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pzm34t | AITA for Not Sharing First Prize? | I (male, 30) took part in a Magic the Gathering Tournament two weeks ago. A Pre-Release for the new set. Admittingly, it has been maybe 6 years since I last played, but I seek to get back into playing at a local game store I haven't played at before.
The tournament gave you six packs of cards to build a deck of 40 o... | 848.913043 | 17 | nta |
pzm3hm | AITA for not going to a funeral? | Recently a friend of my family passed away. Naturally, there was a funeral and I chose not to go. No one has said anything about it but the guilt has been nagging at me. I chose not to go because I have been struggling with the concept of death and mortality recently. I was stressing about the Funeral all week and ulti... | 8.333333 | 10 | nta |
pzmn3f | AITA for throwing out jelly my wife intentionally contaminated with peanut butter? | Tonight my wife (31f) and I (32m) were making ourselves sandwiches for a late dinner. I decided to make turkey and she decided to make peanut butter and jelly. I watched her stick a knife into the peanut butter, spread it on the bread, and then stick the same knife into the jar of strawberry jelly without cleaning it o... | 9,196.052632 | 14 | yta |
pzmnil | AITA for what I told my parents about my leukemia? | Hi guys. I am 13f and have pretty advanced leukemia. I'm not feeling so great right now because I just chemo and got really frustrated and said something to my parents which I should not have.
They got divorced when I was 6 and now I have a stepmom and a stepdad and a few half-siblings. I'm going to be honest that i... | 1,376.666667 | 7 | nah |
pzmvoy | AITA for not being as supportive and helpful to my friend during her wedding planning as she thinks I should have been? | I (22F) was asked by my friend (21F) a little while back to be her maid of honor for her wedding, which is next month. My friend, who we'll call A, has been dating her partner, S (24M), for over three years now. Their relationship has been rocky and toxic, mostly on S's part. S has been manipulative, emotionally abusiv... | 32.142857 | 11 | nta |
pzmwi1 | AITAH FOR FORGETTING PLANS WITH BF AND MAKING THEM WITH A FRIEND | Recently, I (27 f) tried to go to a nearby town for the day with a girlfriend of mine but the brewery we wanted to go to was closed so we didn’t. I mentioned this to my bf (27 m) and he suggested we try and go this Saturday. It was a very brief conversation that I totally forgot about. Fast forward to today, the friend... | 19.230769 | 2 | esh |
pzmx0o | AITA for selling my moms engagement ring? | My mom gave me her ring, that her mom gave her, who’s mom received from her husband way back in 1945(?). It was right after WW2 so I assume 1945. At least that’s what I was told.
My father passed away, so my mom gave me her engagement ring.
Anyway due to covid I lost my job a while ago. I’ve since found ano... | 963.095238 | 17 | nta |
pzn0ij | AITA for kicking my sister out for being a flea infested stray dog into my apartment? | Okay so I know I sound like the AH here but please hear me out. Also on mobile.
I’m a single guy and I live alone in a 1 bedroom apartment. My life is pretty simple. I have a great job that allows me to live very comfortably. My younger sister fell on hard times and needed a place to stay. I offered her to come sta... | 77.142857 | 14 | nta |
pzn3td | AITA for submitting a group project without a group member's name on it? | I am currently in a 4 year program to obtain my PharmD. My specific program assigns academic groups for students to work on all group projects together. We do not get to choose our groups. We are currently in week 9 out of 16 in the semester and we have had 4 group projects so far. In all 4 projects one group member (l... | 57.317073 | 18 | nta |
pzn5ge | AITA For Reading Young Adult(YA) books. | This is honestly one of the weirdest disagreements I've ever had to deal with. It has me wondering if maybe I am in fact the AH.
So, some background info. I (33F) have been dealing with depression and anxiety since a car accident I was in earlier this year, with the help of medications and therapy I am getting bett... | 1,858.510638 | 17 | nta |
pznrzc | AITA for telling my dad he’s a horrible father? | My parents are divorced. My dad lives with his wife and my younger siblings all live with my mom. My oldest sister and I have our own homes and families. He tends to see my siblings once or twice a week. My mom is disabled and because of that she can’t drive. She doesn’t speak good English so I help her out with my sib... | 489.361702 | 12 | nta |
pzolde | AITA for being upset my(26) boyfriend(27) wont go pumpkin picking with me? | We don’t really ever go out and do things. Part of this is the pandemic and the other part is just that he doesn’t want to spend the money despite me usually wanting to pay for everything. I know at the moment he doesn’t have much to freely spend, but I’m happy to foot the bill for stuff. The issue is he never really w... | 36.486486 | 16 | nta |
pzom2b | AITA for wanting to date a guy my best friend previously liked? | A little bit of background info... my (17f) best friend, we'll call her Riley (18f), liked a guy, Jack (17f) for most of last year.
She never talked to him, never made an effort to interact with him and never had more than surface interaction with him.
She told me a few times that she thinks she liked him becau... | 12.5 | 3 | nta |
pzopx0 | AITA for moving on with my life? | So. About two weeks ago I asked a girl out and she said yes, then proceeded to not talk to me at all. And when she did talk she just treated me like we don’t know each other (we known each other for over 4 months now).
Well. I took it as if she’s hinting at us just staying friends. So I just forgot about the whole t... | 32.258065 | 8 | nta |
pzoqgg | AITA for accidentally hinting towards the economical differences growing up between my bf and I? | I’m not from here - I come from another country, in Asia. I grew up very comfortable due to my parents, who made sure they provided all necessary things and more to their kids. It was nothing crazy rich, but my father enjoyed a well-established position that had its perks, financially speaking. He did NOT spoil us; the... | 50 | 6 | yta |
pzouro | AITA for refusing to pay my friend £400 in rent money | Before the pandemic hit I (F21) was planning on moving in with two of my friends, (M22 & F21) but then when covid happened we no longer had an income because college had just ended and we couldn't get jobs because everything was shut, so they both had to move back in with their parents.
I don't have a great relatio... | 19.642857 | 11 | nta |
pzp3hh | AITA for indirectly saying I didn’t like my uncle’s wife’s food? | I am temporarily staying with my uncle and his wife and his wife is very nice and makes dinner every night. I actually like her food and tell her thank you each time she cooks. One night, a lot of people were over and dinner was chili. I went and got some and didn’t know whose it was. I thought someone brought it over ... | 23.076923 | 8 | nta |
pzp4ot | Aita for not liking my dad? | So I’m 13m my parents just got divorced and I was so happy to finally get away from my dad he was emotionally abusive but I just ignored it because he is very big and scary 6’6 300lbs about so I have good reason to be scared, but my mom still wants me to see him just so I don’t make him feel bad but I don’t feel like t... | 39.285714 | 8 | nta |
pzp6w6 | AITA for not encouraging my son to form a relationship with his mother? | My ex wife and I divorced when our son was 8. She had a problem with alcohol, and the courts awarded me with sole custody of our son.
I made the agreement that when she had one year sober under her belt, she was allowed to see our son. I grew up with an addict for a dad, so I know how confusing it can be for a paren... | 78.205128 | 12 | nta |
pzp7m8 | Aita for making my brothers family homeless specially because he has a small child and a soon to be born baby? | Hi everyone , this is my first time Posting so sorry if any mistakes are found.
Ok so my sil and brother will be staying at me and my wife's house for a few months as they are both out of jobs and sil is 7 months pregnant.they also have a 6 year old child and our house was enough to accommodate all of us . The prob... | 4,012.765957 | 17 | nta |
pzp8hg | AITA because I told a girl she’s vulnerable because her Google search result shows her address? | I (male) went out with a girl from Hinge tonight. She said a guy she went on a second date with, figured out her address and it really freaked her out. I agree that’s really inappropriate.
I suggested to her because she has an uncommon name and deleted her social media presence it probably made her address the on... | 2,486.170213 | 17 | nta |
pzpfsl | AITA bc I don’t agree w/ roommate who kicked me out of living room for her date night? | Her bf lives in the same complex and he lives alone. She didn’t make it a request, more so stated flat out that she will be using living room for her date night. This was also confusing because since it wasn’t a request, I had to follow up with, “so does that mean you want me to not be here?” The BF has his own place b... | 23.4375 | 10 | nta |
pzpgjl | AITA for wanting to spend the day with my boyfriend? | I (21F) live w/ my parents -M&D- and brother -B- (19M). Been w/ my boyfriend -bf- (23M) for 10 months now. M hasn’t liked any of my past relationships. This one is no different. She complains about the smallest things.
I see bf 1-2 days a week. (Besides 2hrs for church). She complains that I’m “always running off w... | 24.193548 | 2 | nta |
pzpoxl | WIBTA If I Reported My Coworker For Faking Being Sick? | So this guys a highschool acquaintance, we work in a restaurant and fridays are usually busy. Today was not an exception. We're pretty understaffed at the moment, so I bounce between Cook and Dishwasher at periods.
Today there were three dishwashers scheduled; NewGuy, SecondDishGuy, and SickGuy. SickGuy was suppose... | 131.25 | 5 | yta |
pzppvi | AITA Not letting husband stay home alone with our baby | TLDR at the bottom
My (F26) husband (M27) has sleep problems regarding our infant (4 months). He does not wake up when the baby cries. He falls asleep when the baby is awake in his arms. He’s almost fallen asleep standing up while holding the baby.
I know some men and women have trouble waking up for their child.... | 490 | 18 | nta |
pzq8rf | AITA for encouraging my colleague to leave work on time? | Hi, folks!
I'm a systems engineer by trade and work in a small company that deals with hospital software. Our parent company just released a new version of it, so I and my team (Ash, Charlie, and Mark) have been toying with it over the past couple of days. No rush, we don't have to implement it for another year or t... | 10 | 5 | nta |
pzqcl7 | AITA for doing overtime on my babies due date? | OK, so me and my wife have recently moved and taken out a large mortgage which has doubled our monthly payment. We moved as we are having our second child any day now so we needed the extra bedroom and the extra space.
My wife is self employed and due to the nature of her work has been on maternity leave since aroun... | 136.046512 | 10 | nta |
pzqefx | AITA for yelling at my sister on my weddingday? | Am i (f33) the asshole for snapping and yelling at my sister (f36) on my wedding?
My sister and i are very different and havent always got along. When she got a boyfriend, when she was 22, she pretty much ghosted me. The relationship went bad and she moved back home, when i still lived with my parents. I always feel... | 265.853659 | 5 | esh |
pzqku6 | AITA for trying to teach my daughter what I thought was menstrual etiquette? | I (50M) have 3 children, 2 daughters (18 and 12) and a son (15).
Over the summer my youngest got her first period. I always try to make sure that we're well stocked so I showed her where she could find the necessary supplies as well as the bottle of ibuprofen in the medicine cabinet. Not knowing whether or not her m... | 8,395.744681 | 15 | nah |
pzqlma | AITA for "forcing" my GF to learn how to ride a motorcycle to arrive to our wedding in style? | I(M23) told my GF I wanted her to arrive on a motorcycle to our wedding, a little different from casual indian weddings where the bride is carried in a basket on wooden logs. I bought her a motorcycle and taught her how to drive it myself, both of our parents had no problem with it and even she enjoyed learning. Everyt... | 51.851852 | 9 | nta |
pzqq0l | AITA for not singing happy birthday to my grandfather? | Today's my grandfather's birthday. He lives back in our home country so we can't celebrate with him. Today also happens to be the day that I have an assignment due, something that I have been stressing out about for the entirety of the past week because it's difficult for me.
My mother came in and told me to record ... | 23.529412 | 4 | yta |
pzqtlr | AITA for not always having the correct responses | Hi guys sorry this is gonna be long and my first post so sorry.
So I (f21) have recently had a falling out with multiple friends (also 21) after they told me that I’ve made comments or said things that have made them or others in our friends circle uncomfortable. Now a lot of these comments are either in relation ... | 13.157895 | 4 | nta |
pzqx3y | WIBTA if i tell my roommate i dont want to renew lease with her (less than 30 days notice)? | First time posting, long time lurker!
My roommate "H" is a disgusting roommate. We were friends before we moved in together and living with her has made me resent her. We are both 27. I'm a working professional and she calls herself "struggling artist". I am going to move out even though i don't want to (love the a... | 30.263158 | 7 | nta |
pzqxuh | AITA for wanting to move back to my family due to non stop in law arguments? | Am I the asshole for wanting to move 300 miles back to my own family?
Background information; I moved with my DH to be near my in laws 4 years ago. At first it was fine, it was perfect everyone got along and it was a good environment for my children to be with their cousins and extended family.
Then the arguments ... | 85.365854 | 11 | nta |
pzr0kb | AITA for being upset when my sister and younger brother planned a family reservation without involving the rest of the family and demanded I change my plans? | My sister (45) and her family visited my parents’ home this around the same time as my parents’ 49th anniversary. She and my younger brother (27) planned a family dinner with all the siblings & their spouses to celebrate since this was the first time in 3 years the whole family was together. They did not involve my any... | 50 | 7 | esh |
pzr381 | AITA for wanting to go to our friends' weddings? | I'm sorry if this is a jumbled mess or wall of text, I will try to represent everything as clearly as I can. My fiance frequents this sub, but I'm not sure where else to turn at this point.
For some background, Karl (29m) and I (28f) have been dating for 8 years, since our junior year of undergrad. We originally ... | 150 | 16 | nta |
pzr3hc | AITA for not letting in a guy before we close? | So, context, I (20M) work nightshift at a local grocery store as an overnight stocker, started less than a month ago. one of the things we have to do is make sure people don't come in after midnight (when we close). I was under the impression that I wasn't supposed to let anyone in after 11:55pm, as this was how I was ... | 67.948718 | 13 | nta |
pzrbbi | AITA for being mad that my gfs mom drilled fat holes into our apartment... | So we moved into this really nice apartment complex a few months back. We were advised not to put big holes or anything that will permanently damage the interior or exterior of the apartment. We had to leave a fat deposit just to stay here. Her mom decided to take it upon herself because “she’s disabled and can get an... | 389.772727 | 17 | nta |
pzrnlk | AITA for telling my brother-in-law that he's an asshole for making my grandmother cry? | My grandma is 85, has an autoimmune disease and is very immunocompromised, and recently injured her leg quite badly. She's also the brightest, most intelligent, kind, and loving woman on this planet and I love her with all my heart.
My sister, her husband, and their 4 young children have not had a certain injectio... | 320.454545 | 17 | nta |
pzrq7b | AITA for throwing a 'tantrum' because my grandmother lent my Php 2k to my sister? | I, 19F, am not going to school nor do I have a job yet. I am still job hunting with no work experience under my belt and so me having money is very rare. The last time I had money was at July, given by my mother at my request, and the leftover php 500 I had was supposed to be put in my gcash account. But my sister (26F... | 18.75 | 5 | nta |
pzrqwt | AITA for letting my friend walk in the dark alone? | My friend/roommate (23F) and I (24F) came back from the city in the evening. We missed the train and would have had to wait 30 minutes for the next one. So she suggested we walk home, since it would take us about the same time and I (who had been freezing for an hour) would get warmer.
I am a brisk walker and on the... | 32.142857 | 2 | nah |
pzrx2m | AITA for filing a conduct report on a coworker who had an emotional breakdown? | A coworker experienced a death in their immediate family. The day they returned to work (after taking a few days off for compassionate leave) at some point towards the end of the day as they were doing a task, I asked if they could try doing the task in ‘x’ way instead.
The worker, EXPLODED at me and yelled at me a... | 2,617.021277 | 10 | nta |
pzrxyn | WIBTA if I continue to refuse on joining the road trip? | For context:
I'm 18 (f) and still in school. I deliver newspapers on the weekends and suffer from strong depression, anxiety, and trauma.
For me, school is quite stressful and I still struggle with it. Not that I'm a bad student, I just lack the necessary motivation to study, which worsens my mental state quite a lot... | 19.230769 | 7 | nta |
pzs9km | AITA for not naming my daughter after her dad's deceased sister? | Me (F29) and my ex (M32) have 1 kid together with baby number 2 coming in a few days time. We recently separated after almost 4 years together. He was never super involved with the pregnancy to begin with like he was with our first baby so I wasn't shocked when he stopped caring all together after we separated.He even... | 323.170732 | 18 | nta |
pzseu2 | AITA for wanting to buy a house alone because my boyfriend doesn't want to rent? | My boyfriend inherited his small 3 bed family home with his sister because their parents both passed away. The sister originally wasn't living there but moved back after a failed relationship. It's been over a year but the sister still won't save up the money to buy my boyfriend out and refuses to sell their half (if s... | 234.090909 | 18 | nta |
pzsr8h | AITA for refusing to do anything that my girlfriend wanted me to during my two weeks off work? | I (29m) have lived with my girlfriend (32f) for just under a year. We've been seeing each other for three years and change.
Recently I earned a promotion at my work. I've worked my butt off for this promotion for several years and have barely taken any time off during that duration. When I found out about my promoti... | 12,403.488372 | 5 | esh |
pzsvor | AITA for not ratting my sister out? | I (27F) am the oldest of 5 siblings, and I'm the only one that smokes weed daily, have done for years, it gives me many benefits, my parents haaate it. We used to get in arguments about it while I was still living there, but its only brought up in a joking way every now and then these days, no drama.
My youngest siste... | 26.190476 | 8 | nta |
pztbhp | AITA for telling my friend to butt out of my relationship with a guy and then everything escalating? | I started talking to guy a couple weeks ago and dont like him romantically at all. My friend asked him if he liked me and he said yes. I was kinda upset by this because this is going to give him the wrong impression. He is a great friend and when i told my friend they got really upset at me because they "shipped" us. I... | 53.947368 | 7 | nta |
pztbx2 | AITA for not wanting to return shoes i bought that were fakes? | So i bought some Jordans from someone and turns out they were fake. Got my money back (not from the seller but from the site i bought it from because the transaction wasn’t completed yet) and was told I am not allowed to send them back to the seller by customer support even though they’re begging me to return them beca... | 135.365854 | 9 | nta |
pztinp | AITA for not sharing my diet with a friend | After a few months with GI issues I finally started seeing a nutritionist in order to get a diet that would help me with it and also lose weight as I’ve been struggling with it for almost all my life.
So far I’ve lost about 30 pounds and people are noticing. A friend who is also struggling with weight asked me what ... | 2,953.26087 | 10 | nta |
pztnq7 | AITA for not wanting to become my Mother’s carer? | Currently me, F 24 and my parents 57 and 56.
Growing up I had an emotionally abusive father - specifically to my sisters and I as we grew up. We were a family of 2 boys, 4 girls. My mother did nothing to stop him and she sat very quiet in the background of his abuse in fear he would turn on her. One event that bega... | 1,336.170213 | 16 | nta |
pztr1v | AITA for telling my online friend I don't care about all his physical ailments? | I have an online friend (never met in person) named Jake. Jake (early 40s) and I (late 30s) have been chatting casually (not romantically) for a few years. We met because we both belonged to a group for getting past breakups (we both had recently broken up at the time and we chatted a lot back then as we provided emoti... | 56.060606 | 12 | nta |
pztyzf | AITA for telling my best friend he shouldn't have spent so much money on an engagement ring? | My best friend from high school Jake (24/M) and I hung out at my place to play video games and drink. We've been doing this almost every week since the pandemic. We've always been pretty tight. This week, he talked to me about proposing to his girlfriend Brooke (22/F).
From my perspective, I think he's rushing into... | 1,301.162791 | 16 | yta |
pzu3qp | Wibta if I didn’t give the promotion to the new guy? | I hired a new guy, Alex, a couple weeks ago with the intent of making him Support Manager, that was my vision. I need the role filled and he also asked for quite a bit of salary, more than an individual contributor should get.
I didn’t hire him as that role because he himself had reservations about the role, managi... | 179.6875 | 13 | yta |
pzu42i | AITA for not taking blame or apologizing for my deteriorating relationship with my sister? | I (23F) haven’t spoken to my older sister (25) in 10 months. I had an okay/bad relationship with her growing up. But when I was 17 the relationship started really falling apart. It started when my cousin got pregnant with her second child. She got engage to the father and my sister decided to help pay for the wedding a... | 139.285714 | 16 | nta |
pzu72b | WIBTA for wanting an autistic kid’s parents to pay for damages? | I’ll preface by saying this is a throwaway account. Earlier today I (22M) had parked my car in my apartment complex and was waiting to pick a friend up. As I waited a kid who looked maybe 7-8 on a bicycle came in between my car and another car and scratched the side on a handlebar. The gap between the two cars was pret... | 517.391304 | 16 | nta |
pzuegg | AITA for telling my 9 year old niece that I [24F] am engaged to my female partner? | My niece is 9, she is already well aware of same sex couples, she has said words like “lesbian” and “lezzie” in front of me, which I did not teach her. My niece has friends at school, YouTube, movies, the internet and so on where she could have learned these things. She is very understanding and I love her so much. Any... | 669.318182 | 17 | nta |
pzuj38 | AITA because I disagree with my families holiday plans |
For basic context my family consists of me(13F) my mom (42 F) my dad (53 M) and my sister (9 F)
So we are from India but we currently live abroad and we wanted to visit india this December. My grandfather passed away last year and currently my grandmother is all alone. Unfortunately we couldn't visit when my gra... | 11.764706 | 1 | nah |
pzux39 | AITA for sending an email at 1.30 am ? | I sent an email to a school teacher at 1.30 am, and the school talked as if I were insane.
In my mind, email is like mail. You can drop the letter any time in the mailbox, but the recipient will receive it anytime they want to receive it. I understand that some people turn on notifications for each email they recei... | 4,982.978723 | 18 | nta |
pzuyuj | AITA for not wanting to wash my mom's boyfriend's dishes? | So my mom is getting all nuts at me demanding me to wash the dishes. Everyone in the household is grown and I pay my fair share of the rent.
She has a new boyfriend she cooks for and leaves all the pots and pans etc demanding I clean them.
I didn't enjoy any of the food from the cooking so AITA for not wanting ... | 56.25 | 8 | nta |
pzuyz9 | AITA for not allowing my ex to bring his dogs to mine for Christmas? | A bit of backstop
Me and my ex, Jes have a daughter together. Today we were working out Christmas where he stated, not asked, that he would drive here (we live 8 hours, in a small town) which I am more then happy with, the problem is he wants to bring two very large dogs. My daughter and I currently staying with my ... | 79.411765 | 17 | nta |
pzv0cz | AITA for not sharing my prize money with my husband | My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we are not in the US. A few weeks ago I saw a competition that we would both qualify for and told him about it. He said he wasn’t interested in it, so I said I would do submissions for both of us anyway to increase my chances of winning.
Lo and behold, he won and got... | 6,346.808511 | 17 | nta |
pzv29c | AITA for doing chores at midnight and waking my husband? |
My (45) Husband and I (36) both work full time. We have four kids (13, 10, 7, 5) - all in school. My four kids and I also train competitive martial arts together every evening at the local dojo. Two of the sessions are just for me (adults only) but the rest I take with my kids since I’m already there.
My husband i... | 277.272727 | 17 | nta |
pzv37k | AITA for blocking out certain work days? | To start off, this is a job at my college. When I applied to the job I was told we would be working maximum of 10-15 hours a week. It is a slightly above minimum wage job. Our boss also told me I was allowed to take off weekends in case I was visiting my family (I don’t live close by) or my family visits me. We have an... | 37.142857 | 10 | nta |
pzvfve | AITA for not wanting to cut my grandfather's grass | My grandfather owns a contracting business where he renovates houses. Right now he owns two properties excluding the one he actually lives in. He wants me to cut the grass at both houses every week. I've been doing this for about three months and this has gone too far. I'm spending way too much money on gas for my pers... | 52.5 | 15 | nta |
pzvr56 | AITA for joking around? | I [15M] and my friend [15F] were walking up to the moors by ourselves, there were rams everywhere, she was clutching my arm and seemed kinda nervous and she asked "they won't charge will they?" I said "oh nah don't worry, not unless you look in their direction" then she said "WHAT" and I looked behind me then gasped an... | 16.666667 | 6 | nta |
pzvs70 | AITA for intervening to prevent my son marrying his high school girlfriend? | I feel a little uncomfortable writing about this to strangers, but she's so upset and I truly feel I have done nothing wrong. I care about her but he is my son and to me his happiness comes before everything. I need some outside perspective
Most of this happened years ago, when my son who is now 30 was in high schoo... | 4,120.212766 | 1 | yta |
pzvy5o | AITA For telling my brother to stop mooching off me and later kicking him out of my house? | I'm 32 and I have a brother named Jason (34). Jason got divorced two years ago with this woman he was really head over heels with. They met in their late twenties and Jason would always tell me he was having the best time of his life with this girl, that all changed one day when I got a call from Jason sobbing explaini... | 1,613.829787 | 18 | nta |
pzw59j | WIBTAH for telling my bf’s sibling to be more respectful of my belongings? | Me (F22) and my bf’s (m23) sibling (non binary they/them 20) don’t like each other. It’s obvious. Maybe I’m projecting because I used to be just like them, but I’m constantly angry with them.
We all work together at this one job, (it’s a traveling job) and we are constantly around each other so it gets intense, That ... | 17.391304 | 8 | nta |
pzwdt2 | AITA: For telling a couple I don’t like being around them when they argue often | Psa my grammar is not the strongest
Hello I’m a (22m) and my friends, (21f)(23m), always want to spend time together. I do thoroughly enjoy spending time with them even though I’m rather introverted. We hang out every few weeks because I don’t usually get weekends off and they do. I’ve taken vacations with them seve... | 30.882353 | 5 | nta |
pzwvju | AITA for telling my mum that she's the reason I'm going to be stressed out on my birthday? | I (17m) am turning 18 in a week or so and my mum was dead set of throwing me a party.
She was really disappointed when I told her that I didn't want to have an 18th birthday party. I have pretty bad anxiety and hate parties at the best of times, so the thought of a party being thrown for me is an absolute nightmare... | 137.209302 | 19 | nta |
pzwvqv | AITA for walking out of my SO’s friends get together party because I want to go home and sleep? | I work as a shift worker. I finished my 3 nights last Friday morning and had to go back to work Sat morning.
When I came back from work, my SO asked me if we can go to his friends house for a get together party. I told him I will be working in the Am shift again so we can’t stay late. He said we will go home before... | 156.521739 | 19 | nta |
pzx0xx | AITA for not wanting to lock up my 75 lb golden retriver? | So me and my roommate got a new kitten yesterday. We have put him in a room and secluded him from the other so we can slowly introduce the new cat to her first cat and my dog. My dog is VERY uninterested in cats. Like to the point he will not interact with them. To him they are just a fact of life.
So the cat has o... | 15 | 4 | nta |
pzx4nr | AITA for not pressing the elevator button soon enough | I got my hotel and went to the elevator with some dude riding my ass the whole walk there and the door elevators were beginning to close because a big family was already in there going up. I was like ok I’ll let it close and get going before pressing the button so it doesn’t just open back up to a full elevator and was... | 59.375 | 15 | nta |
pzxcay | AITA for dropping my son’s dog to his dad’s house and calling him “Mr. Important” when he tried to convince me to take him back because he had a meeting? | My ex only lives in the country that I live in with our son about 30% of the year and in 2020 he was only here in January. So, he never got to see our son for the majority of 2020. In October 2020, he bought him a dog without asking me and had it delivered to my house. I was furious and wanted to get rid of it, but my ... | 229.069767 | 11 | nta |
pzxhto | AITA for wanting my fiance to leave her family over cake? | My fiance recently had her birthday (she's 25 now) and it was the next morning and we had gotten hungry since we didn't eat a lot last night. This morning we went downstairs and got some cake and some leftover pasta salad (something healthy and something sweet) we were about to go back upstairs when her mom and sister ... | 308.333333 | 15 | nta |
pzxxt5 | AITA for refusing to invite my boyfriend to my sister Quinceañera? | I(19NB) have been recently going with my boyfriend (18M) for 5 months. My boyfriend and I are Hispanics and somewhat celebrate any Latino holidays ( His family are Christian’s while my family doesn’t really celebrate holidays like that.)
My younger sister (15 F) just turned 15 and we threw her quinceañera. My boyfri... | 151.25 | 18 | nta |
pzy3id | AITA for not helping my friend with his Bitcoin transactions? | My friend wanted me to do his Bitcoin transactions for him , I taught him already dozens of times how to transfer Bitcoin and how to use exchanges and how to cash out,
I taught him everything he needed , I saw him doing the transactions from of my eyes and me doing the transactions in front of his eyes and we did do... | 13.235294 | 3 | nta |
pzy3wa | AITA For wanting friends back to a shared flat on a Friday night | So a little background. I've spent the last year and a half living with a guy (we'll call him M) who I know very well, we were good friends before we moved in together and we have had a great rapport living together. We're really good friends and I had agreed to make some allowances for the sake of our continued flatma... | 34.482759 | 3 | yta |
pzygbg | AITA for giving away my wife's dog. | I 38M came back from work 4 week's ago to find out my wife 35 had picked up a stray puppy from the street's. My wife claims to be a dog lover and throughout our relationship we have had and have many dog's. I didn't have a problem with her rescuing the puppy but when she said she was going to keep it I was skeptical.
... | 1,275 | 17 | nta |
pzyjeo | WIBTA if I didn’t attend my parents’ family party because my toxic relative will be there? | My (41F) aunt (my father’s sister) and I had a falling out a couple of years ago over comments she made about my dad. These were comments on social media, but nevertheless, I was pissed and defended him in that public forum. Now, I am not close to this aunt (nor anyone on my dad’s side, really), and our only communicat... | 56.666667 | 9 | nta |
pzypxe | WIBTA if I refuse to stay at my in laws house? | This summer my wife and I got married, and my in-laws were nice enough to host it on their property. My initial idea was to get eloped but they insisted on throwing us a big wedding. My family contributed 50% of the budget and me and my best man spend several days working on the property to get everything ready.
My ... | 24.074074 | 11 | nta |
pzyy14 | WIBTA if I allowed my children to use electronics during a viewing | My grandmother passed away on Wednesday. She was my favorite person and was a very big part of our lives. This is the first loss my children have been old enough (8m and 10m) to observe and the first active person in their life to pass.
Tomorrow will be a private viewing for immediate family from 1-2, followed by f... | 62.5 | 3 | yta |
pzyymk | AITA for refusing to go to detention for something that I have no control over? | So I'm 16f. I only have 2 schoolbooks this year as the curriculum has been changed and most the books are different than what last years year group used so I can't find any second hand. My mother gets the cost of books subsidised somewhat but not enough that she can afford them and my dad always says he'll send me the ... | 3,219.791667 | 15 | nta |
pzyyvy | AITA for not letting my cousin keep my laptop | I recently got a laptop as a gift for a sports event I won from my father so I gave my old laptop to a close friend of mine whose family has been going through some financial troubles due to the pandemic.
Two days after that my mother asked for my old laptop. I told her that I had given it to my friend. Well that d... | 2,558.333333 | 17 | nta |
pzz26f | AITA for refusing to go with my family to a college football game? | I (25F) grew up in the northeastern US where professional sports were popular and not college. I also went to college in the northeast about a 2 hour drive from where I grew up that was not good at sports. My younger sister (22F) went to a college in the south with huge sports programs. Ever since she enrolled my entir... | 23.529412 | 5 | nta |
pzz2j6 | WIBTA if I changed my last name to my mom's maiden name when I turn 18 |
I miss him everyday
Me (15, genderfluid) and my dad (51m) haven't had the best of relationships, I keep giving him second chances and he keeps screwing up. When I was 4 he got addicted to alcohol and began to fuck up the family money , despite being a financial advisor for one thing. He has abused me and my m... | 52.857143 | 13 | nta |
pzz40h | AITA for ignoring my ex-friend? | Well over a year ago, I met someone on a discord server and we were pretty good friends. A few months go by, we actively talk, snap, call and everything is going good.
It's worth mentioning that I'm almost like a mother to her at that point in time. I always check up on her, care for her even after having been inval... | 10.869565 | 7 | nta |
pzz8y8 | AITA for not using my weekends to hangout with my boyfriend’s family? | I (26/F) have been dating my boyfriend for over 5 years now and we have our own apartment together. His family and I generally have a really nice relationship, even though I don’t see his dad as much since his parents are divorced. However, he’s a great guy. Anyways, his mom and her girlfriend are very pushy about want... | 14.583333 | 15 | nta |
pzzcng | AITA for asking my husband to pay more bills when I make more money? | On mobile, names and numbers changed.
My husband, Kyle, and I had an up and down start to the pandemic - he lost his job and got a new one making much less, I got a promotion making more. Not enough to cover all his lost wages, but enough.
His take home after taxes was about $800, mine is $1300 after health insur... | 20 | 3 | nah |
pzzg3e | AITA for wanting to sit out a birthday/thanksgiving get together with my in-laws? | What would you do?
I’m looking for advice on a situation with my family in law. I’m on my phone, so all the formatting stuff… blah blah blah
My husbands family and I have a strained relationship. After our last “visit” my husband and I decided there needed to be a conversation and a solution going forward. It obv... | 17.857143 | 4 | yta |
pzzgqf | AITA for Getting Mad at My Neighbor and Her Dog? | A few days ago, my husband and I were walking our dog to the neighborhood dog park. When we got there he immediately got excited because he saw another dog.
Our dog is small but 5 years old. His energy isn't as high as it was a couple years ago and sometimes others don't understand because of his size.
The neighb... | 14.285714 | 5 | nta |
pzzi10 | AITA for our dogs setting back a service dog's training for being off leash? | Context: we tried getting our dog trained by a dog trainer who frequented the park across the street from our house. Guy talked the talk but never said anything in regards to setting up a program for our boy and ignored us constantly.
We had a pitty who was not very socialized due to us being busy and we regret that... | 38.235294 | 11 | nta |
pzzj0c | WIBTA if I told my aunt and uncle my cousin was watching a violent show? | My (F21) cousin (F12) and I are friends on TikTok. She posted a video of her recording an episode of Squid Game at a friend's house. Someone in the video could be heard saying "cover your eyes" during a scene where multiple people are shot, but since my cousin was recording she most likely watched it anyway. For those ... | 59.090909 | 0 | yta |
pzzj71 | AITA for being annoyed with my friend and his girlfriend? | I want to state beforehand that we are all friends and I bare no ill will towards either of them. I'm also on mobile so I apologize for poor formatting
I've known this guy for all through high school 4+ years let's call him S. About a year ago he found a girlfriend who he is very happy with, we'll call her G.
Me ... | 12.5 | 2 | nta |
pzzkda | AITA for telling my ex I’d watch out son? | My ex and I share custody of our young son and there are often changes to who is responsible for him due to her work schedule. Back in May, I asked her if she’d be able to take one of my evenings (Oct 8) because there’s a concert I want to attend. She swapped shifts with a coworker minutes later and tells me we’re good... | 36.206897 | 4 | nta |
pzznts | AITA for saying I am a bit upset I didn't get a younger brother? | I (17m) have 3 sisters (15f, 12f, 4f), now I love them and they are wonderful but I am a little upset I didn't get a brother at all. Due to the it who shall not be named and some other life events none of the extended family were able to meet my youngest sister. And my family is making a big deal of how the last time t... | 31.25 | 12 | nta |
q001rc | AITA for not letting my husband go to work in my car after his latest drunk driving? | My husband 29m and I 28f, got into an argumen resulting in me telling him he cannot use the car anymore because I cannot trust him to not drink and drive. I am a stay-at-home mother with some mental health issues, he is a type 1 diabetic and alcoholic and is the only one financially supporting our family of 4, I had an... | 163.414634 | 15 | nta |
q009le | AITA - newly married, disagree on finances | Hi Reddit,
I want to get an outside opinion on this and will accept the result but I just need to see if I am either in the right or wrong here.
I got married in June and before I did I set expectations around finances as I have long term goals in mind to maximise my wealth and save well (as a result of growing up... | 333.333333 | 18 | nta |
q00fn7 | WIBTA If I told this girl the problem is her attitude? | My friend Greg (not real name, 30M) and I (30M) have been friends for little over half a decade, and became really close as we had a quite a few things in common, including our passion for cars. We encourage each other to go to car shows, browsing the web for classic cars, etc. Well. there's this woman that hangs out... | 42.857143 | 7 | nta |
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