[Off-topic] bongd:
Join bodybuilding.com and start reading all the beginner guides. The forums are great for advice too. I used to be about 100lbs and now I weigh around 180lbs but around 6-7% bf. Yes, I've used steroids off and on after the gains halted but it was a fantastic experience and anyone who's spent years in the game will use them too. It's an esoteric sub culture just like mobile phone hardcores, so before anyone judges understand that you do not know absolutely ANYTHING about them. I am very honest and won't lie.

Natural bodybuilding should be done for a good base though, I had aspirations of competing and I'm liberal with my drug use so that's why I did it. I also did it under doctor supervision and know many doctors as well as IFBB pros and top National competitors in Canada so I know the real deal (all the peer reviewed studies are either for severely traumatized burn victims, HIV/AIDs patients or for hormone replacement therapy, very little research on supraphysiological doses over a long period of time).

Just eat whatever you believe to be "clean", aim for around 100-125g of protein per day which can include a couple protein shakes and don't listen to all the diet BS out there. Honestly all the professionals are just lean because they diet down and use drugs like T3, clenbuterol, DNP, HGH, etc. Real naturals as well as enhanced lifters just need a couple hundred grams of protein per day at most. For someone just starting out, 100g of protein is fine. Eat some eggs and a chicken breast and a protein shake, then eat some veggies and whatever carb source you like. Don't believe that bodybuilding diets have to be bland as crap. I was well over 200lbs on all the drugs and uncomfortably eating 6-8 meals a day. Now I eat 2 huge meals, do intermittent fasting and have a protein shake or two and I'm happy as a clam. I love cooking and would rather cook a humongous man meal for myself and the wife (or for friends, everyone loves my cooking) and let that be that.

Lift hard but safely, eat good but don't let it negatively impact your lifestyle, and soak up as much information as you can but only retain what's useful for YOU. If you can apply whatever training method, then just make it work. There are tons of ways to build muscle but none of them are any good if you can't follow them intuitively and properly. If something doesn't feel right, give it a chance but don't get hung up on it. I've obsessed over bodybuilding or the last 5 years but now I just lift like a beast, eat very good, live my live without letting my meals dictate my schedule and now I'm making the best gains of my life. I'd post pictures but media and file sharing websites are blocked by my work's corporate filter.

PM me and I can add you to Facebook if you're serious about following my advice.

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Added a pic I found in my Facebook profile. I keep covered up because I'm just doing this for myself. I wanted to stop looking like a small Asian lady boy and now I look like a man my age. A normal man... until I'm at the gym with a tank top on and people see all the cuts and veins. I train for aesthetics but don't mind turning heads. I like that people think I'm a normal guy and then when I take my shirt off they see the abs and the definition, or when I show them up by letting them see my legs to know that I'm not just a chicken head. Sitting at my leanest and best condition ever and I'm eating candy every single day lol... everyone just needs to learn how to LISTEN to their body. It's no secret. I have the crappiest genetics ever but I just listened to the queues my body gave me and things came together :)