Indlela Yokugcina Ukuthula Nezihlobo Zenu | Umndeni OjabulayoULIMI Aukan Bassa (Liberia) Bomu Cuban Sign Language Esan ISpanishi Isi-Abui Isi-Acholi Isi-Ahanta Isi-Ajië Isi-Albania Isi-Alur Isi-Amharic Isi-Arabhu Isi-Arabhu (SaseTunisia) Isi-Armenia Isi-Assam Isi-Ateso Isi-Aymara Isi-Azerbaijani Isi-Azerbaijani (SesiCyrillic) Isi-Edo Isi-Efik Isi-Emberá (isiCatío) Isi-Estonia Isi-Ewe Isi-Iban Isi-Ibanag Isi-Ibinda Isi-Iceland Isi-Igbo Isi-Iloko Isi-Indonesia Isi-Irish Isi-Isoko Isi-Oromo Isi-Osset Isi-Otetela Isi-Otomi (SaseMezquital Valley) Isi-Udmurt Isi-Uighur (SesiCyrillic) Isi-Ukraine Isi-Urdu Isi-Urhobo Isi-Uruund Isi-Uzbek IsiBalinese IsiBambara IsiBaoule IsiBashkir IsiBasque IsiBassa (SaseCameroon) IsiBatak (SaseKaro) IsiBatak (SaseToba) IsiBatak (SesiSimalungun) IsiBelize Kriol IsiBemba IsiBengali IsiBhunu IsiBiak IsiBicol IsiBislama IsiBoulou IsiBulgaria IsiCakchiquel (Sasentshonalanga) IsiCambodia IsiCatalan IsiCebuano IsiChangana (saseZimbabwe) IsiChavacano IsiChewa IsiChin (SesiTiddim) IsiChiyao IsiChokwe IsiChol IsiChopi IsiChuabo IsiChuvash IsiCreole SaseGuinea Bissau IsiCreole SaseHaiti IsiCreole SaseMauritius IsiCreole SaseRéunion IsiCreole SaseSeychelles IsiCroatia IsiCzech IsiDamara IsiDangme IsiDanishi IsiDashi IsiDayak Ngaju IsiDigor IsiDiola IsiDouala IsiDrehu IsiDusun IsiFaroe IsiFiji IsiFinishi IsiFon IsiFrafra IsiFulentshi IsiGa IsiGalicia IsiGarifuna IsiGeorgia IsiGitonga IsiGreenland IsiGreki IsiGuarani IsiGuarani (SaseBolivia) IsiGuerze IsiGujarati IsiGun IsiGuna IsiHausa IsiHebheru IsiHerero IsiHiligaynon IsiHindi IsiHiri Motu IsiHmong (isiWhite) IsiHuastec (SaseSan Luis Potosi) IsiHungary IsiJalimane IsiJapane IsiJava IsiJula IsiKabiye IsiKabyle IsiKachin IsiKannada IsiKaren (isiS'gaw) IsiKazakh IsiKekchi IsiKhana IsiKikamba IsiKikaonde IsiKikongo IsiKikuyu IsiKiluba IsiKimbundu IsiKinande IsiKinyarwanda IsiKipende IsiKirghiz IsiKiribati IsiKirundi IsiKisi IsiKongo IsiKorea IsiKpelle IsiKrio IsiKurdish Kurmanji (SesiCyrillic) IsiKurdish Sorani IsiKwangali IsiKwanyama IsiKyangonde IsiLamba IsiLatvia IsiLhukonzo IsiLingala IsiLithuania IsiLomwe IsiLow German IsiLozi IsiLuganda IsiLugbara IsiLunda IsiLuo IsiMacedonia IsiMacua IsiMalagasy IsiMalay IsiMalayalam IsiMalta IsiMam IsiMambwe-Lungu IsiManinkakan (SaseMpumalanga) IsiMapudungun IsiMarathi IsiMaya IsiMazahua IsiMazatec (SesiHuautla) IsiMbukushu IsiMende IsiMingrelia IsiMixe IsiMixtec (SesiGuerrero) IsiMixtec (SesiHuajuapan) IsiMizo IsiMongolia IsiMoore IsiMotu IsiMyanmar IsiNahuatl (Saphakathi Nezwe) IsiNahuatl (SaseGuerrero) IsiNahuatl (SaseNyakatho YePuebla) IsiNahuatl (SesiHuasteca) IsiNambya IsiNamwanga IsiNavajo IsiNdau IsiNdebele IsiNdebele (SaseZimbabwe) IsiNdonga IsiNengone IsiNepali IsiNgabere IsiNgangela IsiNgisi IsiNias IsiNiue IsiNorway IsiNtaliyane IsiNyanja IsiNyungwe IsiNzema IsiPangasinan IsiPapiamento (Sase-Aruba) IsiPapiamento (SaseCuraçao) IsiPedi IsiPennsylvania German IsiPersia IsiPidgin (saseCameroon) IsiPidgin SaseSolomon Islands IsiPolishi IsiPular IsiPunjabi IsiPunjabi (SesiShahmukhi) IsiPutukezi IsiPáez IsiQuechua (Sase-Ancash) IsiQuechua (Sase-Ayacucho) IsiQuechua (SaseBolivia) IsiQuechua (SaseCuzco) IsiQuiche IsiRarotonga IsiRashiya IsiRomania IsiRomany (SaseBulgaria) IsiRomany (SaseMacedonia) IsiRomany (SaseMacedonia) SesiCyrillic IsiRomany (SaseMpumalanga YeSlovakia) IsiRomany (SaseNingizimu YeGreece) IsiRomany (SaseNyakatho YeGreece) IsiRunyankore IsiRutoro IsiSamoa IsiSangir IsiSango IsiSaramacca IsiSarnami IsiSena IsiSerbia IsiSerbia (SesiRoma) IsiSerer IsiShayina SesiMandarin (Esenziwe Lula) IsiShayina SesiMandarin (Sezinhlamvu Zakudala) IsiShona IsiShuar IsiSidama IsiSinhala IsiSlovak IsiSlovenia IsiSranantongo IsiSunda IsiSusu IsiSuthu (SaseLesotho) IsiSuthu (SaseNingizimu Afrika) IsiSwahili IsiSwahili (SaseCongo) IsiSwati IsiSwidi IsiTagalog IsiTahiti IsiTajiki IsiTamil IsiTankarana IsiTarahumara (Samaphakathi) IsiTarascan IsiTatar IsiTelugu IsiTetun Dili IsiThai IsiTigrinya IsiTiv IsiTlapanec IsiTojolabal IsiTok Pisin IsiTonga IsiTonga IsiTonga (SaseMalawi) IsiTonga (SaseZimbabwe) IsiToraja IsiTotonac IsiTshiluba IsiTshwa IsiTsonga IsiTswana IsiTumbuka IsiTurkey IsiTurkmen IsiTurkmen (SesiCyrillic) IsiTuvalu IsiTuvinia IsiTwi IsiTzeltal IsiTzotzil IsiValencia IsiVenda IsiVezo IsiVietnam IsiWallis IsiWaray-Waray IsiWayuunaiki IsiWelsh IsiWichi IsiWolaita IsiWolof IsiXhosa IsiXârâcùù IsiYoruba IsiZande IsiZapotec (Sesi-Isthmus) IsiZapotec (SesiLachiguiri) IsiZulu Kisii Kurdish Kurmanji (Caucasus) Lenje Mandjak Meru Quichua (Chimborazo) Quichua (Imbabura) Quichua (Pastaza) Quichua (Santiago del Estero) Quichua (Tena) Rumanyo Somali Tandroy ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Angola ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Argentina ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Australia ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Ecuador ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Indonesia ULimi Lwezandla Lwase-Italy ULimi Lwezandla LwaseBolivia ULimi Lwezandla LwaseBrazil ULimi Lwezandla LwaseChile ULimi Lwezandla LwaseChina ULimi Lwezandla LwaseColombia ULimi Lwezandla LwaseCzech ULimi Lwezandla LwaseFinland ULimi Lwezandla LwaseFrance ULimi Lwezandla LwaseGhana ULimi Lwezandla LwaseGuatemala ULimi Lwezandla LwaseHungary ULimi Lwezandla LwaseJalimane ULimi Lwezandla LwaseJapane ULimi Lwezandla LwaseKorea ULimi Lwezandla LwaseMadagascar ULimi Lwezandla LwaseMalawi ULimi Lwezandla LwaseMelika ULimi Lwezandla LwaseMexico ULimi Lwezandla LwaseNdiya ULimi Lwezandla LwaseNew Zealand ULimi Lwezandla LwasePanama ULimi Lwezandla LwaseParaguay ULimi Lwezandla LwasePoland ULimi Lwezandla LwasePortugal ULimi Lwezandla LwaseRussia ULimi Lwezandla LwaseSweden ULimi Lwezandla LwaseVenezuela ULimi Lwezandla LwaseZimbabwe Ulimi Lwezandla LwaseSlovakia Uzbek (Roman)Indlela Yokugcina Ukuthula Nezihlobo Zenu“Gqokani . . . umusa, ukuthobeka, ubumnene, nokubekezela.”—Kolose 3:12Umshado wakha umndeni omusha. Nakuba niyohlale nibathanda futhi nibahlonipha abazali benu, manje oshade naye usengumuntu obaluleke kunabo bonke kuwe emhlabeni. Lokhu kungase kube nzima kwezinye zezihlobo zenu ukukwamukela. Kodwa izimiso zeBhayibheli zinganisiza nilinganisele ukuze nikwazi ukugcina ukuthula nezihlobo njengoba nisebenza kanzima nakha umndeni omusha.1 LONDOLOZANI UMBONO OFANELE NGEZIHLOBO ZENUOKUSHIWO YIBHAYIBHELI: “Hlonipha uyihlo nonyoko.” (Efesu 6:2) Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usumdala kangakanani, kuyohlale kudingeka ukuba wazise futhi uhloniphe abazali bakho. Khumbula ukuthi noshade naye uyindodana noma indodakazi yothile, naye kuyadingeka anake abazali bakhe. “Uthando alunamhawu,” ngakho ungalokothi uzizwe usongelwa ubuhlobo oshade naye anabo nabazali bakhe.—1 Korinte 13:4; Galathiya 5:26.Gwema ukusho amazwi eqisayo anjengokuthi, “Abakini bahlale bengiphoxa” noma “Umama wakho akakaze akuthande engikwenzayo”Zama ukubona izinto ngeso loshade naye2 QINA UMA KUNESIDINGOOKUSHIWO YIBHAYIBHELI: “Indoda iyoshiya uyise nonina inamathele kumkayo babe nyamanye.” (Genesise 2:24) Lapho ushada, abazali bakho bangase babe nomuzwa wokuthi kusewumsebenzi wabo ukukunakekela, futhi bangase bafune ukungenela emshadweni wenu ngaphezu kwalokho okufanele.Kukuwe noshade naye ukuba nivumelane ngemingcele enizobabekela yona bese nibazisa yona ngothando. Ungase usho konke ofisa ukukusho ngaphandle kokuba luhlaza. (IzAga 15:1) Ukuthobeka, ubumnene nesineke kuyonisiza nakhe ubuhlobo obuhle nezihlobo zenu futhi niqhubeke “nibekezelelana ngothando.”—Efesu 4:2.Uma ukhathazeke ngezinga izihlobo ezingene ngalo ekuphileni kwenu, xoxa ngakho noshade naye lapho imimoya iphansiVumelanani ngendlela enizozisingatha ngayo lezi zindabaZAMA UKUBA OQONDAYOKubalulekile ukuqonda imizwa yabazali benu nendlela ababheka ngayo izinto. Basuke bengahlose bubi uma bengenela emshadweni wenu. Banikhathalela ngobuqotho. Kungaba nzima ngabo ukuba banibheke njengomndeni ozimele. Bangase babe nanomuzwa wokuthi nibalahlile. Kodwa ngokulandela izimiso zeBhayibheli nokukhulumisana ngokukhululekile, niyokwazi ukuqhubeka nibazisa abazali benu ngaphandle kokubeka umshado wenu engcupheni.Kungani kungokwemvelo ngabazali bomkami noma bomyeni wami ukuba bafise ukungenela emshadweni wethu?Ngingamenza kanjani engishade naye eze kuqala, ngesikhathi esifanayo ngibonise inhlonipho ngabazali bami?Ingabe abazali bomkakho noma bomyeni wakho bahlale begxambukela? Thola ukuthi ungasilungisa kanjani isimo futhi ugweme ukucindezeleka emshadweni wakho.
