"uma isisekelo sombuso silophawu lwethu, kuyahlupha ukuthi sisi guqu--guqule santando. kodwa njengoba singabantu kazana, kungadingeka sokulaphaya ukuthi sengezelele okwakukhohlakele ngesikhathi siloba lesi sisekelo sombuso. I was not born poor but I cant say I was born rich either. My parents are both teachers in Mooi River halfway between Johannesburg and Durban. Funerals are the order of the day as almost all girls from here who moved to either Johannesburg or Durban seem to die mysteriously. Those who do not die, thank God, bring back their babies here because they say life is too expensive and fast to raise a baby there because they never seem to want their babies. Funny enough these girls when they come back they all seem so expensive with Brazilian, Peruvian and Malaysian weaves that I am told are worth five thousand rand a piece. Is Peruvia a country by the way?. Ngokusho kwabo akusizi ngalutho ukuhlinza owesifazane osuke engenankinga yokuzibelethela, kunalokho kusuke kubekwa impilo yakhe neyengane engcupheni. Abalobi bathe kubalulekile ukuthi kwazeke ukuthi ingozi yokubeletha ngokuhlinzwa kuya ngokuya yanda uma owesifazane eqhubeka ebeletha ngale ndlela.