oh brother look that all sounds very unfortunate indeed but we are wikipedia editors here not gossip columnists psychologists your group therapy session or an abuse hotline we write edit and monitor entries and try to keep them in line with the rules around here i join in the chorus suggesting your read them this isn't a chat room so when you get a reporter interested and get a story printed or such come back here and we can quote that source until then please know that this is nothing personal it's the rules that again when you simmer down you might want to check out take care and maybe stay away from this page if it inflames you so it's simply not the place not until we have independent tertiary source material to cite and that ain't you or me or durruti neither