Getting over a breakup, any tips? 

I've driven a racing car, a rally car, done 4x4, flown a helicopter, a plane and various tanks. 
Climbed many mountains in my years as well. 
This is the biggest mountain to climb however. 
1 minute 20 into this one.  www.youtube.com...

I've lost so many family and friends i've lost count, so i find a way to laugh.  I tease my cat with a fidget spinner to see who has the quickest
reflexes, I glue coins to a sidewalk and laugh as people try to pick them up, or you could use botnik to create hilarious mad libs like this one from
George from Seinfeld...

I went to St.Martin when I was younger.  It is half French and half Dutch. 
I met a girl who was super model grade insanely hot.  She was following me around and asking me to say everything, she was smitten by my American
"accent" It drove her nuts.  I ended up running for more cash for a night club, only to run out of gas and get lost, pushing my motorcycle home,
arriving a sunrise, missing the whole rest of the night. 
UGGGGGGHHHHHH! 

First reply told you to stop drinking that it would help you "think clear".  You, right off the bat dismissed that advice.  You aren't looking for
advice your looking for "pity party".  Grow a set, get over yourself & as another poster said.......get some strange.  Best way to get over one woman is
to get into another one. 

originally posted by: Cymru
How do people cope with the overwhelming sense of loss and the hole that not being with them leaves in your life? 
Every day is a struggle at the moment. 
Ta in advance. 

There's yin and yang in everything. 

Every problem or obstacle is an opportunity. 

It's a chance to "change." 

Strange enough, bonds between people constrain us, and keep us from exploring other sides of ourselves. 

Everything in life is "transitory".  Life is just like a flowering plant.  There's a beginning, when a seed is planted.  There's the growing season, when
things develop.  There's the budding and opening of the flower, when things are at their best.  Then, there's the falling away, the decline, and
eventually death, the end of the transitory phenomena that marked that part of our life. 

So, think about the flowering plant, and how it's just like your relationships. 

When the plant dies, it makes way for other new plants to grow in that spot. 

That's exactly what's happened in your life.  The ground is cleared, and now new opportunities can take root and flourish. 

You just have to let it, go with the flow, and don't "block" the opportunities that come your way. 

Pitying yourself and indulging in weird and strange ain't gonna do it. 

Drinking is a depressant-surely you knew that.  So, stop.  Now. 

Best way to get over your sadness is to think about others.  Find someone who needs some help in their life and make yourself useful.  That elderly
neighbor that needs the snow plowed or that poor young, struggling family-take them a KFC dinner. 

Watch as many comedies as you can stand and really treat yourself and all those around you especially well.  The more kindness to give out the more
you will receive. 

It's one foot in front of the other doing good deeds along the way and being especially good to yourself-get a great steak dinner and a takeout one
for a poorer friend. 

Time passes quicker than you think and you'll start noticing all those lovely women who will appreciate the great guy you are. 

And go to a mountain (or hill over there) and Wale at the top of your voice, to your hearts content.....make sure its a baritone tho boyo......Men of
Harlech, Stop your Dreaming, Cant you see there spear point gleaming.......

Focus on things about her that bugged you.  Remember all the things that she did to piss you off. 

If you're busted up enough that even those thoughts hurt and you're thinking "I even love those things about her that I hated," then you gotta
fantasize about running into her in the future.  Go over every detail- imagine yourself jacked as hell from the gym and on your arm is a smoking hot
babe, and you run into your ex and she eats her heart out.  Enough days of obsessing over that fantasy, and the pain will be tolerable. 

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