Just because the invitation says “black-tie” doesn’t mean your tie has to be black. Put on some color. I love to see pink, purple or patterns like paisley with a pocket square in the same tone; it doesn't have to match the pattern of the tie. One of my favorite rule-breakers: Don’t wear a tie at all! There are some amazing options for tie-less shirts. Shirts that have hand-sewn designs with large colored buttons where the tie would be are an edgy way to express your style. For a very formal look try gold, silver or crystal embellishments. Most people don’t get semi-formal, especially guys, who tend to break the rules in the wrong way. Picture this instead: A killer charcoal grey suit, white or light pink French cuff shirt, black skinny tie and all the formal pieces: suspenders, watch and cuff links. Wear patent leather hightops or a pair of old-school Converse. Most people think formal means a clean shave. Who doesn’t love a guy in a suit or tux with some scruff? Just make sure it’s neat — No mountain men please.