dear judy i m and i must be wrong in the head for the past two years i have been lying to my nearest and dearest they all think i had a boyfriend and that i lost my virginity to him i also told them i did drugs the problem is that it is a load of rubbish i have a new boyfriend we are getting serious and he thinks i have had sex the thing is i never had i have even lied to my best friends because of what i have said to people i have been branded a slag i want to get rid of that i have changed i don t drink but i do a few drugs people have changed towards me that s good but i want people to know the truth yet i know they will hate me my friend told the truth about herself and everyone turned against her what should i do