UNdab’angazidl’izwe lonk’inkomo zamadoda uma angak’ asiphake! Woyeye! Woyeye! Khethan’amagwala! Hho hho! Wowo! Khethan’amagwala! Woyeye! Woyeye!” I’m really glad that you took the time out to write this. This post is kind of random, never really thought about it (heck, I never even knew this page existed until today). Nonetheless, I’m glad you wrote it…I think the part that sparked my interest the most was the whole preference issue. I was married to a man for 5 iminyaka (we have 3 children together) who didn’t want to be married anymore because in his words—I wasn’t his preference (he would often use a chocolate ice cream / vanilla ice cream analogy to attempt to prove his point–his preference was a woman with a um….”nice” body–I’ll leave it at that). The crazy thing is he actually does Christian rap—(????). Anyway, I’m glad to see that you went about the right way—putting God’s desires above your fleshly desires…..Anyway, continue to Love your wife like Christ Loves the Church….I’ll keep you all in my prayers…..