dear antandarus were i interested in self promotion i would have used my own name as it is i had no objective in mind when i entered the links that i did for chranenka or others when i later added links to maeve coughlan's or sabrina gotman's memorial pages to indicate the profundity of love at first sight and most notably how it can extend very easily to those dearly departed only to see them removed i knew that i was witnessing a depressing double standard at work wikipedia is dependent on the good intentions of anonymous participants such as myself there is nothing pathetic about any of my actions and everything pathetic about your reaction partciularly pathetic is your quip above you remove yours leave my entries alone in all cases and i am certain that we will have peace within out time