i am not inclined to consider flipping but i'll ask again right now if someone would please tell us whether the subject of the blp expressed to jimbo wales a general preference about how she wants to be publicly known versus a mere preference about how this wikipedia article should be named i have asked twice at jimbo's talk page twice as things stand i would just go with what reliable sources say about prevalent use and with what reliable sources say about her own use of her name which together strongly support the move