20 Umyalo wokuthanda umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena ubizwa ngokuthi “umthetho wobukhosi.” (Jak. 2:8) Ngemva kokukhuluma ngemiyalo ethile eseMthethweni KaMose, uPawulu wathi: “Noma yimuphi omunye umyalo okhona, [uhlanganiswe] kuleli zwi, elithi, ‘Kumelwe uthande umakhelwane wakho njengoba uzithanda wena.’ Uthando alwenzi okubi kumakhelwane womuntu; ngakho-ke uthando luwukugcwaliswa komthetho.” (Roma 13:8-10) Ngakho kudingeka siqhubeke sibonisa uthando komakhelwane. WASHINGTONHonduras, where an ally of Venezuelas Hugo Chavez triggered a military response after violating the law in his attempt to stay in power, reminds us that todays threat to liberal democracy in Latin America comes from authoritarian populists who abuse the legitimacy of the ballot box. It also suggests that the Organization of American States (OAS), the hemispheric body supposed to uphold the rule of law, is part of the problem. I have read and agree to the ISSA Ship Stores catalogue Back Office Licence. Click here to view the licence. So many unreliable stories have been written about the phenomenon called ukuthwala, some labelling it as abduction or kidnapping. However, that is not the truth or at least in my opinion. This article gives detailed information on what happens during this process and also how it is done in the correct way. In addition, the second part of this article will further outline the whole process up until marriage on what is done after ukuthwala.