the comment was completly called for just because the colloquial reference was slightly sexual in nature does not infer any hate i could have easily said are you locked in an irrevocable devotion to her would that have made a difference if so then i have no desire to be unlocked any sooner than the hours so imposed on me for then the absurdity of the punishment matches the absurdity of the crime p s loosen up when it comes to sexual colloquialisms what is this church