yes in shot there are too many discussions going on without conclusion after one week both discussions have gone to a natural conclusion in my opinion i know it's not the done thing but i think i've been reasonable in my conclusions wordsdeeds i don't assert that your conclusions are unreasonable note that i'm not familiar enough with the event to express an opinion regarding its inclusion i'm saying that it's generally considered inappropriate for a discussion participant to perform a closure with a finding of consensus in his her preferred outcome's favor such a task is best left to an uninvolved party if only to avoid the appearance of bias we don't want people to question the outcome's legitimacy on a technicality or otherwise i urge you to self revert and leave the decision to someone else