what age can children decide who to live with in idaho
Â· just now. 1  There are no concrete rules. It would totally depend on the Judge, the situation, and the child's reasons for making the request. 2  most states, the judge can decide if he/she wants to hear what the child has to say at age 13 or 14. Doesn't mean he/she will do what a child wants. In fact any adult who does what a child wants is a moron, and judges are not morons.