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pyw4c3 | AITA for leaving money and tip on the table without going to the register at a diner ? | im on my phone sorry for errors.
i just went to a diner with my boyfriend and best friend and the check was $30.01 , were on a bit of a time crunch and we had cash so i put $35 on the table and we got up to go but suddenly they stopped in their tracks and said it was weird and wrong and awkwardly stayed by the fron... | 48.275862 | 7 | yta |
pyw7uk | AITA for being upset my eldest sister won't come to my wedding because of issues | My eldest sister has had 18 months to plan to attend my wedding (in another state). All she he to do was get here. We have a place for her to stay for free. She waited until late to send the rsvp back, and calls to tell us she can't make it because she needs to fix the floor and her adult grandson has to work and can't... | 18.181818 | 2 | nta |
pyw92u | AITA for wanting to go back to our hotel room during this Halloween in the park thing? | Me and my family are on vacation for my sweet 16. It’s super fun and I get to relieve some stress and have fun with my favorite cousin and my mom. Today we met up with my cousin, her son and her husband. It’s really going great no joke. But the problem is with tonight. Tonight is like a Halloween thing we’re people dre... | 8.823529 | 3 | nah |
pyw9v6 | WIBTA For telling my roomie/friend that I get annoyed with her daughter. | My boyfriend (28M) and myself (26F) live with one of my friends (28F) and she has a 3 year old daughter. Living with my friend had been going ok for the moment, and I didn't really think that there was any type of issue, but approximately 3 weeks ago she told me that she was leaving to another city (thing that she had ... | 14.705882 | 5 | nta |
pywbu4 | AITA for giving too honest / mean critique to another DM | Throw away account for AITA. The fish are fine they were re-homed with a friend if anyone was wondering
My (f30s) friend (m30s) invites me as a player to his campaign that he is DMing.
He says “I have a bunch of Newbies & they suck at RP. Can you help them?” I’m our forever DM of 8 years so sure. I’ve inducted Ne... | 13.095238 | 1 | esh |
pywfkc | AITA for expressing how I'm feeling to my depressed friend that I felt used by her?? | So for a little context: my now exfriend( who was my bestie for 8+ years), throughout the months of March to August used me as her support system when she was going through bad family issues. I let her call me and I made sure to always pick up to let her cry, rant or get her mind if things, let her text me whenever, an... | 7.142857 | 6 | nta |
pywkrr | AITA for saying it's only fair that my BF do more of the chores? | So, back around March of 2020, this lovely thing happened to the world that made everyone have to work from home. I was finishing up grad school to become a teacher, so it just ended my student teaching early, long story short, found a job at a school in a the city we lived in (fairly large west coast city) that I was... | 12.5 | 1 | nah |
pywktq | AITA for telling my younger sister to "grow up"? | I (22F) moved into my own apartment about three months ago. However, I do still see my mom (44F) and younger sister (16F) fairly often, and plan to continue to.
When I still lived with them, my main job was to take care of the kitchen (clean dishes, make dinner). Once I moved out, it was assumed (by me and my mom) t... | 52.941176 | 6 | nta |
pywlom | WIBTA if I cashed a check my dad sent me? | I haven’t seen my dad in 10+ years and I have no desire to see him or have any sort of relationship. It was recently my birthday and he sent me a $100 check. He sends be cards and letters all of the time and I always ignore them.
Normally, I’d ignore this one too and trash it, but I’m piss broke right now — like so... | 24 | 10 | nta |
pywm8l | AITA for wanting my wife to get rid of her niece's room? | My wife and I got married 6 months ago and my wife is 4 months pregnant.
My wife has a niece (5f). She was her niece's guardian from when the niece was 3 weeks old until her niece was almost 2. After she had to give her niece back to her brother and his girlfriend, she continued to watch her niece almost every day ... | 2,155.681818 | 16 | yta |
pywn3k | AITA for not wanting to accompany my parents to Disney World? | I(21M)live with my parents(66M, 63F)at home. I pay rent and help them out with odds and ends around the house. To give background on their characters, they are both starting to show signs of dementia (memory loss, forgetting names, where things are, irritability) and I've got it in my head that I'm probably going to be... | 59.756098 | 8 | nta |
pywty1 | AITA for not going to my sister's babyshower? | Okay I'm gonna speedrun the back story here. I (31 M) have a half sister (43 F) who recently gave birth to my first nephew. We share a dad who died two days before my first birthday and largely grew up on opposite sides of the US until she started law school and moved in with me and my mother ( 60 F). We had a decent r... | 30.645161 | 6 | nta |
pywvhi | AITA For calling out an acquaintance that called my friend a gaslighter? | Obligatory I'm on mobile so excuse the formatting.
TLDR: Acquaintance is offended she was not invited to a wedding, friend apologizes. Acquaintance brings it up a couple years later, and I call her out for accusing friends of gaslighting her.
I have an acquaintance, "Jenny", who tends to hold grudges for a while,... | 10 | 8 | nta |
pywvpg | WIBTA for "passive aggressively" leaving clothes out to dry at my apartment complex? | This is a super minor issue compared to all the major stuff in this subreddit.
I live in a shitty Hollywood area studio apartment with my partner til we can find a bigger place in lower LA. There is one small laundry room for a 30 apartment complex. The landlord and family take up two or three apartments themsel... | 12.5 | 2 | yta |
pywvtw | AITA for not wanting to celebrate my own birthday this year despite everyone in my family wanting to? | I'll be turning 24 soon, and my family keeps wanting to throw a celebration. For years I've been telling them that, in general, I don't like parties, especially when it comes to my birthday. The only times I compromise is for birthdays of significance, like 18 & 21, or in 5-10 year increments, 25, 30, 35, etc.
If they... | 17.647059 | 5 | nta |
pywy68 | AITA for going to bed? | Ok, saw that other post about a Patriots fan and had a VERY strong flash back, so now I have to see if I'm the jackass in my old relationship.
I am not a football fan, and have never been. I was involved with a Patriots fan for four years. It was...enlightening. I went to a bar with him for every Pats game, changed ... | 23.333333 | 13 | nta |
pyx0lm | AITA for being friends with him after she told me not to be? | My best friend Emily moved into a flat with 2 guys a few months ago, she was really excited about us all hanging out together. I’ve met them a few times and one of them I get along with particularly well, Jack.
So Jack and I talk occasionally on Instagram, responding to stories etc then gradually talk more and more... | 9.259259 | 4 | nta |
pyx1a9 | Aita? I wouldnt let in-laws see my baby | I (f18) am dating (m21) and we just had a baby together. She is 6 days old. My in-laws (her grandma) has spent the last year completely tearing me down. At first she was mad that her son was dating, then mad i moved in to her house, then got mad when i ended up pregnant, and the list goes on. She started talking poorly... | 106.097561 | 9 | nta |
pyx83o | AITA for pulling out my nintendo switch because my coworker was on her phone? | So my coworker was on the phone at work, on speaker, talking about house hunting or whatever, something I could hear word for word, very loudly.
While this was happening I pulled out my switch, trying to distract myself, I had forgotten my headphones this night, so I had nothing to listen to or do. (My switch was o... | 1,246.808511 | 16 | nta |
pyx95d | AITA for not wanting to pay to see my friend? | My SO and I used to frequently go to “Akira’s” sushi restaurant. It was expensive, and I have the debt to prove it.
Akira’s restaurant had to close due to the pandemic, so things have been tight for him.
We’ve seen him a few times at his apartment since his restaurant closed, and he always charges us $50 each so ... | 29.72973 | 6 | nta |
pyx989 | AITA for doing what I want instead of what my mom wanted? | So, context first (if I reach the word count I’m happy to answer questions in comments/add in edits):
My mom (52) is very much a traditionalist. Women should have long hair, be in the home/a teacher/dress modestly. LGBT people should keep it on the super down-low
Im (23AFAB) what my mom would call a “bleeding hea... | 165.909091 | 18 | nta |
pyx9vs | AITA for not telling my mother a private matter between me and my girlfriend? | My mom is acting extremely hostile after I did not tell her why I am not visiting my girlfriend a lot at this moment in time. It is an extremely private matter and I didn't think she need know the details. I said I did not want to share the reason and that it is private between her and me.
Additional info I share a ... | 62.195122 | 14 | nta |
pyxgmz | AITA for calling out my dad's sham of a marriage? | A little context. My parents have long since been divorced for over 20 years and since that time dad has been married two times with his current wife being stepmom#2. I am a point with my relationship with them to never visit them or go somewhere in a social setting with them as I can never find a time where they were ... | 113.75 | 13 | nta |
pyxiwm | AITA for giving some tough love to my husband who lost his job recently | So I recently got married and a few days after my husband got fired from his job. Of course he was saddened by the abrupt news but for me deep down I had a feeling it was coming. How? Because he had a meeting with his boss twice befire about his performance. There weren’t formal writeups but more of a “talking to”. I w... | 278.04878 | 11 | yta |
pyxkcu | WIBTA for not giving my friend my notes? | I [21F] have a friend [22F] who constantly asks me for my notes in a class we have together. I am very strict with school, I always do my work on time and I spend most of my day studying. I have a friend who always says she is likeminded and also has high academic hopes. We share one biology class together and right b... | 18.965517 | 13 | nta |
pyxmhn | AITA Waking the landlady | Hey all.
I’ve been living in my apartment with my husband for the last 3 years. Over the last 6 months, I have graduated college with a MLT degree and started a job at a busy hospital close to where I live. Recently, my hours have changed where I work second shift (which is between 2:30-11pm), so I get home later ... | 8 | 2 | nah |
pyxvpu | AITA for paying in change and then laughing at the cashier for getting mad about it? | So this story is lot less serious compared to the other ones that are told here but when i tell it to friends/family they think I'm in the wrong so might as well ask reddit.
So this was probably a year ago and I planned on doing some late night studies to catch up on this class. My teachers knew that students would... | 276.25 | 14 | nta |
pyxyxi | AITA for not going to my finance's cousin's rehearsal dinner to attend a concert? | Let me preface this by saying we are going to 3 others weddings together in the next couple of months.
Okay so my fiance's cousin is getting married in a couple weeks, and due to unfortunate timing I can't go to the wedding because one of my oldest friends is getting married the same day, 6 hours away. Both weddings... | 21.73913 | 2 | esh |
pyy3gx | AITA For ruining my girlfriend's good day? | The good day starts with me asking her to get some stuff done around the house while I'm at work. Cleaning the bathroom and laundry and such. We have a little date night planned after I get home.
She gets all the stuff done around the house, showers, dresses up for date night, and I pick her up right after work. Sh... | 19.047619 | 13 | nta |
pyym84 | AITA for Making My Child Clean? | So my husband and I have a daughter, let’s call her Jenny. Jenny is 6 years old and loves to take things that do not belong to her. Recently, Jenny decided to take our cats litter box and dump it in her room. I scolded her for this and made her learn how to use a vacuum to clean it up, when normally I or my husband cle... | 1,210.638298 | 17 | nta |
pyyopk | AITA for not wanting to do a ton of landscaping for my mother? | To start off: my mom has been wanting to get a pool in her backyard for years, this year she finally bit the bullet and after a few setbacks (ultimately paying a bit more than originally expected for the installation + concrete.) it’s finally finished.
She now wants to redo a bunch of landscaping in the yard by the... | 15.789474 | 4 | nta |
pyyvpp | AITA for not telling my son his true parentage? | 19 years ago in a rocky part of our relationship, my (41M) wife (41F) had a short lived affair in a country we no longer live in that resulted in a pregnancy. She was extremely remorseful and apologetic and has gone above and beyond since then to regain my trust, on top of which we previous attended therapy over this; ... | 341.666667 | 19 | yta |
pyz75s | AITA for blaming my dad for my mental health issues? | I've been going through some rough depression, stress, anxiety, and insecurity and stuff lately. I feel like it's all coming from my dad, and honestly my relationship with him was never that good. Now I'm in college, and my life is still struggling because of him. Every time he calls me he's very naggy and hypercritica... | 18.181818 | 6 | nta |
pyzafx | AITA for my talking bothering my roommate? | Ok so a bit of context, in mid/late 2020 my friend that I had known for the past decade through video games was telling me that they were looking for a roommate to help pay their rent. At the same time, I was looking for an out to move away from toxic family so I took up their offer and moved to their state. Fast forwa... | 5.882353 | 5 | nta |
pyzck9 | AITA for posting about my girlfriend | I'm not one for social media, not unless it's like a big event or something special. My girlfriend and I( both of us are 21) just celebrated our 1 year anniversary. She put up a post about me, it was really affectionate, sentimental, loving. I figured I should do one do.
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She posted a throwback of us on ... | 56.818182 | 18 | yta |
pyzfbt | AITA for wanting my parking spot back?? | I (f18) moved into a house a few months ago ,I rent a room, and part of the agreement is that I get a parking spot in the driveway since it’s just my roommate and I living in the house. I work at a restaurant and usually don’t get off work till 12-1am we live in a very crowded neighbourhood where we’re one of the few h... | 296.875 | 16 | nta |
pyzhdp | AITA, for not wanting to read someone's fan fic and ignoring them | You'll have to forgive me, I've never made a post or used Reddit all that much.
I'm a bit socially inept and don't like fandom spaces (just don't have any interest). I swear I don't think fandom people are cringey or losers - but I want nothing to do with them. To me it's annoying. and I just don't understand social... | 7.142857 | 5 | nta |
pyzjyt | AITA for not wanting to delay my wedding? | TLDR: Wedding delayed once before due to future MIL travelling to UK and not wanting to possibly miss out wedding. Now due to stricter covid restritions, latest planned wedding can only be done without mothers present. Future MIL wants to delay again to not miss out first and only son's wedding. I dont want to delay ag... | 19.354839 | 4 | nta |
pyzk8v | AITA for telling my neighbours to “shut up”? | Context: I am 14 years old, go to a good school and my family is mostly ok with money. This is only because my mom and dad works very late into the night.
So I was at home and my parents just came back. (It was around 2 am) they were very tired. I, of course was studying as I had an exam coming up soon. My parents ... | 42.592593 | 5 | nta |
pyzs4m | AITA for refusing to poop at my boyfriend’s house? | I’d like to preface this by although this sounds fake, I swear to god it’s not. If only I knew I’d be living out my own poop knife story those months ago when I read it. I don’t even know if I should mark this NSFW.
Okay so my bf and I (I’m 18 and he’s 19) hang out often at his house where he lives with his brother... | 43.181818 | 9 | nta |
pyztr9 | AITA for kicking my mother out of the house for disrespecting my husband after i put my house in his name instead of her name? | I (41M) and my husband (30M) have been married for 5 years now. To give some context, my parents are very wealthy and conservative but thankfully they were never homophobic. When i first started dating my husband he was around 24, my parents never approved him. I thought they didn’t accept him because he was a man or b... | 616.25 | 7 | esh |
pyzwly | AITA for getting someone fired? | Title sounds bad, but hear me out.
So every year on halloween my friends and I go to this big party, we dress up and have fun, all that jazz. So effectively every year I make sure to seperate an appointment that day at 8am (opening time) for eyebrows, hair, and nails. I always make this appointment with months in ad... | 4,477.659574 | 18 | nta |
pz0gh2 | AITA for wanting my friend to buy a piece of furniture? | My 2 friends and I share a 3 bedroom apartment. My family lives close by, and I brought a lot of furniture that had been in storage from my parent’s house- a TV stand, rug, TV, sound system, and also a lot of pots/pans/kitchen stuff. My parents also bought me a couch as a moving-in gift. Basically the apartment is more... | 15.789474 | 7 | nta |
pz0o44 | AITA for walking out on dinner with my gf's parents after they said my brother and his husband weren't good role models? | I'm (19M) and I was a late in life baby. My older brother (38M) was 19 when I was born. Our parents died in a car accident when i was about 6/7 and ever since then my older brother and his partner now my BIL got custody of me and raised me. They were the best dads I could ever have and they always did they're best to t... | 17,802.173913 | 19 | nta |
pz0von | AITA for selling my friend’s concert ticket? | My friend (A) and I (B) had planned to go to a concert together. I had bought the tickets a couple of months in advance and she had paid me for it via Venmo.
Our friendship started becoming a little turbulent because I had started seeing someone (C) and my friend (A), I suspect, had developed feelings for me. I had ... | 86.111111 | 10 | nta |
pz0yf4 | AITA for telling a friend shes not going with us to hoco? | I ran into this semi close friend at the store on Sunday(9/26). Before I continue some key info to know is that a couple days before I had ran into her she had been saying that she would not be going to our schools hoco and that it would be “bad”. The day before I even ran into her she went to another schools hoco. She... | 18.181818 | 1 | nta |
pz1fzh | AITA for going on my phone during work? | Hi everyone,
Please give me your thoughts on this situation. So I work from home mostly and sometimes go to the office for work. I dislike going there because a lot of people just chit chat and don't get much done. I seen people stand at each other's desks for 20-30 Mins. They stand at each other's desk and speak ab... | 18.421053 | 3 | nta |
pz1lqh | AITA for agreeing to be MOH? | One of my best friends (A) is getting married in November. They rented a cute b&b for the ceremony. I know that I’m not A’s BEST friend but we are close. Her best friends live out of state. She came to me about 8 months ago and asked me to be her MOH. I was 12 weeks pregnant at the time. She told me that she totally un... | 59.677419 | 18 | yta |
pz1o7l | AITA for not wanting to do my sister’s chores? | So tomorrow I (f20) am leaving for the weekend to attend a wedding with my husband. A few weeks ago my sister (f18) agreed to paint my nails for me if I helped her revise a paper for her college course and I did. She never got around to painting my nails until tonight when I told her I really wanted them done for the w... | 21.875 | 3 | nta |
pz1qv3 | AITA for telling my sister's boyfriend he doesn't deserve her? | I'm 24 male and my sister also 24 are twins. We have been close our entire lives, if she moved so did I and we would live together. It helped with money so she didnt have to pay the whole rent. Well a year ago she started seeing Dan 26m. He wasnt bad starting off until he learned that I wasnt biologically male. We were... | 4,261.904762 | 12 | nta |
pz1tdp | AITA For wanting to spend our anniversary on the date itself and not the date before? | So for context: my girlfriend and I have our one year anniversary on Tuesday the 19th of October, we have a week long holiday then so we both don’t have school. I was planning on surprising her with going to a hotel and spending the whole day of the 19th with her because that is our anniversary date. Instead her parent... | 14.285714 | 4 | nah |
pz1xv4 | AITA for kicking out my fiance and by extension his family for the night ? | Me (23F) and my fiance (25M) have been together for 2 yrs now and we got engaged last year. He's met my parents and my younger brothers and I've met his , but our families hadn't met each other until recently.
Our wedding is a week away next Saturday and his family came down to stay with mine Monday to help set ... | 4,789.361702 | 18 | nta |
pz2c75 | WIBTA for continuing to enable my sister’s toxic behaviors? | I (23F) have an older sister (31F) who I love and adore. For a bit of back story, we both share the same mom, with whom we were primarily raised by, but have different dads. Due to circumstances I don’t really want to get into, her only stable male-figure was our grandfather who died in 2009. As well, when our mom and ... | 5.882353 | 3 | nta |
pz2f2i | AITA for stepping down as Maid of Honour? | **Back story on our relationship:** We met when I started working for my current job a couple of years back. Kinda hit it off. She joined my running group and that was the only time we saw each other outside of work. Within 5/6 months of knowing each other she asked me to be her MoH, I was flattered/surprised but accep... | 76.315789 | 11 | nta |
pz2jkg | AITA: My friend asks me to do things for her that she can easily do | My (21F) friend and roomate (23F) has frequently been asking me to do favors for her that either she can easily do, or would be even more taxing for me to do.
For example, I get home from a 9-5 about a half hour earlier than her everyday, but usually have to lay down, because of my narcolepsy, or am just busy doin... | 40.322581 | 15 | nta |
pz2su3 | AITA for reporting neighbour for PHO breach? | Firstly, I didn’t do it straight away it was only after they were taking the absolute piss. They are constantly making noise day in day out where it became more than normal noise. And they were having 4-5 visits from multiple people daily.
I have a baby whose sleep was being constantly interrupted due to the music, b... | 10.869565 | 2 | nta |
pz2t09 | AITA for blowing up at my cousin and aunt for using my vr headset? | I (15f) am a huge gamer, I own a lot of things that are used for playing video games, like a ps4 and a vr headset. I don’t really like people touching my things because last time I Let my cousin use my things he broke them, a few weeks ago my cousins came over with my aunt and my grandparents, I specifically told my mu... | 34.482759 | 18 | nta |
pz2tls | AITA for not letting a new employee eat during his computer training? | I'm an assistant manager in a fast food restaurant and we need employees badly.
We recently hired this young gentleman who was an hour late for his computer training today because his other job kept him later than normal. He said he tried to call but no one picked up.
He put in his two week notice today but I to... | 312.5 | 15 | yta |
pz2u3k | AITA for blowing up on my friend for saying I was using my autism as an excuse? | I am an autistic man who will often times hyperfixate on my writing. This really shows whenever I get into a scene that I really enjoy writing, and after I'm done, I'll share it with my friends because I like sharing things that excite me.
Well, a friend and I have gotten into a huge fight because in those moments w... | 53.571429 | 3 | yta |
pz2wde | AITA for expecting my sister to help me with homework | I know the title sounds bad but let me explain what type of person my sister is. So she is 21 and lives at home with me and our parents. She used to be a good student and went to college out of state but when Covid happened she transferred to the nearby college and lives at home. She doesn’t have a job she never leaves... | 205.555556 | 16 | yta |
pz33zq | WIBTA For flushing my toilet paper? | Long time lurker, first time poster. I'm using a throwaway account because my username is one I use on different platforms.
I know this sounds like a really weird question but it is honestly keeping me up. I'm a college student and I moved into a different, on-campus apartment this year. Everything's going really we... | 15.789474 | 3 | nah |
pz34ol | WIBTA for not taking my kid to her grandparents' house (in-laws)? | It's Friday afternoon and it's 12:30pm. And my in laws want my kid to come over this weekend (Friday-Sunday). That's ok and usually won't mind but this Friday/today (4pm) and tmrw (10am), my kid has her assessment/tests one to one over zoom call.
My in-laws had called my husband earlier for our daughter to spend the... | 57.142857 | 5 | nta |
pz37jj | AITA For being “controlling” around sleep? | I’ve (F34) have been with my boyfriend (M53) for three years, we see each other often but we don’t live together and that suits us both fine.
However, he has this habit of getting up to use the bathroom and then just wandering around for a bit, usually I don’t mind too much, it’s a little annoying because I’m a light... | 8 | 12 | nta |
pz3a2y | AITA - I’m stressed/grieving and forgot about a friends bbq | I have a friend and she has been there for me a lot this past year. I feel like I’ve just been this hot mess express. I haven’t asked anything of her - but she has just simply been there for me and shown up in so many ways. I am very grateful for her.
I started a business and it’s been like a rollercoaster of emoti... | 20.833333 | 3 | yta |
pz3byt | AITA For bluntly telling a friend my opinion on a band. | So, first off I apologize as I’m on mobile and this is my first time posting.
So me and a friend who I will call L have been friends for 7 years now and L had asked me for my opinion on Steam powered Giraffe as it’s one of their favorite bands. I had asked her if she wanted the honest blunt truth, to which she said... | 22.413793 | 9 | nta |
pz3gqu | AITA for telling a little girl to shut up and that I wished the party was over because she laughed at me in pain? | So I attended a party. I was the second oldest one there (14 years old) there was this other 14 year old girl who was a few months older than me and another girl who was 9. My parents were at a beer festival and me and the other kids would stay home, but go out to the playground occasionally. One of the times we went o... | 20 | 1 | nah |
pz3vrq | AITA for pretending not to hear my manager? | Okay yes it sounds bad.
Am I the asshole for not responding to my manager/pretending not to hear her when she calls out to me but doesn't use my name?
For context, the manager has been working with me for 2 and 1/2 weeks, my name is somewhat difficult but she was getting right on her first week and after that, a... | 17.857143 | 7 | nta |
pz3z4l | AITA for not wanting to sleepover at my in-laws house? | I've been living with my partner now for around 3 years, in the same city he grew up in. His parents live around 8 miles away from us on the other side of the city, it takes around 30-50 minutes to travel there depending on your choice of transport.
I'm a fairly introverted person in that I like being in my own spa... | 45 | 15 | nta |
pz407s | AITA for not telling my sister anything that I'm interested in? | Whenever my sister asks what I listen to, I just reply "oh, this band that i just discovered." Or "what are you watching?" "just this show that I like." I didn't even realized that it was bothering her until she called me a gatekeeper! I really wasn't aware and maybe I am the asshole for not telling her the exact names... | -0 | 2 | nah |
pz47t4 | AITA for being upset with my wife for smoking in bed | Necessary background information: I’m 52, quit smoking 3 1/2 years ago. Wife is 56, been trying to quit for six or seven years. When I’m home, she usually only smokes in the bathroom.
I should mention that I sleep next to the window and she sleeps closer to the door. We have a fan in the window which can pull air in... | 184.146341 | 17 | nta |
pz49v5 | AITA for telling my friend she could not get a dog, even if it was an ESA? | My friend(A) has been living with me for free for the past year and a half because the building she lived in was condemned.
I own the house we live in.
A has anxiety and wants to get a dog. I told her that no dog would be in my house, and she said that was unfair.
She said since there's no real reason(aller... | 3,632.978723 | 18 | nta |
pz4cmo | AITA for wanting to be diagnosed (with or without) ADHD? | (Context: I[17F] live with my mother[47F] and my little brother[11M] and I am gifted, not her, maybe him)
I discovered thanks to the testimonials of people who have ADHD on the internet, that I perhaps had it too (and my little brother too).
To be sure I would like to see a psychologist for a diagnosis and to know ... | 45.652174 | 2 | nah |
pz4dmx | AITA for threatening to move out over a bathroom? | I(28m) and my sister (30f) both recently fell into financial/ relationship issues around the same time and decided to share a 2br 2bath apartment. The master bedroom has its own bathroom suite and is my sister's room. I have a slightly smaller room and use the second bathroom. We split the rent 60/40 because she has... | 1,508.333333 | 18 | nta |
pz4h27 | AITA for refusing to show gratitude to a younger brother who helped me re-write a CV? | In June 2019 I graduated from uni with engineering, late bloomer at 30 years old. I did a CV draft and sent it to the careers department at uni who said it was looking good, maybe a few minor changes here and there.
My younger brother of 26 offered to ‘proof read’ what I had which I thought was nice of him. He took ... | 37.5 | 4 | nta |
pz4isx | Aita for not wanting to pay rent for a place I was being kicked out of? | This happened around 2 years ago, my partner (21M) and I (21F) were flatting with a bunch of friends we made while in the student halls at university. There were 7 of us in a 6 bdrm. The other girls were a lot closer to each other than me but it was ok, I didn't enjoy the things they used to and I'm pretty introverted.... | 44.285714 | 4 | nta |
pz4s8u | AITA For Being Annoyed With My Girlfriend For Never Going Out With Me/ Meeting New People | I feel like this title makes this issue seem menial- and it is in the grand scheme of my relationship. My girlfriend (21/F/Sag) and I (21/F/Sag) have been going out for 6 months and we are really happy together. I am definitely a little bit more outgoing than she is, but we both struggle with social anxiety- especiall... | 25 | 2 | yta |
pz4zsb | AITA inviting my sister's ex to my wedding and telling my sister to deal with it? | He is my fiancée's best friend. They grew up together and are incredibly close. He is a stand up guy who was way too good for my sister. They had a pretty bad breakup because she cheated on him and then got mad at him for breaking up with her and wrecked his apartment.
My sister asked me if he was invited and I sai... | 2,563.829787 | 16 | nta |
pz543c | AITA for not inviting my friend to dinner? | Me (34f) and my best friend Carly (34f) have been friends from our early teenage years. Carly has another best friend Sabrina (34f) who she has known from a younger age. Over the years we've often hung out together, go out clubbing, for meals etc. So even though Sabrina started off being Carly's friend she became my fr... | 17.647059 | 4 | nta |
pz56pe | AITA for refusing to apologize to my friends who canceled our vacation 2 days prior? | ​
Last June me(18f) and my friends A(18f) and B(17f) planned a trip to the beach for late August. We spent hours searching for a motel and then some more time to be sure that everything is in order (Covid tests-all three of us are vaccinated, money for paying in advance etc.). Because all of us have already p... | 384.090909 | 15 | nta |
pz5adu | WIBTA if I told my brother he shouldn't take the inheritance money? | I have a very large family, 8 siblings.
On my moms side, she is the oldest of 8, so that means my grandparents on my moms side have a lot of grandchildren. 40 to be exact. They already aren't well off, so the likelihood of them leaving anyone, anything, is very unlikely.
On my dad's side however, my siblings and... | 71.428571 | 10 | nta |
pz5c5l | AITA for wanting my husband to drive my kids to school? | I (41F) have three kids (14F, 16M and 18M). The youngest two are still in school. We live out of district from their schools, so they have to be driven in. 16M doesn’t have his license yet (delayed due to Covid, working on it), so he can’t bring them. 18M son was driving them to and from for pay, but he got another... | 115 | 13 | nta |
pz5lsk | AITAH for not paying to the technician that came to fix and fixed my windows? | Okay, I know it doesn't sounds too good and even if I may not the AH, even then I still consider paying the guy for his work, but please, hear me first.
Around 5 years ago I hired someone (very small business, just the owner and whoever he use for the installations) to close an open wall and put two sliding windows ... | 16 | 9 | nta |
pz5lus | AITA For telling my Mother I don't celebrate her for mothers day because she abandoned my sister and I? | So this happened a while back this year but has recently come up in conversations.
Just abit of backstory. My father was already out of the picture by the time I was born and my sister and I are half sister (different fathers) and my sisters father was present in her life until he passed away. However we were mostly... | 1,406.382979 | 18 | nta |
pz5wnu | AITA for sending an email instead of conforting my parents directly? | I've (22f) changed collages (maths). I hated my first college (medicine). That decision hurt my parents and were very angry. I've written down what I planned to tell them.
I figured out that I can send them that instead of telling them. First time I've told them this they have totally flipped out and insulted me lik... | 14.285714 | 10 | nta |
pz5xtl | AITA for yelling and then my dad telling me to quit my game | Okay let's start from the start, for some context.
I've (17M) been getting in trouble recently for being on my computer in my room (sitting at my desk which you can clearly see from my open door) because when I was like 11 I would watch YouTube in my room without my Dad's permission and so the permanent consequence fr... | 33.333333 | 4 | esh |
pz5y68 | AITA for driving 10 meters into walk way for work related stuff? | So I was working, and something came up on the walkway. I had to pick up some bikes, and load them into my van. Instead of parking 50 meters away, I slowly backed up into the walkway where the bikes were, and loaded them in. Keep in mind I left enough space for bicycles, and pedestrians to walk past and did NOT block t... | 24.137931 | 9 | yta |
pz699d | AITA for stringing along a guy I don’t want anymore? |
I’ve been back for 2 days and we haven’t seen each other since and only texted briefly
Different feelings after vacation
Me and this guy have been on several dates and it became pretty clear that we were heading into a relationship.. we just hadn’t had the talk yet. Then I left for vacation. I had planned on b... | 25 | 9 | yta |
pz6fa8 | AITA for asking why only one baby is IG famous? | So a girl who circles our friend group, “Hannah”, recently sent me a request to follow her new baby’s Instagram.
For some background, Hannah has two older boys from a past relationship, and two young children from her current marriage - “Joe” and “Emma”. Joe is only a year older than Emma. Hannah said she always wa... | 2,776.086957 | 17 | nta |
pz6fg9 | AITA for doing a group project individually | I'm in a CNC machining class and we are on our final projects in a group setting. I am in a group with 2 other people. 1 guy in my group is currently working as a cnc lathe operator and has an ego bubble bigger than the moon and the other guy is notoriously late everyday.
Egoman never lifts a finger "because I alre... | 31.818182 | 10 | nta |
pz6o3l | AITA for saying my ex is successful because of nepotism? | My ex and I are expecting a baby, so he accompanied me a few days ago to my appointment. As we were driving home, we made small talk and he brought up the fact that I was considering opening an online baking business with my friend. He basically was telling me it was a bad idea because the market was so saturated, and ... | 3,544.444444 | 4 | esh |
pz6w3t | AITA for tracing art and giving credit. I never plan on posting it | So I found a picture off the internet while looking to draw something for fun and so I used it for tracing and color reference. When I showed it to my freinds no one had a problem now two freinds are saying what I did was wrong and that I stole an artist's work. I am simply posting this to get artists opinions on wheth... | 20 | 17 | nta |
pz74mz | AITA For Not Giving Up My Increment? | Not in US.
Background: I (30F) have been working in a company and last yr, due to COVID, they announced increment and promotion freeze as part of cost-saving measure in exchange of no retrenchment (and they did keep the promise). However this year, our revenue exceed expectation with the gradual reopening so there w... | 2,284.042553 | 17 | nta |
pz785l | AITA for not paying for my friend’s gold membership. | I started game sharing with my friend over the summer cus i was under the impression he was going to game share back with me. We both go to college so when school started he started using the xbox less. Apparently when you gameshare it also gives the other person your gold membership/gamepass. My friend told me yesterd... | 60 | 12 | nta |
pz7gwk | AITA for Not Attending My Sister’s Birthday Party? | My sister and I are super close. It’s currently her birthday and she planned a family get together dinner (I celebrated with her on the actual day, September 30th, by the way). She invited a cousin (we'll use "S") that we both have problems with (self destructive, stubborn, and selfish) because S reached out and said “... | 61.764706 | 5 | nta |
pz7i47 | AITA for telling my mother that she was never there for me. | So, my relationship with my mother has been a long and tiring 17 years. To make a long story short my mother was never really there for me emotionally growing. She always worked and provided but she wasn't really ever involved mentally, she was always at work and when she came home she did her own thing and as a r... | 38.636364 | 6 | nta |
pz83bm | AITA for spending money without telling my husband | Throwaway because my main is obviously me. So my husband (40)m and I (25)f share a bank account. There are three kids in the house including my newborn (I didn’t take any maternity just kept working, I am also the baby’s exclusive caregiver, he does stuff for older kids) A few pieces of information, I started a busines... | 8,628.26087 | 16 | nta |
pz849u | AITA for favoring one niece over my other nieces and nephews? | I (25) F have a niece (6) from my older sister (32).
I heard through the family vine my sister was pregnant, so I reached out to her to congratulate her but she didn’t seem all interested in her pregnancy. After she gave birth she signed over my niece to the fathers side of the family and moved on with her life. L... | 15,295.652174 | 19 | nta |
pz8frb | AITA for calling my mother homophobic? | I (F19) am a closeted lesbian, my mother (F55) thinks I’m bisexual but hopes and wants me to end up with a man.
We don’t have the best relationship. Today she complained how we aren’t close friends and I told her that my friends have nothing against same sex couples adopting.
She got offended and told me she do... | 902.272727 | 15 | nta |
pz8jf0 | WIBTA if I told off my coworker? | I work at a warehouse, stuff is constantly breaking down. This week, I've worked 12 hrs every day. Yesterday, I was throwing 60 lbs bags from one belt to the next for about 4 hrs. Then I had to help stack 25 lbs boxes for a few hours. Then I had to shovel up the mess for 2 hrs. My last 4 hours, I was back to shoveling ... | 13.157895 | 1 | nta |
pz8orv | AITA for being upset that my mom used my money without my permission? | I, 15F, am pretty upset at my (49F) mom for using my money. I'd misplaced about 63$ 6 months ago, and during a rough spot in money, found it. We'd been planning to spay our cat, so I told her about it and asked if we could use it for that. She agreed, and we set it in a drawer so we didn't accidentally use it. The thin... | 417.44186 | 17 | nta |
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