yes alison you are correct bottom line is they attacked me continued to attack me and offered no constructive suggestions if you want to communicate something it will generally be better received if you send a clearly articulated note rather than spray painting a message on the side of a building most will respond to graffiti with a new coat of paint to remove the aethetically offensive message regardless of its content they not only spray painted on my wall but made some rather unflattering and unhelpful remarks in the spirit of good faith since they believe that they have all acted in good faith my wish for them is that everyone they ever encounter for the rest of their lives treat them exactly as they have treated me