the phrase cease and desist is actually a staple of aggressive lawyers going after people who are crossing their clients but in the environment of wikipedia especially coming from an admin to a non admin it has the tone of a shout from a law enforcement officer to an unarmed civilian i reverted your comment on my talk in a little tit for tat snit but then i remembered i never ever revert anything on non encyc pages so i reverted the revert one of the many vital functions of talk pages is the blowing off steam function and aside from the lowest sort of profanity laced invective emotional wording should not be discouraged by beating people with the wp civil and wp point sticks as punishment for being human the moral of the story is if the people in this case general editors are upset over a policy don't be browbeating them when they speak out against it in non encyc pages a guy can't give a heartfelt opinion around here anymore without getting slapped with or policy violations right off the bat ps i appreciate your restoring my edit it really isn't hurting anyone