Cha. 2 Summer 2017 | I-Foundation Foundation - Uthando, Ubulili kanye ne-intanethiNgethemba ukuthi ujabulela ehlobo. Abasebenzi be-TRF bebelokhu bematasa belungiselela inkathi entsha ngaphambi kwezifundo zesikole kusukela ngo-1st September, bakhuluma ngamaGP kanye nama-workshops. Sibe sibhala amaphepha, sifaka isicelo sokuxhaswa ngemali futhi sihlangane nobuningi babantu kuhulumeni, iziphathimandla zendawo, ezenzweni zokusiza kanye nabezindaba abangakwazi ukusiza ukuthatha umsebenzi wethu phambili. Sizokwazisa njengoba labo oxhumana nabo bekhula.Ucwaningo: Ukugxila kwezempiloUkuncoma kwencwadiIsiKhwama Semivuzo esikoleniOdokotela e-EdinburghSizwe usikhuluma e-EdinburghInkomfa e-USAIngqungquthela yomndeni eCroatiaI-strapline entsha ye-Reward FoundationUkuvimbela ukuhlukumeza izingane eJalimane nase-UKNgomhla ka-28th kaJulayi we-TRF waya emcimbini wokuqeqesha ngosuku olulodwa ngu-NOTA (National Organization for the Treatment of Abusers Scotland) ngezikhulumi ezinhle kakhulu ze-2. Okokuqala kwakunguProfesa Klaus Beier (odwetshiwe), isazi sezwe esihamba phambili sokuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa kwezingane ngokocansi kanye nomklami we I-Dunkelfeld Prevention Project eJalimane. Owesibili kwakunguProfesa Kieran McCartan, isazi sezobugebengu eYunivesithi yaseBristol owahlola izimpendulo zamanje nezokuthi zingase zisebenze nabahlukumezi ngokocansi e-UK ngokulandela izifundo ezivela kumsebenzi weDunkelfeld. Bheka indaba yethu lapha.UMary Sharpe, isikhulu sethu esiPhezulu esiPhezulu siyi-co-author of 'ucezu lokucabanga' ekuvimbeleni ukuziphatha kobulili okulimazayo kwezingane ezincane. QAPHELA, i-National Organization for the Treatment of Abusers. I-NOTA iyinhlangano enomusa ehlinzeka ngokusekela ochwepheshe ababhekene nabenzi bobulili. Kulokhu kuhlaziywa ucwaningo lwamuva, uMary wajoyina ithimba lase-UK eliholwa nguStuart Allardyce, iMenenja kazwelonke ye Stop Stop Now! EScotland. Ungabona indaba kulokhu lapha.Into engiyikhethile kule ncwajana iyabizwa Umthelela Wezithombe Zobulili Ezingcolile Ze-Inthanethi Ezinganeni. Lalotshwa yi-American College of Pediatricians njengesitatimende senqubomgomo kanye nezinsuku ezivela ngoJuni 2016.OKUPHAKATHI: Ukutholakala nokusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile sekucishe kufane phakathi kwabantu abadala kanye nentsha. Ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kuhlotshaniswa nemiphumela eminingi yezempilo engokomzwelo, engokwengqondo, nangokwenyama. Lezi zihlanganisa ukukhula kwezinga lokucindezeleka, ukukhathazeka, ukuziphatha okuphambene nobudlova, ubudala obuncane bokuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili, ukuziphatha okubi ngokocansi, ingozi eyengeziwe yokukhulelwa kwentsha, kanye nombono ohlanekeziwe wobudlelwano phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane. Kubantu abadala, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ziholela emndenini okhulayo wokuhlukanisa okulimaza izingane. I-American College of Odokotela bezingane ikhuthaza abachwepheshe bezempilo ukuthi baxoxe ngezingozi zezithombe zobulili ezingcolile basebenzisa iziguli nemindeni yabo futhi banikeze izinsiza kokubili ukuvikela izingane ekubukeni izithombe zobulili ezingcolile nokuphatha abantu abanezimo ezimbi.Ngingathanda ukuncoma incwadi kubazali, othisha nabachwepheshe. Umuntu, Uphazanyiswa - Okwenza Izinsizwa Zithintekayo Nalokho Esingakwenza Ngazo nguStanford Psychology uProfesa Philip Zimbardo noNicita Coulombe. Yakha inkulumo kaTED ka-TNN emfushane ye-TED kaProfesa Zimbardo I-Demise of Guys owawungumlingani okhulumisana nomuntu osebenza naye uGary Wilson okhulumela iTEDx owaziwayo Isivivinyo Esikhulu Sokuzijabulisa.Isisekelo sencwadi ukuthi sibhekene nezwe elisha elingaqinisekisi; izwe lapho insizwa esho khona ishiya khona. Abalobi bathi ukulutha kwemidlalo yevidiyo kanye ne-porn inthanethi kuye kwadala isizukulwane esinamahloni, sengozi emphakathini, esususwe ngokomzwelo, kanye nezinsizwa ezimbi ezingenabungozi ezingakwazi (futhi ezingathandi) ukuhamba ngezinkinga nezinkinga ezihambisana nobuhlobo bangempela , isikole, nomsebenzi. Ukubheka ngokubheka inkinga ebhidliza imindeni kanye nemiphakathi yonke indawo, Indoda, iphazamiseke iphakamisa ukuthi izinsizwa zethu zihlushwa uhlobo olusha lokulutha umlutha. Izisa uhlelo olusha ngesibindi sokuwabuyisela emuva endleleni.Izahluko zokuphetha zinikeza isethi yezixazululo ezingathintwa yizingxenye ezahlukene zomphakathi kuhlanganise nezikole, abazali, kanye namadoda amancane ngokwabo. Egcwele ukutshela ama-anecdotes, imiphumela yokucwaninga okuthakazelisayo, ukuhlaziywa kokuqonda, kanye nokusikisela kokukhonjelwa kokushintsha, Muntu, ukuphazanyiswa yincwadi yesikhathi sethu. Incwadi ekwazisa, izinselelo, futhi ekugcineni iyashukumisela.Ezinyangeni ezimbili ezedlule siye saxoxa nabanye ochwepheshe abane.Ngo-June saxoxa noKenneth Cloggie, i-Edinburgh ummeli wenkantolo yobugebengu uchaza inqubo umzali nengane engase ibhekane nayo uma ecelwa icala lobulili. Uye wabona ukuphakama kwamacala ahlobene ne-offending internet. Ingxoxo yakhe izovela kwiwebhusayithi ngesikhathi esifanele.Ngesikhathi sivakashela i-Australia ngoJulayi senze inkhulumomphendvulwano yamaminithi we-45 no-Liz Walker, ohola phambili umfundisi wezocansi. U-Liz waqale wavezwa ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile ebhasi lezikole elidala iminyaka engu-6 kuphela. Yena indaba kwenza ukufunda okuhle. Manje usebenza nomkhankaso wokulwa nocansi uProfesa Gail Dines Amasiko agxiliwe.UDkt Paula Banca (okufanekiselwa ngezansi), a umcwaningi we-neuroscience kusukela eNyuvesi yaseCambridge inikeze ukwaziswa okuwusizo kulolu cwaningo olwanyatheliswa ngalo Intsha, isimo sokubheka kanye nokukhathalela ukunakekelwa kocansi. Lolu cwaningo oluhle kakhulu lwaqashelwa lapho seluphumelele i-2016 Research Award evela eNhlanganweni Yezokuthuthukiswa Komzimba Wezocansi.Emuva eScotland, sasixoxisana no-Anne Chilton, ikhanda lobuSebenzi bezobuchwepheshe bezokwazisa ngezobudlelwane eScotland ukuze ufunde mayelana nenqubo yokuqeqesha abathintekayo kwezocansi eScotland. Uthi kukhona bezungeze ochwepheshe be-30 manje abaqeqeshwe ukubhekana nemibhangqwana kanye nokwanda kwezinkinga zezempilo zobulili eziphathelene nocansi. Wayekhathazeka ngokuthi usizo oluncane lwezezimali luvela kuHulumeni waseScotland ngale nkinga ekhulayo.I-TRF izoletha amakilasi abafundi e-Edinburgh Academy, esikoleni saseGeorge Watson naseSt. Columba sikaKilmacolm ngomthelela wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi empilweni, ubuhlobo, ubugebengu kanye nobuhlobo kusukela ngo-1st September. Sizokhuluma futhi abazali nabafundi kuGeorge Watson Festival of Ideas ngoSepthemba no- abazali lwabafundi e-Tonbridge School, eNgilandi ngo-Okthoba futhi.Ngo-XNUMi-Okthoba sinikeza inkulumo ku- I-Medico-Chirurgical Society yase-Edinburghmayelana nomthelela wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi empilweni yezingane zakudala. Le Nhlangano ibilokhu iphikisana nezindaba zezokwelapha kusukela ku-1821.Woza ujoyine nathi ngo-16th November eSanctuary ye-Augustine United Church, i-41 George IV Bridge, e-Edinburgh, i-EH1 1EL lapho isikhulu sethu se-CEO uMary Sharpe sizoba isikhulumi esikhulu njengengxenye I-Edinburgh International Center for Spiritual and Peace ukusebenzisana. Uzokhuluma nge "ngokomoya, ububele nokulutha". Lokhu kuzolandelwa yingxoxo yephaneli nabanye ochwepheshe okubalwa nothishanhloko wabazali nephini lika-Audrey Fairgrize, kanye nobaba nomkhankaso wezempilo, uDouglas Guest. Izikhulumi zizokwethulwa nguDarryl Mead, uSihlalo weReed Foundation.Sizobe sinikeza umhlangano kubasebenzi abahlukahlukene bezempilo, othisha nabameli emhlanganweni wonyaka wonyaka Society for the Promotion of Health and Health eSallow Lake City ngo-5-7 Okthoba. Isihloko sonyaka unjalo Impilo Yezocansi ezweni leDivid.Ngo-21st Okthoba sizobe sixoxa ngonyaka inkomfa yomndeni eZagreb, eCroatia elinesihloko esithi "Umndeni, Izikole: Isihluthulelo Sokuthola Inkululeko Ekubhebhethekiseni". Umnikelo wethu uzoqala ngenkulumo ehlelekile ekuseni futhi sizohola workshop kamuva ngosuku.Sishintshe usanda kusuka "ebuchosheni bethu othandweni nasecansini" emva kwe-The Reward Foundation, "ukuthandana, ucansi kanye ne-intanethi". Umqondo ukuguqula ukugxila kwi-intanethi ngaphandle kokusho igama elithi "porn". Sisagxile ekufundiseni mayelana nesistimu yokuvuza yobuchopho. Abanye abantu bathole ukuthi igama elithi "ubuchopho" liyekile ukubeka, ukukholelwa ulwazi olukhona ngaphambili lwezokwelapha noma le-neuroscience kwakudingeka lifunde imininingwane yethu. Lokhu akunjalo.
