Ngokusebenzisa lesi sandiso, ungase ugcine idatha yomuntu siqu noma wabelane ngedatha ngenkonzo yangaphandle. Funda kabanzi mayelana nokuthi lokhu kusebenza kanjani, kuhlanganise nokuthi yini ongase ufune ukuyifaka kwinqubomgomo yakho yobumfihlo. Smooth isandla ukunyakaza ukunikeza umdanso ubuhle, isihe, imiva. Nokho, ukuze sifinyelele yalokho, kubalulekile ukwazi izikhundla zabo eziyisisekelo, okuyilezi: Mr Nzuza and his wife MaSithole lived happily with their neighbours, Mr Chamane and his wife, MaMzimela. MaSithole was worried that her husband travelled for work and often had to stay away overnight. MaMzimela reassured her by telling her that her husband also sometimes worked night shift. But I also think my openness toward it is because I have always grown up in a community where it wasn’t just one race and my parents never raised me to dislike anyone because of their skin. Kodwa, I did experience some slack my junior year when I took my best friend, who was white, to prom because my paternal grandmother isn’t fond of white people. Nokho, her reaction didn’t change my mind about who I should or shouldn’t date.