i do not believe i have made outrageous violations of all three of those policies you may say that occasionally my tone has been less than wholly level and that this constitutes a form of mild rudeness however my point in this thread that there is also a different kind of rudeness utterly ignoring those who question your actions and attempt to have a reasonable discussion with you i have legitimate concerns which i have set out at length in a responsible fashion those concerns have been utterly ignored no attempt has been made to respond to them if i was wrong it should be a simple matter to demonstrate it the person about whom i have those concerns has simply deleted any attempt at discussion from her talk page this is in my view improper behaviour not to mentio rude in itself other than that i see reflexively defensive behaviour from what appears to be a self supporting clique of administrators