private void relationshipUpdate(){
        if (!Stakeholders.isEmpty())
        {
            String magnitude;
            Relationship buddy;
            for (int r = 0; r < Stakeholders.size(); r++)//traverse rows
            {
                //row = contentTable.getSelectedRow();//get row number
                ArrayList <Relationship> tempInfluences = new ArrayList<>();
                //for(Relationship partner: Stakeholders.get(row).getInfluences()){
                //    buddy = new Relationship(partner);
                //    tempInfluences.add(buddy);}
                //tempInfluences.addAll(Stakeholders.get(row).getInfluences());//get Arraylist of relationships from stakeholder at row header
                for (int c = 0; c < Stakeholders.size(); c++)//traverse columns
                {
                    //column = contentTable.getSelectedColumn();//get column number
                    if (r == c) //can't let stakeholders be partners with themselves now can we? They might go blind
                    {magnitude = "0";}
                    else
                    {magnitude = (String) contentTable.getValueAt(r, c);}//read value from influence table
                    //add code to see if stakeholder relationship already exists in arraylist of relationships
                    tempInfluences.add(new Relationship(Stakeholders.get(c).getName(), magnitudeNumber(magnitude)));//add relationship to stakeholders Arraylist of relationships
                }//end of col loop
                Stakeholders.get(r).setInfluences(tempInfluences);//push the updated arraylist of relationships to stakeholder at row header
            }//end of row loop
        }//end of if Stakeholders is not empty statement
        //if Stakeholders is empty, do nothing
        else {}
    }