Anne Stanhope, Countess of Chesterfield
Anne Elizabeth Stanhope, Countess of Chesterfield ("née" Weld-Forester; 7 September 1802 – 27 July 1885) was known as a political confidante. Life. Stanhope was born in 1802, the eldest daughter of Cecil Weld-Forester, 1st Baron Forester, M.P., and Lady Katherine Manners, the daughter of Charles Manners, 4th Duke of Rutland. The family home was Willey Park in Shropshire. In 1830, Lord Derby proposed to her, but she instead accepted the proposal of George Stanhope, 6th Earl of Chesterfield. They had one son and a daughter, Lady Evelyn Stanhope (1834–1875), later the first wife of  Henry Herbert, 4th Earl of Carnarvon. Anne Stanhope's husband was considered a wastrel, who spent much of his time asleep in Bretby Hall and let his lands at Bretby to go to waste. He died in June 1866, aged 61, and was succeeded by their son, George. Like her sister Selina, Countess of Bradford, Anne was an intimate friend of Benjamin Disraeli. After they had both been widowed Disraeli is said to have proposed to her, but she declined, saying that people over seventy would be foolish to marry. Some of their friends thought that she refused him because  she believed that he cared more for her sister. Nevertheless, she was Disraeli's confidante, and they exchanged hundreds of letters. She continued to live at Bretby Hall. She died on 27 July 1885, having outlived her son and daughter.