lol i know it seems stupid i'm just not normally so forward i can ask him for what i want but he's already been asked why should i have to repeat myself all i want is for him to come over and i will personally show him all the things that i want to do to him you can watch in extasy and then everyone is satisfied no why do you think he is hesitating maybe he's just finally settled down to the regular family life i don't know you certainly know him better than me