again elen i was opposing to the fact that my talk page was used as ani by another user to tell on me that's all and i cannot find any wikipedia rules that disallow doing so and i am calm while you for some reason prefer to use threats of shutting me down again as a means of communication by requesting to unblock me i have undertaken to be civil polite 'act in a more collegial manner' and i adhere and will adhere to that but i am also entitled to my opinion and as long as it doesn't violate the rules i will post it whenever i feel it is warranted as to the administrators' right to watching me i am fully aware of that there's a difference though between watching and controlling