i'm still not sure what you're getting at its not harassment to respond to him on his talk page after he's posted on mine i get that his desire is that i don't but he initiated contact on my user talk page so its natural to reply on his otherwise i respect his request if you're referring to my offer to help i did that out of a sincere desire to see him not repeat the mistakes i've made in the past i benefited greatly from having a mentorship arrangement on wikipedia and so my offer to him was to offer a more personal alternative than the typical dispute resolution procedures he's constantly getting into