i--par.12 -- “ngaphezu kwalokho, imibhalo ifundisa ukuthi labo abavuselwa ekuphileni kwasezulwini bathola“ okuthile okungcono ”ukwedlula amadoda athembekile asendulo. (hebheru 11: 40) ”. ukutjhada nomunye wabantu odume ngokungathandi ibandlululo gade kungasilula. indoda ka--winnie mandela, unelson khabe ahlale abambeke eendaben zehlangano ye--anc, eempini zomthetho, begodu umzabo gade uhlala ungenelwa mapholisa. “kuningi okuzokwenzeka eqenjini okungakaqinisekiswa. ngicela ungithinte ngolwesine mhlawumbe kukhona okuzobe kuphatheka,” kusho utema. 1. sigqoke imicikilisho ezingeni umcimbi. uma cishe wonke omunye umuntu in the restaurant uzobe egqoke ijazi yezemidlalo, kufanele lingaveli ngaphandle elilodwa. kulula lukhulu agqoke phansi on the fly kunokuba bagqoke up uma uzithola underdressed. ngamunye wenu kumele nihlole kabusha ukuphila kwenu kokukholelwa kunkulunkulu ukuze nibone ukuthi, ekulandeleni unkulunkulu, nikuqondisisile ngempela yini, nokuthi nifinyelele yini ekumazini ngeqiniso unkulunkulu, nokuthi ingabe nisazi ngempela yini isimo somqondo sikankulunkulu ngezinhlobo ezahlukene zabantu, kanye nokuthi ingabe nikuqonda ngempela yini lokho unkulunkulu akwenzayo kini nanokuthi ingabe unkulunkulu uzibheka kanjani zonke izenzo zenu. lo nkulunkulu, oseduze nawe, ekuqondisa endleleni yokuqhubeka kwakho, elungiselela isiphetho sakho, futhi egcwalisa izidingo zakho—kungakanani wena, uma sekuhlaziywa ekugcineni, okuqondayo futhi okwaziyo ngempela ngaye? ingabe uyakwazi lokho akwenzayo kuwe zonke izinsuku? ingabe uyazazi izimiso nezinhloso lezo asusela kuzo konke ukwenza kwakhe? ingabe uyazi ukuthi ukuqondisa kanjani? ingabe uyazazi izindlela akunikeza ngazo? ingabe uyazazi izindlela akuhola ngazo? ingabe uyakwazi lokho afisa ukukuthola kuwe kanye nalokho afisa ukukufeza kuwe? ingabe uyayazi indlela abuka ngayo izindlela ezinhlobonhlobo owenza ngazo? ingabe uyazi noma ungumuntu othandwa nguye? ingabe uyawazi umsuka wokuthokoza kwakhe, intukuthelo, ukudangala kanye nenjabulo, imicabango nemibono engasemuva kwayo, kanye nengqikithi yakhe? ekugcineni, ingabe uyazi ukuthi unhloboni lo nkulunkulu okholelwa kuye? ingabe le mibuzo kanye neminye ehlobene nayo iwuhlobo lwento ongakaze uyiqondisise noma ucabange ngayo? ekukholweni kwakho kunkulunkulu, ingabe uke wathi, ngokwazisa ngempela nokuzwa amazwi kankulunkulu, wakususa futhi wakhanyisa ukungaqondi kwakho ngaye? ingabe, ngemva kokwamukela ukuqondiswa unkulunkulu nokusolwa, wafinyelela ekuzithobeni kwangempela kanye nokunakekela? ingabe uke, phakathi nokosolwa nokwahlulelwa ngunkulunkulu, wafinyelela ekwazini ukuhlubuka kanye nobusathane bemvelo yomuntu waphinde wazuza ukuqonda okungatheni ngobungcwele bukankulunkulu? ingabe uke, ngaphansi kokuqondiswa kanye nokukhanyiseleka ngamazwi kankulunkulu, waqala ukukubheka ngenye indlela ukuphila? ingabe uke, phakathi kwesilingo esithunyelelwe ngunkulunkulu, wakuzwa ukungakubekezeleli kwakhe ukona komuntu kanjalo nokuthi yini lena yena ayidingayo kuwe nokuthi ukusindisa kanjani? uma ungazi nokuthi kuyini ukungamqondisisi unkulunkulu, noma ukuthi ungakususa kanjani lokhu kungamqondi kahle, omunye umuntu angathi awukaze ungene ekuhlanganyeleni kweqiniso nonkulunkulu futhi awukaze umqonde unkulunkulu, noma okungenani umuntu angathi awukaze ufise ukumqonda yena. uma ungazi ukuthi kuyini ukuyalwa nokusolwa ngunkulunkulu, kusho ukuthi ngokweqiniso awazi ukuthi kuyini ukuzithoba nokukhathalela, noma okungenani awukaze uzithobe noma ukhathalele unkulunkulu. uma ungakaze ukuzwe ukusolwa nokwahlulelwa ngunkulunkulu, ngakho ngokweqiniso ngeke wazi ukuthi buyini ubungcwele bakhe, futhi uzoba nokungakhanyiseleki kakhulu, ngokuthi kuyini ukuhlubuka komuntu. uma ungakaze ngempela ubheke ukuphila ngendlela enhle, noma ube nenhloso elungile empilweni, kodwa selokhu usesimweni sokudideka nokungathathi sinqumo ngekusasa lendlela yakho empilweni, uze ufike esigabeni sokuba unqikaze ukuya phambili, kuyacaca ukuthi awukaze ukuthole ukukhanyiselwa nokuqondiswa kukankulunkulu, nokuthi umuntu angathi futhi awukaze unikezwe noma uvuselelwe ngamazwi kankulunkulu. uma ungakaze udlule ekuvivinyweni ngunkulunkulu, kusho ukuthi ngokuqinisekile angeke ukwazi ukungabekezeleli kukankulunkulu iziphambeko zomuntu, futhi ngeke uqondisise lokho ekugcineni unkulunkulu akudingayo kuwe, ingasaphathwa, ekugcineni, eyomsebenzi wakhe wokuphatha nokusindisa umuntu. kungakhathaliseki ukuthi mingaki iminyaka umuntu ekholelwa kunkulunkulu, uma engakaze azizwele noma azicabangele noma yini emazwini kankulunkulu, ngokweqiniso akahambi endleleni eqonde ensindisweni, ukholo lwakhe kunkulunkulu ngokuqinisekile alunaso isigqi, ukwazi kwakhe unkulunkulu nakho ngokuqinisekile kuyize, futhi kuyacaca ukuthi akazi lutho ngempela, ukuthi kuyini ukwesaba unkulunkulu.