and i have also apologized to her i apologized to her weeks ago week ago days ago yesterday and some other times so i'm not sure why you keep repeating this and i don't really know what you want me to apologize about or why that is necessary but nonetheless i have no problem apologizing and i have i can see that since i have 'yelled ' that tone carries over into my other words i can't do anything but just tell you that most of what i write isn't yelling or isn't in a sarcastic tone or anything like that sorry if it comes off that way i've made the impression that i'm yelling and now that isn't going away i assure you that i mean it differently of the time than the way you're reading it