yes ignoring is probably the best course of action in these cases so far y'all know i've been doing some reading of my own and am seeing a bit of a pattern in any case perhaps 'they' will actually be true to their word again sigh i will be referring this dispute to a more appropriate forum and will no longer be involved in the dispute myself kieferskunk talk and leave this 'dispute' as i keep asking alone this time we'll see but you won't leave it will ya i don't think its in your nature if you're still around i'd really like for you to explain in one small paragraph that's called 'egging it on' ks 'n i take this as code for 'inconvenient truth ' not this drawn out mess of one line responses to other people's comments taken out of context you remarkably when you came on the scene posed as a 'mediator ' as far as i can see there are others outside of me have asserted that you can pour the equivalent of gas on fires i have reminded you of this earlier later this year in november friends over the uk are meeting in seminars on 'building harmony ' you would be most welcome perhaps you may see the world as not quite like you appear to want to view it apologies if you find the language 'elaborate ' i call it 'reasoning' and trust me i find it just as difficult to reason with y'all being partial to truth m'self now am i dismissed 'gards