In this article we compare two eras where in the olden days co-wives or sister wives it can be by marrying in polygamous marriage or by marrying brothers would look after each other. For instance when one wife can’t bear children, the other wife would be a surrogacy and give the other her child. This also happens if it is a man that can’t bear children where his brother would sleep with his wife to assist his brother. This act was kept as a secret within the family. Nowadays, young brides or wives are competing against each other. And there are cases where you hear stories of sisters taking each other’s husbands. And what is important was that in the olden days it was a disgrace for a woman to have more than one partner which today is done openly and women can justify why they are doing it. izinyathelo ezibucayi njengokulengiswa noma ukudonsa izindiza uma inja iqhubeka nokumelana. Yize le ndlela ikwazi ukushaya isiswebhu? ezinye izinja? abanye