meet bethlehem catholics. the place to find your bethlehem catholic match. Mangisho ukuthi ziningi izinhlobo zobuholi ezikhona emhlabeni njengokuba ngumholi wendabuko, ukuba ngumholi webandla likamoya, ukuba ngumholi wepolitiki noma wezombusazwe njalo njalo. Ubuholi engibubona bunzima, yilobu obuthinta noma obuncikene nepolitiki. Imali yakhona uthi uyidla kodwa usuke uzwile, uyisheba namagama alumelayo. Indlela yokuhlakulela ama-magots e-BSF nomaphi lapho wenza khona kuhle. Uma nje unelisekile ngemiphumela. futhi impela imiphumela lapha ikwazi ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zokudla kwezilwane. ikhambi best ukusebenzisa kuyizinhlayiyana izimo ebhodini kanye nokhuni yangempela ubuso. lokhu kwakha ikhabhinethi sasivumela engabizi futhi kwenza kuyizinhlayiyana ibhodi umkhiqizo ethandwa embonini. On another issue: there are some marriages(unless you know God has signed off on them–ask Him to be sure; don’t guess) that could be asking for trouble: 1. BMWF marriages in America: we live in world of white progressive, objective racism! White racists are aggressive with racism more than any group that I’ve ever seen! And the black man is enemy number 1! They put disgusting things in your food, blacks and their kids may get filthy/germ-laced hugs and handshakes, spells/curses may be put on the man or his kids, cops profile and mistreat black men far more aggressively if a BMWF marriage is proclaimed as you are supposed to, they disown family, they “nepotize” pure white family members(kids, kakhulu) and discriminate against mixed members(kids) and the black man, they murmur against their “enemies”, they attack and/or kill black men, certain brother/sister relationships will become strained or inimical and almost all white brother/sister-in-laws will have no or an inimical relationship with their black counterpart, teachers subtly villify, njll. Can you imagine possibly your kids having no/a cheap relationship with their maternal family? At Christmas: white kids get a $150 gift from this member, but your kids get $25 gift or nothing. Can you imagine if something happened to your loved one(husband or child) and wondering whether your family had something to do with it and not being able to prove it? Many of these things can be expected; but also, these couples have to deal with the things that other marriages have to deal with, kakhulu! Bills, domestic home/property care, family expenditures(sometimes unexpected), kids discussion(SPECIAL and requires more time than others–even encouraging your child to realize that racist whites see them as black and maintaining a balance that he/she loves both parents and all people the same respectively), jobs, spending time with your friends so that they remain your friends, njll. There’s so much going on that makes the marriage unhappy, if God did not ordain it!