Wabacela ukuba bavule incwadi eBhayibhelini ka Johane isahluko 4 ivesi 37 no 38. Wathi angaqeda ukuyifunda uShembe wabe esethi, “​Thina boShembe sinjalo, siyangena emsebenzini owenziwa abantu sifike siwulungise.” I applaud you for your willingness to share your “reasons” for marrying outside of race. My first thought, as a man married to an Asian woman, was why do you feel the need to justify this to ANYONE. Kunjalo, mine and my wife’s’ skin tone is similar, our backgrounds and upbringing are so far from each others, anyone could say “why did you marry her?”As you mentioned, umkakho, is THE wife, THE helpmate, the other (if my wife is reading, “BETTER”) half that He has provided. God brings those in our lives that we need to have, in order to challenge us to make us better. So what if someone appears different from me on the outside. Like you, we should all be seeking those with a God seeking heart that is the most beautiful attribute one can possess.