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zkwass
changemyview_train
0.69
CMV: the black community fails to take ownership of problematic behavior prevalent in their communities, and this contributes to widespread dysfunction and discrepancies between racial statistics in the USA The black community has some of the highest rates of gun violence, gang activity, and broken families. The black community also has high rates of prejudice against other minorities, women, and the lgbtq community. But all discussion around privilege, prejudice, and inequalities focuses on the relationship between the white community and black community- despite the fact white people are no longer the primary source of the black community’s problems, but rather other black people. “But legacy’s of racism!” Latinos are building functioning communities for themselves. Asians are building functional communities for themselves. Arabs are building functional communities for themselves. Those are all groups who also have experienced the legacies of racism. How can they and pretty much every other ethnic minority group can overcome it- but not black people?
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here's the problem: when white people fuck up, it's not a reflection of the race...just when blacks fuck up...no changing racist or ignorant minds
>Latinos are building functioning communities for themselves. Asians are building functional communities for themselves. Arabs are building functional communities for themselves. Those are all groups who also have experienced the legacies of racism. Some of the Most Elite Predominantly Black Communities in America 9 Historic Black Neighborhoods That Celebrate Black Excellence These are the top cities where African-Americans are doing the best economically 22 Black-Led Nonprofit Organizations Making History 28 Organizations That Empower Black Communities >How can they and pretty much every other ethnic minority group can overcome it- but not black people? The 1921 Attack on Greenwood was one of the most significant events in Tulsa’s history. How The Fbi Attacked The Black Panther Party The MOVE Bombing
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changemyview_train
0.82
CMV: People are getting too focused on whether Aziz Ansari committed sexual assault, harassment, or just engaged in bad sex when they should really be examining what occurred, whether or not his advances were acceptable, and how these situations should generally be handled and discussed. I've been getting frustrated seeing Reddit's reaction to this story because it seems that the hive mind mentality has been in full-force. I hold the belief that "Grace" should have taken a more professional and non-sensational approach to voicing her discomfort with the situation, such as going to the police. That being said, people seem to have overreacted in each direction, either siding completely with Aziz or "Grace", but very few people have been in between. I think that there are elements of sexual assault/harassment in this encounter, especially when you consider the fact that Ansari was following her around his apartment and repeatedly sticking his fingers down her throat despite her consistently walking away. He also continued to move her hand onto his genitals despite the fact that she kept moving it away. Now, regardless of whether or not this was sexual harassment, sexual assault, a bad sexual encounter, or some other classification, I think people are losing sight of the fact that his advances were inappropriate. If he were truly considering her wants and desires, which I think everyone can agree is something that two people involved in a sexual encounter should strive to do, then he would not have acted in the manner that he did. I think a combination of his celebrity status, the fact that she took her story to the media before the police, and general hive mind mentality have led a lot of people to take Aziz's side without reason. I seem to be in the minority here, so feel free to change my view! _____ > *This is a footnote from the CMV moderators. We'd like to remind you of a couple of things. Firstly, please* ***read through our rules***. *If you see a comment that has broken one, it is more effective to report it than downvote it. Speaking of which,* ***downvotes don't change views****! Any questions or concerns? Feel free to* ***message us***. *Happy CMVing!*
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dstzbyu
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I can't think of a worse thing to do then focus on this situation more. This is exactly the kind of gray area situation that further divides people unnecessarily. There is a shit ton of obviously sexual assault going on out there that the vast majority of people can rally behind for real changes.
What he did was inappropriate, it was not criminal. Her saying it was assault is claiming it was criminal. Because it was not criminal that means it was a minor transgression, and one that should not have punishments in the public arena. If she never wishes to speak with him again, the destruction of that relationship/potential relationship is all the repercussions that should occur.
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askengineers_train
0.92
Experienced Engineers: If you were a new mechanical engineering graduate, which industry would you start in? I have experience in both design and manufacturing from my co-op and internships. As of now, I'm thinking medical device is the way to go in where I'm at (Upper Midwest). ​ In terms of job security, pay, and working hours which industry would you go into? Would manufacturing engineering or quality engineering or even process development engineering be a good one going in the medical device industry? Does company matter as much for that first job?
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Energy Renewable and alternative energy is about to explode, in a meaningful way with big money behind big developments, if it hasn't been already. And it's in desperate need of good mechanical engineers who understand and appreciate basic thermodynamics. There is also a lot of interesting topics for a MechE, where it be thermal powrr generation and new fuels,, efficient HVAC including geothermal, and continually changing industrial and process engineering. There's a huge amount of variety out there.
Production (Manufacturing) Engineering for a big Pharma group. I know, I know, it's like selling your soul but it is good work, quality must be perfect so investment is high and often they will run like a years worth of inventory in a very short amount of time. The balance is used evaluating and engineering...
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changemyview_train
0.8
CMV: Cursive is no longer needed in modern society and should no longer be taught in schools. Before I start with why Cursive shouldn’t be taught I should start with why it was created in the first place. Cursive comes the natural flow of writing with a quill. The sharpened tips were extremely brittle. It was easier and safer to write in flowing-continuous motions that way you lessened the risk of breaking the pen. During a time in which our writing technology was quite limited, cursive was the most practical method. Unfortunately (for cursive) we live in a modern time where this is no longer needed. There really is no reason to teach the Palmer style or writing other than nostalgia. I will address some of the arguments for it. 1) Cursive has historical importance and must be preserved : Some cursive supporters wil use the argument that “If kids don’t know cursive, how will they read old documents like the constitution!” This is ridiculous. Most people couldn’t read documents likes those when they were originally written. 2)Kids need to have a signature: This to me is the strongest argument in support of cursive. Here’s why it’s still irrelevant. Most people’s signatures are entirely illegible squiggles at this point. Most places also don’t bother to check your signature anyway. 3)Cursive provides a flow of thought : Some studies have found cursive to help people focus on note taking and allows people to write stuff down faster. We really don’t need a specific writing style for notes though. Most notes written are for the writers personal use. I know personally when I’m writing quickly I don’t really pay attention to spelling. I know what my squiggles mean so it doesn’t matter. If notes need to be seen then the writer can just explain what they mean in a way everyone understands. Cursive is closer to an art form then a practical writing method. Kids really don’t need it in our modern society.
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Out of curiosity, would you consider handwriting to be necessary still?
Odd side note but many states do not recognize a printed signature as legitimate but readily accept a cursive signature. As someone who works in a job that has to deal with government forms it causes all sorts of issues when someone does not know how to sign their name in cursive.
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askbaking_train
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Since I was out of my usual unsalted grocery store brand butter today, I had to use some precious Kerrygold butter instead since that's all I had to bake with. What a fabulous substitute! The oatmeal raisin cookies turned out so addictive. Do any of you use Kerrygold exclusively for baking? Butter brands
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Not for baking, but salted kerrygold on baguettes or sourdough is heavenly.
Yes! European butter is much better to bake with because of the fat content, american butter is slightly more hydrated, which makes a difference in baking :)
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.89
Explain like I'm five years old Why is smiling an instinct for humans when we are happy, but an act of aggression for apes/monkeys?
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Because smiling makes our voices sound different. One main difference between humans and apes/monkeys is that we talk to each other. Having some way of figuring out the emotional state of a conversation partner by the sound of their voice is extra useful. And when a person smiles, more treble sounds come out, similar to a child’s voice. To explain what I mean, you know how if someone is playing a stereo loudly in their house across the street, you’ll still hear the bass and bass drums sounds but not the keyboards or guitars? That’s because bass frequencies travel through solids better, whereas treble sounds bounce off them and get stuck inside the house. The same deal is happening in your mouth, where the treble sounds get stuck in your mouth and remain inaudible until you smile and move your cheeks out of the way. So even though a smile would look more threatening to an ape, it sounds less threatening to a human. And as the human language instinct means sounds are more important to us, smiling has become a marker of happiness rather than anger.
Because we've evolved apart from apes and monkeys. We're descended from a common ancestor, but we're not the same as current apes/monkeys, so what they do has little to no bearing on what we do aside from pure coincidence. We evolved a different set of behaviors that worked for us, and the apes/monkeys evolved a set of behaviors that worked for them.
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askculinary_train
0.93
Making Banana bread for ice cream sandwiches Does anyone have any tips on how to make banana bread for ice cream sandwiches? Usually when I make it it is kind if crumbly and I'm not sure if it will have the structure to hold up. Maybe freezing it or maybe compressing the slices a bit?
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This is my best idea for making it work: instead of baking in a loaf pan, bake in a sheet pan or some other larger baking dish. The idea is to increase the area of the crust, which will add more stability to the bread. You'll also have to adjust the baking temperature and time. Then just slice into squares to use for sandwiching the ice cream. Bonus points if you can mold the ice cream into a vessel that has half the area of your baking pan for the bread. Then you can place the ice cream over half of the banana bread slab, and then cut the slab in half to make one large sandwich and then cut into smaller sandwiches. I would definitely attempt a smaller test batch first before attempting a normal sized batch, just in case it doesn't end up working out.
I would agree with the texture of regular banana bread maybe being too soft, so I'll throw this idea in the pile... how about banana whoopie pies but with ice cream as the filling? They are usually a good mix of cake and cookie from a texture perspective, and King Arthur just so happens to have a recipe. https://www.kingarthurbaking.com/recipes/banana-whoopie-pies-recipe
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.88
Explain like I'm five years old If you did a ton of sprints, going farther and building endurance, could you eventually full sprint a mile? Is there a limit we can push ourselves?
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This is simplified, Explain like I'm five years old version: Lets assume that by sprinting you mean running as fast as you can, and after your speed drops you are no longer sprinting. Your muscles convert compound called ATP to energy, which in turn moves your muscles. Using ATP for energy doesn't require oxygen. Creating more ATP with creatine doesn't require oxygen either. Making more ATP after you have used all your ATP and creatine requires oxygen. When well rested, you have enough ATP in your muscles for 4-10 seconds (depends on the person and training) of maximum intensity work (sprinting) With creatine (there´s creatine in your muscles, in the form of creatine phosphate) you can basically double this time. This also depends on training and nutrition (creatine supplements increase the amount) So basically a well trained and nutritioned athlete can keep up maximum intensity work without oxygen for a about 15 seconds. After this time, your body starts using oxygen and at the same time the production rate of ATP slows down and your speed also slows down. So the answer is no you cant sprint a mile and yes there is a limit. With normal genes even with all the training in the world you are not able to keep your maximal speed up for more than 10-20 seconds. TLDR; You can't sprint a mile and there is a limit (10-20 seconds of work). Edit: Of course well trained athletes can run a mile so fast that normal people consider it sprinting. But if we consider sprinting as "running as fast you possibly can", then they are actually not sprinting.
As some have mentioned, the limiting factor is **energy**. Your body uses food to make chemicals and store them. When breaking these chemicals, energy is released. These fuels come in many types and include fat, glycogen (a storage form of glucose), and ATP. Additionally, you always have some of these chemicals floating in your blood in a ready-to-use form (glucose and free fatty acids). **Edit**: (/u/Bearblasphemy helped me clarify this part) ATP is your fuel, and each cell only has a minimum ammount. After that, your body uses a molecule called creatine-phosphate to regenerate some ATP, but this, too, is very limited. Once they are used, you simple won't have enough energy contract in multiple muscle fibers at the same time and at a fast rate. Since those are the factors that determine the force of muscular contraction, you will feel as if you were out of strength. The muscle can use some of the free glucose and some of the glycogen (stored in the muscle and in the liver), but to regenerate ATP. They are used mainly during low-intensity exercises for a prolonged period. Fat is also used in longer exercises, during rest, and between meals. All of these are used to restore your intracellular ATP, but it takes some time. They are not as fast as creatine. ATP is your main source of energy, and although all of these others can become ATP, they need some time to do it. Finally, I'd just like to point out that high-intensity exercise is mainly anaerobic. You don't use much oxygen for that, but the consequence is that you accumulate lactic acid. The limit of high-intensity exercise is around 1 minute, and I don't know what would happen if you kept it going for much longer. You would probably enter in a dangerous state of acidosis. **Tl;dr** The limit of your sprinting isn't just a matter of muscle strength or willpower. Your muscle cells need a fast source of fuel and those are limited and take time to regenerate. You also acumulate lactic acid from the anaerobic metabolism, and prolonging high-intensity exercise could increase its levels to dangerous ammounts. **Edit 2**: /u/frontsquats is an expert and he showed articles which state that you reach your limit even before wasting 50% of your ATP. This is mainly due accumulation of H+ and a subsequent response from your central nervous system. /u/Chad_Worthington_3rd suggested your muscle loses the capabaility to use ATP in the rate necessary for vigorous movment, and that this would be the main mechanism.
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changemyview_train
0.92
Change my view thatnuclear power is the best source of energy right now Here me out. Coal produces tons of carbon dioxide, destroying the ozone layer, and according to the general book of ignorance, produces 100 times more radiation than nuclear. Renewable sources, as of now, most of them produce more carbon dioxide than nuclear does and on average kill more people than nuclear. Compare all this to nuclear, which although it has a reputation for being dangerous due to incidents like Chernobyl, are actually pretty safe. Your chance of contacting illness from one is currently one in a billion. People often use the fact that nuclear power furthers nuclear weapons research, but a new type of reactor uses thorium instead of uranium and plutonium. Thorium cannot be used in nuclear weapons, as well as being more plentiful than uranium and having a lower half life in terms of toxic waste. Nuclear power also produces no carbon dioxide. Although it’s not renewable and we may eventually run out of uranium, plutonium and thorium, it takes very little of those sources to produce lots of energy. This is why I think nuclear is the way forward until a new source of energy is created. _____ > *This is a footnote from the CMV moderators. We'd like to remind you of a couple of things. Firstly, please* ***read through our rules***. *If you see a comment that has broken one, it is more effective to report it than downvote it. Speaking of which,* ***downvotes don't change views****! Any questions or concerns? Feel free to* ***message us***. *Happy CMVing!*
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Here's an angle different from most other answers, but one that I believe is critical to humanity's long-term future: \-Nuclear fuel is a limited resource. We may have enough for the next few hundred years, but certainly not enough for the next few hundred thousand years. \-Unlike hydrocarbons, which we can synthesize with electricity, once we're out of nuclear fuel, we're out. (Barring crazy advances in nuclear fusion.) \-Nuclear rockets are much more powerful and efficient than chemical rockets, in theory. (But the technology has not been worked out yet.) \-If we exhaust nuclear fuel over the next thousand years for power production, humanity will never be able to use nuclear rockets in the future \-Therefore, it is prudent to save nuclear fuel for rockets, where there is no substitute, than to use it for power production, where there are many cost-effective substitutes
Figures for the UK: New nuclear power station (Hinkley Point): £97.20 per MWh On-shore wind: £57.50 per MWh No waste to deal with either, lower decommissioning costs, safer (Even though I agree that nuclear isn't as dangerous as some would have you believe). I don't think the benefits of nuclear make up for the higher costs (Which relative to renewable will only increase with time as nuclear is comparatively mature).
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askbaking_train
0.97
Anybody else love baking and want to start their own business but don’t want to also be a part time content creator? It seems like small business owners are being almost forced into creating social media content just so they can stay in business. I love baking, but I feel like filming all of the processes, editing, and creating videos will take more time than the actual baking itself. Is it possible to own a small (and relatively successful) business without having a heavy presence on social media?
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I run a small home baking delivery service. Just officially opened up shop in January and I'm doing very well. I don't film any content whatsoever, I only have a white foam board and a ring light to take pics of my product with my phone. I don't think it's necessary at all to do all these things. I get a lot of engagement just from telling a little funny story about baking, sharing a photo, and asking my audience what they're looking for in terms of specials in the coming weeks. Social media will have you thinking you HAVE to do all this stuff, when in reality people don't care that much about well-edited catchy videos. They want your stuff to taste good. Full confession: the places near me that have a huge social media presence have garbage baked goods. Yep, I said it.
i actually want the opposite. i want to be an owner so i reap the fiscal benefits but i want nothing to do with the management or administration. i just want to bake for a quality institution that pays me well.
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askengineers_train
0.91
Out of all the college courses you took, which was the most relevant and useful to the position you're currently in? Was looking back on college and well couldn't really come up with any courses I took which stood out in terms of teaching me skills that I use day to day.
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Measurement and Controls, from this I taught myself how to really use LabVIEW and now I build test stands using it all day most days
Ethics 201 out of the philosophy department. I took it as an elective my first term in college. I learned to read and write in that class. Not the kiddy reading and writing I was doing in high school, but real reading and writing. An immeasurable value over the course of my now 10 year career. You have to realize that the engineering classes were a natural extension of my being. I've wanted to be an engineer since 8th grade; I've never wanted anything different. Ethics 201 brought something new and fascinating to my life I literally didn't know anything about before. It rocked my world. Not enough to leave Engineering, you've eventually got to do what you are, but it opened my eyes to the *context* of engineering. It's easy to get lost in the weeds of a technical problem. The skills I learned, stemming from that first Ethics class, taught me how to get my head up and look around.
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askscience_train
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AskScience AMA Series: We just crunched the numbers on how the transition to a renewable-based future is progressing & we want to talk about it! Go ahead & ask us anything (we're renewable energy experts but we're up for any & all questions)! "We" are part of REN21's team, a network made up of academia, NGOs, industry, govt, and individuals who are supporting the world to transition to renewable energy. We recently released the Renewables 2022 Global Status Report (#GSR2022) so we're hosting an AMA to talk about renewables, energy, the future, and everything in between. Multiple people from the team are joining including: + Nathalie Ledanois is a Research Analyst & Project Manager of the Renewables 2022 Global Status Report, Nathalie is our expert in anything investment-finance-economy related. + Hend Yaqoob is also a Research Analyst at REN21 who led on coordinating the chapter on distributed #renewables for energy access (DREA). + Nematullah Wafa is our intern who is a very valued member of the team who brought the #GSR2022 together. We'll be going live from 11am ET (15 UT), so ask us anything! Username: /u/ren21community
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Why is there not more focus on nuclear power?
With all the talk regarding battery technology, we know that these would require vast amounts of resources. Is their any future for kinetic energy storage, such as flywheels? Or pumped hydroelectric? If we want to focus on true renewables, I just don't see how batteries can scale. What are your thoughts regarding our energy storage plans?
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changemyview_train
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CMV: The Tesla 'Yoke' is objectively inferior for a road car than a traditional steering wheel. I would like to note that I *have not* driven with the Tesla yoke specifically, but I have extensive experience in motorsport and I have driven cars with square wheels. My opinion is mainly based on usability. While yes in a lot of scenarios having a square wheel isn't going to bother you much. After all you are supposed to have your hands at 9 and 3 anyway. Now if you never need to turn beyond 180 degrees in either direction, this will be perfectly fine. However, if you need to go beyond that 180 degrees and need to re-adjust your grip on the wheel you have no where to put your hands. Since road cars typically have 450 degrees of rotation in either direction, this becomes a problem. At slow speeds where you need to fully rotate the wheel you are going to have trouble comfortably turning the wheel. More importantly if you are in severe weather conditions and begin to lose control of your vehicle you will need to use more than just 180 degrees of rotation. This is a serious issue with a square wheel. If you ever need to quickly adjust your grip beyond this 180 degrees you are not going to have anywhere easy to grab on, and more importantly anywhere except the designated grips are going to be closer to the center of the wheel, and will thus require more force to turn the wheel. This is extremely dangerous if you are in a slide or some other loss of control situation.
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You are assuming mechanical pinyon steering. The steering yoke is part of an alternate system that does not utilize a mechanical steering linkage. It would be like driving a racing game at the arcade, where you only have probably 240 degrees total rotation.
It definitely rotates several times like a traditional wheel… it looks terrible. There’s a video a little way down of a guy parking the ‘22 S Plaid. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.motortrend.com/reviews/2022-tesla-model-s-plaid-steering-yoke-wheel-review/amp/
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askacademia_train
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Is it a bad idea to pick a field based on where you think you can help make the world a better place the most? 1. How much of an impact can you make? 2. Are there other more important considerations, like building a viable career? 3. Does academia make more of an impact than work in the private sector? What about NGOs? 4. I was thinking of going into environmental science, but I'm worried that I'll end up working for a corporation just looking to reduce its taxes. 5. How applicable to helping humanity are more fundamental fields like Mathematics or Physics?
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Physician. Worked private and academic. Rule #1: enjoy what you do Rule #2: There are no other rules. Everything will work out. You will have a positive impact in your sphere, whichever one you choose. If you enjoy it, you’ll spend more time on it. Find what you enjoy reading about. If you spend more time on it (read more) you’ll be better at it. If you’re better at to it, you’ll be happier. Happy people contribute to their sphere of influence. Happy people don’t have need to bend ethics. No matter if you’re in an “evil” corporation or an “altruistic” academic your positive local influence is meaningful.
Thank you for this thread everyone, I have been struggling with this is environmental science related choices for years now.
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askhr_train
0.95
[FL] is this racist? I currently work for a bully, I have. Filed a grievance for hostile work environment, and emotional distress. The investigation is still ongoing, however they are not taking it seriously. Reason for this is they keep insisting that the issue is that I’m the only one that sees a problem with the workplace environment. One example is, our boss would tell an intern we had working for us “I’m going to f*** your mom”. This is just one of many statements that have been verified. My question, I’ve been hesitant to bring it up during the investigation because I’m not sure if it is or is not racist. The boss would call me “Pakistani” or say “Pakistani come here”. Though I am not from that geographical location, I am from the Caribbean islands. Depending on how I grow my beard I do look like someone from that region. Would this be considered racism?
izlc87c
izltqhq
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Yes 100%
Other people have already given you good advice. I’m just dumbstruck that a grown man in a professional environment is talking to people like it’s a Call of Duty lobby.
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askengineers_train
0.71
Is getting a job really that hard? Recently I’ve been seeing lots of questions regarding internships and jobs. Most of them are honestly scary with people saying they’ve applied to 300+ jobs with no luck. This goes for internships too which seem to be pretty hard to get too. Now I know this is a difficult career but I didn’t know that it was that competitive.
hz23ja5
hz26h6i
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Well it's kind of saturated depending on what field and location and of course expected pay. I was job searching for 9+ months and found something for a technician to engineer gig. Though I was picky and I graduated in May 2021. I didn't want to relocate nor commute more than 30mins with traffic and I wanted around $30/hr or 60k salary. So I got what I wanted but it took time. My GPA reflects that I have kids as it's a 2.71 but I also have military service under my belt and I'm a female so ehhh. It depends what you are looking for. Edit: bc of my military service I was only getting mechanic and technician job offers. The entry level engineer paoitona I was finding wouldn't pay more than $25/hour or if I wanted to be close to $30/hr I had to commute 45mins or more. So it just depends. I hope you have more flexibility in location than I do as it will provide you with way more opportunities and of course a higher gpa. Start applying for internships as soon as you can the previous year you want them as they will fill up quickly. Good luck OP! 2nd edit: my commute to work is like a 15 min car ride or a 30min bike ride and it's a union gig so I'm happy.
If you have the time to apply to 300 jobs you aren't putting in enough effort to be specific for each application.
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a64hhw
askanthropology_train
0.95
Are there any Anthropological or cultural studies done on Nepali cuisine or nepal in general? I want to do a research paper on the culinary practices of the Nepalese people, so i was wondering if you know any anthropological writings on Nepal.
ebrrf6x
ebrnsga
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There's a lot of anthropological work on Nepal. It's not my area (I'm a Tibetologist) but I cross the anthropological section adjacent to the sources I need all of the time. One of the problems you'll run into is that Nepal is one of the most ethnically and culturally diverse countries on earth, so finding anything that can be called comprehensive "Nepali" will be difficult.
I enjoyed suitably modern , but I don’t remember how much they talked about food. Your best bet honestly is to go to the library. There should be plenty of material.
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askengineers_train
0.68
Engineers, what do you use trigonometry for at your job?
eb1s5sg
eb23cy2
1,543,896,588
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Finding the length of a piece of stock defined by a ton of points.
EE working mainly in control systems. I programmed and commissioned an active leveling system for a 900 tonne barge-mounted ringer crane. It’s all trig and some basic naval architecture. I made a spreadsheet to calculate how much to shim all the inclinometers so their offsets wouldn’t eat too much into their range while commissioning it. Any kind of calculation involving power systems is built on trig. Signal processing, feedback control, and trig are inseparable. Heck, I’m making myself a kitchen table with 45 degree angles and joinery. More trig.. I think I use trig almost every day I don’t know why you’re asking, but I have a laugh when people ask how often “x” type of math is used or what it’s for. Trig is useful and it’s everywhere. statistics is useful and it’s everywhere. Knowing it will make you more useful :)
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1v4dql
askculinary_train
0.95
Weekly discussion - Shopping at the Asian grocery Most every American city, and a surprising number of smaller towns, has at least one grocery store catering to the local east Asian community. Mostly stocked with Chinese ingredients, but often with a good supply of Korean or Japanese products depending on the local demographics, with very little labeled in English, they can be mysterious and intimidating for non-Asians who want to broaden their culinary horizons. This week, I'd like to assemble a guide for those who are considering venturing to their local Asian grocery for the first time. What ingredients are worth making the trip for? What are your shopping strategies to ensure you come home with the makings of a meal? Do you have advice on soliciting help from staff with whom you don't share a language? How do you make sense of the array of soy sauces? And for actual Asian redditors, if there's a small American grocery in your city, how do you shop there?
ceoq9r2
ceoquv1
1,389,648,249
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>they can be mysterious and intimidating for non-Asians I park next to one every day. Haven't built up the nerve to walk in yet...
For those of you who don't like to cook, are bad at cooking, or unable to cook due to a dorm or something, go to their Ramen isle. You are going to find SOOOO many more brands and variety of ramen other than Top Ramen or Maruchin Ramen. Get one of each and try them. They taste better and have more flavors.
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qjburc
askvet_train
0.92
Dog bit me and cried during euthanasia My dog got euthanized today.. she was very young and oh so loving. But during the first shot, the sedative, she started panicking and kept biting my hand and she cried so loud. My hand started bleeding because of the bites.. 30 seconds later which felt like 30 hours she got sleepy and lied down.. the second shot went peaceful. Why did my dog cry out so bad and bit me..? This dog was my world and my baby and I feel so guilty that her final moment was in total panick. I need to know the truth why this happened.. what could have possibly gone wrong?
hipzef8
hipewkw
1,635,648,622
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I’m gonna try to post a link to a previous explanation on this sub that framed it well: if it doesn’t work, please forgive me, I’ll try again! https://www.reddit.com/r/AskVet/comments/pq9zuu/why_have_all_my_dogs_had_traumatic_euthanasia/hdalah8/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Did it work???
Not a vet, but assistant. Depending on what the vet used, the injection may sting and take the animal by surprise. Some may try to claw/bite you because they start to panic. I'm sorry you had to experience this in her last moments. I am very sorry for your loss. May she rest in peace...
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3laq5p
askengineers_train
0.75
Is anyone both a Chartered Engineer (UK) and a Professional Engineer (US) or does anyone have experience moving from the UK to the US? I'm a US citizen but moved to the UK and am gettign a BEng and MSc to switch careers. I'm expecting to work here long enough to get Chartered Engineer status but the wife and I both want to eventually move to the US long term. Therefore I'm wondering whether I'll need to get professional engineering status in the US when I move there. I just don't want to move there and find that my chartered engineer status isn't going to be recognized and I have to start over or something. I've been trying to figure out as much as possible with Google but haven't found a ton of clear answers and so I'm wondering if anyone has any experience with this. According to this abet page, my degrees (both BEng and MSc) are recognized by ABET according to the Washington Accord. This page basically says you need a degree, the FE exam, 4 years of "acceptable" work experience, and the PE. Obviously things will vary state to state (and I'm unfortunately unsure where I'll end up..) but the term acceptable is very ambiguous to me. Here are the questions I have: * If I have chartered engineer status in the UK and 4 years of experience, would I qualify to take the FE adn PE exams right away in order to seek professional engineer status? * Alternatively, if I took the FE exam next time I'm visiting the US and then came and worked in the UK for 4+ years, would that likely qualify as acceptable work experience in my field? Basically, would they be more likely to count the experience as acceptable if I can already claim to be an EIT? * If it is likely best for me to take the FE exam before I start working, does it make a difference if I take it after the BEng or 1 year later when I finish the MSc? * If I have chartered engineer status, how urgent would it be for me to get PE status when moving to the US? Would it likely impact job prospects or salary for me to have that done before job hunting or is it something I would likely just be able to sort out once I'm already working in the US? Just hoping someone has some experience and/or coudl shed some light on this. Searching past topics had lots of people who moved the other way (US to UK) but I figure there has to be a few people who went this way. Thanks!
cv4pw32
cv64t20
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Stuff I've heard: 1) PE status is locked state to state. Even if you take the exam in one state, you won't be qualified elsewhere 2) Designs and assossors are quite parochial. Solutions widely used elsewhere in the world might have a hard time being accepted (not the way we do it)
I believe I would throw light on something which most of you are either not aware of nor Institutions in UK are aware of same.Currently Chartered Engineer of Engineering Council-UK can get Comity PE License directly in Maine State in US which recognizes overseas Registration from Washington Accord countries.Texas State allows PE License by Comity for Chartered Professional Engineers of Engineers Australia.There might be much more which I may not be aware or things may change in future ahead.Maine state do need though formal interview after application under Comity is filed.
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askbaking_train
0.89
Is banana a liquid? When you’re calculating ratios for a recipe, are bananas considered a liquid? For example, if I wanted to add banana to a waffle recipe, would I adjust how much milk or flour is in it to account for banana?
hp4k85g
hp583f5
1,639,884,328
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Bananas would be measured as a solid. I’m not sure what adjustments you might need to make.
Banana is about 75% water, plus some carb and sugar, if that helps your ratio!
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askengineers_train
0.92
How has learning engineering changed daily living for you, for instance, the way you cook your food?
g55ya02
g56vtgv
1,600,032,669
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I have become a more stringent planner
Engineering has made me cook very simple meals because I am so tired by the time I get home from work :(
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askacademia_train
0.96
Dating/marriage and Tenure Track Academia I am in my final year of my PhD and also in my late 20s. I am currently single but I find it constantly weighing on me that I feel like I should be dating if I don’t want to be single for the rest of my life but also the demands of academia are significant. I currently am fulfilling a senior role in my lab that is much closer to a postdoc than PhD student with regards to research and management responsibilities, that plus teaching activities, and finishing my dissertation leave me very busy and often overwhelmed. Every time I look at getting into a relationship I can’t honestly say I have the time that most people want. I don’t work a 9-5. I work kind of insane hours. Also, I worry that any time I dedicate to a relationship is time I could be spending writing that next article or doing XYZ thing to advance my career. Does it get better? How do you all find/make the time? Do you feel like it takes away from your career? Field: Engineering Title: PhD student Country:US
i1q8zi4
i1qnqum
1,647,992,151
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Building your life up is more important than academia. It is just a job.
I'll throw in my two cents as an about-to-graduate PhD student, who is married with a baby. >How do you all find/make the time? Do you feel like it takes away from your career? I do not find time for all of it. Something has to give. Sometimes that's family life, sometimes that's work. My family absolutely takes time away from my career. And thank goodness for that. My life has so much more enrichment because of my family. So much more joy, fulfillment, and happiness. Don't get me wrong, I *love* my work. But it's got nothing on my home life. I think I would be very sad and lonely without my family. And I am grateful to have a reason to take breaks. So my advice is, make room for dating if you enjoy it. If you think finding a relationship will bring you joy then prioritize that. Don't do it because you are supposed to, but don't avoid it because you think your career should take precedence. Your work doesn't love you back, so you've got to make sure you love it enough for both of you if you're going to skip out on other love.
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askculinary_train
0.77
I am grinding up my own seasonings and have a new mortar and pestle. I have been told to season it with garlic, but is there something sweet I can season it with instead? I’m making some seasonings that are specifically for something sweet and I am afraid the garlic, salt and pepper recommendation for my mortar and pestle will conflict with it. Is there anything else I can use?
g9jjjrf
g9j8vw8
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I seasoned mine by grinding coconut
As a new owner of one mine said to grind rice before use for the same reasoning. I don’t think garlic and pepper will help.
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a3fnmt
askacademia_train
1
Post-doc Here: Department wants me to become a tenure-track Assistant Professor after one year of being a post-doc. Not entirely invested in this University. What do I do?? I'm a post-doc, just received my PhD in June 2018. I just relocated to start a post-doc in September 2018....by October 2018, the faculty requested me to apply for a tenure-track faculty position. I was advised to start sending out applications, even though its relatively early for me, because I never know what I could find....so in sending out other applications, I also submitted an application for the department I'm currently in. However, I'm noticing a trend. The department chair keeps laying work on my plate at the last minute, undermining my current focuses (I would like to focus on publishing and developing the one course I'm set to teach). This post-doc appointment is beginning to feel less like I am here to publish and conduct research, and gain teaching experience, and is feeling more like I'm already a faculty member on all fronts except my official title. If I'm honest, I'm not entirely invested in this particular institution. My post-doc appointment is supposed to last for two years...and only a month after I've started, I'm already being rushed to apply for a faculty position. If I had the choice, I don't want to plant my roots where I currently am because I would prefer to be at another university in another location. Despite this, I can appreciate the offer to move into the tenure-track professoriate....but it all feels rushed, and it doesn't feel like I'm able to do what I came here to. I'm tempted to decline the offer (as it sounds increasingly likely that they will make one to me). I'm not sure what political consequences this may have - declining a tenure track offer and continuing my post-doc into my second year. But being here as faculty is not really what I want or where I want to be. What should I do?
eb64g91
eb67zfe
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What work is the chair asking you to do, last minute?
I'm not sure why you feel like accepting this job means you are there permanently (i.e. "planting roots"), but that certainly does not need to be the case. I am not sure what it is like in other fields (I am in the social sciences in the US), but tenure track professors search for and change jobs all the time. So you have 2 choices: 1) turn down the offer, finish your post-doc, and hope you can find a tenure track job elsewhere before you have to leave the university; or 2) take the tenure track job, finish the work you wanted to accomplish while there, then go on the job search again. Option 1, you run the risk of not getting a tenure track job later and go into adjunct hell (or be forced to leave academia altogether). Option 2, you still run the risk of not getting a tenure track job at another university, but hey, you are still employed for another year in your current tenure track job and can try again next year. This gives you some job security. The best advice I can give is that if you get offered a tenure track job, you take it. Full stop. ​ ​
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askbaking_train
0.98
Coffee in chocolate cake? I'm baking a chocolate cake for my dad's birthday, and in researching recipes, it seems that many of them call for hot coffee and/or espresso powder. Does this add coffee flavor to the cake, or just add richness to the chocolate flavor? My dad can't stand the flavor or smell of coffee, so I wanted to check if I may need to leave it out!
g2jaot6
g2i6k4l
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Does anyone else feel really passionate about chocolate cake? lmao. I put coffee in almost all my chocolate baked goods, it deepens the flavour and adds that extra something that makes people confused bc how can it taste so good? My sister also hates coffee and she says she can't taste any in the cake. I also recommend using buttermilk or yogurt instead of regular milk, for richness
Both vanilla extract and coffee enhance the flavor of chocolate. I've used recipes with espresso powder and large amounts of coffee and neither has tasted remotely like coffee. You can swap it out for milk or water if you're concerned, though.
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mhwo8m
askengineers_train
0.98
Has anyone here left engineering to teach? Has anyone here left engineering to teach? If so, what grade level and subject did you teach? Also what made you leave to teach and do you regret leaving the field of engineering? I’m considering this career path myself and I want to hear from others if they’ve already had this experience.
gt1oghu
gt1maa4
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My best advice: Wait a year. Now is not a good time to get into teaching. It’s something you might love, but current circumstances have taken away most of what is enjoyable about the job. After next year, hopefully, once schools have found their stride after going through a major pandemic and handling major losses in learning, it might be fun again. I can’t even imagine being a first year teacher right now. Pure misery without any of the reward, I’m sure.
I went to teaching because the project I used to work in got shut down and I needed the job. I missed engineering the whole time and regret having gone to teaching. I was put in engineering thermodynamics and in highschool physics and Astronomy. I'm back in engineering now and couldn't be happier. If you like engineering, I wouldn't recommend switching. But that's only my experience...
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askengineers_train
0.97
[3D CAD] How do you constrain your assemblies? I am at a disagreement with a co-worker and I want to hear how other engineers constrain their assemblies. Myself: I constrain assemblies in a way that's realistic. Shafts go into holes, constrain holes over the holes they're mounting into, mate surfaces to each other, keep some surfaces flush, etc. Co-worker: He thinks it is ideal to dimension a component's origin planes to the assembly's origin planes, so basically three plane-to-plane distance dimensions per part. He says his way is more stable and less prone to blow up. And I think his way will require more work to adjust only to give an illusion it's all modeled and configured correctly. He says my way is more prone to blow up. And I think that something blowing up is Ok and serves as a red flag something needs to be adjusted in the models, and it is more future proof and requires less work to tweak if done with enough forethought. How do you guys constrain assemblies?
iizpgci
iizpvhr
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Generally go with your route. Depends on the model, sometimes go to planes and origins.
I constrain like you do. However, I start assemblies centered on the file origin so that if someone needs to constrain off the origin planes it is a viable option
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9exeyr
askengineers_train
0.86
Is anyone else staying in Engineering solely for the salary? I'm not sure if it's just my job or actual engineering, but I am just losing interest in the technical aspect of engineering, thinking more and more toward a technical job like plumbing, welding, machining. I feel like the only thing really holding me to my current career is the salary. I started at a relatively good rate for my experience and if I were to move out of engineering into anything else most I could hope for would either be insane hours or a SERIOUS pay cut. ​ Anyone else ever feel like this or actually gone through this realization?
e5sq37v
e5sogza
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Test Engineering is extremely hands on and cool as shit.
The stuff I can afford on an engineer's salary is the stuff I'm most happy doing. That being said, I do enjoy the work I'm doing in school at the moment, and hope that carries on into my career. Though I am just fine working a job that isn't my favorite if it allows me the means to have my luxury items (horses, to be exact).
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askengineers_train
0.97
In this time where many are staying home, what are some resources to review/sharpen your engineering design/analysis skills, or learn/train using new tools? Hello r/AskEngineers, As a junior Aerospace Engineering student who's been trying to work harder at being a competitive applicant for internship positions, I wanted to take this time where free time has opened up to hone in my hands-on engineering skills. I've heard that a bunch of online programming schools have opened up their classes/premium memberships to be accessible for free for this time (i.e. Codecademy), and I wanted to know if people from the industry/subreddit have some insight on free or affordable resources to sharpen one's engineering skills. I know personal projects are also a go-to for boosting your resume while also making you a more confident engineer, but I feel like some guidance would be helpful for students (and probably professionals continuing lifelong learning!)
flqt814
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It definitely depends on what you're interested in. I am an Aerospace Engineer with a focus in dynamics and control. This book and website have so many helpful tutorials about Data-Driven Modeling (Dimensionality Reduction, Machine Learning and Data Analysis, Reduced Order Models, etc.) : http://www.databookuw.com/ All example code from the book is on this website and each chapter has video lectures to go along with the material. You can find a lot of interesting aerospace-related data sets and create analysis projects easily at home.
Kerbal Space Program?
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askengineers_train
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Recent grads/Seniors: How's the job search going? I realize this question has been asked numerous times, but I figured this answer could change year by year depending on the market. Also I'm just looking to vent. Have been mainly interviewing with huge corporations, 3 onsites so far - all rejected, 2nd round phone interview next week, and another onsite in few weeks. How's it going for the rest of you?
du0z4ww
du13ghm
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I had a first round interview with 4 companies and afterwards I only received one onsite with 1 company. It was discouraging since I had 4 internships/co-ops, but I was really lucky because it was my dream company and I eventually received the offer.
With how much google figures out what you're doing with your search patterns, I'm surprised it doesn't have the suicide prevention hotline posted at the top of the browser when it learns you're searching for a job. Searching for a job is easily the most self-esteem crushing tasks I have ever had to do since I was born. I graduated last May in Mechanical Engineering. I want to be in Control Systems/Robotics so I've learned programming. No one will give me the time of day, though, since I don't have an EE, Software Eng., or CS degree. I'm currently networking; Chicago has a huge Python meetup group with a free mentorship program. I am giving a speech in June on the project I'm currently working on, and I'm told some people have gotten job offers just from those talks. Fingers crossed I have something before then, but until then the project is my main focus not only for the talk but also for something to slap on my resume.
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askculinary_train
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Can You Help Us Help Others on Thanksgiving? The last eight years, /r/AskCulinary has hosted live culinary holiday hotlines on Thanksgiving and Christmas Day to help folks who run into cooking troubles and need immediate answers. We'd like to do it again and need volunteers to be by their computers to give advice. If you know a thing or two about traditional holiday meals and would like to help, please comment here to let us know what hours you can cover. We'd like to start around nine-ish Eastern time as we do get some early questions. The bulk of the questions come in between 10:00 and 1:00, with later hours being pretty slow. Last year, the pattern was a bit off, what with a lot of people making their own Thanksgiving dinners for the first time, but I think it should be more or less normal this time around. I think if we can get a couple folks helping through each hour until 3:00, with some extra before and after noon, we can make a go of it. If you'd like to volunteer, please post a comment here letting us know what hours you can cover. Thanks!
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I'll stop in as I did last year. Most of my cooking will be done before Thursday except for the bird. The rest is just coordinating the heating of side dishes brought by family. We eat early so I'm available for west coast times especially.
5 years professional here, plus degree in molecular biology. I'll be available all day.
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askengineers_train
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Job interview for 2nd position when already received a verbal confirmation for the 1st? So I have a question for r/AskEngineers . As a little bit of back story I’m an engineer with about 1.5 years of experience. I already went through one interview and got a verbal confirmation and a text from the manager that I was the picked candidate for the position. I haven’t received anything official yet. I also was chosen for an interview for a different position at the same company. It’s a great position, but I would prefer the first one. This second position is also under a different manager so I’m hesitant to look bad to the first manager by interviewing for a different position when he’s already told me I was the top pick. Should I do the second interview?
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Is there a particular reason why you want to interview for the second position, if you prefer the first position?
nothing is certain until a contract is signed!
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changemyview_train
0.63
CMV: Canada is generally better then the USA I believe that Canada is generally better then the USA and that the average American would be better off Canadian. There are a few major reasons for this that I'll go over in the paragraphs below ​ **Universal Healthcare** In Canada everyone receives government subsided healthcare rather then the insurance based system in the USA. This means that there are no $10,000 surgeries and nobody goes bankrupt from calling an ambulance which, in my opinion is much, much better then the US system where if you don't have insurance you could easily lose your life savings if you get sick. The benefits of this system is reflected in Canada's higher life expectancy. ​ **Government** The government of Canada seems to work a whole lot better then the USA. They don't have the frankly garbage electoral college system that leads to minority rule (even in the House half the time) and they have a much easier time actually getting things done. There aren't any Trump's or Jan 6ths and the scandals are pretty tame from what I can tell ​ **Education** Generally going to college in Canada is far cheaper then in the USA, which leads to more people getting educated. Indeed, the average cost of college per year in Canada is \~$6,700 while in the US it's over 20k, almost *3 times* the amount. While you could argue the US has better universities, really only the top \~30 are better then the average Canadian university and most students aren't going to the very top institutions regardless. ​ I've also heard there is a housing crisis in Canada but there's also a housing crisis here so it cancels out. While both the USA and Canada are modern, 1st world countries I believe that Canada is generally a much better place to live and the average American's life would be improved by being Canadian. CMV!
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Universal Healthcare? Ask a very sick Canadian about that. There's a reason that some of you get transplants and other medical services within the USA. You're also very racist. You just haven't been smacked in the face with anything the African Americans did.
I wouldn’t conflate higher life expectancy to a better health care system, those two things can be weakly correlated, there’s lots of other factors at play. FWIW i live in canada and i would say our health care system is pretty bad (though I don’t think I would prefer the US system), so it’s not so cut & dry.
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askengineers_train
0.95
Advice on how to negotiate salary after receiving offer letter Hello fellow professionals, so I received an offer letter recently. The base salary is 1k off of what was verbally agreed upon before the offer letter was sent. However, that 1k will be paid to me lump sum after the 90 day probationary period as relocation assistance. I wanted to see if you guys think it’s worth bringing up with the HR manager before I sign the offer letter or not and if so how should I broach the subject? Thank you.
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Having worked in the HR / recruitment space within the engineering industry for 6 years now handling salary negotiations etc I can tell you this is weird, not common and is giving me the impression the company is abit dodgy. Are they paying you a relocation allowance? Did they provide reason within your contract to state why they are holding the $1000 until the end of your probation? Is it possibly to cover the cost of equipment provided? That's very strange and I would politely but firmly ask the HR manager, the manager of your department or the hiring manger / recruiter to provide further details. I hope it can be clarified for you.
Red line the changes you feel necessary. Initial beside your red line. And submit back. However. Depends your situation to “stand up for yourself” as everyone’s got different constraints of the red line move doesn’t go over well. I’ve never done it yet as it’s never situationally come up but I’m ready with it lol.
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askengineers_train
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Manufacturing Engineers, how do you stay sane? I’m 5 years into being a manufacturing engineer at a small privately held company. It seems like everyday there is something catastrophic that I have to deal with, it’s exhausting.
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I wasn't sane in the first place so it's actually a fitting job for me
After being a manufacturing engineer for about a year and a half, I moved on to be a mechanical design engineer. Catastrophes are fine, but the way management handled them in the manufacturing world always made everyone more stressed out than they needed to be and it just wasn't an enjoyable or rewarding work environment for me. Design engineering has its own catastrophes, but I find the teams I'm on work together cohesively to a solution rather than throw their hands in the air. I'd recommend checking out some other roles if you can within your own company. See if there is anything else that might interest you!
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.95
Explain like I'm five years old: Why does 1000 day aged Gouda have a use by date of 30 days?
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"Aging" as it refers to food is a process with specialized conditions. Sitting in your fridge (after warming up in between the store and there) is not the same as aging for another thirty days.
that gouda spent the last 1000 days in the perfect environment for it - as soon as it left that environment, it began to get old and die. industrial levels of packaging and refrigeration kept it stable long enough to make it to your house, but by the time you open it, slice it up, and put the leftovers in the fridge? it's got literally days to live. as soon as it was removed from its preferred environment, and as soon as you took it out of it's technologically-guaranteed stasis, its days were numbered. this is your fault, OP. you know what you have to do. don't let its sacrifice be in vain.
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askhistorians_train
0.83
Why are there periods in history where they would make eunuchs bodyguards, soldiers, or assassins? Doesn't a lack of testosterone in a male body make you frail, less decisive, hampered in your cognitive abilities, and more prone to mental breakdowns?
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OP, from the negative tenor of your question, the way you've blasted it in a lot of Asky subreddits, and your general post history, I think you're working through some things about yourself, what it may mean to live in a body without testosterone, and if historical eunuchs are your spiritual ancestors. I wasn't going to engage, but you know what, there's probably less than 5 people on the internet who could meaningfully talk to you about this, and you’re clearly in distress, so let's talk. So the vibe I'm getting from your question is basically ... A) Is lack of testosterone a disability? B) If so, why were these people in history intentionally disabled by themselves or others? And furthermore, assuming A and B, why did society explicitly make and value these disabled people, when society traditionally does not value disability? (And the subtext, if I do not have testosterone am *I* disabled, am *I* valued by society? Which I have firm opinions on but is outside my scope of practice, and you'll have to figure out for yourself.) Let's tackle your assumptions first. Assumption A: Periods in history where eunuchs are "bodyguards, soldiers, or assassins." Those are some jobs you've thrown together that perhaps shouldn't be. Bodyguards - yes, eunuchs were often bodyguards, but more in the sense of an honor guard. I didn’t expect the geriatric veterans firing blanks at my 92 year old grandpa’s funeral to be eunuchs, but that is way closer to what role a eunuch held than the Secret Service. The bodyguard role was (to grit my teeth and be extremely reductionist for the sake of time) symbolic and often religious or quasi religious. Assassins? From time to time a eunuch would do a poisoning, but that wasn't a full time gig. If they did that, it would be because their real role as a close body servant gave them access and trust, not because they were ninjas zipping up windows. Soldiers? No. The idea of eunuch armies is popular from a certain book/tv show that I have never seen and yet am cursed to answer questions about. Eunuchs, when they were in the military, were in high ranking positions, usually given to them by rulers. They did not work up from letter carrier to postmaster general, they went straight to the top. Think Narses, not Unsullied. Assumption B: Eunuchs as disabled, in particular you say: "frail, less decisive, hampered in your cognitive abilities, and more prone to mental breakdowns." There's a lot of work you're putting on old T here. Frail? Eunuchs were certainly prone to osteoporosis, so their bones would weaken over time. However, pre-pubescently castrated eunuchs seemed to experience it differently, compared to contemporary old people, the bone density of an entire castrato skeleton studied in 2013-16 was different than expected for senile osteoporosis. (look at figure 8) The authors conclude he had made "a long-standing adaptation," aka, learned to live with it. I assume you also are thinking of lower muscle mass, that’s harder to study on skeletons, but the article does talk about very particular muscle development for a professional opera singer and the markers on his bones for that. So he was absolutely able in muscular ability to do his job, an occupational therapist would pronounce him fit for work, however we do not know what our friend Gasparo could bench, alas. Now, mental abilities. Hormones for sure do *something* on our brains, but the what, why, and how much are all in debate. There is decent evidence low testosterone contributes to mild depression in older men, and possibly dementia. It’s a hard thing to study. There are no controls, they’re studying prostate cancer patients, the elderly, or various specific endocrine disorders. No one’s doing a double blind castration challenge on human subjects. There is also a big difference between growing up with a certain brain-body connection and hormonal profile, your neurons pruning under those hormones, vs having your hormonal profile change along with your brain aging. Emotion and mental health history is also very hard, because the way we relate to our minds is so different after 300 years, even within the same culture. But much like the birdbones, historical eunuchs may have just been used to it and already mentally adjusted to any depressive tendencies. I can tell you many eunuchs lived good lives, worked opera well into their 60s, and enjoyed an active, social retirement worthy of any assisted living brochure. General low mental ability and indecisiveness? Well they have a similar hormonal profile to postmenopausal cis women, so I invite you to go down to your local quilt shop, posit this theory, and see what happens to you. Cognitive impairment is an observed, but hard to quantify side effect with prostate cancer patients. It is mild enough that they can still go about their existing lives. (I am sure we could find a case study saying someone was super hampered, but I am only checking up on systematic reviews today.) Again, it’s hard to say how this applies to historical eunuchs, since there is a big difference between growing up with your eunuch brain vs getting power-blasted with hormonal blockers at 64 AND you have cancer. As a counter, eunuchs were usually stereotyped as conniving and intelligent in their societies, but I think that was probably because they were politicians and learned to read and stuff. They were certainly put in positions requiring great intelligence, like accounting and military strategy. I know of a castrato who was into investing, which everyone thinks is very intelligent these days. They probably mentally did as well as any other average Zhou in similar circumstances. So in conclusion, simple testes-only castration was a mildly disabling condition in life without modern medicine, and probably way better than having gout or rickets or fistulas or other such common complaints of 18th century Europeans. They still held down jobs and lived good lives. (Complete castration, no penis no testes, was way worse for your health, but that does not have to do with testosterone, it has to do with having a stoma entrance to your bladder and the resultant infections.) So why weren’t they soldiers? Not because of their bodies, but because they were *way too expensive.* In societies where eunuchs were enslaved, and where they practiced complete castration, a eunuch was worth about 10 times the price of a normal boy. Now, the idea of “cannon fodder” and disposable soldiers is wrong, or so I have frequently read on AskHistorians, but if you’re looking to assemble a unit of 100 people, would you rather spend $1,000, or $10,000? You’re not spending 10K unless it gets you something amazing, and eunuchs did get you something amazing, but only in very specific contexts, which was not battlefields. Eunuchs were high value human capital, to use modern HR terms, and you deployed them only when you absolutely had to, which was only in certain spaces such as religious venues and around royalty. The very last eunuch guards were (are? They are hard to keep tabs on in English) in Mecca and Medina. For why they were so valued in these spaces, please take a look at the second list /u/gynnis-scholasticus has so kindly assembled. Back to today, and you. Eunuch is a gender identity some modern people use, so if you feel called to embrace it, you're not alone, and it is valid, even if you’ve never met anyone who identified as such. It is somewhat diverse, with some people who simply seek castration surgery, and then once they have it are satisfied and do nothing else, some cancer patients, some people closer to transmen. Some modern eunuchs also find great meaning in having a historical heritage to their gender identity, namely Richard Wassersug, who is the leading academic in modern eunuchry, and he identifies as a eunuch. Here is his Google Scholar profile. (he also knows a lot about frogs.) And here is a nice popular article from Dr. Wassersug: Embracing a Eunuch Identity. Don’t let your historical stereotypes about eunuchs and the perceived superiority of testosterone stop you from being who you want to be in the body you want to have.
As you are waiting you can look at some earlier answers on here on the subject of eunuchs, written by the amazing u/caffarelli! On the physical side of being a eunuch: * Assuming I lived in a culture where eunuchs were common, could I recognize one when I saw him (clothed)? * Tuesday Trivia | Forgotten Day-to-Day Details (mostly the same answer as above but with some interesting responses further down in the thread) * At any time in history were eunuchs ever used as soldiers? * How big are eunuchs? On the reasons eunuchs were used/employed: * Why were eunuchs so prevalent as both servants to various aristocracies, as well as power players in ancient history? * Why didn't European Kings (aside from Byzantium) ever have eunuchs to serve them and their court? * Why did eunuchs often get so strong position in royal courts around the world? * Did the bizarre practice of turning men into eunuchs (and then giving these men substantial responsibilities) emerge independently in many places, or do we have some evidence of it starting in one place and then spreading through cultural diffusion? I hope this is helpful, or otherwise that you will get a new response from one of our users! I have not seen Caffarelli here in a long while, but we have some other users who know much about sex and gender in history and should know a bit about eunuchs. Cheers!
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.77
Explain like I'm five years old: Because there is a no fly zone around Washington DC, why are commercial airliners able to fly and take off in that zone?
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The term is ADIZ: air defence identification zone. Special rules to fly in and out, stretches out 30 miles, but it's not terribly hard to get clearance. There are flight schools that operate under the ADIZ if I remember right. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Washington%2C_DC_Metropolitan_Area_Special_Flight_Rules_Area?wprov=sfla1 Source: flew commercial jets in and out of DCA
simple: none of the airports are in the no fly zone. I don't think any of them are even in washington DC, even the ones people talk about as DC airports are all over the border and just in virginia.
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askacademia_train
0.96
Dating/marriage and Tenure Track Academia I am in my final year of my PhD and also in my late 20s. I am currently single but I find it constantly weighing on me that I feel like I should be dating if I don’t want to be single for the rest of my life but also the demands of academia are significant. I currently am fulfilling a senior role in my lab that is much closer to a postdoc than PhD student with regards to research and management responsibilities, that plus teaching activities, and finishing my dissertation leave me very busy and often overwhelmed. Every time I look at getting into a relationship I can’t honestly say I have the time that most people want. I don’t work a 9-5. I work kind of insane hours. Also, I worry that any time I dedicate to a relationship is time I could be spending writing that next article or doing XYZ thing to advance my career. Does it get better? How do you all find/make the time? Do you feel like it takes away from your career? Field: Engineering Title: PhD student Country:US
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Ain't nobody writing "he is survived by a loving career and CV" in your obituary.
You need to make time because you'll never find it, out there, especially if your mindset is "I could use this time to write the next article or advance my relationship." I don't mean to be rude - I totally get that mindset - but I've seen that mindset blow up some relationships (including ones I've had!) To your question about it taking away from my career? No, because my career isn't the most important thing in my life. I've had to work hard to separate me (as a person) from me (the academic) and decide what my priorities are and how to put time towards them in a balanced way. Took years and a few good therapists, but I have (and continue) to advance my career without feeling like I can't dare afford anything else (relationships, geographic control, etc). It means I let go of certain things, but I know they're not things I really want (even if they seem shiny and wonderful). FWIW, I think your program sounds like it is particularly difficult to function (as a person) in and, while you can't change that, you can think about future opportunities that encourage very different ways of doing research.
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askculinary_train
0.92
Next year I'm moving into an apartment with only a mini-refrigerator. What are some core ingredients I need to keep in my limited space that will go a long way? I'll be moving into an efficiency place with a mini-refrigerator, a stove/oven, and a microwave. The freezer in the refrigerator is small to non-existent. I've already accepted that I may need to shop once every 1-2 days for fresh ingredients, but what are some ingredients/food I need to always keep on hand. As I have said, my space is quite limited so things that go a long way or are very versatile are best.
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Condiments and eggs.
You'll probably want to make sure you always have a few eggs, even if it's just a four or six pack. Boiled, scrambled, fried, as part of a recipe, they're just a great and extremely versatile food. Some people even claim that you shouldn't store eggs in the fridge, which you might want to read up on since your fridge space will be limited.
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askbaking_train
0.96
Anybody else almost always reduce the sugar in recipes? Hi guys, This post was prompted by making my first baked cheesecake. I followed this King Arthur Baking recipe which calls 347g of sugar. Thought that was a little crazy, so reduced it to 190g. So the cheesecake is done and it's DELICIOUS but *very* rich, to the point where I can't imagine what it would've been like if I used the full amount of sugar. I do this a lot with cakes, tarts and muffins (what I usually make) and have never had any problems, so I do wonder why recipes contain such a high amount of sugar. I guess a follow up question would be are there any particular bakes where you absolutely need the amount of sugar specified?
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I reduce 20-40% depending on the recipe. Especially if it's American recipe. Typically i'd compare recipes from other sources to get the idea of the proportions first. Lately have been using recipes from Dominique Ansel's book and the proportions are quite nice. Not too sweet Edit: typo
For online recipes, basically always. Yeah it can affect the bake yadda yadda but if I cut 75g from the recipe, it bakes up nice and still tastes very sweet, that's a win for me.
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askphysics_train
0.85
What jobs do you think prepares you best to be a physicist? I think mathematicians, data scientists, electrical engineering all help you build relevant skills and knowledge used by physicists. I would love to hear opinions on what other careers or jobs are deemed relevant for physicists in terms of technical skills and experience.
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Being able to talk about why your science is important is a good skill to have. Sure, its always nice to be able to code in a few different languages (probably Python is most useful, at least in astrophysics and cosmology, my specific field), and being good at math might also be helpful. However, without being able to communicate your ideas and get other people excited about your work, nothing will really move forward. So that being said, any job that requires you to do a little bit of public speaking (it doesn't even have to be physics related) will help quite a bit. If you have any other questions feel free to pm me!
Do you mean what skills are required to be a good physicist?
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askacademia_train
0.94
What Challenges Am I Facing If I Try To Become A Professor After 46? Full disclosure: this is my first post on Reddit (I’ve replied a time or two but this is the first time I’ve ever been the OP). I looked for other posts with similar questions but I felt like my situation was nuanced enough that I couldn’t find an answer that suited me. So here we are. I feel like I’ve made a few badly timed (but not necessarily bad overall) decisions in my life that have led me to this point so I need to start with a bit of back story. I graduated high school in 2000 and worked several different jobs (some part time, some full time) in a couple of different fields for a few years after graduation. In 2006 (when I was 24), I decided to join the Air Force. I served for 6 years, got out when I was 30 and started going to school. I couldn't figure out what I wanted to do so I changed majors several times before settling on double majoring in math and economics. Because of those major changes and not always being able to go full time (and having to take some semesters off completely) due to building a family during that time as well, I took 8 years to graduate. The pandemic was in full swing and most places were shutting down/not hiring. So, I continued to work a part time job that I had held for the last 5 years in the tutoring center of one of the local community colleges up to the present. So now, because of my wife's job, we are moving to Ohio and I am trying to find a job. One of my professors had suggested that he thought I might do well in a Phd program so I am considering applying for a Phd in Economics when we move, but I wouldn't make the deadline to apply before next year (I'll be 40) and then wouldn't start the program until the following year (I'll be 41). Assuming I make it through the program, I'll be at least 46 years old (quite possibly older depending on how things go). I would be doing this with the goal of becoming a professor after getting my Phd. My questions to all of you wonderful people is, what challenges am I facing by doing this? Do you think it's worth it for me? Do colleges care about my age as long as I can still publish papers? I'm worried that I might be goofed up either way since I don't have 20+ years in any one industry anyway, so in that sense, what can it hurt to try?
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If you are independently wealthy and have a revenue stream already in place for retirement, then go for it: probably you will struggle more than younger PhDs on the market afterwards, but smaller colleges, CCs, VAPs, etc., will consider you. Econ is a relatively good job market. You’ll be 15-20 years older than most of your classmates and older than some of your professors, though: don’t be the mature student who tries to dominate conversation or resents being taught by someone younger. If you are going to need to earn money in the future to support yourself or your family, though, this plan is very risky. I would say “madness” if you were in the humanities, but with a PhD in econ you could probably fall back on private sector work if the job search is unsuccessful, albeit with 5-8 years’ lost wages and seniority.
I entered a PhD program in applied economics and there were a few people in their 40s who entered (and finished!) the program. They had to be at least 46 when they finished. So it's definitely doable and I don't think they discriminate on age. I believe they are all going for faculty jobs at R1 schools too (it was a top program). One thing I'll mention is the financial aspect. If you have a family, will you guys be able to be supported on just your wife's income? A PhD in economics is very very hard and you won't have time to do a part time job if you want to be successful. I'd assume the funding you'll get as a student with your stipend will be around $2k/month. Another thing to consider is do you want to do research? I don't think you noted if you've done a master's in math or Econ, but doing a master's and writing a thesis could be a good gauge to see if you would want to go into research and get a PhD.
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askanthropology_train
0.92
Those on this subreddit who got degrees in anthropology and its subfields, what are you doing now? I just got my BA in anthropology and will soon be attending an MA program in archaeology, and I'm interested to see what everyone does with their degrees. I'm essentially trying to prepare myself if academia doesn't pan out! I'm also just curious.
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dmoh6pv
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MA in Cultural Anthropology. Actually went to the US for it and after working there for a year (in consulting NGOs and Federal Programs) came back to Chile to stay unemployed for half a year, then got a shitty job and now have been working in ESG/Sustainability since the beginning of the year. Not really using the skills I learned, besides research skills and a new personal view on the world (BA in History). So I don't know if this helps
Worked in marketing agencies for years. Went back to school for writing, and now I teach with a masters and do non-profit work. Having an anthropology degree always helped me stand out in marketing. It's all in how you sell yourself.
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askengineers_train
0.96
What made you realize engineering wasn't for you? I have been working for almost 1.5 years and have been absolutely miserable in my current role. The thought of me sitting at a desk for 40 years straight, staring mindlessly into a computer screen causes me major depression. I see what other engineers at my company do and it all looks horrible. I always loved working with my hands and building things but engineering is just not that mostly just pencil pushing and emails.
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gbq5xl1
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Not me (I graduated), but I know four (Two in Uni & two in real life) who dropped out of engineering. 1) Went into Physics & couldn’t handle the intense studying. He got depressed studying for hours & barely getting a “C”. He went into accounting & now he’s a professor in Texas. 2) He didn’t like Statics and couldn’t imagine Dynamics, so he dropped out of engineering & went into physics. Last I heard, he was behind over a year when we graduated due to the classes he had to take that we had completed in engineering. 3) My friend & I met in Calc 3. She was smart but lazy. Her parents were wealthy. She worked for Cummins & after a few years I guess she got burned out & quit. She went back home, lived with her parents in their massive house and is getting another degree. 4) This one became a programmer. She cashed in her 401k, went to a programming boot camp, got citizenship in the EU (family was from Spain), and got a job over here. She’s happy with her job & life now. Everyone walks a different path, my friend. No shame in living yours how you want to live it. I wish you well.
I just got back from 150 hours onsite across two weeks, hands on and getting some generators running. I like the balance of design/commissioning I've got -- I want some office/computer "normalcy", but gotta get out there and see it come together too!
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askscience_train
0.89
AskScience AMA Series: Hi, I'm Dr. Christina Nicolaidis and I'm editor of a brand new peer-reviewed journal called Autism in Adulthood. Ask me anything about the new journal or the ways that people on the autism spectrum can get better health care! Hi, I'm Dr. Christina Nicolaidis and I'm editor of a brand new peer-reviewed journal called Autism in Adulthood. I teach social work at Portland State University and internal medicine at Oregon Health & Science University in Portland, Oregon. There's a lot of talk about autism in children, but not as much about autism among adults. That's why we just launched this new academic journal. Our goal is to cover the most pressing issues affecting autistic adults, from emerging adulthood to later life. I am particularly excited about including autistic adults in our new journal - as editorial board members, authors, reviewers and readers. As a doctor and a services researcher, my own research is focused on how people on the autism spectrum can get better access to health care services. Many autistic adults don't get the health care they need, resulting in more health problems and shorter life expectancy. Ask me anything about the new journal or the ways that people on the autism spectrum can get better care. We'll be on at 1 p.m. Pacific (4 PM ET, 21 UT), we're looking forward to the session!
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What do you feel was the gap between diagnosis of adults 15-20 years ago versus today? To say, why were fewer adults being diagnosed 15-20 years ago compared to today?
First, thank you for this AMA. It seems that GenX adults with milder symptoms, more akin to those that used to be deemed Asperger’s before DSM-5, who were left to navigate the world before there was this current awareness, are still somewhat in a no-man’s land due to the fact that they’ve adopted certain behavioral accommodations to “pass” in social situations. Are there any specific diagnostic tools that are truly able to assess where these individuals exist on the spectrum? And if so, what treatment options exist for these now-middle-aged adults?
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askbaking_train
0.9
How to make a cookie alcoholic? I hope I worded that correctly. I am helping with a business that is opening up where they will focus on cookies containing alcohol, but we’re having a hard time truly making them alcoholic. I have done rum glazes, but not nearly enough rum is used for a good alcohol flavour. Does anyone have any idea I can have a cookie contain about 2 Tbsp of alcohol without cooking off, and for it to taste like it? TIA :)
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hewewqp
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Do macarons count as cookies? You could make any type of filing for those and you wouldn't lose flavor to heat.
I guess you could do cheesecake cups with the cherry soaked in something yummy, a modified tiramisu or rum cake presented in the same manner (mini-cupcake/tartlet.) I’m recovering alcoholic so I gotta go lol, good luck tho!!!
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askengineers_train
0.98
Thoughts on unpaid, expected overtime I want to know what your thoughts are. I work at an engineering firm in the UK as a junior design tech (I do zero actual design work) and my line manager complains that I don't stay later than 5 every night. But, I do 40 hours a week and get paid no overtime so I'm worried about the money I'm, in my eyes, losing and the work life balance. The other week he told me that he stays an extra hour each night, also unpaid and also does work at the weekends. Is it just me that finds it a little odd?
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gxnpovi
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Depends on the position and pay: For management it is often expected.. They can try to have you do it too.
Sorry we in America are bleeding over into other areas of the world. I thought the constant work was just a US thing. Sorry about that. But for real, no. You will find plenty of people who agree that it's total BS to have this expectation. I've had bosses who do this and expect it from their employees, and I just don't do it. They do it because they think it's the only way to advance their career. If getting to a Director level means working 60 hour weeks constantly, what's going to happen when I DO hit that level? I'm just magically able to go back to 40? Haha. No. That expectation is already set. I'm sure that my attitude has cost me a promotion or a job somewhere along the way, but I just don't care. If you're going to fire me because I didn't want to work 5-10 extra hours every single week then I don't want to work for you. And I will happily explain that in my next interview with someone else. I am a-okay with the occasional weekend work, or now that I work with a lot of global teams there are days were I'll start at 8am but work until 8pm. But not everyday. And I work somewhere that acknowledges that and encourages comp days from time to time. So all that to say, it's a normal thing to happen from time to time. But if it's an expectation that you do this regularly then no, that's not normal. That's not the expectation you were given when you were hired. If they told you up front this was a thing then maybe there's less ground to stand on, but assuming that's not the case, then no, this isn't on you for feeling how you do.
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askengineers_train
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AskEngineers (in all fields): What's the hottest topic in your field right now? This thread was made almost a year ago, and I think it'd be fun to see how fields have changed since then. What's hot right now in your field?
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Civil land development here. Big thing is water management and conservation. I am doing groundbreaking stuff with a Philadelphia paper mill this year, basically looking at onsite water supply with city systems as a backup.
Electrical/materials engineer here. Energy is the broad one. Gallium nitride and how to grow it cheaply with low relevant defect density is a big one. A perfect AlN/GaN/InN multijunction solar cell would be pretty sweet even if unlikely. Solar is not a good place to be right now and most LED manufacturers are scaling instead of breaking new ground.
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askculinary_train
0.89
Need advice on noodles to use with a stir-fry dish I want to make a stir-fry dish and serve it over noodles instead of over rice. I have tried a variety of noodle types from the local Asian foods store but none seem to be what I am looking for. What are the best type of noodles to use and how do you prepare them? I am looking for a thinner type noodle, kind of like what you would get at Panda Express or some other fast food place. All suggestions are appreciated!
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Noodles can be an art in itself. Choosing the right one would depend what sort of stir-fry you're trying to make. It does depend - are you trying to make a very saucy dish to go with the noodles (in which case, you might want to use thin chow-mein noodles that looks almost like vermicelli, stir fried until almost crisp); or are you trying to serve it with a relatively dry dish (in which case, I'd suggest the thicker chow mein noodles)? There's many ways to pair your foods, but I can't be of much help until you clarify. I'd disagree with using spaghetti though - the texture is too soft, so it'll probably disintegrate before it could be properly stir-fried.
Do you want a wheat noodle or a rice noodle? Homemade or packaged? I use packaged, and I use ban pho noodles from the local Asian grocery when I want rice, and for wheat noodles, I quite frankly just use thin spaghetti from Kroger.
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askacademia_train
0.9
age for a PhD in EU Good afternoon people, I am an European guy who is searching a PhD in northern Europe (I am currently 30 years old). I think about my age and wonder if it's maybe too late for further studies even if I'm passionate about them. What's your opinion is there an age limit for a PhD?
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You can be 35 with your PhD or without But you'll be 35 anyway. Follow your bliss.
I've been in a lab where someone pursued a PhD after they retired for a while.. they must've been close to 70 by then..
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askengineers_train
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BS in Engineering Technology grads, what is your current job and title? Hi fellow BS in Engineering Technology grads, I’m wondering what your current job and titles are. For example, Engineer vs. Technician? Also, what college did you study at?
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hralmo6
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Copy paste of another comment I left in this sub, lightly edited for clarity: “…And don’t let the MET vs ME thing keep you up at night. I always had a chip on my shoulder from it and it motivated me, but, it’s a slippery slope between motivation and imposter syndrome. MET grad, from an ABET-accredited program, Youngstown State University. Sub 3.0 GPA, with 2 internships at a machine/job shop. I had a lean green belt from IISE and passed the FE. I began career in a simple mechanical structural design, mechanism design, and DFMA role. I’m in a Sr Mfg Engr role currently, have 6 years of engineering experience in a manufacturing environment, and clear six figures. The director of engineering at my site is also an MET graduate, 10 years of engineering/ops experience in a manufacturing environment, and he clears 225/year.” COL in our area is less than national average.
Do not. I repeat DO NOT apply to any job that has the technician in the title if you got a BS in engineering.
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askculinary_train
0.95
Was just given 50 lbs (each) of Chipotle Seasoning and Jalapeño Seasoning Hoping this falls into the exception of bulk quantities because I honestly have no idea what I’m going to do with all of this. The title pretty much sums it up - I’ve got 100 lbs of spices sitting in front of me.
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iq4ifme
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Give it to a food bank.
Donate it. Seasoning is a luxury for places that have to bulk out dishes with starch in order to feed lots of hungry people.
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askscience_train
0.92
AskScience AMA Series: We're a global nonprofit ocean exploration organization conducting science research missions in the most unexplored areas of the world, from the Galapagos Islands to the Arctic Ocean. Ask us anything! OceanX scientists have had rare encounters with a giant purpleback flying squid, identified a potentially region-altering tsunami risk in the Red Sea, and come face-to-face with the elusive sixgill shark, descended from animals that roamed the planet over 200 million years ago. We're currently on mission on our marine research vessel, OceanXplorer, conducting daily sub dives, scuba and ROV ops, and helicopter scouting - and documenting it all to share with the world. Next, we'll be hosting 15 future scientists for a ten-day immersive program aboard our ship. We're broadcasting live from the Red Sea and have a whole crew of experts from OceanX ready to answer your questions about all things ocean science-exploration, engineering, research, testing, identification - and science education and communications! We are: + Mattie Rodrigue, OceanX Head of Science Operations; + Dr. Tiara Moore, Scientist and Black in Marine Science Program Lead at The Nature Conservancy; + Toby Mitchell, OceanX Submersible Team Leader; + Buck Taylor, OceanX Submersible Pilot; + Olaf Dieckhoff, OceanX ROV Pilot; + Ben Neel, OceanX Helicopter Pilot; + Eben Hall, OceanX Executive Producer; + Richard Barden, OceanX Dive Team; + Roger Solem, Captain of OceanXplorer; + Marko Cagalj, Chief Officer of OceanXplorer; + Jesse Boulton, Second Officer of OceanXplorer; + and Ross Davison-Harmer, Second Officer of OceanXplorer. We'll be answering questions live from the Red Sea starting around 12 PM EDT (4:00 PM UTC), ask us anything! Username: /u/oceanxorg @Oceanx on Social Media
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How can I join you guys exploring ?
Do you humanize/get attached to your robots?
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askhr_train
0.89
[NJ] My paycheck has been frequently tardy, and I'm afraid I don't have the ability to complain about it. Is my best option just to grin and bear it? Hello, all, I've been working full-time at a finance company for almost two years. Five years ago, they implemented a policy where if employees wanted to get their paycheck direct deposited, they had to use the checking product our company offers. Otherwise, the check would just be mailed. I didn't want to get the FI checking product because I already have more than I really want that are all open for different reasons (credit card here, student loan there). So, I've been getting my check mailed. Who does and doesn't get checks mailed appears to be a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" kind of thing. This really hasn't been a problem for the most part. I would technically get the check a couple of days late, but it was consistent. However, now with the mail system having its problems, my check has become unreliable. I've already talked to the Payroll department about this a few weeks ago, and while my fellow employee was understanding because of the holiday, she did take a moment to pitch the checking product for direct deposit. A few days later, we all got a mass email from Payroll stating that they are aware the check receivers haven't been getting their checks as expected, but that they do offer a direct deposit option for our company's product. The late checks are definitely frustrating, but I don't see a long term gain in opening the account, since if I leave the company I wouldn't have a reason to need the account anymore. So my questions are: \- I think in my state that I'm not considered compensated until the check is actually in my hand. That means that if the check gets lost that they are still on the hook to pay me, right? But are they accountable to do something in regards to how long it takes for people to be compensated? If so, how long do they have to make sure an employee is properly compensated? \- I also would like to minimize the number of people who know I don't have a checking product. I do know of a few people that get mailed checks, but it seems to be seen as a "loyalty" test that everyone mutually understands. I definitely don't want to bring it up to people who will likely say that the "correct" choice is just to open another checking account.
gj7khhu
gj7r2rx
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Regarding Direct Deposit -- As long as Direct Deposit isn't _mandatory_ (meaning there is some other way for you to get paid, say, via check in the mail), an employer can restrict what institutions they'll allow for direct deposits. From reading through the comments, I'd wager that ADP is handling the payroll for your company (everyone uses ADP, because who wouldn't?). As long as the check is mailed and postmarked regularly and generally the same day as everyone else's payroll is processed, there's not much that can be done. As an FYI, direct deposits arriving on Wednesday is absolutely normal, especially if they're to accounts operated by the institution making the payments. To get a payment to post to accounts, it has to go through the ACH, which takes 1 - 2 business days to show up (and much longer to _actually_ clear, but that's behind the scenes stuff). I'd wager payroll at your company is processed on Wednesday, the printed checks are dropped in the mail at EOD Wednesday, get postmarked Thursday, and show up at your home Friday/Saturday/Monday, depending on the postal service. If you're in the US -- you may remember some bullshit during the election with the USPS and disassembly and trashing of sorting machines meant to speed up mail delivery? That's affecting more than just ballots.
Suck it up and open the direct deposit account. Set up automatic transfers from that account to those that you want to use.
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legaladvice_train
0.97
(AB, Canada). Neighbors built a fence before we bought our house. Now they want 50 percent. We live in Alberta, Canada. We took possession of our new house in August 2016. The fence separating our yard with the neighbors behind us had already been built sometime before we moved in. This summer we started working on our yard and our neighbors behind us have started harassing us for money for the fence they built before we moved in. Basically every time we go into the yard they ask us if we have a cheque for them. We've discussed the issue with them. They have no bill or receipt for the fence, so they've verbally given us a $ amount of what they say they paid (33/linear foot) and told us to measure the back fence and pay 50 percent of 33/linear foot. They confirmed the fence was completed months before we took possession, but don't feel that matters. It's a decent amount of $ (about 1000) and they're quite rude... They've never even introduced themselves or spoken to us other than rudely demanding money. Ethically speaking I know we should probably just pay them the cost (this all started a month ago so we haven't done anything yet... We haven't even finished building the fence on the sides of the house in conjunction with our other neighbors yet because the one house is still being built and the other guy just moved in so we want him to have time to get settled). But they're being really, really rude (the wife yelled at me today with my 18 month old son and I playing in the yard). When they first approached us (literally didn't even say hi, just asked us when we would be paying for the fence as we owe them 33/linear foot, and I actually just learned their names today because they are so short with us) I told them my husband and I needed a few weeks to discuss as this is a lot of money and we weren't expecting it. And that we'd follow up with them in a few weeks as we had company over at the time. Since then they've made comments every time we step into the yard. I'm getting frustrated and don't just want to blindly write a cheque simply to have them leave us alone as I think that's the tactic they're hoping for. Legally speaking, what is my obligation given they have no receipts and did the fence months before we bought the property? Do we just write then a cheque based off their word?
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>We live in Alberta, Canada. I don't know the laws of Alberta, Canada. So I will speak only in broad generalities. >We took possession of our new house in August 2016. The fence separating our yard with the neighbors behind us had already been built sometime before we moved in. If it were me, I would tell the neighbor that I wasn't sure what the law said about the requirement for a neighbor to share the cost of a fence, but that I was willing to presume for discussion that that this was required. And therefore I wished him luck with the process of collecting it from the previous owner whose house it was when the fence was put in. (I had, I would explain if necessary, purchased the house, but not the previous owner's debts.) The truth is that I WOULDN'T wish the neighbor well in the pursuit of this undocumented and un-negotiated debt, but it isn't polite to say so and besides, I have to live near this ass, so there's no reason to antagonize him further. I would also mention that I was willing to share all costs for ongoing maintenance of the fence *SO LONG AS* those maintenance costs were discussed and agreed on beforehand (and ONLY if agreed on beforehand). In general, my goal here is to AVOID arguing the law with this neighbor (because it isn't likely to be productive), but to deflect by using my neighbor's idea of the law to send him after some other party. Preferably one who doesn't have to live near him. Edit: if the developer owned the property before you did, that's great! I would use all the above arguments to tell the neighbor to go bother the developer instead.
Sometimes it is useful to review a dispute from the perspective of the other party. In this case, they erected a fence, and expected to be reimbursed for half, under the Line Fence Act. They are out a good sum, and they want it. And as far as they are concerned, you are now the person on the other side of their good sum of money. Line Fence Act states that a landowner's obligations to reimburse a landowner for the costs of the fence commence >...as soon as that owner or occupier receives any benefit or advantage from the line or boundary fence by the enclosure of that owner’s or occupier’s land or any portion of it or otherwise It occurs to me that if you made an offer on the house, and in that offer placed any value on the pre-existing fence, then the previous landowner received a benefit, and at that time became liable to your neighbors. However, you did not. Furthermore, the statute cannot be read that every time a plot of land is purchased the new owners owe half of the value of the surrounding fences to anyone who erected them. So it does not seem reasonable that an obligation to reimburse your neighbor should apply to you. Therefore, in the spirit of mending metaphorical fences, I might recommend you explain to your neighbor that the fence was part of the purchased property and that their dispute is with the previous owner, and that you are willing to co-operate with them to bring about a mediated solution. But stress that their issue is with the vendor, and not with you.
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askculinary_train
0.96
How do restaurants peel soft (or hard) boiled eggs so they always come out perfect? I really like making ajitama tamago (the seasoned egg that many people top ramen soup with). Since I figured out the marinate it's really upped my at home ramen game. The problem is I'm \*really\* bad at peeling the soft boiled eggs. It's also random how well I peel. Some look great, others look like they've gone through a war. I boil refrigerated eggs for 7 minutes, then immediately shock in an ice bath and let them cool almost completely before peeling. I've tried the spoon trick of getting under the skin, I've tried pricking the air pocket before boiling, and peeling under water. How do restaurants have always smooth perfectly peeled eggs?
fybh2we
fycwt69
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When you shock the eggs, that’s when you crack the shell,
Very surprised I haven’t seen my tricks yet in the top dozen comments. 1: do them a full day in advance. Let them sit in the ice water bath in the fridge over night. 2: vinegar in the water. I’ve tried with and without and it just works better. Vinegar in your shock water too. 3: cook in rapidly boiling water. People often turn down to a simmer— don’t. Full time at an aggressive boil. I also use room temp eggs. This may affect your cooking time but 7 minutes sounds short to me anyway. Not sure if this makes the biggest difference but it’s the way I always do it. I do this with 9 minute soft boiled eggs and the results are perfect. The only ones that get destroyed just accidentally get crushed.
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askculinary_train
0.87
Screwed up my marinade. Added oil, egg, and cornstarch when I should have coated the marinaded chicken in that after it was done. Is it going to ruin the meal? For context, I'm attempting to make Chicken 65 and I'm following some shitty food blogs recipe. Due to the poor layout and ads everywhere I followed the recipe wrong. My chicken is currently marinating in all the correct ingredients plus egg, oil, and cornstarch, and according to this recipe, that should have been the coating after the marinade is done. It's been in there for about 30 min.
hrgq68w
hrgfipz
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Marinating chicken in egg and corn starch is literally what you do to velvet chicken, so it’s hardly wasted. Will it turn out like originally expected? No, but you don’t have to throw that out. Just get a couple tablespoons of oil going, strain off the marinade and fry up the chicken. Don’t worry about it not being a deep fried batter, it will still have a nice thin crust to the exterior.
Fuck it. Fry it up and let us know how it goes. The best way to learn is to make mistakes.
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askbaking_train
0.82
What is your ALL TIME favorite American dessert? Hope this is the right sub for this but I'm curious what the general public opinion is on desserts. Since I'm from America what is your favorite American dessert. Feel free to comment what your fav is if it's not listed! 🍨🍰🍪 I tried to list what my impression is the most popular. View Poll
grrv5mj
grrm7cd
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It is a crime against humanity that Brownies aren't listed.
~~Simple dessert: sweet potato pie Serious dessert: opera cake~~ Edit: Kids, don’t reddit after bedtime. You’ll miss important words like “American” and get all excited about desserts. Edit 2: I was wrong, my answer is peach pie
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changemyview_train
0.58
CMV: The average person who has become anti-vaxx since the introduction of the COVID vaccines is not stupid, but severely mislead. A buddy of mine and his family of four just came down with COVID. I've since learned that they didn't get vaccinated and are now taking Ivermectin - a deworming drug for animals. When I asked him why, he said it's because big pharma/brother knows the drug works, and is denying it to people because they want to drag this out, even though the government has literally begged these same people to get the vaccine to end this circus. What is happening? Tell me he's not stupid and there's something else going on, or don't. How the hell does someone wind up like this and how do I get them out?
hady8ds
hae4of7
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You said that they're positive and taking the drug. Hell, just watch and see if they get better or worse. Then you'll know from 1st hand if there's any truth to it. If they recover then there may be some truth to the treatment. If they've gotten worse then you'll know there's no truth to the claim. Not my place to tell others how to live. Got my own problems to worry about than someone else's when it comes down to it.
i would argue that if a person is misled to the point of what your bud is doing then that person is pretty stupid
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askculinary_train
0.95
Weekly discussion - Cooking for one and dining alone With Valentines behind us, let's leave the happy couples behind for a little while. How do you keep up your enthusiasm for cooking when you're only cooking for yourself? Do you make big batches and eat the same thing for a week or freeze portions for later? Or do you just keep things simple until you have someone to cook for? How do you deal with eating out alone? I understand for some this is quite a challenge. Do you people-watch? Bring a book? Have you become a regular and developed a relationship with the staff for some camaraderie?
fhxwecv
fhzisza
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I often make food for two to four meals, plate it and Saran wrap the extra plates.
I actually prefer cooking for myself to cooking for others. My cooking is heavily self taught and very much to my taste, and so when cooking for others I worry a lot that something I've accepted as tasty is way way off the mark from most people's tastes. So usually when cooking for others I start from a recipe and adjust from there. When cooking for myself though I can go very freeform, and get to kind of poke around with the mess of random ingredients that were on sale or which will go bad if I don't use soon, and see what I can come up with. I cook large quantities, a week at a time. More recently I've had a flatmate and so I'll offer some of what I've made to her, and she's liked it all so far. So, that's promising. I've liked it too. Eating out alone: yup, bring a book or a laptop to get some work done, and usually it's to the same few places so I get to know the staff some. For eating out alone the priority is usually about having a quiet place that's conducive to focus (and perhaps that has outlets). I'm more likely to just get the food as take-out, though.
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vjtjbd
legaladvice_train
0.93
[Phoenix, AZ] Neighbor dumped their trailer on my driveway and then sent mail demanding compensation for emotional abuse by us Throwaway for privacy. My neighbor from across the street dumped his Forest River trailer on our driveway; we found it when we came back from doing shopping, and he'd also left us mail in our house, a note which read: > You will be hearing from my attorney in 90 days. Suing you for emotional distress and making my sons unhappy. I know you have links to the people involved in The Great Reset theory. You're gonna fucking go to hell for making my gay son's life a misery. What are you, a Columbine fan/supporter? You're hearing from my attorney. and also: > You're the people who know the guy involved in Columbine. Get over your need for fame, losers. His two sons are 14 and 15, but we've only interacted a handful of times with them, as a couple. We have a 28-year-old daughter. I'm worried about this guy's threats, can we get him committed under the Baker Act? Need advice now.
idlujfp
idmvzsr
1,656,103,296
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How did he leave mail “in” your house?
An involuntary commitment typically involves an immediate threat of self harm, death, etc. to a person or to others. While concerning, I don't think this would rise to the level to have the person taken to a psych facility. It is clear they have psychological issues. My suggestion would be to have the police stand by while the trailer is towed off your property. Show them the letters and see if they can talk to him. Consider a restraining order if you have his information. Put up cameras on the exterior of your house in case he comes by or tries to park a trailer on your property again.
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askhr_train
0.92
Is my team name, "Freaks in the Spreadsheets," appropriate for a workplace fitness competition? Georgia
f1busyx
f1bdpwq
1,569,343,450
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My former boss said our fitness team name could not be "between the spreadsheets", which isn't even as bad, so I would say no. She also turned down "kicking assets and taking names"
100% dependent on the workplace. But if you have to ask, don’t
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askculinary_train
0.88
How to make my tomato sauce less acidic Any tips for making homemade tomato sauce less acidic? I've tried adding sugar during cooking and it always ends up over sweetened before it fixes the acidity problem. Any other ideas?
hdx6ls1
hdwbwm0
1,632,366,773
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Throw a carrot in baby! Yeah!
Sweet red table wine.
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lh056q
askengineers_train
0.97
Can I get hired as an electrical engineer with a criminal record? I'm a second year EE student with a 3.9 GPA. Absolutely love my major. Long story short, I had a history with heroin although I was never caught with it on my possession. But I did manage to wrack up a record of petty misdemeanor crimes associated with my drug use (larceny, retail fraud, possession of paraphernalia and the like; I was charged with one violent felony but the case was dismissed, not sure if that will be a factor so I'm mentioning it). Its been a few years since I've been charged with any new crimes, I'm rehabilitated and clean and I've changed my life around entirely. Im a resident of Michigan, if that is relevant. I love engineering, I love math, I love science and I love applying it to the real world to solve problems and design things. I couldn't imagine doing anything else as a career. So, after my long-winded preamble here is my question: am I wasting my time? Will my record affect my job prospects? Guidance from anyone in a similar situation or relevant experiences would seriously help. This keeps me up at nights sometimes and the anxiety is overwhelming. Thanks in advance to anyone who responds
gmvwssw
gmvvx6b
1,613,005,905
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I thought that was a requirement.
I have a friend whose brother was a Vietnam veteran and a heroin addict. He was imprisoned on a felony for milking the system and feigning a disability. After they suggested for him to be a ward of the state he said, “You know what? I’ll become a doctor!” So he went to medical school and now he lives out in the country and the whole small town he’s in loves him and always goes to him for help. There are even ex-gang members who might not be living it up like the Kardashians, but they turned their lives around and amounted to something. Don’t let your dreams be dreams, my friend. As long as you don’t give up, you’ll someday succeed in your realistic endeavors. The hard part is to be patient (though that’s the essential part). I promise you that much.
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askculinary_train
0.91
What is an “average size” clove of garlic? E.g. when a recipe calls for X number of cloves of garlic, how do you decide what this means? In my experience, clove sizes vary DRASTICALLY. I usually assume a recipe-author has access to better (ie bigger) garlic than I do, so I usually grab more cloves than called for, under the assumption the cloves I have are below-average sized. But maybe I’m overthinking it?
hl9kuhx
hlb1fos
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Yeah no need to be precise when using Garlic. Assuming you like garlic, just grab more than the recipe says, of whatever size cloves lol
I often buy the pre-chopped garlic for convenience. (That and squeeze ginger save a considerable amount of time when I've gotten home from work and there are hangry children hovering nearby. Nobody judge, maybe when they're older I won't need shortcuts. 🤣) I usually figure about a teaspoon of chopped equals a clove. Recipes that want 3 get a heaping tablespoon from me.
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e51zua
askculinary_train
0.98
Weekly Discussion - Culinary Gifts What kitchen-focused gifts are you hoping for, planning on giving and/or dreading receiving from misguided relatives? Do you need or have advice on what to get for the cooking enthusiasts and pros on your Christmas list? Or for gearing up your own kitchen for preparing holiday feasts?
f9i9ida
f9iwthe
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I would love any of these: Citrus Zester Japanese Jigger JB Prince Tami JB Prince Off Set Tweezers Bluegrass Soy Sauce Wooden Cheeseboard Cheese Markersb
I love this thread; i'm such a kitchen ho
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b04j6s
askacademia_train
0.85
I'm interested in an academic career in the Humanities (lit or philosophy), but also terrified by the bleak job market. How should I prepare myself? I'm currently applying to undergrad degree programmes (I have some offers from universities, but not all, yet) and my dream job is being a researcher/lecturer at a university. Unfortunately I've read and heard many terrifying stories about the bleak academic job market for the humanities and how even if you're willing to go to the remotest part of the globe to secure a job, you might not even get one, or you might end up jumping from one adjunct position to another without securing a tenure-track job. Additionally, I've also heard that getting a PhD in the humanities and failing to get into academia will leave you stranded because you're nearly thirty without any working experience and essentially you'll be jobless and broke. As I'm not from a rich family, and not particularly confident of my ability to marry a rich person (lol) the future sounds bleak and terrifying. At the same time I don't know if there's anything more important to me than ideas and books--I feel more at home and alive doing coursework than anything else--I'm the kind of person that gets obsessed and will work compulsively, and I also have emotional and mental health issues that make me doubt my ability to find happiness elsewhere. And all of this makes me think my only chance of finding fulfillment is pursuing an academic career. So I'm not sure what I should do. Should I just go for it? Or find something else to do? Are there people here who've left academia and found fulfilling jobs elsewhere? Any advice would be really appreciated!
eick39p
eichmq6
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I talked to a friend studying philosophy in NUS, he says it's kind of like a business degree, in that it is applicable to many fields but is not specialised. Possibly has slightly lower demand than a biz degree, but its still quite viable to find a job in the corporate world. It is just up to you to market your skillset and find jobs that match what you know and can do. Literature grads can do marketing as they are sensitive to imagery and message, while philosophy grads can apply for any job that has no requisite university degree, of which there are quite a lot of. At the end of it just be presentable and smart when looking for a job and it should not be a problem in sg, though your career path will likely be much less certain than any of the STEM degrees.
I often think to myself that I want to get an English Masters, but then I remember that I can just read the books. I know it would be better to have an expert to speak about the book with, but it is cheep to read it by myself. Then I try to talk about books on reddit a lot.
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qgrba3
changemyview_train
0.63
CMV: Trans rights should be respected, but access to female private and safe spaces should not be crossed, unless they went through full transition. Firstly, I want to ask sorry in case someone gets offended, but am really trying to have a sane discussion and if am wrong, willing to change my conformed view. I had to deep dive into trans problems to understand what they are. It's very complicated and confusing, I don't think we should call everyone transphobic so easily, it needs some commitment to understand their side. Which is actually valid. Trans people suffer, yes it's true. I think it's ok to use pronouns if someone asks to. By my search I saw that it can help trans people mentally, so if it helps them, I would have no problem adapting it for them. Quite a small change to make others feel safe. Am ok with people fully transitioning and I think we should be supportive on their journey, if it helps them to be healthier and happier. But there are things I don't find right. Biological women having to share public showers and changing rooms with trans that are not fully transitioned. Am ok with shared bathrooms, if bathrooms have well closed cabins and everyone can have privacy without worry. But I can't accept sharing a room where you have to undress and be vulnerable, especially if it also includes minors. I saw people call it transphobic if you don't accept it. (I can't speak for everyone). But here are my issues with it. 1. Allowing not fully transitioned trans, in biological women private spaces should not be ok. It allows predators (not trans) exploit this to get access to commit crimes. I saw trans arguing that, trans people are not predators. I will agree, but I think that there are more predators than trans people, so the risk for women raises. (Example: Amazon driver that put on a wig to go in bathrooms to film young girls in stalls, they were minors) 2. If a trans didn't transition fully, I don't think biological women should be exposed to male genitals. Yes it's hard for trans and they are not forced to go through full transition, but I don't think it's valid excuse to cross that boundary. Biological Women, which are half of the population, many had unfortunate experience of sexual harassment. And having to face a male genitals when you are naked can leave you feeling very vulnerable. ( Example incident in Koreatown's Wi Spa, by law they let the not fully transitioned person in women only space, that had also minor girls and they were exposed to male anatomy) 3. Biological women will be scared to voice their discomfort, to not be discriminatory. (maybe they are unsure if they are dealing with trans, or a predator acting like one) I want to say, trans are not dangerous, but the laws put women in danger ( I advocate for females , because i don't know how it's for males) Trans face violence and sexual harassment, correct, but they are very small minority and females are half of the population and many went through sexual violence, I don't think its a valid point to put females in more dangerous position. I see nothing wrong with creating space for people who don't fit yet in male or female safe space and don't find it discriminatory. I think it's good for safety for the both sides.
hi8ffnt
hi9j08x
1,635,333,503
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Clarification: Are you insinuating that the only way to determine whether or not someone is likely to be a predator is whether or not they have a penis and testicles?
Trans women are generally extremely self-conscious of their appearance & that others may be wary of them. Typically trans people avoid spaces where their genitals would be visible to cisgender people because that is something they typically are sensitive about. Additionally, trans people are usually trying hard to fit in, be unobtrusive, and to look like their gender, that's kind of the point. There are a ton of trans porn subreddits, do you really think all of those very feminine looking women would fit better in the men's room? Someone seeing a woman who looks like a woman and has a penis is not going to assume she's a cisgender man.
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yd4izn
askculinary_train
0.84
Types of cheese acceptable to blend into ground beef meatballs? Last night, I chopped up some standard American cheese slices (Kraft singles) and blended them into a basic meatball recipe (baked). I think it all melted out because I couldn't taste any of it. Which types of cheese are acceptable for blending into ground beef? I'm assuming I need more of a dryer / less melty cheese to have it not just melt out of the beef during cooking? If so, what are some good readily available options? Thanks in advance.
itq7m3i
itq0h1t
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I like to finely grate pecorino and mix the cheese with the bread crumbs before combining the whole mixture.
Parm. I don't believe good meatballs should even necessarily have cheese inside. Instead, melt some fresh mozzarella on top while they sit in a good marinara. Keep meatballs simple. Beef/pork Parsley Salt Pepper Breadcrumbs Parm A minced onion Add to a blender. Fry in olive oil. Don't overcook. Throw them in a pan with some homemade marinara and top with mozzarella. Melt in the oven and enjoy. You can also add other spices. Of course, there's other varieties of meatballs, but I love Italian ones.
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tdd5ub
legaladvice_train
0.94
I found a cinder block lodged into the front of my (probably senile) neighbor’s car. What can I do? So I live in an apartment in Maryland, and one of my neighbors is this really old lady. In the very few interactions I’ve had with her, she’s come off as “not all there”, if you catch my drift. Around a year ago, she left her apartment without turning off the gas burner on her stove, which left the gas leaking throughout our rooms. Half of the people who were present in the building at the time had to get together just to find where the gas was coming from, and this guy had to use a combustible gas leak detector and found it was coming from her apartment while she was gone. We had to wait for her to return and turn it off. Then a month ago or so, we found the trunk of her car open without anyone around it. We came back 30 mins later and it was still open, all by itself. I can’t see any reason why someone would just leave their trunk open like that, unless they’re having trouble remembering to do basic tasks. And then today, we went to the parking lot and found the front of her car just COMPLETELY fucked. Not only is the front of the car cracked like shit and the top of it covered with soil, it looks like there’s a thin cinder block literally lodged into the right of her bumper. She just left the car like this. I don’t think this person is capable of driving responsibly, and might be a danger to herself and the people around her. Is there anything I can do to suspend/revoke her license or otherwise prevent her from hurting others? Thanks :)
i0ja3ev
i0j58mx
1,647,204,439
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Aps is anynomus and safe to use
Calling APS. Call the police if you think the car was involved in a hit and run accident or you have personally witnessed unsafe or illegal driving. The examples you listed could happen with anyone of any age. The gas leak was incredibly dangerous, and fire departments are called out for such issues frequently. Has she done anything else to endanger the neighbors? Are you looking to remove her? The trunk thing could have been as simple as thinking it was latched and walking away, or she could have forgotten. I have driven past vehicles with open trucks before; that is also something that is not uncommon. The car accident is a problem if she did not stay at the accident scene or report the damage. People of any age do hit and runs, which would be the only reason you would need to be involved. And if this was not a hit and run, then what do you expect her to do? Her car was in an accident, she needs to take it with her or drop it off at a shop. Of course she would bring it home and not leave it stuck in a retaining wall if she can. If the police and insurance were properly notified, they will be taking care of it. If there is evidence for senility or danger, then that is what the APS and police calls are supposed to cover.
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341jpz
askengineers_train
0.81
Is there any Engineering reason that prohibits the use of blimps to transport heavy loads? In a nutshell, why can't/aren't we using blimps and other dirigibles to lift and transport heavy loads I understand that for speed, nothing will beat an aircraft for transport and generically, rails and trucks are the most commonplace. But why not airships? It should not be a difficult task, at least not that I can see. In particular, I was thinking of the vast empty expanses of the Canadian Prairies as the perfect testing ground, but so would the American Midwest. They can fly across long distances for cheap, the cost of manufacturing the actual vehicles will not be expensive (at least, much cheaper than the equivalent alternative method of transportation) and with some caveats, they should be able to "land" practically anywhere you can secure a tether. Yes, I recognize that it would not be the fastest manner to transport. I'm an Electronics Engineer, but I cannot fathom a reason **why** not, other than the economics of it. Has something like this been attempted in the past other than during the Zeppelin (dirigible, not band) era? If it failed, what was the cause of failure?
cqqevrd
cqqetqq
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The biggest problem is the amount of gas needed. Imagine you have a coal train that holds 10,000 tonnes of coal. Helium has a lift of something like 1kg / m^3. So 10,000 tonnes means you need 10000000m^3 of helium to hold it up. The hindedburg was 200,000m^3 so you would need the ship to be 50 times bigger. This would have such a big surface area it would go anywhere the wind blew. Its much easier to push something on wheels than lift it up and carry it
Technically, totally doable. As others have noted it's already been done and others are still making improvements. I think it's almost totally an economic issue. R&D costs, the helium or hydrogen costs, legal issues, etc. Few people are willing to spend money on something slower than what they use currently.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.97
[ATLA] How different/messed up would the world have been if the Fire Nation had succeeded in destroying all the other Bending Cultures (e.g Aang doesn't run away and dies with the other Air Nomads, Yue isn't born so the Moon Spirit stays dead, Ozai's Final Solution succeeds)? It would be a world where the Earth Kingdom is a burnt husk, the Moon (and water-bending) no longer exists, and the Air Nomads are long gone. The Avatar Cycle looks irreparably broken and Fire Bending is the only kind of Bending left. How bad is the situation, on a spiritual level? Would spirits start rampaging? Would anything happen at all? Or would the Fire Nation actually have gotten everything it wanted?
fies4r3
fieviz7
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On a political level, the most likely thing that would happen is that, when the honeymoon period ends and the Fire Nation realizes their country isn’t as prosperous as it seems (seeing as destroying the moon would cause tides to fluctuate on an island-based nation and they just burned a perfect source of farmland), they’d quickly have to find another scapegoat to pin the blame to. All the other bending cultures are dead, so they’d probably go after their own people next. First people who aren’t pure blooded fire natives, then non-benders who are Fire Nation citizens, then maybe short fire benders or something.
There would have been a huge spiritual upheaval, and perhaps literally, the physical world would start to rot and turn itself inside out until the Phoenix Empire had crumbled and humanity had been laid bare. Society would go post-post apocalyptic everywhere, and the notions of 'nations' would disappear and be forgotten. The cycle starts anew and benders of all four elements would come to exist again, and the world would rebuild.
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changemyview_train
0.61
CMV: There are many positives to organized religion, and from my point of view the online left fails to see the benefits of it. How’s it going guys. I’m writing this from a place of good faith, so I would hope you respond as such. I’m not religious, but I’m extremely sympathetic to many religious peoples and groups. I think they are a force for good in America, and in many parts of the world. I have a few points, just a few. A: Community Organizing and Involvement B: Charity and Donation C: Common Morality A: This is my biggest point, and it basically boils down to the idea of a central community building or area which can be shared and used for the will of the people. This has numerous benefits to the people, because the face to face human interaction of people who may disagree over politics, law, and the world can help make the situation much more amicable and respectful. People become less separated from each other because there is always a time of the week where you come together, sing songs, talk about life, and unite around something that are all parts of your life. This space can also be used for things unrelated to the church, such as picnics and clubs. B: Religious organization all across the world, and specifically in America are some of the biggest givers. They donate in large amounts, to lots of different causes and people groups, no matter the time or situation. These donation aren’t always related to faith either, and can range from helping your local homeless shelter to giving aid to Syrian refugees. This has demonstrably helped many people all over the world, and religious organizations are vital to thousands of non profits all across the globe. This isn’t much of a arguable point, since you’d be hard pressed to find someone who hates charity. C: This is probably the main point you may disagree with, but I think a common sense of moralities is important for a society to function. Obviously they would have to follow the laws, but having act better because of some eternal force combing us all together is , I think, a good thing. Common arguments against this are absolutely the bad religion has done before and arguable does today. But I would say that an influx of members to the church would actually be good because they would bring new more modern ideas of love and kindness, less excluding of homophobia and transphobia. Thanks a bunch, and I would love to hear everyone ideas about this.
hdzl52t
hdzsfso
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Do you think it matters whether people believe true thing? And how do you think religion addresses the issue of morality, because I'm not sure how it does beyond saying things are right because god says so and god is powerful. There's an issue called the euthyphro dilemma, which asks whether things are good because god says so, or whether some things are good and god just tells us which the good things are.
Community: It creates a community, but does not necessarily contribute to the community at large. The church I grew up in gave most of their resources to the church and to support mission work in what was Burma back then. The church within itself is a community, but that does not necessarily translate to the broader community. In my city a lot of the conflict is between churches. Charity: What percentage of donations within a church make it to the community? A quick search and I found a study that says on average 82% of tithes go to administration (back into the church), 5% goes to church programs, and 1% goes to local and national benevolence. I won't speak to the legitimacy of the study, but that's not very impressive if your point is that churches give to worthy causes. I would feel very safe saying the lion's share of tithes go directly back into the church. (See my first point.) Morality: I'll use the same argument I've used most of my life. Who is more moral, the person who does what is right because they choose to or the one who does so because they will be punished for not doing it? The person who thinks and decides what is right or the person who just does what someone tells them is right? You can also have the discussion of whether church goers are more or less moral (based on whatever metric). No clue on the breakdown of crime, etc between the two groups. I will point out that, for example, the Catholic church is formally against birth control, yet the majority of Catholics utilize it. Break down the 'morality' that comes with a religion and it gets even more tenuous. I can't tell you the number of times I've heard people quote Leviticus as 'proof' homosexuality is bad while simultaneously discounting the rest of the book where it says not to trim your beard, cut the side of your hair, etc. Cherry picked 'morality' seems more like pushing an agenda to me.
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askscience_train
0.86
Discussion: Veritasium's newest YouTube video on the reproducibility crisis! Hi everyone! Our first askscience video discussion was a huge hit, so we're doing it again! Today's topic is Veritasium's video on reproducibility, p-hacking, and false positives. Our panelists will be around throughout the day to answer your questions! In addition, the video's creator, Derek (/u/veritasium) will be around if you have any specific questions for him.
d6d9opu
d6da33n
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Hi Derek. Thanks for the video. Does university politics (ie, pressure scientist to publish papers) give them incentives to do p-hacking?
Do you think our fixation on the term "significant" is a problem? I've consciously shifted to using the term "meaningful" as much as possible, because you can have "significant" (at p < 0.05) results that aren't meaningful in any descriptive or prescriptive way.
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legaladvice_train
0.95
please help. boyfriend took over half of my psych meds (adhd, anxiety) that i need for work, and is demanding i pay him $5k to get them back - recourse? realistically what recourse do i have? i am afraid the police will just think i am a drug seeker because of the meds they are (controlled). i just started a new job and have been taking these medications for years. my therapist knows but that’s it. i don’t know what to do; this will undoubtedly ruin this job and my life. i just emailed my therapist and the practice where my psychiatrist practices out of. i have no way of proving this as we live together (he’s moving out over the last few days and have no idea what he did with the medication).
igzzt13
ih00hgi
1,658,370,622
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Whatever county you live in, look for a DV center on Google IN that county. They should have a hotline. They may be able to help with temporary housing (hotel vouchers), they can help with safety planning, and possibly relocation. I would look into a protection order if this person continues to harass you as well. Try to avoid going to the cops like someone else said. They are not trained to work in a trauma-informed way at all.
Obviously, get yourself safe. That's vital... I would call prescribing doctor. And ask pharmacy if they can replace. It's possible that your doc would be willing to write a new script to get you through a couple days til you can get any sort of documentation others suggested you might need. And I would say something to HR or your manager. You can be as vauge as you like "I've had an issue with my medication and might not be at my best for a few days until i can sort it out," or something. Good luck
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kvnieo
askscience_train
0.92
If the near centre of a record rotates in 1 second (1cm/second) what would happen if the record was 1000's of metres wide? If the record had a big enough diameter, and it was possible to actually turn it, why wouldn't it be going faster than light?
gizxoo0
gizodww
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ehrenfest_paradox There's also the thought experiment of a really long rod or pole and you push one end how soon does the other end move. It has something to do with the speed of sound in the material the rod is made out of. https://physics.stackexchange.com/questions/74029/push-in-a-rigid-rod-travel-at-speed-of-sound-or-speed-of-light
Bonus question: Spin a rigid disk of any size at any speed. If you measure the circumference, you should find that it's shorter than before spinning it due to lorentz contraction, whereas the radius should stay the same. That suggests that the ratio of circumference over radius of a spinning disk won't be Pi. What gives?
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askacademia_train
0.97
Pregnant postdoc in a chemistry lab Hi all, I've been in my current postdoc position in the organic chemistry field (US) for almost two years now (33yo). I and my PI have discussed recently starting writing papers to prepare for switching positions by next year. But I still have some pieces left to complete a paper. I've struggled with infertility for many years. I am pregnant through IVF, it's now only 6 weeks. Until now, I am still doing research in the lab, even wearing PPE and performing in the hood, it's impossible to not be exposed to organic solvents. I plan to tell my boss until 10 weeks or so when the miscarriage chance significantly decreases. My major concern is the risks of continuing the lab works on the fetus. This pregnancy is too precious for us, I won't take any risks. I would like to hear people who have similar experiences or any suggestions are welcoming! Thanks!
h0lvn0t
h0l1h7n
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This pregnancy is extremely important to you. Tell the PI immediately and make an alternative arrangement as others have suggested. You do not want anything to happen, especially during the first trimester when things are most fragile. I'm hoping that your pregnancy goes well and you have an amazing experience!
In a well run lab there shouldn't be any additional risks to your baby. Make sure all risk assessments and lab safety protocols are up-to-date. I did my PhD in a chemistry lab and my PI had two preganancies during that time and both were fine. Congratulations on your happy result! This is understandably an anxious time for you but a chemistry lab is not an unsafe place to be. If it was no-one would be allowed to work there, not just pregnant women. Once you're comfortable telling your PI come up with a plan between the two of you to make the most of your time before maternity leave. Your biggest issue will be when you get big your bump will get in the way of being able to do bench work and standing up for hours will be really uncomfortable.
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askbaking_train
0.99
"Secret ingredient" Do you have a "secret" ingredient that you wouldn't mind sharing? It could be across baked goods or just one extra good addition or swap. A couple of mine: put 1/4 cup+ ground caraway seed in bread along with the whole seeds. It gives it a "rye" flavor. Also, espresso powder in chocolate goods (brownies, cookies etc). Definitely adds a punch. I usually add a tablespoon or so depending on the yield.
g0yajwj
g0ya2j3
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Buttermilk. Pretty much any cake or muffin that calls for milk, I use buttermilk instead. I think it makes the crumb more tender and adds a depth of flavor.
My choc chip cookie recipe is a good example! Feel free to try it. Fair warning though that I often go by feel so measurements may not be exact! Flats vs rounds for this one totally depends on chill time. Ingredients: - 1 cup oat flour - 1 1/4 cup all purpose flour - 1/4 cup cake flour - 1 cup MELTED butter (I always use kerrygold) - 1 cup white sugar - 3/4 cup dark brown sugar NOT packed - 1 tablespoon + 1 teaspoon high quality maple syrup - 2 eggs + 1/3 yolk - 1/2 packet vanilla pudding mix - 2 1/2 tsp baking powder - 2 1/2 tsp corn starch - 3-4 “cap-fuls” of vanilla (probably is about 2 teaspoons) - Salt to taste Mix ins: - Finely chopped walnuts - Handful of chopped butterscotch chips - Chopped chocolate bars to taste (I like to use Lindt touch of caramel, endangered species dark choc with caramel, and alter eco dark choc w sea salt) - Handful semi sweet choc chips If you need need more flour, alternate between the cake and all purpose. < 3 hrs chill time will give you flats, more and you’ll get mounds. I’ll adjust oven temp between 320 and 375 depending how they spread, I always start at 350. I usually mix the butter with the sugar, then I add the eggs, vanilla, and maple syrup. Then i will slowly incorporate with a spatula the dry ingredients, pre mixed together. When there’s still juuuust a bit of visible flour, then I add the mix-ins Edit add: if anyone tries this, please let me know how it went! Interested to see how it works out for other people and if you like them
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askculinary_train
0.95
What’s the best way to wash a cheesecloth? I was wringing shredded zucchini yesterday and spent a long time trying to get all the flecks of zucchini out of the cheesecloth afterwards and the faucet was on way too long as I repeatedly rinsed it out - I hate to waste water. Is there an optimal way to wash a cheesecloth?
hiwbrhi
hiw5ffg
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I always wash and reuse mine until they get too tattered. Then I compost them. Follow the directions for hand washing delicates. I find that soaking in a bucket gets most of the job done using the dissolving power of detergents without using too much water. Then I just rinse, refilling the bucket as necessary, until the water is clear and line dry.
Cheese cloth is single use
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askacademia_train
0.99
It’s criminal what they pay adjuncts I was asked to adjunct teach a course for a university I am staff at. This course would force me to rearrange my entire schedule. They offered me $1600, plus the department head was very condescending. My other adjunct work pays $3500 at another university. Is this normal!? Thankfully I have a clinical license that allows me to have other employment opportunities and the adjunct teaching I’ve done supplements my income and gives me experience on my CV for when I complete my PhD. But it is absolutely criminal what they pay! It comes to roughly 16$/hour that you’re in class, not including the grading and office hours.
e4lkgdq
e4lfj6w
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That's criminally low! I make approx $8k per course, because adjuncts and grad students at my university are unionized.
The only adjunct work I've done paid that PER CREDIT HOUR if you taught less than half time. If you taught more than half time it went up even more. That sounds like a ridiculous amount even for adjunct.
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askacademia_train
0.88
Is academia actually as pessimistic as /r/AskAcademia and /r/gradschool make it out to be? One would get the impression from all the grad students suffering from impostor syndrome and all the posts about getting out of academia that academia is full of pessimists...thoughts? I'm only an undergrad, but I've met many grad students and profs, and most seem pretty happy with their choice of career. Maybe the appearance of pessimism just stems from the fact that academia is just a competitive industry? I know it's hard to get a professorial position, and most grad students probably want to become professors.
cdp6mpa
cdqjqog
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You dont say where you are from, but since this is Reddit, I am presuming the US. However, in certain scandinavian welfare states, things are not as bad with regards to pay and retirement funds as in the US (as in, they are pretty damn good). The pay is slightly lower than a comparative career with that workload and amount of prestige, but nothing to make me break a sweat. The freedom and interest in my field can easily cover the 500-1000 dollars monthly difference in pay from my privately employed friends. Overall I love academia - do note that I am just a phd fellow, who just taught my first course. I kinda blew it, but meh, thats what you get for sending a boy to do a man's job without much prior instruction. I will practice and come back brighter. Did I mention we soon have some available phd scholarships :p ?
nah the successful ones are publishing instead of being in r/askacademia & r/gradschool
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legaladvice_train
0.96
(MA) my cat got out last night and the neighbors took him in. When he attacked their dog today they had my cat put down. (posting on behalf of a friend). The cat got out last night and the neighbors claim they thought he was their cat. He doesn't get along with dogs and never had. He attacked their dog so they just assumed he was rabid and the vet didn't check the micro chip until AFTER killing the cat.
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d0vhfbk
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Sorry that happened to your friend. The neighbours are assholes and the vet was completely in the wrong for just believing them at face value without checking for a chip.
>the neighbors claim they thought he was their cat. ಠ_ಠ How possibly does someone not know their own cat? Even cats that look the same at first glance would be identified quickly by their owner.
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askculinary_train
0.93
Are you supposed to eat the rind of Brie cheese? I never thought about it as I’ve always ate it. Just want to confirm.
j1d85yo
j1bz7ty
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Eat it with raw honeycomb, you’ll see god.
Gotta have that mold
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askculinary_train
0.93
Can you help me make a popcorn themed menu for a dinner party? My friend bought me 50 pounds of " Mushroom Popcorn Kernels" as a gag housewarming gift. I'd like to have him over for dinner and surprise him with an entirely popcorn-themed menu (as in every dish includes popcorn, not popcorn-esque things like popcorn chicken). The only ideas I've had so far is chocolate covered popcorn balls for dessert and trying to use crushed popcorn as a breading (which may or may not work)? One other restriction - there will be someone with celiac at the dinner so I'll need gluten free options. Any recipes/techniques I should know to make this popcorn feast?
ie4yife
ie39wa9
1,656,469,871
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Not gluten free unless you sub the base cake recipe, but Christina Tosi (Milkbar) has a recipe for a popcorn cake that looks interesting and quite labor intensive. I think the recipe appears in All About Cake. In addition to the obvious caramel corn topper, other components are popcorn steeped milk soak, popcorn fudge, and popcorn crumbs. Oh and she adds ground popcorn to the batter itself. Sounds like a fun dinner!
Just serve a giant bowl of popcorn. Stop over thinking it
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cknn2c
askbaking_train
0.9
KitchenAid - what are the pros and cons to Tilt Head model vs Bowl Raise model? When I got my KitchenAid mixer, I got the tilt head because it just seemed that would be easier to add ingredients, scrape the bowl, etc. I'm curious to know what others think, what advantages are there to having the bowl raise models?
evpv2op
evpa76u
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I’ve got the bowl-lift, my mom has the tilt head. I prefer the tilt head, as attaching/removing the bowl in the bowl-lift is kind of awkward, and it’s harder (imho) to add ingredients. The bowl head is apparently better than the tilt for heavy-duty use, though.
I got the bowl-lift because I knew I was going to be making a lot of bread doughs, some of them heavy, and that model is designed to stand up to more strain. Also, I tend to make big batches of things, so the fact that it was a 6-quart (the biggest available at the time) rather than 5 was appealing to me. My mom had a tilt-head so I knew what that was like, and I think there's no difference between them for ease of use; for scraping and adding, you're either tilting the head back or lowering the bowl, so it's six of one/half a dozen of the other. For me it was the right choice, and I've been really happy with it. I had an Amazon coupon for one free accessory so I chose the mini combo-whip bowl for quick small batches.
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askphysics_train
0.79
Would I be smart enough to study physics? This might be silly to some people but I thought I'd ask. I'm 15 and I'm really passionate about physics and would love to study it at university but I keep on seeing all these stats about how the average iq for a physics major is around 130 and even higher for PHD students. I've done test and I got around 120 and currently in school I haven't got lower than the equivalent of an A\* in my physics exams (the UK grading system is weird) but I have the worry that I'm only doing well because its all really simple at this level and that if I try and study it at a higher level it might simply be too hard. If anybody would be able to offer some insight it would be much appreciated.
iuha3i0
iugkcc9
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We've had the same question just yesterday here, just worded differently. The most upvoted comment was, and I agree with it, somewhere along the lines of: Intelligence is not everything but you will struggle greatly and it might be impossible for you to grasp certain concepts without some smarts. I have seen a lot of people fail although they tried hard. Physics is a about grasping concepts and transferring what you have learned. There are a lot of people who struggle with this a lot. Also please keep in mind that you grades might deteriorate quickly in university. If you are a good pupil in school, you might only be average at university. You should not worry about this however. When I started studying I was shocked how many people studied with me that were so much smarter than me. Some will be able to appear smart because they work a lot but none of the guys that I studied with that made it to professor were just "working harder". All of them were able to grasp concepts quicker than me, even while the lecture was going on, where I had to work through a lot exercises to figure it out. They just were and are a lot smarter than me and you will have to be able to deal with this, so do not focus too much on your IQ. There is 100% a certain threshold at which you can not compensate a lack of intelligence with work. Anyone who claims otherwise is dreaming. If you score 120 iq in any "meaningful" test however, you should be fine, if you put in the work required. I would only start to worry if you score below the average.
Physics was one of my worst subjects in high school, if not my worst. I made it out of university with a physics degree. If I can do it, so can you! Just be prepared to work hard and don’t be afraid to ask for help when you need it (note that this is advice I give everyone regardless of their high school grades/experience)
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askculinary_train
0.88
Is it really worthwhile to remove all the seeds from peppers when making hot sauce from scratch? In no way am I concerned about it being too spicy. I'm making hot sauce, not cold sauce... I'm not so much concerned about texture as I am about bitterness or distinct off flavour as I plan on running about a quart of freshly made sauce through a robot coupe for 30-60 minutes. Beforehand I'm looking at fermenting fresh serranos and habaneros in brine for 7 days before adding sautèed chile de arbol with fresh minced garlic, 50/50 white wine vinegar/apple cidar vinegar and honey. I'm a sous but I've never made hot sauce from scratch before and I'm just looking for constructive input. Thanks!
hd2cc07
hd2g78m
1,631,790,629
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I've only ever really noticed bitterness signifcantly from pith of large peppers. To be honest, what do you want from your texture. I would consider that before you consider the flavour. I think usually from fermenting and cooking the pith and seeds, especially with the brine, you'd remove most of the bitter flavour and the sharp heat too actually. That said, I do think the flavour is slightly better without the pith and seeds too, as the heat is slightly less and the flavour from the chilli is a little more concentrated. I think however, hot sauces are usually much nicer without the texture of the seeds too.
Honestly, I wouldn't bother with removing seeds / pith from serranos. Maybe work on the habaneros but they'll also be fermented, so this will knock spice / bitterness down a bit
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explainlikeimfive_train
0.94
eli5 How does razor blade dull on hairs when razor blades are made of steel and they are much higher on mohs scale?
idvcpsq
idvemmd
1,656,289,485
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This question came up a long time ago and it was agreed that rusting was the main reason. So I started to wipe my disposable razors and found that they lasted much longer.
If you use knives every so often you need to strike it against a steel to get the edge back. The steel does not sharpen the knife it straitens out the edge so it cuts a again. https://www.sharpeningsupplies.com/How-to-Use-a-Sharpening-Steel-W62.aspx
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asksocialscience_train
0.89
Is there any consensus on "broken window" policing? How effective is it? What are the pros/cons? I find it intuitively appealing, but obviously there is lots of room to worry about civil rights abuses (chasing away homeless, etc).
c4at5wt
c4auk9p
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Crazy timing. I looked at your question, didn't know the answer, and went to do something else listening to some podcasts. I happened to open a 60-second mind episode that was talking about this exact issue. Apparently new research suggests that there is a psychologically true component to the crack-down. The episode is called "First Impressions Can Be Quite Accurate" and they refer to a published article that you should be able to find easily.
Doesn't broken windows follow a reductionist kind of reasoning? Ignoring important other factors such as economic/demographic change?
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cbw0xn
asksciencefiction_train
0.97
[Futurama] Why do they not know how we first got to the moon (and suspect Whalers) when they have the head of JFK, Nixon, et c.?
etjno7u
etjdccy
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The head-in-a-jar technology is relatively new (the inventor is still alive and appeared in an episode). Presumably historians now know how the moon was first explored, but that knowledge hasn't filtered out to the general population yet.
Please address all your questions to the Monsanto Cooperation
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askengineers_train
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Field Engineers what is some tips/advice you would give to a young engineer who is going to start their career in the field? Field Engineers what is some tips/advice you would give to a young engineer who is going to start their career in the field? Just got a job from one of North Americas most respected electrical construction companies as a field engineer. All advice and tips are welcomed.
csytigu
csyv783
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When you sign up for a frequent flyer program, consider a foreign program on your preferred alliance that will give you lounge access on domestic flights. www.flyertalk.com will be your friend. If you stick with domestic, buy the lounge access package. Also...don't over deliver so long as it's not a safety issue. If the client paid for X and wants XYZ, they can get it only if they pony up the cash.
If you are a male, grow out your facial hair. You might have to put field guys twice your age on the ball. When you do so, do it assertively yet graciously.
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askacademia_train
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What do you wish you knew--about your field, the job market, the costs of doing a grad degree--before you began your PhD program? I'm organizing a roundtable and info session for my program's undergraduates, and since it's been a few years since I was in school, I wanted to hear a more current perspective: **what do you wish that somebody had told you about graduate school before you went, or before you even made the decision to go?** Field-specific answers are fine! I imagine most issues will translate to some degree across the disciplines.
dgrk9jb
dgrbbkj
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If you get a bad feeling about a potential supervisor, boss, or collaborator, follow your gut instinct and don't do whatever it is - it will not be worth it, even if it is the best sounding thing on paper you've been offered. Related- there are a lot of narcissistic jerks in this line of work - don't get stuck having to deal with one if you can help it. Also, learn how to say no. One of the best skills I have learned!
Very good question. I I had wished I had known how much money in industry I could have made with simply r bachelors degree. I neglected looking for a serious employment opportunity after graduating with my bachelors. And so I decided to pursue a Ph.D because new I liked my field but didn't quite get the exposure outside Academia that would have probably resulted in a different path. I think all PhD students should pursue this line of work after having given the non-academic life a try first rather than moving into graduate school after their bachelor's. And this would include jobs like technicians in research labs that aren't really real jobs for a lifelong career. I would encourage graduates with a Bachelor of Science or a Bachelor of Arts degree to try to get a job that is not in Academia first. I wish I had done that so that when I was looking for jobs with my PhD I felt I could have pursue a different life. instead having gotten a PhD I found myself in a position where I simply no other alternative but to pursue a career requiring a PhD.
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asksciencefiction_train
0.94
[Spider-Man 1 (Raimi)] Maybe I didn't understand it as a kid, but was Green Goblin really implying he was going to rape MJ, when he was fighting Peter? I guess in hindsight he did seem to be creeping on her, especially in that dinner scene where Norman comes over, but it seems really weird to single her out. Was he REALLY intending to do it, or just fuck with Peter's emotions further?
hpqyg9s
hpquhj4
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After rewatching the scene, I guess I’ll be in the minority and say nothing really screams “rape” to me. It jus sounds like he was gonna make her death slow and tortuous. Wring out every ounce of pain and suffering from her-type of thing. I mean, yeah. I suppose rape could be in the cards but Norman never struck me as overly sexual unlike his son (see: infamous wink and smile, cooking the omelette, talking about pie).
He definitely said “nice and slow”, as a murderous intent. His stare down at MJ was more of a power move to show that he was an alpha. It’s all about power with the goblin. He said what he said to Harry, because he was upset about Peter, and thought he was being played as a fool. He abruptly stood up and knew Harry would follow him, testing Harry. MJ can potentially bring happiness to Harry and break their bond, I.E his control over Harry, so he breaks down Harry’s ego, his perspective of MJ and self confidence. “Harry please look at her, think she’s sniffing around because she likes your personality. Your mother was beautiful, they’re all beautiful until they’re snarling after your trust fund like a pack of ravenous wolves” then raised his voice to make sure she heard. To me He knows Harry’s happiness may be a weakness to him, as Harry himself is already weakness to Norman Osborne, he was trying to toughen up his only venerability and would have done the same to all of Harry’s relationships.
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askacademia_train
0.96
Dating struggles as an older phd student...to date or not to date? Dating as an older non-traditional phd student has been hella hard. Recently divorced and I’m in my 40’s (f). I’m currently in my 3rd year in a mathematics program. I met a really great guy who’s also a non-traditional student and is studying English. He’s in his 40’s too and divorced. The catch? He’s in his junior year of undergrad at the college I teach in. I’ve never taught him and won’t teach him at all. No supervisory responsibility or anything like that. In fact, we met at the food hall on campus! I want to give this a go but I don’t want backlash. Thoughts?
iltk8xn
iltmf2a
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Do what makes you happy.
Yay! I say go for it. You’re not faculty and as long as you’re not teaching him, it’s all good
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askcarguys_train
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How do you car guys that live in snowy areas keep your car from rusting? I just moved to a snowy area (it only snows during the winter). But I don't want to leave my beloved car in a garage and drive a shit can all winter (also I'm not in a position to buy another car lol). Is there anything at all that I can do to stop the salt in the snow from rusting my car underneath?
ijvxyjb
ijw2zic
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Use a lanolin based undercoating like Fluid Film. I agree that nothing is 100% effective but it's pretty close.
wash, then wash, then wash again, I wash with every fill in the winter, and make sure to go somewhere that does undercarriage or has an undercarriage wand if self service.
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legaladvice_train
0.95
UPDATE : [NYC] I have to walk daily to subway station. During this commute, there are some mischievous kids, probably aged 13-14 years, shout n-word and other racial slurs at me. When I try to catch them, they run away. I just want them to be stopped. Original Post : https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/38ynlr/nyc_i_have_to_walk_daily_to_subway_station_during/ So, As you guys had advice me yesterday, I called non-emergency number today and made them aware of situation. They insisted I should call 911 and mentioned that NYPD is vigilant and strict on street harassment. I called 911 and briefed the operator. She noted down my name, address and contact number and said an officer would contact me soon. 3 hours ago a NYPD car came to my house. Officer was pretty polite. I told him everything that happens during my commute, very nicely. He asked me whether I know where those kid leave. I declined. He said tomorrow morning on my commute a NYPD officer will accompany me. When I would identify those mischievous kids, he will detain them and inquire about their home and will warn the parents of these kids. He said not to worry and promised me to take all necessary actions. I am feeling very motivated right now guys. Tomorrow, hopefully the pain will be over. Wish me luck.
cs03e5z
cs04eqr
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Good job NYPD.
That's awesome. Please update us if/when there are any results.
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askcarguys_train
0.91
Is this mechanic bullshitting me about a brake mistake? I recently paid ~$600 to get all my brake pads and front two rotors replaced on my 2014 Hyundai Sonata at a national chain maintenence shop (I know it's way cheaper to replace brake pads myself, I just don't trust myself to do it right). One day later, my brakes gave out while I was driving on one of my city's busier highways. I was honestly pretty lucky to be able to pull over without hitting anybody/getting hit. After pulling over and regrouping (read: letting out a therapeutic amount of expletives), I limped the car back to the maintenance shop (after hours) with a combination of the little brake pressure it had left, the parking brake, and pure faith. I went to the shop first thing in the morning to drop off the car key and explain what happened to the manager. He's a friendly older guy and a bit of a smooth talker, for sure. He seemed surprised. I went to work - After not hearing from them for a few hours, I called around lunch time to ask about the car. He told me that one of the rear slider bolts was completely missing and the caliper had slid out and pushed on the brake lines. When I picked up the car after work, I asked how the slider bolt could have gone missing. He was pretty adamant that it had fallen off the car after I had left the shop (I probably drove a total of 25 miles, maybe), possibly due to it not being tightened enough by a incorrectly positioned torque wrench. I asked if it's possible that the bolt was left off altogether when they reassembled the brake unit, but he was very clear that the "kid [he] trained [him]self" wouldn't have left the bolt off because it was a routine repair. They replaced the caliper for free (he says a $500 value) and called it even. I decided not to press it because I didn't feel that I knew enough to challenge it any further and I knew I could call the corporate customer service line once I got more information. So, friendly reddit car guys, should I be pushing for a refund of my original $600 payment? Could the slider bolt really have falled out of my brake mechanism? Is this mechanic just covering his ass? Thanks for your thoughts.
h3ibztj
h3i38lv
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If the bolt was left out, the caliper would have shifted as soon as you hit the brake pedal. Leaving the bolt in, but not tight would loosen the bolt with every pedal press until it fell out. Aside from that, it’s not actually illegal to make mistakes. So, legally, they don’t owe you anything aside from what you originally paid for (working brakes). If your brakes now work then you’re even. The only case where you can go after them for damages is if you can prove negligence, but without knowing what went on inside the shop, it’s basically impossible to prove that You could try and get him to refund your money, but it would be out good will not because he thinks he’d lose in court
Ive seen techs leave calipers loose. The whole "I trained this guy myself" line is B.S. He's trying to minimize the mistake thats all. There is no way he can say what the guy did or was capable of screwing up. That said it does seem plausible and its a horrendous mistake to make. Ultimately ....if it was me at the desk I'd probably offer you something very significant. Half the money back isn't unreasonable at all. It ultimately comes down to what you'd feel satisfied with. Its a horrible horrible mistake....but it does happen.
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