Threesome – Terra Jo Wallace, Taylor Bagley, Sydney Roper

How to organize a threesome with 2 men and 1 woman? 

I am not very experienced in any kinky sex stuff yet but a threesome with two guys has been a fantasy of mine.  While I’ve never come out and asked up front, I have asked a few men I’ve slept with how they feel about threesomes where it’s one girl and two guys.  Most are very strongly against anything sexual with another man.  The only one who even considered the idea said it would probably only ever happen with one of his close male friends, but in that case I’m not attracted to that friend and I do not trust/know him either.  How do people even organize these things?  Any couples I see on tinder are heterosexual couples looking for a woman and that is not what I want.  Are there apps for this or is my best bet coming across bi men or just dealing with letting the guy I want chose a second man he is comfortable with?  Thank you in advance! 

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Emack76: Keep playing the field until you find a guy who would be down for it and allow you to pick another man.  I’ve found (generally speaking) that older guys (30+) are going to be more into the idea. 

jimmytblanco: Just make sure you remember there is a difference between MMF and MFM, MFM both guys are solely focused on the girl and the girl is the main attraction.  MMF typically (not always) are the guys having sex with each other along with the girl and/or the guys simply doing small things like touching, kissing and/or showing a way of sexual affection etc. 

PerfectChaos33: Hey hi!  I was in the same boat as you up until a few months ago when I finally got my threesome. 

So what I did was, I got a FWB, Jerico, off Tinder.  We were fucking pretty often and on a regular.  After a week or two I met all of his roommates.  One of his roommates, Ian, is a relatively attractive guy.  Ian and I got along really well.  So over the summer one night, we were drunk and playing kings.  Never have I ever popped up, I said “never have I ever had a threesome” then we all talked about it.  I expressed my desires to have a MFM threesome.  Ian was totally down.  Jerico was unsure.  I’m not one to pressure anyone into anything, so I didn’t really bring it up. 

A week or two later we’re all drinking again.  Ian made a move on me, so then we headed upstairs and fucked.  Afterwards I casually mentioned the threesome.  Ian jumped up, wanting to invite Jerico.  So he did.  Jerico joined.  And I got my threesome.  Everyone had a great time. 

Bit of advice for the aftermath, dear lord do NOT have plans afterwards.  Granted I had sex for like 2.5 hours that night (Ian+threesome) but holy shit my entire body was so sore for about 3 days.  My dumb ass had a big trip to NYC the next day.  So yeah that sucked. 

But anyways if you need more advice just lemme know.  I’d just say take things slow, lots of guys would feel really uncomfortable with the thought of a MFM threesome.  So get to know your potential threesome partners before suggesting anything

CarrotChunx: My GF and I just used tinder

Whatchamathing: If you don’t care about knowing people first, go to a swingers club.  Single women there have a lot of options.  Find two guys who are up for it, have drinks together first to make sure the three of you get on, then go and have your fun

pantyluvr58: I’m a guy and it sounds like fun to me. 

Xark_Oasis: For most men i know, they are only okay with it if its their bro since they have an idea of the other man’s boundaries as well.  But thats just my personal experience

BoredWithSchool: Just ask around once you meet a guy.  I’m a single guy and very open to MFM threesoms.  I’ve had a couple and with nobody knowing each other.  Craigslist could have options depending on where you live, but it’s flooded with spam too. 

Feel free to PM if you have any specific questions. 

neuenono: I guess 3nder is the app you want.  You can also put up an anonymous couple profile up on OKCupid (filed as female) saying who you two are and what you’re looking for.  I’m sure there are plenty of straight guys out there who would be into this, even if they’re a bit less common. 

Edit: sorry – I thought you had a boyfriend.  I’d reserve this fantasy for a time when you have a steady partner / fuck buddy / FWB and then go looking for the third as I suggested above.  It’ll be a lot less tricky and minimize awkwardness in the room. 

arukaen: Apps like 3sumer and Feeld have options to search for male + male “couples”.  you can also check craigslist mm4f section

allthesnacks: “joke” about it with a male friend you think may be interested in you or if you are feeling braver just come out and ask him directly of that’s something he could help you setup.  My first 3some was setup by my best guy friend.  It made the experience very chill. 

seagullchicken: Fetlife.  Look for an MFM group.  People will post if they’re looking for someone or something.  Have fun! 

SoFetchBetch: Idk how either girl but I wish I did.  I almost got one with my ex and his buddy.  We were all hanging out us 3, drinking, little of this n that and eventually my ex got tired and hopped in bed and his buddy was flirting with me (he often did, my ex didn’t mind) and went for a kiss.  We went to bed next to my ex and they were both rubbing my legs and arms under the blankets.  I was super turned on by it and wanted to escalate but we all fell asleep hahaha. 

ProjectMayhem7221: Sorry but many of not most men are very turned off by the idea and the act.  I had a girl almost pure my buddy and I into it, and he was ok with it but I was not.  She picked me up, then flirted with both of us, then came back to our hotel (Vegas) and was def trying to work both of us… before her boyfriend called!  He was still in the room crying from when she stormed out earlier that night and had no idea where she was.  Idk, I know it is a lot of women’s fantasies.  It is a lot of ours too.  But I think you’re on the right track, find bi guys.  To me, if my girl doesn’t want to play with the other girl and visa versa- then a fmf doesn’t sound as good for her.  Unless the guys are planning on playing with each other too, then someone will be left out…