when do you make your rsvp date before a bridal shower
Invitations should be sent out at least 4 weeks before the shower, and the RSVP date should be between 1-2 weeks before the shower. Guests: If you have been invited to a wedding shower, make sure that you RSVP by the date on the invitations whether or not you are going but ESPECIALLY if you are going. The host/hostess will only plan for enough favors, food, etc. for those who say they will attend. If this is a surprise shower, remember to keep it a secret, even if you arenât going! Bride and/or Groom: When it comes to planning the wedding shower, the bride and groom are pretty much responsibility-free.