i don't remember requesting a photo of freakofnurture about the other admins i requested photos from the term stalking didn't even cross my mind for goodness sakes a lot of admins already posted photos about themselves so i thought i'd politely ask admins for photos they haven't posted yet i wasn't trying to be rude and demanding about the hidden comments with these invisible tags you're saying he was turned off and felt condescended by those oh my gosh they weren't intended to be condescending at all i never once thought that he'd be turned off by these invisible messages if you look at his userpage especially the top right and where it says his rage is building it's evident that he's angry at plenty of other things in life and that it now takes very little for him to feel that way towards most anybody there's apparently so many things to refine about myself i hope i find a friendly solution