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The ISSUE, is that J is hot.

Like, really really hot.

Like, super duper hot.

But thats not the full reason I like her. She is funny, wicked smart, talented, and interally beautiful as well. The issue is,

getting over the physical aspect.

Tips?

also, I am in the jazz band for guitar and bass and the chamber group if its worth anything.

Hello Reddit I hope some people ready this and help me out

So I have this huge crush in a girl named Tatiana and I've known her for 8 months, barely 4-5 weeks ago we've started talking more like friends ( we weren't the best friends in the world at the beginning) and I keep on thinking of ways to tell her I like her ( btw I'm sorta kinda overweight and she's really skinny and I'm planning on losing weight this summer) I don't think she likes me back so I don't want to embarrass myself I'd ask my friends but they'd tell her and I'd shit my pants she thinks I'm sorta kinda funny and I just want to go out with her but I'm afraid of what it will be like to risk our sorta kinda growing friendship I started liking her maybe 3-4 months ago and i don't know how this will turn out I'm in a very depressive state and I'm afraid that if I do get to go out with her and we break up my depression will be worst ( by the way I'm 13 she's 14 and I'm depressed because I've been bullied A LOT and I've gotten my ass beat I've been embarrassed pantsed and other bully stuff ) I don't know what to do and school ends in two weeks please help Reddit

My crush is not normal. I am a 14 year old girl with an EXTREME crush on my 29 year old female band director. She has been the last thing I've thought about before falling asleep and the first thing I've thought about after waking up for 7 months. I need advice. I can't stop thinking about her and try to make myself closer to her. I have kept track of all the times that I can see her in the halls; I dress extra-nice on the days I will see her for stage crew or marching band; I'm taking a taking concert band over a study hall next semester just so I can see her every day; I joined marching band, jazz band, and stage crew to be closer to her. She isn't the kind of teacher that everyone likes, either. She is quiet and awkward, but I feel a special connection with her because I see myself in her. She makes deep, double-meaning jokes that usually only I understand. She also graduated valedictorian of our high school in 2001. I, too, am intelligent; I skipped a grade in elementary school. We can have steady conversations if we can get them started... which doesn't usually happen. Whenever I had to leave band practice early for volleyball games, she always told me good luck, which she didn't do to the volleyball players last year. (There were about 7 volleyball players in the band last year, but I am the only one this year.) I also feel like she goes out of her way to help me, to look after me. ex, we had a special maneuver in marching band for senior night that was uncomfortable for me when i went down on one knee. She switched my "half" of the field (which really wasn't half) to the knee I wanted and kept the other half the same. Note that our marching band is tiny, only about 40 people with the fronts and managers.

She is unmarried and childless, but I can't tell if she is lesbian or bisexual like I am. She probably doesn't know I am either; she knows that I have had two boyfriends since I entered the high school, but no girlfriends. I don't want a boy/girl friend, either. I know she is probably a lost cause, but I am really saving my heart for her.

Since I skipped a grade, I will be 17 when I graduate. I was thinking of telling her then, but that could cause problems. I intend to tell her eventually, but I don't know when it would be best. Since she is the marching band director, I could attend a football game and ask for a moment alone, but I will still be 17 during the football season after I graduate.

Then there's the possibility that I do tell her on the night of my graduation and she says she likes me back. Wouldn't it be a bit straightforward of me to impose a 4-6 year romantic hiatus on someone who may not like me as much as I like them? If she says she'll wait, then what? It would make my life to be with her for the rest of our lives. But, we live in Pennsylvania, where gay marriage is currently outlawed. That could change, but I don't know.

AND THEN there's the fact that student-teacher relationships are kind of illegal. I'm not stupid enough to act on my crush right now, but even FORMER student-teacher relationships are sorta frowned upon.

tl;dr I'm in love with my band director, I am doing all I can to get close to her, and I need help.

So, there is this girl. We'll call her Derpina.

We never really talked when I first met her. I could have...

She was different. She was smart, pretty, and unique in her own way.

I couldn't stop thinking about her, but I couldn't muster the courage to talk to her. So, when I made a tumblr, I asked her how to do something to the blog. We ended up talking for hours and I learned so much about her. Suddenly, she became like ecstasy to me. I couldn't stop obsessing.

Although, I never got to talk to her in person. I never had a proper conversation with her in person.

And when I found out she liked my friend, and that she had for a while, it crushed me. Adding insult to injury, she lives in another city.

I still love her. Everything about her. Her looks, Her personality.

It saddens me everytime I think of anything that could remind me of her.

She was the first girl I actually liked because of who she was, not what she looked like.

And she'll never know.

Fuck.

I'm sure this is not what you want, but I and just about every straight guy out there and probably some gay men too have a crush on her. I'll probably get down voted for this post, but meh, do I care? No!

So my story about Zooey:

It all started with the movie Elf. I didn't know who she was then, and I fell in love.

Then she was in the movie Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy and it was like a match made in Heaven. My favorite book and one of my favorite actresses.

Then, that's not all she's a musician and I bought her albums. She's actually not that bad.

Of course, this continues to go on and on. She's also an atheist, which is cool. She's a bit of a nerd and does things online, including twitter etc.

Plus, she's cute as hell. My wife knows all about my infatuation with her. Although, in reality, I'm not sure what she's like as a person so if I ever did meet her and she was "available" I'm sure she wouldn't date me, even if I was single, but a man can dream can't he?

So In my middle school year there was this kid who was new at the begining of a semester. His name is Jonny. He was really cute, funny, and was nice to EVERYONE. At the beggining of the semester my friend had my cell written in her planner. He circled it and asked who it was. Then for about 2 weeks he kept asking who I was and my friend would only give hints. He then gave her his email to give to me. I emailed him. The nexxt day he said hi. about 1 week later i got his cell phone number. the thing is that i blush whenever i talk or hear about him. I had a sleepover that night with a friend. I ended up texting him till about 11:30. We txted alot for the next week. But it all went wrong when 2 of my friends went up to him and asked if he liked me. He stopped texting me after that. I only said Hi a few times since then but that is it. He never liked me though :(

Any stories you have about your crush that you would like to share are welcome! We need posts for this subreddit to be exciting for everyone, so please help to get this started! it has potential!!!<3