Before leaving this relationship, I never fully grasped that I was worthy of a healthy relationship. I would say it but didn’t fully know it. I am not blaming movies but seeing how romance plays out on screen has affected our society. Many of us think that love is manipulation and tactics disguised behind work. In our efforts to hold on to people and control, we forget that love is pure. Love should be pure and if we have to manipulate someone to love us; that is not love- it is control. Just like health, that is pure too, love should feel good. And, all of us are worthy of relationships that feel good. Okokuqala, umndeni omkhulu kuqala futhi ube umthwalo osindayo kubazali. Ngokuvamile, ngaphambi kokuba izingane zisize okungenani kancane ekhaya, umama nobaba kufanele batshale inani eliningi lamandla, amandla nezinzwa zokuthuthukiswa okuphelele kwengane. Okwesibili, kuvame ukuphakama ubunzima lapho kubalulekile ukuhlanganyela konke ngokulinganayo, uma ukudla nokugqoka kungcono kakhulu, ngezinye izikhathi izinkinga ziphakama ngesikhathi kanye nokunakekelwa. Futhi into esemqoka kusekhona ukungabi namali njalo, ikakhulu uma izingane ziqala ukuthola imfundo. Futhi, njengoba kuyaziwa, imfundo yethu yamahhala nemithi ayishibhile.