i don't understand your use of english please be more clear anything abusive or pornographic must have been added by a different user i looked at the edit history and found nothing distressing i only restored what was there before without adding anything that might distress you or anybody else if restoring the relationship distresses you because you have a personal issue with the person who originally added it in which is distressing to you i appolegies but i insist that added no distressing content also please show me this consensus it was not listed on the talk page and there was no link to it unless i have a link i am afraid that i can take this as nothing but your words which i can take no other way than being words