"who likes you? -- north carolina online dating service. meet north carolina singles.wholikesumeet peoplewho viewed mematchesi likelike memailsign inmeet peoplefiltersmeet peoplewho viewed mematchesi likelike memailmeet peopleshow me: Durban - S’bu and Shauwn Mpisane, the self-styled “first citizens” of La Lucia, Durban, believe they are victims of a smear campaign involving powerful construction industry rivals and “anti-transformation agents” abusing their policing and judicial power. So fed-up are they, that Shauwn says she would rather spend time in jail if it satisfied her detractors and got them off her back. Speaking from their plush sea-facing home yesterday, after a week of high drama in which millions worth of assets - including 62 cars - were attached by the Asset Forfeiture Unit as part of a Durban High Court preservation order, the Mpisanes decried being projected as criminals. They maintained they had not been found guilty on any of the charges Shauwn faces. Among the fleet of exotic cars taken from them are at least two that bear the “NUR 1” and “NUR 2” registration plates, cementing the Mpisane’s place as the exclusive suburb’s first citizens. But even now that their garage is almost empty holding just one Maserati, a brand new Range Rover and a BMW sedan, the couple maintain they are not down and out. Their sizeable lounge with marble floors sports a big TV set, a surround sound system with huge speakers and a leather lounge suite. “People say our things have been taken and we are sitting on benches, but that is not the case.” Shauwn conceded for the first time that putting on a brave face for the cameras at her numerous court appearances was a façade to hide her pain. “I’m a jolly, humble person but people see me laughing and they think everything is fine when I’m actually hurting inside. It’s not good. It’s not good for S’bu either. He’s always been a nice, cheerful person, but all these things are slowly changing him.” Referring to her court battles, she said, “There is a drive by some people to see me in jail. Maybe I need to be put in a cell, maybe they’ll leave me alone. Maybe they’ll stop doing all these things.” The case against them was affecting their 12-year-old son. “It’s impacting badly on the kid. Every time he has to go to school, he sees all these guys from Sars and the Asset Forfeiture Unit at his home. These memories stay with you even as you grow up,” said S’bu. Although full of praise for neighbours who had sent them flowers and messages of support, the Mpisanes were “saddened” that some, including in their immediate neighbourhood, seemed to rejoice at their trials and tribulations. S’bu said the “piecemeal” nature of the state’s case against his wife was taking its toll on the family and pleaded for more decisive action. “We are pleading with state organs to come at one go and deal with us, so we can know if we sink or carry on with our lives,” he said. The couple said they couldn’t understand why they were subjected to different standards. Said Sbu: “I know of people who had problems with Construction Industry Board certificates who were fined R20 000 then allowed to continue trading. Have you ever heard of a situation where you get charged for omitting one digit from your ID number, but instead of someone calling you and drawing your attention to the error, you get charged? That is wrong.” He added, “There are a lot of people who can afford what we have, but instead they hide their money in trust funds and overseas accounts. So when they see us driving Rolls Royces they wish they could too, but they are too afraid to buy them because they’ll have questions to answer. But we have nothing to hide. Everything is traceable.” Shauwn added: “Maybe the problem is that we are living a life that some people only get to live when they are too old. But we are young and this is how we enjoy ourselves. We have a passion for cars.” Shauwn contends that her only conviction, for VAT fraud in 2005, arose out of an informal plea bargain with the state after she had failed to register as a taxpayer. Even then, she said, she had voluntarily gone to Sars to seek advice on tax-related matters after her business’ meteoric rise. Shauwn was granted R100 000 bail in the Durban Commercial Crimes Court on Friday. Magistrate Gerrie Maree also ordered that she could not change her residential address, leave the country or have contact with witnesses without prior permission. In addition to 53 charges of fraud, forgery, and uttering of a forged document, Shauwn is accused of submitting forged documents for higher Construction Industry Development Board gradings, used to win public works department tenders worth R140m. - Sunday Independent Comment Guidelines