Isikhathi Sobuhlungu Bokufelwa: Kghani Kumbi Na Ukusolo Ulilela Umuntu Ohlongakeleko?FUNDA NGELINYE ILIMI Acholi Afrikaans Albanian Amharic Arabic Armenian Aukan Aymara Azerbaijani Azerbaijani (Cyrillic) Baoule Bashkir Batak (Karo) Batak (Toba) Bengali Biak Bicol Bislama Bulgarian Cambodian Catalan Cebuano Chichewa Chinese Mandarin (Simplified) Chinese Mandarin (Traditional) Chitonga Chitonga (Malawi) Chitumbuka Chiyao Chokwe Chol Cibemba Cinyanja Croatian Czech Dangme Danish Drehu Dutch Efik English Estonian Ewe Fijian Finnish Fon Frentji Ga Georgian Greek Greenlandic Guarani Gujarati Gun Haitian Creole Hausa Hebrew Hiligaynon Hindi Hmong (White) Hungarian Iban Ibanag Icelandic Igbo Iloko Indonesian IsiNdebele Isoko Japanese Jarimani Javanese Kabiye Kannada Karen (S'gaw) Kazakh Kikamba Kikaonde Kikongo Kikuyu Kiluba Kimbundu Kinyarwanda Kirghiz Kiribati Kirundi Kisi Kisonge Kongo Korean Krio Kurdish Kurmanji (Caucasus) Kurdish Kurmanji (Cyrillic) Kwangali Kwanyama Lamba Lhukonzo Lingala Lithuanian Luganda Lunda Luo Luvale Macedonian Macua Malagasy Malay Malayalam Maltese Mam Mambwe-Lungu Marathi Mauritian Creole Maya Mazatec (Huautla) Mizo Mongolian Moore Myanmar Nahuatl (Guerrero) Nahuatl (Huasteca) Nahuatl (Northern Puebla) Ndau Ndebele (Zimbabwe) Ndonga Ngangela Nias Norwegian Nyungwe Nzema Ossetian Otetela Pangasinan Papiamento (Aruba) Papiamento (Curaçao) Persian Pidgin (Cameroon) Polish Portuguese Punjabi Quechua (Ancash) Quechua (Ayacucho) Quechua (Bolivia) Quechua (Cuzco) Quichua (Imbabura) Rarotongan Romanian Runyankore Russian Samoan Sango Saramaccan Sena Sepedi Serbian Serbian (Roman) Sesotho (Lesotho) Seychelles Creole Shona Sidama Silozi Sinhala Slovak Slovenian Solomon Islands Pidgin Spanish Sranantongo Swahili Swahili (Congo) Swati Swedish Tagalog Tahitian Tamil Tariyana Tatar Telugu Tetun Dili Thai Tiv Tojolabal Tok Pisin Tshiluba Tshwa Tsonga Tswana Turkish Tuvaluan Twi Tzeltal Tzotzil Ukrainian Umbundu Urdu Urhobo Uruund Venda Vietnamese Wallisian Waray-Waray Wayuunaiki Wolaita Xhosa Yoruba Zande Zande ZuluKghani Kumbi Na Ukusolo Ulilela Umuntu Ohlongakeleko?Wakhe wagula isikhatjhana? Kungenzeka waphola msinya, mhlamunye sewulibele nokuthi wakhe wagula. Ubuhlungobo abufani nebokufelwa. UDorhodere u-Alan Wolfelt watlola encwadinakhe ethi Healing a Spouse’s Grieving Heart wathi: “Ubuhlungu bokufelwa abupholi.” Nakanabako uthi: “Ukukhamba kwesikhathi nokusekelwa babantu kuyabugongobalisa ubuhlungu bokufelwa.”Ngokwesibonelo cabanga ngalokho okwenziwa ngu-Abrahamu ubaba wesitjhaba, nakahlongakalelwa mkakhe. IBhayibheli lithi, “u-Abrahamu wathoma ukulilela uSara.” Amagama athi “wathoma” aveza ukuthi wabuzwa isikhathi eside ubuhlungu bokufelwa. * Esinye isibonelo nguJakopo, owakhohliswa watjelwa ukuthi indodanakhe uJosefa ibulewe ziimbandana zommango. Wayililela “isikhathi eside,” kangangobana nomndenakhe wabhalelwa kumtjhiriya. Nangemva kweminyaka eembalwa, ukufa kwakaJosefa bekusolo kugandelela umkhumbulwakhe.—Genesisi 23:2; 37:34, 35; 42:36; 45:28.U-Abrahamu wamlilela umkakhe amthandako uSaraKunjalo nanamhlanjesi, kunabantu abanengi abasebuhlungwini bokufelwa mumuntu ebebamjayele khulu. Akhesikhulume nganapa abalandelako.“Indodakwami uRobert yahlongakala ngoJulayi 9, 2008. Ekuseni kwamhlokho nakuzakwenzeka ingozi embi le bekungakahluki kwamanye amalanga. Ngemva kokudla kwekuseni, wangicabuza, wangisingatha, ‘wangitjela nokuthi uyangithanda,’ okuyinto ebekahlala ayenza nakaya emsebenzini. Sekudlule iminyaka esithandathu yoke, kodwana ngisezwa ubuhlungu ehliziywenami. Ngicabanga bona ubuhlungu bokuhlongakalelwa nguRobert angekhe buphole.”—Kutjho uGail, oneminyaka eyi-60.“Ngitjho nanyana sekudlule iminyaka eyi-18 umkami ahlongakala, ngisamkhumbula begodu ngisamlilela bekube nje. Nangibona into ehle yemvelo engikarako, ngivele ngicabange ngaye, bese ngizibuze ukuthi bekazokuthabela na ukubona into engiyibonako le.”—Kutjho u-Etienne, oneminyaka eyi-84.Kuyakhanya ukuthi ukuzwa ubuhlungu bokufelwa isikhathi eside yinto engokwemvelo. Omunye nomunye umuntu uqalana nobuhlungobu ngendlela yakhe, yeke akukafaneli bona sisole indlela umuntu azitjhiriya ngayo. Ngakelinye ihlangothi, akukafaneli sizisole ngokudluleleko nangabe sizwa ubuhlungu obukhulu. Alo, singaqalana njani nobuhlungu bokufelwa?^ isig. 4 Nendodana ka-Abrahamu u-Isaka wezwa ubuhlungu besikhathi eside bokufelwa. Njengombana uzokufunda esihlokweni esithi “Lingisa Ikholo Labo” esiThalenesi, sithi nangemva kweminyaka emithathu ubuhlungu bokuhlongakalelwa ngunina uSara bebungakapholi ku-Isaka.—Genesisi 24:67.Ukuqalana Nobuhlungu BokufelwaIBhayibheli inamacebiso asebenzako.Text Unkhethani wokudawnloda ezifundelwa emtjhinini ISITHALA No. 3 2016 | Ukuhlongakalelwa Mumuntu Omthandako
