looks like the other thing you don't understand is the nature of the choice i think you would agree that it would be wrong to treat you the way i might treat a corpse just because if we wait a bit you will become a corpse after all your potential status is not your current status when you finally die you will cease to be a person but you're still a person now and we can't just ignore that in the name of far sightedness in the same way an embryo's potential for personhood does not constitute personhood and potential rights are not actual rights so nobody is choosing life or death for a person when a woman chooses not to become a mother it is the pregnancy that is aborted not a person the actual rights of an actual person are being recognized as primary over the potential rights of a potential person of course if you're really against abortion like i am not just choice the real solution here is to allow comprehensive sexual education and full free access to contraception women who don't have an unwanted pregnancy are never in the position to even consider an abortion