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ok so basically I have a crush on the girl that confessed to me and she also asked me out on a date and after two days of no talking at school and no messaging she told me that we should just be friends but tHE PROBLEM IS I LIKWE HER and I told her I like her AND I MEAN LIKE I WANNA BE FRieNDS BUtt like I still have a Crush on her and I wanna get over it and I'm ignoring her but like she says hi to me still...WTF SHOULD I DO??? PLZ HELP ME | Crush |
1 I stare at her and she gives me a wtf dude stop look
2 her friend (boy) kept pushing me so I said stop, and he didn't do a called him a girl and he got real mad and I ran.
I'm going to move on | Crush |
1 I stare at her and she gives me a wtf dude stop look
2 her friend (boy) kept pushing me so I said stop, and he didn't do a called him a girl and he got real mad and I ran.
I'm going to move on | Crush |
Hi guys, ok first of all. I have a crush on this girl in my class and I followed her ig, we now both follow each other. She is always with her friends and I really don't know how to approach her. I want to know her a bit before asking her in a date. Also she is really reserved she only talks to her friends at school and no guys talk to her.
Thx | Crush |
I want to make it clear that I have no intention of actually doing this, I’m mostly just curious what others think.
I’m on vacation with my extended family and as they’ve been asking me about relationships and such. I’m single, but have a huge crush on a coworker of mine. Though the long and short of the day, and as they got more information about her they collectively decided that I should send her a picture they took of me where I look kinda weird (in like a funny cute kind of way) followed by a meme that says “if you ever get attacked by a bear with chainsaw hands I hope he stays always from your face because I think you’re pretty cute” and then either ask her out over text or just ask what’s she’s doing next weekend.
I plan to actually ask her out in person next time I see her. Unfortunately I don’t know exactly when that will be because my job is weird. But, I can wait. I’m just interested to see if others have been told anything similar and what their thoughts on success would be here. | Crush |
So I asked my crush to a dance (kind of a college-style prom) and he said yes!!! However, I’ve never taken a date to a dance and I’m really nervous about how to just… do normal dance stuff. So do y’all have any tips? Just in general, nothing specific. | Crush |
I’ve always wanted to get close to my crush but I don’t know how to,and i tried so many times but i always hesitate and feel shy,all I’m asking are some good advices that helps me get close to him please help me | Crush |
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I thought this would a good starting point. You can use work your way through canned material and adapt it to YOUR own style. Once you have a good knowledge of the material you can build upon it and create new content.
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so there's this girl who I have the biggest crush on and who is also my close friend, we are so close that she opens up to me about her problems sometimes and feelings, but nothing romantic. so I've noticed that she is mad touchy with all of the guys close friends or not but with me shes not so touchy and she always tries to get me to open up to her even tho shes close frined i wont open up and she still tries and idk if its cuz she has crush on me or just wants to know what im going trough cuz i post some sad stuff on private story and sometimes she sents bunch of TikTok's of couples dancing and 3rd wheeled person cryin cuz he was single. and is always mean to me but in a playful way. and one time i didn't text her for couple of days and she texted me "why are not u texting me" jokingly and she also told me she has a crush on someone and showed me a photo of her crush and idk anymore. | Crush |
There is this guy that I have had a crush on ever since I saw his smile. We have had a class this semester, but sadly its my last because I'm graduating. He is also graduating as well. In the beginning of the semester the teacher told me that we had to evaluate our peers and had to rank them based on what we thought. (So we were split into two categories: Interviewers & Interviewees. I got chose as an interviewer.) He was one of the people I had ranked lowly because there were a lot of people that were outgoing and answered my questions thoroughly, but he hadn't as much. At the end, the teacher chose our groups based on how we ranked them. Let me say I am lucky because it is the best group I have ever been in when it comes to my school group projects. We are currently still in the same group project, but as time continues I feel myself drawn to him and I can't stop waiting to see his smile once more. Since I got the opportunity to get to know him during class, I wanted to try to get to know him more but I don't know how to tell him I like him without ruining our group dynamic. Also, I have a lot of friends that are guys that are constantly wanting to hangout after class for a bit or come to hug me. (Because sometimes college is hard and its understandable to want a hug.) But I have made it clear that we are just friends and that I have known them for years, so he doesn't get the wrong idea. I have tried snapchatting him(get one reply so I try to continue the conversation and it doesn't), sitting closer to him (changed the location our sitting area), joke around(push him lightly and make him laugh), and overall showing that I care about him by checking on him with a message & trying to give him tips on what to do to feel better. I guess I have tried everything to show him I like him and am interested in him, but I haven't told him upfront. Because I'm scared of ruining the group for class or make him feel uncomfortable. \[Beginning of the semester\]-> He told me after an event my other class hosted in the bar, that he wanted to talk to me but I seemed busy. (Because I was meeting my mentees and was constantly being asked questions, so I couldn't make my way to him) I guess that comment stayed in my head in hopes that we could make up for the missed conversation, but I guess I was wrong. Because I tried sitting closer to him and he seems to be sitting further from me. I also did tell him to come study for an exam with me and a group, but he said he was already studying at his set up. I guess it's because he is not interested, but I can't stop thinking about him. | Crush |
He (18M, let's call him B) and I (19F) started college this semester, and we're both in the same major (classes are in-person). We met when he texted me in the first week, saying he got my number on the freshmen group chat and saw from the area code we were from the same town and he was looking for some company to go back on weekends. We began talking about random stuff, mostly getting to know each other, how we were feeling about college, etc. While trying to see if we had any classes together, he said that he remembered me in one of his classes (that happened a few hours before texting me), so that made me wonder if B had texted me because of the class since he even remembered where I was sitting.
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Because of our different schedules, we didn't see each other much on campus but kept texting every day, and sometimes we hung out in the city to get to know the place. We even would try to go to the same extracurriculars. B and I had no friends in common, so when we were hanging out, it was just us, he never made a move, and I never noticed him being flirty, so I never thought he was interested in me.
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Until I met one of his closest friends (I'll call her M), we met on an extracurricular I went by myself. She knew me by name and said she recognized me, even though I never talked to her. M said she saw me talking to B a few times and how she was always joking with him about how we would be the perfect couple and should be together. He never told me any of that, and I started to wonder what that meant. While M and I began to get closer, she would ask me if I would ever give him a chance, but I never thought he was asking for one, I've been over-analyzing every interaction we had, to see if B was being flirty or hitting on being more than friends, and I saw nothing. Some of my friends also say they "ship" us, and I began to get scared that I would lose him as a friend, so when M asked if I was interested in someone, I said I was in B's best friend (who I had met a few weeks before) to shut her up about B and I, she promised not to tell anyone.
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Somehow, B and I ended up in the same friend group, but that didn't get us closer, instead, I feel like he's been very distant, and I miss him. When we are around our friends, he doesn't even look me in the face or talk to me unless I talk directly to him, doesn't even say hello or goodbye. In our texts, he also seems different, doesn't text as much, and responds very briefly when I try to talk to him, I'm also the only one who starts a conversation lately. But we still hang out alone and when I touch him (like my elbow on his or my arm on his leg), he doesn't pull away.
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I don't know if he ever liked me, and I don't know why he is acting that way (maybe he realized I have a crush on him and wants to push me away? maybe M told him what I said? maybe he is just stressed out because we are havings lots of tests these weeks?)
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What should I do? Be honest with M and ask her if he likes me? Talk to him about what's going on?
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btw: M still talks about us being a couple | Crush |
So when I was in high school, around 15 years old, I had a major crush on a girl.
Back then, we had some form of social media, but Facebook or twitter was only starting to gain ground.
Me, an unpopular nerdy teenage boy who loved romantic movies thought it would be cute to make a new account on the social media website calling myself some birds name. I reached out to the girl like "hey, this is your secret admirer. I really love the way you were dressed today. That green top really suited you. I hope I can look into your beautiful eyes a lot more the coming time. Have a great evening."
After writing this, I really thought this could be something like "you've got mail", but the next day everyone in school new about it and were gossiping on who the mysterious bird was. The girl was totally creeped out because I knew what she was wearing and was talking about her hair and eyes without her knowing who I was.
I'm pretty sure she immediately suspected me, but I only admitted her that it was me through "birds"-account some time later. Of course she wasn't interested in me, but she was a sweet girl who did try talking to me that it wasn't as cute as I thought it was and at least she never laughed to my face. The others in school did enough of the laughing.
It was embarrassing at the time, but hey, we all make our teenage mistakes and I got a story out of it. | Crush |
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I wanted to share this thought since I think many people get stagnated in life since they avoid suffering. Instead, you should go for your goal despite knowing that you might suffer.
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I know that he's gay. But he's so attractive. He's just so attractive words can't describe. I'm a straight female but oh my gosh his friend Nailea she is so attractive. She's one of the most beautiful girls in the world. I know that girls can be attracted to girls. But if i was a male i think she would be my crush | Crush |
So I liked this girl in my class but we didn't speak much.I finally gathered up courage and asked her out. Obviously as we weren't that much of friends she rejected. But after that we became really good friends and after a while best friends. I decided to ask her out again(I know that was stupid) and guess what.She said yes. She agreed to go on a date. I cannot describe how happy I was that day. The next day she comes up to me and says that she doesn't wanna go. She says we were better off friends and she would like that. I was really sad. I have also decided to keep it that way. | Crush |
I (f, 19) posted (probably 2 days ago) about asking my crush if he wanted to hang out with me over easter break. After asking him out in an agonizing and very obvious way, I got the desired yes I was hoping for. He has agreed to hang out with me this Saturday, but we are still deciding on where to go. Does anyone have any recommendations on where we could go- what could be a fun date? | Crush |
He isn’t really my crush but it is related and I figured I’d get some good advice here.
There is a guy i go to school with and him and I would constantly make eye contact since the start of the year every time we’d see each other. I didn’t think about it that much cus I thought he was just a cute guy. But right before the 1st semester ended, my friend told him I thought he was cute(as a joke to make me mad) Cus I actually told her that one time. He didn’t do anything except laugh and say “no she didn’t”.
After the second semester began, we started seeing each other way more in the halls and make much more Eye contact than before. Eventually, he got a girlfriend and after a little while of them together, he’s started to act very weird towards me. He will intentionally stare at me every time we’d see each other like he’s trying to gain my attention. One time he walked past me during lunch while holding hands with an entirely different girl that wasn’t his girlfriend and he was staring directly at me when he walked past me and he always looks mischievous like has a little smirk on his face when he stares. It’s obvious he is a hoe since he does this stuff while dating another person, so it doesn’t bother me a lot. But it’s really confusing me cus it’s happening every day now. Does anyone know what he might be trying to do or why he’s doing it? | Crush |
I have liked this girl for a while now. She used to show signs of her liking me back but were both introverts and shy so nobody has said a thing. But recently our seats changed in one of our classes and she sits next to a boy that has looked at her very often. She doesnt say a word to him except for if he asks a question or talks about something. She just stares into space when shes near him. She doesnt lock eyes with often anymore but she stills sits at my table since shes friends with my best friend. She always complains about her seat in that class but she kinda seems to like it in my eyes. Im dont have a sharp eye for "I like you" signs so if anyone can tell if she likes him it would be much appreciated. | Crush |
so i have a crush at school but we have no classes or friends in common. I've talked to him one time I asked him if my friend was out (because their in they have 1 class in common) and that's all and now I wan't to talk with him and become friend but I really don't know how to approach him :( | Crush |
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So I am studying in class 10th.... I have a crush cus love on a girl since last 6yrs but till now I didn't approached her... I don't have guts 😢....
But her best friend is my friend so I said to her that I love her friend and she said to her (my love)... And she said she already knows and left... She said she want to focus on her career and I asked her does she hates me (to her friend) she said it's not that she hates you she is not interested in such stuff
But yaar I really don't want to loose her... I want to live with her throughout my life...
So I am goona approach her and tell her that I am too not interested in this relationships and all I just want to be with you even as a friend when time comes we will try.... In this relationships I am only goona loose u and I don't want that so can be friends... Till time comes
BTW I am very bad at expressing my my feelings... And till now she is only my crush... So plz give me ur suggestions plz. It would be great if a girl gives | Crush |
Hey guys i just want to find out what any of you think about giving a drawing to my crush of them and their cats? Have spoken to them twice and I thought they were very polite and well spoken and Id like to get to know them more. | Crush |
So I’ve been single for like ever because I’m socially awkward to guys. ( well except to my guy friends ) There was this boy though, that I never knew I liked, until he hold hands with another girl. I mean he was just a classmate and buddy to me and sometimes when we’re in a group, We’d make jokes and laugh. But now I guess we’re strangers and we don’t talk anymore. We still look at each other sometimes tho. Maybe I’ll say hi to him? 😩 ugh what if he doesn’t remember me after 5 years of not saying hi? Nah never mind, I don’t want to be a home wrecker. | Crush |
She makes a lot of “hints” to me but idk if they’re hints, a few examples are
Hugging/kissing me
Trying to make efforts to talk to me
Being very touchy with me
Trusting me with a lot of things she otherwise wouldn’t
There’s quite a few more examples I could give but idk if it’s her being my friend or her actually liking me | Crush |
>Hey. So last time I posted was about a girl named Sab , wich made me depressed for the first mounth of 2k22 , but now is not the point of this message. I found love in february with another girl named Marie (I live in France so it's a common name alright) and she fell in love with me too , wich was a great new for me because I didn't get that much attention from anyone , and so the 14th February for Valentines day i decided at 11:57pm to tell her how I felt , at this moment i didn't knew that she was in love with me too , so her reaction was a big kiss that I kinda loved...But after one mounth of relationship she told me in march 11 that she was polyamorous and wanted a free relationship.
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>As a possessive guy I knew at this moment that a free relationship would make me suffer , but as a smart guy I knew that she would suffer if we stayed a "closed" relationship because of her polyamourousity , I decided then to make the choice that probably made me suffer the most in one hit.
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>The 14th of March , I left school for lunch and decided to buy flowers , wich I didn't make for Valentines Day , I was dressed the best I could , with a black shirt with flowers on it and dressed shoes with a black jean , no hat for once , I walked to the place where we met and I asked to see her in private , I gave her the flowers and told her "J'ai passer le meilleur mois de ma vie avec toi , mais je peux ni me permettre de souffrir encore une fois ni de te faire souffrir. Merci pour tout Marie." wich , translated in english means "I lived the best mounth i ever lived with you , but i can't allow myself to suffer one more time and or to make you suffer , thank you for everything Marie." before walking away.
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>On my way back to school , I was destroyed , her look in my eyes , the fact that I couldn't continue to be the man of the girl I loved , the fact that it didn't lasted so long , the fact that we had to end it , I cried on my way back to school and gave probably the biggest hug I could to my best friend wich already knew where I was going and what I was going to do when I left school.
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>Now you may ask why I am telling you this story , well it is because most of people think that relationship always end because of love. It is in a sort of way true , but sometime even when both of the persons engaging the relationship love each other , they have to end the relationship because of something that goes wrong.
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>If someone end a relationship , it is not to make you suffer and most of the time , they suffer more than you do. Have a good day y'all and be careful with your hearts.
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\- Axel MOREAU. | Crush |
Sometimes I want to be her( my friend)because the guy I have feelings for is in love with her and she likes him too( he knows that I like him, she doesn’t know that I like him, and he doesn’t know that I know that he likes her). She’s pretty and dresses cute. She has a lot of friends, she’s quite and calm, she’s friendly, smart and talented. She’s a cute introvert and gives off good energy. Her personality is so similar to my crushes personality, they even have the same birthday. They seem like a match made in heaven. I’m jealous. I’m different from her, I’m an ambivert. I’m a bit shy, but I’m very bold. Sometimes I can’t help comparing myself to her. Actually, I don’t want to be her, i wouldn’t want to be anyone but myself. I just wish that he had feelings for me instead. | Crush |
So i’ve been talking to this guy for about some months (about 5). i’m a teenager btw. we have the same extracurricular activities and a few classes together so we talk often. On a trip we had from the activity, he asked for my number so I gave it to him but we don’t really text a lot. And on the trip i was sitting by myself because my friend wasn’t there, so he sat next to me the ride there and back. He complimented me that day on my dancing. Usually when he sees me, he asks me for a hug and then to go over by him to play imessage games but we play it in a gc with one of his other friends. When i go by him, i usually sit next to his friend and he sits next to me, so our knees are touching and I don’t move them and neither does he. Today, he asked me to go with him to the vending machine so I went. With him, we joke around a lot and hang out in class in school.
Does it look like he likes me? | Crush |
Hey everyone so a little context, I am in university and I have a crush on a frat boy. We have both seen and spoken to each other from time to time. He’s really sweet and seems happy every time we cross paths. There have been other scenarios that leave feeling like he likes me too but that’s a whole other post.
Anyway, I want to get to know him better as well as his fraternity brothers. I am not in a sorority, yet, and I don’t see him much on campus. With only 3 weeks left of the semester I feel worried I may lose my opportunity. There will be new students (obviously) next semester and I just don’t want to lose him. How do I go about getting to know someone without being weird or seeming desperate? Thanks so much for your input and advice! | Crush |
All his siblings know that I like him (one of my bffs is related to him and told them, with my permission obv) and I have a feeling he knows I like him (not because of the outer sources) but maybe because we always make eye contact in the hallway
I have a big feeling he is interested in me back | Crush |
I (F,19) have a crush on a guy that is in two of my classes (in college). I have his number, but we almost never talk unless it is about school or class. Still, every now and then, I catch a vibe that he might be into me too. Tomorrow (Tuesday, April 12) is the last day of class before Easter break. I decided to ask him to hang out over the break so that in case things go wrong I can hide under the covers for a week without seeing him. We have a morning chem lecture together, and then later in the afternoon, we have a lab. By some crazy miracle, he will be my lab partner for the remainder of the semester, so I find it perfect to walk out of the lab at the same time, turn to him, and ask him to hang out.
My problem is that I have no idea how to do that. I've never had a boyfriend before, and I don't really have lots of friends that I hang out with, so my social skills are very limited and awkward. Please help! How do I ask him to hang out?!?!? | Crush |
So I (19F) went on a college trip for 5 days and formed a small crush on this one guy (I think he’s 19-20 too) who was in my friend group. He came over to the room a couple of times. He wanted a makeover, I offered to give it to him because I already had my makeup on me. I got his snap and became friends
Anyways, he was fine with hanging with me and my friend group until recently. In the morning when we were boarding to go somewhere, someone took the seat that I had so I had to sit in his. I offered him to sit beside me, he did. While I was fixing my hair I catch him texting one of my friends about me along the lines of her saying keeping headphones in. He replied with something with my name in it, couldn’t really read it because he had his phone tilted.
Time goes by, getting off the bus to a museum. He doesn’t go with the friend group, instead he goes with these 3 other girls (who have bfs) and when boarding the bus again he decides to sit with one of them. Barely talks and texts me for the rest of the trip, the girls decide to give me nasty looks every now and then for god knows what reason. There was whispering about something, heard one of the girls go “any other scary looking people I should know of?” (i dress alt btw lol) He would look over at me when I wasn’t looking or when it turned dark.
I don’t know what I’ve done for him to turn his back on me. I’ve never said and did anything inappropriate to him.
I kinda would like to apologize to him but at the same time I don’t. Plus I would like to chat with my friend that he was talking to about it but I don’t wanna be sus about it. And I don’t want him to know that I’ve heard that he’s been saying stuff about me behind my back.
I’ve never told him and my friends I formed a crush on him and haven’t changed my energy when I was around him, just been myself | Crush |
hello everybody, so I there is a co-worker that i have a crush on we haven't talked and he works not so close to me we are in two different departments. At first he kept looking at me from afar, when i am working or talking to friends he keeps staring from a distance and i always try to keep the eye contact going. recently i have noticed that two of his guy friends look at me when i pass by with a smile on their face (which made me very nervous btw) so by that i thought that maybe there is something going on. and the other day, as i was leaving work he was standing there taking his break, he first eyed me up and down like he was sizing me and then he stared straight into my eyes with his eyebrows raised (like an eyebrow flash) we kept looking at each other without saying nothing and when i got to my car i turned and noticed he was looking at my direction. and the day after when i was about to leave he was sitting in his desk when i stood up to pack my stuff he turned and looked at me untill i broke eye contact and left. so i wanna know if anyone had a similar situation happen to them cause at this point i am so confused, whether he likes me/is intersted or am i just imagining stuff? what signs to look for? and also i am super anxious and nervous around people so i dont't have the gut to ask him out or even talk.
thanks a lot! | Crush |
Some context first I like F1 and this AUS grand prix in my country took place in the early morning around 2/3am. The girl goes to all the same classes I assist in university and we sit together, also she loves F1.
Well when this party was ending around 2am the race was going on, so I was talking to my friend about this girl that I really like that also was watching F1 at her place. He said if you can't ask her to see the race together I will, he begged me to give him my phone and I did. Well he starts writing and I’m not aware of what his saying to her, well he says something like: “Hey do you want to see the race together?”, she responds: “I’m with my family, sorry”, then my friend insists on watching it another day. She ignores my mesaje for 12/14h like I can see she is going online and not entering the chat, so I decide to apologize for what “I” said. Finally she responds with a “Don’t worry all good”. From now on she, as I can expect she is being colder in her mensajes and she ignores my chat for some time, goes offline for a long time and then she responds. I believe this was something that was going to happen sooner or later, but I believe things will never be the same and I really like her so I didn’t want this to happen. Tomorrow I’ll see her on campus and I will update you with info.
PD: I’m not a naitive speaker so feel free to correct my english. | Crush |
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Having clear goals and a healthy challenge is good. You want to have goals in your life. You don't want everything to be very easy. Soon you'll become very focus on what you want and how to accomplish it.
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Back story for understanding my situation better
It was in the start of 11th grade (standard) class, when I saw this beautiful girl, I was scared to go talk to her.
We were in different class, one of my friend was in her class.
So I ask him to help me get close with her, he was talking trash bout the girl so I was like just help me dude, if I get hurt I'll learn from it.
This guy got close to her and asked her out she told yes, and that guy started showing attitude to me. He started spreading things like he took over my girl and stuff. But they broke 5 months ago coz it was toxic, everyone knew it.
So day before yesterday all our classmates went to a party, I was all alone in the terrace, so my another friend without asking me, he bought my crush to the terrace(coz my friends knew that I was gonna ask her out and they were helping but I was scared not doing anything)
In my mind I was like if she says no, imma accept it.
So she comes I was like I wanted to tell you this for a long time (like a year now) the thing is I have crush on you. So shes like I knew about that a little but I don't want to be in a relationship (she never said with me) but I see a good friend in you.
I couldn't sleep that night, her face, her voice, her smile, what she said all echoed, I couldn't breath properly. It's not because I got rejected but why not give a chance.
Ik she rejected me, friend zoned me I should accept it and just move on, I shouldn't ask or disturb her again. But I really think I deserve a chance. That's why people date right?
What do you guys say?? Plz help I'm just thinking bout her all the time. It feels like she is the only one in this world | Crush |
because he was acting dumb(acted like he didn’t get what I was asking when I asked what we were doing) so I left him on opened. This prompted us to not speak the next day because I was over it and just wanted to be done w if. That day passed and then I told him happy birthday the next and we didn’t speak for like 2 weeks .. now he sends an iMessage game that we were bsing on way before we even stopped talking… not to mention he came through the drive through while I was working earlier today , I didn’t speak.So tf does this mean or how do u interpret it. Also it’s not even ghosting because after I left him on opened he decided not to try to reach out. | Crush |
I have been talking to a girl for a few months now, she just recently got out of a relationship but we are still talking. I have plans to hang out with her and we talk about everything. We haven’t met in person yet so all out talking is over text. I really like her and I feel like she is interested based on the texts but I’m not sure because she’ll sometimes go a full day without responding and I don’t want to be annoying so I do not say anything because I don’t want to over text her. I’m not sure if this means she’s not interested because from my past relationships when we first started talking they would talk to me every day almost all day and I knew they were interested but with this girl the talking is very on and off but when we do talk I feel a connection. What should I do? | Crush |
so for reference i’m 16,i’ve known this girl since seventh grade,she’s currently in three of my classes and i really like her i can’t tell if she feels the same way,i catch her looking at me a lot and she laughs at all of my jokes,I just don’t know for sure if she likes me back,and i definitely don’t have the balls to ask her out so how would I go about that? | Crush |
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i want to talk to someone but i don't have one, so, here i am.
the thing is, i had enough, i waited enough, i feel like i will explodes if i didn't tell her my feelings, but im afraid she don't love me back.
she act with me nice and kind and i feel like yes, i want her, but im not perfect for her(i know no one perfect, but,sometimes i think she is way out of my league), sometimes i feel like she act with me like anyone else.
i really want to remove this feelings out of my chest, so i really love her and i hope she one day know❤️
thx:) | Crush |
Hi everyone, first of all: sorry for my bad English. I'm from Southern Italy and have a strong crush for a colleague of mine from university, but I don't really know what to do. I'm also shy and a bit socially anxious, so it's harder.
For context, I fell in love with her since she asked me to study with her friends after university, in December 2021. She is so kind with everyone and friendly. Since then, we started messaging eachother for a common interest: we both agreed to go with the teacher for a study project in Northern Italy, to study some ancient coins, then do a thesis with that teacher in order to graduate. Then we started talking about other stuff from university, like our exams or complaining about teachers and courses, occasionally also about our lives outside of university. Recently she asked me to study with her and it's a good excuse to stay with her alone. Last time we were in a classroom with other colleagues, but we moved away (in the same room) to not get distracted by them. It felt really good to stay close to her. During lessons I also sit always behind her, so if she needs something she has to ask me and not someone else (maybe I'm a bit obsessed?). I don't know what else I should tell you about her: ask me what you want!
What should I do with her? And what you would do in my position? I'm in love, but, considering h I think she considers me a "university friend". I can't judge a chat, but physically I think she is starting to stay closer to me (I noticed this monday), while, before, she was always away. The only thing I know is that I'm really in love with her, but I feel bad thinking that she doesn't really consider me, and sometimes I'm also jealous when I see her talking with other guys. I know that the best thing to do, usually, is to ask her out or to tell that I like her, and I would do it right away, but there is a problem. About asking her out, I noticed that she's alway busy, so I don't know if it's the case here. About the second thing, I don't want to confess already my feeling because in June we go together (with another colleague) in Northern Italy, so I don't want to ruin my relationship with her: I just don't know how she will react. I don't know if you get me. What do you suggest? | Crush |
Any help would be great… I have had feelings for someone for over a year now, he’s on my mind everyday all day… I see his name everywhere, etc…
So when my feelings arrived without warning or anything, I was married - I am now separated (will be divorced early next year)… I do believe these feelings definitely helped me realise I was completely done in my marriage..
He is married… however, I feel like the connection is returned (might not be romantic from his side, I’m definitely important to him - as is my ex 😬)… anyways, so it’s unrequited as he’s unavailable…
I’m dipping my toe out into the dating world, and chatting to some - kind of hoping that would resolve these feelings… but it’s not working, chatting to nice people.. but all I want is to chat and spend time with him…
We are family friends, but the time we have spent together has been less and less lately.. could be because of the separation, but also could be that his wife picked up on the connection, or maybe all of the above…
Anyways, I don’t want to screw up his life… I don’t want to mess up anything… I want to keep our close friendship, I love his thoughts and ideas on things, how kind and thoughtful he is, he’s little goofinesses, and he’s fun to hang out with, etc… he’s an amazing human being, one I want in my life - just want to not want him in every single way…
So I really need to know how to get rid of these feelings, argh… | Crush |
I'm graduating college in about 4 weeks. She's a junior. Should I tell her that I like her, despite her being in a committed relationship, or is that being selfish????? | Crush |
Okay so i like this dude and we go to the same school, we're in the same group for a project but before that never really spoke and i only really noticed him this year. I'm super, super shy, and introverted and find it hard to speak to people freely until I'm comfortable with them, which takes a while. I texted him once about something to do with the project but after he answered he started asking my like questions and continuing the convo so we kept texting like.... every day. So the texting happened when school was closed because of covid and I hadn't actually really spoken to him in person so when we were back in person I was super awkward and couldn't even look at him in the eye. So then every time we saw in person we don't really talk and if we do I find it hard to string sentences together or focus on what he's saying. But then we go home and continue texting like normal and I tell him a bunch of stuff I don't really tell much people which I think is so weird cos we don't talk about us seeing each other at all. He's also friends with a lot of girls and is always speaking to one or the other so I don't even know if he's single for sure and I'm too scared to ask. I work at my school and I told him that and he knows the time I work, I texted him earlier and he didn't reply for like 7 hours but then he liked a photo of mine on social media (like why not just text me back if you're online anyway???) and then I saw him at school (I'm 97% sure it was him) and he was making quite the effort to make sure I didn't see him as he walked past. Then he texted me an hour later like normal. This whole situation is just getting weird and annoying for me (There's more stuff like this that I didn't include). I'm too old for it. What do you guys think?? I really need opinions. | Crush |
Dear Z,
I really love like you although I try my best to act like i don't but i really like you. everytime u say something like hi or how are u I get really happy inside but i'm just too nervous to say it back but i do hear u. I try to not to get to close to u anymore. However u and A who loves you are great together and from my view u do to. hope y'all are happy together. Yes, im guilt tripping u and stop turning straight girls gay
\-bals | Crush |
I still think about the guy who rejected me even though he did it 5 months ago. I feel connected to him but I guess he doesn’t feel anything for me. When I think about him my body becomes so exhausted and tired, I would sometimes fall asleep and feel a bit better when I wake up. Some days I feel happy and feel like I’ve moved on, but other days i feel sad and realize I haven’t moved on at all. Also i found out a month and a half ago that he told my friend that he likes her. My friend likes him too but she doesn’t want to be with him because he told her at the wrong setting and it embarrassed her, she felt like he’s too immature. When my friend told me that she and my crush like each other, she didn’t know that I like him. When she told me I acted calm but I was screaming in the inside. I kept zoning out during our other conversations. Sometimes I find myself comparing myself to her because she’s the one he likes. | Crush |
It started out when I was a kid. I had a crush on spiderman so I immediately begged my mom to buy me a spiderman costume so I can cosplay as him. This went on and on, fictional crushes to real life crushes.
The typical goal of having a crush is to try to become what his/her types are, while mine was to try my best to become like them. It went to the point that I also copied the way they talk, their gestures, their style, etc. I had to convince myself that their favorites are my favorites too, from colors to food choices. There was also a time when I wished I was a guy so I can look like them. (FYI: im a straight female)
I dismissed this as some sort of my cringe teenage phase. I am already am an adult now who's just entered the world of dating. However, I suddenly developed feelings for a fictional character (it's embarrassing to say who it is) He's french and has a sophisticated style. I immediately started to have fantasies of becoming him. I started speaking like him (yes, I had to learn french too) and dressed similarly as him. This has been going on for a month and I had to snap myself out of it.
I was wondering if im the only one? | Crush |
Whenever I think about them my head hurts because I’m so happyyyyyyy aaaaaaa I’m short circuiting over here!!! They like me and I like them!!! | Crush |
Okay so I dont really talk to him but i know who he is I wish I wasent so nervouse to talk to him but anyway so like when im in the hallway he sometimes looks at me or when were at practice he stares at me, not really sure what this means but like whenever I m around him and we make eye contact I m pretty sure I go at least a little red (or maybe alot) idk I want to tell him but I feel like either he isnt looking for a relationship or he just wouldnt be interested whvtjah5vahy ah | Crush |
Hi i have a crush but im kinda young and its not that popular in my grade I told her she just said we can be friends but didnt be that close to me after that, and the reason i told her anyway cuz he was leaving skool.(im new here) | Crush |
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ty for coming to my ted talk | Crush |
It's not even that big a deal. We're both college students about to graduate, going to different schools, but I really want to ask him to my school's end of the year dance. We've texted a lot and met up a few times, but we've never established if we actually like each other or are interested in more. I'm not even sure if a relationship would work out between us, but I just really wanna spend some time with him before we graduate and never see each other again. I'm planning to ask him this weekend via text (because we don't see each other in person very often) and I'm really nervous! I'm excited though!! And really hoping he says yes / can come :) | Crush |
So he replied to a story i put up of myself and i said wow that's smooth, and he said yes yes and then came back on chat after few minutes only to say that he didn't mean to hit on me. ,🤡🤡 | Crush |
17M here. So there's this girl, who's one year younger than me. She's in the same school as me and we see eachother weekly at least, but sadly we don't really talk. Idk if it's a crush, cause I don't know her that well, but I'm really attracted to her. She's beautiful, cute and she gives me very good vibes. I saw her taking a glance at me sometimes, we even had a little bit of an eye contact and I kinda think that she's sometimes trying to not look at me. I saw her hands shaking, when she was near me and I even saw her trying to get closer to me. Are these good signs, is she attracted to me as well or am I just overthinking? What do you recommend me to do? | Crush |
Sooo there’s this guy I like and he likes me and I csn see that we maybe going to date soon but hes experienced (sexually) and all that snd im scared bc im still a virgin I asked him if hes gonna dip when we have sex he said he would never do that and its disgusting, and I said but what about ur hook ups? And he said it was hes friends that hes hooked up with idk how to feel tbh I feel sad and angry | Crush |
I really don't know, it's been such a long time since I haven't felt anything for someone. He's just a guy in my group of friends. But a little while ago I noticed he made me laugh more than the other, and all of a sudden I wanted to kiss him.
He's nice, we are getting closer to each other. He often brings me back to my home after parties, he never let's me go back alone. Sometimes we keep chatting outside for a bit. But he never comes in.
Yesterday we exercised together. We both are into sports. I knew he looked good, but wow.
He was saying he didn't like doing abs related exercises, so I jokingly teased him saying that maybe it's just because he can't manage to have visible abs...well he took his shirt off to check and boy was I wrong.
I think next time he brings me back to my house, if I'm drunk enough, I'll dare to kiss him.
Update: We were at a party yesterday, he brought me back at 2pm, we kept talking for litteraly two hours, outside, it was freezing cold. I didn't dare to kiss him. But we hugged, like a really long hug, and we both don't usually like being touched. When he left he said he really enjoyed talking with me. I've got butterflies in my stomach. | Crush |
I really like this girl, I’ve liked her for awhile. She always watches me and tried to get close to me. I haven’t made much of an effort because I’m too nervous around her so I kinda shy away. Todays Wednesday and I really want to make a move tomorrow because I won’t see her again for 2 weeks because of spring break. We also graduate in two months, I want to make a move quick, because times running out. But I’m too nervous. And I don’t even know if she actually likes me, she seems to be interested but I don’t know. I don’t want to go up to her and embarrass myself. What should I do? Should I talk to her? She wore a dress on Monday for an event and I thought she looked beautiful, I really wanna compliment her about that. That could be a start. Should I? Please help haha I’m desperate for advice | Crush |
I have known this guy for a very long time now. As I type, it feels like an eternity.
We met in a very professional set up and we stayed that way till I moved on and ended up being promoted where we ended up working together. It's not just him and me, there are more people on the team and I am not even close to him. We talk and I have noticed it's generally him who trys to make the effort of including me in everything. But I have noticed he is nice to everyone. Things were fine and I didn't even think of him in any sort of way.
I remember when I joined this team, we went out to get lunch, the whole team and he was looking at me. And I thought he was just looking because I was the new member or maybe he was just lost in his own thoughts and ended up looking at me. But over time I realized he would look at me. And if I saw him he wouldn't look away he would just look me dead in the eye. The weird thing is he never made me feel uncomfortable, actually the opposite. He made sure I was comfortable. It's weird cause if someone was looking at me I would definitely think he was creepy but sometimes I feel like he is trying to find something, anything. Like I have some answer to a question whose answer he does not know.
But slowly over time I think I fell in love with him and I feel like he didn't. And now all I have is this overwhelming feeling of pain cause some days I feel he does like me but on other days I feel like he doesn't. I feel like I should not have fallen in love with him. He is my senior even if I do like him I can't tell him, he has way too much authority over the team. It will be weird. But not knowing is painful. It hurts to have these feelings. It's weird cause I know I love him and I have never loved anyone.
My feelings are overwhelming me and I wonder when I fell in love with him. Was it really just a few months back or was it the moment I walked in that room for the very first time. I stood next to him and he slowly explained everything to me. I knew it then, I knew I could trust him. He was the reason why I joined, I never realized it but it was him.
I don't know what to do with these feelings, sometimes I just want to shout from the top of mount Everest and tell the whole world about it. Oh! the scandal! And some days I just want to forget everything about him and hide under my bedsheet.
All I know is that I love him. I think I love him. I don't know but I do know I should not feel this way about him.
I don't know what to do with these feelings cause they won't lead me anywhere. | Crush |
There's this guy in my friend group that I like. We've gotten kinda close over some time. When we went drinking, he became really touchy with me. He was always hugging me, putting his arms around my shoulders, stuff like that. And then suddenly that night, he started avoiding me. What could this behaviour possibly mean? | Crush |
bro i dont know how a girl could ever make me feel how she makes me feel, but she does, istg she is the most beautiful girl ive ever seen and just the thought that she doesnt like me back makes me wanna cry. i feel so stupid bc of how she makes me feel, i wake up and the first thing i think about is saying good morning to her go to bed boom i wanna say goodnight. does anyone else feel like this? | Crush |
I’m a bi male senior in hs and I have a crush on a boy named Jackson. He’s extremely fine and has many girls who like him yet has never been in a relationship. He did try to hookup with one of my friends but he didn’t like him because she said he was a bad kisser. He’s touchy with his guy friends. And he kissed one of them at a party but we played it off as a joke obviously because the other guy has a gf. But ig what I’m trying to say is, is he just a straight guy who thinks acting gay is funny? Or is he actually into men? | Crush |
So I just moved to a new school like almost two months ago. All the people here are so sweet and nice and I’m really happy I made friends with the people that I did. Honestly even after being here for so little time I already have a crush. He makes jokes with me and laughs at my jokes sometimes. He keeps me out of the loop with school drama stuff if there is a chance I could get involved which I appreciate a lot. We walk with each other in gym when we go outside. And he actually asks what I’m reading when I start a new book. I’m a huge book worm, reading a new book at least three times a month. So to me, when he asks what I’m reading, that makes me really excited and he listens! He helps me when I’m having trouble opening my Monsters and gives me his crackers when he has salad. I don’t have his social media or anything so we don’t really text after school. I’m a junior and he’s a senior I believe. I could just be reading the signs totally wrong tbh and he’s just being friendly and trying to be my friend. I don’t know. A little insight would be appreciated honestly. | Crush |
I can have like one conversation with somebody and I'll be like: shit I have to be careful otherwise I end up having a crush on them. But I end up overthinking it, reeeaaaally overthinking it, and then I think I have a crush on them but I actually don't... Idk it's nice to have crushes, but also... not? | Crush |
So, I am queer, I'm a female. I've been having trouble with my mental health and stuff (depression sucks) and I recently told my friend (M). And she's been helping me through it cause she's been through it last year and she really gets me. She's bi, and when we go home together, like walk to the bus and the train and everything, we joke around and talk. And during recess and everything, she gets me, she gets my jokes, she gets the same things I like to the point where it's almost creepy in our tastes in people, she finds me funny I find her funny I love hanging out with her. And I just realised, that maybe I like her? I just feel like I wanna be with her all the time to listen to her and hang out with her and I wanna grow up together. I love seeing her laugh and smile and it makes my day when she does. Even better when I get to be the one making her smile and laugh. I know she doesn't feel the same way cause on occasion when it comes up she's like "no offence, but you're not my type" that kinda thing. So I did some really shitty thing, I told my other friend (Z) and after she guessed who, I got her to tell M that I had a crush on her just to see her reaction. And then she reacted like I thought she would, she was like "it's not (insert my name) right?" Then "oh god" then "Um, not that i hate her or stuff, i love her, but as a friend, so im just gna pretend i didnt see this" then "Ok at this point, pls tell me ur lying" then "pls don't let her know that I know, just not looking 4 a relationship". Now, I knew all this before cause she's told me all this before and I don't know if it's even platonic or romantic to begin with and if it is romantic attraction what do I? I don't even know if it's a rly strong crush or just a wanna be super close friends until the end of time kinda thing and the last time I had feelings like that for someone it was a straight girl and I crashed and burned. It took me months to get over her and now I have to get over a new one who I'm actually close friends with. Help pls | Crush |
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So I have a crush on my friends ex. He is absolutely perfect in everyway. Im falling hard for him and Idk what to do. I think he likes me but I can't tell like he came over to my house at 4 am and stayed the night but whenever we'd talk we'ed look into each other's eyes and start smiling and I'd even sometimes see him looking at me through my peripheral vision. He laughed at almost everything I said and we kept laughing over stupid stuff like burps. I have a recliner in my room and that's where he'd always be everytime is here. This time he asked to sit on my bed and fell asleep early in the morning. This morning he even offered to take me to work. Also I broke up with my ex somewhat recent and before that he asked how me and him were doing and I told him we're doing okay because we were actually doing bad and he said well if you and blank don't work out and put this emoji: 🤷♂️. Then a couple days ago I made another joke about having a new crush and immediately text me like trying to figure out who it was and that lasted for two days before he gave up I don't know if that's a sign he likes me or what. I've never came on here before but this time I could use some advice because I'm falling hard for this dude so if anyone has any advice I could use it. | Crush |
I know, a very common question, and there's no for-sure method to get over a crush; but I've tried so hard and there's been no good results, so I've decided to come to reddit. Not sure why I think that's a good idea, but it'll do.
Let's start off why I like her, and then why I want to get over her. Let's call her "SmC" for this.
She (15F) and I (15F) aren't the closest of friends, but we joke around quite often (we share 4/7 classes) and definitely are considered frenemies. I'll read her, she'll come up with snarky, then we'll laugh about it or roll our eyes because we know I don't mean it, and vice versa.
I'm not quite sure when I started developing this crush, or when I even started liking being around her as a friend, but it just gradually happened. C is extremely extroverted, with a personality that everyone around her seems to love. I never will admit this, except for a little comment here and there, but it's always been on my mind. She acts like a little kid sometimes, offers advice when it's needed, and has the biggest sparkle in her eyes when she talks about something/someone she's genuinely interested in. This, but I will never admit, I find utterly adorable. I love the way she doesn't realize how beautiful she is, how her laugh gets louder when she's actually embarrassed over something, or the way she cries over the smallest little things; like someone complementing her outfit, or a cute video of a dog or baby.
Now, let's get to why I want to get over her. One, she's straight. Obviously, as two women, this will not end well for me. I'm 100% sure she's straight, so there's doubt on that. And even if she wasn't, she thinks I'm straight, so again: no chance.
Two, she's got a boyfriend. This is the biggest deterrent I have. I don't really like her boyfriend (think jock basketball player who looks like a stoner), but I accept that she feels happiest around him. I've seen their lovey-dovey texts, and I respect their relationship greatly, despite how cringey it may seem. I do not want to confess and ruin this relationship of hers, of make ours awkward, so that's not an option.
Then, there's the third issue. When I think about her, I feel a sharp pain in my chest. It physically hurts to love her. I know, I know, cheesy as hell, but m being serious. I feel like crying when I think about her, and I just... don't know what else to do. I've had crushes before, but none as deep as this.
So, after hearing that dramatic reenactment of my feelings for her, does anyone have any advice? At this point, I'm willing to try anything (except confessions), so throw anything at me here. Any advice or hobbies to pick up are appreciated! | Crush |
So I have a crush on this girl and I have had bad experiences with emotional abuse and stuff I don't want to get into but for some reason whenever I think about her I think I'm emotionally abusing her by being kind to her and I don't even know what to do and advice to be less self hating | Crush |
Me and a friend kissed once and ever since she’s the only person I’ve been wanting to kiss, even kissing her a few more times whenever I get the chance. She knows all about my hook-ups, exes, etc. And I just kissed her today and I feel really close to her and want to be more than friends but I don’t think she feels the same way and my sneaky link is trying to hook up but I keep dodging her because I don’t want to be with anyone else and I feel guilty for even considering being with someone else.
I don’t know what to do and I hate being in this spot where it feels like I’m committed to my friend but I’m not. | Crush |
I have a classmate who I am at least 70% sure has a crush on me. She's very intelligent, pretty, rich, and lives overseas at the moment. She seems pretty out of my league, I'm just an average student and come from a family who is just barely getting by. Realistically, I picture our relationship getting nowhere given our differences and circumstances even though we haven't even talked yet. I honestly don't even care about her before because I knew from the start she's really out of my league, that changed when I had hints that she likes me and I cannot stop thinking about her everyday now.
Do you think I should pursue her and let her know I have a crush on her too? or Should I just accept the fact that we will never work even if we wanted to? | Crush |
We’d been talking at school and at parties, she knows I have a crush on her.
There was a party last night we were both talking about my crush. She said to me I’m the only guy who listens to what she says, then she told me she doesn’t know if she likes me that way or not. I could be her soulmate or not she said… feel like shit now | Crush |
So friday (2 days ago) i confessed to my crush.. let me tell you a little backstory. So last year he confessed to me, i rejected him because i thought i only liked him as a best friend, but half a year later we had an argument and i just then realised i actually like him more than a friend. This last month we apologised and started talking more and more going outside together etc. He always hugs me and tells me im beautiful and gorgeous, he laid his head on my lap when we went outside. He also never lets go of my hug he holds me too tight. But when i asked him on friday who his crush was he said my enemies name. Then and there i felt heartbroken but i said oh okay thats nice, i just thought he said that to hide that he likes me but oh boy. Then he asked me who my crush was and i said that he is, and that i realised it after our argument. How didn't he notice i always look for him when he isnt around? How i always stare at his gorgeous eyes, his beautiful hair, how i love holding his hand, how i always hug him out of nowhere? After i told him he went quiet. He started ignoring me for example I'd say goodnight at like 10pm (we always say goodnight to eachother) and then he'd send a snap at 11pm and never respond to my text. I asked him why he ignored me and he said it doesn't mean hes ignoring me if he doesn't respond the same second... he usually responds in like 5 mins max but sometimes he takes over 3 hours like yesterday. I need help. I feel like he hates me because of what i did last year and now hes gonna break my heart the same way i did. I still wanna stab myself in the head because of what i did, how was i so dumb not to know i like him more than a friend?! | Crush |
I need some advice.
What would you do?
So I (15M) and my crush (15F), are both in freshman year. I just came back to school after not being in school since 7th grade and me and my crush went to the same elementary together, she didn’t go to the same middle school but now she is in the same Highschool as me. I talked to her like once in elementary but there is like a %99 chance she doesn’t even remember that. I pass her like one time in the hallway everyday but besides that I have 0 classes with her and it’s impossible to have lunch with her since they have assigned lunch and she isn’t even in mine. Like I said I just started going to Highschool here now and there is barley ever a time I can even try to talk to her so I don’t know if I should try my hardest to find a time to talk to her now or wait until next year. She has had like 2 exes before and there is this guy people are sexualizing with her so I’m not really sure but I’m afraid she will get in a relationship soon that could potentially last for a while and I’ll be screwed then. I don’t know when I should talk to her or what I should do and it’s driving me crazy because she is all I can think about. | Crush |
A crush. Advice?
I’ve got social anxiety. HORRIBLE social anxiety. I dodge interaction with new people, as much as I may want it. Sometimes I find these mini moments of courage to finally speak up to someone I wanna talk to, and then my words come through in an incredibly small whisper.
Anyway, there’s this guy in my gym class. He has a different teacher than me, so we’re not exactly in the same class, but I see him around often enough. He’s pretty tall, long black hair that’s parted in the middle (with the wavy-ish bangs to the sides), tan, and he dresses really neat. Looks like the introverted type of guy. Talks to people every now and then, but is usually to himself from what I see (I stare a lot). But then again, I only see him like four times.
Moving on, maybe I’m delusional, but I think he noticed how my attention is on him often-ish. I think I see him glancing my way every now and then. I’d talk to him, but once again, social anxiety. That, and he’s really handsome, and I’m not sure if he’s already talking with someone- not that I think I have much of a chance. I’m broad-shouldered, but of a chunky hourglass, and round-faced. He can definitely do better than me.
Sorry if I’m too informational here?? I can’t stand leaving out details. But, advice? | Crush |
My coworker (M21) and I (F19) have this interesting relationship, we're really flirty with each other and we break the physical touch barrier a lot, hugs, touching each other's hands, and just things like that. The other day he said he was going to come to my church to come and visit and kinda just try it out, he lives 30 minutes away so it's a bit of a drive. With how our relationship is I'm kind of wondering if he's trying to make a move by meeting me outside of work, this being the first time. My friends tend to think he likes me by the things he's done in the past and I could definitely see how they're right, I like him as well. I've been told by multiple people that he is oblivious to signs, so the ones I've sent probably go over his head. | Crush |
So, I am in highschool in France, and I have a crush on my science teacher. She is a woman, I'm a girl, and I don't know if she is straight or not, even tho I think that she is.
I tried not to show her that I like her, because that would be weird during classes. But, she is always looking at me, give me little smiles and things like that. At the beggining of the year, I was feeling really bad, and she was really concerned about it. You may find it weird, but I have a little list about what she has done and said to me, like the compliments and some other things.
I don't know if I am "dreaming", or if something is really happening between us. I know this is not legal because she is my teacher, and because of that I don't really want to be with her, she is just a simple crush. That's kinda weird and I don't know how to act, this is why I post this.
(btw sorry if my English is not perfect, as I said I'm french) | Crush |
When this girl flirts or says anything I get a tiny bit uncomfortable. I’m just really confused with my sexuality in general. But we have made out and all that stuff and that’s what really made me catch feelings. I already kind of liked her but it’s just scary. Like when she says certain things I just get scared/anxiety. Am I gay? Do I not like her anymore? | Crush |
I'm supposed to be doing homework right now but I can't really think straight right now. I'm kind of all over the place. I won't send this later to a further time I'll probably do like a month or two months later.
I have a major crush on this person. They are queer so there is that chance but I know I am way not her type. They like skinny blonde girls which are not me. My whole body shape is different from the type of people they dated. I am the total opposite of their ideal type of partner. But yeah at first it was a small crush but as I got to hang out with them more and get to know them better dude I swear I am falling. I am really attracted to them and I feel some type of way whenever I'm with them. When I see their messages come up I get excited. Like dude, I have not felt like this in such a longggg time. Since I broke up with my ex. I mean I knew I would eventually crush on someone but I never thought it would be them. I am not hanging out with them purely because I want something with them. I mean, of course, I do I fantasize all the time about it but first and fourth most they are my friend. I am their friend and they count on me to be there for them. So even though I like them and wish to make something together right now they are hurting and they need a stable support system they feel comfortable in. I will let myself feel because I am human and I am going to like them no matter what but I won't be doing shit to try and make them hate their ex or make myself seem better because it's not my place and once again they are hurting. They are still going through a breakup and still in love with their ex and they are not mentally ready for a relationship right now. A part of me hopes they never get back together but if that makes them happy then I'm not one to stop them. I do like fantasizing about the what-ifs either way. I don't mind crushing from the side and never telling them how I felt. I am happy just watching and imagining all the wonderful things we could do together. I hope to spend more time with them and get to know them better and just be their friend for now. For now, let me write down some things I like about them
\-That little smirk they give me when they make a joke to try and diss me. makes my heart flutter
\-their eyes are absolutely gorgeous
\-their style! they look so fucking hot in every outfit they make I swear
\-their sense of humor always makes me laugh
\-how they can be really gentle and sweat at times
\-The music they are into
\-the way their face lights up when they spot something cool and is already imagining where to put it
\-their passion for art and how they are just is so creative and thoughtful
\-their hands and how gentle they seem to be when they are holding something important to them
\-The little mannerisms they have and just noticing whenever they do little things
\-The way they carry themself
\-just being in their presence make me safe and feel calm like I can tell them anything
\-the way their face looks so gentle and soft yet they are the strongest person and how they have been able to keep their head up
I think I am falling deep but for now, that is all. | Crush |
I know this is mostly just fantasy, as I have never seen him in real life.
I am an adult student with no student-teacher ties besides this one class..
His voice is so calming. Idk. There is just something soothing about it. If I was pissed or feeling down, there is just somethhing very tranquil in his voice. Also he is hot as fuck, I cannot take it! No lie I have fapped like 3 times today thinking what it would feel like to fuck him. Even listening to him and seeing his pic on zoom/teams whatever makes me go insane.
I am ridiculous but I cannot help. This has been going on for a month, the course is ending and I am thinking if I should approach him. (Probably not). The "crush" thoughts of him are only getting worse. | Crush |
In English in school, we all have to partner up with people (we weren’t allowed to chose our partners) my friend Sam was partnered up with my crush. At first I didn’t think anything of it but then, I noticed they were flirting with each other and laughing and I swear I was about to cry… Sam knows I like Colin. Also, Sam is a popular girl and I’m not so I know this might not end well- any advice of what I should do so I don’t get my crush to like her even more then before. Btw Sam doesn’t like him in that way but she is a good friend and I’m scared that she’s gonna make me sad eventually. | Crush |
Well, I've got a big crush on a friend of mine. We've been friends for over three years and we've become really close, to the point we consider each other the most important person in our lives. Our friendship is really special for both of us. Last summer, I told him that I liked him and gave him 5 embarrassing letters in which I described what I felt towards him and why I considered him such an incredible person. I thought he didn't like me back, so I asked him to reject me in order to leave those feelings aside and focus on being his friend. He told me he couldn't say 'no', but 'yes' neither because even though he didn't have a crush on me he considered me a very important person in his life and he couldn't assure that he wouldn't end up falling in love with me. Later that night, he texted me and asked what would I do if he told me in that moment that he did have a crush on me. I told him that I would answer that I had a crush on him too. Then, he did tell me that he had a crush on me. I asked whether it was a joke or not and he told me that he was not being serious. After that we've gone through a lot; I kissed a girl I used to have a crush on while I was drunk and felt totally guilty and he kissed another girl just because she was pretty. He cried when I told him that I had kissed her, because he was afraid of losing me. The fact is that even after all this time I still love him. And I told him so recently, hoping for him to finally say 'no' to me. I wanted to leave those stupid feelings aside once and for all. But he told me again that he couldn't say 'no' or 'yes'. I didn't understand why he couldn't give me an aswer (he has rejected tons of girls before) and he said that he didn't understand himself either. Then he confessed to me that it was never a joke when he told me that he liked me, but got scared and decided to pretend it was a joke. And well, it's obvious that he has to make up his mind, but what should I do? Should I try to forget about him? Or wait even though I don't know if he will ever say 'yes' to me? Maybe he's still scared because he doesn't want to ruin our friendship, I don't really know.
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Hey guys, I recently started a new job & instantly fell in love with a coworker the moment my eyes laid on him. The last time I had a crush was when I was 16, I’m 25 now. I have never spoken to him, but it is like our eyes always meet. I get a sense of familiarity when this happens, as if I have known him my entire life. I have noticed that whenever I’m in the break room (other coworkers are there too) he seems to not want to sit there, he tends to walk in and out of the break room, almost like he is nervous? But when I’m not there first he is just sitting there. I have never seen him talk to other coworkers. He hasn’t talked to me either. I can’t stop thinking about him & a part of me hopes he has a crush on me too. Any tips? | Crush |
Hey guys, I recently started a new job & instantly fell in love with a coworker the moment my eyes laid on him. The last time I had a crush was when I was 16, I’m 25 now. I have never spoken to him, but it is like our eyes always meet. I get a sense of familiarity when this happens, as if I have known him my entire life. I have noticed that whenever I’m in the break room (other coworkers are there too) he seems to not want to sit there, he tends to walk in and out of the break room, almost like he is nervous? But when I’m not there first he is just sitting there. I have never seen him talk to other coworkers. He hasn’t talked to me either. I can’t stop thinking about him & a part of me hopes he has a crush on me too. Any tips? | Crush |
Hey guys, I recently started a new job & instantly fell in love with a coworker the moment my eyes laid on him. The last time I had a crush was when I was 16, I’m 25 now. I have never spoken to him, but it is like our eyes always meet. I get a sense of familiarity when this happens, as if I have known him my entire life. I have noticed that whenever I’m in the break room (other coworkers are there too) he seems to not want to sit there, he tends to walk in and out of the break room, almost like he is nervous? But when I’m not there first he is just sitting there. I have never seen him talk to other coworkers. He hasn’t talked to me either. I can’t stop thinking about him & a part of me hopes he has a crush on me too. Any tips? | Crush |
Hello I’ve posted on here before and got some really good tips. I’ve tried multiple times to text my crush on Instagram but I’ve scraped every single one because I honestly just don’t know him that well. Does anyone have some tips on how to start a friendly conversation? | Crush |
So i (21M) have almost a year meeting this girl (also 21) online and im really into her.
The thing is i've thinking much more these days about her and sending signs that she might noticed. but oh do i have bad(or good) luck, just when i was triying to make a move (she doesn't know yet) she told disvovered a guy cheated on her when they started dating just a week ago, and it's about to be her birthday in a week also.
So i am between a sad date and a maybe sadest date and i don't wanna push her, but aslo i want her to not have a terrible bd. | Crush |
so backstory: me and this guy met last sem and he sat on my balcony with me and my other friend. we met him at this party r neighbors were having and he’s in the same frat as them. i basically just started a convo with him and he was super friendly to me n my friend even tho we literally just met him. he even offered to buy us pizza after and invited us to go to a club with him and his friends the next day (which we didnt end up going to bc of some transportation issues, even tho we both rlly wanted to go) but the entire time i never got a flirty vibe from him, like he didnt want something more and he was just being nice.
but after we were unable to go to the club with him i didnt see him for a whole semester. he even graduated last semester so i figured id never see him again. but after turning 21 i started seeing him at the bars. he even approached me and was like omg its been so long how have u been, like he actually remembered me and made an effort to reach out. he was also very adamant on me going to bars in the city with him n his friends and asked me to get food after with him but the first time i decided to stay with my friends. but the second time i saw him at the bar he was being way more flirty and he ended up coming back to my place and we ended up sleeping together.
the next morning he said the same thing about how i should come to the city with him and his friends the next time they go. but despite all that i still dont think he likes me. i feel like im one of those ppl thats like oh hes saying that he doesnt actually want me to go. and also i feel like he got what he wanted and now he’s done with me. and i hate when guys say all this stuff like ur so beautiful, ur special, blah blah blah but in the end they all just want one thing and never speak to u again.
i rlly want to believe he’s a sweet guy and that he maybe likes me more than just hooking up but i rlly cant tell, and i just dont wanna get my hopes up only to realize he does this to other girls or be heartbroken when i see him hooking up with another girl. | Crush |
so im a high school senior and theres only a few months left but i finally found a cute guy to have a crush on after so long. we’ve been having eye contacts for few weeks and today i finally mustered up the courage to go and talk to him. so he was walking with his friend and i went and asked “hey whats ur name” and he didnt even stop, he looked at me and said his name. i think he was smiling under his mask while he said his name. but then he walked away and i paused thinking he would ask me MY name and i was just standing there and he paused after taking a few steps too and then walked away like??? what am i supposed to take this as?? should i make another move or would that be too much? | Crush |
So this was not exactly a relationship. He liked me once when I did not know about it. Then months later I started liking him but he had no idea about it until 3 days back when we both confessed to each other about our feelings. He said that he once liked me a lot but now he has feelings for another girl AND me but his feelings for me is quite low. But I know for a fact that he cares for me a lot and even calls me his best friend. He now says that he doesn’t want to be in a relationship but wants to continue being best friends.But after all this i don’t want to be his best friend. I want to be something more or nothing at all to him. When I told him that I’d like to keep distance and not be close I was with him like before, he said that it has really made him feel sad, upset, confused and angry. I’ve also heard from his friends that he was feeling very upset about this. What do I do? Do I walk away, agree with just being best friends, or wait until he likes me back as he said that still he has some feelings for me?
tl;dr : crush says that he likes me but doesn’t want a relationship, wants to continue being best friends and im confused | Crush |
For reference, we’re both in band (percussion ensemble) and we both enjoy it a lot. We have many common interests like Pokémon, anime, and general “nerd” things. We get along great and are good friends, but we don’t really talk too much outside of school. Also, I don’t know if he’s likes guys. I’m trans (ftm) and he’s very supportive but I don’t know if he’s into dudes. He doesn’t have any typical signs of being lgbtq, but he doesn’t seem exactly straight if you know what I mean. I really like him though but I don’t know if I should ask if he swings this way. We’re in multiple of the same classes and we’re both very introverted so it’s be pretty damn awkward if he’s straight or doesn’t feel the same about me. Any advice? | Crush |
I met her about a year ago and I was really attracted to her but she was a friend of a friend and we quickly clicked and became friends. At first I was just physically attracted to her but now I’m developing feelings, we kissed a few times and constantly flirt. She’s always there for me and vice versa but she pointed out that she doesn’t want a relationship so how do I get over someone I never really was with? | Crush |
I (16 F) ended things with the guy I was talking to (17 M). The reason for this is because I kinda caught him in a lie. When we first started talking, we talked about our past experiences. He told me he had a thing with his best friends sister. This made me feel uncomfortable because it is his best friend sister, so of course he still sees her around. He reassured me he no longer saw her that way and that they barely talked. He also said that if he did see her they were never alone, and that his best friend dated her so he would never go there. Something to keep in mind is that no one really knows they were a thing, he just told me because I asked. I took his word but 2 weeks later I started having doubts about him. My gut was telling me not to trust him, and I ended up talking to him about it. He allowed me to go through his phone. He insisted and at first I said no, but then I ended up having doubts and checking. There was this one girls name, I’ll call her Stephanie for now. I asked him “who’s Stephanie” and he said “oh it’s just a friend”. However, when I went into the chat he got protective and at the time I had assumed it’s because he sent a screenshot of a girls Instagram account and said “this is the finest girl ever”. Later that night he went on tik tok and this girl popped up on his fyp. He liked the post and out of curiosity I asked her who she was since he was following her. He said it was THE best friends sister. I grabbed his phone and checked out her page and just said she was pretty. However, the next day I realized the girl that popped up on his fyp was the same girl in his messages he said “was just a friend”. I also know for a fact it’s the same girl because her name is actually very rare and different I had never heard anyone with that name before. This caused me to distance myself from him, and not contact him as much. I wanted to end things in person instead of text because I felt like that would be more respectful. I also wanted to tell him about everything and just open up. However, he ended up getting grounded. I continued talking to him for a week thinking things through, but one day he ended up leaving me on delivered for a day. Once he responded all he said was “lmao” so I left it on opened. That made him really mad so he unadded me. I talked to him about it because I ended up feeling bad and I still wanted to end things in person. He said he left me on delivered for a day because I was taking too long to respond and would be posting while leaving him on delivered. I apologized and told him I thought he didn’t mind because he did the same thing. He had been doing that since we started talking. But he tried flipping it on me and said he only did it because I did it. Two days passed by and we still hadn’t gotten to see each other, so I decided to just text him ending things because it was beginning to stress me. I said “To be honest you’ve been giving me the bare minimum and I’m over it. I feel like I deserve more and it would be unfair for either of us to continue this. I don’t want things to be awkward, but I just don’t want to keep doing whatever we’re doing. I hope we can stay civil.” All he said was “ok”. However, 4 days pass with no contact but I posted my dance team winning at our competition. He slid up my story congratulating me and I just said thank you. I guess I’m wondering if he cared at all that I ended things. Why just say ok? It’s kinda upsetting. | Crush |
Ok I need some opinions, I like this guy for a little bit (let's call him n) should I or should I not tell n that I like him? I'm pretty sure that he doesn't like me back but I feel like I want to get my feelings over with. | Crush |
So my crush just revealed to me their secret and said “I love you.” on messages. I asked them if it was serious or joking and then they didn’t reply and I asked if I ruined it and said sorry. They then said I did ruin it and I left but they said they were only joking about me ruining it.
Before they had gave me hints like spelling fate as date and telling me to check their status, and that their secret would ruin our friendship.
I asked if it was serious or joking again and they said “Half joking only for you ;)” so I’m really confused and I’m so embarrassed. We’ve also been calling each other couple nicknames and met somewhere where we were looking for dates.
Do they like me?
Sorry if I come off as stupid or oblivious my Autism makes it hard to understand sometimes. | Crush |
Ce părere aveți despre aplicația Tinder?
Eu am stat ani buni pe acolo în încercarea a găsi pe cineva, nu am găsit oameni buni acolo.
Ce îmi sugerați pe viitor?
Am 24 de ani și sunt fata.
Mulțumesc! | Crush |
17M here. There's a girl in my school, who's like 1-2 years younger than me. I don't know her at all, never talked with her. But when we usually see eachother I can catch her taking a glance at me and sometimes maybe even staring at me, but when I look at her she looks away and I feel like she even tries not to look at me. Despite this, we had a little bit longer eye contact like twice. She's really cute with her red hair and everything and I'm kinda starting to develop a crush, but I don't really know what should I do. I'm scared that if I just randomly go to her, she'll think I'm a creep. So advices, please! | Crush |
Hi. I really need some help. I like this guy and we follow each other on Instagram and we have the same math class I just get so much anxiety that I don’t know how to talk to him. We talked once but that was because we were forced to sit next to each other and he started the convo. I was to shy to talk a lot and the conversation ended quickly. So can anyone give me tips on how I can talk to him? | Crush |
I just recently found out a month ago that my ex bf cheated on me from a mutual friend and I was glad to know the truth because it helped me to really move on from him. I mean let's face it why would I stress myself over a cheater? So I've been talking to this guy who I used to have a crush on who is a friend I never really spoke to him like that until recently. He is cool so down to earth, on top of that all he is just so nice and supportive of me. I am not used to it because of my ex, so half the time I feel like he is gaslighting me but he opens up to me about a lot of things and I do the same with my guard held up. We talk about doing things, plan them or some of them would just not workout cause our schedules are different but we always do our best to follow up to make them happen cause he says wants us to do them together. recently I find myself smiling like an idiot when I get a text and I feel like my crush on him came back but I've been conflicted if he is being friendly or I just don't know 😔 | Crush |
So I think they broke up. He always her as his wallpaper and since changed it to his dog, told someone welcome to the single club, said his "crazy Ex" blocked all the girls on his snapchat (this was just yesterday), and he's like really flirty with me right now (which he usually is but like now it's a lot). We also both play several instruments and I picked up the French horn (his current primary) and is teaching me. He also complimented me on it and said I'm really getting the hang of it (Note we have the whole room and we were in like a really small room with door shut). I sense a connection Y'all! | Crush |
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I have no idea how my crush doesn't suspect I like her. I'm an openly single teenage boy who regularly texts her, gets awkward around her, and has asked her to hang out 3 times in a week. I mean I have a hunch that she likes me back, but I can't be sure. I don't really hide the fact that I like her, if anything I'm trying to make it obvious. If she had the slightest clue that I liked her and she didn't like me back, I'm sure she wouldn't hang out with me or text me right?
I think my best course of action would be to text her regularly, hang out with her regularly, and try to build a healthy friendship with her, all the while showing signs and dropping hints that I like her. After we're both comfortable around eachother, I'm just gonna ask if she wants to go on a picnic date or something, just me and her and I'll tell her I like her. How can I drop hints and show signs? | Crush |