UMalefane wahamba efama waya kusebenzela i-VKB - uthi wawumhle umvuzo wakhe kwaza oko kwenza ukuba abe nako ukutshata inkosikazi yakhe (wawuyi-R10 ngenyanga). Emva kweminyaka eliqela, wacelwa ngumlimi orhwebayo ukuba abuyele efama. Uthi babehlala kakuhle kwaye befumana nebhonasi emva kwesivuno seengxowa zombona ezingama-20 - yayintle loo mali. 3 Ngenxa yoko, xa kufuneka senze isigqibo esibalulekileyo ngobomi bethu sibe singafumani mthetho ngaso oseBhayibhileni, sisenokuzibuza: ‘Ngaba uYehova unomdla kwisigqibo endisenzayo? Ngaba angavuyiswa nayintoni na endikhetha ukuyenza logama nje ingangqubani namthetho useBhayibhileni? Ndingaqiniseka njani ukuba uza kuvuyiswa zizigqibo endizenzayo?’ Praise the Lord for you brother and your lovely wife of your youth. I pray that the Lord will pour favor continuously throughout your life, because you have obeyed his word. ndingu 28 and have been married now for almost two years and my wife and I have a happy marriage and a lovely 10 moth old baby. I always wanted to get married younger, but I believe it wasn’t time yet for me until the Lord brought my good thing almost 5 Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo (to be precise we met on the day we got born again 31 Dec 2006). I did not know we where destined to be together as I took her as an ordinary sister from church. I was also concentrating on my spiritual growth, but three years ago my eyes opened and the rest as they say is history.