Laurelie Sat 12-May-18 08:29:41

I have a nearly 7 year old SD who has wanted a brother or sister for a while.  I'm now pregnant and she's over the moon (never seen her so excited!).  Her mum however stopped her from seeing us since she found out, and isn't happy that we are having a baby before she is. 



I do genuinely understand that it must be hard for her knowing that her daughter is going to have a sibling that she is not involved with, but the other part of me is upset that she's taking it out on us as a family. 



We've never had a rocky relationship with DPs ex and she's pleasant to me, but this has now resulted in DP applying to court and having to pay upwards of a few thousand pounds just so he can sort out child arrangements.  Not great when they had a good arrangement and we are about to have a baby. 



AIBU to think that it's ok for her to be upset, but she's totally out of order for not letting DP see his daughter?  She literally just turns her phone off and he now hasn't seen her for two weeks.