Yini ekhethekile nge-Soulsex futhi uyayisebenzisa kanjani?Iyini i-Soulsex?I-Soulsex isebenza kanjani?Ubulili abukho isikhathi eside, futhi uma lwenza, khona-ke uyabukeka, uhlala njalo futhi uzwela. Ukumangalela emva komsebenzi akusho lutho kunoma yimuphi umlingani, kungcono kungakhululekile.Funa ububeleKodwa-ke, ngokudabukisayo, bobabili abalingani bafana: balangazelela kakhulu ububele, ukuxhumana ngokomzwelo nangokomzwelo, yebo, nangokwezocansi. Akubonanga nje nomlingani, kubonakala sengathi sekuthuthele kude.I-Soulsex ingaba yindlela yokuvuselela ukufutheka komuntu ofanayo lapho uthando lisekhona.Njengoba sisondelene nomngane wakho owake waba ne-SoulsexUmkhuba nokuzijabulisa okungenangqondoEkuqaleni kobudlelwane noma udaba, ukuhlukunyezwa kubonakala kuhlale kukhona. Sizinikela kumlingani futhi akukho lutho ayengakwenza ukuze asivimbe ukuba simthole ekhangayo.Isibonelo, iziguli ezinomsoco ezingasakwazi ukusebenzisa ubuchopho babo - futhi mhlawumbe banethuba elincane lokubheka impilo yabo yocansi ngokombono wokucabanga - babe nokuziphatha okufanayo. Abanakekeli emakhaya asebekhulile babika ukuthi abaningi balaba bahlali bahlanganyela ngokocansi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunomqondo we-autoerotic.Isifiso sobulili sikhona, ngisho nangobambiswano obunzima. Kodwa uma umkhuba uqala ukudlala, ingqondo iyashintsha ngesikhathi esithile - futhi yenza okungenalutho kunalokho ekuqaleni yayifuna ukugxeka. Ubusuku obungokwemvelo bungase buzizwa buhle, kodwa ukucabanga ukuthi okwenza zonke ezinye izifiso zothando.Wonke umuntu ukhumbula okuhlangenwe nakho kocansi, okwakungeyona nje ngokomzimba, kodwa uxhumano lomzwelo kumlingani. Ikakhulukazi ebuhlotsheni obusanda kuqalwa lapho uthando lulungile khona futhi lapho kungekho khona imikhuba, lesi sici sokuthintana ngokocansi siyaqhubeka. Yilokho umlobi u-Eva-Maria Zurhorst afuna ukuvuselela encwadini yakhe ethi "Soul Sex - Ukuthola Ngokuthandwa Ngokwenyama".Ngoba yini eyenza senze okuhle kulolu hlobo lobulili? Yindlela yonke into ethinta ngayo, futhi nokuthi singakhuluma kanjani lokho esingakuthandi. Abalingani abasha bayazana futhi kufanele bahlanganyele lokho abakuthandayo nokuthi bangenzani. Yimzamo yomlingani ngamunye ukuthola enye kulokhu, ukuthola ukuthi yini ayithandayo nokuthi uhlobo olunjani lokuthinta luzokwenza kahle futhi nini.Ngesikhathi sobuhlobo besikhathi eside, kufanele sithole njalo lapho umlingani ofuna ukuthintwa khona, uthando luhlala luhambo oluqhubekayo lokuthola. Umkhuba awukho, kanye noyedwa owaziyo - okwenza i-Soulsex ikhangele kangaka, ukutholakala okusha kwezimfuno nezidingo zamanje zomlingani kanye nokusondelana, okuvela ngokuvuleka kwabo.Umbhangqwana osemusha - isisaI-Soulsex iqala ngawo wonke umuntu.Uma kunjalo, zizogcinwa. Kodwa uma bevame ukuyeka ukungezwani nokude, kuhle ukukusho lokho kumlingani. Akufanele abekwe icala, kodwa iqiniso liwukuthi kisses kumele ihluke. Olukhulu. Qinisekile.Mhlawumbe uzoshiya yedwa, uma kungenandaba. Lokhu kucabangela kusadingeka ukuthi kuthuthukiswe imibhangqwana eminingi nabantu, kodwa bangakwenza ndawonye. Kubalulekile ukutshela lo mlingani futhi ubonise ukuthi yini oyifunayo - futhi kubalulekile ukuthi uhileleke.Akusho izingubo zasendle noma ama-thongs angakhululekile, ungazishiyi "izinto ezintsha" ukuze uphelele impilo yobulili. Kungenxa yezifiso zocansi. Omunye umlingani uxhumana nawe. Omunye umlingani uqala uhambo lokuthola ukugcwaliseka kwazo - futhi ngokuphambene nalokho.Ikhasi lokubala umbala - owesifazane oxhomeke odongeniIbhuku lemibala elihlelekile E-bathini
