help why am i having to now defend on several users talk pages why i want my real name and the real name of my husband not linked to on wikipedia i was asked what i do for a living and why it is important that i not have my real name posted just exactly why i'd also like to know why ted is allowed to disparage harass and stalk me and now insist i be banned permanently because he does not like my edit and anyone is even seriously considering this have i entered the twilight zone