Out of my closet – wolfshadowwhispers
Hello, I am wolfie. As you know a lot of people has to climb out of the closet and admit who they are. Some thin people wish they were overweight, and some overweight people wish they were thin. Some people call themselves fat. I have never seen a fat person in my life as fat is an ingredient. It does not define a person. If you as an example look at ingredients of a food item you buy, it may contain gluten, peanuts, vegetable or animal fat. See fat is an ingredient. I am not fat. I HAVE fat. Fat is something we all have but we cannot be fat. I am a human being not fat.
I am also not an overweight man, wishing to be thin. I love myself for me. Yes, I have been on a diet and I am thinner than I used to be but I love the overweight me, I have been this person for 46 years. That is why I have decided to climb out of the closet because I have a secret…
I am trans-slender. Trans translate to ‘over’ as in the word ‘Transvaal’ means ‘somewhere over the Vaal River’. Trans-slender means to me I am over slender. Instead of saying I am overweight I say I am trans-slender, I am over-slender. Over-slender means I am not slender, but I am okay with it. It is okay not to be a slender person. It does not make you less beautiful than any other person. It also does not mean you believe in living an unhealthy lifestyle. It means you accept that you are of different body shape and size.
Even if I lose 80% of my body weight, I will stay trans-slender. Because it is who I am. If you want to stay fat, then stay fat. I am not fat. I am not an ingredient. I am a human being. A beautiful trans-slender soul.
fat, human being, trans-slender
11 thoughts on “Out of my closet”
April 6, 2019 at 7:57 vm
Jy het dit nou uitstekend gestel ,Wolfie! Al het ek jou nog nie in lewende lywe gesien nie, is my beeld van jou ‘n pragtige mens, sonder kwaad teenoor iemand. Weereens ‘n bewys dat uiterlike niks tel nie. Jou foto hierbo is pragtig!
April 6, 2019 at 2:48 nm
Ag dankie bytjie jy is dierbaar. X
April 6, 2019 at 1:02 nm
😍😍 vir my is gewig weereens net ‘n vorm en soms kyk mense net te vas in iemand se vorm.
April 6, 2019 at 2:47 nm
Se ek ook. En die woord ‘vet’ is so dim. Vet is ‘n bestandeel. ‘N mens het vet, ‘n mens is nie vet nie. Dus as iemand sê ‘Daardie man het baie vet’ Klink dit meer realisties as: ‘Daardie man is vet’ want in 46 jaar van my lewe het ek nog nooit vet mense gesien nie, net mense wat baie vet het. Ek meen jy jan vet verloor. ‘N ‘vet’ man ksn nie vet verloor nie aangesien hy dan sal sterf omdat hy net uit vet bestaan. Net soon ‘ klip man’ nie meer uit klip kan bestaan nie omdat jy die klip wegvat
April 6, 2019 at 3:04 nm
😊 ek hou vd die beskrywing baie meer – dit is ook sagter op mens se oor 😊
April 6, 2019 at 9:30 nm
En meer respekvol
April 6, 2019 at 9:10 nm
Ek verstaan ook niks van vet en maer nie. Ek verstaan net wanneer ek nie in my klere pas nie en nie my beenhare kan skeer sonder om onnatuurlike posisies in te neem nie. Ek is bly jy sê jy hou van jouself, want as ek dit van myself sê, klink dit so windmakerig. Ek kan darem sê ek hou van alles wat jy is, Wolfie.
April 6, 2019 at 9:29 nm
Haai weet jy daar is so baie dinge om nie van te hou nie en om ongelukkig oor te wees soos politiek, die prys van kos en Facebook fotos van aandetes dat mens iets moet vind om gelukkig mee te wees. Hoekom nie jouself nie en as mens nie van jouself hou nie, verander OF dit wat jou pla of bid dat God jou seën met waardering dat jy uniek en mooi is. En ek jou ook van jou nes jy is Hester. Jy is pragtig.
April 7, 2019 at 7:10 vm
I’m getting into shape……round is a shape
Pragtig geskryf en beskryf
April 7, 2019 at 9:01 vm
Presies. Rond en gesond 🙂 dankie vir die mooi kompliment