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{
"role": "user",
"content": "They just want to stress somebody, that’s the one they are doing now"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ah ah! That day I was surprised, I say shoo Tobe!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "If you were in the house will he cook that day?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You say?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "If you were in the house will he cook that day?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "No nah, what’s up?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ehhhen you see… even my younger brothers, that’s how they do ooo. Even, see eh, there is one habit now I’m, I’m, I’m certain I’m going to likely have when I, when I marry. For me to wake up and cook in the morning to prepare eh breakfast is very difficult for me."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Why?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Because my brothers, my younger ones, they are already use to, my sister cannot enter the kitchen in the morning, so let’s go and look for something to eat."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Something to eat."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That’s what they do ooo. They are the ones that, that, are fixing themselves up, as far as I’ve cooked in the evening and there’s food in the house; you can go and warm and eat food. When in the afternoon maybe there is no food now, maybe I’m busy, I went to work, they will prepare something, in the evening I will come back and cook. But that morning, that time I will rest, I will now go and prepare something for one person ah! My younger ones, if it’s me, it’s very, very hard o."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Hmmm. But you need to change it o…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That’s one thing. I’ve tried to…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because, If you have a child that has to leave for school very early, as early as 7"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Don’t I use to prepare food in the morning before I go to school? But they are, they are using it to torment me, me I’m now using it against them. In the morning, they use to stress somebody"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "I don’t know why the younger ones are always like that sometimes"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Well, if my daddy is around, I use to prepare food for him, but it's my, me and my younger one; No, everybody go and hustle for yourself"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You’re the first child?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Hmmm! I’m the only girl o and they use to suffer me"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Hmm, hmmmm… how many boys?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "4"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Oh my God!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "They use to disturb me a lot o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "So, I don’t know, say all this younger ones and their wahala sometimes…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Seriously, I can’t even send all of them message and they don’t use to obey o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "As in…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "They don’t have anything to offer them"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They will now be one to using height, they want to…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o, heights to…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "… start using height to intimidate you"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Anonymous, I don’t even talk when my, our… last born…, I told him to help me wash just two clothes, Do you know that he didn’t wash it, he told that there’s no water and he didn’t wash it, I … wash it yesterday before i came."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You can’t imagine"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Shey you see! I can’t send them, if I, if I want to send them, I have to put money on top"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Sometimes, it's me, I will now have to like put so much pressure. No be me go cook food? No be, na me go cook food, come and chop the food wey I cook nah"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "My parents no go even gree sef"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "I pray! Okay nah! My parents, my parents will shout o. They will quarrel but so far you don’t do the work wey I tell you say make you do, that’s just it"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That my brothers can frustrate"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They, that time, they hear, dem dey hear am..., that time when we were staying with Anonymous, that we’ll, they will tell us to do housework coz errm, especially on Saturdays like this, we will wash eh, we’ll, I will wash clothes and that time, my cousins were still living with us; that my uncle’s two children were living with us, my plus my parents; my mummy and my daddy will bring their own clothes, I will wash plus my cousin’s own, that’s clothes for many people. I will still sweep, I will still mop, I will still cook, the plates Anonymous will wash, he will not wash, I will still wash it because if he does not wash the plate he will now ask me question like, what are you a senior for?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That’s the, that was how, if he’s…, he also ask me what I’m a senior for, It will now pain me. The one that will burst my head is… Are you not the girl in the house?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Can you imagine? So, because you’re a girl…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Hmmm. That’s, that’s what my mummy use to say . Are you not, who be girl, na dem go marry follow you? Say las, las, dem go carry one girl come. The thing is annoying"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Yeah but, it’s not encouraging at all"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "No, it’s not o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because even they themselves, they will now be living their own life on their own with laxity; they will not be able to do housework."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "See, see, see, see Anonymous I’m staying with now, when I came that first time for clearance, the bathroom hmmm? He didn’t wash it, I was the one that washed it. It was when Tessy even used the bathroom, Tessy said that this toilet is itching her, I washed it. I tell you, since that time I left, about four weeks ago, they’ve not washed that toilet. Yesterday I came, when there was water, I washed that toilet around eh after three"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "In the morning?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I dey tell you. When they were… I was fetching water; I have to wash that toilet."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Jesus!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I wash the toilet, I came, see… the room was very dirty and he knew, he knows I was coming o, he didn’t sweep. I have to sweep yesterday and I swept it this morning. Even those girls, that, those girls staying for…this boy’s house, Victor’s house that time said your room is very dirty ooo, your kitchen is very neat o()"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You can imagine"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "your kitchen is very neat o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "If it’s Victor that is there, he will be able to clean the house on his own eh, but now that is the younger brother, he’s not able to do it"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Nothing! Because he’s already use to that life nobody use to…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "He’s use to it that Victor and the senior ones will do the housework"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Do all the work. That’s just it."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "The same thing, even this one at home too, for them to do housework; problem o. You will faint, talk, talk…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "My dear, to even wash their own clothes sef, especially our second to last born is wahala."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Dem know before ah if you don’t wash your cloth me I will not, how old are you?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Me, wash their cloth…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "At your age, I was already washing the cloth of everybody. As at when I was … I could wash the cloth of everybody in the house like 8 clothes."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Not now again , not now again. Me, the only people’s cloth I used to wash in my house is only my mummy’s cloth or maybe my daddy’s own, that’s all. All those ones…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "As far as, as far as is my parent’s clothes; I will wash but those grown up big mamas and papas that all they love to be married"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Even to wash bath, bathroom and toilet, my brothers they don’t do it o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They cannot"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I travelled to the Benin two weeks, they left the bathroom for me to come back and wash it"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You can imagine"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yeaheee!"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Seriously!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "When I entered the place I said me, I cannot enter this, I had to go, to go and use Anonymous’s bathroom to bath. I closed my eyes, managed, looked for slippers to go and wash that bathroom before I was comfortable because anything dirty eh, my body will start itching me"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "It will be irritating you"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "My body will be ... just start itching you. A bin remove the bed sheet since that time, Anonymous did not wash that bed sheet"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Did not wash"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I told Anonymous this bed sheet is scenting sweat o, wash it nah; he said he will wash it. This boy washed his clothes, he did not wash the bed sheet.You know what I did, I just carry one cloth from my bag just put my head on the floor like this and raise my head on the bed; na so I take sleep till day break o, just to because so I will not perceive anything"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because he’s use, he’s used to it at home"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "When I came here, Anonymous, if you see my face eh, I black, over black. If you see the giant pimples :I’m not joking o. Whether is their water in the hostel o, abi… is because of the mattress o, I don’t just understand; I was, darker than the way I was, then all my face, pimples reaction: I told Anonymous nah. I say if you see my face, he was like is it the water or what I’m I reacting to? I say I don’t know o. Quickly no let me lie down for the bed, just pack the bed sheet one side"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Hmm. they need…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "The thing is if they use that hand to hold them, they will…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ah, they will continue to spoil o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Hmmm. My brother, ah! No, no, …"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They will continue to spoil. I feel they, they should, the parents should like try to create a balance to it that both boys and girls will work"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "hmm. Not that you say ehhhh, what are you a senior for. Is what, the excuse my parents do, my parents will do always tell you, what are you a senior for, ehhn are you not suppose to do eh all the house work? Are you not suppose but the truth is that you are a human being and see, the funniest thing, where we were staying before is small, this place where we are staying is bigger"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "And even, is even big house, bigger house…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Bigger house!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That can be very dirty. Because, the, the way, the day you will clean that house eh, you will not even…thank God, na so this house just fine: oya raise under the chair, you will be seeing dirty"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "As in… I say, clean, mop, wash. You want to bath?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Anonymous, if I no dey that our house, you cannot enter our kitchen…I’m telling you the fact. If I’m not in that house eh, if you enter our kitchen, if they give you food, you will not eat. Forget the pot but once they, once they are cooking eh, both the maggi nylon o everything on top of the cabinet, they will not even clean anything"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "And they can the ones, they will just like scatter everywhere"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "But me, I will first of all sweep everything, mop everywhere because me, anything dirty eh, my blood hmm, hmm, even the, the easter day, they went to church, my mummy had ehh barbecue contract to do; about 4 abi 5 cartons of Tilapia"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Wao!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Immediately she was, eh she said I should not go to church, I should help to go to the market, after she finished it, I went to the house, when I enter kitchen, Ifeoma, I open mouth, I raise my hand like… I have to first of all clean the whole house, clean everywhere, mop it. Finish mobbing, when they came back they said is the food not still ready?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ehh?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I said ready when you people left the house like that. Before they ate, it was around after 5 o, after 5 that they ate. My brothers eh, their own is too much"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Just, is not, I use to, at a time eh, I became tired"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Although, if I’m, not in the house, I have this peace. Sometimes I will tell God, I will say God, I cannot wait and get married and leave this house because this house is just stressing me and now, me I cannot wait to go for service because me I’m tired of the house. Is true o, their own is too much. My parents are not…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Are all of them at home?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They are all at home nah"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Why are they? are they not in school?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They’ve not gained admission"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Not even your immediate younger one?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "No, two, they wrote jamb last year, they didn’t make it. They’re learning… one is learning mechanic, the other one is welding."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "That’s what is … Then, the third one is still in SS2, the last born is in ehhh SS eh 1; that one is learning tailoring then the other one is learning… the last born is learning errr… this barbbing, barbbing’s work"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "And after that one, they want to go and put him to learn in the east now"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Hope there is.. none of them want to go to university?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They wrote jamb but jamb result is not yet out"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They are too dirty"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Eh yah, but it’s good to engage them with things o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Yes o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "With all these things… instead of staying in the house and doing nothing, I like the plan"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because they will, by the time they will enter school, is this kind one, they will pay them 5,000 to cook egusi soup"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "That is without meat and the soup will be watery"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I remember somebody once call me say soup without meat"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Eh, e get person wey don tell me that stori. he gave the girl 5,000 to cook egusi soup, the girl cooked the egusi soup without meat. By the time he will collect the soup, he cut the soup in his elbow."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ah God!"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "abi the one I read online. The man, the guy, better hungry don beat am for school. His sister now came one day when he came, She say will you learn how to cook food now? Because it’s like when he was at home, he doesn’t use to learn how to cook. He’s like he’s from a wealthy… family. So the sister, housemaid, everybody is there to cook, ehn, he will survive in school nah. By the time he went to school and came back, the sister now called him one day. the guy just lie down carry belle face up but when e hit am, na im the sister now come, the sister now call him. she now say come eheh, will you learn how to cook now? He said Yes! Yes! I want to learn how to cook"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "With ambition"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "And with speed, the sister … how to cook; if not, starvation, hmmm. And girls, even some girls no get conscience. Dem go collect the money cook yaun, yaun food give you"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Even if you give them 5,000, they will use ehhhh 3,000"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "That’s the girl that collected 5,000 to cook egusi soup without meat so. That means more than half of the money is…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That means is just 1,000 naira she used to buy egusi and the rest"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "… and the rest to cook the food. She did not buy meat inside and collected 4,000 naira()"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I don’t understand o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ah! God will help somebody o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "At all o, all this errrrm…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Nnaa for here nah, do you know they’ve been asking me…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Do you know, do you know, the, you know the funniest thing?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "when are you going to serve, you are already due o, you have not still left, you are still here?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They are asking you?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ev…everyday o, when I’m I going"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "They don’t want you to leave nah"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "They want me to go"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "I pray o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "If you go, who will take care of the house?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Who will take care of the house!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Do you know when I came back, if you see my room… they used my laptop, finished the battery, scattered my bed, they now left. Even my bed, my room was not even swept when they finished using it.Do you know what they told me? This one said it was not him, this one said it was not him."
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "So, who was, who now did? Is you that came from where you went to and scattered everywhere"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "That day it was scanty, I wish I will start going, I’ll just tell them let them be doing what they are doing"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Even Amara, though Amara is hardworking o to an extent at home, she is hardworking, she does work but by the time she will go, she went to school; I don’t know whether is the school she went to and came back o, to do work, even to cook food for herself to eat is a problem."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ehhh because she was, she went to where, university?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ehhhn, university!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ehhhen nah, she doesn’t cook in school, was she cooking in school?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "She’s cooking in school! But e, to the extent that the last time she came, she was seriously sick. Though she said that to they had to read for exam, prepare and… so then, I will tell her and beg, if you see the small thing she will eat, I will now be the one to beg her o that’s why sometimes she will eat"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ah! Beg her to eat kwa!"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because you know normally, right from time, she doesn’t really eat that much; right from time. Na she be the only baby wey dey that house wey dem dey always dey force to chop food"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "E… Ebube abi Amara?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Anonymous"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Na im dem dey force to eat?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Because when she was a baby she hardly eat. So… mtchew, that time they, one time she was now very sick, they now treated her, they now said that they need to treat, she need to take eh supplement and other things to boost her system so that she can also be able to eat. That is the, the… co, the errrrm system not to be strong enough that’s why she’s not even having appetite to eat the food. So… they now start treating her, she now ate, started eating but as she went to school nah, whether is the stress of school nah couple with, you know, sometimes I will now tell her see… please eat. I will now, what I will know do, when I know she is coming, I will now make sure that when, as she is coming, she will be able to eat food in the house; prepare food, she will eat."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ah! Nawao! Her course is five years nah?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Four"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay. What, which course sef?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Industrial Chemistry"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "industrial chemistry, chemistry"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "It's four years"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "It's four years"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "It's not engineeeeeering course like…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "The industrial chemistry wait, the petroleum one?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Eh! Federal University of errrr, Petroleum Resources"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "She go just do am sharp, sharp!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "_ Is it the Amara?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ehhh!"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Amara is your immediate, no, the…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "The third born"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "The second girl"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Yes, the second girl and our third born"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Okay. Heeeew Anonymous! I like your house"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Our house?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Especially your guys, your brothers and that other small girl hmm! That’s the only friends I have in your house"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "when they want to do their own wahala now, na you go dey run o."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "The remaining two of you ehn…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "When dem go start their wahala, na you go run o."
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "I don’t like, I don’t like two of you. As far as I’ve seen Iyke, Tobe…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "I pray o. The ones wey use laziness scatter themselves, mtchew…"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "their house is okay for me"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "when make e reach errrrm"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Yes o! They are fun to be with o"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ehhh! If you’re with Iyke, he will gist with you"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Anonymous is the first son?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ehhhn then To, errm, Anonymous, even on line, me and Anonymous use to chat o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Ehhen nah"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "We use, we’ll talk, errrm… Ebub… I will just see her the way she use to run around.I will just start laughing. Then, the remaining the two of you, hmm, abeg, you people should go"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "You mean Anonymous, you mean…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You mean Anonymous and Anonymous?"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Eh, Anonymous and Anonymous"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "No ooo"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Their own they tire me, but those the other three,"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "No ooo, you have not stayed where Amara o"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "Eh Eh!"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Heeeeeeeeeey, Jesus! If Amara is here talking. If you stay with Amara small, she will… that her razor blade mouth"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "She talks more than Anonymous?"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "Ah, Heee… not that she really talks more than Ebube, but when she opens her mouth to talk,"
}
] |
[
{
"role": "user",
"content": "So far as…"
},
{
"role": "assistant",
"content": "You will be begging her to close the mouth. She get bad mouth sometimes sha… But…when e reach work, na there she go take dey run"
}
] |
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