i think if you offer had been in good faith you would have discussed it with me in the first instance on this talk page your so called help is actually nothing but generalised mudslinging clearly nothing i can say or do can alter the low opinion that you have of me as i don't know why you want to accuse me of putting my head in the sand when i have already responded either we correspond with mutual respect or you continue to attack me without good reason on your own talk contribs ani disucssion