what's your source for this moreover your telling me this doesn't alter the fact that the article doesn't address the question guys are either gay or they're not whereas girls are allowed to experiment who made this rule and to how much of the world does it apply after college the peer approval of this behavior greatly diminishes while society's approval will only gradually diminish with time wrinkles and gray hair consequently a lot of girls quit after college and for them it's just behavior they were the lesbians until graduation the term doesn't make too much sense because they were never really lesbians to begin with but it exists nonetheless