August 29, 2008

Marriage is a wonderful institution, but one of the things that they don’t tell you in the marriage vows is that it is a lot of work.  Deciding whom you want to marry may be one of the easiest decisions you’ve ever made.  Keeping the marriage together through thick and thin, however, can be much more difficult.  When you add busy careers and children to a relationship, it is not surprising that the spark dies in over 90% of long relationships.  Free ecards can help you to spark up your marriage again quickly and fairly easily. 

A Reminder

Sometimes the couple in a marriage just needs a reminder as to why they married in the first place.  If you have been dealing with difficult situations, a small token of words can often help to rekindle the romance in the relationship.  Sending an “I love you” card may be all that it takes to make your husband or wife smile and remember how much they love you as well.  While words often work, they sometimes aren’t quite enough to make a relationship that has strayed off course lean back into it’s proper position. 

Taking It Further

If you’re looking to help your relationship get a bit more spark, a bit of planning, and a free animated ecard or two, may be just the way to do it.  To begin with, make some plans for you and your spouse that do not include work, children, or any of the normal haunts.  If, for instance, you go out to dinner frequently, avoid the restaurants you usually go to.  If you tend to relax around the house most weekend evenings, plan to go out instead.  If you can afford a hotel room for the night and don’t usually spend the night at one, book a suite!  If you’ve got children, plan for a babysitter and make sure that they’re taken care of.  Then start your plan. 

Send your spouse a free animated ecard explaining how much you love them, and how you want to show them that you love them.  Then, an hour later, send another free animated ecard telling them that you have plans to show them how much you care about them and how much you enjoy spending time with them.  Another hour later, send a third free animated ecard that says that you will be contacting them soon to let them know about the plans that you have made. 

Throughout the day, send little reminder ecards that let them know how much you love them and how you’re going to prove it in person.  By the time the end of the day rolls around, make sure you’ve sent an ecard asking them to meet you at a specific place.  Then, whisk them way for an evening (or weekend) away, where you can physically show your love to your spouse once again, where it’s just the two of you.