Umvuzo Wokusekela | Uthando, ubulili kanye ne-intanethi | Ukuyeka izithombe ezingcolileUMary Sharpe, uMphathi oPhetheI-Glasgow Workshop - i-5 DecemberUkukhuluma komphakathiUkuqeqesha abasebenzi bezempiloUkuthumela imiyalezo e-England, e-Wales naseNyakatho IrelandIzinsiza ze-RCGP Ukwaziswa OkuvunyelweUmhlahlandlela wabazali wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-inthanethi1st ngoNovemba 2018Chofoza lapha ukuze uthole izindaba eziningiI-Reward Foundation iyi-sex pioneering kanye nobudlelwane bemfundo yobuhlobo eyenza ucwaningo ngemuva kwesithando, ubulili kanye nezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi ezifinyeleleka emphakathini jikelele. Sivunyelwe yiRoyal College of General Practitioners ukuqhuba imihlangano yokuqeqesha nge-1 ngosuku umthelela wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi empilweni yengqondo nengokwenyama, bheka ngaphezulu ngenhla. Lezi zivulekile kunoma ubani onentshisekelo kumiphumela yezithombe zobulili ezingcolile kodwa zihloselwe ukunakekelwa kwezempilo kanye nabanye ochwepheshe ukuze babasize baqonde umthelela wezithombe zobulili ezingcolile emphakathini nasemsebenzini.Siyaxoxa ezikoleni futhi njengamanje sihlola amapulani okufunda othisha. Usizo lubuye lukhulume nabazali ukubasiza baqale ingxoxo nengane yabo.Izithombe zobulili ezingcolile ze-intanethi zenzelwe ukugqugquzela izifiso, ukushintsha imicabango kanye nokuziphatha ezingeni elingenalutho nangokwenyuka kwezinombolo, kungaholela ukucindezela ukuziphatha kwengculazi. Ucwaningo oluningi lubonisa ukuthi okungenani u-80% wabantu abanezinkinga zokuziphatha zobulili eziphoqelekile babika ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe ezingcolile zobulili ezingcolile kwi-intanethi. Inani labantu elikhulayo, ukuzitika ngokweqile kwi-porno kungaba nomthelela omubi empilweni, ekuziphatheni, ebuhlotsheni, ekufinyeleleni, ekukhiqizeni nasebugebengu njengoba izinkinga zempilo yengqondo nezomzimba zibandakanya futhi zithuthuke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.Izingane zisengozini kakhulu emiphumeleni yayo ngenxa yesigaba sabo sokuthuthukiswa kobuchopho. Ukukhululeka, ukufinyeleleka kalula kuma-pornography ezinzima nge-Smartphones namaphilisi kwenza kube nzima kakhulu kubantwana ngokwemvelo ukufuna ukwazi ngocansi ukuwugwema. Izithombe zocansi eziningi ze-intanethi namuhla azikhiphi ukusondelana nokuthembela kodwa kunalokho ukuphoqeleka, ubudlova kanye nocansi olungaphephile. Izingane azifundi lokho okudingayo ukuze kube nobuhlobo obunempilo, obunothando, nobulili.Lapho amadoda futhi ngokuya besifazane, funda ukuthi izithombe ezingcolile zobulili kanye nokushaya indlwabu kungabangela kanjani ushintsho nesakhiwo somqondo, ngokuvamile bazimisele ukuyeka ukuyeka. Sibika izindaba ezivela ezinkulungwaneni zabantu abaye bazama ukuyeka futhi babhekana nezinhlobonhlobo zezinzuzo ezingokwengqondo nezingokwenyama ngenxa yalokho. Bheka lo mfana osemushaindaba kaNksz. Siphinde sibhale mayelana nocwaningo lwamuva kulokhu.Abantu beyingxenye ye-2-3% yezidalwa ezincelisayo ezibambisene nazo ezingaba nomshado. Ucwaningo kubonisa ukuthi ukulutha umlutha kungaphazamisa lezo zakhiwo ezihlanganisa ubudlelwano bobuchopho ezenza kube nzima ukuthola nokugcina isikhathi eside, uthando lwezocansi nomlingani wangempela. Asikho ukuvinjelwa kocansi, kodwa kunalokho sisize abantu ukuthi benze 'izincazelo' mayelana nokusetshenziswa kwayo ukuze kuthuthukiswe amathuba abo okujabulela ubudlelwane obunothando obuphumelelayo. Nansi a ukuzihlola ukuzivocavoca. I-Foundation Reward yenza hhayi ukunikeza ukwelashwa noma ukuhlinzeka ngezeluleko zomthetho kodwa senza imizila yokubhalisa ukuze kutholakale amadoda nabesifazane abasebenzisa inkinga.Sicela uxhumane nathi uma ungathanda ukwaziswa okwengeziwe kunoma yiziphi izindaba ezibalulwe lapha.I-CEO yethu yethula i-The Reward FoundationI-newsletter yethu ingumthombo wokuphefumulela okukulethela okwakamuva ekuqondeni kwethu ngendlela uthando, ubulili kanye nobuchopho bethu buhlanganyela. Ngeke sikuhlakulele futhi ungakwazi ukubhalisa noma nini.Ifoni + 44 (0) 131 447 5401 Hambayo + 44 (0) 7506 475 204I-Reward Foundation, i-5 Rose Street, i-Edinburgh, i-EH2 2PR: I-Scottish Charitable Incorporated Organization SC044948
