[Defy Themes and Apps] FcukBloat:
thanks my dear will remove it immediately and see what happens thanks! :)

EDIT: I went for removing it and actually i noticed i have already deleted it lol! :) i will post the list of all the apps i usually remove before flashing a rom soon maybe someone could be interested :)

EDIT 2: this could become the tuning thread.. :)

.. here is what i remove always from the cm10.1 and minimal gapps package zips:

<<From cm10.1 ROM zip..>>

/system/media/video/*

/system/tts/*

/system/usr/srec/*

/system/fonts/DroidSansFallback.tff

/system/fonts/MTLmr3m.tff

/system/fonts/NanumGothic.tff

in /system/media/audio i only leave alarms, notifications and ringtones i need (six in total) and remove all the others

*for the part above, credits go to [MENTION=4788174]Nbsss[/MENTION], see here: http://xdaforums.com/showpost.php?p=41074866

below is my contribute.. :p

in /system/app i delete all the following: (with some explanations for each app)

Apollo.apk (music app)

ApplicationsProvider.apk (somewhere I saw that that it "Provides the list of installed apps to Market", but market is working fine here even without that, and I can also correctly see the list of my installed apps)

AudioEffectSettings.apk (relevant settings, I don't use them, if removed settings will FC if you try to open those audio effect settings)

BackupRestoreConfirmation.apk (for synced google settings, I never used it)

BasicDreams.apk (wallpaper)

CellBroadcastReceiver.apk (relevant settings, I don't use them, if removed settings will FC if you try to open those cell broadcast settings)

CMFileManager.apk (I use ES File manager instead)

CMUpdater.apk (I have never used updater, just flash flash new roms when they come out)

DSPManager.apk (I don't use it)

Email2.apk (I only use gmail)

Exchange2.apk(I only use gmail)

Galaxy4.apk (wallpaper)

HoloSpiralWallpaper.apk (wallpaper)

HwaSettings.apk (I always leave HWA on for all apps an never had any problems, so no need for this)

InputDevices.apk (never understood what is this for exactly, but removing it is safe here)

LiveWallpapers.apk (to choose between live wallpapers, I don't use them)

LiveWallpapersPicker.apk (to choose between live wallpapers, I don't use them)

MagicSmokeWallpapers.apk (wallpaper)

NoiseField.apk (wallpaper)

PhaseBeam.apk (wallpaper)

PhotoTable.apk (wallpaper)

PicoTts.apk (no need, maps+audio directions work perfectly fine even without this)

Provision.apk (setup wizard, not used, using the one inside the gapps package instead)

QuickSearchBox.apk (google search box, I don't use it)

Stk.apk (sim toolkit app, I don't use it)

Term.apk (old version of terminal emulator, I always install the latest one from play store instead)

ThemeChooser.apk (I never change themes)

ThemeManager.apk (I never change themes)

VideoEditor.apk (it used to always crash, at least in previous builds, btw I don't use it)

VisualizationWallpapers.apk (wallpaper)

VoiceDialer.apk (I don't use it)

VpnDialogs.apk (I don't need it)

<<From minimal gapps zip..>>

GoogleBackupTransport.apk (for google backup service that I never used)

GoogleFeedback.apk (it is probably for reporting to google when an app FC, store feedbacks still work even without this)

MediaUploader.apk (it is just for picasa uploading/sharing option)

libgtalk_jni.so and libgtalk_stabilize.so inside /lib, as I don't use gtalk/hangouts

.. doing like that i remain with more than 80Mb free in /system :p

byeeee