position in the same building. Ever since his promotion he has been talking/messaging me all the time and asking to see me. I gave in and went out with the guy. We see each other at work all the time but the more we go out I feel that I need to talk to him less as work because I don't want people to get suspicious. We haven't done anything sexual together and we haven't talked about how it's going to be at work if we were to actually be in a relationship or if worse comes to worse, break up. I don't know how to bring it up to him and when to do it. Also, there are so many work junctions coming up and of course me and him will be there together but it's going to be hard to stay away from each other. I know that he's going to act like were in a relationship in front of them because I don't think he cares what anyone says/thinks. And I have a feeling that he told the guys that we've been going out and I really don't want any of them to know. How can I tell him to not tell them anything anymore and if he has, which I know he has, how to change it so that it looks like we're not talking to each other anymore. I'd rather it just be me and him for now to see if this is something that we both want and I don't want drama and rumours to go around work.

co-worker keeps messaging me and asking to see each other, I don't know when/if/how to tell him to stop as work will be affected by it. Advice needed.

Been seeing co-worker for 1.5 years, not sure how to bring it up without scaring him away, tips on when to ask him to stop contacting me.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 820, 14, 29960, 452, 644, 2444, 342, 1016, 643, 323, 608, 2607, 1078, 344, 369, 15127, 281, 247, 2169, 1899, 275, 253, 1072, 3652, 15, 18901, 1580, 521, 14892, 344, 556, 644, 5015, 16, 46631, 2977, 479, 512, 253, 673, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 479, 15, 309, 3534, 275, 285, 2427, 562, 342, 253, 5599, 15, 844, 923, 1016, 643, 387, 789, 512, 253, 673, 533, 253, 625, 359, 564, 562, 309, 1928, 326, 309, 878, 281, 2312, 281, 779, 1679, 347, 789, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 952, 281, 755, 20634, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 5615, 2366, 285, 359, 6468, 626, 10062, 670, 849, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 387, 789, 604, 359, 497, 281, 2686, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 604, 7197, 3249, 281, 7197, 13, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 779, 285, 672, 281, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 627, 403, 594, 1142, 789, 33138, 3551, 598, 285, 273, 2282, 479, 285, 779, 588, 320, 627, 2366, 533, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 1892, 281, 3297, 1977, 432, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 871, 326, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 769, 751, 497, 275, 247, 2954, 275, 2914, 273, 731, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 24505, 752, 3780, 2296, 16, 394, 3106, 15, 1244, 309, 452, 247, 5471, 326, 344, 2183, 253, 6068, 326, 359, 1849, 644, 1469, 562, 285, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 971, 667, 273, 731, 281, 871, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 2028, 779, 281, 417, 2028, 731, 2712, 10542, 285, 604, 344, 556, 13, 534, 309, 871, 344, 556, 13, 849, 281, 1818, 352, 594, 326, 352, 4453, 751, 359, 1472, 417, 5015, 281, 1016, 643, 10542, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1871, 2581, 352, 816, 320, 479, 285, 779, 323, 1024, 281, 923, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 326, 359, 1097, 971, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 14562, 285, 11267, 2108, 281, 564, 1475, 789, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my co-worker have been working with each other for 5 months before he was promoted to a higher position in the same building. Ever since his promotion he has been talking/messaging me all the time and asking to see me. I gave in and went out with the guy. We see each other at work all the time but the more we go out I feel that I need to talk to him less as work because I don't want people to get suspicious. We haven't done anything sexual together and we haven't talked about how it's going to be at work if we were to actually be in a relationship or if worse comes to worse, break up. I don't know how to bring it up to him and when to do it. Also, there are so many work junctions coming up and of course me and him will be there together but it's going to be hard to stay away from each other. I know that he's going to act like were in a relationship in front of them because I don't think he cares what anyone says/thinks. And I have a feeling that he told the guys that we've been going out and I really don't want any of them to know. How can I tell him to not tell them anything anymore and if he has, which I know he has, how to change it so that it looks like we're not talking to each other anymore. I'd rather it just be me and him for now to see if this is something that we both want and I don't want drama and rumours to go around work. TL;DR:

co-worker keeps messaging me and asking to see each other, I don't know when/if/how to tell him to stop as work will be affected by it. Advice needed.<|endoftext|>

[ 820, 14, 29960, 11359, 29908, 479, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 16, 338, 16, 5430, 281, 2028, 779, 281, 3523, 347, 789, 588, 320, 5876, 407, 352, 15, 13536, 547, 3058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Been seeing co-worker for 1.5 years, not sure how to bring it up without scaring him away, tips on when to ask him to stop contacting me.<|endoftext|>

[ 2325, 257, 6523, 820, 14, 29960, 323, 337, 15, 22, 1107, 13, 417, 2119, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 1293, 660, 1875, 779, 1977, 13, 12192, 327, 672, 281, 1642, 779, 281, 3523, 30555, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my co-worker have been working with each other for 5 months before he was promoted to a higher position in the same building. Ever since his promotion he has been talking/messaging me all the time and asking to see me. I gave in and went out with the guy. We see each other at work all the time but the more we go out I feel that I need to talk to him less as work because I don't want people to get suspicious. We haven't done anything sexual together and we haven't talked about how it's going to be at work if we were to actually be in a relationship or if worse comes to worse, break up. I don't know how to bring it up to him and when to do it. Also, there are so many work junctions coming up and of course me and him will be there together but it's going to be hard to stay away from each other. I know that he's going to act like were in a relationship in front of them because I don't think he cares what anyone says/thinks. And I have a feeling that he told the guys that we've been going out and I really don't want any of them to know. How can I tell him to not tell them anything anymore and if he has, which I know he has, how to change it so that it looks like we're not talking to each other anymore. I'd rather it just be me and him for now to see if this is something that we both want and I don't want drama and rumours to go around work. TL;DR: co-worker keeps messaging me and asking to see each other, I don't know when/if/how to tell him to stop as work will be affected by it. Advice needed.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 820, 14, 29960, 452, 644, 2444, 342, 1016, 643, 323, 608, 2607, 1078, 344, 369, 15127, 281, 247, 2169, 1899, 275, 253, 1072, 3652, 15, 18901, 1580, 521, 14892, 344, 556, 644, 5015, 16, 46631, 2977, 479, 512, 253, 673, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 479, 15, 309, 3534, 275, 285, 2427, 562, 342, 253, 5599, 15, 844, 923, 1016, 643, 387, 789, 512, 253, 673, 533, 253, 625, 359, 564, 562, 309, 1928, 326, 309, 878, 281, 2312, 281, 779, 1679, 347, 789, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 952, 281, 755, 20634, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 5615, 2366, 285, 359, 6468, 626, 10062, 670, 849, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 387, 789, 604, 359, 497, 281, 2686, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 604, 7197, 3249, 281, 7197, 13, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 779, 285, 672, 281, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 627, 403, 594, 1142, 789, 33138, 3551, 598, 285, 273, 2282, 479, 285, 779, 588, 320, 627, 2366, 533, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 1892, 281, 3297, 1977, 432, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 871, 326, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 769, 751, 497, 275, 247, 2954, 275, 2914, 273, 731, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 24505, 752, 3780, 2296, 16, 394, 3106, 15, 1244, 309, 452, 247, 5471, 326, 344, 2183, 253, 6068, 326, 359, 1849, 644, 1469, 562, 285, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 971, 667, 273, 731, 281, 871, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 2028, 779, 281, 417, 2028, 731, 2712, 10542, 285, 604, 344, 556, 13, 534, 309, 871, 344, 556, 13, 849, 281, 1818, 352, 594, 326, 352, 4453, 751, 359, 1472, 417, 5015, 281, 1016, 643, 10542, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1871, 2581, 352, 816, 320, 479, 285, 779, 323, 1024, 281, 923, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 326, 359, 1097, 971, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 14562, 285, 11267, 2108, 281, 564, 1475, 789, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 820, 14, 29960, 11359, 29908, 479, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 16, 338, 16, 5430, 281, 2028, 779, 281, 3523, 347, 789, 588, 320, 5876, 407, 352, 15, 13536, 547, 3058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

390

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my co-worker have been working with each other for 5 months before he was promoted to a higher position in the same building. Ever since his promotion he has been talking/messaging me all the time and asking to see me. I gave in and went out with the guy. We see each other at work all the time but the more we go out I feel that I need to talk to him less as work because I don't want people to get suspicious. We haven't done anything sexual together and we haven't talked about how it's going to be at work if we were to actually be in a relationship or if worse comes to worse, break up. I don't know how to bring it up to him and when to do it. Also, there are so many work junctions coming up and of course me and him will be there together but it's going to be hard to stay away from each other. I know that he's going to act like were in a relationship in front of them because I don't think he cares what anyone says/thinks. And I have a feeling that he told the guys that we've been going out and I really don't want any of them to know. How can I tell him to not tell them anything anymore and if he has, which I know he has, how to change it so that it looks like we're not talking to each other anymore. I'd rather it just be me and him for now to see if this is something that we both want and I don't want drama and rumours to go around work. TL;DR: Been seeing co-worker for 1.5 years, not sure how to bring it up without scaring him away, tips on when to ask him to stop contacting me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 820, 14, 29960, 452, 644, 2444, 342, 1016, 643, 323, 608, 2607, 1078, 344, 369, 15127, 281, 247, 2169, 1899, 275, 253, 1072, 3652, 15, 18901, 1580, 521, 14892, 344, 556, 644, 5015, 16, 46631, 2977, 479, 512, 253, 673, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 479, 15, 309, 3534, 275, 285, 2427, 562, 342, 253, 5599, 15, 844, 923, 1016, 643, 387, 789, 512, 253, 673, 533, 253, 625, 359, 564, 562, 309, 1928, 326, 309, 878, 281, 2312, 281, 779, 1679, 347, 789, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 952, 281, 755, 20634, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 5615, 2366, 285, 359, 6468, 626, 10062, 670, 849, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 387, 789, 604, 359, 497, 281, 2686, 320, 275, 247, 2954, 390, 604, 7197, 3249, 281, 7197, 13, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 779, 285, 672, 281, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 627, 403, 594, 1142, 789, 33138, 3551, 598, 285, 273, 2282, 479, 285, 779, 588, 320, 627, 2366, 533, 352, 434, 1469, 281, 320, 1892, 281, 3297, 1977, 432, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 871, 326, 344, 434, 1469, 281, 769, 751, 497, 275, 247, 2954, 275, 2914, 273, 731, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 344, 24505, 752, 3780, 2296, 16, 394, 3106, 15, 1244, 309, 452, 247, 5471, 326, 344, 2183, 253, 6068, 326, 359, 1849, 644, 1469, 562, 285, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 971, 667, 273, 731, 281, 871, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 2028, 779, 281, 417, 2028, 731, 2712, 10542, 285, 604, 344, 556, 13, 534, 309, 871, 344, 556, 13, 849, 281, 1818, 352, 594, 326, 352, 4453, 751, 359, 1472, 417, 5015, 281, 1016, 643, 10542, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1871, 2581, 352, 816, 320, 479, 285, 779, 323, 1024, 281, 923, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 326, 359, 1097, 971, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 14562, 285, 11267, 2108, 281, 564, 1475, 789, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2325, 257, 6523, 820, 14, 29960, 323, 337, 15, 22, 1107, 13, 417, 2119, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 1293, 660, 1875, 779, 1977, 13, 12192, 327, 672, 281, 1642, 779, 281, 3523, 30555, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

387

350

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 820, 14, 29960, 11359, 29908, 479, 285, 7004, 281, 923, 1016, 643, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 16, 338, 16, 5430, 281, 2028, 779, 281, 3523, 347, 789, 588, 320, 5876, 407, 352, 15, 13536, 547, 3058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2325, 257, 6523, 820, 14, 29960, 323, 337, 15, 22, 1107, 13, 417, 2119, 849, 281, 3324, 352, 598, 1293, 660, 1875, 779, 1977, 13, 12192, 327, 672, 281, 1642, 779, 281, 3523, 30555, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hey there Reddit, Here's the deal. I've been living in an apartment for a about a year now. For the last 2 months or so, my upstairs neighbours (who I've never met) have had a dog living with them who occasionally goes outside onto their balcony (directly above mine) and pees. Our balcony floors are wooden slats, so some of it drips though onto mine. I'm not sure if it happens all the time because I work full time, but I think it might because sometimes I come home and their are very small puddles of liquid (which I'd presumed to be water) on my balcony, even if it hasn't rained. This being the case I think that they may have trained the dog to pee outside without really considering (or caring) that they've essentially trained their dog to pee on me. Obviously this is not the greatest of situations, and I want to send them a note or contact them in some way so that it can stop. The only problem is that I don't really know how to approach it. I want to be firm and be clear that it's unacceptable, but also not come off as a busy body or too aggressive given that I've never even spoken to them before. However, there is one slight problem. My housemates and I have cats. They are both fully house trained (they only ever do their business in their litter) and are never allowed outside onto the balcony without one of us present. Our building doesn't allow pets, but our actual landlord said he didn't mind us getting some before we got the cats. I just want to be careful that I don't piss off the people living upstairs so that they don't rat us out for our cats and leave us so we have to get rid of them or move. I'm not even sure the people living upstair know we have cats since the cats are rarely outside, and we rarely see our neighbours outside either.

Neighbours have a dog that pees on my balcony, I don't know how to approach it, and I don't know how to get all the people living upstairs to see that it's unacceptable.

My upstairs neighbours have a dog that pees on me and the balcony, and I don't know how to approach it. I'd like to go to the landlord and ask him to outright say that this is unacceptable, but I don't want to piss off the people that live upstairs, which might be the reason why I haven't had anything done with them yet.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 627, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 3811, 275, 271, 10230, 323, 247, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 1198, 253, 1390, 374, 2607, 390, 594, 13, 619, 24311, 31359, 313, 10002, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 10, 452, 574, 247, 4370, 3811, 342, 731, 665, 13949, 4566, 3345, 4830, 616, 36009, 313, 18711, 314, 1840, 7477, 10, 285, 759, 265, 15, 3824, 36009, 23467, 403, 14872, 1499, 1832, 13, 594, 690, 273, 352, 2642, 793, 2167, 4830, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 352, 6569, 512, 253, 673, 984, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 352, 1537, 984, 4536, 309, 1705, 1728, 285, 616, 403, 1077, 1355, 268, 7937, 868, 273, 5558, 313, 4609, 309, 1871, 24874, 281, 320, 1824, 10, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 1014, 604, 352, 11210, 626, 1218, 967, 15, 831, 1146, 253, 1083, 309, 1158, 326, 597, 778, 452, 10166, 253, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 3345, 1293, 1663, 7296, 313, 263, 23374, 10, 326, 597, 1849, 9093, 10166, 616, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 327, 479, 15, 187, 187, 32102, 436, 310, 417, 253, 6459, 273, 9534, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 5007, 731, 247, 3877, 390, 3057, 731, 275, 690, 1039, 594, 326, 352, 476, 3523, 15, 380, 760, 1895, 310, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 5882, 285, 320, 2590, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 13, 533, 671, 417, 1705, 745, 347, 247, 10000, 2133, 390, 1512, 13847, 1677, 326, 309, 1849, 1620, 1014, 13452, 281, 731, 1078, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 627, 310, 581, 4512, 1895, 15, 2752, 2419, 13239, 285, 309, 452, 16581, 15, 1583, 403, 1097, 4751, 2419, 10166, 313, 9328, 760, 2455, 513, 616, 2136, 275, 616, 30653, 10, 285, 403, 1620, 4136, 3345, 4830, 253, 36009, 1293, 581, 273, 441, 1246, 15, 3824, 3652, 2506, 626, 1581, 29286, 13, 533, 776, 4588, 32084, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 2564, 441, 2970, 690, 1078, 359, 1694, 253, 16581, 15, 309, 816, 971, 281, 320, 10182, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 594, 326, 597, 1053, 626, 2839, 441, 562, 323, 776, 16581, 285, 3553, 441, 594, 359, 452, 281, 755, 8314, 273, 731, 390, 2118, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 1014, 2119, 253, 952, 3811, 598, 296, 1094, 871, 359, 452, 16581, 1580, 253, 16581, 403, 11766, 3345, 13, 285, 359, 11766, 923, 776, 31359, 3345, 2057, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there Reddit, Here's the deal. I've been living in an apartment for a about a year now. For the last 2 months or so, my upstairs neighbours (who I've never met) have had a dog living with them who occasionally goes outside onto their balcony (directly above mine) and pees. Our balcony floors are wooden slats, so some of it drips though onto mine. I'm not sure if it happens all the time because I work full time, but I think it might because sometimes I come home and their are very small puddles of liquid (which I'd presumed to be water) on my balcony, even if it hasn't rained. This being the case I think that they may have trained the dog to pee outside without really considering (or caring) that they've essentially trained their dog to pee on me. Obviously this is not the greatest of situations, and I want to send them a note or contact them in some way so that it can stop. The only problem is that I don't really know how to approach it. I want to be firm and be clear that it's unacceptable, but also not come off as a busy body or too aggressive given that I've never even spoken to them before. However, there is one slight problem. My housemates and I have cats. They are both fully house trained (they only ever do their business in their litter) and are never allowed outside onto the balcony without one of us present. Our building doesn't allow pets, but our actual landlord said he didn't mind us getting some before we got the cats. I just want to be careful that I don't piss off the people living upstairs so that they don't rat us out for our cats and leave us so we have to get rid of them or move. I'm not even sure the people living upstair know we have cats since the cats are rarely outside, and we rarely see our neighbours outside either. TL;DR:

Neighbours have a dog that pees on my balcony, I don't know how to approach it, and I don't know how to get all the people living upstairs to see that it's unacceptable.<|endoftext|>

[ 3532, 47295, 2108, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 755, 512, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 281, 923, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My upstairs neighbours have a dog that pees on me and the balcony, and I don't know how to approach it. I'd like to go to the landlord and ask him to outright say that this is unacceptable, but I don't want to piss off the people that live upstairs, which might be the reason why I haven't had anything done with them yet.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 24311, 31359, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 479, 285, 253, 36009, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 564, 281, 253, 32084, 285, 1642, 779, 281, 30227, 1333, 326, 436, 310, 28536, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 326, 3153, 24311, 13, 534, 1537, 320, 253, 1921, 2139, 309, 6468, 626, 574, 2712, 2218, 342, 731, 2568, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there Reddit, Here's the deal. I've been living in an apartment for a about a year now. For the last 2 months or so, my upstairs neighbours (who I've never met) have had a dog living with them who occasionally goes outside onto their balcony (directly above mine) and pees. Our balcony floors are wooden slats, so some of it drips though onto mine. I'm not sure if it happens all the time because I work full time, but I think it might because sometimes I come home and their are very small puddles of liquid (which I'd presumed to be water) on my balcony, even if it hasn't rained. This being the case I think that they may have trained the dog to pee outside without really considering (or caring) that they've essentially trained their dog to pee on me. Obviously this is not the greatest of situations, and I want to send them a note or contact them in some way so that it can stop. The only problem is that I don't really know how to approach it. I want to be firm and be clear that it's unacceptable, but also not come off as a busy body or too aggressive given that I've never even spoken to them before. However, there is one slight problem. My housemates and I have cats. They are both fully house trained (they only ever do their business in their litter) and are never allowed outside onto the balcony without one of us present. Our building doesn't allow pets, but our actual landlord said he didn't mind us getting some before we got the cats. I just want to be careful that I don't piss off the people living upstairs so that they don't rat us out for our cats and leave us so we have to get rid of them or move. I'm not even sure the people living upstair know we have cats since the cats are rarely outside, and we rarely see our neighbours outside either. TL;DR: Neighbours have a dog that pees on my balcony, I don't know how to approach it, and I don't know how to get all the people living upstairs to see that it's unacceptable.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 627, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 3811, 275, 271, 10230, 323, 247, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 1198, 253, 1390, 374, 2607, 390, 594, 13, 619, 24311, 31359, 313, 10002, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 10, 452, 574, 247, 4370, 3811, 342, 731, 665, 13949, 4566, 3345, 4830, 616, 36009, 313, 18711, 314, 1840, 7477, 10, 285, 759, 265, 15, 3824, 36009, 23467, 403, 14872, 1499, 1832, 13, 594, 690, 273, 352, 2642, 793, 2167, 4830, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 352, 6569, 512, 253, 673, 984, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 352, 1537, 984, 4536, 309, 1705, 1728, 285, 616, 403, 1077, 1355, 268, 7937, 868, 273, 5558, 313, 4609, 309, 1871, 24874, 281, 320, 1824, 10, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 1014, 604, 352, 11210, 626, 1218, 967, 15, 831, 1146, 253, 1083, 309, 1158, 326, 597, 778, 452, 10166, 253, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 3345, 1293, 1663, 7296, 313, 263, 23374, 10, 326, 597, 1849, 9093, 10166, 616, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 327, 479, 15, 187, 187, 32102, 436, 310, 417, 253, 6459, 273, 9534, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 5007, 731, 247, 3877, 390, 3057, 731, 275, 690, 1039, 594, 326, 352, 476, 3523, 15, 380, 760, 1895, 310, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 5882, 285, 320, 2590, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 13, 533, 671, 417, 1705, 745, 347, 247, 10000, 2133, 390, 1512, 13847, 1677, 326, 309, 1849, 1620, 1014, 13452, 281, 731, 1078, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 627, 310, 581, 4512, 1895, 15, 2752, 2419, 13239, 285, 309, 452, 16581, 15, 1583, 403, 1097, 4751, 2419, 10166, 313, 9328, 760, 2455, 513, 616, 2136, 275, 616, 30653, 10, 285, 403, 1620, 4136, 3345, 4830, 253, 36009, 1293, 581, 273, 441, 1246, 15, 3824, 3652, 2506, 626, 1581, 29286, 13, 533, 776, 4588, 32084, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 2564, 441, 2970, 690, 1078, 359, 1694, 253, 16581, 15, 309, 816, 971, 281, 320, 10182, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 594, 326, 597, 1053, 626, 2839, 441, 562, 323, 776, 16581, 285, 3553, 441, 594, 359, 452, 281, 755, 8314, 273, 731, 390, 2118, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 1014, 2119, 253, 952, 3811, 598, 296, 1094, 871, 359, 452, 16581, 1580, 253, 16581, 403, 11766, 3345, 13, 285, 359, 11766, 923, 776, 31359, 3345, 2057, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 3532, 47295, 2108, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 755, 512, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 281, 923, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

475

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey there Reddit, Here's the deal. I've been living in an apartment for a about a year now. For the last 2 months or so, my upstairs neighbours (who I've never met) have had a dog living with them who occasionally goes outside onto their balcony (directly above mine) and pees. Our balcony floors are wooden slats, so some of it drips though onto mine. I'm not sure if it happens all the time because I work full time, but I think it might because sometimes I come home and their are very small puddles of liquid (which I'd presumed to be water) on my balcony, even if it hasn't rained. This being the case I think that they may have trained the dog to pee outside without really considering (or caring) that they've essentially trained their dog to pee on me. Obviously this is not the greatest of situations, and I want to send them a note or contact them in some way so that it can stop. The only problem is that I don't really know how to approach it. I want to be firm and be clear that it's unacceptable, but also not come off as a busy body or too aggressive given that I've never even spoken to them before. However, there is one slight problem. My housemates and I have cats. They are both fully house trained (they only ever do their business in their litter) and are never allowed outside onto the balcony without one of us present. Our building doesn't allow pets, but our actual landlord said he didn't mind us getting some before we got the cats. I just want to be careful that I don't piss off the people living upstairs so that they don't rat us out for our cats and leave us so we have to get rid of them or move. I'm not even sure the people living upstair know we have cats since the cats are rarely outside, and we rarely see our neighbours outside either. TL;DR: My upstairs neighbours have a dog that pees on me and the balcony, and I don't know how to approach it. I'd like to go to the landlord and ask him to outright say that this is unacceptable, but I don't want to piss off the people that live upstairs, which might be the reason why I haven't had anything done with them yet.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 627, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 4943, 434, 253, 2968, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 3811, 275, 271, 10230, 323, 247, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 1198, 253, 1390, 374, 2607, 390, 594, 13, 619, 24311, 31359, 313, 10002, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 10, 452, 574, 247, 4370, 3811, 342, 731, 665, 13949, 4566, 3345, 4830, 616, 36009, 313, 18711, 314, 1840, 7477, 10, 285, 759, 265, 15, 3824, 36009, 23467, 403, 14872, 1499, 1832, 13, 594, 690, 273, 352, 2642, 793, 2167, 4830, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 352, 6569, 512, 253, 673, 984, 309, 789, 2120, 673, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 352, 1537, 984, 4536, 309, 1705, 1728, 285, 616, 403, 1077, 1355, 268, 7937, 868, 273, 5558, 313, 4609, 309, 1871, 24874, 281, 320, 1824, 10, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 1014, 604, 352, 11210, 626, 1218, 967, 15, 831, 1146, 253, 1083, 309, 1158, 326, 597, 778, 452, 10166, 253, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 3345, 1293, 1663, 7296, 313, 263, 23374, 10, 326, 597, 1849, 9093, 10166, 616, 4370, 281, 759, 70, 327, 479, 15, 187, 187, 32102, 436, 310, 417, 253, 6459, 273, 9534, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 5007, 731, 247, 3877, 390, 3057, 731, 275, 690, 1039, 594, 326, 352, 476, 3523, 15, 380, 760, 1895, 310, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 5882, 285, 320, 2590, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 13, 533, 671, 417, 1705, 745, 347, 247, 10000, 2133, 390, 1512, 13847, 1677, 326, 309, 1849, 1620, 1014, 13452, 281, 731, 1078, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 627, 310, 581, 4512, 1895, 15, 2752, 2419, 13239, 285, 309, 452, 16581, 15, 1583, 403, 1097, 4751, 2419, 10166, 313, 9328, 760, 2455, 513, 616, 2136, 275, 616, 30653, 10, 285, 403, 1620, 4136, 3345, 4830, 253, 36009, 1293, 581, 273, 441, 1246, 15, 3824, 3652, 2506, 626, 1581, 29286, 13, 533, 776, 4588, 32084, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 2564, 441, 2970, 690, 1078, 359, 1694, 253, 16581, 15, 309, 816, 971, 281, 320, 10182, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 594, 326, 597, 1053, 626, 2839, 441, 562, 323, 776, 16581, 285, 3553, 441, 594, 359, 452, 281, 755, 8314, 273, 731, 390, 2118, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 1014, 2119, 253, 952, 3811, 598, 296, 1094, 871, 359, 452, 16581, 1580, 253, 16581, 403, 11766, 3345, 13, 285, 359, 11766, 923, 776, 31359, 3345, 2057, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 24311, 31359, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 479, 285, 253, 36009, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 564, 281, 253, 32084, 285, 1642, 779, 281, 30227, 1333, 326, 436, 310, 28536, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 326, 3153, 24311, 13, 534, 1537, 320, 253, 1921, 2139, 309, 6468, 626, 574, 2712, 2218, 342, 731, 2568, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

507

432

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 3532, 47295, 2108, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 619, 36009, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 755, 512, 253, 952, 3811, 24311, 281, 923, 326, 352, 434, 28536, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 24311, 31359, 452, 247, 4370, 326, 759, 265, 327, 479, 285, 253, 36009, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2746, 352, 15, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 564, 281, 253, 32084, 285, 1642, 779, 281, 30227, 1333, 326, 436, 310, 28536, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 24329, 745, 253, 952, 326, 3153, 24311, 13, 534, 1537, 320, 253, 1921, 2139, 309, 6468, 626, 574, 2712, 2218, 342, 731, 2568, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My girlfriend (dating almost an year now) usually needs to be right, and even when she's not, she'd say or do something that would make me feel bad and emasculated even if I haven't done anything to cause it. For insignificant things like not knowing what the trick to turning on her TV is (the buttons don't work properly), she'd utter one of those condescending 'Oh, honey...'. If I refuse to have a drink for example, I get long and exaggerated rolling of the eyes. I keep on hearing about how my way of dealing with things is wrong and I should handle them differently. She's always trying to put me down, because she wants to feel better about herself, which I realized when we had a conversation about where our lives are at. On top of it all, she has depressions, which usually prevents me from being open about the way I feel, because I don't want to cause her to go into such an episode. All these things she does are taking their toll on me, which makes me self-cautious, decreases my libido, even getting hard around her is becoming a problem, and makes me over-all unhappy.

Girlfriend stresses me out over petty things which make me feel emasculated and depressed, which makes me self-cautious and unhappy. Need advice on how to get my libido back, and how to improve our relationship

My girlfriend keeps emasculating me and it's making me unhappy, I'd like some advice on how to deal with it and make myself more confident and independent.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 313, 44275, 2761, 271, 807, 1024, 10, 3798, 3198, 281, 320, 987, 13, 285, 1014, 672, 703, 434, 417, 13, 703, 1871, 1333, 390, 513, 1633, 326, 651, 1056, 479, 1928, 3076, 285, 802, 284, 32001, 1014, 604, 309, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 281, 2847, 352, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 34584, 1841, 751, 417, 8958, 752, 253, 10480, 281, 8577, 327, 617, 5579, 310, 313, 783, 16020, 1053, 626, 789, 6283, 582, 703, 1871, 13894, 581, 273, 1110, 345, 12898, 1946, 686, 4013, 13, 14795, 1051, 5983, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 16410, 281, 452, 247, 5484, 323, 1650, 13, 309, 755, 1048, 285, 36074, 14572, 273, 253, 2927, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1978, 327, 4854, 670, 849, 619, 1039, 273, 10620, 342, 1841, 310, 3430, 285, 309, 943, 6016, 731, 13359, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 434, 1900, 2820, 281, 1691, 479, 1066, 13, 984, 703, 5605, 281, 1928, 1805, 670, 5972, 13, 534, 309, 8156, 672, 359, 574, 247, 7827, 670, 835, 776, 4852, 403, 387, 15, 1623, 1755, 273, 352, 512, 13, 703, 556, 1305, 37761, 13, 534, 3798, 16897, 479, 432, 1146, 1527, 670, 253, 1039, 309, 1928, 13, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2847, 617, 281, 564, 715, 824, 271, 9037, 15, 2490, 187, 3074, 841, 1841, 703, 1057, 403, 3192, 616, 17935, 327, 479, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 13, 12075, 619, 5135, 7112, 13, 1014, 2970, 1892, 1475, 617, 310, 7552, 247, 1895, 13, 285, 2789, 479, 689, 14, 455, 26442, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (dating almost an year now) usually needs to be right, and even when she's not, she'd say or do something that would make me feel bad and emasculated even if I haven't done anything to cause it. For insignificant things like not knowing what the trick to turning on her TV is (the buttons don't work properly), she'd utter one of those condescending 'Oh, honey...'. If I refuse to have a drink for example, I get long and exaggerated rolling of the eyes. I keep on hearing about how my way of dealing with things is wrong and I should handle them differently. She's always trying to put me down, because she wants to feel better about herself, which I realized when we had a conversation about where our lives are at. On top of it all, she has depressions, which usually prevents me from being open about the way I feel, because I don't want to cause her to go into such an episode. All these things she does are taking their toll on me, which makes me self-cautious, decreases my libido, even getting hard around her is becoming a problem, and makes me over-all unhappy. TL;DR:

Girlfriend stresses me out over petty things which make me feel emasculated and depressed, which makes me self-cautious and unhappy. Need advice on how to get my libido back, and how to improve our relationship<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 24631, 479, 562, 689, 38817, 1841, 534, 1056, 479, 1928, 802, 284, 32001, 285, 23201, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 285, 26442, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 755, 619, 5135, 7112, 896, 13, 285, 849, 281, 3157, 776, 2954, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My girlfriend keeps emasculating me and it's making me unhappy, I'd like some advice on how to deal with it and make myself more confident and independent.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 19609, 11359, 802, 284, 42144, 479, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 26442, 13, 309, 1871, 751, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 352, 285, 1056, 4266, 625, 13224, 285, 3907, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (dating almost an year now) usually needs to be right, and even when she's not, she'd say or do something that would make me feel bad and emasculated even if I haven't done anything to cause it. For insignificant things like not knowing what the trick to turning on her TV is (the buttons don't work properly), she'd utter one of those condescending 'Oh, honey...'. If I refuse to have a drink for example, I get long and exaggerated rolling of the eyes. I keep on hearing about how my way of dealing with things is wrong and I should handle them differently. She's always trying to put me down, because she wants to feel better about herself, which I realized when we had a conversation about where our lives are at. On top of it all, she has depressions, which usually prevents me from being open about the way I feel, because I don't want to cause her to go into such an episode. All these things she does are taking their toll on me, which makes me self-cautious, decreases my libido, even getting hard around her is becoming a problem, and makes me over-all unhappy. TL;DR: Girlfriend stresses me out over petty things which make me feel emasculated and depressed, which makes me self-cautious and unhappy. Need advice on how to get my libido back, and how to improve our relationship<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 313, 44275, 2761, 271, 807, 1024, 10, 3798, 3198, 281, 320, 987, 13, 285, 1014, 672, 703, 434, 417, 13, 703, 1871, 1333, 390, 513, 1633, 326, 651, 1056, 479, 1928, 3076, 285, 802, 284, 32001, 1014, 604, 309, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 281, 2847, 352, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 34584, 1841, 751, 417, 8958, 752, 253, 10480, 281, 8577, 327, 617, 5579, 310, 313, 783, 16020, 1053, 626, 789, 6283, 582, 703, 1871, 13894, 581, 273, 1110, 345, 12898, 1946, 686, 4013, 13, 14795, 1051, 5983, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 16410, 281, 452, 247, 5484, 323, 1650, 13, 309, 755, 1048, 285, 36074, 14572, 273, 253, 2927, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1978, 327, 4854, 670, 849, 619, 1039, 273, 10620, 342, 1841, 310, 3430, 285, 309, 943, 6016, 731, 13359, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 434, 1900, 2820, 281, 1691, 479, 1066, 13, 984, 703, 5605, 281, 1928, 1805, 670, 5972, 13, 534, 309, 8156, 672, 359, 574, 247, 7827, 670, 835, 776, 4852, 403, 387, 15, 1623, 1755, 273, 352, 512, 13, 703, 556, 1305, 37761, 13, 534, 3798, 16897, 479, 432, 1146, 1527, 670, 253, 1039, 309, 1928, 13, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2847, 617, 281, 564, 715, 824, 271, 9037, 15, 2490, 187, 3074, 841, 1841, 703, 1057, 403, 3192, 616, 17935, 327, 479, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 13, 12075, 619, 5135, 7112, 13, 1014, 2970, 1892, 1475, 617, 310, 7552, 247, 1895, 13, 285, 2789, 479, 689, 14, 455, 26442, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 24631, 479, 562, 689, 38817, 1841, 534, 1056, 479, 1928, 802, 284, 32001, 285, 23201, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 285, 26442, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 755, 619, 5135, 7112, 896, 13, 285, 849, 281, 3157, 776, 2954, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

324

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend (dating almost an year now) usually needs to be right, and even when she's not, she'd say or do something that would make me feel bad and emasculated even if I haven't done anything to cause it. For insignificant things like not knowing what the trick to turning on her TV is (the buttons don't work properly), she'd utter one of those condescending 'Oh, honey...'. If I refuse to have a drink for example, I get long and exaggerated rolling of the eyes. I keep on hearing about how my way of dealing with things is wrong and I should handle them differently. She's always trying to put me down, because she wants to feel better about herself, which I realized when we had a conversation about where our lives are at. On top of it all, she has depressions, which usually prevents me from being open about the way I feel, because I don't want to cause her to go into such an episode. All these things she does are taking their toll on me, which makes me self-cautious, decreases my libido, even getting hard around her is becoming a problem, and makes me over-all unhappy. TL;DR: My girlfriend keeps emasculating me and it's making me unhappy, I'd like some advice on how to deal with it and make myself more confident and independent.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 313, 44275, 2761, 271, 807, 1024, 10, 3798, 3198, 281, 320, 987, 13, 285, 1014, 672, 703, 434, 417, 13, 703, 1871, 1333, 390, 513, 1633, 326, 651, 1056, 479, 1928, 3076, 285, 802, 284, 32001, 1014, 604, 309, 6468, 626, 2218, 2712, 281, 2847, 352, 15, 187, 187, 2214, 34584, 1841, 751, 417, 8958, 752, 253, 10480, 281, 8577, 327, 617, 5579, 310, 313, 783, 16020, 1053, 626, 789, 6283, 582, 703, 1871, 13894, 581, 273, 1110, 345, 12898, 1946, 686, 4013, 13, 14795, 1051, 5983, 2490, 187, 2042, 309, 16410, 281, 452, 247, 5484, 323, 1650, 13, 309, 755, 1048, 285, 36074, 14572, 273, 253, 2927, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1978, 327, 4854, 670, 849, 619, 1039, 273, 10620, 342, 1841, 310, 3430, 285, 309, 943, 6016, 731, 13359, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 434, 1900, 2820, 281, 1691, 479, 1066, 13, 984, 703, 5605, 281, 1928, 1805, 670, 5972, 13, 534, 309, 8156, 672, 359, 574, 247, 7827, 670, 835, 776, 4852, 403, 387, 15, 1623, 1755, 273, 352, 512, 13, 703, 556, 1305, 37761, 13, 534, 3798, 16897, 479, 432, 1146, 1527, 670, 253, 1039, 309, 1928, 13, 984, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 2847, 617, 281, 564, 715, 824, 271, 9037, 15, 2490, 187, 3074, 841, 1841, 703, 1057, 403, 3192, 616, 17935, 327, 479, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 13, 12075, 619, 5135, 7112, 13, 1014, 2970, 1892, 1475, 617, 310, 7552, 247, 1895, 13, 285, 2789, 479, 689, 14, 455, 26442, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 11359, 802, 284, 42144, 479, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 26442, 13, 309, 1871, 751, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 352, 285, 1056, 4266, 625, 13224, 285, 3907, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

311

277

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 24631, 479, 562, 689, 38817, 1841, 534, 1056, 479, 1928, 802, 284, 32001, 285, 23201, 13, 534, 2789, 479, 1881, 14, 68, 1920, 784, 285, 26442, 15, 20389, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 755, 619, 5135, 7112, 896, 13, 285, 849, 281, 3157, 776, 2954, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 19609, 11359, 802, 284, 42144, 479, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 26442, 13, 309, 1871, 751, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 352, 285, 1056, 4266, 625, 13224, 285, 3907, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So I’ve liked this guy for about a year, we both admitted to liking one another late last year. The thing is that he’s an avid traveller and wanted to do exchange before finishing uni. So for half a year starting this semester he will be overseas. Earlier this year we decided against starting a relationship – never been a fan of long distance relationships plus had we started seeing each other we would only be six months into the relationship before he left. So for the better half of this year we have just been keeping in touch and talking throughout. I’ve been in one relationship previously but never felt such a strong emotional connection with anyone - I guess that’s why I’ve kept this window open for this long. We have lots of common interests, similar career aspirations. The problem started about two months ago. I got tired of waiting to be with him and told him that I wanted out. I thought he’d try to reassure me but instead two weeks later he came back to me saying he wanted out too. I haven’t heard from him in about a month. I still really like him but am scared to recontact him and thought he needed time to cool off. He’s leaving in about two weeks and I didn’t really see the point of creating an issue now. I have no idea what to do – not sure whether to leave things till he gets back from exchange and then pursue things again.

I gave up my chance to be with the guy I liked, I’m scared of not being able to see him again, and I want to leave things until he gets back.

I’m scared to try to pursue things with a guy I still like.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 457, 306, 10490, 436, 5599, 323, 670, 247, 807, 13, 359, 1097, 8176, 281, 35908, 581, 1529, 3563, 1390, 807, 15, 380, 2181, 310, 326, 344, 457, 84, 271, 46952, 11074, 7707, 285, 3078, 281, 513, 6431, 1078, 19083, 42015, 15, 1893, 323, 2716, 247, 807, 4983, 436, 33644, 344, 588, 320, 21344, 15, 36072, 436, 807, 359, 4425, 1411, 4983, 247, 2954, 1108, 1620, 644, 247, 7989, 273, 1048, 4181, 7688, 5043, 574, 359, 3053, 6523, 1016, 643, 359, 651, 760, 320, 2800, 2607, 715, 253, 2954, 1078, 344, 1669, 15, 1893, 323, 253, 1805, 2716, 273, 436, 807, 359, 452, 816, 644, 7562, 275, 5181, 285, 5015, 4768, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 457, 306, 644, 275, 581, 2954, 3786, 533, 1620, 3543, 824, 247, 2266, 8991, 4602, 342, 3780, 428, 309, 5476, 326, 457, 84, 2139, 309, 457, 306, 4934, 436, 3497, 1527, 323, 436, 1048, 15, 844, 452, 8783, 273, 1846, 6284, 13, 2074, 5249, 40659, 15, 380, 1895, 3053, 670, 767, 2607, 3622, 15, 309, 1694, 11870, 273, 6179, 281, 320, 342, 779, 285, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 3078, 562, 15, 309, 1869, 344, 457, 69, 1611, 281, 17279, 459, 479, 533, 3185, 767, 3618, 1996, 344, 2210, 896, 281, 479, 3981, 344, 3078, 562, 1512, 15, 309, 6468, 457, 85, 3735, 432, 779, 275, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 1335, 1663, 751, 779, 533, 717, 16060, 281, 294, 22045, 779, 285, 1869, 344, 3058, 673, 281, 4484, 745, 15, 754, 457, 84, 6108, 275, 670, 767, 3618, 285, 309, 1904, 457, 85, 1663, 923, 253, 1127, 273, 6153, 271, 2523, 1024, 15, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1108, 417, 2119, 1880, 281, 3553, 1841, 7357, 344, 4850, 896, 432, 6431, 285, 840, 15142, 1841, 969, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I’ve liked this guy for about a year, we both admitted to liking one another late last year. The thing is that he’s an avid traveller and wanted to do exchange before finishing uni. So for half a year starting this semester he will be overseas. Earlier this year we decided against starting a relationship – never been a fan of long distance relationships plus had we started seeing each other we would only be six months into the relationship before he left. So for the better half of this year we have just been keeping in touch and talking throughout. I’ve been in one relationship previously but never felt such a strong emotional connection with anyone - I guess that’s why I’ve kept this window open for this long. We have lots of common interests, similar career aspirations. The problem started about two months ago. I got tired of waiting to be with him and told him that I wanted out. I thought he’d try to reassure me but instead two weeks later he came back to me saying he wanted out too. I haven’t heard from him in about a month. I still really like him but am scared to recontact him and thought he needed time to cool off. He’s leaving in about two weeks and I didn’t really see the point of creating an issue now. I have no idea what to do – not sure whether to leave things till he gets back from exchange and then pursue things again. TL;DR:

I gave up my chance to be with the guy I liked, I’m scared of not being able to see him again, and I want to leave things until he gets back.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 3534, 598, 619, 4839, 281, 320, 342, 253, 5599, 309, 10490, 13, 309, 457, 78, 16060, 273, 417, 1146, 2104, 281, 923, 779, 969, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 3553, 1841, 1919, 344, 4850, 896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I’m scared to try to pursue things with a guy I still like.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 457, 78, 16060, 281, 1611, 281, 15142, 1841, 342, 247, 5599, 309, 1335, 751, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I’ve liked this guy for about a year, we both admitted to liking one another late last year. The thing is that he’s an avid traveller and wanted to do exchange before finishing uni. So for half a year starting this semester he will be overseas. Earlier this year we decided against starting a relationship – never been a fan of long distance relationships plus had we started seeing each other we would only be six months into the relationship before he left. So for the better half of this year we have just been keeping in touch and talking throughout. I’ve been in one relationship previously but never felt such a strong emotional connection with anyone - I guess that’s why I’ve kept this window open for this long. We have lots of common interests, similar career aspirations. The problem started about two months ago. I got tired of waiting to be with him and told him that I wanted out. I thought he’d try to reassure me but instead two weeks later he came back to me saying he wanted out too. I haven’t heard from him in about a month. I still really like him but am scared to recontact him and thought he needed time to cool off. He’s leaving in about two weeks and I didn’t really see the point of creating an issue now. I have no idea what to do – not sure whether to leave things till he gets back from exchange and then pursue things again. TL;DR: I gave up my chance to be with the guy I liked, I’m scared of not being able to see him again, and I want to leave things until he gets back.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 457, 306, 10490, 436, 5599, 323, 670, 247, 807, 13, 359, 1097, 8176, 281, 35908, 581, 1529, 3563, 1390, 807, 15, 380, 2181, 310, 326, 344, 457, 84, 271, 46952, 11074, 7707, 285, 3078, 281, 513, 6431, 1078, 19083, 42015, 15, 1893, 323, 2716, 247, 807, 4983, 436, 33644, 344, 588, 320, 21344, 15, 36072, 436, 807, 359, 4425, 1411, 4983, 247, 2954, 1108, 1620, 644, 247, 7989, 273, 1048, 4181, 7688, 5043, 574, 359, 3053, 6523, 1016, 643, 359, 651, 760, 320, 2800, 2607, 715, 253, 2954, 1078, 344, 1669, 15, 1893, 323, 253, 1805, 2716, 273, 436, 807, 359, 452, 816, 644, 7562, 275, 5181, 285, 5015, 4768, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 457, 306, 644, 275, 581, 2954, 3786, 533, 1620, 3543, 824, 247, 2266, 8991, 4602, 342, 3780, 428, 309, 5476, 326, 457, 84, 2139, 309, 457, 306, 4934, 436, 3497, 1527, 323, 436, 1048, 15, 844, 452, 8783, 273, 1846, 6284, 13, 2074, 5249, 40659, 15, 380, 1895, 3053, 670, 767, 2607, 3622, 15, 309, 1694, 11870, 273, 6179, 281, 320, 342, 779, 285, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 3078, 562, 15, 309, 1869, 344, 457, 69, 1611, 281, 17279, 459, 479, 533, 3185, 767, 3618, 1996, 344, 2210, 896, 281, 479, 3981, 344, 3078, 562, 1512, 15, 309, 6468, 457, 85, 3735, 432, 779, 275, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 1335, 1663, 751, 779, 533, 717, 16060, 281, 294, 22045, 779, 285, 1869, 344, 3058, 673, 281, 4484, 745, 15, 754, 457, 84, 6108, 275, 670, 767, 3618, 285, 309, 1904, 457, 85, 1663, 923, 253, 1127, 273, 6153, 271, 2523, 1024, 15, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1108, 417, 2119, 1880, 281, 3553, 1841, 7357, 344, 4850, 896, 432, 6431, 285, 840, 15142, 1841, 969, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 3534, 598, 619, 4839, 281, 320, 342, 253, 5599, 309, 10490, 13, 309, 457, 78, 16060, 273, 417, 1146, 2104, 281, 923, 779, 969, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 3553, 1841, 1919, 344, 4850, 896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

356

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I’ve liked this guy for about a year, we both admitted to liking one another late last year. The thing is that he’s an avid traveller and wanted to do exchange before finishing uni. So for half a year starting this semester he will be overseas. Earlier this year we decided against starting a relationship – never been a fan of long distance relationships plus had we started seeing each other we would only be six months into the relationship before he left. So for the better half of this year we have just been keeping in touch and talking throughout. I’ve been in one relationship previously but never felt such a strong emotional connection with anyone - I guess that’s why I’ve kept this window open for this long. We have lots of common interests, similar career aspirations. The problem started about two months ago. I got tired of waiting to be with him and told him that I wanted out. I thought he’d try to reassure me but instead two weeks later he came back to me saying he wanted out too. I haven’t heard from him in about a month. I still really like him but am scared to recontact him and thought he needed time to cool off. He’s leaving in about two weeks and I didn’t really see the point of creating an issue now. I have no idea what to do – not sure whether to leave things till he gets back from exchange and then pursue things again. TL;DR: I’m scared to try to pursue things with a guy I still like.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 457, 306, 10490, 436, 5599, 323, 670, 247, 807, 13, 359, 1097, 8176, 281, 35908, 581, 1529, 3563, 1390, 807, 15, 380, 2181, 310, 326, 344, 457, 84, 271, 46952, 11074, 7707, 285, 3078, 281, 513, 6431, 1078, 19083, 42015, 15, 1893, 323, 2716, 247, 807, 4983, 436, 33644, 344, 588, 320, 21344, 15, 36072, 436, 807, 359, 4425, 1411, 4983, 247, 2954, 1108, 1620, 644, 247, 7989, 273, 1048, 4181, 7688, 5043, 574, 359, 3053, 6523, 1016, 643, 359, 651, 760, 320, 2800, 2607, 715, 253, 2954, 1078, 344, 1669, 15, 1893, 323, 253, 1805, 2716, 273, 436, 807, 359, 452, 816, 644, 7562, 275, 5181, 285, 5015, 4768, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 457, 306, 644, 275, 581, 2954, 3786, 533, 1620, 3543, 824, 247, 2266, 8991, 4602, 342, 3780, 428, 309, 5476, 326, 457, 84, 2139, 309, 457, 306, 4934, 436, 3497, 1527, 323, 436, 1048, 15, 844, 452, 8783, 273, 1846, 6284, 13, 2074, 5249, 40659, 15, 380, 1895, 3053, 670, 767, 2607, 3622, 15, 309, 1694, 11870, 273, 6179, 281, 320, 342, 779, 285, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 3078, 562, 15, 309, 1869, 344, 457, 69, 1611, 281, 17279, 459, 479, 533, 3185, 767, 3618, 1996, 344, 2210, 896, 281, 479, 3981, 344, 3078, 562, 1512, 15, 309, 6468, 457, 85, 3735, 432, 779, 275, 670, 247, 1770, 15, 309, 1335, 1663, 751, 779, 533, 717, 16060, 281, 294, 22045, 779, 285, 1869, 344, 3058, 673, 281, 4484, 745, 15, 754, 457, 84, 6108, 275, 670, 767, 3618, 285, 309, 1904, 457, 85, 1663, 923, 253, 1127, 273, 6153, 271, 2523, 1024, 15, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 1108, 417, 2119, 1880, 281, 3553, 1841, 7357, 344, 4850, 896, 432, 6431, 285, 840, 15142, 1841, 969, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 457, 78, 16060, 281, 1611, 281, 15142, 1841, 342, 247, 5599, 309, 1335, 751, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

335

318

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 3534, 598, 619, 4839, 281, 320, 342, 253, 5599, 309, 10490, 13, 309, 457, 78, 16060, 273, 417, 1146, 2104, 281, 923, 779, 969, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 3553, 1841, 1919, 344, 4850, 896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 457, 78, 16060, 281, 1611, 281, 15142, 1841, 342, 247, 5599, 309, 1335, 751, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer , I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says , "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far.

deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.

deleted company's entire budget at work, employees noticed and claimed I replaced original budget w/ assignment task. Boss overheard and saw progress. What to do now?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 436, 246, 338, 86, 4592, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 672, 309, 908, 281, 4184, 387, 247, 2199, 4323, 2567, 15, 733, 4592, 1309, 619, 806, 2129, 273, 789, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 253, 2567, 574, 247, 2022, 4771, 326, 6221, 512, 253, 4367, 326, 952, 812, 2289, 285, 841, 4367, 497, 6096, 2190, 512, 253, 6171, 15, 309, 574, 644, 5742, 2183, 417, 281, 5181, 1110, 4367, 285, 5321, 731, 281, 619, 4382, 1078, 970, 731, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 755, 7922, 690, 42932, 789, 281, 8416, 534, 4419, 34219, 15, 16688, 253, 5702, 4760, 326, 309, 717, 13, 309, 3078, 253, 2567, 7646, 327, 619, 3389, 347, 973, 15, 1893, 309, 564, 281, 253, 4771, 13, 3185, 273, 24699, 253, 3389, 281, 619, 4382, 1157, 309, 897, 253, 1873, 3587, 432, 253, 4771, 285, 11352, 512, 616, 7563, 285, 1978, 253, 4060, 285, 4352, 5321, 15, 7214, 326, 352, 9809, 346, 664, 1817, 314, 3, 751, 10739, 4592, 275, 253, 5004, 273, 253, 3497, 2654, 76, 15, 2058, 326, 1127, 619, 12607, 8231, 285, 2927, 42248, 984, 309, 8156, 1633, 369, 3430, 15, 309, 923, 253, 11534, 285, 4754, 13, 309, 16737, 253, 2862, 7563, 432, 253, 11534, 15, 309, 1353, 3199, 12427, 619, 718, 745, 1580, 368, 476, 671, 923, 665, 16168, 253, 7563, 1390, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 309, 1353, 327, 5559, 12203, 323, 346, 42, 35598, 598, 387, 789, 3, 342, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 564, 689, 281, 253, 760, 643, 4184, 285, 5513, 253, 4112, 281, 779, 15, 754, 8599, 479, 326, 309, 588, 452, 281, 513, 253, 2862, 7563, 969, 15, 309, 1642, 779, 849, 285, 359, 564, 689, 281, 253, 15065, 7811, 313, 664, 1335, 1904, 626, 2028, 731, 2712, 10, 285, 1642, 323, 253, 13122, 41271, 15, 754, 3534, 479, 751, 495, 4367, 4409, 273, 41271, 13, 42, 1379, 7968, 327, 619, 4481, 323, 512, 285, 352, 2335, 479, 767, 1897, 281, 1511, 731, 512, 275, 253, 34219, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 369, 2509, 15, 1623, 253, 495, 5784, 1388, 273, 253, 7435, 598, 13, 581, 273, 253, 6171, 2289, 265, 253, 7563, 285, 3249, 281, 479, 285, 2296, 1157, 346, 42, 1158, 368, 7343, 314, 7932, 253, 7563, 327, 253, 4771, 342, 634, 12714, 4836, 13, 309, 1849, 1691, 253, 3236, 581, 896, 598, 3446, 13274, 88, 15, 3900, 344, 310, 7746, 479, 436, 13, 619, 12145, 432, 253, 643, 2316, 689, 248, 1032, 285, 12325, 281, 923, 619, 4780, 594, 2080, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR:

deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.<|endoftext|>

[ 16737, 2567, 7563, 432, 4771, 407, 10551, 13, 12145, 1119, 562, 285, 25394, 479, 13, 574, 281, 2502, 80, 2862, 7563, 13, 574, 281, 1511, 3253, 969, 13, 12145, 689, 28996, 7827, 285, 3047, 4780, 13, 3047, 253, 12145, 2953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

deleted company's entire budget at work, employees noticed and claimed I replaced original budget w/ assignment task. Boss overheard and saw progress. What to do now?<|endoftext|>

[ 16737, 2567, 434, 2862, 7563, 387, 789, 13, 6171, 8344, 285, 7558, 309, 7932, 3236, 7563, 259, 16, 12714, 4836, 15, 38300, 689, 28996, 285, 3047, 4780, 15, 1737, 281, 513, 1024, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR: deleted company budget from server by mistake, boss found out and confronted me, had to redo entire budget, had to type everything again, boss overheard conversation and saw progress, saw the boss address.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 436, 246, 338, 86, 4592, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 672, 309, 908, 281, 4184, 387, 247, 2199, 4323, 2567, 15, 733, 4592, 1309, 619, 806, 2129, 273, 789, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 253, 2567, 574, 247, 2022, 4771, 326, 6221, 512, 253, 4367, 326, 952, 812, 2289, 285, 841, 4367, 497, 6096, 2190, 512, 253, 6171, 15, 309, 574, 644, 5742, 2183, 417, 281, 5181, 1110, 4367, 285, 5321, 731, 281, 619, 4382, 1078, 970, 731, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 755, 7922, 690, 42932, 789, 281, 8416, 534, 4419, 34219, 15, 16688, 253, 5702, 4760, 326, 309, 717, 13, 309, 3078, 253, 2567, 7646, 327, 619, 3389, 347, 973, 15, 1893, 309, 564, 281, 253, 4771, 13, 3185, 273, 24699, 253, 3389, 281, 619, 4382, 13, 309, 897, 253, 1873, 3587, 432, 253, 4771, 285, 11352, 512, 616, 7563, 285, 1978, 253, 4060, 285, 4352, 5321, 15, 7214, 326, 352, 9809, 346, 664, 1817, 314, 3, 751, 10739, 4592, 275, 253, 5004, 273, 253, 3497, 2654, 76, 15, 2058, 326, 1127, 619, 12607, 8231, 285, 2927, 42248, 984, 309, 8156, 1633, 369, 3430, 15, 309, 923, 253, 11534, 285, 4754, 13, 309, 16737, 253, 2862, 7563, 432, 253, 11534, 15, 309, 1353, 3199, 12427, 619, 718, 745, 1580, 368, 476, 671, 923, 665, 16168, 253, 7563, 1390, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 309, 1353, 327, 5559, 12203, 323, 346, 42, 35598, 598, 387, 789, 3, 342, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 564, 689, 281, 253, 760, 643, 4184, 285, 5513, 253, 4112, 281, 779, 15, 754, 8599, 479, 326, 309, 588, 452, 281, 513, 253, 2862, 7563, 969, 15, 309, 1642, 779, 849, 285, 359, 564, 689, 281, 253, 15065, 7811, 313, 664, 1335, 1904, 626, 2028, 731, 2712, 10, 285, 1642, 323, 253, 13122, 41271, 15, 754, 3534, 479, 751, 495, 4367, 4409, 273, 41271, 13, 42, 1379, 7968, 327, 619, 4481, 323, 512, 285, 352, 2335, 479, 767, 1897, 281, 1511, 731, 512, 275, 253, 34219, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 369, 2509, 15, 1623, 253, 495, 5784, 1388, 273, 253, 7435, 598, 13, 581, 273, 253, 6171, 2289, 265, 253, 7563, 285, 3249, 281, 479, 285, 2296, 13, 346, 42, 1158, 368, 7343, 314, 7932, 253, 7563, 327, 253, 4771, 342, 634, 12714, 4836, 13, 309, 1849, 1691, 253, 3236, 581, 896, 598, 3446, 13274, 88, 15, 3900, 344, 310, 7746, 479, 436, 13, 619, 12145, 432, 253, 643, 2316, 689, 248, 1032, 285, 12325, 281, 923, 619, 4780, 594, 2080, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 16737, 2567, 7563, 432, 4771, 407, 10551, 13, 12145, 1119, 562, 285, 25394, 479, 13, 574, 281, 2502, 80, 2862, 7563, 13, 574, 281, 1511, 3253, 969, 13, 12145, 689, 28996, 7827, 285, 3047, 4780, 13, 3047, 253, 12145, 2953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

487

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so this tifu happened a long time ago when I used to intern at a project management company. It happened during my first week of work. So the company had a main server that contained all the files that people could access and these files were shared among all the employees. I had been specifically told not to touch those files and save them to my computer before using them. I get assigned some procurement work to finish which requires excel. Being the professional player that I am, I wanted the company template on my document as well. So I go to the server, instead of copying the document to my computer, I use the file directly from the server and delete all their budget and keep the title and hit save. Only that it saved "weirdly" like shit happened in the bottom of the window idk. At that point my stomach dropped and eyes widened because I realized something was wrong. I see the folder and yes, I deleted the entire budget from the folder. I'm panicking my ass off since you can also see who edited the budget last. At this point I'm on Google searching for "I fucked up at work" with no idea what to do. I go over to the only other intern and explain the situation to him. He tells me that I will have to do the entire budget again. I ask him how and we go over to the finance department (we still didn't tell them anything) and ask for the transactions receipts. He gave me like 3 files worth of receipts,I take pictures on my phone for all and it took me two days to type them all in the excel. I had no idea what I was doing. On the 3rd day of the fuck up, one of the employees accesses the budget and comes to me and says, "I think you accidently replaced the budget on the server with your assignment task, I've put the original one back up". Whew. While he is telling me this, my boss from the other room overhears and asks to see my progress so far. TL;DR: deleted company's entire budget at work, employees noticed and claimed I replaced original budget w/ assignment task. Boss overheard and saw progress. What to do now?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 436, 246, 338, 86, 4592, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 672, 309, 908, 281, 4184, 387, 247, 2199, 4323, 2567, 15, 733, 4592, 1309, 619, 806, 2129, 273, 789, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 253, 2567, 574, 247, 2022, 4771, 326, 6221, 512, 253, 4367, 326, 952, 812, 2289, 285, 841, 4367, 497, 6096, 2190, 512, 253, 6171, 15, 309, 574, 644, 5742, 2183, 417, 281, 5181, 1110, 4367, 285, 5321, 731, 281, 619, 4382, 1078, 970, 731, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 755, 7922, 690, 42932, 789, 281, 8416, 534, 4419, 34219, 15, 16688, 253, 5702, 4760, 326, 309, 717, 13, 309, 3078, 253, 2567, 7646, 327, 619, 3389, 347, 973, 15, 1893, 309, 564, 281, 253, 4771, 13, 3185, 273, 24699, 253, 3389, 281, 619, 4382, 13, 309, 897, 253, 1873, 3587, 432, 253, 4771, 285, 11352, 512, 616, 7563, 285, 1978, 253, 4060, 285, 4352, 5321, 15, 7214, 326, 352, 9809, 346, 664, 1817, 314, 3, 751, 10739, 4592, 275, 253, 5004, 273, 253, 3497, 2654, 76, 15, 2058, 326, 1127, 619, 12607, 8231, 285, 2927, 42248, 984, 309, 8156, 1633, 369, 3430, 15, 309, 923, 253, 11534, 285, 4754, 13, 309, 16737, 253, 2862, 7563, 432, 253, 11534, 15, 309, 1353, 3199, 12427, 619, 718, 745, 1580, 368, 476, 671, 923, 665, 16168, 253, 7563, 1390, 15, 2058, 436, 1127, 309, 1353, 327, 5559, 12203, 323, 346, 42, 35598, 598, 387, 789, 3, 342, 642, 2934, 752, 281, 513, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 564, 689, 281, 253, 760, 643, 4184, 285, 5513, 253, 4112, 281, 779, 15, 754, 8599, 479, 326, 309, 588, 452, 281, 513, 253, 2862, 7563, 969, 15, 309, 1642, 779, 849, 285, 359, 564, 689, 281, 253, 15065, 7811, 313, 664, 1335, 1904, 626, 2028, 731, 2712, 10, 285, 1642, 323, 253, 13122, 41271, 15, 754, 3534, 479, 751, 495, 4367, 4409, 273, 41271, 13, 42, 1379, 7968, 327, 619, 4481, 323, 512, 285, 352, 2335, 479, 767, 1897, 281, 1511, 731, 512, 275, 253, 34219, 15, 309, 574, 642, 2934, 752, 309, 369, 2509, 15, 1623, 253, 495, 5784, 1388, 273, 253, 7435, 598, 13, 581, 273, 253, 6171, 2289, 265, 253, 7563, 285, 3249, 281, 479, 285, 2296, 13, 346, 42, 1158, 368, 7343, 314, 7932, 253, 7563, 327, 253, 4771, 342, 634, 12714, 4836, 13, 309, 1849, 1691, 253, 3236, 581, 896, 598, 3446, 13274, 88, 15, 3900, 344, 310, 7746, 479, 436, 13, 619, 12145, 432, 253, 643, 2316, 689, 248, 1032, 285, 12325, 281, 923, 619, 4780, 594, 2080, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 16737, 2567, 434, 2862, 7563, 387, 789, 13, 6171, 8344, 285, 7558, 309, 7932, 3236, 7563, 259, 16, 12714, 4836, 15, 38300, 689, 28996, 285, 3047, 4780, 15, 1737, 281, 513, 1024, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

479

445

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 16737, 2567, 7563, 432, 4771, 407, 10551, 13, 12145, 1119, 562, 285, 25394, 479, 13, 574, 281, 2502, 80, 2862, 7563, 13, 574, 281, 1511, 3253, 969, 13, 12145, 689, 28996, 7827, 285, 3047, 4780, 13, 3047, 253, 12145, 2953, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 16737, 2567, 434, 2862, 7563, 387, 789, 13, 6171, 8344, 285, 7558, 309, 7932, 3236, 7563, 259, 16, 12714, 4836, 15, 38300, 689, 28996, 285, 3047, 4780, 15, 1737, 281, 513, 1024, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi Reddit. I've been fighting with my boyfriend over the same thing for the past 3 months. We love each other, but he absolutely cannot get over this one, single thing. Here's the story. After I came back to Tennessee where I attend college (I was up in Baltimore with him all throughout winter break), I met up with my best friend since middle school at her apartment. Normally I'm very boring and don't do anything other than study, shop, and go to class. Well, I went to see her, and she asked me if I would like to drink a little bit with her. Although I don't usually drink, I decided to go ahead and have some fun with my friend I rarely see. I didn't get drunk or anything, I only had 3 drinks and was perfectly capable of walking, reading, and using the restroom by myself. When I was a bit tipsy, I went with my friend and her roommates to a dance club. We were all too young to get in (we're 19 and 18). Thus, one of her roommates wanted to see this guy she likes; so we went to his apartment. I sat with my friend and didn't even talk to the guy and his roommates. Well, during this whole series of events our designated driver kept all of our phones to avoid drunk phone calls and texts. So, my boyfriend got worried about me and texted me a few times. I responded as soon as I could, and I was coherent enough to have a normal conversation with him. That night, I told him that I got a bit tipsy with my best friend and her all female roommates. He absolutely freaked out! He accused me of cheating on him and everything else under the sun. I told him everything about the night, gave him every single detail (for example, what songs we were drinking to, the brand of vodka, etc). Despite this, he still won't believe me. He even insisted on talking to all of my friend's roommates! This continual guilt trip is absolutely killing me. I have no clue what to do reddit, please help.

I got tipsy with my best friend's female roommates at a dance club, boyfriend freaked out. I explain everything and still get blamed for something he doesn't believe.

I got tipsy with best friend and her all female roommates, boyfriend texts me nonstop accusing me of cheating. What do I do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8615, 342, 619, 22273, 689, 253, 1072, 2181, 323, 253, 2469, 495, 2607, 15, 844, 2389, 1016, 643, 13, 533, 344, 8839, 2550, 755, 689, 436, 581, 13, 2014, 2181, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 2926, 15, 187, 4553, 309, 2210, 896, 281, 16091, 835, 309, 8041, 6831, 313, 42, 369, 598, 275, 19585, 342, 779, 512, 4768, 8986, 2740, 582, 309, 1313, 598, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 1580, 4766, 2143, 387, 617, 10230, 15, 40474, 309, 1353, 1077, 22258, 285, 1053, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 13, 8979, 13, 285, 564, 281, 966, 15, 6089, 13, 309, 2427, 281, 923, 617, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 309, 651, 751, 281, 5484, 247, 1652, 2372, 342, 617, 15, 4129, 309, 1053, 626, 3798, 5484, 13, 309, 4425, 281, 564, 6386, 285, 452, 690, 794, 342, 619, 3331, 309, 11766, 923, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 17507, 390, 2712, 13, 309, 760, 574, 495, 17208, 285, 369, 9670, 7032, 273, 7824, 13, 4361, 13, 285, 970, 253, 1551, 4461, 407, 4266, 15, 2091, 309, 369, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 13, 309, 2427, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 617, 2316, 13239, 281, 247, 11012, 5453, 15, 844, 497, 512, 1512, 2872, 281, 755, 275, 313, 664, 1472, 655, 285, 1283, 481, 3308, 13, 581, 273, 617, 2316, 13239, 3078, 281, 923, 436, 5599, 703, 13052, 28, 594, 359, 2427, 281, 521, 10230, 15, 309, 2206, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 1904, 626, 1014, 2312, 281, 253, 5599, 285, 521, 2316, 13239, 15, 6089, 13, 1309, 436, 2644, 2962, 273, 3394, 776, 13205, 6254, 4934, 512, 273, 776, 15169, 281, 3693, 17507, 4481, 5841, 285, 17438, 15, 1893, 13, 619, 22273, 1694, 11926, 670, 479, 285, 2505, 264, 479, 247, 1643, 2069, 15, 309, 10974, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 812, 13, 285, 309, 369, 18893, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 2622, 7827, 342, 779, 15, 2064, 2360, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 1694, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 15, 754, 8839, 4107, 6840, 562, 2, 754, 10145, 479, 273, 37142, 327, 779, 285, 3253, 2010, 762, 253, 5101, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 3253, 670, 253, 2360, 13, 3534, 779, 1046, 2014, 2508, 313, 1542, 1650, 13, 752, 9575, 359, 497, 10678, 281, 13, 253, 7138, 273, 49469, 13, 3966, 481, 9937, 436, 13, 344, 1335, 1912, 626, 2868, 479, 15, 754, 1014, 16701, 327, 5015, 281, 512, 273, 619, 3331, 434, 2316, 13239, 2, 831, 45120, 15457, 7408, 310, 8839, 9811, 479, 15, 309, 452, 642, 22796, 752, 281, 513, 28159, 262, 13, 4496, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit. I've been fighting with my boyfriend over the same thing for the past 3 months. We love each other, but he absolutely cannot get over this one, single thing. Here's the story. After I came back to Tennessee where I attend college (I was up in Baltimore with him all throughout winter break), I met up with my best friend since middle school at her apartment. Normally I'm very boring and don't do anything other than study, shop, and go to class. Well, I went to see her, and she asked me if I would like to drink a little bit with her. Although I don't usually drink, I decided to go ahead and have some fun with my friend I rarely see. I didn't get drunk or anything, I only had 3 drinks and was perfectly capable of walking, reading, and using the restroom by myself. When I was a bit tipsy, I went with my friend and her roommates to a dance club. We were all too young to get in (we're 19 and 18). Thus, one of her roommates wanted to see this guy she likes; so we went to his apartment. I sat with my friend and didn't even talk to the guy and his roommates. Well, during this whole series of events our designated driver kept all of our phones to avoid drunk phone calls and texts. So, my boyfriend got worried about me and texted me a few times. I responded as soon as I could, and I was coherent enough to have a normal conversation with him. That night, I told him that I got a bit tipsy with my best friend and her all female roommates. He absolutely freaked out! He accused me of cheating on him and everything else under the sun. I told him everything about the night, gave him every single detail (for example, what songs we were drinking to, the brand of vodka, etc). Despite this, he still won't believe me. He even insisted on talking to all of my friend's roommates! This continual guilt trip is absolutely killing me. I have no clue what to do reddit, please help. TL;DR:

I got tipsy with my best friend's female roommates at a dance club, boyfriend freaked out. I explain everything and still get blamed for something he doesn't believe.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 434, 5343, 2316, 13239, 387, 247, 11012, 5453, 13, 22273, 4107, 6840, 562, 15, 309, 5513, 3253, 285, 1335, 755, 27137, 323, 1633, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I got tipsy with best friend and her all female roommates, boyfriend texts me nonstop accusing me of cheating. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 13, 22273, 17438, 479, 1327, 13121, 37781, 479, 273, 37142, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit. I've been fighting with my boyfriend over the same thing for the past 3 months. We love each other, but he absolutely cannot get over this one, single thing. Here's the story. After I came back to Tennessee where I attend college (I was up in Baltimore with him all throughout winter break), I met up with my best friend since middle school at her apartment. Normally I'm very boring and don't do anything other than study, shop, and go to class. Well, I went to see her, and she asked me if I would like to drink a little bit with her. Although I don't usually drink, I decided to go ahead and have some fun with my friend I rarely see. I didn't get drunk or anything, I only had 3 drinks and was perfectly capable of walking, reading, and using the restroom by myself. When I was a bit tipsy, I went with my friend and her roommates to a dance club. We were all too young to get in (we're 19 and 18). Thus, one of her roommates wanted to see this guy she likes; so we went to his apartment. I sat with my friend and didn't even talk to the guy and his roommates. Well, during this whole series of events our designated driver kept all of our phones to avoid drunk phone calls and texts. So, my boyfriend got worried about me and texted me a few times. I responded as soon as I could, and I was coherent enough to have a normal conversation with him. That night, I told him that I got a bit tipsy with my best friend and her all female roommates. He absolutely freaked out! He accused me of cheating on him and everything else under the sun. I told him everything about the night, gave him every single detail (for example, what songs we were drinking to, the brand of vodka, etc). Despite this, he still won't believe me. He even insisted on talking to all of my friend's roommates! This continual guilt trip is absolutely killing me. I have no clue what to do reddit, please help. TL;DR: I got tipsy with my best friend's female roommates at a dance club, boyfriend freaked out. I explain everything and still get blamed for something he doesn't believe.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8615, 342, 619, 22273, 689, 253, 1072, 2181, 323, 253, 2469, 495, 2607, 15, 844, 2389, 1016, 643, 13, 533, 344, 8839, 2550, 755, 689, 436, 581, 13, 2014, 2181, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 2926, 15, 187, 4553, 309, 2210, 896, 281, 16091, 835, 309, 8041, 6831, 313, 42, 369, 598, 275, 19585, 342, 779, 512, 4768, 8986, 2740, 582, 309, 1313, 598, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 1580, 4766, 2143, 387, 617, 10230, 15, 40474, 309, 1353, 1077, 22258, 285, 1053, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 13, 8979, 13, 285, 564, 281, 966, 15, 6089, 13, 309, 2427, 281, 923, 617, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 309, 651, 751, 281, 5484, 247, 1652, 2372, 342, 617, 15, 4129, 309, 1053, 626, 3798, 5484, 13, 309, 4425, 281, 564, 6386, 285, 452, 690, 794, 342, 619, 3331, 309, 11766, 923, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 17507, 390, 2712, 13, 309, 760, 574, 495, 17208, 285, 369, 9670, 7032, 273, 7824, 13, 4361, 13, 285, 970, 253, 1551, 4461, 407, 4266, 15, 2091, 309, 369, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 13, 309, 2427, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 617, 2316, 13239, 281, 247, 11012, 5453, 15, 844, 497, 512, 1512, 2872, 281, 755, 275, 313, 664, 1472, 655, 285, 1283, 481, 3308, 13, 581, 273, 617, 2316, 13239, 3078, 281, 923, 436, 5599, 703, 13052, 28, 594, 359, 2427, 281, 521, 10230, 15, 309, 2206, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 1904, 626, 1014, 2312, 281, 253, 5599, 285, 521, 2316, 13239, 15, 6089, 13, 1309, 436, 2644, 2962, 273, 3394, 776, 13205, 6254, 4934, 512, 273, 776, 15169, 281, 3693, 17507, 4481, 5841, 285, 17438, 15, 1893, 13, 619, 22273, 1694, 11926, 670, 479, 285, 2505, 264, 479, 247, 1643, 2069, 15, 309, 10974, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 812, 13, 285, 309, 369, 18893, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 2622, 7827, 342, 779, 15, 2064, 2360, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 1694, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 15, 754, 8839, 4107, 6840, 562, 2, 754, 10145, 479, 273, 37142, 327, 779, 285, 3253, 2010, 762, 253, 5101, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 3253, 670, 253, 2360, 13, 3534, 779, 1046, 2014, 2508, 313, 1542, 1650, 13, 752, 9575, 359, 497, 10678, 281, 13, 253, 7138, 273, 49469, 13, 3966, 481, 9937, 436, 13, 344, 1335, 1912, 626, 2868, 479, 15, 754, 1014, 16701, 327, 5015, 281, 512, 273, 619, 3331, 434, 2316, 13239, 2, 831, 45120, 15457, 7408, 310, 8839, 9811, 479, 15, 309, 452, 642, 22796, 752, 281, 513, 28159, 262, 13, 4496, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 434, 5343, 2316, 13239, 387, 247, 11012, 5453, 13, 22273, 4107, 6840, 562, 15, 309, 5513, 3253, 285, 1335, 755, 27137, 323, 1633, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

497

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit. I've been fighting with my boyfriend over the same thing for the past 3 months. We love each other, but he absolutely cannot get over this one, single thing. Here's the story. After I came back to Tennessee where I attend college (I was up in Baltimore with him all throughout winter break), I met up with my best friend since middle school at her apartment. Normally I'm very boring and don't do anything other than study, shop, and go to class. Well, I went to see her, and she asked me if I would like to drink a little bit with her. Although I don't usually drink, I decided to go ahead and have some fun with my friend I rarely see. I didn't get drunk or anything, I only had 3 drinks and was perfectly capable of walking, reading, and using the restroom by myself. When I was a bit tipsy, I went with my friend and her roommates to a dance club. We were all too young to get in (we're 19 and 18). Thus, one of her roommates wanted to see this guy she likes; so we went to his apartment. I sat with my friend and didn't even talk to the guy and his roommates. Well, during this whole series of events our designated driver kept all of our phones to avoid drunk phone calls and texts. So, my boyfriend got worried about me and texted me a few times. I responded as soon as I could, and I was coherent enough to have a normal conversation with him. That night, I told him that I got a bit tipsy with my best friend and her all female roommates. He absolutely freaked out! He accused me of cheating on him and everything else under the sun. I told him everything about the night, gave him every single detail (for example, what songs we were drinking to, the brand of vodka, etc). Despite this, he still won't believe me. He even insisted on talking to all of my friend's roommates! This continual guilt trip is absolutely killing me. I have no clue what to do reddit, please help. TL;DR: I got tipsy with best friend and her all female roommates, boyfriend texts me nonstop accusing me of cheating. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8615, 342, 619, 22273, 689, 253, 1072, 2181, 323, 253, 2469, 495, 2607, 15, 844, 2389, 1016, 643, 13, 533, 344, 8839, 2550, 755, 689, 436, 581, 13, 2014, 2181, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 2926, 15, 187, 4553, 309, 2210, 896, 281, 16091, 835, 309, 8041, 6831, 313, 42, 369, 598, 275, 19585, 342, 779, 512, 4768, 8986, 2740, 582, 309, 1313, 598, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 1580, 4766, 2143, 387, 617, 10230, 15, 40474, 309, 1353, 1077, 22258, 285, 1053, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 13, 8979, 13, 285, 564, 281, 966, 15, 6089, 13, 309, 2427, 281, 923, 617, 13, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 604, 309, 651, 751, 281, 5484, 247, 1652, 2372, 342, 617, 15, 4129, 309, 1053, 626, 3798, 5484, 13, 309, 4425, 281, 564, 6386, 285, 452, 690, 794, 342, 619, 3331, 309, 11766, 923, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 755, 17507, 390, 2712, 13, 309, 760, 574, 495, 17208, 285, 369, 9670, 7032, 273, 7824, 13, 4361, 13, 285, 970, 253, 1551, 4461, 407, 4266, 15, 2091, 309, 369, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 13, 309, 2427, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 617, 2316, 13239, 281, 247, 11012, 5453, 15, 844, 497, 512, 1512, 2872, 281, 755, 275, 313, 664, 1472, 655, 285, 1283, 481, 3308, 13, 581, 273, 617, 2316, 13239, 3078, 281, 923, 436, 5599, 703, 13052, 28, 594, 359, 2427, 281, 521, 10230, 15, 309, 2206, 342, 619, 3331, 285, 1904, 626, 1014, 2312, 281, 253, 5599, 285, 521, 2316, 13239, 15, 6089, 13, 1309, 436, 2644, 2962, 273, 3394, 776, 13205, 6254, 4934, 512, 273, 776, 15169, 281, 3693, 17507, 4481, 5841, 285, 17438, 15, 1893, 13, 619, 22273, 1694, 11926, 670, 479, 285, 2505, 264, 479, 247, 1643, 2069, 15, 309, 10974, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 812, 13, 285, 309, 369, 18893, 2217, 281, 452, 247, 2622, 7827, 342, 779, 15, 2064, 2360, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 326, 309, 1694, 247, 2372, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 15, 754, 8839, 4107, 6840, 562, 2, 754, 10145, 479, 273, 37142, 327, 779, 285, 3253, 2010, 762, 253, 5101, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 3253, 670, 253, 2360, 13, 3534, 779, 1046, 2014, 2508, 313, 1542, 1650, 13, 752, 9575, 359, 497, 10678, 281, 13, 253, 7138, 273, 49469, 13, 3966, 481, 9937, 436, 13, 344, 1335, 1912, 626, 2868, 479, 15, 754, 1014, 16701, 327, 5015, 281, 512, 273, 619, 3331, 434, 2316, 13239, 2, 831, 45120, 15457, 7408, 310, 8839, 9811, 479, 15, 309, 452, 642, 22796, 752, 281, 513, 28159, 262, 13, 4496, 1361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 13, 22273, 17438, 479, 1327, 13121, 37781, 479, 273, 37142, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

490

460

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 619, 1682, 3331, 434, 5343, 2316, 13239, 387, 247, 11012, 5453, 13, 22273, 4107, 6840, 562, 15, 309, 5513, 3253, 285, 1335, 755, 27137, 323, 1633, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1694, 12192, 90, 342, 1682, 3331, 285, 617, 512, 5343, 2316, 13239, 13, 22273, 17438, 479, 1327, 13121, 37781, 479, 273, 37142, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We just found out that my Dad has kidney cancer. He has a large tumor on one kidney (the other is clean) and a lump in one of his lungs (apparently it's quite common for kidney cancer to spread to the lungs). It's early days and we're not quite sure what's happening next, the doctors meet Friday morning to come up with a plan of attack. I live in the States and he's in Australia, Of course I will drop everything and get over there if things get bad but for now in these early stages I have to stay put (family, work, mortgage, etc..). For those of you who have gone through a family member with a serious disease what can I do to be as supportive as possible? I'm looking for a long list of awesome things : * I can send to him (and my Mum) * I can say to him and my family * I can do to be as supportive and positive as possible * and anything else you guys can think of or know about I've already told my Mum and Dad that I refuse to be angry or sad or scared - I know my Dad and I know how this will end. He will win and come out of this more awesome than before. I've already thought of a surprise trip back home when I can make it work. What should I be reading/researching to arm myself with as much knowledge about how to deal with this as a family, and what the whole process may be like? Also, what and how much should I tell my 6 year old son who adores my Dad? thank you for any help you can provide.

Dad has kidney cancer, need help knowing what to do to be as supportive as possible.

dad has cancer and he will kick its ass, what can I do to help in the fight?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 816, 1119, 562, 326, 619, 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1781, 4502, 327, 581, 12333, 313, 783, 643, 310, 4076, 10, 285, 247, 32163, 275, 581, 273, 521, 18926, 313, 1212, 18286, 352, 434, 3240, 1846, 323, 12333, 2923, 281, 5195, 281, 253, 18926, 481, 733, 434, 2393, 1897, 285, 359, 1472, 417, 3240, 2119, 752, 434, 9369, 1735, 13, 253, 11576, 2525, 6794, 4131, 281, 1705, 598, 342, 247, 2098, 273, 2983, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 253, 2077, 285, 344, 434, 275, 6976, 13, 4683, 2282, 309, 588, 5926, 3253, 285, 755, 689, 627, 604, 1841, 755, 3076, 533, 323, 1024, 275, 841, 2393, 8661, 309, 452, 281, 3297, 1691, 313, 11807, 13, 789, 13, 15842, 13, 3966, 537, 481, 1198, 1110, 273, 368, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 247, 2021, 3558, 342, 247, 4092, 2728, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 32, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 247, 1048, 1618, 273, 13103, 1841, 1163, 187, 187, 11, 309, 476, 5007, 281, 779, 313, 395, 619, 34701, 10, 187, 11, 309, 476, 1333, 281, 779, 285, 619, 2021, 187, 11, 309, 476, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 285, 2762, 347, 1896, 187, 11, 285, 2712, 2010, 368, 6068, 476, 1158, 273, 390, 871, 670, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2168, 2183, 619, 34701, 285, 16522, 326, 309, 16410, 281, 320, 11790, 390, 8872, 390, 16060, 428, 309, 871, 619, 16522, 285, 309, 871, 849, 436, 588, 990, 15, 754, 588, 3330, 285, 1705, 562, 273, 436, 625, 13103, 685, 1078, 15, 309, 1849, 2168, 1869, 273, 247, 9326, 7408, 896, 1728, 672, 309, 476, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 320, 4361, 16, 36642, 272, 281, 4430, 4266, 342, 347, 1199, 3640, 670, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 347, 247, 2021, 13, 285, 752, 253, 2644, 1232, 778, 320, 751, 32, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 752, 285, 849, 1199, 943, 309, 2028, 619, 721, 807, 1711, 3347, 665, 519, 2324, 619, 16522, 32, 187, 187, 47033, 368, 323, 667, 1361, 368, 476, 2085, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We just found out that my Dad has kidney cancer. He has a large tumor on one kidney (the other is clean) and a lump in one of his lungs (apparently it's quite common for kidney cancer to spread to the lungs). It's early days and we're not quite sure what's happening next, the doctors meet Friday morning to come up with a plan of attack. I live in the States and he's in Australia, Of course I will drop everything and get over there if things get bad but for now in these early stages I have to stay put (family, work, mortgage, etc..). For those of you who have gone through a family member with a serious disease what can I do to be as supportive as possible? I'm looking for a long list of awesome things : * I can send to him (and my Mum) * I can say to him and my family * I can do to be as supportive and positive as possible * and anything else you guys can think of or know about I've already told my Mum and Dad that I refuse to be angry or sad or scared - I know my Dad and I know how this will end. He will win and come out of this more awesome than before. I've already thought of a surprise trip back home when I can make it work. What should I be reading/researching to arm myself with as much knowledge about how to deal with this as a family, and what the whole process may be like? Also, what and how much should I tell my 6 year old son who adores my Dad? thank you for any help you can provide. TL;DR:

Dad has kidney cancer, need help knowing what to do to be as supportive as possible.<|endoftext|>

[ 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 13, 878, 1361, 8958, 752, 281, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

dad has cancer and he will kick its ass, what can I do to help in the fight?<|endoftext|>

[ 12247, 556, 2923, 285, 344, 588, 8386, 697, 718, 13, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1361, 275, 253, 3819, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We just found out that my Dad has kidney cancer. He has a large tumor on one kidney (the other is clean) and a lump in one of his lungs (apparently it's quite common for kidney cancer to spread to the lungs). It's early days and we're not quite sure what's happening next, the doctors meet Friday morning to come up with a plan of attack. I live in the States and he's in Australia, Of course I will drop everything and get over there if things get bad but for now in these early stages I have to stay put (family, work, mortgage, etc..). For those of you who have gone through a family member with a serious disease what can I do to be as supportive as possible? I'm looking for a long list of awesome things : * I can send to him (and my Mum) * I can say to him and my family * I can do to be as supportive and positive as possible * and anything else you guys can think of or know about I've already told my Mum and Dad that I refuse to be angry or sad or scared - I know my Dad and I know how this will end. He will win and come out of this more awesome than before. I've already thought of a surprise trip back home when I can make it work. What should I be reading/researching to arm myself with as much knowledge about how to deal with this as a family, and what the whole process may be like? Also, what and how much should I tell my 6 year old son who adores my Dad? thank you for any help you can provide. TL;DR: Dad has kidney cancer, need help knowing what to do to be as supportive as possible.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 816, 1119, 562, 326, 619, 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1781, 4502, 327, 581, 12333, 313, 783, 643, 310, 4076, 10, 285, 247, 32163, 275, 581, 273, 521, 18926, 313, 1212, 18286, 352, 434, 3240, 1846, 323, 12333, 2923, 281, 5195, 281, 253, 18926, 481, 733, 434, 2393, 1897, 285, 359, 1472, 417, 3240, 2119, 752, 434, 9369, 1735, 13, 253, 11576, 2525, 6794, 4131, 281, 1705, 598, 342, 247, 2098, 273, 2983, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 253, 2077, 285, 344, 434, 275, 6976, 13, 4683, 2282, 309, 588, 5926, 3253, 285, 755, 689, 627, 604, 1841, 755, 3076, 533, 323, 1024, 275, 841, 2393, 8661, 309, 452, 281, 3297, 1691, 313, 11807, 13, 789, 13, 15842, 13, 3966, 537, 481, 1198, 1110, 273, 368, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 247, 2021, 3558, 342, 247, 4092, 2728, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 32, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 247, 1048, 1618, 273, 13103, 1841, 1163, 187, 187, 11, 309, 476, 5007, 281, 779, 313, 395, 619, 34701, 10, 187, 11, 309, 476, 1333, 281, 779, 285, 619, 2021, 187, 11, 309, 476, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 285, 2762, 347, 1896, 187, 11, 285, 2712, 2010, 368, 6068, 476, 1158, 273, 390, 871, 670, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2168, 2183, 619, 34701, 285, 16522, 326, 309, 16410, 281, 320, 11790, 390, 8872, 390, 16060, 428, 309, 871, 619, 16522, 285, 309, 871, 849, 436, 588, 990, 15, 754, 588, 3330, 285, 1705, 562, 273, 436, 625, 13103, 685, 1078, 15, 309, 1849, 2168, 1869, 273, 247, 9326, 7408, 896, 1728, 672, 309, 476, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 320, 4361, 16, 36642, 272, 281, 4430, 4266, 342, 347, 1199, 3640, 670, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 347, 247, 2021, 13, 285, 752, 253, 2644, 1232, 778, 320, 751, 32, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 752, 285, 849, 1199, 943, 309, 2028, 619, 721, 807, 1711, 3347, 665, 519, 2324, 619, 16522, 32, 187, 187, 47033, 368, 323, 667, 1361, 368, 476, 2085, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 13, 878, 1361, 8958, 752, 281, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

387

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We just found out that my Dad has kidney cancer. He has a large tumor on one kidney (the other is clean) and a lump in one of his lungs (apparently it's quite common for kidney cancer to spread to the lungs). It's early days and we're not quite sure what's happening next, the doctors meet Friday morning to come up with a plan of attack. I live in the States and he's in Australia, Of course I will drop everything and get over there if things get bad but for now in these early stages I have to stay put (family, work, mortgage, etc..). For those of you who have gone through a family member with a serious disease what can I do to be as supportive as possible? I'm looking for a long list of awesome things : * I can send to him (and my Mum) * I can say to him and my family * I can do to be as supportive and positive as possible * and anything else you guys can think of or know about I've already told my Mum and Dad that I refuse to be angry or sad or scared - I know my Dad and I know how this will end. He will win and come out of this more awesome than before. I've already thought of a surprise trip back home when I can make it work. What should I be reading/researching to arm myself with as much knowledge about how to deal with this as a family, and what the whole process may be like? Also, what and how much should I tell my 6 year old son who adores my Dad? thank you for any help you can provide. TL;DR: dad has cancer and he will kick its ass, what can I do to help in the fight?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 816, 1119, 562, 326, 619, 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 15, 754, 556, 247, 1781, 4502, 327, 581, 12333, 313, 783, 643, 310, 4076, 10, 285, 247, 32163, 275, 581, 273, 521, 18926, 313, 1212, 18286, 352, 434, 3240, 1846, 323, 12333, 2923, 281, 5195, 281, 253, 18926, 481, 733, 434, 2393, 1897, 285, 359, 1472, 417, 3240, 2119, 752, 434, 9369, 1735, 13, 253, 11576, 2525, 6794, 4131, 281, 1705, 598, 342, 247, 2098, 273, 2983, 15, 187, 187, 42, 3153, 275, 253, 2077, 285, 344, 434, 275, 6976, 13, 4683, 2282, 309, 588, 5926, 3253, 285, 755, 689, 627, 604, 1841, 755, 3076, 533, 323, 1024, 275, 841, 2393, 8661, 309, 452, 281, 3297, 1691, 313, 11807, 13, 789, 13, 15842, 13, 3966, 537, 481, 1198, 1110, 273, 368, 665, 452, 4783, 949, 247, 2021, 3558, 342, 247, 4092, 2728, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 32, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 247, 1048, 1618, 273, 13103, 1841, 1163, 187, 187, 11, 309, 476, 5007, 281, 779, 313, 395, 619, 34701, 10, 187, 11, 309, 476, 1333, 281, 779, 285, 619, 2021, 187, 11, 309, 476, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 285, 2762, 347, 1896, 187, 11, 285, 2712, 2010, 368, 6068, 476, 1158, 273, 390, 871, 670, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2168, 2183, 619, 34701, 285, 16522, 326, 309, 16410, 281, 320, 11790, 390, 8872, 390, 16060, 428, 309, 871, 619, 16522, 285, 309, 871, 849, 436, 588, 990, 15, 754, 588, 3330, 285, 1705, 562, 273, 436, 625, 13103, 685, 1078, 15, 309, 1849, 2168, 1869, 273, 247, 9326, 7408, 896, 1728, 672, 309, 476, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 320, 4361, 16, 36642, 272, 281, 4430, 4266, 342, 347, 1199, 3640, 670, 849, 281, 2968, 342, 436, 347, 247, 2021, 13, 285, 752, 253, 2644, 1232, 778, 320, 751, 32, 2490, 187, 9917, 13, 752, 285, 849, 1199, 943, 309, 2028, 619, 721, 807, 1711, 3347, 665, 519, 2324, 619, 16522, 32, 187, 187, 47033, 368, 323, 667, 1361, 368, 476, 2085, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12247, 556, 2923, 285, 344, 588, 8386, 697, 718, 13, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1361, 275, 253, 3819, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

389

368

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 16522, 556, 12333, 2923, 13, 878, 1361, 8958, 752, 281, 513, 281, 320, 347, 23384, 347, 1896, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12247, 556, 2923, 285, 344, 588, 8386, 697, 718, 13, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1361, 275, 253, 3819, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

People are going to smoke. They're going to chew, they're going to dip. It's going to happen. Kids are going to do it. Why do all of these different non-profit groups think they can prevent that from happening? On the same token, sex is going to happen as soon as kids get to the age that they start to figure out what their respective organs are for. Why does the States consistently try to force unrealistic crap on it's people (like abstinence) as opposed to teaching them about their bodies, how to use condoms, how to be healthy, etc? I don't know about other American folks but when my kids get to the sexing age, I'd rather they be locked up in their rooms banging as opposed to being at some random person's house party or on some road late at night. for the record, I'm American.

Why do non-profit groups try to protect kids from smoking and sex, instead of teaching them responsible, safe sex techniques?

Why do US non-profits don't practice harm reduction/sex education and focus on preventing the transmission of STDs rather than abstinence?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6491, 403, 1469, 281, 11283, 15, 1583, 1472, 1469, 281, 1161, 88, 13, 597, 1472, 1469, 281, 12539, 15, 733, 434, 1469, 281, 5108, 15, 29219, 403, 1469, 281, 513, 352, 15, 6049, 513, 512, 273, 841, 1027, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1158, 597, 476, 3657, 326, 432, 9369, 32, 1623, 253, 1072, 10669, 13, 2825, 310, 1469, 281, 5108, 347, 3517, 347, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2363, 326, 597, 1265, 281, 4677, 562, 752, 616, 9056, 15384, 403, 323, 15, 6049, 1057, 253, 2077, 12724, 1611, 281, 3490, 46521, 23550, 327, 352, 434, 952, 313, 3022, 20965, 40156, 10, 347, 10066, 281, 9551, 731, 670, 616, 8248, 13, 849, 281, 897, 6882, 3056, 13, 849, 281, 320, 5875, 13, 3966, 32, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 871, 670, 643, 2448, 12633, 533, 672, 619, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2825, 272, 2363, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 597, 320, 12623, 598, 275, 616, 9956, 270, 5610, 347, 10066, 281, 1146, 387, 690, 3632, 1436, 434, 2419, 3128, 390, 327, 690, 3971, 3563, 387, 2360, 15, 2490, 187, 1542, 253, 1924, 13, 309, 1353, 2448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: People are going to smoke. They're going to chew, they're going to dip. It's going to happen. Kids are going to do it. Why do all of these different non-profit groups think they can prevent that from happening? On the same token, sex is going to happen as soon as kids get to the age that they start to figure out what their respective organs are for. Why does the States consistently try to force unrealistic crap on it's people (like abstinence) as opposed to teaching them about their bodies, how to use condoms, how to be healthy, etc? I don't know about other American folks but when my kids get to the sexing age, I'd rather they be locked up in their rooms banging as opposed to being at some random person's house party or on some road late at night. for the record, I'm American. TL;DR:

Why do non-profit groups try to protect kids from smoking and sex, instead of teaching them responsible, safe sex techniques?<|endoftext|>

[ 6049, 513, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1611, 281, 4017, 5753, 432, 10470, 285, 2825, 13, 3185, 273, 9551, 731, 5506, 13, 4999, 2825, 5609, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Why do US non-profits don't practice harm reduction/sex education and focus on preventing the transmission of STDs rather than abstinence?<|endoftext|>

[ 6049, 513, 1982, 1327, 14, 856, 26017, 1053, 626, 3946, 5237, 5141, 16, 11523, 4730, 285, 2770, 327, 13538, 253, 6322, 273, 3915, 19277, 2581, 685, 20965, 40156, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: People are going to smoke. They're going to chew, they're going to dip. It's going to happen. Kids are going to do it. Why do all of these different non-profit groups think they can prevent that from happening? On the same token, sex is going to happen as soon as kids get to the age that they start to figure out what their respective organs are for. Why does the States consistently try to force unrealistic crap on it's people (like abstinence) as opposed to teaching them about their bodies, how to use condoms, how to be healthy, etc? I don't know about other American folks but when my kids get to the sexing age, I'd rather they be locked up in their rooms banging as opposed to being at some random person's house party or on some road late at night. for the record, I'm American. TL;DR: Why do non-profit groups try to protect kids from smoking and sex, instead of teaching them responsible, safe sex techniques?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6491, 403, 1469, 281, 11283, 15, 1583, 1472, 1469, 281, 1161, 88, 13, 597, 1472, 1469, 281, 12539, 15, 733, 434, 1469, 281, 5108, 15, 29219, 403, 1469, 281, 513, 352, 15, 6049, 513, 512, 273, 841, 1027, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1158, 597, 476, 3657, 326, 432, 9369, 32, 1623, 253, 1072, 10669, 13, 2825, 310, 1469, 281, 5108, 347, 3517, 347, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2363, 326, 597, 1265, 281, 4677, 562, 752, 616, 9056, 15384, 403, 323, 15, 6049, 1057, 253, 2077, 12724, 1611, 281, 3490, 46521, 23550, 327, 352, 434, 952, 313, 3022, 20965, 40156, 10, 347, 10066, 281, 9551, 731, 670, 616, 8248, 13, 849, 281, 897, 6882, 3056, 13, 849, 281, 320, 5875, 13, 3966, 32, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 871, 670, 643, 2448, 12633, 533, 672, 619, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2825, 272, 2363, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 597, 320, 12623, 598, 275, 616, 9956, 270, 5610, 347, 10066, 281, 1146, 387, 690, 3632, 1436, 434, 2419, 3128, 390, 327, 690, 3971, 3563, 387, 2360, 15, 2490, 187, 1542, 253, 1924, 13, 309, 1353, 2448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 6049, 513, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1611, 281, 4017, 5753, 432, 10470, 285, 2825, 13, 3185, 273, 9551, 731, 5506, 13, 4999, 2825, 5609, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

233

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: People are going to smoke. They're going to chew, they're going to dip. It's going to happen. Kids are going to do it. Why do all of these different non-profit groups think they can prevent that from happening? On the same token, sex is going to happen as soon as kids get to the age that they start to figure out what their respective organs are for. Why does the States consistently try to force unrealistic crap on it's people (like abstinence) as opposed to teaching them about their bodies, how to use condoms, how to be healthy, etc? I don't know about other American folks but when my kids get to the sexing age, I'd rather they be locked up in their rooms banging as opposed to being at some random person's house party or on some road late at night. for the record, I'm American. TL;DR: Why do US non-profits don't practice harm reduction/sex education and focus on preventing the transmission of STDs rather than abstinence?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6491, 403, 1469, 281, 11283, 15, 1583, 1472, 1469, 281, 1161, 88, 13, 597, 1472, 1469, 281, 12539, 15, 733, 434, 1469, 281, 5108, 15, 29219, 403, 1469, 281, 513, 352, 15, 6049, 513, 512, 273, 841, 1027, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1158, 597, 476, 3657, 326, 432, 9369, 32, 1623, 253, 1072, 10669, 13, 2825, 310, 1469, 281, 5108, 347, 3517, 347, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2363, 326, 597, 1265, 281, 4677, 562, 752, 616, 9056, 15384, 403, 323, 15, 6049, 1057, 253, 2077, 12724, 1611, 281, 3490, 46521, 23550, 327, 352, 434, 952, 313, 3022, 20965, 40156, 10, 347, 10066, 281, 9551, 731, 670, 616, 8248, 13, 849, 281, 897, 6882, 3056, 13, 849, 281, 320, 5875, 13, 3966, 32, 2490, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 871, 670, 643, 2448, 12633, 533, 672, 619, 5753, 755, 281, 253, 2825, 272, 2363, 13, 309, 1871, 2581, 597, 320, 12623, 598, 275, 616, 9956, 270, 5610, 347, 10066, 281, 1146, 387, 690, 3632, 1436, 434, 2419, 3128, 390, 327, 690, 3971, 3563, 387, 2360, 15, 2490, 187, 1542, 253, 1924, 13, 309, 1353, 2448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 6049, 513, 1982, 1327, 14, 856, 26017, 1053, 626, 3946, 5237, 5141, 16, 11523, 4730, 285, 2770, 327, 13538, 253, 6322, 273, 3915, 19277, 2581, 685, 20965, 40156, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

237

207

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6049, 513, 1327, 14, 15608, 2390, 1611, 281, 4017, 5753, 432, 10470, 285, 2825, 13, 3185, 273, 9551, 731, 5506, 13, 4999, 2825, 5609, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6049, 513, 1982, 1327, 14, 856, 26017, 1053, 626, 3946, 5237, 5141, 16, 11523, 4730, 285, 2770, 327, 13538, 253, 6322, 273, 3915, 19277, 2581, 685, 20965, 40156, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I work in a complex with several run down buildings. The company I work for is the last of the two remaining buildings because the complex is being torn down. The other company is a trucking company that abuses the hell out of the parking lot, constantly destroying things. Since this place is being torn down the owner of the complex lets this place fall to shit. Now, I go to pull into a parking spot ( in my defense it was a tight spot and pouring rain) and there's this 2ft 50lb chunk of curb sitting in the middle of the spot. I of course hit it and put a nice dent into the front bumper. Its not terrible, but its significant enough to really piss me off. First off, the landlord is at fault for this, right? What can I do? Small claims court? The company is calling him now, I will post how this goes. Mazda 3 btw.

I hit a curb and put a dent in my bumper and company owner is at fault. What can I do?

My bumper was damaged in a beat up parking lot. Do I have any options?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 789, 275, 247, 2570, 342, 2067, 1408, 1066, 9195, 15, 50276, 510, 2567, 309, 789, 323, 310, 253, 1390, 273, 253, 767, 5780, 9195, 984, 253, 2570, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 15, 50276, 510, 643, 2567, 310, 247, 9988, 272, 2567, 326, 35703, 253, 7085, 562, 273, 253, 12102, 2257, 13, 11485, 25473, 1841, 15, 50276, 7542, 436, 1659, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 2570, 14935, 436, 1659, 2965, 281, 10739, 15, 50276, 4125, 13, 309, 564, 281, 3785, 715, 247, 12102, 6308, 313, 275, 619, 5684, 352, 369, 247, 6863, 6308, 285, 31226, 9313, 10, 285, 627, 434, 436, 374, 649, 2456, 24780, 20540, 273, 33204, 7063, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 6308, 15, 50276, 42, 273, 2282, 4352, 352, 285, 1691, 247, 5322, 13822, 715, 253, 2914, 270, 24512, 15, 50276, 27132, 417, 11527, 13, 533, 697, 1534, 2217, 281, 1663, 24329, 479, 745, 15, 50276, 6407, 745, 13, 253, 32084, 310, 387, 9331, 323, 436, 13, 987, 32, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 25074, 3916, 1302, 32, 187, 187, 510, 2567, 310, 6789, 779, 1024, 13, 309, 588, 1501, 849, 436, 4566, 15, 187, 46, 1370, 1473, 495, 270, 7553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work in a complex with several run down buildings. The company I work for is the last of the two remaining buildings because the complex is being torn down. The other company is a trucking company that abuses the hell out of the parking lot, constantly destroying things. Since this place is being torn down the owner of the complex lets this place fall to shit. Now, I go to pull into a parking spot ( in my defense it was a tight spot and pouring rain) and there's this 2ft 50lb chunk of curb sitting in the middle of the spot. I of course hit it and put a nice dent into the front bumper. Its not terrible, but its significant enough to really piss me off. First off, the landlord is at fault for this, right? What can I do? Small claims court? The company is calling him now, I will post how this goes. Mazda 3 btw. TL;DR:

I hit a curb and put a dent in my bumper and company owner is at fault. What can I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 4352, 247, 33204, 285, 1691, 247, 13822, 275, 619, 270, 24512, 285, 2567, 7302, 310, 387, 9331, 15, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My bumper was damaged in a beat up parking lot. Do I have any options?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 270, 24512, 369, 13572, 275, 247, 7171, 598, 12102, 2257, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 452, 667, 4610, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work in a complex with several run down buildings. The company I work for is the last of the two remaining buildings because the complex is being torn down. The other company is a trucking company that abuses the hell out of the parking lot, constantly destroying things. Since this place is being torn down the owner of the complex lets this place fall to shit. Now, I go to pull into a parking spot ( in my defense it was a tight spot and pouring rain) and there's this 2ft 50lb chunk of curb sitting in the middle of the spot. I of course hit it and put a nice dent into the front bumper. Its not terrible, but its significant enough to really piss me off. First off, the landlord is at fault for this, right? What can I do? Small claims court? The company is calling him now, I will post how this goes. Mazda 3 btw. TL;DR: I hit a curb and put a dent in my bumper and company owner is at fault. What can I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 789, 275, 247, 2570, 342, 2067, 1408, 1066, 9195, 15, 50276, 510, 2567, 309, 789, 323, 310, 253, 1390, 273, 253, 767, 5780, 9195, 984, 253, 2570, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 15, 50276, 510, 643, 2567, 310, 247, 9988, 272, 2567, 326, 35703, 253, 7085, 562, 273, 253, 12102, 2257, 13, 11485, 25473, 1841, 15, 50276, 7542, 436, 1659, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 2570, 14935, 436, 1659, 2965, 281, 10739, 15, 50276, 4125, 13, 309, 564, 281, 3785, 715, 247, 12102, 6308, 313, 275, 619, 5684, 352, 369, 247, 6863, 6308, 285, 31226, 9313, 10, 285, 627, 434, 436, 374, 649, 2456, 24780, 20540, 273, 33204, 7063, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 6308, 15, 50276, 42, 273, 2282, 4352, 352, 285, 1691, 247, 5322, 13822, 715, 253, 2914, 270, 24512, 15, 50276, 27132, 417, 11527, 13, 533, 697, 1534, 2217, 281, 1663, 24329, 479, 745, 15, 50276, 6407, 745, 13, 253, 32084, 310, 387, 9331, 323, 436, 13, 987, 32, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 25074, 3916, 1302, 32, 187, 187, 510, 2567, 310, 6789, 779, 1024, 13, 309, 588, 1501, 849, 436, 4566, 15, 187, 46, 1370, 1473, 495, 270, 7553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 4352, 247, 33204, 285, 1691, 247, 13822, 275, 619, 270, 24512, 285, 2567, 7302, 310, 387, 9331, 15, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

249

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I work in a complex with several run down buildings. The company I work for is the last of the two remaining buildings because the complex is being torn down. The other company is a trucking company that abuses the hell out of the parking lot, constantly destroying things. Since this place is being torn down the owner of the complex lets this place fall to shit. Now, I go to pull into a parking spot ( in my defense it was a tight spot and pouring rain) and there's this 2ft 50lb chunk of curb sitting in the middle of the spot. I of course hit it and put a nice dent into the front bumper. Its not terrible, but its significant enough to really piss me off. First off, the landlord is at fault for this, right? What can I do? Small claims court? The company is calling him now, I will post how this goes. Mazda 3 btw. TL;DR: My bumper was damaged in a beat up parking lot. Do I have any options?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 789, 275, 247, 2570, 342, 2067, 1408, 1066, 9195, 15, 50276, 510, 2567, 309, 789, 323, 310, 253, 1390, 273, 253, 767, 5780, 9195, 984, 253, 2570, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 15, 50276, 510, 643, 2567, 310, 247, 9988, 272, 2567, 326, 35703, 253, 7085, 562, 273, 253, 12102, 2257, 13, 11485, 25473, 1841, 15, 50276, 7542, 436, 1659, 310, 1146, 15070, 1066, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 2570, 14935, 436, 1659, 2965, 281, 10739, 15, 50276, 4125, 13, 309, 564, 281, 3785, 715, 247, 12102, 6308, 313, 275, 619, 5684, 352, 369, 247, 6863, 6308, 285, 31226, 9313, 10, 285, 627, 434, 436, 374, 649, 2456, 24780, 20540, 273, 33204, 7063, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 6308, 15, 50276, 42, 273, 2282, 4352, 352, 285, 1691, 247, 5322, 13822, 715, 253, 2914, 270, 24512, 15, 50276, 27132, 417, 11527, 13, 533, 697, 1534, 2217, 281, 1663, 24329, 479, 745, 15, 50276, 6407, 745, 13, 253, 32084, 310, 387, 9331, 323, 436, 13, 987, 32, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 25074, 3916, 1302, 32, 187, 187, 510, 2567, 310, 6789, 779, 1024, 13, 309, 588, 1501, 849, 436, 4566, 15, 187, 46, 1370, 1473, 495, 270, 7553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 270, 24512, 369, 13572, 275, 247, 7171, 598, 12102, 2257, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 452, 667, 4610, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

243

223

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 4352, 247, 33204, 285, 1691, 247, 13822, 275, 619, 270, 24512, 285, 2567, 7302, 310, 387, 9331, 15, 50276, 1276, 476, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 270, 24512, 369, 13572, 275, 247, 7171, 598, 12102, 2257, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 452, 667, 4610, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world…

Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.

I am going to tell my wife that I cheated on her with 5 women that I met on Craigslist. What should I limit in terms of their info (names, emails, addresses, etc...) when she asks?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR:

Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.<|endoftext|>

[ 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I am going to tell my wife that I cheated on her with 5 women that I met on Craigslist. What should I limit in terms of their info (names, emails, addresses, etc...) when she asks?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 717, 1469, 281, 2028, 619, 4475, 326, 309, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 342, 608, 2255, 326, 309, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 1276, 943, 309, 2701, 275, 2426, 273, 616, 8692, 313, 7886, 13, 16530, 13, 12453, 13, 3966, 19552, 672, 703, 12325, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR: Having issues with revealing and keeping details of my affair partners from my wife - I am conflicted about whether or not I should disclose their names and their email addresses.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

362

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Over the past year, I have had multiple affairs with multiple women that I have met on Craigslist. I am in my mid thirties and they have ranged to as young as 23 years old and as old as mid-forties... I have been married for 5 years with two kids (I know, I am a complete douche - so please don't take this opportunity to remind me...) I am soon going to be disclosing my behavior with my wife of nearly 6 years and obviously it is going to come as a huge shock and blow to her. I expect a lot of detailed questions about the affair (who, what, when, where, and why) and I am conflicted about the degree to which I should protect my affair partner's anonymity. I only know the true identity of a few partners and the rest are anonymous. The question I have is whether or not I should disclose where the affairs happened (mostly at their homes or apartments), their email addresses (most of which are fake yahoo accounts), and their names if I know them? My thoughts are that my affairs are about me and not about these women and given the number, their info is not pertinent. I also understand that I don't really get to call the shots any more and need to do whatever is necessary for my wife to heal… Anyway, I have an appointment with a therapist to discuss this, just thought I would get the opinion of the reddit world… TL;DR: I am going to tell my wife that I cheated on her with 5 women that I met on Craigslist. What should I limit in terms of their info (names, emails, addresses, etc...) when she asks?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6061, 253, 2469, 807, 13, 309, 452, 574, 2709, 13909, 342, 2709, 2255, 326, 309, 452, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 275, 619, 4260, 20960, 2890, 285, 597, 452, 17751, 281, 347, 2872, 347, 3495, 1107, 1711, 285, 347, 1711, 347, 4260, 14, 4371, 447, 1051, 50276, 42, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 608, 1107, 342, 767, 5753, 313, 42, 871, 13, 309, 717, 247, 3426, 2443, 1962, 428, 594, 4496, 1053, 626, 1379, 436, 5107, 281, 9287, 479, 19552, 187, 187, 42, 717, 3517, 1469, 281, 320, 4540, 5555, 619, 3879, 342, 619, 4475, 273, 4829, 721, 1107, 285, 9090, 352, 310, 1469, 281, 1705, 347, 247, 5699, 6966, 285, 8230, 281, 617, 15, 50276, 42, 1902, 247, 2257, 273, 7000, 3533, 670, 253, 18830, 313, 10002, 13, 752, 13, 672, 13, 835, 13, 285, 2139, 10, 285, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 253, 4248, 281, 534, 309, 943, 4017, 619, 18830, 7832, 434, 39185, 15, 50276, 42, 760, 871, 253, 2032, 6489, 273, 247, 1643, 10471, 285, 253, 1551, 403, 17679, 15, 50276, 510, 1953, 309, 452, 310, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 835, 253, 13909, 4592, 313, 39025, 387, 616, 9076, 390, 28573, 582, 616, 4579, 12453, 313, 2252, 273, 534, 403, 15223, 340, 20888, 8553, 582, 285, 616, 4454, 604, 309, 871, 731, 32, 187, 187, 3220, 7906, 403, 326, 619, 13909, 403, 670, 479, 285, 417, 670, 841, 2255, 285, 1677, 253, 1180, 13, 616, 8692, 310, 417, 21452, 15, 50276, 42, 671, 2096, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 755, 281, 1067, 253, 13768, 667, 625, 285, 878, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3309, 323, 619, 4475, 281, 20658, 2866, 50276, 25954, 13, 309, 452, 271, 14286, 342, 247, 30286, 281, 2319, 436, 13, 816, 1869, 309, 651, 755, 253, 4743, 273, 253, 28159, 262, 1533, 2866, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 2028, 619, 4475, 326, 309, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 342, 608, 2255, 326, 309, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 1276, 943, 309, 2701, 275, 2426, 273, 616, 8692, 313, 7886, 13, 16530, 13, 12453, 13, 3966, 19552, 672, 703, 12325, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

376

328

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14566, 3374, 342, 19678, 285, 7562, 4278, 273, 619, 18830, 10471, 432, 619, 4475, 428, 309, 717, 7344, 264, 670, 1880, 390, 417, 309, 943, 17611, 616, 4454, 285, 616, 4579, 12453, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 2028, 619, 4475, 326, 309, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 342, 608, 2255, 326, 309, 1313, 327, 20577, 3433, 382, 15, 50276, 1276, 943, 309, 2701, 275, 2426, 273, 616, 8692, 313, 7886, 13, 16530, 13, 12453, 13, 3966, 19552, 672, 703, 12325, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hello everyone. So the title pretty much says it all. I dated this guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 dates together. I liked him a lot except that he was a little overweight. He treated me so well during the dates. He planned for everything and paid for pretty much almost 100% of everything. I knew he was super into me but I just wasn't feeling it with him. Anyways, I ran into him the other day and we talked for a bit. He looks great! He told me he lost 50 pounds and all that. I asked him out but he directly told me he's not interested! I don't get it. How can he go from being really into me to not into me at all. All I think about is him now. What can I do to give me a chance?

I dated this guy 3 years ago. We hit it off but he wasn't interested. Now he looks like he lost 50 pounds and I want to be with him but he's not interested. What do I do?

I dated a guy 3 years ago. Couldn't figure out why he was interested in me at all but then he lost weight and is now not interested in me. How can I get him back?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 4130, 15, 187, 2598, 253, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 2427, 327, 495, 12282, 2366, 15, 309, 10490, 779, 247, 2257, 3707, 326, 344, 369, 247, 1652, 26389, 15, 754, 4127, 479, 594, 973, 1309, 253, 12282, 15, 754, 9355, 323, 3253, 285, 5087, 323, 3965, 1199, 2761, 2233, 6, 273, 3253, 15, 309, 3260, 344, 369, 2221, 715, 479, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 342, 779, 15, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 6337, 715, 779, 253, 643, 1388, 285, 359, 10062, 323, 247, 2372, 15, 754, 4453, 1270, 2, 754, 2183, 479, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 2546, 779, 562, 533, 344, 3587, 2183, 479, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 2, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 755, 352, 15, 1359, 476, 344, 564, 432, 1146, 1663, 715, 479, 281, 417, 715, 479, 387, 512, 15, 187, 3074, 309, 1158, 670, 310, 779, 1024, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everyone. So the title pretty much says it all. I dated this guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 dates together. I liked him a lot except that he was a little overweight. He treated me so well during the dates. He planned for everything and paid for pretty much almost 100% of everything. I knew he was super into me but I just wasn't feeling it with him. Anyways, I ran into him the other day and we talked for a bit. He looks great! He told me he lost 50 pounds and all that. I asked him out but he directly told me he's not interested! I don't get it. How can he go from being really into me to not into me at all. All I think about is him now. What can I do to give me a chance? TL;DR:

I dated this guy 3 years ago. We hit it off but he wasn't interested. Now he looks like he lost 50 pounds and I want to be with him but he's not interested. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 533, 344, 3589, 626, 6110, 15, 3954, 344, 4453, 751, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 309, 971, 281, 320, 342, 779, 533, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I dated a guy 3 years ago. Couldn't figure out why he was interested in me at all but then he lost weight and is now not interested in me. How can I get him back?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 15483, 247, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 16574, 79, 626, 4677, 562, 2139, 344, 369, 6110, 275, 479, 387, 512, 533, 840, 344, 3663, 2801, 285, 310, 1024, 417, 6110, 275, 479, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 755, 779, 896, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everyone. So the title pretty much says it all. I dated this guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 dates together. I liked him a lot except that he was a little overweight. He treated me so well during the dates. He planned for everything and paid for pretty much almost 100% of everything. I knew he was super into me but I just wasn't feeling it with him. Anyways, I ran into him the other day and we talked for a bit. He looks great! He told me he lost 50 pounds and all that. I asked him out but he directly told me he's not interested! I don't get it. How can he go from being really into me to not into me at all. All I think about is him now. What can I do to give me a chance? TL;DR: I dated this guy 3 years ago. We hit it off but he wasn't interested. Now he looks like he lost 50 pounds and I want to be with him but he's not interested. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 4130, 15, 187, 2598, 253, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 2427, 327, 495, 12282, 2366, 15, 309, 10490, 779, 247, 2257, 3707, 326, 344, 369, 247, 1652, 26389, 15, 754, 4127, 479, 594, 973, 1309, 253, 12282, 15, 754, 9355, 323, 3253, 285, 5087, 323, 3965, 1199, 2761, 2233, 6, 273, 3253, 15, 309, 3260, 344, 369, 2221, 715, 479, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 342, 779, 15, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 6337, 715, 779, 253, 643, 1388, 285, 359, 10062, 323, 247, 2372, 15, 754, 4453, 1270, 2, 754, 2183, 479, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 2546, 779, 562, 533, 344, 3587, 2183, 479, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 2, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 755, 352, 15, 1359, 476, 344, 564, 432, 1146, 1663, 715, 479, 281, 417, 715, 479, 387, 512, 15, 187, 3074, 309, 1158, 670, 310, 779, 1024, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 533, 344, 3589, 626, 6110, 15, 3954, 344, 4453, 751, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 309, 971, 281, 320, 342, 779, 533, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

239

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hello everyone. So the title pretty much says it all. I dated this guy 3 years ago. We went on 3 dates together. I liked him a lot except that he was a little overweight. He treated me so well during the dates. He planned for everything and paid for pretty much almost 100% of everything. I knew he was super into me but I just wasn't feeling it with him. Anyways, I ran into him the other day and we talked for a bit. He looks great! He told me he lost 50 pounds and all that. I asked him out but he directly told me he's not interested! I don't get it. How can he go from being really into me to not into me at all. All I think about is him now. What can I do to give me a chance? TL;DR: I dated a guy 3 years ago. Couldn't figure out why he was interested in me at all but then he lost weight and is now not interested in me. How can I get him back?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 24387, 4130, 15, 187, 2598, 253, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 2427, 327, 495, 12282, 2366, 15, 309, 10490, 779, 247, 2257, 3707, 326, 344, 369, 247, 1652, 26389, 15, 754, 4127, 479, 594, 973, 1309, 253, 12282, 15, 754, 9355, 323, 3253, 285, 5087, 323, 3965, 1199, 2761, 2233, 6, 273, 3253, 15, 309, 3260, 344, 369, 2221, 715, 479, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 342, 779, 15, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 6337, 715, 779, 253, 643, 1388, 285, 359, 10062, 323, 247, 2372, 15, 754, 4453, 1270, 2, 754, 2183, 479, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 512, 326, 15, 309, 2546, 779, 562, 533, 344, 3587, 2183, 479, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 2, 187, 42, 1053, 626, 755, 352, 15, 1359, 476, 344, 564, 432, 1146, 1663, 715, 479, 281, 417, 715, 479, 387, 512, 15, 187, 3074, 309, 1158, 670, 310, 779, 1024, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 15483, 247, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 16574, 79, 626, 4677, 562, 2139, 344, 369, 6110, 275, 479, 387, 512, 533, 840, 344, 3663, 2801, 285, 310, 1024, 417, 6110, 275, 479, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 755, 779, 896, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

236

194

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 15483, 436, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 844, 4352, 352, 745, 533, 344, 3589, 626, 6110, 15, 3954, 344, 4453, 751, 344, 3663, 2456, 12511, 285, 309, 971, 281, 320, 342, 779, 533, 344, 434, 417, 6110, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 15483, 247, 5599, 495, 1107, 3622, 15, 16574, 79, 626, 4677, 562, 2139, 344, 369, 6110, 275, 479, 387, 512, 533, 840, 344, 3663, 2801, 285, 310, 1024, 417, 6110, 275, 479, 15, 1359, 476, 309, 755, 779, 896, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

**edit - issue with title...30F and 29M...) So I work in a smallish retail store, and have been spending time with one of the guys a lot lately. We go out for drinks with his friends or on our own every now and then, we are chatty at work, and talk on the phone for a few hours at a time. We can be super flirty, talk about random things, generally have an overall amazing conversation. He keeps telling me he needs a woman to see what he has to offer. We have talked about how similar we are, and how much we want the same things. I wish that he would open his eyes and see in me what I want him to see. Idk how to tell him that I'm interested without hurting our friendship.

Long time friend wants a relationship, I want to be his girlfriend but don't want to hurt friendship.

need help figuring out how to tell co worker to date me instead of some random girl that he hasn't meet yet ..

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1401, 15576, 428, 2523, 342, 4060, 1051, 1229, 39, 285, 3285, 46, 19552, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 789, 275, 247, 1355, 763, 10567, 4657, 13, 285, 452, 644, 9100, 673, 342, 581, 273, 253, 6068, 247, 2257, 21403, 15, 50276, 1231, 564, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 521, 3858, 390, 327, 776, 1211, 1046, 1024, 285, 840, 13, 359, 403, 12939, 555, 387, 789, 13, 285, 2312, 327, 253, 4481, 323, 247, 1643, 3038, 387, 247, 673, 15, 50276, 1231, 476, 320, 2221, 892, 6111, 13, 2312, 670, 3632, 1841, 13, 3839, 452, 271, 4583, 8644, 7827, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1328, 11359, 7746, 479, 344, 3198, 247, 3416, 281, 923, 752, 344, 556, 281, 3959, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 10062, 670, 849, 2074, 359, 403, 13, 285, 849, 1199, 359, 971, 253, 1072, 1841, 15, 50276, 42, 5730, 326, 344, 651, 1527, 521, 2927, 285, 923, 275, 479, 752, 309, 50276, 28206, 779, 281, 923, 15, 50276, 2618, 76, 849, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 6110, 1293, 34426, 776, 19429, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **edit - issue with title...30F and 29M...) So I work in a smallish retail store, and have been spending time with one of the guys a lot lately. We go out for drinks with his friends or on our own every now and then, we are chatty at work, and talk on the phone for a few hours at a time. We can be super flirty, talk about random things, generally have an overall amazing conversation. He keeps telling me he needs a woman to see what he has to offer. We have talked about how similar we are, and how much we want the same things. I wish that he would open his eyes and see in me what I want him to see. Idk how to tell him that I'm interested without hurting our friendship. TL;DR:

Long time friend wants a relationship, I want to be his girlfriend but don't want to hurt friendship.<|endoftext|>

[ 8057, 673, 3331, 5605, 247, 2954, 13, 309, 971, 281, 320, 521, 19609, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 8513, 19429, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

need help figuring out how to tell co worker to date me instead of some random girl that he hasn't meet yet ..<|endoftext|>

[ 878, 1361, 36182, 562, 849, 281, 2028, 820, 12954, 281, 3522, 479, 3185, 273, 690, 3632, 3226, 326, 344, 11210, 626, 2525, 2568, 10712, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **edit - issue with title...30F and 29M...) So I work in a smallish retail store, and have been spending time with one of the guys a lot lately. We go out for drinks with his friends or on our own every now and then, we are chatty at work, and talk on the phone for a few hours at a time. We can be super flirty, talk about random things, generally have an overall amazing conversation. He keeps telling me he needs a woman to see what he has to offer. We have talked about how similar we are, and how much we want the same things. I wish that he would open his eyes and see in me what I want him to see. Idk how to tell him that I'm interested without hurting our friendship. TL;DR: Long time friend wants a relationship, I want to be his girlfriend but don't want to hurt friendship.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1401, 15576, 428, 2523, 342, 4060, 1051, 1229, 39, 285, 3285, 46, 19552, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 789, 275, 247, 1355, 763, 10567, 4657, 13, 285, 452, 644, 9100, 673, 342, 581, 273, 253, 6068, 247, 2257, 21403, 15, 50276, 1231, 564, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 521, 3858, 390, 327, 776, 1211, 1046, 1024, 285, 840, 13, 359, 403, 12939, 555, 387, 789, 13, 285, 2312, 327, 253, 4481, 323, 247, 1643, 3038, 387, 247, 673, 15, 50276, 1231, 476, 320, 2221, 892, 6111, 13, 2312, 670, 3632, 1841, 13, 3839, 452, 271, 4583, 8644, 7827, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1328, 11359, 7746, 479, 344, 3198, 247, 3416, 281, 923, 752, 344, 556, 281, 3959, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 10062, 670, 849, 2074, 359, 403, 13, 285, 849, 1199, 359, 971, 253, 1072, 1841, 15, 50276, 42, 5730, 326, 344, 651, 1527, 521, 2927, 285, 923, 275, 479, 752, 309, 50276, 28206, 779, 281, 923, 15, 50276, 2618, 76, 849, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 6110, 1293, 34426, 776, 19429, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 8057, 673, 3331, 5605, 247, 2954, 13, 309, 971, 281, 320, 521, 19609, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 8513, 19429, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

217

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: **edit - issue with title...30F and 29M...) So I work in a smallish retail store, and have been spending time with one of the guys a lot lately. We go out for drinks with his friends or on our own every now and then, we are chatty at work, and talk on the phone for a few hours at a time. We can be super flirty, talk about random things, generally have an overall amazing conversation. He keeps telling me he needs a woman to see what he has to offer. We have talked about how similar we are, and how much we want the same things. I wish that he would open his eyes and see in me what I want him to see. Idk how to tell him that I'm interested without hurting our friendship. TL;DR: need help figuring out how to tell co worker to date me instead of some random girl that he hasn't meet yet ..<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1401, 15576, 428, 2523, 342, 4060, 1051, 1229, 39, 285, 3285, 46, 19552, 187, 187, 2598, 309, 789, 275, 247, 1355, 763, 10567, 4657, 13, 285, 452, 644, 9100, 673, 342, 581, 273, 253, 6068, 247, 2257, 21403, 15, 50276, 1231, 564, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 521, 3858, 390, 327, 776, 1211, 1046, 1024, 285, 840, 13, 359, 403, 12939, 555, 387, 789, 13, 285, 2312, 327, 253, 4481, 323, 247, 1643, 3038, 387, 247, 673, 15, 50276, 1231, 476, 320, 2221, 892, 6111, 13, 2312, 670, 3632, 1841, 13, 3839, 452, 271, 4583, 8644, 7827, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1328, 11359, 7746, 479, 344, 3198, 247, 3416, 281, 923, 752, 344, 556, 281, 3959, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 10062, 670, 849, 2074, 359, 403, 13, 285, 849, 1199, 359, 971, 253, 1072, 1841, 15, 50276, 42, 5730, 326, 344, 651, 1527, 521, 2927, 285, 923, 275, 479, 752, 309, 50276, 28206, 779, 281, 923, 15, 50276, 2618, 76, 849, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 1353, 6110, 1293, 34426, 776, 19429, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 878, 1361, 36182, 562, 849, 281, 2028, 820, 12954, 281, 3522, 479, 3185, 273, 690, 3632, 3226, 326, 344, 11210, 626, 2525, 2568, 10712, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

220

195

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 8057, 673, 3331, 5605, 247, 2954, 13, 309, 971, 281, 320, 521, 19609, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 8513, 19429, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 878, 1361, 36182, 562, 849, 281, 2028, 820, 12954, 281, 3522, 479, 3185, 273, 690, 3632, 3226, 326, 344, 11210, 626, 2525, 2568, 10712, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

The title pretty much says it all. My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 1 year anniversary next week and we still haven't said "I love you". He's a great guy, we get along really well, have similar life goals. He's definitely someone I can see sharing my life with. But I don't have that crazy/wild "in love" feeling I've had in the past. I do have romantic/sexual desire towards him, and I still get little butterflies from time to time, so it's not like the spark is gone. The spark just never progressed past that first stage. I like him romantically, love him as a person, but I feel like I should feel more passionate about him by now, and I just don't. I'm not really sure what to do. Are my expectations too high? Yes I have felt more passionate about previous SOs, but those relationships were also more volatile. They ended for a reason. I'm finally in a stable, healthy, happy relationship with a man I really care about, but I can't get over the feeling that something is missing.

After one year together, I'm still not "in love" with my boyfriend. I am otherwise very happy in the relationship. Should I continue it?

I [26F] don't think I am in love with my boyfriend, but I'm still not satisfied with my happiness.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 2752, 22273, 285, 309, 403, 28765, 776, 337, 807, 19054, 1735, 2129, 285, 359, 1335, 6468, 626, 753, 346, 42, 2389, 368, 3446, 754, 434, 247, 1270, 5599, 13, 359, 755, 2112, 1663, 973, 13, 452, 2074, 1495, 7342, 15, 754, 434, 7964, 3095, 309, 476, 923, 9628, 619, 1495, 342, 15, 1292, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 326, 10412, 16, 32778, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 5471, 309, 1849, 574, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 42, 513, 452, 18109, 16, 32813, 8327, 4404, 779, 13, 50276, 395, 309, 1335, 755, 1652, 10379, 31652, 432, 673, 281, 673, 13, 594, 352, 434, 417, 751, 253, 13673, 310, 4783, 15, 380, 13673, 816, 1620, 33127, 2469, 326, 806, 3924, 15, 309, 751, 779, 10102, 39904, 13, 2389, 779, 347, 247, 1436, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 943, 1928, 625, 22500, 670, 779, 407, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 1663, 2119, 752, 281, 513, 15, 6272, 619, 12656, 1512, 1029, 32, 6279, 309, 452, 3543, 625, 22500, 670, 2045, 8717, 84, 13, 533, 1110, 7688, 497, 671, 625, 22326, 15, 1583, 7402, 323, 247, 1921, 15, 309, 1353, 4720, 275, 247, 6474, 13, 5875, 13, 5211, 2954, 342, 247, 637, 309, 1663, 1557, 670, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 755, 689, 253, 5471, 326, 1633, 310, 5816, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The title pretty much says it all. My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 1 year anniversary next week and we still haven't said "I love you". He's a great guy, we get along really well, have similar life goals. He's definitely someone I can see sharing my life with. But I don't have that crazy/wild "in love" feeling I've had in the past. I do have romantic/sexual desire towards him, and I still get little butterflies from time to time, so it's not like the spark is gone. The spark just never progressed past that first stage. I like him romantically, love him as a person, but I feel like I should feel more passionate about him by now, and I just don't. I'm not really sure what to do. Are my expectations too high? Yes I have felt more passionate about previous SOs, but those relationships were also more volatile. They ended for a reason. I'm finally in a stable, healthy, happy relationship with a man I really care about, but I can't get over the feeling that something is missing. TL;DR:

After one year together, I'm still not "in love" with my boyfriend. I am otherwise very happy in the relationship. Should I continue it?<|endoftext|>

[ 2732, 581, 807, 2366, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 717, 5010, 1077, 5211, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 14482, 309, 4035, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I [26F] don't think I am in love with my boyfriend, but I'm still not satisfied with my happiness.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 544, 1731, 39, 62, 1053, 626, 1158, 309, 717, 275, 2389, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 10048, 342, 619, 15704, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The title pretty much says it all. My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 1 year anniversary next week and we still haven't said "I love you". He's a great guy, we get along really well, have similar life goals. He's definitely someone I can see sharing my life with. But I don't have that crazy/wild "in love" feeling I've had in the past. I do have romantic/sexual desire towards him, and I still get little butterflies from time to time, so it's not like the spark is gone. The spark just never progressed past that first stage. I like him romantically, love him as a person, but I feel like I should feel more passionate about him by now, and I just don't. I'm not really sure what to do. Are my expectations too high? Yes I have felt more passionate about previous SOs, but those relationships were also more volatile. They ended for a reason. I'm finally in a stable, healthy, happy relationship with a man I really care about, but I can't get over the feeling that something is missing. TL;DR: After one year together, I'm still not "in love" with my boyfriend. I am otherwise very happy in the relationship. Should I continue it?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 2752, 22273, 285, 309, 403, 28765, 776, 337, 807, 19054, 1735, 2129, 285, 359, 1335, 6468, 626, 753, 346, 42, 2389, 368, 3446, 754, 434, 247, 1270, 5599, 13, 359, 755, 2112, 1663, 973, 13, 452, 2074, 1495, 7342, 15, 754, 434, 7964, 3095, 309, 476, 923, 9628, 619, 1495, 342, 15, 1292, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 326, 10412, 16, 32778, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 5471, 309, 1849, 574, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 42, 513, 452, 18109, 16, 32813, 8327, 4404, 779, 13, 50276, 395, 309, 1335, 755, 1652, 10379, 31652, 432, 673, 281, 673, 13, 594, 352, 434, 417, 751, 253, 13673, 310, 4783, 15, 380, 13673, 816, 1620, 33127, 2469, 326, 806, 3924, 15, 309, 751, 779, 10102, 39904, 13, 2389, 779, 347, 247, 1436, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 943, 1928, 625, 22500, 670, 779, 407, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 1663, 2119, 752, 281, 513, 15, 6272, 619, 12656, 1512, 1029, 32, 6279, 309, 452, 3543, 625, 22500, 670, 2045, 8717, 84, 13, 533, 1110, 7688, 497, 671, 625, 22326, 15, 1583, 7402, 323, 247, 1921, 15, 309, 1353, 4720, 275, 247, 6474, 13, 5875, 13, 5211, 2954, 342, 247, 637, 309, 1663, 1557, 670, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 755, 689, 253, 5471, 326, 1633, 310, 5816, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2732, 581, 807, 2366, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 717, 5010, 1077, 5211, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 14482, 309, 4035, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

287

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: The title pretty much says it all. My boyfriend and I are celebrating our 1 year anniversary next week and we still haven't said "I love you". He's a great guy, we get along really well, have similar life goals. He's definitely someone I can see sharing my life with. But I don't have that crazy/wild "in love" feeling I've had in the past. I do have romantic/sexual desire towards him, and I still get little butterflies from time to time, so it's not like the spark is gone. The spark just never progressed past that first stage. I like him romantically, love him as a person, but I feel like I should feel more passionate about him by now, and I just don't. I'm not really sure what to do. Are my expectations too high? Yes I have felt more passionate about previous SOs, but those relationships were also more volatile. They ended for a reason. I'm finally in a stable, healthy, happy relationship with a man I really care about, but I can't get over the feeling that something is missing. TL;DR: I [26F] don't think I am in love with my boyfriend, but I'm still not satisfied with my happiness.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 380, 4060, 3965, 1199, 2296, 352, 512, 15, 2752, 22273, 285, 309, 403, 28765, 776, 337, 807, 19054, 1735, 2129, 285, 359, 1335, 6468, 626, 753, 346, 42, 2389, 368, 3446, 754, 434, 247, 1270, 5599, 13, 359, 755, 2112, 1663, 973, 13, 452, 2074, 1495, 7342, 15, 754, 434, 7964, 3095, 309, 476, 923, 9628, 619, 1495, 342, 15, 1292, 309, 1053, 626, 452, 326, 10412, 16, 32778, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 5471, 309, 1849, 574, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 42, 513, 452, 18109, 16, 32813, 8327, 4404, 779, 13, 50276, 395, 309, 1335, 755, 1652, 10379, 31652, 432, 673, 281, 673, 13, 594, 352, 434, 417, 751, 253, 13673, 310, 4783, 15, 380, 13673, 816, 1620, 33127, 2469, 326, 806, 3924, 15, 309, 751, 779, 10102, 39904, 13, 2389, 779, 347, 247, 1436, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 943, 1928, 625, 22500, 670, 779, 407, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 417, 1663, 2119, 752, 281, 513, 15, 6272, 619, 12656, 1512, 1029, 32, 6279, 309, 452, 3543, 625, 22500, 670, 2045, 8717, 84, 13, 533, 1110, 7688, 497, 671, 625, 22326, 15, 1583, 7402, 323, 247, 1921, 15, 309, 1353, 4720, 275, 247, 6474, 13, 5875, 13, 5211, 2954, 342, 247, 637, 309, 1663, 1557, 670, 13, 533, 309, 476, 626, 755, 689, 253, 5471, 326, 1633, 310, 5816, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 544, 1731, 39, 62, 1053, 626, 1158, 309, 717, 275, 2389, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 10048, 342, 619, 15704, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

282

255

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2732, 581, 807, 2366, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 346, 249, 2389, 3, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 717, 5010, 1077, 5211, 275, 253, 2954, 15, 14482, 309, 4035, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 544, 1731, 39, 62, 1053, 626, 1158, 309, 717, 275, 2389, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 417, 10048, 342, 619, 15704, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice?

My girlfriend told me they only did sexual stuff together once after they broke up and she lied to me. I feel betrayed and don't know if I can trust her anymore. Any advice?

Girlfriend of 3 years lied to me several times about their past sexual relationship and it's making me mad. She told me she never spoke to him again for months after they broke up after she said she hated him and hated him.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 1663, 417, 2509, 281, 973, 15, 2752, 19609, 310, 619, 806, 2954, 285, 5615, 7832, 1223, 309, 717, 617, 1273, 15, 831, 556, 1900, 14004, 479, 15, 309, 13308, 323, 3095, 711, 26368, 285, 703, 1904, 626, 15, 4058, 385, 369, 271, 40889, 2854, 23827, 665, 369, 37142, 327, 617, 15, 1583, 23651, 285, 858, 690, 5615, 5017, 534, 310, 1077, 14004, 1076, 281, 479, 15, 1500, 434, 1900, 2183, 479, 326, 597, 760, 858, 2712, 5615, 2378, 285, 703, 1694, 16060, 285, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 15, 1500, 7558, 281, 9239, 285, 26882, 885, 779, 285, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 10062, 281, 779, 969, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 1723, 13, 3063, 327, 6745, 309, 3047, 326, 703, 574, 16632, 779, 27575, 28919, 1201, 2067, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 831, 1160, 479, 10279, 28, 344, 574, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 285, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 15, 6089, 309, 2546, 617, 3063, 285, 6524, 703, 753, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 1583, 2686, 574, 2218, 5615, 1841, 2366, 7019, 285, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 597, 10062, 969, 285, 323, 247, 2129, 2783, 13597, 15, 380, 1620, 858, 15, 1292, 253, 760, 1921, 703, 2183, 479, 369, 984, 309, 753, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2505, 779, 285, 1642, 752, 703, 369, 17197, 13, 984, 1078, 359, 10062, 3063, 703, 574, 1900, 29334, 1110, 1841, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 984, 1014, 11066, 703, 574, 2183, 479, 597, 574, 1620, 13452, 969, 285, 703, 42895, 597, 760, 858, 352, 2378, 285, 703, 1669, 253, 2419, 4745, 285, 597, 1620, 10062, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 11790, 387, 617, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1335, 4517, 617, 15, 3166, 368, 6068, 452, 667, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice? TL;DR:

My girlfriend told me they only did sexual stuff together once after they broke up and she lied to me. I feel betrayed and don't know if I can trust her anymore. Any advice?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 19609, 2183, 479, 597, 760, 858, 5615, 5017, 2366, 2378, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 285, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 4517, 617, 10542, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Girlfriend of 3 years lied to me several times about their past sexual relationship and it's making me mad. She told me she never spoke to him again for months after they broke up after she said she hated him and hated him.<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 273, 495, 1107, 27786, 281, 479, 2067, 2069, 670, 616, 2469, 5615, 2954, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 10279, 15, 1500, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 7560, 281, 779, 969, 323, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 846, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 285, 21023, 779, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice? TL;DR: My girlfriend told me they only did sexual stuff together once after they broke up and she lied to me. I feel betrayed and don't know if I can trust her anymore. Any advice?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 1663, 417, 2509, 281, 973, 15, 2752, 19609, 310, 619, 806, 2954, 285, 5615, 7832, 1223, 309, 717, 617, 1273, 15, 831, 556, 1900, 14004, 479, 15, 309, 13308, 323, 3095, 711, 26368, 285, 703, 1904, 626, 15, 4058, 385, 369, 271, 40889, 2854, 23827, 665, 369, 37142, 327, 617, 15, 1583, 23651, 285, 858, 690, 5615, 5017, 534, 310, 1077, 14004, 1076, 281, 479, 15, 1500, 434, 1900, 2183, 479, 326, 597, 760, 858, 2712, 5615, 2378, 285, 703, 1694, 16060, 285, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 15, 1500, 7558, 281, 9239, 285, 26882, 885, 779, 285, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 10062, 281, 779, 969, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 1723, 13, 3063, 327, 6745, 309, 3047, 326, 703, 574, 16632, 779, 27575, 28919, 1201, 2067, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 831, 1160, 479, 10279, 28, 344, 574, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 285, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 15, 6089, 309, 2546, 617, 3063, 285, 6524, 703, 753, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 1583, 2686, 574, 2218, 5615, 1841, 2366, 7019, 285, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 597, 10062, 969, 285, 323, 247, 2129, 2783, 13597, 15, 380, 1620, 858, 15, 1292, 253, 760, 1921, 703, 2183, 479, 369, 984, 309, 753, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2505, 779, 285, 1642, 752, 703, 369, 17197, 13, 984, 1078, 359, 10062, 3063, 703, 574, 1900, 29334, 1110, 1841, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 984, 1014, 11066, 703, 574, 2183, 479, 597, 574, 1620, 13452, 969, 285, 703, 42895, 597, 760, 858, 352, 2378, 285, 703, 1669, 253, 2419, 4745, 285, 597, 1620, 10062, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 11790, 387, 617, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1335, 4517, 617, 15, 3166, 368, 6068, 452, 667, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 2183, 479, 597, 760, 858, 5615, 5017, 2366, 2378, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 285, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 4517, 617, 10542, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

352

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm really not doing to well. My girlfriend is my first relationship and sexual partner while I am her second. This has always upset me. I waited for someone deserving and she didn't. Her ex was an asshole drug dealer who was cheating on her. They kissed and did some sexual stuff which is very upsetting to me. She's always told me that they only did anything sexual once and she got scared and broke up with him. She claimed to hate and despise him and told me she never talked to him again after they broke up. However, today on Facebook I saw that she had wished him Happy Birthday several months after they broke up. This made me mad; he had cheated on her and she said she hated him. Well I asked her today and eventually she said she lied to me. They actually had done sexual things together twice and months after they broke up they talked again and for a week considered dating. The never did. But the only reason she told me was because I said I was going to text him and ask what she was hiding, because before we talked today she had always hid those things. I feel betrayed because even yesterday she had told me they had never spoken again and she swore they only did it once and she left the house immediately and they never talked again. I'm so angry at her and I don't know if I can still trust her. Do you guys have any advice? TL;DR: Girlfriend of 3 years lied to me several times about their past sexual relationship and it's making me mad. She told me she never spoke to him again for months after they broke up after she said she hated him and hated him.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 1663, 417, 2509, 281, 973, 15, 2752, 19609, 310, 619, 806, 2954, 285, 5615, 7832, 1223, 309, 717, 617, 1273, 15, 831, 556, 1900, 14004, 479, 15, 309, 13308, 323, 3095, 711, 26368, 285, 703, 1904, 626, 15, 4058, 385, 369, 271, 40889, 2854, 23827, 665, 369, 37142, 327, 617, 15, 1583, 23651, 285, 858, 690, 5615, 5017, 534, 310, 1077, 14004, 1076, 281, 479, 15, 1500, 434, 1900, 2183, 479, 326, 597, 760, 858, 2712, 5615, 2378, 285, 703, 1694, 16060, 285, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 15, 1500, 7558, 281, 9239, 285, 26882, 885, 779, 285, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 10062, 281, 779, 969, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 1723, 13, 3063, 327, 6745, 309, 3047, 326, 703, 574, 16632, 779, 27575, 28919, 1201, 2067, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 15, 831, 1160, 479, 10279, 28, 344, 574, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 285, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 15, 6089, 309, 2546, 617, 3063, 285, 6524, 703, 753, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 1583, 2686, 574, 2218, 5615, 1841, 2366, 7019, 285, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 597, 10062, 969, 285, 323, 247, 2129, 2783, 13597, 15, 380, 1620, 858, 15, 1292, 253, 760, 1921, 703, 2183, 479, 369, 984, 309, 753, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 2505, 779, 285, 1642, 752, 703, 369, 17197, 13, 984, 1078, 359, 10062, 3063, 703, 574, 1900, 29334, 1110, 1841, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 984, 1014, 11066, 703, 574, 2183, 479, 597, 574, 1620, 13452, 969, 285, 703, 42895, 597, 760, 858, 352, 2378, 285, 703, 1669, 253, 2419, 4745, 285, 597, 1620, 10062, 969, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 11790, 387, 617, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 1335, 4517, 617, 15, 3166, 368, 6068, 452, 667, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 273, 495, 1107, 27786, 281, 479, 2067, 2069, 670, 616, 2469, 5615, 2954, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 10279, 15, 1500, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 7560, 281, 779, 969, 323, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 846, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 285, 21023, 779, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

361

313

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 19609, 2183, 479, 597, 760, 858, 5615, 5017, 2366, 2378, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 285, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 15, 309, 1928, 35935, 285, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 4517, 617, 10542, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 273, 495, 1107, 27786, 281, 479, 2067, 2069, 670, 616, 2469, 5615, 2954, 285, 352, 434, 2403, 479, 10279, 15, 1500, 2183, 479, 703, 1620, 7560, 281, 779, 969, 323, 2607, 846, 597, 9377, 598, 846, 703, 753, 703, 21023, 779, 285, 21023, 779, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!!

I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.

My coworker cheated on my boyfriend. I have no way to tell the salon owner, who is also my boss. Is it fair to the salon owner to ask for her to be dropped from the staff?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1056, 436, 18382, 4291, 15, 309, 789, 387, 247, 1355, 13, 533, 22694, 48574, 15, 844, 403, 512, 1077, 13, 1077, 2810, 15, 309, 2783, 776, 16112, 382, 581, 273, 619, 1682, 3858, 15, 11376, 374, 2607, 3622, 13, 1309, 247, 1892, 673, 275, 619, 2954, 13, 309, 1119, 562, 436, 3226, 369, 1907, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 1583, 497, 12345, 17197, 352, 13, 285, 703, 369, 34452, 281, 320, 619, 3331, 285, 1146, 346, 13821, 422, 3, 273, 619, 2954, 23490, 436, 2644, 673, 15, 1284, 4351, 479, 849, 352, 369, 1469, 13, 18462, 479, 281, 1461, 504, 275, 617, 13, 3966, 15, 1707, 369, 247, 31233, 13, 37598, 37598, 37598, 15, 1500, 369, 12345, 15251, 1999, 15, 309, 9703, 281, 4151, 776, 47450, 13, 1146, 326, 352, 310, 824, 271, 21383, 789, 3126, 285, 597, 651, 452, 8344, 253, 1818, 275, 18222, 15, 443, 30336, 651, 452, 49984, 15, 309, 760, 3984, 281, 617, 672, 3309, 285, 347, 273, 2568, 13, 703, 11210, 626, 43303, 342, 619, 10130, 390, 2712, 273, 326, 3753, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 7692, 27, 253, 760, 1436, 25229, 273, 436, 4112, 310, 253, 48574, 7302, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 3226, 2444, 387, 253, 48574, 10542, 13, 352, 434, 36713, 323, 479, 28561, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 751, 697, 4344, 326, 309, 476, 626, 22134, 4517, 390, 13791, 342, 619, 16112, 382, 13, 285, 309, 513, 417, 971, 281, 2118, 15, 6515, 18260, 13, 4886, 275, 619, 2136, 4815, 368, 1884, 6, 273, 634, 5268, 11177, 327, 3388, 13, 352, 651, 320, 247, 4832, 2495, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 323, 479, 281, 2312, 281, 253, 7302, 285, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 13, 390, 717, 309, 13872, 14021, 9005, 1841, 32, 1680, 352, 16593, 281, 619, 47450, 6523, 347, 352, 588, 2818, 731, 281, 13, 1907, 281, 1089, 285, 2740, 275, 247, 747, 16112, 382, 32, 2091, 436, 806, 4592, 309, 39559, 1795, 2729, 253, 2256, 342, 247, 1643, 273, 731, 281, 6804, 10123, 15, 21695, 15844, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR:

I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 871, 247, 16112, 382, 326, 574, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 594, 309, 971, 617, 562, 273, 619, 48574, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 352, 588, 2818, 253, 48574, 285, 619, 47450, 13, 665, 309, 476, 626, 13791, 342, 15, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 417, 4344, 281, 1642, 617, 281, 3553, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 253, 7302, 13, 533, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 452, 617, 1060, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My coworker cheated on my boyfriend. I have no way to tell the salon owner, who is also my boss. Is it fair to the salon owner to ask for her to be dropped from the staff?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 38800, 254, 1161, 456, 327, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1039, 281, 2028, 253, 48574, 7302, 13, 665, 310, 671, 619, 12145, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 281, 253, 48574, 7302, 281, 1642, 323, 617, 281, 320, 8231, 432, 253, 4750, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: I know a receptionist that had a casual affair with my boyfriend, so I want her out of my salon. I'm afraid it will affect the salon and my coworkers, who I can't communicate with. I feel it's not fair to ask her to leave, and I want to tell the owner, but I would rather not have her here.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1056, 436, 18382, 4291, 15, 309, 789, 387, 247, 1355, 13, 533, 22694, 48574, 15, 844, 403, 512, 1077, 13, 1077, 2810, 15, 309, 2783, 776, 16112, 382, 581, 273, 619, 1682, 3858, 15, 11376, 374, 2607, 3622, 13, 1309, 247, 1892, 673, 275, 619, 2954, 13, 309, 1119, 562, 436, 3226, 369, 1907, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 1583, 497, 12345, 17197, 352, 13, 285, 703, 369, 34452, 281, 320, 619, 3331, 285, 1146, 346, 13821, 422, 3, 273, 619, 2954, 23490, 436, 2644, 673, 15, 1284, 4351, 479, 849, 352, 369, 1469, 13, 18462, 479, 281, 1461, 504, 275, 617, 13, 3966, 15, 1707, 369, 247, 31233, 13, 37598, 37598, 37598, 15, 1500, 369, 12345, 15251, 1999, 15, 309, 9703, 281, 4151, 776, 47450, 13, 1146, 326, 352, 310, 824, 271, 21383, 789, 3126, 285, 597, 651, 452, 8344, 253, 1818, 275, 18222, 15, 443, 30336, 651, 452, 49984, 15, 309, 760, 3984, 281, 617, 672, 3309, 285, 347, 273, 2568, 13, 703, 11210, 626, 43303, 342, 619, 10130, 390, 2712, 273, 326, 3753, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 7692, 27, 253, 760, 1436, 25229, 273, 436, 4112, 310, 253, 48574, 7302, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 3226, 2444, 387, 253, 48574, 10542, 13, 352, 434, 36713, 323, 479, 28561, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 751, 697, 4344, 326, 309, 476, 626, 22134, 4517, 390, 13791, 342, 619, 16112, 382, 13, 285, 309, 513, 417, 971, 281, 2118, 15, 6515, 18260, 13, 4886, 275, 619, 2136, 4815, 368, 1884, 6, 273, 634, 5268, 11177, 327, 3388, 13, 352, 651, 320, 247, 4832, 2495, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 323, 479, 281, 2312, 281, 253, 7302, 285, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 13, 390, 717, 309, 13872, 14021, 9005, 1841, 32, 1680, 352, 16593, 281, 619, 47450, 6523, 347, 352, 588, 2818, 731, 281, 13, 1907, 281, 1089, 285, 2740, 275, 247, 747, 16112, 382, 32, 2091, 436, 806, 4592, 309, 39559, 1795, 2729, 253, 2256, 342, 247, 1643, 273, 731, 281, 6804, 10123, 15, 21695, 15844, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 871, 247, 16112, 382, 326, 574, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 594, 309, 971, 617, 562, 273, 619, 48574, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 352, 588, 2818, 253, 48574, 285, 619, 47450, 13, 665, 309, 476, 626, 13791, 342, 15, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 417, 4344, 281, 1642, 617, 281, 3553, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 253, 7302, 13, 533, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 452, 617, 1060, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

439

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to make this succinct. I work at a small, but respected salon. We are all very, very close. I considered our receptionist one of my best friends. About 2 months ago, during a hard time in my relationship, I found out this girl was having a casual affair with my boyfriend. They were barely hiding it, and she was pretending to be my friend and being "supportive" of my relationship struggles this whole time. Asking me how it was going, encouraging me to confide in her, etc. There was a confrontation, blah blah blah. She was barely apologetic. I chose to inform our coworkers, being that it is such an intimate work environment and they would have noticed the change in attitudes. Gossip would have ensued. I only speak to her when necessary and as of yet, she hasn't messed with my schedule or anything of that nature. Here's the rub: the only person unaware of this situation is the salon owner. I don't want this girl working at the salon anymore, it's unhealthy for me emotionally, and I don't feel like its fair that I can't openly trust or communicate with my receptionist, and I do not want to move. Statistically, moving in my business costs you 30% of your clientele on average, it would be a financial risk. Is it fair for me to talk to the owner and tell her how I feel, or am I letting emotions cloud things? Is it unfair to my coworkers seeing as it will affect them to, having to find and break in a new receptionist? When this first happened I vaguely broached the subject with a few of them to mixed reviews. Help!!! TL;DR: My coworker cheated on my boyfriend. I have no way to tell the salon owner, who is also my boss. Is it fair to the salon owner to ask for her to be dropped from the staff?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1056, 436, 18382, 4291, 15, 309, 789, 387, 247, 1355, 13, 533, 22694, 48574, 15, 844, 403, 512, 1077, 13, 1077, 2810, 15, 309, 2783, 776, 16112, 382, 581, 273, 619, 1682, 3858, 15, 11376, 374, 2607, 3622, 13, 1309, 247, 1892, 673, 275, 619, 2954, 13, 309, 1119, 562, 436, 3226, 369, 1907, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 15, 1583, 497, 12345, 17197, 352, 13, 285, 703, 369, 34452, 281, 320, 619, 3331, 285, 1146, 346, 13821, 422, 3, 273, 619, 2954, 23490, 436, 2644, 673, 15, 1284, 4351, 479, 849, 352, 369, 1469, 13, 18462, 479, 281, 1461, 504, 275, 617, 13, 3966, 15, 1707, 369, 247, 31233, 13, 37598, 37598, 37598, 15, 1500, 369, 12345, 15251, 1999, 15, 309, 9703, 281, 4151, 776, 47450, 13, 1146, 326, 352, 310, 824, 271, 21383, 789, 3126, 285, 597, 651, 452, 8344, 253, 1818, 275, 18222, 15, 443, 30336, 651, 452, 49984, 15, 309, 760, 3984, 281, 617, 672, 3309, 285, 347, 273, 2568, 13, 703, 11210, 626, 43303, 342, 619, 10130, 390, 2712, 273, 326, 3753, 15, 3856, 434, 253, 7692, 27, 253, 760, 1436, 25229, 273, 436, 4112, 310, 253, 48574, 7302, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 436, 3226, 2444, 387, 253, 48574, 10542, 13, 352, 434, 36713, 323, 479, 28561, 13, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 751, 697, 4344, 326, 309, 476, 626, 22134, 4517, 390, 13791, 342, 619, 16112, 382, 13, 285, 309, 513, 417, 971, 281, 2118, 15, 6515, 18260, 13, 4886, 275, 619, 2136, 4815, 368, 1884, 6, 273, 634, 5268, 11177, 327, 3388, 13, 352, 651, 320, 247, 4832, 2495, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 323, 479, 281, 2312, 281, 253, 7302, 285, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 13, 390, 717, 309, 13872, 14021, 9005, 1841, 32, 1680, 352, 16593, 281, 619, 47450, 6523, 347, 352, 588, 2818, 731, 281, 13, 1907, 281, 1089, 285, 2740, 275, 247, 747, 16112, 382, 32, 2091, 436, 806, 4592, 309, 39559, 1795, 2729, 253, 2256, 342, 247, 1643, 273, 731, 281, 6804, 10123, 15, 21695, 15844, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 38800, 254, 1161, 456, 327, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1039, 281, 2028, 253, 48574, 7302, 13, 665, 310, 671, 619, 12145, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 281, 253, 48574, 7302, 281, 1642, 323, 617, 281, 320, 8231, 432, 253, 4750, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

411

367

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 871, 247, 16112, 382, 326, 574, 247, 15120, 18830, 342, 619, 22273, 13, 594, 309, 971, 617, 562, 273, 619, 48574, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 352, 588, 2818, 253, 48574, 285, 619, 47450, 13, 665, 309, 476, 626, 13791, 342, 15, 309, 1928, 352, 434, 417, 4344, 281, 1642, 617, 281, 3553, 13, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 253, 7302, 13, 533, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 452, 617, 1060, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 38800, 254, 1161, 456, 327, 619, 22273, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1039, 281, 2028, 253, 48574, 7302, 13, 665, 310, 671, 619, 12145, 15, 1680, 352, 4344, 281, 253, 48574, 7302, 281, 1642, 323, 617, 281, 320, 8231, 432, 253, 4750, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We pre-emptively took a break going into college. That lasted about 4 days. Big mistake. When we started talking again, i found out she hooked up with her best friend the same night we decided to take that pre-emptive break. I had always been suspicious of this person throughout our 3 years together, so it killed me. We went through this awful on/off period for about a week. Kept saying she loved me and that there was no one else she wanted. I couldn't take it anymore. According to her, she wanted to make it work but wanted her own circle of friends, didnt want to bring me to parties most of the time, and had an issue with seeing me routinely (is once a day really too frequent? like come on). It felt like she wanted me to break up with her the whole time. I couldn't take it anymore. Basically, I broke up with her 3 weeks into school. I bump into her at least once a day. Our school's campus is very small. I found out from other friends that they have seen her fooling around with douch-ey guys at parties (after having separated, so technically not cheating, just moved on way quicker than i would have liked). I desperately want to move on and socialize, but all I really want to do is keep to myself and sulk. I have no good friends at the moment, I don't really connect with anyone yet. I have social anxiety to begin with, so this just further agitates the issue. I don't know what to do.

Broke up with GF 3 weeks into school, the campus is small, I find out she hooked up with her best friend from the same college, i need to move on, but I don't know how.

Brokeup with gf 3 weeks into school. Small campus so I see her all the time. What do i do.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 638, 14, 2187, 1242, 2335, 247, 2740, 1469, 715, 6831, 15, 2064, 20578, 670, 577, 1897, 15, 7967, 10551, 15, 2091, 359, 3053, 5015, 969, 13, 891, 1119, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 253, 1072, 2360, 359, 4425, 281, 1379, 326, 638, 14, 2187, 422, 2740, 15, 309, 574, 1900, 644, 20634, 273, 436, 1436, 4768, 776, 495, 1107, 2366, 13, 594, 352, 5339, 479, 15, 844, 2427, 949, 436, 18580, 327, 16, 2727, 2180, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 15, 6018, 431, 3981, 703, 7636, 479, 285, 326, 627, 369, 642, 581, 2010, 703, 3078, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 4794, 281, 617, 13, 703, 3078, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 533, 3078, 617, 1211, 9096, 273, 3858, 13, 42126, 971, 281, 3324, 479, 281, 4676, 954, 273, 253, 673, 13, 285, 574, 271, 2523, 342, 6523, 479, 21774, 313, 261, 2378, 247, 1388, 1663, 1512, 10879, 32, 751, 1705, 327, 481, 733, 3543, 751, 703, 3078, 479, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 253, 2644, 673, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 32415, 13, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 309, 19496, 715, 617, 387, 1878, 2378, 247, 1388, 15, 3824, 2143, 434, 13790, 310, 1077, 1355, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 432, 643, 3858, 326, 597, 452, 2326, 617, 11213, 272, 1475, 342, 2443, 348, 14, 2653, 6068, 387, 4676, 313, 6438, 1907, 9070, 13, 594, 22335, 417, 37142, 13, 816, 4395, 327, 1039, 31124, 685, 891, 651, 452, 10490, 481, 309, 26426, 971, 281, 2118, 327, 285, 2675, 907, 13, 533, 512, 309, 1663, 971, 281, 513, 310, 1978, 281, 4266, 285, 18253, 76, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1175, 3858, 387, 253, 2774, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 4684, 342, 3780, 2568, 15, 309, 452, 2675, 10397, 281, 3135, 342, 13, 594, 436, 816, 2007, 639, 36269, 253, 2523, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We pre-emptively took a break going into college. That lasted about 4 days. Big mistake. When we started talking again, i found out she hooked up with her best friend the same night we decided to take that pre-emptive break. I had always been suspicious of this person throughout our 3 years together, so it killed me. We went through this awful on/off period for about a week. Kept saying she loved me and that there was no one else she wanted. I couldn't take it anymore. According to her, she wanted to make it work but wanted her own circle of friends, didnt want to bring me to parties most of the time, and had an issue with seeing me routinely (is once a day really too frequent? like come on). It felt like she wanted me to break up with her the whole time. I couldn't take it anymore. Basically, I broke up with her 3 weeks into school. I bump into her at least once a day. Our school's campus is very small. I found out from other friends that they have seen her fooling around with douch-ey guys at parties (after having separated, so technically not cheating, just moved on way quicker than i would have liked). I desperately want to move on and socialize, but all I really want to do is keep to myself and sulk. I have no good friends at the moment, I don't really connect with anyone yet. I have social anxiety to begin with, so this just further agitates the issue. I don't know what to do. TL;DR:

Broke up with GF 3 weeks into school, the campus is small, I find out she hooked up with her best friend from the same college, i need to move on, but I don't know how.<|endoftext|>

[ 4819, 413, 598, 342, 33952, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 13, 253, 13790, 310, 1355, 13, 309, 1089, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 432, 253, 1072, 6831, 13, 891, 878, 281, 2118, 327, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Brokeup with gf 3 weeks into school. Small campus so I see her all the time. What do i do.<|endoftext|>

[ 4819, 413, 484, 342, 305, 71, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 15023, 13790, 594, 309, 923, 617, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1737, 513, 891, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We pre-emptively took a break going into college. That lasted about 4 days. Big mistake. When we started talking again, i found out she hooked up with her best friend the same night we decided to take that pre-emptive break. I had always been suspicious of this person throughout our 3 years together, so it killed me. We went through this awful on/off period for about a week. Kept saying she loved me and that there was no one else she wanted. I couldn't take it anymore. According to her, she wanted to make it work but wanted her own circle of friends, didnt want to bring me to parties most of the time, and had an issue with seeing me routinely (is once a day really too frequent? like come on). It felt like she wanted me to break up with her the whole time. I couldn't take it anymore. Basically, I broke up with her 3 weeks into school. I bump into her at least once a day. Our school's campus is very small. I found out from other friends that they have seen her fooling around with douch-ey guys at parties (after having separated, so technically not cheating, just moved on way quicker than i would have liked). I desperately want to move on and socialize, but all I really want to do is keep to myself and sulk. I have no good friends at the moment, I don't really connect with anyone yet. I have social anxiety to begin with, so this just further agitates the issue. I don't know what to do. TL;DR: Broke up with GF 3 weeks into school, the campus is small, I find out she hooked up with her best friend from the same college, i need to move on, but I don't know how.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 638, 14, 2187, 1242, 2335, 247, 2740, 1469, 715, 6831, 15, 2064, 20578, 670, 577, 1897, 15, 7967, 10551, 15, 2091, 359, 3053, 5015, 969, 13, 891, 1119, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 253, 1072, 2360, 359, 4425, 281, 1379, 326, 638, 14, 2187, 422, 2740, 15, 309, 574, 1900, 644, 20634, 273, 436, 1436, 4768, 776, 495, 1107, 2366, 13, 594, 352, 5339, 479, 15, 844, 2427, 949, 436, 18580, 327, 16, 2727, 2180, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 15, 6018, 431, 3981, 703, 7636, 479, 285, 326, 627, 369, 642, 581, 2010, 703, 3078, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 4794, 281, 617, 13, 703, 3078, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 533, 3078, 617, 1211, 9096, 273, 3858, 13, 42126, 971, 281, 3324, 479, 281, 4676, 954, 273, 253, 673, 13, 285, 574, 271, 2523, 342, 6523, 479, 21774, 313, 261, 2378, 247, 1388, 1663, 1512, 10879, 32, 751, 1705, 327, 481, 733, 3543, 751, 703, 3078, 479, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 253, 2644, 673, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 32415, 13, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 309, 19496, 715, 617, 387, 1878, 2378, 247, 1388, 15, 3824, 2143, 434, 13790, 310, 1077, 1355, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 432, 643, 3858, 326, 597, 452, 2326, 617, 11213, 272, 1475, 342, 2443, 348, 14, 2653, 6068, 387, 4676, 313, 6438, 1907, 9070, 13, 594, 22335, 417, 37142, 13, 816, 4395, 327, 1039, 31124, 685, 891, 651, 452, 10490, 481, 309, 26426, 971, 281, 2118, 327, 285, 2675, 907, 13, 533, 512, 309, 1663, 971, 281, 513, 310, 1978, 281, 4266, 285, 18253, 76, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1175, 3858, 387, 253, 2774, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 4684, 342, 3780, 2568, 15, 309, 452, 2675, 10397, 281, 3135, 342, 13, 594, 436, 816, 2007, 639, 36269, 253, 2523, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 4819, 413, 598, 342, 33952, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 13, 253, 13790, 310, 1355, 13, 309, 1089, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 432, 253, 1072, 6831, 13, 891, 878, 281, 2118, 327, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

388

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We pre-emptively took a break going into college. That lasted about 4 days. Big mistake. When we started talking again, i found out she hooked up with her best friend the same night we decided to take that pre-emptive break. I had always been suspicious of this person throughout our 3 years together, so it killed me. We went through this awful on/off period for about a week. Kept saying she loved me and that there was no one else she wanted. I couldn't take it anymore. According to her, she wanted to make it work but wanted her own circle of friends, didnt want to bring me to parties most of the time, and had an issue with seeing me routinely (is once a day really too frequent? like come on). It felt like she wanted me to break up with her the whole time. I couldn't take it anymore. Basically, I broke up with her 3 weeks into school. I bump into her at least once a day. Our school's campus is very small. I found out from other friends that they have seen her fooling around with douch-ey guys at parties (after having separated, so technically not cheating, just moved on way quicker than i would have liked). I desperately want to move on and socialize, but all I really want to do is keep to myself and sulk. I have no good friends at the moment, I don't really connect with anyone yet. I have social anxiety to begin with, so this just further agitates the issue. I don't know what to do. TL;DR: Brokeup with gf 3 weeks into school. Small campus so I see her all the time. What do i do.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 638, 14, 2187, 1242, 2335, 247, 2740, 1469, 715, 6831, 15, 2064, 20578, 670, 577, 1897, 15, 7967, 10551, 15, 2091, 359, 3053, 5015, 969, 13, 891, 1119, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 253, 1072, 2360, 359, 4425, 281, 1379, 326, 638, 14, 2187, 422, 2740, 15, 309, 574, 1900, 644, 20634, 273, 436, 1436, 4768, 776, 495, 1107, 2366, 13, 594, 352, 5339, 479, 15, 844, 2427, 949, 436, 18580, 327, 16, 2727, 2180, 323, 670, 247, 2129, 15, 6018, 431, 3981, 703, 7636, 479, 285, 326, 627, 369, 642, 581, 2010, 703, 3078, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 4794, 281, 617, 13, 703, 3078, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 533, 3078, 617, 1211, 9096, 273, 3858, 13, 42126, 971, 281, 3324, 479, 281, 4676, 954, 273, 253, 673, 13, 285, 574, 271, 2523, 342, 6523, 479, 21774, 313, 261, 2378, 247, 1388, 1663, 1512, 10879, 32, 751, 1705, 327, 481, 733, 3543, 751, 703, 3078, 479, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 253, 2644, 673, 15, 309, 4571, 626, 1379, 352, 10542, 15, 32415, 13, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 309, 19496, 715, 617, 387, 1878, 2378, 247, 1388, 15, 3824, 2143, 434, 13790, 310, 1077, 1355, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 432, 643, 3858, 326, 597, 452, 2326, 617, 11213, 272, 1475, 342, 2443, 348, 14, 2653, 6068, 387, 4676, 313, 6438, 1907, 9070, 13, 594, 22335, 417, 37142, 13, 816, 4395, 327, 1039, 31124, 685, 891, 651, 452, 10490, 481, 309, 26426, 971, 281, 2118, 327, 285, 2675, 907, 13, 533, 512, 309, 1663, 971, 281, 513, 310, 1978, 281, 4266, 285, 18253, 76, 15, 309, 452, 642, 1175, 3858, 387, 253, 2774, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 4684, 342, 3780, 2568, 15, 309, 452, 2675, 10397, 281, 3135, 342, 13, 594, 436, 816, 2007, 639, 36269, 253, 2523, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 4819, 413, 484, 342, 305, 71, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 15023, 13790, 594, 309, 923, 617, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1737, 513, 891, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

371

344

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 4819, 413, 598, 342, 33952, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 13, 253, 13790, 310, 1355, 13, 309, 1089, 562, 703, 32464, 598, 342, 617, 1682, 3331, 432, 253, 1072, 6831, 13, 891, 878, 281, 2118, 327, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 4819, 413, 484, 342, 305, 71, 495, 3618, 715, 2143, 15, 15023, 13790, 594, 309, 923, 617, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1737, 513, 891, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference). After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been". Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change. We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you. I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree.

Dating for over a year and living together. All aspects of the relationship are amazing but boyfriend seems to have no sexual attraction to me (even though we've talked and he swears that he is sexually attracted and that he's just damaged)..

My boyfriend has no interest in having sex with me and refuses to change.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 13597, 247, 1663, 8644, 5599, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 359, 816, 4102, 4395, 275, 2366, 15, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 3780, 309, 1849, 644, 625, 13333, 342, 428, 3707, 323, 581, 4809, 428, 2825, 15, 32312, 359, 6940, 275, 1027, 8238, 285, 760, 3047, 1016, 643, 327, 29665, 15, 1893, 359, 1871, 452, 2825, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 754, 753, 344, 3589, 626, 715, 396, 633, 272, 390, 9628, 7968, 3909, 984, 352, 369, 1512, 1607, 398, 2814, 313, 4609, 309, 1904, 626, 5194, 342, 533, 309, 7607, 326, 347, 247, 5272, 14682, 481, 187, 187, 4553, 253, 806, 4564, 273, 2607, 273, 13597, 344, 816, 3053, 33944, 479, 949, 2133, 3448, 285, 690, 29665, 359, 5082, 626, 452, 2825, 15, 844, 10062, 670, 352, 285, 344, 1871, 1333, 1841, 751, 346, 42, 1928, 751, 326, 629, 273, 479, 310, 7154, 432, 1390, 7688, 3, 390, 346, 1552, 310, 816, 849, 309, 1849, 1900, 644, 3446, 187, 187, 8195, 2508, 310, 326, 344, 28654, 16921, 247, 12524, 2408, 15, 754, 556, 16921, 327, 521, 4481, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1611, 281, 2590, 253, 1984, 17144, 390, 14268, 432, 776, 16556, 9882, 15, 309, 1849, 3982, 326, 598, 1512, 13, 3981, 309, 9106, 452, 2717, 1411, 16921, 533, 352, 434, 15706, 479, 15, 733, 671, 1663, 31835, 619, 1881, 12368, 358, 984, 344, 556, 581, 8264, 763, 428, 14551, 257, 600, 1781, 246, 953, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 3388, 1979, 13, 5046, 1014, 327, 253, 4577, 1930, 15, 754, 2296, 5046, 344, 434, 46512, 281, 16921, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 755, 1805, 285, 5046, 344, 943, 755, 1361, 15, 1292, 352, 434, 644, 689, 721, 2607, 273, 779, 3981, 436, 342, 642, 1818, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 574, 2825, 5046, 495, 14, 21, 2069, 275, 495, 2607, 3811, 2366, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 779, 604, 627, 434, 2712, 8479, 436, 15, 1680, 352, 479, 32, 1621, 15, 6272, 368, 417, 17755, 281, 479, 32, 309, 1353, 594, 17755, 281, 368, 2, 1680, 627, 1633, 309, 1353, 2509, 326, 2789, 368, 20032, 32, 1621, 13, 417, 387, 512, 15, 3166, 368, 1928, 29170, 846, 390, 16076, 32, 1621, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 285, 2810, 281, 368, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 2717, 533, 1611, 281, 18045, 779, 285, 281, 1611, 281, 2794, 2762, 285, 1527, 5615, 8450, 285, 4517, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 3053, 13597, 344, 4571, 626, 1978, 521, 3564, 745, 273, 479, 285, 309, 452, 1900, 644, 1077, 20512, 13224, 15, 3954, 352, 434, 247, 9326, 604, 344, 6556, 619, 1766, 706, 1223, 260, 7937, 1981, 15, 9064, 3618, 3622, 309, 2183, 779, 352, 9193, 751, 359, 1472, 816, 1682, 3858, 3811, 2366, 285, 344, 1694, 1663, 14004, 285, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 5194, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference). After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been". Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change. We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you. I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree. TL;DR:

Dating for over a year and living together. All aspects of the relationship are amazing but boyfriend seems to have no sexual attraction to me (even though we've talked and he swears that he is sexually attracted and that he's just damaged)..<|endoftext|>

[ 399, 839, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 3811, 2366, 15, 1876, 7794, 273, 253, 2954, 403, 8644, 533, 22273, 3133, 281, 452, 642, 5615, 21779, 281, 479, 313, 9154, 2167, 359, 1849, 10062, 285, 344, 1863, 6364, 326, 344, 310, 20512, 17755, 285, 326, 344, 434, 816, 13572, 481, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My boyfriend has no interest in having sex with me and refuses to change.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 22273, 556, 642, 1600, 275, 1907, 2825, 342, 479, 285, 29939, 281, 1818, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference). After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been". Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change. We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you. I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree. TL;DR: Dating for over a year and living together. All aspects of the relationship are amazing but boyfriend seems to have no sexual attraction to me (even though we've talked and he swears that he is sexually attracted and that he's just damaged)..<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 13597, 247, 1663, 8644, 5599, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 359, 816, 4102, 4395, 275, 2366, 15, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 3780, 309, 1849, 644, 625, 13333, 342, 428, 3707, 323, 581, 4809, 428, 2825, 15, 32312, 359, 6940, 275, 1027, 8238, 285, 760, 3047, 1016, 643, 327, 29665, 15, 1893, 359, 1871, 452, 2825, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 754, 753, 344, 3589, 626, 715, 396, 633, 272, 390, 9628, 7968, 3909, 984, 352, 369, 1512, 1607, 398, 2814, 313, 4609, 309, 1904, 626, 5194, 342, 533, 309, 7607, 326, 347, 247, 5272, 14682, 481, 187, 187, 4553, 253, 806, 4564, 273, 2607, 273, 13597, 344, 816, 3053, 33944, 479, 949, 2133, 3448, 285, 690, 29665, 359, 5082, 626, 452, 2825, 15, 844, 10062, 670, 352, 285, 344, 1871, 1333, 1841, 751, 346, 42, 1928, 751, 326, 629, 273, 479, 310, 7154, 432, 1390, 7688, 3, 390, 346, 1552, 310, 816, 849, 309, 1849, 1900, 644, 3446, 187, 187, 8195, 2508, 310, 326, 344, 28654, 16921, 247, 12524, 2408, 15, 754, 556, 16921, 327, 521, 4481, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1611, 281, 2590, 253, 1984, 17144, 390, 14268, 432, 776, 16556, 9882, 15, 309, 1849, 3982, 326, 598, 1512, 13, 3981, 309, 9106, 452, 2717, 1411, 16921, 533, 352, 434, 15706, 479, 15, 733, 671, 1663, 31835, 619, 1881, 12368, 358, 984, 344, 556, 581, 8264, 763, 428, 14551, 257, 600, 1781, 246, 953, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 3388, 1979, 13, 5046, 1014, 327, 253, 4577, 1930, 15, 754, 2296, 5046, 344, 434, 46512, 281, 16921, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 755, 1805, 285, 5046, 344, 943, 755, 1361, 15, 1292, 352, 434, 644, 689, 721, 2607, 273, 779, 3981, 436, 342, 642, 1818, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 574, 2825, 5046, 495, 14, 21, 2069, 275, 495, 2607, 3811, 2366, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 779, 604, 627, 434, 2712, 8479, 436, 15, 1680, 352, 479, 32, 1621, 15, 6272, 368, 417, 17755, 281, 479, 32, 309, 1353, 594, 17755, 281, 368, 2, 1680, 627, 1633, 309, 1353, 2509, 326, 2789, 368, 20032, 32, 1621, 13, 417, 387, 512, 15, 3166, 368, 1928, 29170, 846, 390, 16076, 32, 1621, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 285, 2810, 281, 368, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 2717, 533, 1611, 281, 18045, 779, 285, 281, 1611, 281, 2794, 2762, 285, 1527, 5615, 8450, 285, 4517, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 3053, 13597, 344, 4571, 626, 1978, 521, 3564, 745, 273, 479, 285, 309, 452, 1900, 644, 1077, 20512, 13224, 15, 3954, 352, 434, 247, 9326, 604, 344, 6556, 619, 1766, 706, 1223, 260, 7937, 1981, 15, 9064, 3618, 3622, 309, 2183, 779, 352, 9193, 751, 359, 1472, 816, 1682, 3858, 3811, 2366, 285, 344, 1694, 1663, 14004, 285, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 5194, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 399, 839, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 3811, 2366, 15, 1876, 7794, 273, 253, 2954, 403, 8644, 533, 22273, 3133, 281, 452, 642, 5615, 21779, 281, 479, 313, 9154, 2167, 359, 1849, 10062, 285, 344, 1863, 6364, 326, 344, 310, 20512, 17755, 285, 326, 344, 434, 816, 13572, 481, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

537

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've been dating a really amazing guy for over a year and we just recently moved in together. I've never met anyone I've been more compatible with - except for one aspect - sex. Initially we lived in different cities and only saw each other on weekends. So we'd have sex once a week. He said he wasn't into sexting or sharing pictures online because it was too impersonal (which I didn't agree with but I accepted that as a reasonable preference). After the first couple of months of dating he just started rejecting me through body language and some weekends we wouldn't have sex. We talked about it and he'd say things like "I feel like that part of me is broken from last relationships" or "This is just how I've always been". Another detail is that he watches porn a decent amount. He has porn on his phone and he doesn't even try to clear the bookmarks or cookies from our laptop browser. I've brought that up too, saying I totally have nothing against porn but it's replacing me. It also really hurts my self esteem because he has one fetish - obscenely large tits. I'm very average size, maybe even on the smaller side. He says maybe he's addicted to porn and he wants to get better and maybe he should get help. But it's been over 6 months of him saying this with no change. We've had sex maybe 3-4 times in 3 months living together and I try to ask him if there's anything causing this. Is it me? No. Are you not attracted to me? I'm so attracted to you! Is there something I'm doing that makes you uncomfortable? No, not at all. Do you feel ashamed after or dirty? No, I feel great and close to you. I've done nothing but try to accommodate him and to try to create positive and open sexual experiences and trust. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me and I have always been very sexually confident. Now it's a surprise if he holds my boob while cuddling. Three weeks ago I told him it feels like we're just best friends living together and he got really upset and said he didn't agree. TL;DR: My boyfriend has no interest in having sex with me and refuses to change.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 13597, 247, 1663, 8644, 5599, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 359, 816, 4102, 4395, 275, 2366, 15, 309, 1849, 1620, 1313, 3780, 309, 1849, 644, 625, 13333, 342, 428, 3707, 323, 581, 4809, 428, 2825, 15, 32312, 359, 6940, 275, 1027, 8238, 285, 760, 3047, 1016, 643, 327, 29665, 15, 1893, 359, 1871, 452, 2825, 2378, 247, 2129, 15, 754, 753, 344, 3589, 626, 715, 396, 633, 272, 390, 9628, 7968, 3909, 984, 352, 369, 1512, 1607, 398, 2814, 313, 4609, 309, 1904, 626, 5194, 342, 533, 309, 7607, 326, 347, 247, 5272, 14682, 481, 187, 187, 4553, 253, 806, 4564, 273, 2607, 273, 13597, 344, 816, 3053, 33944, 479, 949, 2133, 3448, 285, 690, 29665, 359, 5082, 626, 452, 2825, 15, 844, 10062, 670, 352, 285, 344, 1871, 1333, 1841, 751, 346, 42, 1928, 751, 326, 629, 273, 479, 310, 7154, 432, 1390, 7688, 3, 390, 346, 1552, 310, 816, 849, 309, 1849, 1900, 644, 3446, 187, 187, 8195, 2508, 310, 326, 344, 28654, 16921, 247, 12524, 2408, 15, 754, 556, 16921, 327, 521, 4481, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1611, 281, 2590, 253, 1984, 17144, 390, 14268, 432, 776, 16556, 9882, 15, 309, 1849, 3982, 326, 598, 1512, 13, 3981, 309, 9106, 452, 2717, 1411, 16921, 533, 352, 434, 15706, 479, 15, 733, 671, 1663, 31835, 619, 1881, 12368, 358, 984, 344, 556, 581, 8264, 763, 428, 14551, 257, 600, 1781, 246, 953, 15, 309, 1353, 1077, 3388, 1979, 13, 5046, 1014, 327, 253, 4577, 1930, 15, 754, 2296, 5046, 344, 434, 46512, 281, 16921, 285, 344, 5605, 281, 755, 1805, 285, 5046, 344, 943, 755, 1361, 15, 1292, 352, 434, 644, 689, 721, 2607, 273, 779, 3981, 436, 342, 642, 1818, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 574, 2825, 5046, 495, 14, 21, 2069, 275, 495, 2607, 3811, 2366, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 1642, 779, 604, 627, 434, 2712, 8479, 436, 15, 1680, 352, 479, 32, 1621, 15, 6272, 368, 417, 17755, 281, 479, 32, 309, 1353, 594, 17755, 281, 368, 2, 1680, 627, 1633, 309, 1353, 2509, 326, 2789, 368, 20032, 32, 1621, 13, 417, 387, 512, 15, 3166, 368, 1928, 29170, 846, 390, 16076, 32, 1621, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 285, 2810, 281, 368, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 2717, 533, 1611, 281, 18045, 779, 285, 281, 1611, 281, 2794, 2762, 285, 1527, 5615, 8450, 285, 4517, 15, 2091, 359, 806, 3053, 13597, 344, 4571, 626, 1978, 521, 3564, 745, 273, 479, 285, 309, 452, 1900, 644, 1077, 20512, 13224, 15, 3954, 352, 434, 247, 9326, 604, 344, 6556, 619, 1766, 706, 1223, 260, 7937, 1981, 15, 9064, 3618, 3622, 309, 2183, 779, 352, 9193, 751, 359, 1472, 816, 1682, 3858, 3811, 2366, 285, 344, 1694, 1663, 14004, 285, 753, 344, 1904, 626, 5194, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 22273, 556, 642, 1600, 275, 1907, 2825, 342, 479, 285, 29939, 281, 1818, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

502

486

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 399, 839, 323, 689, 247, 807, 285, 3811, 2366, 15, 1876, 7794, 273, 253, 2954, 403, 8644, 533, 22273, 3133, 281, 452, 642, 5615, 21779, 281, 479, 313, 9154, 2167, 359, 1849, 10062, 285, 344, 1863, 6364, 326, 344, 310, 20512, 17755, 285, 326, 344, 434, 816, 13572, 481, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 22273, 556, 642, 1600, 275, 1907, 2825, 342, 479, 285, 29939, 281, 1818, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So long story short I'm a 4th year college student (21 y/o) looking to go to grad school. My credit card limit got increased to about $3000 and I need to continue to build credit for inevitable loans I will need for my masters. My dad is a contractor who offered to build my credit faster by using it for work, such as business dinners, materials, supplies, and other finances that go into his job. He gives me the money the day after he uses it, with receipts and exact amounts. The reason he uses my credit card is because his credit is so abysmally poor no bank would give him a card. However, I would say this is more due to our past financial situations (immigrants with no relatives, no transferable skill set, no fluent English, living in SoCal) that resulted in his credit. My fear and question however, is that my dad is poor with money, likes showing off whenever he does have money, and has dangerous and toxic decision making when angry drunk, which happens frequently from these dinners. Recently he wanted to make a duplicate of my card with his name on it so he can use it freely and give my card back (is this even possible?) In the history of borrowing my credit card and money, he has always paid back and sometimes even given me more as interest, but I'm just a bit fearful my credit might get fucked up by a night of bad decision making or some other issues I might run into. I would much rather just build the credit on my own. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc? Sorry for the long post

Dad is using my personal credit card as unofficial business card. How do I phrase my concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible?

Dad uses my personal credit card, is poor with money, and is not a good credit manager. I would rather use my own credit card than his. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 1048, 2926, 2159, 309, 1353, 247, 577, 394, 807, 6831, 5974, 313, 1797, 340, 16, 80, 10, 2819, 281, 564, 281, 3805, 2143, 15, 2752, 6152, 3120, 2701, 1694, 2559, 281, 670, 370, 26990, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4035, 281, 1973, 6152, 323, 19455, 15407, 309, 588, 878, 323, 619, 26616, 15, 2752, 12247, 310, 247, 22350, 665, 5907, 281, 1973, 619, 6152, 7938, 407, 970, 352, 323, 789, 13, 824, 347, 2136, 277, 12947, 13, 4753, 13, 13191, 13, 285, 643, 33129, 326, 564, 715, 521, 2628, 15, 754, 4245, 479, 253, 2583, 253, 1388, 846, 344, 4648, 352, 13, 342, 41271, 285, 3242, 8322, 15, 2490, 187, 510, 1921, 344, 4648, 619, 6152, 3120, 310, 984, 521, 6152, 310, 594, 490, 656, 78, 595, 4105, 642, 4310, 651, 1918, 779, 247, 3120, 15, 1723, 13, 309, 651, 1333, 436, 310, 625, 1955, 281, 776, 2469, 4832, 9534, 313, 12784, 304, 9231, 342, 642, 17772, 13, 642, 3700, 494, 10861, 873, 13, 642, 2938, 290, 4383, 13, 3811, 275, 1893, 4218, 10, 326, 7369, 275, 521, 6152, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 4709, 285, 1953, 2299, 13, 310, 326, 619, 12247, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 13052, 4645, 745, 10793, 344, 1057, 452, 2583, 13, 285, 556, 8312, 285, 12825, 3061, 2403, 672, 11790, 17507, 13, 534, 6569, 7208, 432, 841, 277, 12947, 15, 17746, 344, 3078, 281, 1056, 247, 21036, 273, 619, 3120, 342, 521, 1416, 327, 352, 594, 344, 476, 897, 352, 15744, 285, 1918, 619, 3120, 896, 313, 261, 436, 1014, 1896, 14677, 496, 253, 2892, 273, 40770, 619, 6152, 3120, 285, 2583, 13, 344, 556, 1900, 5087, 896, 285, 4536, 1014, 1677, 479, 625, 347, 1600, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 247, 2372, 35268, 619, 6152, 1537, 755, 35598, 598, 407, 247, 2360, 273, 3076, 3061, 2403, 390, 690, 643, 3374, 309, 1537, 1408, 715, 15, 309, 651, 1199, 2581, 816, 1973, 253, 6152, 327, 619, 1211, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 26070, 323, 253, 1048, 1501, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So long story short I'm a 4th year college student (21 y/o) looking to go to grad school. My credit card limit got increased to about $3000 and I need to continue to build credit for inevitable loans I will need for my masters. My dad is a contractor who offered to build my credit faster by using it for work, such as business dinners, materials, supplies, and other finances that go into his job. He gives me the money the day after he uses it, with receipts and exact amounts. The reason he uses my credit card is because his credit is so abysmally poor no bank would give him a card. However, I would say this is more due to our past financial situations (immigrants with no relatives, no transferable skill set, no fluent English, living in SoCal) that resulted in his credit. My fear and question however, is that my dad is poor with money, likes showing off whenever he does have money, and has dangerous and toxic decision making when angry drunk, which happens frequently from these dinners. Recently he wanted to make a duplicate of my card with his name on it so he can use it freely and give my card back (is this even possible?) In the history of borrowing my credit card and money, he has always paid back and sometimes even given me more as interest, but I'm just a bit fearful my credit might get fucked up by a night of bad decision making or some other issues I might run into. I would much rather just build the credit on my own. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc? Sorry for the long post TL;DR:

Dad is using my personal credit card as unofficial business card. How do I phrase my concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible?<|endoftext|>

[ 16522, 310, 970, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 347, 49562, 2136, 3120, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 619, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Dad uses my personal credit card, is poor with money, and is not a good credit manager. I would rather use my own credit card than his. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc?<|endoftext|>

[ 16522, 4648, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 13, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 285, 310, 417, 247, 1175, 6152, 7205, 15, 309, 651, 2581, 897, 619, 1211, 6152, 3120, 685, 521, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So long story short I'm a 4th year college student (21 y/o) looking to go to grad school. My credit card limit got increased to about $3000 and I need to continue to build credit for inevitable loans I will need for my masters. My dad is a contractor who offered to build my credit faster by using it for work, such as business dinners, materials, supplies, and other finances that go into his job. He gives me the money the day after he uses it, with receipts and exact amounts. The reason he uses my credit card is because his credit is so abysmally poor no bank would give him a card. However, I would say this is more due to our past financial situations (immigrants with no relatives, no transferable skill set, no fluent English, living in SoCal) that resulted in his credit. My fear and question however, is that my dad is poor with money, likes showing off whenever he does have money, and has dangerous and toxic decision making when angry drunk, which happens frequently from these dinners. Recently he wanted to make a duplicate of my card with his name on it so he can use it freely and give my card back (is this even possible?) In the history of borrowing my credit card and money, he has always paid back and sometimes even given me more as interest, but I'm just a bit fearful my credit might get fucked up by a night of bad decision making or some other issues I might run into. I would much rather just build the credit on my own. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc? Sorry for the long post TL;DR: Dad is using my personal credit card as unofficial business card. How do I phrase my concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 1048, 2926, 2159, 309, 1353, 247, 577, 394, 807, 6831, 5974, 313, 1797, 340, 16, 80, 10, 2819, 281, 564, 281, 3805, 2143, 15, 2752, 6152, 3120, 2701, 1694, 2559, 281, 670, 370, 26990, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4035, 281, 1973, 6152, 323, 19455, 15407, 309, 588, 878, 323, 619, 26616, 15, 2752, 12247, 310, 247, 22350, 665, 5907, 281, 1973, 619, 6152, 7938, 407, 970, 352, 323, 789, 13, 824, 347, 2136, 277, 12947, 13, 4753, 13, 13191, 13, 285, 643, 33129, 326, 564, 715, 521, 2628, 15, 754, 4245, 479, 253, 2583, 253, 1388, 846, 344, 4648, 352, 13, 342, 41271, 285, 3242, 8322, 15, 2490, 187, 510, 1921, 344, 4648, 619, 6152, 3120, 310, 984, 521, 6152, 310, 594, 490, 656, 78, 595, 4105, 642, 4310, 651, 1918, 779, 247, 3120, 15, 1723, 13, 309, 651, 1333, 436, 310, 625, 1955, 281, 776, 2469, 4832, 9534, 313, 12784, 304, 9231, 342, 642, 17772, 13, 642, 3700, 494, 10861, 873, 13, 642, 2938, 290, 4383, 13, 3811, 275, 1893, 4218, 10, 326, 7369, 275, 521, 6152, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 4709, 285, 1953, 2299, 13, 310, 326, 619, 12247, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 13052, 4645, 745, 10793, 344, 1057, 452, 2583, 13, 285, 556, 8312, 285, 12825, 3061, 2403, 672, 11790, 17507, 13, 534, 6569, 7208, 432, 841, 277, 12947, 15, 17746, 344, 3078, 281, 1056, 247, 21036, 273, 619, 3120, 342, 521, 1416, 327, 352, 594, 344, 476, 897, 352, 15744, 285, 1918, 619, 3120, 896, 313, 261, 436, 1014, 1896, 14677, 496, 253, 2892, 273, 40770, 619, 6152, 3120, 285, 2583, 13, 344, 556, 1900, 5087, 896, 285, 4536, 1014, 1677, 479, 625, 347, 1600, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 247, 2372, 35268, 619, 6152, 1537, 755, 35598, 598, 407, 247, 2360, 273, 3076, 3061, 2403, 390, 690, 643, 3374, 309, 1537, 1408, 715, 15, 309, 651, 1199, 2581, 816, 1973, 253, 6152, 327, 619, 1211, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 26070, 323, 253, 1048, 1501, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 16522, 310, 970, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 347, 49562, 2136, 3120, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 619, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

413

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So long story short I'm a 4th year college student (21 y/o) looking to go to grad school. My credit card limit got increased to about $3000 and I need to continue to build credit for inevitable loans I will need for my masters. My dad is a contractor who offered to build my credit faster by using it for work, such as business dinners, materials, supplies, and other finances that go into his job. He gives me the money the day after he uses it, with receipts and exact amounts. The reason he uses my credit card is because his credit is so abysmally poor no bank would give him a card. However, I would say this is more due to our past financial situations (immigrants with no relatives, no transferable skill set, no fluent English, living in SoCal) that resulted in his credit. My fear and question however, is that my dad is poor with money, likes showing off whenever he does have money, and has dangerous and toxic decision making when angry drunk, which happens frequently from these dinners. Recently he wanted to make a duplicate of my card with his name on it so he can use it freely and give my card back (is this even possible?) In the history of borrowing my credit card and money, he has always paid back and sometimes even given me more as interest, but I'm just a bit fearful my credit might get fucked up by a night of bad decision making or some other issues I might run into. I would much rather just build the credit on my own. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc? Sorry for the long post TL;DR: Dad uses my personal credit card, is poor with money, and is not a good credit manager. I would rather use my own credit card than his. How do I phrase these concerns in a way that doesn't piss him off or make him seem irresponsible/unworthy/etc?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 1048, 2926, 2159, 309, 1353, 247, 577, 394, 807, 6831, 5974, 313, 1797, 340, 16, 80, 10, 2819, 281, 564, 281, 3805, 2143, 15, 2752, 6152, 3120, 2701, 1694, 2559, 281, 670, 370, 26990, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4035, 281, 1973, 6152, 323, 19455, 15407, 309, 588, 878, 323, 619, 26616, 15, 2752, 12247, 310, 247, 22350, 665, 5907, 281, 1973, 619, 6152, 7938, 407, 970, 352, 323, 789, 13, 824, 347, 2136, 277, 12947, 13, 4753, 13, 13191, 13, 285, 643, 33129, 326, 564, 715, 521, 2628, 15, 754, 4245, 479, 253, 2583, 253, 1388, 846, 344, 4648, 352, 13, 342, 41271, 285, 3242, 8322, 15, 2490, 187, 510, 1921, 344, 4648, 619, 6152, 3120, 310, 984, 521, 6152, 310, 594, 490, 656, 78, 595, 4105, 642, 4310, 651, 1918, 779, 247, 3120, 15, 1723, 13, 309, 651, 1333, 436, 310, 625, 1955, 281, 776, 2469, 4832, 9534, 313, 12784, 304, 9231, 342, 642, 17772, 13, 642, 3700, 494, 10861, 873, 13, 642, 2938, 290, 4383, 13, 3811, 275, 1893, 4218, 10, 326, 7369, 275, 521, 6152, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 4709, 285, 1953, 2299, 13, 310, 326, 619, 12247, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 13052, 4645, 745, 10793, 344, 1057, 452, 2583, 13, 285, 556, 8312, 285, 12825, 3061, 2403, 672, 11790, 17507, 13, 534, 6569, 7208, 432, 841, 277, 12947, 15, 17746, 344, 3078, 281, 1056, 247, 21036, 273, 619, 3120, 342, 521, 1416, 327, 352, 594, 344, 476, 897, 352, 15744, 285, 1918, 619, 3120, 896, 313, 261, 436, 1014, 1896, 14677, 496, 253, 2892, 273, 40770, 619, 6152, 3120, 285, 2583, 13, 344, 556, 1900, 5087, 896, 285, 4536, 1014, 1677, 479, 625, 347, 1600, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 247, 2372, 35268, 619, 6152, 1537, 755, 35598, 598, 407, 247, 2360, 273, 3076, 3061, 2403, 390, 690, 643, 3374, 309, 1537, 1408, 715, 15, 309, 651, 1199, 2581, 816, 1973, 253, 6152, 327, 619, 1211, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 26070, 323, 253, 1048, 1501, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 16522, 4648, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 13, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 285, 310, 417, 247, 1175, 6152, 7205, 15, 309, 651, 2581, 897, 619, 1211, 6152, 3120, 685, 521, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

437

378

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 16522, 310, 970, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 347, 49562, 2136, 3120, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 619, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 16522, 4648, 619, 3367, 6152, 3120, 13, 310, 4105, 342, 2583, 13, 285, 310, 417, 247, 1175, 6152, 7205, 15, 309, 651, 2581, 897, 619, 1211, 6152, 3120, 685, 521, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 12616, 841, 7350, 275, 247, 1039, 326, 2506, 626, 24329, 779, 745, 390, 1056, 779, 1646, 3496, 37882, 16, 328, 26214, 16, 14069, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. my girlfriend of 3 years has just said she needs time to think of whether she wants to continue our relationship. We have had an amazing 3 years, travelling together and had some amazing times. she used to be quiet depressed and self concious, whereas I was always very happy. I loved her so much but lately I've felt a bit down and have been more needy towards her whereas she has become happier and more social I feel like because she is happier she feels she doesnt need me anymore. At the same time I've no idea what she's gonna say in a week even though last time we talked she seemed quiet sure we were breaking up. During this break I've realised that we were never that in touch emotionally, she wouldn't want to talk about anything serious or painful. I'm thinking of just agreeing to breaking up or insisting on it if she decides not to. She's such an amazing person and I don't want to let her go. We worked so well almost all the time. If we do end up back together though i know we would need to connect more emotionally but I'm unsure if this will ever change and unsure whether it'll be worth one more shot. I've tried incredibly hard to help the relationship but I don't feel shes done the same. Do you think this could ever change?

Mandatory summary/question! We're on a break which she initiated. If she wants to continue the realtionship, should I accept or decide to end it myself?

I broke up with a great gf of 3 years. It feels like we were never really in touch and I don't know how to react.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2325, 2119, 281, 5513, 275, 2508, 342, 1386, 13471, 15, 187, 2577, 19609, 273, 495, 1107, 556, 816, 753, 703, 3198, 673, 281, 1158, 273, 1880, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 776, 2954, 15, 844, 452, 574, 271, 8644, 495, 1107, 13, 22710, 2366, 285, 574, 690, 8644, 2069, 15, 703, 908, 281, 320, 7107, 23201, 285, 1881, 7036, 784, 13, 5727, 309, 369, 1900, 1077, 5211, 15, 309, 7636, 617, 594, 1199, 533, 21403, 309, 1849, 3543, 247, 2372, 1066, 285, 452, 644, 625, 878, 90, 4404, 617, 5727, 703, 556, 2489, 33128, 285, 625, 2675, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 984, 703, 310, 33128, 703, 9193, 703, 36908, 878, 479, 10542, 15, 2058, 253, 1072, 673, 309, 1849, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 434, 6501, 1333, 275, 247, 2129, 1014, 2167, 1390, 673, 359, 10062, 703, 4455, 7107, 2119, 359, 497, 10155, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 10457, 436, 2740, 309, 1849, 25436, 326, 359, 497, 1620, 326, 275, 5181, 28561, 13, 703, 5082, 626, 971, 281, 2312, 670, 2712, 4092, 390, 16592, 15, 309, 1353, 4680, 273, 816, 33732, 281, 10155, 598, 390, 40694, 327, 352, 604, 703, 21936, 417, 281, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 824, 271, 8644, 1436, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 844, 4307, 594, 973, 2761, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 990, 598, 896, 2366, 2167, 891, 871, 359, 651, 878, 281, 4684, 625, 28561, 533, 309, 1353, 31488, 604, 436, 588, 2455, 1818, 285, 31488, 1880, 352, 1833, 320, 4409, 581, 625, 5103, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 16088, 1892, 281, 1361, 253, 2954, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 703, 84, 2218, 253, 1072, 15, 3166, 368, 1158, 436, 812, 2455, 1818, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. my girlfriend of 3 years has just said she needs time to think of whether she wants to continue our relationship. We have had an amazing 3 years, travelling together and had some amazing times. she used to be quiet depressed and self concious, whereas I was always very happy. I loved her so much but lately I've felt a bit down and have been more needy towards her whereas she has become happier and more social I feel like because she is happier she feels she doesnt need me anymore. At the same time I've no idea what she's gonna say in a week even though last time we talked she seemed quiet sure we were breaking up. During this break I've realised that we were never that in touch emotionally, she wouldn't want to talk about anything serious or painful. I'm thinking of just agreeing to breaking up or insisting on it if she decides not to. She's such an amazing person and I don't want to let her go. We worked so well almost all the time. If we do end up back together though i know we would need to connect more emotionally but I'm unsure if this will ever change and unsure whether it'll be worth one more shot. I've tried incredibly hard to help the relationship but I don't feel shes done the same. Do you think this could ever change? TL;DR:

Mandatory summary/question! We're on a break which she initiated. If she wants to continue the realtionship, should I accept or decide to end it myself?<|endoftext|>

[ 18150, 2473, 6010, 16, 19751, 2, 844, 1472, 327, 247, 2740, 534, 703, 15247, 15, 1310, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 253, 1524, 85, 621, 1456, 13, 943, 309, 2997, 390, 7617, 281, 990, 352, 4266, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I broke up with a great gf of 3 years. It feels like we were never really in touch and I don't know how to react.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 9377, 598, 342, 247, 1270, 305, 71, 273, 495, 1107, 15, 733, 9193, 751, 359, 497, 1620, 1663, 275, 5181, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 8071, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. my girlfriend of 3 years has just said she needs time to think of whether she wants to continue our relationship. We have had an amazing 3 years, travelling together and had some amazing times. she used to be quiet depressed and self concious, whereas I was always very happy. I loved her so much but lately I've felt a bit down and have been more needy towards her whereas she has become happier and more social I feel like because she is happier she feels she doesnt need me anymore. At the same time I've no idea what she's gonna say in a week even though last time we talked she seemed quiet sure we were breaking up. During this break I've realised that we were never that in touch emotionally, she wouldn't want to talk about anything serious or painful. I'm thinking of just agreeing to breaking up or insisting on it if she decides not to. She's such an amazing person and I don't want to let her go. We worked so well almost all the time. If we do end up back together though i know we would need to connect more emotionally but I'm unsure if this will ever change and unsure whether it'll be worth one more shot. I've tried incredibly hard to help the relationship but I don't feel shes done the same. Do you think this could ever change? TL;DR: Mandatory summary/question! We're on a break which she initiated. If she wants to continue the realtionship, should I accept or decide to end it myself?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2325, 2119, 281, 5513, 275, 2508, 342, 1386, 13471, 15, 187, 2577, 19609, 273, 495, 1107, 556, 816, 753, 703, 3198, 673, 281, 1158, 273, 1880, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 776, 2954, 15, 844, 452, 574, 271, 8644, 495, 1107, 13, 22710, 2366, 285, 574, 690, 8644, 2069, 15, 703, 908, 281, 320, 7107, 23201, 285, 1881, 7036, 784, 13, 5727, 309, 369, 1900, 1077, 5211, 15, 309, 7636, 617, 594, 1199, 533, 21403, 309, 1849, 3543, 247, 2372, 1066, 285, 452, 644, 625, 878, 90, 4404, 617, 5727, 703, 556, 2489, 33128, 285, 625, 2675, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 984, 703, 310, 33128, 703, 9193, 703, 36908, 878, 479, 10542, 15, 2058, 253, 1072, 673, 309, 1849, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 434, 6501, 1333, 275, 247, 2129, 1014, 2167, 1390, 673, 359, 10062, 703, 4455, 7107, 2119, 359, 497, 10155, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 10457, 436, 2740, 309, 1849, 25436, 326, 359, 497, 1620, 326, 275, 5181, 28561, 13, 703, 5082, 626, 971, 281, 2312, 670, 2712, 4092, 390, 16592, 15, 309, 1353, 4680, 273, 816, 33732, 281, 10155, 598, 390, 40694, 327, 352, 604, 703, 21936, 417, 281, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 824, 271, 8644, 1436, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 844, 4307, 594, 973, 2761, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 990, 598, 896, 2366, 2167, 891, 871, 359, 651, 878, 281, 4684, 625, 28561, 533, 309, 1353, 31488, 604, 436, 588, 2455, 1818, 285, 31488, 1880, 352, 1833, 320, 4409, 581, 625, 5103, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 16088, 1892, 281, 1361, 253, 2954, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 703, 84, 2218, 253, 1072, 15, 3166, 368, 1158, 436, 812, 2455, 1818, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 18150, 2473, 6010, 16, 19751, 2, 844, 1472, 327, 247, 2740, 534, 703, 15247, 15, 1310, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 253, 1524, 85, 621, 1456, 13, 943, 309, 2997, 390, 7617, 281, 990, 352, 4266, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

344

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Be sure to explain in detail with line breaks. my girlfriend of 3 years has just said she needs time to think of whether she wants to continue our relationship. We have had an amazing 3 years, travelling together and had some amazing times. she used to be quiet depressed and self concious, whereas I was always very happy. I loved her so much but lately I've felt a bit down and have been more needy towards her whereas she has become happier and more social I feel like because she is happier she feels she doesnt need me anymore. At the same time I've no idea what she's gonna say in a week even though last time we talked she seemed quiet sure we were breaking up. During this break I've realised that we were never that in touch emotionally, she wouldn't want to talk about anything serious or painful. I'm thinking of just agreeing to breaking up or insisting on it if she decides not to. She's such an amazing person and I don't want to let her go. We worked so well almost all the time. If we do end up back together though i know we would need to connect more emotionally but I'm unsure if this will ever change and unsure whether it'll be worth one more shot. I've tried incredibly hard to help the relationship but I don't feel shes done the same. Do you think this could ever change? TL;DR: I broke up with a great gf of 3 years. It feels like we were never really in touch and I don't know how to react.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2325, 2119, 281, 5513, 275, 2508, 342, 1386, 13471, 15, 187, 2577, 19609, 273, 495, 1107, 556, 816, 753, 703, 3198, 673, 281, 1158, 273, 1880, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 776, 2954, 15, 844, 452, 574, 271, 8644, 495, 1107, 13, 22710, 2366, 285, 574, 690, 8644, 2069, 15, 703, 908, 281, 320, 7107, 23201, 285, 1881, 7036, 784, 13, 5727, 309, 369, 1900, 1077, 5211, 15, 309, 7636, 617, 594, 1199, 533, 21403, 309, 1849, 3543, 247, 2372, 1066, 285, 452, 644, 625, 878, 90, 4404, 617, 5727, 703, 556, 2489, 33128, 285, 625, 2675, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 984, 703, 310, 33128, 703, 9193, 703, 36908, 878, 479, 10542, 15, 2058, 253, 1072, 673, 309, 1849, 642, 2934, 752, 703, 434, 6501, 1333, 275, 247, 2129, 1014, 2167, 1390, 673, 359, 10062, 703, 4455, 7107, 2119, 359, 497, 10155, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 10457, 436, 2740, 309, 1849, 25436, 326, 359, 497, 1620, 326, 275, 5181, 28561, 13, 703, 5082, 626, 971, 281, 2312, 670, 2712, 4092, 390, 16592, 15, 309, 1353, 4680, 273, 816, 33732, 281, 10155, 598, 390, 40694, 327, 352, 604, 703, 21936, 417, 281, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 824, 271, 8644, 1436, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 844, 4307, 594, 973, 2761, 512, 253, 673, 15, 1310, 359, 513, 990, 598, 896, 2366, 2167, 891, 871, 359, 651, 878, 281, 4684, 625, 28561, 533, 309, 1353, 31488, 604, 436, 588, 2455, 1818, 285, 31488, 1880, 352, 1833, 320, 4409, 581, 625, 5103, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 16088, 1892, 281, 1361, 253, 2954, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 703, 84, 2218, 253, 1072, 15, 3166, 368, 1158, 436, 812, 2455, 1818, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 247, 1270, 305, 71, 273, 495, 1107, 15, 733, 9193, 751, 359, 497, 1620, 1663, 275, 5181, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 8071, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

338

307

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 18150, 2473, 6010, 16, 19751, 2, 844, 1472, 327, 247, 2740, 534, 703, 15247, 15, 1310, 703, 5605, 281, 4035, 253, 1524, 85, 621, 1456, 13, 943, 309, 2997, 390, 7617, 281, 990, 352, 4266, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 9377, 598, 342, 247, 1270, 305, 71, 273, 495, 1107, 15, 733, 9193, 751, 359, 497, 1620, 1663, 275, 5181, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 8071, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I was out to lunch with my fiance's grandparents today. We were discussing the budget for his schooling and his flying came up in subject (he recently obtained his sport pilot license). They do not approve of him flying. They asked who paid for it and I told them that I did with the money I had received from an auto accident I was involved in. My fiance's grandpa then proceeded to shout at me, "Shame on you, shame on you for enabling him." in the middle of a crowded restaurant. I didn't shout back but I did tell him, that I am not ashamed of financing my fiance and his dreams. I was so incredibly humiliated after being shouted at in the middle of the restaurant that I had to leave.

Shouted at in the middle of crowded restaurant after financing my SO's dream of becoming a sport pilot by grandpa. What can I do to repair this humiliation and restore my dignity?

Shouted at by fiance's grandpa in a crowded restaurant after financing my fiance's dream of becoming a sport pilot by his grandpa. What do you do when you are publicly humiliated?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 562, 281, 11157, 342, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 37186, 3063, 15, 844, 497, 16585, 253, 7563, 323, 521, 46772, 285, 521, 12060, 2210, 598, 275, 2256, 313, 248, 4102, 2797, 521, 9678, 11572, 7981, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 3726, 513, 417, 23255, 273, 779, 12060, 15, 1583, 2546, 665, 5087, 323, 352, 285, 309, 2183, 731, 326, 309, 858, 342, 253, 2583, 309, 574, 2959, 432, 271, 6753, 7343, 309, 369, 3206, 275, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 840, 20311, 281, 11557, 387, 479, 13, 346, 2809, 482, 327, 368, 13, 14816, 327, 368, 323, 17690, 779, 449, 50276, 249, 253, 4766, 273, 247, 22299, 10301, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 11557, 896, 533, 309, 858, 2028, 779, 13, 326, 309, 717, 417, 29170, 273, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 285, 521, 13702, 15, 309, 369, 594, 16088, 1547, 31689, 846, 1146, 19294, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 10301, 326, 309, 574, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was out to lunch with my fiance's grandparents today. We were discussing the budget for his schooling and his flying came up in subject (he recently obtained his sport pilot license). They do not approve of him flying. They asked who paid for it and I told them that I did with the money I had received from an auto accident I was involved in. My fiance's grandpa then proceeded to shout at me, "Shame on you, shame on you for enabling him." in the middle of a crowded restaurant. I didn't shout back but I did tell him, that I am not ashamed of financing my fiance and his dreams. I was so incredibly humiliated after being shouted at in the middle of the restaurant that I had to leave. TL;DR:

Shouted at in the middle of crowded restaurant after financing my SO's dream of becoming a sport pilot by grandpa. What can I do to repair this humiliation and restore my dignity?<|endoftext|>

[ 1608, 483, 264, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 8717, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 8706, 436, 45244, 285, 15042, 619, 24027, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Shouted at by fiance's grandpa in a crowded restaurant after financing my fiance's dream of becoming a sport pilot by his grandpa. What do you do when you are publicly humiliated?<|endoftext|>

[ 1608, 483, 264, 387, 407, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 275, 247, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 521, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 513, 368, 513, 672, 368, 403, 13644, 1547, 31689, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was out to lunch with my fiance's grandparents today. We were discussing the budget for his schooling and his flying came up in subject (he recently obtained his sport pilot license). They do not approve of him flying. They asked who paid for it and I told them that I did with the money I had received from an auto accident I was involved in. My fiance's grandpa then proceeded to shout at me, "Shame on you, shame on you for enabling him." in the middle of a crowded restaurant. I didn't shout back but I did tell him, that I am not ashamed of financing my fiance and his dreams. I was so incredibly humiliated after being shouted at in the middle of the restaurant that I had to leave. TL;DR: Shouted at in the middle of crowded restaurant after financing my SO's dream of becoming a sport pilot by grandpa. What can I do to repair this humiliation and restore my dignity?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 562, 281, 11157, 342, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 37186, 3063, 15, 844, 497, 16585, 253, 7563, 323, 521, 46772, 285, 521, 12060, 2210, 598, 275, 2256, 313, 248, 4102, 2797, 521, 9678, 11572, 7981, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 3726, 513, 417, 23255, 273, 779, 12060, 15, 1583, 2546, 665, 5087, 323, 352, 285, 309, 2183, 731, 326, 309, 858, 342, 253, 2583, 309, 574, 2959, 432, 271, 6753, 7343, 309, 369, 3206, 275, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 840, 20311, 281, 11557, 387, 479, 13, 346, 2809, 482, 327, 368, 13, 14816, 327, 368, 323, 17690, 779, 449, 50276, 249, 253, 4766, 273, 247, 22299, 10301, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 11557, 896, 533, 309, 858, 2028, 779, 13, 326, 309, 717, 417, 29170, 273, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 285, 521, 13702, 15, 309, 369, 594, 16088, 1547, 31689, 846, 1146, 19294, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 10301, 326, 309, 574, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1608, 483, 264, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 8717, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 8706, 436, 45244, 285, 15042, 619, 24027, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

220

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was out to lunch with my fiance's grandparents today. We were discussing the budget for his schooling and his flying came up in subject (he recently obtained his sport pilot license). They do not approve of him flying. They asked who paid for it and I told them that I did with the money I had received from an auto accident I was involved in. My fiance's grandpa then proceeded to shout at me, "Shame on you, shame on you for enabling him." in the middle of a crowded restaurant. I didn't shout back but I did tell him, that I am not ashamed of financing my fiance and his dreams. I was so incredibly humiliated after being shouted at in the middle of the restaurant that I had to leave. TL;DR: Shouted at by fiance's grandpa in a crowded restaurant after financing my fiance's dream of becoming a sport pilot by his grandpa. What do you do when you are publicly humiliated?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 562, 281, 11157, 342, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 37186, 3063, 15, 844, 497, 16585, 253, 7563, 323, 521, 46772, 285, 521, 12060, 2210, 598, 275, 2256, 313, 248, 4102, 2797, 521, 9678, 11572, 7981, 481, 50276, 187, 187, 3726, 513, 417, 23255, 273, 779, 12060, 15, 1583, 2546, 665, 5087, 323, 352, 285, 309, 2183, 731, 326, 309, 858, 342, 253, 2583, 309, 574, 2959, 432, 271, 6753, 7343, 309, 369, 3206, 275, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 840, 20311, 281, 11557, 387, 479, 13, 346, 2809, 482, 327, 368, 13, 14816, 327, 368, 323, 17690, 779, 449, 50276, 249, 253, 4766, 273, 247, 22299, 10301, 15, 309, 1904, 626, 11557, 896, 533, 309, 858, 2028, 779, 13, 326, 309, 717, 417, 29170, 273, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 285, 521, 13702, 15, 309, 369, 594, 16088, 1547, 31689, 846, 1146, 19294, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 253, 10301, 326, 309, 574, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1608, 483, 264, 387, 407, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 275, 247, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 521, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 513, 368, 513, 672, 368, 403, 13644, 1547, 31689, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

224

181

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1608, 483, 264, 387, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 8717, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 8706, 436, 45244, 285, 15042, 619, 24027, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1608, 483, 264, 387, 407, 269, 5155, 434, 4936, 4904, 275, 247, 22299, 10301, 846, 22599, 619, 269, 5155, 434, 7156, 273, 7552, 247, 9678, 11572, 407, 521, 4936, 4904, 15, 1737, 513, 368, 513, 672, 368, 403, 13644, 1547, 31689, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

First of all I have next to the perfect life, great family, good friends, people that genuinely care about me. My family is middle upper class in Mexico and my parents are able to afford college for me and my sister in private institutions. I was in one of the best engineering programs in my country in one of the best universities here, but I just wasn't feeling it. So decided to change my path towards communication (writing,TV,radio,movies), but I was first in design, so my parents didn't think that was a good idea. So now I am back at home studying to be a nurse. I really enjoy being in school and I am really good with labs and exams, its just I am too irresponsible for everything else, I don't put on any real work and all because still, I am not feeling it. I'm not miserable but I got these feeling I am just not cut to have this life (study, get a job, have a family) I am more of a free spirit and i feel caged. My question is do you think I should drop out, again, and try y pursue and find my path, a path where I feel I belong? Or just push through these feelings of inadequacy and disdain and fight the fight everybody seems to be fighting? How do I talk to my parents about these? Would it mean I am a f*cking looser ?

I feel like I am not cut to be in the life my parents have. Do I try and get my life together, or give up and pursue my heart's desire? How to break it to my parents?

I am a student struggling with the feeling that I don't belong in this life and I don't know how to break the news to my parents or if I should keep studying.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 273, 512, 309, 452, 1735, 281, 253, 3962, 1495, 13, 1270, 2021, 13, 1175, 3858, 13, 952, 326, 27364, 1557, 670, 479, 15, 2752, 2021, 310, 4766, 5170, 966, 275, 8987, 285, 619, 4651, 403, 2104, 281, 7848, 6831, 323, 479, 285, 619, 7586, 275, 3055, 10003, 15, 535, 309, 369, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 11369, 5659, 275, 619, 2586, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 18403, 1060, 13, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 15, 1893, 4425, 281, 1818, 619, 1854, 4404, 5511, 313, 17695, 13, 12101, 13, 25337, 13, 16047, 447, 582, 533, 309, 369, 806, 275, 2216, 13, 594, 619, 4651, 1904, 626, 1158, 326, 369, 247, 1175, 2934, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 896, 387, 1728, 12392, 281, 320, 247, 15339, 15, 209, 187, 42, 1663, 4264, 1146, 275, 2143, 285, 309, 717, 1663, 1175, 342, 39803, 285, 34666, 13, 697, 816, 309, 717, 1512, 3496, 37882, 323, 3253, 2010, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1691, 327, 667, 1524, 789, 285, 512, 984, 1335, 13, 309, 717, 417, 5471, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 28714, 533, 309, 1694, 841, 5471, 309, 717, 816, 417, 2624, 281, 452, 436, 1495, 313, 34966, 13, 755, 247, 2628, 13, 452, 247, 2021, 10, 309, 717, 625, 273, 247, 1959, 5968, 285, 891, 1928, 260, 2961, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 1953, 310, 513, 368, 1158, 309, 943, 5926, 562, 13, 969, 13, 285, 1611, 340, 15142, 285, 1089, 619, 1854, 13, 247, 1854, 835, 309, 1928, 309, 5663, 32, 2207, 816, 7450, 949, 841, 10450, 273, 16273, 1974, 285, 49443, 285, 3819, 253, 3819, 11648, 3133, 281, 320, 8615, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 4651, 670, 841, 32, 14815, 352, 1599, 309, 717, 247, 269, 11, 777, 272, 2343, 14356, 3736, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all I have next to the perfect life, great family, good friends, people that genuinely care about me. My family is middle upper class in Mexico and my parents are able to afford college for me and my sister in private institutions. I was in one of the best engineering programs in my country in one of the best universities here, but I just wasn't feeling it. So decided to change my path towards communication (writing,TV,radio,movies), but I was first in design, so my parents didn't think that was a good idea. So now I am back at home studying to be a nurse. I really enjoy being in school and I am really good with labs and exams, its just I am too irresponsible for everything else, I don't put on any real work and all because still, I am not feeling it. I'm not miserable but I got these feeling I am just not cut to have this life (study, get a job, have a family) I am more of a free spirit and i feel caged. My question is do you think I should drop out, again, and try y pursue and find my path, a path where I feel I belong? Or just push through these feelings of inadequacy and disdain and fight the fight everybody seems to be fighting? How do I talk to my parents about these? Would it mean I am a f*cking looser? TL;DR:

I feel like I am not cut to be in the life my parents have. Do I try and get my life together, or give up and pursue my heart's desire? How to break it to my parents?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 417, 2624, 281, 320, 275, 253, 1495, 619, 4651, 452, 15, 3166, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 619, 1495, 2366, 13, 390, 1918, 598, 285, 15142, 619, 2798, 434, 8327, 32, 1359, 281, 2740, 352, 281, 619, 4651, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I am a student struggling with the feeling that I don't belong in this life and I don't know how to break the news to my parents or if I should keep studying.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 717, 247, 5974, 15586, 342, 253, 5471, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 5663, 275, 436, 1495, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2740, 253, 3668, 281, 619, 4651, 390, 604, 309, 943, 1978, 12392, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all I have next to the perfect life, great family, good friends, people that genuinely care about me. My family is middle upper class in Mexico and my parents are able to afford college for me and my sister in private institutions. I was in one of the best engineering programs in my country in one of the best universities here, but I just wasn't feeling it. So decided to change my path towards communication (writing,TV,radio,movies), but I was first in design, so my parents didn't think that was a good idea. So now I am back at home studying to be a nurse. I really enjoy being in school and I am really good with labs and exams, its just I am too irresponsible for everything else, I don't put on any real work and all because still, I am not feeling it. I'm not miserable but I got these feeling I am just not cut to have this life (study, get a job, have a family) I am more of a free spirit and i feel caged. My question is do you think I should drop out, again, and try y pursue and find my path, a path where I feel I belong? Or just push through these feelings of inadequacy and disdain and fight the fight everybody seems to be fighting? How do I talk to my parents about these? Would it mean I am a f*cking looser? TL;DR: I feel like I am not cut to be in the life my parents have. Do I try and get my life together, or give up and pursue my heart's desire? How to break it to my parents?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 273, 512, 309, 452, 1735, 281, 253, 3962, 1495, 13, 1270, 2021, 13, 1175, 3858, 13, 952, 326, 27364, 1557, 670, 479, 15, 2752, 2021, 310, 4766, 5170, 966, 275, 8987, 285, 619, 4651, 403, 2104, 281, 7848, 6831, 323, 479, 285, 619, 7586, 275, 3055, 10003, 15, 535, 309, 369, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 11369, 5659, 275, 619, 2586, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 18403, 1060, 13, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 15, 1893, 4425, 281, 1818, 619, 1854, 4404, 5511, 313, 17695, 13, 12101, 13, 25337, 13, 16047, 447, 582, 533, 309, 369, 806, 275, 2216, 13, 594, 619, 4651, 1904, 626, 1158, 326, 369, 247, 1175, 2934, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 896, 387, 1728, 12392, 281, 320, 247, 15339, 15, 209, 187, 42, 1663, 4264, 1146, 275, 2143, 285, 309, 717, 1663, 1175, 342, 39803, 285, 34666, 13, 697, 816, 309, 717, 1512, 3496, 37882, 323, 3253, 2010, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1691, 327, 667, 1524, 789, 285, 512, 984, 1335, 13, 309, 717, 417, 5471, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 28714, 533, 309, 1694, 841, 5471, 309, 717, 816, 417, 2624, 281, 452, 436, 1495, 313, 34966, 13, 755, 247, 2628, 13, 452, 247, 2021, 10, 309, 717, 625, 273, 247, 1959, 5968, 285, 891, 1928, 260, 2961, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 1953, 310, 513, 368, 1158, 309, 943, 5926, 562, 13, 969, 13, 285, 1611, 340, 15142, 285, 1089, 619, 1854, 13, 247, 1854, 835, 309, 1928, 309, 5663, 32, 2207, 816, 7450, 949, 841, 10450, 273, 16273, 1974, 285, 49443, 285, 3819, 253, 3819, 11648, 3133, 281, 320, 8615, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 4651, 670, 841, 32, 14815, 352, 1599, 309, 717, 247, 269, 11, 777, 272, 2343, 14356, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 417, 2624, 281, 320, 275, 253, 1495, 619, 4651, 452, 15, 3166, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 619, 1495, 2366, 13, 390, 1918, 598, 285, 15142, 619, 2798, 434, 8327, 32, 1359, 281, 2740, 352, 281, 619, 4651, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

361

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First of all I have next to the perfect life, great family, good friends, people that genuinely care about me. My family is middle upper class in Mexico and my parents are able to afford college for me and my sister in private institutions. I was in one of the best engineering programs in my country in one of the best universities here, but I just wasn't feeling it. So decided to change my path towards communication (writing,TV,radio,movies), but I was first in design, so my parents didn't think that was a good idea. So now I am back at home studying to be a nurse. I really enjoy being in school and I am really good with labs and exams, its just I am too irresponsible for everything else, I don't put on any real work and all because still, I am not feeling it. I'm not miserable but I got these feeling I am just not cut to have this life (study, get a job, have a family) I am more of a free spirit and i feel caged. My question is do you think I should drop out, again, and try y pursue and find my path, a path where I feel I belong? Or just push through these feelings of inadequacy and disdain and fight the fight everybody seems to be fighting? How do I talk to my parents about these? Would it mean I am a f*cking looser? TL;DR: I am a student struggling with the feeling that I don't belong in this life and I don't know how to break the news to my parents or if I should keep studying.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 273, 512, 309, 452, 1735, 281, 253, 3962, 1495, 13, 1270, 2021, 13, 1175, 3858, 13, 952, 326, 27364, 1557, 670, 479, 15, 2752, 2021, 310, 4766, 5170, 966, 275, 8987, 285, 619, 4651, 403, 2104, 281, 7848, 6831, 323, 479, 285, 619, 7586, 275, 3055, 10003, 15, 535, 309, 369, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 11369, 5659, 275, 619, 2586, 275, 581, 273, 253, 1682, 18403, 1060, 13, 533, 309, 816, 3589, 626, 5471, 352, 15, 1893, 4425, 281, 1818, 619, 1854, 4404, 5511, 313, 17695, 13, 12101, 13, 25337, 13, 16047, 447, 582, 533, 309, 369, 806, 275, 2216, 13, 594, 619, 4651, 1904, 626, 1158, 326, 369, 247, 1175, 2934, 15, 1893, 1024, 309, 717, 896, 387, 1728, 12392, 281, 320, 247, 15339, 15, 209, 187, 42, 1663, 4264, 1146, 275, 2143, 285, 309, 717, 1663, 1175, 342, 39803, 285, 34666, 13, 697, 816, 309, 717, 1512, 3496, 37882, 323, 3253, 2010, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 1691, 327, 667, 1524, 789, 285, 512, 984, 1335, 13, 309, 717, 417, 5471, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 28714, 533, 309, 1694, 841, 5471, 309, 717, 816, 417, 2624, 281, 452, 436, 1495, 313, 34966, 13, 755, 247, 2628, 13, 452, 247, 2021, 10, 309, 717, 625, 273, 247, 1959, 5968, 285, 891, 1928, 260, 2961, 15, 2490, 187, 3220, 1953, 310, 513, 368, 1158, 309, 943, 5926, 562, 13, 969, 13, 285, 1611, 340, 15142, 285, 1089, 619, 1854, 13, 247, 1854, 835, 309, 1928, 309, 5663, 32, 2207, 816, 7450, 949, 841, 10450, 273, 16273, 1974, 285, 49443, 285, 3819, 253, 3819, 11648, 3133, 281, 320, 8615, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 619, 4651, 670, 841, 32, 14815, 352, 1599, 309, 717, 247, 269, 11, 777, 272, 2343, 14356, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 717, 247, 5974, 15586, 342, 253, 5471, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 5663, 275, 436, 1495, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2740, 253, 3668, 281, 619, 4651, 390, 604, 309, 943, 1978, 12392, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

354

317

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 417, 2624, 281, 320, 275, 253, 1495, 619, 4651, 452, 15, 3166, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 619, 1495, 2366, 13, 390, 1918, 598, 285, 15142, 619, 2798, 434, 8327, 32, 1359, 281, 2740, 352, 281, 619, 4651, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 717, 247, 5974, 15586, 342, 253, 5471, 326, 309, 1053, 626, 5663, 275, 436, 1495, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 2740, 253, 3668, 281, 619, 4651, 390, 604, 309, 943, 1978, 12392, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

We've been married for two years in an otherwise normal relationship. My husband decided to donate blood last month. He used to do it in the past but stopped in the past few years. So he went in and donated blood and a few days later he received a phone call telling him that the tests on his blood were positive for HIV. We both went to the doctor and got tested again and yes he is positive (I'm negative). We did have STD tests 2.5 years ago when we were engaged and we were both negative. It's been a very stressful time for us with all the issues relating to dealing with the HIV, and he insists that he has never cheated on me with anyone. He hasn't received transfusions during this time either. I don't know what to believe. He swears to me day and night that he doesn't know how this happened. What should I do at this time? It's not like you can get HIV out of thin air. It's usually either sex, transfusion or needles. He says none of them have happened.

Husband is HIV positive and insists he hasn't cheated on me with anyone. Confuses situation and claims he didn't know he was HIV positive until the tests came back. What do I do?

Husband was HIV positive, insists he didn't do anything wrong, tested positive again, swears he's never cheated on me. WTF do I do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 7028, 323, 767, 1107, 275, 271, 5010, 2622, 2954, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 5938, 4425, 281, 31656, 2614, 1390, 1770, 15, 754, 908, 281, 513, 352, 275, 253, 2469, 533, 6331, 275, 253, 2469, 1643, 1107, 15, 1893, 344, 2427, 275, 285, 26837, 2614, 285, 247, 1643, 1897, 1996, 344, 2959, 247, 4481, 1067, 7746, 779, 326, 253, 5216, 327, 521, 2614, 497, 2762, 323, 7452, 15, 844, 1097, 2427, 281, 253, 7345, 285, 1694, 5762, 969, 285, 4754, 344, 310, 2762, 313, 42, 1353, 4016, 481, 844, 858, 452, 3915, 37, 5216, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 3622, 672, 359, 497, 9583, 285, 359, 497, 1097, 4016, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 644, 247, 1077, 33674, 673, 323, 441, 342, 512, 253, 3374, 12600, 281, 10620, 342, 253, 7452, 13, 285, 344, 31533, 326, 344, 556, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 754, 11210, 626, 2959, 47415, 16723, 1309, 436, 673, 2057, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 2868, 15, 754, 1863, 6364, 281, 479, 1388, 285, 2360, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 871, 849, 436, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 513, 387, 436, 673, 32, 733, 434, 417, 751, 368, 476, 755, 7452, 562, 273, 6906, 2329, 15, 733, 434, 3798, 2057, 2825, 13, 34190, 390, 32545, 15, 754, 2296, 5293, 273, 731, 452, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been married for two years in an otherwise normal relationship. My husband decided to donate blood last month. He used to do it in the past but stopped in the past few years. So he went in and donated blood and a few days later he received a phone call telling him that the tests on his blood were positive for HIV. We both went to the doctor and got tested again and yes he is positive (I'm negative). We did have STD tests 2.5 years ago when we were engaged and we were both negative. It's been a very stressful time for us with all the issues relating to dealing with the HIV, and he insists that he has never cheated on me with anyone. He hasn't received transfusions during this time either. I don't know what to believe. He swears to me day and night that he doesn't know how this happened. What should I do at this time? It's not like you can get HIV out of thin air. It's usually either sex, transfusion or needles. He says none of them have happened. TL;DR:

Husband is HIV positive and insists he hasn't cheated on me with anyone. Confuses situation and claims he didn't know he was HIV positive until the tests came back. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 49226, 310, 7452, 2762, 285, 31533, 344, 11210, 626, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 11204, 5123, 4112, 285, 3916, 344, 1904, 626, 871, 344, 369, 7452, 2762, 1919, 253, 5216, 2210, 896, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Husband was HIV positive, insists he didn't do anything wrong, tested positive again, swears he's never cheated on me. WTF do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 49226, 369, 7452, 2762, 13, 31533, 344, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 3430, 13, 5762, 2762, 969, 13, 1863, 6364, 344, 434, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 15, 12020, 39, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been married for two years in an otherwise normal relationship. My husband decided to donate blood last month. He used to do it in the past but stopped in the past few years. So he went in and donated blood and a few days later he received a phone call telling him that the tests on his blood were positive for HIV. We both went to the doctor and got tested again and yes he is positive (I'm negative). We did have STD tests 2.5 years ago when we were engaged and we were both negative. It's been a very stressful time for us with all the issues relating to dealing with the HIV, and he insists that he has never cheated on me with anyone. He hasn't received transfusions during this time either. I don't know what to believe. He swears to me day and night that he doesn't know how this happened. What should I do at this time? It's not like you can get HIV out of thin air. It's usually either sex, transfusion or needles. He says none of them have happened. TL;DR: Husband is HIV positive and insists he hasn't cheated on me with anyone. Confuses situation and claims he didn't know he was HIV positive until the tests came back. What do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 7028, 323, 767, 1107, 275, 271, 5010, 2622, 2954, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 5938, 4425, 281, 31656, 2614, 1390, 1770, 15, 754, 908, 281, 513, 352, 275, 253, 2469, 533, 6331, 275, 253, 2469, 1643, 1107, 15, 1893, 344, 2427, 275, 285, 26837, 2614, 285, 247, 1643, 1897, 1996, 344, 2959, 247, 4481, 1067, 7746, 779, 326, 253, 5216, 327, 521, 2614, 497, 2762, 323, 7452, 15, 844, 1097, 2427, 281, 253, 7345, 285, 1694, 5762, 969, 285, 4754, 344, 310, 2762, 313, 42, 1353, 4016, 481, 844, 858, 452, 3915, 37, 5216, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 3622, 672, 359, 497, 9583, 285, 359, 497, 1097, 4016, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 644, 247, 1077, 33674, 673, 323, 441, 342, 512, 253, 3374, 12600, 281, 10620, 342, 253, 7452, 13, 285, 344, 31533, 326, 344, 556, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 754, 11210, 626, 2959, 47415, 16723, 1309, 436, 673, 2057, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 2868, 15, 754, 1863, 6364, 281, 479, 1388, 285, 2360, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 871, 849, 436, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 513, 387, 436, 673, 32, 733, 434, 417, 751, 368, 476, 755, 7452, 562, 273, 6906, 2329, 15, 733, 434, 3798, 2057, 2825, 13, 34190, 390, 32545, 15, 754, 2296, 5293, 273, 731, 452, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 49226, 310, 7452, 2762, 285, 31533, 344, 11210, 626, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 11204, 5123, 4112, 285, 3916, 344, 1904, 626, 871, 344, 369, 7452, 2762, 1919, 253, 5216, 2210, 896, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

288

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: We've been married for two years in an otherwise normal relationship. My husband decided to donate blood last month. He used to do it in the past but stopped in the past few years. So he went in and donated blood and a few days later he received a phone call telling him that the tests on his blood were positive for HIV. We both went to the doctor and got tested again and yes he is positive (I'm negative). We did have STD tests 2.5 years ago when we were engaged and we were both negative. It's been a very stressful time for us with all the issues relating to dealing with the HIV, and he insists that he has never cheated on me with anyone. He hasn't received transfusions during this time either. I don't know what to believe. He swears to me day and night that he doesn't know how this happened. What should I do at this time? It's not like you can get HIV out of thin air. It's usually either sex, transfusion or needles. He says none of them have happened. TL;DR: Husband was HIV positive, insists he didn't do anything wrong, tested positive again, swears he's never cheated on me. WTF do I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 844, 1849, 644, 7028, 323, 767, 1107, 275, 271, 5010, 2622, 2954, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 5938, 4425, 281, 31656, 2614, 1390, 1770, 15, 754, 908, 281, 513, 352, 275, 253, 2469, 533, 6331, 275, 253, 2469, 1643, 1107, 15, 1893, 344, 2427, 275, 285, 26837, 2614, 285, 247, 1643, 1897, 1996, 344, 2959, 247, 4481, 1067, 7746, 779, 326, 253, 5216, 327, 521, 2614, 497, 2762, 323, 7452, 15, 844, 1097, 2427, 281, 253, 7345, 285, 1694, 5762, 969, 285, 4754, 344, 310, 2762, 313, 42, 1353, 4016, 481, 844, 858, 452, 3915, 37, 5216, 374, 15, 22, 1107, 3622, 672, 359, 497, 9583, 285, 359, 497, 1097, 4016, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 644, 247, 1077, 33674, 673, 323, 441, 342, 512, 253, 3374, 12600, 281, 10620, 342, 253, 7452, 13, 285, 344, 31533, 326, 344, 556, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 754, 11210, 626, 2959, 47415, 16723, 1309, 436, 673, 2057, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 2868, 15, 754, 1863, 6364, 281, 479, 1388, 285, 2360, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 871, 849, 436, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 943, 309, 513, 387, 436, 673, 32, 733, 434, 417, 751, 368, 476, 755, 7452, 562, 273, 6906, 2329, 15, 733, 434, 3798, 2057, 2825, 13, 34190, 390, 32545, 15, 754, 2296, 5293, 273, 731, 452, 4592, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 49226, 369, 7452, 2762, 13, 31533, 344, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 3430, 13, 5762, 2762, 969, 13, 1863, 6364, 344, 434, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 15, 12020, 39, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

281

247

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 49226, 310, 7452, 2762, 285, 31533, 344, 11210, 626, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 342, 3780, 15, 11204, 5123, 4112, 285, 3916, 344, 1904, 626, 871, 344, 369, 7452, 2762, 1919, 253, 5216, 2210, 896, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 49226, 369, 7452, 2762, 13, 31533, 344, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 3430, 13, 5762, 2762, 969, 13, 1863, 6364, 344, 434, 1620, 1161, 456, 327, 479, 15, 12020, 39, 513, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

A few weeks ago I broke my girlfriends trust and have been working to regain this trust. I won't go into the details but history on my phone shows I met with some females known to be sexual. I was wasted but know I didn't do anything beyond the texts but she snooped and it broke our trust and I understand I was at fault. She seemingly forgave me and we began to become more regular with each other after two weeks. Although I realize the trust is going to take a long time to heal, after another two weeks since we got back together the trust was gone once again and now from both sides. She continued to snoop every chance she could and found some porn in my search history. She lost it, left and stopped talking with me for a couple days. I understood that she was hurt but at some point feel this it makes me feel the trust is irreversible. We are now "taking a break" but she wants to talk every night and do everything a normal couple does but be together. I love her and want to do whatever is needed to regain her trust but I am concerned that it will never happen. I feel we just need significant time without any talking but she feels that means I don't want to try to make it work. What is the best way to go about this situation? Is it alright if we talk every night like everything's normal or do we need a full break?

Girlfriend lost trust, want to get it back. How much talking is needed before we take a break?

I broke my girlfriends trust. We are taking a break until I can regain her trust. How do we talk for the next two weeks?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1643, 3618, 3622, 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 285, 452, 644, 2444, 281, 35398, 436, 4517, 15, 309, 1912, 626, 564, 715, 253, 4278, 533, 2892, 327, 619, 4481, 2722, 309, 1313, 342, 690, 10753, 1929, 281, 320, 5615, 15, 309, 369, 25262, 533, 871, 309, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 4457, 253, 17438, 533, 703, 256, 2369, 11802, 285, 352, 9377, 776, 4517, 285, 309, 2096, 309, 369, 387, 9331, 15, 1500, 16907, 7175, 1123, 479, 285, 359, 3407, 281, 2489, 625, 3963, 342, 1016, 643, 846, 767, 3618, 15, 187, 187, 8430, 309, 8968, 253, 4517, 310, 1469, 281, 1379, 247, 1048, 673, 281, 20658, 13, 846, 1529, 767, 3618, 1580, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 253, 4517, 369, 4783, 2378, 969, 285, 1024, 432, 1097, 7123, 15, 1500, 4821, 281, 256, 27607, 1046, 4839, 703, 812, 285, 1119, 690, 16921, 275, 619, 3186, 2892, 15, 1500, 3663, 352, 13, 1669, 285, 6331, 5015, 342, 479, 323, 247, 4564, 1897, 15, 309, 7192, 326, 703, 369, 8513, 533, 387, 690, 1127, 1928, 436, 352, 2789, 479, 1928, 253, 4517, 310, 38378, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 403, 1024, 346, 29114, 247, 2740, 3, 533, 703, 5605, 281, 2312, 1046, 2360, 285, 513, 3253, 247, 2622, 4564, 1057, 533, 320, 2366, 15, 309, 2389, 617, 285, 971, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3058, 281, 35398, 617, 4517, 533, 309, 717, 7514, 326, 352, 588, 1620, 5108, 15, 309, 1928, 359, 816, 878, 1534, 673, 1293, 667, 5015, 533, 703, 9193, 326, 2097, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1611, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 1737, 310, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 564, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1680, 352, 34557, 604, 359, 2312, 1046, 2360, 751, 3253, 434, 2622, 390, 513, 359, 878, 247, 2120, 2740, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A few weeks ago I broke my girlfriends trust and have been working to regain this trust. I won't go into the details but history on my phone shows I met with some females known to be sexual. I was wasted but know I didn't do anything beyond the texts but she snooped and it broke our trust and I understand I was at fault. She seemingly forgave me and we began to become more regular with each other after two weeks. Although I realize the trust is going to take a long time to heal, after another two weeks since we got back together the trust was gone once again and now from both sides. She continued to snoop every chance she could and found some porn in my search history. She lost it, left and stopped talking with me for a couple days. I understood that she was hurt but at some point feel this it makes me feel the trust is irreversible. We are now "taking a break" but she wants to talk every night and do everything a normal couple does but be together. I love her and want to do whatever is needed to regain her trust but I am concerned that it will never happen. I feel we just need significant time without any talking but she feels that means I don't want to try to make it work. What is the best way to go about this situation? Is it alright if we talk every night like everything's normal or do we need a full break? TL;DR:

Girlfriend lost trust, want to get it back. How much talking is needed before we take a break?<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 3663, 4517, 13, 971, 281, 755, 352, 896, 15, 1359, 1199, 5015, 310, 3058, 1078, 359, 1379, 247, 2740, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I broke my girlfriends trust. We are taking a break until I can regain her trust. How do we talk for the next two weeks?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 15, 844, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 1919, 309, 476, 35398, 617, 4517, 15, 1359, 513, 359, 2312, 323, 253, 1735, 767, 3618, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A few weeks ago I broke my girlfriends trust and have been working to regain this trust. I won't go into the details but history on my phone shows I met with some females known to be sexual. I was wasted but know I didn't do anything beyond the texts but she snooped and it broke our trust and I understand I was at fault. She seemingly forgave me and we began to become more regular with each other after two weeks. Although I realize the trust is going to take a long time to heal, after another two weeks since we got back together the trust was gone once again and now from both sides. She continued to snoop every chance she could and found some porn in my search history. She lost it, left and stopped talking with me for a couple days. I understood that she was hurt but at some point feel this it makes me feel the trust is irreversible. We are now "taking a break" but she wants to talk every night and do everything a normal couple does but be together. I love her and want to do whatever is needed to regain her trust but I am concerned that it will never happen. I feel we just need significant time without any talking but she feels that means I don't want to try to make it work. What is the best way to go about this situation? Is it alright if we talk every night like everything's normal or do we need a full break? TL;DR: Girlfriend lost trust, want to get it back. How much talking is needed before we take a break?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1643, 3618, 3622, 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 285, 452, 644, 2444, 281, 35398, 436, 4517, 15, 309, 1912, 626, 564, 715, 253, 4278, 533, 2892, 327, 619, 4481, 2722, 309, 1313, 342, 690, 10753, 1929, 281, 320, 5615, 15, 309, 369, 25262, 533, 871, 309, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 4457, 253, 17438, 533, 703, 256, 2369, 11802, 285, 352, 9377, 776, 4517, 285, 309, 2096, 309, 369, 387, 9331, 15, 1500, 16907, 7175, 1123, 479, 285, 359, 3407, 281, 2489, 625, 3963, 342, 1016, 643, 846, 767, 3618, 15, 187, 187, 8430, 309, 8968, 253, 4517, 310, 1469, 281, 1379, 247, 1048, 673, 281, 20658, 13, 846, 1529, 767, 3618, 1580, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 253, 4517, 369, 4783, 2378, 969, 285, 1024, 432, 1097, 7123, 15, 1500, 4821, 281, 256, 27607, 1046, 4839, 703, 812, 285, 1119, 690, 16921, 275, 619, 3186, 2892, 15, 1500, 3663, 352, 13, 1669, 285, 6331, 5015, 342, 479, 323, 247, 4564, 1897, 15, 309, 7192, 326, 703, 369, 8513, 533, 387, 690, 1127, 1928, 436, 352, 2789, 479, 1928, 253, 4517, 310, 38378, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 403, 1024, 346, 29114, 247, 2740, 3, 533, 703, 5605, 281, 2312, 1046, 2360, 285, 513, 3253, 247, 2622, 4564, 1057, 533, 320, 2366, 15, 309, 2389, 617, 285, 971, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3058, 281, 35398, 617, 4517, 533, 309, 717, 7514, 326, 352, 588, 1620, 5108, 15, 309, 1928, 359, 816, 878, 1534, 673, 1293, 667, 5015, 533, 703, 9193, 326, 2097, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1611, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 1737, 310, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 564, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1680, 352, 34557, 604, 359, 2312, 1046, 2360, 751, 3253, 434, 2622, 390, 513, 359, 878, 247, 2120, 2740, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 3663, 4517, 13, 971, 281, 755, 352, 896, 15, 1359, 1199, 5015, 310, 3058, 1078, 359, 1379, 247, 2740, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

339

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A few weeks ago I broke my girlfriends trust and have been working to regain this trust. I won't go into the details but history on my phone shows I met with some females known to be sexual. I was wasted but know I didn't do anything beyond the texts but she snooped and it broke our trust and I understand I was at fault. She seemingly forgave me and we began to become more regular with each other after two weeks. Although I realize the trust is going to take a long time to heal, after another two weeks since we got back together the trust was gone once again and now from both sides. She continued to snoop every chance she could and found some porn in my search history. She lost it, left and stopped talking with me for a couple days. I understood that she was hurt but at some point feel this it makes me feel the trust is irreversible. We are now "taking a break" but she wants to talk every night and do everything a normal couple does but be together. I love her and want to do whatever is needed to regain her trust but I am concerned that it will never happen. I feel we just need significant time without any talking but she feels that means I don't want to try to make it work. What is the best way to go about this situation? Is it alright if we talk every night like everything's normal or do we need a full break? TL;DR: I broke my girlfriends trust. We are taking a break until I can regain her trust. How do we talk for the next two weeks?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1643, 3618, 3622, 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 285, 452, 644, 2444, 281, 35398, 436, 4517, 15, 309, 1912, 626, 564, 715, 253, 4278, 533, 2892, 327, 619, 4481, 2722, 309, 1313, 342, 690, 10753, 1929, 281, 320, 5615, 15, 309, 369, 25262, 533, 871, 309, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 4457, 253, 17438, 533, 703, 256, 2369, 11802, 285, 352, 9377, 776, 4517, 285, 309, 2096, 309, 369, 387, 9331, 15, 1500, 16907, 7175, 1123, 479, 285, 359, 3407, 281, 2489, 625, 3963, 342, 1016, 643, 846, 767, 3618, 15, 187, 187, 8430, 309, 8968, 253, 4517, 310, 1469, 281, 1379, 247, 1048, 673, 281, 20658, 13, 846, 1529, 767, 3618, 1580, 359, 1694, 896, 2366, 253, 4517, 369, 4783, 2378, 969, 285, 1024, 432, 1097, 7123, 15, 1500, 4821, 281, 256, 27607, 1046, 4839, 703, 812, 285, 1119, 690, 16921, 275, 619, 3186, 2892, 15, 1500, 3663, 352, 13, 1669, 285, 6331, 5015, 342, 479, 323, 247, 4564, 1897, 15, 309, 7192, 326, 703, 369, 8513, 533, 387, 690, 1127, 1928, 436, 352, 2789, 479, 1928, 253, 4517, 310, 38378, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 403, 1024, 346, 29114, 247, 2740, 3, 533, 703, 5605, 281, 2312, 1046, 2360, 285, 513, 3253, 247, 2622, 4564, 1057, 533, 320, 2366, 15, 309, 2389, 617, 285, 971, 281, 513, 5913, 310, 3058, 281, 35398, 617, 4517, 533, 309, 717, 7514, 326, 352, 588, 1620, 5108, 15, 309, 1928, 359, 816, 878, 1534, 673, 1293, 667, 5015, 533, 703, 9193, 326, 2097, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 1611, 281, 1056, 352, 789, 15, 1737, 310, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 564, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1680, 352, 34557, 604, 359, 2312, 1046, 2360, 751, 3253, 434, 2622, 390, 513, 359, 878, 247, 2120, 2740, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 15, 844, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 1919, 309, 476, 35398, 617, 4517, 15, 1359, 513, 359, 2312, 323, 253, 1735, 767, 3618, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

346

316

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 3663, 4517, 13, 971, 281, 755, 352, 896, 15, 1359, 1199, 5015, 310, 3058, 1078, 359, 1379, 247, 2740, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 9377, 619, 3226, 29261, 4517, 15, 844, 403, 3192, 247, 2740, 1919, 309, 476, 35398, 617, 4517, 15, 1359, 513, 359, 2312, 323, 253, 1735, 767, 3618, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Every now and again I start to feel down about my relationship and I begin to think that my girlfriend and I don't really have any future together. I mean, we could. We make each other happy, she looks after me, she is essentially a great girlfriend. But I look to the future and I see nothing. I can't actually imagine having a family with her, buying a house together, etc. In past, shorter relationships (this has been my longest one), I used to imagine things like waking up next to my partner when I'm older, getting ready for work together, feeding the kids etc. But now I don't feel any of that. It just doesn't come across my mind at all. It's just that she is so good to me, and I appreciate everything she does for me, and she is a really good influence on my life. Just every maybe 6 months or so I start to doubt our relationship and it really takes a toll on me. I'm going through it now, and I have all these thoughts going through my head like "we have a trip to NZ planned for the end of the year" and "we are planning to move in together at the end of the year" and I don't want it to get to that point and things to turn sour. What drives me nuts is that I know I'll get over this down feeling in a week or two, but the thing I've realised this time around is the fact remains that I probably wont have the life I want in the future with her. It's just that I get so confused because she really is a good girlfriend, but I just don't know if she is the one. Honestly, I would like the chance to meet new women and spend time with them. I always think that I'm young and that I should explore and shit like that. But if I ended this, I wouldn't know if I'm making the right decision or not...

don't see any future with gf due to doubts about life/career prospects, feel down about it, dont know if marriage is right or not, need advice on next step.

Don't see future with girlfriend, but don't want to end it due to lack of happiness. What can I do to change that feeling?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6000, 1024, 285, 969, 309, 1265, 281, 1928, 1066, 670, 619, 2954, 285, 309, 3135, 281, 1158, 326, 619, 19609, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 2852, 2366, 15, 309, 1599, 13, 359, 812, 15, 844, 1056, 1016, 643, 5211, 13, 703, 4453, 846, 479, 13, 703, 310, 9093, 247, 1270, 19609, 15, 1292, 309, 1007, 281, 253, 2852, 285, 309, 923, 2717, 15, 309, 476, 626, 2686, 8564, 1907, 247, 2021, 342, 617, 13, 11280, 247, 2419, 2366, 13, 3966, 15, 496, 2469, 13, 12217, 7688, 313, 2520, 556, 644, 619, 20088, 581, 582, 309, 908, 281, 8564, 1841, 751, 31582, 598, 1735, 281, 619, 7832, 672, 309, 1353, 5662, 13, 2970, 4704, 323, 789, 2366, 13, 12422, 253, 5753, 3966, 15, 1292, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 667, 273, 326, 15, 733, 816, 2506, 626, 1705, 2439, 619, 2564, 387, 512, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 816, 326, 703, 310, 594, 1175, 281, 479, 13, 285, 309, 11435, 3253, 703, 1057, 323, 479, 13, 285, 703, 310, 247, 1663, 1175, 4833, 327, 619, 1495, 15, 3771, 1046, 5046, 721, 2607, 390, 594, 309, 1265, 281, 5545, 776, 2954, 285, 352, 1663, 3936, 247, 17935, 327, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1469, 949, 352, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 452, 512, 841, 7906, 1469, 949, 619, 1481, 751, 346, 664, 452, 247, 7408, 281, 40986, 9355, 323, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 346, 664, 403, 7219, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 387, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 755, 281, 326, 1127, 285, 1841, 281, 1614, 18988, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 14137, 479, 20392, 310, 326, 309, 871, 309, 1833, 755, 689, 436, 1066, 5471, 275, 247, 2129, 390, 767, 13, 533, 253, 2181, 309, 1849, 25436, 436, 673, 1475, 310, 253, 958, 4558, 326, 309, 3164, 31451, 452, 253, 1495, 309, 971, 275, 253, 2852, 342, 617, 15, 733, 434, 816, 326, 309, 755, 594, 13477, 984, 703, 1663, 310, 247, 1175, 19609, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 703, 310, 253, 581, 15, 10916, 27459, 13, 309, 651, 751, 253, 4839, 281, 2525, 747, 2255, 285, 6947, 673, 342, 731, 15, 309, 1900, 1158, 326, 309, 1353, 2872, 285, 326, 309, 943, 8338, 285, 10739, 751, 326, 15, 1292, 604, 309, 7402, 436, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 2403, 253, 987, 3061, 390, 417, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Every now and again I start to feel down about my relationship and I begin to think that my girlfriend and I don't really have any future together. I mean, we could. We make each other happy, she looks after me, she is essentially a great girlfriend. But I look to the future and I see nothing. I can't actually imagine having a family with her, buying a house together, etc. In past, shorter relationships (this has been my longest one), I used to imagine things like waking up next to my partner when I'm older, getting ready for work together, feeding the kids etc. But now I don't feel any of that. It just doesn't come across my mind at all. It's just that she is so good to me, and I appreciate everything she does for me, and she is a really good influence on my life. Just every maybe 6 months or so I start to doubt our relationship and it really takes a toll on me. I'm going through it now, and I have all these thoughts going through my head like "we have a trip to NZ planned for the end of the year" and "we are planning to move in together at the end of the year" and I don't want it to get to that point and things to turn sour. What drives me nuts is that I know I'll get over this down feeling in a week or two, but the thing I've realised this time around is the fact remains that I probably wont have the life I want in the future with her. It's just that I get so confused because she really is a good girlfriend, but I just don't know if she is the one. Honestly, I would like the chance to meet new women and spend time with them. I always think that I'm young and that I should explore and shit like that. But if I ended this, I wouldn't know if I'm making the right decision or not... TL;DR:

don't see any future with gf due to doubts about life/career prospects, feel down about it, dont know if marriage is right or not, need advice on next step.<|endoftext|>

[ 1053, 626, 923, 667, 2852, 342, 305, 71, 1955, 281, 24626, 670, 1495, 16, 6672, 254, 22087, 13, 1928, 1066, 670, 352, 13, 13414, 871, 604, 7875, 310, 987, 390, 417, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 1735, 3213, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Don't see future with girlfriend, but don't want to end it due to lack of happiness. What can I do to change that feeling?<|endoftext|>

[ 5037, 626, 923, 2852, 342, 19609, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 1955, 281, 3480, 273, 15704, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1818, 326, 5471, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Every now and again I start to feel down about my relationship and I begin to think that my girlfriend and I don't really have any future together. I mean, we could. We make each other happy, she looks after me, she is essentially a great girlfriend. But I look to the future and I see nothing. I can't actually imagine having a family with her, buying a house together, etc. In past, shorter relationships (this has been my longest one), I used to imagine things like waking up next to my partner when I'm older, getting ready for work together, feeding the kids etc. But now I don't feel any of that. It just doesn't come across my mind at all. It's just that she is so good to me, and I appreciate everything she does for me, and she is a really good influence on my life. Just every maybe 6 months or so I start to doubt our relationship and it really takes a toll on me. I'm going through it now, and I have all these thoughts going through my head like "we have a trip to NZ planned for the end of the year" and "we are planning to move in together at the end of the year" and I don't want it to get to that point and things to turn sour. What drives me nuts is that I know I'll get over this down feeling in a week or two, but the thing I've realised this time around is the fact remains that I probably wont have the life I want in the future with her. It's just that I get so confused because she really is a good girlfriend, but I just don't know if she is the one. Honestly, I would like the chance to meet new women and spend time with them. I always think that I'm young and that I should explore and shit like that. But if I ended this, I wouldn't know if I'm making the right decision or not... TL;DR: don't see any future with gf due to doubts about life/career prospects, feel down about it, dont know if marriage is right or not, need advice on next step.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6000, 1024, 285, 969, 309, 1265, 281, 1928, 1066, 670, 619, 2954, 285, 309, 3135, 281, 1158, 326, 619, 19609, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 2852, 2366, 15, 309, 1599, 13, 359, 812, 15, 844, 1056, 1016, 643, 5211, 13, 703, 4453, 846, 479, 13, 703, 310, 9093, 247, 1270, 19609, 15, 1292, 309, 1007, 281, 253, 2852, 285, 309, 923, 2717, 15, 309, 476, 626, 2686, 8564, 1907, 247, 2021, 342, 617, 13, 11280, 247, 2419, 2366, 13, 3966, 15, 496, 2469, 13, 12217, 7688, 313, 2520, 556, 644, 619, 20088, 581, 582, 309, 908, 281, 8564, 1841, 751, 31582, 598, 1735, 281, 619, 7832, 672, 309, 1353, 5662, 13, 2970, 4704, 323, 789, 2366, 13, 12422, 253, 5753, 3966, 15, 1292, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 667, 273, 326, 15, 733, 816, 2506, 626, 1705, 2439, 619, 2564, 387, 512, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 816, 326, 703, 310, 594, 1175, 281, 479, 13, 285, 309, 11435, 3253, 703, 1057, 323, 479, 13, 285, 703, 310, 247, 1663, 1175, 4833, 327, 619, 1495, 15, 3771, 1046, 5046, 721, 2607, 390, 594, 309, 1265, 281, 5545, 776, 2954, 285, 352, 1663, 3936, 247, 17935, 327, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1469, 949, 352, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 452, 512, 841, 7906, 1469, 949, 619, 1481, 751, 346, 664, 452, 247, 7408, 281, 40986, 9355, 323, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 346, 664, 403, 7219, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 387, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 755, 281, 326, 1127, 285, 1841, 281, 1614, 18988, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 14137, 479, 20392, 310, 326, 309, 871, 309, 1833, 755, 689, 436, 1066, 5471, 275, 247, 2129, 390, 767, 13, 533, 253, 2181, 309, 1849, 25436, 436, 673, 1475, 310, 253, 958, 4558, 326, 309, 3164, 31451, 452, 253, 1495, 309, 971, 275, 253, 2852, 342, 617, 15, 733, 434, 816, 326, 309, 755, 594, 13477, 984, 703, 1663, 310, 247, 1175, 19609, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 703, 310, 253, 581, 15, 10916, 27459, 13, 309, 651, 751, 253, 4839, 281, 2525, 747, 2255, 285, 6947, 673, 342, 731, 15, 309, 1900, 1158, 326, 309, 1353, 2872, 285, 326, 309, 943, 8338, 285, 10739, 751, 326, 15, 1292, 604, 309, 7402, 436, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 2403, 253, 987, 3061, 390, 417, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1053, 626, 923, 667, 2852, 342, 305, 71, 1955, 281, 24626, 670, 1495, 16, 6672, 254, 22087, 13, 1928, 1066, 670, 352, 13, 13414, 871, 604, 7875, 310, 987, 390, 417, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 1735, 3213, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

462

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Every now and again I start to feel down about my relationship and I begin to think that my girlfriend and I don't really have any future together. I mean, we could. We make each other happy, she looks after me, she is essentially a great girlfriend. But I look to the future and I see nothing. I can't actually imagine having a family with her, buying a house together, etc. In past, shorter relationships (this has been my longest one), I used to imagine things like waking up next to my partner when I'm older, getting ready for work together, feeding the kids etc. But now I don't feel any of that. It just doesn't come across my mind at all. It's just that she is so good to me, and I appreciate everything she does for me, and she is a really good influence on my life. Just every maybe 6 months or so I start to doubt our relationship and it really takes a toll on me. I'm going through it now, and I have all these thoughts going through my head like "we have a trip to NZ planned for the end of the year" and "we are planning to move in together at the end of the year" and I don't want it to get to that point and things to turn sour. What drives me nuts is that I know I'll get over this down feeling in a week or two, but the thing I've realised this time around is the fact remains that I probably wont have the life I want in the future with her. It's just that I get so confused because she really is a good girlfriend, but I just don't know if she is the one. Honestly, I would like the chance to meet new women and spend time with them. I always think that I'm young and that I should explore and shit like that. But if I ended this, I wouldn't know if I'm making the right decision or not... TL;DR: Don't see future with girlfriend, but don't want to end it due to lack of happiness. What can I do to change that feeling?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 6000, 1024, 285, 969, 309, 1265, 281, 1928, 1066, 670, 619, 2954, 285, 309, 3135, 281, 1158, 326, 619, 19609, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 2852, 2366, 15, 309, 1599, 13, 359, 812, 15, 844, 1056, 1016, 643, 5211, 13, 703, 4453, 846, 479, 13, 703, 310, 9093, 247, 1270, 19609, 15, 1292, 309, 1007, 281, 253, 2852, 285, 309, 923, 2717, 15, 309, 476, 626, 2686, 8564, 1907, 247, 2021, 342, 617, 13, 11280, 247, 2419, 2366, 13, 3966, 15, 496, 2469, 13, 12217, 7688, 313, 2520, 556, 644, 619, 20088, 581, 582, 309, 908, 281, 8564, 1841, 751, 31582, 598, 1735, 281, 619, 7832, 672, 309, 1353, 5662, 13, 2970, 4704, 323, 789, 2366, 13, 12422, 253, 5753, 3966, 15, 1292, 1024, 309, 1053, 626, 1928, 667, 273, 326, 15, 733, 816, 2506, 626, 1705, 2439, 619, 2564, 387, 512, 15, 187, 187, 1147, 434, 816, 326, 703, 310, 594, 1175, 281, 479, 13, 285, 309, 11435, 3253, 703, 1057, 323, 479, 13, 285, 703, 310, 247, 1663, 1175, 4833, 327, 619, 1495, 15, 3771, 1046, 5046, 721, 2607, 390, 594, 309, 1265, 281, 5545, 776, 2954, 285, 352, 1663, 3936, 247, 17935, 327, 479, 15, 309, 1353, 1469, 949, 352, 1024, 13, 285, 309, 452, 512, 841, 7906, 1469, 949, 619, 1481, 751, 346, 664, 452, 247, 7408, 281, 40986, 9355, 323, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 346, 664, 403, 7219, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 387, 253, 990, 273, 253, 807, 3, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 352, 281, 755, 281, 326, 1127, 285, 1841, 281, 1614, 18988, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 14137, 479, 20392, 310, 326, 309, 871, 309, 1833, 755, 689, 436, 1066, 5471, 275, 247, 2129, 390, 767, 13, 533, 253, 2181, 309, 1849, 25436, 436, 673, 1475, 310, 253, 958, 4558, 326, 309, 3164, 31451, 452, 253, 1495, 309, 971, 275, 253, 2852, 342, 617, 15, 733, 434, 816, 326, 309, 755, 594, 13477, 984, 703, 1663, 310, 247, 1175, 19609, 13, 533, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 703, 310, 253, 581, 15, 10916, 27459, 13, 309, 651, 751, 253, 4839, 281, 2525, 747, 2255, 285, 6947, 673, 342, 731, 15, 309, 1900, 1158, 326, 309, 1353, 2872, 285, 326, 309, 943, 8338, 285, 10739, 751, 326, 15, 1292, 604, 309, 7402, 436, 13, 309, 5082, 626, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 2403, 253, 987, 3061, 390, 417, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 5037, 626, 923, 2852, 342, 19609, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 1955, 281, 3480, 273, 15704, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1818, 326, 5471, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

453

423

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1053, 626, 923, 667, 2852, 342, 305, 71, 1955, 281, 24626, 670, 1495, 16, 6672, 254, 22087, 13, 1928, 1066, 670, 352, 13, 13414, 871, 604, 7875, 310, 987, 390, 417, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 1735, 3213, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5037, 626, 923, 2852, 342, 19609, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 990, 352, 1955, 281, 3480, 273, 15704, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1818, 326, 5471, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run?

want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way

I am going to lose weight, mom scolds me for trying to lose it and forces me to do it her way, but I have decided to finally follow my own plan.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 1227, 83, 16, 77, 583, 262, 13, 323, 247, 1223, 1024, 309, 452, 644, 14707, 281, 7168, 2801, 533, 309, 452, 247, 1895, 15, 309, 717, 8927, 432, 8170, 3968, 534, 2097, 326, 275, 776, 4466, 253, 10798, 403, 2326, 347, 4709, 1417, 285, 12904, 1417, 15, 309, 369, 26389, 1078, 2970, 715, 6831, 285, 309, 452, 12103, 247, 2257, 273, 2801, 1580, 2970, 715, 6831, 13, 619, 2243, 556, 2218, 2717, 533, 42963, 387, 479, 323, 352, 285, 1046, 673, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 17194, 703, 1900, 32299, 479, 1066, 342, 3240, 247, 2257, 273, 17770, 14226, 15, 309, 452, 3597, 281, 1918, 4266, 4577, 11821, 285, 1611, 281, 1408, 533, 840, 703, 340, 7042, 387, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 1818, 984, 326, 434, 417, 479, 703, 5605, 479, 281, 7168, 352, 407, 617, 1211, 2097, 15, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 17518, 4266, 285, 3135, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 309, 452, 3542, 619, 1211, 2098, 326, 309, 588, 3135, 281, 956, 13, 533, 309, 717, 9202, 326, 703, 588, 816, 9012, 387, 352, 285, 3490, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 537, 667, 1361, 32, 12192, 327, 2970, 3053, 32, 2712, 309, 878, 281, 871, 323, 253, 1048, 1408, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR:

want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way<|endoftext|>

[ 971, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 33350, 387, 619, 3434, 13, 878, 1361, 327, 13872, 617, 871, 417, 281, 45688, 479, 285, 1339, 479, 513, 352, 619, 1211, 1039, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I am going to lose weight, mom scolds me for trying to lose it and forces me to do it her way, but I have decided to finally follow my own plan.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 717, 1469, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 660, 3502, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 7168, 352, 285, 5621, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 13, 533, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 956, 619, 1211, 2098, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR: want to lose weight, mom laughs at my effort, need help on letting her know not to criticize me and let me do it my own way<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 1227, 83, 16, 77, 583, 262, 13, 323, 247, 1223, 1024, 309, 452, 644, 14707, 281, 7168, 2801, 533, 309, 452, 247, 1895, 15, 309, 717, 8927, 432, 8170, 3968, 534, 2097, 326, 275, 776, 4466, 253, 10798, 403, 2326, 347, 4709, 1417, 285, 12904, 1417, 15, 309, 369, 26389, 1078, 2970, 715, 6831, 285, 309, 452, 12103, 247, 2257, 273, 2801, 1580, 2970, 715, 6831, 13, 619, 2243, 556, 2218, 2717, 533, 42963, 387, 479, 323, 352, 285, 1046, 673, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 17194, 703, 1900, 32299, 479, 1066, 342, 3240, 247, 2257, 273, 17770, 14226, 15, 309, 452, 3597, 281, 1918, 4266, 4577, 11821, 285, 1611, 281, 1408, 533, 840, 703, 340, 7042, 387, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 1818, 984, 326, 434, 417, 479, 703, 5605, 479, 281, 7168, 352, 407, 617, 1211, 2097, 15, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 17518, 4266, 285, 3135, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 309, 452, 3542, 619, 1211, 2098, 326, 309, 588, 3135, 281, 956, 13, 533, 309, 717, 9202, 326, 703, 588, 816, 9012, 387, 352, 285, 3490, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 537, 667, 1361, 32, 12192, 327, 2970, 3053, 32, 2712, 309, 878, 281, 871, 323, 253, 1048, 1408, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 971, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 33350, 387, 619, 3434, 13, 878, 1361, 327, 13872, 617, 871, 417, 281, 45688, 479, 285, 1339, 479, 513, 352, 619, 1211, 1039, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

256

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: hello /r/loseit, for a while now I have been wanting to lose weight but I have a problem. I am originally from Central America which means that in our culture the males are seen as fearless and emotionless. I was overweight before getting into college and I have gained a lot of weight since getting into college, my mom has done nothing but yell at me for it and every time I try and get motivated she always shoots me down with quite a lot of harsh criticism. I have tried to give myself smaller portions and try to run but then she yells at me for trying to change because that's not me she wants me to lose it by her own means. I have decided to finally discipline myself and begin to lose weight, I have written my own plan that I will begin to follow, but I am afraid that she will just laugh at it and force me to do it her way.. any help? tips on getting started? anything I need to know for the long run? TL;DR: I am going to lose weight, mom scolds me for trying to lose it and forces me to do it her way, but I have decided to finally follow my own plan.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 23120, 1227, 83, 16, 77, 583, 262, 13, 323, 247, 1223, 1024, 309, 452, 644, 14707, 281, 7168, 2801, 533, 309, 452, 247, 1895, 15, 309, 717, 8927, 432, 8170, 3968, 534, 2097, 326, 275, 776, 4466, 253, 10798, 403, 2326, 347, 4709, 1417, 285, 12904, 1417, 15, 309, 369, 26389, 1078, 2970, 715, 6831, 285, 309, 452, 12103, 247, 2257, 273, 2801, 1580, 2970, 715, 6831, 13, 619, 2243, 556, 2218, 2717, 533, 42963, 387, 479, 323, 352, 285, 1046, 673, 309, 1611, 285, 755, 17194, 703, 1900, 32299, 479, 1066, 342, 3240, 247, 2257, 273, 17770, 14226, 15, 309, 452, 3597, 281, 1918, 4266, 4577, 11821, 285, 1611, 281, 1408, 533, 840, 703, 340, 7042, 387, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 1818, 984, 326, 434, 417, 479, 703, 5605, 479, 281, 7168, 352, 407, 617, 1211, 2097, 15, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 17518, 4266, 285, 3135, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 309, 452, 3542, 619, 1211, 2098, 326, 309, 588, 3135, 281, 956, 13, 533, 309, 717, 9202, 326, 703, 588, 816, 9012, 387, 352, 285, 3490, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 537, 667, 1361, 32, 12192, 327, 2970, 3053, 32, 2712, 309, 878, 281, 871, 323, 253, 1048, 1408, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 660, 3502, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 7168, 352, 285, 5621, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 13, 533, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 956, 619, 1211, 2098, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

263

226

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 971, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 33350, 387, 619, 3434, 13, 878, 1361, 327, 13872, 617, 871, 417, 281, 45688, 479, 285, 1339, 479, 513, 352, 619, 1211, 1039, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 7168, 2801, 13, 2243, 660, 3502, 479, 323, 2820, 281, 7168, 352, 285, 5621, 479, 281, 513, 352, 617, 1039, 13, 533, 309, 452, 4425, 281, 4720, 956, 619, 1211, 2098, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though??

I want to tell her I like her but am scared I'll scare her off since she's still hurt about her break up with her ex. What should I do??

I met a girl who is in a horrible relationship, she's still hurt about it and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know when.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 452, 1620, 644, 275, 247, 2954, 1078, 285, 27364, 1620, 9355, 281, 533, 309, 2096, 436, 3226, 594, 1199, 13, 359, 452, 247, 1077, 2074, 31104, 4114, 13, 2074, 6284, 285, 359, 1097, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 9454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 3590, 1161, 15867, 533, 309, 871, 309, 476, 1056, 436, 3226, 5211, 984, 359, 452, 594, 1199, 1846, 6284, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 943, 320, 7746, 617, 326, 987, 1024, 1580, 703, 310, 275, 3075, 15, 4058, 4651, 1053, 626, 1663, 1557, 670, 617, 285, 703, 1313, 436, 5006, 703, 1869, 703, 812, 4517, 285, 7402, 598, 12767, 617, 751, 22630, 13, 608, 2607, 327, 285, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 15, 309, 1313, 617, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 594, 309, 1620, 1313, 253, 5599, 275, 1953, 15, 309, 1663, 1928, 1175, 670, 617, 2167, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1056, 617, 5211, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 16060, 326, 309, 588, 30272, 617, 745, 987, 1024, 285, 604, 309, 3343, 667, 3356, 703, 1833, 816, 1908, 479, 247, 3331, 15, 309, 1849, 16113, 323, 594, 1048, 327, 253, 8573, 533, 253, 954, 1846, 2181, 309, 1849, 1239, 310, 281, 816, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 326, 15, 309, 1313, 247, 1643, 6838, 841, 2469, 1643, 3618, 665, 3078, 281, 1056, 562, 342, 479, 387, 253, 5453, 533, 309, 816, 4951, 598, 9284, 731, 984, 512, 309, 812, 1158, 273, 369, 617, 15, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 513, 1633, 309, 1849, 1620, 2218, 1078, 285, 2028, 247, 3226, 309, 751, 617, 13, 984, 323, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1928, 326, 310, 2032, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 1620, 3543, 594, 987, 670, 3095, 625, 685, 617, 15, 1359, 717, 309, 1469, 281, 2028, 617, 2167, 8220, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?? TL;DR:

I want to tell her I like her but am scared I'll scare her off since she's still hurt about her break up with her ex. What should I do??<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 309, 751, 617, 533, 717, 16060, 309, 1833, 30272, 617, 745, 1580, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 617, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 385, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 8220, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I met a girl who is in a horrible relationship, she's still hurt about it and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know when.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1313, 247, 3226, 665, 310, 275, 247, 19201, 2954, 13, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 352, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?? TL;DR: I want to tell her I like her but am scared I'll scare her off since she's still hurt about her break up with her ex. What should I do??<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 452, 1620, 644, 275, 247, 2954, 1078, 285, 27364, 1620, 9355, 281, 533, 309, 2096, 436, 3226, 594, 1199, 13, 359, 452, 247, 1077, 2074, 31104, 4114, 13, 2074, 6284, 285, 359, 1097, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 9454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 3590, 1161, 15867, 533, 309, 871, 309, 476, 1056, 436, 3226, 5211, 984, 359, 452, 594, 1199, 1846, 6284, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 943, 320, 7746, 617, 326, 987, 1024, 1580, 703, 310, 275, 3075, 15, 4058, 4651, 1053, 626, 1663, 1557, 670, 617, 285, 703, 1313, 436, 5006, 703, 1869, 703, 812, 4517, 285, 7402, 598, 12767, 617, 751, 22630, 13, 608, 2607, 327, 285, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 15, 309, 1313, 617, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 594, 309, 1620, 1313, 253, 5599, 275, 1953, 15, 309, 1663, 1928, 1175, 670, 617, 2167, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1056, 617, 5211, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 16060, 326, 309, 588, 30272, 617, 745, 987, 1024, 285, 604, 309, 3343, 667, 3356, 703, 1833, 816, 1908, 479, 247, 3331, 15, 309, 1849, 16113, 323, 594, 1048, 327, 253, 8573, 533, 253, 954, 1846, 2181, 309, 1849, 1239, 310, 281, 816, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 326, 15, 309, 1313, 247, 1643, 6838, 841, 2469, 1643, 3618, 665, 3078, 281, 1056, 562, 342, 479, 387, 253, 5453, 533, 309, 816, 4951, 598, 9284, 731, 984, 512, 309, 812, 1158, 273, 369, 617, 15, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 513, 1633, 309, 1849, 1620, 2218, 1078, 285, 2028, 247, 3226, 309, 751, 617, 13, 984, 323, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1928, 326, 310, 2032, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 1620, 3543, 594, 987, 670, 3095, 625, 685, 617, 15, 1359, 717, 309, 1469, 281, 2028, 617, 2167, 8220, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 309, 751, 617, 533, 717, 16060, 309, 1833, 30272, 617, 745, 1580, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 617, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 385, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 8220, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

368

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I don't know what to do. I have never been in a relationship before and genuinely never planned to but I understand this girl so much, we have a very similar parenting background, similar interests and we both went through a period of depression. I don't want to sound cheesy but I know I can make this girl happy because we have so much common interests. I just don't know if I should be telling her that right now since she is in pain. Her parents don't really care about her and she met this boy she thought she could trust and ended up treating her like garbage, 5 months on and she's still hurt. I met her about 2 months ago so I never met the guy in question. I really feel good about her though, I want to make her happy but I'm just scared that I will scare her off right now and if I wait any longer she'll just consider me a friend. I've searched for so long on the internet but the most common thing I've read is to just let her go. I don't want that. I met a few girls these past few weeks who wanted to make out with me at the club but I just straight up refused them because all I could think of was her. I'm ready to do something I've never done before and tell a girl I like her, because for the first time I feel that is true. I just don't know when. I've never felt so right about someone more than her. How am I going to tell her though?? TL;DR: I met a girl who is in a horrible relationship, she's still hurt about it and I want to tell her how I feel but I don't know when.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 452, 1620, 644, 275, 247, 2954, 1078, 285, 27364, 1620, 9355, 281, 533, 309, 2096, 436, 3226, 594, 1199, 13, 359, 452, 247, 1077, 2074, 31104, 4114, 13, 2074, 6284, 285, 359, 1097, 2427, 949, 247, 2180, 273, 9454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 3590, 1161, 15867, 533, 309, 871, 309, 476, 1056, 436, 3226, 5211, 984, 359, 452, 594, 1199, 1846, 6284, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 943, 320, 7746, 617, 326, 987, 1024, 1580, 703, 310, 275, 3075, 15, 4058, 4651, 1053, 626, 1663, 1557, 670, 617, 285, 703, 1313, 436, 5006, 703, 1869, 703, 812, 4517, 285, 7402, 598, 12767, 617, 751, 22630, 13, 608, 2607, 327, 285, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 15, 309, 1313, 617, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 594, 309, 1620, 1313, 253, 5599, 275, 1953, 15, 309, 1663, 1928, 1175, 670, 617, 2167, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1056, 617, 5211, 533, 309, 1353, 816, 16060, 326, 309, 588, 30272, 617, 745, 987, 1024, 285, 604, 309, 3343, 667, 3356, 703, 1833, 816, 1908, 479, 247, 3331, 15, 309, 1849, 16113, 323, 594, 1048, 327, 253, 8573, 533, 253, 954, 1846, 2181, 309, 1849, 1239, 310, 281, 816, 1339, 617, 564, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 326, 15, 309, 1313, 247, 1643, 6838, 841, 2469, 1643, 3618, 665, 3078, 281, 1056, 562, 342, 479, 387, 253, 5453, 533, 309, 816, 4951, 598, 9284, 731, 984, 512, 309, 812, 1158, 273, 369, 617, 15, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 513, 1633, 309, 1849, 1620, 2218, 1078, 285, 2028, 247, 3226, 309, 751, 617, 13, 984, 323, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1928, 326, 310, 2032, 15, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 1620, 3543, 594, 987, 670, 3095, 625, 685, 617, 15, 1359, 717, 309, 1469, 281, 2028, 617, 2167, 8220, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1313, 247, 3226, 665, 310, 275, 247, 19201, 2954, 13, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 352, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

367

333

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 309, 751, 617, 533, 717, 16060, 309, 1833, 30272, 617, 745, 1580, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 617, 2740, 598, 342, 617, 385, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 8220, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1313, 247, 3226, 665, 310, 275, 247, 19201, 2954, 13, 703, 434, 1335, 8513, 670, 352, 285, 309, 971, 281, 2028, 617, 849, 309, 1928, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 672, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I tried posting somewhere else but im new so i dont know what im doing. I went to my bil wedding last week. Hes been with his now wife since may of last year, got engaged a few months after and got married last week. Hes the kind of guy that writes goals down on paper and posts them on his wall (literally). He even wrote his #1 goal as 'getting a girlfriend '. Which is kinda sweet. Hes a nice guy. We have always got along. He went through a couple of bad breakups last year, his first gf cheated on him with her boss which we all knew it was obvious but he didnt believe it until she admitted to it. Thats just a little background. Hes kind of rushing through relationships because he compares himself to his younger brother, my husband, since hes married to me and we have a 1 year old. He said to us that he wants what we have. Although its not all like he thinks it is. Life for us hasnt been all peachy and easy how he thinks. We have been together for 6 years, married for 3. Back to the wedding... I was hurt that they didnt ask my son (the only grandchild)to be a ring bearer. I was under the impression that the position was taken so i didnt ask. I found out they didnt have one at the ceremony. After the ceremony they asked family and bridal party to take pictures. My son and i were completely excluded from pictures. This hurt a lot, especially because i thought we were family. Instead of breaking out in tears, i quietly snuck away and left. My husband was a groomsman so he stayed behind. He understands why i left, although he never once stood up for me or mentioned me. My mil thinks i was rude...my fil agrees that what i did was right. I felt very excluded, like an outsider. I face them again when they return from their honeymoom next week. Any advice on how to talk this out with them? I still love my bil, i just dont know how to talk to them about it.

Went to bil wedding, was hurt that i and my son were excluded so i left early. How to make thos less awkward and not ruin our relationship with my husbands family?

I was excluded from wedding and can't bring myself to talk to my husband about it. How do i bring it up to them?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 3597, 16920, 9366, 2010, 533, 516, 747, 594, 891, 13414, 871, 752, 516, 2509, 15, 187, 42, 2427, 281, 619, 10370, 12142, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 644, 342, 521, 1024, 4475, 1580, 778, 273, 1390, 807, 13, 1694, 9583, 247, 1643, 2607, 846, 285, 1694, 7028, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 253, 2238, 273, 5599, 326, 12013, 7342, 1066, 327, 2929, 285, 9319, 731, 327, 521, 3402, 313, 22478, 595, 481, 754, 1014, 4159, 521, 1852, 18, 4736, 347, 686, 35777, 247, 19609, 29996, 6758, 310, 26702, 7353, 15, 388, 265, 247, 5322, 5599, 15, 844, 452, 1900, 1694, 2112, 15, 754, 2427, 949, 247, 4564, 273, 3076, 2740, 8777, 1390, 807, 13, 521, 806, 305, 71, 1161, 456, 327, 779, 342, 617, 12145, 534, 359, 512, 3260, 352, 369, 4755, 533, 344, 42126, 2868, 352, 1919, 703, 8176, 281, 352, 15, 596, 1832, 816, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 388, 265, 2238, 273, 26575, 949, 7688, 984, 344, 26662, 2994, 281, 521, 9243, 4929, 13, 619, 5938, 13, 1580, 34236, 7028, 281, 479, 285, 359, 452, 247, 337, 807, 1711, 15, 754, 753, 281, 441, 326, 344, 5605, 752, 359, 452, 15, 4129, 697, 417, 512, 751, 344, 11121, 352, 310, 15, 7813, 323, 441, 556, 2649, 644, 512, 759, 24814, 285, 3477, 849, 344, 11121, 15, 844, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 721, 1107, 13, 7028, 323, 495, 15, 209, 187, 8116, 281, 253, 12142, 1051, 187, 42, 369, 8513, 326, 597, 42126, 1642, 619, 3347, 313, 783, 760, 4936, 7003, 10, 936, 320, 247, 5818, 320, 12287, 15, 309, 369, 762, 253, 13214, 326, 253, 1899, 369, 2668, 594, 891, 42126, 1642, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 597, 42126, 452, 581, 387, 253, 16730, 15, 2732, 253, 16730, 597, 2546, 2021, 285, 1308, 11421, 3128, 281, 1379, 7968, 15, 2752, 3347, 285, 891, 497, 4336, 10432, 432, 7968, 15, 831, 8513, 247, 2257, 13, 3340, 984, 891, 1869, 359, 497, 2021, 15, 7820, 273, 10155, 562, 275, 12330, 13, 891, 16092, 3802, 1807, 1977, 285, 1669, 15, 2752, 5938, 369, 247, 7753, 3056, 1342, 594, 344, 11791, 3212, 15, 754, 24586, 2139, 891, 1669, 13, 3738, 344, 1620, 2378, 6225, 598, 323, 479, 390, 5393, 479, 15, 2752, 2301, 11121, 891, 369, 30446, 1051, 2577, 1193, 18726, 326, 752, 891, 858, 369, 987, 15, 309, 3543, 1077, 10432, 13, 751, 271, 20823, 1334, 15, 187, 42, 2454, 731, 969, 672, 597, 1091, 432, 616, 39741, 1105, 6188, 1735, 2129, 15, 6101, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2312, 436, 562, 342, 731, 32, 309, 1335, 2389, 619, 10370, 13, 891, 816, 13414, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I tried posting somewhere else but im new so i dont know what im doing. I went to my bil wedding last week. Hes been with his now wife since may of last year, got engaged a few months after and got married last week. Hes the kind of guy that writes goals down on paper and posts them on his wall (literally). He even wrote his #1 goal as 'getting a girlfriend '. Which is kinda sweet. Hes a nice guy. We have always got along. He went through a couple of bad breakups last year, his first gf cheated on him with her boss which we all knew it was obvious but he didnt believe it until she admitted to it. Thats just a little background. Hes kind of rushing through relationships because he compares himself to his younger brother, my husband, since hes married to me and we have a 1 year old. He said to us that he wants what we have. Although its not all like he thinks it is. Life for us hasnt been all peachy and easy how he thinks. We have been together for 6 years, married for 3. Back to the wedding... I was hurt that they didnt ask my son (the only grandchild)to be a ring bearer. I was under the impression that the position was taken so i didnt ask. I found out they didnt have one at the ceremony. After the ceremony they asked family and bridal party to take pictures. My son and i were completely excluded from pictures. This hurt a lot, especially because i thought we were family. Instead of breaking out in tears, i quietly snuck away and left. My husband was a groomsman so he stayed behind. He understands why i left, although he never once stood up for me or mentioned me. My mil thinks i was rude...my fil agrees that what i did was right. I felt very excluded, like an outsider. I face them again when they return from their honeymoom next week. Any advice on how to talk this out with them? I still love my bil, i just dont know how to talk to them about it. TL;DR:

Went to bil wedding, was hurt that i and my son were excluded so i left early. How to make thos less awkward and not ruin our relationship with my husbands family?<|endoftext|>

[ 50026, 281, 10370, 12142, 13, 369, 8513, 326, 891, 285, 619, 3347, 497, 10432, 594, 891, 1669, 2393, 15, 1359, 281, 1056, 289, 375, 1679, 19328, 285, 417, 23737, 776, 2954, 342, 619, 38639, 2021, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I was excluded from wedding and can't bring myself to talk to my husband about it. How do i bring it up to them?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 369, 10432, 432, 12142, 285, 476, 626, 3324, 4266, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 5938, 670, 352, 15, 1359, 513, 891, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I tried posting somewhere else but im new so i dont know what im doing. I went to my bil wedding last week. Hes been with his now wife since may of last year, got engaged a few months after and got married last week. Hes the kind of guy that writes goals down on paper and posts them on his wall (literally). He even wrote his #1 goal as 'getting a girlfriend '. Which is kinda sweet. Hes a nice guy. We have always got along. He went through a couple of bad breakups last year, his first gf cheated on him with her boss which we all knew it was obvious but he didnt believe it until she admitted to it. Thats just a little background. Hes kind of rushing through relationships because he compares himself to his younger brother, my husband, since hes married to me and we have a 1 year old. He said to us that he wants what we have. Although its not all like he thinks it is. Life for us hasnt been all peachy and easy how he thinks. We have been together for 6 years, married for 3. Back to the wedding... I was hurt that they didnt ask my son (the only grandchild)to be a ring bearer. I was under the impression that the position was taken so i didnt ask. I found out they didnt have one at the ceremony. After the ceremony they asked family and bridal party to take pictures. My son and i were completely excluded from pictures. This hurt a lot, especially because i thought we were family. Instead of breaking out in tears, i quietly snuck away and left. My husband was a groomsman so he stayed behind. He understands why i left, although he never once stood up for me or mentioned me. My mil thinks i was rude...my fil agrees that what i did was right. I felt very excluded, like an outsider. I face them again when they return from their honeymoom next week. Any advice on how to talk this out with them? I still love my bil, i just dont know how to talk to them about it. TL;DR: Went to bil wedding, was hurt that i and my son were excluded so i left early. How to make thos less awkward and not ruin our relationship with my husbands family?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 3597, 16920, 9366, 2010, 533, 516, 747, 594, 891, 13414, 871, 752, 516, 2509, 15, 187, 42, 2427, 281, 619, 10370, 12142, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 644, 342, 521, 1024, 4475, 1580, 778, 273, 1390, 807, 13, 1694, 9583, 247, 1643, 2607, 846, 285, 1694, 7028, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 253, 2238, 273, 5599, 326, 12013, 7342, 1066, 327, 2929, 285, 9319, 731, 327, 521, 3402, 313, 22478, 595, 481, 754, 1014, 4159, 521, 1852, 18, 4736, 347, 686, 35777, 247, 19609, 29996, 6758, 310, 26702, 7353, 15, 388, 265, 247, 5322, 5599, 15, 844, 452, 1900, 1694, 2112, 15, 754, 2427, 949, 247, 4564, 273, 3076, 2740, 8777, 1390, 807, 13, 521, 806, 305, 71, 1161, 456, 327, 779, 342, 617, 12145, 534, 359, 512, 3260, 352, 369, 4755, 533, 344, 42126, 2868, 352, 1919, 703, 8176, 281, 352, 15, 596, 1832, 816, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 388, 265, 2238, 273, 26575, 949, 7688, 984, 344, 26662, 2994, 281, 521, 9243, 4929, 13, 619, 5938, 13, 1580, 34236, 7028, 281, 479, 285, 359, 452, 247, 337, 807, 1711, 15, 754, 753, 281, 441, 326, 344, 5605, 752, 359, 452, 15, 4129, 697, 417, 512, 751, 344, 11121, 352, 310, 15, 7813, 323, 441, 556, 2649, 644, 512, 759, 24814, 285, 3477, 849, 344, 11121, 15, 844, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 721, 1107, 13, 7028, 323, 495, 15, 209, 187, 8116, 281, 253, 12142, 1051, 187, 42, 369, 8513, 326, 597, 42126, 1642, 619, 3347, 313, 783, 760, 4936, 7003, 10, 936, 320, 247, 5818, 320, 12287, 15, 309, 369, 762, 253, 13214, 326, 253, 1899, 369, 2668, 594, 891, 42126, 1642, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 597, 42126, 452, 581, 387, 253, 16730, 15, 2732, 253, 16730, 597, 2546, 2021, 285, 1308, 11421, 3128, 281, 1379, 7968, 15, 2752, 3347, 285, 891, 497, 4336, 10432, 432, 7968, 15, 831, 8513, 247, 2257, 13, 3340, 984, 891, 1869, 359, 497, 2021, 15, 7820, 273, 10155, 562, 275, 12330, 13, 891, 16092, 3802, 1807, 1977, 285, 1669, 15, 2752, 5938, 369, 247, 7753, 3056, 1342, 594, 344, 11791, 3212, 15, 754, 24586, 2139, 891, 1669, 13, 3738, 344, 1620, 2378, 6225, 598, 323, 479, 390, 5393, 479, 15, 2752, 2301, 11121, 891, 369, 30446, 1051, 2577, 1193, 18726, 326, 752, 891, 858, 369, 987, 15, 309, 3543, 1077, 10432, 13, 751, 271, 20823, 1334, 15, 187, 42, 2454, 731, 969, 672, 597, 1091, 432, 616, 39741, 1105, 6188, 1735, 2129, 15, 6101, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2312, 436, 562, 342, 731, 32, 309, 1335, 2389, 619, 10370, 13, 891, 816, 13414, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 50026, 281, 10370, 12142, 13, 369, 8513, 326, 891, 285, 619, 3347, 497, 10432, 594, 891, 1669, 2393, 15, 1359, 281, 1056, 289, 375, 1679, 19328, 285, 417, 23737, 776, 2954, 342, 619, 38639, 2021, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

501

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I tried posting somewhere else but im new so i dont know what im doing. I went to my bil wedding last week. Hes been with his now wife since may of last year, got engaged a few months after and got married last week. Hes the kind of guy that writes goals down on paper and posts them on his wall (literally). He even wrote his #1 goal as 'getting a girlfriend '. Which is kinda sweet. Hes a nice guy. We have always got along. He went through a couple of bad breakups last year, his first gf cheated on him with her boss which we all knew it was obvious but he didnt believe it until she admitted to it. Thats just a little background. Hes kind of rushing through relationships because he compares himself to his younger brother, my husband, since hes married to me and we have a 1 year old. He said to us that he wants what we have. Although its not all like he thinks it is. Life for us hasnt been all peachy and easy how he thinks. We have been together for 6 years, married for 3. Back to the wedding... I was hurt that they didnt ask my son (the only grandchild)to be a ring bearer. I was under the impression that the position was taken so i didnt ask. I found out they didnt have one at the ceremony. After the ceremony they asked family and bridal party to take pictures. My son and i were completely excluded from pictures. This hurt a lot, especially because i thought we were family. Instead of breaking out in tears, i quietly snuck away and left. My husband was a groomsman so he stayed behind. He understands why i left, although he never once stood up for me or mentioned me. My mil thinks i was rude...my fil agrees that what i did was right. I felt very excluded, like an outsider. I face them again when they return from their honeymoom next week. Any advice on how to talk this out with them? I still love my bil, i just dont know how to talk to them about it. TL;DR: I was excluded from wedding and can't bring myself to talk to my husband about it. How do i bring it up to them?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 3597, 16920, 9366, 2010, 533, 516, 747, 594, 891, 13414, 871, 752, 516, 2509, 15, 187, 42, 2427, 281, 619, 10370, 12142, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 644, 342, 521, 1024, 4475, 1580, 778, 273, 1390, 807, 13, 1694, 9583, 247, 1643, 2607, 846, 285, 1694, 7028, 1390, 2129, 15, 388, 265, 253, 2238, 273, 5599, 326, 12013, 7342, 1066, 327, 2929, 285, 9319, 731, 327, 521, 3402, 313, 22478, 595, 481, 754, 1014, 4159, 521, 1852, 18, 4736, 347, 686, 35777, 247, 19609, 29996, 6758, 310, 26702, 7353, 15, 388, 265, 247, 5322, 5599, 15, 844, 452, 1900, 1694, 2112, 15, 754, 2427, 949, 247, 4564, 273, 3076, 2740, 8777, 1390, 807, 13, 521, 806, 305, 71, 1161, 456, 327, 779, 342, 617, 12145, 534, 359, 512, 3260, 352, 369, 4755, 533, 344, 42126, 2868, 352, 1919, 703, 8176, 281, 352, 15, 596, 1832, 816, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 388, 265, 2238, 273, 26575, 949, 7688, 984, 344, 26662, 2994, 281, 521, 9243, 4929, 13, 619, 5938, 13, 1580, 34236, 7028, 281, 479, 285, 359, 452, 247, 337, 807, 1711, 15, 754, 753, 281, 441, 326, 344, 5605, 752, 359, 452, 15, 4129, 697, 417, 512, 751, 344, 11121, 352, 310, 15, 7813, 323, 441, 556, 2649, 644, 512, 759, 24814, 285, 3477, 849, 344, 11121, 15, 844, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 721, 1107, 13, 7028, 323, 495, 15, 209, 187, 8116, 281, 253, 12142, 1051, 187, 42, 369, 8513, 326, 597, 42126, 1642, 619, 3347, 313, 783, 760, 4936, 7003, 10, 936, 320, 247, 5818, 320, 12287, 15, 309, 369, 762, 253, 13214, 326, 253, 1899, 369, 2668, 594, 891, 42126, 1642, 15, 309, 1119, 562, 597, 42126, 452, 581, 387, 253, 16730, 15, 2732, 253, 16730, 597, 2546, 2021, 285, 1308, 11421, 3128, 281, 1379, 7968, 15, 2752, 3347, 285, 891, 497, 4336, 10432, 432, 7968, 15, 831, 8513, 247, 2257, 13, 3340, 984, 891, 1869, 359, 497, 2021, 15, 7820, 273, 10155, 562, 275, 12330, 13, 891, 16092, 3802, 1807, 1977, 285, 1669, 15, 2752, 5938, 369, 247, 7753, 3056, 1342, 594, 344, 11791, 3212, 15, 754, 24586, 2139, 891, 1669, 13, 3738, 344, 1620, 2378, 6225, 598, 323, 479, 390, 5393, 479, 15, 2752, 2301, 11121, 891, 369, 30446, 1051, 2577, 1193, 18726, 326, 752, 891, 858, 369, 987, 15, 309, 3543, 1077, 10432, 13, 751, 271, 20823, 1334, 15, 187, 42, 2454, 731, 969, 672, 597, 1091, 432, 616, 39741, 1105, 6188, 1735, 2129, 15, 6101, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2312, 436, 562, 342, 731, 32, 309, 1335, 2389, 619, 10370, 13, 891, 816, 13414, 871, 849, 281, 2312, 281, 731, 670, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 369, 10432, 432, 12142, 285, 476, 626, 3324, 4266, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 5938, 670, 352, 15, 1359, 513, 891, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

492

464

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50026, 281, 10370, 12142, 13, 369, 8513, 326, 891, 285, 619, 3347, 497, 10432, 594, 891, 1669, 2393, 15, 1359, 281, 1056, 289, 375, 1679, 19328, 285, 417, 23737, 776, 2954, 342, 619, 38639, 2021, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 369, 10432, 432, 12142, 285, 476, 626, 3324, 4266, 281, 2312, 281, 619, 5938, 670, 352, 15, 1359, 513, 891, 3324, 352, 598, 281, 731, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So me and my girlfriend have an apartment in Long Island NY and before renting the apartment we had a misunderstanding with the landlord. Basically we wanted to bring a cat and he stated that inclused in the security deposit is somesort of pet deposit for the cat but never clearly stated that we won't be getting the deposit back. We still haven't gotten a cat and we asked him just to make everything clear and now he is saying that he will not give us the deposit back, whether we get a cat or not. If we had known this at first we would've never agreed to getting a cat since the deposit is a lot of money and I can't really afford to lose $1100 in deposit money for a cat. I'm not sure if I should actually get a cat anymore and if this is something I can take to a small claims court in NY since we don't really have any lease or contract. Just an index card stating that we paid first months rent and security deposit.

Landlord refuses to give us cat deposit back despite misunderstanding, don't know if i can take it to small claims court in NY cause we don't have lease or contract.

Landlord refuses to give back deposit even if we get a cat and don't have any lease or contract, should we take this to small claims court or what?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 479, 285, 619, 19609, 452, 271, 10230, 275, 8057, 8451, 10310, 285, 1078, 3816, 1076, 253, 10230, 359, 574, 247, 40663, 342, 253, 32084, 15, 32415, 359, 3078, 281, 3324, 247, 5798, 285, 344, 4767, 326, 12186, 3197, 275, 253, 3988, 18831, 310, 1260, 265, 430, 273, 7590, 18831, 323, 253, 5798, 533, 1620, 4518, 4767, 326, 359, 1912, 626, 320, 2970, 253, 18831, 896, 15, 844, 1335, 6468, 626, 12759, 247, 5798, 285, 359, 2546, 779, 816, 281, 1056, 3253, 2590, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 3981, 326, 344, 588, 417, 1918, 441, 253, 18831, 896, 13, 1880, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 390, 417, 15, 1310, 359, 574, 1929, 436, 387, 806, 359, 651, 1849, 1620, 5821, 281, 2970, 247, 5798, 1580, 253, 18831, 310, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 285, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 7848, 281, 7168, 370, 37965, 275, 18831, 2583, 323, 247, 5798, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 943, 2686, 755, 247, 5798, 10542, 285, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 309, 476, 1379, 281, 247, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 1580, 359, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 3771, 271, 3605, 3120, 14851, 326, 359, 5087, 806, 2607, 8845, 285, 3988, 18831, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So me and my girlfriend have an apartment in Long Island NY and before renting the apartment we had a misunderstanding with the landlord. Basically we wanted to bring a cat and he stated that inclused in the security deposit is somesort of pet deposit for the cat but never clearly stated that we won't be getting the deposit back. We still haven't gotten a cat and we asked him just to make everything clear and now he is saying that he will not give us the deposit back, whether we get a cat or not. If we had known this at first we would've never agreed to getting a cat since the deposit is a lot of money and I can't really afford to lose $1100 in deposit money for a cat. I'm not sure if I should actually get a cat anymore and if this is something I can take to a small claims court in NY since we don't really have any lease or contract. Just an index card stating that we paid first months rent and security deposit. TL;DR:

Landlord refuses to give us cat deposit back despite misunderstanding, don't know if i can take it to small claims court in NY cause we don't have lease or contract.<|endoftext|>

[ 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 441, 5798, 18831, 896, 5747, 40663, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 891, 476, 1379, 352, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Landlord refuses to give back deposit even if we get a cat and don't have any lease or contract, should we take this to small claims court or what?<|endoftext|>

[ 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 896, 18831, 1014, 604, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 285, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 13, 943, 359, 1379, 436, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 390, 752, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So me and my girlfriend have an apartment in Long Island NY and before renting the apartment we had a misunderstanding with the landlord. Basically we wanted to bring a cat and he stated that inclused in the security deposit is somesort of pet deposit for the cat but never clearly stated that we won't be getting the deposit back. We still haven't gotten a cat and we asked him just to make everything clear and now he is saying that he will not give us the deposit back, whether we get a cat or not. If we had known this at first we would've never agreed to getting a cat since the deposit is a lot of money and I can't really afford to lose $1100 in deposit money for a cat. I'm not sure if I should actually get a cat anymore and if this is something I can take to a small claims court in NY since we don't really have any lease or contract. Just an index card stating that we paid first months rent and security deposit. TL;DR: Landlord refuses to give us cat deposit back despite misunderstanding, don't know if i can take it to small claims court in NY cause we don't have lease or contract.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 479, 285, 619, 19609, 452, 271, 10230, 275, 8057, 8451, 10310, 285, 1078, 3816, 1076, 253, 10230, 359, 574, 247, 40663, 342, 253, 32084, 15, 32415, 359, 3078, 281, 3324, 247, 5798, 285, 344, 4767, 326, 12186, 3197, 275, 253, 3988, 18831, 310, 1260, 265, 430, 273, 7590, 18831, 323, 253, 5798, 533, 1620, 4518, 4767, 326, 359, 1912, 626, 320, 2970, 253, 18831, 896, 15, 844, 1335, 6468, 626, 12759, 247, 5798, 285, 359, 2546, 779, 816, 281, 1056, 3253, 2590, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 3981, 326, 344, 588, 417, 1918, 441, 253, 18831, 896, 13, 1880, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 390, 417, 15, 1310, 359, 574, 1929, 436, 387, 806, 359, 651, 1849, 1620, 5821, 281, 2970, 247, 5798, 1580, 253, 18831, 310, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 285, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 7848, 281, 7168, 370, 37965, 275, 18831, 2583, 323, 247, 5798, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 943, 2686, 755, 247, 5798, 10542, 285, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 309, 476, 1379, 281, 247, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 1580, 359, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 3771, 271, 3605, 3120, 14851, 326, 359, 5087, 806, 2607, 8845, 285, 3988, 18831, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 441, 5798, 18831, 896, 5747, 40663, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 891, 476, 1379, 352, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

259

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So me and my girlfriend have an apartment in Long Island NY and before renting the apartment we had a misunderstanding with the landlord. Basically we wanted to bring a cat and he stated that inclused in the security deposit is somesort of pet deposit for the cat but never clearly stated that we won't be getting the deposit back. We still haven't gotten a cat and we asked him just to make everything clear and now he is saying that he will not give us the deposit back, whether we get a cat or not. If we had known this at first we would've never agreed to getting a cat since the deposit is a lot of money and I can't really afford to lose $1100 in deposit money for a cat. I'm not sure if I should actually get a cat anymore and if this is something I can take to a small claims court in NY since we don't really have any lease or contract. Just an index card stating that we paid first months rent and security deposit. TL;DR: Landlord refuses to give back deposit even if we get a cat and don't have any lease or contract, should we take this to small claims court or what?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 479, 285, 619, 19609, 452, 271, 10230, 275, 8057, 8451, 10310, 285, 1078, 3816, 1076, 253, 10230, 359, 574, 247, 40663, 342, 253, 32084, 15, 32415, 359, 3078, 281, 3324, 247, 5798, 285, 344, 4767, 326, 12186, 3197, 275, 253, 3988, 18831, 310, 1260, 265, 430, 273, 7590, 18831, 323, 253, 5798, 533, 1620, 4518, 4767, 326, 359, 1912, 626, 320, 2970, 253, 18831, 896, 15, 844, 1335, 6468, 626, 12759, 247, 5798, 285, 359, 2546, 779, 816, 281, 1056, 3253, 2590, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 3981, 326, 344, 588, 417, 1918, 441, 253, 18831, 896, 13, 1880, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 390, 417, 15, 1310, 359, 574, 1929, 436, 387, 806, 359, 651, 1849, 1620, 5821, 281, 2970, 247, 5798, 1580, 253, 18831, 310, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 285, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 7848, 281, 7168, 370, 37965, 275, 18831, 2583, 323, 247, 5798, 15, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 943, 2686, 755, 247, 5798, 10542, 285, 604, 436, 310, 1633, 309, 476, 1379, 281, 247, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 1580, 359, 1053, 626, 1663, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 3771, 271, 3605, 3120, 14851, 326, 359, 5087, 806, 2607, 8845, 285, 3988, 18831, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 896, 18831, 1014, 604, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 285, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 13, 943, 359, 1379, 436, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 390, 752, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

257

223

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 441, 5798, 18831, 896, 5747, 40663, 13, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 891, 476, 1379, 352, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 275, 10310, 2847, 359, 1053, 626, 452, 16959, 390, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 8565, 20305, 29939, 281, 1918, 896, 18831, 1014, 604, 359, 755, 247, 5798, 285, 1053, 626, 452, 667, 16959, 390, 3310, 13, 943, 359, 1379, 436, 281, 1355, 3916, 1302, 390, 752, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I was in happy relationship with my girlfriend for 2,5 years. It was a long-distance relationship, she was about 200km from me during the first year but we have spent every weekend together. During second year she was in foreign country, 900km (one way) from me but I sat in a car once a month and visited her. About 4 months ago she came back and everything was great, we spend summer holidays together and after that I had to go to the work, and we couldnt see eachother for a month. At the end of this month (it was september) she started to be whiny, conversation (phone) became boring and we couldnt talk longer than 5minutes. And thats where I did something that I shouldnt - it was not normal me, I dont know why I did it, maybe I didnt feel love or something, I really don't know. What I did is I started chatting via facebook with two girls from work and I said things like - "You are perfect girl", "I like your ass" (this one is particulary stupid) and something that we should go for a coffee. It was from 13th of september to the end of september. After that - no contact with those girls. From the first of november my girlfriend finally moved to the city where I work and we were happy. But... Yasterday when I went running, my girlfriend opened my laptop and cheched my facebook and found out about it. She said that it is over and that I mentaly cheated on her becouse maybe I never did something other than facebook chatting but if we met eventually I would cheat on her. I know that I'm an asshole but I really would like to make it up to her and really, this was not normal me.

I did something that is not normal (facebook chatting with girls from work) and my girlfriend broke up with me. But is it as bad that she should not give me a chance?

I did something wrong in a long-distance relationship, girlfriend broke up. Is it as bad as she can say?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 275, 5211, 2954, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 374, 13, 22, 1107, 15, 733, 369, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 703, 369, 670, 1052, 10294, 432, 479, 1309, 253, 806, 807, 533, 359, 452, 5262, 1046, 8849, 2366, 15, 6408, 1273, 807, 703, 369, 275, 5639, 2586, 13, 22908, 10294, 313, 531, 1039, 10, 432, 479, 533, 309, 2206, 275, 247, 1113, 2378, 247, 1770, 285, 11580, 617, 15, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 3622, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 3253, 369, 1270, 13, 359, 6947, 5768, 23193, 2366, 285, 846, 326, 309, 574, 281, 564, 281, 253, 789, 13, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 923, 1016, 977, 323, 247, 1770, 15, 2058, 253, 990, 273, 436, 1770, 313, 262, 369, 22688, 2037, 10, 703, 3053, 281, 320, 364, 5104, 13, 7827, 313, 6198, 10, 3395, 22258, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 2312, 3356, 685, 608, 32117, 15, 187, 1898, 28763, 835, 309, 858, 1633, 326, 309, 943, 2649, 428, 352, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 13, 309, 13414, 871, 2139, 309, 858, 352, 13, 5046, 309, 42126, 1928, 2389, 390, 1633, 13, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 871, 15, 187, 1276, 309, 858, 310, 309, 3053, 44096, 3066, 36979, 342, 767, 6838, 432, 789, 285, 309, 753, 1841, 751, 428, 346, 1394, 403, 3962, 3226, 995, 346, 42, 751, 634, 718, 3, 313, 2520, 581, 310, 46596, 552, 11339, 10, 285, 1633, 326, 359, 943, 564, 323, 247, 8574, 15, 733, 369, 432, 2145, 394, 273, 22688, 2037, 281, 253, 990, 273, 22688, 2037, 15, 2732, 326, 428, 642, 3057, 342, 1110, 6838, 15, 187, 4509, 253, 806, 273, 642, 306, 2480, 619, 19609, 4720, 4395, 281, 253, 2846, 835, 309, 789, 285, 359, 497, 5211, 15, 1292, 1051, 187, 58, 2237, 1201, 672, 309, 2427, 3515, 13, 619, 19609, 5485, 619, 16556, 285, 1161, 2147, 619, 36979, 285, 1119, 562, 670, 352, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 352, 310, 689, 285, 326, 309, 6255, 90, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 791, 1312, 5046, 309, 1620, 858, 1633, 643, 685, 36979, 44096, 533, 604, 359, 1313, 6524, 309, 651, 39038, 327, 617, 15, 187, 42, 871, 326, 309, 1353, 271, 40889, 533, 309, 1663, 651, 751, 281, 1056, 352, 598, 281, 617, 285, 1663, 13, 436, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in happy relationship with my girlfriend for 2,5 years. It was a long-distance relationship, she was about 200km from me during the first year but we have spent every weekend together. During second year she was in foreign country, 900km (one way) from me but I sat in a car once a month and visited her. About 4 months ago she came back and everything was great, we spend summer holidays together and after that I had to go to the work, and we couldnt see eachother for a month. At the end of this month (it was september) she started to be whiny, conversation (phone) became boring and we couldnt talk longer than 5minutes. And thats where I did something that I shouldnt - it was not normal me, I dont know why I did it, maybe I didnt feel love or something, I really don't know. What I did is I started chatting via facebook with two girls from work and I said things like - "You are perfect girl", "I like your ass" (this one is particulary stupid) and something that we should go for a coffee. It was from 13th of september to the end of september. After that - no contact with those girls. From the first of november my girlfriend finally moved to the city where I work and we were happy. But... Yasterday when I went running, my girlfriend opened my laptop and cheched my facebook and found out about it. She said that it is over and that I mentaly cheated on her becouse maybe I never did something other than facebook chatting but if we met eventually I would cheat on her. I know that I'm an asshole but I really would like to make it up to her and really, this was not normal me. TL;DR:

I did something that is not normal (facebook chatting with girls from work) and my girlfriend broke up with me. But is it as bad that she should not give me a chance?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 858, 1633, 326, 310, 417, 2622, 313, 24557, 44096, 342, 6838, 432, 789, 10, 285, 619, 19609, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 15, 1292, 310, 352, 347, 3076, 326, 703, 943, 417, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I did something wrong in a long-distance relationship, girlfriend broke up. Is it as bad as she can say?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 858, 1633, 3430, 275, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 19609, 9377, 598, 15, 1680, 352, 347, 3076, 347, 703, 476, 1333, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in happy relationship with my girlfriend for 2,5 years. It was a long-distance relationship, she was about 200km from me during the first year but we have spent every weekend together. During second year she was in foreign country, 900km (one way) from me but I sat in a car once a month and visited her. About 4 months ago she came back and everything was great, we spend summer holidays together and after that I had to go to the work, and we couldnt see eachother for a month. At the end of this month (it was september) she started to be whiny, conversation (phone) became boring and we couldnt talk longer than 5minutes. And thats where I did something that I shouldnt - it was not normal me, I dont know why I did it, maybe I didnt feel love or something, I really don't know. What I did is I started chatting via facebook with two girls from work and I said things like - "You are perfect girl", "I like your ass" (this one is particulary stupid) and something that we should go for a coffee. It was from 13th of september to the end of september. After that - no contact with those girls. From the first of november my girlfriend finally moved to the city where I work and we were happy. But... Yasterday when I went running, my girlfriend opened my laptop and cheched my facebook and found out about it. She said that it is over and that I mentaly cheated on her becouse maybe I never did something other than facebook chatting but if we met eventually I would cheat on her. I know that I'm an asshole but I really would like to make it up to her and really, this was not normal me. TL;DR: I did something that is not normal (facebook chatting with girls from work) and my girlfriend broke up with me. But is it as bad that she should not give me a chance?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 275, 5211, 2954, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 374, 13, 22, 1107, 15, 733, 369, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 703, 369, 670, 1052, 10294, 432, 479, 1309, 253, 806, 807, 533, 359, 452, 5262, 1046, 8849, 2366, 15, 6408, 1273, 807, 703, 369, 275, 5639, 2586, 13, 22908, 10294, 313, 531, 1039, 10, 432, 479, 533, 309, 2206, 275, 247, 1113, 2378, 247, 1770, 285, 11580, 617, 15, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 3622, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 3253, 369, 1270, 13, 359, 6947, 5768, 23193, 2366, 285, 846, 326, 309, 574, 281, 564, 281, 253, 789, 13, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 923, 1016, 977, 323, 247, 1770, 15, 2058, 253, 990, 273, 436, 1770, 313, 262, 369, 22688, 2037, 10, 703, 3053, 281, 320, 364, 5104, 13, 7827, 313, 6198, 10, 3395, 22258, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 2312, 3356, 685, 608, 32117, 15, 187, 1898, 28763, 835, 309, 858, 1633, 326, 309, 943, 2649, 428, 352, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 13, 309, 13414, 871, 2139, 309, 858, 352, 13, 5046, 309, 42126, 1928, 2389, 390, 1633, 13, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 871, 15, 187, 1276, 309, 858, 310, 309, 3053, 44096, 3066, 36979, 342, 767, 6838, 432, 789, 285, 309, 753, 1841, 751, 428, 346, 1394, 403, 3962, 3226, 995, 346, 42, 751, 634, 718, 3, 313, 2520, 581, 310, 46596, 552, 11339, 10, 285, 1633, 326, 359, 943, 564, 323, 247, 8574, 15, 733, 369, 432, 2145, 394, 273, 22688, 2037, 281, 253, 990, 273, 22688, 2037, 15, 2732, 326, 428, 642, 3057, 342, 1110, 6838, 15, 187, 4509, 253, 806, 273, 642, 306, 2480, 619, 19609, 4720, 4395, 281, 253, 2846, 835, 309, 789, 285, 359, 497, 5211, 15, 1292, 1051, 187, 58, 2237, 1201, 672, 309, 2427, 3515, 13, 619, 19609, 5485, 619, 16556, 285, 1161, 2147, 619, 36979, 285, 1119, 562, 670, 352, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 352, 310, 689, 285, 326, 309, 6255, 90, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 791, 1312, 5046, 309, 1620, 858, 1633, 643, 685, 36979, 44096, 533, 604, 359, 1313, 6524, 309, 651, 39038, 327, 617, 15, 187, 42, 871, 326, 309, 1353, 271, 40889, 533, 309, 1663, 651, 751, 281, 1056, 352, 598, 281, 617, 285, 1663, 13, 436, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 858, 1633, 326, 310, 417, 2622, 313, 24557, 44096, 342, 6838, 432, 789, 10, 285, 619, 19609, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 15, 1292, 310, 352, 347, 3076, 326, 703, 943, 417, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

437

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I was in happy relationship with my girlfriend for 2,5 years. It was a long-distance relationship, she was about 200km from me during the first year but we have spent every weekend together. During second year she was in foreign country, 900km (one way) from me but I sat in a car once a month and visited her. About 4 months ago she came back and everything was great, we spend summer holidays together and after that I had to go to the work, and we couldnt see eachother for a month. At the end of this month (it was september) she started to be whiny, conversation (phone) became boring and we couldnt talk longer than 5minutes. And thats where I did something that I shouldnt - it was not normal me, I dont know why I did it, maybe I didnt feel love or something, I really don't know. What I did is I started chatting via facebook with two girls from work and I said things like - "You are perfect girl", "I like your ass" (this one is particulary stupid) and something that we should go for a coffee. It was from 13th of september to the end of september. After that - no contact with those girls. From the first of november my girlfriend finally moved to the city where I work and we were happy. But... Yasterday when I went running, my girlfriend opened my laptop and cheched my facebook and found out about it. She said that it is over and that I mentaly cheated on her becouse maybe I never did something other than facebook chatting but if we met eventually I would cheat on her. I know that I'm an asshole but I really would like to make it up to her and really, this was not normal me. TL;DR: I did something wrong in a long-distance relationship, girlfriend broke up. Is it as bad as she can say?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 369, 275, 5211, 2954, 342, 619, 19609, 323, 374, 13, 22, 1107, 15, 733, 369, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 703, 369, 670, 1052, 10294, 432, 479, 1309, 253, 806, 807, 533, 359, 452, 5262, 1046, 8849, 2366, 15, 6408, 1273, 807, 703, 369, 275, 5639, 2586, 13, 22908, 10294, 313, 531, 1039, 10, 432, 479, 533, 309, 2206, 275, 247, 1113, 2378, 247, 1770, 285, 11580, 617, 15, 187, 10572, 577, 2607, 3622, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 3253, 369, 1270, 13, 359, 6947, 5768, 23193, 2366, 285, 846, 326, 309, 574, 281, 564, 281, 253, 789, 13, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 923, 1016, 977, 323, 247, 1770, 15, 2058, 253, 990, 273, 436, 1770, 313, 262, 369, 22688, 2037, 10, 703, 3053, 281, 320, 364, 5104, 13, 7827, 313, 6198, 10, 3395, 22258, 285, 359, 812, 2649, 2312, 3356, 685, 608, 32117, 15, 187, 1898, 28763, 835, 309, 858, 1633, 326, 309, 943, 2649, 428, 352, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 13, 309, 13414, 871, 2139, 309, 858, 352, 13, 5046, 309, 42126, 1928, 2389, 390, 1633, 13, 309, 1663, 1053, 626, 871, 15, 187, 1276, 309, 858, 310, 309, 3053, 44096, 3066, 36979, 342, 767, 6838, 432, 789, 285, 309, 753, 1841, 751, 428, 346, 1394, 403, 3962, 3226, 995, 346, 42, 751, 634, 718, 3, 313, 2520, 581, 310, 46596, 552, 11339, 10, 285, 1633, 326, 359, 943, 564, 323, 247, 8574, 15, 733, 369, 432, 2145, 394, 273, 22688, 2037, 281, 253, 990, 273, 22688, 2037, 15, 2732, 326, 428, 642, 3057, 342, 1110, 6838, 15, 187, 4509, 253, 806, 273, 642, 306, 2480, 619, 19609, 4720, 4395, 281, 253, 2846, 835, 309, 789, 285, 359, 497, 5211, 15, 1292, 1051, 187, 58, 2237, 1201, 672, 309, 2427, 3515, 13, 619, 19609, 5485, 619, 16556, 285, 1161, 2147, 619, 36979, 285, 1119, 562, 670, 352, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 352, 310, 689, 285, 326, 309, 6255, 90, 1161, 456, 327, 617, 791, 1312, 5046, 309, 1620, 858, 1633, 643, 685, 36979, 44096, 533, 604, 359, 1313, 6524, 309, 651, 39038, 327, 617, 15, 187, 42, 871, 326, 309, 1353, 271, 40889, 533, 309, 1663, 651, 751, 281, 1056, 352, 598, 281, 617, 285, 1663, 13, 436, 369, 417, 2622, 479, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 858, 1633, 3430, 275, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 19609, 9377, 598, 15, 1680, 352, 347, 3076, 347, 703, 476, 1333, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

424

399

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 858, 1633, 326, 310, 417, 2622, 313, 24557, 44096, 342, 6838, 432, 789, 10, 285, 619, 19609, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 15, 1292, 310, 352, 347, 3076, 326, 703, 943, 417, 1918, 479, 247, 4839, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 858, 1633, 3430, 275, 247, 1048, 14, 19893, 2954, 13, 19609, 9377, 598, 15, 1680, 352, 347, 3076, 347, 703, 476, 1333, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha.

Ran 9.48miles in 1 hour and 14mins, I'm pretty happy with myself and can't wait to do more.

ran a 9.5 mile (each way) to work, ran a 10km. Shitty job, good self image, good self confidence.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 14136, 247, 1643, 15513, 562, 327, 253, 3874, 4102, 285, 309, 1158, 271, 49776, 5471, 273, 15457, 43176, 479, 436, 4131, 672, 309, 1694, 4704, 281, 564, 281, 789, 15, 309, 14998, 619, 32353, 13, 619, 353, 303, 24439, 308, 740, 84, 13, 246, 23565, 285, 247, 3785, 1189, 275, 619, 7351, 13, 8686, 247, 2014, 13571, 327, 253, 6194, 17190, 4266, 281, 1408, 1728, 313, 95, 26, 15, 22, 78, 3205, 481, 309, 1353, 594, 9995, 309, 858, 352, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 313, 267, 15932, 34994, 481, 3083, 2961, 281, 3835, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 11964, 1638, 78, 968, 1903, 1704, 84, 13, 534, 309, 1158, 310, 3965, 1175, 1469, 323, 271, 17948, 25620, 13, 309, 4264, 3515, 533, 47421, 309, 1353, 22658, 285, 309, 4510, 2285, 9001, 281, 755, 619, 40992, 7522, 15, 309, 671, 7303, 281, 15192, 619, 884, 10294, 673, 1512, 2, 187, 187, 60, 26068, 436, 3048, 281, 619, 12968, 3220, 12965, 943, 789, 880, 187, 187, 793, 15, 309, 871, 627, 434, 253, 13772, 6293, 323, 26751, 13, 533, 309, 588, 34428, 25844, 39155, 7740, 281, 11929, 436, 327, 6926, 347, 309, 452, 619, 2457, 1174, 327, 7216, 4131, 323, 619, 5779, 29146, 4248, 419, 3227, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR:

Ran 9.48miles in 1 hour and 14mins, I'm pretty happy with myself and can't wait to do more.<|endoftext|>

[ 34396, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 4964, 285, 1638, 78, 968, 13, 309, 1353, 3965, 5211, 342, 4266, 285, 476, 626, 3343, 281, 513, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

ran a 9.5 mile (each way) to work, ran a 10km. Shitty job, good self image, good self confidence.<|endoftext|>

[ 6337, 247, 898, 15, 22, 13915, 313, 14382, 1039, 10, 281, 789, 13, 6337, 247, 884, 10294, 15, 1608, 38491, 2628, 13, 1175, 1881, 2460, 13, 1175, 1881, 7162, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR: Ran 9.48miles in 1 hour and 14mins, I'm pretty happy with myself and can't wait to do more.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 14136, 247, 1643, 15513, 562, 327, 253, 3874, 4102, 285, 309, 1158, 271, 49776, 5471, 273, 15457, 43176, 479, 436, 4131, 672, 309, 1694, 4704, 281, 564, 281, 789, 15, 309, 14998, 619, 32353, 13, 619, 353, 303, 24439, 308, 740, 84, 13, 246, 23565, 285, 247, 3785, 1189, 275, 619, 7351, 13, 8686, 247, 2014, 13571, 327, 253, 6194, 17190, 4266, 281, 1408, 1728, 313, 95, 26, 15, 22, 78, 3205, 481, 309, 1353, 594, 9995, 309, 858, 352, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 313, 267, 15932, 34994, 481, 3083, 2961, 281, 3835, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 11964, 1638, 78, 968, 1903, 1704, 84, 13, 534, 309, 1158, 310, 3965, 1175, 1469, 323, 271, 17948, 25620, 13, 309, 4264, 3515, 533, 47421, 309, 1353, 22658, 285, 309, 4510, 2285, 9001, 281, 755, 619, 40992, 7522, 15, 309, 671, 7303, 281, 15192, 619, 884, 10294, 673, 1512, 2, 187, 187, 60, 26068, 436, 3048, 281, 619, 12968, 3220, 12965, 943, 789, 880, 187, 187, 793, 15, 309, 871, 627, 434, 253, 13772, 6293, 323, 26751, 13, 533, 309, 588, 34428, 25844, 39155, 7740, 281, 11929, 436, 327, 6926, 347, 309, 452, 619, 2457, 1174, 327, 7216, 4131, 323, 619, 5779, 29146, 4248, 419, 3227, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 34396, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 4964, 285, 1638, 78, 968, 13, 309, 1353, 3965, 5211, 342, 4266, 285, 476, 626, 3343, 281, 513, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

259

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Had a few nights out on the town recently and I think an overriding feeling of guilt gripped me this morning when I got ready to go to work. I packed my shorts, my Mimimus T10s, tshirt and a pullover in my bag, bought a single ticket on the train forcing myself to run home (~9.5miles). I'm so glad I did it, I feel great (albeit shattered). Managed to cover 9.48miles in 1hour 14mins 11secs, which I think is pretty good going for an irregular runner, I enjoy running but admittedly I'm lazy and I prefer team sports to get my cardio fill. I also managed to PB my 10km time too! [Think this link to my MapMyRun should work]( ps. I know there's the weekly thread for achievements, but I will DEFINITELY forget to submit this on Sunday as I have my final exam on Monday morning for my PostGrad degree haha. TL;DR: ran a 9.5 mile (each way) to work, ran a 10km. Shitty job, good self image, good self confidence.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 14136, 247, 1643, 15513, 562, 327, 253, 3874, 4102, 285, 309, 1158, 271, 49776, 5471, 273, 15457, 43176, 479, 436, 4131, 672, 309, 1694, 4704, 281, 564, 281, 789, 15, 309, 14998, 619, 32353, 13, 619, 353, 303, 24439, 308, 740, 84, 13, 246, 23565, 285, 247, 3785, 1189, 275, 619, 7351, 13, 8686, 247, 2014, 13571, 327, 253, 6194, 17190, 4266, 281, 1408, 1728, 313, 95, 26, 15, 22, 78, 3205, 481, 309, 1353, 594, 9995, 309, 858, 352, 13, 309, 1928, 1270, 313, 267, 15932, 34994, 481, 3083, 2961, 281, 3835, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 11964, 1638, 78, 968, 1903, 1704, 84, 13, 534, 309, 1158, 310, 3965, 1175, 1469, 323, 271, 17948, 25620, 13, 309, 4264, 3515, 533, 47421, 309, 1353, 22658, 285, 309, 4510, 2285, 9001, 281, 755, 619, 40992, 7522, 15, 309, 671, 7303, 281, 15192, 619, 884, 10294, 673, 1512, 2, 187, 187, 60, 26068, 436, 3048, 281, 619, 12968, 3220, 12965, 943, 789, 880, 187, 187, 793, 15, 309, 871, 627, 434, 253, 13772, 6293, 323, 26751, 13, 533, 309, 588, 34428, 25844, 39155, 7740, 281, 11929, 436, 327, 6926, 347, 309, 452, 619, 2457, 1174, 327, 7216, 4131, 323, 619, 5779, 29146, 4248, 419, 3227, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 6337, 247, 898, 15, 22, 13915, 313, 14382, 1039, 10, 281, 789, 13, 6337, 247, 884, 10294, 15, 1608, 38491, 2628, 13, 1175, 1881, 2460, 13, 1175, 1881, 7162, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

261

230

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 34396, 898, 15, 2385, 78, 3205, 275, 337, 4964, 285, 1638, 78, 968, 13, 309, 1353, 3965, 5211, 342, 4266, 285, 476, 626, 3343, 281, 513, 625, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6337, 247, 898, 15, 22, 13915, 313, 14382, 1039, 10, 281, 789, 13, 6337, 247, 884, 10294, 15, 1608, 38491, 2628, 13, 1175, 1881, 2460, 13, 1175, 1881, 7162, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I [27f] will try to keep this as short as possible. I am slightly above average looks, friendly, educated, and have a good sense of humor. Although I am demanding of my own achievements, I am very laid back and accepting others. I am helpful to a fault and love animals, sports, and trying new things. Although not financially well off, I have a job I love and am quite good at. I feel like I am a very approachable person, as I'm often the one friends turn to for advice and the person in line at the store who little old ladies strike up consersations with. Not to say I'm without my fair share of faults, but I think I have a number of positive qualities. Despite this, guys never ask me out, hit on me, or even talk to me in public except for the rarest of occasions. I live in a friendly city in the south that has a relatively high number of people in my age range, and none of my female friends seem to have the same problem as I do. I attempt to strike up conversations myself, but they don't go anywhere, leaving me feeling silly for even trying. I do not think my standards are too high, but I don't think that even matters, since no guys even to me in the first place. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any advice?

I am a nice but somewhat laid back person who has trouble getting men to take me seriously.

I am very attractive and very well adjusted, but everyone avoids me because I am too nice.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 1630, 71, 62, 588, 1611, 281, 1978, 436, 347, 2159, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 717, 5777, 1840, 3388, 4453, 13, 11453, 13, 19149, 13, 285, 452, 247, 1175, 3282, 273, 20393, 15, 4129, 309, 717, 17905, 273, 619, 1211, 26751, 13, 309, 717, 1077, 10090, 896, 285, 18738, 2571, 15, 309, 717, 9371, 281, 247, 9331, 285, 2389, 5074, 13, 9001, 13, 285, 2820, 747, 1841, 15, 4129, 417, 27576, 973, 745, 13, 309, 452, 247, 2628, 309, 2389, 285, 717, 3240, 1175, 387, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 247, 1077, 2746, 494, 1436, 13, 347, 309, 1353, 2223, 253, 581, 3858, 1614, 281, 323, 7535, 285, 253, 1436, 275, 1386, 387, 253, 4657, 665, 1652, 1711, 16901, 9974, 598, 772, 398, 569, 342, 15, 3105, 281, 1333, 309, 1353, 1293, 619, 4344, 3894, 273, 35354, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 309, 452, 247, 1180, 273, 2762, 18701, 15, 2490, 187, 14067, 436, 13, 6068, 1620, 1642, 479, 562, 13, 4352, 327, 479, 13, 390, 1014, 2312, 281, 479, 275, 1345, 3707, 323, 253, 1218, 1120, 273, 15530, 15, 309, 3153, 275, 247, 11453, 2846, 275, 253, 6420, 326, 556, 247, 4942, 1029, 1180, 273, 952, 275, 619, 2363, 2491, 13, 285, 5293, 273, 619, 5343, 3858, 1646, 281, 452, 253, 1072, 1895, 347, 309, 513, 15, 309, 3177, 281, 9974, 598, 16072, 4266, 13, 533, 597, 1053, 626, 564, 9825, 13, 6108, 479, 5471, 19456, 323, 1014, 2820, 15, 309, 513, 417, 1158, 619, 7465, 403, 1512, 1029, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 326, 1014, 8213, 13, 1580, 642, 6068, 1014, 281, 479, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 3430, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [27f] will try to keep this as short as possible. I am slightly above average looks, friendly, educated, and have a good sense of humor. Although I am demanding of my own achievements, I am very laid back and accepting others. I am helpful to a fault and love animals, sports, and trying new things. Although not financially well off, I have a job I love and am quite good at. I feel like I am a very approachable person, as I'm often the one friends turn to for advice and the person in line at the store who little old ladies strike up consersations with. Not to say I'm without my fair share of faults, but I think I have a number of positive qualities. Despite this, guys never ask me out, hit on me, or even talk to me in public except for the rarest of occasions. I live in a friendly city in the south that has a relatively high number of people in my age range, and none of my female friends seem to have the same problem as I do. I attempt to strike up conversations myself, but they don't go anywhere, leaving me feeling silly for even trying. I do not think my standards are too high, but I don't think that even matters, since no guys even to me in the first place. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any advice? TL;DR:

I am a nice but somewhat laid back person who has trouble getting men to take me seriously.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 717, 247, 5322, 533, 8489, 10090, 896, 1436, 665, 556, 7596, 2970, 1821, 281, 1379, 479, 10369, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I am very attractive and very well adjusted, but everyone avoids me because I am too nice.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 717, 1077, 12994, 285, 1077, 973, 10904, 13, 533, 4130, 32547, 479, 984, 309, 717, 1512, 5322, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [27f] will try to keep this as short as possible. I am slightly above average looks, friendly, educated, and have a good sense of humor. Although I am demanding of my own achievements, I am very laid back and accepting others. I am helpful to a fault and love animals, sports, and trying new things. Although not financially well off, I have a job I love and am quite good at. I feel like I am a very approachable person, as I'm often the one friends turn to for advice and the person in line at the store who little old ladies strike up consersations with. Not to say I'm without my fair share of faults, but I think I have a number of positive qualities. Despite this, guys never ask me out, hit on me, or even talk to me in public except for the rarest of occasions. I live in a friendly city in the south that has a relatively high number of people in my age range, and none of my female friends seem to have the same problem as I do. I attempt to strike up conversations myself, but they don't go anywhere, leaving me feeling silly for even trying. I do not think my standards are too high, but I don't think that even matters, since no guys even to me in the first place. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any advice? TL;DR: I am a nice but somewhat laid back person who has trouble getting men to take me seriously.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 1630, 71, 62, 588, 1611, 281, 1978, 436, 347, 2159, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 717, 5777, 1840, 3388, 4453, 13, 11453, 13, 19149, 13, 285, 452, 247, 1175, 3282, 273, 20393, 15, 4129, 309, 717, 17905, 273, 619, 1211, 26751, 13, 309, 717, 1077, 10090, 896, 285, 18738, 2571, 15, 309, 717, 9371, 281, 247, 9331, 285, 2389, 5074, 13, 9001, 13, 285, 2820, 747, 1841, 15, 4129, 417, 27576, 973, 745, 13, 309, 452, 247, 2628, 309, 2389, 285, 717, 3240, 1175, 387, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 247, 1077, 2746, 494, 1436, 13, 347, 309, 1353, 2223, 253, 581, 3858, 1614, 281, 323, 7535, 285, 253, 1436, 275, 1386, 387, 253, 4657, 665, 1652, 1711, 16901, 9974, 598, 772, 398, 569, 342, 15, 3105, 281, 1333, 309, 1353, 1293, 619, 4344, 3894, 273, 35354, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 309, 452, 247, 1180, 273, 2762, 18701, 15, 2490, 187, 14067, 436, 13, 6068, 1620, 1642, 479, 562, 13, 4352, 327, 479, 13, 390, 1014, 2312, 281, 479, 275, 1345, 3707, 323, 253, 1218, 1120, 273, 15530, 15, 309, 3153, 275, 247, 11453, 2846, 275, 253, 6420, 326, 556, 247, 4942, 1029, 1180, 273, 952, 275, 619, 2363, 2491, 13, 285, 5293, 273, 619, 5343, 3858, 1646, 281, 452, 253, 1072, 1895, 347, 309, 513, 15, 309, 3177, 281, 9974, 598, 16072, 4266, 13, 533, 597, 1053, 626, 564, 9825, 13, 6108, 479, 5471, 19456, 323, 1014, 2820, 15, 309, 513, 417, 1158, 619, 7465, 403, 1512, 1029, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 326, 1014, 8213, 13, 1580, 642, 6068, 1014, 281, 479, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 3430, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 717, 247, 5322, 533, 8489, 10090, 896, 1436, 665, 556, 7596, 2970, 1821, 281, 1379, 479, 10369, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

328

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I [27f] will try to keep this as short as possible. I am slightly above average looks, friendly, educated, and have a good sense of humor. Although I am demanding of my own achievements, I am very laid back and accepting others. I am helpful to a fault and love animals, sports, and trying new things. Although not financially well off, I have a job I love and am quite good at. I feel like I am a very approachable person, as I'm often the one friends turn to for advice and the person in line at the store who little old ladies strike up consersations with. Not to say I'm without my fair share of faults, but I think I have a number of positive qualities. Despite this, guys never ask me out, hit on me, or even talk to me in public except for the rarest of occasions. I live in a friendly city in the south that has a relatively high number of people in my age range, and none of my female friends seem to have the same problem as I do. I attempt to strike up conversations myself, but they don't go anywhere, leaving me feeling silly for even trying. I do not think my standards are too high, but I don't think that even matters, since no guys even to me in the first place. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Any advice? TL;DR: I am very attractive and very well adjusted, but everyone avoids me because I am too nice.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 544, 1630, 71, 62, 588, 1611, 281, 1978, 436, 347, 2159, 347, 1896, 15, 309, 717, 5777, 1840, 3388, 4453, 13, 11453, 13, 19149, 13, 285, 452, 247, 1175, 3282, 273, 20393, 15, 4129, 309, 717, 17905, 273, 619, 1211, 26751, 13, 309, 717, 1077, 10090, 896, 285, 18738, 2571, 15, 309, 717, 9371, 281, 247, 9331, 285, 2389, 5074, 13, 9001, 13, 285, 2820, 747, 1841, 15, 4129, 417, 27576, 973, 745, 13, 309, 452, 247, 2628, 309, 2389, 285, 717, 3240, 1175, 387, 15, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 247, 1077, 2746, 494, 1436, 13, 347, 309, 1353, 2223, 253, 581, 3858, 1614, 281, 323, 7535, 285, 253, 1436, 275, 1386, 387, 253, 4657, 665, 1652, 1711, 16901, 9974, 598, 772, 398, 569, 342, 15, 3105, 281, 1333, 309, 1353, 1293, 619, 4344, 3894, 273, 35354, 13, 533, 309, 1158, 309, 452, 247, 1180, 273, 2762, 18701, 15, 2490, 187, 14067, 436, 13, 6068, 1620, 1642, 479, 562, 13, 4352, 327, 479, 13, 390, 1014, 2312, 281, 479, 275, 1345, 3707, 323, 253, 1218, 1120, 273, 15530, 15, 309, 3153, 275, 247, 11453, 2846, 275, 253, 6420, 326, 556, 247, 4942, 1029, 1180, 273, 952, 275, 619, 2363, 2491, 13, 285, 5293, 273, 619, 5343, 3858, 1646, 281, 452, 253, 1072, 1895, 347, 309, 513, 15, 309, 3177, 281, 9974, 598, 16072, 4266, 13, 533, 597, 1053, 626, 564, 9825, 13, 6108, 479, 5471, 19456, 323, 1014, 2820, 15, 309, 513, 417, 1158, 619, 7465, 403, 1512, 1029, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 326, 1014, 8213, 13, 1580, 642, 6068, 1014, 281, 479, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1353, 2509, 3430, 15, 6101, 7535, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 717, 1077, 12994, 285, 1077, 973, 10904, 13, 533, 4130, 32547, 479, 984, 309, 717, 1512, 5322, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

328

308

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 717, 247, 5322, 533, 8489, 10090, 896, 1436, 665, 556, 7596, 2970, 1821, 281, 1379, 479, 10369, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 717, 1077, 12994, 285, 1077, 973, 10904, 13, 533, 4130, 32547, 479, 984, 309, 717, 1512, 5322, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So a few months ago I got an email saying that I had ordered FiOS. I found this odd, since I don't live in a service area for it. I was worried this was done fraudulently because I do have a Verizon account for my cell phones. The first thing I did was call Verizon to check that it wasn't something fraudulent. After talking to customer service for a bit the lady assured me that it was a mistake and I should just ignore it. After looking at the to field in the email address, I noticed that the email was like mine, except where mine has punctuation this address had none. It turns out gmail ignores punctuation in email addresses, so most likely this person probably has a similar address and mistyped it. Over the past few months I've gotten annoyed at receiving this person's statements as well as Verizon's FiOS advertisements. I've tried calling Verizon again to tell them they have the wrong email associated with the account, but they basically told me to ignore it and "they'd look into it". I realized since it's associated with my email account I could probably use their account recovery and get access myself. The devious part of me now wants to troll someone careless enough to put one of their accounts in my hands. What does AskReddit think I should do? Is there any way this could backfire?

Some random person put my email in for their Verizon FiOS account and I can access it. What can I do to troll them and should I?

Someone has sent me a Verizon FiOS ad after mistyping a gmail address and "uating me" into thinking my fiOS account is connected with my email address. What do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 309, 1694, 271, 4579, 3981, 326, 309, 574, 6960, 33813, 2697, 15, 309, 1119, 436, 8909, 13, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 3153, 275, 247, 2579, 2170, 323, 352, 15, 309, 369, 11926, 436, 369, 2218, 9116, 335, 1574, 984, 309, 513, 452, 247, 39790, 2395, 323, 619, 894, 15169, 15, 187, 187, 510, 806, 2181, 309, 858, 369, 1067, 39790, 281, 2451, 326, 352, 3589, 626, 1633, 25447, 15, 2732, 5015, 281, 7731, 2579, 323, 247, 2372, 253, 10692, 17839, 479, 326, 352, 369, 247, 10551, 285, 309, 943, 816, 11823, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4553, 2819, 387, 253, 281, 1673, 275, 253, 4579, 2953, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 253, 4579, 369, 751, 7477, 13, 3707, 835, 7477, 556, 17256, 2368, 436, 2953, 574, 5293, 15, 733, 7819, 562, 305, 5719, 35136, 17256, 2368, 275, 4579, 12453, 13, 594, 954, 2779, 436, 1436, 3164, 556, 247, 2074, 2953, 285, 5384, 3170, 264, 352, 15, 187, 187, 5279, 253, 2469, 1643, 2607, 309, 1849, 12759, 34639, 387, 6883, 436, 1436, 434, 7234, 347, 973, 347, 39790, 434, 33813, 2697, 32933, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 6789, 39790, 969, 281, 2028, 731, 597, 452, 253, 3430, 4579, 2330, 342, 253, 2395, 13, 533, 597, 10323, 2183, 479, 281, 11823, 352, 285, 346, 9328, 1871, 1007, 715, 352, 3446, 309, 8156, 1580, 352, 434, 2330, 342, 619, 4579, 2395, 309, 812, 3164, 897, 616, 2395, 7355, 285, 755, 2289, 4266, 15, 380, 1474, 784, 629, 273, 479, 1024, 5605, 281, 37053, 3095, 48292, 2217, 281, 1691, 581, 273, 616, 8553, 275, 619, 3564, 15, 1737, 1057, 26659, 10252, 22940, 1158, 309, 943, 513, 32, 1680, 627, 667, 1039, 436, 812, 896, 11342, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few months ago I got an email saying that I had ordered FiOS. I found this odd, since I don't live in a service area for it. I was worried this was done fraudulently because I do have a Verizon account for my cell phones. The first thing I did was call Verizon to check that it wasn't something fraudulent. After talking to customer service for a bit the lady assured me that it was a mistake and I should just ignore it. After looking at the to field in the email address, I noticed that the email was like mine, except where mine has punctuation this address had none. It turns out gmail ignores punctuation in email addresses, so most likely this person probably has a similar address and mistyped it. Over the past few months I've gotten annoyed at receiving this person's statements as well as Verizon's FiOS advertisements. I've tried calling Verizon again to tell them they have the wrong email associated with the account, but they basically told me to ignore it and "they'd look into it". I realized since it's associated with my email account I could probably use their account recovery and get access myself. The devious part of me now wants to troll someone careless enough to put one of their accounts in my hands. What does AskReddit think I should do? Is there any way this could backfire? TL;DR:

Some random person put my email in for their Verizon FiOS account and I can access it. What can I do to troll them and should I?<|endoftext|>

[ 3808, 3632, 1436, 1691, 619, 4579, 275, 323, 616, 39790, 33813, 2697, 2395, 285, 309, 476, 2289, 352, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 37053, 731, 285, 943, 309, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Someone has sent me a Verizon FiOS ad after mistyping a gmail address and "uating me" into thinking my fiOS account is connected with my email address. What do?<|endoftext|>

[ 24955, 556, 2197, 479, 247, 39790, 33813, 2697, 519, 846, 5384, 3170, 272, 247, 305, 5719, 2953, 285, 346, 18186, 479, 3, 715, 4680, 619, 12684, 2697, 2395, 310, 4802, 342, 619, 4579, 2953, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few months ago I got an email saying that I had ordered FiOS. I found this odd, since I don't live in a service area for it. I was worried this was done fraudulently because I do have a Verizon account for my cell phones. The first thing I did was call Verizon to check that it wasn't something fraudulent. After talking to customer service for a bit the lady assured me that it was a mistake and I should just ignore it. After looking at the to field in the email address, I noticed that the email was like mine, except where mine has punctuation this address had none. It turns out gmail ignores punctuation in email addresses, so most likely this person probably has a similar address and mistyped it. Over the past few months I've gotten annoyed at receiving this person's statements as well as Verizon's FiOS advertisements. I've tried calling Verizon again to tell them they have the wrong email associated with the account, but they basically told me to ignore it and "they'd look into it". I realized since it's associated with my email account I could probably use their account recovery and get access myself. The devious part of me now wants to troll someone careless enough to put one of their accounts in my hands. What does AskReddit think I should do? Is there any way this could backfire? TL;DR: Some random person put my email in for their Verizon FiOS account and I can access it. What can I do to troll them and should I?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 309, 1694, 271, 4579, 3981, 326, 309, 574, 6960, 33813, 2697, 15, 309, 1119, 436, 8909, 13, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 3153, 275, 247, 2579, 2170, 323, 352, 15, 309, 369, 11926, 436, 369, 2218, 9116, 335, 1574, 984, 309, 513, 452, 247, 39790, 2395, 323, 619, 894, 15169, 15, 187, 187, 510, 806, 2181, 309, 858, 369, 1067, 39790, 281, 2451, 326, 352, 3589, 626, 1633, 25447, 15, 2732, 5015, 281, 7731, 2579, 323, 247, 2372, 253, 10692, 17839, 479, 326, 352, 369, 247, 10551, 285, 309, 943, 816, 11823, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4553, 2819, 387, 253, 281, 1673, 275, 253, 4579, 2953, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 253, 4579, 369, 751, 7477, 13, 3707, 835, 7477, 556, 17256, 2368, 436, 2953, 574, 5293, 15, 733, 7819, 562, 305, 5719, 35136, 17256, 2368, 275, 4579, 12453, 13, 594, 954, 2779, 436, 1436, 3164, 556, 247, 2074, 2953, 285, 5384, 3170, 264, 352, 15, 187, 187, 5279, 253, 2469, 1643, 2607, 309, 1849, 12759, 34639, 387, 6883, 436, 1436, 434, 7234, 347, 973, 347, 39790, 434, 33813, 2697, 32933, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 6789, 39790, 969, 281, 2028, 731, 597, 452, 253, 3430, 4579, 2330, 342, 253, 2395, 13, 533, 597, 10323, 2183, 479, 281, 11823, 352, 285, 346, 9328, 1871, 1007, 715, 352, 3446, 309, 8156, 1580, 352, 434, 2330, 342, 619, 4579, 2395, 309, 812, 3164, 897, 616, 2395, 7355, 285, 755, 2289, 4266, 15, 380, 1474, 784, 629, 273, 479, 1024, 5605, 281, 37053, 3095, 48292, 2217, 281, 1691, 581, 273, 616, 8553, 275, 619, 3564, 15, 1737, 1057, 26659, 10252, 22940, 1158, 309, 943, 513, 32, 1680, 627, 667, 1039, 436, 812, 896, 11342, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 3808, 3632, 1436, 1691, 619, 4579, 275, 323, 616, 39790, 33813, 2697, 2395, 285, 309, 476, 2289, 352, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 37053, 731, 285, 943, 309, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

338

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So a few months ago I got an email saying that I had ordered FiOS. I found this odd, since I don't live in a service area for it. I was worried this was done fraudulently because I do have a Verizon account for my cell phones. The first thing I did was call Verizon to check that it wasn't something fraudulent. After talking to customer service for a bit the lady assured me that it was a mistake and I should just ignore it. After looking at the to field in the email address, I noticed that the email was like mine, except where mine has punctuation this address had none. It turns out gmail ignores punctuation in email addresses, so most likely this person probably has a similar address and mistyped it. Over the past few months I've gotten annoyed at receiving this person's statements as well as Verizon's FiOS advertisements. I've tried calling Verizon again to tell them they have the wrong email associated with the account, but they basically told me to ignore it and "they'd look into it". I realized since it's associated with my email account I could probably use their account recovery and get access myself. The devious part of me now wants to troll someone careless enough to put one of their accounts in my hands. What does AskReddit think I should do? Is there any way this could backfire? TL;DR: Someone has sent me a Verizon FiOS ad after mistyping a gmail address and "uating me" into thinking my fiOS account is connected with my email address. What do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 247, 1643, 2607, 3622, 309, 1694, 271, 4579, 3981, 326, 309, 574, 6960, 33813, 2697, 15, 309, 1119, 436, 8909, 13, 1580, 309, 1053, 626, 3153, 275, 247, 2579, 2170, 323, 352, 15, 309, 369, 11926, 436, 369, 2218, 9116, 335, 1574, 984, 309, 513, 452, 247, 39790, 2395, 323, 619, 894, 15169, 15, 187, 187, 510, 806, 2181, 309, 858, 369, 1067, 39790, 281, 2451, 326, 352, 3589, 626, 1633, 25447, 15, 2732, 5015, 281, 7731, 2579, 323, 247, 2372, 253, 10692, 17839, 479, 326, 352, 369, 247, 10551, 285, 309, 943, 816, 11823, 352, 15, 187, 187, 4553, 2819, 387, 253, 281, 1673, 275, 253, 4579, 2953, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 253, 4579, 369, 751, 7477, 13, 3707, 835, 7477, 556, 17256, 2368, 436, 2953, 574, 5293, 15, 733, 7819, 562, 305, 5719, 35136, 17256, 2368, 275, 4579, 12453, 13, 594, 954, 2779, 436, 1436, 3164, 556, 247, 2074, 2953, 285, 5384, 3170, 264, 352, 15, 187, 187, 5279, 253, 2469, 1643, 2607, 309, 1849, 12759, 34639, 387, 6883, 436, 1436, 434, 7234, 347, 973, 347, 39790, 434, 33813, 2697, 32933, 15, 309, 1849, 3597, 6789, 39790, 969, 281, 2028, 731, 597, 452, 253, 3430, 4579, 2330, 342, 253, 2395, 13, 533, 597, 10323, 2183, 479, 281, 11823, 352, 285, 346, 9328, 1871, 1007, 715, 352, 3446, 309, 8156, 1580, 352, 434, 2330, 342, 619, 4579, 2395, 309, 812, 3164, 897, 616, 2395, 7355, 285, 755, 2289, 4266, 15, 380, 1474, 784, 629, 273, 479, 1024, 5605, 281, 37053, 3095, 48292, 2217, 281, 1691, 581, 273, 616, 8553, 275, 619, 3564, 15, 1737, 1057, 26659, 10252, 22940, 1158, 309, 943, 513, 32, 1680, 627, 667, 1039, 436, 812, 896, 11342, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 24955, 556, 2197, 479, 247, 39790, 33813, 2697, 519, 846, 5384, 3170, 272, 247, 305, 5719, 2953, 285, 346, 18186, 479, 3, 715, 4680, 619, 12684, 2697, 2395, 310, 4802, 342, 619, 4579, 2953, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

346

307

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 3808, 3632, 1436, 1691, 619, 4579, 275, 323, 616, 39790, 33813, 2697, 2395, 285, 309, 476, 2289, 352, 15, 1737, 476, 309, 513, 281, 37053, 731, 285, 943, 309, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 24955, 556, 2197, 479, 247, 39790, 33813, 2697, 519, 846, 5384, 3170, 272, 247, 305, 5719, 2953, 285, 346, 18186, 479, 3, 715, 4680, 619, 12684, 2697, 2395, 310, 4802, 342, 619, 4579, 2953, 15, 1737, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date?

Known coworker for 2 years, she's had a boyfriend for most of it. They broke up 3 months ago and needed help moving a couch from her current place to new place. Ex is there while we move the couch. Afterwards she asks me if I brought my coupons that our boss gave us for a really expensive restaurant, but I have to say no because I already spent mine. Was she doing it to be friendly, or did she think of it as a date?

My coworker and I had a fight and she asked me to hang out with her, but I'm not sure if she was doing it to be friendly or to think of it as a date.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 359, 1849, 1929, 1016, 643, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 2455, 1580, 703, 3053, 2444, 387, 253, 10301, 309, 513, 15, 844, 1849, 1694, 2112, 1270, 285, 3053, 5015, 987, 1977, 1014, 2167, 359, 1472, 3965, 19328, 952, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 247, 670, 374, 1107, 13, 533, 597, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 15, 1583, 452, 281, 3153, 2366, 1919, 253, 990, 273, 616, 16959, 275, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 703, 40538, 281, 479, 247, 2257, 670, 617, 385, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 891, 1849, 644, 36307, 1841, 403, 247, 2257, 1027, 875, 441, 1024, 15, 1500, 6131, 281, 1361, 342, 625, 1841, 387, 789, 285, 6131, 281, 10013, 479, 247, 1824, 11996, 285, 1355, 1841, 751, 326, 15, 1707, 369, 581, 1798, 673, 359, 497, 5015, 13, 285, 703, 574, 281, 3213, 1977, 281, 1361, 690, 6383, 13, 285, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 4821, 253, 7827, 342, 479, 533, 703, 369, 6306, 247, 2257, 8003, 253, 1273, 673, 15, 844, 671, 2505, 247, 2257, 625, 285, 13791, 247, 2257, 625, 3345, 789, 1024, 15, 535, 5220, 13, 253, 2129, 703, 285, 617, 22273, 9377, 598, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 564, 281, 247, 921, 342, 617, 326, 369, 247, 1770, 1996, 533, 574, 281, 14002, 984, 617, 2021, 1160, 690, 5827, 1475, 326, 673, 15, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 3809, 3579, 281, 3063, 13, 309, 5907, 281, 1361, 617, 2118, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 617, 747, 1659, 285, 703, 2335, 479, 598, 327, 326, 3063, 3707, 617, 385, 310, 6501, 320, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 1893, 327, 253, 1039, 627, 703, 8599, 479, 617, 285, 617, 385, 816, 574, 1529, 5699, 3819, 13, 285, 672, 309, 1694, 627, 352, 369, 2590, 703, 574, 644, 17800, 285, 703, 816, 4453, 14004, 15, 844, 1265, 5015, 285, 703, 7866, 18727, 347, 359, 2940, 598, 253, 16303, 285, 347, 703, 16771, 275, 285, 359, 1265, 4886, 253, 21985, 703, 33350, 313, 28489, 432, 19328, 1255, 14677, 2490, 187, 4553, 253, 21985, 369, 2218, 13, 703, 2546, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 574, 1677, 281, 441, 326, 497, 281, 247, 1077, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 753, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 908, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 369, 4518, 247, 1039, 323, 617, 281, 1642, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 752, 309, 971, 281, 871, 310, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 858, 703, 971, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date? TL;DR:

Known coworker for 2 years, she's had a boyfriend for most of it. They broke up 3 months ago and needed help moving a couch from her current place to new place. Ex is there while we move the couch. Afterwards she asks me if I brought my coupons that our boss gave us for a really expensive restaurant, but I have to say no because I already spent mine. Was she doing it to be friendly, or did she think of it as a date?<|endoftext|>

[ 41570, 38800, 254, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 703, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 954, 273, 352, 15, 1583, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 285, 3058, 1361, 4886, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 747, 1659, 15, 1889, 310, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 47090, 703, 12325, 479, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 3534, 441, 323, 247, 1663, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 452, 281, 1333, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 5262, 7477, 15, 12349, 703, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 13, 390, 858, 703, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My coworker and I had a fight and she asked me to hang out with her, but I'm not sure if she was doing it to be friendly or to think of it as a date.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 38800, 254, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3819, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date? TL;DR: Known coworker for 2 years, she's had a boyfriend for most of it. They broke up 3 months ago and needed help moving a couch from her current place to new place. Ex is there while we move the couch. Afterwards she asks me if I brought my coupons that our boss gave us for a really expensive restaurant, but I have to say no because I already spent mine. Was she doing it to be friendly, or did she think of it as a date?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 359, 1849, 1929, 1016, 643, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 2455, 1580, 703, 3053, 2444, 387, 253, 10301, 309, 513, 15, 844, 1849, 1694, 2112, 1270, 285, 3053, 5015, 987, 1977, 1014, 2167, 359, 1472, 3965, 19328, 952, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 247, 670, 374, 1107, 13, 533, 597, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 15, 1583, 452, 281, 3153, 2366, 1919, 253, 990, 273, 616, 16959, 275, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 703, 40538, 281, 479, 247, 2257, 670, 617, 385, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 891, 1849, 644, 36307, 1841, 403, 247, 2257, 1027, 875, 441, 1024, 15, 1500, 6131, 281, 1361, 342, 625, 1841, 387, 789, 285, 6131, 281, 10013, 479, 247, 1824, 11996, 285, 1355, 1841, 751, 326, 15, 1707, 369, 581, 1798, 673, 359, 497, 5015, 13, 285, 703, 574, 281, 3213, 1977, 281, 1361, 690, 6383, 13, 285, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 4821, 253, 7827, 342, 479, 533, 703, 369, 6306, 247, 2257, 8003, 253, 1273, 673, 15, 844, 671, 2505, 247, 2257, 625, 285, 13791, 247, 2257, 625, 3345, 789, 1024, 15, 535, 5220, 13, 253, 2129, 703, 285, 617, 22273, 9377, 598, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 564, 281, 247, 921, 342, 617, 326, 369, 247, 1770, 1996, 533, 574, 281, 14002, 984, 617, 2021, 1160, 690, 5827, 1475, 326, 673, 15, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 3809, 3579, 281, 3063, 13, 309, 5907, 281, 1361, 617, 2118, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 617, 747, 1659, 285, 703, 2335, 479, 598, 327, 326, 3063, 3707, 617, 385, 310, 6501, 320, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 1893, 327, 253, 1039, 627, 703, 8599, 479, 617, 285, 617, 385, 816, 574, 1529, 5699, 3819, 13, 285, 672, 309, 1694, 627, 352, 369, 2590, 703, 574, 644, 17800, 285, 703, 816, 4453, 14004, 15, 844, 1265, 5015, 285, 703, 7866, 18727, 347, 359, 2940, 598, 253, 16303, 285, 347, 703, 16771, 275, 285, 359, 1265, 4886, 253, 21985, 703, 33350, 313, 28489, 432, 19328, 1255, 14677, 2490, 187, 4553, 253, 21985, 369, 2218, 13, 703, 2546, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 574, 1677, 281, 441, 326, 497, 281, 247, 1077, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 753, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 908, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 369, 4518, 247, 1039, 323, 617, 281, 1642, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 752, 309, 971, 281, 871, 310, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 858, 703, 971, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 41570, 38800, 254, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 703, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 954, 273, 352, 15, 1583, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 285, 3058, 1361, 4886, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 747, 1659, 15, 1889, 310, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 47090, 703, 12325, 479, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 3534, 441, 323, 247, 1663, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 452, 281, 1333, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 5262, 7477, 15, 12349, 703, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 13, 390, 858, 703, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

540

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So we've known each other for 2 years, ever since she started working at the restaurant I do. We've got along great and started talking right away even though we're pretty awkward people. She's had a boyfriend for a about 2 years, but they broke up 3 months ago. They have to live together until the end of their lease in a month, and she complains to me a lot about her ex. But i've been noticing things are a lot different between us now. She offers to help with more things at work and offers to grab me a water bottle and small things like that. There was one particular time we were talking, and she had to step away to help some customers, and she came back and continued the conversation with me but she was standing a lot closer the second time. We also text a lot more and communicate a lot more outside work now. Also, the week she and her boyfriend broke up she asked me to go to a show with her that was a month later but had to cancel because her family made some plans around that time. Anyways fast forward to today, I offered to help her move a couch from her current place to her new place and she took me up on that today except her ex is gonna be there while we move the couch. So on the way there she tells me her and her ex just had another huge fight, and when I got there it was clear she had been crying and she just looks upset. We start talking and she starts smiling as we walk up the stairs and as she walks in and we start moving the couch she laughs (maybe from awkwardness?) After the couch was done, she asked if I brought my coupons that our boss had given to us that were to a very expensive restaurant, but I said no because I already used mine. This was clearly a way for her to ask me to hang out with her, but what I want to know is if she was doing it to be friendly or did she want to think of it as a date? TL;DR: My coworker and I had a fight and she asked me to hang out with her, but I'm not sure if she was doing it to be friendly or to think of it as a date.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 359, 1849, 1929, 1016, 643, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 2455, 1580, 703, 3053, 2444, 387, 253, 10301, 309, 513, 15, 844, 1849, 1694, 2112, 1270, 285, 3053, 5015, 987, 1977, 1014, 2167, 359, 1472, 3965, 19328, 952, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 247, 670, 374, 1107, 13, 533, 597, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 15, 1583, 452, 281, 3153, 2366, 1919, 253, 990, 273, 616, 16959, 275, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 703, 40538, 281, 479, 247, 2257, 670, 617, 385, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 891, 1849, 644, 36307, 1841, 403, 247, 2257, 1027, 875, 441, 1024, 15, 1500, 6131, 281, 1361, 342, 625, 1841, 387, 789, 285, 6131, 281, 10013, 479, 247, 1824, 11996, 285, 1355, 1841, 751, 326, 15, 1707, 369, 581, 1798, 673, 359, 497, 5015, 13, 285, 703, 574, 281, 3213, 1977, 281, 1361, 690, 6383, 13, 285, 703, 2210, 896, 285, 4821, 253, 7827, 342, 479, 533, 703, 369, 6306, 247, 2257, 8003, 253, 1273, 673, 15, 844, 671, 2505, 247, 2257, 625, 285, 13791, 247, 2257, 625, 3345, 789, 1024, 15, 535, 5220, 13, 253, 2129, 703, 285, 617, 22273, 9377, 598, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 564, 281, 247, 921, 342, 617, 326, 369, 247, 1770, 1996, 533, 574, 281, 14002, 984, 617, 2021, 1160, 690, 5827, 1475, 326, 673, 15, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 3809, 3579, 281, 3063, 13, 309, 5907, 281, 1361, 617, 2118, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 617, 747, 1659, 285, 703, 2335, 479, 598, 327, 326, 3063, 3707, 617, 385, 310, 6501, 320, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 1893, 327, 253, 1039, 627, 703, 8599, 479, 617, 285, 617, 385, 816, 574, 1529, 5699, 3819, 13, 285, 672, 309, 1694, 627, 352, 369, 2590, 703, 574, 644, 17800, 285, 703, 816, 4453, 14004, 15, 844, 1265, 5015, 285, 703, 7866, 18727, 347, 359, 2940, 598, 253, 16303, 285, 347, 703, 16771, 275, 285, 359, 1265, 4886, 253, 21985, 703, 33350, 313, 28489, 432, 19328, 1255, 14677, 2490, 187, 4553, 253, 21985, 369, 2218, 13, 703, 2546, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 574, 1677, 281, 441, 326, 497, 281, 247, 1077, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 753, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 908, 7477, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 369, 4518, 247, 1039, 323, 617, 281, 1642, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 752, 309, 971, 281, 871, 310, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 858, 703, 971, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 38800, 254, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3819, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

484

443

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 41570, 38800, 254, 323, 374, 1107, 13, 703, 434, 574, 247, 22273, 323, 954, 273, 352, 15, 1583, 9377, 598, 495, 2607, 3622, 285, 3058, 1361, 4886, 247, 21985, 432, 617, 1655, 1659, 281, 747, 1659, 15, 1889, 310, 627, 1223, 359, 2118, 253, 21985, 15, 47090, 703, 12325, 479, 604, 309, 3982, 619, 49516, 326, 776, 12145, 3534, 441, 323, 247, 1663, 8214, 10301, 13, 533, 309, 452, 281, 1333, 642, 984, 309, 2168, 5262, 7477, 15, 12349, 703, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 13, 390, 858, 703, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 38800, 254, 285, 309, 574, 247, 3819, 285, 703, 2546, 479, 281, 10913, 562, 342, 617, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 703, 369, 2509, 352, 281, 320, 11453, 390, 281, 1158, 273, 352, 347, 247, 3522, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. Instead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. I compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared. Last year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had. Now, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. Lately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep. I feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there.

I majored in business instead of a passion and I'm 21 and still in a depressing lifestyle. I have no friends, and I'm not sure if my life has any purpose.

I made some big mistakes over the past four years that have caused me to lose a lot, and it sucks.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 309, 871, 436, 1501, 778, 1705, 745, 347, 1429, 763, 285, 14138, 281, 690, 13, 533, 436, 1501, 3548, 626, 323, 368, 13, 352, 434, 323, 479, 15, 7874, 1107, 3622, 13, 672, 309, 369, 1722, 13, 309, 574, 247, 2098, 15, 309, 369, 6501, 2118, 281, 9693, 846, 1029, 2143, 31313, 285, 2489, 247, 17264, 16, 16360, 273, 690, 2238, 15, 8057, 2926, 2159, 309, 268, 1316, 728, 562, 285, 1904, 626, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 20576, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 1980, 25215, 285, 309, 21023, 352, 13, 594, 309, 20906, 281, 755, 562, 15, 380, 760, 6629, 326, 4136, 337, 807, 21916, 497, 562, 273, 1375, 6629, 13, 594, 309, 2315, 1520, 619, 4651, 715, 10430, 479, 281, 247, 2143, 326, 556, 644, 285, 310, 1335, 4073, 272, 731, 562, 27576, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 509, 8055, 1097, 273, 841, 7435, 35267, 407, 2201, 272, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 581, 273, 619, 38969, 313, 18405, 16, 18698, 13, 10995, 4028, 13, 390, 26481, 481, 309, 2183, 4266, 285, 619, 4651, 326, 309, 9703, 2136, 984, 309, 3078, 281, 320, 973, 14, 48198, 13, 533, 253, 5083, 310, 13, 309, 369, 16060, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 807, 13, 347, 247, 43674, 13, 309, 4395, 715, 247, 2419, 342, 495, 643, 2136, 49208, 13, 512, 9243, 685, 479, 13, 285, 512, 5536, 5484, 398, 16, 34266, 14, 15987, 15, 309, 7416, 731, 275, 616, 4712, 13, 45116, 13, 3515, 1977, 432, 3965, 1199, 1046, 8294, 390, 9908, 309, 574, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 13, 309, 1353, 3127, 533, 342, 642, 3127, 807, 1711, 3858, 13, 309, 871, 642, 581, 326, 10764, 619, 38969, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 4266, 37032, 715, 247, 1077, 47517, 13, 27915, 13, 285, 25106, 1495, 15, 2490, 187, 45, 1523, 309, 1849, 644, 2820, 281, 1379, 2762, 5018, 13, 3523, 2509, 512, 5835, 3707, 10678, 13949, 327, 253, 29665, 13, 285, 1469, 281, 512, 273, 619, 5971, 285, 3192, 7211, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 275, 436, 3128, 2419, 13, 285, 1335, 2080, 432, 619, 38969, 15, 309, 755, 18580, 4600, 323, 619, 2393, 4131, 5971, 13, 594, 309, 2940, 1475, 512, 1388, 749, 2815, 3341, 11790, 13, 285, 309, 8253, 432, 581, 2136, 966, 281, 253, 1735, 31488, 604, 309, 943, 1611, 281, 1056, 3858, 13, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 253, 987, 1659, 13, 390, 604, 309, 943, 3365, 1335, 320, 17390, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 309, 1849, 3663, 253, 12532, 1436, 309, 369, 13, 285, 309, 971, 326, 896, 15, 309, 971, 281, 1928, 751, 479, 969, 604, 326, 2789, 667, 3282, 15, 1292, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 755, 627, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. Instead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. I compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared. Last year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had. Now, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. Lately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep. I feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there. TL;DR:

I majored in business instead of a passion and I'm 21 and still in a depressing lifestyle. I have no friends, and I'm not sure if my life has any purpose.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 19684, 2149, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 247, 9908, 285, 309, 1353, 3127, 285, 1335, 275, 247, 47517, 14898, 15, 309, 452, 642, 3858, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 1495, 556, 667, 4096, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I made some big mistakes over the past four years that have caused me to lose a lot, and it sucks.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1160, 690, 1943, 16503, 689, 253, 2469, 1740, 1107, 326, 452, 4269, 479, 281, 7168, 247, 2257, 13, 285, 352, 35058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. Instead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. I compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared. Last year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had. Now, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. Lately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep. I feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there. TL;DR: I majored in business instead of a passion and I'm 21 and still in a depressing lifestyle. I have no friends, and I'm not sure if my life has any purpose.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 309, 871, 436, 1501, 778, 1705, 745, 347, 1429, 763, 285, 14138, 281, 690, 13, 533, 436, 1501, 3548, 626, 323, 368, 13, 352, 434, 323, 479, 15, 7874, 1107, 3622, 13, 672, 309, 369, 1722, 13, 309, 574, 247, 2098, 15, 309, 369, 6501, 2118, 281, 9693, 846, 1029, 2143, 31313, 285, 2489, 247, 17264, 16, 16360, 273, 690, 2238, 15, 8057, 2926, 2159, 309, 268, 1316, 728, 562, 285, 1904, 626, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 20576, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 1980, 25215, 285, 309, 21023, 352, 13, 594, 309, 20906, 281, 755, 562, 15, 380, 760, 6629, 326, 4136, 337, 807, 21916, 497, 562, 273, 1375, 6629, 13, 594, 309, 2315, 1520, 619, 4651, 715, 10430, 479, 281, 247, 2143, 326, 556, 644, 285, 310, 1335, 4073, 272, 731, 562, 27576, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 509, 8055, 1097, 273, 841, 7435, 35267, 407, 2201, 272, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 581, 273, 619, 38969, 313, 18405, 16, 18698, 13, 10995, 4028, 13, 390, 26481, 481, 309, 2183, 4266, 285, 619, 4651, 326, 309, 9703, 2136, 984, 309, 3078, 281, 320, 973, 14, 48198, 13, 533, 253, 5083, 310, 13, 309, 369, 16060, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 807, 13, 347, 247, 43674, 13, 309, 4395, 715, 247, 2419, 342, 495, 643, 2136, 49208, 13, 512, 9243, 685, 479, 13, 285, 512, 5536, 5484, 398, 16, 34266, 14, 15987, 15, 309, 7416, 731, 275, 616, 4712, 13, 45116, 13, 3515, 1977, 432, 3965, 1199, 1046, 8294, 390, 9908, 309, 574, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 13, 309, 1353, 3127, 533, 342, 642, 3127, 807, 1711, 3858, 13, 309, 871, 642, 581, 326, 10764, 619, 38969, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 4266, 37032, 715, 247, 1077, 47517, 13, 27915, 13, 285, 25106, 1495, 15, 2490, 187, 45, 1523, 309, 1849, 644, 2820, 281, 1379, 2762, 5018, 13, 3523, 2509, 512, 5835, 3707, 10678, 13949, 327, 253, 29665, 13, 285, 1469, 281, 512, 273, 619, 5971, 285, 3192, 7211, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 275, 436, 3128, 2419, 13, 285, 1335, 2080, 432, 619, 38969, 15, 309, 755, 18580, 4600, 323, 619, 2393, 4131, 5971, 13, 594, 309, 2940, 1475, 512, 1388, 749, 2815, 3341, 11790, 13, 285, 309, 8253, 432, 581, 2136, 966, 281, 253, 1735, 31488, 604, 309, 943, 1611, 281, 1056, 3858, 13, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 253, 987, 1659, 13, 390, 604, 309, 943, 3365, 1335, 320, 17390, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 309, 1849, 3663, 253, 12532, 1436, 309, 369, 13, 285, 309, 971, 326, 896, 15, 309, 971, 281, 1928, 751, 479, 969, 604, 326, 2789, 667, 3282, 15, 1292, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 755, 627, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 19684, 2149, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 247, 9908, 285, 309, 1353, 3127, 285, 1335, 275, 247, 47517, 14898, 15, 309, 452, 642, 3858, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 1495, 556, 667, 4096, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

507

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, I know this post may come off as childish and dramatic to some, but this post isn't for you, it's for me. Four years ago, when I was 17, I had a plan. I was gonna move to Boston after high school graduation and become a journalist/writer of some kind. Long story short I pussied out and didn't do it. Instead I went to a local cc and I hated it, so I rushed to get out. The only schools that allowed 1 year transfers were out of state schools, so I pressured my parents into sending me to a school that has been and is still stressing them out financially. I compounded both of these fuck ups by majoring in business instead of one of my passions (film/tv, creative writing, or journalism). I told myself and my parents that I chose business because I wanted to be well-rounded, but the truth is, I was scared. Last year, as a sophomore, I moved into a house with 3 other business majors, all younger than me, and all heavy drinkers/drug-users. I joined them in their activities, willingly, running away from pretty much every responsibility or passion I had. Now, I'm 21 but with no 21 year old friends, I know no one that shares my passions, and I feel myself slipping into a very depressing, selfish, and lonely life. Lately I've been trying to take positive steps, stop doing all drugs except drinking occasionally on the weekends, and going to all of my classes and taking notes, but I'm still in this party house, and still far from my passions. I get awful sleep for my early morning classes, so I walk around all day subliminally angry, and I float from one business class to the next unsure if I should try to make friends, or if I'm in the right place, or if I should simply still be asleep. I feel like I've lost the promising person I was, and I want that back. I want to feel like me again if that makes any sense. But I have no idea how to get there. TL;DR: I made some big mistakes over the past four years that have caused me to lose a lot, and it sucks.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 309, 871, 436, 1501, 778, 1705, 745, 347, 1429, 763, 285, 14138, 281, 690, 13, 533, 436, 1501, 3548, 626, 323, 368, 13, 352, 434, 323, 479, 15, 7874, 1107, 3622, 13, 672, 309, 369, 1722, 13, 309, 574, 247, 2098, 15, 309, 369, 6501, 2118, 281, 9693, 846, 1029, 2143, 31313, 285, 2489, 247, 17264, 16, 16360, 273, 690, 2238, 15, 8057, 2926, 2159, 309, 268, 1316, 728, 562, 285, 1904, 626, 513, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 20576, 309, 2427, 281, 247, 1980, 25215, 285, 309, 21023, 352, 13, 594, 309, 20906, 281, 755, 562, 15, 380, 760, 6629, 326, 4136, 337, 807, 21916, 497, 562, 273, 1375, 6629, 13, 594, 309, 2315, 1520, 619, 4651, 715, 10430, 479, 281, 247, 2143, 326, 556, 644, 285, 310, 1335, 4073, 272, 731, 562, 27576, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 509, 8055, 1097, 273, 841, 7435, 35267, 407, 2201, 272, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 581, 273, 619, 38969, 313, 18405, 16, 18698, 13, 10995, 4028, 13, 390, 26481, 481, 309, 2183, 4266, 285, 619, 4651, 326, 309, 9703, 2136, 984, 309, 3078, 281, 320, 973, 14, 48198, 13, 533, 253, 5083, 310, 13, 309, 369, 16060, 15, 187, 187, 8693, 807, 13, 347, 247, 43674, 13, 309, 4395, 715, 247, 2419, 342, 495, 643, 2136, 49208, 13, 512, 9243, 685, 479, 13, 285, 512, 5536, 5484, 398, 16, 34266, 14, 15987, 15, 309, 7416, 731, 275, 616, 4712, 13, 45116, 13, 3515, 1977, 432, 3965, 1199, 1046, 8294, 390, 9908, 309, 574, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 13, 309, 1353, 3127, 533, 342, 642, 3127, 807, 1711, 3858, 13, 309, 871, 642, 581, 326, 10764, 619, 38969, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 4266, 37032, 715, 247, 1077, 47517, 13, 27915, 13, 285, 25106, 1495, 15, 2490, 187, 45, 1523, 309, 1849, 644, 2820, 281, 1379, 2762, 5018, 13, 3523, 2509, 512, 5835, 3707, 10678, 13949, 327, 253, 29665, 13, 285, 1469, 281, 512, 273, 619, 5971, 285, 3192, 7211, 13, 533, 309, 1353, 1335, 275, 436, 3128, 2419, 13, 285, 1335, 2080, 432, 619, 38969, 15, 309, 755, 18580, 4600, 323, 619, 2393, 4131, 5971, 13, 594, 309, 2940, 1475, 512, 1388, 749, 2815, 3341, 11790, 13, 285, 309, 8253, 432, 581, 2136, 966, 281, 253, 1735, 31488, 604, 309, 943, 1611, 281, 1056, 3858, 13, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 275, 253, 987, 1659, 13, 390, 604, 309, 943, 3365, 1335, 320, 17390, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1928, 751, 309, 1849, 3663, 253, 12532, 1436, 309, 369, 13, 285, 309, 971, 326, 896, 15, 309, 971, 281, 1928, 751, 479, 969, 604, 326, 2789, 667, 3282, 15, 1292, 309, 452, 642, 2934, 849, 281, 755, 627, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1160, 690, 1943, 16503, 689, 253, 2469, 1740, 1107, 326, 452, 4269, 479, 281, 7168, 247, 2257, 13, 285, 352, 35058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

493

469

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 19684, 2149, 275, 2136, 3185, 273, 247, 9908, 285, 309, 1353, 3127, 285, 1335, 275, 247, 47517, 14898, 15, 309, 452, 642, 3858, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 1495, 556, 667, 4096, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1160, 690, 1943, 16503, 689, 253, 2469, 1740, 1107, 326, 452, 4269, 479, 281, 7168, 247, 2257, 13, 285, 352, 35058, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will.

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 871, 436, 310, 247, 1077, 2969, 1953, 13, 533, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1849, 1663, 346, 14151, 3, 275, 253, 6041, 3282, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 5599, 310, 3686, 273, 247, 346, 8471, 273, 247, 3331, 3, 432, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 13, 594, 309, 651, 1067, 779, 247, 1048, 14, 2606, 38153, 15, 844, 4102, 3047, 1016, 643, 387, 247, 2534, 13, 285, 344, 2546, 479, 562, 247, 1643, 1897, 846, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 327, 767, 12282, 13, 285, 597, 2686, 2427, 3965, 973, 2, 1292, 627, 403, 247, 1643, 1841, 1469, 327, 326, 1056, 479, 971, 281, 16196, 489, 436, 15, 187, 187, 18, 10, 309, 816, 7402, 247, 8010, 42101, 4641, 1048, 14, 3945, 2954, 670, 247, 1770, 3622, 15, 4952, 2167, 309, 1353, 9106, 689, 253, 5599, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 247, 1652, 43303, 598, 432, 253, 28561, 15394, 528, 2954, 3139, 15, 1244, 436, 747, 5599, 310, 253, 346, 25737, 275, 247, 4092, 2954, 3, 1511, 665, 310, 2761, 7964, 2819, 323, 247, 4092, 305, 71, 15, 187, 187, 19, 10, 309, 717, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 844, 403, 671, 816, 13597, 13, 533, 352, 434, 15120, 285, 794, 13, 534, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 273, 752, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 987, 1024, 15, 187, 187, 20, 10, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 2, 12526, 344, 11121, 359, 48792, 858, 2391, 1051, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 849, 1199, 1491, 309, 452, 281, 1918, 779, 672, 15571, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 923, 779, 10542, 13, 594, 436, 310, 581, 1953, 309, 452, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 2022, 1953, 310, 28281, 32, 754, 434, 6589, 46651, 2505, 272, 479, 13, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 6947, 667, 673, 5015, 327, 253, 4481, 390, 2712, 13, 594, 352, 1537, 320, 12504, 281, 1067, 15, 1292, 352, 2506, 626, 1646, 3309, 281, 2028, 779, 275, 1436, 390, 2712, 15, 1680, 352, 4336, 19082, 323, 952, 776, 2363, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 281, 2852, 12282, 3066, 2505, 32, 22469, 6789, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 33674, 13, 533, 604, 352, 434, 253, 987, 2181, 281, 513, 13, 309, 588, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will. TL;DR:

Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

[ 22757, 309, 1353, 13597, 5605, 281, 4035, 13597, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 285, 309, 1353, 1024, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 642, 3356, 6110, 1293, 1146, 12504, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

[ 1359, 513, 309, 1339, 779, 871, 309, 717, 642, 3356, 6110, 275, 6523, 779, 390, 2970, 3206, 342, 779, 32, 1680, 352, 12504, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 3066, 2505, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will. TL;DR: Guy I'm dating wants to continue dating, but I don't think we clicked and I'm now seeing someone else. How do I tell him I'm no longer interested without being weird?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 871, 436, 310, 247, 1077, 2969, 1953, 13, 533, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1849, 1663, 346, 14151, 3, 275, 253, 6041, 3282, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 5599, 310, 3686, 273, 247, 346, 8471, 273, 247, 3331, 3, 432, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 13, 594, 309, 651, 1067, 779, 247, 1048, 14, 2606, 38153, 15, 844, 4102, 3047, 1016, 643, 387, 247, 2534, 13, 285, 344, 2546, 479, 562, 247, 1643, 1897, 846, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 327, 767, 12282, 13, 285, 597, 2686, 2427, 3965, 973, 2, 1292, 627, 403, 247, 1643, 1841, 1469, 327, 326, 1056, 479, 971, 281, 16196, 489, 436, 15, 187, 187, 18, 10, 309, 816, 7402, 247, 8010, 42101, 4641, 1048, 14, 3945, 2954, 670, 247, 1770, 3622, 15, 4952, 2167, 309, 1353, 9106, 689, 253, 5599, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 247, 1652, 43303, 598, 432, 253, 28561, 15394, 528, 2954, 3139, 15, 1244, 436, 747, 5599, 310, 253, 346, 25737, 275, 247, 4092, 2954, 3, 1511, 665, 310, 2761, 7964, 2819, 323, 247, 4092, 305, 71, 15, 187, 187, 19, 10, 309, 717, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 844, 403, 671, 816, 13597, 13, 533, 352, 434, 15120, 285, 794, 13, 534, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 273, 752, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 987, 1024, 15, 187, 187, 20, 10, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 2, 12526, 344, 11121, 359, 48792, 858, 2391, 1051, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 849, 1199, 1491, 309, 452, 281, 1918, 779, 672, 15571, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 923, 779, 10542, 13, 594, 436, 310, 581, 1953, 309, 452, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 2022, 1953, 310, 28281, 32, 754, 434, 6589, 46651, 2505, 272, 479, 13, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 6947, 667, 673, 5015, 327, 253, 4481, 390, 2712, 13, 594, 352, 1537, 320, 12504, 281, 1067, 15, 1292, 352, 2506, 626, 1646, 3309, 281, 2028, 779, 275, 1436, 390, 2712, 15, 1680, 352, 4336, 19082, 323, 952, 776, 2363, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 281, 2852, 12282, 3066, 2505, 32, 22469, 6789, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 33674, 13, 533, 604, 352, 434, 253, 987, 2181, 281, 513, 13, 309, 588, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 22757, 309, 1353, 13597, 5605, 281, 4035, 13597, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 285, 309, 1353, 1024, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 642, 3356, 6110, 1293, 1146, 12504, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

425

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I know this is a very simple question, but this is the first time I've really "dated" in the conventional sense. This guy is sort of a "friend of a friend" from a long time ago, so I would call him a long-time acquaintance. We recently saw each other at a bar, and he asked me out a few days after. We've been on two dates, and they actually went pretty well! But there are a few things going on that make me want to discontinue this. 1) I just ended a PAINFUL long-term relationship about a month ago. Even though I'm totally over the guy, I'm still a little messed up from the emotionally disasterous relationship itself. And this new guy is the "always in a serious relationship" type who is almost definitely looking for a serious gf. 2) I am seeing someone else. We are also just dating, but it's casual and fun, which is a lot more of what I'm looking for right now. 3) I just don't think we clicked! Unfortunately he thinks we REALLY did....... Anyways, I'm not sure how much information I have to give him when explaining why I don't want to see him anymore, so this is one question I have. My main question is HOW? He's ALWAYS texting me, and we don't spend any time talking on the phone or anything, so it might be weird to call. But it doesn't seem necessary to tell him in person or anything. Is it completely ridiculous for people our age to say "no thanks" to future dates via text? Obviously calling is a lot more stressful, but if it's the right thing to do, I will. TL;DR: How do I let him know I am no longer interested in seeing him or getting involved with him? Is it weird to say "no thanks" via text?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 871, 436, 310, 247, 1077, 2969, 1953, 13, 533, 436, 310, 253, 806, 673, 309, 1849, 1663, 346, 14151, 3, 275, 253, 6041, 3282, 15, 187, 187, 1552, 5599, 310, 3686, 273, 247, 346, 8471, 273, 247, 3331, 3, 432, 247, 1048, 673, 3622, 13, 594, 309, 651, 1067, 779, 247, 1048, 14, 2606, 38153, 15, 844, 4102, 3047, 1016, 643, 387, 247, 2534, 13, 285, 344, 2546, 479, 562, 247, 1643, 1897, 846, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 327, 767, 12282, 13, 285, 597, 2686, 2427, 3965, 973, 2, 1292, 627, 403, 247, 1643, 1841, 1469, 327, 326, 1056, 479, 971, 281, 16196, 489, 436, 15, 187, 187, 18, 10, 309, 816, 7402, 247, 8010, 42101, 4641, 1048, 14, 3945, 2954, 670, 247, 1770, 3622, 15, 4952, 2167, 309, 1353, 9106, 689, 253, 5599, 13, 309, 1353, 1335, 247, 1652, 43303, 598, 432, 253, 28561, 15394, 528, 2954, 3139, 15, 1244, 436, 747, 5599, 310, 253, 346, 25737, 275, 247, 4092, 2954, 3, 1511, 665, 310, 2761, 7964, 2819, 323, 247, 4092, 305, 71, 15, 187, 187, 19, 10, 309, 717, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 844, 403, 671, 816, 13597, 13, 533, 352, 434, 15120, 285, 794, 13, 534, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 273, 752, 309, 1353, 2819, 323, 987, 1024, 15, 187, 187, 20, 10, 309, 816, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 2, 12526, 344, 11121, 359, 48792, 858, 2391, 1051, 187, 187, 6693, 1576, 13, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 849, 1199, 1491, 309, 452, 281, 1918, 779, 672, 15571, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 923, 779, 10542, 13, 594, 436, 310, 581, 1953, 309, 452, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 2022, 1953, 310, 28281, 32, 754, 434, 6589, 46651, 2505, 272, 479, 13, 285, 359, 1053, 626, 6947, 667, 673, 5015, 327, 253, 4481, 390, 2712, 13, 594, 352, 1537, 320, 12504, 281, 1067, 15, 1292, 352, 2506, 626, 1646, 3309, 281, 2028, 779, 275, 1436, 390, 2712, 15, 1680, 352, 4336, 19082, 323, 952, 776, 2363, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 281, 2852, 12282, 3066, 2505, 32, 22469, 6789, 310, 247, 2257, 625, 33674, 13, 533, 604, 352, 434, 253, 987, 2181, 281, 513, 13, 309, 588, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1359, 513, 309, 1339, 779, 871, 309, 717, 642, 3356, 6110, 275, 6523, 779, 390, 2970, 3206, 342, 779, 32, 1680, 352, 12504, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 3066, 2505, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

419

386

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 22757, 309, 1353, 13597, 5605, 281, 4035, 13597, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1158, 359, 25363, 285, 309, 1353, 1024, 6523, 3095, 2010, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2028, 779, 309, 1353, 642, 3356, 6110, 1293, 1146, 12504, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1359, 513, 309, 1339, 779, 871, 309, 717, 642, 3356, 6110, 275, 6523, 779, 390, 2970, 3206, 342, 779, 32, 1680, 352, 12504, 281, 1333, 346, 2369, 6701, 3, 3066, 2505, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Basically my boyfriend (26M) and I (29f) have been living together for five months. We moved out of state together for a great job, but two months after that, he got laid off. So we moved back home. We spent the first few nights together as normal, but it's at my sisters house. Tonight he came into my sisters house, packed his things and left. He didn't say anything to me at all. We haven't been fighting, rarely do, and nothing unusual has gone on. Besides the obvious. I've been giving him his space since we've been back, letting him hang out with his friends and spending alot of time applying for jobs online. I just need a guys perspective, should I keep giving him his space and not call our text him? Should I be worried about what happened tonight? All I know is that he is going to be staying with his parents. I talk to his mom on a daily basis. I love this man alot and don't want to do the wrong things. I want to be there for him during this time, but don't want to push him away.

boyfriend left after he got laid off, need advice on how to handle situation. Did not break up.

boyfriend moved back home, I'm afraid that he may have an affair.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 619, 22273, 313, 1731, 46, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1717, 71, 10, 452, 644, 3811, 2366, 323, 2620, 2607, 15, 844, 4395, 562, 273, 1375, 2366, 323, 247, 1270, 2628, 13, 533, 767, 2607, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 15, 1893, 359, 4395, 896, 1728, 15, 844, 5262, 253, 806, 1643, 15513, 2366, 347, 2622, 13, 533, 352, 434, 387, 619, 18903, 2419, 15, 2490, 187, 36601, 429, 344, 2210, 715, 619, 18903, 2419, 13, 14998, 521, 1841, 285, 1669, 15, 754, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 281, 479, 387, 512, 15, 844, 6468, 626, 644, 8615, 13, 11766, 513, 13, 285, 2717, 11555, 556, 4783, 327, 15, 15222, 253, 4755, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 1580, 359, 1849, 644, 896, 13, 13872, 779, 10913, 562, 342, 521, 3858, 285, 9100, 47899, 273, 673, 9433, 323, 7375, 3909, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 816, 878, 247, 6068, 8668, 13, 943, 309, 1978, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 285, 417, 1067, 776, 2505, 779, 32, 14482, 309, 320, 11926, 670, 752, 4592, 11608, 32, 1876, 309, 871, 310, 326, 344, 310, 1469, 281, 320, 14596, 342, 521, 4651, 15, 309, 2312, 281, 521, 2243, 327, 247, 5312, 3720, 15, 309, 2389, 436, 637, 47899, 285, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 513, 253, 3430, 1841, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 627, 323, 779, 1309, 436, 673, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7450, 779, 1977, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically my boyfriend (26M) and I (29f) have been living together for five months. We moved out of state together for a great job, but two months after that, he got laid off. So we moved back home. We spent the first few nights together as normal, but it's at my sisters house. Tonight he came into my sisters house, packed his things and left. He didn't say anything to me at all. We haven't been fighting, rarely do, and nothing unusual has gone on. Besides the obvious. I've been giving him his space since we've been back, letting him hang out with his friends and spending alot of time applying for jobs online. I just need a guys perspective, should I keep giving him his space and not call our text him? Should I be worried about what happened tonight? All I know is that he is going to be staying with his parents. I talk to his mom on a daily basis. I love this man alot and don't want to do the wrong things. I want to be there for him during this time, but don't want to push him away. TL;DR:

boyfriend left after he got laid off, need advice on how to handle situation. Did not break up.<|endoftext|>

[ 22273, 1669, 846, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 6016, 4112, 15, 10348, 417, 2740, 598, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

boyfriend moved back home, I'm afraid that he may have an affair.<|endoftext|>

[ 22273, 4395, 896, 1728, 13, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 778, 452, 271, 18830, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically my boyfriend (26M) and I (29f) have been living together for five months. We moved out of state together for a great job, but two months after that, he got laid off. So we moved back home. We spent the first few nights together as normal, but it's at my sisters house. Tonight he came into my sisters house, packed his things and left. He didn't say anything to me at all. We haven't been fighting, rarely do, and nothing unusual has gone on. Besides the obvious. I've been giving him his space since we've been back, letting him hang out with his friends and spending alot of time applying for jobs online. I just need a guys perspective, should I keep giving him his space and not call our text him? Should I be worried about what happened tonight? All I know is that he is going to be staying with his parents. I talk to his mom on a daily basis. I love this man alot and don't want to do the wrong things. I want to be there for him during this time, but don't want to push him away. TL;DR: boyfriend left after he got laid off, need advice on how to handle situation. Did not break up.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 619, 22273, 313, 1731, 46, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1717, 71, 10, 452, 644, 3811, 2366, 323, 2620, 2607, 15, 844, 4395, 562, 273, 1375, 2366, 323, 247, 1270, 2628, 13, 533, 767, 2607, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 15, 1893, 359, 4395, 896, 1728, 15, 844, 5262, 253, 806, 1643, 15513, 2366, 347, 2622, 13, 533, 352, 434, 387, 619, 18903, 2419, 15, 2490, 187, 36601, 429, 344, 2210, 715, 619, 18903, 2419, 13, 14998, 521, 1841, 285, 1669, 15, 754, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 281, 479, 387, 512, 15, 844, 6468, 626, 644, 8615, 13, 11766, 513, 13, 285, 2717, 11555, 556, 4783, 327, 15, 15222, 253, 4755, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 1580, 359, 1849, 644, 896, 13, 13872, 779, 10913, 562, 342, 521, 3858, 285, 9100, 47899, 273, 673, 9433, 323, 7375, 3909, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 816, 878, 247, 6068, 8668, 13, 943, 309, 1978, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 285, 417, 1067, 776, 2505, 779, 32, 14482, 309, 320, 11926, 670, 752, 4592, 11608, 32, 1876, 309, 871, 310, 326, 344, 310, 1469, 281, 320, 14596, 342, 521, 4651, 15, 309, 2312, 281, 521, 2243, 327, 247, 5312, 3720, 15, 309, 2389, 436, 637, 47899, 285, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 513, 253, 3430, 1841, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 627, 323, 779, 1309, 436, 673, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7450, 779, 1977, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 22273, 1669, 846, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 6016, 4112, 15, 10348, 417, 2740, 598, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

283

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Basically my boyfriend (26M) and I (29f) have been living together for five months. We moved out of state together for a great job, but two months after that, he got laid off. So we moved back home. We spent the first few nights together as normal, but it's at my sisters house. Tonight he came into my sisters house, packed his things and left. He didn't say anything to me at all. We haven't been fighting, rarely do, and nothing unusual has gone on. Besides the obvious. I've been giving him his space since we've been back, letting him hang out with his friends and spending alot of time applying for jobs online. I just need a guys perspective, should I keep giving him his space and not call our text him? Should I be worried about what happened tonight? All I know is that he is going to be staying with his parents. I talk to his mom on a daily basis. I love this man alot and don't want to do the wrong things. I want to be there for him during this time, but don't want to push him away. TL;DR: boyfriend moved back home, I'm afraid that he may have an affair.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 32415, 619, 22273, 313, 1731, 46, 10, 285, 309, 313, 1717, 71, 10, 452, 644, 3811, 2366, 323, 2620, 2607, 15, 844, 4395, 562, 273, 1375, 2366, 323, 247, 1270, 2628, 13, 533, 767, 2607, 846, 326, 13, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 15, 1893, 359, 4395, 896, 1728, 15, 844, 5262, 253, 806, 1643, 15513, 2366, 347, 2622, 13, 533, 352, 434, 387, 619, 18903, 2419, 15, 2490, 187, 36601, 429, 344, 2210, 715, 619, 18903, 2419, 13, 14998, 521, 1841, 285, 1669, 15, 754, 1904, 626, 1333, 2712, 281, 479, 387, 512, 15, 844, 6468, 626, 644, 8615, 13, 11766, 513, 13, 285, 2717, 11555, 556, 4783, 327, 15, 15222, 253, 4755, 15, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 1580, 359, 1849, 644, 896, 13, 13872, 779, 10913, 562, 342, 521, 3858, 285, 9100, 47899, 273, 673, 9433, 323, 7375, 3909, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 816, 878, 247, 6068, 8668, 13, 943, 309, 1978, 4933, 779, 521, 2317, 285, 417, 1067, 776, 2505, 779, 32, 14482, 309, 320, 11926, 670, 752, 4592, 11608, 32, 1876, 309, 871, 310, 326, 344, 310, 1469, 281, 320, 14596, 342, 521, 4651, 15, 309, 2312, 281, 521, 2243, 327, 247, 5312, 3720, 15, 309, 2389, 436, 637, 47899, 285, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 513, 253, 3430, 1841, 15, 309, 971, 281, 320, 627, 323, 779, 1309, 436, 673, 13, 533, 1053, 626, 971, 281, 7450, 779, 1977, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 22273, 4395, 896, 1728, 13, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 778, 452, 271, 18830, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

277

261

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 22273, 1669, 846, 344, 1694, 10090, 745, 13, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 6016, 4112, 15, 10348, 417, 2740, 598, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 22273, 4395, 896, 1728, 13, 309, 1353, 9202, 326, 344, 778, 452, 271, 18830, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating. .___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable?

I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?

boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3965, 29281, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 32721, 672, 1841, 403, 689, 15, 309, 755, 253, 5471, 326, 619, 22273, 273, 247, 1643, 2607, 556, 644, 2820, 281, 7450, 479, 281, 990, 1841, 342, 779, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 253, 15254, 281, 2028, 479, 344, 434, 816, 417, 326, 715, 479, 15, 1198, 253, 954, 629, 309, 1663, 751, 779, 13, 533, 344, 816, 11359, 15950, 3971, 8336, 387, 479, 285, 672, 309, 3324, 731, 598, 309, 755, 690, 5739, 346, 2369, 6858, 13, 368, 1849, 1694, 352, 512, 3430, 1476, 2380, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 24881, 344, 434, 644, 14707, 346, 5641, 36673, 344, 434, 253, 581, 2403, 5827, 281, 513, 5017, 342, 479, 13, 8534, 9049, 281, 513, 1841, 342, 479, 604, 309, 1642, 779, 604, 344, 5605, 281, 513, 1633, 13, 277, 31054, 562, 327, 479, 13, 30555, 479, 13, 7746, 479, 344, 38771, 479, 13, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 3794, 281, 779, 344, 6993, 751, 344, 434, 6237, 406, 839, 15, 964, 876, 4414, 28, 309, 816, 971, 779, 281, 2740, 352, 745, 604, 344, 38232, 479, 13, 2581, 685, 13383, 352, 327, 281, 479, 672, 309, 1335, 751, 779, 285, 309, 651, 751, 281, 6947, 673, 342, 779, 604, 344, 651, 671, 751, 281, 15, 1292, 1014, 2167, 309, 3553, 247, 4618, 5909, 323, 779, 281, 2028, 479, 604, 1633, 434, 598, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 15, 754, 760, 3461, 684, 521, 3374, 604, 344, 11121, 344, 434, 275, 7596, 285, 344, 476, 897, 731, 347, 247, 12907, 1959, 3120, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 688, 619, 1481, 309, 1158, 346, 11175, 309, 1353, 816, 3731, 6881, 3390, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 1475, 479, 285, 1633, 2010, 310, 598, 13, 594, 309, 943, 1918, 779, 1529, 4839, 13, 285, 1529, 13, 816, 594, 1048, 347, 344, 2296, 344, 5605, 352, 281, 789, 449, 17814, 556, 616, 3374, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 320, 4685, 13, 285, 309, 1871, 2581, 417, 4710, 1977, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 309, 751, 604, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 476, 320, 4229, 1051, 1292, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1089, 562, 604, 436, 310, 1014, 37732, 17254, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR:

I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 270, 71, 556, 3374, 342, 479, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 816, 1146, 10412, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.<|endoftext|>

[ 22273, 5605, 2317, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1067, 352, 572, 953, 13, 344, 1912, 626, 1339, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR: I'm not sure if my bf has issues with me or if I'm just being crazy. What should I do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3965, 29281, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 32721, 672, 1841, 403, 689, 15, 309, 755, 253, 5471, 326, 619, 22273, 273, 247, 1643, 2607, 556, 644, 2820, 281, 7450, 479, 281, 990, 1841, 342, 779, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 253, 15254, 281, 2028, 479, 344, 434, 816, 417, 326, 715, 479, 15, 1198, 253, 954, 629, 309, 1663, 751, 779, 13, 533, 344, 816, 11359, 15950, 3971, 8336, 387, 479, 285, 672, 309, 3324, 731, 598, 309, 755, 690, 5739, 346, 2369, 6858, 13, 368, 1849, 1694, 352, 512, 3430, 1476, 2380, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 24881, 344, 434, 644, 14707, 346, 5641, 36673, 344, 434, 253, 581, 2403, 5827, 281, 513, 5017, 342, 479, 13, 8534, 9049, 281, 513, 1841, 342, 479, 604, 309, 1642, 779, 604, 344, 5605, 281, 513, 1633, 13, 277, 31054, 562, 327, 479, 13, 30555, 479, 13, 7746, 479, 344, 38771, 479, 13, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 3794, 281, 779, 344, 6993, 751, 344, 434, 6237, 406, 839, 537, 876, 4414, 28, 309, 816, 971, 779, 281, 2740, 352, 745, 604, 344, 38232, 479, 13, 2581, 685, 13383, 352, 327, 281, 479, 672, 309, 1335, 751, 779, 285, 309, 651, 751, 281, 6947, 673, 342, 779, 604, 344, 651, 671, 751, 281, 15, 1292, 1014, 2167, 309, 3553, 247, 4618, 5909, 323, 779, 281, 2028, 479, 604, 1633, 434, 598, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 15, 754, 760, 3461, 684, 521, 3374, 604, 344, 11121, 344, 434, 275, 7596, 285, 344, 476, 897, 731, 347, 247, 12907, 1959, 3120, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 688, 619, 1481, 309, 1158, 346, 11175, 309, 1353, 816, 3731, 6881, 3390, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 1475, 479, 285, 1633, 2010, 310, 598, 13, 594, 309, 943, 1918, 779, 1529, 4839, 13, 285, 1529, 13, 816, 594, 1048, 347, 344, 2296, 344, 5605, 352, 281, 789, 449, 17814, 556, 616, 3374, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 320, 4685, 13, 285, 309, 1871, 2581, 417, 4710, 1977, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 309, 751, 604, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 476, 320, 4229, 1051, 1292, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1089, 562, 604, 436, 310, 1014, 37732, 17254, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 270, 71, 556, 3374, 342, 479, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 816, 1146, 10412, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

409

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'm pretty hopeless when it comes to judging when things are over. I get the feeling that my boyfriend of a few months has been trying to push me to end things with him because he doesn't have the balls to tell me he's just not that into me. For the most part I really like him, but he just keeps throwing road blocks at me and when I bring them up I get some stock "no baby, you've got it all wrong!" response. Recently he's been wanting "space"... he's the one making plans to do stuff with me, acting excited to do things with me if I ask him if he wants to do something, ditching out on me, contacting me, telling me he misses me, and as soon as I respond to him he acts like he's suffocating..___.; I just want him to break it off if he hates me, rather than pushing it on to me when I still like him and I would like to spend time with him if he would also like to. But even though I leave a wide opening for him to tell me if something's up, he doesn't. He only communicates his issues if he thinks he's in trouble and he can use them as a jail free card. In my head I think "Maybe I'm just misjudging that he doesn't want to be around me and something else is up, so I should give him another chance, and another, just so long as he says he wants it to work." Everyone has their issues and I try to be understanding, and I'd rather not throw away a relationship with someone I like if there's something that can be fixed... But what can I do to find out if this is even resolvable? TL;DR: boyfriend wants space, I want to call it quits, he won't let me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1353, 3965, 29281, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 32721, 672, 1841, 403, 689, 15, 309, 755, 253, 5471, 326, 619, 22273, 273, 247, 1643, 2607, 556, 644, 2820, 281, 7450, 479, 281, 990, 1841, 342, 779, 984, 344, 2506, 626, 452, 253, 15254, 281, 2028, 479, 344, 434, 816, 417, 326, 715, 479, 15, 1198, 253, 954, 629, 309, 1663, 751, 779, 13, 533, 344, 816, 11359, 15950, 3971, 8336, 387, 479, 285, 672, 309, 3324, 731, 598, 309, 755, 690, 5739, 346, 2369, 6858, 13, 368, 1849, 1694, 352, 512, 3430, 1476, 2380, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 24881, 344, 434, 644, 14707, 346, 5641, 36673, 344, 434, 253, 581, 2403, 5827, 281, 513, 5017, 342, 479, 13, 8534, 9049, 281, 513, 1841, 342, 479, 604, 309, 1642, 779, 604, 344, 5605, 281, 513, 1633, 13, 277, 31054, 562, 327, 479, 13, 30555, 479, 13, 7746, 479, 344, 38771, 479, 13, 285, 347, 3517, 347, 309, 3794, 281, 779, 344, 6993, 751, 344, 434, 6237, 406, 839, 537, 876, 4414, 28, 309, 816, 971, 779, 281, 2740, 352, 745, 604, 344, 38232, 479, 13, 2581, 685, 13383, 352, 327, 281, 479, 672, 309, 1335, 751, 779, 285, 309, 651, 751, 281, 6947, 673, 342, 779, 604, 344, 651, 671, 751, 281, 15, 1292, 1014, 2167, 309, 3553, 247, 4618, 5909, 323, 779, 281, 2028, 479, 604, 1633, 434, 598, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 15, 754, 760, 3461, 684, 521, 3374, 604, 344, 11121, 344, 434, 275, 7596, 285, 344, 476, 897, 731, 347, 247, 12907, 1959, 3120, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 688, 619, 1481, 309, 1158, 346, 11175, 309, 1353, 816, 3731, 6881, 3390, 326, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 281, 320, 1475, 479, 285, 1633, 2010, 310, 598, 13, 594, 309, 943, 1918, 779, 1529, 4839, 13, 285, 1529, 13, 816, 594, 1048, 347, 344, 2296, 344, 5605, 352, 281, 789, 449, 17814, 556, 616, 3374, 285, 309, 1611, 281, 320, 4685, 13, 285, 309, 1871, 2581, 417, 4710, 1977, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 309, 751, 604, 627, 434, 1633, 326, 476, 320, 4229, 1051, 1292, 752, 476, 309, 513, 281, 1089, 562, 604, 436, 310, 1014, 37732, 17254, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 22273, 5605, 2317, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1067, 352, 572, 953, 13, 344, 1912, 626, 1339, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

402

383

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1353, 417, 2119, 604, 619, 270, 71, 556, 3374, 342, 479, 390, 604, 309, 1353, 816, 1146, 10412, 15, 1737, 943, 309, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 5605, 2317, 13, 309, 971, 281, 1067, 352, 572, 953, 13, 344, 1912, 626, 1339, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I've recently started working in the computer and tech sales department of a large chain store. Our store also does warranty repairs, and computer setup packages. Yesterday I was getting trained on how to sell the setup package. Tell people what it offers and all that. One of the points we're supposed to tell customers is how we will take all that demo crap and bloatware off the machine and "optimize the OS" so the computer runs faster. I'm supposed to show the customer the number of processes running and tell them that we'll pare that down to only what they need. That all makes sense to me. However, if a customer says "I know how to do all that myself, I don't need your setup package," I am then supposed to inform them that some of the extra processes "Are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by re-installing Windows with a new license. Do you really want to purchase another Windows license for a minimum of $125?" This sounds like utter bullshit to me. In all my years as a nerd and working in computer sales, I have never heard of anything like this. Is there any speck of truth in this? Is there something that my boss could have misinterpreted and stretched into this? He seems like such a nice guy that I have a hard time believing that he'd make shit like this up just to make more sales. We're not even commissioned. However, this guy also told me with a genuine, straightfaced honesty that we only sell the $25 gold plated USB printer cables because they are a higher quality product that allows the printer to print faster and print images of higher quality. It could be possible that he has been brainwashed / is an idiot.

I'm being trained on how to sell setup packages that is supposed to be sold as a "preventative maintenance." However, if someone claims to know how to do it themselves, I'm supposed to tell them that they can't because some processes are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by reinstalling Windows.

My boss is forcing us to sell setup packages and taking all the extra processes off the server just to get more sales.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 4102, 3053, 2444, 275, 253, 4382, 285, 13817, 6224, 7811, 273, 247, 1781, 5931, 4657, 15, 3824, 4657, 671, 1057, 17529, 25931, 13, 285, 4382, 9978, 12149, 15, 6279, 9721, 309, 369, 2970, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 253, 9978, 5522, 15, 19906, 952, 752, 352, 6131, 285, 512, 326, 15, 2596, 273, 253, 2792, 359, 1472, 6326, 281, 2028, 6383, 310, 849, 359, 588, 1379, 512, 326, 22020, 23550, 285, 787, 4875, 1935, 745, 253, 5145, 285, 346, 32581, 907, 253, 9485, 3, 594, 253, 4382, 6613, 7938, 15, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 921, 253, 7731, 253, 1180, 273, 4870, 3515, 285, 2028, 731, 326, 359, 1833, 22865, 326, 1066, 281, 760, 752, 597, 878, 15, 2064, 512, 2789, 3282, 281, 479, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 604, 247, 7731, 2296, 346, 42, 871, 849, 281, 513, 512, 326, 4266, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 878, 634, 9978, 5522, 937, 309, 717, 840, 6326, 281, 4151, 731, 326, 690, 273, 253, 4465, 4870, 346, 6723, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 294, 14, 6839, 11822, 7464, 342, 247, 747, 7981, 15, 3166, 368, 1663, 971, 281, 7471, 1529, 7464, 7981, 323, 247, 5927, 273, 370, 9312, 865, 187, 187, 1552, 7835, 751, 13894, 35281, 281, 479, 15, 496, 512, 619, 1107, 347, 247, 295, 15182, 285, 2444, 275, 4382, 6224, 13, 309, 452, 1620, 3735, 273, 2712, 751, 436, 15, 1680, 627, 667, 46067, 273, 5083, 275, 436, 32, 1680, 627, 1633, 326, 619, 12145, 812, 452, 3731, 22416, 264, 285, 20061, 715, 436, 32, 754, 3133, 751, 824, 247, 5322, 5599, 326, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 22142, 326, 344, 1871, 1056, 10739, 751, 436, 598, 816, 281, 1056, 625, 6224, 15, 844, 1472, 417, 1014, 26237, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 436, 5599, 671, 2183, 479, 342, 247, 13241, 13, 4951, 28619, 33773, 326, 359, 760, 5580, 253, 370, 1099, 5328, 35610, 14914, 19736, 24686, 984, 597, 403, 247, 2169, 3290, 1885, 326, 4483, 253, 19736, 281, 3379, 7938, 285, 3379, 3888, 273, 2169, 3290, 15, 733, 812, 320, 1896, 326, 344, 556, 644, 3998, 47690, 1227, 310, 271, 28006, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've recently started working in the computer and tech sales department of a large chain store. Our store also does warranty repairs, and computer setup packages. Yesterday I was getting trained on how to sell the setup package. Tell people what it offers and all that. One of the points we're supposed to tell customers is how we will take all that demo crap and bloatware off the machine and "optimize the OS" so the computer runs faster. I'm supposed to show the customer the number of processes running and tell them that we'll pare that down to only what they need. That all makes sense to me. However, if a customer says "I know how to do all that myself, I don't need your setup package," I am then supposed to inform them that some of the extra processes "Are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by re-installing Windows with a new license. Do you really want to purchase another Windows license for a minimum of $125?" This sounds like utter bullshit to me. In all my years as a nerd and working in computer sales, I have never heard of anything like this. Is there any speck of truth in this? Is there something that my boss could have misinterpreted and stretched into this? He seems like such a nice guy that I have a hard time believing that he'd make shit like this up just to make more sales. We're not even commissioned. However, this guy also told me with a genuine, straightfaced honesty that we only sell the $25 gold plated USB printer cables because they are a higher quality product that allows the printer to print faster and print images of higher quality. It could be possible that he has been brainwashed / is an idiot. TL;DR:

I'm being trained on how to sell setup packages that is supposed to be sold as a "preventative maintenance." However, if someone claims to know how to do it themselves, I'm supposed to tell them that they can't because some processes are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by reinstalling Windows.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 1146, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 326, 310, 6326, 281, 320, 4211, 347, 247, 346, 33898, 800, 9363, 449, 1723, 13, 604, 3095, 3916, 281, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 3746, 13, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 2028, 731, 326, 597, 476, 626, 984, 690, 4870, 403, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 30938, 11822, 7464, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

My boss is forcing us to sell setup packages and taking all the extra processes off the server just to get more sales.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 12145, 310, 17190, 441, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 285, 3192, 512, 253, 4465, 4870, 745, 253, 4771, 816, 281, 755, 625, 6224, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've recently started working in the computer and tech sales department of a large chain store. Our store also does warranty repairs, and computer setup packages. Yesterday I was getting trained on how to sell the setup package. Tell people what it offers and all that. One of the points we're supposed to tell customers is how we will take all that demo crap and bloatware off the machine and "optimize the OS" so the computer runs faster. I'm supposed to show the customer the number of processes running and tell them that we'll pare that down to only what they need. That all makes sense to me. However, if a customer says "I know how to do all that myself, I don't need your setup package," I am then supposed to inform them that some of the extra processes "Are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by re-installing Windows with a new license. Do you really want to purchase another Windows license for a minimum of $125?" This sounds like utter bullshit to me. In all my years as a nerd and working in computer sales, I have never heard of anything like this. Is there any speck of truth in this? Is there something that my boss could have misinterpreted and stretched into this? He seems like such a nice guy that I have a hard time believing that he'd make shit like this up just to make more sales. We're not even commissioned. However, this guy also told me with a genuine, straightfaced honesty that we only sell the $25 gold plated USB printer cables because they are a higher quality product that allows the printer to print faster and print images of higher quality. It could be possible that he has been brainwashed / is an idiot. TL;DR: I'm being trained on how to sell setup packages that is supposed to be sold as a "preventative maintenance." However, if someone claims to know how to do it themselves, I'm supposed to tell them that they can't because some processes are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by reinstalling Windows.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 4102, 3053, 2444, 275, 253, 4382, 285, 13817, 6224, 7811, 273, 247, 1781, 5931, 4657, 15, 3824, 4657, 671, 1057, 17529, 25931, 13, 285, 4382, 9978, 12149, 15, 6279, 9721, 309, 369, 2970, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 253, 9978, 5522, 15, 19906, 952, 752, 352, 6131, 285, 512, 326, 15, 2596, 273, 253, 2792, 359, 1472, 6326, 281, 2028, 6383, 310, 849, 359, 588, 1379, 512, 326, 22020, 23550, 285, 787, 4875, 1935, 745, 253, 5145, 285, 346, 32581, 907, 253, 9485, 3, 594, 253, 4382, 6613, 7938, 15, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 921, 253, 7731, 253, 1180, 273, 4870, 3515, 285, 2028, 731, 326, 359, 1833, 22865, 326, 1066, 281, 760, 752, 597, 878, 15, 2064, 512, 2789, 3282, 281, 479, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 604, 247, 7731, 2296, 346, 42, 871, 849, 281, 513, 512, 326, 4266, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 878, 634, 9978, 5522, 937, 309, 717, 840, 6326, 281, 4151, 731, 326, 690, 273, 253, 4465, 4870, 346, 6723, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 294, 14, 6839, 11822, 7464, 342, 247, 747, 7981, 15, 3166, 368, 1663, 971, 281, 7471, 1529, 7464, 7981, 323, 247, 5927, 273, 370, 9312, 865, 187, 187, 1552, 7835, 751, 13894, 35281, 281, 479, 15, 496, 512, 619, 1107, 347, 247, 295, 15182, 285, 2444, 275, 4382, 6224, 13, 309, 452, 1620, 3735, 273, 2712, 751, 436, 15, 1680, 627, 667, 46067, 273, 5083, 275, 436, 32, 1680, 627, 1633, 326, 619, 12145, 812, 452, 3731, 22416, 264, 285, 20061, 715, 436, 32, 754, 3133, 751, 824, 247, 5322, 5599, 326, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 22142, 326, 344, 1871, 1056, 10739, 751, 436, 598, 816, 281, 1056, 625, 6224, 15, 844, 1472, 417, 1014, 26237, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 436, 5599, 671, 2183, 479, 342, 247, 13241, 13, 4951, 28619, 33773, 326, 359, 760, 5580, 253, 370, 1099, 5328, 35610, 14914, 19736, 24686, 984, 597, 403, 247, 2169, 3290, 1885, 326, 4483, 253, 19736, 281, 3379, 7938, 285, 3379, 3888, 273, 2169, 3290, 15, 733, 812, 320, 1896, 326, 344, 556, 644, 3998, 47690, 1227, 310, 271, 28006, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 1146, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 326, 310, 6326, 281, 320, 4211, 347, 247, 346, 33898, 800, 9363, 449, 1723, 13, 604, 3095, 3916, 281, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 3746, 13, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 2028, 731, 326, 597, 476, 626, 984, 690, 4870, 403, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 30938, 11822, 7464, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

449

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've recently started working in the computer and tech sales department of a large chain store. Our store also does warranty repairs, and computer setup packages. Yesterday I was getting trained on how to sell the setup package. Tell people what it offers and all that. One of the points we're supposed to tell customers is how we will take all that demo crap and bloatware off the machine and "optimize the OS" so the computer runs faster. I'm supposed to show the customer the number of processes running and tell them that we'll pare that down to only what they need. That all makes sense to me. However, if a customer says "I know how to do all that myself, I don't need your setup package," I am then supposed to inform them that some of the extra processes "Are encrypted onto the hard drive and can only be removed by re-installing Windows with a new license. Do you really want to purchase another Windows license for a minimum of $125?" This sounds like utter bullshit to me. In all my years as a nerd and working in computer sales, I have never heard of anything like this. Is there any speck of truth in this? Is there something that my boss could have misinterpreted and stretched into this? He seems like such a nice guy that I have a hard time believing that he'd make shit like this up just to make more sales. We're not even commissioned. However, this guy also told me with a genuine, straightfaced honesty that we only sell the $25 gold plated USB printer cables because they are a higher quality product that allows the printer to print faster and print images of higher quality. It could be possible that he has been brainwashed / is an idiot. TL;DR: My boss is forcing us to sell setup packages and taking all the extra processes off the server just to get more sales.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 4102, 3053, 2444, 275, 253, 4382, 285, 13817, 6224, 7811, 273, 247, 1781, 5931, 4657, 15, 3824, 4657, 671, 1057, 17529, 25931, 13, 285, 4382, 9978, 12149, 15, 6279, 9721, 309, 369, 2970, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 253, 9978, 5522, 15, 19906, 952, 752, 352, 6131, 285, 512, 326, 15, 2596, 273, 253, 2792, 359, 1472, 6326, 281, 2028, 6383, 310, 849, 359, 588, 1379, 512, 326, 22020, 23550, 285, 787, 4875, 1935, 745, 253, 5145, 285, 346, 32581, 907, 253, 9485, 3, 594, 253, 4382, 6613, 7938, 15, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 921, 253, 7731, 253, 1180, 273, 4870, 3515, 285, 2028, 731, 326, 359, 1833, 22865, 326, 1066, 281, 760, 752, 597, 878, 15, 2064, 512, 2789, 3282, 281, 479, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 604, 247, 7731, 2296, 346, 42, 871, 849, 281, 513, 512, 326, 4266, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 878, 634, 9978, 5522, 937, 309, 717, 840, 6326, 281, 4151, 731, 326, 690, 273, 253, 4465, 4870, 346, 6723, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 294, 14, 6839, 11822, 7464, 342, 247, 747, 7981, 15, 3166, 368, 1663, 971, 281, 7471, 1529, 7464, 7981, 323, 247, 5927, 273, 370, 9312, 865, 187, 187, 1552, 7835, 751, 13894, 35281, 281, 479, 15, 496, 512, 619, 1107, 347, 247, 295, 15182, 285, 2444, 275, 4382, 6224, 13, 309, 452, 1620, 3735, 273, 2712, 751, 436, 15, 1680, 627, 667, 46067, 273, 5083, 275, 436, 32, 1680, 627, 1633, 326, 619, 12145, 812, 452, 3731, 22416, 264, 285, 20061, 715, 436, 32, 754, 3133, 751, 824, 247, 5322, 5599, 326, 309, 452, 247, 1892, 673, 22142, 326, 344, 1871, 1056, 10739, 751, 436, 598, 816, 281, 1056, 625, 6224, 15, 844, 1472, 417, 1014, 26237, 15, 187, 187, 6436, 13, 436, 5599, 671, 2183, 479, 342, 247, 13241, 13, 4951, 28619, 33773, 326, 359, 760, 5580, 253, 370, 1099, 5328, 35610, 14914, 19736, 24686, 984, 597, 403, 247, 2169, 3290, 1885, 326, 4483, 253, 19736, 281, 3379, 7938, 285, 3379, 3888, 273, 2169, 3290, 15, 733, 812, 320, 1896, 326, 344, 556, 644, 3998, 47690, 1227, 310, 271, 28006, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 12145, 310, 17190, 441, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 285, 3192, 512, 253, 4465, 4870, 745, 253, 4771, 816, 281, 755, 625, 6224, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

408

383

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 1146, 10166, 327, 849, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 326, 310, 6326, 281, 320, 4211, 347, 247, 346, 33898, 800, 9363, 449, 1723, 13, 604, 3095, 3916, 281, 871, 849, 281, 513, 352, 3746, 13, 309, 1353, 6326, 281, 2028, 731, 326, 597, 476, 626, 984, 690, 4870, 403, 28454, 4830, 253, 1892, 4446, 285, 476, 760, 320, 5176, 407, 30938, 11822, 7464, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 12145, 310, 17190, 441, 281, 5580, 9978, 12149, 285, 3192, 512, 253, 4465, 4870, 745, 253, 4771, 816, 281, 755, 625, 6224, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year of being together. He claims it was my fault that I made him so mad and refuse to leave his place after he told me to leave. He continually slapped punched pushed and dragged me across the floor. Now all I feel is the pain of him leaving me. I love him so much. I just cant believe the monster that he has become and now he is leaving me. How do I deal with the pain of betrayal Reddit? How do I connivence myself beating me wasnt my fault as he says.

he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year together. How do I cope with the pain of betrayal?

my bf of a year left me and said its my fault when he beat the shit out of me. how do I deal with the pain of betrayal

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 273, 1146, 2366, 15, 754, 3916, 352, 369, 619, 9331, 326, 309, 1160, 779, 594, 10279, 285, 16410, 281, 3553, 521, 1659, 846, 344, 2183, 479, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 23265, 41352, 39214, 10184, 285, 22944, 479, 2439, 253, 5254, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 512, 309, 1928, 310, 253, 3075, 273, 779, 6108, 479, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 594, 1199, 15, 309, 816, 16216, 2868, 253, 19827, 326, 344, 556, 2489, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 6108, 479, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 39714, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 30606, 400, 566, 4266, 18019, 479, 369, 2649, 619, 9331, 347, 344, 2296, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year of being together. He claims it was my fault that I made him so mad and refuse to leave his place after he told me to leave. He continually slapped punched pushed and dragged me across the floor. Now all I feel is the pain of him leaving me. I love him so much. I just cant believe the monster that he has become and now he is leaving me. How do I deal with the pain of betrayal Reddit? How do I connivence myself beating me wasnt my fault as he says. TL;DR:

he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year together. How do I cope with the pain of betrayal?<|endoftext|>

[ 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 2366, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 23808, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

my bf of a year left me and said its my fault when he beat the shit out of me. how do I deal with the pain of betrayal<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 270, 71, 273, 247, 807, 1669, 479, 285, 753, 697, 619, 9331, 672, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 15, 849, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year of being together. He claims it was my fault that I made him so mad and refuse to leave his place after he told me to leave. He continually slapped punched pushed and dragged me across the floor. Now all I feel is the pain of him leaving me. I love him so much. I just cant believe the monster that he has become and now he is leaving me. How do I deal with the pain of betrayal Reddit? How do I connivence myself beating me wasnt my fault as he says. TL;DR: he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year together. How do I cope with the pain of betrayal?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 273, 1146, 2366, 15, 754, 3916, 352, 369, 619, 9331, 326, 309, 1160, 779, 594, 10279, 285, 16410, 281, 3553, 521, 1659, 846, 344, 2183, 479, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 23265, 41352, 39214, 10184, 285, 22944, 479, 2439, 253, 5254, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 512, 309, 1928, 310, 253, 3075, 273, 779, 6108, 479, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 594, 1199, 15, 309, 816, 16216, 2868, 253, 19827, 326, 344, 556, 2489, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 6108, 479, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 39714, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 30606, 400, 566, 4266, 18019, 479, 369, 2649, 619, 9331, 347, 344, 2296, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 2366, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 23808, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

184

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: he beat the shit out of me and now he says he doesn't want me anymore after a year of being together. He claims it was my fault that I made him so mad and refuse to leave his place after he told me to leave. He continually slapped punched pushed and dragged me across the floor. Now all I feel is the pain of him leaving me. I love him so much. I just cant believe the monster that he has become and now he is leaving me. How do I deal with the pain of betrayal Reddit? How do I connivence myself beating me wasnt my fault as he says. TL;DR: my bf of a year left me and said its my fault when he beat the shit out of me. how do I deal with the pain of betrayal<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 273, 1146, 2366, 15, 754, 3916, 352, 369, 619, 9331, 326, 309, 1160, 779, 594, 10279, 285, 16410, 281, 3553, 521, 1659, 846, 344, 2183, 479, 281, 3553, 15, 187, 187, 1328, 23265, 41352, 39214, 10184, 285, 22944, 479, 2439, 253, 5254, 15, 187, 187, 4125, 512, 309, 1928, 310, 253, 3075, 273, 779, 6108, 479, 15, 309, 2389, 779, 594, 1199, 15, 309, 816, 16216, 2868, 253, 19827, 326, 344, 556, 2489, 285, 1024, 344, 310, 6108, 479, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 39714, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 30606, 400, 566, 4266, 18019, 479, 369, 2649, 619, 9331, 347, 344, 2296, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 270, 71, 273, 247, 807, 1669, 479, 285, 753, 697, 619, 9331, 672, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 15, 849, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

183

151

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 285, 1024, 344, 2296, 344, 2506, 626, 971, 479, 10542, 846, 247, 807, 2366, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 23808, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 270, 71, 273, 247, 807, 1669, 479, 285, 753, 697, 619, 9331, 672, 344, 7171, 253, 10739, 562, 273, 479, 15, 849, 513, 309, 2968, 342, 253, 3075, 273, 46337, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking.

I love a guy I've known for 3 years but he has a girlfriend who lives in another country. Should I tell him? How do I go about it?

I'm in love with a friend and he has a girlfriend in another country. I don't know what to do.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1849, 644, 3858, 342, 32319, 706, 323, 2810, 281, 495, 1107, 1024, 285, 2455, 1580, 359, 1313, 359, 452, 644, 275, 16806, 494, 15, 9859, 807, 13, 309, 4720, 12103, 253, 15838, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 7636, 779, 13, 285, 594, 309, 2197, 247, 4857, 3981, 326, 15, 733, 1904, 626, 2647, 604, 10450, 497, 33704, 456, 533, 309, 3078, 779, 281, 871, 326, 15, 1583, 10345, 626, 285, 309, 1119, 562, 344, 369, 816, 2970, 715, 247, 2954, 342, 247, 5639, 6431, 5974, 326, 574, 4783, 281, 521, 1029, 2143, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 11766, 3249, 896, 281, 253, 1982, 281, 4143, 432, 253, 5284, 2586, 275, 534, 703, 4852, 285, 597, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 32319, 706, 285, 309, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 3874, 323, 253, 5768, 285, 344, 434, 2668, 479, 327, 2709, 3522, 751, 4712, 27, 11321, 13, 8955, 13, 41885, 1170, 13, 3966, 15, 285, 1046, 673, 344, 310, 892, 6111, 15, 2490, 187, 6067, 3858, 512, 16391, 326, 359, 403, 13597, 285, 275, 253, 2852, 359, 588, 755, 7028, 672, 359, 8968, 359, 403, 5486, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 359, 1132, 352, 745, 1580, 344, 434, 275, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 2010, 15, 1723, 436, 305, 71, 556, 642, 30388, 273, 14707, 281, 564, 281, 6831, 390, 3153, 275, 253, 1982, 387, 667, 1127, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 275, 752, 309, 943, 513, 390, 1333, 281, 779, 15, 309, 1335, 2389, 779, 285, 1900, 588, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1871, 513, 604, 359, 2455, 816, 6331, 5015, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking. TL;DR:

I love a guy I've known for 3 years but he has a girlfriend who lives in another country. Should I tell him? How do I go about it?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 2389, 247, 5599, 309, 1849, 1929, 323, 495, 1107, 533, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 665, 4852, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 14482, 309, 2028, 779, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 564, 670, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I'm in love with a friend and he has a girlfriend in another country. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 275, 2389, 342, 247, 3331, 285, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking. TL;DR: I love a guy I've known for 3 years but he has a girlfriend who lives in another country. Should I tell him? How do I go about it?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1849, 644, 3858, 342, 32319, 706, 323, 2810, 281, 495, 1107, 1024, 285, 2455, 1580, 359, 1313, 359, 452, 644, 275, 16806, 494, 15, 9859, 807, 13, 309, 4720, 12103, 253, 15838, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 7636, 779, 13, 285, 594, 309, 2197, 247, 4857, 3981, 326, 15, 733, 1904, 626, 2647, 604, 10450, 497, 33704, 456, 533, 309, 3078, 779, 281, 871, 326, 15, 1583, 10345, 626, 285, 309, 1119, 562, 344, 369, 816, 2970, 715, 247, 2954, 342, 247, 5639, 6431, 5974, 326, 574, 4783, 281, 521, 1029, 2143, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 11766, 3249, 896, 281, 253, 1982, 281, 4143, 432, 253, 5284, 2586, 275, 534, 703, 4852, 285, 597, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 32319, 706, 285, 309, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 3874, 323, 253, 5768, 285, 344, 434, 2668, 479, 327, 2709, 3522, 751, 4712, 27, 11321, 13, 8955, 13, 41885, 1170, 13, 3966, 15, 285, 1046, 673, 344, 310, 892, 6111, 15, 2490, 187, 6067, 3858, 512, 16391, 326, 359, 403, 13597, 285, 275, 253, 2852, 359, 588, 755, 7028, 672, 359, 8968, 359, 403, 5486, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 359, 1132, 352, 745, 1580, 344, 434, 275, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 2010, 15, 1723, 436, 305, 71, 556, 642, 30388, 273, 14707, 281, 564, 281, 6831, 390, 3153, 275, 253, 1982, 387, 667, 1127, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 275, 752, 309, 943, 513, 390, 1333, 281, 779, 15, 309, 1335, 2389, 779, 285, 1900, 588, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1871, 513, 604, 359, 2455, 816, 6331, 5015, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 2389, 247, 5599, 309, 1849, 1929, 323, 495, 1107, 533, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 665, 4852, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 14482, 309, 2028, 779, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 564, 670, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

322

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: So I've been friends with Jakob for close to 3 years now and ever since we met we have been inseparable. Last year, I finally gained the courage to tell him that I loved him, and so I sent a letter saying that. It didn't matter if feelings were reciprocated but I wanted him to know that. They weren't and I found out he was just getting into a relationship with a foreign exchange student that had gone to his high school. She rarely comes back to the US to visit from the European country in which she lives and they've been together for about a year now. Jakob and I live in the same town for the summer and he's taken me on multiple date like activities: movies, dinner, kayaking, etc. and every time he is flirty. Our friends all joke that we are dating and in the future we will get married when we realize we are meant for each other and we play it off since he's in a relationship with someone else. However this gf has no inclination of wanting to go to college or live in the US at any point. I need advice in what I should do or say to him. I still love him and always will and I don't know what I'd do if we ever just stopped talking. TL;DR: I'm in love with a friend and he has a girlfriend in another country. I don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 1893, 309, 1849, 644, 3858, 342, 32319, 706, 323, 2810, 281, 495, 1107, 1024, 285, 2455, 1580, 359, 1313, 359, 452, 644, 275, 16806, 494, 15, 9859, 807, 13, 309, 4720, 12103, 253, 15838, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 309, 7636, 779, 13, 285, 594, 309, 2197, 247, 4857, 3981, 326, 15, 733, 1904, 626, 2647, 604, 10450, 497, 33704, 456, 533, 309, 3078, 779, 281, 871, 326, 15, 1583, 10345, 626, 285, 309, 1119, 562, 344, 369, 816, 2970, 715, 247, 2954, 342, 247, 5639, 6431, 5974, 326, 574, 4783, 281, 521, 1029, 2143, 15, 2490, 187, 2993, 11766, 3249, 896, 281, 253, 1982, 281, 4143, 432, 253, 5284, 2586, 275, 534, 703, 4852, 285, 597, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 670, 247, 807, 1024, 15, 32319, 706, 285, 309, 3153, 275, 253, 1072, 3874, 323, 253, 5768, 285, 344, 434, 2668, 479, 327, 2709, 3522, 751, 4712, 27, 11321, 13, 8955, 13, 41885, 1170, 13, 3966, 15, 285, 1046, 673, 344, 310, 892, 6111, 15, 2490, 187, 6067, 3858, 512, 16391, 326, 359, 403, 13597, 285, 275, 253, 2852, 359, 588, 755, 7028, 672, 359, 8968, 359, 403, 5486, 323, 1016, 643, 285, 359, 1132, 352, 745, 1580, 344, 434, 275, 247, 2954, 342, 3095, 2010, 15, 1723, 436, 305, 71, 556, 642, 30388, 273, 14707, 281, 564, 281, 6831, 390, 3153, 275, 253, 1982, 387, 667, 1127, 15, 309, 878, 7535, 275, 752, 309, 943, 513, 390, 1333, 281, 779, 15, 309, 1335, 2389, 779, 285, 1900, 588, 285, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 309, 1871, 513, 604, 359, 2455, 816, 6331, 5015, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 275, 2389, 342, 247, 3331, 285, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

313

288

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 2389, 247, 5599, 309, 1849, 1929, 323, 495, 1107, 533, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 665, 4852, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 14482, 309, 2028, 779, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 564, 670, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 275, 2389, 342, 247, 3331, 285, 344, 556, 247, 19609, 275, 1529, 2586, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My girlfriend and I are spending a week (7 nights) going between Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in August. Looking to spend ~48-72 hrs. in each city. We're both mid-twenties graduate students on a smaller budget. We both enjoy culture, the arts, and great food and beverage. I'm more outdoorsy than she is; she likes nature but in a controlled environment, like a park. We've got our hotels set (centrally located in the heart of each city), and we're taking the train along the coast between our destinations. We've got all the major highlights planned (Capilano suspension bridge in Vancouver, Pike's Market in Seattle, Rose Garden and Powell's books in Portland, etc.) What I'm really looking for is advice from locals and people that have experienced each city on the best ways to see the sights, and the inside scoop on the best things to do/must sees in each city.

Doing Vancouver/Seattle/Portland in 7 nights with my girlfriend. We're mid-twenties fans of culture/food on a budget. I want to see the touristy stuff that's worth seeing while getting a feel for how a local would enjoy the city.

We're going to Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in 7 days. Looking for advice and tips to make the most of the trip.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 285, 309, 403, 9100, 247, 2129, 313, 24, 15513, 10, 1469, 875, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 4223, 15, 50276, 24397, 281, 6947, 5062, 2385, 14, 3547, 39112, 15, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 50276, 1231, 1472, 1097, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 16125, 3484, 327, 247, 4577, 7563, 15, 50276, 1231, 1097, 4264, 4466, 13, 253, 14635, 13, 285, 1270, 2739, 285, 32715, 15, 50276, 42, 1353, 625, 32321, 90, 685, 703, 310, 28, 703, 13052, 3753, 533, 275, 247, 6537, 3126, 13, 751, 247, 5603, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 1849, 1694, 776, 21440, 873, 313, 1154, 83, 595, 4441, 275, 253, 2798, 273, 1016, 2846, 582, 285, 359, 1472, 3192, 253, 6194, 2112, 253, 8852, 875, 776, 31684, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 1694, 512, 253, 2201, 16681, 9355, 313, 15614, 300, 4692, 13394, 9729, 275, 22126, 13, 367, 2804, 434, 15111, 275, 16335, 13, 12447, 18733, 285, 27286, 434, 5098, 275, 20956, 13, 3966, 2698, 50276, 1276, 309, 1353, 1663, 2819, 323, 310, 7535, 432, 25108, 285, 952, 326, 452, 7407, 1016, 2846, 327, 253, 1682, 4088, 281, 923, 253, 29962, 13, 285, 253, 3304, 46324, 327, 253, 1682, 1841, 281, 513, 16, 18265, 11403, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are spending a week (7 nights) going between Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in August. Looking to spend ~48-72 hrs. in each city. We're both mid-twenties graduate students on a smaller budget. We both enjoy culture, the arts, and great food and beverage. I'm more outdoorsy than she is; she likes nature but in a controlled environment, like a park. We've got our hotels set (centrally located in the heart of each city), and we're taking the train along the coast between our destinations. We've got all the major highlights planned (Capilano suspension bridge in Vancouver, Pike's Market in Seattle, Rose Garden and Powell's books in Portland, etc.) What I'm really looking for is advice from locals and people that have experienced each city on the best ways to see the sights, and the inside scoop on the best things to do/must sees in each city. TL;DR:

Doing Vancouver/Seattle/Portland in 7 nights with my girlfriend. We're mid-twenties fans of culture/food on a budget. I want to see the touristy stuff that's worth seeing while getting a feel for how a local would enjoy the city.<|endoftext|>

[ 38733, 22126, 16, 3251, 4046, 16, 11688, 1373, 275, 818, 15513, 342, 619, 19609, 15, 844, 1472, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 7458, 273, 4466, 16, 19480, 327, 247, 7563, 15, 309, 971, 281, 923, 253, 22777, 90, 5017, 326, 434, 4409, 6523, 1223, 2970, 247, 1928, 323, 849, 247, 1980, 651, 4264, 253, 2846, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

We're going to Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in 7 days. Looking for advice and tips to make the most of the trip.<|endoftext|>

[ 844, 1472, 1469, 281, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 818, 1897, 15, 50276, 24397, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 281, 1056, 253, 954, 273, 253, 7408, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are spending a week (7 nights) going between Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in August. Looking to spend ~48-72 hrs. in each city. We're both mid-twenties graduate students on a smaller budget. We both enjoy culture, the arts, and great food and beverage. I'm more outdoorsy than she is; she likes nature but in a controlled environment, like a park. We've got our hotels set (centrally located in the heart of each city), and we're taking the train along the coast between our destinations. We've got all the major highlights planned (Capilano suspension bridge in Vancouver, Pike's Market in Seattle, Rose Garden and Powell's books in Portland, etc.) What I'm really looking for is advice from locals and people that have experienced each city on the best ways to see the sights, and the inside scoop on the best things to do/must sees in each city. TL;DR: Doing Vancouver/Seattle/Portland in 7 nights with my girlfriend. We're mid-twenties fans of culture/food on a budget. I want to see the touristy stuff that's worth seeing while getting a feel for how a local would enjoy the city.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 285, 309, 403, 9100, 247, 2129, 313, 24, 15513, 10, 1469, 875, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 4223, 15, 50276, 24397, 281, 6947, 5062, 2385, 14, 3547, 39112, 15, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 50276, 1231, 1472, 1097, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 16125, 3484, 327, 247, 4577, 7563, 15, 50276, 1231, 1097, 4264, 4466, 13, 253, 14635, 13, 285, 1270, 2739, 285, 32715, 15, 50276, 42, 1353, 625, 32321, 90, 685, 703, 310, 28, 703, 13052, 3753, 533, 275, 247, 6537, 3126, 13, 751, 247, 5603, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 1849, 1694, 776, 21440, 873, 313, 1154, 83, 595, 4441, 275, 253, 2798, 273, 1016, 2846, 582, 285, 359, 1472, 3192, 253, 6194, 2112, 253, 8852, 875, 776, 31684, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 1694, 512, 253, 2201, 16681, 9355, 313, 15614, 300, 4692, 13394, 9729, 275, 22126, 13, 367, 2804, 434, 15111, 275, 16335, 13, 12447, 18733, 285, 27286, 434, 5098, 275, 20956, 13, 3966, 2698, 50276, 1276, 309, 1353, 1663, 2819, 323, 310, 7535, 432, 25108, 285, 952, 326, 452, 7407, 1016, 2846, 327, 253, 1682, 4088, 281, 923, 253, 29962, 13, 285, 253, 3304, 46324, 327, 253, 1682, 1841, 281, 513, 16, 18265, 11403, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 38733, 22126, 16, 3251, 4046, 16, 11688, 1373, 275, 818, 15513, 342, 619, 19609, 15, 844, 1472, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 7458, 273, 4466, 16, 19480, 327, 247, 7563, 15, 309, 971, 281, 923, 253, 22777, 90, 5017, 326, 434, 4409, 6523, 1223, 2970, 247, 1928, 323, 849, 247, 1980, 651, 4264, 253, 2846, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

282

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My girlfriend and I are spending a week (7 nights) going between Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in August. Looking to spend ~48-72 hrs. in each city. We're both mid-twenties graduate students on a smaller budget. We both enjoy culture, the arts, and great food and beverage. I'm more outdoorsy than she is; she likes nature but in a controlled environment, like a park. We've got our hotels set (centrally located in the heart of each city), and we're taking the train along the coast between our destinations. We've got all the major highlights planned (Capilano suspension bridge in Vancouver, Pike's Market in Seattle, Rose Garden and Powell's books in Portland, etc.) What I'm really looking for is advice from locals and people that have experienced each city on the best ways to see the sights, and the inside scoop on the best things to do/must sees in each city. TL;DR: We're going to Vancouver, Seattle, and Portland in 7 days. Looking for advice and tips to make the most of the trip.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 19609, 285, 309, 403, 9100, 247, 2129, 313, 24, 15513, 10, 1469, 875, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 4223, 15, 50276, 24397, 281, 6947, 5062, 2385, 14, 3547, 39112, 15, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 50276, 1231, 1472, 1097, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 16125, 3484, 327, 247, 4577, 7563, 15, 50276, 1231, 1097, 4264, 4466, 13, 253, 14635, 13, 285, 1270, 2739, 285, 32715, 15, 50276, 42, 1353, 625, 32321, 90, 685, 703, 310, 28, 703, 13052, 3753, 533, 275, 247, 6537, 3126, 13, 751, 247, 5603, 15, 2490, 187, 1231, 1849, 1694, 776, 21440, 873, 313, 1154, 83, 595, 4441, 275, 253, 2798, 273, 1016, 2846, 582, 285, 359, 1472, 3192, 253, 6194, 2112, 253, 8852, 875, 776, 31684, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 1694, 512, 253, 2201, 16681, 9355, 313, 15614, 300, 4692, 13394, 9729, 275, 22126, 13, 367, 2804, 434, 15111, 275, 16335, 13, 12447, 18733, 285, 27286, 434, 5098, 275, 20956, 13, 3966, 2698, 50276, 1276, 309, 1353, 1663, 2819, 323, 310, 7535, 432, 25108, 285, 952, 326, 452, 7407, 1016, 2846, 327, 253, 1682, 4088, 281, 923, 253, 29962, 13, 285, 253, 3304, 46324, 327, 253, 1682, 1841, 281, 513, 16, 18265, 11403, 275, 1016, 2846, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 844, 1472, 1469, 281, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 818, 1897, 15, 50276, 24397, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 281, 1056, 253, 954, 273, 253, 7408, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

255

226

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 38733, 22126, 16, 3251, 4046, 16, 11688, 1373, 275, 818, 15513, 342, 619, 19609, 15, 844, 1472, 4260, 14, 7553, 47798, 7458, 273, 4466, 16, 19480, 327, 247, 7563, 15, 309, 971, 281, 923, 253, 22777, 90, 5017, 326, 434, 4409, 6523, 1223, 2970, 247, 1928, 323, 849, 247, 1980, 651, 4264, 253, 2846, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 844, 1472, 1469, 281, 22126, 13, 16335, 13, 285, 20956, 275, 818, 1897, 15, 50276, 24397, 323, 7535, 285, 12192, 281, 1056, 253, 954, 273, 253, 7408, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hey all, Throwaway because I'm a private person. I don't take reddit advice as a guide, but I just need to know if I'm overreacting. I have a history of being a little too jealous and just want some perspective. I'm on exchange from the US in Austria and my girlfriend is also on exchange from the US in Germany. On Tuesday, she went out for drinks with a 20 M friend of hers who I don't like. We've had fights about him before, I consider him shady, I don't like the relationship. Whatever, it's fine they hang out. At 12:30am, she texts me and says shes going home, and then at 1:00am, texts me and says she's at home and going to bed. But when I get home, I see the location tag on her message is from his house. My heart drops and I start to freak out and spend the hour figuring out there's no way he story lines up. We talk first thing the next morning. She lies about it at first and then after an hour comes clean. Says the subway was closed and she was scared to go home so she figured she would just sleep at his place. It's not a good excuse, there are options to get home, she could have taken a cab (hell I would have paid for one to avoid this) or at the very least, not lied about it. They slept in the same bed. She alleges nothing else happened, but I don't really know if I believe her. If nothing happened, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship?

Girlfriend slept at another guy's house and lied to me about it, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship?

I have a history of being jealous and I feel like she lied to me about sleeping at a man's house. Is there any way to salvage it?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 512, 13, 187, 187, 36556, 12594, 984, 309, 1353, 247, 3055, 1436, 15, 50276, 42, 1053, 626, 1379, 28159, 262, 7535, 347, 247, 7102, 13, 533, 309, 816, 878, 281, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 689, 250, 20594, 15, 50276, 42, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 247, 1652, 1512, 23327, 285, 816, 971, 690, 8668, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 21753, 285, 619, 19609, 310, 671, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 6176, 15, 50276, 2374, 7948, 13, 703, 2427, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 247, 1384, 353, 3331, 273, 22502, 665, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 574, 24662, 670, 779, 1078, 13, 309, 1908, 779, 439, 5102, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 253, 2954, 15, 50276, 25713, 13, 352, 434, 4030, 597, 10913, 562, 15, 187, 187, 3404, 1249, 27, 1229, 312, 13, 703, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 84, 1469, 1728, 13, 285, 840, 387, 337, 27, 361, 312, 13, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 434, 387, 1728, 285, 1469, 281, 3722, 15, 50276, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 1728, 13, 309, 923, 253, 4328, 6809, 327, 617, 3935, 310, 432, 521, 2419, 15, 50276, 3220, 2798, 15323, 285, 309, 1265, 281, 37462, 562, 285, 6947, 253, 4964, 36182, 562, 627, 434, 642, 1039, 344, 2926, 3104, 598, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2312, 806, 2181, 253, 1735, 4131, 15, 50276, 2993, 8696, 670, 352, 387, 806, 285, 840, 846, 271, 4964, 3249, 4076, 15, 50276, 52, 698, 253, 37049, 369, 4581, 285, 703, 369, 16060, 281, 564, 1728, 594, 703, 15433, 703, 651, 816, 4600, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 50276, 1147, 434, 417, 247, 1175, 16267, 13, 627, 403, 4610, 281, 755, 1728, 13, 703, 812, 452, 2668, 247, 7674, 313, 14440, 309, 651, 452, 5087, 323, 581, 281, 3693, 436, 10, 390, 387, 253, 1077, 1878, 13, 417, 27786, 670, 352, 15, 50276, 3726, 21567, 275, 253, 1072, 3722, 15, 50276, 2993, 20765, 2717, 2010, 4592, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 604, 309, 2868, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2042, 2717, 4592, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, Throwaway because I'm a private person. I don't take reddit advice as a guide, but I just need to know if I'm overreacting. I have a history of being a little too jealous and just want some perspective. I'm on exchange from the US in Austria and my girlfriend is also on exchange from the US in Germany. On Tuesday, she went out for drinks with a 20 M friend of hers who I don't like. We've had fights about him before, I consider him shady, I don't like the relationship. Whatever, it's fine they hang out. At 12:30am, she texts me and says shes going home, and then at 1:00am, texts me and says she's at home and going to bed. But when I get home, I see the location tag on her message is from his house. My heart drops and I start to freak out and spend the hour figuring out there's no way he story lines up. We talk first thing the next morning. She lies about it at first and then after an hour comes clean. Says the subway was closed and she was scared to go home so she figured she would just sleep at his place. It's not a good excuse, there are options to get home, she could have taken a cab (hell I would have paid for one to avoid this) or at the very least, not lied about it. They slept in the same bed. She alleges nothing else happened, but I don't really know if I believe her. If nothing happened, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship? TL;DR:

Girlfriend slept at another guy's house and lied to me about it, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship?<|endoftext|>

[ 14758, 8471, 21567, 387, 1529, 5599, 434, 2419, 285, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 352, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I have a history of being jealous and I feel like she lied to me about sleeping at a man's house. Is there any way to salvage it?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 23327, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 14343, 387, 247, 637, 434, 2419, 15, 50276, 2513, 627, 667, 1039, 281, 40811, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, Throwaway because I'm a private person. I don't take reddit advice as a guide, but I just need to know if I'm overreacting. I have a history of being a little too jealous and just want some perspective. I'm on exchange from the US in Austria and my girlfriend is also on exchange from the US in Germany. On Tuesday, she went out for drinks with a 20 M friend of hers who I don't like. We've had fights about him before, I consider him shady, I don't like the relationship. Whatever, it's fine they hang out. At 12:30am, she texts me and says shes going home, and then at 1:00am, texts me and says she's at home and going to bed. But when I get home, I see the location tag on her message is from his house. My heart drops and I start to freak out and spend the hour figuring out there's no way he story lines up. We talk first thing the next morning. She lies about it at first and then after an hour comes clean. Says the subway was closed and she was scared to go home so she figured she would just sleep at his place. It's not a good excuse, there are options to get home, she could have taken a cab (hell I would have paid for one to avoid this) or at the very least, not lied about it. They slept in the same bed. She alleges nothing else happened, but I don't really know if I believe her. If nothing happened, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship? TL;DR: Girlfriend slept at another guy's house and lied to me about it, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 512, 13, 187, 187, 36556, 12594, 984, 309, 1353, 247, 3055, 1436, 15, 50276, 42, 1053, 626, 1379, 28159, 262, 7535, 347, 247, 7102, 13, 533, 309, 816, 878, 281, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 689, 250, 20594, 15, 50276, 42, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 247, 1652, 1512, 23327, 285, 816, 971, 690, 8668, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 21753, 285, 619, 19609, 310, 671, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 6176, 15, 50276, 2374, 7948, 13, 703, 2427, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 247, 1384, 353, 3331, 273, 22502, 665, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 574, 24662, 670, 779, 1078, 13, 309, 1908, 779, 439, 5102, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 253, 2954, 15, 50276, 25713, 13, 352, 434, 4030, 597, 10913, 562, 15, 187, 187, 3404, 1249, 27, 1229, 312, 13, 703, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 84, 1469, 1728, 13, 285, 840, 387, 337, 27, 361, 312, 13, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 434, 387, 1728, 285, 1469, 281, 3722, 15, 50276, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 1728, 13, 309, 923, 253, 4328, 6809, 327, 617, 3935, 310, 432, 521, 2419, 15, 50276, 3220, 2798, 15323, 285, 309, 1265, 281, 37462, 562, 285, 6947, 253, 4964, 36182, 562, 627, 434, 642, 1039, 344, 2926, 3104, 598, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2312, 806, 2181, 253, 1735, 4131, 15, 50276, 2993, 8696, 670, 352, 387, 806, 285, 840, 846, 271, 4964, 3249, 4076, 15, 50276, 52, 698, 253, 37049, 369, 4581, 285, 703, 369, 16060, 281, 564, 1728, 594, 703, 15433, 703, 651, 816, 4600, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 50276, 1147, 434, 417, 247, 1175, 16267, 13, 627, 403, 4610, 281, 755, 1728, 13, 703, 812, 452, 2668, 247, 7674, 313, 14440, 309, 651, 452, 5087, 323, 581, 281, 3693, 436, 10, 390, 387, 253, 1077, 1878, 13, 417, 27786, 670, 352, 15, 50276, 3726, 21567, 275, 253, 1072, 3722, 15, 50276, 2993, 20765, 2717, 2010, 4592, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 604, 309, 2868, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2042, 2717, 4592, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 14758, 8471, 21567, 387, 1529, 5599, 434, 2419, 285, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 352, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

416

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hey all, Throwaway because I'm a private person. I don't take reddit advice as a guide, but I just need to know if I'm overreacting. I have a history of being a little too jealous and just want some perspective. I'm on exchange from the US in Austria and my girlfriend is also on exchange from the US in Germany. On Tuesday, she went out for drinks with a 20 M friend of hers who I don't like. We've had fights about him before, I consider him shady, I don't like the relationship. Whatever, it's fine they hang out. At 12:30am, she texts me and says shes going home, and then at 1:00am, texts me and says she's at home and going to bed. But when I get home, I see the location tag on her message is from his house. My heart drops and I start to freak out and spend the hour figuring out there's no way he story lines up. We talk first thing the next morning. She lies about it at first and then after an hour comes clean. Says the subway was closed and she was scared to go home so she figured she would just sleep at his place. It's not a good excuse, there are options to get home, she could have taken a cab (hell I would have paid for one to avoid this) or at the very least, not lied about it. They slept in the same bed. She alleges nothing else happened, but I don't really know if I believe her. If nothing happened, am I overreacting by considering this to be enough to end the relationship? TL;DR: I have a history of being jealous and I feel like she lied to me about sleeping at a man's house. Is there any way to salvage it?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 18793, 512, 13, 187, 187, 36556, 12594, 984, 309, 1353, 247, 3055, 1436, 15, 50276, 42, 1053, 626, 1379, 28159, 262, 7535, 347, 247, 7102, 13, 533, 309, 816, 878, 281, 871, 604, 309, 1353, 689, 250, 20594, 15, 50276, 42, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 247, 1652, 1512, 23327, 285, 816, 971, 690, 8668, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 21753, 285, 619, 19609, 310, 671, 327, 6431, 432, 253, 1982, 275, 6176, 15, 50276, 2374, 7948, 13, 703, 2427, 562, 323, 17208, 342, 247, 1384, 353, 3331, 273, 22502, 665, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 15, 50276, 1231, 1849, 574, 24662, 670, 779, 1078, 13, 309, 1908, 779, 439, 5102, 13, 309, 1053, 626, 751, 253, 2954, 15, 50276, 25713, 13, 352, 434, 4030, 597, 10913, 562, 15, 187, 187, 3404, 1249, 27, 1229, 312, 13, 703, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 84, 1469, 1728, 13, 285, 840, 387, 337, 27, 361, 312, 13, 17438, 479, 285, 2296, 703, 434, 387, 1728, 285, 1469, 281, 3722, 15, 50276, 1989, 672, 309, 755, 1728, 13, 309, 923, 253, 4328, 6809, 327, 617, 3935, 310, 432, 521, 2419, 15, 50276, 3220, 2798, 15323, 285, 309, 1265, 281, 37462, 562, 285, 6947, 253, 4964, 36182, 562, 627, 434, 642, 1039, 344, 2926, 3104, 598, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2312, 806, 2181, 253, 1735, 4131, 15, 50276, 2993, 8696, 670, 352, 387, 806, 285, 840, 846, 271, 4964, 3249, 4076, 15, 50276, 52, 698, 253, 37049, 369, 4581, 285, 703, 369, 16060, 281, 564, 1728, 594, 703, 15433, 703, 651, 816, 4600, 387, 521, 1659, 15, 50276, 1147, 434, 417, 247, 1175, 16267, 13, 627, 403, 4610, 281, 755, 1728, 13, 703, 812, 452, 2668, 247, 7674, 313, 14440, 309, 651, 452, 5087, 323, 581, 281, 3693, 436, 10, 390, 387, 253, 1077, 1878, 13, 417, 27786, 670, 352, 15, 50276, 3726, 21567, 275, 253, 1072, 3722, 15, 50276, 2993, 20765, 2717, 2010, 4592, 13, 533, 309, 1053, 626, 1663, 871, 604, 309, 2868, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2042, 2717, 4592, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 23327, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 14343, 387, 247, 637, 434, 2419, 15, 50276, 2513, 627, 667, 1039, 281, 40811, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

417

384

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 14758, 8471, 21567, 387, 1529, 5599, 434, 2419, 285, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 352, 13, 717, 309, 689, 250, 20594, 407, 7296, 436, 281, 320, 2217, 281, 990, 253, 2954, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 247, 2892, 273, 1146, 23327, 285, 309, 1928, 751, 703, 27786, 281, 479, 670, 14343, 387, 247, 637, 434, 2419, 15, 50276, 2513, 627, 667, 1039, 281, 40811, 352, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My wife and I are in a tough debate right now and we need some advice on what to do. We want to get our own place soon, since there is now three in our family, and we are looking at either a decent sized apartment or a old cheap house that we would need to do a lot of repairs and renovation to. We have a contract for a place to rent that is 950 square feet 625 a month we pay water, sewage, and electricity. It includes washer/dryer, dish washer, electric stove, and microwave all relatively new. We would have no yard and couldn't keep our cat, but we would have no major repairs and if anything breaks the landlord will fix it. We would have to turn in the contract soon to reserve the apartment. On the other hand her parents are willing to put a down payment on a $52,000 house that needs a lot of work. We don't know exact state of the house but we drove by today and it looks like it has old wood siding with a few holes in the siding and the foundation looks like it may have a few cracks and the support beams in the basement are wooden and may have some wood rot. It needs a lot of work, but our monthly payments would be around $300 a month we would have a huge yard and be able to keep our cat and eventually get a dog, but we would have to buy all appliances except microwave, plus I am not to fond of the town it is in, just because it's super small and in the middle of no where but it's 10 min closer to my work. We would also have to stay where we are currently living for a few more months. I am also not very good at DIY, I have a habit of measuring wrong or cutting it then measuring it.

We want to buy a house, but our contract is not worth it, we would have to do a lot of work to fix it up and we would have to find a new place to live for a few more months. If we buy the house we will be able to afford it, but have to turn in the contract.

We would have to fix up or buy a house to move in together, but we would also have to miss out on the benefits of living together. What should we do?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 4475, 285, 309, 403, 275, 247, 10458, 8881, 987, 1024, 285, 359, 878, 690, 7535, 327, 752, 281, 513, 15, 844, 971, 281, 755, 776, 1211, 1659, 3517, 13, 1580, 627, 310, 1024, 1264, 275, 776, 2021, 13, 285, 359, 403, 2819, 387, 2057, 247, 12524, 25180, 10230, 390, 247, 1711, 11142, 2419, 326, 359, 651, 878, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 25931, 285, 45081, 281, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 452, 247, 3310, 323, 247, 1659, 281, 8845, 326, 310, 49305, 6278, 4669, 45451, 247, 1770, 359, 2075, 1824, 13, 42655, 13, 285, 13978, 15, 733, 3797, 369, 379, 16, 36765, 254, 13, 11609, 369, 379, 13, 5637, 33360, 13, 285, 23225, 512, 4942, 747, 15, 844, 651, 452, 642, 15789, 285, 4571, 626, 1978, 776, 5798, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 642, 2201, 25931, 285, 604, 2712, 13471, 253, 32084, 588, 4993, 352, 15, 844, 651, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 3517, 281, 15917, 253, 10230, 15, 187, 187, 2374, 253, 643, 1133, 617, 4651, 403, 7378, 281, 1691, 247, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 370, 3583, 13, 933, 2419, 326, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 3242, 1375, 273, 253, 2419, 533, 359, 12668, 407, 3063, 285, 352, 4453, 751, 352, 556, 1711, 5534, 256, 2821, 342, 247, 1643, 11385, 275, 253, 256, 2821, 285, 253, 12153, 4453, 751, 352, 778, 452, 247, 1643, 30611, 285, 253, 1329, 20435, 275, 253, 21135, 403, 14872, 285, 778, 452, 690, 5534, 4000, 15, 733, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 13, 533, 776, 13056, 10762, 651, 320, 1475, 370, 7554, 247, 1770, 359, 651, 452, 247, 5699, 15789, 285, 320, 2104, 281, 1978, 776, 5798, 285, 6524, 755, 247, 4370, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 281, 4489, 512, 32701, 3707, 23225, 13, 5043, 309, 717, 417, 281, 14753, 273, 253, 3874, 352, 310, 275, 13, 816, 984, 352, 434, 2221, 1355, 285, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 642, 835, 533, 352, 434, 884, 1054, 8003, 281, 619, 789, 15, 844, 651, 671, 452, 281, 3297, 835, 359, 403, 4390, 3811, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 309, 717, 671, 417, 1077, 1175, 387, 45919, 13, 309, 452, 247, 8803, 273, 10499, 3430, 390, 9968, 352, 840, 10499, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I are in a tough debate right now and we need some advice on what to do. We want to get our own place soon, since there is now three in our family, and we are looking at either a decent sized apartment or a old cheap house that we would need to do a lot of repairs and renovation to. We have a contract for a place to rent that is 950 square feet 625 a month we pay water, sewage, and electricity. It includes washer/dryer, dish washer, electric stove, and microwave all relatively new. We would have no yard and couldn't keep our cat, but we would have no major repairs and if anything breaks the landlord will fix it. We would have to turn in the contract soon to reserve the apartment. On the other hand her parents are willing to put a down payment on a $52,000 house that needs a lot of work. We don't know exact state of the house but we drove by today and it looks like it has old wood siding with a few holes in the siding and the foundation looks like it may have a few cracks and the support beams in the basement are wooden and may have some wood rot. It needs a lot of work, but our monthly payments would be around $300 a month we would have a huge yard and be able to keep our cat and eventually get a dog, but we would have to buy all appliances except microwave, plus I am not to fond of the town it is in, just because it's super small and in the middle of no where but it's 10 min closer to my work. We would also have to stay where we are currently living for a few more months. I am also not very good at DIY, I have a habit of measuring wrong or cutting it then measuring it. TL;DR:

We want to buy a house, but our contract is not worth it, we would have to do a lot of work to fix it up and we would have to find a new place to live for a few more months. If we buy the house we will be able to afford it, but have to turn in the contract.<|endoftext|>

[ 844, 971, 281, 4489, 247, 2419, 13, 533, 776, 3310, 310, 417, 4409, 352, 13, 359, 651, 452, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 281, 4993, 352, 598, 285, 359, 651, 452, 281, 1089, 247, 747, 1659, 281, 3153, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 1310, 359, 4489, 253, 2419, 359, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 7848, 352, 13, 533, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

We would have to fix up or buy a house to move in together, but we would also have to miss out on the benefits of living together. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

[ 844, 651, 452, 281, 4993, 598, 390, 4489, 247, 2419, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 13, 533, 359, 651, 671, 452, 281, 2985, 562, 327, 253, 5373, 273, 3811, 2366, 15, 1737, 943, 359, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I are in a tough debate right now and we need some advice on what to do. We want to get our own place soon, since there is now three in our family, and we are looking at either a decent sized apartment or a old cheap house that we would need to do a lot of repairs and renovation to. We have a contract for a place to rent that is 950 square feet 625 a month we pay water, sewage, and electricity. It includes washer/dryer, dish washer, electric stove, and microwave all relatively new. We would have no yard and couldn't keep our cat, but we would have no major repairs and if anything breaks the landlord will fix it. We would have to turn in the contract soon to reserve the apartment. On the other hand her parents are willing to put a down payment on a $52,000 house that needs a lot of work. We don't know exact state of the house but we drove by today and it looks like it has old wood siding with a few holes in the siding and the foundation looks like it may have a few cracks and the support beams in the basement are wooden and may have some wood rot. It needs a lot of work, but our monthly payments would be around $300 a month we would have a huge yard and be able to keep our cat and eventually get a dog, but we would have to buy all appliances except microwave, plus I am not to fond of the town it is in, just because it's super small and in the middle of no where but it's 10 min closer to my work. We would also have to stay where we are currently living for a few more months. I am also not very good at DIY, I have a habit of measuring wrong or cutting it then measuring it. TL;DR: We want to buy a house, but our contract is not worth it, we would have to do a lot of work to fix it up and we would have to find a new place to live for a few more months. If we buy the house we will be able to afford it, but have to turn in the contract.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 4475, 285, 309, 403, 275, 247, 10458, 8881, 987, 1024, 285, 359, 878, 690, 7535, 327, 752, 281, 513, 15, 844, 971, 281, 755, 776, 1211, 1659, 3517, 13, 1580, 627, 310, 1024, 1264, 275, 776, 2021, 13, 285, 359, 403, 2819, 387, 2057, 247, 12524, 25180, 10230, 390, 247, 1711, 11142, 2419, 326, 359, 651, 878, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 25931, 285, 45081, 281, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 452, 247, 3310, 323, 247, 1659, 281, 8845, 326, 310, 49305, 6278, 4669, 45451, 247, 1770, 359, 2075, 1824, 13, 42655, 13, 285, 13978, 15, 733, 3797, 369, 379, 16, 36765, 254, 13, 11609, 369, 379, 13, 5637, 33360, 13, 285, 23225, 512, 4942, 747, 15, 844, 651, 452, 642, 15789, 285, 4571, 626, 1978, 776, 5798, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 642, 2201, 25931, 285, 604, 2712, 13471, 253, 32084, 588, 4993, 352, 15, 844, 651, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 3517, 281, 15917, 253, 10230, 15, 187, 187, 2374, 253, 643, 1133, 617, 4651, 403, 7378, 281, 1691, 247, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 370, 3583, 13, 933, 2419, 326, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 3242, 1375, 273, 253, 2419, 533, 359, 12668, 407, 3063, 285, 352, 4453, 751, 352, 556, 1711, 5534, 256, 2821, 342, 247, 1643, 11385, 275, 253, 256, 2821, 285, 253, 12153, 4453, 751, 352, 778, 452, 247, 1643, 30611, 285, 253, 1329, 20435, 275, 253, 21135, 403, 14872, 285, 778, 452, 690, 5534, 4000, 15, 733, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 13, 533, 776, 13056, 10762, 651, 320, 1475, 370, 7554, 247, 1770, 359, 651, 452, 247, 5699, 15789, 285, 320, 2104, 281, 1978, 776, 5798, 285, 6524, 755, 247, 4370, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 281, 4489, 512, 32701, 3707, 23225, 13, 5043, 309, 717, 417, 281, 14753, 273, 253, 3874, 352, 310, 275, 13, 816, 984, 352, 434, 2221, 1355, 285, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 642, 835, 533, 352, 434, 884, 1054, 8003, 281, 619, 789, 15, 844, 651, 671, 452, 281, 3297, 835, 359, 403, 4390, 3811, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 309, 717, 671, 417, 1077, 1175, 387, 45919, 13, 309, 452, 247, 8803, 273, 10499, 3430, 390, 9968, 352, 840, 10499, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 844, 971, 281, 4489, 247, 2419, 13, 533, 776, 3310, 310, 417, 4409, 352, 13, 359, 651, 452, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 281, 4993, 352, 598, 285, 359, 651, 452, 281, 1089, 247, 747, 1659, 281, 3153, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 1310, 359, 4489, 253, 2419, 359, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 7848, 352, 13, 533, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

462

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My wife and I are in a tough debate right now and we need some advice on what to do. We want to get our own place soon, since there is now three in our family, and we are looking at either a decent sized apartment or a old cheap house that we would need to do a lot of repairs and renovation to. We have a contract for a place to rent that is 950 square feet 625 a month we pay water, sewage, and electricity. It includes washer/dryer, dish washer, electric stove, and microwave all relatively new. We would have no yard and couldn't keep our cat, but we would have no major repairs and if anything breaks the landlord will fix it. We would have to turn in the contract soon to reserve the apartment. On the other hand her parents are willing to put a down payment on a $52,000 house that needs a lot of work. We don't know exact state of the house but we drove by today and it looks like it has old wood siding with a few holes in the siding and the foundation looks like it may have a few cracks and the support beams in the basement are wooden and may have some wood rot. It needs a lot of work, but our monthly payments would be around $300 a month we would have a huge yard and be able to keep our cat and eventually get a dog, but we would have to buy all appliances except microwave, plus I am not to fond of the town it is in, just because it's super small and in the middle of no where but it's 10 min closer to my work. We would also have to stay where we are currently living for a few more months. I am also not very good at DIY, I have a habit of measuring wrong or cutting it then measuring it. TL;DR: We would have to fix up or buy a house to move in together, but we would also have to miss out on the benefits of living together. What should we do?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 4475, 285, 309, 403, 275, 247, 10458, 8881, 987, 1024, 285, 359, 878, 690, 7535, 327, 752, 281, 513, 15, 844, 971, 281, 755, 776, 1211, 1659, 3517, 13, 1580, 627, 310, 1024, 1264, 275, 776, 2021, 13, 285, 359, 403, 2819, 387, 2057, 247, 12524, 25180, 10230, 390, 247, 1711, 11142, 2419, 326, 359, 651, 878, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 25931, 285, 45081, 281, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 452, 247, 3310, 323, 247, 1659, 281, 8845, 326, 310, 49305, 6278, 4669, 45451, 247, 1770, 359, 2075, 1824, 13, 42655, 13, 285, 13978, 15, 733, 3797, 369, 379, 16, 36765, 254, 13, 11609, 369, 379, 13, 5637, 33360, 13, 285, 23225, 512, 4942, 747, 15, 844, 651, 452, 642, 15789, 285, 4571, 626, 1978, 776, 5798, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 642, 2201, 25931, 285, 604, 2712, 13471, 253, 32084, 588, 4993, 352, 15, 844, 651, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 3517, 281, 15917, 253, 10230, 15, 187, 187, 2374, 253, 643, 1133, 617, 4651, 403, 7378, 281, 1691, 247, 1066, 7830, 327, 247, 370, 3583, 13, 933, 2419, 326, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 15, 844, 1053, 626, 871, 3242, 1375, 273, 253, 2419, 533, 359, 12668, 407, 3063, 285, 352, 4453, 751, 352, 556, 1711, 5534, 256, 2821, 342, 247, 1643, 11385, 275, 253, 256, 2821, 285, 253, 12153, 4453, 751, 352, 778, 452, 247, 1643, 30611, 285, 253, 1329, 20435, 275, 253, 21135, 403, 14872, 285, 778, 452, 690, 5534, 4000, 15, 733, 3198, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 13, 533, 776, 13056, 10762, 651, 320, 1475, 370, 7554, 247, 1770, 359, 651, 452, 247, 5699, 15789, 285, 320, 2104, 281, 1978, 776, 5798, 285, 6524, 755, 247, 4370, 13, 533, 359, 651, 452, 281, 4489, 512, 32701, 3707, 23225, 13, 5043, 309, 717, 417, 281, 14753, 273, 253, 3874, 352, 310, 275, 13, 816, 984, 352, 434, 2221, 1355, 285, 275, 253, 4766, 273, 642, 835, 533, 352, 434, 884, 1054, 8003, 281, 619, 789, 15, 844, 651, 671, 452, 281, 3297, 835, 359, 403, 4390, 3811, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 309, 717, 671, 417, 1077, 1175, 387, 45919, 13, 309, 452, 247, 8803, 273, 10499, 3430, 390, 9968, 352, 840, 10499, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 844, 651, 452, 281, 4993, 598, 390, 4489, 247, 2419, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 13, 533, 359, 651, 671, 452, 281, 2985, 562, 327, 253, 5373, 273, 3811, 2366, 15, 1737, 943, 359, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

431

395

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 844, 971, 281, 4489, 247, 2419, 13, 533, 776, 3310, 310, 417, 4409, 352, 13, 359, 651, 452, 281, 513, 247, 2257, 273, 789, 281, 4993, 352, 598, 285, 359, 651, 452, 281, 1089, 247, 747, 1659, 281, 3153, 323, 247, 1643, 625, 2607, 15, 1310, 359, 4489, 253, 2419, 359, 588, 320, 2104, 281, 7848, 352, 13, 533, 452, 281, 1614, 275, 253, 3310, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 844, 651, 452, 281, 4993, 598, 390, 4489, 247, 2419, 281, 2118, 275, 2366, 13, 533, 359, 651, 671, 452, 281, 2985, 562, 327, 253, 5373, 273, 3811, 2366, 15, 1737, 943, 359, 513, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

A little back story. I'm from NY and I moved to the middle of nowhere, Canada to be with her. We've been together for 7+ years. The past few years have been rough. She was really sick for a year and a half, I've been miserable and somewhat depressed because I miss home, but we've always worked through it. Unfortunately my version of working through it recently has been being a miserable prick towards her and in general. I have, in the past, gotten caught talking to other women online. None of them even remotely close to where we live. I used to have an opiate addiction in the past. I mention this because, when I got depressed, that was my fall back. Now when I get depressed, it's talking to other women on the internet. I get a rush that's not so different than when I would pop an Oxy. So this brings me to today. I just graduated college. I have a good job. I'm surrounded by mostly wonderful people. My mother just came up and visited me and came to my grad. But still.. I have had this nagging depression for a couple of months. So while I was asleep this morning. My fiancee went through my phone and saw some messages to another woman on Facebook. Needless to say, she has basically ended the engagement and walked out. I love this woman with all of my heart. I know what I did was incredibly hurtful and I deserve anything and everything she decides to throw my way. I need to fix this. I'm completely and utterly lost without her. Besides not talking to other women on the internet (I've already deactivated and sent in a request for a permanent deletion of my Facebook page), I know I need to stop being such a miserable asshole. I need professional help. I need to figure out a lot of things about myself. I need to figure out why I don't treat her the way she deserves to be treated. I need to figure out why I resort to talking to other women on the internet when I get depressed. I need to fix my shit so I can fix our shit. I know this is more of a vent than anything else, but I could really use some advice..

I'm a fucking asshole and I need to fix it.

Ex-GF broke up with me, I'm lost.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1652, 896, 2926, 15, 309, 1353, 432, 10310, 285, 309, 4395, 281, 253, 4766, 273, 17663, 13, 6144, 281, 320, 342, 617, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 818, 12, 1107, 15, 380, 2469, 1643, 1107, 452, 644, 7227, 15, 1500, 369, 1663, 8334, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 309, 1849, 644, 28714, 285, 8489, 23201, 984, 309, 2985, 1728, 13, 533, 359, 1849, 1900, 4307, 949, 352, 15, 12526, 619, 2715, 273, 2444, 949, 352, 4102, 556, 644, 1146, 247, 28714, 37937, 4404, 617, 285, 275, 2087, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 13, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 12759, 7270, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 3909, 15, 8256, 273, 731, 1014, 27938, 2810, 281, 835, 359, 3153, 15, 309, 908, 281, 452, 271, 1121, 4513, 22103, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 309, 3748, 436, 984, 13, 672, 309, 1694, 23201, 13, 326, 369, 619, 2965, 896, 15, 3954, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 13, 352, 434, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 15, 309, 755, 247, 16949, 326, 434, 417, 594, 1027, 685, 672, 309, 651, 1684, 271, 473, 5246, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 436, 10316, 479, 281, 3063, 15, 309, 816, 20981, 6831, 15, 309, 452, 247, 1175, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 13750, 407, 6571, 9386, 952, 15, 2752, 3101, 816, 2210, 598, 285, 11580, 479, 285, 2210, 281, 619, 3805, 15, 1292, 1335, 537, 309, 452, 574, 436, 295, 29191, 9454, 323, 247, 4564, 273, 2607, 15, 1893, 1223, 309, 369, 17390, 436, 4131, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 70, 2427, 949, 619, 4481, 285, 3047, 690, 8169, 281, 1529, 3416, 327, 6745, 15, 20389, 1417, 281, 1333, 13, 703, 556, 10323, 7402, 253, 13226, 285, 7428, 562, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 2389, 436, 3416, 342, 512, 273, 619, 2798, 15, 309, 871, 752, 309, 858, 369, 16088, 8513, 1020, 285, 309, 17337, 2712, 285, 3253, 703, 21936, 281, 4710, 619, 1039, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 4336, 285, 23228, 3663, 1293, 617, 15, 15222, 417, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 313, 42, 1849, 2168, 372, 18132, 285, 2197, 275, 247, 2748, 323, 247, 9928, 17404, 273, 619, 6745, 3239, 582, 309, 871, 309, 878, 281, 3523, 1146, 824, 247, 28714, 40889, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 878, 5702, 1361, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 1841, 670, 4266, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 1555, 617, 253, 1039, 703, 22828, 281, 320, 4127, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 17942, 281, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 619, 10739, 594, 309, 476, 4993, 776, 10739, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 625, 273, 247, 5698, 685, 2712, 2010, 13, 533, 309, 812, 1663, 897, 690, 7535, 537, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story. I'm from NY and I moved to the middle of nowhere, Canada to be with her. We've been together for 7+ years. The past few years have been rough. She was really sick for a year and a half, I've been miserable and somewhat depressed because I miss home, but we've always worked through it. Unfortunately my version of working through it recently has been being a miserable prick towards her and in general. I have, in the past, gotten caught talking to other women online. None of them even remotely close to where we live. I used to have an opiate addiction in the past. I mention this because, when I got depressed, that was my fall back. Now when I get depressed, it's talking to other women on the internet. I get a rush that's not so different than when I would pop an Oxy. So this brings me to today. I just graduated college. I have a good job. I'm surrounded by mostly wonderful people. My mother just came up and visited me and came to my grad. But still.. I have had this nagging depression for a couple of months. So while I was asleep this morning. My fiancee went through my phone and saw some messages to another woman on Facebook. Needless to say, she has basically ended the engagement and walked out. I love this woman with all of my heart. I know what I did was incredibly hurtful and I deserve anything and everything she decides to throw my way. I need to fix this. I'm completely and utterly lost without her. Besides not talking to other women on the internet (I've already deactivated and sent in a request for a permanent deletion of my Facebook page), I know I need to stop being such a miserable asshole. I need professional help. I need to figure out a lot of things about myself. I need to figure out why I don't treat her the way she deserves to be treated. I need to figure out why I resort to talking to other women on the internet when I get depressed. I need to fix my shit so I can fix our shit. I know this is more of a vent than anything else, but I could really use some advice.. TL;DR:

I'm a fucking asshole and I need to fix it.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 247, 12835, 40889, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Ex-GF broke up with me, I'm lost.<|endoftext|>

[ 1889, 14, 4161, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 3663, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story. I'm from NY and I moved to the middle of nowhere, Canada to be with her. We've been together for 7+ years. The past few years have been rough. She was really sick for a year and a half, I've been miserable and somewhat depressed because I miss home, but we've always worked through it. Unfortunately my version of working through it recently has been being a miserable prick towards her and in general. I have, in the past, gotten caught talking to other women online. None of them even remotely close to where we live. I used to have an opiate addiction in the past. I mention this because, when I got depressed, that was my fall back. Now when I get depressed, it's talking to other women on the internet. I get a rush that's not so different than when I would pop an Oxy. So this brings me to today. I just graduated college. I have a good job. I'm surrounded by mostly wonderful people. My mother just came up and visited me and came to my grad. But still.. I have had this nagging depression for a couple of months. So while I was asleep this morning. My fiancee went through my phone and saw some messages to another woman on Facebook. Needless to say, she has basically ended the engagement and walked out. I love this woman with all of my heart. I know what I did was incredibly hurtful and I deserve anything and everything she decides to throw my way. I need to fix this. I'm completely and utterly lost without her. Besides not talking to other women on the internet (I've already deactivated and sent in a request for a permanent deletion of my Facebook page), I know I need to stop being such a miserable asshole. I need professional help. I need to figure out a lot of things about myself. I need to figure out why I don't treat her the way she deserves to be treated. I need to figure out why I resort to talking to other women on the internet when I get depressed. I need to fix my shit so I can fix our shit. I know this is more of a vent than anything else, but I could really use some advice.. TL;DR: I'm a fucking asshole and I need to fix it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1652, 896, 2926, 15, 309, 1353, 432, 10310, 285, 309, 4395, 281, 253, 4766, 273, 17663, 13, 6144, 281, 320, 342, 617, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 818, 12, 1107, 15, 380, 2469, 1643, 1107, 452, 644, 7227, 15, 1500, 369, 1663, 8334, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 309, 1849, 644, 28714, 285, 8489, 23201, 984, 309, 2985, 1728, 13, 533, 359, 1849, 1900, 4307, 949, 352, 15, 12526, 619, 2715, 273, 2444, 949, 352, 4102, 556, 644, 1146, 247, 28714, 37937, 4404, 617, 285, 275, 2087, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 13, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 12759, 7270, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 3909, 15, 8256, 273, 731, 1014, 27938, 2810, 281, 835, 359, 3153, 15, 309, 908, 281, 452, 271, 1121, 4513, 22103, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 309, 3748, 436, 984, 13, 672, 309, 1694, 23201, 13, 326, 369, 619, 2965, 896, 15, 3954, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 13, 352, 434, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 15, 309, 755, 247, 16949, 326, 434, 417, 594, 1027, 685, 672, 309, 651, 1684, 271, 473, 5246, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 436, 10316, 479, 281, 3063, 15, 309, 816, 20981, 6831, 15, 309, 452, 247, 1175, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 13750, 407, 6571, 9386, 952, 15, 2752, 3101, 816, 2210, 598, 285, 11580, 479, 285, 2210, 281, 619, 3805, 15, 1292, 1335, 537, 309, 452, 574, 436, 295, 29191, 9454, 323, 247, 4564, 273, 2607, 15, 1893, 1223, 309, 369, 17390, 436, 4131, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 70, 2427, 949, 619, 4481, 285, 3047, 690, 8169, 281, 1529, 3416, 327, 6745, 15, 20389, 1417, 281, 1333, 13, 703, 556, 10323, 7402, 253, 13226, 285, 7428, 562, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 2389, 436, 3416, 342, 512, 273, 619, 2798, 15, 309, 871, 752, 309, 858, 369, 16088, 8513, 1020, 285, 309, 17337, 2712, 285, 3253, 703, 21936, 281, 4710, 619, 1039, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 4336, 285, 23228, 3663, 1293, 617, 15, 15222, 417, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 313, 42, 1849, 2168, 372, 18132, 285, 2197, 275, 247, 2748, 323, 247, 9928, 17404, 273, 619, 6745, 3239, 582, 309, 871, 309, 878, 281, 3523, 1146, 824, 247, 28714, 40889, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 878, 5702, 1361, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 1841, 670, 4266, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 1555, 617, 253, 1039, 703, 22828, 281, 320, 4127, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 17942, 281, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 619, 10739, 594, 309, 476, 4993, 776, 10739, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 625, 273, 247, 5698, 685, 2712, 2010, 13, 533, 309, 812, 1663, 897, 690, 7535, 537, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 247, 12835, 40889, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

501

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: A little back story. I'm from NY and I moved to the middle of nowhere, Canada to be with her. We've been together for 7+ years. The past few years have been rough. She was really sick for a year and a half, I've been miserable and somewhat depressed because I miss home, but we've always worked through it. Unfortunately my version of working through it recently has been being a miserable prick towards her and in general. I have, in the past, gotten caught talking to other women online. None of them even remotely close to where we live. I used to have an opiate addiction in the past. I mention this because, when I got depressed, that was my fall back. Now when I get depressed, it's talking to other women on the internet. I get a rush that's not so different than when I would pop an Oxy. So this brings me to today. I just graduated college. I have a good job. I'm surrounded by mostly wonderful people. My mother just came up and visited me and came to my grad. But still.. I have had this nagging depression for a couple of months. So while I was asleep this morning. My fiancee went through my phone and saw some messages to another woman on Facebook. Needless to say, she has basically ended the engagement and walked out. I love this woman with all of my heart. I know what I did was incredibly hurtful and I deserve anything and everything she decides to throw my way. I need to fix this. I'm completely and utterly lost without her. Besides not talking to other women on the internet (I've already deactivated and sent in a request for a permanent deletion of my Facebook page), I know I need to stop being such a miserable asshole. I need professional help. I need to figure out a lot of things about myself. I need to figure out why I don't treat her the way she deserves to be treated. I need to figure out why I resort to talking to other women on the internet when I get depressed. I need to fix my shit so I can fix our shit. I know this is more of a vent than anything else, but I could really use some advice.. TL;DR: Ex-GF broke up with me, I'm lost.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 329, 1652, 896, 2926, 15, 309, 1353, 432, 10310, 285, 309, 4395, 281, 253, 4766, 273, 17663, 13, 6144, 281, 320, 342, 617, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 818, 12, 1107, 15, 380, 2469, 1643, 1107, 452, 644, 7227, 15, 1500, 369, 1663, 8334, 323, 247, 807, 285, 247, 2716, 13, 309, 1849, 644, 28714, 285, 8489, 23201, 984, 309, 2985, 1728, 13, 533, 359, 1849, 1900, 4307, 949, 352, 15, 12526, 619, 2715, 273, 2444, 949, 352, 4102, 556, 644, 1146, 247, 28714, 37937, 4404, 617, 285, 275, 2087, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 13, 275, 253, 2469, 13, 12759, 7270, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 3909, 15, 8256, 273, 731, 1014, 27938, 2810, 281, 835, 359, 3153, 15, 309, 908, 281, 452, 271, 1121, 4513, 22103, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 309, 3748, 436, 984, 13, 672, 309, 1694, 23201, 13, 326, 369, 619, 2965, 896, 15, 3954, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 13, 352, 434, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 15, 309, 755, 247, 16949, 326, 434, 417, 594, 1027, 685, 672, 309, 651, 1684, 271, 473, 5246, 15, 2490, 187, 2598, 436, 10316, 479, 281, 3063, 15, 309, 816, 20981, 6831, 15, 309, 452, 247, 1175, 2628, 15, 309, 1353, 13750, 407, 6571, 9386, 952, 15, 2752, 3101, 816, 2210, 598, 285, 11580, 479, 285, 2210, 281, 619, 3805, 15, 1292, 1335, 537, 309, 452, 574, 436, 295, 29191, 9454, 323, 247, 4564, 273, 2607, 15, 1893, 1223, 309, 369, 17390, 436, 4131, 15, 2752, 269, 5155, 70, 2427, 949, 619, 4481, 285, 3047, 690, 8169, 281, 1529, 3416, 327, 6745, 15, 20389, 1417, 281, 1333, 13, 703, 556, 10323, 7402, 253, 13226, 285, 7428, 562, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 2389, 436, 3416, 342, 512, 273, 619, 2798, 15, 309, 871, 752, 309, 858, 369, 16088, 8513, 1020, 285, 309, 17337, 2712, 285, 3253, 703, 21936, 281, 4710, 619, 1039, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 4336, 285, 23228, 3663, 1293, 617, 15, 15222, 417, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 313, 42, 1849, 2168, 372, 18132, 285, 2197, 275, 247, 2748, 323, 247, 9928, 17404, 273, 619, 6745, 3239, 582, 309, 871, 309, 878, 281, 3523, 1146, 824, 247, 28714, 40889, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 878, 5702, 1361, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 1841, 670, 4266, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 1053, 626, 1555, 617, 253, 1039, 703, 22828, 281, 320, 4127, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4677, 562, 2139, 309, 17942, 281, 5015, 281, 643, 2255, 327, 253, 8573, 672, 309, 755, 23201, 15, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 619, 10739, 594, 309, 476, 4993, 776, 10739, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 871, 436, 310, 625, 273, 247, 5698, 685, 2712, 2010, 13, 533, 309, 812, 1663, 897, 690, 7535, 537, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1889, 14, 4161, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 3663, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

501

488

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 247, 12835, 40889, 285, 309, 878, 281, 4993, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1889, 14, 4161, 9377, 598, 342, 479, 13, 309, 1353, 3663, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi, first I'd like to thank you for reading! I'm in Canada and signed up for two credit cards right when I turned 18. Fast forward five years later: irresponsible spending, moving to a different city, racking up debt and I now owe a combined ~$5000 ($3700 + $1300). I have closed both cards but have barely been able to make payments along with rent/utilities/etc. I picked up an extra job at a restaurant but it still wasn't enough (I live in Vancouver, very expensive) and then I got laid off... so my debts are still at the same amount. I have looked at all my options, talked to a not-for-profit debt relief program, budgeted etc. And now, I am moving back home to Alberta, living with my parents, to save up. **I am wondering about letting the debts go to collections and then just waiting until they hit the statute of limitations?** I know this only covers legal action but I have read on other websites about loopholes in 'alleged' debt. I figured I am still young and my credit is shit anyways, would it be possible to get away with this and wait the 7 years for my credit to reset? I don't plan on buying a house/car anytime soon and don't mind living on cash only for the next while. (I also wouldn't ghost on my credit as I have a student loan I am paying off as well as a post-paid phone line and open bank account - not associated with the credit cards) Probably seems too easy but would appreciate some advice.

young Canadian signing up for two credit cards, irresponsible spending has resulted in debt which is now almost 5 years old; wondering if I can get away with waiting until statute of limitations before I pay off.

stupid irresponsible spending and debt, wondering if it would be possible to try and wait 7 years for my credit to reset and then just pay it off - would appreciate some advice :)

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 806, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 5717, 368, 323, 4361, 2, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 275, 6144, 285, 6704, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 987, 672, 309, 3531, 1283, 15, 20715, 3579, 2620, 1107, 1996, 27, 3496, 37882, 9100, 13, 4886, 281, 247, 1027, 2846, 13, 391, 10892, 598, 6735, 285, 309, 1024, 24186, 247, 5678, 5062, 5, 28306, 4816, 1787, 361, 559, 370, 1012, 361, 481, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 4581, 1097, 8364, 533, 452, 12345, 644, 2104, 281, 1056, 10762, 2112, 342, 8845, 16, 307, 3191, 16, 14069, 15, 309, 5055, 598, 271, 4465, 2628, 387, 247, 10301, 533, 352, 1335, 3589, 626, 2217, 313, 42, 3153, 275, 22126, 13, 1077, 8214, 10, 285, 840, 309, 1694, 10090, 745, 1051, 594, 619, 26131, 403, 1335, 387, 253, 1072, 2408, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 3261, 387, 512, 619, 4610, 13, 10062, 281, 247, 417, 14, 1542, 14, 15608, 6735, 6619, 2086, 13, 7563, 264, 3966, 15, 1244, 1024, 13, 309, 717, 4886, 896, 1728, 281, 29026, 13, 3811, 342, 619, 4651, 13, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 424, 42, 717, 12371, 670, 13872, 253, 26131, 564, 281, 18406, 285, 840, 816, 6179, 1919, 597, 4352, 253, 6645, 273, 7364, 39148, 309, 871, 436, 760, 10949, 4320, 2250, 533, 309, 452, 1239, 327, 643, 14248, 670, 2343, 2689, 3841, 275, 686, 38653, 264, 8, 6735, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 15433, 309, 717, 1335, 2872, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 10739, 667, 1576, 13, 651, 352, 320, 1896, 281, 755, 1977, 342, 436, 285, 3343, 253, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 2098, 327, 11280, 247, 2419, 16, 5546, 28537, 3517, 285, 1053, 626, 2564, 3811, 327, 7942, 760, 323, 253, 1735, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 9, 42, 671, 5082, 626, 14972, 327, 619, 6152, 347, 309, 452, 247, 5974, 10119, 309, 717, 10054, 745, 347, 973, 347, 247, 1501, 14, 21470, 4481, 1386, 285, 1527, 4310, 2395, 428, 417, 2330, 342, 253, 6152, 8364, 10, 187, 187, 37161, 3133, 1512, 3477, 533, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, first I'd like to thank you for reading! I'm in Canada and signed up for two credit cards right when I turned 18. Fast forward five years later: irresponsible spending, moving to a different city, racking up debt and I now owe a combined ~$5000 ($3700 + $1300). I have closed both cards but have barely been able to make payments along with rent/utilities/etc. I picked up an extra job at a restaurant but it still wasn't enough (I live in Vancouver, very expensive) and then I got laid off... so my debts are still at the same amount. I have looked at all my options, talked to a not-for-profit debt relief program, budgeted etc. And now, I am moving back home to Alberta, living with my parents, to save up. **I am wondering about letting the debts go to collections and then just waiting until they hit the statute of limitations?** I know this only covers legal action but I have read on other websites about loopholes in 'alleged' debt. I figured I am still young and my credit is shit anyways, would it be possible to get away with this and wait the 7 years for my credit to reset? I don't plan on buying a house/car anytime soon and don't mind living on cash only for the next while. (I also wouldn't ghost on my credit as I have a student loan I am paying off as well as a post-paid phone line and open bank account - not associated with the credit cards) Probably seems too easy but would appreciate some advice. TL;DR:

young Canadian signing up for two credit cards, irresponsible spending has resulted in debt which is now almost 5 years old; wondering if I can get away with waiting until statute of limitations before I pay off.<|endoftext|>

[ 2872, 9462, 15428, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 13, 3496, 37882, 9100, 556, 7369, 275, 6735, 534, 310, 1024, 2761, 608, 1107, 1711, 28, 12371, 604, 309, 476, 755, 1977, 342, 6179, 1919, 6645, 273, 7364, 1078, 309, 2075, 745, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

stupid irresponsible spending and debt, wondering if it would be possible to try and wait 7 years for my credit to reset and then just pay it off - would appreciate some advice :)<|endoftext|>

[ 11339, 3496, 37882, 9100, 285, 6735, 13, 12371, 604, 352, 651, 320, 1896, 281, 1611, 285, 3343, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 285, 840, 816, 2075, 352, 745, 428, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 9418, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, first I'd like to thank you for reading! I'm in Canada and signed up for two credit cards right when I turned 18. Fast forward five years later: irresponsible spending, moving to a different city, racking up debt and I now owe a combined ~$5000 ($3700 + $1300). I have closed both cards but have barely been able to make payments along with rent/utilities/etc. I picked up an extra job at a restaurant but it still wasn't enough (I live in Vancouver, very expensive) and then I got laid off... so my debts are still at the same amount. I have looked at all my options, talked to a not-for-profit debt relief program, budgeted etc. And now, I am moving back home to Alberta, living with my parents, to save up. **I am wondering about letting the debts go to collections and then just waiting until they hit the statute of limitations?** I know this only covers legal action but I have read on other websites about loopholes in 'alleged' debt. I figured I am still young and my credit is shit anyways, would it be possible to get away with this and wait the 7 years for my credit to reset? I don't plan on buying a house/car anytime soon and don't mind living on cash only for the next while. (I also wouldn't ghost on my credit as I have a student loan I am paying off as well as a post-paid phone line and open bank account - not associated with the credit cards) Probably seems too easy but would appreciate some advice. TL;DR: young Canadian signing up for two credit cards, irresponsible spending has resulted in debt which is now almost 5 years old; wondering if I can get away with waiting until statute of limitations before I pay off.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 806, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 5717, 368, 323, 4361, 2, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 275, 6144, 285, 6704, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 987, 672, 309, 3531, 1283, 15, 20715, 3579, 2620, 1107, 1996, 27, 3496, 37882, 9100, 13, 4886, 281, 247, 1027, 2846, 13, 391, 10892, 598, 6735, 285, 309, 1024, 24186, 247, 5678, 5062, 5, 28306, 4816, 1787, 361, 559, 370, 1012, 361, 481, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 4581, 1097, 8364, 533, 452, 12345, 644, 2104, 281, 1056, 10762, 2112, 342, 8845, 16, 307, 3191, 16, 14069, 15, 309, 5055, 598, 271, 4465, 2628, 387, 247, 10301, 533, 352, 1335, 3589, 626, 2217, 313, 42, 3153, 275, 22126, 13, 1077, 8214, 10, 285, 840, 309, 1694, 10090, 745, 1051, 594, 619, 26131, 403, 1335, 387, 253, 1072, 2408, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 3261, 387, 512, 619, 4610, 13, 10062, 281, 247, 417, 14, 1542, 14, 15608, 6735, 6619, 2086, 13, 7563, 264, 3966, 15, 1244, 1024, 13, 309, 717, 4886, 896, 1728, 281, 29026, 13, 3811, 342, 619, 4651, 13, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 424, 42, 717, 12371, 670, 13872, 253, 26131, 564, 281, 18406, 285, 840, 816, 6179, 1919, 597, 4352, 253, 6645, 273, 7364, 39148, 309, 871, 436, 760, 10949, 4320, 2250, 533, 309, 452, 1239, 327, 643, 14248, 670, 2343, 2689, 3841, 275, 686, 38653, 264, 8, 6735, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 15433, 309, 717, 1335, 2872, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 10739, 667, 1576, 13, 651, 352, 320, 1896, 281, 755, 1977, 342, 436, 285, 3343, 253, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 2098, 327, 11280, 247, 2419, 16, 5546, 28537, 3517, 285, 1053, 626, 2564, 3811, 327, 7942, 760, 323, 253, 1735, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 9, 42, 671, 5082, 626, 14972, 327, 619, 6152, 347, 309, 452, 247, 5974, 10119, 309, 717, 10054, 745, 347, 973, 347, 247, 1501, 14, 21470, 4481, 1386, 285, 1527, 4310, 2395, 428, 417, 2330, 342, 253, 6152, 8364, 10, 187, 187, 37161, 3133, 1512, 3477, 533, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2872, 9462, 15428, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 13, 3496, 37882, 9100, 556, 7369, 275, 6735, 534, 310, 1024, 2761, 608, 1107, 1711, 28, 12371, 604, 309, 476, 755, 1977, 342, 6179, 1919, 6645, 273, 7364, 1078, 309, 2075, 745, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

409

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi, first I'd like to thank you for reading! I'm in Canada and signed up for two credit cards right when I turned 18. Fast forward five years later: irresponsible spending, moving to a different city, racking up debt and I now owe a combined ~$5000 ($3700 + $1300). I have closed both cards but have barely been able to make payments along with rent/utilities/etc. I picked up an extra job at a restaurant but it still wasn't enough (I live in Vancouver, very expensive) and then I got laid off... so my debts are still at the same amount. I have looked at all my options, talked to a not-for-profit debt relief program, budgeted etc. And now, I am moving back home to Alberta, living with my parents, to save up. **I am wondering about letting the debts go to collections and then just waiting until they hit the statute of limitations?** I know this only covers legal action but I have read on other websites about loopholes in 'alleged' debt. I figured I am still young and my credit is shit anyways, would it be possible to get away with this and wait the 7 years for my credit to reset? I don't plan on buying a house/car anytime soon and don't mind living on cash only for the next while. (I also wouldn't ghost on my credit as I have a student loan I am paying off as well as a post-paid phone line and open bank account - not associated with the credit cards) Probably seems too easy but would appreciate some advice. TL;DR: stupid irresponsible spending and debt, wondering if it would be possible to try and wait 7 years for my credit to reset and then just pay it off - would appreciate some advice :)<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 13, 806, 309, 1871, 751, 281, 5717, 368, 323, 4361, 2, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 275, 6144, 285, 6704, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 987, 672, 309, 3531, 1283, 15, 20715, 3579, 2620, 1107, 1996, 27, 3496, 37882, 9100, 13, 4886, 281, 247, 1027, 2846, 13, 391, 10892, 598, 6735, 285, 309, 1024, 24186, 247, 5678, 5062, 5, 28306, 4816, 1787, 361, 559, 370, 1012, 361, 481, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 4581, 1097, 8364, 533, 452, 12345, 644, 2104, 281, 1056, 10762, 2112, 342, 8845, 16, 307, 3191, 16, 14069, 15, 309, 5055, 598, 271, 4465, 2628, 387, 247, 10301, 533, 352, 1335, 3589, 626, 2217, 313, 42, 3153, 275, 22126, 13, 1077, 8214, 10, 285, 840, 309, 1694, 10090, 745, 1051, 594, 619, 26131, 403, 1335, 387, 253, 1072, 2408, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 452, 3261, 387, 512, 619, 4610, 13, 10062, 281, 247, 417, 14, 1542, 14, 15608, 6735, 6619, 2086, 13, 7563, 264, 3966, 15, 1244, 1024, 13, 309, 717, 4886, 896, 1728, 281, 29026, 13, 3811, 342, 619, 4651, 13, 281, 5321, 598, 15, 2490, 187, 424, 42, 717, 12371, 670, 13872, 253, 26131, 564, 281, 18406, 285, 840, 816, 6179, 1919, 597, 4352, 253, 6645, 273, 7364, 39148, 309, 871, 436, 760, 10949, 4320, 2250, 533, 309, 452, 1239, 327, 643, 14248, 670, 2343, 2689, 3841, 275, 686, 38653, 264, 8, 6735, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 15433, 309, 717, 1335, 2872, 285, 619, 6152, 310, 10739, 667, 1576, 13, 651, 352, 320, 1896, 281, 755, 1977, 342, 436, 285, 3343, 253, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 2098, 327, 11280, 247, 2419, 16, 5546, 28537, 3517, 285, 1053, 626, 2564, 3811, 327, 7942, 760, 323, 253, 1735, 1223, 15, 2490, 187, 9, 42, 671, 5082, 626, 14972, 327, 619, 6152, 347, 309, 452, 247, 5974, 10119, 309, 717, 10054, 745, 347, 973, 347, 247, 1501, 14, 21470, 4481, 1386, 285, 1527, 4310, 2395, 428, 417, 2330, 342, 253, 6152, 8364, 10, 187, 187, 37161, 3133, 1512, 3477, 533, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 11339, 3496, 37882, 9100, 285, 6735, 13, 12371, 604, 352, 651, 320, 1896, 281, 1611, 285, 3343, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 285, 840, 816, 2075, 352, 745, 428, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 9418, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

404

367

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2872, 9462, 15428, 598, 323, 767, 6152, 8364, 13, 3496, 37882, 9100, 556, 7369, 275, 6735, 534, 310, 1024, 2761, 608, 1107, 1711, 28, 12371, 604, 309, 476, 755, 1977, 342, 6179, 1919, 6645, 273, 7364, 1078, 309, 2075, 745, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 11339, 3496, 37882, 9100, 285, 6735, 13, 12371, 604, 352, 651, 320, 1896, 281, 1611, 285, 3343, 818, 1107, 323, 619, 6152, 281, 14932, 285, 840, 816, 2075, 352, 745, 428, 651, 11435, 690, 7535, 9418, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend "come up to my level" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do?

my friend is socially awkward and really embarrasses me when he talks to people. I constantly hear other people gossiping about him behind his back. Need help helping him overcome his awkwardness!

best friend is socially awkward and comes across creepy. constantly getting ignored by females. feel embarrassed being with him. need advice on how to overcome this embarrassment.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3808, 896, 2926, 27, 2752, 1655, 1682, 3331, 15, 844, 452, 247, 2257, 273, 253, 1072, 6284, 285, 344, 310, 581, 273, 253, 954, 6313, 2798, 264, 13, 285, 6815, 383, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 15, 754, 310, 247, 1270, 5599, 15, 754, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 13, 344, 310, 1077, 28071, 19328, 285, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 313, 20432, 10753, 10, 344, 3249, 273, 347, 3965, 43152, 15, 844, 10913, 562, 512, 253, 673, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 2571, 5015, 3212, 521, 896, 285, 2403, 5701, 670, 779, 15, 844, 564, 562, 281, 253, 5453, 11719, 285, 521, 10015, 403, 3798, 1499, 45695, 13, 344, 556, 1698, 1881, 7162, 285, 344, 9193, 326, 344, 3548, 626, 1175, 387, 2712, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 2032, 344, 310, 271, 13103, 1436, 481, 754, 310, 38611, 784, 281, 23649, 4542, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 2096, 672, 952, 403, 2403, 794, 273, 779, 987, 275, 521, 2454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 755, 326, 1199, 5343, 4116, 13, 2299, 13, 309, 755, 1039, 625, 685, 344, 1057, 15, 754, 556, 253, 48101, 9927, 326, 954, 2255, 588, 1620, 1089, 779, 12994, 13, 344, 434, 417, 247, 3076, 2819, 5599, 2057, 15, 309, 452, 5125, 253, 2934, 273, 12701, 342, 779, 281, 1361, 779, 4489, 747, 10015, 13, 9551, 779, 849, 281, 11012, 1805, 285, 4933, 779, 2675, 12192, 15, 309, 1978, 2820, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 3676, 1066, 3304, 273, 779, 627, 310, 247, 402, 1123, 4033, 2191, 659, 9258, 751, 5599, 326, 434, 13889, 281, 755, 562, 13, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 352, 2, 754, 816, 556, 281, 3324, 779, 562, 15, 309, 588, 28411, 366, 326, 344, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 13, 533, 309, 871, 326, 1580, 359, 403, 1900, 2366, 13, 952, 1900, 15629, 441, 342, 581, 1529, 15, 309, 871, 10095, 626, 1557, 752, 643, 1158, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 40889, 984, 309, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 387, 2069, 15, 754, 310, 619, 3331, 285, 512, 309, 971, 310, 323, 779, 281, 320, 5211, 15, 754, 310, 1512, 1175, 273, 247, 1966, 1146, 323, 952, 281, 320, 4680, 326, 344, 310, 247, 48222, 15, 1583, 943, 320, 5015, 3076, 670, 479, 3185, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1361, 619, 3331, 346, 3188, 598, 281, 619, 1268, 3, 285, 6830, 28842, 479, 32, 1198, 1110, 326, 452, 644, 275, 253, 1072, 1659, 347, 479, 13, 752, 858, 368, 513, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend "come up to my level" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do? TL;DR:

my friend is socially awkward and really embarrasses me when he talks to people. I constantly hear other people gossiping about him behind his back. Need help helping him overcome his awkwardness!<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 1663, 15005, 265, 479, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 643, 952, 34168, 272, 670, 779, 3212, 521, 896, 15, 20389, 1361, 9073, 779, 11399, 521, 19328, 1255, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

best friend is socially awkward and comes across creepy. constantly getting ignored by females. feel embarrassed being with him. need advice on how to overcome this embarrassment.<|endoftext|>

[ 1682, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 3249, 2439, 43152, 15, 11485, 2970, 12841, 407, 10753, 15, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 15, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 436, 36649, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend "come up to my level" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do? TL;DR: my friend is socially awkward and really embarrasses me when he talks to people. I constantly hear other people gossiping about him behind his back. Need help helping him overcome his awkwardness!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3808, 896, 2926, 27, 2752, 1655, 1682, 3331, 15, 844, 452, 247, 2257, 273, 253, 1072, 6284, 285, 344, 310, 581, 273, 253, 954, 6313, 2798, 264, 13, 285, 6815, 383, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 15, 754, 310, 247, 1270, 5599, 15, 754, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 13, 344, 310, 1077, 28071, 19328, 285, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 313, 20432, 10753, 10, 344, 3249, 273, 347, 3965, 43152, 15, 844, 10913, 562, 512, 253, 673, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 2571, 5015, 3212, 521, 896, 285, 2403, 5701, 670, 779, 15, 844, 564, 562, 281, 253, 5453, 11719, 285, 521, 10015, 403, 3798, 1499, 45695, 13, 344, 556, 1698, 1881, 7162, 285, 344, 9193, 326, 344, 3548, 626, 1175, 387, 2712, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 2032, 344, 310, 271, 13103, 1436, 481, 754, 310, 38611, 784, 281, 23649, 4542, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 2096, 672, 952, 403, 2403, 794, 273, 779, 987, 275, 521, 2454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 755, 326, 1199, 5343, 4116, 13, 2299, 13, 309, 755, 1039, 625, 685, 344, 1057, 15, 754, 556, 253, 48101, 9927, 326, 954, 2255, 588, 1620, 1089, 779, 12994, 13, 344, 434, 417, 247, 3076, 2819, 5599, 2057, 15, 309, 452, 5125, 253, 2934, 273, 12701, 342, 779, 281, 1361, 779, 4489, 747, 10015, 13, 9551, 779, 849, 281, 11012, 1805, 285, 4933, 779, 2675, 12192, 15, 309, 1978, 2820, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 3676, 1066, 3304, 273, 779, 627, 310, 247, 402, 1123, 4033, 2191, 659, 9258, 751, 5599, 326, 434, 13889, 281, 755, 562, 13, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 352, 2, 754, 816, 556, 281, 3324, 779, 562, 15, 309, 588, 28411, 366, 326, 344, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 13, 533, 309, 871, 326, 1580, 359, 403, 1900, 2366, 13, 952, 1900, 15629, 441, 342, 581, 1529, 15, 309, 871, 10095, 626, 1557, 752, 643, 1158, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 40889, 984, 309, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 387, 2069, 15, 754, 310, 619, 3331, 285, 512, 309, 971, 310, 323, 779, 281, 320, 5211, 15, 754, 310, 1512, 1175, 273, 247, 1966, 1146, 323, 952, 281, 320, 4680, 326, 344, 310, 247, 48222, 15, 1583, 943, 320, 5015, 3076, 670, 479, 3185, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1361, 619, 3331, 346, 3188, 598, 281, 619, 1268, 3, 285, 6830, 28842, 479, 32, 1198, 1110, 326, 452, 644, 275, 253, 1072, 1659, 347, 479, 13, 752, 858, 368, 513, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 1663, 15005, 265, 479, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 643, 952, 34168, 272, 670, 779, 3212, 521, 896, 15, 20389, 1361, 9073, 779, 11399, 521, 19328, 1255, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

484

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Some back story: My current best friend. We have a lot of the same interests and he is one of the most pure hearted, and nicest people I have ever met. He is a great guy. He will always be my friend for life. The problem is, he is very socially awkward and when he talks to people (especially females) he comes of as pretty creepy. We hang out all the time. I constantly hear others talking behind his back and making comments about him. We go out to the club regularly and his clothes are usually sloppy, he has low self confidence and he feels that he isn't good at anything (which is not true he is an awesome person). He is oblivious to sarcasm and he doesn't understand when people are making fun of him right in his face. I don't get that much female attention, however, I get way more than he does. He has the retarded belief that most women will never find him attractive, he's not a bad looking guy either. I have suggested the idea of shopping with him to help him buy new clothes, teaching him how to dance better and giving him social tips. I keep trying to tell him that deep down inside of him there is a suave Barney Stinson like guy that's dying to get out, but he doesn't believe it! He just has to bring him out. I will reiterate that he will always be my friend for life, but I know that since we are always together, people always associate us with one another. I know shouldn't care what other think, but I feel like an asshole because I feel embarrassed being with him at times. He is my friend and all I want is for him to be happy. He is too good of a human being for people to be thinking that he is a loser. They should be talking bad about me instead. What do I do about this situation? How do I help my friend "come up to my level" and possibly surpass me? For those that have been in the same place as me, what did you do? TL;DR: best friend is socially awkward and comes across creepy. constantly getting ignored by females. feel embarrassed being with him. need advice on how to overcome this embarrassment.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3808, 896, 2926, 27, 2752, 1655, 1682, 3331, 15, 844, 452, 247, 2257, 273, 253, 1072, 6284, 285, 344, 310, 581, 273, 253, 954, 6313, 2798, 264, 13, 285, 6815, 383, 952, 309, 452, 2455, 1313, 15, 754, 310, 247, 1270, 5599, 15, 754, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 15, 380, 1895, 310, 13, 344, 310, 1077, 28071, 19328, 285, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 313, 20432, 10753, 10, 344, 3249, 273, 347, 3965, 43152, 15, 844, 10913, 562, 512, 253, 673, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 2571, 5015, 3212, 521, 896, 285, 2403, 5701, 670, 779, 15, 844, 564, 562, 281, 253, 5453, 11719, 285, 521, 10015, 403, 3798, 1499, 45695, 13, 344, 556, 1698, 1881, 7162, 285, 344, 9193, 326, 344, 3548, 626, 1175, 387, 2712, 313, 4609, 310, 417, 2032, 344, 310, 271, 13103, 1436, 481, 754, 310, 38611, 784, 281, 23649, 4542, 285, 344, 2506, 626, 2096, 672, 952, 403, 2403, 794, 273, 779, 987, 275, 521, 2454, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 755, 326, 1199, 5343, 4116, 13, 2299, 13, 309, 755, 1039, 625, 685, 344, 1057, 15, 754, 556, 253, 48101, 9927, 326, 954, 2255, 588, 1620, 1089, 779, 12994, 13, 344, 434, 417, 247, 3076, 2819, 5599, 2057, 15, 309, 452, 5125, 253, 2934, 273, 12701, 342, 779, 281, 1361, 779, 4489, 747, 10015, 13, 9551, 779, 849, 281, 11012, 1805, 285, 4933, 779, 2675, 12192, 15, 309, 1978, 2820, 281, 2028, 779, 326, 3676, 1066, 3304, 273, 779, 627, 310, 247, 402, 1123, 4033, 2191, 659, 9258, 751, 5599, 326, 434, 13889, 281, 755, 562, 13, 533, 344, 2506, 626, 2868, 352, 2, 754, 816, 556, 281, 3324, 779, 562, 15, 309, 588, 28411, 366, 326, 344, 588, 1900, 320, 619, 3331, 323, 1495, 13, 533, 309, 871, 326, 1580, 359, 403, 1900, 2366, 13, 952, 1900, 15629, 441, 342, 581, 1529, 15, 309, 871, 10095, 626, 1557, 752, 643, 1158, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 271, 40889, 984, 309, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 387, 2069, 15, 754, 310, 619, 3331, 285, 512, 309, 971, 310, 323, 779, 281, 320, 5211, 15, 754, 310, 1512, 1175, 273, 247, 1966, 1146, 323, 952, 281, 320, 4680, 326, 344, 310, 247, 48222, 15, 1583, 943, 320, 5015, 3076, 670, 479, 3185, 15, 1737, 513, 309, 513, 670, 436, 4112, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1361, 619, 3331, 346, 3188, 598, 281, 619, 1268, 3, 285, 6830, 28842, 479, 32, 1198, 1110, 326, 452, 644, 275, 253, 1072, 1659, 347, 479, 13, 752, 858, 368, 513, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1682, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 3249, 2439, 43152, 15, 11485, 2970, 12841, 407, 10753, 15, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 15, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 436, 36649, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

477

445

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 1663, 15005, 265, 479, 672, 344, 12088, 281, 952, 15, 309, 11485, 4089, 643, 952, 34168, 272, 670, 779, 3212, 521, 896, 15, 20389, 1361, 9073, 779, 11399, 521, 19328, 1255, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1682, 3331, 310, 28071, 19328, 285, 3249, 2439, 43152, 15, 11485, 2970, 12841, 407, 10753, 15, 1928, 30069, 1146, 342, 779, 15, 878, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 11399, 436, 36649, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

First off, im 17f. Ive been dating my boyfriend (17m) for 6 months, and its safe to say im head over heels in *love* with him. We're very, very happy together, and absolutely perfect for each other. I would never dare cheat on him or hurt him, and i can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's my best friend. Which makes me wonder, how can i be so attracted to someone else? Theres this kid in one of my classes at school, (My boyfriend goes to school in the next town over, btw) and he is so. Fucking. Adorable. He has the sweetest personality, hes funny, friendly, cute, and so..ugh, great! We can talk all class period about anything and everything, and he'll often brush my arm with his if he sits next to me. I am extremely physically attracted to him..i basically have a baby crush on him, and i feel so guilty about it. I *actually* feel as if im cheating on my boyfriend, which i would never do, because i feel so guilty! If i were to choose, i would choose my boyfriend 200000% of the time over him. But that kid, oh gosh, hes so cute. Please, someone, tell me that what im feeling isnt wrong.

I have a baby crush on a kid in my class, and I feel guilty about it.

i have a small crush on this kid in my class, and i feel guilty as shit about it.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 516, 1722, 71, 15, 309, 306, 644, 13597, 619, 22273, 313, 1166, 78, 10, 323, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 697, 4999, 281, 1333, 516, 1481, 689, 25296, 275, 475, 26617, 11, 342, 779, 15, 844, 1472, 1077, 13, 1077, 5211, 2366, 13, 285, 8839, 3962, 323, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 651, 1620, 20141, 39038, 327, 779, 390, 8513, 779, 13, 285, 891, 476, 20509, 923, 4266, 9100, 253, 1551, 273, 619, 1495, 342, 779, 15, 754, 434, 619, 1682, 3331, 15, 187, 187, 7371, 2789, 479, 4282, 13, 849, 476, 891, 320, 594, 17755, 281, 3095, 2010, 32, 187, 187, 510, 373, 436, 5772, 275, 581, 273, 619, 5971, 387, 2143, 13, 313, 3220, 22273, 4566, 281, 2143, 275, 253, 1735, 3874, 689, 13, 270, 7553, 10, 285, 344, 310, 594, 15, 401, 25826, 15, 2006, 12178, 15, 754, 556, 253, 7353, 383, 13216, 13, 34236, 11755, 13, 11453, 13, 20295, 13, 285, 594, 537, 19180, 13, 1270, 2, 844, 476, 2312, 512, 966, 2180, 670, 2712, 285, 3253, 13, 285, 344, 1833, 2223, 16463, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 604, 344, 17954, 1735, 281, 479, 15, 309, 717, 6685, 13318, 17755, 281, 779, 537, 74, 10323, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 779, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 309, 475, 35264, 11, 1928, 347, 604, 516, 37142, 327, 619, 22273, 13, 534, 891, 651, 1620, 513, 13, 984, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 2, 1310, 891, 497, 281, 5206, 13, 891, 651, 5206, 619, 22273, 1052, 933, 6, 273, 253, 673, 689, 779, 15, 1292, 326, 5772, 13, 12506, 305, 6934, 13, 34236, 594, 20295, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 13, 3095, 13, 2028, 479, 326, 752, 516, 5471, 310, 2649, 3430, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, im 17f. Ive been dating my boyfriend (17m) for 6 months, and its safe to say im head over heels in *love* with him. We're very, very happy together, and absolutely perfect for each other. I would never dare cheat on him or hurt him, and i can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's my best friend. Which makes me wonder, how can i be so attracted to someone else? Theres this kid in one of my classes at school, (My boyfriend goes to school in the next town over, btw) and he is so. Fucking. Adorable. He has the sweetest personality, hes funny, friendly, cute, and so..ugh, great! We can talk all class period about anything and everything, and he'll often brush my arm with his if he sits next to me. I am extremely physically attracted to him..i basically have a baby crush on him, and i feel so guilty about it. I *actually* feel as if im cheating on my boyfriend, which i would never do, because i feel so guilty! If i were to choose, i would choose my boyfriend 200000% of the time over him. But that kid, oh gosh, hes so cute. Please, someone, tell me that what im feeling isnt wrong. TL;DR:

I have a baby crush on a kid in my class, and I feel guilty about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 247, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

i have a small crush on this kid in my class, and i feel guilty as shit about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 891, 452, 247, 1355, 30582, 327, 436, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 8106, 347, 10739, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, im 17f. Ive been dating my boyfriend (17m) for 6 months, and its safe to say im head over heels in *love* with him. We're very, very happy together, and absolutely perfect for each other. I would never dare cheat on him or hurt him, and i can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's my best friend. Which makes me wonder, how can i be so attracted to someone else? Theres this kid in one of my classes at school, (My boyfriend goes to school in the next town over, btw) and he is so. Fucking. Adorable. He has the sweetest personality, hes funny, friendly, cute, and so..ugh, great! We can talk all class period about anything and everything, and he'll often brush my arm with his if he sits next to me. I am extremely physically attracted to him..i basically have a baby crush on him, and i feel so guilty about it. I *actually* feel as if im cheating on my boyfriend, which i would never do, because i feel so guilty! If i were to choose, i would choose my boyfriend 200000% of the time over him. But that kid, oh gosh, hes so cute. Please, someone, tell me that what im feeling isnt wrong. TL;DR: I have a baby crush on a kid in my class, and I feel guilty about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 516, 1722, 71, 15, 309, 306, 644, 13597, 619, 22273, 313, 1166, 78, 10, 323, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 697, 4999, 281, 1333, 516, 1481, 689, 25296, 275, 475, 26617, 11, 342, 779, 15, 844, 1472, 1077, 13, 1077, 5211, 2366, 13, 285, 8839, 3962, 323, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 651, 1620, 20141, 39038, 327, 779, 390, 8513, 779, 13, 285, 891, 476, 20509, 923, 4266, 9100, 253, 1551, 273, 619, 1495, 342, 779, 15, 754, 434, 619, 1682, 3331, 15, 187, 187, 7371, 2789, 479, 4282, 13, 849, 476, 891, 320, 594, 17755, 281, 3095, 2010, 32, 187, 187, 510, 373, 436, 5772, 275, 581, 273, 619, 5971, 387, 2143, 13, 313, 3220, 22273, 4566, 281, 2143, 275, 253, 1735, 3874, 689, 13, 270, 7553, 10, 285, 344, 310, 594, 15, 401, 25826, 15, 2006, 12178, 15, 754, 556, 253, 7353, 383, 13216, 13, 34236, 11755, 13, 11453, 13, 20295, 13, 285, 594, 537, 19180, 13, 1270, 2, 844, 476, 2312, 512, 966, 2180, 670, 2712, 285, 3253, 13, 285, 344, 1833, 2223, 16463, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 604, 344, 17954, 1735, 281, 479, 15, 309, 717, 6685, 13318, 17755, 281, 779, 537, 74, 10323, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 779, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 309, 475, 35264, 11, 1928, 347, 604, 516, 37142, 327, 619, 22273, 13, 534, 891, 651, 1620, 513, 13, 984, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 2, 1310, 891, 497, 281, 5206, 13, 891, 651, 5206, 619, 22273, 1052, 933, 6, 273, 253, 673, 689, 779, 15, 1292, 326, 5772, 13, 12506, 305, 6934, 13, 34236, 594, 20295, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 13, 3095, 13, 2028, 479, 326, 752, 516, 5471, 310, 2649, 3430, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 247, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

330

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: First off, im 17f. Ive been dating my boyfriend (17m) for 6 months, and its safe to say im head over heels in *love* with him. We're very, very happy together, and absolutely perfect for each other. I would never dare cheat on him or hurt him, and i can honestly see myself spending the rest of my life with him. He's my best friend. Which makes me wonder, how can i be so attracted to someone else? Theres this kid in one of my classes at school, (My boyfriend goes to school in the next town over, btw) and he is so. Fucking. Adorable. He has the sweetest personality, hes funny, friendly, cute, and so..ugh, great! We can talk all class period about anything and everything, and he'll often brush my arm with his if he sits next to me. I am extremely physically attracted to him..i basically have a baby crush on him, and i feel so guilty about it. I *actually* feel as if im cheating on my boyfriend, which i would never do, because i feel so guilty! If i were to choose, i would choose my boyfriend 200000% of the time over him. But that kid, oh gosh, hes so cute. Please, someone, tell me that what im feeling isnt wrong. TL;DR: i have a small crush on this kid in my class, and i feel guilty as shit about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3973, 745, 13, 516, 1722, 71, 15, 309, 306, 644, 13597, 619, 22273, 313, 1166, 78, 10, 323, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 697, 4999, 281, 1333, 516, 1481, 689, 25296, 275, 475, 26617, 11, 342, 779, 15, 844, 1472, 1077, 13, 1077, 5211, 2366, 13, 285, 8839, 3962, 323, 1016, 643, 15, 309, 651, 1620, 20141, 39038, 327, 779, 390, 8513, 779, 13, 285, 891, 476, 20509, 923, 4266, 9100, 253, 1551, 273, 619, 1495, 342, 779, 15, 754, 434, 619, 1682, 3331, 15, 187, 187, 7371, 2789, 479, 4282, 13, 849, 476, 891, 320, 594, 17755, 281, 3095, 2010, 32, 187, 187, 510, 373, 436, 5772, 275, 581, 273, 619, 5971, 387, 2143, 13, 313, 3220, 22273, 4566, 281, 2143, 275, 253, 1735, 3874, 689, 13, 270, 7553, 10, 285, 344, 310, 594, 15, 401, 25826, 15, 2006, 12178, 15, 754, 556, 253, 7353, 383, 13216, 13, 34236, 11755, 13, 11453, 13, 20295, 13, 285, 594, 537, 19180, 13, 1270, 2, 844, 476, 2312, 512, 966, 2180, 670, 2712, 285, 3253, 13, 285, 344, 1833, 2223, 16463, 619, 4430, 342, 521, 604, 344, 17954, 1735, 281, 479, 15, 309, 717, 6685, 13318, 17755, 281, 779, 537, 74, 10323, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 779, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 309, 475, 35264, 11, 1928, 347, 604, 516, 37142, 327, 619, 22273, 13, 534, 891, 651, 1620, 513, 13, 984, 891, 1928, 594, 8106, 2, 1310, 891, 497, 281, 5206, 13, 891, 651, 5206, 619, 22273, 1052, 933, 6, 273, 253, 673, 689, 779, 15, 1292, 326, 5772, 13, 12506, 305, 6934, 13, 34236, 594, 20295, 15, 187, 187, 7845, 13, 3095, 13, 2028, 479, 326, 752, 516, 5471, 310, 2649, 3430, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 891, 452, 247, 1355, 30582, 327, 436, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 8106, 347, 10739, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

332

310

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 247, 6858, 30582, 327, 247, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 309, 1928, 8106, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 891, 452, 247, 1355, 30582, 327, 436, 5772, 275, 619, 966, 13, 285, 891, 1928, 8106, 347, 10739, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My husband, Jason*, and I have been married for 2 years and together for 5. You are probably used to the "he's wonderful" and "he's perfect" posts here....but he is great. He makes me absurdly happy. He makes me smile, giggle, and get all fuzzy. I can't really explain how silly I get when asked to explain. But. Two years before us, he lost his older brother, It was a bar car accident. No ones fault. Older man had a stroke at the wheel and hit his brother's car. Jason was supposed to be driving that car. Instead, he stayed at home. He blames himself. Everything bad that happens is his fault, in his mind. I get it. He has guilt. I've told him a million times that his brother's death was not his fault. His parents say the same. But...it's everything. Everything you can think of is his fault. Out of a certain food? His fault. Need to get gas before work? His fault. The house needs cleaned? His fault. I've done everything possible to help. I've used every rational argument. Tonight, we drive home from bar and the fact that we had to stop to get gas was his fault. I told him no, I told him getting gas is fact of life, and he sulked the whole way home. He is still upset about such a simple thing. I don't know what to do. I've told him he needs help, and he rejects it. What do I do? How do I make him see that not everything is his fault? He is a wonderful person. Amazing. Just....incredible. And he just can't see his worth. Note: apologizes. English is not my first language.

Husband blames everything bad that happened to him on everything he did wrong. He is extremely depressed and doesn't see his worth. Help please!

Husband blames everything bad that happens on himself. He is amazing. I try to help, and he continues to stomp me and refuse to change. Don't know what to do.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 5938, 13, 16553, 2992, 285, 309, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 374, 1107, 285, 2366, 323, 608, 15, 1422, 403, 3164, 908, 281, 253, 346, 248, 434, 9386, 3, 285, 346, 248, 434, 3962, 3, 9319, 1060, 2391, 2858, 344, 310, 1270, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 20873, 314, 5211, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 8580, 13, 14349, 10582, 13, 285, 755, 512, 31921, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 5513, 849, 19456, 309, 755, 672, 2546, 281, 5513, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 15, 187, 187, 7910, 1107, 1078, 441, 13, 344, 3663, 521, 5662, 4929, 13, 733, 369, 247, 2534, 1113, 7343, 15, 1621, 4394, 9331, 15, 8937, 254, 637, 574, 50276, 66, 9980, 387, 253, 9530, 285, 4352, 521, 4929, 434, 1113, 15, 16553, 369, 6326, 281, 320, 6276, 326, 1113, 15, 7820, 13, 344, 11791, 387, 1728, 15, 754, 787, 1443, 2994, 15, 2490, 187, 22242, 3076, 326, 6569, 310, 521, 9331, 13, 275, 521, 2564, 15, 309, 755, 352, 15, 754, 556, 15457, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 247, 3041, 2069, 326, 521, 4929, 434, 2471, 369, 417, 521, 9331, 15, 3032, 4651, 1333, 253, 1072, 15, 1292, 1051, 262, 434, 3253, 15, 16942, 368, 476, 1158, 273, 310, 521, 9331, 15, 6282, 273, 247, 2176, 2739, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 20389, 281, 755, 3678, 1078, 789, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 380, 2419, 3198, 22269, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 3253, 1896, 281, 1361, 15, 309, 1849, 908, 1046, 8870, 4154, 15, 43935, 13, 359, 4446, 1728, 432, 2534, 285, 253, 958, 326, 359, 574, 281, 3523, 281, 755, 3678, 369, 521, 9331, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 642, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 2970, 3678, 310, 50276, 12690, 273, 1495, 13, 285, 344, 18253, 16386, 253, 2644, 1039, 1728, 15, 754, 310, 1335, 14004, 670, 824, 247, 2969, 2181, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 344, 3198, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 41471, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1056, 779, 923, 326, 417, 3253, 310, 521, 9331, 32, 754, 310, 247, 9386, 1436, 15, 46974, 15, 3771, 2391, 1763, 433, 917, 15, 1244, 344, 816, 476, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 187, 187, 8497, 27, 15251, 4219, 15, 4383, 310, 417, 619, 806, 3448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My husband, Jason*, and I have been married for 2 years and together for 5. You are probably used to the "he's wonderful" and "he's perfect" posts here....but he is great. He makes me absurdly happy. He makes me smile, giggle, and get all fuzzy. I can't really explain how silly I get when asked to explain. But. Two years before us, he lost his older brother, It was a bar car accident. No ones fault. Older man had a stroke at the wheel and hit his brother's car. Jason was supposed to be driving that car. Instead, he stayed at home. He blames himself. Everything bad that happens is his fault, in his mind. I get it. He has guilt. I've told him a million times that his brother's death was not his fault. His parents say the same. But...it's everything. Everything you can think of is his fault. Out of a certain food? His fault. Need to get gas before work? His fault. The house needs cleaned? His fault. I've done everything possible to help. I've used every rational argument. Tonight, we drive home from bar and the fact that we had to stop to get gas was his fault. I told him no, I told him getting gas is fact of life, and he sulked the whole way home. He is still upset about such a simple thing. I don't know what to do. I've told him he needs help, and he rejects it. What do I do? How do I make him see that not everything is his fault? He is a wonderful person. Amazing. Just....incredible. And he just can't see his worth. Note: apologizes. English is not my first language. TL;DR:

Husband blames everything bad that happened to him on everything he did wrong. He is extremely depressed and doesn't see his worth. Help please!<|endoftext|>

[ 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 4592, 281, 779, 327, 3253, 344, 858, 3430, 15, 754, 310, 6685, 23201, 285, 2506, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 21695, 4496, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Husband blames everything bad that happens on himself. He is amazing. I try to help, and he continues to stomp me and refuse to change. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 6569, 327, 2994, 15, 754, 310, 8644, 15, 309, 1611, 281, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 7788, 281, 11044, 81, 479, 285, 16410, 281, 1818, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My husband, Jason*, and I have been married for 2 years and together for 5. You are probably used to the "he's wonderful" and "he's perfect" posts here....but he is great. He makes me absurdly happy. He makes me smile, giggle, and get all fuzzy. I can't really explain how silly I get when asked to explain. But. Two years before us, he lost his older brother, It was a bar car accident. No ones fault. Older man had a stroke at the wheel and hit his brother's car. Jason was supposed to be driving that car. Instead, he stayed at home. He blames himself. Everything bad that happens is his fault, in his mind. I get it. He has guilt. I've told him a million times that his brother's death was not his fault. His parents say the same. But...it's everything. Everything you can think of is his fault. Out of a certain food? His fault. Need to get gas before work? His fault. The house needs cleaned? His fault. I've done everything possible to help. I've used every rational argument. Tonight, we drive home from bar and the fact that we had to stop to get gas was his fault. I told him no, I told him getting gas is fact of life, and he sulked the whole way home. He is still upset about such a simple thing. I don't know what to do. I've told him he needs help, and he rejects it. What do I do? How do I make him see that not everything is his fault? He is a wonderful person. Amazing. Just....incredible. And he just can't see his worth. Note: apologizes. English is not my first language. TL;DR: Husband blames everything bad that happened to him on everything he did wrong. He is extremely depressed and doesn't see his worth. Help please!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 5938, 13, 16553, 2992, 285, 309, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 374, 1107, 285, 2366, 323, 608, 15, 1422, 403, 3164, 908, 281, 253, 346, 248, 434, 9386, 3, 285, 346, 248, 434, 3962, 3, 9319, 1060, 2391, 2858, 344, 310, 1270, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 20873, 314, 5211, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 8580, 13, 14349, 10582, 13, 285, 755, 512, 31921, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 5513, 849, 19456, 309, 755, 672, 2546, 281, 5513, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 15, 187, 187, 7910, 1107, 1078, 441, 13, 344, 3663, 521, 5662, 4929, 13, 733, 369, 247, 2534, 1113, 7343, 15, 1621, 4394, 9331, 15, 8937, 254, 637, 574, 50276, 66, 9980, 387, 253, 9530, 285, 4352, 521, 4929, 434, 1113, 15, 16553, 369, 6326, 281, 320, 6276, 326, 1113, 15, 7820, 13, 344, 11791, 387, 1728, 15, 754, 787, 1443, 2994, 15, 2490, 187, 22242, 3076, 326, 6569, 310, 521, 9331, 13, 275, 521, 2564, 15, 309, 755, 352, 15, 754, 556, 15457, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 247, 3041, 2069, 326, 521, 4929, 434, 2471, 369, 417, 521, 9331, 15, 3032, 4651, 1333, 253, 1072, 15, 1292, 1051, 262, 434, 3253, 15, 16942, 368, 476, 1158, 273, 310, 521, 9331, 15, 6282, 273, 247, 2176, 2739, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 20389, 281, 755, 3678, 1078, 789, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 380, 2419, 3198, 22269, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 3253, 1896, 281, 1361, 15, 309, 1849, 908, 1046, 8870, 4154, 15, 43935, 13, 359, 4446, 1728, 432, 2534, 285, 253, 958, 326, 359, 574, 281, 3523, 281, 755, 3678, 369, 521, 9331, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 642, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 2970, 3678, 310, 50276, 12690, 273, 1495, 13, 285, 344, 18253, 16386, 253, 2644, 1039, 1728, 15, 754, 310, 1335, 14004, 670, 824, 247, 2969, 2181, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 344, 3198, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 41471, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1056, 779, 923, 326, 417, 3253, 310, 521, 9331, 32, 754, 310, 247, 9386, 1436, 15, 46974, 15, 3771, 2391, 1763, 433, 917, 15, 1244, 344, 816, 476, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 187, 187, 8497, 27, 15251, 4219, 15, 4383, 310, 417, 619, 806, 3448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 4592, 281, 779, 327, 3253, 344, 858, 3430, 15, 754, 310, 6685, 23201, 285, 2506, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 21695, 4496, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

435

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My husband, Jason*, and I have been married for 2 years and together for 5. You are probably used to the "he's wonderful" and "he's perfect" posts here....but he is great. He makes me absurdly happy. He makes me smile, giggle, and get all fuzzy. I can't really explain how silly I get when asked to explain. But. Two years before us, he lost his older brother, It was a bar car accident. No ones fault. Older man had a stroke at the wheel and hit his brother's car. Jason was supposed to be driving that car. Instead, he stayed at home. He blames himself. Everything bad that happens is his fault, in his mind. I get it. He has guilt. I've told him a million times that his brother's death was not his fault. His parents say the same. But...it's everything. Everything you can think of is his fault. Out of a certain food? His fault. Need to get gas before work? His fault. The house needs cleaned? His fault. I've done everything possible to help. I've used every rational argument. Tonight, we drive home from bar and the fact that we had to stop to get gas was his fault. I told him no, I told him getting gas is fact of life, and he sulked the whole way home. He is still upset about such a simple thing. I don't know what to do. I've told him he needs help, and he rejects it. What do I do? How do I make him see that not everything is his fault? He is a wonderful person. Amazing. Just....incredible. And he just can't see his worth. Note: apologizes. English is not my first language. TL;DR: Husband blames everything bad that happens on himself. He is amazing. I try to help, and he continues to stomp me and refuse to change. Don't know what to do.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 5938, 13, 16553, 2992, 285, 309, 452, 644, 7028, 323, 374, 1107, 285, 2366, 323, 608, 15, 1422, 403, 3164, 908, 281, 253, 346, 248, 434, 9386, 3, 285, 346, 248, 434, 3962, 3, 9319, 1060, 2391, 2858, 344, 310, 1270, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 20873, 314, 5211, 15, 754, 2789, 479, 8580, 13, 14349, 10582, 13, 285, 755, 512, 31921, 15, 309, 476, 626, 1663, 5513, 849, 19456, 309, 755, 672, 2546, 281, 5513, 15, 187, 187, 1989, 15, 187, 187, 7910, 1107, 1078, 441, 13, 344, 3663, 521, 5662, 4929, 13, 733, 369, 247, 2534, 1113, 7343, 15, 1621, 4394, 9331, 15, 8937, 254, 637, 574, 50276, 66, 9980, 387, 253, 9530, 285, 4352, 521, 4929, 434, 1113, 15, 16553, 369, 6326, 281, 320, 6276, 326, 1113, 15, 7820, 13, 344, 11791, 387, 1728, 15, 754, 787, 1443, 2994, 15, 2490, 187, 22242, 3076, 326, 6569, 310, 521, 9331, 13, 275, 521, 2564, 15, 309, 755, 352, 15, 754, 556, 15457, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 247, 3041, 2069, 326, 521, 4929, 434, 2471, 369, 417, 521, 9331, 15, 3032, 4651, 1333, 253, 1072, 15, 1292, 1051, 262, 434, 3253, 15, 16942, 368, 476, 1158, 273, 310, 521, 9331, 15, 6282, 273, 247, 2176, 2739, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 20389, 281, 755, 3678, 1078, 789, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 380, 2419, 3198, 22269, 32, 3032, 9331, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1849, 2218, 3253, 1896, 281, 1361, 15, 309, 1849, 908, 1046, 8870, 4154, 15, 43935, 13, 359, 4446, 1728, 432, 2534, 285, 253, 958, 326, 359, 574, 281, 3523, 281, 755, 3678, 369, 521, 9331, 15, 309, 2183, 779, 642, 13, 309, 2183, 779, 2970, 3678, 310, 50276, 12690, 273, 1495, 13, 285, 344, 18253, 16386, 253, 2644, 1039, 1728, 15, 754, 310, 1335, 14004, 670, 824, 247, 2969, 2181, 15, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 309, 1849, 2183, 779, 344, 3198, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 41471, 352, 15, 2490, 187, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 1359, 513, 309, 1056, 779, 923, 326, 417, 3253, 310, 521, 9331, 32, 754, 310, 247, 9386, 1436, 15, 46974, 15, 3771, 2391, 1763, 433, 917, 15, 1244, 344, 816, 476, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 187, 187, 8497, 27, 15251, 4219, 15, 4383, 310, 417, 619, 806, 3448, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 6569, 327, 2994, 15, 754, 310, 8644, 15, 309, 1611, 281, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 7788, 281, 11044, 81, 479, 285, 16410, 281, 1818, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

444

405

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 4592, 281, 779, 327, 3253, 344, 858, 3430, 15, 754, 310, 6685, 23201, 285, 2506, 626, 923, 521, 4409, 15, 21695, 4496, 2, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 49226, 787, 1443, 3253, 3076, 326, 6569, 327, 2994, 15, 754, 310, 8644, 15, 309, 1611, 281, 1361, 13, 285, 344, 7788, 281, 11044, 81, 479, 285, 16410, 281, 1818, 15, 5037, 626, 871, 752, 281, 513, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I go to this restaurant/bar with my dad every Friday, or whenever we want really. There is a waitress there who is very attractive. I know that waitresses and waiters are supposed to be nice and work for their tips and such. Though, she flirts with me whenever we walk in. I haven't noticed her doing this with anyone else. Here is where the problem lies. She's the owner of the establishments niece, and a waitress. I love eating at this place as its a ritual with my dad, he doesn't even let me pay for the meals, but I am really attracted to her. I know it can go both ways and I wont know the outcome unless I ask. Though, I can't imagine what would happen if it went sour. It would be awkward for me to go in there and be served by someone who I went out with, and I couldn't really look the owner in the eye. Which would ruin the whole environment for my father and I. I will admit I get really nervous when it comes to asking females out, but I feel like this one could get complicated but be really awesome in the long run. I constantly catch her looking at me, not just our table, though I still can't tell if its her being nice because its her job. Though, I noticed that she goes out of her way just to get our table when we do go, possibly just because were great customers. I'm going on a trip next month for two weeks. I was going to wait until after I got back, to see if she asked about me, and to kind of get a feel for the situation until then. I would really love some advice on how to approach this situation. Thank you.

I'm attracted to a waitress at a restaurant/bar, though I don't know how to ask her out. I'm on a trip and I want to get a feel for the situation before asking.

I have a huge crush on a waitress at a resturant/bar that my father and I frequent, who happens to be the owners niece. HELP!!

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 564, 281, 436, 10301, 16, 2009, 342, 619, 12247, 1046, 6794, 13, 390, 10793, 359, 971, 1663, 15, 1707, 310, 247, 3343, 560, 627, 665, 310, 1077, 12994, 15, 309, 871, 326, 3343, 16443, 285, 3343, 398, 403, 6326, 281, 320, 5322, 285, 789, 323, 616, 12192, 285, 824, 15, 11474, 13, 703, 892, 14068, 342, 479, 10793, 359, 2940, 275, 15, 309, 6468, 626, 8344, 617, 2509, 436, 342, 3780, 2010, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 8696, 15, 1500, 434, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 22696, 43551, 13, 285, 247, 3343, 560, 15, 309, 2389, 9123, 387, 436, 1659, 347, 697, 247, 17651, 342, 619, 12247, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1339, 479, 2075, 323, 253, 16961, 13, 533, 309, 717, 1663, 17755, 281, 617, 15, 309, 871, 352, 476, 564, 1097, 4088, 285, 309, 31451, 871, 253, 6454, 5734, 309, 1642, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 476, 626, 8564, 752, 651, 5108, 604, 352, 2427, 18988, 15, 733, 651, 320, 19328, 323, 479, 281, 564, 275, 627, 285, 320, 5608, 407, 3095, 665, 309, 2427, 562, 342, 13, 285, 309, 4571, 626, 1663, 1007, 253, 7302, 275, 253, 5130, 15, 6758, 651, 23737, 253, 2644, 3126, 323, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 15, 187, 187, 42, 588, 11476, 309, 755, 1663, 11219, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 7004, 10753, 562, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 436, 581, 812, 755, 9542, 533, 320, 1663, 13103, 275, 253, 1048, 1408, 15, 309, 11485, 5834, 617, 2819, 387, 479, 13, 417, 816, 776, 2829, 13, 2167, 309, 1335, 476, 626, 2028, 604, 697, 617, 1146, 5322, 984, 697, 617, 2628, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 703, 4566, 562, 273, 617, 1039, 816, 281, 755, 776, 2829, 672, 359, 513, 564, 13, 6830, 816, 984, 497, 1270, 6383, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 1469, 327, 247, 7408, 1735, 1770, 323, 767, 3618, 15, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 3343, 1919, 846, 309, 1694, 896, 13, 281, 923, 604, 703, 2546, 670, 479, 13, 285, 281, 2238, 273, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1919, 840, 15, 309, 651, 1663, 2389, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2746, 436, 4112, 15, 11239, 368, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I go to this restaurant/bar with my dad every Friday, or whenever we want really. There is a waitress there who is very attractive. I know that waitresses and waiters are supposed to be nice and work for their tips and such. Though, she flirts with me whenever we walk in. I haven't noticed her doing this with anyone else. Here is where the problem lies. She's the owner of the establishments niece, and a waitress. I love eating at this place as its a ritual with my dad, he doesn't even let me pay for the meals, but I am really attracted to her. I know it can go both ways and I wont know the outcome unless I ask. Though, I can't imagine what would happen if it went sour. It would be awkward for me to go in there and be served by someone who I went out with, and I couldn't really look the owner in the eye. Which would ruin the whole environment for my father and I. I will admit I get really nervous when it comes to asking females out, but I feel like this one could get complicated but be really awesome in the long run. I constantly catch her looking at me, not just our table, though I still can't tell if its her being nice because its her job. Though, I noticed that she goes out of her way just to get our table when we do go, possibly just because were great customers. I'm going on a trip next month for two weeks. I was going to wait until after I got back, to see if she asked about me, and to kind of get a feel for the situation until then. I would really love some advice on how to approach this situation. Thank you. TL;DR:

I'm attracted to a waitress at a restaurant/bar, though I don't know how to ask her out. I'm on a trip and I want to get a feel for the situation before asking.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1353, 17755, 281, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 10301, 16, 2009, 13, 2167, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 1642, 617, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 327, 247, 7408, 285, 309, 971, 281, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1078, 7004, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I have a huge crush on a waitress at a resturant/bar that my father and I frequent, who happens to be the owners niece. HELP!!<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 247, 5699, 30582, 327, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 1551, 321, 386, 16, 2009, 326, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 10879, 13, 665, 6569, 281, 320, 253, 9891, 43551, 15, 43374, 49, 4672, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I go to this restaurant/bar with my dad every Friday, or whenever we want really. There is a waitress there who is very attractive. I know that waitresses and waiters are supposed to be nice and work for their tips and such. Though, she flirts with me whenever we walk in. I haven't noticed her doing this with anyone else. Here is where the problem lies. She's the owner of the establishments niece, and a waitress. I love eating at this place as its a ritual with my dad, he doesn't even let me pay for the meals, but I am really attracted to her. I know it can go both ways and I wont know the outcome unless I ask. Though, I can't imagine what would happen if it went sour. It would be awkward for me to go in there and be served by someone who I went out with, and I couldn't really look the owner in the eye. Which would ruin the whole environment for my father and I. I will admit I get really nervous when it comes to asking females out, but I feel like this one could get complicated but be really awesome in the long run. I constantly catch her looking at me, not just our table, though I still can't tell if its her being nice because its her job. Though, I noticed that she goes out of her way just to get our table when we do go, possibly just because were great customers. I'm going on a trip next month for two weeks. I was going to wait until after I got back, to see if she asked about me, and to kind of get a feel for the situation until then. I would really love some advice on how to approach this situation. Thank you. TL;DR: I'm attracted to a waitress at a restaurant/bar, though I don't know how to ask her out. I'm on a trip and I want to get a feel for the situation before asking.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 564, 281, 436, 10301, 16, 2009, 342, 619, 12247, 1046, 6794, 13, 390, 10793, 359, 971, 1663, 15, 1707, 310, 247, 3343, 560, 627, 665, 310, 1077, 12994, 15, 309, 871, 326, 3343, 16443, 285, 3343, 398, 403, 6326, 281, 320, 5322, 285, 789, 323, 616, 12192, 285, 824, 15, 11474, 13, 703, 892, 14068, 342, 479, 10793, 359, 2940, 275, 15, 309, 6468, 626, 8344, 617, 2509, 436, 342, 3780, 2010, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 8696, 15, 1500, 434, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 22696, 43551, 13, 285, 247, 3343, 560, 15, 309, 2389, 9123, 387, 436, 1659, 347, 697, 247, 17651, 342, 619, 12247, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1339, 479, 2075, 323, 253, 16961, 13, 533, 309, 717, 1663, 17755, 281, 617, 15, 309, 871, 352, 476, 564, 1097, 4088, 285, 309, 31451, 871, 253, 6454, 5734, 309, 1642, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 476, 626, 8564, 752, 651, 5108, 604, 352, 2427, 18988, 15, 733, 651, 320, 19328, 323, 479, 281, 564, 275, 627, 285, 320, 5608, 407, 3095, 665, 309, 2427, 562, 342, 13, 285, 309, 4571, 626, 1663, 1007, 253, 7302, 275, 253, 5130, 15, 6758, 651, 23737, 253, 2644, 3126, 323, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 15, 187, 187, 42, 588, 11476, 309, 755, 1663, 11219, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 7004, 10753, 562, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 436, 581, 812, 755, 9542, 533, 320, 1663, 13103, 275, 253, 1048, 1408, 15, 309, 11485, 5834, 617, 2819, 387, 479, 13, 417, 816, 776, 2829, 13, 2167, 309, 1335, 476, 626, 2028, 604, 697, 617, 1146, 5322, 984, 697, 617, 2628, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 703, 4566, 562, 273, 617, 1039, 816, 281, 755, 776, 2829, 672, 359, 513, 564, 13, 6830, 816, 984, 497, 1270, 6383, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 1469, 327, 247, 7408, 1735, 1770, 323, 767, 3618, 15, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 3343, 1919, 846, 309, 1694, 896, 13, 281, 923, 604, 703, 2546, 670, 479, 13, 285, 281, 2238, 273, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1919, 840, 15, 309, 651, 1663, 2389, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2746, 436, 4112, 15, 11239, 368, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1353, 17755, 281, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 10301, 16, 2009, 13, 2167, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 1642, 617, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 327, 247, 7408, 285, 309, 971, 281, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1078, 7004, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

426

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I go to this restaurant/bar with my dad every Friday, or whenever we want really. There is a waitress there who is very attractive. I know that waitresses and waiters are supposed to be nice and work for their tips and such. Though, she flirts with me whenever we walk in. I haven't noticed her doing this with anyone else. Here is where the problem lies. She's the owner of the establishments niece, and a waitress. I love eating at this place as its a ritual with my dad, he doesn't even let me pay for the meals, but I am really attracted to her. I know it can go both ways and I wont know the outcome unless I ask. Though, I can't imagine what would happen if it went sour. It would be awkward for me to go in there and be served by someone who I went out with, and I couldn't really look the owner in the eye. Which would ruin the whole environment for my father and I. I will admit I get really nervous when it comes to asking females out, but I feel like this one could get complicated but be really awesome in the long run. I constantly catch her looking at me, not just our table, though I still can't tell if its her being nice because its her job. Though, I noticed that she goes out of her way just to get our table when we do go, possibly just because were great customers. I'm going on a trip next month for two weeks. I was going to wait until after I got back, to see if she asked about me, and to kind of get a feel for the situation until then. I would really love some advice on how to approach this situation. Thank you. TL;DR: I have a huge crush on a waitress at a resturant/bar that my father and I frequent, who happens to be the owners niece. HELP!!<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 564, 281, 436, 10301, 16, 2009, 342, 619, 12247, 1046, 6794, 13, 390, 10793, 359, 971, 1663, 15, 1707, 310, 247, 3343, 560, 627, 665, 310, 1077, 12994, 15, 309, 871, 326, 3343, 16443, 285, 3343, 398, 403, 6326, 281, 320, 5322, 285, 789, 323, 616, 12192, 285, 824, 15, 11474, 13, 703, 892, 14068, 342, 479, 10793, 359, 2940, 275, 15, 309, 6468, 626, 8344, 617, 2509, 436, 342, 3780, 2010, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 8696, 15, 1500, 434, 253, 7302, 273, 253, 22696, 43551, 13, 285, 247, 3343, 560, 15, 309, 2389, 9123, 387, 436, 1659, 347, 697, 247, 17651, 342, 619, 12247, 13, 344, 2506, 626, 1014, 1339, 479, 2075, 323, 253, 16961, 13, 533, 309, 717, 1663, 17755, 281, 617, 15, 309, 871, 352, 476, 564, 1097, 4088, 285, 309, 31451, 871, 253, 6454, 5734, 309, 1642, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 476, 626, 8564, 752, 651, 5108, 604, 352, 2427, 18988, 15, 733, 651, 320, 19328, 323, 479, 281, 564, 275, 627, 285, 320, 5608, 407, 3095, 665, 309, 2427, 562, 342, 13, 285, 309, 4571, 626, 1663, 1007, 253, 7302, 275, 253, 5130, 15, 6758, 651, 23737, 253, 2644, 3126, 323, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 15, 187, 187, 42, 588, 11476, 309, 755, 1663, 11219, 672, 352, 3249, 281, 7004, 10753, 562, 13, 533, 309, 1928, 751, 436, 581, 812, 755, 9542, 533, 320, 1663, 13103, 275, 253, 1048, 1408, 15, 309, 11485, 5834, 617, 2819, 387, 479, 13, 417, 816, 776, 2829, 13, 2167, 309, 1335, 476, 626, 2028, 604, 697, 617, 1146, 5322, 984, 697, 617, 2628, 15, 11474, 13, 309, 8344, 326, 703, 4566, 562, 273, 617, 1039, 816, 281, 755, 776, 2829, 672, 359, 513, 564, 13, 6830, 816, 984, 497, 1270, 6383, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1353, 1469, 327, 247, 7408, 1735, 1770, 323, 767, 3618, 15, 309, 369, 1469, 281, 3343, 1919, 846, 309, 1694, 896, 13, 281, 923, 604, 703, 2546, 670, 479, 13, 285, 281, 2238, 273, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1919, 840, 15, 309, 651, 1663, 2389, 690, 7535, 327, 849, 281, 2746, 436, 4112, 15, 11239, 368, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 247, 5699, 30582, 327, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 1551, 321, 386, 16, 2009, 326, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 10879, 13, 665, 6569, 281, 320, 253, 9891, 43551, 15, 43374, 49, 4672, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

418

383

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1353, 17755, 281, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 10301, 16, 2009, 13, 2167, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 849, 281, 1642, 617, 562, 15, 309, 1353, 327, 247, 7408, 285, 309, 971, 281, 755, 247, 1928, 323, 253, 4112, 1078, 7004, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 247, 5699, 30582, 327, 247, 3343, 560, 387, 247, 1551, 321, 386, 16, 2009, 326, 619, 3392, 285, 309, 10879, 13, 665, 6569, 281, 320, 253, 9891, 43551, 15, 43374, 49, 4672, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Hi Reddit, As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer. Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend). Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon.

What is the most effective way to ask a girl to join you for a drink, without putting the onus on her?

How can I ask a guy I don't know to a drink without it being too forward?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 1909, 247, 17264, 3652, 49986, 342, 253, 14200, 3114, 310, 247, 1077, 9865, 2181, 15, 24503, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 513, 436, 310, 281, 1642, 3095, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 8574, 390, 247, 10562, 15, 187, 187, 34595, 8288, 13, 352, 457, 84, 3477, 2217, 281, 1804, 281, 1529, 5599, 359, 755, 247, 5484, 428, 533, 342, 247, 3558, 273, 253, 7285, 2825, 247, 1027, 7870, 476, 320, 5165, 13, 347, 9090, 368, 971, 281, 13791, 271, 1600, 275, 253, 1436, 533, 327, 253, 643, 1133, 309, 1353, 417, 8445, 562, 247, 18109, 2954, 313, 42, 452, 247, 19609, 481, 187, 187, 50069, 13, 309, 457, 306, 753, 1633, 751, 537, 541, 238, 6723, 368, 1959, 1024, 32, 309, 717, 9995, 281, 4489, 247, 8574, 323, 634, 7906, 327, 1051, 457, 533, 4282, 604, 352, 476, 457, 85, 320, 2007, 22407, 16, 303, 27369, 2220, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer. Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend). Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon. TL;DR:

What is the most effective way to ask a girl to join you for a drink, without putting the onus on her?<|endoftext|>

[ 1737, 310, 253, 954, 3576, 1039, 281, 1642, 247, 3226, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 1293, 8133, 253, 327, 316, 327, 617, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

How can I ask a guy I don't know to a drink without it being too forward?<|endoftext|>

[ 1359, 476, 309, 1642, 247, 5599, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 281, 247, 5484, 1293, 352, 1146, 1512, 3579, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer. Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend). Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon. TL;DR: What is the most effective way to ask a girl to join you for a drink, without putting the onus on her?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 1909, 247, 17264, 3652, 49986, 342, 253, 14200, 3114, 310, 247, 1077, 9865, 2181, 15, 24503, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 513, 436, 310, 281, 1642, 3095, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 8574, 390, 247, 10562, 15, 187, 187, 34595, 8288, 13, 352, 457, 84, 3477, 2217, 281, 1804, 281, 1529, 5599, 359, 755, 247, 5484, 428, 533, 342, 247, 3558, 273, 253, 7285, 2825, 247, 1027, 7870, 476, 320, 5165, 13, 347, 9090, 368, 971, 281, 13791, 271, 1600, 275, 253, 1436, 533, 327, 253, 643, 1133, 309, 1353, 417, 8445, 562, 247, 18109, 2954, 313, 42, 452, 247, 19609, 481, 187, 187, 50069, 13, 309, 457, 306, 753, 1633, 751, 537, 541, 238, 6723, 368, 1959, 1024, 32, 309, 717, 9995, 281, 4489, 247, 8574, 323, 634, 7906, 327, 1051, 457, 533, 4282, 604, 352, 476, 457, 85, 320, 2007, 22407, 16, 303, 27369, 2220, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1737, 310, 253, 954, 3576, 1039, 281, 1642, 247, 3226, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 1293, 8133, 253, 327, 316, 327, 617, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

201

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Hi Reddit, As a journalist building friendships with the wider community is a very valuable thing. Often the best way to do this is to ask someone to join you for a coffee or a beer. Generally speaking, it’s easy enough to suggest to another guy we get a drink - but with a member of the opposite sex a different dynamic can be apparent, as obviously you want to communicate an interest in the person but on the other hand I'm not seeking out a romantic relationship (I have a girlfriend). Previously, I’ve said something like.. ‛Are you free now? I am glad to buy a coffee for your thoughts on...’ but wonder if it can’t be further refined/improved upon. TL;DR: How can I ask a guy I don't know to a drink without it being too forward?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 17459, 39714, 13, 187, 187, 1909, 247, 17264, 3652, 49986, 342, 253, 14200, 3114, 310, 247, 1077, 9865, 2181, 15, 24503, 253, 1682, 1039, 281, 513, 436, 310, 281, 1642, 3095, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 8574, 390, 247, 10562, 15, 187, 187, 34595, 8288, 13, 352, 457, 84, 3477, 2217, 281, 1804, 281, 1529, 5599, 359, 755, 247, 5484, 428, 533, 342, 247, 3558, 273, 253, 7285, 2825, 247, 1027, 7870, 476, 320, 5165, 13, 347, 9090, 368, 971, 281, 13791, 271, 1600, 275, 253, 1436, 533, 327, 253, 643, 1133, 309, 1353, 417, 8445, 562, 247, 18109, 2954, 313, 42, 452, 247, 19609, 481, 187, 187, 50069, 13, 309, 457, 306, 753, 1633, 751, 537, 541, 238, 6723, 368, 1959, 1024, 32, 309, 717, 9995, 281, 4489, 247, 8574, 323, 634, 7906, 327, 1051, 457, 533, 4282, 604, 352, 476, 457, 85, 320, 2007, 22407, 16, 303, 27369, 2220, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1359, 476, 309, 1642, 247, 5599, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 281, 247, 5484, 1293, 352, 1146, 1512, 3579, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

195

175

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1737, 310, 253, 954, 3576, 1039, 281, 1642, 247, 3226, 281, 6604, 368, 323, 247, 5484, 13, 1293, 8133, 253, 327, 316, 327, 617, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1359, 476, 309, 1642, 247, 5599, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 281, 247, 5484, 1293, 352, 1146, 1512, 3579, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I'll try to keep it short: basically, there are a number of spreadsheets that our team is responsible for sending to the client every day. One of them she has to review before sending, and because of that, it is usually late...despite the fact I get them to her hours early every day to give her plenty of time to look over it. So yesterday she was EXTREMELY late, and came yelling into the office "Where is the _ Spreadsheet?" "Well, horrible boss lady, I emailed it to you 3 hours ago." Silence. Then "Well forward it to me again". So I do. I checked just now, and when she sent it to corporate, she went into the forward I'd sent and deleted the time stamp and removed the FWD from the subject. So it looks like I'M the one who sent it to her hours late instead of her being the one who screwed up. I've saved all the emails proving I sent it more than on time, just like I do every single day. How bad is this and why am I just RAGING over it. Do I go to her boss? What do I do? I'm so sick of this lady manipulating my team's shit to make herself look better...

Boss rewrites history in an email to make it look like I'm late, not her. Am I allowed to be as pissed off about this as I am? And how do I handle it (other than never forwarding her anything ever again and forcing her to use the original email)?

boss who's late every day, sends me a document late in the morning, deletes the time stamp and front and back of the document to make me look like the one who screwed up

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1978, 352, 2159, 27, 50276, 10352, 1037, 13, 627, 403, 247, 1180, 273, 5195, 6689, 1507, 326, 776, 2285, 310, 5506, 323, 10430, 281, 253, 5268, 1046, 1388, 15, 50276, 4041, 273, 731, 703, 556, 281, 2278, 1078, 10430, 13, 285, 984, 273, 326, 13, 352, 310, 3798, 3563, 1051, 3229, 3784, 253, 958, 309, 755, 731, 281, 617, 3038, 2393, 1046, 1388, 281, 1918, 617, 9828, 273, 673, 281, 1007, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 2598, 11066, 703, 369, 8021, 53, 31085, 39155, 3563, 13, 285, 2210, 34553, 715, 253, 3906, 346, 7161, 310, 253, 795, 43611, 20472, 865, 50276, 3, 4497, 13, 19201, 12145, 10692, 13, 309, 48325, 352, 281, 368, 495, 3038, 3622, 449, 50276, 18074, 566, 15, 50276, 5872, 346, 4497, 3579, 352, 281, 479, 969, 3446, 50276, 2598, 309, 513, 15, 187, 187, 42, 10141, 816, 1024, 13, 285, 672, 703, 2197, 352, 281, 10459, 13, 703, 2427, 715, 253, 3579, 309, 1871, 2197, 285, 16737, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 5176, 253, 401, 18576, 432, 253, 2256, 15, 1893, 352, 4453, 751, 309, 8, 46, 253, 581, 665, 2197, 352, 281, 617, 3038, 3563, 3185, 273, 617, 1146, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 9809, 512, 253, 16530, 18597, 309, 2197, 352, 625, 685, 327, 673, 13, 816, 751, 309, 513, 1046, 2014, 1388, 15, 50276, 2347, 3076, 310, 436, 285, 2139, 717, 309, 816, 416, 2696, 2637, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 564, 281, 617, 12145, 32, 50276, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 42, 1353, 594, 8334, 273, 436, 10692, 40238, 619, 2285, 434, 10739, 281, 1056, 5972, 1007, 1805, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to keep it short: basically, there are a number of spreadsheets that our team is responsible for sending to the client every day. One of them she has to review before sending, and because of that, it is usually late...despite the fact I get them to her hours early every day to give her plenty of time to look over it. So yesterday she was EXTREMELY late, and came yelling into the office "Where is the _ Spreadsheet?" "Well, horrible boss lady, I emailed it to you 3 hours ago." Silence. Then "Well forward it to me again". So I do. I checked just now, and when she sent it to corporate, she went into the forward I'd sent and deleted the time stamp and removed the FWD from the subject. So it looks like I'M the one who sent it to her hours late instead of her being the one who screwed up. I've saved all the emails proving I sent it more than on time, just like I do every single day. How bad is this and why am I just RAGING over it. Do I go to her boss? What do I do? I'm so sick of this lady manipulating my team's shit to make herself look better... TL;DR:

Boss rewrites history in an email to make it look like I'm late, not her. Am I allowed to be as pissed off about this as I am? And how do I handle it (other than never forwarding her anything ever again and forcing her to use the original email)?<|endoftext|>

[ 38300, 294, 8510, 265, 2892, 275, 271, 4579, 281, 1056, 352, 1007, 751, 309, 1353, 3563, 13, 417, 617, 15, 50276, 8096, 309, 4136, 281, 320, 347, 39309, 745, 670, 436, 347, 309, 717, 32, 50276, 1898, 849, 513, 309, 6016, 352, 313, 977, 685, 1620, 45279, 617, 2712, 2455, 969, 285, 17190, 617, 281, 897, 253, 3236, 4579, 6177, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

boss who's late every day, sends me a document late in the morning, deletes the time stamp and front and back of the document to make me look like the one who screwed up<|endoftext|>

[ 12145, 665, 434, 3563, 1046, 1388, 13, 16965, 479, 247, 3389, 3563, 275, 253, 4131, 13, 8812, 265, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 2914, 285, 896, 273, 253, 3389, 281, 1056, 479, 1007, 751, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to keep it short: basically, there are a number of spreadsheets that our team is responsible for sending to the client every day. One of them she has to review before sending, and because of that, it is usually late...despite the fact I get them to her hours early every day to give her plenty of time to look over it. So yesterday she was EXTREMELY late, and came yelling into the office "Where is the _ Spreadsheet?" "Well, horrible boss lady, I emailed it to you 3 hours ago." Silence. Then "Well forward it to me again". So I do. I checked just now, and when she sent it to corporate, she went into the forward I'd sent and deleted the time stamp and removed the FWD from the subject. So it looks like I'M the one who sent it to her hours late instead of her being the one who screwed up. I've saved all the emails proving I sent it more than on time, just like I do every single day. How bad is this and why am I just RAGING over it. Do I go to her boss? What do I do? I'm so sick of this lady manipulating my team's shit to make herself look better... TL;DR: Boss rewrites history in an email to make it look like I'm late, not her. Am I allowed to be as pissed off about this as I am? And how do I handle it (other than never forwarding her anything ever again and forcing her to use the original email)?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1978, 352, 2159, 27, 50276, 10352, 1037, 13, 627, 403, 247, 1180, 273, 5195, 6689, 1507, 326, 776, 2285, 310, 5506, 323, 10430, 281, 253, 5268, 1046, 1388, 15, 50276, 4041, 273, 731, 703, 556, 281, 2278, 1078, 10430, 13, 285, 984, 273, 326, 13, 352, 310, 3798, 3563, 1051, 3229, 3784, 253, 958, 309, 755, 731, 281, 617, 3038, 2393, 1046, 1388, 281, 1918, 617, 9828, 273, 673, 281, 1007, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 2598, 11066, 703, 369, 8021, 53, 31085, 39155, 3563, 13, 285, 2210, 34553, 715, 253, 3906, 346, 7161, 310, 253, 795, 43611, 20472, 865, 50276, 3, 4497, 13, 19201, 12145, 10692, 13, 309, 48325, 352, 281, 368, 495, 3038, 3622, 449, 50276, 18074, 566, 15, 50276, 5872, 346, 4497, 3579, 352, 281, 479, 969, 3446, 50276, 2598, 309, 513, 15, 187, 187, 42, 10141, 816, 1024, 13, 285, 672, 703, 2197, 352, 281, 10459, 13, 703, 2427, 715, 253, 3579, 309, 1871, 2197, 285, 16737, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 5176, 253, 401, 18576, 432, 253, 2256, 15, 1893, 352, 4453, 751, 309, 8, 46, 253, 581, 665, 2197, 352, 281, 617, 3038, 3563, 3185, 273, 617, 1146, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 9809, 512, 253, 16530, 18597, 309, 2197, 352, 625, 685, 327, 673, 13, 816, 751, 309, 513, 1046, 2014, 1388, 15, 50276, 2347, 3076, 310, 436, 285, 2139, 717, 309, 816, 416, 2696, 2637, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 564, 281, 617, 12145, 32, 50276, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 42, 1353, 594, 8334, 273, 436, 10692, 40238, 619, 2285, 434, 10739, 281, 1056, 5972, 1007, 1805, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 38300, 294, 8510, 265, 2892, 275, 271, 4579, 281, 1056, 352, 1007, 751, 309, 1353, 3563, 13, 417, 617, 15, 50276, 8096, 309, 4136, 281, 320, 347, 39309, 745, 670, 436, 347, 309, 717, 32, 50276, 1898, 849, 513, 309, 6016, 352, 313, 977, 685, 1620, 45279, 617, 2712, 2455, 969, 285, 17190, 617, 281, 897, 253, 3236, 4579, 6177, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

359

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I'll try to keep it short: basically, there are a number of spreadsheets that our team is responsible for sending to the client every day. One of them she has to review before sending, and because of that, it is usually late...despite the fact I get them to her hours early every day to give her plenty of time to look over it. So yesterday she was EXTREMELY late, and came yelling into the office "Where is the _ Spreadsheet?" "Well, horrible boss lady, I emailed it to you 3 hours ago." Silence. Then "Well forward it to me again". So I do. I checked just now, and when she sent it to corporate, she went into the forward I'd sent and deleted the time stamp and removed the FWD from the subject. So it looks like I'M the one who sent it to her hours late instead of her being the one who screwed up. I've saved all the emails proving I sent it more than on time, just like I do every single day. How bad is this and why am I just RAGING over it. Do I go to her boss? What do I do? I'm so sick of this lady manipulating my team's shit to make herself look better... TL;DR: boss who's late every day, sends me a document late in the morning, deletes the time stamp and front and back of the document to make me look like the one who screwed up<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1833, 1611, 281, 1978, 352, 2159, 27, 50276, 10352, 1037, 13, 627, 403, 247, 1180, 273, 5195, 6689, 1507, 326, 776, 2285, 310, 5506, 323, 10430, 281, 253, 5268, 1046, 1388, 15, 50276, 4041, 273, 731, 703, 556, 281, 2278, 1078, 10430, 13, 285, 984, 273, 326, 13, 352, 310, 3798, 3563, 1051, 3229, 3784, 253, 958, 309, 755, 731, 281, 617, 3038, 2393, 1046, 1388, 281, 1918, 617, 9828, 273, 673, 281, 1007, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 2598, 11066, 703, 369, 8021, 53, 31085, 39155, 3563, 13, 285, 2210, 34553, 715, 253, 3906, 346, 7161, 310, 253, 795, 43611, 20472, 865, 50276, 3, 4497, 13, 19201, 12145, 10692, 13, 309, 48325, 352, 281, 368, 495, 3038, 3622, 449, 50276, 18074, 566, 15, 50276, 5872, 346, 4497, 3579, 352, 281, 479, 969, 3446, 50276, 2598, 309, 513, 15, 187, 187, 42, 10141, 816, 1024, 13, 285, 672, 703, 2197, 352, 281, 10459, 13, 703, 2427, 715, 253, 3579, 309, 1871, 2197, 285, 16737, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 5176, 253, 401, 18576, 432, 253, 2256, 15, 1893, 352, 4453, 751, 309, 8, 46, 253, 581, 665, 2197, 352, 281, 617, 3038, 3563, 3185, 273, 617, 1146, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 15, 50276, 42, 1849, 9809, 512, 253, 16530, 18597, 309, 2197, 352, 625, 685, 327, 673, 13, 816, 751, 309, 513, 1046, 2014, 1388, 15, 50276, 2347, 3076, 310, 436, 285, 2139, 717, 309, 816, 416, 2696, 2637, 689, 352, 15, 50276, 4045, 309, 564, 281, 617, 12145, 32, 50276, 1276, 513, 309, 513, 32, 50276, 42, 1353, 594, 8334, 273, 436, 10692, 40238, 619, 2285, 434, 10739, 281, 1056, 5972, 1007, 1805, 1051, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12145, 665, 434, 3563, 1046, 1388, 13, 16965, 479, 247, 3389, 3563, 275, 253, 4131, 13, 8812, 265, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 2914, 285, 896, 273, 253, 3389, 281, 1056, 479, 1007, 751, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

337

298

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 38300, 294, 8510, 265, 2892, 275, 271, 4579, 281, 1056, 352, 1007, 751, 309, 1353, 3563, 13, 417, 617, 15, 50276, 8096, 309, 4136, 281, 320, 347, 39309, 745, 670, 436, 347, 309, 717, 32, 50276, 1898, 849, 513, 309, 6016, 352, 313, 977, 685, 1620, 45279, 617, 2712, 2455, 969, 285, 17190, 617, 281, 897, 253, 3236, 4579, 6177, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12145, 665, 434, 3563, 1046, 1388, 13, 16965, 479, 247, 3389, 3563, 275, 253, 4131, 13, 8812, 265, 253, 673, 21463, 285, 2914, 285, 896, 273, 253, 3389, 281, 1056, 479, 1007, 751, 253, 581, 665, 34672, 598, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

My boyfriend [23/M] and I [21/F] have been together for almost 6 months, and recently I started to think he used to be in a gang. I noticed a couple of tattoos that he wouldn't explain, and sometimes he'd see certain people out in public and want to leave immediately. He also refuses to go into some neighborhoods, and he has a hot temper. I straight-out asked him about it, and he told me that yes, he used to be in a gang, but that it's all in the past. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know if I can deal with it. I'm really afraid that he'll go back to it.

My boyfriend was in a gang and I'm afraid of his past. Anyone else experience something like this?

Boyfriend used to be in a gang, but told me he didn't. I'm afraid he'll go back to it.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 46, 62, 285, 309, 544, 1797, 16, 39, 62, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 4102, 309, 3053, 281, 1158, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 15, 309, 8344, 247, 4564, 273, 21504, 48809, 326, 344, 5082, 626, 5513, 13, 285, 4536, 344, 1871, 923, 2176, 952, 562, 275, 1345, 285, 971, 281, 3553, 4745, 15, 754, 671, 29939, 281, 564, 715, 690, 25237, 13, 285, 344, 556, 247, 3511, 2660, 15, 309, 4951, 14, 483, 2546, 779, 670, 352, 13, 285, 344, 2183, 479, 326, 4754, 13, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 326, 352, 434, 512, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 15413, 3780, 2010, 18445, 342, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 2968, 342, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 9202, 326, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend [23/M] and I [21/F] have been together for almost 6 months, and recently I started to think he used to be in a gang. I noticed a couple of tattoos that he wouldn't explain, and sometimes he'd see certain people out in public and want to leave immediately. He also refuses to go into some neighborhoods, and he has a hot temper. I straight-out asked him about it, and he told me that yes, he used to be in a gang, but that it's all in the past. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know if I can deal with it. I'm really afraid that he'll go back to it. TL;DR:

My boyfriend was in a gang and I'm afraid of his past. Anyone else experience something like this?<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 22273, 369, 275, 247, 10821, 285, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 521, 2469, 15, 26013, 2010, 2793, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Boyfriend used to be in a gang, but told me he didn't. I'm afraid he'll go back to it.<|endoftext|>

[ 12143, 8471, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 2183, 479, 344, 1904, 626, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend [23/M] and I [21/F] have been together for almost 6 months, and recently I started to think he used to be in a gang. I noticed a couple of tattoos that he wouldn't explain, and sometimes he'd see certain people out in public and want to leave immediately. He also refuses to go into some neighborhoods, and he has a hot temper. I straight-out asked him about it, and he told me that yes, he used to be in a gang, but that it's all in the past. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know if I can deal with it. I'm really afraid that he'll go back to it. TL;DR: My boyfriend was in a gang and I'm afraid of his past. Anyone else experience something like this?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 46, 62, 285, 309, 544, 1797, 16, 39, 62, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 4102, 309, 3053, 281, 1158, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 15, 309, 8344, 247, 4564, 273, 21504, 48809, 326, 344, 5082, 626, 5513, 13, 285, 4536, 344, 1871, 923, 2176, 952, 562, 275, 1345, 285, 971, 281, 3553, 4745, 15, 754, 671, 29939, 281, 564, 715, 690, 25237, 13, 285, 344, 556, 247, 3511, 2660, 15, 309, 4951, 14, 483, 2546, 779, 670, 352, 13, 285, 344, 2183, 479, 326, 4754, 13, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 326, 352, 434, 512, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 15413, 3780, 2010, 18445, 342, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 2968, 342, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 9202, 326, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 22273, 369, 275, 247, 10821, 285, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 521, 2469, 15, 26013, 2010, 2793, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

193

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: My boyfriend [23/M] and I [21/F] have been together for almost 6 months, and recently I started to think he used to be in a gang. I noticed a couple of tattoos that he wouldn't explain, and sometimes he'd see certain people out in public and want to leave immediately. He also refuses to go into some neighborhoods, and he has a hot temper. I straight-out asked him about it, and he told me that yes, he used to be in a gang, but that it's all in the past. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? I don't know if I can deal with it. I'm really afraid that he'll go back to it. TL;DR: Boyfriend used to be in a gang, but told me he didn't. I'm afraid he'll go back to it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 2752, 22273, 544, 1508, 16, 46, 62, 285, 309, 544, 1797, 16, 39, 62, 452, 644, 2366, 323, 2761, 721, 2607, 13, 285, 4102, 309, 3053, 281, 1158, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 15, 309, 8344, 247, 4564, 273, 21504, 48809, 326, 344, 5082, 626, 5513, 13, 285, 4536, 344, 1871, 923, 2176, 952, 562, 275, 1345, 285, 971, 281, 3553, 4745, 15, 754, 671, 29939, 281, 564, 715, 690, 25237, 13, 285, 344, 556, 247, 3511, 2660, 15, 309, 4951, 14, 483, 2546, 779, 670, 352, 13, 285, 344, 2183, 479, 326, 4754, 13, 344, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 326, 352, 434, 512, 275, 253, 2469, 15, 187, 187, 15413, 3780, 2010, 18445, 342, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 871, 604, 309, 476, 2968, 342, 352, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 9202, 326, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 12143, 8471, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 2183, 479, 344, 1904, 626, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

198

171

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 22273, 369, 275, 247, 10821, 285, 309, 1353, 9202, 273, 521, 2469, 15, 26013, 2010, 2793, 1633, 751, 436, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 12143, 8471, 908, 281, 320, 275, 247, 10821, 13, 533, 2183, 479, 344, 1904, 626, 15, 309, 1353, 9202, 344, 1833, 564, 896, 281, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about 6 months now. We had brief sex (maybe entered and exited her 4 times) one night about 2 months ago and now she just sent me a facebook message asking me if all that got in was pre-cum. She said she has been on the pill since before we broke up and has never missed a dose. All tests that she has taken so face have been negative but she says something feels "off". She said her boobs have never gotten sore, but last month they did. And this month, they didn't get sore until after what she thought was her period came. She said that they have been bothering her for a week now and for the past 2 hours she has been peeing like crazy. She told me that technically this could be ovulation and says that she has never experienced anything like this before especially since the pill is supposed to prevent ovulation? she assures me that the chances of pregnancy are very slim but it's the timing of it all that scares her. She says that the tests she took have said she is not pregnant but that they could be wrong if too little of the pregnancy hormone is produced. She has a lot of hormonal imbalance, produces too much testosterone and all of her periods are brown and not the typical red bloody period. Sometimes she goes several months without a period. I am freaking out like crazy. Especially since I recently got a new girlfriend who I would rather not know that my ex-girlfriend may have my kid inside her!! Holy shit... Can anybody please help me make sense of this. I'm so frantic right now it's crazy. And i'm getting observed tomorrow at work. Fuck!!!!

Ex gf says she might be pregnant but is not sure. Says that she is considering a follow up test. She is on birth control and has never missed a dose.

Ex-girlfriend facebook messages me saying she might be pregnant. Panic ensues. What does all this mean?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 644, 7154, 598, 342, 619, 385, 19609, 323, 670, 721, 2607, 1024, 15, 844, 574, 4864, 2825, 313, 28489, 5966, 285, 43788, 617, 577, 2069, 10, 581, 2360, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 285, 1024, 703, 816, 2197, 479, 247, 36979, 3935, 7004, 479, 604, 512, 326, 1694, 275, 369, 638, 14, 38655, 15, 1500, 753, 703, 556, 644, 327, 253, 12575, 1580, 1078, 359, 9377, 598, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 187, 187, 3074, 5216, 326, 703, 556, 2668, 594, 2454, 452, 644, 4016, 533, 703, 2296, 1633, 9193, 346, 2727, 3446, 1500, 753, 617, 1766, 10600, 452, 1620, 12759, 25132, 13, 533, 1390, 1770, 597, 858, 15, 1244, 436, 1770, 13, 597, 1904, 626, 755, 25132, 1919, 846, 752, 703, 1869, 369, 617, 2180, 2210, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 597, 452, 644, 15105, 272, 617, 323, 247, 2129, 1024, 285, 323, 253, 2469, 374, 3038, 703, 556, 644, 759, 21228, 751, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 2183, 479, 326, 22335, 436, 812, 320, 14246, 1427, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 556, 1620, 7407, 2712, 751, 436, 1078, 3340, 1580, 253, 12575, 310, 6326, 281, 3657, 14246, 1427, 32, 2490, 187, 6689, 718, 980, 479, 326, 253, 14512, 273, 10438, 403, 1077, 27973, 533, 352, 434, 253, 11795, 273, 352, 512, 326, 660, 4420, 617, 15, 1500, 2296, 326, 253, 5216, 703, 2335, 452, 753, 703, 310, 417, 12821, 533, 326, 597, 812, 320, 3430, 604, 1512, 1652, 273, 253, 10438, 14689, 310, 4197, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 247, 2257, 273, 37085, 31561, 13, 11330, 1512, 1199, 29127, 285, 512, 273, 617, 9894, 403, 8516, 285, 417, 253, 6867, 2502, 19867, 2180, 15, 13168, 703, 4566, 2067, 2607, 1293, 247, 2180, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 717, 4107, 1170, 562, 751, 10412, 15, 23498, 1580, 309, 4102, 1694, 247, 747, 19609, 665, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 871, 326, 619, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 778, 452, 619, 5772, 3304, 617, 4672, 13936, 10739, 1051, 2490, 187, 5804, 13098, 4496, 1361, 479, 1056, 3282, 273, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 1315, 6484, 987, 1024, 352, 434, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 1898, 891, 1353, 2970, 2540, 10873, 387, 789, 15, 49142, 18963, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about 6 months now. We had brief sex (maybe entered and exited her 4 times) one night about 2 months ago and now she just sent me a facebook message asking me if all that got in was pre-cum. She said she has been on the pill since before we broke up and has never missed a dose. All tests that she has taken so face have been negative but she says something feels "off". She said her boobs have never gotten sore, but last month they did. And this month, they didn't get sore until after what she thought was her period came. She said that they have been bothering her for a week now and for the past 2 hours she has been peeing like crazy. She told me that technically this could be ovulation and says that she has never experienced anything like this before especially since the pill is supposed to prevent ovulation? she assures me that the chances of pregnancy are very slim but it's the timing of it all that scares her. She says that the tests she took have said she is not pregnant but that they could be wrong if too little of the pregnancy hormone is produced. She has a lot of hormonal imbalance, produces too much testosterone and all of her periods are brown and not the typical red bloody period. Sometimes she goes several months without a period. I am freaking out like crazy. Especially since I recently got a new girlfriend who I would rather not know that my ex-girlfriend may have my kid inside her!! Holy shit... Can anybody please help me make sense of this. I'm so frantic right now it's crazy. And i'm getting observed tomorrow at work. Fuck!!!! TL;DR:

Ex gf says she might be pregnant but is not sure. Says that she is considering a follow up test. She is on birth control and has never missed a dose.<|endoftext|>

[ 1889, 305, 71, 2296, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 533, 310, 417, 2119, 15, 49918, 326, 703, 310, 7296, 247, 956, 598, 1071, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 4201, 1453, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

Ex-girlfriend facebook messages me saying she might be pregnant. Panic ensues. What does all this mean?<|endoftext|>

[ 1889, 14, 23660, 8471, 36979, 8169, 479, 3981, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 15, 9251, 280, 3994, 955, 15, 1737, 1057, 512, 436, 1599, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about 6 months now. We had brief sex (maybe entered and exited her 4 times) one night about 2 months ago and now she just sent me a facebook message asking me if all that got in was pre-cum. She said she has been on the pill since before we broke up and has never missed a dose. All tests that she has taken so face have been negative but she says something feels "off". She said her boobs have never gotten sore, but last month they did. And this month, they didn't get sore until after what she thought was her period came. She said that they have been bothering her for a week now and for the past 2 hours she has been peeing like crazy. She told me that technically this could be ovulation and says that she has never experienced anything like this before especially since the pill is supposed to prevent ovulation? she assures me that the chances of pregnancy are very slim but it's the timing of it all that scares her. She says that the tests she took have said she is not pregnant but that they could be wrong if too little of the pregnancy hormone is produced. She has a lot of hormonal imbalance, produces too much testosterone and all of her periods are brown and not the typical red bloody period. Sometimes she goes several months without a period. I am freaking out like crazy. Especially since I recently got a new girlfriend who I would rather not know that my ex-girlfriend may have my kid inside her!! Holy shit... Can anybody please help me make sense of this. I'm so frantic right now it's crazy. And i'm getting observed tomorrow at work. Fuck!!!! TL;DR: Ex gf says she might be pregnant but is not sure. Says that she is considering a follow up test. She is on birth control and has never missed a dose.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 644, 7154, 598, 342, 619, 385, 19609, 323, 670, 721, 2607, 1024, 15, 844, 574, 4864, 2825, 313, 28489, 5966, 285, 43788, 617, 577, 2069, 10, 581, 2360, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 285, 1024, 703, 816, 2197, 479, 247, 36979, 3935, 7004, 479, 604, 512, 326, 1694, 275, 369, 638, 14, 38655, 15, 1500, 753, 703, 556, 644, 327, 253, 12575, 1580, 1078, 359, 9377, 598, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 187, 187, 3074, 5216, 326, 703, 556, 2668, 594, 2454, 452, 644, 4016, 533, 703, 2296, 1633, 9193, 346, 2727, 3446, 1500, 753, 617, 1766, 10600, 452, 1620, 12759, 25132, 13, 533, 1390, 1770, 597, 858, 15, 1244, 436, 1770, 13, 597, 1904, 626, 755, 25132, 1919, 846, 752, 703, 1869, 369, 617, 2180, 2210, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 597, 452, 644, 15105, 272, 617, 323, 247, 2129, 1024, 285, 323, 253, 2469, 374, 3038, 703, 556, 644, 759, 21228, 751, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 2183, 479, 326, 22335, 436, 812, 320, 14246, 1427, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 556, 1620, 7407, 2712, 751, 436, 1078, 3340, 1580, 253, 12575, 310, 6326, 281, 3657, 14246, 1427, 32, 2490, 187, 6689, 718, 980, 479, 326, 253, 14512, 273, 10438, 403, 1077, 27973, 533, 352, 434, 253, 11795, 273, 352, 512, 326, 660, 4420, 617, 15, 1500, 2296, 326, 253, 5216, 703, 2335, 452, 753, 703, 310, 417, 12821, 533, 326, 597, 812, 320, 3430, 604, 1512, 1652, 273, 253, 10438, 14689, 310, 4197, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 247, 2257, 273, 37085, 31561, 13, 11330, 1512, 1199, 29127, 285, 512, 273, 617, 9894, 403, 8516, 285, 417, 253, 6867, 2502, 19867, 2180, 15, 13168, 703, 4566, 2067, 2607, 1293, 247, 2180, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 717, 4107, 1170, 562, 751, 10412, 15, 23498, 1580, 309, 4102, 1694, 247, 747, 19609, 665, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 871, 326, 619, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 778, 452, 619, 5772, 3304, 617, 4672, 13936, 10739, 1051, 2490, 187, 5804, 13098, 4496, 1361, 479, 1056, 3282, 273, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 1315, 6484, 987, 1024, 352, 434, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 1898, 891, 1353, 2970, 2540, 10873, 387, 789, 15, 49142, 18963, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1889, 305, 71, 2296, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 533, 310, 417, 2119, 15, 49918, 326, 703, 310, 7296, 247, 956, 598, 1071, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 4201, 1453, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

421

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I have been broken up with my ex girlfriend for about 6 months now. We had brief sex (maybe entered and exited her 4 times) one night about 2 months ago and now she just sent me a facebook message asking me if all that got in was pre-cum. She said she has been on the pill since before we broke up and has never missed a dose. All tests that she has taken so face have been negative but she says something feels "off". She said her boobs have never gotten sore, but last month they did. And this month, they didn't get sore until after what she thought was her period came. She said that they have been bothering her for a week now and for the past 2 hours she has been peeing like crazy. She told me that technically this could be ovulation and says that she has never experienced anything like this before especially since the pill is supposed to prevent ovulation? she assures me that the chances of pregnancy are very slim but it's the timing of it all that scares her. She says that the tests she took have said she is not pregnant but that they could be wrong if too little of the pregnancy hormone is produced. She has a lot of hormonal imbalance, produces too much testosterone and all of her periods are brown and not the typical red bloody period. Sometimes she goes several months without a period. I am freaking out like crazy. Especially since I recently got a new girlfriend who I would rather not know that my ex-girlfriend may have my kid inside her!! Holy shit... Can anybody please help me make sense of this. I'm so frantic right now it's crazy. And i'm getting observed tomorrow at work. Fuck!!!! TL;DR: Ex-girlfriend facebook messages me saying she might be pregnant. Panic ensues. What does all this mean?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 452, 644, 7154, 598, 342, 619, 385, 19609, 323, 670, 721, 2607, 1024, 15, 844, 574, 4864, 2825, 313, 28489, 5966, 285, 43788, 617, 577, 2069, 10, 581, 2360, 670, 374, 2607, 3622, 285, 1024, 703, 816, 2197, 479, 247, 36979, 3935, 7004, 479, 604, 512, 326, 1694, 275, 369, 638, 14, 38655, 15, 1500, 753, 703, 556, 644, 327, 253, 12575, 1580, 1078, 359, 9377, 598, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 187, 187, 3074, 5216, 326, 703, 556, 2668, 594, 2454, 452, 644, 4016, 533, 703, 2296, 1633, 9193, 346, 2727, 3446, 1500, 753, 617, 1766, 10600, 452, 1620, 12759, 25132, 13, 533, 1390, 1770, 597, 858, 15, 1244, 436, 1770, 13, 597, 1904, 626, 755, 25132, 1919, 846, 752, 703, 1869, 369, 617, 2180, 2210, 15, 1500, 753, 326, 597, 452, 644, 15105, 272, 617, 323, 247, 2129, 1024, 285, 323, 253, 2469, 374, 3038, 703, 556, 644, 759, 21228, 751, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 2183, 479, 326, 22335, 436, 812, 320, 14246, 1427, 285, 2296, 326, 703, 556, 1620, 7407, 2712, 751, 436, 1078, 3340, 1580, 253, 12575, 310, 6326, 281, 3657, 14246, 1427, 32, 2490, 187, 6689, 718, 980, 479, 326, 253, 14512, 273, 10438, 403, 1077, 27973, 533, 352, 434, 253, 11795, 273, 352, 512, 326, 660, 4420, 617, 15, 1500, 2296, 326, 253, 5216, 703, 2335, 452, 753, 703, 310, 417, 12821, 533, 326, 597, 812, 320, 3430, 604, 1512, 1652, 273, 253, 10438, 14689, 310, 4197, 15, 187, 187, 2993, 556, 247, 2257, 273, 37085, 31561, 13, 11330, 1512, 1199, 29127, 285, 512, 273, 617, 9894, 403, 8516, 285, 417, 253, 6867, 2502, 19867, 2180, 15, 13168, 703, 4566, 2067, 2607, 1293, 247, 2180, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 717, 4107, 1170, 562, 751, 10412, 15, 23498, 1580, 309, 4102, 1694, 247, 747, 19609, 665, 309, 651, 2581, 417, 871, 326, 619, 385, 14, 23660, 8471, 778, 452, 619, 5772, 3304, 617, 4672, 13936, 10739, 1051, 2490, 187, 5804, 13098, 4496, 1361, 479, 1056, 3282, 273, 436, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 1315, 6484, 987, 1024, 352, 434, 10412, 15, 187, 187, 1898, 891, 1353, 2970, 2540, 10873, 387, 789, 15, 49142, 18963, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1889, 14, 23660, 8471, 36979, 8169, 479, 3981, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 15, 9251, 280, 3994, 955, 15, 1737, 1057, 512, 436, 1599, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

410

385

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1889, 305, 71, 2296, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 533, 310, 417, 2119, 15, 49918, 326, 703, 310, 7296, 247, 956, 598, 1071, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 4201, 1453, 285, 556, 1620, 9829, 247, 6178, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1889, 14, 23660, 8471, 36979, 8169, 479, 3981, 703, 1537, 320, 12821, 15, 9251, 280, 3994, 955, 15, 1737, 1057, 512, 436, 1599, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I met her when I started working with her last August at the bakery where I am employed. I always thought she was nice and sweet, so being the inexperienced romantic that I am (I've never been with anyone before, in any way whatsoever), I started crushing on her. There are several reasons as to why this is inappropriate: (a) The obvious age difference. We went to the same high school, but she graduated before I even finished middle school. She's five years older than me. (b) The fact that we work together I've been working at the bakery for a year next week, and all that time she's been training me and working with me. I've worked with her for about three out of every four hours I've been at work. (c) The fact that she just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years I've had a minor crush on her for a while, but for some reason, when I found out today that she broke up with him, my crush became more acute. I know that since I've never kissed anyone or had any romantic experience before, a lot of this can be chalked up to that. I've only had two previous crushes that I count as legitimate. (I am well aware of the fact of how I am a pathetic little twerp, so save yourself the insults, please.) Could someone please help me get over this *very* innapropriate crush?

I [17 M] have been crushing on a girl [22 F] since I started working with her. She just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years and I feel an inappropriate feeling of opportunity. I need help getting over it.

I've been crushing on a girl since a little while after I started working with her. I know I am a pathetic little twerp, but help me get over her.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 617, 672, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 1390, 4223, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 835, 309, 717, 7091, 15, 309, 1900, 1869, 703, 369, 5322, 285, 7353, 13, 594, 1146, 253, 275, 43268, 18109, 326, 309, 717, 313, 42, 1849, 1620, 644, 342, 3780, 1078, 13, 275, 667, 1039, 24612, 582, 309, 3053, 37625, 327, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2067, 4606, 347, 281, 2139, 436, 310, 19582, 27, 187, 187, 9, 66, 10, 380, 4755, 2363, 3064, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2427, 281, 253, 1072, 1029, 2143, 13, 533, 703, 20981, 1078, 309, 1014, 6699, 4766, 2143, 15, 1500, 434, 2620, 1107, 5662, 685, 479, 15, 187, 187, 9, 67, 10, 380, 958, 326, 359, 789, 2366, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 2444, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 323, 247, 807, 1735, 2129, 13, 285, 512, 326, 673, 703, 434, 644, 3733, 479, 285, 2444, 342, 479, 15, 309, 1849, 4307, 342, 617, 323, 670, 1264, 562, 273, 1046, 1740, 3038, 309, 1849, 644, 387, 789, 15, 187, 187, 9, 68, 10, 380, 958, 326, 703, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 574, 247, 5884, 30582, 327, 617, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 323, 690, 1921, 13, 672, 309, 1119, 562, 3063, 326, 703, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 13, 619, 30582, 3395, 625, 7928, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 326, 1580, 309, 1849, 1620, 23651, 3780, 390, 574, 667, 18109, 2793, 1078, 13, 247, 2257, 273, 436, 476, 320, 40400, 264, 598, 281, 326, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 574, 767, 2045, 1531, 17379, 326, 309, 1385, 347, 14905, 15, 313, 42, 717, 973, 6600, 273, 253, 958, 273, 849, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 594, 5321, 4834, 253, 44812, 13, 4496, 2698, 187, 187, 18179, 3095, 4496, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 436, 475, 635, 11, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 30582, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her when I started working with her last August at the bakery where I am employed. I always thought she was nice and sweet, so being the inexperienced romantic that I am (I've never been with anyone before, in any way whatsoever), I started crushing on her. There are several reasons as to why this is inappropriate: (a) The obvious age difference. We went to the same high school, but she graduated before I even finished middle school. She's five years older than me. (b) The fact that we work together I've been working at the bakery for a year next week, and all that time she's been training me and working with me. I've worked with her for about three out of every four hours I've been at work. (c) The fact that she just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years I've had a minor crush on her for a while, but for some reason, when I found out today that she broke up with him, my crush became more acute. I know that since I've never kissed anyone or had any romantic experience before, a lot of this can be chalked up to that. I've only had two previous crushes that I count as legitimate. (I am well aware of the fact of how I am a pathetic little twerp, so save yourself the insults, please.) Could someone please help me get over this *very* innapropriate crush? TL;DR:

I [17 M] have been crushing on a girl [22 F] since I started working with her. She just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years and I feel an inappropriate feeling of opportunity. I need help getting over it.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 544, 1166, 353, 62, 452, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 544, 1423, 401, 62, 1580, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 1500, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 285, 309, 1928, 271, 19582, 5471, 273, 5107, 15, 309, 878, 1361, 2970, 689, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I've been crushing on a girl since a little while after I started working with her. I know I am a pathetic little twerp, but help me get over her.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 1849, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 1580, 247, 1652, 1223, 846, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 309, 871, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 533, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her when I started working with her last August at the bakery where I am employed. I always thought she was nice and sweet, so being the inexperienced romantic that I am (I've never been with anyone before, in any way whatsoever), I started crushing on her. There are several reasons as to why this is inappropriate: (a) The obvious age difference. We went to the same high school, but she graduated before I even finished middle school. She's five years older than me. (b) The fact that we work together I've been working at the bakery for a year next week, and all that time she's been training me and working with me. I've worked with her for about three out of every four hours I've been at work. (c) The fact that she just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years I've had a minor crush on her for a while, but for some reason, when I found out today that she broke up with him, my crush became more acute. I know that since I've never kissed anyone or had any romantic experience before, a lot of this can be chalked up to that. I've only had two previous crushes that I count as legitimate. (I am well aware of the fact of how I am a pathetic little twerp, so save yourself the insults, please.) Could someone please help me get over this *very* innapropriate crush? TL;DR: I [17 M] have been crushing on a girl [22 F] since I started working with her. She just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years and I feel an inappropriate feeling of opportunity. I need help getting over it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 617, 672, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 1390, 4223, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 835, 309, 717, 7091, 15, 309, 1900, 1869, 703, 369, 5322, 285, 7353, 13, 594, 1146, 253, 275, 43268, 18109, 326, 309, 717, 313, 42, 1849, 1620, 644, 342, 3780, 1078, 13, 275, 667, 1039, 24612, 582, 309, 3053, 37625, 327, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2067, 4606, 347, 281, 2139, 436, 310, 19582, 27, 187, 187, 9, 66, 10, 380, 4755, 2363, 3064, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2427, 281, 253, 1072, 1029, 2143, 13, 533, 703, 20981, 1078, 309, 1014, 6699, 4766, 2143, 15, 1500, 434, 2620, 1107, 5662, 685, 479, 15, 187, 187, 9, 67, 10, 380, 958, 326, 359, 789, 2366, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 2444, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 323, 247, 807, 1735, 2129, 13, 285, 512, 326, 673, 703, 434, 644, 3733, 479, 285, 2444, 342, 479, 15, 309, 1849, 4307, 342, 617, 323, 670, 1264, 562, 273, 1046, 1740, 3038, 309, 1849, 644, 387, 789, 15, 187, 187, 9, 68, 10, 380, 958, 326, 703, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 574, 247, 5884, 30582, 327, 617, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 323, 690, 1921, 13, 672, 309, 1119, 562, 3063, 326, 703, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 13, 619, 30582, 3395, 625, 7928, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 326, 1580, 309, 1849, 1620, 23651, 3780, 390, 574, 667, 18109, 2793, 1078, 13, 247, 2257, 273, 436, 476, 320, 40400, 264, 598, 281, 326, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 574, 767, 2045, 1531, 17379, 326, 309, 1385, 347, 14905, 15, 313, 42, 717, 973, 6600, 273, 253, 958, 273, 849, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 594, 5321, 4834, 253, 44812, 13, 4496, 2698, 187, 187, 18179, 3095, 4496, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 436, 475, 635, 11, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 30582, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 544, 1166, 353, 62, 452, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 544, 1423, 401, 62, 1580, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 1500, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 285, 309, 1928, 271, 19582, 5471, 273, 5107, 15, 309, 878, 1361, 2970, 689, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

385

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I met her when I started working with her last August at the bakery where I am employed. I always thought she was nice and sweet, so being the inexperienced romantic that I am (I've never been with anyone before, in any way whatsoever), I started crushing on her. There are several reasons as to why this is inappropriate: (a) The obvious age difference. We went to the same high school, but she graduated before I even finished middle school. She's five years older than me. (b) The fact that we work together I've been working at the bakery for a year next week, and all that time she's been training me and working with me. I've worked with her for about three out of every four hours I've been at work. (c) The fact that she just broke up with her boyfriend of seven years I've had a minor crush on her for a while, but for some reason, when I found out today that she broke up with him, my crush became more acute. I know that since I've never kissed anyone or had any romantic experience before, a lot of this can be chalked up to that. I've only had two previous crushes that I count as legitimate. (I am well aware of the fact of how I am a pathetic little twerp, so save yourself the insults, please.) Could someone please help me get over this *very* innapropriate crush? TL;DR: I've been crushing on a girl since a little while after I started working with her. I know I am a pathetic little twerp, but help me get over her.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1313, 617, 672, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 1390, 4223, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 835, 309, 717, 7091, 15, 309, 1900, 1869, 703, 369, 5322, 285, 7353, 13, 594, 1146, 253, 275, 43268, 18109, 326, 309, 717, 313, 42, 1849, 1620, 644, 342, 3780, 1078, 13, 275, 667, 1039, 24612, 582, 309, 3053, 37625, 327, 617, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2067, 4606, 347, 281, 2139, 436, 310, 19582, 27, 187, 187, 9, 66, 10, 380, 4755, 2363, 3064, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 2427, 281, 253, 1072, 1029, 2143, 13, 533, 703, 20981, 1078, 309, 1014, 6699, 4766, 2143, 15, 1500, 434, 2620, 1107, 5662, 685, 479, 15, 187, 187, 9, 67, 10, 380, 958, 326, 359, 789, 2366, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 644, 2444, 387, 253, 35246, 1771, 323, 247, 807, 1735, 2129, 13, 285, 512, 326, 673, 703, 434, 644, 3733, 479, 285, 2444, 342, 479, 15, 309, 1849, 4307, 342, 617, 323, 670, 1264, 562, 273, 1046, 1740, 3038, 309, 1849, 644, 387, 789, 15, 187, 187, 9, 68, 10, 380, 958, 326, 703, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 187, 187, 42, 1849, 574, 247, 5884, 30582, 327, 617, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 323, 690, 1921, 13, 672, 309, 1119, 562, 3063, 326, 703, 9377, 598, 342, 779, 13, 619, 30582, 3395, 625, 7928, 15, 187, 187, 42, 871, 326, 1580, 309, 1849, 1620, 23651, 3780, 390, 574, 667, 18109, 2793, 1078, 13, 247, 2257, 273, 436, 476, 320, 40400, 264, 598, 281, 326, 15, 309, 1849, 760, 574, 767, 2045, 1531, 17379, 326, 309, 1385, 347, 14905, 15, 313, 42, 717, 973, 6600, 273, 253, 958, 273, 849, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 594, 5321, 4834, 253, 44812, 13, 4496, 2698, 187, 187, 18179, 3095, 4496, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 436, 475, 635, 11, 4470, 522, 12341, 366, 30582, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 1849, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 1580, 247, 1652, 1223, 846, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 309, 871, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 533, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

372

336

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 544, 1166, 353, 62, 452, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 544, 1423, 401, 62, 1580, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 1500, 816, 9377, 598, 342, 617, 22273, 273, 5093, 1107, 285, 309, 1928, 271, 19582, 5471, 273, 5107, 15, 309, 878, 1361, 2970, 689, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 1849, 644, 37625, 327, 247, 3226, 1580, 247, 1652, 1223, 846, 309, 3053, 2444, 342, 617, 15, 309, 871, 309, 717, 247, 40479, 1652, 2500, 47952, 13, 533, 1361, 479, 755, 689, 617, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Here is the situation. I was recently pulled over and arrested for driving with a suspended license for an unpaid ticket that was neglected for ages. My parents paid a bondsman to bail me out (700 something on a 7000 bail). My public defender got me a good deal -- a full deferral, just sign some papers and pay some fees. I mailed in the paperwork & money order, and thought everything was gravy. Fast forward about a month, and I get a message from my lawyer saying there is a warrant issued, because they never received the paperwork/money. I verified the money order wasn't cashed, and am working on a refund. I just left my lawyer a message, asking how to proceed. I am sure I wont hear back until Monday. What I am really afraid of is how this will affect my parents. My dad just lost his job, and I am afraid they will use this as a means to claim they owe the whole $7000. **Is this a real possibility, or will they just end up forfeiting the $700?** I'm really hoping this turns out ok for me, and I'm ready to turn myself in if necessary. I just can't believe this happened, I feel like such a failure right now. My parents are the best, and I am so worried about this I feel like I am going to throw up.

got arrrested, bailed out, and an awesome deal. Due to an undelivered piece of mail I have a warrant, and am afraid my parents are going to be out a lot of money.

I was pulled over for the unpaid ticket, my lawyer was able to get me a full deferral, and I just left the lawyer a message. I am scared about how this will affect my parents, and I'm just not sure if I can do anything about it.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3856, 310, 253, 4112, 15, 50276, 42, 369, 4102, 7320, 689, 285, 9833, 323, 6276, 342, 247, 14116, 7981, 323, 271, 35778, 13571, 326, 369, 22459, 323, 11880, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 5087, 247, 13403, 1342, 281, 19590, 479, 562, 313, 14744, 1633, 327, 247, 818, 933, 19590, 481, 187, 187, 3220, 1345, 26762, 1694, 479, 247, 1175, 2968, 1969, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 816, 861, 690, 9380, 285, 2075, 690, 8128, 15, 187, 187, 42, 40569, 275, 253, 35940, 708, 2583, 1340, 13, 285, 1869, 3253, 369, 7462, 90, 15, 187, 187, 29760, 3579, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 309, 755, 247, 3935, 432, 619, 11115, 3981, 627, 310, 247, 7501, 6808, 13, 984, 597, 1620, 2959, 253, 35940, 16, 29706, 15, 50276, 42, 16058, 253, 2583, 1340, 3589, 626, 6483, 742, 13, 285, 717, 2444, 327, 247, 23005, 15, 187, 187, 42, 816, 1669, 619, 11115, 247, 3935, 13, 7004, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 2119, 309, 31451, 4089, 896, 1919, 7216, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 309, 717, 1663, 9202, 273, 310, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 15, 50276, 3220, 12247, 816, 3663, 521, 2628, 13, 285, 309, 717, 9202, 597, 588, 897, 436, 347, 247, 2097, 281, 1750, 597, 24186, 253, 2644, 370, 24, 933, 15, 50276, 424, 2513, 436, 247, 1524, 6387, 13, 390, 588, 597, 816, 990, 598, 24184, 2996, 253, 370, 14744, 39148, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1663, 11525, 436, 7819, 562, 8718, 323, 479, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 1614, 4266, 275, 604, 3309, 15, 50276, 42, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 436, 4592, 13, 309, 1928, 751, 824, 247, 4433, 987, 1024, 15, 50276, 3220, 4651, 403, 253, 1682, 13, 285, 309, 717, 594, 11926, 670, 436, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 4710, 598, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I was recently pulled over and arrested for driving with a suspended license for an unpaid ticket that was neglected for ages. My parents paid a bondsman to bail me out (700 something on a 7000 bail). My public defender got me a good deal -- a full deferral, just sign some papers and pay some fees. I mailed in the paperwork & money order, and thought everything was gravy. Fast forward about a month, and I get a message from my lawyer saying there is a warrant issued, because they never received the paperwork/money. I verified the money order wasn't cashed, and am working on a refund. I just left my lawyer a message, asking how to proceed. I am sure I wont hear back until Monday. What I am really afraid of is how this will affect my parents. My dad just lost his job, and I am afraid they will use this as a means to claim they owe the whole $7000. **Is this a real possibility, or will they just end up forfeiting the $700?** I'm really hoping this turns out ok for me, and I'm ready to turn myself in if necessary. I just can't believe this happened, I feel like such a failure right now. My parents are the best, and I am so worried about this I feel like I am going to throw up. TL;DR:

got arrrested, bailed out, and an awesome deal. Due to an undelivered piece of mail I have a warrant, and am afraid my parents are going to be out a lot of money.<|endoftext|>

[ 1694, 4077, 1120, 264, 13, 270, 7193, 562, 13, 285, 271, 13103, 2968, 15, 50276, 25420, 281, 271, 3807, 293, 7782, 5313, 273, 8888, 309, 452, 247, 7501, 13, 285, 717, 9202, 619, 4651, 403, 1469, 281, 320, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I was pulled over for the unpaid ticket, my lawyer was able to get me a full deferral, and I just left the lawyer a message. I am scared about how this will affect my parents, and I'm just not sure if I can do anything about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 369, 7320, 689, 323, 253, 35778, 13571, 13, 619, 11115, 369, 2104, 281, 755, 479, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1669, 253, 11115, 247, 3935, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 16060, 670, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 476, 513, 2712, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I was recently pulled over and arrested for driving with a suspended license for an unpaid ticket that was neglected for ages. My parents paid a bondsman to bail me out (700 something on a 7000 bail). My public defender got me a good deal -- a full deferral, just sign some papers and pay some fees. I mailed in the paperwork & money order, and thought everything was gravy. Fast forward about a month, and I get a message from my lawyer saying there is a warrant issued, because they never received the paperwork/money. I verified the money order wasn't cashed, and am working on a refund. I just left my lawyer a message, asking how to proceed. I am sure I wont hear back until Monday. What I am really afraid of is how this will affect my parents. My dad just lost his job, and I am afraid they will use this as a means to claim they owe the whole $7000. **Is this a real possibility, or will they just end up forfeiting the $700?** I'm really hoping this turns out ok for me, and I'm ready to turn myself in if necessary. I just can't believe this happened, I feel like such a failure right now. My parents are the best, and I am so worried about this I feel like I am going to throw up. TL;DR: got arrrested, bailed out, and an awesome deal. Due to an undelivered piece of mail I have a warrant, and am afraid my parents are going to be out a lot of money.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3856, 310, 253, 4112, 15, 50276, 42, 369, 4102, 7320, 689, 285, 9833, 323, 6276, 342, 247, 14116, 7981, 323, 271, 35778, 13571, 326, 369, 22459, 323, 11880, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 5087, 247, 13403, 1342, 281, 19590, 479, 562, 313, 14744, 1633, 327, 247, 818, 933, 19590, 481, 187, 187, 3220, 1345, 26762, 1694, 479, 247, 1175, 2968, 1969, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 816, 861, 690, 9380, 285, 2075, 690, 8128, 15, 187, 187, 42, 40569, 275, 253, 35940, 708, 2583, 1340, 13, 285, 1869, 3253, 369, 7462, 90, 15, 187, 187, 29760, 3579, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 309, 755, 247, 3935, 432, 619, 11115, 3981, 627, 310, 247, 7501, 6808, 13, 984, 597, 1620, 2959, 253, 35940, 16, 29706, 15, 50276, 42, 16058, 253, 2583, 1340, 3589, 626, 6483, 742, 13, 285, 717, 2444, 327, 247, 23005, 15, 187, 187, 42, 816, 1669, 619, 11115, 247, 3935, 13, 7004, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 2119, 309, 31451, 4089, 896, 1919, 7216, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 309, 717, 1663, 9202, 273, 310, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 15, 50276, 3220, 12247, 816, 3663, 521, 2628, 13, 285, 309, 717, 9202, 597, 588, 897, 436, 347, 247, 2097, 281, 1750, 597, 24186, 253, 2644, 370, 24, 933, 15, 50276, 424, 2513, 436, 247, 1524, 6387, 13, 390, 588, 597, 816, 990, 598, 24184, 2996, 253, 370, 14744, 39148, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1663, 11525, 436, 7819, 562, 8718, 323, 479, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 1614, 4266, 275, 604, 3309, 15, 50276, 42, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 436, 4592, 13, 309, 1928, 751, 824, 247, 4433, 987, 1024, 15, 50276, 3220, 4651, 403, 253, 1682, 13, 285, 309, 717, 594, 11926, 670, 436, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 4710, 598, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 1694, 4077, 1120, 264, 13, 270, 7193, 562, 13, 285, 271, 13103, 2968, 15, 50276, 25420, 281, 271, 3807, 293, 7782, 5313, 273, 8888, 309, 452, 247, 7501, 13, 285, 717, 9202, 619, 4651, 403, 1469, 281, 320, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

368

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Here is the situation. I was recently pulled over and arrested for driving with a suspended license for an unpaid ticket that was neglected for ages. My parents paid a bondsman to bail me out (700 something on a 7000 bail). My public defender got me a good deal -- a full deferral, just sign some papers and pay some fees. I mailed in the paperwork & money order, and thought everything was gravy. Fast forward about a month, and I get a message from my lawyer saying there is a warrant issued, because they never received the paperwork/money. I verified the money order wasn't cashed, and am working on a refund. I just left my lawyer a message, asking how to proceed. I am sure I wont hear back until Monday. What I am really afraid of is how this will affect my parents. My dad just lost his job, and I am afraid they will use this as a means to claim they owe the whole $7000. **Is this a real possibility, or will they just end up forfeiting the $700?** I'm really hoping this turns out ok for me, and I'm ready to turn myself in if necessary. I just can't believe this happened, I feel like such a failure right now. My parents are the best, and I am so worried about this I feel like I am going to throw up. TL;DR: I was pulled over for the unpaid ticket, my lawyer was able to get me a full deferral, and I just left the lawyer a message. I am scared about how this will affect my parents, and I'm just not sure if I can do anything about it.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3856, 310, 253, 4112, 15, 50276, 42, 369, 4102, 7320, 689, 285, 9833, 323, 6276, 342, 247, 14116, 7981, 323, 271, 35778, 13571, 326, 369, 22459, 323, 11880, 15, 187, 187, 3220, 4651, 5087, 247, 13403, 1342, 281, 19590, 479, 562, 313, 14744, 1633, 327, 247, 818, 933, 19590, 481, 187, 187, 3220, 1345, 26762, 1694, 479, 247, 1175, 2968, 1969, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 816, 861, 690, 9380, 285, 2075, 690, 8128, 15, 187, 187, 42, 40569, 275, 253, 35940, 708, 2583, 1340, 13, 285, 1869, 3253, 369, 7462, 90, 15, 187, 187, 29760, 3579, 670, 247, 1770, 13, 285, 309, 755, 247, 3935, 432, 619, 11115, 3981, 627, 310, 247, 7501, 6808, 13, 984, 597, 1620, 2959, 253, 35940, 16, 29706, 15, 50276, 42, 16058, 253, 2583, 1340, 3589, 626, 6483, 742, 13, 285, 717, 2444, 327, 247, 23005, 15, 187, 187, 42, 816, 1669, 619, 11115, 247, 3935, 13, 7004, 849, 281, 4262, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 2119, 309, 31451, 4089, 896, 1919, 7216, 15, 187, 187, 1276, 309, 717, 1663, 9202, 273, 310, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 15, 50276, 3220, 12247, 816, 3663, 521, 2628, 13, 285, 309, 717, 9202, 597, 588, 897, 436, 347, 247, 2097, 281, 1750, 597, 24186, 253, 2644, 370, 24, 933, 15, 50276, 424, 2513, 436, 247, 1524, 6387, 13, 390, 588, 597, 816, 990, 598, 24184, 2996, 253, 370, 14744, 39148, 187, 187, 42, 1353, 1663, 11525, 436, 7819, 562, 8718, 323, 479, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 4704, 281, 1614, 4266, 275, 604, 3309, 15, 50276, 42, 816, 476, 626, 2868, 436, 4592, 13, 309, 1928, 751, 824, 247, 4433, 987, 1024, 15, 50276, 3220, 4651, 403, 253, 1682, 13, 285, 309, 717, 594, 11926, 670, 436, 309, 1928, 751, 309, 717, 1469, 281, 4710, 598, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 369, 7320, 689, 323, 253, 35778, 13571, 13, 619, 11115, 369, 2104, 281, 755, 479, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1669, 253, 11115, 247, 3935, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 16060, 670, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 476, 513, 2712, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

380

323

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 1694, 4077, 1120, 264, 13, 270, 7193, 562, 13, 285, 271, 13103, 2968, 15, 50276, 25420, 281, 271, 3807, 293, 7782, 5313, 273, 8888, 309, 452, 247, 7501, 13, 285, 717, 9202, 619, 4651, 403, 1469, 281, 320, 562, 247, 2257, 273, 2583, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 369, 7320, 689, 323, 253, 35778, 13571, 13, 619, 11115, 369, 2104, 281, 755, 479, 247, 2120, 809, 22859, 13, 285, 309, 816, 1669, 253, 11115, 247, 3935, 15, 50276, 42, 717, 16060, 670, 849, 436, 588, 2818, 619, 4651, 13, 285, 309, 1353, 816, 417, 2119, 604, 309, 476, 513, 2712, 670, 352, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

I've made some posts before under a different username about my deteriorating relationship. We've been together for 9 years now and have 2 daughters (5 & 9) together. We've been distant from each other ever since she got pregnant with our youngest daughter. I'm fairly confident that she only ever wanted to be with me so she could have the kids she always wanted. So things have been pretty shitty for a long time now. I've been banished to sleep in our basement guest bed for the last 4 years. Any sort of physical contact between us ended about a year or so ago. We can barely stand to be around each other any more. We've finally decided to officially end things since this is hardly a good environment to raise our 2 daughters in. Here is where the problem comes in. She has been in college since before we met. She finally got her associates degree last year. As of this fall, she started a bachelors program at a college about 1.5 hours away. She expects to be done with that in about another 1.5-2 years. Until then, the only income she has is from her SSDI disability payments due to her extreme bi-polar and anxiety. No where near enough to afford an apartment on her own. She is on a few waiting lists for state housing, but that will probably be years before she makes it to the top of the list. Plus, those aren't really the greatest locations to raise a family. So, I'm stuck with trying to find a way to pay for an apartment for myself and continuing to pay for my house for her and the girls to live in. Unfortunately, we live way out in the country and there aren't many jobs available. So, I'm looking at moving pretty far away so that I can get a higher paying job to afford both. I'm really hating the idea of only getting to see my kids a couple of times a year though. I'm so torn on all of this that I can barely make any decisions. I could really use someone to talk to, to try and work through some of these decisions.

9 year relationship with gf, long distance, she hasnt had much income since kids birth. Need to find affordable and stable apartment ASAP to raise 2 kids. Need help figuring out the best course of action.

9 year relationship is ending due to financial reasons, GF has no income and lives far out of the country. Looking for ways to help pay for apartment/house even though kids will be living with me less frequently.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 1160, 690, 9319, 1078, 762, 247, 1027, 22440, 670, 619, 16528, 839, 2954, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 898, 1107, 1024, 285, 452, 374, 19367, 313, 22, 708, 898, 10, 2366, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 13392, 432, 1016, 643, 2455, 1580, 703, 1694, 12821, 342, 776, 25423, 6122, 15, 309, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 703, 760, 2455, 3078, 281, 320, 342, 479, 594, 703, 812, 452, 253, 5753, 703, 1900, 3078, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 1841, 452, 644, 3965, 10739, 555, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 1024, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8913, 1428, 281, 4600, 275, 776, 21135, 12141, 3722, 323, 253, 1390, 577, 1107, 15, 6101, 3686, 273, 3520, 3057, 875, 441, 7402, 670, 247, 807, 390, 594, 3622, 15, 844, 476, 12345, 1462, 281, 320, 1475, 1016, 643, 667, 625, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 4720, 4425, 281, 15335, 990, 1841, 1580, 436, 310, 10693, 247, 1175, 3126, 281, 7164, 776, 374, 19367, 275, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 3249, 275, 15, 1500, 556, 644, 275, 6831, 1580, 1078, 359, 1313, 15, 1500, 4720, 1694, 617, 26624, 4248, 1390, 807, 15, 1284, 273, 436, 2965, 13, 703, 3053, 247, 270, 17470, 641, 2086, 387, 247, 6831, 670, 337, 15, 22, 3038, 1977, 15, 1500, 21973, 281, 320, 2218, 342, 326, 275, 670, 1529, 337, 15, 22, 14, 19, 1107, 15, 187, 187, 24753, 840, 13, 253, 760, 6021, 703, 556, 310, 432, 617, 37037, 42, 12564, 10762, 1955, 281, 617, 9559, 1794, 14, 24862, 285, 10397, 15, 1621, 835, 2822, 2217, 281, 7848, 271, 10230, 327, 617, 1211, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 247, 1643, 6179, 10894, 323, 1375, 8039, 13, 533, 326, 588, 3164, 320, 1107, 1078, 703, 2789, 352, 281, 253, 1755, 273, 253, 1618, 15, 14820, 13, 1110, 6403, 626, 1663, 253, 6459, 8593, 281, 7164, 247, 2021, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 13, 309, 1353, 10960, 342, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 1039, 281, 2075, 323, 271, 10230, 323, 4266, 285, 11440, 281, 2075, 323, 619, 2419, 323, 617, 285, 253, 6838, 281, 3153, 275, 15, 12526, 13, 359, 3153, 1039, 562, 275, 253, 2586, 285, 627, 6403, 626, 1142, 7375, 2130, 15, 1893, 13, 309, 1353, 2819, 387, 4886, 3965, 2080, 1977, 594, 326, 309, 476, 755, 247, 2169, 10054, 2628, 281, 7848, 1097, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 288, 839, 253, 2934, 273, 760, 2970, 281, 923, 619, 5753, 247, 4564, 273, 2069, 247, 807, 2167, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 15070, 327, 512, 273, 436, 326, 309, 476, 12345, 1056, 667, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 42, 812, 1663, 897, 3095, 281, 2312, 281, 13, 281, 1611, 285, 789, 949, 690, 273, 841, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've made some posts before under a different username about my deteriorating relationship. We've been together for 9 years now and have 2 daughters (5 & 9) together. We've been distant from each other ever since she got pregnant with our youngest daughter. I'm fairly confident that she only ever wanted to be with me so she could have the kids she always wanted. So things have been pretty shitty for a long time now. I've been banished to sleep in our basement guest bed for the last 4 years. Any sort of physical contact between us ended about a year or so ago. We can barely stand to be around each other any more. We've finally decided to officially end things since this is hardly a good environment to raise our 2 daughters in. Here is where the problem comes in. She has been in college since before we met. She finally got her associates degree last year. As of this fall, she started a bachelors program at a college about 1.5 hours away. She expects to be done with that in about another 1.5-2 years. Until then, the only income she has is from her SSDI disability payments due to her extreme bi-polar and anxiety. No where near enough to afford an apartment on her own. She is on a few waiting lists for state housing, but that will probably be years before she makes it to the top of the list. Plus, those aren't really the greatest locations to raise a family. So, I'm stuck with trying to find a way to pay for an apartment for myself and continuing to pay for my house for her and the girls to live in. Unfortunately, we live way out in the country and there aren't many jobs available. So, I'm looking at moving pretty far away so that I can get a higher paying job to afford both. I'm really hating the idea of only getting to see my kids a couple of times a year though. I'm so torn on all of this that I can barely make any decisions. I could really use someone to talk to, to try and work through some of these decisions. TL;DR:

9 year relationship with gf, long distance, she hasnt had much income since kids birth. Need to find affordable and stable apartment ASAP to raise 2 kids. Need help figuring out the best course of action.<|endoftext|>

[ 898, 807, 2954, 342, 305, 71, 13, 1048, 4181, 13, 703, 556, 2649, 574, 1199, 6021, 1580, 5753, 4201, 15, 20389, 281, 1089, 18261, 285, 6474, 10230, 7412, 2088, 281, 7164, 374, 5753, 15, 20389, 1361, 36182, 562, 253, 1682, 2282, 273, 2250, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

9 year relationship is ending due to financial reasons, GF has no income and lives far out of the country. Looking for ways to help pay for apartment/house even though kids will be living with me less frequently.<|endoftext|>

[ 898, 807, 2954, 310, 12365, 1955, 281, 4832, 4606, 13, 33952, 556, 642, 6021, 285, 4852, 2080, 562, 273, 253, 2586, 15, 23359, 323, 4088, 281, 1361, 2075, 323, 10230, 16, 5967, 1014, 2167, 5753, 588, 320, 3811, 342, 479, 1679, 7208, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've made some posts before under a different username about my deteriorating relationship. We've been together for 9 years now and have 2 daughters (5 & 9) together. We've been distant from each other ever since she got pregnant with our youngest daughter. I'm fairly confident that she only ever wanted to be with me so she could have the kids she always wanted. So things have been pretty shitty for a long time now. I've been banished to sleep in our basement guest bed for the last 4 years. Any sort of physical contact between us ended about a year or so ago. We can barely stand to be around each other any more. We've finally decided to officially end things since this is hardly a good environment to raise our 2 daughters in. Here is where the problem comes in. She has been in college since before we met. She finally got her associates degree last year. As of this fall, she started a bachelors program at a college about 1.5 hours away. She expects to be done with that in about another 1.5-2 years. Until then, the only income she has is from her SSDI disability payments due to her extreme bi-polar and anxiety. No where near enough to afford an apartment on her own. She is on a few waiting lists for state housing, but that will probably be years before she makes it to the top of the list. Plus, those aren't really the greatest locations to raise a family. So, I'm stuck with trying to find a way to pay for an apartment for myself and continuing to pay for my house for her and the girls to live in. Unfortunately, we live way out in the country and there aren't many jobs available. So, I'm looking at moving pretty far away so that I can get a higher paying job to afford both. I'm really hating the idea of only getting to see my kids a couple of times a year though. I'm so torn on all of this that I can barely make any decisions. I could really use someone to talk to, to try and work through some of these decisions. TL;DR: 9 year relationship with gf, long distance, she hasnt had much income since kids birth. Need to find affordable and stable apartment ASAP to raise 2 kids. Need help figuring out the best course of action.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 1160, 690, 9319, 1078, 762, 247, 1027, 22440, 670, 619, 16528, 839, 2954, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 898, 1107, 1024, 285, 452, 374, 19367, 313, 22, 708, 898, 10, 2366, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 13392, 432, 1016, 643, 2455, 1580, 703, 1694, 12821, 342, 776, 25423, 6122, 15, 309, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 703, 760, 2455, 3078, 281, 320, 342, 479, 594, 703, 812, 452, 253, 5753, 703, 1900, 3078, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 1841, 452, 644, 3965, 10739, 555, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 1024, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8913, 1428, 281, 4600, 275, 776, 21135, 12141, 3722, 323, 253, 1390, 577, 1107, 15, 6101, 3686, 273, 3520, 3057, 875, 441, 7402, 670, 247, 807, 390, 594, 3622, 15, 844, 476, 12345, 1462, 281, 320, 1475, 1016, 643, 667, 625, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 4720, 4425, 281, 15335, 990, 1841, 1580, 436, 310, 10693, 247, 1175, 3126, 281, 7164, 776, 374, 19367, 275, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 3249, 275, 15, 1500, 556, 644, 275, 6831, 1580, 1078, 359, 1313, 15, 1500, 4720, 1694, 617, 26624, 4248, 1390, 807, 15, 1284, 273, 436, 2965, 13, 703, 3053, 247, 270, 17470, 641, 2086, 387, 247, 6831, 670, 337, 15, 22, 3038, 1977, 15, 1500, 21973, 281, 320, 2218, 342, 326, 275, 670, 1529, 337, 15, 22, 14, 19, 1107, 15, 187, 187, 24753, 840, 13, 253, 760, 6021, 703, 556, 310, 432, 617, 37037, 42, 12564, 10762, 1955, 281, 617, 9559, 1794, 14, 24862, 285, 10397, 15, 1621, 835, 2822, 2217, 281, 7848, 271, 10230, 327, 617, 1211, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 247, 1643, 6179, 10894, 323, 1375, 8039, 13, 533, 326, 588, 3164, 320, 1107, 1078, 703, 2789, 352, 281, 253, 1755, 273, 253, 1618, 15, 14820, 13, 1110, 6403, 626, 1663, 253, 6459, 8593, 281, 7164, 247, 2021, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 13, 309, 1353, 10960, 342, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 1039, 281, 2075, 323, 271, 10230, 323, 4266, 285, 11440, 281, 2075, 323, 619, 2419, 323, 617, 285, 253, 6838, 281, 3153, 275, 15, 12526, 13, 359, 3153, 1039, 562, 275, 253, 2586, 285, 627, 6403, 626, 1142, 7375, 2130, 15, 1893, 13, 309, 1353, 2819, 387, 4886, 3965, 2080, 1977, 594, 326, 309, 476, 755, 247, 2169, 10054, 2628, 281, 7848, 1097, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 288, 839, 253, 2934, 273, 760, 2970, 281, 923, 619, 5753, 247, 4564, 273, 2069, 247, 807, 2167, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 15070, 327, 512, 273, 436, 326, 309, 476, 12345, 1056, 667, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 42, 812, 1663, 897, 3095, 281, 2312, 281, 13, 281, 1611, 285, 789, 949, 690, 273, 841, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 898, 807, 2954, 342, 305, 71, 13, 1048, 4181, 13, 703, 556, 2649, 574, 1199, 6021, 1580, 5753, 4201, 15, 20389, 281, 1089, 18261, 285, 6474, 10230, 7412, 2088, 281, 7164, 374, 5753, 15, 20389, 1361, 36182, 562, 253, 1682, 2282, 273, 2250, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

511

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: I've made some posts before under a different username about my deteriorating relationship. We've been together for 9 years now and have 2 daughters (5 & 9) together. We've been distant from each other ever since she got pregnant with our youngest daughter. I'm fairly confident that she only ever wanted to be with me so she could have the kids she always wanted. So things have been pretty shitty for a long time now. I've been banished to sleep in our basement guest bed for the last 4 years. Any sort of physical contact between us ended about a year or so ago. We can barely stand to be around each other any more. We've finally decided to officially end things since this is hardly a good environment to raise our 2 daughters in. Here is where the problem comes in. She has been in college since before we met. She finally got her associates degree last year. As of this fall, she started a bachelors program at a college about 1.5 hours away. She expects to be done with that in about another 1.5-2 years. Until then, the only income she has is from her SSDI disability payments due to her extreme bi-polar and anxiety. No where near enough to afford an apartment on her own. She is on a few waiting lists for state housing, but that will probably be years before she makes it to the top of the list. Plus, those aren't really the greatest locations to raise a family. So, I'm stuck with trying to find a way to pay for an apartment for myself and continuing to pay for my house for her and the girls to live in. Unfortunately, we live way out in the country and there aren't many jobs available. So, I'm looking at moving pretty far away so that I can get a higher paying job to afford both. I'm really hating the idea of only getting to see my kids a couple of times a year though. I'm so torn on all of this that I can barely make any decisions. I could really use someone to talk to, to try and work through some of these decisions. TL;DR: 9 year relationship is ending due to financial reasons, GF has no income and lives far out of the country. Looking for ways to help pay for apartment/house even though kids will be living with me less frequently.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 309, 1849, 1160, 690, 9319, 1078, 762, 247, 1027, 22440, 670, 619, 16528, 839, 2954, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 2366, 323, 898, 1107, 1024, 285, 452, 374, 19367, 313, 22, 708, 898, 10, 2366, 15, 844, 1849, 644, 13392, 432, 1016, 643, 2455, 1580, 703, 1694, 12821, 342, 776, 25423, 6122, 15, 309, 1353, 9648, 13224, 326, 703, 760, 2455, 3078, 281, 320, 342, 479, 594, 703, 812, 452, 253, 5753, 703, 1900, 3078, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 1841, 452, 644, 3965, 10739, 555, 323, 247, 1048, 673, 1024, 15, 309, 1849, 644, 8913, 1428, 281, 4600, 275, 776, 21135, 12141, 3722, 323, 253, 1390, 577, 1107, 15, 6101, 3686, 273, 3520, 3057, 875, 441, 7402, 670, 247, 807, 390, 594, 3622, 15, 844, 476, 12345, 1462, 281, 320, 1475, 1016, 643, 667, 625, 15, 187, 187, 1231, 1849, 4720, 4425, 281, 15335, 990, 1841, 1580, 436, 310, 10693, 247, 1175, 3126, 281, 7164, 776, 374, 19367, 275, 15, 187, 187, 4943, 310, 835, 253, 1895, 3249, 275, 15, 1500, 556, 644, 275, 6831, 1580, 1078, 359, 1313, 15, 1500, 4720, 1694, 617, 26624, 4248, 1390, 807, 15, 1284, 273, 436, 2965, 13, 703, 3053, 247, 270, 17470, 641, 2086, 387, 247, 6831, 670, 337, 15, 22, 3038, 1977, 15, 1500, 21973, 281, 320, 2218, 342, 326, 275, 670, 1529, 337, 15, 22, 14, 19, 1107, 15, 187, 187, 24753, 840, 13, 253, 760, 6021, 703, 556, 310, 432, 617, 37037, 42, 12564, 10762, 1955, 281, 617, 9559, 1794, 14, 24862, 285, 10397, 15, 1621, 835, 2822, 2217, 281, 7848, 271, 10230, 327, 617, 1211, 15, 1500, 310, 327, 247, 1643, 6179, 10894, 323, 1375, 8039, 13, 533, 326, 588, 3164, 320, 1107, 1078, 703, 2789, 352, 281, 253, 1755, 273, 253, 1618, 15, 14820, 13, 1110, 6403, 626, 1663, 253, 6459, 8593, 281, 7164, 247, 2021, 15, 187, 187, 2598, 13, 309, 1353, 10960, 342, 2820, 281, 1089, 247, 1039, 281, 2075, 323, 271, 10230, 323, 4266, 285, 11440, 281, 2075, 323, 619, 2419, 323, 617, 285, 253, 6838, 281, 3153, 275, 15, 12526, 13, 359, 3153, 1039, 562, 275, 253, 2586, 285, 627, 6403, 626, 1142, 7375, 2130, 15, 1893, 13, 309, 1353, 2819, 387, 4886, 3965, 2080, 1977, 594, 326, 309, 476, 755, 247, 2169, 10054, 2628, 281, 7848, 1097, 15, 309, 1353, 1663, 288, 839, 253, 2934, 273, 760, 2970, 281, 923, 619, 5753, 247, 4564, 273, 2069, 247, 807, 2167, 15, 309, 1353, 594, 15070, 327, 512, 273, 436, 326, 309, 476, 12345, 1056, 667, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 42, 812, 1663, 897, 3095, 281, 2312, 281, 13, 281, 1611, 285, 789, 949, 690, 273, 841, 7089, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 898, 807, 2954, 310, 12365, 1955, 281, 4832, 4606, 13, 33952, 556, 642, 6021, 285, 4852, 2080, 562, 273, 253, 2586, 15, 23359, 323, 4088, 281, 1361, 2075, 323, 10230, 16, 5967, 1014, 2167, 5753, 588, 320, 3811, 342, 479, 1679, 7208, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

510

466

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 898, 807, 2954, 342, 305, 71, 13, 1048, 4181, 13, 703, 556, 2649, 574, 1199, 6021, 1580, 5753, 4201, 15, 20389, 281, 1089, 18261, 285, 6474, 10230, 7412, 2088, 281, 7164, 374, 5753, 15, 20389, 1361, 36182, 562, 253, 1682, 2282, 273, 2250, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 898, 807, 2954, 310, 12365, 1955, 281, 4832, 4606, 13, 33952, 556, 642, 6021, 285, 4852, 2080, 562, 273, 253, 2586, 15, 23359, 323, 4088, 281, 1361, 2075, 323, 10230, 16, 5967, 1014, 2167, 5753, 588, 320, 3811, 342, 479, 1679, 7208, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Me and my ex had been dating for about 2 years. We were both in high school and this fall I went to college, but she was in high school so it became long distance. About November 2013, she starts hanging out a lot with one of her guy friends. They didn't do anything other than study and hang out for a while, but she eventually confided in him that she was going to break up with me because of distance. She told some of her female friends too, but he told this guy too. The guy friend starts flirting with her, trying to make her special, etc.. she obliges. I still went to visit her every other week and things seem fine, until we break up. I was okay with the break-up, the distance was kind of hard to keep a relationship. But Reddit, was it okay for my girlfriend to be hanging out with this other guy at Starbucks and maybe even going to dinner with him while she was dating me? Is that considered as cheating? I don't see how she got over it so quick. Everything else is our relationship was bliss until a few months back.

My girlfriend was hanging out with another guy a lot while she was dating me.

my gf was with a guy for a while, a few months later it happens again. Is this cheating?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 385, 574, 644, 13597, 323, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 844, 497, 1097, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 436, 2965, 309, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 533, 703, 369, 275, 1029, 2143, 594, 352, 3395, 1048, 4181, 15, 11376, 4596, 4072, 13, 703, 7866, 14203, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 581, 273, 617, 5599, 3858, 15, 1583, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 285, 10913, 562, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 703, 6524, 1461, 1356, 275, 779, 326, 703, 369, 1469, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 479, 984, 273, 4181, 15, 1500, 2183, 690, 273, 617, 5343, 3858, 1512, 13, 533, 344, 2183, 436, 5599, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 510, 5599, 3331, 7866, 892, 343, 1076, 342, 617, 13, 2820, 281, 1056, 617, 2714, 13, 3966, 537, 703, 7206, 265, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1335, 2427, 281, 4143, 617, 1046, 643, 2129, 285, 1841, 1646, 4030, 13, 1919, 359, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 369, 8261, 342, 253, 2740, 14, 484, 13, 253, 4181, 369, 2238, 273, 1892, 281, 1978, 247, 2954, 15, 1292, 39714, 13, 369, 352, 8261, 323, 619, 19609, 281, 320, 14203, 562, 342, 436, 643, 5599, 387, 47841, 285, 5046, 1014, 1469, 281, 8955, 342, 779, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 32, 1680, 326, 2783, 347, 37142, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 703, 1694, 689, 352, 594, 3158, 15, 16942, 2010, 310, 776, 2954, 369, 39577, 1919, 247, 1643, 2607, 896, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my ex had been dating for about 2 years. We were both in high school and this fall I went to college, but she was in high school so it became long distance. About November 2013, she starts hanging out a lot with one of her guy friends. They didn't do anything other than study and hang out for a while, but she eventually confided in him that she was going to break up with me because of distance. She told some of her female friends too, but he told this guy too. The guy friend starts flirting with her, trying to make her special, etc.. she obliges. I still went to visit her every other week and things seem fine, until we break up. I was okay with the break-up, the distance was kind of hard to keep a relationship. But Reddit, was it okay for my girlfriend to be hanging out with this other guy at Starbucks and maybe even going to dinner with him while she was dating me? Is that considered as cheating? I don't see how she got over it so quick. Everything else is our relationship was bliss until a few months back. TL;DR:

My girlfriend was hanging out with another guy a lot while she was dating me.<|endoftext|>

[ 2752, 19609, 369, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 247, 2257, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

my gf was with a guy for a while, a few months later it happens again. Is this cheating?<|endoftext|>

[ 619, 305, 71, 369, 342, 247, 5599, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 352, 6569, 969, 15, 1680, 436, 37142, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my ex had been dating for about 2 years. We were both in high school and this fall I went to college, but she was in high school so it became long distance. About November 2013, she starts hanging out a lot with one of her guy friends. They didn't do anything other than study and hang out for a while, but she eventually confided in him that she was going to break up with me because of distance. She told some of her female friends too, but he told this guy too. The guy friend starts flirting with her, trying to make her special, etc.. she obliges. I still went to visit her every other week and things seem fine, until we break up. I was okay with the break-up, the distance was kind of hard to keep a relationship. But Reddit, was it okay for my girlfriend to be hanging out with this other guy at Starbucks and maybe even going to dinner with him while she was dating me? Is that considered as cheating? I don't see how she got over it so quick. Everything else is our relationship was bliss until a few months back. TL;DR: My girlfriend was hanging out with another guy a lot while she was dating me.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 385, 574, 644, 13597, 323, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 844, 497, 1097, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 436, 2965, 309, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 533, 703, 369, 275, 1029, 2143, 594, 352, 3395, 1048, 4181, 15, 11376, 4596, 4072, 13, 703, 7866, 14203, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 581, 273, 617, 5599, 3858, 15, 1583, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 285, 10913, 562, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 703, 6524, 1461, 1356, 275, 779, 326, 703, 369, 1469, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 479, 984, 273, 4181, 15, 1500, 2183, 690, 273, 617, 5343, 3858, 1512, 13, 533, 344, 2183, 436, 5599, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 510, 5599, 3331, 7866, 892, 343, 1076, 342, 617, 13, 2820, 281, 1056, 617, 2714, 13, 3966, 537, 703, 7206, 265, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1335, 2427, 281, 4143, 617, 1046, 643, 2129, 285, 1841, 1646, 4030, 13, 1919, 359, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 369, 8261, 342, 253, 2740, 14, 484, 13, 253, 4181, 369, 2238, 273, 1892, 281, 1978, 247, 2954, 15, 1292, 39714, 13, 369, 352, 8261, 323, 619, 19609, 281, 320, 14203, 562, 342, 436, 643, 5599, 387, 47841, 285, 5046, 1014, 1469, 281, 8955, 342, 779, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 32, 1680, 326, 2783, 347, 37142, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 703, 1694, 689, 352, 594, 3158, 15, 16942, 2010, 310, 776, 2954, 369, 39577, 1919, 247, 1643, 2607, 896, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 2752, 19609, 369, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 247, 2257, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

275

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Me and my ex had been dating for about 2 years. We were both in high school and this fall I went to college, but she was in high school so it became long distance. About November 2013, she starts hanging out a lot with one of her guy friends. They didn't do anything other than study and hang out for a while, but she eventually confided in him that she was going to break up with me because of distance. She told some of her female friends too, but he told this guy too. The guy friend starts flirting with her, trying to make her special, etc.. she obliges. I still went to visit her every other week and things seem fine, until we break up. I was okay with the break-up, the distance was kind of hard to keep a relationship. But Reddit, was it okay for my girlfriend to be hanging out with this other guy at Starbucks and maybe even going to dinner with him while she was dating me? Is that considered as cheating? I don't see how she got over it so quick. Everything else is our relationship was bliss until a few months back. TL;DR: my gf was with a guy for a while, a few months later it happens again. Is this cheating?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 3189, 285, 619, 385, 574, 644, 13597, 323, 670, 374, 1107, 15, 844, 497, 1097, 275, 1029, 2143, 285, 436, 2965, 309, 2427, 281, 6831, 13, 533, 703, 369, 275, 1029, 2143, 594, 352, 3395, 1048, 4181, 15, 11376, 4596, 4072, 13, 703, 7866, 14203, 562, 247, 2257, 342, 581, 273, 617, 5599, 3858, 15, 1583, 1904, 626, 513, 2712, 643, 685, 1263, 285, 10913, 562, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 533, 703, 6524, 1461, 1356, 275, 779, 326, 703, 369, 1469, 281, 2740, 598, 342, 479, 984, 273, 4181, 15, 1500, 2183, 690, 273, 617, 5343, 3858, 1512, 13, 533, 344, 2183, 436, 5599, 1512, 15, 187, 187, 510, 5599, 3331, 7866, 892, 343, 1076, 342, 617, 13, 2820, 281, 1056, 617, 2714, 13, 3966, 537, 703, 7206, 265, 15, 2490, 187, 42, 1335, 2427, 281, 4143, 617, 1046, 643, 2129, 285, 1841, 1646, 4030, 13, 1919, 359, 2740, 598, 15, 309, 369, 8261, 342, 253, 2740, 14, 484, 13, 253, 4181, 369, 2238, 273, 1892, 281, 1978, 247, 2954, 15, 1292, 39714, 13, 369, 352, 8261, 323, 619, 19609, 281, 320, 14203, 562, 342, 436, 643, 5599, 387, 47841, 285, 5046, 1014, 1469, 281, 8955, 342, 779, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 32, 1680, 326, 2783, 347, 37142, 32, 309, 1053, 626, 923, 849, 703, 1694, 689, 352, 594, 3158, 15, 16942, 2010, 310, 776, 2954, 369, 39577, 1919, 247, 1643, 2607, 896, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 619, 305, 71, 369, 342, 247, 5599, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 352, 6569, 969, 15, 1680, 436, 37142, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

282

258

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 2752, 19609, 369, 14203, 562, 342, 1529, 5599, 247, 2257, 1223, 703, 369, 13597, 479, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 619, 305, 71, 369, 342, 247, 5599, 323, 247, 1223, 13, 247, 1643, 2607, 1996, 352, 6569, 969, 15, 1680, 436, 37142, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

Okay so here's a little background. We have $26,000 in credit card debt, and pay roughly $750 per month on minimum payments. We want to get out of debt especially since her student loans have kicked in and we are paying those now, and mine will start in December. We received a letter claiming we could reduce our debts by quite a lot and so I called the number. The end result seems to be we can use this group of lawyers to get our debt reduced. The numbers quoted were 36 months @ 458.67 per month. No other fees or anything. The thing is that when we do this all of our credit cards will be closed. We don't necessarily have a problem with that since the cards are what we used to get into this problem in the first place but we are a little worried of the affect of this on our credit. Couple of questions...am i missing something obvious here as to why I shouldn't do this? It sounds really good to me. Also, is there any other negative thing that can result from them closing our cards? Thank you for reading.

want to get out of debt, get lawyer to reduce cc debts, credit cards will be closed, worried of affects on credit score, other side of the coin?

26k in credit card debt, want to get out of debt wanted to do debt consolidation with lawyers as well as credit cards closed. Not sure wether to go. Need some insight.

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 1060, 434, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 370, 1731, 13, 933, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 285, 2075, 11467, 370, 22330, 591, 1770, 327, 5927, 10762, 15, 50276, 1231, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3340, 1580, 617, 5974, 15407, 452, 19301, 275, 285, 359, 403, 10054, 1110, 1024, 13, 285, 7477, 588, 1265, 275, 4565, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1231, 2959, 247, 4857, 15081, 359, 812, 4796, 776, 26131, 407, 3240, 247, 2257, 285, 594, 309, 1925, 253, 1180, 15, 50276, 510, 990, 906, 3133, 281, 320, 359, 476, 897, 436, 1387, 273, 16099, 281, 755, 776, 6735, 3777, 15, 50276, 510, 3904, 15212, 497, 5540, 2607, 1214, 42700, 15, 2251, 591, 1770, 15, 50276, 2302, 643, 8128, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 672, 359, 513, 436, 512, 273, 776, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 15, 50276, 1231, 1053, 626, 7933, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 326, 1580, 253, 8364, 403, 752, 359, 908, 281, 755, 715, 436, 1895, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 533, 359, 403, 247, 1652, 11926, 273, 253, 2818, 273, 436, 327, 776, 6152, 15, 187, 187, 36, 276, 713, 273, 3533, 1051, 312, 891, 5816, 1633, 4755, 1060, 347, 281, 2139, 309, 10095, 626, 513, 436, 32, 50276, 1147, 7835, 1663, 1175, 281, 479, 15, 50276, 9917, 13, 310, 627, 667, 643, 4016, 2181, 326, 476, 906, 432, 731, 11196, 776, 8364, 32, 187, 187, 8398, 368, 323, 4361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's a little background. We have $26,000 in credit card debt, and pay roughly $750 per month on minimum payments. We want to get out of debt especially since her student loans have kicked in and we are paying those now, and mine will start in December. We received a letter claiming we could reduce our debts by quite a lot and so I called the number. The end result seems to be we can use this group of lawyers to get our debt reduced. The numbers quoted were 36 months @ 458.67 per month. No other fees or anything. The thing is that when we do this all of our credit cards will be closed. We don't necessarily have a problem with that since the cards are what we used to get into this problem in the first place but we are a little worried of the affect of this on our credit. Couple of questions...am i missing something obvious here as to why I shouldn't do this? It sounds really good to me. Also, is there any other negative thing that can result from them closing our cards? Thank you for reading. TL;DR:

want to get out of debt, get lawyer to reduce cc debts, credit cards will be closed, worried of affects on credit score, other side of the coin?<|endoftext|>

[ 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 13, 755, 11115, 281, 4796, 25215, 26131, 13, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 13, 11926, 273, 11852, 327, 6152, 4868, 13, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 18011, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

26k in credit card debt, want to get out of debt wanted to do debt consolidation with lawyers as well as credit cards closed. Not sure wether to go. Need some insight.<|endoftext|>

[ 3436, 76, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3078, 281, 513, 6735, 34889, 342, 16099, 347, 973, 347, 6152, 8364, 4581, 15, 50276, 3650, 2119, 259, 7851, 281, 564, 15, 20389, 690, 12288, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's a little background. We have $26,000 in credit card debt, and pay roughly $750 per month on minimum payments. We want to get out of debt especially since her student loans have kicked in and we are paying those now, and mine will start in December. We received a letter claiming we could reduce our debts by quite a lot and so I called the number. The end result seems to be we can use this group of lawyers to get our debt reduced. The numbers quoted were 36 months @ 458.67 per month. No other fees or anything. The thing is that when we do this all of our credit cards will be closed. We don't necessarily have a problem with that since the cards are what we used to get into this problem in the first place but we are a little worried of the affect of this on our credit. Couple of questions...am i missing something obvious here as to why I shouldn't do this? It sounds really good to me. Also, is there any other negative thing that can result from them closing our cards? Thank you for reading. TL;DR: want to get out of debt, get lawyer to reduce cc debts, credit cards will be closed, worried of affects on credit score, other side of the coin?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 1060, 434, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 370, 1731, 13, 933, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 285, 2075, 11467, 370, 22330, 591, 1770, 327, 5927, 10762, 15, 50276, 1231, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3340, 1580, 617, 5974, 15407, 452, 19301, 275, 285, 359, 403, 10054, 1110, 1024, 13, 285, 7477, 588, 1265, 275, 4565, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1231, 2959, 247, 4857, 15081, 359, 812, 4796, 776, 26131, 407, 3240, 247, 2257, 285, 594, 309, 1925, 253, 1180, 15, 50276, 510, 990, 906, 3133, 281, 320, 359, 476, 897, 436, 1387, 273, 16099, 281, 755, 776, 6735, 3777, 15, 50276, 510, 3904, 15212, 497, 5540, 2607, 1214, 42700, 15, 2251, 591, 1770, 15, 50276, 2302, 643, 8128, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 672, 359, 513, 436, 512, 273, 776, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 15, 50276, 1231, 1053, 626, 7933, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 326, 1580, 253, 8364, 403, 752, 359, 908, 281, 755, 715, 436, 1895, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 533, 359, 403, 247, 1652, 11926, 273, 253, 2818, 273, 436, 327, 776, 6152, 15, 187, 187, 36, 276, 713, 273, 3533, 1051, 312, 891, 5816, 1633, 4755, 1060, 347, 281, 2139, 309, 10095, 626, 513, 436, 32, 50276, 1147, 7835, 1663, 1175, 281, 479, 15, 50276, 9917, 13, 310, 627, 667, 643, 4016, 2181, 326, 476, 906, 432, 731, 11196, 776, 8364, 32, 187, 187, 8398, 368, 323, 4361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 13, 755, 11115, 281, 4796, 25215, 26131, 13, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 13, 11926, 273, 11852, 327, 6152, 4868, 13, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 18011, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

299

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: Okay so here's a little background. We have $26,000 in credit card debt, and pay roughly $750 per month on minimum payments. We want to get out of debt especially since her student loans have kicked in and we are paying those now, and mine will start in December. We received a letter claiming we could reduce our debts by quite a lot and so I called the number. The end result seems to be we can use this group of lawyers to get our debt reduced. The numbers quoted were 36 months @ 458.67 per month. No other fees or anything. The thing is that when we do this all of our credit cards will be closed. We don't necessarily have a problem with that since the cards are what we used to get into this problem in the first place but we are a little worried of the affect of this on our credit. Couple of questions...am i missing something obvious here as to why I shouldn't do this? It sounds really good to me. Also, is there any other negative thing that can result from them closing our cards? Thank you for reading. TL;DR: 26k in credit card debt, want to get out of debt wanted to do debt consolidation with lawyers as well as credit cards closed. Not sure wether to go. Need some insight.<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 19619, 594, 1060, 434, 247, 1652, 4114, 15, 50276, 1231, 452, 370, 1731, 13, 933, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 285, 2075, 11467, 370, 22330, 591, 1770, 327, 5927, 10762, 15, 50276, 1231, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3340, 1580, 617, 5974, 15407, 452, 19301, 275, 285, 359, 403, 10054, 1110, 1024, 13, 285, 7477, 588, 1265, 275, 4565, 15, 50276, 187, 187, 1231, 2959, 247, 4857, 15081, 359, 812, 4796, 776, 26131, 407, 3240, 247, 2257, 285, 594, 309, 1925, 253, 1180, 15, 50276, 510, 990, 906, 3133, 281, 320, 359, 476, 897, 436, 1387, 273, 16099, 281, 755, 776, 6735, 3777, 15, 50276, 510, 3904, 15212, 497, 5540, 2607, 1214, 42700, 15, 2251, 591, 1770, 15, 50276, 2302, 643, 8128, 390, 2712, 15, 187, 187, 510, 2181, 310, 326, 672, 359, 513, 436, 512, 273, 776, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 15, 50276, 1231, 1053, 626, 7933, 452, 247, 1895, 342, 326, 1580, 253, 8364, 403, 752, 359, 908, 281, 755, 715, 436, 1895, 275, 253, 806, 1659, 533, 359, 403, 247, 1652, 11926, 273, 253, 2818, 273, 436, 327, 776, 6152, 15, 187, 187, 36, 276, 713, 273, 3533, 1051, 312, 891, 5816, 1633, 4755, 1060, 347, 281, 2139, 309, 10095, 626, 513, 436, 32, 50276, 1147, 7835, 1663, 1175, 281, 479, 15, 50276, 9917, 13, 310, 627, 667, 643, 4016, 2181, 326, 476, 906, 432, 731, 11196, 776, 8364, 32, 187, 187, 8398, 368, 323, 4361, 15, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 3436, 76, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3078, 281, 513, 6735, 34889, 342, 16099, 347, 973, 347, 6152, 8364, 4581, 15, 50276, 3650, 2119, 259, 7851, 281, 564, 15, 20389, 690, 12288, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

305

265

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 13, 755, 11115, 281, 4796, 25215, 26131, 13, 6152, 8364, 588, 320, 4581, 13, 11926, 273, 11852, 327, 6152, 4868, 13, 643, 1930, 273, 253, 18011, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 3436, 76, 275, 6152, 3120, 6735, 13, 971, 281, 755, 562, 273, 6735, 3078, 281, 513, 6735, 34889, 342, 16099, 347, 973, 347, 6152, 8364, 4581, 15, 50276, 3650, 2119, 259, 7851, 281, 564, 15, 20389, 690, 12288, 15, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk. There are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+. So... Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this?

I have found myself in a potentially disastrous financial situation where the vast majority of my net worth is tied up in one investment. How do I undo this? Who do I talk to first?

I work for a company with a smattering of stock. Everything is based on that company's stock. Do I diversify through a Fidelity, Vanguard, etc. advisor, or am I screwed out of my money?

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 310, 247, 9648, 1846, 4112, 835, 309, 3153, 15, 3808, 952, 789, 323, 247, 20500, 285, 403, 24011, 4541, 407, 1142, 10764, 273, 247, 5547, 5739, 15, 19810, 13, 751, 479, 13, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 323, 2067, 1107, 285, 29010, 5739, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 380, 5739, 10949, 253, 2862, 2491, 273, 2105, 3720, 13, 347, 253, 5739, 556, 28987, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 22660, 1039, 13, 952, 990, 598, 342, 247, 12524, 2408, 273, 2036, 4409, 13, 533, 275, 247, 4122, 16761, 5739, 1899, 15, 5595, 2069, 13, 253, 8183, 556, 5058, 2793, 342, 14419, 436, 2495, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2069, 835, 309, 452, 3663, 390, 47414, 3387, 6, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 275, 247, 807, 407, 5877, 327, 281, 436, 5739, 15, 309, 871, 2571, 275, 619, 4112, 13, 12319, 432, 370, 1099, 44, 281, 370, 19, 3041, 39801, 187, 187, 2598, 1051, 7900, 513, 309, 1265, 32, 309, 452, 1239, 670, 17382, 3007, 1032, 13, 6431, 8064, 13, 12240, 8064, 13, 3966, 15, 309, 717, 7514, 342, 7940, 5411, 1293, 10305, 619, 14133, 281, 10474, 15, 8452, 403, 34719, 494, 10071, 309, 476, 7279, 342, 275, 436, 1673, 32, 3166, 1943, 2567, 8788, 4323, 3238, 751, 34069, 408, 28589, 2085, 253, 987, 1511, 273, 7535, 13, 390, 310, 627, 247, 625, 18052, 1511, 273, 31149, 323, 436, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1 ]

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk. There are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+. So... Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this? TL;DR:

I have found myself in a potentially disastrous financial situation where the vast majority of my net worth is tied up in one investment. How do I undo this? Who do I talk to first?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 452, 1119, 4266, 275, 247, 7826, 37359, 4832, 4112, 835, 253, 8485, 5020, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 310, 12331, 598, 275, 581, 8149, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 42137, 436, 32, 8452, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 806, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

I work for a company with a smattering of stock. Everything is based on that company's stock. Do I diversify through a Fidelity, Vanguard, etc. advisor, or am I screwed out of my money?<|endoftext|>

[ 309, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 342, 247, 924, 9476, 273, 5739, 15, 16942, 310, 1754, 327, 326, 2567, 434, 5739, 15, 3166, 309, 7940, 1419, 949, 247, 401, 21718, 13, 657, 2435, 472, 13, 3966, 15, 31149, 13, 390, 717, 309, 34672, 562, 273, 619, 2583, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 1, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0, 0 ]

169

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk. There are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+. So... Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this? TL;DR: I have found myself in a potentially disastrous financial situation where the vast majority of my net worth is tied up in one investment. How do I undo this? Who do I talk to first?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 310, 247, 9648, 1846, 4112, 835, 309, 3153, 15, 3808, 952, 789, 323, 247, 20500, 285, 403, 24011, 4541, 407, 1142, 10764, 273, 247, 5547, 5739, 15, 19810, 13, 751, 479, 13, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 323, 2067, 1107, 285, 29010, 5739, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 380, 5739, 10949, 253, 2862, 2491, 273, 2105, 3720, 13, 347, 253, 5739, 556, 28987, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 22660, 1039, 13, 952, 990, 598, 342, 247, 12524, 2408, 273, 2036, 4409, 13, 533, 275, 247, 4122, 16761, 5739, 1899, 15, 5595, 2069, 13, 253, 8183, 556, 5058, 2793, 342, 14419, 436, 2495, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2069, 835, 309, 452, 3663, 390, 47414, 3387, 6, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 275, 247, 807, 407, 5877, 327, 281, 436, 5739, 15, 309, 871, 2571, 275, 619, 4112, 13, 12319, 432, 370, 1099, 44, 281, 370, 19, 3041, 39801, 187, 187, 2598, 1051, 7900, 513, 309, 1265, 32, 309, 452, 1239, 670, 17382, 3007, 1032, 13, 6431, 8064, 13, 12240, 8064, 13, 3966, 15, 309, 717, 7514, 342, 7940, 5411, 1293, 10305, 619, 14133, 281, 10474, 15, 8452, 403, 34719, 494, 10071, 309, 476, 7279, 342, 275, 436, 1673, 32, 3166, 1943, 2567, 8788, 4323, 3238, 751, 34069, 408, 28589, 2085, 253, 987, 1511, 273, 7535, 13, 390, 310, 627, 247, 625, 18052, 1511, 273, 31149, 323, 436, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 452, 1119, 4266, 275, 247, 7826, 37359, 4832, 4112, 835, 253, 8485, 5020, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 310, 12331, 598, 275, 581, 8149, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 42137, 436, 32, 8452, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 806, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

287

SUBREDDIT: r/ TITLE: POST: This is a fairly common situation where I live. Some people work for a startup and are blessed quickly by many shares of a successful stock. Others, like me, work for a company for several years and accumulate stock along the way. The stock covers the entire range of cost basis, as the stock has risen along the way. Either way, people end up with a decent amount of net worth, but in a highly concentrated stock position. Most times, the employee has zero experience with managing this risk. There are times where I have lost or regained 40% of my net worth in a year by holding on to this stock. I know others in my situation, ranging from $25K to $2 million+. So... Where do I start? I have read about equity collars, exchange funds, completion funds, etc. I am concerned with diversifying without losing my shirt to taxes. Who are reputable experts I can consult with in this field? Do big company wealth management services like Merrill Lynch provide the right type of advice, or is there a more specialized type of advisor for this? TL;DR: I work for a company with a smattering of stock. Everything is based on that company's stock. Do I diversify through a Fidelity, Vanguard, etc. advisor, or am I screwed out of my money?<|endoftext|>

[ 6971, 7941, 1703, 37, 1433, 27, 391, 16, 187, 187, 53, 43561, 27, 2490, 187, 15743, 27, 831, 310, 247, 9648, 1846, 4112, 835, 309, 3153, 15, 3808, 952, 789, 323, 247, 20500, 285, 403, 24011, 4541, 407, 1142, 10764, 273, 247, 5547, 5739, 15, 19810, 13, 751, 479, 13, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 323, 2067, 1107, 285, 29010, 5739, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 380, 5739, 10949, 253, 2862, 2491, 273, 2105, 3720, 13, 347, 253, 5739, 556, 28987, 2112, 253, 1039, 15, 22660, 1039, 13, 952, 990, 598, 342, 247, 12524, 2408, 273, 2036, 4409, 13, 533, 275, 247, 4122, 16761, 5739, 1899, 15, 5595, 2069, 13, 253, 8183, 556, 5058, 2793, 342, 14419, 436, 2495, 15, 187, 187, 2512, 403, 2069, 835, 309, 452, 3663, 390, 47414, 3387, 6, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 275, 247, 807, 407, 5877, 327, 281, 436, 5739, 15, 309, 871, 2571, 275, 619, 4112, 13, 12319, 432, 370, 1099, 44, 281, 370, 19, 3041, 39801, 187, 187, 2598, 1051, 7900, 513, 309, 1265, 32, 309, 452, 1239, 670, 17382, 3007, 1032, 13, 6431, 8064, 13, 12240, 8064, 13, 3966, 15, 309, 717, 7514, 342, 7940, 5411, 1293, 10305, 619, 14133, 281, 10474, 15, 8452, 403, 34719, 494, 10071, 309, 476, 7279, 342, 275, 436, 1673, 32, 3166, 1943, 2567, 8788, 4323, 3238, 751, 34069, 408, 28589, 2085, 253, 987, 1511, 273, 7535, 13, 390, 310, 627, 247, 625, 18052, 1511, 273, 31149, 323, 436, 32, 187, 187, 14135, 28, 4976, 27, 309, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 342, 247, 924, 9476, 273, 5739, 15, 16942, 310, 1754, 327, 326, 2567, 434, 5739, 15, 3166, 309, 7940, 1419, 949, 247, 401, 21718, 13, 657, 2435, 472, 13, 3966, 15, 31149, 13, 390, 717, 309, 34672, 562, 273, 619, 2583, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

296

248

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 452, 1119, 4266, 275, 247, 7826, 37359, 4832, 4112, 835, 253, 8485, 5020, 273, 619, 2036, 4409, 310, 12331, 598, 275, 581, 8149, 15, 1359, 513, 309, 42137, 436, 32, 8452, 513, 309, 2312, 281, 806, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]

[ 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 309, 789, 323, 247, 2567, 342, 247, 924, 9476, 273, 5739, 15, 16942, 310, 1754, 327, 326, 2567, 434, 5739, 15, 3166, 309, 7940, 1419, 949, 247, 401, 21718, 13, 657, 2435, 472, 13, 3966, 15, 31149, 13, 390, 717, 309, 34672, 562, 273, 619, 2583, 32, 0, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277, 50277 ]