what is the essence of a man
Â· just now. 1  Since we are all God's children we must align our lives with what the Creator wants for us. 2  Compassion...without the awareness of anothers pains, cares, worries and woes a man is not fully using his emotions. 3  The essence of a man is to love the Lord with all your heart and love Jesus. Treat your wife like the treasure she is. Raise your children in the ways of God. In other words, real men love Jesus :)