lami ngombono wami its true ukuthi umuntu wesilisa angadlwengulwa. ukuthi njani ngani angeze ngenelisa ukukuchaza but i remember this lady who was teaching us about irape and abuse. she is actually one of abameli babantu abahlukuluzwayo. she told us that she was assessing a certain girl who had been raped and she wasjoting down some issues this gal was raising. by the time she was listening flipping her pen up and down, the gal stopped and burst into tears. as this lady was trying to comfort the her, she screamed and shouted 'can u put the gudamn pen down coz i was raped using a pen'. well we'l never know maybe this man was raped using some sort of objects. ukuthi yavuka or ayivukanga doesn't mean a thing. the issue is he was raped. nothing is impossible in thic world. ngempelasonto abalandeli beceltic bahlangane ndawana thizeni ukuyobhunga ngokufanele bakwenze ukukhombisa abaphathi beceltic ukuthi sebekhathele. ukwesula isigubhukane kukasteve komphela ofike kuleli qembu waliguqula yikhona okufike kwabama emphinjeni abalandeli.