can grandmothers host a baby shower
* Yes, it's quite appropriate for the grandmother to be to have a baby shower for her daughter. Tip: Often it is better to have the baby shower after the baby is born (approximately two to three weeks after the birth) so guests know the sex of the baby, but also can enjoy seeing the baby. More and more young women prefer having their baby showers after the birth of their baby. 3 people found this useful.