Tumelelano ke tetla e e kwadilweng e e newang batsadi ba ba batlang go kopa botsadi-ka-tsholo jwa ngwana. Tumelelano e ka newa ke batsadi ba ngwana, motlhokomedi kgotsa ke ngwana ka boena. Ngwana a ka dira tumelelano ya botsadi-ka-tsholo fa e le gore o na le dingwaga di le lesome kgotsa go feta. Le fa go ntse jalo, ditshiamelo tsa molao mongwe le mongwe, motsadi yo o fileng tumelelano ya botsadi-ka-tsholo jwa ngwana wa gagwe, o na le ditshwanelo tsa go busetsa tumelelano eo morago mo malatsing a le 60 morago ga go neelana ka tumelelano. Kgotlatshekelo ya bana e ka se ka ya dira taelo nngwe le nngwe ya botsadi-ka-tsholo pele malatsi a le 60 a fela.
Fa motsadi wa ngwana a tlhokafetse le gona go sena motlhokomedi yo o tlhophilweng wa ngwana.
Fa e le gore o gobatsa ngwana mo mmeleng, mo maikutlong kgotsa o a mo tlhakisa ka go robala le ena, o dumelela gore a tlhaselwe, o a mo sotla le go mo kubugela.
e le rraagwe ngwana yo o belegweng ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo mme ngwana yo a imilwe ka thobalano ya masika a atamelaneng thata.
e le rraagwe ngwana yo o belegweng mo lenyalong kgotsa ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo a bonwe molato ka petelelo kgotsa tlhaselo ya mmaagwe ngwana; kgotsa morago ga dipatlisiso tsa kgotlatshekelo ya bana fa e se na go utlwa dipeomolato ka mmaagwe ngwana, ka gore rraagwe ngwana a kabo a beteletse kgotsa a tlhasetse mmaagwe ngwana. Mme diphitlhelelo tse, di se ke tsa dira gore motho yo a tshwarelwe molato wa petelelo le wa tlhaselo.
wa ngwana yo o belegweng mo lenyalong kgotsa ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo a reteletse ke go tsibogela kitsiso e a e filweng jaaka e bontshiwa fa tlase mo malatsing a le 14.
Fa e le gore ke motsadi a le mongwe fela yo o fileng tumelelano mme motsadi yo mongwe ena ga a bonwe gore a ka tla a naya tumelelano kgotsa ga go kgonagale gore a ka naya tumelelano, mothati/motlhankedi o tla tsaya sekatshupo se sa tumelelano mme a fe motsadi yo mongwe kitsiso mo malatsing a le 14. Kitsiso e tla itsise motsadi yo mongwe yoo gore tumelelano e setse e neilwe, mme a mo neye tšhono ya gore le ena a neye tumelelano kgotsa a busetse morago tumelelano ya gagwe; kgotsa a neelane ka mabaka gore ke ka ntlha ya eng tumelelano ya gagwe e tshwanetse go bewa mme e se ka ya ntshiwa kgotsa a dire kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo ya ngwana fa e le gore ke ena rraagwe ngwana wa mannete mme ngwana o belegwe mo lenyalong kgotsa ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo.
Fa e le gore mmaagwe ngwana yo o belegweng mo lenyalong kgotsa ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo o dirile tlhabololo ya tumelelano mabapi boikwadiso jwa maina, diaterese le megala mo setifikeiting sa matsalo sa ngwana, rraagwe ngwana o tla tshwanela ke go itsisiwe. Le ena o tla tshwanela ke go dira ditlhabololo/diphetogo tse di tlhokagalang mo malatsing a le 14 morago ga kitsiso.
Fa e le gore mmaagwe ngwana ga a tlhabolola dintlha tse di botlhokwa tsa boikwadiso jwa ngwana jwa matsalo mo tumelelanong, motho yo o batlang go ikitsise jaaka rraagwe ngwana o tshwanetse go dira kopo kwa kgotlatshekelong e e tshwanetseng mabapi le tlhomamiso ya taelo e e netefatsang gore ke ena rraagwe ngwana, mme ditlhokego tsa mmaagwe ngwana tsa tumelelano ga di tlhokagale.
Kitsiso go tswa go rraagwe ngwana wa tlhago yo a belegweng mo lenyalong kgotsa ka kwa ntle ga lenyalo e tla batlega fa rraagwe ngwana a dumetse ka go kwala gore ke ena rraagwe ngwana ; mme o kgonne go tsenya maina, diaterese le megala ya gagwe mo boikwadisong jwa botsalo jwa ngwana yoo mme a netefatse gore dintlha tseo di siame ka dinako tsotlhe; kgotsa mmaagwe ngwana ka nako e a neng a naya tumelelano, o dumetse ka go kwala, gore rraagwe ngwana o dumetse gore ke ena rraagwe ; le gore o bontshitse gore ke ena mang le fa a nnang teng go a itsiwe; kgotsa modirediloago o rometse pegelo e e netefatsang gore rraagwe ngwana ke mang le gore o kwa kae go mothati/motlhankedi yo o tla tsayang bosupi jwa tumelelano ya mmaagwe ngwana, kgotsa kwa kgotlatshekelo ya bana kwa kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo e dirilweng teng. Pegelo e, e tshwanetse go romelwa mo malatsing a le 60 morago ga gore mmaagwe ngwana a neye tumelelano , kgotsa mo nakong nngwe le nngwe pele ga fa taelo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo e newa ke kgotlatshekelo ya bana.
Motsadi yo o neileng tumelelano ya gagwe mme a batla go senya tumelelano ya batsadi ba bangwe, o tshwanetse go itsise mothati/motlhankedi fa a netefatsa tumelelano ya gagwe.
Fa e le gore o motsadi wa ngwana kgotsa motlhokomedi wa ngwana, o tshwanetse go tlatsa Foromo ya 12, Tumelelano ka motsadi kgotsa motlhokomedi wa ngwana go netefatsa botsadi-ka-tsholo ba ngwana , mme fa e le gore o ngwana, tlatsa Foromo ya 13, Tumelelano ya ngwana ya botsadi-ka-tsholo.
Tumelelano e tshwanetse go neiwa ka go kwadiwa . Fa e le gore tumelelano e neiwa mo Aforika Borwa, motho kgotsa batho ba ba nayang tumelelano eo ba tshwanetse go saena fa pele ga mothati/motlhankedi wa katlaatlelo ya bana, yo o tla netefatsang tumelelano eo.
Tumelelano e e newang kwa ntle ga Aforika Borwa, e tshwanetse go saenwa fa pele ga motlhankedi yo o tla netefatsang mo ditirelong tsa bodipolomate mo Aforika Borwa kgotsa borongwa jwa kwa moseja jo bo dirisanang le naga e nngwe, kgotsa moatlhodi, mmagiseterata, bosiamisi jwa kagiso kgotsa motlhankedi wa botlhe wa naga e e amegang.
Le fa e le gore tumelelano e tshwanetse go nna le maina a batsadi ba ba batlang go dira kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo, kgotlatshekelo ya bana e ka dumela tumelelano e e diriwang ke batsadi ba ngwana kgotsa motlhokomedi wa ngwana e e se nang maina kgotsa diaterese le megala ya batsadi ba ba batlang go kopa botsadi-ka-tsholo fa e le gore go kgotsofetswe gore dikgatlhego tsa ngwana di tsewa tsia.
Tumelelano e tshwanetse go busediwa kwa morago ka lekwalo: Fa e le gore o motsadi kgotsa motlhokomedi wa ngwana, tlatsa foromo ya 12A, Pusetso morago ya tumelelano ka ga botsadi-ka-tsholo ka motsadi kgotsa motlhokomedi wa ngwana, fa pele ga mothati/motlhankedi mongwe le mongwe ka nako nngwe le nngwe mo malatsing a le 60 morago ga go fa tumelelano eo.
Itsise mothati/motlhankedi yo o netefatsang tumelelano fa e le gore go a itsege gore ke kgotlatshekelo efe fa kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo e yang go rerelwa teng.
Mothati/motlhankedi o tshwanetse go bona kgotlatshekelo ka bonako fa kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo e yang go rerelwa teng mme a itsise kgotlatshekelo le modirediloago yo o nepagetseng, yo o nayang makwalotshupo ka ga pusetso morago.
Nako ya go sekaseka kopo ya botsadi-ka-tsholo e ikaegile ka gore molato o thatafetse go le kana kang.
gore, mo lebakeng la tumelelano ka motsadi, motsadi yo o amegang a ka nna a busetsa morago Foromo ya 12A fa pele ga mothati/motlhankedi mongwe le mongwe ka nako nngwe le nngwe mo malatsing a le 60 morago ga go nnaya tumelelano eo.
Ditirelo ga di duelelwe.