i understand your predicament as an admin during such a situation but surely there is a much more constructive approach also there are some points that you brought up that i must address i never reverted the posts on his talk page i never reposted my comments i wrote new sections also everything that i wrote was written in a very civil and approachable manner and when i read his confrontational edit summary i even apologized if he believed there were any harmful intentions because there weren't i even restated this by saying there weren't any ill feelings because of the edits as i assumed good faith i believed i was very professional on the matter also when i mentioned own it was in respect to wp up own not wp own unlike you said above wp up own states that a user does not own his user space and if someone in the community thinks it is constructive to edit the page he can do so despite the user's desires i believed that if i didn't communicate my apologies he would continue to misbelieve my intentions i definitely believe that this is a good reason to post on someone's talk page also he wrote on my talk page first i am sure it is agreed upon the community that when someone posts on a user talk page he should be awaiting a response in his it can't be harassment when i was responding to his post on my talk page '''''g talk '''''