is it controlling for your boyfriend to tell you not to talk to other guys
And your boyfriend's not allowed to dictate who you can and can't talk to. The fact that he's doing this now is a sign that he might engage in even more controlling behavior in the future, like screening your calls or keeping you from talking to all of your friends.elp!!! Answer: What your boyfriend's doing to you is not only wrong, it's a sign of an abusive relationship. Honestly! Look at Sign #3. The whole I do it 'cause I love you so much excuse (a common thing that abusers say) is based on a twisted idea of love. Love isn't about control or jealousy, it's about respect.