no the anon is not an administrator anyone can edit without signing in that message on their talk page is from another user asking the anon not to edit the other user's kaelin's user page so you should feel free to leave a message on the other hand i see that now there is another player involved so i would recommend is that you try taking the discussion to talk jos c a rizal you might need to draw attention to the fact that you want to discuss the matter there by leaving an edit summary of see talk on your next edit to the article you can put messages at the bottom of a page either by clicking on the tab or simply by scrolling to the bottom talk pages whether a user's talk page or an article's talk page are just like articles you can just open them up and edit them anywhere and yes it's very hard to figure this place out when you're getting started so no need to apologize and feel free to keep asking questions good luck talk