can the groom speak last
Itâs traditional for speeches to be given at the wedding reception. The father of the bride should give his speech first, followed by the groomâs speech, and finally the best manâs speech. The father of the bride, by tradition, is the one who pays for the wedding. Thank the bridesmaids, comment on how great theyâre looking, and then propose a toast to them. 2  Toasting the bridesmaids is an expected part of the groomâs speech, so donât forget. 3  Thank your best man, say what a great guy he is, and hand over to the best man. 4  This is another place where you can get an easy laugh.