Every week a Guardian Money reader submits a question, and it’s up to you to help him or her out – a selection of the best answers will appear in next Saturday’s paper. 

This week’s question:

My partner is very keen to move our two young children out of London for a much nicer house, better schools and less stress.  I’m resisting as it will mean an 80-minute commute each way for me and a likely £5,500 season ticket.  Will I spend my life regretting this – or do these moves work out? 

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