i love this!! we are youth pastors at a small church and i always tell the teens, “there are only two things you will ever do in a relationship… 1) get married 2) break up. breaking up hurts and creates baggage, so if you are not ready to get married, it’s best not to start in a relationship.” (not that you don’t grow to be ready for marriage in a relationship, but i’m mostly talking to 13--16 yr olds.) most people start a relationship thinking it will be a small, shortlived, fun thing. but then feelings develop, you fall into sin, and then it’s harder than ever to get out. if we would protect the heart god gave us as precious, and go at relationships from this perspective, the perspective of it ending up in marriage to a godly man or woman, we would be far less hurt and broken by the time that godly man or woman god has for us comes around! siyabonga ngokwabelana!!!