When your friend posts on FB, "Thinking of going natural.  Should I or shouldn't I?"  And your voice, the white girl, is the loudest one telling her "Yes!!!  Do it!!"  And you post comments with links to all the curly sites that you know and ask her how she's thinking of transitioning.  She thought I was nuts.  LOL

You let your curly haired dd color her hair, but BEG her not to let the girl straighten it or give her a relaxer. ( She was considering it...but I think I've convinced her to love her curls.)