help me how to help save my relationship with my boyfriend for years please help me with my name is elga i've been married with kids but been separated i've been seeing some one else for years i love him with all my heart but there's issues concerning how i deal with my exhusband we have a few problems that's started a few years ago that still putting doughts and insecurity between us and i did something that aggravated the situation it became worst i really need some help i need to speak to someone and i also need some counseling can any one give me a referral am desperate thanks