12, 13. (a) Kufanele lenzeni iphayona uma likuthola kunzima ukufinyelela umgomo walo wamahora? (b) Kungani kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nesimiso sokufunda iBhayibheli nsuku zonke, isifundo somuntu siqu nokuzindla? "Isifo sikashukela yisifo esibulala abantu, cishe ukufa kwezigidi ezimbili minyaka yonke!" Ukuxoxisana nodokotela This can be painful to accept but once you do, it is very liberating. I’ve never really been a suck-up; however, people not liking me used to bother me. I would need to prove to people that I was worthy. I often tell people the story of when I had someone that didn’t like me take my yoga class a few years ago, she decided in 5 minutes of the class that she didn’t want to take it- so she left. She cursed at me behind the door that I shut after her and complained about me to the girl working front desk that evening. Once she left, I made a decision to let her go because I had over 30 other people in the room. I could focus on her or focus on the people who are enjoying my class- this lesson has transferred to all areas of my life. I no longer have a need to seek approval from people who don’t like me because I am enough, with or without other people’s approval.