Now lets be honest we like glamouris lifestyles now this is where it started a unemployed township girl that never leave her area within a 20 kilometer radius all of a sudden become outgoing have regular outfits and money. This is the grooming stage this guys are not in a hurry to have sex with you that actually made you belief its real love. When you are madly in love the second stage kick in you will be test inland.. yes you going to fly with a aeroplane to Cape Town or Johannesburg or via verse stashing drugs in your body cavities’ for foreign drug dealers . In the meantime you brag with your friends about you change of lifestyle even traveling by aeroplane which actually encourage them to become involved and next targets. So you have your friend circle involved in this cycle now. Sa’ad da wani fasto yake magana da mutane da suka taru don su tuna da ranar da aka yi wani ta’addanci mai ɓarna , ya ce : “ Ba mu san dalilin da ya sa Allah ya ƙyale wahala ta ci gaba ba . ”