october utc she tilts her head up after she's been restrained and barked at she's visibly not happy with the situation but capitulates in order to not be harmed further which is the definition of rape sexual assault i don't know what you would call kiss me and tell me you want me if not a command or an order even bdsm practitioners would call it that even you calling them lovers in your edit is offensive you clearly want to scrub the scene of any ambiguity from the scene by calling it consenual which in itself is personal analysis and inappropriate