can a hand put into your vagina
1 You can use a little lubricant, such as K-Y Jelly, or Astroglide, or Probe (any water-based personal lubricant) on your finger to rub around the vaginal opening. 2  Remember to relax, and breathe easily. 3  Place one finger into the vagina. 4  Never force your finger into the vagina. 5  Slight pushing should be enough.