"I" Statements not "You" Statements http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm "you" statements http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm University of Colorado at Boulder: I/You Statements http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm rather than “you” statements http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm http://www.colorado.edu/conflict/peace/treatment/istate.htm