topping from the bottom definition
The problem with that is that in a power exchange the top is, by definition, the one with the power. So topping from the bottom is the whiny excuse that some tops use when they want control but are too timid to actually be in control. It's more accurately called bottoming from the top. Yes! Topping from the bottom means the sub is being manipulative and controlling! Nice! Except I get a little bit confused after that.