how to get over a hopeless crush
When you have a crush on someone, you're giddy with hope for the future â and it's heartbreaking when you realize it won't work out. Maybe your crush is seeing someone else, or you just know that getting together is impossible. Simply tell them how much you care about them, and that you just want to know if they feel the same. 2  Make it clear you still want to be friends with them (although you may need time apart to get over your feelings), and that you want them to be honest. 3  Writing your crush a letter may be better for several reasons.