sigh apparently you missed the no response is needed above there was not a drop of pretentiousness in my comment i didn't start drama drama started when you showed up on my talk page and presumed to instruct me in a brusque and arrogant manner as to what talk pages are foras though i were some noob and you the wise and experienced wikipedianand what my tone should be like you are correct above where you say that talk pages are for discussing how to improve the article but i didn't see you telling that to santamoly if you jump on anyone who uses a talk page for anything less pure than discussing how to improve the article you're going to be a very busy bee indeed and probably to little effect i wasn't offended because santamoly disrespected my religion voudon isn't my religion i was appalled and disgusted see my original reply to you at her his provincial and outdated attitude toward a perfectly legitimate religion and made my point firmly i admitted to you that i could have been less snarky but that wouldn't do apparently people only have a proper sense of judgement when they agree with you you're not discouraged from pointing out attacks or incivility you're discouraged from doing so in a pompous and arrogant manner which exacerbates rather than resolves as i said if you had courteously suggested that i was out of line you might have received a thanks for the reminder from me in fact despite your pompous attitude i was nevertheless receptive enough to offer the concession that some of my remarks could have been better phrased but that wasn't good enough for you no you charged onto my talk page to slap me down when i declined to cower you went looking for bigger kids to beat me up only to find that they were disinclined to do so perhaps when you've been around wikipedia for a while you'll have a better grasp of how things happen around here or maybe not either way if you don't like my attitude you're welcome to stop reading my talk page any time there's clearly no way i'm going to get through to you that i'm not the only one who was out of line here septegram talk contributions