James Part 8 -Conflict is a normal part of life.  It's unavoidable.  How we handle conflict, however, is a choice.  The normal response is to win; to make sure you come out on top.  Unfortunately this can lead to some messy relationships.  Why do we act this way?  Today we discover that the amazing grace of God enables us to genuinely love others, even when they have what we don't have.  We don't need to be fueled by jealousy!  We can have thriving relationships.  Horizontal alignment is vertically dependent.