hi dave i see you're responding to aronoel's statement about not continuing discussion with me and you're right that i lost my cool though i do feel i had valid reason for doing so i wasn't truly looking to upset people by trying to get a more neutral lead but my frustration just came out in that moment i apologize for not being more professional if this were work that behavior would not have been appropriate at all i need to remember to always think of wikipedia talk pages as more of a work place instead of sometimes as a forum i'm not sure when you all fought about the lead claiming femininity is entirely biological because i don't believe it has ever been that but i must have missed that discussion or part of it while your proposal for the lead is a good proposal in my opinion especially since it mentions the debate as wp lead says it should i'd rather just keep the lead that is there now because it is clear that having socially constructed in the lead satisfies three of the main editors of this article