history of k m f kill marry fuck the concept and game of k m f was first commissioned by courtney porcella resident of the city of sin lynn ma in the early twenty first century in the united states of america more specifically massachusetts spreading initially as kill marry fuck between her and her close friends this game quickly spread throughout the fourth floor of donahue at suffolk university the school she currently attends although this game quickly manifested itself into a game of pastime it has never reached its full potential as an ice breaker due to the lingering question of its social acceptability prior to the spring of k m f was referred to as its founding name kill marry fuck the cause of the name change was brought on by a senator from suffolk university s student government association the main reason behind the move for the change was to reflect the professionalism of the student leaders occupying the offices on the fourth floor of donahue although k m f was never targeted specifically people got the message from the senator and changed its name respectively regardless of the name change k m f never lost it original essence donahue s pastime and the name change now allows players to play k m f in all types of atmosphere ranging from weddings to preschool school less than a year after the publicizing of k m f this game has expanded to boston s neighboring cities at the time ms porcella has no disclosed plans to spread k m f statewide or nationally