  I sometimes wonder if it's worth it to be married. I think I would save about a grand a month if I was alone, insurance costs and such. Is it better to be alone or to have someone to fight with?  I actually did something really stupid last night. I had dinner alone due to a fight and while sitting at the bar I noticed a cute bartender that had waited on me before. We wound up talking some, she was just being a good bartender but after my second jack and coke on an empty stomach I had a good buzz. I wrote my number on the back of the check with a note that said "If you ever want to chat". Will she be disgusted or just blow it off as something a drunk did? Has anyone ever had something like that work?  Sorry for the ramble, I think I need to find a shrink.  