Sizokunikeza izindlela zokuqinisekisa ukuthi ulwazi lwakho lomuntu luqondile futhi lwanamuhla. Ungakwazi ukuhlela noma ukususa iphrofayela yakho yomsebenzisi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ngokuchofoza isixhumanisi se- "Iphrofayela yami" noma umdwebo ohlinzekwa wuhlelo uma ungene ngemvume. Uma usuvele ungene ohlelweni phakathi neseshini enikeziwe, nomaphi lapho uya khona ekukhethweni , ulwazi lwakho luzohlala nawe kuze kube yilapho ungakachofoza "isixhumanisi" se-"Logoff", esitholakala ngaphakathi kwesikrini "sePhrofayela yami". I remember one of the first jobs I had. A white lady sat next to me and told me.. “So do you know you are the first African -American we have hired?” She smiled and looked so proud. Khonamanjalo, I felt ashamed, like some spectacle monkey that arrived at the zoo ready to show them how well their “kuqala” black employee would do. Why did she have to point that out and make me feel so… weird? I just wanted to be a normal kid at her second job out of college, but instead I became a paranoid mess..