Sociologist Fei Xiaotong used the "differential order pattern" to describe the ethical structure of traditional Chinese society, and believed that the biggest problem in this structure was "private. " But traditional Chinese society does have what Liang Shuming calls the "ethical standard. " The advantages of "emphasizing each other". The reason why the traditional "different order pattern" in China is trapped in "private" is not the original meaning of "benevolent" advocated by Confucianism, but because of the historical limitation of "dividing the differences" Or the limitation caused by cognition. In modern society, the organic combination of filial piety and fraternity, individual and society, emotion and reason, morality and the rule of law requires creative interpretation and innovative development of the Confucian kindness. The gist of this text is:. ['The ethical structure of "different order pattern" in traditional society ignores the original meaning of "benefits".', 'The limitations of "different cover" lead to the malady of traditional Chinese ethics "private".', 'The ethical structure of traditional society blends the spiritual core of "private" and "benevolent".', 'Confucian benevolence should be integrated with modern values.']