regarding my extreme annoyance with another editor you wrote might want to watch your wp civil your anger may be justified but the attitude is not cheers imperat r talk you're right i hope that you can understand that i wanted to let the person frustrating me know how much annoyance his or her actions has caused me since he or she does not have a personal email posted at his or her page i opted to risk violating the civility protocols i am going to avoid the situation editor altogether from now on and those like it perhaps the best approach to deal with these kinds of disputes is to give the other editor the same consideration you would to a psychiatric patient e g always assume that the silly editor may having a deeply distorted perception of reality and that this is not his or her fault and that i should not take it personally since none of it is intentional on the other editor's part thanks for the message i honestly did need it cheers to you too