what is a gumada
gumada. A mistress. Generally used by Americans of Southern Italian descent. Thought to be derived from the from proper Italian noun âcumadreâ. As long as you take care of the house and the kids and are around most of the time, a good italian wife doesnât mind if you get a gumada.My pop told me long ago, the cardinal rule to fucking around is this: NEVER fall in love with your gumada.s long as you take care of the house and the kids and are around most of the time, a good italian wife doesnât mind if you get a gumada. My pop told me long ago, the cardinal rule to fucking around is this: NEVER fall in love with your gumada.