MrsGaslighted Sun 03-Jun-18 11:54:50

Thanks for your replies. 

I noticed he had a text message from an unknown number but had turned text previews off.  I clicked on it and could see the first line in the inbox that said "I can do friday?" 

It looked work related so I didn't fully open the message and felt bad for looking.  It was only when I asked a few days later why he had turned previews off and he said he hadn't that I got suspicious.  I looked for the text but it had gone.  I looked on the bill and saw 2 texts.  Googled it and up popped the hooker. 

I told him to get out and he went to a hotel.  He begged me to check the bill so I could see that he hadn't replied to book it.  He hadn't and I let him home. 

All was going as well as it could until I was on his laptop a couple of months ago and an odd email address autofilled.  I cross referenced it with Adultwork and social media and it looks like it has an Instagram account.  He of course knows nothing about this, said he must have typed it into a site that asked for an email as a fake one so he didn't get junk mail.  It just happens to be someone's actual email address. 

He's getting frustrated that I won't let it drop and says if I look hard enough I will

Find stuff that isn't even there. 

I just don't know what to think.  Either he is telling the truth and I'm driving myself mad, or he's a bloody good liar.  If it was a one off drunken mistake on that night I could probably get over it in time.  Do hookers even use Instagram?? 

(I can't get back to look at names to reply, but the script is basically what any man who gets caught comes up with.  I was only looking.  It was the first time.  I was never going to go)