When it comes to fertility treatments vs. adoption: is there a right choice?  Some people seem to think so. 

“Well, if you can’t get pregnant, you could always just adopt.”  It’s the hurtful line every person struggling with fertility has heard a few too many times.  To those who don’t struggle with fertility issues, a child is just a child.  Adopting is the selfless way out of infertility, and spending endless money on fertility treatments is a selfish waste.