As quoted at Acts 15 : 16 , 17 , it reads : “ I shall return and rebuild the booth of David that is fallen down ; and I shall rebuild its ruins and erect it again , in order that those who remain of the men may earnestly seek Jehovah , together with people of all the nations , people who are called by my name , says Jehovah . ” Although Solomon “ was loved by his God , . . . the foreign wives caused even him to sin . ” Having major hang ups (these look like red flags to us!) – See all the above. Hang ups can also include ranting about the terrible dates you have been on, complaining that she hasn’t called you because it makes you feel insecure, slagging off all the dates you have been on, moaning about paying the bill etc. It’s time to put your big boy pants on. Sometimes life can see unfair, but if you want to get ahead in the dating game sometimes you just have to suck it up! Otherwise you will just stew in your own juices. I hope that you choose to get out there, drop the hang-ups and just enjoy dating for the fun, unpredictable, and sometimes crazy experience it can be.