I am a proud African male, very much disturbed by the way we usually defend and display ourselves as Tswanas or Africans, we have lost our background all together hence allowing other races to tramp us over, they we live with the death when we acknowledge the contributions of those we have lost (either a child or an adult, the fact is that we all have a purpose to each other, it is already proven that you can learn so much even from the newly born) those who think they can describe us better must do so carefully without contradicting themselves. They shunt us from connecting to our people resting in peace hence saying is devilish to do so hence we see them carrying flowers, erecting tombstones, keeping cremated ashes in their houses while continuing to pray to those ashes and the graves yet for us we live with the dead. Whosoever wrote and published the initial article about Batswana must regain self respect and consult for a better recognition.