not sure it should be spouses unless we're talking polygamy anyway i'm rotten with infoboxes pinging about the creepy a he may have similar interests as you and b the contributions button is there for a reason if people don't do much to your edits ignore them don't keep count of where they turn up you don't want to be a reverse stalker do you and frankly they'd have to do some consistently bad stuff to your edits for me to be interested talk