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I accidentally talked dirty to my crush (m17) (I'm female 17) and I am regretting my decision.. Do guys like it when girls say dirty and porn-related stuff or girls that avoid directly saying these things? Thanks a lot | Crush |
My friend used to be mean to me has a crush on my crush what I’ve liked forever my friends are also friends with the friend who like my crush the friend who like him also talk to him a lot this girl talk to him but everyone think she likes every boy she sees what should I do my friend has told my crush she likes him | Crush |
Soooooooo there's this really REALLY sweet guy who has the ideal personality ever. On Valentine's day there was an anonymous box of chocolates in my locker. I never found out who it was but guy A gave me a Valentine's day pokemon card the next day. I felt really bad because at the time I was DEEP into a crush on someone else, guy B. The reason why I crushed on guy B was because he had similar interests as I did and I thought he was "clean," y'know? My ex wasn't 100% into the fact I put a lot of time in my hobbies, but guy B had a lot of my hobbies and other cool ones so I thought he was a good match. I asked him out a while after valentine's day because I wanted to get it over with. Anyways, I got rejected, but I still thought he was a cool guy. That was until he had several temper tantrums and I learned he was an a hole. I never gave guy A an answer on Valentine's day because his grandma died on that day who he was very close to. He also gave me switch games in the past to borrow + gave me food in the past. So in return I gave him a gift last Friday to return all the games: $75 worth in gift cards (Uber eats and playstation) and a legend of Zelda keychain. I also gave guy A my discord to talk to him with. Meanwhile guy B continues to disappoint me as a person and I've never been more glad someone rejected me (it was my second time ever asking someone out). I feel as if it'd be selfish of me to go out with guy A since he really is a great guy and now that I'm actually catching feelings for him it doesn't seem fair. He wants to still help me gain friends and hasn't pushed me for an answer yet. Maybe I'm just as much of an a hole as guy B? It feels like I'm abusing guy A's friendliness and he invited me to hang out with him this Saturday at the mall... I don't want him to feel worse that he was the second choice either if we were to go out. | Crush |
There's this guy i've befriended in my class and we got along quite well. I think I gradually developed feelings for him over time...he's quite introverted like me.
His behavior became confusing though. When we first talked and during the next weeks we had nice discussions about common interests, he would comment my work, overall he opened up to me. But recently it feels like he's more tense and brief for no reason - seems hesitant to the point of avoiding any interaction with me even though i'm standing close to him? I find it strange since he has no problem coming and talking to my friends and everyone else in class. I noticed he would sometimes glance in my direction and when i look back he looks away (Not sure if he's just zoning out though lol). He still greets me and responds if I speak first but now it's always as if he wants to end the conversation quickly; in a kinda 'bored' voice tone? It leaves me anxious because I don't wanna be a bother.
How would you all explain that change of behavior? | Crush |
So I have known my crush since we were like 5 and then we lost contact and now we are in some of the same classes. All of my friend group ships my friend with him. She says she doesn’t like him but it is kind of ovi that she does. It hurts to hear all of my friends trying to set up my other friend with my crush. What should I do? | Crush |
There is this guy I like and I think he likes me back. He is really shy and today I was doing announcements in school and when I got to his classroom he covered his face with his iPad. He makes eye contact with me everyday, but when I did my speech he didn’t look at me. | Crush |
Alr guys is having an 'obsessive' kind of love wrong? The kind of love where you just wanna know things abt them and you remember small details because you're actually paying attention and you know things no one knows because you're paying extra attention and you are always trying to learn more? Is that weird and creepy? | Crush |
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basically, i was friends with this guy for a year in high school, and he was kind of my only friend at times. he really listened to me, and i’d never really had a guy treat me like that. i could tell he liked me, and he admitted it to some other friends (which got back to me). he danced around admitting it to me though and ran scared in a sense. i denied liking him at the time but looking back i think i did. i looked forward to seeing him and he made me nervous in a good way. i guess i just never imagined him as my stereotypical “type” per se. anyway, we texted lots and everything was fine until we got into a stupid disagreement about this misunderstanding over text and it just got blown so out of proportion. we both acted immaturely looking back, he didn’t really know how to deal with his feelings and he lashed out as a result, and for me i was cold to him in return and acted like i didn’t care. we haven’t properly spoken in 4 years, and the last time i saw him was like 2 years ago. i’ve just thought so much about him and i want to reach out (i still have his number) but i feel like it’s just awkward because there’s no way he thinks about me like i do him and he would probably just brush me off now. i mean, it’s been so long. what should i do? how should i go about this?
edit: i’m 18, and he would be 19 at this point. we’re both finishing up first year at different universities | Crush |
I can’t stop thinking about him. When he smiles at me I try not to smile, but I can’t help it. I smile and start laughing and he does this cute little grin. I know he knows what it does to me and it’s killing me! It wouldn’t work between us for reasons, so it’s like we have this silent knowledge of each other. I don’t know how much I can take! | Crush |
I've wanted to ask this guy out, but it seems he's vanished off the face of the Earth. Every time I show interest in a guy, the universe fucks me over by having the guy be: not interested, gay, or a huge jerk. What is wrong with me? Am I doomed to be single forever? | Crush |
Hi! Sorry this is kind of your highschool-crush drama that some of you might feel too mature for, but I really just need some good advice :)
So I (F17) have a crush on this guy (M17). The thing is, he and I have been making out and doing all sorts of that since summer last year! It wasn't until last year winter that I've started to realize that I actually have a crush on him, besides the fact that I already felt attracted to him. Whenever he and I have a party together, we're either making out or we're talking and have the strongest tention hanging around us . When we're at school however, we pretend like nothing has ever happened between us and I always feel nervous around him and will become very quiet. Sort of a friends with benefits? His friends know that he and I have 'something' going on together and so do mine. But things between us have only happened at parties when we, or at least I, are drunk. At school he and I have like very normal conversations and it feels as if he also becomes quiet around me. Maybe because he's also nervous? Or he's embarrassed? idfk
The thing is, in 2 months he and I will graduate from school and if I'm not gonna make a move now, chances are likely that he and I will not really see each other as much. The only girl in his friendgroup has also told me something along the lines of that, that I should just go for it and make a move. I know that he has told her a lot about me, so she wouldn't say to me to 'make a move' if she knew that he doesn't like me, right? (Don't worry, she is a nice girl who wouldn't screw me over like that :) )
The only thing that is kind of holding me back is the fact that he and I have never really done something sexual while being sober and when we are texting, he responds short and dry. We have never hung out just the two us, so yeah reddit, should I confess that I like him? | Crush |
So I have a crush in school, and we were talking more and more and I thought everything was going great. Untill one girl didn't just tell her I had a crush on her but framed me for being possesive. Then I added my crushes bff (we are related too but my crush doesn't know that) and the moment she accepted I instantly get a text from my crush to stop texting her bff. Then I said like ok just chill... And she burst into flames and told me we are never going to be together "stop saying that we will be" (that part is what I got framed for, so I got framed for telling the whole school that we will be together in a possesive way which I never said) than she says I don't like you.
I'm like wtf I never said that thing, I told her that I only said that "I like her and I want to talk more to her to see how she is" and she says "keep lying to yourself" then I tried to convince her that I was literally telling the truth but she still didn't buy it. So after her literally launching ww3 on me she says at the end that we can be friends. To that I replied with just OK since I really was quite mad and didn't bother to say anything. The next day she removes me from friend list. Like wtf I'm not even in a bad mood at this point I am just mega confused?
Like I have some questions:
Wtf is going on, my brain is too confused?
Why does she say that she doesn't like me yet is still jealous of me texting her bff?
Why does she say we can be friends but removes me one day later? | Crush |
I have recently been speaking to someone on Snapchat for a while now and I think I like her. I’m stuck between telling her and not because she has openly said she likes someone else and that they like her back. I haven’t met her in real life yet due to exams coming up but I am close as we have a few mutual friends. I feel like I should but it will for sure ruin things and I am miserable except when I talk to her. Should I say anything or just leave it? We also have eachother as our lockscreens and we have agreed to watch a few movies after our exams. As well I have said before I see her as a friend because at the time she said it and I didn’t feel anything towards her but as soon as she told me she liked someone it made me realise I do | Crush |
We dont talk that often anymore but this summer ived been joining him in this game lately, I want to get him to be closer to me before confessing so that i have atleast a bit of hope. Tell me your tips! | Crush |
I have recently been speaking to someone on Snapchat for a while now and I think I like her. I’m stuck between telling her and not because she has openly said she likes someone else and that they like her back. I haven’t met her in real life yet due to exams coming up but I am close as we have a few mutual friends. I feel like I should but it will for sure ruin things and I am miserable except when I talk to her. Should I say anything or just leave it? | Crush |
20s and work together
hung out a few times and have grown comfortable talking to each other about personal life. turns out we have a lot in common. we hug whenever we hang out and his hugs are so tender..
grown to really like him, i think he even pushes me to grow out of my comfort zone!
when we have classes, ive noticed he mirrors his body language to match mine, and he tends to stand close or be around me when he's free
were both nerds and have shared books with each other thinking the other person will enjoy reading it too, and even recently, he shared this book that i mentioned i was interested in reading like a month ago! took me by surprised that he even remembered that small detail since i only mentioned it once.
he doesn't say too much but recently, seems like hes taken more initiative to ask whether i want to hang out (usually im the one who asks him)
even if i just mention it once, he tends to remember it and asks how it went the next time we see each other.
dilemma is that we both are working professionals so i don't know if it is a good idea to reveal my feelings for him when we work at the same place and i might lose a friend/get rejected? but at the same time, i feel that he likes me too but is shy? any advice? | Crush |
So i got crush on my class mate she is hot and funny and all stuff we chat throu snapchat bun not in person cuz i am abit shy can you pls help me what should i do i can ask her out but we live far away from each odher | Crush |
I'm asking for advice from anyone who has found themselves in a similar situation or just anyone who wants to help!
I've made friends with this guy fairly recently (a month ago or so) and I really enjoy talking to him and spend time with him - since the beginning it's been awesome.
I broke up with my ex at the beginning of this year which was a difficult time for me and I'm glad I was able to connect with someone and make a new friend. Since I've first seen him in person, I always thought he was good looking and sweet but that's about it, I didn't have any intentions beyond developing a platonic friendship with him.
I saw him last night and maybe it was just the booze taking over but I felt really drawn to him physically, which is unusual for me in general (I don't enjoy hugs or holding hands).
Now I'm sober and I feel like shit, because I'm afraid those feelings haven't gotten away, which is not a good thing considering he clearly doesn't feel anything like that towards me. Should I just flee and ghost him put of sheer embarassment? Should I confess the situation and my sudden feelings? I don't want to ruin our friendship and make him feel awkward towards me. | Crush |
I have a question, there is this girl i know, im really crushing on her but i do t now hoe to tell her bc. we are kinda close allready but not in a romantical way. i dint know how and if i should tell her? i realy like talking to or with her, shes one of the most understanding an kind people i know. i feel like she is more worth as a friend than loosing here completly but i also dont like the fact of me missing on sonething truly wonderfull.
is this fucked up or should i yust tell her? | Crush |
So I have this friend and we’re pretty close, but lately I’ve been really confused about how I feel about him..
I’ve had a crush on someone once before, but that felt completely different. Now it’s like I feel drawn to him on a whole other level, cause we have a lot of things in common and I just feel understood when I’m talking too him, which I’ve never felt before.
I constantly want to be with him and talk to him, so I guess of you look at it that way, you could say I’m crushing on him, but it just feels so different on an emotional level.
Then there’s also the problem that I don’t really know if I want to feel that way about him, cause I really don’t want to ruin our friendship.
And lastly there’s also the fact that he told me a couple of months ago that he had a crush on someone else, but she has a boyfriend now, so there will never be anything more between them and I don’t really know if his feelings for her have changed by now… and I also kinda get the feeling that he’s starting to grow closer to me too, but that might be wishful thinking. | Crush |
Soooooooo.... yup.
I have a huge crush on a guy. He’s smart, cute, shy, sweet. And a professor at my uni. I’m not his student so that’s kind of not an issue but still met him in academic context. I have a huge crush on him and I just want to fuck his brains out, but he wont make a move on me. At all.
I’m a 30F, he’s 40-ish. I don’t even know him really nor get to spend time with him and yet I’m crushing hard.
He complimented me, randomly sent me cute text messages and mails and photos. I asked him for coffee once, it was lovely although kinda akward. He gave me a book as a present, said he went to the bookstore and this book made him think of me. And then, for unknown reasons, he just stopped texting. Went MIA. And because none of us aknowledged the flirting, I can’t ask him. Ugh, this is torture.
I don’t know if he has someone in his life, or just decided he didn’t like after all, or never did and was just overly friendly, or doesn’t want to cross any line because of the whole academic thing.
Usually when I feel like someone is flirting with me, I am not wrong. Or at least I have never been.
Anyway. Ugh. I hate this in between state in which I don’t know wheter I should text him or not, tell him or not. I’m trying to give up on it but it sucks. | Crush |
So, I started liking this girl a month ago; it kinda felt like “love at first sight” situation, but I wanted it to be more than that and I got to talk to her a little bit. I started to like her more out of the small interactions we had, but I don’t know if it’s worth it. We’re in different grades, we barely talked to each other (outside of the small convos) so there’s really no way that she likes me back like that. Is it worth it? | Crush |
Could anyone help me. I’ve always been unsure of things so I don’t know if or when I like someone. And if I act differently to then I don’t know if it’s because I like them or we are just friends. Does anyone know a way for me to know if I like someone? | Crush |
It might be obvious and I’m probably just overthinking, but I’ll lay it all out. There’s a girl at my gym who I really like, she’s a few months older than me. She takes my phone and answers snaps all class, took my hoodie and sent me pictures of her wearing it, requires a hug every week, and she has told me that she wants a hug where she falls asleep laying on my chest. What do I do? I don’t know if we sorta acts this way with everyone and I don’t want to ruin our friendship. | Crush |
She’s my classmate already for a year and I see her every day but still didn’t ask. Is it too late? Also she is friends with my best friends, and we hangout alltogether, so it’s gonna be hella cringe if she says no afterwards. And I’ve also giving mixed signals whole time what a miserable coward am I. | Crush |
to summarize things, i've been crushing on this guy for almost a year now. a few months ago, when we used to talk, i started following him from my private account and he followed me back. i felt like he was giving me mixed signals and it got to the point where i felt bad for even texting him, thinking i was coming off as annoying. because i liked him so much i decided to distance myself to leave him alone and get my peace (peace i never got because i'm still in love with him). i deleted him from my private account and never contacted him again. we'll be seeing each other soon and i'm afraid he'll ask why i deleted him or stopped talking. should i come up with an excuse or just tell him i like him? i mean, i'd love to tell him, but i have a feeling it's too early, what should i do? | Crush |
Long story Short: I had a crush on this guy I was friends with benefits with, I figured out I was ace but I knew that he didn’t want a serious relationship with anyone (+who isn’t allo), we broke off contact because I thought it was easier to stop having crush on him and get over him.
I still fantasize about him because his amazing and we share the same interests but I don’t want to, it’s just hurtful. Anyone got any tips how I can get over him? | Crush |
If a girl keeps touching you, talking to you, calls you pet names and says she loves you does she have romantic feelings for you or am I just looking too deep into it? | Crush |
Could anyone help me I don’t know if or when I like someone. And if I act differently to them I don’t know if it’s because I like them or we are just friends does anyone know any way for me to know if I do like them? I rlly want to know | Crush |
Hello there is a girl in my class she is in love with me. What should I do to stop that because I fall in love with someone else I ignore her but comes to me what shoud i do. | Crush |
Hello
I'm in a weird situation.
I have a crush on one girl, I know her since we were in kindergarten(so there isn't really much I can ask her). I really like her but after COVID lockdown and all that things I just got a bit unconfident. Weird part is that I think she may like me back but I'm not sure and I don't want to break our long friendship but on the otherside I would love us being together. Another twist is that we have different personalities I'm shy and she is more social so we actually talk together mainly when we are in small groups or just us two alone (what happens from time to time). Another twist is when we are alone I just start being anxious so we don't talk that much.
I would like to know if I should approach her and how to approach her or just let it go, because she is probably one of the best if not life changing girl.
I'm thankful for every help I get. | Crush |
I’m 27F, and I met this girl who I found cute and extremely attractive. I met her in a training program, she looked younger than me, so we talked about the training program and I found out that she’s only 16. I was shocked, and felt that I’m sick and there’s something wrong with me. I didn’t show any sign of interest towards her, and I made sure that I’m acting normal around her. And I’m resisting every thought about her. Should I talk to a therapist about this or just ignore it? Because I have to work with her for a year from now, and it’s part of a project. It’s just attraction nothing more nothing less. And I’m seeing other people. I’m really worried that this attraction will not go away or would develop. I’m usually attracted to people older than me or around my age, so I’m sure I’m not a pedo. What should I do? | Crush |
I'll try to be briefest I can be.
Basically, I've been having a crush on a girl for over one year and a half; and well, she's taken, and it has been about a year that she is.
The matter is, we're very close friend. We're in the same school, we speak to each other every day, and my life would be dull as fuck if we didn't (I actually really care about our friendship, even though she's not my girlfriend). Maybe it's given our friendship that I told her almost everything. She knows I have a crush on her, and she knows for how long I've been having it.
I told her about it about two weeks ago because I was feeling really bad and I wanted to find a way to stop liking her, but well... that didn't work, and not because of me, but because of her.
I would have expected her to feel awkward and to stop talking to me, but instead she did the exact opposite. She made jokes with me about it, she asked me questions about it, and we genuinelly laughed about it. So right now we talk even more than before, and in a way that that I myself would suppose her to like me if she just wasn't taken. (She hugs me every day!).
So, I'm confused. When we're at school I feel soooo happy because we spend time together and that's hella beautiful, but then I remember that she doesn't like me, that she has a boyfriend, and I almost feel like she's been playing with me.
And I don't know what to do. I want to stop liking her cause I know she doesn't feel the same as I do, but at the same time I can't because we see each other every day and, as I said, she keeps talking to me even though she knows I like her.
Help me, I don't know what to do, sorry if I made language mistakes but I'm not a native speaker.
Thank you all. | Crush |
So this guy I like was sitting next to me and he beat snake, and he turned to look me so I said “good job” Then he said “remember when I beat this game for you during that earthquake drill or whatever” That literally happened 6 months ago and I was kind of shocked for a minute. Does that mean anything? | Crush |
My crush for almost 9 years said he didn't feel any spark or connection between us after 4 dates.. what should I do? | Crush |
Hey,
I am socially awkward and bad in communication with other people. About two months ago I met someone at a local meetup and we met several times after that and I really enjoyed that (we share a lot of hobbies together). Yet, due to my overthinking I was did not communicate with her since between the meeting and also since the last time we met. Can I still try to find a possibility to meet with her or is it too late? | Crush |
I have been liking this guy from my high school for a few months now. He is a close friend of mine, he has been giving mixed signals. Like teasing me and little stuff like holding my hands. We talk for hours sometimes. I catch him staring at me in class pretty often. I think he likes me but, I can’t be positive because if I ask him to go out with me he might reject me. Then ignore me and I really enjoy his friendship. I also have a big deal of rejection issues. So should I or wait till he shows more signs? | Crush |
Got piss drunk and told my crush of 5 years that I was madly in love with him.
That was 6 months ago. Haven’t been able to talk to him since then. My friends made him block me on all social media so I have no way of interacting with him even if I wanted to. I get random waves of sadness where I just want to talk to him, just once is enough. But then I think maybe it’s for the best that we don’t talk anymore, because he’ll never feel that way about me.
Nonetheless, I still miss my best friend.
I’m sorry for messing things up
I’m sorry I feel this way about you
I just want things to go back to the way they used to be
Just wish getting over someone could be easier than this. | Crush |
So I asked d for a high five and yeah he let me lolol, our hands are always touching… like today In the note “respect your elders…. Kid” because he’s older then me lol.. I’ll show some
Pics later of the note. | Crush |
I’ll start with D
So this morning I saw him and we talked blah blah.. I grab his hand and draw on it as he try’s to pull his arm away but my weak self is NOT strong…. As my arms and hands are SHAKING LITERALLY…. We have to go in school as my hands are still shaking lolol… so we talk yk I go to tutor nothing happens… English he kept lookin at me and happened in science but his friends keep looking at me?? In geography omg…. We flirted so much!!!
So we were passing notes to each other being silly.. since he’s older then me I kept calling him grandad as a joke… miss said “get theses papers cut them out” I asked (d) “heeyyy can you get me a papperrr” he says “yes I can” he gets up as I say “thank youuuuu” then he says “you’re welcomeeeeee” then he came to me “are you right or left handed?” “Right” I say. Then he passes me some scissors (lol it was so cute I didn’t even ask him) then we keep passing the notes blah blah….. gonna have to do a part 4 it’s laggy lol | Crush |
Hello, this is my first post here i need your opinions friends.
Soo i been friends with this girl for 3 years now, we weren't that close until we both discovered that we play the same video games at night soo we started playing together and we kinda got closer to each other's and we became best friends. Last year i started feeling something different when im with her and even when we're not together. Started thinking about her almost all day and feeling butterflies in my stomach Even when i make eye contact with her.
I knew that i liked this girl more than just a bestfriend and that i wanted more.
The thing is this girl only had one failed relationship in her past, she is 24 btw, and everytime we talk about relationships when we go out as a group of friends i see that she feels uncomfortable talking about her experience since she only had one that lasted less than a month and she always avoid these kinda subjects. Soo idk if thats the reason why she doesn't wanna talk about that or she really dont wanna have a relationship for the moment. The thing that annoys me but also i can't talk to her about is that she doesn't know how pretty and how much of a wonderful person she is. But i can't compliment her cause i know that will make her a bit uncomfortable maybe. She compares her past with other girls and feel like girls get more attention than her coz she is not that special but she iss to me. After a lot of thinking i said the best decision is that i just forget about liking her and just stay friends with her because she trusts me soo much and i don't want to disappoint her and make her think that i did all that just to try to be in a relationship with her.
I know the story is long but i did my best to make it small. What do you think? | Crush |
Fuck it I'm procrastinating from studying anyway. So I been talking to this girl for 8ish months now. We're pretty close and whenever we link the vibes are unmatched. Recently shes been distant though, compared to before she would always ask how my day was and reply back within 5-10 min MAX (its like a couple hours now or even 2-3 days smh)
Last night she sent me this as a text, I'm gonna copy and paste exactly what she wrote....
“I feel really bad for saying this, but I do genuinely need a break from my phone and social media in general”
“I really hope you understand. I have no energy to respond to texts or engage in any kind of conversation at this moment. I really have a lot going on”
Explains the things going on in her life
“Way too much is going on and I honestly just cannot be in the right state of mind to have a convo especially after everything I learned about the whole social media nonsense” (someone was making fake social media profiles impersonating her)
“I swear I’m not angry with you or anything. I just genuinely need a break from my phone please"
So apparently someone was making fake profiles of her on Tumblr and then posting stuff. I get how scary that can be, basically someone stealing your identity in a sense. BUT in my head it still does not make sense as to why she wants to stop texting completely.
I get the taking break from social media and everything, but like what benefit will it be if we stop talking? Also I just find it hard to believe that shes gonna stay away from her phone at ALL times like your telling me if your mom or sibling called or texted you wouldnt answer back. I feel like theres something more going on, just cant put my finger on it yet. What you guys think??? | Crush |
Tomorrow I'm going to go give my number to the cute girl in my college class. Wish me luck.
This is the first time I've ever done something like this too, so hopefully it goes well. If not, I'll only have to see her 3 times a week for 3 more months. I can deal with that.
I honestly just needed a place to say this to 1. give me courage and 2. make sure I don't chicken out and that I actually follow through. Maybe I'll even update this tomorrow with what happens.
Update 1: I gave her the note after class. It was really awkward, but at least I was able to do it. Hopefully she texts me, if not, we'll see when I see her again. (Which will be Tuesday) | Crush |
oh my god i’m SO DUMB FR. all i’ve been thinking abt is maybe confessing to him one day BUT I ALMOST ACCIDENTLY DID. we were texting and having a normal convo and then i asked him “if you had smthg important to tell someone, would you tell them even if it could ruin the friendship” and so he started giving me advice until i said “what if it was a confession” AND I WAS SO CLOSE TO SAYING IT BUT THEN HE SAID “i don’t like where this is going” AND I ENDED UP PLAYING IT OFF AS IF MY CRUSH WAS SOMEONE HE DIDN’T EVEN KNOW. but now i feel really fuckin stupid bc i can’t believe i almost did that it would have fucked up A LOT. anyways i’m taking this secret with me to my grave fr 🤒🙏 | Crush |
Ok so theres this girl in my class and we kinda started talkin this week, but today she was kinda being a little flirty… at the end of class she wanted to take a selfie ON MY PHONE which she said “lemme take a picture of myself” and reached for my phone but I was confused and denied, she kept going and kept asking but I was confused still, she started teasing me but what got me thinking is why did she do this, does this mean something? Please lemme know if it does😭 | Crush |
So I have a crush on a girl in my friend group and I've known her since my sophomore year (we are both seniors now) and I've had a crush on her since right before quarantine hit, back then she was not in our friend group. We finally were able to come back to school at the start of my senior year and to my surprise she became friends with one of my friends and now she eats lunch with us and that's the only time I see her. I've told other people in our friend group that I like her and even our mutual friend knows that I like her. They're all saying I should just ask her out but I've only talked to her once since my sophomore year so I'm not sure if I should yet. I have no idea what to do, any advice? | Crush |
So while walking to science I was walking up the stairs and I heard one of his friends say “you’re girlfriends here” then I turned around “omg hi kid!” Then blah blah we talked. “The pen came off” he says, so I say “oh give me your hand” I grab his hand drawing on his hand. I… I heard him groan- but I stopped because miss was there and we talked more while going to class… we got in and I sat down “kid sit next to me!” I say- he says “nah I’m gonna sit with my friends… in the middle of class, we made eye contact and he smiled at me lol | Crush |
I have a crush on this one girl from the same school as me. I haven't seen in school in a while because I study a different vocation hence I am not in the same building with her.
I removed her from Snapchat when I was drunk and I don't remember the incident or why I did that. She asked me why I removed her but I felt too embarrassed to answer and I don't even know why. Now I'm too afraid to add her back or text her because I don't know what she thinks of me.
Help. | Crush |
I (soon to be 23 year old male) have been working with a new facility and helping them get things up and running. They offered me a full time position to take care of the ice (hockey rink). The girl that would be my boss (28 female) knows very little about taking care of the ice and has asked for my help. I’ve been teaching her certain things to help them get running until they can fill in the staff openings to take care of the ice. She’s super cute and has always been kind to me. Tonight we had a really nice conversation about non work stuff (life, religion, our past, exes). She’s casually seeing someone (bummer). But I still like her as a friend.
I would like to keep working for her, but the President of the rink is a head case. Very controlling and trying to tell me how to take care of the ice when he obviously is not well knowledgeable in the subject. The President has a bad reputation and has burned a lot of bridges with other people I know and work with.
The job itself isn’t bad, the facility has some issues due to rushed construction. I wouldn’t mind working under the girl. Actually the whole day was fine when the President wasn’t around and things were fine. President comes around and frustrates me with his comments.
Just an unfortunate situation. I’ll consult with them and teach her to get them off the ground, but will ultimately have to phase myself out. | Crush |
Its been a long time since I’ve been in the dating game, but theres this girl I really like that happens to be my sister’s best friend. Not sure if that weird or not but I told my sister I liked her before I tried talking to her and she didn’t seem to care that much or atleast acted like it. I went to the fair with her and my sister then we all went to the bar after ever since that day I have been messaging her back and fourth last night we played a game together on xbox because she likes doing that once shes out of work, we talked for about an hour and a half then I told her how I felt we really got into a conversation. Anyway she said she likes me but her last boyfriend didn’t work out well and shes worried to get into another one, next day after that it seems like were talking even more. I always put myself down with girls and kind of just give up, she told me that night how she was worried about relationships and how it gives her anxiety but we talk about going to the drive ins and stuff. Im guessing I have a good chance but what do you guys think? | Crush |
Okay so.. I was in geography because it was my last class. So I sat down in my seat as normal but I said to my friend “you alright kid?” Then he smacked me gently with his book lol.. couple of minutes later we’re talking yk and I draw a smiley face on his hand once and then he smiles. I draw some more funny faces on his hands but then stop because the teacher was talking. However, everytime we talk, we make eye contact.. I’ve known him since primary. At the end of lesson I tell my best friend (m) about drawing on (d) his hand. “Kid come over here” I say, “okay okay I’m coming” he says. He comes over and I grab his arm showing (m) my best friend his arms (the drawings on his arm/hand) then I place my hand on his hand showing (m) my best friend his fingers.. but right. He sorta held my hand? He tightly squeezed my hand… as mrs told us to go back to our seats, I was walking to my seat but when (d) turned around he was blushing lol…
P.S: I see him tomorrow :P | Crush |
So about 2 months ago my family and i were talking about my old school from like 7 years ago and i remembered that we had a classmate(that i had a crush on) that we always bullied and made fun of so i wanted to say sorry
I found her IG and told her sorry and all that stuff AND TURNS OUT SHE ALSO HAD A CRUSH ON ME. now we're talking almost everyday and flirting and all that stuff but sadly shes in another country so i gotta wait till next summer to finally see her again :l
Btw im very bad at writing paragraphs so here ya go | Crush |
Hi guys, I need help. Give me anything, comments or advice ANYTHING WOULD HELP! So let’s start at the beginning, I started school, I see this guy on my bus staring at me every moment he gets, I try to ignore because it makes me slightly comfortable. So then my friend starts talking to him, I try to ignore. (Ps I thought he was pretty hot) my friend gives him song recommendations on the bus and friend leaves for stop. He hasn’t moved seats, he staring at me, I stare at him while the kids move, catching his eyes every glimpse. When our stop comes I let him go first, he says ladies first, we argue a bit until I go. When I’m getting off I hear him say “I would have stayed on the bus until I know you got off first” I walk home with goosebumps and fluttery ness, I can’t stop smiling. SOMEONE HELP WHAT IS THIS??? Is he my crush now??? How does this work!!!! | Crush |
Hi guys,
I need help. Give me anything, comments or advice ANYTHING WOULD HELP!
So let’s start at the beginning, I started school, I see this guy on my bus staring at me every moment he gets, I try to ignore because it makes me slightly comfortable. So then my friend starts talking to him, I try to ignore. (Ps I thought he was pretty hot) my friend gives him song recommendations on the bus and friend leaves for stop. He hasn’t moved seats, he staring at me, I stare at him while the kids move, catching his eyes every glimpse. When our stop comes I let him go first, he says ladies first, we argue a bit until I go. When I’m getting off I hear him say “I would have stayed on the bus until I know you got off first” I walk home with goosebumps and fluttery ness, I can’t stop smiling. SOMEONE HELP WHAT IS THIS??? Is he my crush now??? How does this work!!!! | Crush |
He’s (16m) not formally an ex but of course there is baggage. He broke it off. I love him. Still. I (f15) don’t know how he feels. I’m going to soon see him at a small birthday party (I can’t exactly avoid him if I tried and he will talk to me and be offended if I don’t greet him)
We don’t talk much anymore and I hate his friends so he’d be the only one I hug when they arrive. He’s very sweet but I don’t know how he feels and I fear awkwardness and making him uncomfortable.
I really want to hug him though. He always smells so good and he’s gorgeous and makes me feel amazing and feels so nice against me and I crave his contact.
Do I need to ask him first? He’s one on those people who will think it’s weird and I’m 70% sure he’s okay with me hugging him and will only get all awkward if I ask.
I’m afraid he’ll say no.
But I know I need to be respectful and ifk if hugs are as far as sxual aslt but I just want to make sure | Crush |
My crush have seen all my Instagram stories I post every and spam like crazy and he saw them all. | Crush |
I cheated on my boyfriend with this guy I work with. ( I know it was wrong and i do feel sick about it ). Im in the process of moving out of my exs house. My coworker and i have been talking for about a month now. About a week ago he wanted me to meet his daughter. Friday he asked me to hang out and I said sure, but I was lazy and I didn’t go to hang out with them until a couple hours later. So we get into this argument about how i wasn’t actually being lazy. As we are in this argument, I am waiting in the town next to him to see if we’re actually going to hang out still or not. So I called him and tell him im just going to go home. So I go to the drive home and It’s about a 20 minute drive home from where I was at. He calls me back and says babe I’m just kidding come and hang out with me im drunk I miss you. So I go to hang out with him and we’re standing on his balcony and he tells me that he loves me and I asked him if he meant meant it. I never said it back. He has said I love you about 5 times to me now over the past month. He didn’t reply and just kept saying I love you. ( i ended up meeting his parents). We have sex I spend the night at his house everything seems good, until I ask him to express his true feelings for me. All I’ve gotten from him or mixed signals and confusion. Every time we have sex he always says you’re mine now and I don’t know if that means sexually mine or in general that I’m his.
He replied back w “ i honestly dont know “ .. So i told him that i was going to step back.
Is he scared? or nervous? I am so confused | Crush |
I’ve been obsessed with this one girl for two years now and she knows I sort of like her but she has no idea that I’m completely obsessed with her. I have a photo collage of over 150 photos of her that I’ve found that I spend a few hrs each night looking at. I think about her nonstop and all the other obsessive love things. | Crush |
Any tips on how to get my crushes attention on social media ? I just wanna be back in her life as we used to talk alot but I removed her on Snapchat by accident and now we don't talk alot , pls help thanks in advanced 🙏🙏 | Crush |
i have always wanted to try to compliant my crush but im scared to do so. thoughts? | Crush |
sooo i have a crush on this boy who’s the same age as me, he doesnt really know me but we go to athletic training together, and we don’t go to the same school. a couple of my friends are pretty close with him so they always drag me to be in a group with him when we have to do some group stuff or sth
im starting to think that he has another crush on another girl since i always caught him sending looks in her direction. should i just move on from him and just treat him as a friend or groupmate? | Crush |
If you have a crush and don’t know if she likes you honestly I’ve had myself been rejected 2 times in a month it was sad but I pulled through. What I’m trying to say ask her out if she says no brush it off your shoulder if she doesn’t have the time for you, you don’t either.
So this is your sign ask him/her out. | Crush |
So, i have this friend, and i've had a crush on her for a LONG time, i just told her a few days ago, and she said that she had one on me too, but we're not dating, we're both being really awkward about it and ig we're still friends???
We can't exactly date because she lives very far away from me, and her parents are very religious so i doubt that they would let her date me-
and on top of that, i'm not ready for a serious relationship, yet at least
I have no idea of what to do, or what to even call this- | Crush |
hey! first post ever because i desperately need advice but i can’t go to my friends because i don’t particularly want them to know.
i am a 17 year old girl and i have had a crush on one of my best friends for a few months now. she’s also 17 and we are both gay. she got out of a pretty toxic relationship with a girl about a year ago.
so here’s what’s got me questioning everything: every time (and i mean EVERY TIME) we drink or smoke we are all over each other. we cuddle and we hold hands and we kiss each other constantly (not making out, i’m talking like pecks). and she doesn’t and has never done that with any of my other friends, regardless of their sexuality.
it’s not like we go in with the intention of doing romantic things it always just ends up happening. my other friends have even began commenting on it.
so here’s one part of the problem: neither of us have EVER acknowledged it while we are sober. at the very most we’ve joked about being “drunk girlfriends” but we’ve never had a serious conversation about what’s going on between us. so i have NO idea where she stands. (one time i asked her if she thinks drunk words are sober thoughts and she said “oh absolutely 100%” so ??? that didn’t really help my dilemma)
i obviously really want answers but i’m so scared to bring it up because i don’t want it to end badly or make things awkward between us. also selfishly i love when we end up cuddling and i don’t want to stop.
so normally i would be thinking that she does like me back. but here’s the second part of the problem: she’s talked extensively about how much she misses the idea of a relationship. she doesn’t miss the actual relationship because it was really toxic but she has said that she really misses doing things like cuddling and stuff like that.
so that leads me to think that she actually DOESNT like me specifically and instead just likes doing things like holding hands in general because she misses it.
and so that also raises the worry that i might be sort of taking advantage of her? because i feel like i’m using her yearn of a relationship to benefit myself because i like when we cuddle.
so because of that fear i’ve been VERY reluctant to initiate things. i never reach out to hold her hand or go lay down next to her. so for the past few months she has been initiating EVERYTHING. so i am just very confused.
so tl;dr basically i don’t know if my friend likes ME or if she just misses the idea of a relationship.
i’ve confided in one of my friends and after i explained everything to her she said that she also has no idea where she stands.
at this point i feel like i’m just overthinking everything and confusing myself even more.
so any advice is appreciated. i know the only way to truly get answers is to talk to her individually and sober but oh god that thought is very scary and i want to avoid it for as long as i can. | Crush |
I've just met this person and I have a crush on them, but when do I make the move? Would it be too early? | Crush |
So I(15m) have started to develop on crush on my classmate.We’re often chatting on snap, sending each other memes and etc. We were at a party last week and we took some mirror photos and at the end of it we hugged eachother goodbye. She also said smth like “lets fake our deaths and go live in the maldives” while we were chatting about the new school year a while ago. | Crush |
I was working my McDonalds shift and outta nowhere an old crush from my old school appeared. She ordered her food and i asked if she was who i thought zhe was. Later this week i post something in my story about formula 1 and she dm's me we started talking about f1. Am i really in love or does she like me cuz she dm't me after not talking to each other for almost 3 years?? | Crush |
I have been crushing on my guy best friend over a year and I just recently saw him in school for like the first time. We literally pass by each other almost every period but we barely even talk. I cant tell if he only likes me as a friend or not but i asked him to go out for lunch since he has the same lunch period as me but he told me that he’s very introverted and likes to be alone. But over text we talk about a lot of things and he even opened up to me abt his stuff and i opened up to him abt a lot of things too. But he talks abt other girls to me and I kinda sometimes feel a little bit upset..bc he doesn’t rly know I like him but I don’t want to overwhelm him since he deals with his own stuff. like he would talk abt them to me. He tells me abt who adds him and all of that. I sometimes try to talk abt other guys just to show him how it kinda feels. But i tried to give off hints and stuff and I even wrote him a heart and he wrote one back. Idk if he ever writes hearts to other girls but he writes back one to me. Ik that him and I are pretty pretty close but we barely ever talk to each other in person.My friends think that he’s trying to make me jealous about other girls but idk. Bc i remember when some girl asked him abt having a girl best friend he talked abt me but didn’t say my name. He has always been very kind to me but i’m afraid to tell him I like him bc idk if he thinks of me the same way. Literally he’s the only guy i ever rly talk to and plus i stay loyal to him. | Crush |
I have a big crush on one from My school and then there was a Day we was talking with ech other and somebody played dodgeball nearby and the Ball they used rolled over one from dodgeball came over to us to us and took the Ball but before he left he ask if we was together and we both repli ed No but then she said but I wish and idk what to say now there have been a long time sind and idk how to say it | Crush |
Includes early ages (preschool kindergarten etc), celebrity crushes and fictional ones. | Crush |
so me and my crush go to the same school, we've known each other since the beginning of junior high, and recently we've started talking a lot. we call every night and he's been leaving his friends to sit with me at lunch. we both already know that we like each other, but we haven't really gone any farther than that. is it too early to ask him out or should i just do it? | Crush |
How do I get my crush to like me yall?? I see him everyday at school and he sits next to me in art class and science class. when im around him im so quiet and it makes it so awkward he on the other side talks a lot and makes me laugh. How do i get my crush to like me pls help!!!!
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Six months ago my crush rejected me and we haven’t Seen each other in person in like 4 months, but she keeps looking at me still. Does he maybe hate/ dislike me?(She looked at me a bit before she rejected me too) | Crush |
She said she’s lesbian (she might be bi or something I don’t know) and someone said I liked her and then I asked what she said but then she asked if I like her or not before She answers my question | Crush |
I have to watch them grow closer and closer .They used to be in good terms till something happened and then covid came .They were apart for some time till now.I have a crush on him but he doesn't know and he doesn't know how much I want him.Hes getting away from me as he talks more and more to her.I wish for once I could have something happy. | Crush |
So this is my first day of high school ever, just for context. I met this girl in 2nd period and she gave me her number and said we should hangout sometime. There’s a football game tomorrow that she’s going too and I was gonna get a ticket so I could meet her there, I was also gonna call her today. Am I being overbearing, please help. | Crush |
Okay, so I’ve known this girl for about 4 years, but we were really only friends for the first year of the 4, and we barely have talked since. (We’re in 8th grade together, met in 4th). The first year we met, we were close friends. There was a time when she was feeling really down and upset, and I got flowers for her. At the end of the school year, I was pretty sure I liked her, but I was in 4th grade and had no clue how to show it. It ended with me sending her an email, with me acting like I thought it was my other friend’s. In the email I said that I thought I liked her, again making it seem like it was my other friend who I thought I was emailing. (I know, very stupid). The next day she saw the email And just kind of giggled while saying, “I don’t believe you”. Then we didn’t talk through any of the next years until now. (If you have read this far, then thank you. The next paragraph shows what has been happening this year and the problem).
In 8th grade, I have two classes with her. I’m actually slightly shorter than her and about 9 months younger than her. (Not confidence boosting). Anyway, from what I have heard from overhearing her conversations (because I’m always thinking about her) is that there are a couple of other people who might like her, which is weird because she isn’t especially popular or anything. This is very annoying to watch, but I’m not sure if they like her. Anyway, the problem is this: I don’t know if I should try to ask her out or something because she might like other people, I’m pretty antisocial, and I fear rejection extremely. I’m probably just wishing it and thinking it might be happening, but sometimes it seems like she’s looking at me in class.
Anyway, if you read all of this then you’re amazing and any suggestions of what to do would be strongly appreciated. I really expect anyone to respond, but this felt good to get off my chest. Thank you. | Crush |
I really like this girl a lot and I always want to give her random gifts. Why is that? | Crush |
Me and her have been friends for like 4 years, our relationship stopped for like 10 months cuz of covid, but we've been talking more lately, 3 or 2 weeks ago, before school started, we used to talk A LOT, she used to tell me ab deep stuff and all that, but now, im feelin like smth changed on me, cuz our convos are a lot more, idk, different, lately, ive shared some of my problems with her (thing that i hadn't done until now) and she sometimes gives long texts, trying to help, but lately she just gives, idk, i feel like she aint givin no shit no more, and i make this post to ask, how tf do i stop having a crush on her? cuz thats probably the thing that is causing or relationship to go to the trash | Crush |
I've run into him a few times over the years, we used to be in the same friend group in high school, and we had sooo much in common,like movies and comic books, and marvel and all that. Our banter and our chemistry was awesome but our timing was never right. The way I see it now, when I liked him he didn't like me and when he liked me I didn't like him and that would alternate. I still think about him frequently. (sounds pathetic). Last time we talked, we talked about what we're studying in college and he said how he hasn't found anyone who talks comics like I do. And he says at times, "I try to find people to talk about that stuff with them and then I say, ahh where's *my name*?" And I say "Well, not everyone can be *my name*. And he laughed. He had a small feud with another friend in the group and ever since, they haven't spoken, I've spoken with the friend many times but I'm afraid that maybe we drifted apart because of that. Anyway, he doesn't have Instagram, and other social media besides Facebook, which makes things a bit difficult, cause I don't really get any news from him, but there have been many times where I thought of sending him a message... Should I do it? My sister and some friends say that he has never made an effort, he's obviously not thinking of you or missing you so, there's really no point. I'm not doing this for a relationship, but I miss him as a friend too. And if anything ever happened between us, I wouldn't object. Should I write him? Should I wait for his birthday which is in a few months? What should I even write? Should I send him a link of a marvel thing or something as a conversation starter...? What's your opinion on this situation? | Crush |
So I've had a crush on this boy for a while now, and things seemed to be going pretty well. We talk some of the time, and I swear he is giving me hints but I'm not sure. Anyways, we were in class today and I saw him looking at me. We kept looking at each other and looking away. It was kind of awkward. Then he raised an eyebrow and looked away. 😂 I don't really know if he likes me lol-
So people of Reddit, I need your advice. Is this usual? Should this be a hint that he wants to be just friends or maybe enemies? I need help.
I might be just spiraling but it was kind of weird and I felt my heart sink lol-
Thank you! | Crush |
So i like this girl in my second period class, but she’s quite shy and quiet and I normally have to walk up to her and start the conversation and stuff, we normally have nice conversations so yeah plus sometimes I’ll catch her staring at me and normally when I’m around her she seems a little nervous (probably just overthinking nothing though) so I’m not sure if she likes me or not but that’s not exactly what I’m worried about as of currently, I’m worried about how I can try to get to know her more and get her to be more comfortable around me and stuff plus I wanna ask for her number but I’m quite nervous too can I have some help people of Reddit lol | Crush |
So a friend of mine told me that my crush secretly likes me, we barely talk to each other and we are only around each other on the bus. How do I create a better relationship/friendship with her? | Crush |
Hello, I need some advice as to what is going on. At work, there is this girl I have been crushing on for a year. The first year I didn’t really care about her or talked to her. But starting last year, she suddenly became a huge crush for me. What I have noticed is that she never talks to me one on one. Any time we cross paths in the hallways she either does a quick hi or looks down to avoid eye contact. She talks to other guys just fine and strikes conversations with them. When we are around other people, together, she suddenly becomes out going and then she talks/laughs with me. Does she fill scare/creeped out by me? I hope I’m not being a creep. I have tried to hide my feelings towards her as best as I can cause I’m shy AF. 😂 | Crush |
Ok so I have a friend we haven’t seen each other in years but reconstructed now that we go the same school
He gives me hugs, holds my hand and walks me to class we haven’t seen each other in years and when we did back then we didn’t really talk to each other we just had a mutual friend
What does this mean ? Or am I over thinking 🤔 | Crush |
I have a really big crush on this guy I work with. I have a hard time dealing with it at this point, I wish I was able to just have a crush on him without getting so invested in it. I get pretty sad when we don’t get to talk a lot throughout the day or if I feel like I said something I shouldn’t, and I wish it just didn’t matter to me as much as it did. Any tips for going about a crush as normally as possible? I’d really like to date this guy and all that but how do I just go about trusting the course of life and knowing that if it’s meant to happen it will? I could probably do some more self improvement/self love practice (which might just be the answer to my question completely) but in the meantime, I’m curious to hear if anyone else has been able to stay positive and not super attached to a crush lol.I’m not set on getting over him yet, I just need to chill out I think. I just feel so ready to try a relationship again. | Crush |
I’ve liked “cold man” (my crush) for ~2 years. He seems so cold and not to be rude but awkward when he’s around me. On top of that, we barely talk one-on-one even though we have the same friends. He treats all of his other friends in a more caring way. I’m afraid he knows I like him and he is uncomfortable with me. My friend told me he likes me but he doesn’t rlly text me or call. I’m the one usually texting first or asking to call. | Crush |
so this cute guy in my English class has been sitting behind me for some time. last week, he came up to me to ask for my number and I gave it to him. he hasn't texted me anything. is he not even interested anymore or should I wait? | Crush |
Okay so I was wondering, if your crush is in your class, do you sit in front or at the back of the class? Because, if you sit in the front you might stress over the fact that they might be judging you but, if you sit in the back, you might as well be distracted by looking at him… I REALLY NEED HELP FAST! Thank you xxx | Crush |
I’m just going to try to never think about them again or talk to them. Does anyone know how to distract myself from them epically when you have the same class as them and you sit almost next to them and you can’t move. | Crush |
I recently built up the courage and told the person I’ve had a crush on for 2 years that I really liked her. Unfortunately, she didn’t feel the same way. It sucks because we were finally getting close and now things feel different. It seems to be normal after this all went down, like I can talk to her normally but I feel like I’m rushing into becoming her friend. I’m trying to make the effort but I can’t tell if this is the right thing to do. I don’t know if I need time away from her to really get over it because I’m just scared that she will think that I don’t want her in my life anymore. I really want things to be how they were but I don’t know if that will ever be the case. I just need advice on how I am supposed to deal with this. I don’t want to lose her, and if anything I want this whole thing to make us closer. | Crush |
So I figured it out. She likes me but she doesn’t want to ruin our friendship? | Crush |
Hey everyone hope everyone is having a great day! I’m writing this in need of some clarity. Ive been talking to this girl I have a crush on through chats and texts I recently asked her to go to the gym with me. I work and workout there and I see her workout there all the time so I thought it would be a good option. When I asked her she said she couldn’t and gave me a multitude of reasons of why she couldn’t; these included medical and family issues that needed to be worked out. But she said she’d love to and said we could plan another time. Her friend who also works at the same gym I do came up to me and asked if I liked her, to which I said yes. Then I asked her if she felt the same about me to which her friend didn’t really answer and just said that she was going through a lot right now. However, 2 days later I went to the gym to workout and saw my crush there at one of the times I suggested we go. I walked up to her and asked if she was holding up ok and she said yes and after that we kind of just went off and did our own thing. We haven’t texted or chatted in the past week either. By the way I’m in high school and I share 2 classes with her but we don’t really talk in class just text. So, Is it possible she is interested in me or is she just rejecting me politely by giving me a bunch of reasons for her not being able to go. If I should pursue how should I reach out and/or ask for another date? Thanks for your input guys I appreciate it! | Crush |
She does
- she stares at me during sessions
- sometimes when she next to me , she rubs her arm against my arm
- gets pissed if someone is mean to me (kinda cute)
- laughs at anything I say
*She told me before she gets nervous when she talks to me*
Things she doesn't
- never talks to me when I am alone
-there was that one time where me ,her and two guys
She asked both of them if they were single and didn't ask me
That's it let me hear your thoughts | Crush |
idk i think i really start to like him like reaaallly.. im out of my denying stage and sometimes im so close to upright tell him that i love him just because hes so nice. im feeling like those anime girls with sparkly eyes when im around him sometimes. i just cant take my eyes off and we are such a good team... And i feel like he could feel the same, and his friends are like dropping hints but idkkkk | Crush |
There is a girl, and I think she may have a crush on me, but I have a tendency to overthink small things.
Like she asked me if I was okay, just because the tone of my voice was kinda monotone, and that’s the only thing that changed.
I’m writing this just after I woke up, so I’ll edit this later with more examples when I think of them.
I may have a crush on her too, but I’m not 100% sure.
What do I do? | Crush |
Was I completely friend zoned or is that a good sign? | Crush |
So, I've fallen for yet another guy. It's coming to my attention that I fall in love too quickly. And every time, I've been: rejected, bullied, friend-zoned, or told he's gay (which is the only response I'm okay with #gayrights #EugeneLeeYangismyQueen). I've written my number down; should I shoot my shot or wait? What would you do or have done? | Crush |
Should I give up on my crush cuz she is omni and more attracted to girls according to a friend i never spoke to her. | Crush |