Datasets:

iamketan25
/

summarize-instructions-dataset

Dataset card Viewer Files Files and versions Community

Split (2)

train · 11.7k rows

prompt stringlengths 127 2.43k	label stringlengths 71 271	chosen stringlengths 71 271	__index_level_0__ int64 0 6.55k
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21 M] with my crush [20 F] 1 year, Relationship POST: So i'm really crazy about this girl, lets call her Z, last year I told her how i feel about her, but here is the catch, her best friend likes me, sadly i dont like her, so call it a love triangle. This girl Z said that if she were to date me it would be a slap to the face to her friend. so i backed off, now fast forward a year later, the girl Z has been txting me about why i liked her last year, and I told her the truth and i asked her, "so do you like me or not" and she brushed that question off like it was nothing and again she asks me "if we were to date what would it be like" i told her it would be like a normal date type and guess what excuse she pulled this time...."ooo my friend still likes you and it would be a slap to the face if i went out with you, also i'm not ready for a relationship, BUT MAYBE ONE DAY ..IDK RIGHT NOW" O MY FUNDGE CAKES!!! any advice? do you guys think she likes me? this is depressing...o and she told her friends about it....fml TL;DR: . Assistant:	told a girl how i felt about her,got turned down, year later she asks why i liked her....got turned down..	told a girl how i felt about her,got turned down, year later she asks why i liked her....got turned down..	4,896
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me[20M] with my GF [19F] been together for about 3 years, I still love her but it seems like our sexual life is just getting worse. POST: The first few months when we first dated, sex was 99% of our relationship. We would go crazy trying and exploring just about anything to do with sex. This was the best period of our relationships. As months gone by, things just gotten worse from there. We started to have less and less sex and by the end of the first year, our sex went from 4-5 per month into about once a month. Now almost hitting the three years mark, we barely do anything. I tried to make my moves on her, she keeps rejecting me as she sees it (or anything sexual) as "annoying" or "something that gets on her way". We tried talking about this but she said that her depression caused this lack of sexual desire. I don't know if it's true but this significantly affects my love for her. I do love my GF so much but I can't really say that I can see myself with someone who will not be able to sexually satisfy me forever. I know that sooner or later, I would need to find someone who can. What should I do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF and I used to have a great sex life. It got worse with time and now it is to the point of no sexual activities. I love my GF but I am not sure if I can stay with her under this condition.	GF and I used to have a great sex life. It got worse with time and now it is to the point of no sexual activities. I love my GF but I am not sure if I can stay with her under this condition.	316
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [22 M] with my 22 [F] year relationship, Feeling burnt out on being with her. POST: Hey Reddit, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now and honestly it's been great so far. Unfortunately recentely I've been struggling with enjoying myself around her. Background is she's a master student going for a PHD, I'm finishing up my bachelor. She's a workaholic, basically all she does is work on her study (I really do admire her work ethic) and doesn't leave any time for herself or her hobbies. Now whenever we meet up in the weekends and do anything, she get's tired by 7-8PM and wants to hug or rest her head on me etc. constantly. At first I figured it was just cute and allowed it, but recently it feels like the only reason we hang out is so she can take a break from her studying and "do nothing for a while". Now I'm an active person, into fitness and have a bunch of other hobbies I do next to my study and work, and it bothers me that she basically uses me as a "hobby" to relax. I really do like her and she's great to be with when she has a break, but I'm just feeling tired from looking after her when she's with me. I'd like to go out and do physical activities together instead of hanging out on the couch... I'm going to talk to her about it this weekend and confront her about taking time for herself and all that, but what are your opinions on this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend is great, but always tired when we hang out and uses me as an excuses to do nothing after studying all week long. How to confront?	Girlfriend is great, but always tired when we hang out and uses me as an excuses to do nothing after studying all week long. How to confront?	1,916
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [23F] and my friends [21F/22F] were thinking about going on vacation but they finally went with another friend of ours [22F] without telling me. I don't know if I'm being childish or not. POST: Hi everyone, I'll try to make is short. I have three very good friends, called Cali, Mary and Sally. In the beginning of july, Cali had the idea to go on holiday in the south of the country with Mary and I. I was happy but I have very very strict parents, I warned them that I won't have the answer now but I was very interested to go. We would go in august. So last week (tuesday), I phoned Cali just to casually talk to her and see how she's doing and she informs me that she, Mary and Sally were going to Italy.....just the day after (so wednesday). I was a bit shocked and didn't tell anything. I wished them a happy vacation. Moreover, the conversation ended as her niece just threw up. She promised to call later but did not. So now, I'm just wondering if they really consider me their friends or not. They couldn't have planned at the very last minute as they were all three on vacation with their own family. Please, just tell me if I'm overthinking this or if my concerns are real. That's the first time I considered girls being my "real friends", so maybe I'm just not used to have friends ? The three girls were almost roomates during their study so they might be closer to each other than I am with them. (However, Cali and Sally didn't talk to each other the entire previous year). Writing that, i must admit that I feel like i'm in primary school. However, I still think it was not loyal that they avoided me like that and I don't really wanna talk to them. But in the same, i don't wanna appear like a crybaby or something. And it hurts to think that they avoided me like that. What should I do ? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Three friends that are close to me went on vacation in Italy without telling me, while we made plans to go together in the south of the country. It hurts to think they avoided me.	Three friends that are close to me went on vacation in Italy without telling me, while we made plans to go together in the south of the country. It hurts to think they avoided me.	6,514
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Socially awkward here. When can I [18M] kiss her [18F]? POST: So this girl and I were set up by our older sisters. We go to different schools and live about 30 mins away from each other. We've gone on a few dates. I hug her before and after each date. We haven't held hands or kissed yet but I want to. Obviously she likes me since she asked her sister to set her up with me. She is waiting for me to ask her to prom and has asked her sister frequently about how I plan to do it (her sister knows since she is friends with my older sister, who I have told the plan to). I'm asking her to prom this week on our next date with this super clever "activity" of which she has no clue. Anyways, I want to kiss her this date and hold her hand. It's gonna be about a 1 hour date and 1 hour drive time together. I'm sure that my cleverness will blow her mind. Would this be a good time to kiss her? I am planning on holding her hand walking from the car and would feel comfortable doing so. Any advice would be appreciated! TL;DR: . Assistant:	I was set up with a girl who I'm asking to prom and I haven't missed her yet. Can I kiss her when I ask her to prom?	I was set up with a girl who I'm asking to prom and I haven't missed her yet. Can I kiss her when I ask her to prom?	3,942
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: How am I going to do this? POST: I [19M] just moved for College and everything is new to me, new people, new environment and new situation. I met a beautiful Korean girl [18~19 years old], beautiful and just perfect. I talked to her but I noticed that her English isn't that well and self-conscious (shyness maybe?), the conversation was kinda awkward because she would speak in a really quiet voice and not really understand much... I told her that I would like to have lunch with her someday but don't think she got that... Usually, I'll get flirty and give light touches but the conversation wasn't too well since she didn't get much on what I was saying so I ended it with "Nice to meet you, I'm hungry so I'm going to get lunch". Anyone would like to comment or help me a bit here? Thanks in advance! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Met a girl who cannot understand English and maybe shy, would like to get to know her better (go on a date).	Met a girl who cannot understand English and maybe shy, would like to get to know her better (go on a date).	1,768
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/running TITLE: Injury: When to visit a doctor? POST: Well, I thought I was being careful, but here I am, confessing at the altar of Runnit, a runner's greatest sin: impatience. A week ago Sunday I went out for a 4 mile run as I am currently in the middle of a 10k training program. I started the run with what felt like a tight left glute, but I wasn't concerned. By mile 3 I was feeling some pain in my left hip (nothing super concerning), but finished my 4 miles because it had taken a lot of mental fortitude and willpower to get out there that day and I wanted to finish. I hobbled home and did some massage and stretching. Decided to rest up and heal. I skipped my scheduled Tuesday 3.5 mile, then the Thursday 2 mile, and now here I am going to skip my scheduled 4 mile run again because the pain hasn't really gone away. It's a dull, achey, pinching pain, maybe a 3 to 4 on the pain scale? Feels deep, but not in the actual joint itself. I've never experienced a sports injury like this before, and so I'm here wondering when and if you would see a doctor about this. I'm kind of crabby, because my race is at the end of June and I really want to at least perform moderately well on my first 10k. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dull achey pain in left hip, a week of rest hasn't resolved the problem...time to see a doctor? Yes/no/how to proceed?	Dull achey pain in left hip, a week of rest hasn't resolved the problem...time to see a doctor? Yes/no/how to proceed?	1,872
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [18M] accidentally got my girlfriend [19F] pregnant and she doesn't want an abortion. Looking for advice. POST: I made a mistake and got my girlfriend of 2.5 years pregnant. For a bit of background, we have a great relationship, despite our distance - seeing each other is more of a monetary issue, costing about £20-30. She is at University and I am attending College. We usually see each other once or twice a month. We got the news today. We are both in shock and don't know what our next step should be. We have discussed what we would do if she accidentally got pregnant earlier in our relationship. We have our differences in what to do, I believe due to various factors (money, distance, still being in education) we should have an abortion, however my girlfriend believes she will never get over an abortion. I respect her stance completely and will not push this choice. She doesn't like the idea of putting the child up for adoption. So what should we do next? How can we keep the relationship going while mitigating the damage this may cause? What would life be like juggling a child, a relationship, an education and a job? Thank you for reading. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Girlfriend of 2.5 years accidentally pregnant, abortion not an option, she doesn't like the sound of adoption. Need to know what to do.	Girlfriend of 2.5 years accidentally pregnant, abortion not an option, she doesn't like the sound of adoption. Need to know what to do.	1,391
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by having access to an open bar POST: So this past Saturday a good friend of mine got married. At the reception he had an open bar, like all good wedding receptions do. Having left my keys and car at a friends place I figured I would go a little harder than usual knowing I wouldn't have to drive. The reception started around 5 and ended about 10, so during that time I had become pretty drunk. Because the reception ended so early, a few of us decided to head out and hit up some of the bars downtown. This is where the fuck up begins, and most of this I've had to piece together through third party accounts and texts/calls from the night. Heading down there I began to text this girl I had just started seeing and really liked, trying to get her to come meet us. Her and her friends decide to come out, and get there maybe an hour, hour and a half after we did. In that time I had continued to drink and past the black-out point of alcohol consumption. So we meet up, continue drinking, and around 2:00am the bars close and I hitch a ride back to the girls place. All I remember from being at the girls place is being trashed on their couch and at one point just deciding I was gonna leave. I walked out the door thinking I would walk home, about 20 miles away. Luckily I had some sense, and somehow ordered an Uber ride and got home around 4-4:30am. Roommates weren't home, and my keys were still at my friends place. Amazingly, all luck goes against me and my phone dies shortly after getting there. So I decide to just pass out in front of my apartment and hope my roommates get home early. They don't, and I end up walking to a 7-eleven to get a taxi to go get my keys and car. Finally get into my apartment around noon, charge my phone, and immediately text the girl apologizing for anything stupid I might have done and that I didn't really remember anything. All I get back is "It's fine" and haven't heard anything from her since. So now I'm going crazy thinking I ruined a relationship before it even had a chance to start. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Got black out drunk, locked out of my apartment all night, and possibly ruined a new relationship. But I didn't drive drunk, so I got that goin for me.	Got black out drunk, locked out of my apartment all night, and possibly ruined a new relationship. But I didn't drive drunk, so I got that goin for me.	2,266
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: [23/m] Should I let my girlfriend (22/f) of 4 years sleep with another guy? POST: My girlfriend was still a virgin when I met her. I already had some experience. Now we are looking to live together and eventually get married. I would like to have a longlasting and healthy relationship with her. But knowing she has no prior experience, I wonder if it would be a good thing that she -when she wants to- explore different things. I'd be open to a month with nu contact whatsoever and for her to do anything she wants (including sex with an other man). The reason for it so she can experience a different way of living. I want her to be sure about us, the way she's going to buid her life around us without her doubting our relationship years down the road and questening her dedication to me. I talked about this with my girlfriend. She doesn't want to have sex with other men. Having a month to herself isn't something she needs either, but she's up for it to see how that is like. I told her I'd like to hear it when she changes her mind about other men. So my question, what if she changes her mind? Should I even consider this? Should this be a no go? Am I being too open? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Should I let my girlfriend have sex with another man so she can experience what that is like so she won't ever be curious about it and that can potentially hurt our future relationship?	Should I let my girlfriend have sex with another man so she can experience what that is like so she won't ever be curious about it and that can potentially hurt our future relationship?	5,147
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: is my boyfriend[30/m] being rude to me[25/f], or am I just interpreting this wrong? POST: lived together for two weeks; dating for two months. * I made cookies from scratch. gave him one, he said: "is it warm"? and told me about this girl at his office who bakes amazing food. no thank you, no compliments. * we leave notes for each other on our bathroom mirror. I drew a flower and wrote underneath it: E+M=♥^2 he laughed at it and called me a "dork". * he commented on my makeup for the first time and called it "different". and talks about how he likes girls who don't wear makeup. * he has a tendency to speak over me if I try and express my feelings on the above mentioned things, he uses termination type phrases like: "lets talk about it later". --- We're both very busy right now. I'm an artist, he's an economist, we both work full-time and he's one semester from his MBA(4.0), it's finals week. Weekends are blissful because we spend quality time together. Weekdays are very busy and consist of us eating dinner, talking, maybe smoking a bowl before bed. I haven't been in a relationship in 2 years, him 5+ years. this list is of things that happen briefly, most of our time together is actually really good, we laugh a lot. When stuff like this happens, it makes me kind of sad and I feel sort of deflated. I need to communicate this but I'm not sure how? TL;DR: . Assistant:	boyfriend and I adjusting to new living arrangements, not sure if I'm taking somethings the wrong way. how can I communicate my misunderstandings to him?	boyfriend and I adjusting to new living arrangements, not sure if I'm taking somethings the wrong way. how can I communicate my misunderstandings to him?	6,311
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by taking my phone out during exam POST: Right now I feel so bad. Im freshman in college and its my first semester. My all classes are going awesome, but this one class Sociology is so hard! So i was trying my best to keep up my grade because passing grade is 75%. Til yesterday my percentage was 62, but today we had a exam, and my teacher was like that if i get good grades on this exam then i might make it. I was so prepared for this test, and i studied all spring break. So the test starts and i'm all hype because i know everything thats on test. I was taking my time because I didnt wanted wrong answers. I was doing all great and i was on last page where i was doing extra credit questions. and suddenly my phone vibrates, no one calls me in the morning, so i checked the number and it was my little brother's elementary school's numbers. I panicked because no one was at home, and everyone was working. So i tried listening to the voicemail with my head down, because i was alone in class, as everyone else was done with test. And as i looked up, there she was. My teacher, She was like "you have something in your hand" and she saw my phone. I couldnt explain her anything because there were thousand thoughts going thru my mind. without another word, she took my test, and said "you're getting zero on that" .. which means i wont be able to pass this class. I was standing there speechless.. Now i've already dropped my psychology class because it was too hard, and i was going to fail it.. i cant drop this class because it costs almost $350. and we are not rich. Now my parents have supported me with everything, but i'm not sure how would they react to this. I know you guys are awesome with words, and how to comfort someone.. Please help me. I mean, what can i do, and how do i tell my parents. and what would you do if you were at my place. Side Note: Voicemail was that, my little brother had a headache and wasnt feeling very well. Tip: Never take your phone out during class, and always follow the rules. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Little brother's elementary school called me during exam, and i tried listening to it, but got caught and teacher gave zero for the test. I'm going to fail this class now.	Little brother's elementary school called me during exam, and i tried listening to it, but got caught and teacher gave zero for the test. I'm going to fail this class now.	5,755
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/jobs TITLE: I quit a job that wasn't paying what I deserved, can I get unemployment benefits? POST: I am a resident of California and I was wondering if anyone was knowledgeable about the laws regarding unemployment benefits here. I voluntarily quit my job recently because I felt I was being egregiously underpaid for the work I was doing there (I was getting paid more at my part-time catering job than at the other company for doing graphic / web design, marketing, and web analytics). Since I was privy to the profits of the company due to my deep involvement in the analytics I could see the great difference in the money being made from my efforts, and the amount I was being compensated for them. They told me they wanted to increase my workload on a new project that would have been the most profitable venture yet and I told them they needed to pay me more or I could not continue with the company. They refused, and I was wondering, since I voluntarily ended my employment, am I entitled to any compensation? Could I have handled this situation in a different way? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Don't ever accept a job that does not pay you what you deserve in the hopes of getting a raise later. You will only get screwed over.	Don't ever accept a job that does not pay you what you deserve in the hopes of getting a raise later. You will only get screwed over.	6,232
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: So two days ago Me (24M) hooked up with my straight-ish roommate (21M) of 5 months. Things are crazy awkward ever since, is there any way I can help this blow over? POST: I really do think he's straight, but was just trying it out. We were drinking. We have kind of a flirty friendship, but I think he just likes the attention. I've told him before that I thought he was hot and he plays up to it a lot. We were drinking and watching Game of Thrones and it was after a Dany sex scene and we started talking about who we like on the show and he grabbed my hand and put it on his crotch to show me how hard he was. I went with it and started stuff. I don't really remember the actual sex part, I blacked out, but I know we had it. I remember some things. I woke up the next day in my bed with him, we were both naked. I got in the shower and when I got out he was gone. He's been really weird with me ever since. I'm not surprised, it was a mistake, but I hate that he doesn't even talk to or look at me. I'm willing to pretend it never happened if that'd make it easier for him, but he seriously is just giving me one word answers and not even looking at me. TL;DR: . Assistant:	fooled around with my straight roommate and now he's being weird around me. Any way we can move past this?	fooled around with my straight roommate and now he's being weird around me. Any way we can move past this?	4,202
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [23 M] am secretly dating a [49 F] got caught by her son. POST: So here's the deal... I met this woman in a family reunion as she's kind of a best friend to my mother. We actually got to know each other for almost two years without really hinting on any desire of one another. We just connected and felt good around each other. Then, one night we were just drinking wine while talking about mindless stuff when she suddenly confessed her feelings for me which prompted me to confess mine. We started flirting and I ended up kissing her leading to our now relationship. However, she asked for our relationship to be kept a secret since she has a 10 year old son and is friend to some of my relatives. She's scared of getting judged and/or criticized by people because she's "officialy" ina relationship with her father's son although he has never been there for her, as I'm told. They never married and, although he has denied it, she thinks he has another family because he only visits his son a couple hours on saturday. Even though, she has kept the fact that they're not a couple to her son. He used to think his parents are married and his father is just off to work and only has free time on saturdays but has recently begun to ask a lot about his father and the reason why he's almost absent. I get along with her son quite well and he seems to look at me as some kind of old bro. But just yesterday he caught us having sex, she was surprised and scared and asked me to immediately leave her place. She tells me he's acting kind of angry and/or disappointed at her, he doesn't speak to her or let her hold him. She asked me to stay away for some time since she thinks it's better if she talks to him alone. I respect her decision though I'm not really comfortable with it because I feel like running away from it. Although I don't really what to do about it or what to even expect. I guess I always kind of knew this would happen some time or another and in some way I wished for it to happen because I felt he deserved to know the truth about her mother and I but now I don't feel quite right about it. Any thoughts or similar experiences? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I keep a secret relationship with an older woman, her son caught us having sex, don't know what to do or expect	I keep a secret relationship with an older woman, her son caught us having sex, don't know what to do or expect	4,838
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: Trick your friends in to believing your pregnant!.. oorr not? Do my prank services put me at risk of being prosecuted? POST: Basically the title of my service states that I will "customize a 3D ultrasound to trick your friends into believing that 'you' are PREGNANT". The description of my services do not state much more than that. Am I required to place a disclaimer in my prank image in order to avoid any abuse of my service or should I put a more detailed disclaimer on the service when being purchased? Any suggestions would be more than helpful. I have suspended my service until I feel comfortable providing it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	? I was offering a prank service and was nervous about the backlash. The service has been taken offline after considering your responses. Thanks Reddit!	? I was offering a prank service and was nervous about the backlash. The service has been taken offline after considering your responses. Thanks Reddit!	344
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: BF (27/m) broke up with me (25/f) after I moved across the country with him. What next? POST: Hey, all: My sweet Navy boyfriend asked me to move from WA to SC with him last December, and when we finally left in May of this year, I was so excited to start a life with him. I'd only ever lived in WA, and was so excited to see another part of the country and see what life was like outside of the Northwest. He broke up with me a month after we got here, and I am so glad that I worked so hard on finding a job and getting my shit together. He wants to be friends, but I'm still so heartbroken about this whole thing that I can't handle talking to him without trying to get some answers about this huge change of heart...on the wrong side of the trip. Is there any hope for getting back together? Am I being so foolish for even thinking that I should try and get with someone who practically abandoned me, not knowing anyone, 3000 miles away? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dude waited until the other side of the country to get relationship jitters or figure out I wasn't for him: am I dumb for wanting to get back together with him?	Dude waited until the other side of the country to get relationship jitters or figure out I wasn't for him: am I dumb for wanting to get back together with him?	2,208
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [21F] with my Boyfriend[21M] of 5 years. Haven't heard from him in a couple days. POST: Me and my boyfriend live about an hour and a half apart, he moved last year for work. I plan on moving with him once I'm done with school. We talk every day, have had relatively few issues, and have talked about marriage. That's what makes this whole thing so scary. It's been 4 days since I have heard anything from him. He has a history of depression and anxiety (undiagnosed because his family didn't believe him and he just sort of lives with it now) so I'm scared something finally pushed him over the edge. I try contacting his family and none have responded except for his sister who says she hasn't heard from him in about a month. I won't be able to make it out there till next Saturday and I'm losing my mind. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in a couple days and honestly I just needed advice on what to do or anything that can help me ease my mind.	My boyfriend hasn't spoken to me in a couple days and honestly I just needed advice on what to do or anything that can help me ease my mind.	5,874
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dating_advice TITLE: F[19] Met a very nice guy, but he is leaving very soon! POST: Basically, I've recently met this very nice boy that I instantaneously fell head over heals for. He's very sweet and I feel that he is perfect match for me and he feels the same! We've only known each other for a month and we are both 19. Unfortunately... we're both young and in college and he is moving back in with his parents for the entire summer, starting on the 21st or so. So we'll be roughly 4 hours apart for around 4 months. My question is, what should I do now? At this point I feel like I'm falling harder and harder for him, but I'm afraid that I'll be really sad and lonely when he leaves. Should I stop seeing him until he gets back? Or should we keep in touch? Help me not be irrational, because if he asked me to be in a long distance relationship with him, I might consider it. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Falling for a guy who is leaving far out of town for 4 months. Unsure of what I should do about it!	Falling for a guy who is leaving far out of town for 4 months. Unsure of what I should do about it!	574
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [21F] irrationally dislike prospective coworker [20F] POST: Throwaway and names changed to protect the innocent and guilty, etc. I'm aware that 1. if anyone has a problem in this situation it's me and 2. it might ultimately turn out to be nothing. Anway, I'm a college student and to support myself I have a job on campus. It's in a small obscure administrative office and pretty good as campus jobs go (no customer interaction!). Because our department is pretty out of the way/unknown to most students, recruiting is usually through word of mouth or references from friends. For example, myself and the (unofficial) student manager are the same major so she recommended me and the actual manager approved my placement. Currently we're looking at hires for next year as a lot of people are about to graduate out (nothing is settled yet). I know 2 possible applicants: Sam and Lulu. Sam and I were close freshmen year and I think she'd be great in the team. Lulu on the other hand...I find her really annoying. For no reason. She's never wronged me, everyone else seems to get along with her fine, etc. She has some flaws (immature, weeaboo-ish, kinda shrill) but I know plenty of other people with similar traits I get along OK with. We even have a few interests in common (maybe that's it? Projection?? I secretly hate myself??). So my question: how can I prepare for maybe working with someone I can't stand? If our schedules line up I'll be in charge of training her (ugh) because there aren't many others with enough experience. Is there a diplomatic way to ask not to be working partners with her? Are there ways for me to become less bitter and intolerant? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Possible future coworker is basically an OK person I can't stand. How can I either a. get over this or b. politely avoid her at work next semester?	Possible future coworker is basically an OK person I can't stand. How can I either a. get over this or b. politely avoid her at work next semester?	5,129
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/dogs TITLE: [HELP] Dog continues to lick one spot, usually immediately after left alone. POST: Hello, I need some help. My dog has a licking problem, one where she will continue to lick one particular spot. I've had her for a year and during this time, there is always one spot at a time she keeps licking, 4 in total so far, with one being here for months now on her front leg, fur is gone and it was infected before. She keeps licking until it bleeds, and when I find out I'll put ointment on it. I've been to the vet before because she seems to have developed an allergy to something randomly (started getting scaly skin and dandruff), but it hasn't been determined what it is yet (not food) and the licking issue, while brought up, wasn't really directly addressed. This is getting very stressful though, as my dad is also pressuring me to give her up to tend to my own emotional needs I'm trying to attend. I've tried to pinpoint if it may be something such as bordem, but I'm attending college, though not in school right now as it's summer and I currently don't have a job so I literally have spent months just her and me. I know it's not her "fault" but she keeps breaking my trust. If she's alone for literally 5 minutes, whether it's me showering or her going to her kennel after a walk and I'm in the living room she goes at it and then is afraid to see me because she knows how disappointed I get. I can tell whenever she does it everytime. I've tried wrapping it in every which way but she has torn everything off right after I leave her alone, and while I don't have an official E-collar, she has scratched off the homemade one as well silently, when she was sitting behind me. I really need help to address this and any advice would be greatly appreciated as I'm leaving her for a week to go to a family reunion many states away soon. Thank you. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Dog keeps licking one place since I've got her and when I leave her alone for 5 minutes, she tears off all wraps, and I have to leave her at a dog-sitter soon for a week.	Dog keeps licking one place since I've got her and when I leave her alone for 5 minutes, she tears off all wraps, and I have to leave her at a dog-sitter soon for a week.	4,432
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I [25F] have been dating a guy [29M] for just over 2 months, slightly confused and a little frustrated. POST: A little over two months ago I started dating this guy and things have been going pretty well, although progressing a lot differently and slower than I'm used to. We spend a decent amount of time together, I stay over once to a few times a week, and we are having sex. He invites me to outings with friends who all seem excited to see me, he makes an effort to get friendly with my friends, and this week invited me to go out with him and his sister (which I sadly had to pass up anyway). He has gotten me two small gifts for the sake of it since we started seeing each other and has even skipped work to spend a day with me (which is kind of wild). I guess what has left me feeling a little frustrated is his total lack of affection, and I'm not used to it. He isn't touchy at all and also doesn't like to be touched / barely kisses me / doesn't ever pay me any compliments that make me feel all that special or like more than a friend. It kind of leaves me feeling like FWB. I've brought it up and asked where he stood, and he said, "I like you, I like where this is going, let's see where it goes," and that he "gets that" about not being affectionate. I also feel like our communication is poorer than in the beginning, but I could just be making that up. I understand wanting to take things slow (about a year and a half ago he got out of a 4 year relationship), but I don't feel like he values me as a romantic partner, even if he actually does. I'm starting to get frustrated with it, but I don't want to risk ending things abruptly if I'm just being needy. Is this totally normal behavior? Do you think it's worth it to stick around longer? Has anyone else had to deal with something like this? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Guy I am dating makes me feel like a FWB, says he wants to see where the relationship goes when I confront him, and it's a little bothersome for me.	Guy I am dating makes me feel like a FWB, says he wants to see where the relationship goes when I confront him, and it's a little bothersome for me.	5,450
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Me [19m] need help with someone bugging my 23[f] girlfriend POST: we've been together for 6 months, things have been nice. ups and downs, but it's great. we spend a lot of time together, treat each other right, but i'm new to this and i need some help. we broke up for about 8 days, and in that time she gave a guy her phone number over the internet. she swears that they've never met or hungout, but he started calling her and talking to her a lot, and even lied about emergencies to get her to answer his calls. he's been bugging her from what i understand. fast forward to now when we're back together, 2 nights ago she sent him a very long message telling him to leave her alone and he started trying to talk to her again. should i be mad? my instinct is to get his number and call him and settle this. she is upset because she thinks im raging, but she blocked his number today and i want to call and let him know he doesnt need to talk to her anymore, she doesnt want him to. please help, i dont want to sabotage this relationship by reacting wrong, what would you guys do? she just blocked his number and said we'll see where it goes from here. TL;DR: . Assistant:	stranger from facebook keeps calling and texting my girlfriend when she has told him to stop. she just blocked his number, i'm stressed on how to handle it.	stranger from facebook keeps calling and texting my girlfriend when she has told him to stop. she just blocked his number, i'm stressed on how to handle it.	5,426
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: 18f. Am I going insane? Are my relationship expectations too high? POST: I hope I am posting in the right subreddit for this. Lately I have been feeling....anomalous(?) regarding what I want out of a relationship. Another fling of mine was recently ended because he 21M did not want to "marginalize his friendships." When I am in a relationship, I want a Tabula Rasa -- a complete clean slate. I don't want my significant other to be facebook friends or have any contact whatsoever with previous ex-girlfriends and/or people he has slept with. I provide the same respect. I am accepting of friends of the opposite sex as long as there is not a sexual or romantic past. It would make me uncomfortable if they were to hang out independently though, and I would prefer a group setting. It's as if my ideals are from another planet. All of the men I have met seem to think my relationship expectations are absolutely ludicrous. I, on the other hand, do not think it is expecting too much of a person. I am feeling lonely and as if there is something wrong with me. Am I being overbearing? I would really appreciate some objective opinions. TL;DR: . Assistant:	I don't want SO to have contact with ex's and all the men I have met find this to be controlling. Am I wrong for wanting what I want?	I don't want SO to have contact with ex's and all the men I have met find this to be controlling. Am I wrong for wanting what I want?	401
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: My friend wants to stay at home and go to community college rather than go to a good State school so he can stay close to a girl. What can I do? POST: So here's the story. My best friend, best friends since first grade, and I are seniors in high school on the verge of graduation. At this juncture all of our acceptance letters have come in and most everyone has a set idea of where they are going. I plan on leaving home, San Diego, and go continue my education at San Francisco State University. Though that's honestly irrelevant. My best friend is the typical nice-guy. A softie, loves helping people even at his own expense, will always listen to people's drama and issues, and is just a very emotional guy. A big problem for him in his life has always been girls. His natural tendencies makes it so easy for girls to walk all over him. Finally a girl has fallen for him and they have been together for the past three months. It's your typical overdone high school relationship, talking 24/7, he follows her every command, etc. To be honest, he definitely cares more than she does. Hopefully this paints a picture of the dynamics of their relationship. My friend was only accepted to SFSU. He plans on not accepting their acceptance (no pun intended) and stay in SD, go to community college just so he can stay near her. Though I know it's not the same for everyone, older friends of mine who I have seen go to community college always get stuck there. They say they plan on transferring to a better school asap but that never happens. Many have even dropped out completely. Only ONE alumni from my high school has successfully gotten out of community college. I know that for many people community college works out great and they proceed to have great lives, but 95% of the community college kids that I know are unmotivated and, unfortunately, heading straight to a dead end of mediocrity. My question is, how can I sway my friend to make the right decision and receive a high quality education? How can I make him realize that this, his FIRST relationship isn't gonna last forever (he think they'll be getting married...). I've tried, but so far to no avail. All of your help and insight is appreciated. Thanks guys! TL;DR: . Assistant:	My best friend is choosing community college instead of a state university to stay with his girlfriend of four months. How can I sway him to pursue a higher quality education.	My best friend is choosing community college instead of a state university to stay with his girlfriend of four months. How can I sway him to pursue a higher quality education.	452
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Reddit, Is there any reason why I should continue to be a "nice smart girl" instead of being a "dumb pretty girl"? POST: I consider myself to be a decently smart girl, recent engineering grad with pretty good grades, gainfully employed, even despite the awful economy I graduated in. However, despite all this, I will never make as much as strippers, call girls, or even the girls who just play with themselves on a webcam! In fact, those girls, even the not so pretty ones, can make more in a week than I can make in an entire year! WTF?!? What is the benefit to being nice and smart? Now I tell myself, morals, self respect, etc, etc, but really? If there are people out there who are stupid enough to pay me a ridiculous amount of money just because they find me attractive, knowing full well that I am just humoring them because I want their money, why should I not take it? When I get old and saggy (which all women will) I can always go back into industry, get re-certified, take extra classes, etc, but I will never again be a young pretty girl in her 20's. Why shouldn't I take advantage of being young, fit and pretty, build up a nice savings account, invest it well, and retire early? TL;DR: . Assistant:	Smart girls finish last. What's the benefit of being smart when being pretty (and stupid) will get me further?	Smart girls finish last. What's the benefit of being smart when being pretty (and stupid) will get me further?	323
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I recently quit my first job out of college and feel like a loser. How can I land on my feet? [F23] POST: I was a workaholic in college and, accordingly, attained a high-paying management position at a Fortune 50 company. Unfortunately, it was not as amazing of an opportunity as I hoped it would be. It never paid me on time and I was forced to take out loans from my parents in order to pay for groceries and bills. It relocated me 80 plus miles away from my fiance, family, and friends a week before I was supposed to report to my permanent location. It gradually increased the hours I was supposed to work, until I was working 60+ hours a week and being forced to work on holidays. To top it all off, it had an extremely hostile work environment where people frequently yelled, cried, and tore each other down. For all of these reasons, and many more, I abandoned the position after four months. When I took the job, I thought I had the next several years of my life perfectly planned out, and feel like a total loser for bailing. My finace told me that I seem a lot happier after quitting the job and reassured me that it was the right decision. Nevertheless, after three weeks of job hunting with no "perfect" replacement job, I can't help but feel discouraged. Does anyone have any advice for me moving forward? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I quit my first job after college after four months and feel like a loser. How do I land on my feet?	I quit my first job after college after four months and feel like a loser. How do I land on my feet?	4,370
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/legaladvice TITLE: 2012 Subaru Impreza back at the dealer for the 14th time for the same issues. POST: Hello, Pittsburgh PA here! So I have a 2012 Subaru Impreza which was part of the oil consumption lawsuit that just went through. Back in October I had the short-block replaced because of the issues it was having. All covered under warranty. The dealership has been great, no charges for rentals and generally good people all around.... However, It has been back in the shop 14 times since they did the short-block replacement. Each time something else is going wrong. They blame it on not having a full engine from the factory, and since they just replaced part of it, it is causing the issues. Mind you, I NEVER once had an issue before this. This last time it was in for 3 weeks. They had their master mechanic tear it down, replace any parts that he thought were bad and put it all back together. So it is running GREAT, all the small things I noticed have gone away and I thought we were in the clear... Well, two days ago i noticed oil drips in the garage from sitting over night. Called the dealer and I have to take it back in on Friday. They said if it is something major, they may look into getting Corporate involved. Which I think they should have done by now already. Is there anything I can do legally with this issues? I know that Im not paying for anything, but if I'm going to have to worry about something going wrong on a weekly basis, that isn't acceptable to me. Thank you for any help! TL;DR: . Assistant:	Car back in the shop for the 14th time after short-block replacement, under warranty. Anything I can do?	Car back in the shop for the 14th time after short-block replacement, under warranty. Anything I can do?	2,177
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: Girlfriend(21f) is busy and doesn't have time for me (25m) very often these days. It's making me feel restless and anxious. POST: We have been together for about 2 years now. We are currently in different cities since about the last 4 months. I think the earliest we will meet next is in 3 months. Since the last 2 months she has been pretty busy and doesn't stay in touch very often. Of course we have days when we do talk a lot but the number of days we don't get to talk much has been consistently going up. She doesn't always reply to my texts sometimes claiming that she didn't get the texts at all. I bought her a smartphone about a month back so that we could stay in touch on whatsapp when she was out. Even that didn't work out well with her normally replying to me multiple hours after I would write to her. Whenever I've tried talking to her about this, we always end up fighting. She says I should trust her and she replies as soon as she can. The most annoying thing is that sometimes when she hasn't replied, I have seen her be active on facebook. When I have asked her about this, she says that she feels like I am questioning her with evidence as if she has committed some crime. And ofcourse she still says that she loves me. Now, when we do talk normally, we have a great time and it doesn't feel any different. But lately I feel that she wants some space away from me. It was never like this before. We were always each other's number one priority. Now she doesn't get in touch as soon as she can but takes her time to do it. The worst part is that I feel restless and anxious when I dont hear from her. I feel like shit. I feel like I am losing her. I love her. How should I go about talking to her about this without it ending in us fighting? I am really confused about what to do. TL;DR: . Assistant:	GF says she is busy, doesn't stay in touch very often, I have seen her active on fb though, how should I talk to her about this without us fighting?	GF says she is busy, doesn't stay in touch very often, I have seen her active on fb though, how should I talk to her about this without us fighting?	2,005
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/AskReddit TITLE: Women of Reddit, how would you like someone to respond to you after expressing a complaint? POST: I will probably get downvoted to hell for the apparent misogyny in this post. I have found in my experience that when my male friends, family, and coworkers express a concern or a complaint about their life, family, workplace, health, whatsoever, they like to hear the listener express sympathy and offer a solution to the problem. "Gee, that's a good idea. I'll try that, thanks." I help problem solve their situation and we find a way to make things better for all involved. I have found in my experience that when my female riends, family, and coworkers express a concern or a complaint about their life, family, workplace, health, whatsoever, they either dismiss an offer of a amelioratory suggestion or get outright offended at the proffered solution. It seems that women like to voice their complaints and have the listener respond with "oh, I'm sorry to hear that", or just a nod. *They don't want their situation to improve. They want to vocalize their concerns and be validated by someone who listens. TL;DR: . Assistant:	What is the right phrase to use when a female friend complains to you about her boyfriend, her boss, her roommates, her parents, her phone, etc.?	What is the right phrase to use when a female friend complains to you about her boyfriend, her boss, her roommates, her parents, her phone, etc.?	2,817
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/BreakUps TITLE: I (M22) can't bring myself to break-up with my SO (F22) despite moments of clarity. POST: My SO and I have been dating since high school (over 5 years). We went to the same college, but she graduated early and moved about 1.5 hours away for a job. We've always had things to work on, but this last year has caused me much more stress than it has helped me. When we got together, she was ambitious and had an extremely positive outlook on life, but lately (esp. since midway since college) she has turned extremely pessimistic and has seemingly lost her ambition. I'm realizing the problem is that she has serious control issues. In high school should basically knew where her life was heading (college) and felt in control leading to an amiable demeanor. As college started, and esp. at her new job she is learning that you can't be in control of everything and it is getting to her. This has caused her to lose (break-up?) with friend who she could no longer hang out with at her whim and who were developing other relationships that made her extremely jealous. She also skipped applying for graduate school last year and this year. I confronted her about it because I believed she was putting them off so that she could feel like she had made the decision to not go rather than risk not getting in; she admitted it. We had a big discussion because she often will insinuate that I don't really care about her or don't want to be around her and make me feel guilty so that she can control me. I got sick of it and pointed it out. She admitted she had issues and is now seeing a therapist, but that was a few months ago, and I see no change. I want to be getting something positive out of my relationship and I often don't. I also know she is controlling, which can be emotionally abusive. I will sometimes resolve to break-up with her, but I can never bring myself to do it. The few times she is happy is when she sees me, and I can't bring myself to destroy that. Do I need to just man up and do it? Am I overreacting? Anyone been in similar situations that has any advice? TL;DR: . Assistant:	SO is extremely controlling and guilts me into doing things, but I can't bring myself to break-up with her.	SO is extremely controlling and guilts me into doing things, but I can't bring myself to break-up with her.	2,980
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I (19M) wanted to ask out friend of couple months (20M) only to find out his ex (20M) is moving in POST: I'm a student at college and I was going to confess all my sappy gooey feelings to a guy (Let's call him Mike) and ask him out. We hang out as much as we can on weekends. I've known Mike for a few months now and like I said, gooey feely blah - I was going to ask him out. So as we were driving to a restaurant for dinner, he tells me about his new roommate(let's say Joey). Joey and Mike go back to elementary school. Turns out, they dated in high school and when Joey's parents found out about his homosexuality, they took all of his communication (phone, facebook, email everything). Mike tells me that nobody's seen or heard from Joey in years and messaged him through a fake Facebook account and Joey is moving across the country to get away from parents, but in doing this he is moving in with Mike. So I'm shocked at dinner and the rest of the drive as Mike also talks about the huge probability of them being together. I couldn't say anything about me so I left earlier than we planned. My fear is that they are getting together and I'll be left in the dust. (Prob'ly happening anyway) and I still have all these feels for Mike but I don't want to ruin our friendship or get in the way of this soap opera story. I feel like it's my last chance to tell him. Should I? Is it a good idea? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I got feels for guy. His ex appears from out of the blue to move in with him. I still want to tell him about all my feels.	I got feels for guy. His ex appears from out of the blue to move in with him. I still want to tell him about all my feels.	1,330
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: When do you listen to your parents, and when do you write them off? POST: Hi Reddit, Just been in a moral dilemma lately. I've been in a rough patch in my relationship with my parents (Baby Boomer-age) and I don't know whether I'm making a huge mistake or whether I should write them off and carry on. Reddit, I get excellent grades at a top university, I treat my friends and everyone I know well, I don't do drugs, and I am >21 so I drink occasionally and always in moderation. I came out to my parents, whom I love very dearly, about a year ago (under duress--they were monitoring the phone numbers I contacted), and since then they have started hating my school (for lack of guidance to keep me on a moral path) and they have stopped trusting me. I still want them to be proud of me and approve of me, but every time I share my achievements with them, I feel this mistrust and disapproval, as if it doesn't matter what I do now--unless I demonstrate an abandonment of homosexuality by getting married and producing grandchildren, I will never be redeemed in their eyes. This feeling is really pushing me into depression. If I curb my life to their demands, I am not doing what I want to do; but if I ignore their pleading and advice and continue to do what I want, I feel like a disrespectful child who has traveled off to college to flaunt his parents' values and live a life of debauchery on his parents' dime. Reddit, what are your thoughts and experiences on this? Should I write my parents off as Limbaugh-listening dinosaurs stuck in a rut and behind the times, guilt-tripping me to make me conform to the one lifestyle they view as "right"? Or do they have wisdom that I am blithely ignoring in an act of folly that will bite me in the ass later, leaving me unhappy and unable to recover from my years of mistakes? TL;DR: . Assistant:	My conservative parents are trying to get me to maintain a certain lifestyle, and I feel guilty for disobeying their wishes. Thoughts?	My conservative parents are trying to get me to maintain a certain lifestyle, and I feel guilty for disobeying their wishes. Thoughts?	4,723
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/books TITLE: Follow up / co-lecture for Nightfall by Isaac Asimov POST: Hello fellow literate reddit users, so university has begun for me just the last month and I forswore the all-day-gaming and want to focus mainly on sports, my studies and literature I am interested in. As I was browsing the depths of reddit I found this hint to the short story "The Last Question" by Isaac Asimov and I was left speechless finishing it. I could really identify with the way it was written and it's just what I seem to be missing. In just that post there was a recommendation to his novel "Nightfall". Since I "fear" falling in love with it just as I did with the short story, considering orders take really long for me (2-3 weeks), I would like to have your opinion on what is worth a read on the same topic as he writes. It can be anything science related, I like plot twists that leave questioning everything. Besides that: Any engineers, or soon to be engineers here that can state whether I'll be able to identify more with the profession and the whole way of solution finding / problem solving by reading scientific literature, or is it just the same boring stuff comparable to lectures? I have to admit I feel a little bit lost. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Started studying engineering, came across what title mentions, looking for something supporting my studies and my well-being, teaching me the ways of maths and science :)	Started studying engineering, came across what title mentions, looking for something supporting my studies and my well-being, teaching me the ways of maths and science :)	1,937
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by forgetting my wallet. POST: This afternoon I planned on meeting some friends at Chipotle for lunch. After I got in the car and was only a minute or two from home, I realized that I left my wallet on the counter at home and needed to turn back and get it. So I got in the next left turn lane to make a U-turn. I make this particular one quite often and since I'm in a small car its not too difficult. But somehow, with the pressure of oncoming traffic, I horrendously clip the curb with my front right tire. First I hear "CRRRR", and then "hisssssssssssssss", and then immediately see the "check tire pressure" warning pop up on the dash. Since I'm only a minute away from home, it's not too big of a deal to drive back and assess the damage. I found that there's like a quarter-sized tear in the side wall of the tire and it's obviously flat. So my brother and I get out the jack and spare tire and do a standard and easy tire change. So we get that done in about 20 minutes and I leave for Chipotle. I get there 30 minutes late, and my friends are done eating and basically just hanging out waiting for me. After I get my food and go to pay, I realize that I never even got my wallet. I had to have my friend spot me. TL;DR: . Assistant:	Forgot my wallet, popped a tire because I forgot my wallet, then proceeded to forget my wallet again.	Forgot my wallet, popped a tire because I forgot my wallet, then proceeded to forget my wallet again.	5,302
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationship_advice TITLE: 22f likes sex more then fiance 25m. Preparing for therapy... HELP!!! POST: My fiance's mom came up this weekend for his birthday Monday (25M). He let me give him a hand job while his mom and brother were drifting off to sleep in our living room (with the bedroom door open), and the whole weekend when they weren't looking he would grab at me(22f). Come Monday when his mom and brother left, I thought for sure I was going to get some... But he said "I just want to hold you." Don't get me wrong, I am a cuddle bug, but that was not what I was wanting. Then he says "we'll do it tomorrow." And surprise!!!! nothing. (This happens all the time. I get semi-regular sex once a month, we've been together for 3 years.) I've been advised to go to therapy with him, and we're planning on premarital therapy anyways. I've only been to see a therapist once, but I didn't have a good therapist, and resulted in a negative experience. But has anyone gone to therapy for a similar reason? What was it like? What did they have you do? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I like sex more then he does. Preparing to seek therapy. Wanting to hear from people who've gone for a similar reason, to know what its like, and what they had you do.	I like sex more then he does. Preparing to seek therapy. Wanting to hear from people who've gone for a similar reason, to know what its like, and what they had you do.	2,877
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: NOT quite sure if me (29 F) and my boyfriend (24 M) have a future together. Anyone in a relationship Older woman / Younger man/ who can share their stories and advices? POST: We have been together for almost 3 years now, and everything has been as perfect as it can be. We are perfect for each other and share a deep love. But recently I've been worrying about the future. I've already lived abroad, studied a masters and lived by myself, but he hasnt'd done that yet, and I don't want him to lose the opportunity to do so. Whenever I tell him that, he says that he doesn't matter for those things, and that cannot wait for us living together. I also worry that by when he wants to have babies I will no longer be able to do so. It helps me a lot to read success stories about older women with a younger boyfriend or husband, gives me hope for the future TL;DR: . Assistant:	NOT quite sure if me (29 F) and my boyfriend (24 M) have a future together because of age difference.	NOT quite sure if me (29 F) and my boyfriend (24 M) have a future together because of age difference.	3,759
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/tifu TITLE: TIFU by accidentally telling some children that Santa wasn't real. POST: This tifu happened earlier this evening, so I'm still feeling terrible about the whole thing. So earlier today, my family met up with some of their friends went to a local restaurant after a Christmas Eve ceremony at Church. The group happened to include several young children that were ever so excited for Christmas day to come. In the restaurant some small talk and simple conversation was going on while my brother and I started to joke about the little ones. Due to my joking mindset at the time, I wasn't thinking about who I was really talking to, and when one of the kids started to say,"I want santa to get me a new Xbox One", I spurted out the first thing on my mind and loudly commented, "Well its a damn shame that Santa Claus is just mommy and daddy!". Instantly after that, the table was filled with silence and loud tears as the faces with ajar mouths stared at me in disgust. When i tried to divert my attention to the daggers being shot at me from around the table, I looked around the restaurant to find that many of the other patrons where giving me rude looks as well as the family and friends. Instantly my father grabbed me by the shirt and dragged me to the parking lot and talked to me about the how the three little lives that i had just ruined had been so distraught the friends of ours had to leave the restaurant. Later when we went home, we received a call saying that the kids were still crying, and that one started to destroy all of the boxes under the Christmas tree because of his loss of faith. After that I realized that all of the apologizing in the world would not fix the three little, wonderful broken hearts that i had done. So now, the rest of my Christmas break contains hard, long hours of labor at my family's friends house, and now my dad is making me find a Santa look-alike on craigslist to help stoke their belief again. Hopefully I can replenish their belief in good ol' Saint Nick before any further damage can be done TL;DR: . Assistant:	I accidentally told some kids that santa was their parents, and now I'm slaved away at their house working like one of santa's little elves.	I accidentally told some kids that santa was their parents, and now I'm slaved away at their house working like one of santa's little elves.	4,220
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/relationships TITLE: I'm [24f] worried about my boyfriend [21m] of 3 years being overly interested in coworker POST: Me and my boyfriend were looking through the part of facebook that shows who you've been searching and I didn't like what I saw. He has been looking up this one particular girl he works with multiple times a week for months now. He hasn't been looking up anyone else more than once in the months I looked at. He's not close to her or anything and she never posts anything (her last post was months ago) so I'm having trouble grasping the reason he's looking her up so obsessively. He says he doesn't want to be with her or anything, that he's just more interested in her than anyone else he works with because she's quiet and mysterious. He just wants to learn more about her. This didn't make me feel better, he has people he's pretty close to that he works with and the fact that he's more interested in her than anyone else makes me uneasy. The fact that she doesn't post much makes it even weirder, he'd have seen everything there is to see the first 2 visits tops. Yet he keeps coming back. He thinks I'm being crazy, but I feel this is weird. So basically I just want to know if this is something I should be worried about or if this is normal. TL;DR: . Assistant:	My boyfriend has been looking up female coworker's facebook profile a lot for the past few months and says he's just really interested in her because she's quiet. Is this normal?	My boyfriend has been looking up female coworker's facebook profile a lot for the past few months and says he's just really interested in her because she's quiet. Is this normal?	4,264
Human: Summarize the following text : SUBREDDIT: r/offmychest TITLE: I'm lucky to be alive, but I feel like an ungrateful fuck POST: I have struggled with physical and mental health problems simultaneously. I'm twenty years old now, and the physical health problems are about two years behind me; the mental problems, however, still linger. I had two tumors in my knee causing constant pain, which were removed (but then grew back) over the span of three surgeries. When I had the second tumor removed from my knee, the scar tissue healed over my joint, making me incapable of walking. This required an additional surgery and painful rehabilitation to allow full mobility. I also learned I have a genetic blood mutation, after a deep vein thrombosis (blood clot) formed in my arm. Needless to say, I feel lucky to be alive and have good health now. However, my depression will not disappear. Since my adolescence, I have had severe depression that I simply have not been able to kick. Medications, counseling, changing cities, changing majors, changing schools, falling in love, falling out of love, substance abuse, sober living, art, physical activity, etc...I've tried it all. I will feel better for awhile, but the depression always comes back. I feel like ungrateful for being so dissatisfied with a life that I've fought to keep. My family has spent countless hours and huge sums of money trying to keep me alive and healthy, but I can't seem to be happy with the life I live. I feel like I don't even know who I am, after all of the phases and new things I've tried to help myself. What do I do? Am I missing the key to happiness? TL;DR: . Assistant:	I had two tumors and a blood clot before I turned 18. I'm 20 now, physically better but still depressed. Can't seem to find inner happiness or kick this depression.	I had two tumors and a blood clot before I turned 18. I'm 20 now, physically better but still depressed. Can't seem to find inner happiness or kick this depression.	5,527