ok here goes at another attempted explanation ignore the ip currently using his intentions appear to be good but i don't think he is helping stop taking this personally no one actually knows you all we have to go on are a set of edits we are largely strangers to each other strong statements like betrayal and slander suggest motives that imply the other editor has taken against you personally you are treating people's comments in a strangely literal way if you don't understand what someone says just ask them to explain a different way do not assume that everything is an attack copyright yes you may absolutely tag and report something that appears to have been copied and pasted from another source what you need to watch for is that the other site didn't get its material from wikipedia to start with they don't always credit wikipedia as the source however it is better to tag it than not the project cannot afford the risk notability rather than tag an article for deletion start a discussion with the soap opera characters starting a general discussion about notability at the wikiproject is a good idea if the talkpage is active start a discussion there always try to notify the article creator read wp before non notable articles rarely damage the project unless they are also inaccurate or completely foolish an article about my cat for example would be completely foolish as the cat is known to no one outside my family and our neighbours and is just an ordinary cat so there's often no urgent rush to delete things that are non notable someone spent time and effort working on it what other steps might be taken can the information be merged into another article and a wp redirect used for example if you eventually decide that nominating for a deletion discussion is the only option use a neutral rationale do not attack the article creator because they have disagreed with you remember it is a discussion do not attribute any motive to those who disagree other than the differing viewpoint of a stranger images if you find someone has pirated an image from a newspaper website and uploaded it as their own work yes you absolutely must tag it as a copyvio for speedy deletion in other instances it is better to identify the least drastic option to deal with the damage can i fix it myself can i alert the uploader maybe they just made a mistake if in doubt always tag for wp puf which results in a discussion not for deletion talk explain why you thought what you did don't post reams of justifications and question the motives of others you may be right but you'll lose if you can't discuss things with people read the guidelines and policies and understand what the project is about you haven't got it yet