on talk kingdom of heaven movie wrote that the real humphrey iv was the local soft gay boy sources state he avoided quarrel etc and rather obviously he later was richard lionheart's boyfriend while contemporary sources even the sympathetic itinerarium peregrinorum describe humphrey as looking girlish and being 'effeminate' in manner i don't recall any actually accusing him of being gay if they had it would have been very useful ammunition in the divorce proceedings as for being richard's lover again where is this taken from i suspect it may be from james reston's sensationalist work not a primary source