there's something else to keep in mind as with all people with social problems he lets things linger and carry over and use it as an excuse a long time down the road he remembers from a few months ago how i didn't let him intimidate me then and now he is still trying to do it so since he's realized that after months i'm still not allowing him to intimidate me he can't stand it and he lashes out he's going to be embarrased at that other page the admins are going to see through his bs and realize that for the first time this is someone who's standing up to him he's not tough