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Die vis en die fiets
Oktober 10, 2006 at 10:34 nm 11 Kommentaar
Ek haat seksisme. Veral as ek die slagoffer van genoemde seksisme is.
Ek gee nie so erg om as ek die een is wat seksisties is nie.
Die verskil is, my seksisme is nie gebore uit die (dikwels selfs onbewustelike!) oortuiging dat een gender beter is as die ander nie, maar uit doodgewone, onskuldige wraak.
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1. Anonymous | Oktober 11, 2006 om 9:03 vm
Nee kyk ek moet saam met jou stem. My vrou beklee presies dieselfde posisie as ek in basies dieselfde werksomstandighede. MAAR wat absoluut skryend is, is die mate van, sal ek se^ subtiele “bullying” en soms sommer blatant na vore kom. Wat egter vir my interessant is is die verskynsels dat sommige vrouens haar ook maar lekker “bully”. Die mans net meer blatant.
Vir my val seksisme en “bullying” in dieselfde kategorie en maak my bloed verdamp van woede.
Weet egter nie wat die antwoord is nie.
Groete jb aka klagat
2. Anonymous | Oktober 11, 2006 om 9:50 vm
3. Anonymous | Oktober 11, 2006 om 11:52 vm
Klagat!!! Jy’s weer op die lug. Loer in daar by my blog ook man.
Ek dink nie ek is ‘n seksis nie. Maar ek het tog ‘n vraag: Seksistiese grappies is vir my soms half snaaks, maar rasistiese grappies nooit nie (daar is min goed wat my meer pla as rasisme). Is ek dan seksisties?
4. Anonymous | Oktober 11, 2006 om 12:00 nm
5. Do Kwang | Oktober 11, 2006 om 1:09 nm
Vroue wat seksisties is suck, sorry. Ek verstaan nie hoe mense wat hulself die slagoffer van seksisme ag net dieselfde ou kategoriee van man vs. vrou, Mars vs. Venus kan herrangskik en dan dink hulle wen iets daaruit nie. (Hulle wen nie enigiets daaruit nie.)
6. Do Kwang | Oktober 11, 2006 om 1:12 nm
7. maeree | Oktober 11, 2006 om 6:53 nm
jb aka klagat, welkom terug. my post is effens tong in die kies geskryf, maar ja, ek kan rillers vertel. moenie dat ek eers begin oor seksuele teistering nie!
zuit, ek wonder… en ek wonder dit ook oor myself… dalk is seksistiese grappies vir jou snaaks omdat jy nié seksisties is nie, en rassistiese grappies nie vir jou snaaks nie omdat jy wel, diep in jou binneste, rassisties is?
of dalk is jy nie rassisties nie, maar wel seksisties?
of dalk is jy seksisties en rassisties?
of dalk is jy nie seksisties of rassisties nie?
of dalk het jy al die gevolge van rassisme gesien, maar nog nie die gevolge van seksisme nie?
8. maeree | Oktober 11, 2006 om 6:53 nm
9. Anonymous | Oktober 12, 2006 om 12:26 nm
ek dink jou laaste een is naaste aan die kol. Die gevolge wat ek al gesien het hou waarskynlik verband met my gevoel daaroor.
10. Anonymous | Oktober 12, 2006 om 12:58 nm
11. Corne Kruger | September 2, 2007 om 12:14 vm
Well any one can ask anyone out. A girl can ask n guy out to date and n guy can ask n girl out to date. It’s just fair. Why girls always have to be so selfish to expect everyone should ask them is is just rung and very selfish. I don’t mean to be rude but 95% of all girls are selfish. The are very nice girls 2 who don’t care to be equal to the rest of everyone but then you get the other 95% who wants everything and is not prepared to give anything.
The bible states that everyone is equal and no one is better than another. So why do so many girls think they are better than everybody else. Maybe because they were raised the wrong way. Will God be happy if the whole world turns around women and girls Will God be happy if the women treat men like as if they were presents given to them? The Bible states the woman is n present to the man. Not the other way around like now in the present time. Why do the must the girl choose her boyfriend. The Bible also states n man chooses his wife. Same with dating. What happens if 2 or more guys ask out n girl. Then the girl chooses her boyfriend witch is wrong in the eyes of the Lord what happens if 2 or more girls ask out n boy. Well there’s nothing wrong with that because God clearly stated that the man must make the choice.
Personally I think this can come from either side Man or woman as long as the man makes the final choice. For the last few decades all the woman chose there men because the just said “yes” or “no”. The man is supposed to do that. A woman must not kneel in front of n man and n man must not kneel in front of n woman. Why? Because we only must kneel in front of God.
95% of all girl and woman expect “things” but are not willing to do it themselves .That to is wrong because the Bible states “It is better to do something by yourself than to expect something from somebody.
Why am I referring to the Bible so much? I am referring to the Bible so much because everything God says is correct.
To expect something from somebody but the person is not willing to do it themselves is just wrong. No doubt about it.
If you really love somebody you will do anything for that person. This is called uncondional love. If you really loves somebody you won’t let make expect “stuff” from then you will only want to make them happy because you care. If you make conditions upon love you do not really love the person you just expect “stuff” from that person just to try and be “IN”. True love is unconditional, like the love God have for us, like the love god had for us when he hung on the cross for our sins. He did not say He will die for our sins but only if we accept Him as our king. No! He died for us because he loved us, He loved us unconditionally.
Now i`m not just point fingers at girls and women. The same goes for all the guys and men out there. Guys and men also have responsibilities witch they don’t do or slip out on. Men use there power giving to them by God in the wrong way and fold under the sharp tong of satan. They use there power to do the wrong and to use it as an advantage for themselves witch is wrong. Men give there power away and that gets used to do harm and to flame the non-right.
Why do I mostly focus on women and girls? Because that is where selfishness mostly occur.
Why don’t most girls don’t want to ask out n guy but they are more willing to dump n guy. That’s also wrong they are not willing to do something good like asking n simple question but the are willing to break harts just to make themselves happy. Why are they willing to break harts and go to the next guy.
The Bible says the man chooses his wife. Now a wife can’t just leave her man because the man chose her. She does not have the authority to choose her man. She can ask n man to marry her as long as the man makes the choice like the Bible tell us.
If n girl is too selfish not to ask n guy out she only hurts herself. Personally have seen so many girls get hurt because they are selfish. Al that she got from her behavior is that she got hurt and she has thrown away n change of n great relationship or the guy of her dreams.
I know n girl who was hurt very badly once. She liked n guys head over heals. She couldn’t stop thinking about him. her whole life revolved around him but she did not ask him out because her friend said that she must not and wait for him He on the other hand felt something foe her to but not as strong because he was caught in n struggle between two girls. He was interested in 2 girls but did not know who 2 choose so he wanted 2 see who loved him the most. The other girl he loved came to him and spoke about her feeling for him and he spoke to her about his feelings for him. After n while she knew that he did feel something for her so she asked him out and they fell madly in love. On the other hand the girls who loved him with her whole hart felt heartbroken just because she listened to n friend and did not do anything to get try and get the guy she loved. After she got her hart broken and lost the guy of her dreams she realized how stupid she was not to make n move because the guy she loved chose another girl because she loved him unconditionally.
If she was not selfish and did not listen to the advice of a friend she would have been happy, but satan got n grip on her and like always he who is satan only want the bad for one. This makes me sad because my heart bleeded for the girl. She did not deserve it. I wish I knew her sooner just to help her on the right path. But let us all learn upon the mistake she made and save n few broken hearts.