thanks so much for asking i know i often come off as a douche and i've been fixing that mainly by following your example so just so i'm glasslike i really am grateful for how you've treated me since november in this my third attempt in years to withstand our battlefield hardened wikipedian culture war is seductive i was twice seduced then repelled by our war games this time i'm here to stay thanks to good wikipedians like you and i'm changing the way i play the game instead of rejoining our competitive games which only boys mainly love from now on i'll be playing only cooperative games which both girls and some boys normally do enjoy now back to praising you you could have simply done to me what too many other powerful wikipedians do with clicks undo the wo man week of work my friends and i invested into the cooperation index and d do designs side note we designed those mechanisms specifically for the inactive community kindness projects that we adopted back in november our premise is this systemic bias and other dysfunctions within the wikipedia community are but symptoms of diseases which have rendered our community moribund for almost a decade but we did agree that the gender gap among wikipedians is the most shameful of these symptoms so our first application of the cooperative design is meant to end and quickly the gender bias among wikipedians also expressed some major concerns in a note to me via the gender gap list i've got two unmovable deadlines today in the extra wiki world so annoying that but i'll be back asay to address each of your points at the project's talk page wikipedia talk wikiproject countering systemic bias gender gap task force d do thank you both in community i remain truly yours mabuhay loretta