Cancer - Zodiac Signs | Astrology.com.au Cancer Welcome to Astrology.com.au Astrology.com.au is all about Astrology, Horoscopes, Love, Romance, Compatibility and Live Psychics As one of the world's premiere astrology sites, astrology.com.au provides a variety of astrological, psychic, spiritual and new-age information to an ever-growing global audience. Astrology.com.au specialises in relationships, love, horoscopes, zodiac and astrology compatibility and features a variety of complimentary reports, readings and daily horoscopes for your enjoyment and wisdom. Chinese astrology and zodiac compatibility are also included in our range of offerings. Some of our specialties include a large number of free horoscopes and psychic readings. Our website is deeply committed to the highest quality service we can afford our visitors. We are in fact so committed that if you are not at all satisfied with any of our products or services we are happy to offer a full refund. Our reporting and personal consulting services are also based upon empowering our visitors and helping them understand themselves as well as their relationships.

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You’re also very intuitive and often exhibit an uncanny ability to go to the heart of things without any intellectual claptrap. Another great quality of yours is adaptability. Like water you can move and change to fit the circumstances and to accommodate the people you deal with. Although you have a very strong mind when it comes to your own desires and needs, you’re still able to compromise when you feel it supports the group as a whole. Being a water sign you have a cooling yet invigorating aspect to your personality. In tough times people have a tendency to be drawn to your selflessness and nurturing traits as they know your open ear and warm heart will help them through their difficult times. The fourth sign of the zodiac, under which you were destined to be born, relates to the domestic sphere of life and therefore you love to be part of a family network. It is here that you really excel and do your best. The Cancer home is very comfortable and even strangers usually feel quite at ease when invited to dinner to spend time in your company. Many Cancers extend this caring, nurturing vibe to their professional activities as well. It comes so easily to you that it’s no wonder you’re able to work in healing and consoling professions.

Your key life phrase ‘I nurture’ demonstrates this fact. When you read the segment on the best professions suited to you, you’ll see what I mean. Your star sign is very sensitive and you tune in to other people’s vibrations, moods and thinking processes effortlessly so you are able to understand others instinctively. Your perception about their character is usually spot on. There is a down side to this, however, as you also tend to absorb the negative emotions of others in the process. If you feel this is overloading you, you need to get yourself out of the situation quickly, even for a short time to recover your clarity and peace of mind. Cancer and its ruler the Moon reflect much of your own personality and, because the Moon regulates the emotions, you can find yourself challenged by incredibly extreme mood swings. Even though your family and friends are well aware of this it can be a little trying for all concerned at times. As a woman you have maternal and nurturing qualities so you’ll be absolutely well suited to the roles of homemaker and mother. Men born under Cancer also fare well as caregivers and so sometimes they exchange their roles as they do such a good job of looking after the kids as well.

Be careful not to lock yourself away in your own private lifestyle because being reclusive, enjoying your own company, can sometimes overtake your desire to connect to the world at large. Don’t deny others the wonderful qualities you have to offer. Many Cancers are nocturnal as the Moon shines most brightly in the evening hours. You’ll feel creative and enjoy that stillness and reflective quality of the night hours. Many Cancers take their cooking skills to a new height by starting restaurants and showing their love of the world at large through this very unique skill. Music, writing and also gardening seem to be popular pastimes for Cancers. You’ll never forget a kind deed and always reciprocate tenfold. You appreciate that same caring attitude in others. You also realise you’re more nostalgic than many other star signs and memories are important to you, keeping scrapbooks and old shoeboxes full of black and white photos as mementos of the good old times. Cancer has a wonderfully expressive and inviting face. Because the eyes are the windows to the soul, and your eyes are large and expressive, people feel as though your heart is open enough for them and you are guileless in the way you share your thoughts and feelings.

Fourth sign of the zodiac; cardinal, fruitful, feminine, moist Zodiac Element Loving, susceptible, sympathetic, sensual, faithful, instinctive, charitable, over-reactive and moody Compatible Star Signs Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, and Pisces Mismatched Signs Mars, Pluto, Jupiter and Neptune Friendship Planet Mars Lucky Numbers and Significant Years 2, 3, 9,11, 12, 18, 20, 21, 27, 29, 30, 36, 38, 45, 47,48, 54, 56, 57, 74, 75, 81, 83 and 84 Lucky Gems Moonstone, pearl, yellow topaz, red coral, garnet and white jade Lucky Fragrances Geranium, sandalwood, white rose, ylang ylang and bergamot Affirmation/Mantra I am lovable as well as loving Lucky Days Cancer Profile You were born under Cancer, the 4th sign of the zodiac, indicating sensitivity, motherhood and emotional warmth.

Your sign is not an easy one to understand and this has much to do with the fact that the waxing and waning Moon is your ruling planet. Having sway over the tides and also the animals that occupy the ocean, most notably the crab, your totem, reflects some of these complex mood swings that the Cancerian native experiences. Like the crab, your totem, people will notice that at times you exhibit a hard exterior but underneath that your sensitive and caring nature is by far your most prominent trait. You mustn't hide this behind this impenetrable mask. Although at times you do try to hide your feelings, it's difficult for you to not show just how caring and compassionate you really are. The Moon also reflects your mothering and nurturing qualities and more often than not you're the first to respond when someone is in need, displaying your extremely compassionate nature. Your intuitive powers are strong and you always use them in the service of others. You are ruled by the element of water, which makes you adaptable, at times outgoing, but mostly living life in the world of the heart and emotions.

You are adaptable and can easily fit into most circumstances but are certainly most comfortable in your home environment, which you put a great deal of energy into for yourself and the family members you love. You work best in a supportive role with others, and keeping the peace and equilibrium amongst family members and friends is vital to your wellbeing. At times you are not altogether that trusting, which is why you tend to prefer a smaller group of friends and family members as your mainstay, socially speaking. Even though your personality is quite vibrant you have a preference for dealing with people one-on-one in a most intimate and compassionate way. You feel the plight of others so intensely that at times you absorb the qualities of those you associate with which is why it is so important for you to live and work with those who are positive and upbeat. If you do end up living or pursuing a career with negative individuals, this could have an adverse reaction on your emotions and, in the long term, your overall wellbeing. It's imperative that you choose your friends and co-workers as wisely as possible. The quickest way to a Cancerian's heart, and thereby friendship, is to touch their sentimentality. You love anything that will kindle your sense of the past, loving memories and warmth and closeness.

Flowers, a candle-lit dinner or anything which elicits your sensitivity will attract you to others and create a feeling of love for them. At times you feel vulnerable which is why I mentioned earlier that there are periods in your life where you don't necessarily trust others all that quickly. This will be highlighted if you've had some bad experiences in the past, and you must therefore learn to let go of these negative experiences of your life. Cancerians do have a tendency to hold onto the past and their memories like elephants, never forget. You're probably a night owl due to the fact that the Moon shines most brightly in the dead of night. Your imagination which is rich and varied comes to life in the twilight hours. Arts, craft and other home activities such as gardening, interior design and just generally an interest in making others feel good are all typical creative Cancerian traits, and I'm sure you possess them in full measure yourself. You are indeed an individual who can withstand the blows of life and are extremely adaptable under duress and under circumstances which others might fail miserably in. This is possibly what has given you your tough exterior yet at the same time made you aware of the subtler spiritual influences in life.

You are able to blend the pragmatic with the spiritual. This gives you the edge in life, making you capable of forbearing troubles and sufferings and coming out the other side enriched with a great deal of wisdom. Cancer Cusps Cancer - Gemini cusp If your birth falls between the 22nd and 29th or 30th of June you will possess qualities and characteristics of both Gemini and Cancer. Cancer, you are undoubtedly a feeling and emotional individual and added to this are the intellectual traits of Gemini which would tend to balance you out. Gemini has a curiosity and mental agility that is hard to match but this can counteract some of the more emotional traits possessed by you Cancer. This could mean your mind clashing with your heart as the Gemini influence rules your head and the softness of Cancer rules your heart. It is quite likely that this will cause you to procrastinate in matters of the heart especially. You are able to mediate for others as you have both the intellectual traits of Gemini as a communicator and the feelings and ability to understand others that can be attributed to Cancer.

You are a loyal and loving friend and will always try to understand where the other person is coming from The influence of Gemini could make you rather more excitable than you are comfortable with and perhaps unsettle you in some ways. This will be evened out by the Moon's influence and as the tides ebb and flow so will your moods. Some people may find this hard to deal with, but it is just part of the nature of a cusp baby. You will be the one who people contact when they are caught in a situation they cannot resolve and it will be your wisdom that you bring to the table. Added to this is your knowledge and warmth and these attributes will put you at the top of everyone's list. It may not necessarily be where you want to be given that you don't like upsetting people, but your desire to help will override your hesitation. Cancer you are able to take a balanced view and Gemini's intelligence will certainly help you out here. Having the head and the heart both working to capacity should be able to help anyone anywhere solve their problems and you will be much sought after for this talent. This trait may even open doors for you professionally later in life.

Cancer - Leo cusp If you are born between the 16th or 17th to the 23rd July makes you a Cancer - Leo cusp baby. In your case the water sign of Cancer certainly does not put out the Leo fire but rather cools it just a little, and temper the exuberance of Leo. Leo's fire will heat up your nature considerably Cancer but you must be mindful of not letting this spill over into your emotional life. You could become extremely demanding or even prone to dramatic outbursts, which are not usually your style, if you don't get your own way. This goes against the grain somewhat for you as you are at heart a mediator but this is what the fire of Leo can bring to your calm gentle world. Cancer and Leo are both very loyal signs and you would certainly be a good friend to have. You are extremely faithful with those you love and in relationships or friendships your nearest and dearest will get to see this endearing part of your personality. They will actually get to peep inside the hard exterior that typifies the sign of Cancer and be privy to the wonderful soft interior that you possess.

With the influence of Leo your ideals are not always in keeping with the reality of your life. You'll always be surrounded by friends and family and seem to be constantly giving to others, but don't forget to nurture yourself along the way as well. This will keep you more in balance and take care of your compassionate nature. Don't let Leo's influence burn you out as their enthusiasm can be at times overwhelming, when all you really want to do is crawl back into your shell and relax. The influence of Leo can make you feel a bit insecure at times as you prefer to know where you're going and when you're likely to get there. Cancer At Large June 22 - July 3 If you were born between the 22nd of June and the 3rd of July, the power of the Moon is exceedingly strong in your case. Your moods will shift very powerfully in keeping with the phases of the moon, and to understand yourself more adequately, why not keep a calendar of the lunar phases so you can be a step ahead of what's happening. Your romance and love life perfectly reflects who you are, particularly because you are so capable of nurturing others.

July 4 - July 13 Being born between the 4th and the 13th of July means you're an individual who has developed a high degree of concentration and are focused on achieving more than the average sort of life. There are times when you are possessive and domineering of your loved ones, but by the same token you're exceedingly loyal and will sacrifice much for their happiness. Be careful to allow others independence and freedom, rather than trying to keep them under your thumb. July 14 - July 22 If you are born between the 14th and the 22nd of July, you have the influence of Pisces as well as Cancer, and this means that you're able to love others unconditionally. Your selfless attitude endears others to you and you may be drawn to the helping or healing professions as a result. You may be compassionate but try to keep your feet planted firmly on the ground as well. Cancer Child There's no doubt your Cancerian born child will shower you with love, affection and exhibit nurturing and protective qualities from the outset, but you do need to be careful that they don't become too shy and homebound in the process.

These admirable qualities are certainly something you should develop but these should be balanced by adequate outdoor activities and sufficient social interaction to make them grow into self-confident human beings. There's the tendency on the part of parents of Cancerian children to dote on them, to accentuate their shy and retiring nature, rather than encouraging them to take some initiative and to get out into the bigger, wider world. If they exhibit creative traits such as art, music and other more sedentary hobbies, you must stress that they need sufficient physical mobility to keep them active and healthy as well as encouraging their artistic and spiritual pursuits. I mentioned above the protective qualities of a Cancerian child. Don't be surprised to find your young child stepping in front of you if they perceive even the least bit of danger to their parents. You'll be shocked at their bravery and desire to not let anything adverse happen to you. This trait will continue through life and you can always rely on the loyalty of your Cancerian child to stand by you. Cancerian children have a tendency to sulk and to hang on to the past.

You need to monitor these deep and brooding intervals and help them understand that there are alternative ways to deal with problems in life rather than retreating into themselves and not speaking. Here again we see the necessity of physical sport which can easily neutralise these negative emotions in your young Cancerian child. Another cause of this type of emotional weakness which can become a habit, is lack of attention to the dietary needs of your child. These moods are often a result of poor food combinations and an inability to identify which foods your child may be allergic to. Keep in mind that even healthy foods may sometimes act as triggers which can destabilise your child's emotions. As with most children, teaching your Cancerian child the value of a program in life, with self-discipline at the top of the list, will help steer them in the right direction and give them a sense of personal worth and achievement. It may appear that you are being hard on them sometimes but discipline with these children, as long as it is done in a loving way, is an excellent assurance of their positive all-round development. Cancer Lover You don't have to be a rocket scientist to understand that love and warmth are critical to secure a happy and enduring relationship.

With Cancer-born individuals, this understanding goes to a whole new level. When a Crab opens up to reveal the sweetness within, you get a good idea of what they are going to be like as a lover. Strongly governed by emotions, they're natural lovers through and through, and they believe that love lasts forever. Sexually, Cancer, you like your emotions to translate into intimate physical contact. In that respect, you don't respond well to sex without feeling and eventually lose interest if your sex life is mechanical and dry. However, such idealism also brings with it some dilemmas. Penetrating your hard exterior is often difficult, especially for those who are too impatient to wait. You tend to safeguard your privacy, testing the waters before committing romantically, and this is the heart of your problem. You must be vocal instead of shy, and let your prospective partner know how you operate. Through open dialogue you can create an atmosphere in which the other person is happy to commit their time and patience to win your heart completely. As I said, you're an instinctive lover, and once you choose a romantic partner, you go the extra mile to pamper, nourish and mother them in every conceivable way. In many ways you are the ideal lover.

You also seek someone who completes you emotionally and physically, and who fulfils your practical and familial needs. What I reveal now will have a crucial bearing on your future happiness in relationships, so read it carefully, Cancer. Before you rush into making a romantic commitment, build confidence within yourself first. If you lack a strong sense of identity, you may become more insecure and expect your partner to gratify all the needs that you are unable to meet yourself, and this will take a toll on your relationship. Once you become the master of your emotions, Cancer, you will comfortably and happily enjoy the experience of romance and love. Unfortunately, some Cancerians attract partners who are cold, aloof and indifferent. Because physical closeness is important to you, hugs and kisses need to come your way, or frustration will build within. While it's always good to trust your gut, don't forget to employ some brain power as well. You must avoid fanning your emotional insecurities, which can wreak havoc in your relationships. Your mood determines the landscape of your relationships, pushing you into reclusiveness and punishing your partner with your painful silence. Though they may put up with this initially, they may walk out in the end.

Release the hold on your innermost feelings and allow for open dialogue. Since your mind and relationships respond to the lunar cycle, find inven- tive ways to offset this. Be perceptive to the early signals of discontent you will be able to iron out complexities before spiraling into emotional desolation. This single piece of advice could have a long-lasting impact on your marriage or long-term relationship. Cancer Friend Loyalty happens to be your defining element as a Cancer friend. As the nurturer of the zodiac, you value friendship and prefer to have quality over quantity. You take tremendous interest in the lives of others, including their highs and lows, and you have an intrinsic ability to make others feel good about themselves. Your inherent ability to nurture enables you to reach out to others, and you prove to be the reliable confidante they never had. That's one big reason why people love having you as their friend. This beautiful quality of encouraging others is how you're able to win friends and influence others without being overpowering or difficult. For some, this sincerity and affection means that you are taken for granted. However, it can mean quite the opposite for an evolved Cancerian.

You are insightful and observant when it comes to picking friends and long-term partners, and correctly employ your sixth sense to grasp people's true intentions. Another noteworthy quality is your interest in general knowledge and how you use it in practical ways. You celebrate information and unhesi- tatingly share it with others. At the same time, you are humble enough to be receptive to other people's point of view, regardless of whether you take their advice! Cancerians have a natural tendency to make their nurturing, never-say-no spirit the guiding light of their life. However, as much as you give yourself to others, you may not always enjoy an equivalent degree of reciprocation. The reason for this is fairly simple. You like to seal off the dark feelings you experience and are reticent about sharing them with others. Unwilling to burden them with your woes, you prevent people from fussing over you. But in the end they do just that, and it's exactly how you would like them to behave! If you want to elicit concern and warmth from others, you need to be open in the way you express your emotions. While you strive to be a friend to others, allow them to be a friend to you.

This means that you need to trust them as much as they trust you. Yes, you may need time to achieve this, but the more you do it, the more you'll be loved without being taken for granted. Cancer Enemy The water sign of the Crab is hypersensitive and you'll be amazed at your capacity to stretch things beyond measure. If rubbed the wrong way, you can misconstrue seemingly harmless trivia and hold it against someone. This can make you difficult to deal with. If you notice a Cancer friend withdrawing and straining the chains of communication, rest assured that you have consciously or unconsciously offended them. Before you know it, they will have distanced themselves from you, and any attempt at placating them will fall flat. This passive-aggressive attitude can be quite disconcerting, but it is typical of the Crab, which moves obliquely when it anticipates threat. The more you chase after it, the quicker it gets away from you! The best advice is to let them go. Give your Cancer friend the time to heal and, hopefully, their caring nature will bring them back. My Light and Shadow The Light and Shadow The light and the dark are part of human nature and each star sign exhibits this polarity.

It is the yin and yang of life and once we confront these shadowy areas within ourselves the sooner we are able to break free of all self limiting behaviours and habits. Cancer: The light side Because you're so connected to your feelings and understand how feelings affect others, you're able to make this a part of your life, which impacts favourably on those with whom you come in touch. You're a deep ocean of sensitive knowledge and your open and generous nature puts you at the top of everyone's list of favourite people. Your openness and warmth need to be monitored, however, as other unscrupulous people will take advantage of you. You can be shrewd and perceptive when it comes to choosing friends and this is more the case that your intuition has been developed and you're able to see into others' motivations. Many Cancers have an incredible arsenal of general knowledge that surprises others. You probably like to read a lot and are curious about this, that and the other. Overall, your nurturing spirit is the highlight of your sign and that will always hold you in good stead, wherever you go.

Cancer: The shadow side It's not often evident but you can be rather dark emotionally and once people see this it can adversely affect their perception of you. Along with the fact that you're sometimes stubborn, it seems you may be a complex individual to deal with. Sometimes an innocent comment can set you off and underneath that calm exterior your emotions will be boiling over, sulking about what someone's said. You can blame this on the Moon, which tends to heighten your sensitivity to the world and people around you. Occasionally you don't take too kindly to constructive criticism, seeing it as an attack on your nature rather than an intention to do good things. Although your sensitivity to your environment is an asset, you must be careful not to let these dramatic mood swings undermine your life and relationships. Much of these problems relate to your early life and some Cancers need to get more in touch with this part of their nature to overcome these sometimes overwhelming feelings.

Mary Oliver's Cancer Poem | On Being Mary Oliver's Cancer Poem by Mariah Helgeson ( @mariahism ), editor, digital "The end of life has its own nature also worth our attention." —Mary Oliver About an hour in to our interview with Mary Oliver , the poet discusses what she calls "the cancer visit." In 2012 she was diagnosed with lung cancer and said that death had "left his calling card." She was treated and was given "a clean bill of health." In her collection Blue Horses , "The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac" is a four-part poem that recalls the shadowy underworld of loss and survival. And yet, grief is coupled with a hopefulness. The poem is petitionary, asking of us to make what we can of the time we have left. The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac by Mary Oliver Why should I have been surprised? Hunters walk the forest The hunter, strapped to his rifle, the fox on his feet of silk, the serpent on his empire of muscles— all move in a stillness, hungry, careful, intent. entered the forest of my body, without a sound. what will it be like after the last day?

within the earth or a river— remembering nothing? How desperate I would be if I couldn't remember the sun rising, if I couldn't remember trees, rivers; if I couldn't even remember, beloved, I know, you never intended to be in this world. But you're in it all the same. so why not get started immediately. I mean, belonging to it. There is so much to admire, to weep over. And to write music or poems about. Bless the feet that take you to and fro. Bless the eyes and the listening ears. Bless the tongue, the marvel of taste. Bless touching. You could live a hundred years, it's happened. Or not. I am speaking from the fortunate platform of many years, none of which, I think, I ever wasted. Do you need a prod? Do you need a little darkness to get you going? Let me be urgent as a knife, then, and remind you of Keats, so single of purpose and thinking, for a while, he had a lifetime.

Late yesterday afternoon, in the heat, all the fragile blue flowers in bloom in the shrubs in the yard next door had tumbled from the shrubs and lay wrinkled and fading in the grass. But this morning the shrubs were full of the blue flowers again. There wasn't a single one on the grass. How, I wondered, did they roll back up to the branches, that fiercely wanting, as we all do, just a little more of life? For those of you who prefer the organic reading of a conversation, below you can hear the poems as they were read in the interview: "The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac" from Blue Horses by Mary Oliver, published by The Penguin Press, New York, Copyright © 2014 by Mary Oliver, reprinted by permission of the Charlotte Sheedy Literary Agency. by February 15, 2015 Next Mariah Helgeson is a digital editor at On Being. She earned a degree in International Affairs with concentrations in the Middle East and Conflict Resolution from George Washington University. She grew up in Minnesota and was a program associate at the Sustained Dialogue Campus Network.

When she’s not submerged in a good book she might be found laughing with her teenage sisters or playing chamber music. Keywords The content of this field is kept private and will not be shown publicly. Homepage Lines and paragraphs break automatically. Embed content by wrapping a supported URL in [embed] … [/embed]. Plain text Web page addresses and e-mail addresses turn into links automatically. Lines and paragraphs break automatically. Leave this field blank Permalink Submitted by Gerald Escott on Mon, 2015-02-16 07:40 Words are like a thousand pictures. I appreciate the prodding of Permalink Submitted by Bonnie Odiorne on Mon, 2015-02-16 08:21 I appreciate the prodding of this poem, the knife, the silent hunter, cutting against all the beauty that Oliver evokes so stunningly. Listen up! Don't waste the time you have! Let the darkness prod you, if that's what it takes. Then maybe you too will see time running backward, the dead flowers from the bush burning in the heat reattached to the shrubs, blue and glimmering in the morning dew.

Krista Tippett, I loved your interview: you, knowledgeable, gently prodding, intuit the right moments, and Mary, so strong and open, shows a touching fragility in her openness. Brilliant work, both of you. Permalink Submitted by Deborah Thomas on Mon, 2015-02-16 20:17 I could hold on to the phrase about the shrub losing the blue flowers, and the Next day the flowers were back on the shrub.That is how we are in denial about Anything we want to run away from, or not embrace as being a part of us. When we are willing to run the race , with what we have, and accept it it is becomes part Of who we ar.that is howI felt when I had cancer. So, I can claim this. My family was tired from 3 Permalink Submitted by Richard Gates on Mon, 2015-02-16 21:39 My family was tired from 3 days of my Mom's death watch. She was old, with dementia at a care center. In a lucid moment she asked she not die alone.

So they left me alone with her that last nite. The Anglican Priest who gave her last rites told us to feel closely at this transition. It is where being and the beyond are very close. As I dozed on the chair I could hear her breathing, determined and steady. At around 2am I felt a warm,soft feeling under my chin. I thought this must be a childhood memory of when my Mom first held a kitten. I later learned that after losing a child at 4 days old a new mother brought her newborn in for Mom to hold. As the morning dawned I got up to give her morphine and wipe her lips and felt as if I were looking thru the eyes of my long dead father, seeing her in days first light as he went off to do rounds at Med school. Looking with so much love at the women he just married. Her breathing got more sporatic, then would stop and start up again, I called my siblings and told them the end is very near. My sister and nieces came in the room a few minutes before her breath stopped. The rest of the family came and all hugged her. Two years later I look back at that nite as the most beautiful.

Permalink Submitted by Kendra Rogers on Wed, 2015-05-06 11:55 Just wanted to let you know that the post you've made here is a bit wrong. You had stated that "The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac" is from Mary Oliver's "Dream Work" (and linked to the Amazon page!) I bought the book for my mother, who is currently undergoing treatment for Cancer, and unfortunately it FINALLY came in the mail only for me to realize that it doesn't actually contain "The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac" at all. May want to update that so that other listeners trying to track down Mary's work aren't disappointed :) Thanks! I was walking my wonderful Permalink Submitted by Terri on Sun, 2015-10-18 14:03 I was walking my wonderful Greyhound on a trail around a lake near me this morning, marvelling at the beautiful colors of the changing leaves, taking in the peeks of warm sun through the treetops, and watching the swans glide along the lake. During this walk I listened to Krista's interview of Mary Oliver - one of my very favorite poets of all time.

I actually filled up with tears listening to her read some of her works - so incredibly moving! Thank you so much Mary for putting so much of this beauty into words that move so deeply! And - thank you, Krista, for your amazing show each week! Although I came to this poem Permalink Submitted by Joan DeRosa on Sun, 2016-02-07 09:33 Although I came to this poem after reading only the first part, I knew I wanted to read more. As a recent widow and also one even older than Mary, it is the 2nd and 4th parts in this remarkable poem that I read again and again. It is those questions and "that fiercely wanting...just a little more of life." I came to poetry late in my Permalink Submitted by Ed Mangiafico Jr. on Sat, 2016-07-23 14:55 I came to poetry late in my life -- late, as it turns out, being in my fifties. I'm now 62 with a terminal cancer.

This poem took me by surprise as I was following up reading Mary Oliver after encountering another compelling poem of hers in a UU service a few years ago, thinking that poem probably was in Blue Horses (it isn't). The first line captures my feeling exactly following the phone call from the doctor who conveyed my diagnosis. Of course: there is no particular reason to consider yourself exempt from a brain tumor; but I'll bet you do, as did I, unwittingly. The imagery of the stealth of the hunter and the fox are as perfect as words get to convey this truth. To me each part of this poem stands firmly on its own as great art. The question in Part 2, just as unsurprisingly as Part 1, is the second place I went after initially grasping the reality of my mortality. I'm a little more optimistic than to worry about missing anything on the "next day" or later; it is the grief of others that pains me the most. Fortunately, this too shall pass for each in her or his own time. The entreaty of Part 3 is indeed spoken from the fortunate platform of Mary's many unwasted years.

I hope and believe this was for her partner before her death; and if that is the case, what a gift to her, as well as to every survivor of a loved one. But it is Part 4 that reveals the spirit and the magic of this great writer. No Whitman and no Thoreau could speak to me of the wonder of life in such a personal way. Like a previous commenter, I feel I can claim this poem on many levels. Thank you, Billy Collins, for waking me up to poetry. Better late than never for this "hired knife." Thank you, Mary Oliver, for your skill and art that gives you the power to communicate on such a spiritual level. And thank you, Krista Tippet, and Mariah Helgeson, for the keen insight that enables you to bring this art to us. Ed Mangiafico, Jr. Cancer Sun Sign - Zodiac Signs - Article by Astrology.com Cancer Sun Sign - Zodiac Signs BY ASTROLOGY.COM NOVEMBER 20, 2009 03:39 PM EST Share Share Share Cancer, the fourth sign of the zodiac, is all about home.

Those born under this sign are 'roots' kinds of people, and take great pleasure in the comforts of home and family. Cancers are maternal, domestic and love to nurture others. More than likely, their family will be large, too -- the more, the merrier! Cancers will certainly be merry if their home life is serene and harmonious. Traditions are upheld with great zest in a Cancer's household, since these folks prize family history and love communal activities. They also tend to be patriotic, waving the flag whenever possible. A Cancer's good memory is the basis for stories told around the dinner table, and don't be surprised if these folks get emotional about things. Those born under this sign wear their heart on their sleeve, which is just fine by them. The mascot of Cancer is the Crab, and much like this shelled little critter, Cancers are quick to retreat into their shells if it suits their mood. No wonder these folks are called crabby! For Cancer, it's not that big of a deal, though, since they consider this 'shell' a second home (and they do love home). The flip side of this hiding is that shell-bound Crabs are often quite moody.

Further, in keeping with their difficulty in sharing their innermost feelings, it can become a Herculean task to pry a Crab out of its secret hiding place. What to do? Give the Crab time -- eventually these folks will come out to play again. When they do, they'll be the first to say so, in keeping with the Cardinal Quality attached to this sign. It's said that Crabs are first to laugh and first to cry, so you can bet they'll fill you in. That shell, by the way, isn't the only tough thing about Crabs. These folks are tenacious and strong-willed and like to get their way. If their well-documented kindness and gentleness doesn't do the trick, however, they're not above using emotional manipulation to make things happen. If that still doesn't work, they'll just go back to their shell and sulk, or find a way to get back at the source of their pain, since Crabs can be rather vindictive. That said, any self-respecting Crab would tell you that they are ultimately motivated by protecting their home and loved ones, a most noble goal. Cancers are ruled by the Moon -- the Great Mother of the heavens in ancient times.

Here on Earth, this is manifested in the Crab's maternal instincts and desire to protect home and hearth. This may appear smothering at times, but that's the Crab for you. The Moon is associated with fertility, too, a quality that is most pleasing to Cancers. The Moon is also the ruler of moods, and Cancers have plenty of those. These folks can cry you a river if they're so inclined, and they usually are. They can be overly sensitive, easily hurt and prone to brooding. Even so, Crabs find it easy to be sympathetic to others and are quick to show their affection. Their intuition is also a great help to them, especially in times of stress. The element associated with Cancer is Water. Like the rolling waves of the sea, the Crab's emotions can make quite a splash. These folks tend to pick up on things and bring them in, with the outward result ranging from sentimentality to possessiveness. Crabs need to resist the temptation to become selfish or to feel sorry for themselves, since this behavior won't help. On the bright side, Cancers are good with money (although some consider them too thrifty), probably because they value a sense of security.

Crabs are also quick to help others and tend to avoid confrontation. In keeping with their nurturing bent, those born under this sign are a whiz with food. A hearty picnic in the park is heaven-on-earth to most Crabs. Cancers often find that a robust workout session is just the tonic for their touchy feelings. Team sports are always nice, since they offer a sense of community; water polo should be elemental to aquatic Crabs. What are their team colors? The Moon is silver and white. Since Cancers have a tendency to be lazy, however, they may need someone to push them out the door. When it comes to the game of love, eager Crabs are devoted, romantic and able to get things going on their own. Crabs are wise to listen to their gut, since this sign rules the stomach. The great strength of the Cancer-born is the tenacity with which they protect their loved ones. These folks don't ask for much, either: a comfortable home and sense of peace about sums it up. It's that nurturing instinct which makes Cancers a pleasure to be with.

Sponsored Link Mary Oliver on the Measure of a Life Well Lived and How to Maximize Our Aliveness – Brain Pickings Mary Oliver on the Measure of a Life Well Lived and How to Maximize Our Aliveness “Do you need a prod? Do you need a little darkness to get you going?” By Maria Popova Few are those whose contribution to humanity — be it art, or music, or literature, or some other enchantment — fills the heart with uncontainable gratitude for their very existence. Mary Oliver — one of the greatest poets of all time, and perhaps the greatest of our time — is one such blessing of a writer. She, the patron saint of paying compassionate attention, has made a supreme art of bearing witness to our world — be it in her exquisite poems , or in the prose of that moving remembrance of her soul mate , or in her meditations on the craft of poetry itself . In her immensely rewarding recent On Being conversation with Krista Tippett — triply magical because Oliver rarely gives interviews, and never ones this dimensional and revealing — she read several of her most beloved poems.

While “Wild Geese” remains a favorite, I was especially taken with a four-part poem titled “The Fourth Sign of the Zodiac,” found in Oliver’s sublime 2014 collection Blue Horses: Poems ( public library ). It is partly a bow to her recent triumph over cancer, and partly a score to the larger tango of life and death which we all, wittingly or not, are summoned to dance daily. Like so much of her work, it is an uncommonly direct yet beguiling love letter to vitality itself, poured from the soul of someone utterly besotted with this world which we too are invited to embrace. THE FOURTH SIGN OF THE ZODIAC (PART 3) I know, you never intended to be in this world. But you’re in it all the same. So why not get started immediately. I mean, belonging to it. There is so much to admire, to weep over. And to write music or poems about. Bless the feet that take you to and fro. Bless the eyes and the listening ears. Bless the tongue, the marvel of taste. Bless touching.

Birthday Horoscope July 4th Cancer, If your Birthday is July 4 Birthday Horoscope for July 4th If your Birthday is July 4 and your Zodiac Sign is Cancer Birthday Persona Profile People born specifically on the 4th of July are destined to be strong willed and determined alongside their typical crab responsive and dependable nature. The astrological planet that rules over this particular day is Uranus making you highly practical, very hard working and sharply decisive. If you have this birthday early family roots are considered important and it is rare for you to ever forget them. Naturally caring and empathic you can also be temperamental and at times argumentative but also always willing to quickly admit if you are wrong about something. Your humanitarian approach directs you to be kind and usually more objective than others of your zodiac sign, so your kindness is unlikely to be taken advantage of. Individuals with a July the fourth birthday may appear quite straightforward and uncomplicated but they can be sometimes clingy, demanding or repressed emotionally. Under that seemingly tough exterior you are surprisingly sensitive. Work and Finances Career routes are usually easily chosen to a person born on the fourth of July as a result of your decisiveness.

Suitable work must also appeal to your ambitious motivated side and you have the likelihood to gravitate towards unusual occupations. Your plentiful empathy and adept practicality are an excellent combination of abilities suited best to a social or care type profession. Although you are often able to make plenty of money it could be difficult for you to not resist spending it as fast as you earn it. You have stylish extravagant tastes and sometimes too much generosity for your own good. Personal Relationships For a Cancer, the person born on the fourth day of July is typically in need of plenty of love and fun in life to feel complete. An intense emotional connection is a primary requirement in a long term loving relationship. Inclined to leave nothing to chance concerning romance you will ordinarily trust your instincts and follow them when contemplating soul mate commitment. You are naturally generous, protective and loveable and make a considerate partner who is likely to be imaginatively romantic. You will generally avoid lovers tiffs despite sometimes taking things rather personally and aim to maintain harmony with communicating calmly and compromising. Not shy to reveal your sexual desires you will usually prefer a partner to take the lead in the bedroom. If hurt or disappointed romantically you tend to quickly respond by becoming noticeably sulky and withdrawn.

Health Optimum healthiness is important to those born on July 4th and you may be a bit fanatical about looking after yourself. You take a keen interest in and are often knowledgeable regarding health and nutritional values and the latest medical advances. A pride in your appearance encourages you to enjoy exercise and staying supple in order to look your best. People born on this day seem to frequently overtax themselves so should always ensure to get enough sleep to help the body recover. Lack of adequate rest can soon show up on your skin condition and really lower your mood and physical and mental energy. Strengths and Weaknesses Your main strengths of character are identified in your abundances of determination, responsiveness and dependability. These fortes highlight your toughness and capability as well as reflecting your inner sensitivity, faithfulness and giving disposition. The personality weaknesses for those born on July 4th revolve around your tendencies to be occasionally too egocentric and biased or fixed in your opinions. Emotional upset is often one of triggers that could provoke your negative traits into action. Your proneness for extravagance is another weak characteristic you will have to keep an eye on.

Dreams and Goals Being born on the 4th of July grants you a great awareness of your finest abilities and realization of your full potential. This drives you to take each day as a new opportunity to achieve something meaningful. Among your most favored goals is the pursuit of happiness as this is an essential in maintaining your forward thinking positivity. Many of your dreams center on the achievement of perfection in your private life and the forming of an imaginary idyllic lifestyle. Additional wishes are to make the most of life, ride easily over challenges and visit some memorable places in the world. Birthday Luck and Significance As you were born on the fourth day of the month your birth date automatically gains a Root number of Four. This numerical reference to your birthday has the keyword 'Honesty' emphasizing your thoughtful nurturing approach and open direct loyalty. In Tarot the 4th card featuring the Emperor in the Major Arcana is closely linked to your birthday. This mystic link accentuates your usual desired cravings for domestic stability and the enhancing of your wisdom. The lucky gem for July the fourth birthdays is believed to be Topaz, wearing this precious stone is imagined to evoke calmness and improve confidence.

Summation Astrologically the cosmic influence of the Moon is presumed mostly accountable for the possible personalities of all Cancerians. The actual day you were born, the fourth of July is governed by Uranus's powerful authority. Therefore these two planetary influences are thought to primarily determine the probabilities of your individuality. Your ability to work hard and not be easily influenced along with your large helping of impartiality allow you to make fabulous progress. Your decisiveness and inclination to be incredibly loyal and faithful to loved ones make you steadfast and reliable. If you try to take control of your emotions it will help you stay calm and collected in circumstances where it matters. A summarizing well meant thought for people born on July the 4th is to attempt to embrace and utilize your freedom to be truly independent and remember to be beholden to only yourself. July 4 Birthday Horoscope Personality | Sun Signs Home » Birthday » July 4 Birthday Horoscope Personality July 4 Birthday Horoscope Personality Mikki Donaldson Leave a comment Birthday Meanings Of People Born On July 4th (Zodiac Sign Cancer) IF YOUR BIRTHDAY IS JULY 4, you are resilient, reliable and responsible. The zodiac sign for birthdate 4th July is Cancer.

You are naturally friendly and considered practical. On the outside, you may appear cool or aloof but deep down you are a softie. Your family is very important to you as other individuals in need of a helping hand. According to the July 4th birthdate horoscope, out of the other Crabs, you are the most uncomplicated zodiac sign. You are caring and objective. It is highly unlikely that people will try to take advantage of you because of this. Normally, you are a hard working Cancer who is capable of making spur-of-the-moment decisions. According the 4 July birth date analysis, you can be overly sensitive. On the other hand, you can be confrontational but you are the first one to admit that you were wrong and to put things behind you. Let’s talk about your weaknesses. It is not often but you sometimes get emotional. Being upset often affects your ability to remain objective and calm. In addition, you tend to shop, in an effort to wash away your frustrations. It would not be so bad if you did not have an extravagant taste. Otherwise, you are determined and have a giving nature. Consistent with the July 4th birthday love compatibility, you may desire to have a love of your own.

This love, however, must be a lot of fun, trusting, and generous. You are likely to be the romantic idealist. It is often that a person born on this day has great insight and consideration for a soul mate who is emotional attached. Generally, when it comes to your long-term love interest, you are a protective Cancer personality. Alternatively, you need someone to make you feel whole and alive. You aim to please and are generous and very lovable. Those born on this birthday 4th July, avoid arguments at all costs. As the 4th July birthdate meanings indicate, you would rather take the blame than to be in the doghouse. This is not to say that you are bashful but rather selfish in not wanting to “sleep“ by yourself. At times when you find yourself in trouble, you are likely to brood about it or you use the silent treatment to get attention. The July 4 birth day astrology analysis also predicts that you have an easy decision to make when it comes to a career choice. You can be an ambitious, motivated, and adaptable Cancer. You have an enterprising attitude that may gravitate toward a career that is not normally a first choice for others.

You can work in the health care field, as you are naturally a caregiver. Those of you born on this day find it easy to learn new things. This ability gives way to an open door that pays you well. With a large compensation and benefit package, you may have an urge to shop until you drop. This is only viable if you do it in moderation. If today 4 July is your birthday, these Cancer personalities typically are huge exercise buffs. There is no greater feeling than looking your best. Looking great, feeling great and having money in the bank makes you one hot target. You take pride in how you are perceived inwardly and outwardly. The only drawback is that you may not get your proper rest. You work so hard that you tend to overlook the fact that lack of sleep can have its side affects. You need energy to perform at work and at play. It goes without saying that being well rested puts you in a better mood. The July 4 birthday personality traits for this Cancerian predicts you are ambitious hard working, and flexible people. You have the ability to make standing decisions with a moment’s notice. To some, you may appear to be distant but you are a pretty giving and likeable Crab.

Those of you born on this day are anxious lovers that have romantic fantasies. You are likely to walk away from an argument rather than sleep in another room. A long-term relationship can be the very thing you need to feel complete. This Day That Year – July 4th In History: 1779 – Grenada invaded by French fleet 1789 – Tariff Act in place 1796 – First Fourth of July celebration was held on this day 1827 – NY puts an end to slavery 1925 – In Boston, the Dreyfus Hotel collapses, killing 44 people Famous Birthdays On 4th July: Angelique Boyer, Calvin Coolidge, Melanie Fiona, Gloria Stuart, Geraldo Rivera, Abigail Van Buren, Bill Withers Birth Sign: You Fall Under Horoscope Sign Cancer Corresponding Rashi (Vedic Moon Sign): Kark Rashi Corresponding Chinese Zodiac Sign: SHEEP Birthday Planet: Your ruling planet is Moon that symbolizes your emotions, intuition, imagination and feelings. Birth Date Symbols: The Crab Is The Symbol For The Cancer Star Sign Birthday Tarot Card: Your Birthdate Tarot Card is The Emperor.

This card symbolizes competition, success, authority and planning. Birthday Love Compatibility: You are most compatible with people born under Sun Sign Virgo: This can be a promising and understanding relationship. You are not compatible with people born under Sun Sign Gemini: This match between the air and water sign will always be at odds with each other. Birthdate Numerology: Number 2 – This number signifies insight, sensitivity, decisiveness and understanding. Number 4 – This number signifies conservativeness, determination, progress, discipline and dependability. Lucky Colors For 4 July Birthday: Cream: This color stands for quietness, reliability, sophistication and seclusion. Lavender: This is a spiritual color that helps us get in touch with our inner thoughts. Lucky Days For July 4th Birthdate: Monday – This is the day of Moon that helps you analyze your decisions and shows how receptive you are to situations. Sunday – This is the day of Sun that serves as an inspiration, authority and master in helping you fulfill your goals. Birth Stone: Your lucky gemstone is Pearl which is symbolic of innocence, purity, wisdom and focus.

Ideal Zodiac Birthday Gift For People Born On The 4th Of July: A few good books for the man and silver jewellery for the woman. The Fourth Zodiac Sign: Cancer - AstroYogi.com Store The Fourth Zodiac Sign: Cancer Cancer is the fourth sun sign in the zodiac and those born on these dates (June 22-July 22) belong to this water sign. Ruled by the Moon, Cancer is all about emotions. The most emotional of all zodiac signs, Cancerians are known introverts. It’s not easy to understand what Cancer wants. They hide everything beneath the surface and rarely express what’s going on in their mind. They are kind and do everything they can to make others around happy. They are sympathetic but not to those who are bitter and rude. Home is a special place and close friends are always welcome to hangout and have a good time. Cancer personality traits Cancer, no matter how unpleasant you may seem to some people, you have a conscience that prompts you to do the right things - like standing by people in their time of need. Like most water signs, you too have good intuitive powers and mostly put them to good use in managing your life.

You have an urge to travel to distant lands but you are a home-loving person. You can do without being so crabby, if one may say so. Keep your moods in check. Remember the people you hurt most often are the ones who have been good to you. You tend to make a mountain out of the molehill and are prone to self-pity. Reserve some of your sensitivity for others who may need it. Cancer work profile You are a good worker Cancer and you never say no to responsibilities. You do one thing at a time but the quality of the work is great. You believe in accomplishing your goals on time and you know how to stay focused. You don’t get distracted like some other zodiac signs. Your colleagues and seniors can depend on you. You enjoy working in a disciplined manner and keep all your files in order. You never tire away from doing routine tasks. Cancer likes Cancer admires people who respect their elders. They like to associate with people who are close with their family. They find much in common with such people. Cancer likes to demonstrate their feelings and are very expressive. They like receiving gifts and presents, especially when it is a surprise.

Cancerians love art, history, ancient artifacts and are drawn towards old monuments. Cancer loves water sports and always has a great time swimming and surfing. Cancer dislikes Cancer dislikes being away from home. They hate being in the middle of an argument. Do what you want but never criticize your parents in front of a Cancer. You may end up losing your Cancer friend forever. Cancer simply cannot associate with people who do not respect their parents. They don’t like movies that are too modern. Their personality goes better with old movies that had a simpler but well narrated story. Cancer in love When they fall in love, it is long term for them. Cancer, you don’t believe in playing with emotions and you give your all to the one you love. You tend to get hurt easily but you rarely express your displeasure. You accept people as they are; flaws and all, and you make your partner feel special and appreciated. You are a domestic sign and you are at your happiest best when you build a home with someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with. Your best matches are Pisces, Scorpio and Cancer.

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Question: What is the fourth sign of the Zodiac?
Answer: Cancer