When someone is a guest in the house, their child sits on a stool and watches the cartoon while messing with it. As a result, he accidentally falls off the stool and cries. At this time, many parents will feel angry and blame the child: "It's not honest to watch a cartoon, but I fell and cry on my face?" From a psychological perspective, such criticism is likely to be just that the parents are venting their inner anger, which has little or no educational significance to the child. : The child who fell is in a sad state and cannot understand the "deep meaning" behind his parents 'criticism. He can only hear his parents' scolding and may cry even more. At this time, if other children next to him see this scene, also It can only be concluded that you can't cry when you fall down, or you will be scolded by adults. In fact, the attitude and manner of parents towards their children are related to their mental health, and public criticism of children will affect the formation and development of children's self-esteem. Blindly scolding and scolding will not only make children feel "lost" in front of outsiders, but also cause them to form negative thinking that "the occurrence of a bad thing is their own right. ". The most accurate summary of the core point of this text is:. ['"Teachers before the church" may be counterproductive.', 'Criticizing children in public will hurt their self-esteem.', 'When parents educate their children, if they are angry, the education is not significant.', 'When there are guests at home, it is better not to scold the child.']